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EP #62 - A PT6ICKO Got Our Logo Tattooed + A Lesson About Letting Our Kids Be Kids | For The Dads · Bussin' With The Boys

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  Speaker 1: on the show. We love featuring you, all of you
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  Speaker 1: on the show. We got a special guest in house
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  Speaker 1: with this today. His name is Jack Coleman. Jack Coleman, Jack,
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  Speaker 1: you you are I would label you you are st
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  Speaker 1: six right Semen Team sixer, Yes, absolutely, just for the
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  Speaker 1: love of the game every day, he says every day.
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  Speaker 2: But it's very rare that you get a.
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  Speaker 1: Story where a Seman Team sixer gets a front row
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  Speaker 1: seat to a dad loss, an actual marriage, husband and
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  Speaker 1: wife exchange, and they're kind of caught in the middle
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  Speaker 1: of said dad loss with Sherman Young. We're going to
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  Speaker 1: dive into that story, a dad loss we have at
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  Speaker 1: the top of the show, involving Shrham, involving Jack. We
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  Speaker 1: just hired Jack not too long ago. He joined Busting
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  Speaker 1: with the Boys. How long you've been with us now?
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  Speaker 4: Just a week, not like a full week last week.
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  Speaker 4: That's here, ready to go, ready to rip, That's what
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  Speaker 4: we're doing. We got a big giveaway stream coming Sunday,
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  Speaker 4: our first stream for Ripping with the Boys and on.
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  Speaker 2: Ripping with the Boys.
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  Speaker 1: We in our bust and universe the same way you
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  Speaker 1: see the for the Dad's format, the for the Dad's vertical,
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  Speaker 1: we are standing up another vertical ripping with the Boys.
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  Speaker 1: It's one of Taylor's brain childs. He is ripping cards
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  Speaker 1: and giving away to fans and being engaged with his
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  Speaker 1: kids and doing the whole Pokemon hunt. I know he's
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  Speaker 1: hunting a chew, he's ripping NFL cards, but he has
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  Speaker 1: an obsession in this lade to which we are standing
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  Speaker 1: up this vertical ripping with the Boys. Jack being higher
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  Speaker 1: number one, a former producer, somebody that lives eat sleeves,
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  Speaker 1: breeze the card world, and he will be helping stand
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  Speaker 1: this thing up as well.
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  Speaker 2: So continue on the stream doors.
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  Speaker 4: So you know, Taylor's been ripping for a while now,
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  Speaker 4: you want to really upgrade this brand and bring it
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  Speaker 4: to this new you know avenue and venue and build
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  Speaker 4: up the community and give you know, some of these
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  Speaker 4: high cost products you know, out to the people. Maybe
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  Speaker 4: they can't afford it, and he wants to give back
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  Speaker 4: to the fans. So what we're doing Sunday is our
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  Speaker 4: first debut stream ripping with the Boys YouTube that's ripping
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  Speaker 4: WTB across socials where we're ending the chase for the chew.
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  Speaker 2: We're finding this little round. Come on, man, we are
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  Speaker 2: finding it.
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  Speaker 4: So we're gonna be ripping about five hundred plus packs
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  Speaker 4: that night, and for every single side duck he pulls out,
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  Speaker 4: it's one of his bits he does on stream. We're
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  Speaker 4: doing a courtyard give you running gives the entire time.
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  Speaker 4: It's gonna be a ton of fun. We don't know
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  Speaker 4: how long we're gonna be ripping for. I might not
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  Speaker 4: leave the shop for days, but I'm ready. I'm here
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  Speaker 4: for it. It's gonna be a ton of fun.
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  Speaker 1: It's hard to imagine that there aren't parents out there
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  Speaker 1: right now that are in the Pokemon world, whether it's
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  Speaker 1: with their kids or they're ripping cards. So if you
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  Speaker 1: have the opportunity, if you're in the world again ripping
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  Speaker 1: with the Boys, it's ribbing packs and it's giving it away.
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  Speaker 1: The side duck thing that will happen anytime they pull
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  Speaker 1: a side duck, there'll be a giveaway happening, even twenty
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  Speaker 1: four hours leading up to the every hour on the hour,
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  Speaker 1: a giveaway is happening on the rip and WTB channel,
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  Speaker 1: So again, follow those on all platforms.
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  Speaker 3: And guys, these giveaways, I mean, I'm not gonna like
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  Speaker 3: over sell it to where you know I'm speaking out
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  Speaker 3: of turn, but these are some dope giveaways.
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  Speaker 2: These are big prizes. Yeah.
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  Speaker 3: Is it like a little keychain or a sticker from
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  Speaker 3: Busting with the Boys? Like some of these cards, some
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  Speaker 3: of these slabs that you can get are like high
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  Speaker 3: price stuff.
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  Speaker 1: Dude, It's crazy, and we'll be getting to dip our
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  Speaker 1: toe in that world. I know where We're partnering with
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  Speaker 1: Courtyard Io, which is a big giveaway platform or a
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  Speaker 1: big platform where you can can you explain Courtyard.
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  Speaker 4: Io Basically on Courtyard you're able to purchase a digital
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  Speaker 4: pack rip and on there you'll be able to kind
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  Speaker 4: of sweat your card, open it and you'll be able,
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  Speaker 4: you know, within different price ranges, find a card pack
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  Speaker 4: that works best for you and your range.
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  Speaker 2: So it's pretty cool.
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  Speaker 4: You can then add it to your vault basically or
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  Speaker 4: ship it to you and it becomes a physical thing
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  Speaker 4: is well.
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  Speaker 1: Or you could have it for a gift, whether it's
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  Speaker 1: Christmas whatever, coming up, a birthday and one of your
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  Speaker 1: kid who's been one something yeah, a bust and pack
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  Speaker 1: is on the site.
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  Speaker 4: But I think there's a lot of intersection between you know,
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  Speaker 4: this brand and that brant because in the comments, you know,
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  Speaker 4: you see a lot of people saying, I'm just getting
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  Speaker 4: back into cards because my kids are doing it, or
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  Speaker 4: like my dad passed down a big box of cards.
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  Speaker 4: I know, even around the office here, like there's guys
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  Speaker 4: that are sharing some of the stories that they're telling
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  Speaker 4: with their dads. So it's a great way to kind
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  Speaker 4: of build up the community that way as well.
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  Speaker 1: Absolutely, And what's cool is since Courtyard's coming into partner
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  Speaker 1: with all the Busting with the Boys, the nucleus of
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  Speaker 1: it is happening on Ripping wtb Ripping with the Boys,
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  Speaker 1: but we're gonna get to do giveaways with Busting.
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  Speaker 2: With the Boys.
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  Speaker 1: With our sports betting shows the Locker Room, NFL and
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  Speaker 1: college football on for the dads, you might get to
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  Speaker 1: see one of our faces, Chef as a seaman Team sixer.
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  Speaker 2: I know he's in the cars world.
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  Speaker 1: You got d you got Sherman myself to where we
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  Speaker 1: could be going live like on our four the Dad's
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  Speaker 1: channels to give stuff away. So a big partnership with
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  Speaker 1: Courtyard Io, which is massive. The entire brand the nucleus
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  Speaker 1: are ripping what the boys is happening and also leading
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  Speaker 1: into our story Jack Coleman Stemen Team sixer was part
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  Speaker 1: of a dad loss with our wonderful Sherman Young over
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  Speaker 1: the weekend Friday, right before the weekend, the precipice of
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  Speaker 1: the weekend, we had a time We had a time
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  Speaker 1: day so to paint the picture.
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  Speaker 4: I just moved down here from New Jersey. I'm from
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  Speaker 4: New Jersey, Jersey Shore, and I have an empty apartment
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  Speaker 4: right now. Like I have a couple of things here
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  Speaker 4: and there, just kind of making it by. You know,
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  Speaker 4: maybe this weekend I'll go out full fledg shopping. But
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  Speaker 4: I needed a couch. So nice man Sherman here he goes, Hey,
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  Speaker 4: my buddies are trying to get rid of a couch.
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  Speaker 4: You know, I'll help you pick it up from them,
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  Speaker 4: bring it to your place. Just great, guys, stuff, great
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  Speaker 4: move one hundred bucks flat. I'm like done, easy, Like
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  Speaker 4: we could throw on a table two extra fifty. I'm
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  Speaker 4: like done. So we hit the road. Now Sherman has
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  Speaker 4: this all planned out where at the end of this
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  Speaker 4: whole stretch he needs to pick.
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  Speaker 2: Up his daughter. And did I say that at the
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  Speaker 2: very beginning, Yes you did. I'm good to help, just
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  Speaker 2: got to pick up my doll. Got to priority priorities.
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  Speaker 2: What time you got to pick up Scarlett?
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  Speaker 3: I need to be leaving this office before five pm
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  Speaker 3: at the latest, at the latest at the scar scar.
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  Speaker 4: Yes, sir, right, So we head out. He brings one
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  Speaker 4: part of his back. Around three o'clock, we head to
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  Speaker 4: my place drop it off. As we're dropping off, quick
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  Speaker 4: side note, this guy was great.
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  Speaker 2: Oh this guy rule. His neighbor's awesome dude. Where we
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  Speaker 2: see this big dude, you know, kind of walking down
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  Speaker 2: the hall.
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  Speaker 4: He's got a big bag of golf gloves with him,
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  Speaker 4: just had himself a day. He sees that we're bringing
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  Speaker 4: a big couch out of the truck, and from down
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  Speaker 4: the hall he goes, hey, y'all.
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  Speaker 2: Need a little pulley and we're like, what he's like?
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  Speaker 2: When I brought my couch in, We I have a
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  Speaker 2: pully you use it well. And here's a Texas boy too.
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  Speaker 3: I forgot about that because he goes, hey, which one
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  Speaker 3: y'all from Texas? And I was like, oh me because
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  Speaker 3: I still have Texas tags on my car.
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  Speaker 2: Now he gets back to a boy.
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  Speaker 4: We don't even have to lift a finger really getting
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  Speaker 4: this thing in there. It was in all time. Move
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  Speaker 4: by that guy. Shout out that guy, shout out that guy.
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  Speaker 2: It was Brad.
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  Speaker 1: That's that old one.
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  Speaker 4: So we get this done, we get back in the car.
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  Speaker 4: We're coming or we're going to get the second portion
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  Speaker 4: of everything from his friend's place.
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  Speaker 2: Phone rings, what time, what time we had? We're probably
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  Speaker 2: four four almost four on the dot. Okay, okay, at
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  Speaker 2: four o'clock out.
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  Speaker 4: I'd say from this point it would take about thirty
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  Speaker 4: minutes to go pick up bring it back.
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  Speaker 2: I wasn't too worried. Jill's on the line.
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  Speaker 4: Hey, so I'm getting ready to head out to work.
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  Speaker 2: Is this a speaker?
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  Speaker 5: Is this speaker?
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  Speaker 2: You guys are the car, So you're in.
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  Speaker 4: I'm in, you know you're she instantly it is like
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  Speaker 4: new Hire Coleman's here with me.
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  Speaker 2: Okay, spirits are too yeah, Like I think she's calling
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  Speaker 2: it like, hey, how's it going.
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  Speaker 1: But it's always a great hedge if say, you hear
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  Speaker 1: the tone and you're like Coleman's in the car hedging
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  Speaker 1: against if you're coming to meet me in the a
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  Speaker 1: gap right now.
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  Speaker 2: Just no, somebody that you haven't met yet is sitting
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  Speaker 2: in the car with me.
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  Speaker 3: And that's a dad hack because honestly, if I hadn't
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  Speaker 3: done that, it could have gotten messy.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, and it could have gotten Eddie play, Eddie play.
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  Speaker 2: And it quickly turned the quickly swat right.
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  Speaker 4: So I'm like, hey, like, so nice to meet you all, bubbly,
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  Speaker 4: like we're having a grand old time. We're sipping, we're
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  Speaker 4: going sipping some some ollipops.
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  Speaker 2: Too, you know, in the car, we're having a good.
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  Speaker 4: Time knocking him back and you can hear like, well, Sherman,
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  Speaker 4: you know you said that we were gonna pick you
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  Speaker 4: were gonna pick her up. I'm busy today and there's
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  Speaker 4: that edge that's like on the precipice of breaking through.
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  Speaker 2: And I'm just saying that.
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  Speaker 4: My face starts getting red and I'm like, oh man,
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  Speaker 4: She's like, Sherman, like, we talked about this and it's
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  Speaker 4: getting more and more regus when she's like it's nothing
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  Speaker 4: against Jack, like, and I'm like, what I do now?
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  Speaker 4: At that moment, I flipped the script real quick on
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  Speaker 4: him and I go, yeah, I fully agree with you.
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  Speaker 4: I fully agree with you shouldn't be doing it, and
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  Speaker 4: I'm I left him.
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  Speaker 2: I'm been drivers going keep doing that.
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  Speaker 1: But but in your mind, like again, we still have
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  Speaker 1: an hour cushion before you have to leave five o'clock
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  Speaker 1: the latest, right, absolutely, okay, so we're good sailing.
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  Speaker 3: But there's Friday traffic. Will there's Friday Friday traffic.
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  Speaker 5: Will.
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  Speaker 2: Okay, you're all the way across town, Rman, so.
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  Speaker 1: You're you're kind of defending, like okay, yeah, yeah, totally aware.
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  Speaker 1: I'm gonna be able to leave the shot by five.
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  Speaker 1: It's gonna be all good. And then she lumps in.
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  Speaker 1: She starts running the football with traffic, and I have I.
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  Speaker 3: Have a let's say, a metaphorical army behind me, and
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  Speaker 3: I'm doing this going a. We don't need to fight.
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  Speaker 3: We don't need to fight right now. We don't need
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  Speaker 3: to defend ourselves even Okay, in this moment, let the
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  Speaker 3: wife you speak, Let her speak her mind at length.
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  Speaker 2: I just sat back and stay quiet.
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  Speaker 1: Just let her get it all out.
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  Speaker 2: Let her get it all out, honey. I love you, like,
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  Speaker 2: I'm so sorry. I I should have thought this threw better.
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  Speaker 4: It's like, it's okay, sherman like like, we'll talk, not
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  Speaker 4: even it's okay, so we'll talk later.
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  Speaker 1: Boom. So she doesn't say it's okay. She says, you said,
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  Speaker 1: I'm so sorry. I love you.
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  Speaker 2: I love you. She said I love you too, we'll
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  Speaker 2: talk later, something along those lines. Right, Yeah, she.
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  Speaker 1: Didn't even say I love you too.
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  Speaker 2: I don't know. I don't remember one. I don't remember
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  Speaker 2: now I think back, I don't think there was one.
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  Speaker 1: I mean, it was a truly like a at.
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  Speaker 2: The end of it, it's just like a good three Mississippi.
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  Speaker 1: Before you meet.
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  Speaker 2: I thought I was in trouble too.
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  Speaker 3: It felt like a spend the night party where like
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  Speaker 3: you stay up way too late at your boys house
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  Speaker 3: and yard kind of being loud, and their mom comes in.
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  Speaker 3: It just strips your friend down. Yeah, but then I'm
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  Speaker 3: not mad at you boys. You're all sweet boys. But
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  Speaker 3: my son should die and I will kill him. But
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  Speaker 3: y'all are fine, you're good boys. It felt like that.
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  Speaker 4: Can get that you get the hang up and it's
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  Speaker 4: like you said a good pause and at the same
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  Speaker 4: time we're both like, I think the math is working
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  Speaker 4: out still, I think we got this still, Yeah, sure enough,
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  Speaker 4: you saved the day. Everything worked out right, like we
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  Speaker 4: were able to pick up everything, drop it off, and
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  Speaker 4: I believe you got there. You left here at five
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  Speaker 4: like you said you would. I left here at five
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  Speaker 4: like I said I would.
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  Speaker 2: The math math.
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  Speaker 3: Jill basically left it at a proved me wrong type
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  Speaker 3: of scenario.
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  Speaker 2: She went ahead and picked up Scarlet.
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  Speaker 3: But I took a little screenshot of when I was
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  Speaker 3: parallel with Scarlet's daycare called Jill to let her know
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  Speaker 3: that I was parallel with Scarlet's daycare at the time
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  Speaker 3: that I said I was going.
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  Speaker 2: To before the time that I said I was going
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  Speaker 2: to be able to pick Scarlet up.
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  Speaker 1: Can I get a quid thirty please? So the math math. Yeah,
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  Speaker 1: she got off the phone doubting you. Yeah, but not
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  Speaker 1: doubting you and challenging you, doubting you and saying I'm
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  Speaker 1: going to take over. She picked up Scarlett.
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  Speaker 2: She picked up Scarlett.
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  Speaker 4: And we're getting texts along the way too. It's not
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  Speaker 4: just phone call ends. It's like we're getting text updates
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  Speaker 4: too coming through. And I think one you quoted was
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  Speaker 4: I'm a tea kettle ready to boil over.
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  Speaker 2: At that moment, I was just like, yo, you're on
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  Speaker 2: your own here, brother.
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  Speaker 1: Jill Texas said, I'm a tea kettle ready to boil.
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  Speaker 3: Over, dude, because we had just had a conversation about
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  Speaker 3: letting our yes this be yeses and our nose be nosed, OK.
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  Speaker 3: And when we say we're going to show up, where
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  Speaker 3: we're going to do it and when we're going to
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  Speaker 3: do it needs to be where and when we're going
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  Speaker 3: to show up. And we had that conversation maybe two
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  Speaker 3: days prior to this. It wasn't like a serious hashm
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  Speaker 3: a conversation, but it was a conversation where Jill was saying, like,
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  Speaker 3: it is important to me that when you say you're
• 14:50
  Speaker 3: going to do something and at what time, that you
• 14:53
  Speaker 3: do it at that time. That shows me that I'm
• 14:56
  Speaker 3: a priority of yours. That shows me that you are
• 15:00
  Speaker 3: actively taking measures to put your families first in situations
• 15:06
  Speaker 3: and not putting other things before family.
• 15:09
  Speaker 4: She made valid points she made, not deny that she
• 15:12
  Speaker 4: made after I'm on both I see both sides here,
• 15:14
  Speaker 4: you know, but the math is still math.
• 15:16
  Speaker 1: She right, like, as guys sitting there knowing like this
• 15:20
  Speaker 1: is still gonna work out, I think you know, let's
• 15:22
  Speaker 1: let's not get too overreactive about it, like we're still
• 15:24
  Speaker 1: going to bring it home. So you get off the
• 15:26
  Speaker 1: phone as she's texting you. Does she let you know
• 15:28
  Speaker 1: she's taken over?
• 15:29
  Speaker 3: She's oh, yes on the phone that she was picking
• 15:32
  Speaker 3: up scarlet right, and again, I have the army back here.
• 15:36
  Speaker 2: I'm going like this.
• 15:37
  Speaker 3: She kind of has a war hammer like this, but
• 15:39
  Speaker 3: she's not bringing it down on me either. Like the
• 15:42
  Speaker 3: you could feel the tension on the phone, but there
• 15:45
  Speaker 3: was no there was no clashing, right. It was like
• 15:49
  Speaker 3: a prove me wrong, prove me wrong, but she wasn't
• 15:53
  Speaker 3: letting you prove it wrong.
• 15:54
  Speaker 2: She took over.
• 15:55
  Speaker 1: She did take over, you stee when the hammer's up
• 15:57
  Speaker 1: in the air. In my opinion, she kind of swung
• 15:58
  Speaker 1: the hammer. And I'm just eating these gummies to get
• 16:02
  Speaker 1: a little bit.
• 16:03
  Speaker 2: More the situation.
• 16:04
  Speaker 1: He's over here with the eating popcorn, just watching the
• 16:09
  Speaker 1: show go down. So question for you, Yeah, you know
• 16:12
  Speaker 1: she's taken over. You still decide I'm going to prove
• 16:18
  Speaker 1: it wrong by going and getting parallel, letting her know,
• 16:23
  Speaker 1: like you're still.
• 16:24
  Speaker 3: It's on my way home, regardless, I got dried by
• 16:27
  Speaker 3: the daycare anyways.
• 16:29
  Speaker 2: But it's almost like a hey, I just want to
• 16:32
  Speaker 2: let you know.
• 16:33
  Speaker 3: I was letting my yes B yes, and my no
• 16:35
  Speaker 3: B no, and I was going to make it there
• 16:37
  Speaker 3: on time, like I was going to get there.
• 16:40
  Speaker 1: And kind of like in kind of like a hey,
• 16:44
  Speaker 1: I told you.
• 16:45
  Speaker 3: I mean she literally asked for like, let me know
• 16:48
  Speaker 3: when you are parallel with the daycare, like I want
• 16:54
  Speaker 3: to see if you would have gotten there on time.
• 16:55
  Speaker 1: Now are you right home with him?
• 16:57
  Speaker 2: No? No, no. At this point, he's I'm good.
• 17:00
  Speaker 4: I'm still a little red in the face though, you know,
• 17:02
  Speaker 4: like I felt like I was in like the principal's
• 17:04
  Speaker 4: office for a little bit.
• 17:05
  Speaker 1: Yeah, like you're in the spot to where I'm gonna
• 17:07
  Speaker 1: let an hour or two go by and I'm gonna
• 17:08
  Speaker 1: hit him up, check on my boy.
• 17:09
  Speaker 2: Heyes, something I'm looking for that right now. He hit
• 17:12
  Speaker 2: me up. We had some grow while you looked it up.
• 17:14
  Speaker 1: How was it when you got home?
• 17:16
  Speaker 2: It was actually really good.
• 17:17
  Speaker 3: We had a great conversation on the ride home, and
• 17:20
  Speaker 3: she said, because this and I will on myself self
• 17:24
  Speaker 3: grading APR. I should have COMMUNICATEDLF scout self, scout, I
• 17:29
  Speaker 3: should have communicated everything to Jill earlier in the day.
• 17:32
  Speaker 3: I've been radio silent. So then all of a sudden,
• 17:35
  Speaker 3: at four o'clock, she sees in this group text with
• 17:38
  Speaker 3: our couple friends. Hey, Hillary, We're gonna come by and
• 17:41
  Speaker 3: come grab the couch. We'll be at your house by
• 17:43
  Speaker 3: around like four twenty. And Jill's like, whoa, I thought
• 17:49
  Speaker 3: he was picking up our daughter. If I communicated earlier
• 17:52
  Speaker 3: in the day with her, it would have been a
• 17:55
  Speaker 3: way different situation where I could have talked this out
• 17:58
  Speaker 3: with her instead of you know, she reads this text
• 18:03
  Speaker 3: and she calls me Coleman's.
• 18:04
  Speaker 2: In the car. We're on the We're already on the way.
• 18:07
  Speaker 3: There's no like, we can't cancel the couch pickup couch
• 18:10
  Speaker 3: pit cup's happening. Yeah, you have to pick Scarlet up
• 18:13
  Speaker 3: by what five thirty six? By six o'clock.
• 18:15
  Speaker 2: Yeah.
• 18:18
  Speaker 1: You you handled that better than I would have on
• 18:22
  Speaker 1: the phone. I would have said, hey, sweetheart, it's four o'clock. Like,
• 18:27
  Speaker 1: I gotta pick her up by six. I told you
• 18:28
  Speaker 1: I'm pick her up by six. Watch dad work. Yeah,
• 18:31
  Speaker 1: Like I'm gonna pick her up by six.
• 18:32
  Speaker 2: Yeah.
• 18:33
  Speaker 3: Well, there is the timeframe of Jill wanting she doesn't
• 18:38
  Speaker 3: want Scarlet picked up by six, which I get that
• 18:41
  Speaker 3: as well. She doesn't want her daughter being the last
• 18:44
  Speaker 3: kid at daycare. She wants me to get there, you know,
• 18:48
  Speaker 3: a little after five, get Scarlet to the house.
• 18:51
  Speaker 2: Letter decompressed. So she's not right.
• 18:53
  Speaker 1: But if you're if you're still hitting that in your world,
• 18:57
  Speaker 1: I am.
• 18:58
  Speaker 2: I'm with you. I'm out and about right now. But
• 19:00
  Speaker 2: we have all this math out.
• 19:01
  Speaker 1: Yes, I need you to tone it down because that
• 19:06
  Speaker 1: I'm still gonna leave the shot by five like I said,
• 19:08
  Speaker 1: And I'm still gonna pick up scarscr No, don't you
• 19:10
  Speaker 1: go pick up scarscar. I'm picking up scarscar. If you
• 19:14
  Speaker 1: pick up scarscar. Yeah, I pulled the move wrong and
• 19:18
  Speaker 1: I'm in the parking lot and I'm letting you know
• 19:20
  Speaker 1: I just like I said, I would have picked up
• 19:22
  Speaker 1: scarscar and cold.
• 19:25
  Speaker 2: Man. I'm a good dad. I'm a good I just
• 19:27
  Speaker 2: want you to know I get a cool down. Are
• 19:33
  Speaker 2: you a glass of still water?
• 19:34
  Speaker 5: Now?
• 19:34
  Speaker 2: Because I told you I would have had it. You know,
• 19:36
  Speaker 2: It's funny.
• 19:37
  Speaker 1: When I walked into the back door, I was expected
• 19:40
  Speaker 1: to hear.
• 19:42
  Speaker 2: That's the problem.
• 19:43
  Speaker 1: You don't trust me, honey, Yeah, didn't we just have
• 19:46
  Speaker 1: a combo A couple of days ago, let our yes,
• 19:48
  Speaker 1: be yeses and noseby nos. I told you I was
• 19:50
  Speaker 1: gonna get scarscar and what can you chop my knees
• 19:53
  Speaker 1: from under me? And what I say in the car
• 19:56
  Speaker 1: about that the trusting thing? Do you remember what I
• 19:59
  Speaker 1: said myself? Scouts have a.
• 20:02
  Speaker 2: Letter down a lot in the past.
• 20:05
  Speaker 1: You remember, But this is the moment, this is the
• 20:07
  Speaker 1: moment where you're proving yes, yeah, this shift is gonna happen.
• 20:11
  Speaker 3: Yeah, shift was happening. A shift was happening, and I
• 20:15
  Speaker 3: did prove myself.
• 20:16
  Speaker 4: The funny thing, too, is we're saying all this and
• 20:18
  Speaker 4: going back and forth over a baby seat, like I'm
• 20:20
  Speaker 4: holding the baby sheet.
• 20:21
  Speaker 2: I forgot about that. I'm leaning over to talk to him.
• 20:25
  Speaker 3: We couldn't see each other in the car with the
• 20:28
  Speaker 3: way the sofa like cramming everything in big l couch
• 20:32
  Speaker 3: like took two trips and baby seat is literally to
• 20:35
  Speaker 3: where we cannot see each other. We're just staring straight forward,
• 20:39
  Speaker 3: having this full on breakdown of like, yeah, Colevin, you know,
• 20:44
  Speaker 3: like I've done a bad job in the past telling
• 20:46
  Speaker 3: Jill that I would be there at a certain time
• 20:48
  Speaker 3: and I show up late or I do something else
• 20:52
  Speaker 3: and I forget about blah blah blah. Colevin's just over here,
• 20:55
  Speaker 3: can't see me, and he's like, oh, yeah, sure, I
• 20:58
  Speaker 3: get that man, this guy I met like four days ago.
• 21:03
  Speaker 4: It was good, so obviously, so I go back, you know,
• 21:07
  Speaker 4: an hour or two passes. He texts me absolved of
• 21:10
  Speaker 4: all crimes with like a salute emoji in quotes. I
• 21:13
  Speaker 4: stand corrected, I go all caps back out to Alan bad.
• 21:21
  Speaker 4: She said, I may even pick the movie tonight. And
• 21:27
  Speaker 4: I did what good leverage? Good leverage? Yeah, yeah, yeah,
• 21:30
  Speaker 4: but I feel like she took your helmet. Yeh, she did,
• 21:33
  Speaker 4: she did. I still got some playing time there in
• 21:36
  Speaker 4: the fourth quarter.
• 21:37
  Speaker 1: Yeah, but it's like you knew what the game plan was,
• 21:40
  Speaker 1: you trusted your preparation, you knew the job, you knew
• 21:46
  Speaker 1: the assignment. And a teammate walks over like hey, are
• 21:49
  Speaker 1: you sure you're good, and you're like yeah, like I
• 21:52
  Speaker 1: have this all mathed out.
• 21:53
  Speaker 2: Yeah, I'm good to go.
• 21:54
  Speaker 1: I'm ready to go in the game, and like, ah,
• 21:57
  Speaker 1: you've messed up one too many times in the past.
• 22:00
  Speaker 1: Give me your helmet, Like that's what happened. You did
• 22:03
  Speaker 1: a better job listening, But you can't let you. You
• 22:06
  Speaker 1: can't let her take your helmet. I got like, I
• 22:09
  Speaker 1: can sit there and hear my teammate out, but you
• 22:12
  Speaker 1: can't take my helmet from me. Hey, give me that
• 22:15
  Speaker 1: helmet bag. Yeah, I'm taking up scars car. You got
• 22:18
  Speaker 1: I got this, Like, no, dude, I'm going in the game.
• 22:22
  Speaker 1: This is what we talked about.
• 22:23
  Speaker 3: If Coleman's not in the car, I don't I don't
• 22:27
  Speaker 3: let the helmet be taken.
• 22:29
  Speaker 5: Yeah.
• 22:29
  Speaker 1: I was gonna say, you like, if I'm mapping out,
• 22:32
  Speaker 1: you do a better job of listening. Yeah, then I
• 22:35
  Speaker 1: probably would have.
• 22:36
  Speaker 3: If he wasn't in the car, I would have been
• 22:39
  Speaker 3: extremely defensive of my situation of like, I am going
• 22:44
  Speaker 3: to get there on time.
• 22:46
  Speaker 2: I will get our daughter.
• 22:49
  Speaker 1: Everything's right, right, you got to You got a homie
• 22:51
  Speaker 1: who's kind of just you know, they're new, they're a
• 22:52
  Speaker 1: week old. Yees semen Team six are sitting in the
• 22:58
  Speaker 1: sitting in the passenger. You don't want to ask gladden
• 23:00
  Speaker 1: from one of your boys to where it's like, oh ship,
• 23:02
  Speaker 1: like they're getting after it over a pickup. Yes, this
• 23:07
  Speaker 1: is the first taste for my wife to that. I
• 23:10
  Speaker 1: tell Coleman, I go, if we're playing.
• 23:12
  Speaker 2: Around the horn.
• 23:12
  Speaker 1: You're getting all the intro to Jill, my wife.
• 23:21
  Speaker 3: Jill, and I apologize not on her behalf. She didn't
• 23:25
  Speaker 3: need to apologize, but I'm apologizing to am of Hey,
• 23:28
  Speaker 3: I'm sorry I put you in this situation because my
• 23:31
  Speaker 3: I think my wife rocks. A lot of people at
• 23:33
  Speaker 3: the office enjoy her and like her, and I hate
• 23:37
  Speaker 3: that your first iteration of my wife is her basically
• 23:39
  Speaker 3: being like taking your helment. Sure, you gotta be a
• 23:42
  Speaker 3: man of your word. Dude, what are you doing?
• 23:44
  Speaker 2: And I'm sitting there, Yeah, I'm sitting there. And I
• 23:48
  Speaker 2: also broke out with him. I'm like, pull man.
• 23:50
  Speaker 3: I could be on the back nine of a golf
• 23:52
  Speaker 3: course hammered right now. I'm just helping a guy get
• 23:55
  Speaker 3: his sofa.
• 23:56
  Speaker 6: Like, damn man, there's the oral term where you death
• 24:00
  Speaker 6: Hinslight twenty twenty.
• 24:01
  Speaker 2: Should have gone to daycare asking where Scar, Scar?
• 24:05
  Speaker 1: Where's my daughter? Who picked her up? What'd she look like?
• 24:08
  Speaker 1: A short blot?
• 24:10
  Speaker 2: My wife's tall?
• 24:10
  Speaker 1: For what's going on here?
• 24:16
  Speaker 2: I should have I should.
• 24:17
  Speaker 1: Have you guys get a good movie. Yeah, we got
• 24:21
  Speaker 1: a good movie. And we did have a good talk about.
• 24:26
  Speaker 3: Uh communication, about planning and scheduling, and I was able to.
• 24:35
  Speaker 2: Show her that, like because we we've been talking about
• 24:39
  Speaker 2: this on.
• 24:39
  Speaker 3: The podcast a lot lately with me is schedule, schedule, schedule,
• 24:44
  Speaker 3: and prioritizing family time and being at a place on time,
• 24:50
  Speaker 3: being at the right place. This is something that I
• 24:56
  Speaker 3: have struggled with, Like I do a poor job of
• 24:59
  Speaker 3: being somewhere on time. I do a poor job of
• 25:02
  Speaker 3: scheduling stuff where I'm telling Jeremy, oh shit, I have PTO,
• 25:08
  Speaker 3: like in four days, I totally forgot about that, didn't
• 25:11
  Speaker 3: put it on the calendar. I've had conversations with you
• 25:14
  Speaker 3: about that, that that's my shortcoming. So like there is
• 25:17
  Speaker 3: a one thousand percent a lesson to be learned that
• 25:21
  Speaker 3: I need to do a better job of taking control
• 25:26
  Speaker 3: of my life and my schedule so that it does
• 25:29
  Speaker 3: not affect others around me, that that legit needs to happen.
• 25:34
  Speaker 3: And Jill is coming from a great place in challenging
• 25:37
  Speaker 3: me to get better on that.
• 25:40
  Speaker 2: But in that moment, I was kind of on top
• 25:41
  Speaker 2: of that. I was on top.
• 25:43
  Speaker 1: Right, you ain't got a new to me from my boy?
• 25:47
  Speaker 1: What's going on? She's she's acting like she's always got
• 25:51
  Speaker 1: a caller on me, like, lord joking, do you see
• 26:07
  Speaker 1: what I deal with?
• 26:08
  Speaker 2: Do you see this bullshit I made?
• 26:11
  Speaker 1: I made a leveraging play last night that didn't really
• 26:13
  Speaker 1: work out for me. What happened subtle, subtle. I won't
• 26:19
  Speaker 1: even say dad lost, maybe husband lost, because my uh
• 26:22
  Speaker 1: my dear wife. She came downstairs and she was like, okay,
• 26:24
  Speaker 1: so what happened at bedtime? Sweeterar let me tell you
• 26:27
  Speaker 1: what happened at bedtime? I was on rude duty last night,
• 26:31
  Speaker 1: and Webb was just she's about to start school up
• 26:33
  Speaker 1: next week, so it's been summertime. It's been summer action mode.
• 26:38
  Speaker 1: We get in the bedroom, she's changing, she's doing all
• 26:40
  Speaker 1: the things that she's got to do to get ready
• 26:42
  Speaker 1: for bed. She wants me to put on her pjas
• 26:45
  Speaker 1: even though she can do it, she can do it herself.
• 26:47
  Speaker 1: So I'm giving her a good little not like stern
• 26:50
  Speaker 1: talking to it, but a good lecture of like, hey,
• 26:52
  Speaker 1: when you when you get all, who do you think
• 26:53
  Speaker 1: puts on dad ass close? And she's like I was
• 26:56
  Speaker 1: like yeah. I was like, who do you think takes off
• 26:57
  Speaker 1: dad ass close? She's like dad Dad. I was like, yeah,
• 27:01
  Speaker 1: people don't put my clothes on, it off. When you
• 27:03
  Speaker 1: get older, like people aren't going to be We're not
• 27:05
  Speaker 1: going to be there to do everything for you. So
• 27:06
  Speaker 1: when you are capable of doing something on your own,
• 27:10
  Speaker 1: I love allowing you to do it. Number One, you
• 27:12
  Speaker 1: like to do it. I love you feeling empowered to
• 27:14
  Speaker 1: do it. I want to grow. I want you to
• 27:16
  Speaker 1: grow and you have confidence to know that you can
• 27:19
  Speaker 1: handle yourself on your own. Yeah, and Pj's is something
• 27:22
  Speaker 1: simple as I'm like putting her pants on and putting
• 27:25
  Speaker 1: her shirt on, like I'm just giving her this kind
• 27:27
  Speaker 1: of talking to why it's good that you put on
• 27:29
  Speaker 1: your own stuff because mom and dad ain't going to
• 27:31
  Speaker 1: be there one day. She's just looking at me with
• 27:33
  Speaker 1: her little four year old eyes. She's like, I take
• 27:37
  Speaker 1: care of myself. I'm like, oh, sweetheart, you don't necessarily
• 27:39
  Speaker 1: take care of yourself.
• 27:40
  Speaker 5: You think.
• 27:42
  Speaker 1: She's like, well, I you know, when I was downstairs
• 27:44
  Speaker 1: playing today like Abby, I wanted to kind of play
• 27:48
  Speaker 1: by myself, and I told Abby and Scotty that I
• 27:50
  Speaker 1: didn't want to be over with me so I can
• 27:52
  Speaker 1: have some alone time and I played by myself.
• 27:54
  Speaker 2: I was like, yeah, you did a good job.
• 27:57
  Speaker 1: Kind of communicating what you needed, but you still need
• 28:00
  Speaker 1: super vision, Like you still need supervision and guidance.
• 28:02
  Speaker 2: Like, sweetheart, you.
• 28:02
  Speaker 1: Ain't living on your own. You think you're living on
• 28:04
  Speaker 1: your own. Let me go drop you at a hotel
• 28:05
  Speaker 1: and we can figure out if you can live on
• 28:06
  Speaker 1: your own. I'm like, go uh, And she's like, Dad out,
• 28:11
  Speaker 1: can I brush my teeth in the morning? That's code
• 28:14
  Speaker 1: for can we just not brush my teeth tonight? Dad,
• 28:16
  Speaker 1: Dad sitting there knowing you just you operate a full day.
• 28:19
  Speaker 1: There's times there right, This.
• 28:21
  Speaker 3: Is right after the conversation you just had, which no
• 28:25
  Speaker 3: with real Yeah, with Rue.
• 28:26
  Speaker 2: She steps back. We kind of laugh.
• 28:28
  Speaker 1: I'm kind of, you know, buttoning up the whole taking
• 28:30
  Speaker 1: care of yourself. Like you can do your pj's on
• 28:32
  Speaker 1: your own. This is a simple task that you can do.
• 28:36
  Speaker 1: She's like, Daddy, can I brush my teeth in the morning.
• 28:38
  Speaker 1: That's code for like me and Ru. I know my
• 28:41
  Speaker 1: wife's listening right now, but that's kind of code with us,
• 28:43
  Speaker 1: is like, we don't have to brush your teeth tonight.
• 28:45
  Speaker 1: We can get in bed and do story time and
• 28:47
  Speaker 1: everything else. I negotiate with Rue because I'm saying there
• 28:51
  Speaker 1: Ru's a talker.
• 28:52
  Speaker 2: Ru loves to talk. We read a book.
• 28:54
  Speaker 1: Can we talk about the book? Yes, I tell a story, Daddy,
• 28:57
  Speaker 1: can we talk about the story? And then she just
• 28:59
  Speaker 1: she she runs the football with questions of why this,
• 29:02
  Speaker 1: why that. I brought up shadow Land last night and
• 29:05
  Speaker 1: she had to break down shadow Land. And then she
• 29:06
  Speaker 1: was scared about shadow Land when I was leaving because
• 29:08
  Speaker 1: she's like, there's a lot of shadows in my room
• 29:10
  Speaker 1: right now, sweetheart, that's imagination World. And so I negotiate
• 29:16
  Speaker 1: when she says, dead, can I brush my teeth in
• 29:18
  Speaker 1: the morning? And I'm thinking, yeah, if I can skip
• 29:21
  Speaker 1: a little something, it's summertime, Like, we brush your teeth.
• 29:24
  Speaker 1: You've been to the Dennis, you've checked out clean, You're
• 29:26
  Speaker 1: you're bat in a thousand right now with your teeth, Like,
• 29:28
  Speaker 1: can you miss the night of brushing your teeth? In
• 29:30
  Speaker 1: my brain, I'm thinking, yeah, why not? It is summertime.
• 29:34
  Speaker 1: So I use that as leverage. I'm like, Okay, if
• 29:37
  Speaker 1: you brush your teeth in the morning, then Dead I
• 29:39
  Speaker 1: only has to read you one Dead I only has
• 29:41
  Speaker 1: to tell you one story tonight. Because Rue makes me
• 29:43
  Speaker 1: tell her stories. Yeah, where I got to make up stories,
• 29:46
  Speaker 1: and sometimes we had Dad hacks like, hey, use AI
• 29:48
  Speaker 1: to do stories. I've done those structures. And then it's
• 29:51
  Speaker 1: like I don't want to sit there and like I'm
• 29:52
  Speaker 1: just trying to read the story from my phone. So
• 29:54
  Speaker 1: I rue makes me tell her story. So I got
• 29:57
  Speaker 1: to come up with stories all the fucking time. She's back,
• 29:59
  Speaker 1: dadad tell me story when you were little and from
• 30:01
  Speaker 1: something bad happened.
• 30:03
  Speaker 2: She always wants something bad in there.
• 30:06
  Speaker 1: But I negotiate, instead of having the bandwidth and creativity
• 30:09
  Speaker 1: to manufacture two stories, I'm gonna use this as instead
• 30:14
  Speaker 1: of me reading a book. And then we go to
• 30:16
  Speaker 1: brush your teeth, and then we lay in bed and
• 30:18
  Speaker 1: I tell you another story, and then we talk about
• 30:20
  Speaker 1: the story. I'm mixing my leverage. You don't want to
• 30:23
  Speaker 1: brush your teeth. I get that. I respect that. Yea,
• 30:27
  Speaker 1: what I'm gonna do. Hey, you want to not brush
• 30:29
  Speaker 1: your teeth tonight? You want to do it in the morning.
• 30:32
  Speaker 1: Dad only reads you one story and we turn the
• 30:34
  Speaker 1: lights off, so that means we skip note talking, we
• 30:37
  Speaker 1: skip the book. Yep, we miss We don't do brush
• 30:41
  Speaker 1: your teeth, and we get right in bed and we
• 30:43
  Speaker 1: get in the story action and She's like okay, So
• 30:47
  Speaker 1: we get in bed and I'm like, hey, let me
• 30:48
  Speaker 1: brush your pony teel.
• 30:49
  Speaker 2: Like, dude, the whole long hair thing. I know.
• 30:51
  Speaker 1: We got a comment in hear about fleeting time and
• 30:53
  Speaker 1: hairs getting along on the three year old and four
• 30:55
  Speaker 1: year old. This time, I feel like it's slipping away.
• 30:57
  Speaker 1: But just diving in on the hair with girls sometimes
• 31:01
  Speaker 1: I don't know what the hell to do, Like I
• 31:02
  Speaker 1: want to brush your hair. We would brush your hair
• 31:05
  Speaker 1: every night, but then she's got so much hair that
• 31:07
  Speaker 1: no matter what, you got to brush it again in
• 31:09
  Speaker 1: the morning. Like the shit just tangles all the time
• 31:11
  Speaker 1: twenty four to seven. Oh yeah, and you can't let
• 31:13
  Speaker 1: it build up because then bad tangles happen. Then they
• 31:16
  Speaker 1: fucking cry and like dad is not doing it that hard.
• 31:19
  Speaker 1: Just sit there and let me work this tangle out.
• 31:22
  Speaker 1: But a big move for parents out there, for people
• 31:24
  Speaker 1: is like putting their hair in a braid or putting
• 31:26
  Speaker 1: their hair in like some type of concoction so that
• 31:28
  Speaker 1: way it doesn't get all tangly. Overnight, Rue had a
• 31:32
  Speaker 1: ponytail rock. So I was like, so before we crawl
• 31:35
  Speaker 1: in bed, grab the brush or I can brush your hair.
• 31:37
  Speaker 1: I'm thinking in my head, we've done the braid stuff.
• 31:39
  Speaker 1: Like again, I'm not fully in tune with everything that
• 31:43
  Speaker 1: has to be done. I can't braid hair. I'm not
• 31:45
  Speaker 1: there yet. I'm just not there in my developmental braiding hair.
• 31:49
  Speaker 1: I'm not gonna let her go into Scottie's room because
• 31:51
  Speaker 1: mama's putting Scottie down. But her hair is in a ponytail.
• 31:53
  Speaker 1: So I'm like, I guess she wants to sleep in
• 31:55
  Speaker 1: her ponytail to night, and maybe that's a move to
• 31:58
  Speaker 1: not get half.
• 31:58
  Speaker 2: Of it tangled. You're in a ponytail.
• 32:00
  Speaker 1: You're better at being a girl than I am. Yeah, Like,
• 32:03
  Speaker 1: I'll let you do you.
• 32:04
  Speaker 2: Yeah.
• 32:05
  Speaker 1: So she grabs a brush and I start brushing just
• 32:08
  Speaker 1: her ponytail, Like I don't take the ponytail out and
• 32:10
  Speaker 1: brush over har Yeah, I just brushed the ponytail because
• 32:13
  Speaker 1: I'm like, that hair is probably gonna be cool because
• 32:15
  Speaker 1: it's up, it's tight, it's in the ponytail.
• 32:18
  Speaker 2: So we go to bed. I just read her story.
• 32:20
  Speaker 1: I get done with bedtime before Charlo. Usually Scotty's the
• 32:23
  Speaker 1: easy one. Scotty's the one you can put down. You
• 32:24
  Speaker 1: read a few stories, you put her down.
• 32:26
  Speaker 2: You're usually out.
• 32:27
  Speaker 1: Ruse the longer one because she wants to talk the
• 32:29
  Speaker 1: whole time. But I get out early, and I kind
• 32:31
  Speaker 1: of leave the bedroom and kind of look down the
• 32:33
  Speaker 1: hall and I have a little smirk on my face, like, ah, yeah,
• 32:35
  Speaker 1: that's done for the day.
• 32:36
  Speaker 2: And Charles's sitting in there seeing you get out early.
• 32:38
  Speaker 1: She's going yeah, because charl usually comes in and kiss
• 32:43
  Speaker 1: her good night. Like, well, I'm in the middle of
• 32:44
  Speaker 1: storytime or something, and now Charles gotta be the last
• 32:46
  Speaker 1: one in, which is good for me. Like I'm going downstairs.
• 32:49
  Speaker 1: I'm like, you know, I started Reach her. So I
• 32:51
  Speaker 1: want to dive in on an episode of Reacher. I
• 32:53
  Speaker 1: want to see if any of my new flicks are out.
• 32:54
  Speaker 1: If ted Lasso's out, if Lucky's out. I watched The
• 32:57
  Speaker 1: House of Dragon. I'm caught up there, so like, let
• 32:59
  Speaker 1: me die, man, I get to kick the feet up.
• 33:01
  Speaker 1: Let's watch a little bit of Reach. You might as
• 33:02
  Speaker 1: well sue him. Get everything ready tidy up downstairs, Let's
• 33:07
  Speaker 1: get these toys away. Wife's gonna be like, oh, you
• 33:09
  Speaker 1: crush it downstairs, honey, And I'm like, you just add
• 33:11
  Speaker 1: a gold start of the calendar.
• 33:12
  Speaker 2: There's the guy married kick the feet up.
• 33:15
  Speaker 1: I got reach your plane, And all of a sudden,
• 33:16
  Speaker 1: I hear crying, crying from Scotty's room. Charles's been in
• 33:19
  Speaker 1: Rou's room for a moment, and I'm like, Ru's got her,
• 33:21
  Speaker 1: Like Ru's probably telling her how she scared a shadow
• 33:23
  Speaker 1: Land and telling her the entire story that I told
• 33:25
  Speaker 1: her about shadow Land. I hear Scotty start crying, and
• 33:29
  Speaker 1: then I know Charles up in Ru's room, and I'm
• 33:31
  Speaker 1: thinking there could be a moment where Ru's breaking down,
• 33:33
  Speaker 1: Sky's breaking down. I'm like, fuck, And now I gotta
• 33:35
  Speaker 1: go up there because I can't just leave her. I
• 33:37
  Speaker 1: can't just feed Charlo to the wolves. I can't feed
• 33:39
  Speaker 1: my wife to the wolves. I go up there, give
• 33:41
  Speaker 1: Scott to your passy, give her Lama, give her a
• 33:43
  Speaker 1: little kiss good night.
• 33:44
  Speaker 2: She's good.
• 33:45
  Speaker 1: Walk in the Rose room and I'm like, is everything okay?
• 33:47
  Speaker 1: And I turned the corner and I see Charles on
• 33:50
  Speaker 1: her knees and she's got Ruth's ponytail out and she's
• 33:52
  Speaker 1: just brushing her hair, and She's like, what's going on?
• 33:55
  Speaker 1: Like why wasn't her hairbrush? Like Ruth said that Ruth
• 33:58
  Speaker 1: said that vers said that you guys, you didn't brush
• 34:01
  Speaker 1: your teeth, and oh yeah, we made a deal. We
• 34:08
  Speaker 1: negotiated a deal. And so I quickly kind of like, okay,
• 34:11
  Speaker 1: they're doing this. It seemed like they're in a decent mood,
• 34:13
  Speaker 1: so let me just leave the room. When I says,
• 34:15
  Speaker 1: I'm watching TV. And that's when the first part of
• 34:17
  Speaker 1: the story comes in. Whe Charle walks down. She's like, hey, so,
• 34:19
  Speaker 1: what the hell happened at what happened at bedtime? I
• 34:22
  Speaker 1: was like, we made a deal, Like she had an
• 34:26
  Speaker 1: she has she wanted to not brush your teeth. I'm thinking, okay,
• 34:29
  Speaker 1: I'm gonna leverage that and just tell one story. Like
• 34:32
  Speaker 1: she checked out, She checks out at the dentists, smooth,
• 34:34
  Speaker 1: she's clean, like.
• 34:35
  Speaker 2: She can miss for a night, summertime. Man.
• 34:38
  Speaker 1: And she's like, you are the parent, like you gotta
• 34:41
  Speaker 1: you gotta tell her that she's brushing her teeth. And
• 34:43
  Speaker 1: I'm like, I know, but sweetheart, I had an interest,
• 34:46
  Speaker 1: Like I knew her interest was not one to brush
• 34:48
  Speaker 1: your teeth.
• 34:48
  Speaker 2: My interest was.
• 34:49
  Speaker 1: Getting it down to one story. And we both come
• 34:52
  Speaker 1: like everybody won. She just told me to you that
• 34:54
  Speaker 1: she didn't brush your teeth. She's like, oh, when does
• 34:58
  Speaker 1: she brush your teeth in the morning? Did she brush
• 35:00
  Speaker 1: her teeth? Do you make sure she brush her teeth
• 35:02
  Speaker 1: in the morning. I'm like, no, but she told me
• 35:03
  Speaker 1: she's gonna brush your teeth in the morning. She never
• 35:05
  Speaker 1: remembers that she's gonna brush your teeth in the morning.
• 35:08
  Speaker 1: She just says that. So it's like she just doesn't
• 35:10
  Speaker 1: brush your teeth. She's got it, like the fair points.
• 35:14
  Speaker 1: Fair points. But we made a good, solid and we
• 35:16
  Speaker 1: had a good solid negotiation, and that's how those work.
• 35:20
  Speaker 1: She had something I identified, I brought it to her,
• 35:23
  Speaker 1: We agreed, we shook hands, Yeah, and we executed the negotiation.
• 35:27
  Speaker 2: The hair thing, I brushed her ponytail. I didn't know
• 35:29
  Speaker 2: if you want me to.
• 35:30
  Speaker 1: Take it out.
• 35:31
  Speaker 2: Right before that, she aged, you're telling you you ain't
• 35:35
  Speaker 2: got it by yourself. You can't do shit into your wife.
• 35:43
  Speaker 1: She brush your teeth on the boys, got it.
• 35:48
  Speaker 2: She's gonna do great, Udie.
• 35:50
  Speaker 1: Oh, that should have been my fault. She told me
• 35:51
  Speaker 1: she was gonna start taking care of herself, like.
• 35:53
  Speaker 2: So so sweet.
• 35:54
  Speaker 1: I'm also challenging her, yeah, to take care of herself. Yeah,
• 35:58
  Speaker 1: we'll find out tomorrow of this all off. It's honey,
• 36:01
  Speaker 1: it's layers. It's layers. You just look at the first
• 36:04
  Speaker 1: leger go deeper and then you kind of sit there
• 36:07
  Speaker 1: the awkward pause for three seconds. I'm sitting there for
• 36:09
  Speaker 1: three seconds thinking to myself, can I press play and
• 36:11
  Speaker 1: start watching again? Are we now having a conversation? Because
• 36:15
  Speaker 1: this is this Reacher honey, it's based on novels. I
• 36:18
  Speaker 1: sit there and I kind of like, do one of those.
• 36:19
  Speaker 1: I like, look back, and I sit started looking at
• 36:21
  Speaker 1: the TV again. I look back and I was like,
• 36:23
  Speaker 1: can I turn the show back on? She's like, yeah,
• 36:27
  Speaker 1: you can turn the show back on.
• 36:28
  Speaker 2: She's laughing.
• 36:29
  Speaker 1: We're going back and forth because it's I am always
• 36:32
  Speaker 1: trying to find some wiggle room. So okay, yeah, you
• 36:34
  Speaker 1: don't want to brush your teeth. How about this, let's
• 36:37
  Speaker 1: get right in bed, let's turn the lights off. So
• 36:40
  Speaker 1: that was my pseudo kind of dad lost for a moment.
• 36:44
  Speaker 1: It was almost chaotic. I thought they were both breaking
• 36:47
  Speaker 1: down upstairs. I was like, oh fuck, I kind of
• 36:48
  Speaker 1: left her with the grenade. I need to go up there.
• 36:50
  Speaker 1: And then I see her on her knees, like they're
• 36:52
  Speaker 1: on the bed, sitting up You know what, I mean,
• 36:54
  Speaker 1: and she's like brushing her hair and I'm like.
• 36:55
  Speaker 2: Fuck, I didn't why threw rat? She's a punk dude.
• 37:00
  Speaker 2: That's that's like rat, like third time, right, that's what
• 37:03
  Speaker 2: she rats a lot? She rats a lot, but rat. Yeah,
• 37:07
  Speaker 2: and kids do it.
• 37:08
  Speaker 1: And I'm trying to figure out the pocket where I
• 37:10
  Speaker 1: can try and actually break him down when you say
• 37:13
  Speaker 1: stuff and when you don't.
• 37:15
  Speaker 3: But there's Grayary in there. Yeah, and Game of Thrones
• 37:19
  Speaker 3: might be a good teaching tool there. See, honey, it's
• 37:21
  Speaker 3: little Finger.
• 37:22
  Speaker 1: If he tells seriously that nets that this net's in
• 37:25
  Speaker 1: a whole world of trouble. So he's he's got to
• 37:28
  Speaker 1: keep his mouth shut like you need to the mama's.
• 37:31
  Speaker 1: But if you watch Sweetereart, I just told you about
• 37:34
  Speaker 1: a little Finger, if you watch Olf in the recent
• 37:37
  Speaker 1: House of Dragons, you can't light everybody. You can't light
• 37:41
  Speaker 1: everybody because then what do you gotta do? You got
• 37:43
  Speaker 1: right off on your dragon. It's you versus the world.
• 37:46
  Speaker 1: You're gonna end up drunking a porter potty that she
• 37:52
  Speaker 1: says boozers or anytime it's a new drink. She's like
• 37:55
  Speaker 1: dead as their booze in there. And I'm like, no,
• 38:00
  Speaker 1: I guess Choros Jones does are boost? You can't have that,
• 38:03
  Speaker 1: there's booze in it. So any new drink is there
• 38:07
  Speaker 1: booze in there? Can I have a drink? And just
• 38:09
  Speaker 1: holding up sippy cups too? I'm sure good boozing this.
• 38:13
  Speaker 1: I'm boozing that, uddie.
• 38:15
  Speaker 2: You're good. Yeah.
• 38:17
  Speaker 3: Do we want just so we don't have them kidnapped
• 38:20
  Speaker 3: all day? We want to rip into these packs?
• 38:23
  Speaker 4: Yeah, you know, let's change us into a dove right now.
• 38:26
  Speaker 4: Let's get a little dad rip going here. Yeah, you
• 38:28
  Speaker 4: may have seen across the ripping with the boys socials,
• 38:30
  Speaker 4: Taylor has been chasing electrolytes. I figure, let's bring some electrolytes,
• 38:34
  Speaker 4: hopefully to the dads here.
• 38:35
  Speaker 1: And so we got electro lights in our hand right now. Yeah,
• 38:38
  Speaker 1: what exactly are we looking for? So this is top
• 38:41
  Speaker 1: for surgeons. The hit that we're looking for is called electrolyts. Okay,
• 38:45
  Speaker 1: and it's just gonna say electrolytes.
• 38:46
  Speaker 2: You see it looks nice and pretty.
• 38:49
  Speaker 1: Also, do we want to do if we get a
• 38:51
  Speaker 1: big Derrick Henry Sure, friend of the show, friend of
• 38:55
  Speaker 1: the show, Calvin Ridley Sure, kind of a friend of
• 39:00
  Speaker 1: acts Smith and Jigba.
• 39:01
  Speaker 2: That's wide receiver in the league.
• 39:04
  Speaker 1: I don't see electrolyts, no electric and how how do
• 39:08
  Speaker 1: they know that?
• 39:09
  Speaker 2: We're dead?
• 39:10
  Speaker 1: Loss? And right now take that loss?
• 39:14
  Speaker 4: Anything you see some nice collar, but otherwise electro lights,
• 39:21
  Speaker 4: something maybe an auto chef.
• 39:25
  Speaker 1: Doesn't matter if there's like a game boy or something
• 39:27
  Speaker 1: behind the player.
• 39:29
  Speaker 2: Those are voltaic voltankic? Are those great?
• 39:32
  Speaker 1: They're they're an insert, They're okay, Okay, I got Caleb
• 39:34
  Speaker 1: Williams nice vull take something.
• 39:38
  Speaker 2: It seems like I got doctors. Oh, cam Wood can
• 39:40
  Speaker 2: doctors will take those?
• 39:42
  Speaker 3: And just I'm I'm just making sure because I don't
• 39:46
  Speaker 3: know what I'm looking for.
• 39:47
  Speaker 2: You're good. It sounds that you want to find elect
• 39:50
  Speaker 2: Are all just basic cards? Yeah? You may have like
• 39:53
  Speaker 2: a silver in there, nothing crazy, okay, cool? Yeah, these
• 39:56
  Speaker 2: these are all basic cards as well. Just want to
• 39:59
  Speaker 2: make sure.
• 39:59
  Speaker 4: Yep, yo, I'm telling you you will know if it's electric, right, Okay,
• 40:03
  Speaker 4: it says it.
• 40:04
  Speaker 1: That card on the left is pretty sick. Is that
• 40:06
  Speaker 1: a chief? Yeah, that's a fun one.
• 40:09
  Speaker 2: Chris Jones.
• 40:10
  Speaker 1: Chris Jones, that's a good player.
• 40:12
  Speaker 2: Chris Jones.
• 40:13
  Speaker 1: Wonder if he's got any dogs Hey, we got a
• 40:15
  Speaker 1: race to give away. Yeah, we got to rip our guy,
• 40:18
  Speaker 1: by the way, the long snapper.
• 40:20
  Speaker 2: He has a card. We need it. Yeah, yeah, bro,
• 40:23
  Speaker 2: we need that.
• 40:24
  Speaker 5: Shut up.
• 40:25
  Speaker 2: Yeah, Casey Critter creator.
• 40:27
  Speaker 6: He got k R E I T E R. But
• 40:30
  Speaker 6: his handle is Critter sixty one. So I'm gonna go
• 40:33
  Speaker 6: with Casey Critter.
• 40:34
  Speaker 2: Okay, Casey dude.
• 40:36
  Speaker 1: So it's shouting out Casey Creator, long snapper for the
• 40:38
  Speaker 1: Arizona Cardinals. We were at the Hall of Fame game
• 40:41
  Speaker 1: last week in Can't, Ohio, and we're sitting on the
• 40:43
  Speaker 1: sideline pre game. All the boys are warming up, and
• 40:46
  Speaker 1: Casey runs up massive fan of for the dads. If
• 40:48
  Speaker 1: he's listening right now, Casey, good luck out there in camp.
• 40:50
  Speaker 1: I hope you're keeping your head low. Come on, I
• 40:52
  Speaker 1: hope you're keeping those camp bys right. But he starts
• 40:55
  Speaker 1: talking about his trash Day failures with his wife and
• 40:59
  Speaker 1: he had a voicemailed he said he left Deeke's kicking
• 41:02
  Speaker 1: himself that it didn't make the cut because he had
• 41:04
  Speaker 1: a whole debacle where it's like the dog poops in
• 41:07
  Speaker 1: something and it's loose in the trash bag.
• 41:10
  Speaker 2: He gets the trash bag he's got.
• 41:11
  Speaker 1: Ship on the shoulder, but he's just talking to me
• 41:14
  Speaker 1: about good old fashioned dad lost with the trash and
• 41:16
  Speaker 1: he shout out the boys, you're talking about what you are?
• 41:19
  Speaker 2: He shouting out Deeke. He double took on Chef.
• 41:21
  Speaker 1: He's like, oh, Chef, what what a.
• 41:24
  Speaker 2: Stunt because that's a specimens.
• 41:26
  Speaker 1: I'm just sitting there just seeing an NFL player talk
• 41:30
  Speaker 1: about listening for the deads and he's like, man, I'm
• 41:32
  Speaker 1: two months behind. I'm still trying to catch up. I
• 41:34
  Speaker 1: rock you guys on my commute every day, and I'm like, dude,
• 41:37
  Speaker 1: this is fucking awesome to hear. Welcome to the show, bro,
• 41:39
  Speaker 1: Welcome to the community.
• 41:42
  Speaker 2: He's gonna catch up.
• 41:42
  Speaker 1: I wonder if he has dogs. We got to dive
• 41:44
  Speaker 1: into the dog's conversation because we have followed us from
• 41:46
  Speaker 1: last week we have dog talk. I'm gonna kick this
• 41:50
  Speaker 1: dog conversation off with a comment here from Frank calls
• 41:54
  Speaker 1: sixty six zero three. Shout out Jack. Great showing shout
• 41:58
  Speaker 1: out Jack in the comments, Frank calls sixty six zero three.
• 42:04
  Speaker 1: This is a comment on YouTube that's gonna kick off
• 42:07
  Speaker 1: this dog conversation that we're gonna come back to with Shrham.
• 42:09
  Speaker 2: I'm ready.
• 42:11
  Speaker 1: The dog conversation is exactly why I love this pod.
• 42:14
  Speaker 1: Love how you guys keep it real even when you
• 42:16
  Speaker 1: know there will be lots of upset people in the comments.
• 42:18
  Speaker 1: There's no shortage of that, that is true. Sure, we've
• 42:21
  Speaker 1: been dealing with the same conversation in our house for now.
• 42:24
  Speaker 1: We have decided to keep the dog due to the
• 42:26
  Speaker 1: commitment we made when adopting him, but the conversation does
• 42:30
  Speaker 1: get revisited on almost a monthly basis. That's the kickoff
• 42:34
  Speaker 1: the convo again. Shirm's in a situation where him and
• 42:36
  Speaker 1: Wifey we're like, hey, do we send Do we send
• 42:39
  Speaker 1: our two little dogs on a permanent vacation a grandma's
• 42:41
  Speaker 1: house down in Texas? Actually own a grandma's house, actually
• 42:44
  Speaker 1: loving home. Yes, because of some of the things that
• 42:47
  Speaker 1: these dogs do that cause some chaos in your household.
• 42:51
  Speaker 1: Just to kick it off this for Brett Anderson sixteen
• 42:55
  Speaker 1: thirty on YouTube, just quitting on the dogs is crazy work.
• 43:01
  Speaker 1: Giving them the grandma is quitting. I'm sorry, boys, if
• 43:06
  Speaker 1: you can't handle two dogs, but you think you can
• 43:08
  Speaker 1: handle more kids.
• 43:10
  Speaker 2: What are we doing here? What are we going now?
• 43:13
  Speaker 5: Where?
• 43:13
  Speaker 2: Are we doing Brett? Brett brings up good points?
• 43:17
  Speaker 1: Does he does?
• 43:21
  Speaker 2: He bring up good point?
• 43:22
  Speaker 7: Sure?
• 43:23
  Speaker 1: Because what I'm hearing you can't handle two dogs, but
• 43:27
  Speaker 1: you think you can handle more more kids.
• 43:29
  Speaker 2: That is that's a shot.
• 43:31
  Speaker 1: That's that's bull that's a bullshit shot.
• 43:34
  Speaker 2: That's a bullshit shit.
• 43:35
  Speaker 1: Because your heart, mind, body, soul when you're thinking about
• 43:38
  Speaker 1: your kiddos and you're looking at your kiddos, your kiddos
• 43:40
  Speaker 1: are why you're even thinking about giving the dogs win
• 43:43
  Speaker 1: the first place. But you just you love the kids
• 43:46
  Speaker 1: so much or kids. If you're wanting to have more
• 43:49
  Speaker 1: kids to where it's just it's a zero question in
• 43:51
  Speaker 1: your mind. The dog just becomes a lower priority. I
• 43:54
  Speaker 1: hate to say it, but I like a take it
• 43:56
  Speaker 1: or leave it. Some people are obsessed with their dogs,
• 43:58
  Speaker 1: and that's totally fine. Again A dog guy, dog guy,
• 44:01
  Speaker 1: I have a dog waffle. She shot all over the
• 44:03
  Speaker 1: house and puke all over the house over the weekend.
• 44:04
  Speaker 1: And I brought it the same question, when can we
• 44:06
  Speaker 1: get rid of her?
• 44:07
  Speaker 2: Yeah?
• 44:08
  Speaker 1: But if that's a kiddle, like you're just so like
• 44:11
  Speaker 1: kid's gonna be in your life forever, your soul wants
• 44:13
  Speaker 1: them in their life forever you can handle more than
• 44:15
  Speaker 1: you can handle more kids without being like, oh I
• 44:17
  Speaker 1: failed to take into care of three dogs, we shouldn't
• 44:19
  Speaker 1: have more kids. No, no, you just see dogs.
• 44:22
  Speaker 2: Dogs. It's people dogs. Yeah, it is. And I want Brett.
• 44:28
  Speaker 3: To know, in all seriousness, he is talking to the
• 44:31
  Speaker 3: guy that, in this situation with my wife, I'm the
• 44:35
  Speaker 3: one that has advocated strongly to keep the dogs. And
• 44:40
  Speaker 3: I'm not just talking, oh honey, we can't do that.
• 44:42
  Speaker 3: I'm talking honey, that's bullshit. We're not getting rid of
• 44:46
  Speaker 3: the fucking dogs. Quit talking about it like we made
• 44:50
  Speaker 3: a commitment. We're keeping the dogs.
• 44:52
  Speaker 2: So this is a follow up conversation after last week's no.
• 44:55
  Speaker 3: No, no, no, I'm just talking in the past, gotcha.
• 44:58
  Speaker 3: When Jill has this baby bump with a little scarscard
• 45:02
  Speaker 3: grown in her and she's like, I'm just telling you,
• 45:05
  Speaker 3: And usually ten out of ten times Jill's right when
• 45:08
  Speaker 3: she says I'm just telling you, I got a feeling
• 45:11
  Speaker 3: I feel like this could be an issue.
• 45:14
  Speaker 2: We need to look into this. How are we going
• 45:16
  Speaker 2: to deal with the dogs?
• 45:17
  Speaker 6: Now?
• 45:17
  Speaker 2: I'm sitting there going don't worry about it. I got it.
• 45:20
  Speaker 2: I got it. It's gonna be good.
• 45:23
  Speaker 3: And now I'm kind of sitting here on the other
• 45:24
  Speaker 3: side and I'm like, damn, Like Jill was right. And
• 45:29
  Speaker 3: then when I bring up this stuff with the snarling
• 45:31
  Speaker 3: and the snapping that one time from Wrigley, it like
• 45:36
  Speaker 3: it helped a lot having that conversation with you guys
• 45:40
  Speaker 3: and all of you guys collectively being like that, that
• 45:44
  Speaker 3: changes the situation.
• 45:46
  Speaker 1: Oh, what absolutely changes the situation. I had a buddy
• 45:49
  Speaker 1: back in the day. I was in high school. So
• 45:51
  Speaker 1: again this is dog love her peak, right, like dogs
• 45:54
  Speaker 1: like you just grow up, you love the animals. And
• 45:58
  Speaker 1: dog made a little, I guess, a little move on
• 46:00
  Speaker 1: the kiddo, nothing like egregious, but something. And he shot
• 46:03
  Speaker 1: the fucking dog. And you tell it, and we're talking
• 46:16
  Speaker 1: eight this is like, you know, country boy in Missouri.
• 46:19
  Speaker 2: Yeah, and it was just the first time I.
• 46:22
  Speaker 1: Kind of witnessed the human have that switching their soul
• 46:27
  Speaker 1: to where when he told me it didn't even face
• 46:30
  Speaker 1: him when he was telling me, oh, yeah, because he's
• 46:32
  Speaker 1: older than me, because he had two kids at the time.
• 46:35
  Speaker 1: Yeah they were grown and obviously they were growing up
• 46:38
  Speaker 1: and stuff like that.
• 46:39
  Speaker 2: But yeah, he he shot the dog.
• 46:41
  Speaker 1: I mean, and I'm like, hey, how were you able
• 46:45
  Speaker 1: to even fucking bring yourself Today's like it ain't It's
• 46:48
  Speaker 1: pretty cut and dry with me.
• 46:53
  Speaker 3: I know a lot of people that take their that
• 46:55
  Speaker 3: stance with pets and their kids, like you do some
• 47:00
  Speaker 3: into my kid. Yeah, there ain't no way you're gonna
• 47:04
  Speaker 3: be able to stop what I'm about to do, too,
• 47:06
  Speaker 3: said animal that just did that to my kid. And
• 47:09
  Speaker 3: I get that that's a real thing, yeah, I but
• 47:13
  Speaker 3: just a perspective on the extreme.
• 47:15
  Speaker 1: Oh yeah, hey, you're you're delivery of uh yeah, you know,
• 47:20
  Speaker 1: there's something like unforgivable really bad. Shut the dog, yeah,
• 47:25
  Speaker 1: you know what, nothing egregious, like he didn't like full
• 47:27
  Speaker 1: on bite, but maybe like a little aggression and uh,
• 47:31
  Speaker 1: shut the dog. Keep pumped one in them.
• 47:34
  Speaker 2: God, I know. And I was just there were petty sick.
• 47:41
  Speaker 1: I was scared hearing that.
• 47:42
  Speaker 3: There it goes in the uh in the comments with
• 47:45
  Speaker 3: the raccoon thing, They're like, sure, why haven't you just
• 47:48
  Speaker 3: gone up into the crawl space and just you know,
• 47:51
  Speaker 3: shout it do like a little twenty two calibers so
• 47:54
  Speaker 3: it doesn't scare the neighbors, and you know, just take
• 47:57
  Speaker 3: care of the raccoons. I'm like, I'm within any limits,
• 48:00
  Speaker 3: Like I'm not out in the country.
• 48:03
  Speaker 2: Could just go up there and just.
• 48:06
  Speaker 1: Some raccoons. I don't know what they said, put four
• 48:09
  Speaker 1: in the coon.
• 48:10
  Speaker 3: Well there were four raccoons in that. Oh yeah, and
• 48:13
  Speaker 3: there were four raccoons and then.
• 48:19
  Speaker 2: Babies.
• 48:22
  Speaker 3: But to that point, dude, like I felt that rage
• 48:28
  Speaker 3: when Wrigley did snap and show teeth and start growling,
• 48:34
  Speaker 3: like it truly was everything inside of me to hold
• 48:39
  Speaker 3: back on Wrigly, but to also I'd ripped them off
• 48:43
  Speaker 3: the ground, took them instantly into the laundry room, shut
• 48:46
  Speaker 3: the laundry room. Scarlett's losing her mind in the kitchen.
• 48:51
  Speaker 3: I'm like, that was not okay, Like that was nothing
• 48:54
  Speaker 3: about that was okay. I'm checking Scarlett to see if
• 48:56
  Speaker 3: she got bitch. She's fine, she didn't get bit. And
• 49:01
  Speaker 3: then I overhear you because Taylor had asked, like, hey,
• 49:05
  Speaker 3: how was for the dad's this morning, and you gave
• 49:07
  Speaker 3: him like a little rundown, little yeah. And I walked
• 49:11
  Speaker 3: into the room where they're talking about it, and Taylor
• 49:14
  Speaker 3: literally looks looks me in the eyes and is not
• 49:17
  Speaker 3: joking instead serious, and it was like Hey, if that's
• 49:20
  Speaker 3: my kid, my dog, dog's gone, dog's gone next day, Like,
• 49:24
  Speaker 3: no question, You're you're not doing a bad thing.
• 49:28
  Speaker 2: So it helps to hear that that, like.
• 49:32
  Speaker 1: Because you feel like when you're questioning in it, yeah,
• 49:34
  Speaker 1: you fully know the sigh, You fully know the sphere
• 49:38
  Speaker 1: in which quitting on the dogs, giving up on the dogs. Man,
• 49:41
  Speaker 1: this is it doesn't feel like people really do this.
• 49:44
  Speaker 1: You kind of get in your own head about it.
• 49:46
  Speaker 1: But then you hear like what Taylor said or my
• 49:49
  Speaker 1: experience with my buddy being like, oh, it's pretty cut
• 49:50
  Speaker 1: and dry with me, and you know, shooting the dog.
• 49:53
  Speaker 2: Oh a hundred percent.
• 49:55
  Speaker 3: And there's also the euphemism of like, oh it went
• 49:58
  Speaker 3: to the farm, you know, yeah, like they going by
• 50:02
  Speaker 3: the way.
• 50:02
  Speaker 1: We're not saying to shoot your dog. I just want
• 50:03
  Speaker 1: to make that very clear, very.
• 50:09
  Speaker 2: Yeah.
• 50:09
  Speaker 1: Yeah, don't shoot the dog, don't make the dog, don't
• 50:15
  Speaker 1: kick the dog.
• 50:16
  Speaker 3: The But yeah they the grandma's house saying like that's
• 50:20
  Speaker 3: not a euphemism either. It's like literally grandma's house where
• 50:25
  Speaker 3: they have lived for multiple years, where there are there
• 50:29
  Speaker 3: are two cats that they get along with very well,
• 50:33
  Speaker 3: like they are friendly with the cats that still live
• 50:36
  Speaker 3: at the house. They have this huge backyard to go
• 50:38
  Speaker 3: explore in. It's like it's a no brainer. So Jaiale
• 50:43
  Speaker 3: and I sat down after the pod of last week
• 50:47
  Speaker 3: and I told Jill that I felt comfortable after talking
• 50:50
  Speaker 3: with you guys because there was some conversations off the
• 50:53
  Speaker 3: pod as well with you guys. I talked with Taylor
• 50:56
  Speaker 3: a little bit more about it as well, talked with
• 50:59
  Speaker 3: my dad about it.
• 51:01
  Speaker 2: Then broke it down to.
• 51:02
  Speaker 3: Jail and I said, I think it would be good
• 51:06
  Speaker 3: if they went to Fort Worth, not on a permanent vacation,
• 51:10
  Speaker 3: but just on a vacation of a couple months, figure
• 51:14
  Speaker 3: out a scenario, situation, a plan of Scarlett is now walking,
• 51:21
  Speaker 3: Scarlet is not because the dogs are so small, dude,
• 51:24
  Speaker 3: that once she's upright, they will not be in her face.
• 51:28
  Speaker 3: And when we're able to like communicate, hey with Wrigley,
• 51:32
  Speaker 3: don't get up in Wrigley's face because one time he
• 51:34
  Speaker 3: snipped at you like building like you just can't build
• 51:39
  Speaker 3: that knowledge and that education with Scarlet right now, with
• 51:42
  Speaker 3: the age that she's at like we're doing, you know, I.
• 51:46
  Speaker 1: Think it's still gonna be tough to even when they're
• 51:48
  Speaker 1: one too, because there's just not going to have.
• 51:50
  Speaker 3: Oh dude, for sure, for sure. I mean it's probably
• 51:53
  Speaker 3: gonna be like a year, a year or two. I
• 51:55
  Speaker 3: was gonna say that two months is going to turn
• 51:57
  Speaker 3: into a year, year or two. They're just gonna turn
• 51:59
  Speaker 3: into oh sure, forever. Yeah, but the plan is a vaca,
• 52:04
  Speaker 3: not a permanent vac but ill.
• 52:07
  Speaker 1: What you want.
• 52:08
  Speaker 2: Dogs are gone, Yeah, they're gone. Dogs are gone.
• 52:10
  Speaker 3: So uh, Lisa is coming to pick them up Labor
• 52:14
  Speaker 3: Day weekend.
• 52:15
  Speaker 1: So it's happening. It is truly happening. Sure is getting
• 52:19
  Speaker 1: away as dogs. You're quitting, I'm quitting. I just go
• 52:23
  Speaker 1: to the to the other side, like you're really gonna quit?
• 52:26
  Speaker 2: Wait, so okay, Uh funny.
• 52:30
  Speaker 3: Brat's my best friend from back home, and we talked
• 52:34
  Speaker 3: on the phone for like an.
• 52:35
  Speaker 1: Hour and we both agree. You're a quitter, Sherman. Both dogs,
• 52:41
  Speaker 1: both dogs.
• 52:42
  Speaker 2: I know you guys were talking about one or the
• 52:44
  Speaker 2: other or what. I know. That's the best ocsion.
• 52:46
  Speaker 5: I know.
• 52:47
  Speaker 3: I think we're gonna I think we're gonna miss it.
• 52:49
  Speaker 2: Yeah, we're gonna miss him really bad.
• 52:53
  Speaker 1: Uh.
• 52:54
  Speaker 3: I am happy for them because right now they are
• 52:57
  Speaker 3: behind a baby gate to where they basically go out
• 53:01
  Speaker 3: whenever they're going on a walk or going into the backyard.
• 53:06
  Speaker 1: So honestly, there was a comment about having a gate up.
• 53:10
  Speaker 2: Yeah, and it weigh on a couple people.
• 53:12
  Speaker 3: Yeah, going off of Sherm's dog situation, we had something
• 53:14
  Speaker 3: similar where our Pomeranian that we've had for six years
• 53:17
  Speaker 3: would snap at our one year old crawling around.
• 53:20
  Speaker 2: We did the baby gate.
• 53:21
  Speaker 3: Separation for like six months, but it just ended up
• 53:23
  Speaker 3: having our dogs secluded in a room away from the baby.
• 53:26
  Speaker 3: It hurt us, but we made the decision to rehome
• 53:28
  Speaker 3: the dog and it made for a less stressful on
• 53:30
  Speaker 3: edge household where we were tiptoeing around every dog slash
• 53:34
  Speaker 3: baby situation. I've been there with Shrham in the sense
• 53:38
  Speaker 3: of not giving up on a dog because he was
• 53:41
  Speaker 3: our world before the baby. But the baby has to
• 53:43
  Speaker 3: come first, and that's the decision my wife and I made,
• 53:47
  Speaker 3: which that comes from mccola plays on YouTube. I also,
• 53:51
  Speaker 3: I do want to shout out just super quick. I
• 53:54
  Speaker 3: should have put them all together to shout out everybody's names.
• 53:58
  Speaker 3: I probably all together got around like fourteen dms from
• 54:02
  Speaker 3: people that were books that were basically like shirm done
• 54:08
  Speaker 3: this exact same thing, dude, and it's hard and it sucks.
• 54:11
  Speaker 3: But dogs snipped at baby one time and we were like, yeah,
• 54:15
  Speaker 3: that ain't happening. And a lot of them very similarly
• 54:19
  Speaker 3: were like to family members, to in laws, to sisters,
• 54:23
  Speaker 3: brothers that like one Ed needed, we're happy to have
• 54:27
  Speaker 3: the dogs and we're going to happy homes, and some
• 54:30
  Speaker 3: of them were like from shelters, where you can have
• 54:33
  Speaker 3: the shelter rehome. So there's a different story with everyone,
• 54:37
  Speaker 3: but I do want to think those people that reached
• 54:39
  Speaker 3: out to me, like, as weird as it sounds, it
• 54:42
  Speaker 3: was helpful to be able to read those dms and
• 54:45
  Speaker 3: be like, Okay, I'm not a complete heartless soul lis dude.
• 54:49
  Speaker 1: Dude, I know I feel like it happens so naturally
• 54:51
  Speaker 1: like Waffle. Legitimately the height of love that I felt
• 54:56
  Speaker 1: having a dog like Waffle because English Bulldogs was like
• 54:59
  Speaker 1: my number one. English Bulldogs like am Staffs, so you
• 55:01
  Speaker 1: know Rottweiler growing up, loved the rod Wilers, but obviously
• 55:04
  Speaker 1: we had a smaller We were in a townhouse at
• 55:06
  Speaker 1: the time. But when Charles brought Waffle home, dude, I
• 55:08
  Speaker 1: was elated and Charles pregnant, she's grown, her belly's growing,
• 55:11
  Speaker 1: and I'm just snuckling on the couch of Waffle, giving
• 55:14
  Speaker 1: Waffle kisses, like telling Waffle, You're never this, this little
• 55:17
  Speaker 1: thing growing in here is never going to take the
• 55:19
  Speaker 1: number one spot. You're gonna be my number one forever.
• 55:21
  Speaker 1: And I felt that way at the time, and it
• 55:24
  Speaker 1: just shifts. It's so weird. It just happens like that's
• 55:29
  Speaker 1: just the way it goes. And I was convinced that
• 55:33
  Speaker 1: Charle's like you think when Cerulian comes that that Waffle,
• 55:37
  Speaker 1: I'm like, dude, Waffle's number one forever. And I'll look
• 55:39
  Speaker 1: at Waffle like nobody's gonna take your spot, like you
• 55:41
  Speaker 1: mess with her little face, give her kisses and stuff,
• 55:45
  Speaker 1: and now, like you know, I show her love, but
• 55:48
  Speaker 1: it's almost like pity love. Yeah I ain't even saying that,
• 55:52
  Speaker 1: Like I still love on her, not in the same way,
• 55:55
  Speaker 1: but it's very much like it's dude, kids are just
• 55:58
  Speaker 1: so it is number one part priority. And it pains
• 56:01
  Speaker 1: you that you have such a shift to put you
• 56:04
  Speaker 1: just in this weird headspace because it sucks. But the moment,
• 56:08
  Speaker 1: the moment, they do get a little territorial it just
• 56:11
  Speaker 1: I don't know, it just it just happens in you man.
• 56:14
  Speaker 3: Yeah, and it's it's something where like the comment from
• 56:18
  Speaker 3: Brett where he was talking about like having more kids,
• 56:22
  Speaker 3: like do you think you'd be able to have more
• 56:24
  Speaker 3: kids if you can't even handle a dog? The to
• 56:27
  Speaker 3: add to that mental shift as well with a dog.
• 56:31
  Speaker 3: It's I'm trying to find the right words to describe it.
• 56:34
  Speaker 3: At no point do you kind of look down at
• 56:38
  Speaker 3: your child and think to yourself, oh, well, if this
• 56:42
  Speaker 3: doesn't work out, like she could go to Grandma's house.
• 56:45
  Speaker 1: Yeah. Do you never look at your child in a
• 56:47
  Speaker 1: way to where it's pure, like obviously it's the responsibilities
• 56:50
  Speaker 1: are there, they're constant, but you don't like look at
• 56:52
  Speaker 1: your child in a way that your kid is like
• 56:55
  Speaker 1: a responsibility. Well, I feel like when I look at
• 57:00
  Speaker 1: when I look at having waffle or just having dogs
• 57:02
  Speaker 1: in general, just becomes like a you know, it's like
• 57:05
  Speaker 1: you're doing your best to be a parent, you're doing
• 57:08
  Speaker 1: your best to be a husband. You're juggling those things
• 57:11
  Speaker 1: along with juggling all of your own stresses that you
• 57:14
  Speaker 1: have going on with her and work, health, whatever. It
• 57:16
  Speaker 1: is like keeping your keeping everybody's sanity afloat, like embracing
• 57:20
  Speaker 1: the suck, having a positive and optimistic mentality, having the
• 57:23
  Speaker 1: fun and love that you have, like growing your family. Yeah,
• 57:26
  Speaker 1: and the dog ins of just I feel like I
• 57:29
  Speaker 1: look more at it as like this is just added responsibilities.
• 57:33
  Speaker 2: And I don't save this out of defense.
• 57:35
  Speaker 3: Is like truly where my heart is on it, to
• 57:39
  Speaker 3: like give people full context, if we own the home
• 57:42
  Speaker 3: that we lived in were renters, I would one hundred
• 57:45
  Speaker 3: percent have a doggy door going into the backyard. I
• 57:48
  Speaker 3: would have a brand new fence put in where the
• 57:50
  Speaker 3: dogs can't escape out of the back and I would
• 57:53
  Speaker 3: have a baby gate up where they also have their
• 57:55
  Speaker 3: own space inside of the house from the doggy door,
• 57:58
  Speaker 3: with their water bowl, their food bowl, and I would
• 58:01
  Speaker 3: make this work. Like that's where my heart and my
• 58:05
  Speaker 3: mind are at. I can't do that at my rent house.
• 58:09
  Speaker 2: I just can't.
• 58:10
  Speaker 3: I can't do that, which sucks, And that's what I
• 58:14
  Speaker 3: would truly want to do before I would ever consider
• 58:19
  Speaker 3: taking this step of like Lisa coming and taking the
• 58:22
  Speaker 3: dogs to her house. But that's another thing too that
• 58:25
  Speaker 3: I talked about with Jill, Because it's not like we're
• 58:27
  Speaker 3: in the housing market. But I've had some conversations with
• 58:30
  Speaker 3: you of like that that's in our future and like
• 58:35
  Speaker 3: that's a perfect example of them being able to come back.
• 58:39
  Speaker 2: Is like Scarlett's three.
• 58:40
  Speaker 3: Now you know, we have a backyard, we have a
• 58:48
  Speaker 3: doggy door, like we have a baby gate, we have
• 58:50
  Speaker 3: a setup that we can do and like, yeah, like
• 58:53
  Speaker 3: that's what I want.
• 58:55
  Speaker 2: I want that. Like I'm really sad that the dogs
• 58:59
  Speaker 2: are going.
• 58:59
  Speaker 3: I'm like, I'm really gutted because I do love them.
• 59:03
  Speaker 3: But at the same time, I like, I know that
• 59:07
  Speaker 3: Scarlet's way more of a priority, and I just keep
• 59:10
  Speaker 3: on telling myself with like if she had a scar
• 59:14
  Speaker 3: on her face for the rest of her life, dude,
• 59:16
  Speaker 3: and I look at that face and see that scar
• 59:19
  Speaker 3: and know that it's there because of my inability to
• 59:22
  Speaker 3: take action. I don't want to live with that weight.
• 59:26
  Speaker 3: Like I even cannot do that, cannot.
• 59:28
  Speaker 1: Do that to put a ball on it. This is
• 59:32
  Speaker 1: from EMK Burt on YouTube chef wins the dog Argument.
• 59:37
  Speaker 1: And he did, I don't even know what he said,
• 59:39
  Speaker 1: and he did.
• 59:40
  Speaker 2: I don't even remember what I said. You said there
• 59:42
  Speaker 2: was some classes that we could take.
• 59:44
  Speaker 1: Oh yeah, yeah, because we also we got to a
• 59:47
  Speaker 1: solve of even the electric gate, the invisible gate, the
• 59:50
  Speaker 1: invisible gates.
• 59:52
  Speaker 8: Also, I like have the cop out of like the
• 59:55
  Speaker 8: dog that I have. It's really my girlfriend's dog. I'm
• 59:58
  Speaker 8: like the pseudo dad, but I only get to see her,
• 1:00:00
  Speaker 8: you know, every once in a while. My girlfriend's also
• 1:00:02
  Speaker 8: like going to VET school to be a veterinarian. So
• 1:00:04
  Speaker 8: it's like I'm not gonna have a fucking choice in this.
• 1:00:07
  Speaker 8: Like she'll you know, she always makes it work. But
• 1:00:09
  Speaker 8: that's like she loves it too.
• 1:00:11
  Speaker 1: Oh.
• 1:00:12
  Speaker 2: I feel like I can kind of like co.
• 1:00:14
  Speaker 8: Sign my hey, we'll make it work because I know
• 1:00:18
  Speaker 8: that at the end of the day, we got I
• 1:00:20
  Speaker 8: got a badass woman who will one hundred percent make
• 1:00:22
  Speaker 8: of work and I'll.
• 1:00:23
  Speaker 2: Just use life is like dedicated, yes.
• 1:00:25
  Speaker 8: Tim Grenada. Right now, she starts school in January. She's
• 1:00:28
  Speaker 8: like touring the college right easy, excited.
• 1:00:31
  Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, yeah.
• 1:00:35
  Speaker 2: Good combo boys, good combo. Thank you to everybody that pitch.
• 1:00:39
  Speaker 2: And this is why we dad, man, this is why
• 1:00:40
  Speaker 2: we dad.
• 1:00:41
  Speaker 3: Even the people that do call me a quitter joking
• 1:00:45
  Speaker 3: or not, like I appreciate people's inputs. I feel like
• 1:00:49
  Speaker 3: that's kind of the backbone of the show is people
• 1:00:52
  Speaker 3: would be able to if they.
• 1:00:54
  Speaker 1: Listen to you, if they do a great job of
• 1:00:56
  Speaker 1: listening to you, they know that it's obviously a very
• 1:00:58
  Speaker 1: tough decision, and you struggled with it multiple times for sure.
• 1:01:02
  Speaker 1: It ain't like you're just cold hearted, yeah, and being like, Hey,
• 1:01:06
  Speaker 1: I'm gonna go put the dogs down. We're gonna put
• 1:01:09
  Speaker 1: them down for the long nap, real long. It's always
• 1:01:13
  Speaker 1: sound tough. Put that dog down tomorrow. It's always shot him,
• 1:01:18
  Speaker 1: not not in my house. Fucking Christ when he dropped
• 1:01:22
  Speaker 1: that on and I was like, oh my god.
• 1:01:25
  Speaker 2: New Dad's dude, new dad out there.
• 1:01:29
  Speaker 3: This one game from Garret Psalm eight seven four on YouTube.
• 1:01:33
  Speaker 3: He said, first time PT six reporting in with the
• 1:01:36
  Speaker 3: arrival of our identical twin boys, Cooper and Jonah.
• 1:01:40
  Speaker 2: Let's go, Let's go.
• 1:01:41
  Speaker 1: I got one here from Anthony Webber ninety two zero
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  Speaker 1: six boys, wife and I are expecting baby number two
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  Speaker 1: in January twenty twenty seven. We're having a baby girl,
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  Speaker 1: our own little Scottie An Webber. Oh, keep doing your thing, guys,
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  Speaker 1: love the pod. Congratulations to you and your wife, my friend.
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  Speaker 2: This one comes from for Rocious on YouTube.
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  Speaker 3: For ros says, Heavy the Brave is a legend for
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  Speaker 3: the PT six community. That little girl is going to
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  Speaker 3: grow up with so many fans and so many people
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  Speaker 3: that lover. He needed the update. Thank you and God
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  Speaker 3: bless the pains.
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  Speaker 2: Dude.
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  Speaker 1: I also had followed. People were shouting out Heavy the
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  Speaker 1: Brave man. This is from Brando zero nine fifty. I
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  Speaker 1: love Brandow.
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  Speaker 2: Hit the bong for the brain had.
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  Speaker 1: Me rolling, cry, laughing emojis. Can't wait then, somebody commented
• 1:02:32
  Speaker 1: on that or replied under that YouTube comment, can't wait
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  Speaker 1: to show Evy that clip down the road too funny.
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  Speaker 2: That is from mister Pain himself.
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  Speaker 3: That pain dude shout out to me being so hit
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  Speaker 3: the bong dude, I was so I was so in
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  Speaker 3: tears that when I then tried to say the right
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  Speaker 3: thing of gong, I called it a dong. So you
• 1:02:52
  Speaker 3: said hit the bong, and then I started saying hit
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  Speaker 3: the dong.
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  Speaker 1: That's what Shaye Black here X six wile and YouTube
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  Speaker 1: sure I'm correcting Will by saying hitting a dong instead
• 1:03:00
  Speaker 1: of gong multiple times was classic.
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  Speaker 2: We just he just sat there and doubled down.
• 1:03:05
  Speaker 1: We said, after he hitting the bong, hit the dog
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  Speaker 1: What's crazy too, is when even that clip came out,
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  Speaker 1: I wasn't even aware, and then when I saw gong,
• 1:03:12
  Speaker 1: I was like, oh my god, that is a gong.
• 1:03:15
  Speaker 2: What the fuck am I talking about?
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  Speaker 6: There's a there's a few times on the show where
• 1:03:20
  Speaker 6: like Sirm will start laughing at you and you're like
• 1:03:22
  Speaker 6: ha ha, and like I can tell you're not registering
• 1:03:25
  Speaker 6: what the joke is.
• 1:03:26
  Speaker 2: And that was one of those moments.
• 1:03:27
  Speaker 6: We're looking back, he's dying and it was like Penelope
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  Speaker 6: for a half second where you're just like, yeah, hit.
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  Speaker 1: Oh yeah, hit the I'm like, he's really he's really
• 1:03:35
  Speaker 1: hurting over they hit the bong, Like yeah, I said it,
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  Speaker 1: but they hit the bong maybe like the voice I
• 1:03:40
  Speaker 1: don't know I had. Did you know that I'm saying
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  Speaker 1: the wrong thing? A hundred percent? Is hilarious.
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  Speaker 2: Here's in my eyes, dude. That that truly.
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  Speaker 3: Was like a visceral, Like that's the hardest I've laughed
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  Speaker 3: while crying.
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  Speaker 6: The bottom of that card was my favorite thing because
• 1:03:54
  Speaker 6: Chef's nuck in, We'll camped into a three year old
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  Speaker 6: cancer survivor. I was like the best bottom card I
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  Speaker 6: think I've ever seen in my life.
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  Speaker 2: That was crazy. I didn't even know.
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  Speaker 1: Once I read gong in one of the comments, I'm like,
• 1:04:06
  Speaker 1: oh yeah, it's a fucking called a gong. And I'm like,
• 1:04:09
  Speaker 1: maybe the boys didn't know either, Wait didn't he wasn't
• 1:04:12
  Speaker 1: the guys all knew? Fuck man that Dad. We're in
• 1:04:16
  Speaker 1: the Create gummies, no free shoutouts, God Create, get on
• 1:04:20
  Speaker 1: with the boys, man, Come on.
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  Speaker 2: Hey we did.
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  Speaker 3: We also had a letter a package if you will
• 1:04:29
  Speaker 3: that as we get into maybe we jump into our
• 1:04:32
  Speaker 3: crack of cold ones next. But all right, Dylan Williams.
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  Speaker 3: I wanted to do a quick shout out of Dylan.
• 1:04:38
  Speaker 3: He's sent in from Garrett land and Cattle, which it
• 1:04:41
  Speaker 3: sounds like he is an employee of Garrett Landing Cattle
• 1:04:45
  Speaker 3: or an owner.
• 1:04:47
  Speaker 2: Yeah, he says, I see you fellas eat beef. Great thought.
• 1:04:51
  Speaker 6: Let me send you all a beef bundle from GLC Beef,
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  Speaker 6: a director consumer beef company I operate. Oh there you go,
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  Speaker 6: so he I mean, we've been in the comments and
• 1:04:58
  Speaker 6: we were working some other stuff.
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  Speaker 2: But yeah, shout out a land So.
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  Speaker 3: Shout out and then shout out Dylan specifically, he sent
• 1:05:05
  Speaker 3: over all this stuff that was one of the meat steakstics.
• 1:05:10
  Speaker 1: Were incredible, by the way. I one of the spicy
• 1:05:13
  Speaker 1: ones had a little, good, little kick to it. They're
• 1:05:15
  Speaker 1: so good and they came in clutch.
• 1:05:17
  Speaker 2: Yesterday.
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  Speaker 1: I was looking for a snack before the food got here,
• 1:05:19
  Speaker 1: and I saw him sitting in the fridge the honey
• 1:05:22
  Speaker 1: jalapeno rack them, oh man, And unfortunately let me get
• 1:05:26
  Speaker 1: my hands on one of them.
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  Speaker 3: Dylan did ride in in his letter and said, this
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  Speaker 3: is Hawkeye country, this is Hawkeye meat.
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  Speaker 2: Well that's all.
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  Speaker 5: Right, man.
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  Speaker 1: I I you know, I have a love hate relationship
• 1:05:37
  Speaker 1: with the Hawkeys as much as I'll literally never I
• 1:05:41
  Speaker 1: won't say never, but of the time, I won't say
• 1:05:44
  Speaker 1: anything good about the Iowahawk guys and football, and it's
• 1:05:47
  Speaker 1: always going to be, you know, we need to beat
• 1:05:49
  Speaker 1: their ass and they've owned us for the last decade. Yeah,
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  Speaker 1: I always find myself I enjoy all the Iowahawkeye fans.
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  Speaker 2: They seem like good people.
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  Speaker 1: They do it from the from the Midwest, like that
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  Speaker 1: salt of the earth.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah.
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  Speaker 1: The only thing different about Nebraska and I was the spelling,
• 1:06:08
  Speaker 1: you know what I mean. Same with Missouri, the Missouri
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  Speaker 1: in that category Cansas. I love that the only thing.
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  Speaker 2: Different with people like that is just a spelling.
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  Speaker 3: I hadn't heard this until a podcast that was a
• 1:06:19
  Speaker 3: Big twelve football podcast called Heartland Ye podcast.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah yeah, I never.
• 1:06:25
  Speaker 3: Heard the Midwest like referred to as the Heartland. And
• 1:06:29
  Speaker 3: on the packaging of H. Garrett Land and Cattle, it says,
• 1:06:36
  Speaker 3: you know manufactured or you know manufactured and harvested from
• 1:06:41
  Speaker 3: the Heartland, which I love.
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  Speaker 2: That's good meat. So what we have are we just
• 1:06:46
  Speaker 2: doing a tasting? Chetti cheese, summer sausage? You doing tasting?
• 1:06:50
  Speaker 2: Was just shouting out, Dylan, Yeah, just shouting him out,
• 1:06:52
  Speaker 2: shout this summersauce.
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  Speaker 1: Cold, Thank you, chef.
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  Speaker 2: Do you like the end? Like butt cut at all?
• 1:07:06
  Speaker 1: All right? Big buck guy, big building on the crack
• 1:07:09
  Speaker 1: of cold ones, Dude, Mike Cracord cole one. This week
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• 1:07:19
  Speaker 1: talking to how people need to sponsor the show they do.
• 1:07:22
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• 1:07:36
  Speaker 1: we try going to the fair on Saturday?
• 1:07:39
  Speaker 2: Yes, at the Williamson County Yeah, dude.
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  Speaker 1: It's always a great time we've we've been. We've been
• 1:07:44
  Speaker 1: each year kind of it's it's felt like a tradition
• 1:07:46
  Speaker 1: where we always have to go now each year because
• 1:07:48
  Speaker 1: we went with Rue when she went on the little
• 1:07:49
  Speaker 1: bumblebe ride. Now she's tall enough to hit some of
• 1:07:51
  Speaker 1: the bigger rides, and I know she's stoked. But we
• 1:07:54
  Speaker 1: went with the in laws on Saturday, and wouldn't you know,
• 1:07:57
  Speaker 1: it didn't playing on the rain. I want to say.
• 1:08:00
  Speaker 1: We got there around like five clouds raming in and
• 1:08:03
  Speaker 1: rain started to come. But the crack of cold one
• 1:08:07
  Speaker 1: is handling the moving target. I'm talking the optimism top
• 1:08:10
  Speaker 1: to bottom from mom and dad to the in laws
• 1:08:13
  Speaker 1: to the kiddos and Rue. I thought she'd be way
• 1:08:15
  Speaker 1: more bummed than she was. Like she was bummed, but
• 1:08:17
  Speaker 1: it's like, hey, we're gonna spin this around.
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  Speaker 2: We're out right now.
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  Speaker 1: We're still gonna go have a good time. Went to
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  Speaker 1: a Pilado down in Franklin.
• 1:08:25
  Speaker 2: Buddy and it was amazing.
• 1:08:27
  Speaker 1: Then we went to you know how we always order
• 1:08:29
  Speaker 1: Uber Handel's homemade ice cream. Yeah, we were like a
• 1:08:33
  Speaker 1: half a mile away. We went two Handel's and was
• 1:08:35
  Speaker 1: he out at the picnic table in the ring. We're
• 1:08:37
  Speaker 1: all like under the umbrella, just having a good time,
• 1:08:40
  Speaker 1: but just turning up moment of like expecting to go
• 1:08:42
  Speaker 1: to the fair and not doing it and still making
• 1:08:44
  Speaker 1: an evening out of it. Yeah, that's my crack of.
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  Speaker 2: Cold one, dude, that's a great krack of cold one.
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  Speaker 8: I'll the say, will that's really nice because similarly, I
• 1:08:53
  Speaker 8: was supposed to go fishing on Saturday, and as we
• 1:08:56
  Speaker 8: got to the boat to put on the trailer, it
• 1:08:58
  Speaker 8: started raining and unlike your daughter, and my twenty four
• 1:09:01
  Speaker 8: year old best friend through an absolute, absolute temper tantrum
• 1:09:04
  Speaker 8: that we couldn't go on the lake like a five
• 1:09:06
  Speaker 8: year old temper tantrum, was stomping his feet like this
• 1:09:09
  Speaker 8: is bullshit, dude, the radar wasn't doing this. And hearing that,
• 1:09:13
  Speaker 8: I cannot wait to call him after work and relay
• 1:09:16
  Speaker 8: and go. We'll just talked about his four year old
• 1:09:18
  Speaker 8: daughter having like the best stay after they can't go
• 1:09:20
  Speaker 8: to the fair.
• 1:09:20
  Speaker 1: Yeah, Like it was a bummer because we started walking
• 1:09:23
  Speaker 1: to the fair, we saw the clouds coming in and
• 1:09:26
  Speaker 1: we were at the entrance, so it's like, you know what,
• 1:09:28
  Speaker 1: let's get in with head if you rise in them
• 1:09:30
  Speaker 1: when the rain comes, like, we'll figure it out. But
• 1:09:32
  Speaker 1: they started to not let people in because lightning in
• 1:09:36
  Speaker 1: the distance all that kind of stuff, so we didn't
• 1:09:38
  Speaker 1: even get to go in and we're kind of just
• 1:09:40
  Speaker 1: standing there and it was like it all felt like
• 1:09:42
  Speaker 1: in Unison. I know, for me, I was like, all right,
• 1:09:45
  Speaker 1: good mentality. I was like, we're out right now, dude,
• 1:09:48
  Speaker 1: Let's just be optimistic. Let's just keep the energy up.
• 1:09:50
  Speaker 1: Let's go find somewhere, let's go out to eat. We
• 1:09:53
  Speaker 1: got everybody together, let's go out to eat. I'll started
• 1:09:55
  Speaker 1: trying and look up arcades. Obviously it would have been
• 1:09:59
  Speaker 1: sick if we were close to daven Busters, but going
• 1:10:01
  Speaker 1: up to uh Opery Land with David Busters, but also
• 1:10:03
  Speaker 1: looking at some fun things that we could do. I'm like, man,
• 1:10:05
  Speaker 1: it's rude old enough, like a Scottie keep her keep
• 1:10:08
  Speaker 1: her wits about her if we like were in an
• 1:10:10
  Speaker 1: escape room. But we ended up settling on let's go
• 1:10:13
  Speaker 1: to Plato Plato Rips in Los haven't been there, We
• 1:10:15
  Speaker 1: hadn't been on the one down to Franklin and German Town.
• 1:10:17
  Speaker 1: It is incredible tapestyle Italian and the food top to
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  Speaker 1: bottom a plus.
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  Speaker 2: So we went to Plato, got in and hit some
• 1:10:26
  Speaker 2: ice cream afterwards. Pa is so good.
• 1:10:29
  Speaker 3: And there's something like, uh, we talked about it with
• 1:10:33
  Speaker 3: the Vanderbilt uh spring game where it was raining. Yeah,
• 1:10:38
  Speaker 3: I didn't have the see through bag and.
• 1:10:40
  Speaker 1: The store you you went to a little apparel store.
• 1:10:43
  Speaker 3: Yes, sir, And like, there is such a beauty in
• 1:10:46
  Speaker 3: that of My mom always have the philosophy of she
• 1:10:49
  Speaker 3: would say, let the day unfold. Whenever your plans like
• 1:10:53
  Speaker 3: don't come to fruition or it doesn't work out how
• 1:10:55
  Speaker 3: you wanted it to, you just let the day unfold,
• 1:10:57
  Speaker 3: go with the flow. And I love little moments like
• 1:11:01
  Speaker 3: that because sometimes the best memories come from the rainy day.
• 1:11:04
  Speaker 2: Hey remember when we got ice cream in the rain?
• 1:11:06
  Speaker 1: Dad?
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  Speaker 3: Yeah, and you were sitting there making the funny faces
• 1:11:09
  Speaker 3: because we all had to squeeze.
• 1:11:10
  Speaker 1: Underneath the umbrella and make it worse. There's Scotti taking
• 1:11:14
  Speaker 1: my ice cream. There you go, dude, Rue experimenting with
• 1:11:17
  Speaker 1: some birthday cake ice cream. Rue is strictly of vanilla
• 1:11:20
  Speaker 1: and sprinkles, but now her palette with everything too. She's
• 1:11:23
  Speaker 1: trying new foods. She's like into trying new foods, and
• 1:11:26
  Speaker 1: if she doesn't like it, she's like, I don't like it.
• 1:11:27
  Speaker 1: But her trying it's firing us up. We used to
• 1:11:30
  Speaker 1: be like a one trick pony. Ru is a little girl. Yeah,
• 1:11:34
  Speaker 1: she's a little girl. Now it's yeah, it's nuts. And
• 1:11:39
  Speaker 1: she starts school next week. Like last night, my wife
• 1:11:41
  Speaker 1: and I we went to the opening night. She's in Montosori.
• 1:11:45
  Speaker 1: That's right so close to kindergarten. I don't know. Yeah,
• 1:11:48
  Speaker 1: but she's in the three through five age range, going
• 1:11:51
  Speaker 1: back to the same classroom, one different teacher, but one
• 1:11:54
  Speaker 1: the same. Yeah, she's fired up, and just the confidence
• 1:11:57
  Speaker 1: that she has, the confidence that we have now. I
• 1:11:59
  Speaker 1: remember last year when I was we were on the
• 1:12:01
  Speaker 1: sew breaking down Ruth's first day of school and the
• 1:12:04
  Speaker 1: emotions that go into it. And she's coming in and
• 1:12:06
  Speaker 1: feeling like a little vet in year two, doing the
• 1:12:08
  Speaker 1: parent doing the parent opening the night thing. Last night,
• 1:12:10
  Speaker 1: sitting down kind of hearing the same stuff, I almost
• 1:12:13
  Speaker 1: kind of fell asleep. I was like, you can really
• 1:12:16
  Speaker 1: get anything new out of that. To my wife, She's like,
• 1:12:18
  Speaker 1: it's good to get out and get around all the
• 1:12:20
  Speaker 1: parents and stuff. I'm like, I know, but yeah, man,
• 1:12:24
  Speaker 1: Ruth's fired up. I'm fired up for he to go
• 1:12:26
  Speaker 1: back to school. Like we wanted to articulate, like a
• 1:12:28
  Speaker 1: good summer for we got to go to Europe. We
• 1:12:30
  Speaker 1: do the pool all the time, Like right now, I
• 1:12:33
  Speaker 1: want to say, she's out with her mom doing breakfast
• 1:12:34
  Speaker 1: and they're gonna swim at Uh, they're gonna swim somewhere
• 1:12:38
  Speaker 1: else today. Have a little like mommy daughter Dadah. But
• 1:12:41
  Speaker 1: she's had a good summer. She's fired up to go back.
• 1:12:43
  Speaker 1: I'm juiced that she's going back because the school is
• 1:12:46
  Speaker 1: awesome and a lot of good people there, and it's
• 1:12:49
  Speaker 1: just fun to see that, just her confidence. We went
• 1:12:51
  Speaker 1: through a yearbook yesterday and she named all twenty six
• 1:12:54
  Speaker 1: people that were involved in her class.
• 1:12:55
  Speaker 2: Oh yeah, everyone, God, I love that.
• 1:12:58
  Speaker 3: Yeah, dude, starting to see the little budding of friendships.
• 1:13:03
  Speaker 2: Yeah, I'll just make up a name.
• 1:13:05
  Speaker 3: But uh, there's a girl named Caroline that's in uh
• 1:13:10
  Speaker 3: Scarlet's daycare that they hit it off. I know, they're
• 1:13:14
  Speaker 3: only one years old. But like the other kids, when
• 1:13:18
  Speaker 3: I bring Scarlet in, like in the mornings, they don't
• 1:13:20
  Speaker 3: look and like smile or get excited. This Caroline girl,
• 1:13:25
  Speaker 3: every single time I come in with Scarlet, is instantly
• 1:13:29
  Speaker 3: beaming and like making noises and kind of like doing
• 1:13:32
  Speaker 3: her hands like this, and any of the pigs that
• 1:13:34
  Speaker 3: we get from the daycare. It's Caroline and Scarlet hanging
• 1:13:37
  Speaker 3: out with each other. And I'm like, their buddies, like
• 1:13:41
  Speaker 3: they're little friends. Like that's crazy that even at a
• 1:13:44
  Speaker 3: year old, they like they start to make those little
• 1:13:47
  Speaker 3: like relationships.
• 1:13:48
  Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, I saw a h your enthusiasm with Scarlet
• 1:13:54
  Speaker 1: and her being she's one now. Yeah, oh, I think
• 1:13:57
  Speaker 1: I saw a comment. I forget what they're like. It's
• 1:14:00
  Speaker 1: kind of like a d Yeah, I'm like, because you
• 1:14:06
  Speaker 1: were talking about her elevating from one daycare class to another,
• 1:14:09
  Speaker 1: or just being like sad seeing her friends kind of,
• 1:14:11
  Speaker 1: and I'm just I'm like, after the fact, I'm thinking
• 1:14:14
  Speaker 1: of the same thing. I'm like, yeah, I mean, they
• 1:14:15
  Speaker 1: don't necessarily know right now, but it's so funny the
• 1:14:18
  Speaker 1: enthusiasm you have. It's like you you've you've raised You're
• 1:14:22
  Speaker 1: like you're on year seven. The way you talk about
• 1:14:24
  Speaker 1: the emotions going on with your one year old, you.
• 1:14:29
  Speaker 2: Know her friends are in the other classroom, The way.
• 1:14:31
  Speaker 1: You describe some of the situations with Scotty. I'm able
• 1:14:34
  Speaker 1: to put my I'm able to put my head in
• 1:14:37
  Speaker 1: your headspace.
• 1:14:38
  Speaker 2: Just thinking about.
• 1:14:39
  Speaker 1: Ruey with Rubying four, I'm like, yeah, I feeling there,
• 1:14:43
  Speaker 1: And then after I'm like, yeah, she is only one.
• 1:14:46
  Speaker 1: She's only one. I think about Scotty being twenty one
• 1:14:48
  Speaker 1: months right now.
• 1:14:50
  Speaker 2: I know.
• 1:14:52
  Speaker 1: And You're like they're hitting it off, like they hit
• 1:14:53
  Speaker 1: it off, like I can't even imagine Scotty like having
• 1:14:56
  Speaker 1: a having all. I can see her getting excited, but
• 1:14:59
  Speaker 1: like hitting it off. They're like having conversation.
• 1:15:01
  Speaker 2: Yea, it was hitting.
• 1:15:02
  Speaker 3: It off even look like like Scarlett picked up a
• 1:15:05
  Speaker 3: block and went no, no, no.
• 1:15:06
  Speaker 2: I love did.
• 1:15:07
  Speaker 1: She picked up this meat stick and started who roun,
• 1:15:10
  Speaker 1: Like Carolina's crawling over she dates the meat stick and
• 1:15:13
  Speaker 1: they're like they're bonding over it.
• 1:15:15
  Speaker 2: It's crazy.
• 1:15:17
  Speaker 3: My head does go there. It's so funny, dude. And
• 1:15:21
  Speaker 3: like the pressure of like wanting to see Scarlett succeed,
• 1:15:28
  Speaker 3: wanting to like her transition to like work, out into
• 1:15:31
  Speaker 3: big girl class. But it is such a small hurdle
• 1:15:35
  Speaker 3: in the same sense. I'll send you some pics, Chef.
• 1:15:37
  Speaker 3: She officially started this Monday in big girl class. So
• 1:15:43
  Speaker 3: I dropped her off in big girl class, And like, what's.
• 1:15:45
  Speaker 2: The difference with oh, bring her down?
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  Speaker 3: What's the bigger to that exact point? Hey, sure, what's
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  Speaker 3: the difference? Oh, her naps aren't in cribs anymore. They're
• 1:15:53
  Speaker 3: in a little sleeping bag that's on the ground.
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  Speaker 1: The gang, the gang she operates with, it's not tell
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  Speaker 1: me time. They crawl now, they crawl now.
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  Speaker 3: They don't drink their milk out of bottles, They drink
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  Speaker 3: them out of cups because.
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  Speaker 2: They're big girls. They're big girls. They're big girls.
• 1:16:07
  Speaker 3: And then no passes unless they're napping or they're like
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  Speaker 3: arriving or leaving. Yeah, the passes during the day, just
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  Speaker 3: some big girls.
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  Speaker 1: Did I love it? Continue to be od man either.
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  Speaker 1: in October. Her hair is getting so long and she's
• 1:16:28
  Speaker 1: getting tall like her dad. When Rue's hair got long
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  Speaker 1: and she started growing fast? Did I feel like time
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  Speaker 1: the boy coming in February. I'm sure you are ecstatic
• 1:16:45
  Speaker 1: knowing you're getting one of each gender, absolutely like shouting
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  Speaker 1: out Shuran for the enthusiasm, dude, who cares if it
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  Speaker 1: sounds o d even if I'm thinking like, yeah, that's buddy,
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  Speaker 1: she's one years old, like you got so much more
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  Speaker 1: like I do. You know my stance, I've always hated
• 1:17:00
  Speaker 1: that because it's like time does move so fast, man,
• 1:17:03
  Speaker 1: it goes like when we my phone is doing a
• 1:17:07
  Speaker 1: great job of just bringing up moments where Scotty was
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  Speaker 1: in not even one yet, and Ru's holding her and
• 1:17:12
  Speaker 1: Rue just seems like she has so much more that
• 1:17:15
  Speaker 1: baby face, the little crooked teeth of the space teeth
• 1:17:18
  Speaker 1: and just happiness and just seeing her as a baby
• 1:17:20
  Speaker 1: compared to where she is now at four. It does
• 1:17:22
  Speaker 1: feel like time just goes and you got to enjoy
• 1:17:25
  Speaker 1: that shit. When you dive into a heel blooms. Five
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  Speaker 1: types of wealthy breaks down the time you basically spend
• 1:17:31
  Speaker 1: with your kids until they leave in high school, and
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  Speaker 1: you essentially spend like ninety percent of your time with
• 1:17:36
  Speaker 1: them in these all the way up through high school, right, yeah,
• 1:17:40
  Speaker 1: and after that it is a steep decline in time
• 1:17:45
  Speaker 1: you get with your kids. And we're young, like we're
• 1:17:47
  Speaker 1: young in the game with our kids right now. Yeah,
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  Speaker 1: but it's like even from eighteen, you spend ninety plus
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  Speaker 1: percent of your life or seventy five percent whatever math
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  Speaker 1: you want to do. The majority of your time spent
• 1:17:56
  Speaker 1: with your kids is when they're in your house until
• 1:17:59
  Speaker 1: they leave for college. And then you break it down
• 1:18:02
  Speaker 1: even more from that, Dude, when they're in high school,
• 1:18:04
  Speaker 1: they have their own they have their own friends, they
• 1:18:06
  Speaker 1: do their own thing. Like you're more there as a
• 1:18:08
  Speaker 1: guide and hopefully a listening here, like you're in tight
• 1:18:12
  Speaker 1: with your boy or your girl or your daughter and
• 1:18:13
  Speaker 1: they tell you stuff like that's what as a parent,
• 1:18:16
  Speaker 1: you're more kind of I feel like you'll be just
• 1:18:18
  Speaker 1: more desperate for the connection that you had with them
• 1:18:20
  Speaker 1: when they were younger, just knowing that they're growing up
• 1:18:22
  Speaker 1: and dude, they're making their own decisions and let's guide
• 1:18:25
  Speaker 1: them the right way.
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  Speaker 2: Hey, you really fucked up here.
• 1:18:26
  Speaker 1: This is why you got iss or oss.
• 1:18:29
  Speaker 2: You're going through all those.
• 1:18:30
  Speaker 1: Iterations in high school before that is what middle school.
• 1:18:33
  Speaker 1: You remember how it was in middle school? You have
• 1:18:35
  Speaker 1: your own homies that you're trying to go over to
• 1:18:37
  Speaker 1: their house, you're trying to do sleepovers. That's like the
• 1:18:39
  Speaker 1: part where you're not wanting your parents like in your
• 1:18:42
  Speaker 1: business as much because you're getting a little bit more
• 1:18:44
  Speaker 1: autonomy and you're just growing. You're hitting puberty and everything else.
• 1:18:48
  Speaker 1: That's like sixth grade, Like sixth grade below that, it's like, uh, sports,
• 1:18:52
  Speaker 1: everything kind of takes up the weekends you get to
• 1:18:55
  Speaker 1: enjoy it with them. But again and all those in
• 1:18:57
  Speaker 1: all those iterations like when when do I feel like
• 1:19:00
  Speaker 1: I was just becoming friends and I just wanted to
• 1:19:01
  Speaker 1: hang out with my friends all the time.
• 1:19:03
  Speaker 3: Well, sixteen, when you have a card, dude, then you
• 1:19:05
  Speaker 3: don't have the car rides with mom and dad anymore,
• 1:19:07
  Speaker 3: no doubt, With no doubt, he's felt like such a
• 1:19:11
  Speaker 3: bonding thing.
• 1:19:12
  Speaker 1: Yeah, like you're losing the grip on your kids. And
• 1:19:15
  Speaker 1: then it's like we all remember when we started to
• 1:19:18
  Speaker 1: make friends, and friends was all about what we wanted
• 1:19:20
  Speaker 1: to do on weekends and everything else. You still love
• 1:19:22
  Speaker 1: mom and dad. You're still with them. That's in like
• 1:19:24
  Speaker 1: elementary school. It's like elementary school that I can envision
• 1:19:29
  Speaker 1: a little bit more on the horizon because that's what
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  Speaker 1: you got till ten.
• 1:19:33
  Speaker 2: Yeah, you got till about ten years old, when.
• 1:19:36
  Speaker 1: You get as much time with them as you possibly
• 1:19:38
  Speaker 1: can to where you are their entire world. Yeah, and
• 1:19:42
  Speaker 1: up until ten, it's like you're in a pocket as
• 1:19:45
  Speaker 1: a parent to where you're in the heights of your career.
• 1:19:47
  Speaker 1: You're trying to kick off the heights of your career.
• 1:19:49
  Speaker 1: You're making big boy decisions that's driven around selfish ambitions
• 1:19:53
  Speaker 1: and stuff for mom and dad and the family, and
• 1:19:55
  Speaker 1: wanting to provide for the family, feeling the pressure and stress,
• 1:19:58
  Speaker 1: so where you're also torn when you have I have
• 1:20:00
  Speaker 1: that perspective of ten years old in mind of how
• 1:20:03
  Speaker 1: much time like being intentional about being at home. That's
• 1:20:06
  Speaker 1: why it's like, dude, go off about being od.
• 1:20:09
  Speaker 3: It helps me, dude, seeing how my dad operates now,
• 1:20:14
  Speaker 3: like it truly has helped me to really understand my dad,
• 1:20:18
  Speaker 3: because my dad is a worry warri and he does
• 1:20:20
  Speaker 3: want to make sure everything's okay, And he tries his
• 1:20:24
  Speaker 3: hardest not to micromanage, and he does a fabulous job,
• 1:20:27
  Speaker 3: but I can see that every inch of his being
• 1:20:29
  Speaker 3: is always wanting to help me in some capacity.
• 1:20:33
  Speaker 2: Or oh sure, mean you could do it this way?
• 1:20:34
  Speaker 1: And da da dah.
• 1:20:35
  Speaker 3: And when I was a teenager, I'm like, man, why
• 1:20:38
  Speaker 3: is he all up in my business?
• 1:20:40
  Speaker 2: Like, leave me alone?
• 1:20:41
  Speaker 1: Dad?
• 1:20:42
  Speaker 2: Yeah, shit, I got it.
• 1:20:44
  Speaker 3: And now when I'm looking at Scarlett, he wanted to
• 1:20:46
  Speaker 3: do the exact same thing for Scarlet at all times,
• 1:20:50
  Speaker 3: I'm like, I get a dad, Like, I get it,
• 1:20:54
  Speaker 3: and I really appreciate it.
• 1:20:55
  Speaker 1: Yeah, you just it naturally happens, but you just start
• 1:20:58
  Speaker 1: to witness how the whole mentality of like you're loosing
• 1:21:01
  Speaker 1: them every day, every week, every month. Yeah, it's like
• 1:21:03
  Speaker 1: picking up root now, dude, it's like feeling like a
• 1:21:05
  Speaker 1: human body, like a She's taller, longer, heavier, where it's
• 1:21:10
  Speaker 1: harder to hold her. And then you know, if I
• 1:21:12
  Speaker 1: thought I'm throwing little scott Zilla on my shoulder around
• 1:21:14
  Speaker 1: the house and doing the fly thing, Rue wants me
• 1:21:16
  Speaker 1: to do that with her. So I'll pick grew up
• 1:21:18
  Speaker 1: and I'll do it. And I'm just like, man, it's
• 1:21:19
  Speaker 1: so crazy feeling how big you are because you were
• 1:21:22
  Speaker 1: just my little girl. Like look at all these photos
• 1:21:24
  Speaker 1: that are all over our house. Oh yeah, like you
• 1:21:26
  Speaker 1: were just my littlest baby girl, Like your head was
• 1:21:29
  Speaker 1: literally smaller than my palm. Yeah, I would, dude. I'm
• 1:21:34
  Speaker 1: she pulls away from kisses all the time now, like Scarlet.
• 1:21:38
  Speaker 3: Hates kisses on the cheek. Yeah, and that used to
• 1:21:41
  Speaker 3: be my thing, dude, But she didn't know any better
• 1:21:44
  Speaker 3: because she was such a baby.
• 1:21:45
  Speaker 2: Yeah, and you just get right in her neck and
• 1:21:48
  Speaker 2: she'd giggle and laugh.
• 1:21:50
  Speaker 1: Yeah.
• 1:21:50
  Speaker 2: And now I try and go in for a kiss
• 1:21:52
  Speaker 2: and she's instantly.
• 1:21:55
  Speaker 1: Should be back, she'ld be back, dude, She'll be back, hopefully.
• 1:22:00
  Speaker 1: But yeah, man, go off with you back on the Uh.
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  Speaker 2: Oh did I say that that was my Cracker cole One.
• 1:22:04
  Speaker 1: I don't even know we were. I just think we
• 1:22:06
  Speaker 1: were just talking shop. It might have been a Kracker
• 1:22:08
  Speaker 1: cole one.
• 1:22:08
  Speaker 2: That was my Cracker cole one.
• 1:22:10
  Speaker 3: Is that she has officially started the older class.
• 1:22:14
  Speaker 2: Big girl, big girl class.
• 1:22:17
  Speaker 1: Thank you, Thank you Ollipop always, and thank you Ollipop
• 1:22:21
  Speaker 1: for this Cracker cole One. Right, and we got here
• 1:22:22
  Speaker 1: From Jerry Jackson looks like he's with this boy at
• 1:22:25
  Speaker 1: a preseason game. Cincinnati Bengals fan, Hey boys, listen to
• 1:22:29
  Speaker 1: the part of the pod today where you're talking about
• 1:22:30
  Speaker 1: ball season coming up, and he got me juiced. I
• 1:22:33
  Speaker 1: took my son Jamie to Bengals training camp so we
• 1:22:36
  Speaker 1: could get his eyes on our guy, Joey, b Jamar
• 1:22:38
  Speaker 1: and T Higgins. There you go, hoping for a better
• 1:22:41
  Speaker 1: season this year. PS love you, Deeck, but can't stand
• 1:22:44
  Speaker 1: your Steelers. Who day Jerry Jackson from Cincinnati, Shout out
• 1:22:48
  Speaker 1: Jerry Jackson. Here's a wonderful picture him and his son
• 1:22:50
  Speaker 1: at training camp. That fires me up, man, because you're
• 1:22:53
  Speaker 1: so juice for football season. You're trying to tell the
• 1:22:56
  Speaker 1: little lad about everything going on. You see you see
• 1:22:59
  Speaker 1: Joey be out there. That's the guy. He's got a couple.
• 1:23:02
  Speaker 2: You know.
• 1:23:02
  Speaker 1: This is a big year for Joey, but he's got
• 1:23:04
  Speaker 1: to stay healthy. He's got his weapons. They paid his
• 1:23:06
  Speaker 1: boys or building around him a little bit better. This
• 1:23:08
  Speaker 1: is the year because he's a Hall of Fame type guy,
• 1:23:12
  Speaker 1: but he hasn't had a lot to show for it.
• 1:23:13
  Speaker 2: And they were so close they could almost touch it.
• 1:23:16
  Speaker 1: Yeah, and they'll be back. You see Joey b sitting
• 1:23:18
  Speaker 1: with his girlfriend over there. They saw a little surfacing
• 1:23:21
  Speaker 1: of Justin Herbert out in La Chargers with though who's
• 1:23:24
  Speaker 1: a Madison Breer?
• 1:23:26
  Speaker 2: Oh yeah, shoking his hare.
• 1:23:27
  Speaker 1: So now they're we're kind of recreating it like that's
• 1:23:29
  Speaker 1: not him for real, Like he did they do that
• 1:23:31
  Speaker 1: for the media for the click. Yeah, for the clicks.
• 1:23:33
  Speaker 1: You gotta worry about that, dude.
• 1:23:35
  Speaker 3: Speaking of dads and football, coach Oh, he's such a
• 1:23:39
  Speaker 3: dad dude with the amount of stories now that we've
• 1:23:43
  Speaker 3: had him on the bus.
• 1:23:44
  Speaker 2: Yeah, which, by the way, generational episode.
• 1:23:47
  Speaker 1: Generational episode.
• 1:23:48
  Speaker 2: Please go watch that after you're done listening to this.
• 1:23:52
  Speaker 3: But Coach O told some stories that he also told
• 1:23:57
  Speaker 3: on Kyle Matthews podcasts, I think the week prior that,
• 1:24:02
  Speaker 3: I have also seen him tell on other podcasts. I've
• 1:24:05
  Speaker 3: also seen him tell on like you know, dinners and stuff.
• 1:24:09
  Speaker 3: And then his son just got married and he's like
• 1:24:13
  Speaker 3: doing a speech at the rehearsal dinner or whatever, and
• 1:24:16
  Speaker 3: it was a video that went viral and it's that
• 1:24:19
  Speaker 3: same story where he's like.
• 1:24:20
  Speaker 1: We're parked ou was on and the on the bus,
• 1:24:23
  Speaker 1: Joey be was on the bus, Joey b was on
• 1:24:26
  Speaker 1: the butt and hey, joe Burrow ain't on the bus.
• 1:24:28
  Speaker 2: That bus ain't driving off. It ain't driving off.
• 1:24:32
  Speaker 3: And just seeing his smile of knowing that's the punchline.
• 1:24:36
  Speaker 3: Everybody's gonna laugh. Dude, I've seen my dad make that
• 1:24:39
  Speaker 3: same smile telling the story for the twentieth time and
• 1:24:42
  Speaker 3: knowing that he's about to get to that punchline and
• 1:24:45
  Speaker 3: they're all about to lose it.
• 1:24:47
  Speaker 2: Coach Oh, dude, shut up, Coach O chef, go ahead.
• 1:24:51
  Speaker 8: I was just gonna say that video they just came
• 1:24:52
  Speaker 8: out of Coach O dog cussing the living shit. That's
• 1:24:57
  Speaker 8: the old mill, Like, hey, football, football to get back.
• 1:25:01
  Speaker 2: I'm started.
• 1:25:03
  Speaker 1: Legs coming in though, Bro, the old people legs were
• 1:25:07
  Speaker 1: kind of looks like Clay straight starting to wrinkle from
• 1:25:10
  Speaker 1: got a slight little muffin flare on the sock.
• 1:25:14
  Speaker 2: Just from years of just sitting in the sun in Louisiana.
• 1:25:17
  Speaker 1: Hate just bacon in the Delta is bacon Bacon. I'm
• 1:25:21
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• 1:25:25
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• 1:28:55
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• 1:28:57
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• 1:29:01
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• 1:30:02
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  Speaker 1: the Boys. We also have that in Nebraska, Nebraska, Nebraska, Michigan, Michigan,
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  Speaker 1: Michigan for.
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  Speaker 2: The GBRS and the blues. Yeah, a lot of our.
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  Speaker 1: Football line, a lot of this stuff is dropping. It's
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  Speaker 1: next week, right.
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  Speaker 2: Deep Yeah, I'll go out next Tuesday.
• 1:30:20
  Speaker 1: Next Tuesday again, if you're big into football season, we
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  Speaker 1: got a football line dropping football with busting stick hats.
• 1:30:25
  Speaker 1: My favorite hat right now is the one, the black one,
• 1:30:28
  Speaker 1: the new era hat that has this logo, the bust
• 1:30:31
  Speaker 1: and logo.
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  Speaker 2: Like on the f one, strong as hell. It is badass.
• 1:30:34
  Speaker 2: And then the hoodies.
• 1:30:35
  Speaker 1: Hoodies are always like top seller spears, but we have
• 1:30:38
  Speaker 1: this is very comfortable material. But just as the boys
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  Speaker 1: embordered across. But all that's coming out next week BWTV
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  Speaker 8: Quickly we want to throw first time putting the hoodie
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  Speaker 8: on and this is not boyts smoke up anyone's ass.
• 1:30:58
  Speaker 8: Legitimately a fair very comfortable hoodie. You could be blown
• 1:31:02
  Speaker 8: smoke though, like.
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  Speaker 1: Everybody watchings like, yeah, but you are they do write
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  Speaker 1: your checks.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, but maybe they just need to buy it and
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  Speaker 2: find out if I am.
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  Speaker 8: Or not.
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  Speaker 2: Com Yeah, well play sir, But.
• 1:31:12
  Speaker 1: Any new dads Papa Team six members. If you do
• 1:31:15
  Speaker 1: find yourself watching the show more than once, dude, the
• 1:31:18
  Speaker 1: way you get ingrained fully into the Papa Team six
• 1:31:21
  Speaker 1: community is buying a Papa Team Shit six shirt on
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• 1:31:25
  Speaker 1: if you're one of the boys out there listening right
• 1:31:27
  Speaker 1: now to us in your car, or you're watching at home, nutgs,
• 1:31:30
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• 1:31:34
  Speaker 1: lot of ptsiko merch popa Team six for the Dad's girl.
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  Speaker 5: Dad.
• 1:31:39
  Speaker 1: I love these camo hats. I'm sure these will be
• 1:31:41
  Speaker 1: big hitters for us once hunting season comes around.
• 1:31:44
  Speaker 2: Straight dad on the hat.
• 1:31:46
  Speaker 1: But all that you can find a BWTV dot com
• 1:31:49
  Speaker 1: you want to see a sicko. But do you go
• 1:31:52
  Speaker 1: like this is this is? Oh shit, he's recreated the standard. Yeah,
• 1:31:57
  Speaker 1: not that this needs to be the standard for everybody.
• 1:31:59
  Speaker 1: We weren't even expecting this. Yeah, Waylon Ransom rights it again.
• 1:32:04
  Speaker 1: Whyling Ransom with.
• 1:32:06
  Speaker 2: That with the ass tag?
• 1:32:08
  Speaker 1: Y'all wanted it, so I'm delivering it. Wailing Ransom with
• 1:32:12
  Speaker 1: the ass tat is official. That was one of the
• 1:32:15
  Speaker 1: funniest segments ever. Booked an appointment right after that podcast
• 1:32:18
  Speaker 1: came out. Shout out to you boys for throwing out
• 1:32:20
  Speaker 1: the ideas. My thigh tat will be added onto in
• 1:32:23
  Speaker 1: the future. Shout out snow Cone. His work is amazing
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  Speaker 1: and he's a great dude. Check him out on Instagram.
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  Speaker 1: Oh my god, snow Co. Oh snow Cone s n
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  Speaker 1: O C O n E tattoos at snow Cone Tattoos
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  Speaker 1: pt SICO for Life. And he set it in and
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  Speaker 1: oh my god, buddy, he's got an asstat and a
• 1:32:45
  Speaker 1: thigh tat Papa Team six on it on his ass,
• 1:32:51
  Speaker 1: on his ass, he says, And he's got the Barre
• 1:32:54
  Speaker 1: logo on his thigh. Waitlen, oh my god, look at
• 1:33:01
  Speaker 1: chef at. We got our first ass tattle for the dads.
• 1:33:08
  Speaker 2: Let's go. Well, that's when you know you made it, baby.
• 1:33:12
  Speaker 2: Oh my god, that's a reminder.
• 1:33:14
  Speaker 6: Whalan had sent us an email of him holding his
• 1:33:16
  Speaker 6: kid's hands on June seventeenth, and basically it was a
• 1:33:19
  Speaker 6: shout out. They had a birthday, some merch and then
• 1:33:21
  Speaker 6: he basically was talking about how he needs to get
• 1:33:23
  Speaker 6: some new inks soon, might need to get a PT
• 1:33:25
  Speaker 6: six tattoo with y'all's blessing, and so we had talked
• 1:33:27
  Speaker 6: about on that episode. Yeah, little bit, we're like getting
• 1:33:29
  Speaker 6: asked that maybe and he uh, he did it.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah.
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  Speaker 1: I saw this come across the old desk when I
• 1:33:34
  Speaker 1: sat down, I was looking through stuff and I was like,
• 1:33:36
  Speaker 1: oh my god, this.
• 1:33:37
  Speaker 2: Guy got the ass out. He spelled it right. He
• 1:33:39
  Speaker 2: spelled it right.
• 1:33:40
  Speaker 1: He did that, he did, and I was I was
• 1:33:43
  Speaker 1: asking him. I was asking. I was like, hey, remind me.
• 1:33:46
  Speaker 1: He said, y'all wanted it, so I'm delivering it. I
• 1:33:48
  Speaker 1: was like, what happened here? He's like, well, we kind
• 1:33:50
  Speaker 1: of talked about it episodes back a couple of months ago.
• 1:33:54
  Speaker 1: He's like, you guys joked around with it. It's not
• 1:33:56
  Speaker 1: like there was no better a challenge or anything else.
• 1:33:58
  Speaker 1: I was like, this is good.
• 1:33:59
  Speaker 2: This is next level the power of words. That's a sick. Yeah.
• 1:34:03
  Speaker 1: We didn't realize just throwing it out there out getting
• 1:34:06
  Speaker 1: asked at.
• 1:34:07
  Speaker 2: He's like that.
• 1:34:08
  Speaker 1: So if you're wondering, like, dude, I love this pot.
• 1:34:10
  Speaker 1: I wonder if people out there love it the way
• 1:34:12
  Speaker 1: I do. There should be no more questions, Like there
• 1:34:14
  Speaker 1: are sikos out there, man.
• 1:34:15
  Speaker 3: Those are those are the moments too, of like when
• 1:34:18
  Speaker 3: Charo challenged you with the one shelf of man you're
• 1:34:21
  Speaker 3: doing a dad podcast, or when Jill did pretty much
• 1:34:24
  Speaker 3: the same thing to me when I was mowing the yard. Now,
• 1:34:27
  Speaker 3: I just got to think about Whalen, that astat man
• 1:34:29
  Speaker 3: whenever I'm falling short not being a good dad.
• 1:34:32
  Speaker 1: Yeah, Like there's someone out there with an asstat it
• 1:34:35
  Speaker 1: believes in this brain man ten toes. You're having a
• 1:34:38
  Speaker 1: rough day, think about that ass. Cheek cheeks down.
• 1:34:43
  Speaker 2: Yeah, he's staying two cheeks down.
• 1:34:45
  Speaker 3: Man, that's incredible. Ain't cheeked up? Well done with cheeked up? Yeah,
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  Speaker 3: missus Whalen.
• 1:34:53
  Speaker 1: On a Tuesday, oh Wednesday, as you're listening to this.
• 1:34:55
  Speaker 2: SDE shout outs, you want to do some shout outs?
• 1:34:58
  Speaker 1: Oh dude, let's do some shout I can't wait because
• 1:35:01
  Speaker 1: Dee said we had four hitters with the with the
• 1:35:03
  Speaker 1: call ins.
• 1:35:04
  Speaker 2: Ooh, should we do Collins?
• 1:35:06
  Speaker 1: We can?
• 1:35:07
  Speaker 2: We can?
• 1:35:07
  Speaker 1: We Hey, whatever your little heart desires, we can run
• 1:35:09
  Speaker 1: through a couple of shoutouts. I got Amber Hammon's here
• 1:35:12
  Speaker 1: via email.
• 1:35:14
  Speaker 2: My name is Amber. We are from Pisga. Oh yeah, Pisga,
• 1:35:19
  Speaker 2: Pisca Alabama.
• 1:35:20
  Speaker 10: E I E I, oh loud.
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  Speaker 1: I wanted to give my husband, Trevor you shout out.
• 1:35:26
  Speaker 1: We have a six month old baby boy named Tatum.
• 1:35:29
  Speaker 1: We love him so much, Trevor. Trevor travels for work
• 1:35:32
  Speaker 1: and has gone a lot during the week. I wanted
• 1:35:34
  Speaker 1: to give him a shout out and let him know
• 1:35:36
  Speaker 1: how thankful and proud we are of him. He is
• 1:35:38
  Speaker 1: the best dating husband and we couldn't do this without him.
• 1:35:41
  Speaker 1: We love the POB We look forward to listening every Wednesday.
• 1:35:44
  Speaker 1: Attached to our a couple of photos of Tatum, who
• 1:35:47
  Speaker 1: just cut his first tooth last week.
• 1:35:50
  Speaker 2: Good and he's got the good tea on all the
• 1:35:53
  Speaker 2: way from Pisca, Alabama. Look at that dude.
• 1:35:57
  Speaker 1: Look at the boy. You know he got on BWTB
• 1:35:59
  Speaker 1: and pointed, I want the good one.
• 1:36:01
  Speaker 2: I want the good one. John Stole.
• 1:36:04
  Speaker 3: John Stole writes in What's Up Boys, this is John
• 1:36:08
  Speaker 3: Stole from Columbus, Ohio.
• 1:36:10
  Speaker 2: I'm a single.
• 1:36:11
  Speaker 3: Goon Beret uncle thriving in the A gap. I wanted
• 1:36:15
  Speaker 3: to wish my brother Nick a happy thirtieth birthday August thirteenth.
• 1:36:20
  Speaker 3: He is a proud member of Papa Team six to
• 1:36:22
  Speaker 3: a beautiful nine month old Sutton Grace. It's been really
• 1:36:26
  Speaker 3: exciting to see him dive face first into fatherhood while
• 1:36:29
  Speaker 3: operating at a high level. Even at three a m
• 1:36:32
  Speaker 3: diaper changes good. He's a great older brother, even better Dad,
• 1:36:37
  Speaker 3: Love you, Bro, enjoyed the birthday. We both watch every
• 1:36:41
  Speaker 3: week and it would be great if you can get
• 1:36:44
  Speaker 3: the shout out on the pod. We share the best
• 1:36:46
  Speaker 3: moments with each other, whether it's Sure him being a
• 1:36:48
  Speaker 3: fucking piece.
• 1:36:49
  Speaker 1: Of piece of shit at the airport, the baby, the
• 1:36:55
  Speaker 1: baby having a passive flow out one hour into a
• 1:36:58
  Speaker 1: ten hour car rider, Phil Rivers, non pullout the couch.
• 1:37:03
  Speaker 2: We know he doesn't pull out, Keep up the work.
• 1:37:06
  Speaker 3: Boys love the pond below his Nick's Sutton and his
• 1:37:10
  Speaker 3: beautiful wife Abby. Dude, what a what a wonderful birthday?
• 1:37:15
  Speaker 3: Get from a goon break to his dad A fan dude,
• 1:37:19
  Speaker 3: his dad, Bro, Yeah man, Happy birthday, Happy birthday.
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  Speaker 2: The ball the bom.
• 1:37:27
  Speaker 1: Will cardon twenty six eighty two on YouTube, Boys just
• 1:37:30
  Speaker 1: shouting out my son Stetson's for being an absolute beast.
• 1:37:33
  Speaker 2: He turns two on November sixth.
• 1:37:35
  Speaker 1: He's fully sprinting, jumping, saying every word possible, right now
• 1:37:39
  Speaker 1: he got moved up into a new class of daycare
• 1:37:42
  Speaker 1: and he is absolutely killing it with all the two
• 1:37:44
  Speaker 1: and three year olds. Isn't normal for a kid that's
• 1:37:46
  Speaker 1: not two years old to be saying full sentences. He's
• 1:37:49
  Speaker 1: also potty training already, And to be honest, it was
• 1:37:52
  Speaker 1: his decision. Not a fan of him growing up like this,
• 1:37:55
  Speaker 1: but hey, it is what it is. Love you boys,
• 1:37:57
  Speaker 1: pet Siko out. He got moved up in the new
• 1:38:01
  Speaker 1: classic tacre bro. I wonder if they call it.
• 1:38:03
  Speaker 2: Big boys club going.
• 1:38:06
  Speaker 1: It can't be big boys because going going in yours
• 1:38:09
  Speaker 1: from little girls to big girls. Hey, one year old's
• 1:38:11
  Speaker 1: what's the two biggest?
• 1:38:13
  Speaker 2: It's gotta be gotta be up to me?
• 1:38:16
  Speaker 3: Hey, dude, I just want shound outs to start becoming
• 1:38:18
  Speaker 3: just people going, hey is my kid?
• 1:38:23
  Speaker 2: Is my kid?
• 1:38:25
  Speaker 1: And then just a picture attached or sending us pictures
• 1:38:28
  Speaker 1: of their dots.
• 1:38:29
  Speaker 2: It's my boy Tank.
• 1:38:30
  Speaker 1: He's already seventy pounds and it's just a photo of Tank,
• 1:38:33
  Speaker 1: and he's drooling all the side. He breathes like his
• 1:38:37
  Speaker 1: old man trying to sleep at night.
• 1:38:41
  Speaker 2: He's a loud breathe.
• 1:38:44
  Speaker 1: He's a mouth breathing like his daddy. Dude, I really
• 1:38:51
  Speaker 1: want that. Oh my god, some school pigs would be funny. Dude.
• 1:38:55
  Speaker 1: Or he doesn't like to drink apple juice. He drinks
• 1:38:57
  Speaker 1: apple sauce from a straw. He like this is thank
• 1:39:05
  Speaker 1: and it just hits the picture of the rock when
• 1:39:07
  Speaker 1: he was sixteen. He looks, Oh my god.
• 1:39:14
  Speaker 2: Try This comes from Trevor Gruel. Trevor says, birthday shout out.
• 1:39:19
  Speaker 3: Hey this Trevor from Idaho just was wanting a birthday
• 1:39:23
  Speaker 3: shout out for my little girl, Rory aka Goose, she
• 1:39:27
  Speaker 3: turns two on August nineteenth. Also attaches a crack of
• 1:39:30
  Speaker 3: cole One to her, learning the words mostly to Twinkle Twinkle,
• 1:39:35
  Speaker 3: Little Star. Why sleep when you can rip a classic?
• 1:39:39
  Speaker 3: Love you boys, pt sixer out Rory, Happy birthday, Happy birthday.
• 1:39:47
  Speaker 2: Happy second birthday, Rory, hit the.
• 1:39:50
  Speaker 1: Bar, get them voicemails ready to go. This last one
• 1:39:56
  Speaker 1: hear from Jesse Richie on Spotify. This to Jesse, he
• 1:39:59
  Speaker 1: just shouting out his badass daughter. Shout out to my
• 1:40:02
  Speaker 1: five year old daughter, Elanie. She fractured her elbow during
• 1:40:06
  Speaker 1: jiu jitsu class, horsing around. Oh good good. She's an
• 1:40:10
  Speaker 1: absolute beast. The docs told us she that she should
• 1:40:13
  Speaker 1: have been in horrible pain, but she was just a
• 1:40:15
  Speaker 1: total boss about it. She's shy that she has a
• 1:40:18
  Speaker 1: cast now, but it's cool and she's tough as shit.
• 1:40:22
  Speaker 1: Get a big dog status, sick, go out, bro.
• 1:40:25
  Speaker 3: I wish I could sign that cast. I'd signed that
• 1:40:28
  Speaker 3: in a heartbeat.
• 1:40:30
  Speaker 1: Get to her voicemail six on one of the.
• 1:40:32
  Speaker 2: Dad's hot ready steamy.
• 1:40:35
  Speaker 1: Who do we got for a shir We got hospital
• 1:40:37
  Speaker 1: dad loss off the rip. We're just a DJ booth now.
• 1:40:44
  Speaker 10: Oh boys, it's kind of a tough one. Got home
• 1:40:49
  Speaker 10: last night from work and my wife was having some
• 1:40:54
  Speaker 10: pains and ran to the hospital. I'm going to find
• 1:40:58
  Speaker 10: out she was in labor. She was just hid thirty
• 1:41:01
  Speaker 10: seven weeks a full term.
• 1:41:04
  Speaker 11: Ah baby girl ended up being born, but uh, massive loss.
• 1:41:13
  Speaker 5: I realized I left my PET six shirt at home.
• 1:41:16
  Speaker 11: Oh fuck, fuck the first couple of days of my
• 1:41:22
  Speaker 11: daughter's life and we're gonna be taking her home and
• 1:41:24
  Speaker 11: she's just not even gonna know their dad's an absolute
• 1:41:27
  Speaker 11: fucking sicko.
• 1:41:28
  Speaker 5: Who's gonna be walking out in a normal T shirt.
• 1:41:32
  Speaker 5: I just I can't believe this shit.
• 1:41:34
  Speaker 11: It's just the peer disappointment myself, the one thing I
• 1:41:39
  Speaker 11: needed to remember to pack.
• 1:41:41
  Speaker 5: Left it at home in the closet. God damn it. Anyway, boys,
• 1:41:46
  Speaker 5: keep up the good word, keep up the pod. Love
• 1:41:49
  Speaker 5: everything you guys do.
• 1:41:52
  Speaker 11: Signing out Betsico Jared from North Dakota The South Boys.
• 1:41:57
  Speaker 2: Peace and blessings to Garrett. Piece and blessings. But he
• 1:42:01
  Speaker 2: fucked up.
• 1:42:01
  Speaker 1: Man. If you say this is like when coaches like
• 1:42:05
  Speaker 1: you think, I just say shit just to say shit. Man,
• 1:42:12
  Speaker 1: you don't have to get ready if you stay ready,
• 1:42:14
  Speaker 1: well it's little dad hack. It's just the fucking details.
• 1:42:19
  Speaker 1: You don't have to pack.
• 1:42:20
  Speaker 2: If you're already wearing it, just wear it every day.
• 1:42:24
  Speaker 1: He probably had a vision in mind, he had a
• 1:42:28
  Speaker 1: game plan, and he couldn't execute the game plan.
• 1:42:30
  Speaker 2: Yeah, it pains me.
• 1:42:31
  Speaker 1: I hear the pain in his voice. Trust me, we're
• 1:42:32
  Speaker 1: all pissed off. What are you gonna do about it?
• 1:42:39
  Speaker 2: You gotta get back up because it's not about how.
• 1:42:43
  Speaker 1: Uh how hard you get it? Yeah, yeah, it's about
• 1:42:49
  Speaker 1: how hard you can get hit and keep moving forward,
• 1:42:54
  Speaker 1: how much you can take and keep moving forward.
• 1:42:57
  Speaker 2: Derek just mentioned Suman just hit the book smell button.
• 1:43:01
  Speaker 5: What's up?
• 1:43:02
  Speaker 12: Boys? My name is Kurdis total dad lost.
• 1:43:09
  Speaker 5: Me and me and the.
• 1:43:10
  Speaker 12: Lady say, hey, let's go to this place and stick
• 1:43:13
  Speaker 12: the kids. I got a one year old son, and
• 1:43:16
  Speaker 12: I have a one year old niece, and we're there
• 1:43:21
  Speaker 12: at the playground indoor play jungle gym, and I see
• 1:43:28
  Speaker 12: my niece walking to me, and I have my tea
• 1:43:31
  Speaker 12: kicked up. We're trying to schedule a birthday party there
• 1:43:35
  Speaker 12: and then next thing you know, I actually like kicked
• 1:43:38
  Speaker 12: her in the face.
• 1:43:40
  Speaker 1: How do you accidentally broke my heart?
• 1:43:43
  Speaker 12: She was crying. I was crying. Say all these different
• 1:43:48
  Speaker 12: ten year olds looking at me, crying, grown man falling
• 1:43:52
  Speaker 12: his eyes out. My son is looking at me. A
• 1:43:56
  Speaker 12: lady comes up the white piece and she just me
• 1:44:04
  Speaker 12: and I'm just sitting there just taking it.
• 1:44:08
  Speaker 5: Man, I just I.
• 1:44:10
  Speaker 12: Cannot get over it. So that's all I got today,
• 1:44:15
  Speaker 12: voice last day, and doing what y'all doing.
• 1:44:22
  Speaker 2: We were missing some details.
• 1:44:25
  Speaker 1: Bad to have been he kicked up when he was
• 1:44:28
  Speaker 1: booking a birthday party or something. His one year old
• 1:44:30
  Speaker 1: niece was walking over and he kicked her in the
• 1:44:31
  Speaker 1: face on accident.
• 1:44:32
  Speaker 6: We don't exactly know how the kick occurred, but it
• 1:44:35
  Speaker 6: seems like he had his feet up and then like
• 1:44:37
  Speaker 6: tried to swing his feet off of where they were.
• 1:44:40
  Speaker 6: Is my guest, and she was there and he didn't
• 1:44:41
  Speaker 6: see her, just clocked her. Don't know, but all the
• 1:44:45
  Speaker 6: ten year olds just staring at him crying while he's
• 1:44:47
  Speaker 6: crying too, while his one year old niece is probably
• 1:44:50
  Speaker 6: on the groun because he kicked her in the face.
• 1:44:51
  Speaker 2: That's a tough one.
• 1:44:52
  Speaker 1: That's a tough loss.
• 1:44:54
  Speaker 2: That's a tough loss.
• 1:44:55
  Speaker 5: Dude.
• 1:44:55
  Speaker 1: Talk about feeling like you're in the fetal position if
• 1:44:57
  Speaker 1: you're crying too, you know, you know what I'm saying.
• 1:45:01
  Speaker 3: Like I was at a summer concert like outdoor movie thing.
• 1:45:07
  Speaker 3: This little three year old kid kicked my dog in
• 1:45:09
  Speaker 3: the face, full up, wind up and kicked him in
• 1:45:14
  Speaker 3: the face.
• 1:45:15
  Speaker 2: And I instantly look.
• 1:45:16
  Speaker 3: At him like what the heck, And everybody that's around
• 1:45:19
  Speaker 3: looks at this little kid, and he starts going and
• 1:45:22
  Speaker 3: then my dog, because he just got kicked in the face,
• 1:45:26
  Speaker 3: is like barking. So everybody that's outside of what just
• 1:45:29
  Speaker 3: happened and didn't know, they just see my dog barking
• 1:45:33
  Speaker 3: at this kid that's crying, and they're all giving me looks,
• 1:45:35
  Speaker 3: and I'm like, he just kicked my dog in the face, like,
• 1:45:39
  Speaker 3: that's crazy.
• 1:45:40
  Speaker 2: He kicked my dog, pissed me off.
• 1:45:47
  Speaker 6: I also sure I was not doing that to play
• 1:45:49
  Speaker 6: the next one. I was doing that motion because you
• 1:45:51
  Speaker 6: were so close to getting.
• 1:45:52
  Speaker 2: That phrase right. Oh, you just switched like the wording
• 1:45:55
  Speaker 2: was not telling you to rush. Was just I thought,
• 1:45:58
  Speaker 2: you're good.
• 1:45:59
  Speaker 1: And by the way, you you can't be cutting up
• 1:46:01
  Speaker 1: that meat.
• 1:46:02
  Speaker 2: Tossed the meat around, dude. Honestly, I was thinking about it.
• 1:46:05
  Speaker 2: I was like, that snack was good.
• 1:46:06
  Speaker 1: I want more of it. But I kind of just
• 1:46:08
  Speaker 1: laid low.
• 1:46:09
  Speaker 2: I was waiting for him to start talking. Were you
• 1:46:10
  Speaker 2: over there eating during phone calls?
• 1:46:14
  Speaker 8: There's another stick to ask him verse second slice? And
• 1:46:18
  Speaker 8: he like gave me like a sliver slice, and I
• 1:46:20
  Speaker 8: was like, what.
• 1:46:23
  Speaker 1: I'll cut up more during this next voice, man, you
• 1:46:25
  Speaker 1: want some more summer sauce?
• 1:46:26
  Speaker 2: And did you give me that?
• 1:46:27
  Speaker 5: I want?
• 1:46:27
  Speaker 2: I want to I want a big one. Just got
• 1:46:29
  Speaker 2: it all right? Run the next one, Yeah, just keep
• 1:46:31
  Speaker 2: cutting it. I clicked play.
• 1:46:37
  Speaker 13: Hello boys, This is Carlo is from my wife Carlo
• 1:46:44
  Speaker 13: Love the podcast.
• 1:46:46
  Speaker 2: I years old.
• 1:46:52
  Speaker 14: Beautiful little girl, little princess, Love her to death, made
• 1:46:57
  Speaker 14: me go crazy to death. Love her though I just
• 1:47:01
  Speaker 14: want to say thank you so much for this wonderful,
• 1:47:04
  Speaker 14: amazing podcast and amazing work that you guys are doing.
• 1:47:08
  Speaker 14: I discovered this podcast no long time ago. I started
• 1:47:12
  Speaker 14: from the episode one and right now I'm on episode five.
• 1:47:18
  Speaker 14: Love the Podcast. The podcast was about Will go in
• 1:47:22
  Speaker 14: crazy in the car five hours drive with the little
• 1:47:28
  Speaker 14: Rusee screaming, Scory screaming. I was bursting out of love
• 1:47:33
  Speaker 14: failure for I feel you man.
• 1:47:36
  Speaker 2: I was bursting out with lave Herman Congress show.
• 1:47:42
  Speaker 14: Right now you have like your first year birthday and
• 1:47:44
  Speaker 14: everything and all of that for your little one, Scarlett.
• 1:47:48
  Speaker 14: Love the Show. Sorry to say that late this would
• 1:47:52
  Speaker 14: be like a dead act as well. Boys learn how
• 1:47:57
  Speaker 14: to cook, learn how to cook. On the fifth episode,
• 1:48:02
  Speaker 14: one Color, the wife got the rawn milk and he
• 1:48:07
  Speaker 14: stood up as a as a real man who went
• 1:48:11
  Speaker 14: to cous can change the milk and you can buy
• 1:48:14
  Speaker 14: yourself sometimes boys learn how to cook.
• 1:48:19
  Speaker 13: This is the heck you can buy yourself sometime. If
• 1:48:22
  Speaker 13: you have a.
• 1:48:23
  Speaker 14: Yard and you have a grill, go outside, make some steaks,
• 1:48:27
  Speaker 14: make some chicken for your wife or your kids, for
• 1:48:29
  Speaker 14: your family.
• 1:48:31
  Speaker 13: Crack a cold beer, enjoy cooking and everything because da. Also,
• 1:48:36
  Speaker 13: we deal like sometime to be on your phone, to
• 1:48:38
  Speaker 13: give a call to your friend. You have a little
• 1:48:42
  Speaker 13: bit of a piece of mind. Doesn't have to be fancy, boys,
• 1:48:46
  Speaker 13: learn how to cook. Thank you so much, boys, thank
• 1:48:49
  Speaker 13: you so much. Love the podcast is helping me mentally,
• 1:48:52
  Speaker 13: like crazy, I don't feel alone.
• 1:48:54
  Speaker 14: I'm twenty eight with an almost two years old daughter.
• 1:48:58
  Speaker 14: Beautiful podcast, your bite.
• 1:49:02
  Speaker 1: I love Carlos, the ascension of Carlos. Bro Carlos, Carlos
• 1:49:08
  Speaker 1: and that voice coming in right after the dog kicking.
• 1:49:11
  Speaker 2: Guys, I'm being dead serious.
• 1:49:14
  Speaker 1: If I am on my deathbed and y'all have to
• 1:49:17
  Speaker 1: deliver the news that like it is terminal, please let
• 1:49:20
  Speaker 1: Carlos be the one to do it.
• 1:49:22
  Speaker 2: Please send Carlos in there. That was beautiful.
• 1:49:27
  Speaker 1: That is the dad hack. He doesn't have to be fancy.
• 1:49:30
  Speaker 2: That was our favorite part.
• 1:49:31
  Speaker 1: He doesn't have to be found. And they make me
• 1:49:33
  Speaker 1: burst it out with a laugh. Little Scotty, Is she
• 1:49:39
  Speaker 1: crying or rue she crying? This podcast is Cazilla Little
• 1:49:48
  Speaker 1: episode five. But I love it.
• 1:49:52
  Speaker 2: Boys, It's already so so good. Dude, I burst it out.
• 1:49:57
  Speaker 2: We doesn't have to be it doesn't fancy, but geez,
• 1:50:02
  Speaker 2: learned to cook voice.
• 1:50:04
  Speaker 1: That is the hawk. That is the way you talk
• 1:50:08
  Speaker 1: about the peace of mind doesn't have to be a dude.
• 1:50:12
  Speaker 3: The best part is that he's on episode Vibe right now.
• 1:50:15
  Speaker 3: He's not gonna hear this for like another like five
• 1:50:18
  Speaker 3: six months, and then.
• 1:50:20
  Speaker 1: He's gonna be like, oh, gee, boys, that is me
• 1:50:24
  Speaker 1: on the podcast I made it. Oh, Carlos, Carlos, I
• 1:50:30
  Speaker 1: need you calling in off three weeks after my man.
• 1:50:34
  Speaker 3: Please call in every week. Do we want to jump
• 1:50:38
  Speaker 3: into emails or one more voicemail?
• 1:50:40
  Speaker 1: I kind of want to hear one more voice.
• 1:50:41
  Speaker 2: Okay, maybe we should eat sausage to keep eating me.
• 1:50:45
  Speaker 2: I was about to say, maybe we just need to
• 1:50:47
  Speaker 2: eat summer sausage. Every voicemail thing, there's another stick of it.
• 1:50:49
  Speaker 1: Here's the question that I think is fair if we
• 1:50:52
  Speaker 1: do another voicemail, are we kind of setting that one
• 1:50:55
  Speaker 1: to for failure knowing what type of high wrong?
• 1:51:00
  Speaker 2: The fourth one is a discussion point. Someone's asking for advice.
• 1:51:03
  Speaker 6: Oh, here's what I word it, Carlos, is he's my
• 1:51:06
  Speaker 6: white whale on this episode. Yeah, but this fourth voicemail,
• 1:51:09
  Speaker 6: I wouldn't tell you there was four if it wasn't
• 1:51:10
  Speaker 6: a good one.
• 1:51:12
  Speaker 2: Okay, also one, I just want to warn you.
• 1:51:15
  Speaker 1: The meat stick is a greasy a greasy get meat
• 1:51:20
  Speaker 1: stick doesn't have to be fun see, doesn't have to
• 1:51:23
  Speaker 1: be fund But.
• 1:51:28
  Speaker 7: Hey, it's Justin from New Jersey calling in.
• 1:51:33
  Speaker 15: Got a question for you guys, not necessarily fully a
• 1:51:37
  Speaker 15: dad question, but it rides the coat tails of being
• 1:51:40
  Speaker 15: a father.
• 1:51:41
  Speaker 5: I'm twenty seven.
• 1:51:43
  Speaker 15: I have a twenty five year old girlfriend who loves
• 1:51:46
  Speaker 15: talking about pumping out some kids, looking into some bringing sizes,
• 1:51:53
  Speaker 15: and uh, the conversations get further and further.
• 1:51:58
  Speaker 5: So my question to you guys would be when do
• 1:52:03
  Speaker 5: you know? Oh I get it, having a.
• 1:52:06
  Speaker 15: Kid can be beautifully unplanned, But when do you know
• 1:52:11
  Speaker 15: when you're really ready to just even have a kid
• 1:52:14
  Speaker 15: in the first place?
• 1:52:15
  Speaker 5: I mean, who really is?
• 1:52:17
  Speaker 7: And then, at the same time, with it being twenty
• 1:52:20
  Speaker 7: twenty six and times have changed, is it so frowned
• 1:52:24
  Speaker 7: upon to maybe have a kid before a marriage or
• 1:52:29
  Speaker 7: would you be handicapping yourself twenty seven?
• 1:52:33
  Speaker 5: Hey about it? Hit that year, those years.
• 1:52:35
  Speaker 7: The thirties where like you know, family members start talking
• 1:52:40
  Speaker 7: about kids.
• 1:52:40
  Speaker 2: So, just a New Jersey guy, you ask if for
• 1:52:44
  Speaker 2: some help, do I run?
• 1:52:47
  Speaker 1: Do I hump it down, Do I stop pumping kids?
• 1:52:52
  Speaker 2: Pump to me?
• 1:52:52
  Speaker 5: Boys? Love you? Well?
• 1:52:56
  Speaker 2: It was a great voicemail. Yeah, great voicemail. Just a
• 1:52:59
  Speaker 2: new judge the guy do I run? Hey? Just have
• 1:53:05
  Speaker 2: a kid? Does have to be fancy, don't don't have
• 1:53:08
  Speaker 2: to be married, just have a kid?
• 1:53:12
  Speaker 1: That easy, DoD hoc seems like he's asking a few
• 1:53:16
  Speaker 1: different things.
• 1:53:17
  Speaker 2: Yeah he is.
• 1:53:18
  Speaker 3: How do you know when you want to have a kid?
• 1:53:20
  Speaker 3: When is the right time? In twenty twenty six? Can
• 1:53:23
  Speaker 3: you have a kid before you're married?
• 1:53:26
  Speaker 2: Did I hit all of them? I feel like that's
• 1:53:28
  Speaker 2: the big thing you did. That was a good reminiscent
• 1:53:31
  Speaker 2: of it. Yeah. I don't know how locked in he
• 1:53:33
  Speaker 2: is with his girl. Yeah, yeah, yeah. I assume you.
• 1:53:36
  Speaker 1: Gotta be locked in if you're talking kids. Oh yeah,
• 1:53:43
  Speaker 1: if you know you're getting married, like if you know
• 1:53:45
  Speaker 1: that time's coming and you just feel like the wedding
• 1:53:48
  Speaker 1: planning will be longer than the nine ten months and
• 1:53:51
  Speaker 1: you guys are gonna have a kid if that's the
• 1:53:52
  Speaker 1: woman you're married. I don't think if you want to
• 1:53:56
  Speaker 1: have kids out of the gate, then dude, just have kids.
• 1:53:59
  Speaker 1: You're never we're gonna fully feel like you're absolutely ready.
• 1:54:03
  Speaker 2: Yeah, you just never are.
• 1:54:06
  Speaker 1: Yeah. It doesn't matter how much you conquer stuff in career,
• 1:54:10
  Speaker 1: money you have brought in, you're always going to overthink
• 1:54:13
  Speaker 1: it if you're kind of like, you know, paralysis by analysis,
• 1:54:16
  Speaker 1: if you're just thinking about all the time, Man, is
• 1:54:18
  Speaker 1: now the time I gotta regret this? Am I gonna?
• 1:54:20
  Speaker 2: Dude?
• 1:54:20
  Speaker 1: You're never gonna You're never gonna fully know and fully
• 1:54:23
  Speaker 1: be ready. If you know you want kids and you
• 1:54:25
  Speaker 1: know you want kids with this woman, and you know
• 1:54:27
  Speaker 1: you're going to marry this woman and you're asking about
• 1:54:29
  Speaker 1: can we have a kid before we get married? Number One,
• 1:54:32
  Speaker 1: we're not the we're not the judge, jury, an executioner
• 1:54:35
  Speaker 1: on that. Like in my brain, if you know you're
• 1:54:38
  Speaker 1: spending forever with this one and you guys both want
• 1:54:41
  Speaker 1: kids and it seems like marriage and the kid thing
• 1:54:45
  Speaker 1: could be happening around the same time, I don't see
• 1:54:49
  Speaker 1: an issue. Like I brought it up with Charo, but
• 1:54:52
  Speaker 1: she didn't want to be in a situation where it's
• 1:54:54
  Speaker 1: like we get married because we got married before we
• 1:54:57
  Speaker 1: did the wedding at a what is it called not
• 1:55:01
  Speaker 1: a quarter We got legally married before we actually had
• 1:55:04
  Speaker 1: our wedding. Yes, but charl didn't want to have a bump,
• 1:55:06
  Speaker 1: she didn't want to have any of that with her dress,
• 1:55:09
  Speaker 1: or she didn't want to be going through postpartum or
• 1:55:11
  Speaker 1: anything else like while she's getting married or have like
• 1:55:13
  Speaker 1: you know, just have the little one around like while
• 1:55:15
  Speaker 1: we're getting married. Yeah, you wanted to because we brought
• 1:55:18
  Speaker 1: it up and we talked about it because we wanted
• 1:55:19
  Speaker 1: to try to have kids kind of right away. I
• 1:55:22
  Speaker 1: mean we got rue when we were she was a
• 1:55:24
  Speaker 1: honeymoon baby. Yeah, I know, I said a lot right there.
• 1:55:29
  Speaker 1: All I know is this, make sure this is the
• 1:55:33
  Speaker 1: woman you want forever. And if it is the answer
• 1:55:37
  Speaker 1: to have a kid is fully up to you or
• 1:55:39
  Speaker 1: do you want to have the kid before the wedding?
• 1:55:41
  Speaker 1: That seems like a conversation with wifey after. Just know,
• 1:55:45
  Speaker 1: I hope he's not asking is a front upon and
• 1:55:48
  Speaker 1: to have a kid before you get married and he
• 1:55:49
  Speaker 1: doesn't know if he wants to get married, but he
• 1:55:50
  Speaker 1: do not go down that road.
• 1:55:52
  Speaker 3: Oh yeah, yeah, yeah, if that's the whole reason for
• 1:55:55
  Speaker 3: like you know, that's a completely different book, a completely
• 1:56:00
  Speaker 3: different book of which I do not have the answers
• 1:56:04
  Speaker 3: to other than you know, don't just get married because
• 1:56:08
  Speaker 3: you're having a kid. You know, take your time process
• 1:56:12
  Speaker 3: what is going to be best for this kid. I've
• 1:56:15
  Speaker 3: had some friends that have, you know, from a one
• 1:56:18
  Speaker 3: night stand, had a child, didn't marry the baby mama,
• 1:56:24
  Speaker 3: but it worked out great because they both didn't want
• 1:56:26
  Speaker 3: to get married, but they're both raising the child, both
• 1:56:29
  Speaker 3: in the child's life and very active parents.
• 1:56:31
  Speaker 2: And then people that have gotten married, like, there's so many.
• 1:56:34
  Speaker 1: Ways to cut that cake. But don't feel like you
• 1:56:38
  Speaker 1: have to force your hand and getting married.
• 1:56:39
  Speaker 3: I love what you said of make sure that she
• 1:56:43
  Speaker 3: is the woman that you want to you know, raise
• 1:56:47
  Speaker 3: your children with like and be with and be with
• 1:56:52
  Speaker 3: because y'all are going to be teammates for the rest
• 1:56:54
  Speaker 3: of your life.
• 1:56:56
  Speaker 2: I grew up in.
• 1:56:57
  Speaker 1: The Bible Belt, and do you have to you where
• 1:57:01
  Speaker 1: it's frowned upon to even live in a house with
• 1:57:04
  Speaker 1: your significant other before you're married, Not by everyone, but
• 1:57:08
  Speaker 1: like it's round you feel that per I mean, my
• 1:57:10
  Speaker 1: mom cried when I said we were having our wedding
• 1:57:12
  Speaker 1: outdoors because she wanted it to be in the Catholic
• 1:57:14
  Speaker 1: Oh oh.
• 1:57:15
  Speaker 3: Well with the Catholic church especially, dude. Yeah, feel you
• 1:57:19
  Speaker 3: on that. So it's like, yeah, it's twenty twenty six.
• 1:57:23
  Speaker 3: You're not going to catch any judgment here.
• 1:57:26
  Speaker 1: I mean, this is probably the safest podcast to call
• 1:57:28
  Speaker 1: into and we're like, yeah, hell ya, dudeah, like have
• 1:57:31
  Speaker 1: a kid. Yeah, if you're if you're wanting to know,
• 1:57:33
  Speaker 1: like Willie C's thoughts, my thoughts are, just if you
• 1:57:39
  Speaker 1: know this is the woman you're gonna be with forever
• 1:57:40
  Speaker 1: and partner and be a partner with forever with children,
• 1:57:44
  Speaker 1: then that's up to you guys.
• 1:57:45
  Speaker 2: So you guys want to have them early, going to
• 1:57:47
  Speaker 2: have them soon?
• 1:57:48
  Speaker 1: Yeah, You're never gonna know when you're absolutely ready to
• 1:57:52
  Speaker 1: have kids. You're just not if you know you want
• 1:57:54
  Speaker 1: to be a dad, yeah, and you know she's going
• 1:57:56
  Speaker 1: to be an incredible mother and you guys are partners
• 1:57:58
  Speaker 1: for life. It's like, dude, get the pumping, get the pumping, dude.
• 1:58:02
  Speaker 3: Well, and to answer Will's question, or I'll say this
• 1:58:06
  Speaker 3: because Will put it very eloquently to me when I
• 1:58:09
  Speaker 3: asked him the same question of Jill and I had
• 1:58:12
  Speaker 3: been married at that point for a year, and I
• 1:58:18
  Speaker 3: went and had coffee with Will a couple of times.
• 1:58:21
  Speaker 3: He brought Rue along, like for two or three of those,
• 1:58:25
  Speaker 3: and I'm sitting there kind of picking his brain about
• 1:58:27
  Speaker 3: it because you.
• 1:58:28
  Speaker 1: Were on my ass a little bit too with Posts
• 1:58:29
  Speaker 1: and Rue on the story because Jill would see him
• 1:58:31
  Speaker 1: get the baby fever and he's like, buddy, you're not
• 1:58:33
  Speaker 1: doing me any favors right now.
• 1:58:34
  Speaker 2: Yeah, because Rue's adorable.
• 1:58:35
  Speaker 3: It doesn't help that, like she's super cute and Jill's
• 1:58:38
  Speaker 3: imagining her own little cute sweetness.
• 1:58:41
  Speaker 1: Yeah, and you're up in the air on if you
• 1:58:42
  Speaker 1: were ready.
• 1:58:44
  Speaker 2: Big time dude, scared shitless, scared shitless.
• 1:58:48
  Speaker 10: And.
• 1:58:51
  Speaker 2: I don't know. I don't know if anybody's ever ready.
• 1:58:53
  Speaker 3: I don't know if there's any you can certainly prep
• 1:58:57
  Speaker 3: like I'm sure you could read and watch videos all
• 1:58:59
  Speaker 3: about pair shoots before you go skydiving, but it doesn't
• 1:59:02
  Speaker 3: change the fact that, like, you still got to jump
• 1:59:04
  Speaker 3: out of the plane in order to go skydiving. So
• 1:59:09
  Speaker 3: I don't think anybody is truly ready for that moment
• 1:59:13
  Speaker 3: no matter the amount of preparation, once you're in it,
• 1:59:16
  Speaker 3: it's way different. And that's not a knock on prepping
• 1:59:20
  Speaker 3: because I certainly with some of the books that you
• 1:59:24
  Speaker 3: had given to me and doing this podcast before Scarlett
• 1:59:29
  Speaker 3: was even born. The preparation did help. But it's not
• 1:59:32
  Speaker 3: like there's some tests that you have to pass. Does
• 1:59:36
  Speaker 3: that make sense? I feel like I answer that in
• 1:59:38
  Speaker 3: a bad way.
• 1:59:39
  Speaker 5: I know.
• 1:59:39
  Speaker 1: I mean, it's such a load of question and yeah,
• 1:59:41
  Speaker 1: coming off like we're trying to give a whole lot
• 1:59:45
  Speaker 1: of advice and an expert opinion to me. It's like, bro,
• 1:59:49
  Speaker 1: if you know this is the woman you want to
• 1:59:50
  Speaker 1: be with, and that box is checked, you know she's
• 1:59:52
  Speaker 1: going to be an incredible mother. That box is checked.
• 1:59:54
  Speaker 1: And you know that you want to be a dad,
• 1:59:57
  Speaker 1: and you're excited about being a dad one day and
• 1:59:59
  Speaker 1: you're just kind of questioning it if you're ready or not,
• 2:00:00
  Speaker 1: but you check the box wanting to be a dad
• 2:00:03
  Speaker 1: and the greatest scheme of things, nobody's ever ready. But
• 2:00:05
  Speaker 1: when the little one comes, you're gonna know exactly what
• 2:00:07
  Speaker 1: to do because this is something that's been in your
• 2:00:09
  Speaker 1: vision and in your in your life and in your future.
• 2:00:14
  Speaker 1: When that little one comes, you're gonna know. You're just
• 2:00:16
  Speaker 1: gonna know, like you'll know I put I'm put here
• 2:00:20
  Speaker 1: to raise this child, and you'll be with your with
• 2:00:22
  Speaker 1: your life, partner, man.
• 2:00:23
  Speaker 3: With your life partner, you'll be dead meat as soon
• 2:00:26
  Speaker 3: as you meet your your little one. I love what
• 2:00:30
  Speaker 3: Josh Allen said on his interview about his daughter. Uh,
• 2:00:35
  Speaker 3: just talking about how instantly it softened his heart so
• 2:00:39
  Speaker 3: much in that Yeah, he just feels like a different
• 2:00:41
  Speaker 3: person now.
• 2:00:42
  Speaker 2: Yeah, like all all that.
• 2:00:44
  Speaker 3: Stuff, like all the good that comes with it, and
• 2:00:49
  Speaker 3: just take everything on the chin.
• 2:00:50
  Speaker 1: Yeah. And if you don't have those boxes, one of
• 2:00:53
  Speaker 1: them's not checked, Like you don't know that this is
• 2:00:56
  Speaker 1: gonna be the lifer forever and that box isn't checked.
• 2:00:58
  Speaker 1: Take a pause. If you know that it is a lifer,
• 2:01:01
  Speaker 1: but you don't want to be a dad right now
• 2:01:03
  Speaker 1: and you just you're feeling a lot of external pressure,
• 2:01:05
  Speaker 1: fully understanding like where you're coming from. But if you
• 2:01:08
  Speaker 1: don't check the box of like wanting to be a
• 2:01:09
  Speaker 1: dad and you being excited about being a dad, and
• 2:01:12
  Speaker 1: that box is not checked, then take a pause and
• 2:01:15
  Speaker 1: think about it, think about it a little bit longer. Yes,
• 2:01:17
  Speaker 1: But if those are checked and you're just having like, man,
• 2:01:19
  Speaker 1: am I ready?
• 2:01:19
  Speaker 2: Am I this?
• 2:01:20
  Speaker 1: I am excited about being dad? I got my girl,
• 2:01:22
  Speaker 1: I know we want to do life together.
• 2:01:24
  Speaker 3: Buddy, get the pumping will and I are on a
• 2:01:28
  Speaker 3: podcast about renting cars. You're currently asking if you should
• 2:01:31
  Speaker 3: rent a car. We're saying yes, but we're also saying,
• 2:01:34
  Speaker 3: also get the insurance with it.
• 2:01:36
  Speaker 1: Yeah, there you go, There we go. Emails, dude emails.
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  Speaker 1: This comes in you can ride in at six oh one.
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  Speaker 1: The dad's at gmail dot com. This comes in from
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  Speaker 1: rock messic. They're just kids, man is the subject line.
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  Speaker 1: Brock says, what a fella's North Carolina dad of two
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  Speaker 1: girls here, oldest six and the youngest will be two
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  Speaker 1: in October. I look forward to the new episode every
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  Speaker 1: Wednesday as it challenges me to be a better dad
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  Speaker 1: and husband.
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  Speaker 3: Also fills my lifelong travel It also fills my long
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  Speaker 3: travel day with plenty of laughs. A couple weekends ago,
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  Speaker 3: we took the girls to see Mimi, my mom, to
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  Speaker 3: spend the weekend with her, since she lives about two
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  Speaker 3: hours away and doesn't get to see them much before
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  Speaker 3: school starts back up. That Saturday, we were going to
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  Speaker 3: grill out with her, my stepdad, and my grandparents. While
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  Speaker 3: we were eating, a storm came up, and when it stopped,
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  Speaker 3: as per usual, these feral kids wanted to go out
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  Speaker 3: and play in the puddles.
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  Speaker 2: And mud man.
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  Speaker 3: So the wife and my mom took them out and
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  Speaker 3: let them do their thing, while I stayed back and
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  Speaker 3: talked with my stepdad about how I absolutely gave him
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  Speaker 3: the smoke on the course earlier that day. Ten minutes later,
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  Speaker 3: the wife comes in and says, you need to come
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  Speaker 3: out here and look at your kid. I go outside
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  Speaker 3: to find my youngest covered in mud. Right as I
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  Speaker 3: went to take a breath to tell them it's time
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  Speaker 3: to get cleaned up, my grandfather walks by and says,
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  Speaker 3: they sure are having fun, aren't they.
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  Speaker 5: Son.
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  Speaker 3: I waited just a second and responded, yes, sir, they
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  Speaker 3: sure are. He went on to tell me how I
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  Speaker 3: should enjoy these memories while I can while I can,
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  Speaker 3: because memories are all that will be in the blink
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  Speaker 3: of an eye at the moment I realize.
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  Speaker 2: At that moment, I realized they are just kids.
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  Speaker 3: Man, I was about to stop them from having fun
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  Speaker 3: and enjoying being just kids all because I did not
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  Speaker 3: want to deal with any more cleanup than I was
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  Speaker 3: already going to have to do.
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  Speaker 2: I say this to say, they're just kids.
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  Speaker 3: Let them enjoy it while they can, and soak up
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  Speaker 3: the memories while you can. Do the extra bubbles at
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  Speaker 3: bat time and play with all the toys. Let them
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  Speaker 3: crack the eggs for Saturday morning breakfast, make the slime,
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  Speaker 3: let them paint with their fingers, let them hate you
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  Speaker 3: with the water balloons, go along with the that you
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  Speaker 3: already know will cause a mess, and let them enjoy
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  Speaker 3: making mud pies when the summer storms come. Don't deprive
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  Speaker 3: them of the childhood memories of being just a kid,
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  Speaker 3: and don't deprive yourself with the memories that you will
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  Speaker 3: one day look back on. Take the extra cleanup time,
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  Speaker 3: because that is the only real consequence of a lot
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  Speaker 3: of these memories. You guys, are an encouragement. Keep doing
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  Speaker 3: you brock messic. Here is Brock and his two girls.
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  Speaker 3: And look at that one girl in the mud.
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  Speaker 1: Puff in the mud. Dude, that is awesome. That that
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  Speaker 1: right there. That's like the lesson. That's the lesson of
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  Speaker 1: the week.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah, it's better than my lesson of the week. Truly,
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  Speaker 3: it was a really good lesson. And I hope too
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  Speaker 3: with Brock. It's like just to add on a bro
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  Speaker 3: pull out the phone and hit record man. The catch
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  Speaker 3: myself so much as looking at the old photos of
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  Speaker 3: who I bring it up all the time. But I'm
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  Speaker 3: so glad I have them because you know my brain,
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  Speaker 3: I'm forgetful. I got some severe dad brain.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, and uh, I'm glad I have them just because
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  Speaker 1: it pulls me back into said memory. Dude sometimes ruse
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  Speaker 1: memories better than mine, and I'll get to just pull
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  Speaker 1: out my phone and figure out what she's talking about
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  Speaker 1: because she'll say like, oh, you remember the video, and
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  Speaker 1: I'll get to go back to a video. But man,
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  Speaker 1: record it all, take photos and do everything that man
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  Speaker 1: just said. I'm really glad that my wife is the phone.
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  Speaker 1: That's like, aren't the guys like since I do busting
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  Speaker 1: and everything else, Like, I'm just I have my phone
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  Speaker 1: out a lot to record and do a lot of things.
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  Speaker 1: I know that's usually like a mom thing and like
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  Speaker 1: oh this is a nice little dad hack or just
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  Speaker 1: a reminder. But I always find my wife included. But
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  Speaker 1: moms are always complaining about dads not taking photos of
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  Speaker 1: them with like with their kids, like just getting out
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  Speaker 1: your phone and taking more photos. Listen, I'm guilty of
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  Speaker 1: that too. Like I can take videos and photos of
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  Speaker 1: everything else, but I'll forget to pull out the phone
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  Speaker 1: and get some cool shots of my wife with the kids,
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  Speaker 1: because my wife will always show me photos she gets.
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  Speaker 3: Of me and the kids. Yep, I need to do
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  Speaker 3: a better job of that. That is really good, dad hack.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, that's a good just reminder for dads.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, so i'd even hack.
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  Speaker 1: We all know, we all hear the complaints when it
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  Speaker 1: comes up when you're around friends, like, yeah, will he
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  Speaker 1: never takes photos of me and the kids, Jill.
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  Speaker 2: Jill hasn't even brought it up to me.
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  Speaker 3: But I'm just thinking about all the pictures that Jill
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  Speaker 3: is taken with and.
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  Speaker 1: People compliment them, like the photos, Oh, shure them, those
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  Speaker 1: pictures are so cool, Jill. Are you taking those?
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  Speaker 2: Yeah?
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  Speaker 1: I wish I wish su them would take pictures of
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  Speaker 1: me doing that.
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  Speaker 2: I mean truly, Yeah, I really need to step my
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  Speaker 2: game up. We all do.
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  Speaker 1: My friend email here from Scott Brown, and we'll get
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  Speaker 1: out of here and we'll make sure we're taking our
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  Speaker 1: trash hot. Hey, fellas, this is Scott from Memphis writing
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  Speaker 1: this email. Currently in the trenches, rocking our two day
• 2:06:45
  Speaker 1: old baby in the middle of the night while mom
• 2:06:47
  Speaker 1: gets some rest. I've been listening to the podcast since
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  Speaker 1: day one, and I thought you guys might appreciate this.
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  Speaker 1: I'm a fellow girl dad. I had three girls already,
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  Speaker 1: and back in November we found out my wife was pregnant.
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  Speaker 1: We waited until birth to find out the gender. Well,
• 2:07:01
  Speaker 1: Monday night, on August third, my wife gave birth to
• 2:07:04
  Speaker 1: our little bundle of joy. And you guys aren't gonna
• 2:07:06
  Speaker 1: believe it, girl number four. Seriously, how do you even
• 2:07:12
  Speaker 1: make boys? I don't get it. Is there a trick,
• 2:07:15
  Speaker 1: a certain position, a secret handshake. I feel like there's
• 2:07:18
  Speaker 1: something nobody ever told me. I don't know why I'm
• 2:07:22
  Speaker 1: asking you, guys, because clearly neither of you know. When
• 2:07:26
  Speaker 1: they held her up for the first time, I honestly
• 2:07:28
  Speaker 1: couldn't do anything but laugh. I was just sitting there thinking,
• 2:07:31
  Speaker 1: another girl. You got to be kidding me. People are
• 2:07:35
  Speaker 1: still asking me, don't you want to try for a boy?
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  Speaker 2: I did four times.
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  Speaker 1: I guess I gotta get the pads on the third
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  Speaker 1: one because she's the little Minis of the family and
• 2:07:45
  Speaker 1: built for the a gap. But all jokes aside, new
• 2:07:47
  Speaker 1: baby girl is absolutely perfect and I couldn't be happier
• 2:07:50
  Speaker 1: being a girl dad has honestly been one of the
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  Speaker 1: greatest blessings of my life. I wouldn't trade it for anything.
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  Speaker 1: Any dad who doesn't have a daughter is really missing out.
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  Speaker 1: And I know you guys know exactly what I'm talking about.
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  Speaker 1: I just want to let you know that you're not
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  Speaker 1: the only guys out there who apparently don't have to
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  Speaker 1: don't know how to make boys, and I'm right there
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  Speaker 1: with you. PS My wife chose the name Rooney may Oh.
• 2:08:11
  Speaker 1: I like that name, and we will call her Rue
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  Speaker 1: for sure. She's never listened to a second of the podcast,
• 2:08:18
  Speaker 1: so I thought this was pretty ironic. Love the podcast. Boys,
• 2:08:21
  Speaker 1: keep doing what you're doing, and thanks for everything. Shout
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  Speaker 1: out Scott and I don't know, buddy, we're trying. I
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  Speaker 1: love to get I love to get a little I
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  Speaker 1: love to get a little lad in the family.
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  Speaker 2: But I do think about it.
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  Speaker 1: I feel like it's I would just look at the
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  Speaker 1: boy and see the boy so much differently that I
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  Speaker 1: do my girls. Not that it's like less or more superior, inferior.
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  Speaker 2: But it's just a completely different saying, different world.
• 2:08:44
  Speaker 1: It's just like having little girls and they know that
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  Speaker 1: they just have your fucking heart no matter what is
• 2:08:51
  Speaker 1: the best thing, and there's just no doubt in your mind.
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  Speaker 1: There's no like questioning them the way I feel like
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  Speaker 1: I would my son or just no, I just know boys. Yeah,
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  Speaker 1: I know myself. I know guys.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, you know how you.
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  Speaker 1: Want to raise them. You're just going to naturally be
• 2:09:05
  Speaker 1: a little You're gonna just naturally be different with the boys.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah.
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  Speaker 1: I feel like from my perspective being being one of
• 2:09:12
  Speaker 1: three boys, having a lot of masculine energy around the house,
• 2:09:15
  Speaker 1: being around sports and competition all the time. Like having
• 2:09:17
  Speaker 1: the two girls. Man, fuck, it's awesome.
• 2:09:23
  Speaker 3: Everything that I'm about to say is not held in
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  Speaker 3: absolute truth, but I will say this. I've heard that
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  Speaker 3: if you drink lollipop, if you pop in.
• 2:09:35
  Speaker 2: A little lucy maybe a little breaker, you.
• 2:09:38
  Speaker 3: Go to bwtv dot com, go dabble around there. These
• 2:09:43
  Speaker 3: are things that will help with the x Y Crimson.
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  Speaker 2: I've heard rumor.
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  Speaker 1: We are at a place now platform wise where we
• 2:09:56
  Speaker 1: can start to do trials. Oh so any ST six
• 2:10:03
  Speaker 1: are out there?
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  Speaker 2: Yeah?
• 2:10:04
  Speaker 1: Or PT six are going for kiddo number two? Yeah,
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  Speaker 1: we love to open up the study on if you
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  Speaker 1: slug an olipop before, wear a Papa Team's six shirt
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  Speaker 1: during with a pouch of Lucy in your lip. We
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  Speaker 1: would just love to know what the data would say.
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  Speaker 2: There's some sick go out there that's gonna do it. Yes, yes,
• 2:10:33
  Speaker 2: guy's gonna do Whalon has a boy, of course he does.
• 2:10:40
  Speaker 1: Of course, Whitlan has a boy. He probably already done it.
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  Speaker 2: Man, I've been doing that ship man, you got two boys.
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  Speaker 1: We just we'd love to see the data.
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  Speaker 2: I might have to try that. Hey, good seed, good sold.
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  Speaker 2: Take off the trash, tick out the trash.
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  Speaker 1: We will see you next