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Episode 229 "Risky Business" · The Baller Alert Show

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Speaker 1: Um quorrow with me here. You know BT's so low.
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Speaker 1: Shout out oct no color what we see? Who getting
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Speaker 1: home SUSI. I already know he can't ball with me
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Speaker 1: because you have with a squad of me. They getting
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Speaker 1: they called to men. Welcome to The Baller Show. Podcasts
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Speaker 1: available everywhere you get your podcasts. I go by the
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Speaker 1: name of Ferrari Simmons. I go by name you know
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Speaker 1: bat that. How are you guys doing and what's happening
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Speaker 1: in what you've been doing? Because you got a cool job.
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Speaker 1: I got an ap b out for a bout. Wow,
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Speaker 1: I got an ap b out for bout our clippics up, Octavia.
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Speaker 1: We're gonna send it to him. Let it bring your
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Speaker 1: ass on the next episode of The Baller Show. Okay,
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Speaker 1: apb out for where is bout? Wow? S Marks, it's
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Speaker 1: an ap b out for you. But yes, I have
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Speaker 1: a cool job. Shout out the Talibama dude to Brooklyn.
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Speaker 1: Johnny had had a coming to market. Move them around
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Speaker 1: the city properly. And when he gets lit super lit,
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Speaker 1: of course, you know we're gonna bring him the ball alert. Yeah.
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Speaker 1: I like his music man his music and Florida guy
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Speaker 1: from Terror. Yeah, yeah, all right, cool, you guys ready
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Speaker 1: get in the show. Let's do it, Jonathan Major's lawyer said,
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Speaker 1: And it's a female lawyer. She has texts in which
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Speaker 1: the alleged victim admits she's to blame and she says
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Speaker 1: she doesn't want the actor prosecuted. As we reported, Major
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Speaker 1: was arrested for misdemeanor assault, aggravated harassment, attempted assault, and
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Speaker 1: harassment after the woman allegedly saw another woman texting him
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Speaker 1: and tried to sneak a peek at his phone. Yeah,
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Speaker 1: so these text messages are allegedly saying that his girlfriend
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Speaker 1: text are saying, you know that it was her fault,
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Speaker 1: that she was the one assaulting him. Did you did
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Speaker 1: you see the did y'all actually read the text message? Well,
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Speaker 1: the text messages that I read online said that obviously
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Speaker 1: it was some strangulation going on, because how did the
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Speaker 1: woman pass out? Maybe an anxiety attack? However, you could
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Speaker 1: be right, I will say an anxiety attack, anxiety tech
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Speaker 1: to make your best out. Yeah, but dude, put marks
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Speaker 1: on your on your throat. I don't have marks on
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Speaker 1: her throat, but I don't see that allegedly the police
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Speaker 1: said that that she had marks on her. I don't know, man,
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Speaker 1: that's that sounds like he puts his hands on the
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Speaker 1: text messages out. That's all I'm gonna say. This is
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Speaker 1: not good for neither parties. Yeah, because she said that
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Speaker 1: she's going to tell the police, and YO, don't prosecute him,
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Speaker 1: don't charge him or whatever whatever. It's gonna affect her coins.
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Speaker 1: And it's and it's like, man, woman, how did you
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Speaker 1: pass out? I feel like if he if you felt
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Speaker 1: like he did something, stand on it because physical violence,
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Speaker 1: domestic violence is never the answer. So but that's what happened,
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Speaker 1: Say it happened. Man. This this just seems like another
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Speaker 1: toxic relationship. It's very um, you know, murky water. Because
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Speaker 1: you know, when you're dealing with themestic violence and stuff,
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Speaker 1: people can be you know, easily intimidated. They can be
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Speaker 1: afraid to come forth or retract their statements because of fear,
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Speaker 1: which is normal in domestic violence. They retract statements because
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Speaker 1: then then be in vice with our unt I mean, well,
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Speaker 1: I know in my family, I've been in situations to
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Speaker 1: where you know, family members that are supposed to be
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Speaker 1: partners getting into you know, situations, and they call the
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Speaker 1: police on each other. The police get that, they're like,
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Speaker 1: I don't take them to jail. Don't do it. It's
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Speaker 1: like what you thought the police was gonna come there
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Speaker 1: and do hang out? You know what I'm saying, Especially
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Speaker 1: somebody like Jonathan Majors, like this Scott's huge and black,
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Speaker 1: so and you know she's not too so yeah, allegedly
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Speaker 1: she's white. So anytime that the police is being called
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Speaker 1: and they saying that a black male has been you know, aggressive,
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Speaker 1: you're going to jail. You're going to jail. Speaking about
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Speaker 1: calling the authorities, the cops were called to Prevey restaurant
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Speaker 1: in Memphis around eleven thirty pm Wednesday after gunfire erupted
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Speaker 1: in the parking lot following a confrontation inside the restaurant
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Speaker 1: that eventually spilled outside. Yo Gotti owns this restaurant. Of course,
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Speaker 1: he was not in Memphis at the time of the shooting,
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Speaker 1: and none of his family members are among the victims. However,
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Speaker 1: two people died and a couple more were injured, and
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Speaker 1: the assailants or assailants are still on the loose. Man
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Speaker 1: prayers up to the you know, the the victims and
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Speaker 1: the family that you know, they got to deal with
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Speaker 1: something tragic like that, you know, people losing their lives,
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Speaker 1: and you know, I just don't understand, man, Like, why
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Speaker 1: did every time we look up on the news is
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Speaker 1: always this gun violence? Is always somebody being murdered by guns. Yeah,
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Speaker 1: the sailants are still at large and the police have
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Speaker 1: not figured out what triggered the initial altercation. So yeah,
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Speaker 1: it's a lot going on in Memphis, man, it really,
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Speaker 1: it's always a lot going on in Memphis. One time
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Speaker 1: for Memphis. On a positive note, shout out to the
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Speaker 1: DJs that I know I met, I met it for
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Speaker 1: a couple of people. I just want to every time
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Speaker 1: I hear about Memphis, it's always something bad, Always something bad.
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Speaker 1: You don't have something good going on. Glorilla just got
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Speaker 1: signed with um Tommy Hill figure. Oh that's dope, and
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Speaker 1: he needed to sign somebody he like black people. Again,
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Speaker 1: that's dope. I ain't buying it. I mean, I'm not
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Speaker 1: buying I can't remember the last time I bought Tommy
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Speaker 1: Hill figure. I don't, I don't. I don't support Tommy
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Speaker 1: Hill figure. Nah. And he could say that was a
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Speaker 1: you know, that's what normally happens is all these you know,
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Speaker 1: brands always like that's not that's a myth. I just
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Speaker 1: don't like the last name to Hill figure. Okay, Tommy
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Speaker 1: Hill Figure, last name Nigger Hill Figure. Okay. Tory Lanes
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Speaker 1: wants a new trial. Guys. According to TMZ, he just
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Speaker 1: asked the judge to throw out his conviction for shooting
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Speaker 1: Egg in the Stallion, claiming, among other things, prosecutors tried
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Speaker 1: to dirty him up with irrelevant evidence. I'm sure he does. Yeah,
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Speaker 1: I bet you he do want a new trial. Uh,
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Speaker 1: he's doing everything in his power to Is he in
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Speaker 1: jail yet? Yes, so he turned himself in. No, when
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Speaker 1: you lose you Oh so he's sentence. He's in jail. Yeah,
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Speaker 1: he was out the whole time. As soon as he
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Speaker 1: lost the case, they put you away. Damn Tory, Well,
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Speaker 1: hey man, this is you gotta understand. This is for
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Speaker 1: shooting someone. This isn't like he's doing bank fraud or like,
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Speaker 1: you know, some blue collar crime where you could go
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Speaker 1: home and wait to be sentenced. But you know, if
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Speaker 1: you no more because he was found guilty. So yeah, damn.
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Speaker 1: I mean, and this is the same guy who sat
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Speaker 1: down and could have testified, you know, or could have
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Speaker 1: you know, brown some light. If he wouldn't testified, it
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Speaker 1: would have been you know, she would have had the
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Speaker 1: rat emojis all on his post. How you're testifying about
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Speaker 1: what happening? Cooperating? He would he would have been cooperating. Okay,
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Speaker 1: Hey man, hey, you know what you might be right?
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Speaker 1: That's not cooperation. Trying to clear his name. Yeah, he
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Speaker 1: trying to clear his name is not he didn't He
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Speaker 1: didn't rob a bank and didn't go testify against somebody. Okay,
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Speaker 1: because he had You had the friend slash ex girlfriend
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Speaker 1: Chelsea go up there and say a whole bunch of nothing.
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Speaker 1: Nobody said the actually what happened, That's what I'm saying.
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Speaker 1: You wanted him to say exactly what happened, and that
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Speaker 1: would have been him telling on somebody and putting them
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Speaker 1: in jail, probably allegedly say I see what you're saying.
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Speaker 1: But I was taking it as like him going up
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Speaker 1: to the stand and say, hey, this is what I
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Speaker 1: didn't do it because I was doing such and such.
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Speaker 1: That's what I'm where I could have been doing that.
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Speaker 1: Because such and such was doing that, I couldn't have
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Speaker 1: done it because then I did this afterwards. Let me
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Speaker 1: ask you this for are you up? If you were
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Speaker 1: torying that that instance, you wouldn't have got up and
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Speaker 1: testified or tried to save your life in any capacity.
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Speaker 1: I would have never put myself in that situation. But
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Speaker 1: if you, if you are in that situation, I would
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Speaker 1: never be in that situation. I'm not answered. I am
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Speaker 1: not answered. I would never put myself in that situation.
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Speaker 1: I ain't gonna hang out with nobody. Listen, we'll put
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Speaker 1: themselves in that said listen, I ain't not wrong with snitching,
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Speaker 1: ain't not wrong not putting yourself in that situation either.
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Speaker 1: That is very true. But sometimes people are in very
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Speaker 1: unfortunate circumstances that places them in those situations, and you
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Speaker 1: know you gotta go up there and snitch. Man, Damn okay,
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Speaker 1: you don't want to go to prison, you bet go snitch.
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Speaker 1: Did you see what Carl Crawford from fifteen o one,
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Speaker 1: um he welcomes Megan the Stallion home to Houston. Did
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Speaker 1: you guys see that today? Friday three thirty one, the
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Speaker 1: Queen of the hotties and the most iconic female artists
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Speaker 1: of our time. I thought that was Beyonce. Um, we'll
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Speaker 1: be touching down. We want the entire community of Texas.
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Speaker 1: I thought they do that for Beyonce to help fifteen
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Speaker 1: O one the FI Entertainment welcome the Queen of the
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Speaker 1: High He's making the stallion back to the city of Houston.
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Speaker 1: And damn, she got some good lawyers. That was pretty cool.
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Speaker 1: She'll be headlining the ATNT Black Party as part of
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Speaker 1: an amazing twenty twenty three Ncuba March Maddis the Miami
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Speaker 1: Hurricanes is in nothing. Um. And this is after he
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Speaker 1: apologized to her too. That's why I said she must
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Speaker 1: have some really good lawyers. Then he put at the
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Speaker 1: bottom warm regards. See called Carl first of all, Carl,
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Speaker 1: what's up, bit doll? That's my dog. You know what
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Speaker 1: I'm saying, Car, Carl to home. I'm saying, Carl brought
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Speaker 1: Megan and staying around mean fly got DC used their
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Speaker 1: two B team at the very beginning of his career,
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Speaker 1: her career and were moving around. So yeah, I've actually
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Speaker 1: seen the beginning of the career. This is a good
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Speaker 1: smart move by you, sir. I definitely appreciate uh, and
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Speaker 1: I can congratulate you on taking a big step and
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Speaker 1: posting this and letting everybody know that you were making
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Speaker 1: the Stallion are not before each other for her. That's
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Speaker 1: why I said she got some good lawyers, because as
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Speaker 1: soon as these lawyers I felt start, you know, smashing
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Speaker 1: the gas, you know, car like, hey man, let's just
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Speaker 1: be friends, which I hope that, you know, they eventually
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Speaker 1: go back. I don't think that they'll ever be friends,
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Speaker 1: but I think that they can probably be co workers.
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Speaker 1: Man where I think when when her contract is up,
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Speaker 1: she gonna be smoked. She's gonna be the first day smoke.
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Speaker 1: She's gonna be out that time. Depending on how that
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Speaker 1: contract look, she might bunds a lot of the things.
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Speaker 1: Yeah she could. Yeah, I think that she still wants
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Speaker 1: to get away from from that. And why do you
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Speaker 1: think he's playing nice? Now? It's good for business. She
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Speaker 1: got some glory. It's good for business. You should be
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Speaker 1: in the Megan the Stallion business. She's signed to fifteen
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Speaker 1: on one, is she not? Yeah, she's signed. She signed
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Speaker 1: to Carl, So through some type of configuration, she's still there.
10:50
Speaker 1: I wonder how long though, I wonder how long her
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Speaker 1: contract is. I know we're gonna get the intricate details
10:57
Speaker 1: of these things need to hit the internet sometimes, but
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Speaker 1: sometimes they never will because of the high power. Low
11:02
Speaker 1: I said, we need to get called and come on
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Speaker 1: to the show called apb out on called Crawford. I
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Speaker 1: got his number, but you know, hey, man, sometimes these
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Speaker 1: clips the Instagram matters. So go ahead and clipping this up.
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Speaker 1: Oct it's a apb out for Call Crawford fifty to one.
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Speaker 1: Bring your ass on the show Balling Alert Show and
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Speaker 1: come talk about some things. Yeah, we need to. We
11:21
Speaker 1: need to. We need to know what's going on, what
11:22
Speaker 1: type of contract dog anyway, so you know, we can
11:24
Speaker 1: ask you all the questions that everybody else get ask
11:27
Speaker 1: we ask you. Okay, So before we get out of
11:30
Speaker 1: case you missed it. Um, there's this thing going around.
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Speaker 1: Well it's kind of solidified. Now you can buy a
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Speaker 1: blue check. Oh I've been I've been saying that for
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Speaker 1: eleven ninety nine a month. You can verify yourself on Instagram. Man,
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Speaker 1: Now you're about to have market little cousins and uncles
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Speaker 1: and aunties getting verified. And first of all, I've already
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Speaker 1: been seen people verified. It doesn't need to be verified.
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Speaker 1: And let's be clear man, this blue check, it's supposed
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Speaker 1: to be for people who are being in personated by
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Speaker 1: other people, meaning that you're somewhat Uh, that's sure, they do.
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Speaker 1: They change the color. Now, if you're a celebrity or
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Speaker 1: if you're a person of stature, you should get like
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Speaker 1: a purple check and then if you want to buy
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Speaker 1: when you get a blue one. Twitter does gold checks.
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Speaker 1: What for businesses, for big businesses, they'll have a gold check.
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Speaker 1: If you Coca Colation first tomorrow, We're gonna lose our
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Speaker 1: blue checks on Twitter because April first, Twitter says that
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Speaker 1: they are no longer giving out free blue checks. You
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Speaker 1: gotta pay for it, don't matter if you're a celebrity. Joke,
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Speaker 1: because it's doing the first. I'm eager to see. I'm
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Speaker 1: eager to see it. I can't wait to see it.
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Speaker 1: I don't think that they're gonna take it away, but
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Speaker 1: I do think because Twitter did it first, and um,
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Speaker 1: where you pay per month for Twitter, it's called Twitter
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Speaker 1: blue I believe. And then, um, a monetizing man. They
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Speaker 1: getting this money by any means necessary monetizing. You're right,
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Speaker 1: Country Wayne, I'm really glad that they're monetizing this blue
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Speaker 1: check because, uh, for one, Instagram always denied me for
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Speaker 1: getting my blue check for whatever reason. And this keeps
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Speaker 1: people because I felt like it was people anyway as
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Speaker 1: they had a blue check for no reason. And you know,
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Speaker 1: people with blue checks always just felt like they were
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Speaker 1: just so special. You know what I'm saying, People like
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Speaker 1: they just felt like they were just so special because
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Speaker 1: I would meet people and uh, you know, it'd be
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Speaker 1: like random independent artists that have blue checks and you're like, bro,
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Speaker 1: you have you have zero streams like like you you're
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Speaker 1: not You're not getting impersonated. The verification was supposed to
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Speaker 1: be for people who are getting impersonated, obviously celebrities, politics,
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Speaker 1: but it means something though in the social media world.
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Speaker 1: Feel that's gonna say. I feel like, if you couldn't
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Speaker 1: afford it, if you're if you want to pay for it,
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Speaker 1: it's your money, man. It's twel's eleven dollars nine and
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Speaker 1: I sent per month. Go ahead. I mean, that's that's
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Speaker 1: better than what they were talking. If it maybe you
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Speaker 1: can use it to mind help monetize your your situation better.
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Speaker 1: Who do the celebrities and everybody who has one already
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Speaker 1: do they have to now pay or do? No? No,
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Speaker 1: that we woke up and I had a Blue Chat
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Speaker 1: one time. That was a couple of years ago. Like
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Speaker 1: I can't remember what year because you lit, but I
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Speaker 1: just randomly had it. I didn't apply for it. I
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Speaker 1: didn't even submit, no idea or nothing. I just woke
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Speaker 1: up one day and I had a blue Chat mart
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Speaker 1: next to my name. But for the people who are
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Speaker 1: trying to pay for one, if it helps you create
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Speaker 1: more money or it helps you monetize, cool, But I
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Speaker 1: don't think. I think the price point is kind of
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Speaker 1: high for someone to be like, all right, cool, because
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Speaker 1: like if you do, I don't think the second month
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Speaker 1: it's eleven. I mean, if you got a Netflix account,
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Speaker 1: why not listen? It's twelve dollars. That's cheap. Because people
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Speaker 1: don't understand all these people is making a side hustle
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Speaker 1: selling verifications for like twenty five hundred, five thousand and
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Speaker 1: ten thousand. So people are saying like people are playing
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Speaker 1: for verifications. The people. That's somebody who I knew, somebody
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Speaker 1: that was trying to say, bro, i'll pay five bands
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Speaker 1: that I was like, I don't know who to point
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Speaker 1: you towards. I don't know people are paying somebody. I
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Speaker 1: know people that was paying the five thousand, and people
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Speaker 1: like yo, BT, you should be verify fun time FEEDO.
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Speaker 1: You're not paying it consistently, you might not even get it.
15:22
Speaker 1: You pay and might not get it. You're paying and
15:26
Speaker 1: you might get the climb. But that's what I'm saying.
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Speaker 1: They will give you money. Yeah, okay, yeah, but think
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Speaker 1: about it if if you pay five thousand dollars one time,
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Speaker 1: what is twelve dollars that's well yeah, okay, you know,
15:42
Speaker 1: think about the price margin for people who are paying
15:44
Speaker 1: that monthly fee. I mean, if it is working, if
15:47
Speaker 1: it is gonna work for you and you are going
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Speaker 1: to monetize from your content, then it's gonna pay for itself.
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Speaker 1: Like right now, I know one artist um who did
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Speaker 1: it and they sell shoes. So I was like, okay,
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Speaker 1: it helps, it's helping them. I mean it just started
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Speaker 1: a couple of days ago. But you know, we shall see.
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Speaker 1: There's how much, say paying a year forty four dollars.
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Speaker 1: That's that's better than five thousand, but that's lower than
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Speaker 1: a Netflix account because you're paying Netflix fifteen dollars and
16:18
Speaker 1: hired you know, they probably go go to seventeen dollars.
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Speaker 1: Shout out my cousin, I use his Netflix account. But
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Speaker 1: I'm saying, but the extreamet platforms, it's the same, it's
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Speaker 1: around the same price. I mean, and this is actually
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Speaker 1: making you money if you do it the right way.
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Speaker 1: Watching you know, Netflix and all that stuff that's not
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Speaker 1: really making you know money. I don't understand why people
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Speaker 1: are so upset about people paying for these verifications because
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Speaker 1: a lot of people that was already verified paid to
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Speaker 1: be verified. And we're in a new world, We're in
16:47
Speaker 1: a new time. Things are different. You know, you have
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Speaker 1: millionaires who just sit behind a computer and create for
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Speaker 1: a living. So you know this is the inevitable. Yes, agree,
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Speaker 1: you can't get mad at you know, someone who created
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Speaker 1: something that's people are going to spend dollars on like.
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Speaker 1: And then for the people who may not understand you
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Speaker 1: probably go on your Instagram or your social media for leisure.
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Speaker 1: There are a large group of people that go on
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Speaker 1: Instagram to make money and they monetize off of their
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Speaker 1: social social media and a blue check can help them
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Speaker 1: make extra money. Hey, these days in our line of work,
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Speaker 1: social social media equity is you're following how many followers
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Speaker 1: you have? If you're verified, it's just good on the
17:38
Speaker 1: schematics of when your name is on the paper. Oh,
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Speaker 1: if they're picking somebody for a podcast, they're picking somebody
17:45
Speaker 1: for such such. They're looking at your analytics, They're looking
17:47
Speaker 1: at your numbers. That's why you shouldn't buy fake followers.
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Speaker 1: You shouldn't buy fake engagement. You should try to put
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Speaker 1: out dope content. When you put out dope content, it
17:54
Speaker 1: drives people to look at your analytics. And if you
17:56
Speaker 1: have good analytics, you'll get hired for big things. We'll
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Speaker 1: be right back with more of the Baller Alert show message.
18:06
Speaker 1: It is time for baller mail. Ball Alert was popping.
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Speaker 1: My baby Mama's friends make me, hella uncomfortable. We've been
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Speaker 1: together for a few years and we have a son together,
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Speaker 1: but I don't like her friends. They all cheat on
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Speaker 1: their husbands boyfriend their husbands slash boyfriends. One is married
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Speaker 1: and cheats like crazy. The other one cheats on her
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Speaker 1: dude too. My baby mama hangs with them all the time,
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Speaker 1: which makes me think she will want to do the
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Speaker 1: same thing. I trust her, but I don't lead y'all opinions.
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Speaker 1: Please well, I mean he has a valid point. Birds
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Speaker 1: of a fella, dude flocked together, not calling her a
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Speaker 1: bird or you know. She may you know, have her
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Speaker 1: own mind, but you know you are the company you
18:52
Speaker 1: keep as well, so that's valid too. I do understand
18:56
Speaker 1: his concern, I can. I can't understand where he's coming from.
19:02
Speaker 1: I also think that, man, you can't let you know
19:04
Speaker 1: insecurity ruin your relationship. I feel like a lot of
19:08
Speaker 1: time us, man, we let our insecurity starts to affect
19:12
Speaker 1: our relationships. And just because her friends do things doesn't
19:17
Speaker 1: mean that she's going to be compelled to do it too,
19:19
Speaker 1: especially if you're dealing with somebody you know that's an adult,
19:22
Speaker 1: because she could think the same thing about him, like
19:24
Speaker 1: your friends are like this, so you could potentially be
19:27
Speaker 1: like this. But what I would say is don't let
19:30
Speaker 1: your insecurity mess up your relationship. Man. If her friends
19:33
Speaker 1: want to cheat on their husbands and do whatever they're doing,
19:36
Speaker 1: then still that was the best answer you've ever given
19:40
Speaker 1: on you. I'll add to the insecurity thing, have an
19:46
Speaker 1: open line of communication, you know, so that you can
19:52
Speaker 1: you don't know what she's thinking even if you know.
19:56
Speaker 1: But I understand this concern because what if she gets mad?
19:58
Speaker 1: It's so easy to do wrong. You know, and it's
20:02
Speaker 1: kind of hard to do right sometimes, but you know,
20:04
Speaker 1: have an open line of communication so you know, don't
20:07
Speaker 1: go to bed angry and all that stuff because if
20:09
Speaker 1: you want pins and needles. Now, if you're all mad
20:11
Speaker 1: at each other, guys, worry, it's over, hey, big fellas,
20:16
Speaker 1: it is over. She like hanging out with her home
20:20
Speaker 1: girls at the head like working at the red Like.
20:22
Speaker 1: I'm just letting you know now. It is a rapping ton. Hey,
20:27
Speaker 1: can get your goddamn variables together, my boy, that shit hey, yeah,
20:32
Speaker 1: insecurities at all time high, my guy, and you should said, baby, mama,
20:37
Speaker 1: is that your lady? Your your wife? You engage you
20:40
Speaker 1: ain't boy, She's gonna be around them boys. You know
20:43
Speaker 1: I'm talking about how you know she ain't She know
20:46
Speaker 1: you're already because you know, you know, the best lies
20:49
Speaker 1: on the earth is not me. It's the opposite of man.
20:53
Speaker 1: It is the woman. I'm just letting you know right now.
20:57
Speaker 1: We do not know how to lie because usually when
20:59
Speaker 1: we lie, our lady know we lie already. We just
21:02
Speaker 1: they just waiting and gathering more evidence. Meanwhile, they'd be
21:06
Speaker 1: cheating for fifteen years and you would never know because
21:10
Speaker 1: they know how to lie, They know how to fake orgasms,
21:12
Speaker 1: they know how to do all that shit. I'm just
21:14
Speaker 1: letting you know, not big fella, as you were riding
21:16
Speaker 1: me with you with your head in your chest, that
21:20
Speaker 1: boom boom, boom boom. It's a rap, big fella. If
21:23
Speaker 1: you are, if you're feeling that way, you feeling secured.
21:26
Speaker 1: Oh it is over ten, over ten, living single, it's over,
21:33
Speaker 1: is over ten. It's not over. It's a rat. It's gone.
21:37
Speaker 1: So don't go through a phone, and not go through
21:40
Speaker 1: her phone. He said, baby mama, Oh, baby mama, Baby mama,
21:45
Speaker 1: Me and y'all, y'all might not even stay together even
21:49
Speaker 1: together baby mama, all you said, yeah, we've been together
21:54
Speaker 1: for a few years. We have a son together. He
21:56
Speaker 1: didn't say that was your that's your girlfriend. Said that
21:58
Speaker 1: was at my yance. Ain't said that was my wife.
22:01
Speaker 1: Many mama, that's my girl. Man, we know that's his girl.
22:05
Speaker 1: We know what. He said. They've been to wait, he said,
22:08
Speaker 1: they've been to game. He said, look, this is the thing.
22:11
Speaker 1: This is the discernment that men have when we kind
22:13
Speaker 1: of be like, oh, man, I don't like this. He said,
22:16
Speaker 1: My baby mama's friends are making me hella uncomfortable. You
22:19
Speaker 1: know how much it take for man and feel uncomfortable.
22:22
Speaker 1: We don't be giving a damn by nothing. We like
22:24
Speaker 1: to play the game. Go to the game, play some hoops.
22:27
Speaker 1: Goddamn go out, you know, smoke a little, don't talking
22:30
Speaker 1: about hit. You know, we have a little sexual capee
22:33
Speaker 1: and got dad kicking you know what said he makes
22:35
Speaker 1: some good food. We're kicking it. But if a guy,
22:38
Speaker 1: if a guy said, I'm comfortable nigga, right, all right,
22:45
Speaker 1: that's enough. We'll be right back. Stay tuned with more
22:48
Speaker 1: of the baller alerts. Y'all um for today's pep talk. Ferrari.
22:54
Speaker 1: You have a cool job and if you can explain
22:56
Speaker 1: it one more time and then you know, for people
22:59
Speaker 1: out there them some free game. So yeah. I am
23:02
Speaker 1: the national director of Lifestyle and Mix Show at Warner Records.
23:07
Speaker 1: I am in charge of some specific markets markets in
23:10
Speaker 1: the country. UM. I talk to programming directors at radio
23:13
Speaker 1: stations and also the DJ mixers at the radio stations.
23:16
Speaker 1: I check in. I give them our priority songs that
23:19
Speaker 1: we are spending. I asked, you know the hard questions,
23:23
Speaker 1: that you like the song? Do you not like the song?
23:24
Speaker 1: You're gonna add it. I get to do things. I
23:27
Speaker 1: get to plan events, I get to do stuff with
23:29
Speaker 1: the station, work with the station, work with the record label.
23:32
Speaker 1: I also do lifestyle for the label. So when artists
23:35
Speaker 1: is coming in town, I curate a promo run depending
23:39
Speaker 1: on how many days that they're here, m and I
23:42
Speaker 1: just provide them with dope content, doing content, surround them around,
23:47
Speaker 1: surround them around the right people so their career can
23:50
Speaker 1: continue to flourish. So um BT actually came to one
23:54
Speaker 1: of the events and you did a really you did
23:57
Speaker 1: a really great job. Yeah. I love how you know.
24:00
Speaker 1: You made sure the artist was introduced to all the
24:03
Speaker 1: DJ's and spoke to all the DJ's and two pictures,
24:06
Speaker 1: And I think that stuff is really important because you know,
24:10
Speaker 1: DJ's and hosts like myself, I feel like we don't
24:13
Speaker 1: really get the credit, um and we don't get introduced
24:16
Speaker 1: the proper way in the beginning, in the beginning unless
24:19
Speaker 1: somebody needs something. And that's what I don't. I don't
24:23
Speaker 1: like that, which is why you don't you rarely go
24:26
Speaker 1: to things. Yeah, I rory No, I never go through
24:29
Speaker 1: anything like that because I don't like how the DJ's
24:33
Speaker 1: are treated. Um and you know, a big shout out
24:36
Speaker 1: to to Ti Man. Ti. He came, he came U.
24:40
Speaker 1: He was at my R and B party last night
24:42
Speaker 1: and he came up and it was a bunch of
24:44
Speaker 1: DJ's in there because we was doing a black album
24:47
Speaker 1: released party last night, and Ti came there and he
24:50
Speaker 1: shook all the DJ hands and he said, Man, I
24:53
Speaker 1: appreciate y'all. I just wanted to show my appreciation to
24:56
Speaker 1: you guys and stuff like that. And I think stuff
24:59
Speaker 1: like that is really a port man because you know,
25:01
Speaker 1: the DJs are you know, the first line. DJs are
25:05
Speaker 1: the first line of uh of A. They're the first
25:08
Speaker 1: line that you're gonna meet. They're the first people to
25:10
Speaker 1: believe in you outside of your your your day one,
25:12
Speaker 1: your day ones are gonna believe you. Then the next
25:14
Speaker 1: person is going to be of the DJ DJ's gonna
25:16
Speaker 1: take chances on you, and then the next person after
25:18
Speaker 1: that's gonna get a mixed show DJ. And of course
25:20
Speaker 1: it goes up to the power power chain after that.
25:22
Speaker 1: But yeah, I just wanted to um highlight a couple
25:26
Speaker 1: of things and then my my PEP talk would be
25:28
Speaker 1: uh to stand on all ten. I think sometimes we
25:31
Speaker 1: get a little uh nervous when we have to make
25:35
Speaker 1: uncomfortable decisions. But I like to be uncomfortable. I'm actually
25:39
Speaker 1: uncomfortable today. I'm uncomfortable every day, and I feel like
25:43
Speaker 1: that keeps you sharp, It keeps you on point being
25:46
Speaker 1: uncomfortable because you don't know what's gonna happen. And actually
25:49
Speaker 1: I just started my job and then, um, you know,
25:52
Speaker 1: I saw some people get let go, so it happens,
25:56
Speaker 1: you know what I'm saying in the line of work,
25:58
Speaker 1: and I'm over here like this person need great job,
26:01
Speaker 1: but they got let go. So you know, I'm learning
26:03
Speaker 1: early in the game that you have to put yourself
26:06
Speaker 1: out there and if you really want something, you gotta
26:09
Speaker 1: go get it, and you have to be uncomfortable otherwise
26:11
Speaker 1: you're gonna work for somebody else who followed their dreams.
26:15
Speaker 1: You're either gonna follow your dream or you're gonna work
26:17
Speaker 1: for somebody who followed theirs. There is no in between period.
26:21
Speaker 1: Big Ron