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CAN CHAT-GPT GET YOU GIRLS?! · Relatables

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Speaker 1: Coming up on Relatables. Do you think the nice worker
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Speaker 1: at McDonald's thought you said have a happy day? I
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Speaker 1: clearly said have a McHappy day.
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Speaker 2: Mick was a little bit of del You don't try
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Speaker 2: it the delivery of Mick. Stop chatting and try it.
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Speaker 1: Oh shit. The Relatables podcast is hosted by myself, Audie
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Speaker 1: Clark aka Mummy, and my partner in crime, Jack Craig.
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Speaker 1: Mister daddy. That's fucking god. Everybody listening is the Baddies.
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Speaker 1: Thanks for tuning you once again to the Relatables. Yes,
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Speaker 1: thank you very much. Oh we quickly. I'm excited, quickly
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Speaker 1: before he does his thing. He's excited to have the
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Speaker 1: top of the episode.
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Speaker 3: But we last week were talking about orchestras and we
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Speaker 3: were like, is it an orchestrator?
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Speaker 1: Is it called an orchestra? What is it? And then
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Speaker 1: we convinced ourselves that it's an orchestrator.
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Speaker 3: Jake convinced me, and we also convinced ourselves we could
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Speaker 3: do it. Yeah, so I'm still convinced I could do it.
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Speaker 1: I know what it's called.
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Speaker 3: But but but we've learnt from a message from a
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Speaker 3: kind listener, and it is called a conductor.
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Speaker 1: And I knew that. How did we not put two
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Speaker 1: and two together? I don't know. I'm going to justify
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Speaker 1: it by saying, sometimes we get in our heads trying
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Speaker 1: to think really quickly orchestrated, like.
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Speaker 3: Yeah, what I think is like I think we get
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Speaker 3: in our heads and we're like we need the topic
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Speaker 3: and needs to move on.
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Speaker 1: Yeah, so like.
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Speaker 3: Orchestrator it is.
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Speaker 1: I think that should call it an orchestraer. We're not
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Speaker 1: even wrong here a train driver. Seriously, you're not a fucker.
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Speaker 1: You're not conducting ship. You're an orchestrator's like a whistle,
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Speaker 1: like we go you you're not a train driver. Oh
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Speaker 1: but how I wanted to start the episode today, Jake.
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Speaker 1: Last week we found out that I've got some game,
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Speaker 1: so I wanted to keep testing my abilities. But this
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Speaker 1: time I wanted to use the help of technology. I've
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Speaker 1: seen a lot of I don't go to UNI, you
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Speaker 1: don't go to UNI, but a lot of people use
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Speaker 1: this new thing called chat GBT. Yeah, let's go. We
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Speaker 1: can answer any question you ask it. It's quite helpful. Really,
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Speaker 1: it's pretty cool.
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Speaker 3: Like I've I've fucked around with it for a bit.
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Speaker 1: But did you think you could get your girls. No.
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Speaker 1: So what I've done is I've used chat GBT to
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Speaker 1: reply to my girlfriend's text and see if she noticed it. All.
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Speaker 1: Oh god, I'm like kind of nervous. So I went,
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Speaker 1: so we need context for what my girlfriend's doing, so
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Speaker 1: it makes sense, okay, as of texting her, she was
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Speaker 1: in Melbourne seeing her sister and she just got there
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Speaker 1: that day. For context, okay, okay, So I said to
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Speaker 1: chat GBT, the conversation with my girlfriend had pittled out,
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Speaker 1: so I was just waiting for a perfect moment to
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Speaker 1: say it. So I said to chat GBT, can I
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Speaker 1: please have one conversation starter? And chat GBT said, what's
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Speaker 1: one thing you're looking forward to this week that's good
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Speaker 1: for being in Melbourne? And so that's what I said.
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Speaker 1: My girlfriend's response was this week coming, interesting question. You
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Speaker 1: never asked me that enjoy Melbourne? See my boyfriend on Wednesday?
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Speaker 1: What about you? Pretty good so far? And what I
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Speaker 1: did is I copied all my girlfriend's responses and put
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Speaker 1: them into chap GBT and said, how would you respond
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Speaker 1: to this if you've got these texts? Yeah, so this
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Speaker 1: is chat gbt's response. Sounds like a fun trip I'm
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Speaker 1: looking forward to seeing you when you get back from Melbourne.
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Speaker 1: Have a great time. What's been your highlight of your
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Speaker 1: trip so far? Pretty good? Fucking and saying, she says,
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Speaker 1: pookies together. I mean, I haven't done much yet. She
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Speaker 1: landed like two hours before. Go to breakfast in this
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Speaker 1: city at the moment, just leaving a Da Vinci exhibit
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Speaker 1: which was really cool, and getting dinner with Sky at
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Speaker 1: seven and same thing again. I put in chat GBT
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Speaker 1: the responses and Chap GBT replied that sounds like a
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Speaker 1: lovely day. The Da Vinci exhibit must have been fascinating.
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Speaker 1: Enjoy your dinner with Sky. What was your favorite part
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Speaker 1: of the exhibition? Oh? Okay, getting in detail. We're getting
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Speaker 1: in detail now, she goes, It was actually really cool.
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Speaker 1: We were there for a while. The big room with
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Speaker 1: the screens was a vibe. Why are you asking me
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Speaker 1: so many questions and being so nice? Why are you
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Speaker 1: being so nice? Is your girlfriend's gonna ask you that
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Speaker 1: there there's something wrong? Same thing again, ask you, GBT,
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Speaker 1: what to say? I'm glad you enjoyed it. The room
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Speaker 1: of the screen sounds amazing. Just curious about your day
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Speaker 1: and missing you can't wait to see you when you
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Speaker 1: get back. Dude, this is kind of like good. This
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Speaker 1: is good. She goes, yeah, I'm pretty tired now, just
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Speaker 1: going to chill for a bit before dinner. It's so
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Speaker 1: cold day, Just curious. You'll never like this? Are you okay?
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Speaker 1: Or do you miss me? See you in two days?
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Speaker 1: Same thing again. Chat gbt's responses. I can imagine how
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Speaker 1: trying it must be after such an event full day.
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Speaker 1: I hope you have some good rest before dinner. I
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Speaker 1: do miss you a lot too. I'm really looking forward
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Speaker 1: to seeing you in two days. And then she goes,
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Speaker 1: she has to be catching on the some just tired
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Speaker 1: from getting up early, got a snack, and I'm about
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Speaker 1: to be in a potato mood. I miss you too.
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Speaker 1: How will you survive? About me? How are you? And
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Speaker 1: this is where I left it? And she still doesn't
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Speaker 1: know that I used you left it there and she
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Speaker 1: messaged me after and she goes, I started talking normally,
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Speaker 1: and she goes, why are you being so nice to me?
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Speaker 1: I really liked it. Oh, and you haven't told her
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Speaker 1: nor I thought you would have at least told her
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Speaker 1: after you had done. She's gonna so Cassie, if you're listening,
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Speaker 1: I'm sorry. Oh so I'm in the good books and
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Speaker 1: I see her tonight and she won't know too next week.
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Speaker 1: So she got back from Melbourne last night. Oh so
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Speaker 1: she got back.
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Speaker 3: Yeah.
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Speaker 1: Stop. But to be fair, there's been plenty of occasions
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Speaker 1: where there's boys or even girls gathered around the phone
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Speaker 1: trying to think of something to say. Yeah, let's just
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Speaker 1: go on chat EBT, plug in the answers, let's go,
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Speaker 1: and then you have Bobs, your uncle, you've got yourself,
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Speaker 1: a girlfriend, you know. Okay, you've inspired me.
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Speaker 3: We've got I've got until next week to do that,
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Speaker 3: all right, So I'm gonna do I'm doing this, all right,
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Speaker 3: I am doing this.
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Speaker 4: I was.
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Speaker 1: I was doing it at the gym and I was
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Speaker 1: laughing at because you just kept going on with it.
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Speaker 1: Oh you think so nice. I know. I'm going to
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Speaker 1: try and I'm going to think of some good little
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Speaker 1: actions to say the GPS to chat. Yeah, you need
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Speaker 1: to put in like a little bit, mess with it
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Speaker 1: a little bit to make it what you want. But
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Speaker 1: it was fun. At fuck, that's so good. Okay.
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Speaker 3: We actually this was requested while we were doing a
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Speaker 3: live stream. Was it first ever live stream. We were
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Speaker 3: it was requested the people. The people wanted more cheating
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Speaker 3: not cheating. Oh so that's good. I think we do
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Speaker 3: it too much.
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Speaker 1: Yeah yeah, yeah, yeah.
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Speaker 3: So we've gone and we've let the Instagram vote for
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Speaker 3: these ones changed up a bit. I love these ones. Okay,
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Speaker 3: so I will be our Instagram followers voted on these
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Speaker 3: cheating not cheatings. But I'm going to ask you what
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Speaker 3: you think and let you know if you're right or
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Speaker 3: wrong due to the majority cheating not cheating from the people.
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Speaker 3: From the people. Okay, So cheating or not cheating getting
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Speaker 3: coffee or lunch with the other gender. Cheating percentage seventy three.
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Speaker 1: Not cheating, Isn't that crazy? Coffee? Oh mate, mate, I'll
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Speaker 1: be disgusted. You may well kiss me. Stuff the coffee.
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Speaker 1: Let's take me back to my room.
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Speaker 4: Who cheating?
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Speaker 1: That's crazy. That is disgusting. I think that's crazy. Okay,
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Speaker 1: I'm just going to start asking some girls on the
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Speaker 1: street to go get coffee with me. Facts, well, it's
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Speaker 1: not cheating. Yeah, this is your proof.
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Speaker 3: Yeah, asking another girl's opinion on his outfit.
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Speaker 1: Cheating sixty six. Not cheating is crazy asking. So I'm
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Speaker 1: going on a date with my girlfriend. I have a
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Speaker 1: girl best friend. I'm like, can you what do you
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Speaker 1: think of my outfit? And she goes, oh, you need
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Speaker 1: to change the shoes, And then I go on my date.
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Speaker 1: How is that not cheating? This is crazy?
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Speaker 3: The girly pops in the fucking Instagram.
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Speaker 1: That's gotta the plank. They're pranking us, They're pranking us.
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Speaker 1: How can they be pranking us as a three hundred
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Speaker 1: thousand collective. Yeah, it's nice, little flex, but that's.
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Speaker 3: What there's so many people to fuck it. Okay, letting
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Speaker 3: the opposite gender buy you a drink on a night out.
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Speaker 1: Okay, Okay, this one's tricky because I'm all for if
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Speaker 1: my girl gets a free drink, take it and run. So
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Speaker 1: I'm going to say it's going to be fifty to
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Speaker 1: fifty not cheating, fifty seventy percent not cheat. Yeah, at
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Speaker 1: least I got it right. You got it right. I
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Speaker 1: got it right. See see anything for free drinks, as
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Speaker 1: long as it doesn't feel guilty, cheating or.
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Speaker 3: Not cheating, still following your ex on ig, I'm gonna
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Speaker 3: say I'm going to take the healthy approach here, not cheating. Okay,
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Speaker 3: six oh seventy one percent not cheating. Yeah, none of
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Speaker 3: this shit's cheating are listening maturity.
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Speaker 1: That one's the only one that I would agree with
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Speaker 1: so far.
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Speaker 3: Okay, okay, okay, cheating or not cheating? Someone asks you out,
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Speaker 3: you decline, but you don't tell them you have a boyfriend.
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Speaker 1: Oh oh, it's disrespectful. But how that's situational? Do you
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Speaker 1: have to tell them you have a boyfriend? I just think, no,
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Speaker 1: you don't have to like explain their life. I'm like, no,
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Speaker 1: I'm again. You just say, yeah, I'm going to say
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Speaker 1: not cheating, not cheating seventy it's eighty two percent not cheating. Yeah,
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Speaker 1: as long as you did decline, you don't have to
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Speaker 1: tell me.
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Speaker 3: Last story Yeah yeah, yea, yeah yeah, Okay, this one
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Speaker 3: I think is going to get you cheating or not cheating,
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Speaker 3: falling asleep, cuddling a stuffed animal. Her guy best friend
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Speaker 3: got her.
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Speaker 1: My immediate answer, say how you feel, say with chest
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Speaker 1: on cheating seventy five percent, don't say it not cheating. Bro,
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Speaker 1: that's fucked up. I think that's fucked up. That guy,
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Speaker 1: my best friend got you. So when I'm not there,
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Speaker 1: you're hugging him pretty much basically I'd be burning that.
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Speaker 1: Oh yeah, yeah, that thing would be in the dirt,
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Speaker 1: rubbing that in the dirt. Here, take it back now,
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Speaker 1: I'd make it stink.
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Speaker 3: Give it to the dog, you know what i'd do.
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Speaker 3: But there's this poop spray that you can buy it
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Speaker 3: squat great, keep me chucking it out.
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Speaker 1: Hug it now. Yeah, that's probably got a fucking new one.
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Speaker 1: Yeah you would too. Probably hasn't lined up waiting for
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Speaker 1: every time she breaks up with her boyfriend. He's a
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Speaker 1: new stuff toymade fat. That's what's happening.
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Speaker 3: She has this whole collection of jelly cats she sleeps
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Speaker 3: with every night.
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Speaker 1: Jesus Christ. Cheating or not cheating?
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Speaker 3: Sharing UNI nototes when they missed class guying a girl obviously.
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Speaker 1: Sharing a UNI notes not cheating.
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Speaker 3: Not cheating ninety eight is fucking crazy.
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Speaker 1: Okay, girl's gonna learn, mate, you know what they missed class?
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Speaker 1: They were fucking They both need the notes? Okay. Cheating
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Speaker 1: or not cheating?
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Speaker 3: Getting a lift home from UNI with a guy from class?
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Speaker 1: What UNI means? You're like eighteen class?
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Speaker 4: Like?
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Speaker 1: Why cheating? Not cheating? What the fuck is going on?
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Speaker 1: I'm going to be Devil's advocate here and assume that
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Speaker 1: a lot of people in Sydney don't own a car.
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Speaker 1: But here, that's wild public transport here, that's wild. Question.
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Speaker 1: That's carpool maybe uned his platonic mate, just friends.
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Speaker 3: But once you start carpooling, you start stopping for coffee dates. Yeah,
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Speaker 3: once you start stopping for coffee dates, they start lasting
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Speaker 3: longer than a takeaway coffee and it's a sit down
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Speaker 3: and it's a study date. And then the study date
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Speaker 3: moves from the coffee place to the fucking bedroom.
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Speaker 1: No, I don't know, I tell you what. It hits different
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Speaker 1: car sex.
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Speaker 3: Yeah, it's just say, hey, babie'm getting to lift home
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Speaker 3: with James and we're gonna study in the back of
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Speaker 3: his car. In the back of his car, and there's
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Speaker 3: fucking handprints from the fucking condensation.
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Speaker 1: Oh my god. Cheating or not cheating.
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Speaker 3: Posting a TikTok about a girl that is one hundred
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Speaker 3: percent not.
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Speaker 1: You, not not his girlfriend.
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Speaker 3: Oh so like reposting a TikTok that's explaining a girl
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Speaker 3: that is one hundred percent not you.
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Speaker 1: Oh okay, that's one of those things like, yeah, not cheating, Well,
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Speaker 1: but the girl pops are going to answer cheating, I
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Speaker 1: would I wouldn't do it. I feel like that's disrespectful.
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Speaker 1: This one's tough. I'm in my own head cheating sixty percent,
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Speaker 1: fifty three percent not cheating. Oh damn it, all right,
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Speaker 1: that was it. That's it. That's it. Cheating, not cheating
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Speaker 1: from the people over Whow. I'm upset. I'm surprised. I'm
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Speaker 1: fully upset. Yeah, not what I expected from our list
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Speaker 1: supposally not our listeners. Everyone listening probably agrees with us, true, yeah, yeah,
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Speaker 1: that we do followers yeah yeah, yea, yeah yeah yeah
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Speaker 1: but yeah yeah yeah. Maybe maybe we're wrong, Jake, Maybe
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Speaker 1: we need to wake up to ourself. No, no, we're not.
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Speaker 3: I wanted to be no, I wanted to be more toxic.
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Speaker 1: I say, no, no way, oh yeah, no way.
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Speaker 3: Some of them genuinely surprised me, though, Like I'm thinking here,
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Speaker 3: first off, getting coffee or lunch with the opposite gender.
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Speaker 1: God, that's cheating. Eight not Cheating's crazy. I'm trying to
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Speaker 1: be in their head. Maybe they're thinking, like, you know
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Speaker 1: what it is, work, okay, you know what it is.
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Speaker 3: I'm going to have a little calling everyone out here,
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Speaker 3: rand Okay, I'm calling girls out, all right, not to
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Speaker 3: be sexist. It's actually it's not a sexist thing. This
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Speaker 3: is just an opinion, all right. We have noticed a pattern,
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Speaker 3: all right, a pattern in the people that do think
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Speaker 3: guys and girls can be friends like best friends friends. Yes,
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Speaker 3: quite often it's girls that think that, so quite often
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Speaker 3: so so, so it's kind of as understandable that a
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Speaker 3: girl is going to be like, oh, yeah, no, it's
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Speaker 3: fine if I go get lunch with my guy best friend,
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Speaker 3: or it's fine if I if I get a lift home.
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Speaker 1: From UNI with him, or it's fine if this, that, this, that.
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Speaker 3: But when it's about when it's about a guy and
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Speaker 3: his girl best friend.
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Speaker 1: Cheating every fucking time, yeah it is.
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Speaker 3: I'm gonna start rewording these and see if they have
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Speaker 3: the same answers.
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Speaker 1: That's a good.
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Speaker 3: Yeah, let's try to get it and just change everything
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Speaker 3: from her to him. All right, here's girl best friend.
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Speaker 3: Here's the fucking thing he's sharing getting notes from a girl.
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Speaker 3: He's going to get lunch with another girl. He's going
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Speaker 3: to get lunch with the other that's cheaty. I'm gonna
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Speaker 3: start fucking doing this thing. I'm changing the wording and
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Speaker 3: see him seeing what happens.
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Speaker 1: I want to see what sort of patterns with want.
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Speaker 1: I think so too, But like, put yourself in a
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Speaker 1: situation like the UNI one getting a lift home. So
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Speaker 1: he's your girlfriend doesn't get a UNI but she goes
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Speaker 1: to Plarties.
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Speaker 4: I know that.
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Speaker 1: So your girlfriends at Plartis and she goes, Oh, I
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Speaker 1: just got to lift home with James instead of catching
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Speaker 1: the bus because he offered. Hell did that make you feel?
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Speaker 1: James from the Pilates duo and he's straight?
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Speaker 3: Okay, Well, you know what I'm gonna say is because
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Speaker 3: UNI everyone's similar age.
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Speaker 1: I'm just gonna say he's a similar Yeah, Palladi's young,
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Speaker 1: young generation. Let's keep fit good looking.
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Speaker 3: First off, I'm saying, why you got yourself there? Get
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Speaker 3: yourself home? Secondly, one time?
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Speaker 1: No, no, yeah, one time, one time. I tell her,
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Speaker 1: I'm like, one time.
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Speaker 3: It happens once, Okay, I'm letting her know that I'm not.
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Speaker 1: Comfortable with that.
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Speaker 3: Yeah, James knows where you live now, all right, James
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Speaker 3: knows where you fucking live now, Okay, And I can't
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Speaker 3: be there one hundred percent of the time.
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Speaker 1: Beth knows what the back of the car's like to.
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Speaker 3: Mate, Secondly, if that motherfucker meets Henry, we've got beef.
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Speaker 1: Bro, We've got beef. But that's what you have to do.
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Speaker 1: Put yourself in the situation irrespective of sex. Andybody, Nah,
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Speaker 1: I'm not comfortable. We come across as toxic, but it's
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Speaker 1: so true if you put yourself in this situation.
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Speaker 3: Yeah, I definitely reckon. We come across as a little
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Speaker 3: bit toxic.
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Speaker 1: Yeah. And I also I do I want to really
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Speaker 1: just hammer in.
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Speaker 3: I want to hammer it in like.
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Speaker 1: That guy.
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Speaker 3: Okay, hold up, hold up, hold up, hold up. What
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Speaker 3: if Beth was to go to Lift home with James. Yeah,
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Speaker 3: hot games and it's pissing down rain, that's fine, that's fine,
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Speaker 3: all right, but yeah that's sunny mate.
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Speaker 1: Pissing down only when it rains.
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Speaker 3: But if it's sunny, telling you right now, go get
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Speaker 3: a brisk walking down you need to stun.
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Speaker 1: But the older I'm getting also, like I'm realizing me
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Speaker 1: as a male, I'm unfortunately not putting myself out there
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Speaker 1: as much as wanting to go get lunch, slash coffees
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Speaker 1: or these activities with my actual friends. So if I
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Speaker 1: were if a girl say a single word to ask
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Speaker 1: me on a date or not on a date. Sorry,
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Speaker 1: that's just immediately what my brain went to. If my
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Speaker 1: girl were to ask me to go get lunch, yeah,
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Speaker 1: yea yeah, if I was friends, I'm back, Oh no,
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Speaker 1: I'm busy because I would want to smash I'm going
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Speaker 1: to it. Yeah, Like even if you're single, you're just
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Speaker 1: being like yeah, yeah yeah. And it's also that labeling thing,
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Speaker 1: like fucking label it. Don't say coffee or lunch because
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Speaker 1: you know one of them is there to get some Yeah.
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Speaker 3: I'm trying to put myself in this situation of like,
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Speaker 3: how would I feel if like a friend of my
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Speaker 3: girlfriends that's a guy that she's like, she just is
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Speaker 3: like he just considers him a friend. Ye, you know,
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Speaker 3: only ever sees them in group situations like it's normal,
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Speaker 3: blah blah blah.
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Speaker 1: It is platonic.
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Speaker 3: If he was to I don't know, just be like, oh,
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Speaker 3: do you want to go get coffee sometime? And she went,
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Speaker 3: I'm so I'm not. I think it would need to
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Speaker 3: happen for me to actually realize how I feel. So
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Speaker 3: maybe we are being toxic yeah maybe yeah, but it's
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Speaker 3: also like I don't know just how you feel. Yeah,
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Speaker 3: girlfriend has one male friend who shed go to like
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Speaker 3: dinners with and they like pre planted and stuff, and
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Speaker 3: I've met him, nice guy.
19:07
Speaker 1: Yeah you don't care. I don't care, But I don't know.
19:09
Speaker 1: Maybe the fact that I've met him, maybe maybe you
19:12
Speaker 1: like you? You're you're friendly with him? Yeah, straight guy?
19:14
Speaker 1: Yeah nothing. Maybe you're secure, a little bit short, a
19:19
Speaker 1: little bit. Maybe that helps. Here's my question.
19:24
Speaker 3: Would you prefer she doesn't go to the let's not
19:28
Speaker 3: open up for canam.
19:31
Speaker 1: Ship? Bro Okay, I don't care at all. Okay, well
19:33
Speaker 1: maybe we're being a little toxic. Maybe we are. Maybe
19:36
Speaker 1: I wouldn't care. That's you know what. The funny thing.
19:39
Speaker 3: I maybe maybe I genuinely wouldn't care. But also, like
19:43
Speaker 3: I like you, you would never go get lunch or dinner.
19:50
Speaker 1: No dinner. I think dinner is way more romantic than
19:53
Speaker 1: lunch or breakfast. It's is it different from your Like?
19:55
Speaker 1: I would never, in my worst nightmare do that to
19:59
Speaker 1: my girl friend. I'm like, oh, I'm just going to
20:01
Speaker 1: go get dinner with Sally. We've been friends since high school.
20:04
Speaker 1: I haven't seen her in six months, But but I would.
20:08
Speaker 3: Never You don't care, But you're not saying that in
20:11
Speaker 3: a way right now to take go after your girlfriend.
20:12
Speaker 3: But you're because you don't care when she does it,
20:14
Speaker 3: because she's friends when you met him. Interesting, I would
20:17
Speaker 3: need it happen to be maybe, I think I need
20:18
Speaker 3: to happen to me.
20:19
Speaker 1: We've got a few tests. You don't and he lay
20:21
Speaker 1: Any guys who want to take Jake's girlfriend on a date,
20:24
Speaker 1: I mean coffee or lunch.
20:26
Speaker 3: I'm going to tell our girlfriend. I'm going to say
20:28
Speaker 3: to her, I need we need to test something here.
20:31
Speaker 3: I want you to like. I think maybe it wouldn't
20:34
Speaker 3: matter if I knew it was pre planned.
20:36
Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, I don't know. Maybe we're being a bit toxic,
20:39
Speaker 1: but it's fun to be toxic. I see why people
20:43
Speaker 1: do it.
20:50
Speaker 3: All right, guys, we've got If you're on Patreon, you
20:55
Speaker 3: would have known that Jack has attempted have a Macappy day.
20:58
Speaker 1: Yes, yeah, and if you're a new listen.
21:00
Speaker 3: Jake brought this up a couple of weeks ago, and yeah,
21:02
Speaker 3: I was at so quick backstory, I went to macas
21:05
Speaker 3: was getting coffee with my girlfriend. The lady take my
21:07
Speaker 3: order when I was like when she was like all right,
21:09
Speaker 3: go through, I was like, thank you. She said to me,
21:10
Speaker 3: have a McHappy day, all right. So when I got
21:13
Speaker 3: to where I I didn't say it when I paid,
21:15
Speaker 3: but Beth said, when you get the coffee, you have
21:17
Speaker 3: to say, have a mccappy day.
21:19
Speaker 1: How to respect, all right? How to respect? It's McDonald's.
21:22
Speaker 1: So I did it.
21:24
Speaker 3: Crickets talk about rejection therapy.
21:28
Speaker 1: This time, I've done it again. You've done it again.
21:30
Speaker 1: I've done it again. McDonald's are different, say McDonald's. Well,
21:34
Speaker 1: going back to the same place.
21:36
Speaker 3: I was with Harry all right, from Blues and Greens.
21:39
Speaker 3: He was sitting in the car with me and we
21:41
Speaker 3: went we got a coffee and he was like, you
21:43
Speaker 3: have to do it, you have to do it.
21:43
Speaker 1: And I was like, yea, I'll do it. I'll do it.
21:44
Speaker 3: I was stressing because we got so we went. I
21:47
Speaker 3: ordered a coffee, a coffee and and a fucking hash brown.
21:50
Speaker 1: Yeah.
21:51
Speaker 3: I get the coffee. I recognized the girl it gives
21:54
Speaker 3: me the coffee.
21:55
Speaker 1: Who was it? I couldn't. I can't remember her name,
21:58
Speaker 1: couldn't say to her, what is someone in our age? No?
22:00
Speaker 1: I don't know where.
22:01
Speaker 3: I know I'm from. But I couldn't do it. I
22:04
Speaker 3: could not fucking do it, especially because when she handed
22:06
Speaker 3: me the coffee, a little bit coffee spilled on my finger.
22:08
Speaker 1: She goes, oh, are you okay? Do you need a rag?
22:09
Speaker 3: And I was like no, no, oh good, So I
22:10
Speaker 3: put it down and Harry was like, you know, and
22:12
Speaker 3: then she goes, can you go drive through the waiting
22:14
Speaker 3: thing for the hash break?
22:15
Speaker 1: Yes? It's like yeah, no drama.
22:18
Speaker 3: And then I see this girl coming out and I
22:20
Speaker 3: was like, fuck, I have to do it.
22:21
Speaker 1: But here we go. I'll give it to you. Say
22:23
Speaker 1: you said something back? Here we go playing. It's twenty
22:27
Speaker 1: seven seconds. But Jake's attempted have a make happy day.
22:31
Speaker 1: I don't know if she didn't, you didn't got one?
22:35
Speaker 4: Sucks?
22:36
Speaker 1: What is so hard? Thank you having make happy day?
22:44
Speaker 1: Keep watching like Harry.
22:56
Speaker 3: Better?
22:56
Speaker 1: How good is that? I was stressing beforehand to okay,
23:03
Speaker 1: I have a few rebuttals? Oh why do you think
23:08
Speaker 1: the nice worker at McDonald's thought you said have a
23:12
Speaker 1: happy day? I clearly said have a mccappy day.
23:15
Speaker 2: Mick was a little bit the you don't try it
23:18
Speaker 2: the delivery of Mick stop chatting and try it.
23:22
Speaker 1: Oh shit, I will. The problem is I don't get
23:25
Speaker 1: maybe I will. I don't get market Mackett. So I
23:27
Speaker 1: have to go there and I have to get some
23:29
Speaker 1: maybe something before the gym. But tomorrow it was morow.
23:31
Speaker 3: You and I driving home from sceney together, we'll go through.
23:34
Speaker 3: I'll get a coffee, you can get whatever you're on,
23:35
Speaker 3: a hot chocolate bit and.
23:37
Speaker 1: You're like, no, you'll have a McHappy day. So she
23:43
Speaker 1: could have been like, have a happy day, but she chuckled.
23:46
Speaker 1: She did, Yes, replay the mccappy. But we're finding out
23:52
Speaker 1: this is quite the hard challenge, but we wanted to
23:55
Speaker 1: bring it to the people listening right now.
23:58
Speaker 3: It's gonna be funnier if people send him in.
24:00
Speaker 1: Anyone going to McDonald's in the foreseeable future, get your
24:03
Speaker 1: phone out, put on your lap or whatever, just so
24:05
Speaker 1: you can get the audio. That's just film your face.
24:07
Speaker 1: That's all we need. And when you get your food
24:10
Speaker 1: or anything you drink handed to you say have a
24:13
Speaker 1: MG happy day and see if they respond, Oh, it's stressful.
24:17
Speaker 3: I telling you, guys, it's stressful. But when you're done,
24:20
Speaker 3: it's it's what's the core?
24:21
Speaker 1: What's the word pumping through the blood? I felt great
24:27
Speaker 1: that macus is different.
24:28
Speaker 3: So even you know what FU say whatever you want.
24:31
Speaker 1: I'm becappy, start started thing and then different night time.
24:34
Speaker 1: It's having MC happy night. Yeah, MC night. It would
24:39
Speaker 1: be so funny if you're doing it when they getting
24:41
Speaker 1: pumped as well. Okay, Jake, I can say luckily that
24:54
Speaker 1: we both have girlfriends now and we talk about them
24:58
Speaker 1: quite a lot. But we got to send them message
25:00
Speaker 1: and he was asking, how do you know when she's
25:04
Speaker 1: the one? The one? And we are both in the
25:07
Speaker 1: position now where well, I haven't dropped a knee yet.
25:10
Speaker 1: I don't want to speak for you, but you might
25:12
Speaker 1: potentially think she's the one. Yeah, yes, well let's you
25:16
Speaker 1: date for that. That's the whole point of dating. That's
25:18
Speaker 1: why I think so any anyway, you don't date to
25:21
Speaker 1: think you're going to break up eventually. No, no, you're not
25:23
Speaker 1: the one for now. Some guys do just the one
25:26
Speaker 1: for now. Well no, yeah, we don't date for that reason. No, no, no,
25:28
Speaker 1: not at all. But it brought up a good question.
25:31
Speaker 1: How did you know that your girlfriend was potentially the
25:36
Speaker 1: one or that you were ready to ask her out?
25:40
Speaker 1: Slash cool story, Actually slash do you want to tell
25:42
Speaker 1: her how you go throughout yet? I'll say she won't care.
25:45
Speaker 1: She told mine this might be a good little probably have.
25:49
Speaker 3: This is actually you know, this is actually glad you
25:51
Speaker 3: brought this up. This is funny. And Beth and I
25:53
Speaker 3: were talking about this the other day. Yeah, okay, okay.
25:56
Speaker 3: First off, so we went on a date and and
26:00
Speaker 3: I drove to Sydney for the date and our first
26:03
Speaker 3: day picked her up and I would like to let
26:06
Speaker 3: everyone know, bought her some flowers. Yeah, and also dog
26:10
Speaker 3: treats do Yeah. Moving on, plan was to go to
26:15
Speaker 3: the aquarium, which she was actually giving me ship for aquarium.
26:19
Speaker 1: Then dinner had like I had a restaurant. I have
26:20
Speaker 1: to say, defending you, it's hard for a guy who
26:23
Speaker 1: doesn't live near where she lives the planet day, Well,
26:25
Speaker 1: I don't really know everything.
26:27
Speaker 3: I found the nicest restaurant, Like it's kind of hard
26:29
Speaker 3: to know. Like I'm better now. There a lot, but
26:33
Speaker 3: like I for some reason, I've never taken a girl
26:34
Speaker 3: to the aquarium. I've always wanted.
26:36
Speaker 1: I thought that's cool.
26:36
Speaker 3: Yeah, Like I thought it was a good idea because
26:38
Speaker 3: you just you go walk around at cool animals and
26:41
Speaker 3: it's kind of like you just forced a.
26:42
Speaker 1: Chat first da It's always good to have a little activity.
26:44
Speaker 3: Yeah, I thought. I thought it was a good idea.
26:46
Speaker 3: So many people was like, that's not a good idea.
26:48
Speaker 3: I fucking loved it. Yeah, I didn't get to go. Basically,
26:51
Speaker 3: we we we go to a house. We end up
26:54
Speaker 3: instead of driving into the city, we get an uber. Yeah,
26:57
Speaker 3: and so its kind of it was actually a little
26:59
Speaker 3: bit like I guess awkward, like said hi, hello, blah
27:02
Speaker 3: blah blah, and then we order an uber and like
27:04
Speaker 3: first date, we just sat in a silent uber.
27:07
Speaker 1: But it was fine. So then we get out where
27:10
Speaker 1: we go. We go to the aquarium.
27:11
Speaker 3: It's like four fifty nine, aquarium closes it five. So
27:15
Speaker 3: I was like, no, I didn't do my research. Yeah,
27:20
Speaker 3: I didn't do for me, think of this guy. I
27:22
Speaker 3: didn't do my freaking research. I think we had a
27:24
Speaker 3: table book for like seven as well. I was like,
27:25
Speaker 3: it'll be open and then so instead we ended up
27:28
Speaker 3: we went for a walk to an arcade, like a
27:32
Speaker 3: big one, and we went there and I don't know
27:35
Speaker 3: if she told me straight away or if I just didn't,
27:38
Speaker 3: or if she told me after, but we get there
27:40
Speaker 3: and I'm like, arcade sick, just gonna beat her and everything,
27:42
Speaker 3: you know, just gonna show her us, and I was thinking, like,
27:46
Speaker 3: I'm gonna have to let her win a carp yeah,
27:48
Speaker 3: and then we get there beat I didn't win one thing.
27:50
Speaker 1: She beat me at everything.
27:52
Speaker 4: Bro.
27:52
Speaker 3: She like I'm talking like like fucked me up really,
27:55
Speaker 3: especially the basketball because her dad used to sell or
27:59
Speaker 3: something the machine.
28:00
Speaker 1: You just grew up playing them. And I was like,
28:02
Speaker 1: no kind of lie. You're looking like the worst gol
28:05
Speaker 1: Yeah yeah, yeah, yeah yeah.
28:07
Speaker 3: But basically, so we did that and then when got dinner,
28:10
Speaker 3: it was lovely. And then just from then on kept
28:13
Speaker 3: seeing each other. Yeah, date date, date, date date, and
28:16
Speaker 3: then I remember the day I asked her out or
28:21
Speaker 3: the day before and I was talking to Joanna and
28:23
Speaker 3: I think, so I knew from like obviously date one.
28:28
Speaker 3: I was like, oh, I could very much like see
28:32
Speaker 3: this happening. Yeah, and then after a couple more dates
28:35
Speaker 3: obviously just confirm it, You're like, yeah, I do want
28:37
Speaker 3: to actually like wanted to be my girlfriend because I've
28:40
Speaker 3: never understood the because I do think like actually being
28:43
Speaker 3: boyfriend and girlfriend, Like you you want to do it
28:46
Speaker 3: because you don't see yourself breaking up with them, but
28:48
Speaker 3: you also do it because you are you are still
28:51
Speaker 3: getting to know them like best and I've been together
28:53
Speaker 3: for six months, over six months, and then we are
28:54
Speaker 3: still getting.
28:55
Speaker 1: To know each other. I think so too. It's just
28:56
Speaker 1: that initial stage that like, yeah, she's the one, then
28:58
Speaker 1: you figure it out more. Yes. So I can't tell you.
29:01
Speaker 3: I don't know if I can fully pinpoint when I
29:03
Speaker 3: realized I wanted to do it, but I knew I
29:05
Speaker 3: wanted to do it, and I had this thing in
29:07
Speaker 3: my head where I wanted to do it on the
29:08
Speaker 3: seventeenth of January something to do with it would have
29:12
Speaker 3: been like either a month or just over a month
29:14
Speaker 3: after a first date or something, and I was talking
29:16
Speaker 3: to Joanna about it. Yeah, she was like, what why
29:19
Speaker 3: are you waiting till the seventeenth And it's like the
29:21
Speaker 3: sixth at this point of the fifth of January. At
29:23
Speaker 3: this point she's like, why wait, Oh no, it would
29:26
Speaker 3: We met on the seventeenth November, so it would have
29:28
Speaker 3: been two months after that, it makes sense. So basically
29:31
Speaker 3: I was like, I wanted two months, and then she's
29:33
Speaker 3: it's like the fifth of January. I was going on
29:35
Speaker 3: a date with Beth the next day, planned and everything,
29:38
Speaker 3: and Joanna was like, why would you wait? And as
29:41
Speaker 3: she and Joanna having this conversation. She's making errors tour
29:44
Speaker 3: best friend bracelets first tail Swift yeah, because she's going
29:47
Speaker 3: to tail swift soon, and and I was like, good point,
29:51
Speaker 3: Like I'm going to do it on the seventeenth. Why
29:53
Speaker 3: would I not just do it now? And so I
29:55
Speaker 3: got Joanna to make two bracelets. One of them said
30:01
Speaker 3: yap queen and one of them said girlfriend. Yeah, okay.
30:06
Speaker 3: And so when we went on a Beth May went
30:08
Speaker 3: on a date the next day and we went to
30:12
Speaker 3: the botanical gardens. I think we did something, but then
30:15
Speaker 3: we were over like at the Opera House, and I
30:18
Speaker 3: was like, oh fuck, I said in my head, I
30:19
Speaker 3: was gonna do it right here. I'm actually kind of nervous,
30:21
Speaker 3: like I was going to say yes. I was like,
30:23
Speaker 3: I know she's gonna say yes, but also what if
30:25
Speaker 3: she says no? And then I asked her I think
30:31
Speaker 3: I said will you be my girlfriend?
30:33
Speaker 1: And then she said yes?
30:34
Speaker 3: And then I was like, well, you're going to need
30:36
Speaker 3: this then and gave her the bracelet.
30:37
Speaker 1: That's cute, how funny, I thought. I don't know why
30:41
Speaker 1: I had in my head. I thought of the arcade.
30:43
Speaker 1: You guys want some bracelets on your first date? No,
30:46
Speaker 1: do you want to mate it? And then and then
30:48
Speaker 1: I thought you were doing a cute thing, like on
30:49
Speaker 1: our first date we got bracelets, so he's another bracelet again.
30:52
Speaker 1: No no, no, no, no, no.
30:53
Speaker 3: Yeah, that would have been cool. Yea, it would have
30:54
Speaker 3: been It would have been cool. That's that's how it happened.
30:56
Speaker 3: And then and then I would say I knew I
30:59
Speaker 3: like her one time. It was a little while after that.
31:02
Speaker 3: I knew I loved her when we were in an
31:04
Speaker 3: uber on the way home from a date. But I
31:06
Speaker 3: didn't say it. Something in me was like, Okay, I'm glad.
31:09
Speaker 3: I know it, like I've confirmed it in my head.
31:11
Speaker 3: I know it, I feel it, but I just didn't
31:13
Speaker 3: say it. I was like, once we say it, we're
31:15
Speaker 3: saying it for the for the foreseeable future, you know,
31:18
Speaker 3: like once I say it in my head, like we're
31:20
Speaker 3: not going to break up, so like I think we're
31:23
Speaker 3: just we're gonna be saying it forever, so it's gonna wait.
31:25
Speaker 3: I don't know why I thought that was I'm just
31:26
Speaker 3: gonna wait. But then she ended up saying it first.
31:29
Speaker 1: How funny. Back to the question too, I'll tell mine briefly.
31:33
Speaker 1: I think I've told it before, but just thinking listening
31:36
Speaker 1: to Jake's story and thinking about mine of asking my
31:40
Speaker 1: girlfriend out, how do you know she's the one? It's
31:43
Speaker 1: just a feeling.
31:45
Speaker 3: Here's the thing is like, Yeah, I was like, I'm
31:48
Speaker 3: more than happy to drive to Sydney whenever, like I
31:51
Speaker 3: like it. She makes me laugh, like hanging out with her,
31:55
Speaker 3: and yeah, like I was like, I just genuinely think
31:59
Speaker 3: everyone I know will like, oh blah blah blah.
32:00
Speaker 1: Yeah this was great. Yeah. I remember just thinking like
32:02
Speaker 1: I just just think she I just knew, like there
32:05
Speaker 1: wasn't a doubt. It hot out in my mind. Have
32:08
Speaker 1: I told my tell my quickly? Quickly? Tell quickly just
32:10
Speaker 1: gives you have new listeners. Okay, So me and my
32:13
Speaker 1: girlfriend backstory. We've been talking for six weeks on social
32:16
Speaker 1: media because she was in Europe and I was here
32:20
Speaker 1: and we actually got to hang out. I think it
32:24
Speaker 1: was two days or three days in a row before
32:26
Speaker 1: I went to Balley. She got back from Europe, went
32:28
Speaker 1: to a parents' house was where near I live, and
32:31
Speaker 1: we met up and we just didn't like, we hanged
32:33
Speaker 1: out for two days straight and then she was gonna
32:36
Speaker 1: she went. She lives in Sydney in Bondai, and I
32:39
Speaker 1: went and stayed at her place at this point she
32:41
Speaker 1: lived there, Yeah, in Sydney and Bondai, and I went
32:43
Speaker 1: and stayed there for one night and then I was
32:44
Speaker 1: going to Bali the next day. I'm pretty sure. So
32:47
Speaker 1: we've been talking for six weeks. Then we had three
32:48
Speaker 1: days together, then nothing, and I was gone for six weeks.
32:51
Speaker 1: The best three days it was good. But anyway, after that,
32:56
Speaker 1: I was like, I knew, like, fuck, this Chi could
32:58
Speaker 1: be the one. Pretty sure. I'm pretty sure she was,
33:00
Speaker 1: and she's very in touch of her emotions. And when
33:03
Speaker 1: I was leaving her house, she started crying a little bit.
33:06
Speaker 1: I was like, fuck, I've never had like a girl
33:08
Speaker 1: like so like in touch of her emotions, like have
33:10
Speaker 1: a couple of some men. I was like, what's wrong.
33:13
Speaker 1: She's just like I'm so happy, like this is such
33:14
Speaker 1: a good time. Sh and I don't know if I
33:17
Speaker 1: asked her before it was after that, but I said,
33:19
Speaker 1: why don't you come to Bali? She was coming to,
33:21
Speaker 1: but we already pre planned. This was like written in
33:22
Speaker 1: the stars that she was going to be there for
33:24
Speaker 1: the last month that we were there, so I had
33:26
Speaker 1: two weeks off and I was like, well, one, you
33:28
Speaker 1: just come a little bit early so and just stay
33:30
Speaker 1: with me. I've already got the Como book and I
33:31
Speaker 1: got a double bed, like I guess. So she flew
33:34
Speaker 1: across the Bari to see me and hang out for
33:36
Speaker 1: a week before that, and we just started hanging out
33:39
Speaker 1: and Bari Jake was there. We were recording and doing
33:41
Speaker 1: other stuff. She was doing her own thing, and I
33:43
Speaker 1: had in the back of my mind that before I
33:46
Speaker 1: went to Bali, I was like, oh, I had a
33:48
Speaker 1: few ideas how to ask her out. And I was like,
33:49
Speaker 1: I'll just do it when I get back. And then
33:53
Speaker 1: I was just I just knew it was. It was
33:54
Speaker 1: going so good. I was like, fuck it. Why did
33:56
Speaker 1: I just do it here? It's like so romantic, cool
33:58
Speaker 1: place to do it. Yeah yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, I
34:00
Speaker 1: remember you.
34:00
Speaker 3: I I and I did to you what you wanted
34:03
Speaker 3: to me.
34:04
Speaker 1: Yeah yeah yeah yeah, Like why not? I thought him.
34:06
Speaker 1: My other plan was like to ask. We're gonna we
34:08
Speaker 1: planned a trip to like Crescent Head and like camping,
34:09
Speaker 1: and I was going to ask on the surf. Yeah,
34:11
Speaker 1: I remember that. Yeah, that was my other plan. But
34:14
Speaker 1: I was like, fuck it, I'm just going to do it,
34:15
Speaker 1: and we booked a I booked a romantic airbnb at
34:19
Speaker 1: a Bud turned out to be shit, like was a
34:22
Speaker 1: construction site next to it, like hadn't been cleaned properly.
34:25
Speaker 1: And I was like no, I got that. I got
34:26
Speaker 1: there earlier to set up. I was like no. I
34:28
Speaker 1: was like, I've committed now because I bought rose pedals
34:30
Speaker 1: from a florist. That day I committed and my girlfriend
34:35
Speaker 1: was driving her scooter from Changu to Bud, which is
34:38
Speaker 1: like an hour and a half drive anyway. She was sick,
34:40
Speaker 1: her sim car died, she had no service. She was
34:43
Speaker 1: like half an hour late. She got there all like
34:46
Speaker 1: dirty adult diurnover and shit. A long drive anyway. There
34:50
Speaker 1: was two bedrooms at the airbnbat main bedroom and another
34:54
Speaker 1: one and so the other one. I got rose pedals
34:57
Speaker 1: and wrote will you be my girlfriend? I wrote GF
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Speaker 1: his girlfriend? Too long long word. Anyway, she got there
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Speaker 1: and she was all flustered. I was like, okay, what
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Speaker 1: is chill for a bit and I'll let her settle
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Speaker 1: down so she like enjoys the moment. Anyway, I go,
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Speaker 1: here's the main bedroom. It's better. I already chucked my
35:11
Speaker 1: stuff in there, and she just straight up before anything
35:13
Speaker 1: even puts a room and she's like, let me see
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Speaker 1: which one's better. So I was like, oh shit, trust
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Speaker 1: your word. So she went to the other room, opened it.
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Speaker 1: She must be like she was like looking around, looking around,
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Speaker 1: didn't see it. It was big rose petals. I'm talking
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Speaker 1: like a solid, like a meter long in rose petals,
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Speaker 1: just a fucking a lot of rose petals. And she
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Speaker 1: go and I was like, look down, and she just looked.
35:35
Speaker 1: She's like she just turned around and hugged me and
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Speaker 1: kissed me, and she's like, yes, that's cute, how funny.
35:40
Speaker 1: And then we're girlfriend and boyfriend, and I just knew
35:43
Speaker 1: she was the one from the get your hates, even
35:45
Speaker 1: like the first time we hung out, I was like, oh, fuck, yeah,
35:48
Speaker 1: I think she's the one.
35:48
Speaker 4: You know.
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Speaker 3: I was thinking one thing, how I was while you're
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Speaker 3: saying that, I was thinking we both kind of asked
35:53
Speaker 3: him out like a cute like way. And one of
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Speaker 3: the things in my head that I'm thinking now is
35:59
Speaker 3: why I think I guess the one or whatever? Why
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Speaker 3: you think that at least is my girlfriend prior that
36:07
Speaker 3: I dated years ago to my girlfriend now is the
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Speaker 3: way I asked her to be my girlfriend was fucking All.
36:15
Speaker 1: I did was.
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Speaker 3: Like I had ample opportunity, bro ample to make it cute,
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Speaker 3: and all I did, I think one day was like
36:24
Speaker 3: I said to her, we have it.
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Speaker 1: We put a date on this. That's what you said
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Speaker 1: you came about, we have a date to have, Like,
36:30
Speaker 1: let's choose a date and feel like that like that's
36:34
Speaker 1: the date that we've been our anniversary. I guess we've
36:36
Speaker 1: become officials. Yeah, so basically I think we did use
36:38
Speaker 1: it that day. Oh so you didn't even give you like, oh,
36:41
Speaker 1: we're basically dating that.
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Speaker 4: Yeah.
36:43
Speaker 1: I was kind of like how we put a date
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Speaker 1: on this? And she was like, what are you asking
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Speaker 1: me to be a girlfriend? I was like yeah, but
36:49
Speaker 1: maybe thinking about it too, Like we went to these
36:51
Speaker 1: extents even though they're not that like big, but we
36:54
Speaker 1: wanted to because they were so special to us. And
36:57
Speaker 1: I'm thinking I didn't really have like I had one
36:59
Speaker 1: girlfriend before that, and like I didn't do any sort
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Speaker 1: of extent and I was like nervous did all these things,
37:03
Speaker 1: and I.
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Speaker 3: Kind of feel like a bit of a I was
37:09
Speaker 3: when I was younger. You couldn't get me to do
37:11
Speaker 3: a big thing.
37:12
Speaker 1: I reckon. I would have been like, no, I'm not
37:14
Speaker 1: doing that. Yeah, same, I'm not doing that. Like why
37:16
Speaker 1: why would I do that?
37:18
Speaker 3: Not because I didn't love them, because I didn't like them,
37:21
Speaker 3: just not because I thought they didn't deserve it.
37:22
Speaker 1: It just felt awkward and like.
37:24
Speaker 3: Yeah, I don't even know it was orkard or so
37:26
Speaker 3: I was like, you don't want your friends to know,
37:27
Speaker 3: Like I don't know what it is. But now it's
37:29
Speaker 3: like something about not giving a fuck about when anyone thinks,
37:31
Speaker 3: and like wanting it to be special for her.
37:33
Speaker 1: Yeah, I wanted to be special for her. That's the
37:34
Speaker 1: main thing. Hey, I just know.
37:36
Speaker 3: Yeah, Like one time I picked her up from a flight.
37:38
Speaker 3: She came out from Queensland and I went and I
37:40
Speaker 3: like had flowers and I wrote like a sign, and
37:42
Speaker 3: then she did it for me when I came over
37:44
Speaker 3: from Canada, she wrote podcast man.
37:46
Speaker 1: Yeah, but I told fuck, I think I've told that
37:50
Speaker 1: my books where you or the book story? Yeah, save it,
37:54
Speaker 1: save it? Another episode say save it, save it, let
37:56
Speaker 1: the people ask for it, saved the bookstore, let the
37:59
Speaker 1: people beg for it. Fuck good. I think that's what
38:02
Speaker 1: I also talked Catty about it. She cates, Yeah, she
38:04
Speaker 1: won't care, she won't care, she won't care. But yeah,
38:07
Speaker 1: if how do you know she's the one or he's
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Speaker 1: the one. You just know and you're willing to do anything.
38:12
Speaker 1: You don't care what anyone thinks, And there's just listen
38:14
Speaker 1: to your gut, like if there's just telling you, like
38:17
Speaker 1: I really like this guy or hit this girl, like
38:19
Speaker 1: it's probably right.
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Speaker 3: Going with your gut actually is the best advice anyone could.
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Speaker 1: Give, and listen to it vice versa, Like I've had
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Speaker 1: girls before who I was like, oh, she's doing something wrong,
38:28
Speaker 1: But I'm not going to listen to like maybe I'm
38:30
Speaker 1: just being over the top, like I just don't want
38:32
Speaker 1: a girlfriend lahlah. But all those guts were right, So
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Speaker 1: listen to your gut.
38:37
Speaker 4: Yeah, Ria Rno's guts.
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