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Rayna worked VERY hard on this bachelorette party. · Johnjay & Rich On Demand

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  Speaker 1: What's up, Raina, you're on the air. Thanks for holding Hi.
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  Speaker 2: Thank you so much for having me.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, you're welcome. What's up?
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  Speaker 3: So, guys, I need.
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  Speaker 2: An honest answer here because my friends saying I've completely
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  Speaker 2: lost my mind.
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  Speaker 3: So I'm the maid of honor for my best friend's wedding,
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  Speaker 3: and professionally, I'm an operations manager. So basically, when I
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  Speaker 3: organize something, I turn it into an Olympic sport. So
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  Speaker 3: for her bachelorette weekend, I went all out. I mean
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  Speaker 3: I had flight trackers, reservation like reservations for restaurants. I
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  Speaker 3: had color coded outfit themes for each day, group schedules,
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  Speaker 3: you know, split chainment spreadsheets. I even created formulas so
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  Speaker 3: nobody had to figure out dinner.
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  Speaker 2: Now the effort a few cocktails.
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  Speaker 3: I mean, I would think this is every girl's dreams.
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  Speaker 2: They have a built in party planner.
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  Speaker 3: I spent, no joke, probably forty hours of my actual
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  Speaker 3: PTO putting this whole thing together because I wanted everyone's, like,
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  Speaker 3: everything to run.
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  Speaker 2: Smoothly and for everyone to have a great time.
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  Speaker 3: Well we get there and nobody follows the itinerary. They're sleeping, Yeah,
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  Speaker 3: they're sleeping in they are running late, they completely miss
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  Speaker 3: our three hundred dollars drag brunch reservation.
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  Speaker 2: People are changing plans on the fly.
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  Speaker 3: The whole weekend starts unraveling, And to me, this is
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  Speaker 3: like crisis moment, I know, And like then one of
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  Speaker 3: the girls actually looks at my tenerary and says it
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  Speaker 3: was quote unquote giving corporate hostage situations.
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  Speaker 4: Can you believe that, Oh my gosh, did you just
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  Speaker 4: go over a schedule? Because here's the thing, Like my friends,
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  Speaker 4: she's very similar to you, And I always appreciate it
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  Speaker 4: because that does take a lot of work and like
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  Speaker 4: looking into all the places and finding where to go,
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  Speaker 4: and it is a lot of work. But I think
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  Speaker 4: when you over schedule a vacation, it doesn't feel like
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  Speaker 4: a vacation anymore. It feels like you are working.
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  Speaker 2: And that could be true, but I'm typically the planner.
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  Speaker 3: I mean, if you're going on a trip and you
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  Speaker 3: don't have an itinerary, like what are we doing here?
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  Speaker 3: And if there are color coded fads involved, I think
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  Speaker 3: it's a little harsh. So anyways, by the final day,
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  Speaker 3: I was super frustrated, maybe more frustrated than I should
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  Speaker 3: have been. I just felt really underappreciated. So when everyone
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  Speaker 3: started ventmollingk for the Airbnb, I mean, tell me if
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  Speaker 3: I overreacted. I added a two hundred dollars event operations
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  Speaker 3: and logisticsty.
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  Speaker 2: For each person.
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  Speaker 3: Okay, before you respond, My thinking was, if I'm basically
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  Speaker 3: acting as a travel coordinator, project manager, accountant, scheduler, and
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  Speaker 3: crisis response team all weekend, that's a lot.
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  Speaker 2: For one person, So maybe my labor should be worth something.
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  Speaker 4: And they didn't ask you to do that, so the
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  Speaker 4: charge them for it's kind of bad.
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  Speaker 1: Up do they pay it?
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  Speaker 3: Well, the Brian found out, and now half the group
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  Speaker 3: refuses to pay, saying and everyone is having the audacity
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  Speaker 3: to say that I ruined the trip, and apparently I'm
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  Speaker 3: the villain of the Bachelorette weekend.
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  Speaker 5: People kind of know you, they know you're like this,
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  Speaker 5: Like this reminds me of my wife Stacy's friend Nicole,
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  Speaker 5: who like planned, helped plan our wedding, where my itinerator
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  Speaker 5: was like, you will go to this room and you
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  Speaker 5: have eighteen minutes to shower and then I need you
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  Speaker 5: here for the pictures, and I mean it was on time.
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  Speaker 5: In fact, they even told the pastor like for our
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  Speaker 5: opening number that will be three minutes, and then you
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  Speaker 5: have three minutes to talk. And I mean it was
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  Speaker 5: like on schedule. If you know people like that, then
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  Speaker 5: you expect that from you. We would expect nothing less
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  Speaker 5: than color coordination from you.
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  Speaker 3: I mean, I would argue, I can see I can.
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  Speaker 2: Play double's advocate, and I can see both sides where
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  Speaker 2: it can be a little bit much. However, if there's
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  Speaker 2: not structure, it's just can't say. For me, I'm like TYPEE,
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  Speaker 2: so like that would be like suffocating to me.
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  Speaker 1: I'd be like, I don't want to go to your
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  Speaker 1: drag brunch or whatever, but it's like a drag brush.
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  Speaker 5: It's so fun.
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  Speaker 1: I don't give you about love. I would love to
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  Speaker 1: go to a drag brunch. Don't give Your issue is
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  Speaker 1: that she's charging people to put it together. Yeah, exactly
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  Speaker 1: ahead of time said okay, i'll be your maid of honor.
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  Speaker 1: I'll put together this party. But it's going to take
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  Speaker 1: a lot of work, and I'm gonna charge you guys.
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  Speaker 1: That's a lot. That's a lot. That's a lot.
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  Speaker 5: Is a game for it?
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  Speaker 1: Then, I mean, and also, if you don't know everyone,
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  Speaker 1: people probably think you're crazy. I'm surprised if anyone, as
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  Speaker 1: anyone paid the two hundred dollars.
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  Speaker 3: Okay, so, but honestly, if somebody spent forty hours planning
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  Speaker 3: something and everyone completely ignores it.
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  Speaker 2: Like, am I wrong for feeling like my time hands day?
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  Speaker 3: I don't think I would have charged the two hundred
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  Speaker 3: dollars hand everybody fallen in line.
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  Speaker 2: With the itinerary.
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  Speaker 3: It was the fact that people were just going a
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  Speaker 3: law and it felt like okay, and nobody respected my
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  Speaker 3: time and energy.
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  Speaker 2: So I'm going to have to start charging people.
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  Speaker 3: I think they're probably like I should be a donation
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  Speaker 3: of your time to the bride or whatever.
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  Speaker 1: Has anyone paid it? Nobody paid it? Figured, I don't think.
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  Speaker 3: In this economy, I'm not surprised.
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  Speaker 2: So to me, am I crazy here?
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  Speaker 5: We need to follow thee Why are we paying you?
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  Speaker 1: I do? I think you're crazy? I do. I don't
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  Speaker 1: think anyone's gonna agree with you. I think you're precious.
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  Speaker 4: Yeah, this would be a little un huge.
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  Speaker 1: Thank you for calling in with your interesting situation, Ryda,
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  Speaker 1: thanks for listening. Thank you so much.