Latest / Motivational Podcast / BELIEVE IN YOUR HARD WORK – Master the Power of Consistency and Effort
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- 0:00Speaker 1: I give you the map, you are willing to do that?
- 0:03Speaker 2: It's the main point, because everyone wants to be Christiano.
- 0:07Speaker 2: But I give you the map, you think you will
- 0:11Speaker 2: do that.
- 0:12Speaker 1: It's difficult. It's a discipline.
- 0:14Speaker 2: The discipline is the most difficult thing, not only in
- 0:17Speaker 2: sports but in life.
- 0:18Speaker 3: Here's here's the truth, this is the reality. Okay, nobody's
- 0:22Speaker 3: going to believe in you until you've already done. Nobody's
- 0:26Speaker 3: going to come and celebrate with you until you've already
- 0:28Speaker 3: done it. All right, The work is going to come
- 0:31Speaker 3: before the belief, which means you're going to have to
- 0:33Speaker 3: work for a long time by yourself, with no applause,
- 0:38Speaker 3: with no awards, with nobody telling you good job. And
- 0:42Speaker 3: then once you start to build something and people start
- 0:44Speaker 3: to see the momentum and they start to see the result,
- 0:46Speaker 3: and you start doing some things, then you're going to
- 0:49Speaker 3: get a little belief.
- 0:51Speaker 4: What is successful and what is failure?
- 0:53Speaker 5: The differential are so small.
- 0:56Speaker 1: We're talking about sex, We're talking.
- 0:58Speaker 6: About it, you know, we're talking about the finest exelon
- 1:03Speaker 6: of measurement that.
- 1:04Speaker 5: Will make or break someone's life.
- 1:07Speaker 7: To be successful at that moment, and once at that moment.
- 1:10Speaker 8: Successful that gives a birth of a lifestyle that's.
- 1:13Speaker 1: Unbeatable, second to none.
- 1:15Speaker 8: But in order had for success, you must ensure.
- 1:19Speaker 4: Yourself that you're giving all you can today because the
- 1:23Speaker 4: future we don't know who an we're training for that.
- 1:27Speaker 5: And when I hear people say.
- 1:28Speaker 6: Terms like good enough, polish to an n degree because
- 1:37Speaker 6: they are saying something that is justified at the moment,
- 1:41Speaker 6: but not quantitative until a future endeavor of life. So
- 1:44Speaker 6: therefore they are passing judgment were now for a future
- 1:48Speaker 6: event that they knew nothing about.
- 1:50Speaker 8: They're us good enough. If you think about it, good
- 1:53Speaker 8: as a positive. Enough's a negative that enots more aren't there.
- 1:57Speaker 8: It's hypocritical in his own sense. There is nothing ever
- 2:00Speaker 8: could enough.
- 2:01Speaker 1: They're looking. That's enough is at the end of the day,
- 2:03Speaker 1: in our final hour, whatever.
- 2:06Speaker 8: Goalie for it, and your hand is read victoriously, that's
- 2:09Speaker 8: when you know it's enough.
- 2:13Speaker 5: We come too farm.
- 2:14Speaker 1: We've been through too much, we've seen too much. We've
- 2:16Speaker 1: had too many victories. We have seen defeat, We've looked
- 2:20Speaker 1: defeat in the face.
- 2:21Speaker 5: And we've overcome it.
- 2:22Speaker 9: We come to bomb to be negative, though, we come
- 2:24Speaker 9: to bomb to start overthinking.
- 2:26Speaker 1: That and your problem is told give it up. Tweeds.
- 2:29Speaker 5: Mentally, you must be there before you fish.
- 2:31Speaker 1: Lead a search.
- 2:32Speaker 10: It's a mindset that dream and success I'm gonna meet,
- 2:35Speaker 10: I'm gonna create. All I have to do is sweat
- 2:38Speaker 10: for it, work for it, study for it, drive for it,
- 2:40Speaker 10: believe in it, nuarantee notes for an answer, and never
- 2:44Speaker 10: give up.
- 2:45Speaker 1: Once we hit that wall, we don't quit. We don't
- 2:47Speaker 1: give up.
- 2:48Speaker 9: We pushed a switch called will and we start using
- 2:51Speaker 9: our will power. Yes we retire, Yes we're home greef. Yes,
- 2:55Speaker 9: the mind is saying give up. Yes, it's saying quit. Well,
- 2:58Speaker 9: we cannot quit because we.
- 3:00Speaker 1: Realize we have not reached the goal yet. This is
- 3:02Speaker 1: not what I dreamed about. This is not what I
- 3:05Speaker 1: said I was gonna do. This is not what it
- 3:07Speaker 1: looks like.
- 3:07Speaker 3: When you get to that point of frustration of anger,
- 3:11Speaker 3: that is tremendous.
- 3:12Speaker 1: Fuel for you to go out and do the sh
- 3:15Speaker 1: that you want to do.
- 3:16Speaker 3: Your goal should be to become so successful and whatever
- 3:21Speaker 3: it is that you're trying to do that All the
- 3:23Speaker 3: people who said that for you, those motherfuckers should look
- 3:26Speaker 3: at the floor.
- 3:27Speaker 7: When the winds of life don't hit your sell, you
- 3:29Speaker 7: grab the oars of life, and they start cushing your body,
- 3:32Speaker 7: your goat, your vessel and to the horbor of a
- 3:35Speaker 7: known point that you want.
- 3:36Speaker 5: To be those who gets you there, you gotta get
- 3:39Speaker 5: yourself there us.
- 3:40Speaker 11: When you leave the crowd, you start to dream and
- 3:42Speaker 11: express yours to quorld.
- 3:44Speaker 5: You will be different, and people don't like it if
- 3:47Speaker 5: you're different.
- 3:47Speaker 1: Every hero you.
- 3:48Speaker 5: Guys have was called an idiot, crazy, a loser. They
- 3:52Speaker 5: will try to tear you down and they will try
- 3:55Speaker 5: to mock you. One person with the belief uber right.
- 3:58Speaker 5: Thousands of people in the people that are hungry are
- 4:02Speaker 5: willing to do the things today others won't do.
- 4:04Speaker 1: They want to have the thing smote. Others won't have the.
- 4:08Speaker 5: Spirit of resiliency, the spirit of grit. It's in your DNA,
- 4:13Speaker 5: it's in your bloods.
- 4:15Speaker 1: We did not come this far to just break down
- 4:18Speaker 1: and lose.
- 4:18Speaker 5: Now I'm a winner, I'm going to win. I truly
- 4:24Speaker 5: believe we are all equal as human beings.
- 4:26Speaker 12: If we are obsessed with something, and we truly pursue
- 4:29Speaker 12: our passion with everything we have, regardless of any anything else.
- 4:34Speaker 12: If you are obsessed, work hard, put in the time,
- 4:37Speaker 12: you will succeed and That is a philosophy that I carry,
- 4:40Speaker 12: my coaches carry on and to see Lebron James, norminal
- 4:44Speaker 12: phenomenal athlete share that belief is inspiring right back to
- 4:49Speaker 12: me and it shows that we're thinking correct. You know
- 4:52Speaker 12: this is this is hard work, This is an obsession.
- 4:55Speaker 12: Nothing can be hard work.
- 4:57Speaker 4: They want to be the best. Yeah, I read someone
- 4:59Speaker 4: you said, do you want to be the best defender,
- 5:01Speaker 4: best shooter?
- 5:02Speaker 1: Best?
- 5:02Speaker 9: How do you avoid complacency as an individual when everywhere
- 5:07Speaker 9: you turn you're the man, You're the number one sophomore
- 5:10Speaker 9: in the nation.
- 5:11Speaker 5: What pushes you to continue to get done?
- 5:13Speaker 9: Every day? You gotta go out there and work because
- 5:15Speaker 9: it's someone out there working too, and if you stop,
- 5:17Speaker 9: I think they can pass you up.
- 5:19Speaker 13: So every day my coaches pushed me in I push myself,
- 5:22Speaker 13: and my teammates pushed me.
- 5:24Speaker 1: My mother brought me up the y live guys.
- 5:28Speaker 5: God, I know every mother ain't gonna do number with you.
- 5:32Speaker 9: Is resiliency, the ability to bounce back in the face
- 5:36Speaker 9: of every challenge, every opposition, every failure, every setback.
- 5:42Speaker 1: And the key is never ever ever give up.
- 5:45Speaker 5: I need effort from me. I need you to match
- 5:47Speaker 5: whatever effort the enemy is putting up whoever your.
- 5:50Speaker 9: Enemy is, match the dog on efforts. When you get
- 5:52Speaker 9: out there, I need to kill the be chilled. When
- 5:54Speaker 9: you get out there, we ain't playing no more. We
- 5:56Speaker 9: ain't taking no prisoners no more. When you get out there,
- 6:00Speaker 9: whatever you can get, go get it, because they don't
- 6:02Speaker 9: get it before you get it, and they ain't gonna
- 6:03Speaker 9: give it to you. So you go out there and
- 6:05Speaker 9: give a source. Ain't gonn why you want to give
- 6:07Speaker 9: me in your personal freedom. If you're going to get
- 6:09Speaker 9: your personal freedom, they ain't giving it away. You gotta
- 6:13Speaker 9: go get it. You gotta go earn it.
- 6:15Speaker 4: And we don't feel the need to get something done.
- 6:18Speaker 4: We could become incredibly lazy because there's no necessity. So
- 6:23Speaker 4: you have to create necessity in your life. You have
- 6:26Speaker 4: to create the need to get things done. You have
- 6:28Speaker 4: to give yourself deadlines. You have to remind yourself that
- 6:32Speaker 4: tomorrow everything you go cuckooon COVID could come back. You
- 6:36Speaker 4: could be fired, you could die, you could add an illness.
- 6:39Speaker 4: Give yourselves a sense of urgency that I need to
- 6:42Speaker 4: get things done quickly.
- 6:45Speaker 5: What you're fighting for, what's your legacy?
- 6:47Speaker 1: What you're gonna do you send you a chap, But
- 6:50Speaker 1: do you practice like a chap? You send you a chap,
- 6:52Speaker 1: and you fight like a chap. You send you a chap,
- 6:55Speaker 1: do you add a mentality of a chap. I'm so
- 6:57Speaker 1: strong mentally that I get tired. That's when I get
- 7:01Speaker 1: that dog.
- 7:02Speaker 5: That's when I'm ready to go. You gotta start digging.
- 7:04Speaker 5: I'm the greediest motherfucker in the world.
- 7:06Speaker 1: Not only do I climb that dog on.
- 7:09Speaker 5: Mountain, I enjoy climbing the mountain.
- 7:11Speaker 1: I get a kick out the mouth.
- 7:13Speaker 5: I get a kick out the weights.
- 7:14Speaker 1: I get a kick out of fatigue. I get a
- 7:16Speaker 1: kick out of the grind.
- 7:17Speaker 5: I get a kick out of it.
- 7:19Speaker 9: When you find the way out of no way, when
- 7:21Speaker 9: you find breath that you don't have, when you find
- 7:24Speaker 9: energy that did not exist, that's when you find a
- 7:27Speaker 9: way that you're always looking for a way to get over,
- 7:30Speaker 9: always looking for a wait that you can break.
- 7:32Speaker 14: Through, always looking for a way that you can win,
- 7:34Speaker 14: always looking.
- 7:35Speaker 1: For a way that you can stract a killing blow.
- 7:37Speaker 7: If you guys mentally believe you can do it, your
- 7:40Speaker 7: body will find a way that can make it happen
- 7:42Speaker 7: for you.
- 7:43Speaker 9: Being small is I will not stop when others stop.
- 7:45Speaker 9: I will not quit when it gets hard. I will
- 7:48Speaker 9: not complain, I will not worry. I will find the
- 7:51Speaker 9: way when there is no way. I will make a
- 7:54Speaker 9: door when there is no door. I will create finaness
- 7:57Speaker 9: when there is no finance. I will find an opportun
- 8:00Speaker 9: when it doesn't exist.
- 8:01Speaker 1: But I will not be defended.
- 8:03Speaker 7: You've got to build a level of excellence about yourself
- 8:06Speaker 7: as stand as a test of time.
- 8:07Speaker 5: No matter what happens in front of you, you are
- 8:09Speaker 5: are character true. I know who you are because you're
- 8:12Speaker 5: the same person in adversity and victory. In this feature,
- 8:15Speaker 5: you're the same.
- 8:15Speaker 9: Motherst We're all faced with a time of challenging controversy.
- 8:19Speaker 5: Adversity causes some cast and break and other cast.
- 8:22Speaker 1: And break records.
- 8:23Speaker 15: There's times where if you're gonna have to do it alone,
- 8:27Speaker 15: there's not gonna be any team support, There's not gonna
- 8:29Speaker 15: be any family support, there's not gonna be friends support.
- 8:31Speaker 15: There's gonna be times where you've got to go and
- 8:33Speaker 15: do it yourself and you got to do it alone.
- 8:35Speaker 15: And those are the times that make a difference.
- 8:38Speaker 16: Like I see a lot of players take vacations with
- 8:41Speaker 16: other players that are close friends and we'll just take
- 8:44Speaker 16: vacations just to take vacations or just hang.
- 8:46Speaker 1: Out just to hang out. Like I'm not I never
- 8:49Speaker 1: did that one.
- 8:51Speaker 5: Why didn't you do that well?
- 8:53Speaker 17: Because when I retire, I didn't want to have to
- 8:55Speaker 17: say I wish I would have done more.
- 8:59Speaker 5: If all you guys are going left, it's that one
- 9:02Speaker 5: person who say, no, what.
- 9:03Speaker 13: Left's not the right way, I'm gonna go right, who
- 9:06Speaker 13: didn't follow the crowd, that person who's not afraid of doing.
- 9:09Speaker 5: What they believe is right in their heart and not following.
- 9:13Speaker 18: Someone else because someone else said let's go this way
- 9:15Speaker 18: and they agree with everybody.
- 9:17Speaker 5: I don't like yes men or yes women. If you're right,
- 9:19Speaker 5: you're right, we're gonna follow you. Why like people who
- 9:22Speaker 5: stand for something. They believe in something, and this is
- 9:25Speaker 5: the way I'm gonna go, whether you like me or not.
- 9:27Speaker 9: And that's just about just when you have nothing loud,
- 9:30Speaker 9: it's when you depleted all your money with all your energy.
- 9:33Speaker 9: Goal when you have nothing loud, that's when it showtimes.
- 9:37Speaker 9: Because sometimes you'll get hurt. You gotta be able to
- 9:40Speaker 9: bounce back.
- 9:41Speaker 5: You gotta be resilient. You might pass the test.
- 9:43Speaker 9: On the fourth stop, not the first, not the second,
- 9:46Speaker 9: not the third, And you gotta have the ability to
- 9:48Speaker 9: get backed up and act like you ain't never.
- 9:51Speaker 5: Failed in the first place.
- 9:52Speaker 1: You not average?
- 9:53Speaker 5: While you being average, you not average?
- 9:56Speaker 1: Why you being good? When you're not good? You great?
- 9:59Speaker 5: You're phenomenal.
- 10:00Speaker 1: No way you're gonna step up to the plight.
- 10:02Speaker 9: It is the days you don't feel like doing it,
- 10:04Speaker 9: but you look at your white you look at your kid,
- 10:07Speaker 9: and you realize, I gotta get up and make it happen.
- 10:09Speaker 5: He can, though I don't want to get up to
- 10:10Speaker 5: make an app set the standard.
- 10:12Speaker 9: They're raised the stander, then uphold the standard every single day.
- 10:19Speaker 1: If you're not wanting to do it.
- 10:20Speaker 9: Every single day, you're not gonna be the man that's
- 10:21Speaker 9: doing it every single day.
- 10:22Speaker 5: Some of you like that's too much. Well, you're not
- 10:24Speaker 5: gonna be a champion. You're going up against other champions.
- 10:26Speaker 5: You think you're gonna get.
- 10:27Speaker 9: Fifty percent, You'll think you're gonna get seventy percent, and
- 10:30Speaker 9: you won't. With these people who've given sweats, who's given blood,
- 10:34Speaker 9: who's given tears.
- 10:35Speaker 1: You want what they paying for and it ain't free.
- 10:38Speaker 1: I'm not the best they better than me, but they
- 10:41Speaker 1: have not I work.
- 10:42Speaker 11: When you tell yourself you're gonna make it happen. You're
- 10:45Speaker 11: gonna start that business, make more money, get that promotion,
- 10:50Speaker 11: loose that weight, getting better shape, And every single time,
- 10:54Speaker 11: there's these challenges and issues that come up against you
- 10:57Speaker 11: and pull you off course.
- 11:00Speaker 1: Stuff starts not going your way.
- 11:02Speaker 11: You run into problems, so you quit, you give up,
- 11:05Speaker 11: you throw in the town, you say, ah, who cares,
- 11:08Speaker 11: it's not worth it. But you have to remember in
- 11:11Speaker 11: that moment that is a choice you are making. And
- 11:15Speaker 11: if you're going to make it to the next level
- 11:17Speaker 11: of your life, you've got to decide to be unstoppable.
- 11:22Speaker 5: You have to have mental toughness.
- 11:25Speaker 11: You've got to have a level of grit that says
- 11:29Speaker 11: that you will not be denied.
- 11:32Speaker 19: I'm already working all of the hours that I'm awake,
- 11:36Speaker 19: and I've already given up Saturdays, so the only thing
- 11:40Speaker 19: that i have left is like Sundays and evenings, and
- 11:45Speaker 19: so I am no longer going to be watching any
- 11:49Speaker 19: football and I'm no longer going to have Netflix at all.
- 11:54Speaker 20: If you want to kill a big dream, tell it
- 11:56Speaker 20: to a small minded person. I told everybod by they
- 12:00Speaker 20: at ten years old, I was gonna be on TV.
- 12:03Speaker 20: I had a little problem when I said that. I
- 12:07Speaker 20: had a severe stuttering problem.
- 12:10Speaker 5: I could not talk outside of my house.
- 12:13Speaker 20: So when I wrote on that paper, the assignment was
- 12:15Speaker 20: write on a piece of paper what you wanna be
- 12:17Speaker 20: when you grow up?
- 12:17Speaker 5: I'm ten, I wrote, I wanna.
- 12:18Speaker 1: Be on TV.
- 12:20Speaker 20: That was at faith, the beliefing things that you cannot see.
- 12:24Speaker 20: I ain't see no way I could be on TV,
- 12:26Speaker 20: but I wrote it down.
- 12:27Speaker 1: I didn't know no better. I just I'm ten.
- 12:29Speaker 3: I wrote it down.
- 12:31Speaker 20: And she just said, why would you write something like
- 12:33Speaker 20: this on your paper?
- 12:34Speaker 5: And I'm standing out, I'm trying.
- 12:36Speaker 20: To get that eye. She said, who in this school
- 12:38Speaker 20: ever been on TV? Who in your family ever been
- 12:42Speaker 20: on TV? Who in this neighborhood ever been on TV?
- 12:48Speaker 20: She said, look at you standing there. You can't even talk.
- 12:52Speaker 20: How they gonna put somebody like.
- 12:53Speaker 1: You on TV?
- 12:55Speaker 20: So every Christmas I send her flat screen TV.
- 12:58Speaker 1: I want her to see what God, don't you know?
- 13:02Speaker 3: I know lots of people who never became successful that
- 13:05Speaker 3: worked really hard.
- 13:06Speaker 21: Do you.
- 13:08Speaker 10: Do you?
- 13:09Speaker 1: Are you really?
- 13:10Speaker 3: Because I don't think you do. I don't think you
- 13:12Speaker 3: actually know anybody like that. I don't think you know
- 13:15Speaker 3: anybody like that. I think people are where oft.
- 13:18Speaker 19: I was too different from the friends that I had,
- 13:20Speaker 19: but not successful enough to be friends with the people
- 13:22Speaker 19: that I wanted to be friends with.
- 13:23Speaker 13: Because an adaptation process that goes into mental heart and the.
- 13:27Speaker 5: Body has to know not fit around with the.
- 13:30Speaker 17: Adaptation process chosen to suffering those.
- 13:33Speaker 5: Atations don't want to do.
- 13:34Speaker 22: And the type of commitment that I'm speaking of is
- 13:36Speaker 22: the commitment that says I am going to stay true
- 13:39Speaker 22: to what I said I would do.
- 13:41Speaker 5: Long got to the mood that I've set it in
- 13:43Speaker 5: has less because there's some things you just can't get
- 13:46Speaker 5: without perseverance.
- 13:48Speaker 1: Those are the times that count.
- 13:49Speaker 15: Those are the times where you have to dig deep
- 13:52Speaker 15: yourself to get the job done.
- 13:55Speaker 3: And the difference between winners and losers is how we
- 13:57Speaker 3: adjust these hard times. Winners they understand that the path
- 14:01Speaker 3: they've chosen is going to have resistance. They look at
- 14:05Speaker 3: it and ask, well, yeah, I'm getting contested today, motherfucker,
- 14:08Speaker 3: and you.
- 14:08Speaker 1: Know what, I'm gonna pass that test.
- 14:10Speaker 3: And whenever they have the hard thing that happens and
- 14:13Speaker 3: then they overcome it, they gain more confidence because they
- 14:16Speaker 3: overcame something that the previous version of themselves or the
- 14:20Speaker 3: rest of everybody else would.
- 14:21Speaker 23: Have just quit when it happened to them. Things are
- 14:24Speaker 23: gonna get harder, things are gonna get tougher. That's the
- 14:26Speaker 23: way life works. What you need to do is you
- 14:30Speaker 23: need to get harder and you need to get tougher.
- 14:32Speaker 1: Hey, you will have to fight and fight and fight
- 14:37Speaker 1: and fight, and.
- 14:38Speaker 9: Most of you won't be successful, not because you can't
- 14:40Speaker 9: do it, but you can't outlast.
- 14:42Speaker 1: You'll owe you long enough to get to you'll knew you.
- 14:45Speaker 9: Nobody gave me this ironed it. Life wasn't a crystal
- 14:49Speaker 9: stand for me. Didn't nobody give me a network. I
- 14:52Speaker 9: earned a network. Everybody say, hey, how did you crack
- 14:54Speaker 9: the toe? I grinded my way through the cold.
- 14:57Speaker 1: That's how I cracked it.
- 14:58Speaker 9: I got up every day at three Monday, I grind Tuesday.
- 15:01Speaker 1: I grind.
- 15:01Speaker 9: I don't care what the economy is doing. I don't
- 15:04Speaker 9: care who the president is. I don't care who the
- 15:06Speaker 9: governor is. I don't care who the mayor is. I
- 15:08Speaker 9: ain't never quit, I ain't never give up. I ain't
- 15:10Speaker 9: never give in.
- 15:11Speaker 1: I just keep grind it.
- 15:12Speaker 9: There's certain things when your privilege that man one can
- 15:14Speaker 9: buy you.
- 15:15Speaker 5: But you ca'me by great and you can't rid grind
- 15:18Speaker 5: and you can't.
- 15:19Speaker 24: Ride resilience, and you can't why art and you can't
- 15:21Speaker 24: buy that doll.
- 15:23Speaker 9: Everybody want to be a beast? Just time to get
- 15:25Speaker 9: up at three o'clock in the morning. Everybody want to
- 15:27Speaker 9: be number one? Just time to do what number one do.
- 15:29Speaker 9: I'm about that life. I get up every morning at
- 15:31Speaker 9: three o'clock when I want to get up, when I
- 15:33Speaker 9: don't when I feel like it, and I don't feel
- 15:35Speaker 9: like why because I'm processed driven, I'm not feeling driven.
- 15:39Speaker 5: Champions are not feeling driven.
- 15:41Speaker 1: Champions don't get up when they want to. There is
- 15:43Speaker 1: a champion ship cordinal and you can't change that. You
- 15:46Speaker 1: gotta be intentional on deliver it.
- 15:47Speaker 9: You gotta decide that you're gonna do something, and you
- 15:49Speaker 9: gotta do it every Monday, every Tuday, every Wednesday, every Thursday.
- 15:52Speaker 9: Of consistency is having the goal, and when you wake
- 15:56Speaker 9: up that day and you don't feel like it, you
- 15:58Speaker 9: still do what you told yourself you he.
- 15:59Speaker 1: Was going to do it.
- 16:01Speaker 25: As you expand they shrink into irrelevance. As you get louder,
- 16:05Speaker 25: no one can hear them. You don't beat them. You
- 16:07Speaker 25: cast a shadow so big no one can see them.
- 16:10Speaker 25: To begin with, when people copy, they copy the wrong
- 16:13Speaker 25: stuff because they don't know why it works to begin with.
- 16:16Speaker 25: And when it breaks, they don't know how to fix
- 16:18Speaker 25: it because they didn't build it.
- 16:20Speaker 5: So don't sweat it.
- 16:21Speaker 25: Copycats will always be behind greater.
- 16:24Speaker 26: The sacrifice, greater than the war. This is so true.
- 16:27Speaker 26: And when you when you do these things, you'll start
- 16:30Speaker 26: seeing that, Okay, well I used to do this.
- 16:35Speaker 27: And when you go out and you don't do it anymore,
- 16:38Speaker 27: it's very very clear that you've made the right decision
- 16:41Speaker 27: because your friends will still be doing that, and you'll
- 16:44Speaker 27: find yourself that you don't fit in with the crowd anymore.
- 16:48Speaker 5: You just don't fit in to try and try. And
- 16:50Speaker 5: at that time you set of time to go sleep,
- 16:52Speaker 5: go to the seat of time. Don't don't tell this OVERYO.
- 16:56Speaker 5: You need to do something, and then don't do it.
- 16:58Speaker 5: That's what I was talking about, area, I said. I
- 17:00Speaker 5: knew in my head I was saying.
- 17:02Speaker 4: Get up at this time.
- 17:04Speaker 24: I got up.
- 17:04Speaker 5: I didn't get up at that time trying at this time.
- 17:06Speaker 5: I didn't train at the time. Don't eat this I
- 17:10Speaker 5: had that, don't drink that, I drank it, And these
- 17:13Speaker 5: all just infiltrated my mental strength.
- 17:16Speaker 1: Just may looking at the feet exactly face.
- 17:19Speaker 12: Instead of winds, and I just culminates into oh, I
- 17:22Speaker 12: just don't want to be here.
- 17:23Speaker 5: So I'm just figling on myself though, like I'm never
- 17:26Speaker 5: freging himself up or blowing. And you're in the gym
- 17:29Speaker 5: right now to ensure that that event goes your way.
- 17:34Speaker 5: It will never go your way.
- 17:35Speaker 6: Guys, if you're saying today is good enough, if you
- 17:39Speaker 6: never say good enough.
- 17:42Speaker 5: Today, I promise you tomorrow will always be enough. We're
- 17:47Speaker 5: never good enough.
- 17:48Speaker 28: Isn't enough?
- 17:49Speaker 1: You can bet tomorrow you have enough.
- 17:53Speaker 5: Yeah, I say it all the time.
- 17:54Speaker 1: You have to suffer.
- 17:57Speaker 29: You have to make that a tattoo on your fucking brain.
- 18:01Speaker 29: So when that hard time comes again, you don't forget it.
- 18:06Speaker 29: You may forget it for a second, but you can
- 18:08Speaker 29: go back in the cookie jar.
- 18:09Speaker 5: Call it it's a You know, there comes a day, man,
- 18:12Speaker 5: Everyone's gonna have this day. There comes a day where
- 18:15Speaker 5: being average, being mediocre, it's just sickening to you it's
- 18:21Speaker 5: just sickening.
- 18:21Speaker 7: It makes you want to throw up because you've seen
- 18:24Speaker 7: people with far less health than you as you're growing
- 18:27Speaker 7: up with them.
- 18:27Speaker 5: They were childhood buddies, whatever else.
- 18:30Speaker 1: They didn't have what you had.
- 18:32Speaker 5: Yet now they're going to become something that you hadn't.
- 18:35Speaker 4: There comes that day.
- 18:36Speaker 7: It's either when you're young, you know, and it strikes
- 18:39Speaker 7: you on the baseball field because you're sick of stecton.
- 18:40Speaker 5: Now, or it's when you get fired from your fifth job.
- 18:44Speaker 5: You know, when you're white and kids.
- 18:45Speaker 1: Throw on your ass because they don't have some court anyone.
- 18:47Speaker 7: There comes a frecking day where push comes a shelf.
- 18:51Speaker 7: We're being mediocre, being like average, and just burns.
- 18:55Speaker 5: It sucks so much, it's overcoming.
- 18:57Speaker 1: It is in your blood. See you see your blood.
- 19:01Speaker 5: I need the effort from you.
- 19:02Speaker 9: I need you to max whatever effort the enemy is
- 19:05Speaker 9: putting up, whoever your enemy is mess the dog goal efforts.
- 19:08Speaker 9: This is what you do.
- 19:10Speaker 1: You are built for this.
- 19:12Speaker 9: Unless you're okay with not making six figures or seven figures,
- 19:16Speaker 9: unless you're okay with losing, then keep giving the effort
- 19:19Speaker 9: you put in.
- 19:20Speaker 30: Work to be successful is never convenience for half effort
- 19:25Speaker 30: unless you're okay with half results. The things that you
- 19:28Speaker 30: have to go through, it's never convenient.
- 19:31Speaker 9: And the reason why some of you can give me
- 19:32Speaker 9: one twenty on Monday because everything look good on Monday
- 19:36Speaker 9: while you're excited.
- 19:37Speaker 1: I don't be a millionaire. I don't change the world.
- 19:40Speaker 1: I'm gonna do this for this person.
- 19:41Speaker 9: I'm gonna buy this for my mom, and my children
- 19:44Speaker 9: are gonna put them through school. And you got all
- 19:45Speaker 9: these like dreams and ain't get up in the morning
- 19:48Speaker 9: and light punch you on your face.
- 19:51Speaker 15: As long as it's a perfect day, you operate the excellence.
- 19:56Speaker 5: But as soon as the circumstances changed, you quit.
- 19:58Speaker 1: You give up.
- 19:59Speaker 31: Because we all gonna hit that wall, We're all gonna
- 20:03Speaker 31: hit opposition, We're all gonna hit adversity. But I think
- 20:06Speaker 31: we all know at the core it's never about what
- 20:08Speaker 31: happens to you. It's about how you respond to it.
- 20:11Speaker 5: You can control that.
- 20:13Speaker 9: In the midst of escalating levels of anxiety form hoping
- 20:16Speaker 9: about today's increasing complexity and accelerating change.
- 20:20Speaker 1: The thing that any leader or successful person must have.
- 20:26Speaker 5: Champions are broken.
- 20:28Speaker 19: People look at champions and try and find something that
- 20:31Speaker 19: that champion has that they don't have, and he's like,
- 20:32Speaker 19: but it's not that at all. He's like, they lack
- 20:34Speaker 19: something everyone else has, which is an off button. They
- 20:37Speaker 19: just don't stop no matter what it is.
- 20:39Speaker 32: Many times you say to yourself, I gotta lose weight,
- 20:40Speaker 32: I gotta lose weight. I'm too fat, and then you
- 20:43Speaker 32: know what, during the day you eat, you eat at night,
- 20:47Speaker 32: and then next day you get.
- 20:48Speaker 13: Mad at yourself.
- 20:48Speaker 1: Well, what do you want?
- 20:51Speaker 16: What do you want?
- 20:51Speaker 32: You got to change something. You cannot change your life
- 20:55Speaker 32: unless you change something.
- 21:00Speaker 1: Always do what you always did. You'll always get what
- 21:03Speaker 1: you always got.
- 21:04Speaker 19: And so, like I used to tell this when I
- 21:06Speaker 19: was selling weight loss to people. I'd say, like, who
- 21:08Speaker 19: cares if you get in shape for six weeks out
- 21:10Speaker 19: of eighty years? And like, right, is there about to
- 21:13Speaker 19: sign up for a member? So I was like, you
- 21:15Speaker 19: want to sign and then this is how I would
- 21:16Speaker 19: sell longer memberships. But like it's also true, It's like
- 21:19Speaker 19: you want to sign up for the six weeks, but
- 21:20Speaker 19: like Susan, like, who cares if you lose twenty pounds
- 21:25Speaker 19: and you're still overweight six weeks from now, and then
- 21:26Speaker 19: you gain it back the next six weeks and you're
- 21:28Speaker 19: still the exact same weight.
- 21:29Speaker 1: For the rest of your life.
- 21:30Speaker 19: And so I just I think the absolute dedication to
- 21:33Speaker 19: maximization so that it becomes a part of your identity
- 21:35Speaker 19: and your character has been one of the outsize returns
- 21:38Speaker 19: that I've gotten in my life. And just being absolutely
- 21:40Speaker 19: willing to set like I'm pretty violent about this, but like,
- 21:44Speaker 19: list all the things that you aren't willing to give
- 21:47Speaker 19: up for the dreams that you have, and that is
- 21:50Speaker 19: what the person who will beat you is willing to
- 21:52Speaker 19: give up.
- 21:53Speaker 5: It's something that we've all endured. I call it the
- 21:55Speaker 5: cookie jar, and we often forget how hard we are.
- 21:58Speaker 33: But you gotta reflect back to take up a side
- 22:00Speaker 33: of reflect I've been through this, I've been through that.
- 22:03Speaker 13: And then remind yourself I'm a bad mother, and then
- 22:07Speaker 13: you can get through this. But if you don't believe it,
- 22:09Speaker 13: you have to indorge it.
- 22:12Speaker 5: You're just blowing smoke.
- 22:13Speaker 1: Man.
- 22:14Speaker 7: You're willing to shoulder more than your responsibility of life
- 22:17Speaker 7: because you expect and demand something more of life. Champions
- 22:22Speaker 7: mentality man, hoping for a good result, you're demanding them
- 22:25Speaker 7: of results.
- 22:26Speaker 1: You're going above and.
- 22:27Speaker 5: Beyond what's expected in the gym.
- 22:29Speaker 1: What normal people do?
- 22:30Speaker 5: You do more than what's normal because you want more
- 22:33Speaker 5: than a normal return of life's investment.
- 22:36Speaker 7: I tell you, the harder and harder you're working here,
- 22:39Speaker 7: the harder and harder it becomes to accept failure out there.
- 22:43Speaker 5: Second place isn't an option anymore.
- 22:44Speaker 31: Guys.
- 22:45Speaker 5: The more you give in here, the more you get
- 22:46Speaker 5: out there. Why would you not want to give it
- 22:48Speaker 5: at all?
- 22:49Speaker 7: What else are you going to do if you come
- 22:51Speaker 7: here and kill it right now, or stay home on
- 22:54Speaker 7: the couch, you know, watching the life passing by?
- 22:57Speaker 5: What else would you be.
- 22:58Speaker 28: Doing right now?
- 22:59Speaker 5: Taking the time. I'll take the time to get ahead.
- 23:02Speaker 5: If it doesn't seem so so easy to you, it's
- 23:04Speaker 5: because you don't believe in yourself. You believe in yourself.
- 23:07Speaker 7: You want to be in here killing it because give
- 23:09Speaker 7: you that much more a chance, because you believe you
- 23:11Speaker 7: can come.
- 23:11Speaker 5: Then because they don't believe they can never get there.
- 23:14Speaker 1: Oh wire, Differently, I just don't cry. I didn't say
- 23:17Speaker 1: why me.
- 23:19Speaker 34: I need you to stop talking negative, and I need
- 23:22Speaker 34: you to decide what area do you want to win?
- 23:25Speaker 34: And I need you to wake up tomorrow ready to
- 23:27Speaker 34: pro poking here. I need you to wake up tomorrow
- 23:29Speaker 34: and I need you to be determined that, no matter what,
- 23:32Speaker 34: this is my north star, this is what I wanted
- 23:35Speaker 34: to do, This is what I want to.
- 23:36Speaker 5: Come and I need you don't get it because people
- 23:39Speaker 5: only see the highlights.
- 23:40Speaker 3: They don't see the twenty years that this man put
- 23:44Speaker 3: into this craft. They don't see the hard times. They
- 23:47Speaker 3: weren't there for the work. They didn't see him sweat,
- 23:50Speaker 3: they didn't see him panic, they didn't see him have
- 23:52Speaker 3: nervous breakdowns. They weren't there cheering him on when he
- 23:55Speaker 3: got rejected again and again and again, but refused to quit.
- 24:00Speaker 3: That's why Harrison Ford is a multi millionaire. That's why
- 24:04Speaker 3: he's a Hollywood legend. So if you want to win,
- 24:06Speaker 3: it's all about what you're willing to do, how long
- 24:09Speaker 3: you're willing to go, how many punches you're willing to
- 24:12Speaker 3: take in the face, and how many times you're willing
- 24:14Speaker 3: to get back up.
- 24:15Speaker 5: That can't break you, only you can break you. You
- 24:19Speaker 5: are going to come up against some moments in your life.
- 24:23Speaker 1: I've been there. You will come up with some moments
- 24:25Speaker 1: in your life. Somebody told you it was over, Somebody
- 24:29Speaker 1: told you that just go home and die. Somebody sets
- 24:31Speaker 1: you home. Somebody told you you'll never be a doctor.
- 24:34Speaker 1: They sit you home. You fail, They sent you home,
- 24:37Speaker 1: law school, they sent you home. Some wife she told
- 24:40Speaker 1: you that's it.
- 24:41Speaker 5: I don't want to be married to you.
- 24:42Speaker 1: Some husband he told you I don't want to be
- 24:44Speaker 1: married to you.
- 24:44Speaker 5: Then he left.
- 24:46Speaker 17: Never give up how me mental toughness, there's no reason
- 24:51Speaker 17: to come. It's a reason to be. It's a reason
- 24:54Speaker 17: to get stronger. It's a reason to get more intense,
- 24:57Speaker 17: it's a reason to get better.
- 24:59Speaker 5: You need one more, one more check.
- 25:01Speaker 7: Everyone climbs the mountain, and right when I like, I
- 25:04Speaker 7: can't do anymore, the last inch is're gonna make all
- 25:06Speaker 7: the difference, and.
- 25:08Speaker 5: They give up them. It's because one day you had
- 25:10Speaker 5: a bad planet action.
- 25:11Speaker 7: But too they've lost the motivation to not see the
- 25:14Speaker 7: visual representation over there effort being put out so that.
- 25:16Speaker 5: Where're like, I'm done.
- 25:21Speaker 35: Because if you're willing to go through all the battle
- 25:23Speaker 35: you got to go through to get to where you
- 25:24Speaker 35: want to get, who's got the right to stop you?
- 25:27Speaker 35: I mean maybe some of you guys got something you
- 25:29Speaker 35: never fitish, something you really want to do. Somebody you
- 25:31Speaker 35: never said that somebody something and you're told no, even
- 25:34Speaker 35: after you pay your dues. Who's got the right to
- 25:36Speaker 35: tell you that?
- 25:36Speaker 36: Who?
- 25:37Speaker 35: Nobody? It's your right to listen to your gun. It
- 25:39Speaker 35: ain't nobody's right to say no. After you earn the
- 25:42Speaker 35: right to be where you want to be, a due
- 25:43Speaker 35: what you want to do, and that's life. The only
- 25:47Speaker 35: thing I'm asking you guys to leading on the table
- 25:49Speaker 35: is what's right.
- 25:51Speaker 13: A lot of times I'll be in tours at my
- 25:52Speaker 13: run or something like that, and I'm all jacked up,
- 25:57Speaker 13: bodies broken, minds, broken, spirits broken.
- 26:00Speaker 18: I started to say, what if I can pull this off?
- 26:03Speaker 18: It's the what if I can pull off a miracle?
- 26:07Speaker 18: What if I can become someone that no one thinks
- 26:10Speaker 18: I can be? And just just me talking about that,
- 26:14Speaker 18: I have the hair going up on my arms because
- 26:16Speaker 18: it makes me.
- 26:16Speaker 1: Just like what if.
- 26:18Speaker 13: So in this job, you look, you know, you're looking
- 26:21Speaker 13: for cockroaches, looking for rodents and stuff like that. And
- 26:24Speaker 13: this next morning or this next night, I went to
- 26:27Speaker 13: work and I hit the all like cockroaches too much.
- 26:31Speaker 13: I hit the mother loaded cockroaches, and this restaurant got
- 26:35Speaker 13: full of cockroaches and rodents and everything else. And I
- 26:38Speaker 13: sat there, I said, this is my life. I said
- 26:40Speaker 13: this is my life. You are exactly who.
- 26:42Speaker 16: The this is it.
- 26:43Speaker 1: And I said this ain't gonna be it for me.
- 26:46Speaker 5: I want you to clown the mob.
- 26:47Speaker 1: I want you what the mon is academic probation.
- 26:50Speaker 37: Climate.
- 26:51Speaker 1: You then broke up with somebody clime.
- 26:53Speaker 5: If you want to be okay, you would diagnosed or
- 26:55Speaker 5: something clide.
- 26:56Speaker 1: You broke broken? You ever been climate? You're not waiting
- 27:00Speaker 1: what bekind is. Whatever your goal is, you keep going
- 27:03Speaker 1: so you get there. This will not be your dad
- 27:05Speaker 1: of us. This test will be on tesselony, and this
- 27:09Speaker 1: mess will be all bess issue.
- 27:12Speaker 3: So that you can prove to yourself now the rest
- 27:14Speaker 3: of the world that you are the kind of person
- 27:17Speaker 3: that possesses the mental fortitude, the grit, the toughest, the perseverance,
- 27:23Speaker 3: the discipline to get things done regardless of what the
- 27:27Speaker 3: situation is. And if you become this kind of person
- 27:30Speaker 3: who can get things done regardless of what's going on,
- 27:34Speaker 3: regardless of what's going on in the economy, regardless of
- 27:37Speaker 3: what's going on in your personal life, regardless of how
- 27:39Speaker 3: you feel, regardless of the weather, how can you be
- 27:43Speaker 3: stopped by anything you cannot.
- 27:46Speaker 26: You can think your way into stress, you can think
- 27:51Speaker 26: your way into misery, frustration.
- 27:54Speaker 1: But if you change your mind, good to change your life.
- 27:58Speaker 36: If it feels kind of dark all around you right now,
- 28:02Speaker 36: I want to remind you it is always.
- 28:03Speaker 5: The darkest before dawn, and dawn is coming.
- 28:08Speaker 14: People are gonna think you crazy, and sometimes you're gonna
- 28:12Speaker 14: think you're crazy.
- 28:14Speaker 1: You're gonna question yourself.
- 28:16Speaker 14: It's hard to pick yourself up when you experience setbacks and.
- 28:21Speaker 1: People don't see the vision. No one else believes in you.
- 28:25Speaker 1: And I had people laughing at me still last you're.
- 28:27Speaker 14: Talking about being a motivational steaker and you.
- 28:31Speaker 5: Are going to become.
- 28:33Speaker 14: Independently wealthy, bright, they laugh, They're gonna laugh at you.
- 28:38Speaker 1: People are gonna laugh at you. It's all in the mind.
- 28:41Speaker 5: To change your mind and it will change your life.
- 28:45Speaker 1: If you think.
- 28:48Speaker 5: The price of winning is too high, wait till you
- 28:52Speaker 5: get the bill from regret.
- 28:54Speaker 1: And that bill from Regret is generational. But I think
- 28:58Speaker 1: my men trend. It's my mind.
- 29:02Speaker 2: I think it's my strongest point.
- 29:05Speaker 1: It's my mind.
- 29:06Speaker 5: It's the numbers that don't like.
- 29:08Speaker 2: If you see during the last fifteen years, my level
- 29:11Speaker 2: is always kind of the same. So effort, dedication, work hard,
- 29:18Speaker 2: because the talent is not enough anymore, and if you
- 29:21Speaker 2: don't dedicate it under percent, you're not going to reach
- 29:26Speaker 2: the level that you want.
- 29:29Speaker 7: For what I think the precaucia steps to sharpen it,
- 29:32Speaker 7: you know, and holne the arsenal to really good at.
- 29:35Speaker 5: Battle, because I don't even want a good battle because
- 29:36Speaker 5: I know they're gonna lose.
- 29:37Speaker 4: How do you want to look in the mirror everything
- 29:40Speaker 4: the morning?
- 29:40Speaker 5: Do you want a positive reinforcement or do you want
- 29:43Speaker 5: to neg it?
- 29:43Speaker 36: When go about you today, I don't want people to
- 29:46Speaker 36: see you're.
- 29:48Speaker 28: A guy who felt that exact same way, but figured
- 29:51Speaker 28: out how to not be that person and be a
- 29:54Speaker 28: person that you would admire.
- 29:56Speaker 5: How did you What were the first steps?
- 29:58Speaker 28: Like you had some slips before four, right because you
- 30:01Speaker 28: quit because of the water thing, right, But then when
- 30:03Speaker 28: you went back the second time, you decide you're gonna
- 30:05Speaker 28: lose all that weight and you quit that job.
- 30:08Speaker 5: Did you?
- 30:09Speaker 28: Was it just straightforward from there or were there some
- 30:11Speaker 28: days where you just failed and then you picked it
- 30:14Speaker 28: back up again?
- 30:15Speaker 5: So my first run when I decided to do is
- 30:17Speaker 5: to wait.
- 30:17Speaker 13: I was like I said, two ninety seven, I was
- 30:20Speaker 13: about thirty two percent body fat.
- 30:22Speaker 1: And I went.
- 30:23Speaker 13: My idea was to run four miles for my first run.
- 30:26Speaker 13: I didn't know how bad it's gonna fucking hurt me.
- 30:28Speaker 13: I used to run before I was fat, and I
- 30:30Speaker 13: was like, I can give this. I ran a quarter
- 30:32Speaker 13: mile and walked home. I walked home and say out
- 30:34Speaker 13: of my couch and cried. I went to my mom's house,
- 30:36Speaker 13: who was about forty about maybe twenty minutes down the road,
- 30:39Speaker 13: and cried and getting.
- 30:40Speaker 5: Her couch, said I can't do this shit. I don't
- 30:42Speaker 5: know what i'mould do.
- 30:43Speaker 1: You're not running day.
- 30:44Speaker 5: The day's running you.
- 30:45Speaker 1: You always be the serving, not the master.
- 30:47Speaker 7: Guys, if you find a fear, the quickest, the easiest
- 30:50Speaker 7: way you can feed it is initially right when it
- 30:53Speaker 7: comes in. If you're allowed to sit, it will grow
- 30:55Speaker 7: roots and start breaking you down, destroy the potential of
- 30:59Speaker 7: the person you can be again.
- 31:00Speaker 28: The champions, guys.
- 31:02Speaker 20: It's not the potential.
- 31:03Speaker 1: It's not their genetics, it's their perseverance.
- 31:06Speaker 7: Always show up, always willing to fail, because the failure
- 31:09Speaker 7: that's part of success.
- 31:10Speaker 5: Success is not you know, a MARITHI life.
- 31:13Speaker 4: It just ups success is formulated through failures.
- 31:17Speaker 20: Ain't no elevator to the top. You got to take
- 31:20Speaker 20: the stands the elevated.
- 31:21Speaker 5: Don't go to the top.
- 31:22Speaker 20: Man, Stop trying to do everything the short weight. Stop
- 31:26Speaker 20: trying to figure out the easy weight, because it ain't
- 31:29Speaker 20: gonna happen.
- 31:29Speaker 5: You've got to get messed up sometime.
- 31:31Speaker 20: You gotta get your feelings hurt, you gotta get disappointed.
- 31:34Speaker 5: You gotta get told No. You're gonna ask somebody for
- 31:37Speaker 5: some money, he gonna tell you no.
- 31:39Speaker 1: Life in about metals.
- 31:41Speaker 5: Ain't about certificates.
- 31:43Speaker 13: They ain't about houses, money, cars, fame, all that bullet
- 31:48Speaker 13: It's about stars.
- 31:49Speaker 5: The stars show your willingness.
- 31:51Speaker 1: To get to the other side. They show your failures.
- 31:55Speaker 5: They show you're willing it's to start for scratch. They
- 31:58Speaker 5: show what you're willing to do, to go the distance,
- 32:02Speaker 5: to see what you're capable of.
- 32:04Speaker 1: That's light.
- 32:05Speaker 9: And so every time something get art, you quit, you
- 32:07Speaker 9: call mama. I dare you to take a little pain.
- 32:10Speaker 9: Somebody said, I don't go home, I feel bad, go
- 32:13Speaker 9: throw it. At the end of pain and success, it's
- 32:16Speaker 9: not gonna die because you're throwing a little pain.
- 32:18Speaker 1: I guarantee you.
- 32:19Speaker 9: You cannot pass it if you quit, But you don't
- 32:21Speaker 9: know what's gonna happen if you keep going. I don't
- 32:23Speaker 9: care what I've been through personally, I don't care if
- 32:26Speaker 9: our family members die.
- 32:27Speaker 1: I can't let that bother me.
- 32:29Speaker 5: I can't let that hurt me. But I still gotta perform.
- 32:32Speaker 1: So you gotta execute.
- 32:34Speaker 36: And that's what this world's come to. Every time they
- 32:36Speaker 36: try something, it doesn't go the way they look for
- 32:39Speaker 36: a complaining buddy, Well, guess what. Life is hard. You
- 32:42Speaker 36: gotta find yourself and the grind the grid, and you
- 32:45Speaker 36: gotta find yourself doing that no one else wants you
- 32:47Speaker 36: to do, and whenever it sucks, you gotta just keep.
- 32:50Speaker 5: Working for that.
- 32:52Speaker 3: Stuff gets progressively harder when you have to go one, two,
- 32:55Speaker 3: three years without a paycheck. Everybody else quits during that
- 32:59Speaker 3: time fault ten, twelve, thirteen years in I'm standing higher
- 33:03Speaker 3: than everybody just because I didn't quit. It's learning how
- 33:07Speaker 3: to endure, learning how to reframe frustration, and seeing it
- 33:11Speaker 3: as a driver for your success.
- 33:14Speaker 5: Every single path is going to be hard.
- 33:17Speaker 3: Struggle, pain, misery, frustration, those are signs that you are
- 33:21Speaker 3: on the right path and making progress.
- 33:24Speaker 5: Nobody that is where you want.
- 33:26Speaker 3: To be has gotten there without these struggles, without the bleeding,
- 33:30Speaker 3: without the pain, without the depression, without the misery.
- 33:34Speaker 1: See many stars, ladies and gentlemen.
- 33:36Speaker 14: But feel finished because I said, well, it was hard
- 33:39Speaker 14: and they stopped.
- 33:41Speaker 5: They take that as a stop time.
- 33:42Speaker 1: As opposed to a growth stock. You don't know what's
- 33:45Speaker 1: ahead of you, and that seventy.
- 33:46Speaker 9: Percent you given right now, a trial or assimulation might come,
- 33:50Speaker 9: a storm might.
- 33:51Speaker 19: Be coming from the social group I had before I
- 33:54Speaker 19: quit my job. If we're going all the way like
- 33:55Speaker 19: CROWND zero to today, I talked to no one from
- 34:00Speaker 19: that time in my life compared to today, and I
- 34:04Speaker 19: was absolutely miserable and unhappy and unfulfilled. And I would
- 34:07Speaker 19: say that the majority of those people probably don't like
- 34:10Speaker 19: me today because I changed, I didn't do what I
- 34:13Speaker 19: was supposed to do.
- 34:14Speaker 1: He thinks he's so fancy.
- 34:15Speaker 19: Now, et cetera, et cetera.
- 34:16Speaker 1: And I think I'm just okay with that.
- 34:19Speaker 19: And so I think coming to terms with the idea
- 34:22Speaker 19: that I could be absolutely rejected by everyone I know,
- 34:25Speaker 19: but like me, I was more okay with that because
- 34:27Speaker 19: the alternative was I didn't want to live.
- 34:29Speaker 21: Anymore, to just work like hell. I mean you just
- 34:31Speaker 21: have to put in you know, eighty hour eighty t
- 34:34Speaker 21: one hundred hour weeks every week, and then the all
- 34:41Speaker 21: those things improve the odds of success.
- 34:43Speaker 4: Okay.
- 34:45Speaker 21: I mean if other people are putting in forty hour
- 34:47Speaker 21: work weeks and you're putting in one hundred hour work weeks,
- 34:50Speaker 21: then even if you're doing the same thing, you know
- 34:54Speaker 21: that in one year you will achieve what they achieve.
- 34:58Speaker 21: You will achieve in four months what it takes them
- 35:02Speaker 21: a year to achieve.
- 35:03Speaker 25: Well, where do you go to You wake up on
- 35:04Speaker 25: the morning, it's cold, it's wet, it's dark, you've got
- 35:08Speaker 25: no cottilage in your knave, got shorts, whatever it is,
- 35:12Speaker 25: that's the issue today.
- 35:13Speaker 1: Keep talking.
- 35:14Speaker 25: You've got these problems, right.
- 35:16Speaker 5: I need you to keep talking about what you were
- 35:18Speaker 5: to say.
- 35:19Speaker 25: It's warm on the couch, your missus say, stayin bad
- 35:21Speaker 25: it's comfy, it's cozy. You've got work later on. You
- 35:24Speaker 25: had an argument last night, you're slightly hungover.
- 35:27Speaker 33: One thing important is that we all have these moments,
- 35:29Speaker 33: these moments in time that either make you or break you,
- 35:33Speaker 33: that can determine the rest of your life. The rest
- 35:36Speaker 33: of your life can be determined by one simple decision,
- 35:39Speaker 33: and I had decision to make.
- 35:40Speaker 37: I wanted to quit, I wanted to give up. There
- 35:42Speaker 37: wasn't some inspirational quote. There wasn't some there wasn't nothing.
- 35:45Speaker 37: It was me myself, and it was freezing out here.
- 35:49Speaker 37: I had to make a decision. Decision I make was
- 35:51Speaker 37: to get up and keep on going. That one moment
- 35:54Speaker 37: change the rest of my life.
- 35:56Speaker 1: To get something you never had, you have to do
- 35:59Speaker 1: something you never did. Now, if you know what you're worth,
- 36:02Speaker 1: I'll go out and dealt with your worth.
- 36:04Speaker 35: But you gotta be willing to take their heads and
- 36:06Speaker 35: not pointing fingers saying you ain't where you want to
- 36:08Speaker 35: be because of him or her or anybody.
- 36:11Speaker 1: Cowards do that, and that ain't you. You're better than that.
- 36:15Speaker 13: When you get beat the ship all the time, your
- 36:18Speaker 13: mind wants to go to a nice spot where you're comforting,
- 36:21Speaker 13: where you're not.
- 36:22Speaker 5: Trying, where it's easy.
- 36:24Speaker 29: It doesn't want to think, Yeah, all these things in
- 36:26Speaker 29: the mind, and the mind can only absorb so much,
- 36:29Speaker 29: so all the pain that has to go to it
- 36:31Speaker 29: wants to push it away.
- 36:32Speaker 5: So let's not do that.
- 36:34Speaker 29: So every day I'm fighting where the mind wants to
- 36:37Speaker 29: go there just to be something so deep in you
- 36:40Speaker 29: that drives you.
- 36:41Speaker 1: I'm doing good to the world. I'm not hurting anybody.
- 36:45Speaker 1: Why me, I'm wired differently.
- 36:47Speaker 5: They turned tragedy into tryoffs.
- 36:50Speaker 1: That's what lions do.
- 36:51Speaker 9: Lions don't cry, Lions don't give up, Liars don't quit.
- 36:55Speaker 1: Lions artist. That's what we do for a living. And
- 36:58Speaker 1: if you want a true lion not to make a
- 37:00Speaker 1: difference what the circumstances is.
- 37:02Speaker 5: It means put your back into it.
- 37:03Speaker 1: It means put your will into it. It means put
- 37:05Speaker 1: your legs into it.
- 37:06Speaker 9: It means keep pushing, and keep pushing, and keep putschi
- 37:09Speaker 9: It means don't stop.
- 37:10Speaker 1: Until you reach your goal. You make a commitment.
- 37:13Speaker 9: It doesn't matter if the winds and the waves come,
- 37:16Speaker 9: it doesn't matter if the storm coat, just keep rolling.
- 37:21Speaker 1: You can't stop until you get there.
- 37:23Speaker 9: If the shift goes down, you keep rolling. If the
- 37:26Speaker 9: size come up, you keep going. If you lose one
- 37:29Speaker 9: of your paddles, you keep going. Hop hope, don't ever
- 37:32Speaker 9: lose your hope, because once you lose your hope, you
- 37:35Speaker 9: lost everything.
- 37:36Speaker 22: We gonna like it, We gotta believe, we gotta be
- 37:39Speaker 22: mentally strong when we tired. That's why we gotta put
- 37:42Speaker 22: our fundamentals together. That's when we gotta be more focused.
- 37:45Speaker 22: I'm gonna get fundamentally strong. Everybody's grave when they're not tired.
- 37:49Speaker 22: The champions is when they tired. That's when the real
- 37:51Speaker 22: champions come out. That's when a real dog come out.
- 37:54Speaker 9: That's so hard beliver your why when you see I'm tired,
- 37:57Speaker 9: I'll look keep going, keep going, hold I to get
- 38:00Speaker 9: anything you got.
- 38:01Speaker 1: I just need you to keep moving. I need you
- 38:03Speaker 1: to make up in your mind that the only way
- 38:06Speaker 1: you can lose is if you quit.
- 38:07Speaker 5: I just need you to keep going.
- 38:08Speaker 9: I might not have been stronger, I might not have
- 38:10Speaker 9: been smarter, I might not have been brighter, but I
- 38:13Speaker 9: made up in my mind I'm gonna get through this.
- 38:16Speaker 9: I am not phenomenally skilled, but I'm phenomenally will. Mike
- 38:20Speaker 9: IQ may never change, but my will changes every year.
- 38:23Speaker 5: I get stronger and stronger and more determined.
- 38:27Speaker 1: Why Because it's in my DNA.
- 38:29Speaker 5: And I guarantee you.
- 38:30Speaker 3: Such idiot has said every single success that.
- 38:34Speaker 5: Harrison Ford has had must be nice.
- 38:38Speaker 1: Lazy people do a little work and think they should
- 38:41Speaker 1: be winning.
- 38:42Speaker 35: But winners work as hard as possible and still worry
- 38:45Speaker 35: if they're being lazy.
- 38:47Speaker 25: Success is the only revenge.
- 38:50Speaker 1: I don't care where you come from.
- 38:51Speaker 2: Care.
- 38:51Speaker 1: I want you to be the best at what you do.
- 38:53Speaker 1: You don't need this, this, this or that.
- 38:55Speaker 9: All you need to be successful this world is that.
- 38:57Speaker 9: All you gotta wake up every day and complete. You
- 38:59Speaker 9: gotta go out. Everybody said you don't.
- 39:01Speaker 1: Read well enough.
- 39:02Speaker 9: You're not a critical thinking I'm not, but I'm a beast.
- 39:05Speaker 9: You ain't gotta be splord when you were a beast.
- 39:07Speaker 9: You ain't gotta be the most talented.
- 39:08Speaker 1: When you were a beast. You ain't gotta be the
- 39:10Speaker 1: most talented. When you got that.
- 39:11Speaker 5: Dog, You're gonna have to play hurt. You're gonna have
- 39:14Speaker 5: to play what stuff is going on.
- 39:17Speaker 1: It's a work that separates the bullets from the minor.
- 39:20Speaker 1: Are you ready to do the work? Are you ready
- 39:22Speaker 1: to put in the work? Stop running, stop crying, stop asking.
- 39:26Speaker 5: I want your work to go before you.
- 39:29Speaker 9: It doesn't look like you think you didn't get the
- 39:31Speaker 9: grains you thought you were gonna get. So maybe I'm
- 39:33Speaker 9: not meant to be a lawyer. Oh you'll put your
- 39:36Speaker 9: mutch in it your quid now ho mental toughness.
- 39:40Speaker 18: When I first walked into the Navy sit recruiter's office,
- 39:43Speaker 18: he looked at me and said, it only been thirty
- 39:45Speaker 18: five African Americans in seventy years.
- 39:47Speaker 28: Make it through you.
- 39:48Speaker 18: I said to myself, what if I can be the
- 39:50Speaker 18: thirty sixth if the what if I can pull off
- 39:55Speaker 18: a miracle? What if I can become someone that no
- 39:59Speaker 18: one thinks I can be?
- 40:00Speaker 5: And that just me talking about that.
- 40:03Speaker 1: I have to hear it going up on my arms.
- 40:05Speaker 5: Because it makes me just like, what if I can
- 40:08Speaker 5: be that guy that people.
- 40:09Speaker 1: Who call me this and that?
- 40:11Speaker 5: And now I'm speaking at Tom Ferry's event.
- 40:17Speaker 1: You might be taller than me, you might be bigger
- 40:19Speaker 1: than me, you might be strolling to me. But I'm coming.
- 40:22Speaker 9: And I'd rather die try and I'd rather give everything
- 40:26Speaker 9: I got.
- 40:26Speaker 1: I'd rather give a year. I'd rather put it in
- 40:28Speaker 1: work than fail.
- 40:31Speaker 9: To not try it all the real beast, because the
- 40:34Speaker 9: last four minutes the real beast is when they least
- 40:37Speaker 9: ship out the real beast, when they tire, the real Beast.
- 40:40Speaker 9: Find a way to pull something out when nobody else
- 40:43Speaker 9: ain't got nothing, lighthold of it and when that thing
- 40:47Speaker 9: tells you to quick, you look at it in his
- 40:49Speaker 9: eye and say, I ain't going nowhere.
- 40:51Speaker 5: I will blight you before you bake me. You will
- 40:53Speaker 5: not destroy us, you will not defeat us. This will
- 40:56Speaker 5: make us stronger.
- 40:57Speaker 1: I'll go quicker, I'll go hurder, I'll go long here,
- 41:01Speaker 1: I'll go faster.
- 41:02Speaker 5: I mean mental toughness.
- 41:04Speaker 9: I'm telling you, when you come up with your second thing,
- 41:07Speaker 9: I'll do that thing, and you can't do it when
- 41:09Speaker 9: you get there.
- 41:10Speaker 5: You got to already make up your mind before you
- 41:12Speaker 5: get to cancer.
- 41:13Speaker 1: You got to already make up your mind before you
- 41:15Speaker 1: get to the exam.
- 41:16Speaker 9: And past that example, you gotta make up in your
- 41:18Speaker 9: mind when you talking to your husband, when you're talking
- 41:20Speaker 9: to your wife, when you talking to that singer.
- 41:22Speaker 1: You gotta look at it before you begin to it.
- 41:24Speaker 14: There will be times when you will feel alone, and
- 41:27Speaker 14: you will feel deserted, when you'll feel weak, and you
- 41:30Speaker 14: a doubt yourself, and other people all.
- 41:31Speaker 1: Doubt you, and you ask yourself, am I crazy?
- 41:34Speaker 14: You must have faith. You've got to believe in yourself.
- 41:38Speaker 14: You've got to believe in your abilities. You got to
- 41:41Speaker 14: believe in your service, your company, your ideas, unquestionably.
- 41:46Speaker 1: You do what it is you're supposed to You're supposed
- 41:48Speaker 1: to build something. You're supposed to create something. I don't
- 41:50Speaker 1: know how to do it. Learn do whatever is required.
- 41:54Speaker 1: Just go out there. It's possible. You can get to
- 41:56Speaker 1: what you are.
- 41:57Speaker 14: It's necessary. If you want it, you got to go
- 41:59Speaker 14: into action. You gotta be willing to experiment. You gotta
- 42:01Speaker 14: be willing to fail and to succeed.
- 42:03Speaker 1: It's you what's on you. You gotta make that happen.
- 42:05Speaker 14: Nobody's gonna bring it to you on a civil platter said,
- 42:08Speaker 14: here's your dream, manifested.
- 42:10Speaker 9: Now it's hard, it's difficult, and it's worth that. I
- 42:14Speaker 9: need you to dream your way out of this little way.
- 42:16Speaker 9: I need you to see yourself to Permuta. I need
- 42:18Speaker 9: you to see yourself to Dubai. You ain't try to
- 42:20Speaker 9: impress people. You'll chair what people think.
- 42:22Speaker 1: Deep down in your soul, you see.
- 42:24Speaker 5: Yourself living your best life. You gotta see yourself doing it.
- 42:28Speaker 5: You gotta feel yourself doing it.
- 42:29Speaker 1: You've got to actually walk in it.
- 42:31Speaker 9: You gotta go in the future, live it out, come
- 42:34Speaker 9: back in the present and start working toward it. Once
- 42:36Speaker 9: the mind is stretched and it's gonna be hard to
- 42:38Speaker 9: stretch it, but once it's stretched, it can never go
- 42:41Speaker 9: back to its original dimension.
- 42:42Speaker 1: Stretch it for me.
- 42:44Speaker 16: So you goes up the road trip. Tired, fourteen days,
- 42:48Speaker 16: thirteen day, whatever the hell it is, don't mean nothing.
- 42:53Speaker 16: Tired is only in the mind. You tell yourself be tired.
- 42:57Speaker 16: You're gonna be tired. I don't get tired, Lake, Shall
- 43:01Speaker 16: we come home?
- 43:03Speaker 28: More work is always going to result in better results
- 43:07Speaker 28: in everything we do in life.
- 43:09Speaker 5: The more you put into something, the more you're going
- 43:12Speaker 5: to get out.
- 43:13Speaker 1: Don't do so much. You're doing too much bulls.
- 43:17Speaker 38: Bull Be the guy who embraces the ugly, the miserable.
- 43:24Speaker 38: Be the guy who embraces hard work, the grind. Don't
- 43:28Speaker 38: be afraid of being heard. Don't be afraid of a
- 43:30Speaker 38: secondfrience of some blood.
- 43:32Speaker 13: So in that restaurant, I quit my job, left my
- 43:36Speaker 13: canister in that restaurant, my spray canister got back in
- 43:40Speaker 13: my eco lab truck, and I went home and I
- 43:43Speaker 13: started working out like somebody. I became the most obsessed
- 43:47Speaker 13: person on the planet Earth, and I was basically I
- 43:52Speaker 13: had to invent a guy that didn't exist. I had
- 43:56Speaker 13: to invent a guy that can take any pain, any
- 43:58Speaker 13: suffer in any kind of judgment. Yeah, be called whatever
- 44:02Speaker 13: in the world and be able to stand. I'm gonna
- 44:04Speaker 13: say go for yourself.
- 44:05Speaker 5: I had it built it. I had to build this
- 44:07Speaker 5: callous mind, and I built it through suffering.
- 44:10Speaker 1: I built it through.
- 44:11Speaker 5: Downright and just crushing myself.
- 44:13Speaker 13: If it was raining outside three o'clock and if good
- 44:15Speaker 13: morning feels snowing, the first thing this think is don't
- 44:18Speaker 13: go out there.
- 44:18Speaker 5: And my instinck was we gotta go out there. Anything
- 44:23Speaker 5: that was fing horrible in my life that I would
- 44:26Speaker 5: normally say no, that was in jumane.
- 44:29Speaker 1: And most people.
- 44:30Speaker 5: I had to go do it, and I started callous
- 44:34Speaker 5: in my mind.
- 44:34Speaker 1: At this point in my life supposed to be had.
- 44:37Speaker 28: If it wasn't hard, everyone would do it.
- 44:39Speaker 1: The hard is what makes it great.
- 44:41Speaker 5: And it's gonna brank through with us.
- 44:43Speaker 30: Sixty as you're going through your going through it, you're
- 44:45Speaker 30: ready to quit, and you're ready to give up, you're
- 44:47Speaker 30: ready to give in.
- 44:48Speaker 1: It is in those times we have to be stronger
- 44:50Speaker 1: than we've ever been before.
- 44:51Speaker 24: We can, we will, and we must get through this.
- 44:54Speaker 24: I'm sure how hard, and you're sure hobjmproport it. Never
- 44:57Speaker 24: give up, never give in because some skill and not
- 45:00Speaker 24: gonna get you to certain things. But phenomenal wheel, Well,
- 45:04Speaker 24: why you get through everything?
- 45:05Speaker 5: As long as you got brushed in your natil?
- 45:07Speaker 1: Would you ever get here?
- 45:08Speaker 5: Because I never told you it'll be easy.
- 45:10Speaker 1: But with mental toughness you can get it done. Well,
- 45:13Speaker 1: let me tell you, I believe in advenge.
- 45:15Speaker 14: Like Frank Sinatra, he said, the best revenge is massive success.
- 45:20Speaker 1: Jane way to do paint seed the vision. You gotta
- 45:23Speaker 1: see yourself.
- 45:24Speaker 9: Winning in practice. You gotta see yourself winning the game.
- 45:26Speaker 9: Then the championship, you gotta see yourself then the playoffs.
- 45:29Speaker 9: You gotta see yourself. Wake up every single day.
- 45:31Speaker 5: I was here before I was here.
- 45:33Speaker 1: I was up this morning here. I've been here before.
- 45:35Speaker 1: I was in this spot right here. I was talking
- 45:38Speaker 1: from right here.
- 45:38Speaker 5: I didn't visited it.
- 45:39Speaker 1: I saw it already. I see it before it happened.
- 45:42Speaker 9: Every day you wake up, you gotta start with that
- 45:45Speaker 9: vision like it's clear to you, like you know exactly
- 45:48Speaker 9: what you want, you know exactly what it tastes.
- 45:50Speaker 5: Like, you know what it looked like, you know what
- 45:52Speaker 5: it smells like.
- 45:53Speaker 9: Like you literally have it in the palm of your
- 45:55Speaker 9: hand without having it.
- 45:57Speaker 1: Stretch it for me every day. Stretch it for me
- 46:00Speaker 1: every day.
- 46:00Speaker 5: Stretch it from it, expand.
- 46:02Speaker 9: It, Stress yourself, believe in yourself enough to stretch it.
- 46:06Speaker 9: And the problem with some of y'all is you want
- 46:08Speaker 9: someone else to so forth your dream.
- 46:09Speaker 5: It's yours.
- 46:10Speaker 1: It's your dream.
- 46:11Speaker 9: If we wanted to have it, get your butt up
- 46:13Speaker 9: and make it happen, if we wanted to have it,
- 46:16Speaker 9: rise and ride. And nobody gotta believe in you, and
- 46:19Speaker 9: nobody gotta talk about you when you in the.
- 46:21Speaker 1: Dark, working every single day.
- 46:23Speaker 9: You agree with what you sow, and at some point
- 46:26Speaker 9: you gonna be greats It ain't nobody else.
- 46:28Speaker 1: If don't nobody owe you, none, ain't nobody.
- 46:30Speaker 5: Supposed to give you. None is yours by any means necessary.
- 46:34Speaker 5: You take it. You conquer.
- 46:36Speaker 11: You are warrior.
- 46:37Speaker 5: You conquer, you make it happen. You have to eat
- 46:41Speaker 5: the dream. You have to sleep the dream. You have
- 46:44Speaker 5: to dream the dream.
- 46:46Speaker 1: You have to see it.
- 46:47Speaker 9: When nobody else sees it. You have to feel it
- 46:50Speaker 9: when it's not tangible. You have to believe it when
- 46:53Speaker 9: you cannot see it. You gotta be possessed with the
- 46:57Speaker 9: Dree