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FULL SHOW: What Is The Pettiest Thing You’ve Ever Done? Elliott Connie Interview, Donkey Of The Day and more! · The Breakfast Club

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Speaker 1: Good morning, Usa yo yo yo yo yo yo yo
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Speaker 1: Yohola me piece, don't playing in this Tuesday. We got
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Speaker 1: our guest host back, Jason leave Jason live. Hell oh Tuesday,
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Speaker 1: man's kinda scratch some things out, crack some things. No,
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Speaker 1: before you get today started. What's happening? How y'all feeling?
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Speaker 1: It's good this Tuesday? It's Tuesday. See that's what I mean.
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Speaker 1: You see you wish she had that four day work week, now,
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Speaker 1: don't you. Yep? She was just getting here. Yep, you
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Speaker 1: know what I mean speaking of four day work week.
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Speaker 1: That LARSA pippen Cliff went everywhere yesterday. Y'all actually did
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Speaker 1: the math thirty three thousand times. I didn't get the
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Speaker 1: exact numb. I just knew it was over thirty thousand,
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Speaker 1: But now I know she lying. There was so many
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Speaker 1: people comments, and especially women when women, women know their
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Speaker 1: their bodies. Women was like what about periods? Women was
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Speaker 1: like what about after pregnancies? You know, we know. It
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Speaker 1: was like, so you made every road trip. I guess impossible,
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Speaker 1: that this is impossible to have sex four times and
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Speaker 1: day every day. Did you see the clip we were
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Speaker 1: talking about, Jester? Shit, Yeah, you didn't hold me down.
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Speaker 1: I said, I can't protect your vagina. I don't know
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Speaker 1: nothing about that. She's still holding on to that. She
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Speaker 1: stayed holding it down. Stop lossing for four days, four
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Speaker 1: times a day, every day for twenty three years. She'd
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Speaker 1: be in the hospital right now, Come on, stop that
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Speaker 1: clip of us talking about it. Yes, shit made me
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Speaker 1: exhausted just watching it. People was like, so no sickness.
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Speaker 1: You didn't have the flu, you didn't have a cold,
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Speaker 1: like nothing. Come on, stop Jesus stop. All right, Well,
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Speaker 1: how are you feeling, Jason Lee? You was out last day?
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Speaker 1: Or you chill? You know what? I left here yesterday
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Speaker 1: and went to some bar and fell asleep. Not at
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Speaker 1: the bar, Yeah, you fell asleep at the bar. Yeah,
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Speaker 1: and didn't have one drink. I just tired, just tired,
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Speaker 1: And then I was up all night because I took
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Speaker 1: a nap. You just fell asleep at a random bar
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Speaker 1: and looking for my friends. I just said, order whatever
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Speaker 1: I want and I just took a nap. Hold on,
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Speaker 1: So that picture you posted on Instagram and you sleep
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Speaker 1: it was at a bar. Yeah, that's nice ball. I
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Speaker 1: thought it was a hoteltop situation. Okay, letsten like here
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Speaker 1: a good time. Well, Elliott Connie will be joining us
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Speaker 1: this morning. Elliott is one of the most culturally competent
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Speaker 1: therapist you're gonna ever meet in your life. And he
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Speaker 1: focuses on solution what is it called solution focused brief therapy. Okay, yes,
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Speaker 1: he's gonna break that down with all that means. That's
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Speaker 1: right this morning, all right. And then we got front
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Speaker 1: page news Tesla figure Out will be joining us. We
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Speaker 1: got a lot to talk about La. Seems like they're
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Speaker 1: shutting the schools there. I will let you know why.
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Speaker 1: And John Morant is he coming back? We'll tell you when,
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Speaker 1: so don't move get to it. Next is to Breakfast Club.
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Speaker 1: Good morning, everybody is dj n V Charlemagne the guy.
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Speaker 1: We are the Breakfast Club. We got our co host
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Speaker 1: Jason Lee hanging out with us, and let's get in
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Speaker 1: some front page news. We have Tesla figure O here out.
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Speaker 1: Now let's start off with John Morant. It looks like
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Speaker 1: John Morant is gonna return to the Grizzlies hopefully this Wednesday.
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Speaker 1: He was with the team last night as they played
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Speaker 1: who They played Mavericks last night and he was with
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Speaker 1: the team. He didn't play, he was in street clothes.
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Speaker 1: But it looks like he will be back tomorrow. Now,
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Speaker 1: what's going on with Trump? We got any updates with Trump? Yes,
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Speaker 1: we do. Good morning, breakfast clubbers. I want to remind
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Speaker 1: you again to do your own independent research because obviously
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Speaker 1: this is a lot of information, guys, and we can
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Speaker 1: only get in so much information. So let's do a
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Speaker 1: quick update on former President Donald Trump. Today is Tuesday,
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Speaker 1: and as we discussed yesterday, Donald Trump predicted that he
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Speaker 1: would be arrested today. So today we're going to find out.
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Speaker 1: But since the grand jury will not meet until Wednesday,
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Speaker 1: it is highly unlikely. And remember, Charlotte Mayne, you mentioned
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Speaker 1: that on yesterday, you said our dad is going to
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Speaker 1: be today. So we'll see if they move forward today
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Speaker 1: or Wednesday. Now, in the meantime, Trump has posted a
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Speaker 1: social media campaign style ad and it ends with always
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Speaker 1: remember they are coming after me because I am fighting
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Speaker 1: for you. So again, like we discussed on yesterday, this
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Speaker 1: is an advantage for President Trump. Former President Trump, my
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Speaker 1: apologies throwing that out there. He's been able to raise
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Speaker 1: money to galvanize his base and pretty much you turn
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Speaker 1: the world upside down to have us talking about Trump.
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Speaker 1: So it's working. I don't think Trump is getting the
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Speaker 1: rest of today. In fact, I'm not sure he's getting
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Speaker 1: in dieted an NYC at all. Be honest with you,
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Speaker 1: remember an end game when Thanos got hitting the chest
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Speaker 1: bout Thord Stormbreaker and he said, you should have went
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Speaker 1: for the head. This ain't a head shot at all,
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Speaker 1: Like everybody's saying, this is a weak case, and it's
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Speaker 1: just gonna make him stronger because it looks like more
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Speaker 1: of a witch hunt and it looks like the wolf
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Speaker 1: is attacking him again. And in the optics of Alvin
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Speaker 1: Bragg being black, he's gonna use that to his advantage too, first,
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Speaker 1: gonna use that this they're preparing in New York City
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Speaker 1: just in case. I know, they for barricades all around
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Speaker 1: the Trump Hotel and also downtown with the courts are
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Speaker 1: so I think it's just in case. I think I
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Speaker 1: think Trump did this on purpose. He's store up. He
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Speaker 1: stirred up the waters just to keep himself in the news,
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Speaker 1: just to keep the conversation going. But said, why do
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Speaker 1: you think Trump's message connects deeper with his audience than
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Speaker 1: like Biden's does with his America Loves gangsters? Yeah, perception
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Speaker 1: against And they're doing a rideout today from Long Island,
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Speaker 1: So I guess all the magga people they're gonna get
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Speaker 1: in their cause and it's probably gonna be the coming
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Speaker 1: out here. Yeah, to the city for real. Yeah, and
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Speaker 1: once again, when somebody uses the threat of violence to
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Speaker 1: avoid prosecution, were in the dysfunctional society or dysfunctional government?
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Speaker 1: Now what's going on, Florida Governor? Now? Yeah, absolutely, you
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Speaker 1: guys are right, And just as a piggyback on that,
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Speaker 1: they are that campaign ad. They're using Alvin Bragg's photo
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Speaker 1: in that. And you know, I told you guys years
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Speaker 1: ago when I came to the Breakface Club that Trump
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Speaker 1: is absolutely the Suga Knight of politics. But after being
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Speaker 1: pressured for several days by Trump allies, in other words,
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Speaker 1: they told them pick aside, a stepaside, Governor Ron DeSantis
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Speaker 1: finally broke his silence about Trump's potential indictment and honey,
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Speaker 1: his response was nice, nasty. He did not hold back
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Speaker 1: on the shade. Take a listen, I don't know what
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Speaker 1: goes into paying hush money to a porn star to
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Speaker 1: secure silence over some type of alleged affair. I just
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Speaker 1: I can't speak to that. But what I can speak
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Speaker 1: to is that if you have a prosecutor who is
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Speaker 1: ignoring crimes happening every single day in its jurisdiction and
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Speaker 1: he chooses to go back many many years ago to
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Speaker 1: try to use something about hornstar hush funny payments, you know,
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Speaker 1: that's an example of pursuing a political agenda and weaponizing
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Speaker 1: the office. That was shady, it was, and you know
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Speaker 1: he didn't have to say that, but he said it anyway.
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Speaker 1: And then Trump came back and said, well, in paraphrase,
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Speaker 1: and I won't read everything he said, but he said, well,
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Speaker 1: you'll you'll realize what this is life once you become
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Speaker 1: more well known. So he threw some shade back on
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Speaker 1: and then put up a picture saying that the Santista
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Speaker 1: might face allegations from underaged girls, are possibly a man
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Speaker 1: for them to get, for them to hate gay people.
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Speaker 1: They throw in the shade just like the girls. Dude,
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Speaker 1: man Son, you got to move that over to the
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Speaker 1: room report Jason and let us know what's happening with
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Speaker 1: in tens, what's going on with these LA schools? What's
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Speaker 1: what's happening in LA today? Yes, absolutely, this was really important.
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Speaker 1: I wanted to make sure that folks know that after
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Speaker 1: almost a year negotiation, Education Workers United voted to approve
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Speaker 1: a three day strike that starts today and is expected
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Speaker 1: to last until Wednesday. Now, thousands of members from cafeteria
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Speaker 1: workers to bus drivers working in the Los Angeles United
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Speaker 1: School District. Per usual, they're demanding more equitable wage, increases,
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Speaker 1: more full time work, respectful treatment, and increase staffing. And so,
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Speaker 1: my did you know fact on this story is the
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Speaker 1: longest teacher strike to date was an eight month strike
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Speaker 1: in nineteen eighty seven in Homer, Illinois. And before we
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Speaker 1: close the front page news, I want to just double
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Speaker 1: back on something I said yesterday. A lot of people said,
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Speaker 1: are you telling me I can run? When I mentioned
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Speaker 1: you can run for president in Nited States with a
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Speaker 1: felon being a felon, and somebody said, I can't believe
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Speaker 1: that's true. So I want to double down on that again. Yes,
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Speaker 1: you can run from president of United States even if
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Speaker 1: you are a convicted felon. Now you may have a
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Speaker 1: hard time getting a job or a place to live,
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Speaker 1: you know, on all the basic necessities. But you can
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Speaker 1: run for the highest office in the land and a
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Speaker 1: quick Google search can firm that fact. That was your
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Speaker 1: front page news. Okay, if they requirements to be president? Huh. Now,
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Speaker 1: honestly of question, did the Trump and Milania ever get divorced?
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Speaker 1: Did they get divorced? I don't know. I don't think so. No, no, no,
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Speaker 1: they're still married. They're still married. I never heard that.
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Speaker 1: She looked like she wanted to get divorced. She wasn't
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Speaker 1: holding his hand, and she was dodging. And never see
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Speaker 1: them together anymore, Like you know, it was the last
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Speaker 1: time y'll see them. She probably exhausted. Well, we really
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Speaker 1: didn't see it when he was running, I mean when
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Speaker 1: he was actually in office. Remember she was real, She
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Speaker 1: wasn't excited at all about the presidency. Remember it took
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Speaker 1: her a while to even move to DC. They probably
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Speaker 1: should have had sex four times a day, Larry, can't.
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Speaker 1: Nobody's trying to have Donald Trump on the four times
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Speaker 1: a day. Okay, thank you, chest, get it off your chest.
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Speaker 1: Eight hundred five eight five one oh five one. If
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Speaker 1: you need to vent fuonline to wide open again eight
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Speaker 1: hundred five eight five one oh five one to get
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Speaker 1: it off your chest? Call us up now it's the
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Speaker 1: Breakfast Club. Good morning the Breakfast Club. Yo, Charlotte man, dassy,
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Speaker 1: what up are we lying? This is your time to
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Speaker 1: get it off your chest? How into a pool? We
9:07
Speaker 1: want to hear from you on the Breakfast Club. Get
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Speaker 1: on the phone right now here. Tell you what? Hello?
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Speaker 1: Who's this yo? This is rape be from the campbells
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Speaker 1: sup City? What's the Campbell Sioux City? You said this
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Speaker 1: yesterday and you still ain't able to work in the hospital.
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Speaker 1: Great day for everybody that's able to walk around. That's right.
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Speaker 1: What the Sioux City? Sir? What city is that? That's Campbell, Ohio?
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Speaker 1: The other side of youngster. Okay, okay, get it off
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Speaker 1: your chests, bro man, I'm still over here like stuck
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Speaker 1: on that Trump thing because it's feeling the regular Joe
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Speaker 1: Smo man, we would have been in prison a long
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Speaker 1: time ago. Still, Whitney, get our they see how much
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Speaker 1: more time we're gonna get. Well, it wasn't a regular.
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Speaker 1: Joe Smo was a privileged white man who happens to
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Speaker 1: be the former president of the United States of America, Right,
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Speaker 1: we get all that money. That's just letting anybody know
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Speaker 1: that when you got a lot of money, did you
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Speaker 1: know how to use it so occasion you could get
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Speaker 1: away with that type of stuff. I don't even know
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Speaker 1: if it's about money as much as it's about power
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Speaker 1: and privilege, because you know, they don't want to set
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Speaker 1: the precedent of locking up that kind of white man,
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Speaker 1: because you you know, he said the president of locking
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Speaker 1: up that kind of white man, and you gotta follow
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Speaker 1: us to locking up anymore. They don't want that to
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Speaker 1: become a pattern. Hello, who's this? This is tal Ya Hey,
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Speaker 1: tal yea good morning. Get it off your chest, mama,
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Speaker 1: good morning. Um. I pretty much just wanted to say
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Speaker 1: how blessed I am and to be a message to
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Speaker 1: other young people in my generation to just stop running
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Speaker 1: to drama. A month ago, I was in my bed
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Speaker 1: and I tried to run and go help because then
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Speaker 1: that God involved in the fight and I ended up
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Speaker 1: being shot and I have a foolage. It's part of
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Speaker 1: my spinal cord. It broke my comfy phone and shrunk
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Speaker 1: a nerve in my left leg. So I'm just blessed
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Speaker 1: to be here and again. I just want to be
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Speaker 1: a message to other people. Suggest if you're not in
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Speaker 1: trayna leave it alone and has us to do what
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Speaker 1: you just say, home and be checked up, to get
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Speaker 1: close to to God and just live life. Life is
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Speaker 1: too short. I'm so sorry that happened to you. Glad
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Speaker 1: you're okay. Where you from, Mama, I'm from West Palm Beam,
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Speaker 1: So I listen to you guys all the time. I win.
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Speaker 1: I want things from your radio nature like that. You
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Speaker 1: Can you are you able to walk? Um? Yeah, I'm
11:19
Speaker 1: able to walk on my left leg is because it
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Speaker 1: hit me on my left side on the left leg
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Speaker 1: where you know, it's the nerve at m. Like, if
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Speaker 1: I'm sitting down in a chair, I can't lift my
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Speaker 1: left leg up to my test. I'm taking a shower,
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Speaker 1: getting in and out of the car, I have to
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Speaker 1: like lift it up. So right now I have to
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Speaker 1: do physical therapy twice a week, and it's expensive and
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Speaker 1: it's just a lot of things that it happened at
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Speaker 1: our actual home. So the state attorney is kind of
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Speaker 1: trying to say that it might be a standard ground law,
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Speaker 1: even though I've been a victim of it. So me
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Speaker 1: and my family have been the one coming out of
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Speaker 1: pocket whether stuff, but it shouldn't be very strengthful. Well,
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Speaker 1: we're gonna claim that you're gonna walk fully and get
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Speaker 1: back to a better house. Sending you loving prayers for
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Speaker 1: sure all the time. God is great, chick to play
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Speaker 1: is good. Get it off your chests eight hundred five
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Speaker 1: the breakfast Club. Good morning, the Breakfast Club. Wa. This
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Speaker 1: is your time to get it off your chest. Eight
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Speaker 1: to hear from you on the breakfast Club? Hello? Who's
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Speaker 1: this on the top of the morning. Everybody's saying, so
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Speaker 1: top of the top, getting off your chest. But man, first,
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Speaker 1: first of all, our whole music is official. You can
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12:43
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Speaker 1: safe out there, all right, we already know. But hello,
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Speaker 1: who this Hey? This is lyrical faith from the Bronx,
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Speaker 1: New York. Hey, lyrical from the Bronx without get it
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Speaker 1: this the Silence Creek, Goose Creek, South Carolina? What's happening
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Speaker 1: up to her? Hey, Charlotte, Man, I got a quick question. Man,
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Speaker 1: when we're gonna have a chuck t on that? Man,
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Speaker 1: my guy chuck T. You know he's done a big
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Speaker 1: things out here man for Carolina's Man, that's a good question.
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Speaker 1: That's my guy, DJ Chuck T. Man, Chuck, my man,
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Speaker 1: Chuck used to when I was in between jobs. I
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Speaker 1: used to go and you know, buy mixtapes in bulk
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Speaker 1: from DJ Chuck T. And that's how I used to
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Speaker 1: make a little change on the side man, selling those mixtapes.
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Speaker 1: You're doing big things out here with the NBA and
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Speaker 1: just putting on the Carolina rappers. Man like, yeah, he
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Speaker 1: do the Hornets night, he do the Charlotte Hornets Night.
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Speaker 1: That's my guy, man, that's my that's my brother for life.
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Speaker 1: Love Chuck just I love to hear him on the
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Speaker 1: show one time and anytime, any anytime. All you gotta
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Speaker 1: do is Holly, Chuck is the reason the baby. We
15:43
Speaker 1: had the baby up here back in the day when
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Speaker 1: he when he came, when he came and did his
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Speaker 1: first interview here. Yeah, he put me on a female
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Speaker 1: rapper name Haity lay Man. He needed to check out
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Speaker 1: she up and coming man, Haiti lay Yeah, I will
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Speaker 1: do that all right. Get it off your chests. Eight
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Speaker 1: hundred five ain't five one oh five one. If you
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Speaker 1: need this ent to hit this up now, Jason Lee,
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Speaker 1: we got rumors on the way. We'll we're talking about. Yeah, well,
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Speaker 1: apparently Tamar Braxton and Canny Birds heard the show yesterday
16:06
Speaker 1: because the gloves are off and they're fighting again more again,
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Speaker 1: Jesus Christ. All right, we'll get into that next door move.
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Speaker 1: It is the Breakfast Club. Good morning, the Breakfast Club,
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Speaker 1: burning everybody. It's DJ n V Charlomagne the guy. We
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Speaker 1: are the Breakfast Club. We got our co host Jason
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Speaker 1: Lee with us, and let's get right to the rumors.
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Speaker 1: Got mastered the tea thing. The only place I want
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Speaker 1: to come and talk to about was here because I
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Speaker 1: really feel like everybody in the culture potentially off. But
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Speaker 1: I knew I can talk my talk talk to me.
16:36
Speaker 1: This is the rumor report on the Breakfast Club. It's
16:41
Speaker 1: the first I want to mention Triple X ten. You know,
16:46
Speaker 1: he was murdered back in twenty and eighteen. The three
16:48
Speaker 1: people have found guilty a first degree murder just went
16:51
Speaker 1: down yesterday in Florida, So I just wanted to get
16:53
Speaker 1: out of the way. No surprises there. I mean, he
16:55
Speaker 1: was on videos on video, you know, and they deserve
16:57
Speaker 1: every single second of that time, and they sad because
17:00
Speaker 1: young brothers too. And I'm sure they're gonna learn, it's
17:02
Speaker 1: just that they're gonna have to learn in prison. Yeah,
17:05
Speaker 1: it was really sad. All right, So let's get over
17:07
Speaker 1: to what's going on in Atlanta. The gloves are off again.
17:11
Speaker 1: I love that sound effect. So apparently Tamar Braxon and
17:14
Speaker 1: Candy Burst were watching the show yesterday or listening in
17:16
Speaker 1: and heard us talk about what was happening in the
17:19
Speaker 1: world of chaos that they're creating. Now, for those of
17:22
Speaker 1: you that missed the show yesterday, Tamar Braxon was recently
17:24
Speaker 1: I'll Watch What Happens Live with Andy Cohen and she
17:26
Speaker 1: talked about being accosted by a real housewive of Atlanta
17:30
Speaker 1: and her husband, and the fans found out that it
17:33
Speaker 1: was Candy burs Well. Yesterday when we talked about it,
17:36
Speaker 1: the fans went crazy, and Tamar went live on social
17:40
Speaker 1: media to talk about what happened, and this is what
17:42
Speaker 1: she said. Weeks go by, four or five weeks go by,
17:45
Speaker 1: and we all have a concert together and I see
17:48
Speaker 1: Candy in the hallway and I'm like, hey, bol and
17:52
Speaker 1: I give her a hug, you know whatever. She just
17:54
Speaker 1: look at me, and she's like, I ain't. I'm like,
17:56
Speaker 1: what happened? She like, well, you say that you said
18:01
Speaker 1: what about call those? King was bower. Now people were
18:04
Speaker 1: saying that Tamar was lying and that this never happened,
18:08
Speaker 1: and so Tamar continued to explain the conversation between her
18:10
Speaker 1: and Candy. I didn't mean no harm, you know. I
18:14
Speaker 1: wasn't trying to, you know, go against you or nothing
18:16
Speaker 1: like that. It's you know. And she was like, nah
18:18
Speaker 1: nah nah nah, you say you say you say, And
18:21
Speaker 1: I'm like, sis we I'm listen. If I offended you,
18:26
Speaker 1: I am so sorry. And plus I see her a DM,
18:29
Speaker 1: and I said, I sent you with DM when you know,
18:31
Speaker 1: when your fans out was coming to my page. Na
18:34
Speaker 1: na Na, But you said and you did and did
18:38
Speaker 1: and did and then you double damn and put it
18:42
Speaker 1: in your start. I said, listen, Kenny, I'm not trying
18:46
Speaker 1: to go that with you now. Yesterday I said that
18:49
Speaker 1: Candy burst was allegedly and bully. You both said that
18:51
Speaker 1: you couldn't see it. Now I'm telling you it's very
18:54
Speaker 1: interesting because this is what happens when people don't like
18:57
Speaker 1: being called out. When you shake the serial and all
19:00
Speaker 1: the roaches fall out. I'm not calling black women roaches.
19:02
Speaker 1: I'm just saying that I used to live in the
19:03
Speaker 1: hood and we have roaches in our cereal. When you
19:05
Speaker 1: shake the cereal box like Tamark did, the roaches fall out,
19:07
Speaker 1: and Candy Burst did not like that, so she went
19:10
Speaker 1: straight to social media to gas like the fans, and
19:12
Speaker 1: this is what she said. The only thing I'd say
19:14
Speaker 1: right now is you know, simply that that's not true.
19:18
Speaker 1: My husband never sentence to her. He did not threaten her,
19:21
Speaker 1: none of that. So that's why I was like, I
19:23
Speaker 1: don't even want to like address that on Amazon Live.
19:26
Speaker 1: She and I didn't have words, but he did, so
19:30
Speaker 1: that's why I was like, Yeah, some people like to
19:35
Speaker 1: twist things a little bit, but we can talk about
19:38
Speaker 1: it later on a different platform or not. Well, let's
19:41
Speaker 1: speak about on this platform, Candy, because you're playing twist.
19:43
Speaker 1: So let's talk about receipts. Because here's a receiver right here.
19:47
Speaker 1: This is a receipt from Tamark because after she called
19:50
Speaker 1: her victim, Tamar said, I am the victim. When your
19:53
Speaker 1: man steps to a woman sounds like an abused woman
19:55
Speaker 1: to me, seeing nothing wrong with that. I hope he's
19:57
Speaker 1: not beating your ass. I pray for your helling Jesus.
20:00
Speaker 1: She also then posted this receipt, and this is a
20:02
Speaker 1: receipt of her standing. They're taking a picture with a
20:04
Speaker 1: fan while her man is back there checking Todd allegedly,
20:08
Speaker 1: And she posted that that conversation happened. And then you know,
20:12
Speaker 1: fans were still down in Tamark. What did they call
20:14
Speaker 1: checking based off a picture? They just sis You see
20:16
Speaker 1: them talk, They having a conversation. Okay, how do we
20:18
Speaker 1: know that actually need a hostile converse? We don't. Well,
20:21
Speaker 1: and this is what this is. This is Tamark's husband.
20:24
Speaker 1: For Tamark's boyfriend, this white man to walk up on
20:26
Speaker 1: a black man have a conversation. There was a lot
20:27
Speaker 1: of courages, so she put to this receipt. He might
20:30
Speaker 1: have been asking what can I do for the Black
20:31
Speaker 1: Lives Matter? That he wasn't asking that that he wasn't
20:34
Speaker 1: asking I think he actually can don't need some money.
20:35
Speaker 1: He said what he said, This is what he's said.
20:37
Speaker 1: What he said for the record, Yes, I did have
20:39
Speaker 1: a conversation with Todd about what he said to Tamar,
20:41
Speaker 1: and he immediately seemed embarrassed about it apologizing. Wanted to
20:44
Speaker 1: make amends for saying quote, you know what it is.
20:47
Speaker 1: He tried to rationalize what he said what he said,
20:49
Speaker 1: but I stopped him and said it should have never happened.
20:51
Speaker 1: I then asked him to clear it up with Tamar
20:53
Speaker 1: and apologize in person. Now, I'm not mad at any man,
20:56
Speaker 1: you know, approaching another man on behalf of the woman.
21:00
Speaker 1: You let that white man check you. He probably thought
21:02
Speaker 1: he was still producing the show. You know, That's how
21:04
Speaker 1: they made He was a producer on the show, and
21:05
Speaker 1: then they fell in love whatever, and now now he's
21:07
Speaker 1: caught up in the storyline. But you know, maybe he
21:09
Speaker 1: wants a peach. I don't know. But what I do
21:12
Speaker 1: know is that Candy, and this is where celebrities have
21:14
Speaker 1: a problem with me. I'm a likable person. Hollywood Unlocked
21:18
Speaker 1: is not a likable platform all the time. You I
21:20
Speaker 1: can like you, Hollywood unlock, could think you're corny. Hollywood
21:23
Speaker 1: A lot could love you, and I could think you're corny.
21:24
Speaker 1: You're Hollywood unlocked, Jason, No, that is your media platform.
21:31
Speaker 1: Speaking of confusion, she continued playing twister yesterday, and Candy
21:34
Speaker 1: had this is say about me and Hollywood alot that
21:36
Speaker 1: particular person he had like been dogging me on his blog,
21:42
Speaker 1: like he has said a lot of negative things. I'm
21:43
Speaker 1: sure you got seen because some of the stuff who
21:45
Speaker 1: was on different blogs or whatever. I guess other people
21:47
Speaker 1: had picked it up. This is a while ago. And um,
21:51
Speaker 1: so if somebody had dogged you, would you want to
21:54
Speaker 1: interview for their page? No? Um, Jason Lee likes you can't.
22:00
Speaker 1: And I said that yesterday. I said that in every interview.
22:02
Speaker 1: I still like you, I really do. I'm a big fan.
22:03
Speaker 1: I'm gonna play who should you run to? When I
22:06
Speaker 1: got here? But let me tell who you should run to.
22:08
Speaker 1: You should run to Elliott. Doctor Elliot can help you
22:11
Speaker 1: with some psychlotherapy because at this point, your delusional Hollywood
22:13
Speaker 1: Ulock thinks your corn and your storyline is tired. Your
22:15
Speaker 1: man thinks he's a woman out there fighting with Tamo
22:18
Speaker 1: or Braxton. And now guess what, I'm gonna unbreak your heart.
22:21
Speaker 1: Nobody cares And I'm not gonna come to see your
22:23
Speaker 1: show on April first because her and Tamar are gonna
22:26
Speaker 1: be in concert together, which is crazy, which I don't
22:27
Speaker 1: know if this is for a show or not, But
22:29
Speaker 1: what I do know is Candy, You're always welcome to
22:31
Speaker 1: Hollywood a lot, even though you're not gonna come because
22:32
Speaker 1: t I canceled your appointment last time, and he'll probably
22:34
Speaker 1: cancel it again. So what do you say. You're basically
22:36
Speaker 1: saying that you know artists you can still be You
22:39
Speaker 1: should be allowed to be critical of people and still
22:42
Speaker 1: let them they can still want to sit down to
22:44
Speaker 1: have a converence the same conversation we're happening about you
22:46
Speaker 1: in the White House. You should be able to criticize
22:47
Speaker 1: people and still break bread. But guess what, we have
22:50
Speaker 1: a relationship with every celebrity. Some just choose to participate
22:52
Speaker 1: or not. We're gonna still continue to talk about Candy's
22:55
Speaker 1: tired storylines, and then I may pull up an old
22:58
Speaker 1: lady gang and get whatever they serve on the your
23:01
Speaker 1: damn mind if you talk crazy about Candy and they
23:03
Speaker 1: go eat it a salmon bites are good though you
23:06
Speaker 1: standing on, you ain't gonna talk crazy about me coming
23:10
Speaker 1: he said, you pull up. Listen, I'm gonna support her.
23:14
Speaker 1: You were smarter than that. Jon. You don't get a
23:16
Speaker 1: little route put on or I'm gonna buy the restaurant
23:18
Speaker 1: and bulldoz that hell out of it, like that some
23:23
Speaker 1: old lady roots put on it. But you're gonna understand
23:25
Speaker 1: the Candy don't want to sit off course call Let
23:27
Speaker 1: me ask you a question. We talked about the back
23:29
Speaker 1: and forth. I'm sorry, I know we gotta go, But
23:30
Speaker 1: where did it start? Why they beef? What was the problem?
23:32
Speaker 1: Why are going back? Like? I don't know what Jason made?
23:34
Speaker 1: That sounds good, but I enjoyed them. I never like,
23:36
Speaker 1: why would they be enjoy like? Why did she step
23:39
Speaker 1: to it? Like? What was the problem in the first place?
23:40
Speaker 1: I don't know, but I'm ready to see a fight
23:42
Speaker 1: go down. I don't want to see them fight. We
23:43
Speaker 1: never know why they fighting. I don't even think they
23:45
Speaker 1: know why they fight. We got the fighter bells again.
23:47
Speaker 1: I wouldn't mind being Todd in the white dude fight,
23:50
Speaker 1: but I don't want to see the women fight. I
23:51
Speaker 1: can't wait to see Todd with the peach Man. You
23:55
Speaker 1: are crazy, z you think win? What you mean fight
24:00
Speaker 1: Todd todd Man? You mean how about Tamar and Candy?
24:04
Speaker 1: That's what I was talking crazy? All right? All right? Well,
24:09
Speaker 1: thank you for that rumor report. Jason Lee so messy,
24:12
Speaker 1: but I loved it. And I enjoyed it. Good morning too.
24:15
Speaker 1: By the way, I thought I had. I thought I
24:16
Speaker 1: was the only one with a new intro up here.
24:18
Speaker 1: Y'all got introst for everybody else. I don't feel special.
24:20
Speaker 1: Jess hilarious. You h portion had one? He need to?
24:25
Speaker 1: I think Ninia had one. Yeah, just been flexing her
24:28
Speaker 1: creative muscle. That's all all right, you know when we
24:30
Speaker 1: come back, we got Front page News. Tesling figure will
24:32
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Speaker 1: We are the Breakfast Club. We got our co host
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Speaker 1: Jason Lee with a us this morning, and it's time
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Speaker 1: for Front page News. We got ten figure out on
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Speaker 1: the line. She's back of Monitazz. Good morning, and everybody
25:08
Speaker 1: now when you want to start the four guilty of conspiracy,
25:11
Speaker 1: break that story down for us. Yes, four people associated
25:15
Speaker 1: with the far right anti government extreamist group known as
25:18
Speaker 1: the Oath Keepers were convicted on Monday of conspiracy to
25:22
Speaker 1: obstruct Congress and obstruction of Congress stemming from the attack
25:27
Speaker 1: on the US Capitol. Both of these charges can carry
25:30
Speaker 1: a sentence up to twenty years behind bars. And now
25:33
Speaker 1: it's so far as the DLJ says that at least
25:36
Speaker 1: one thousand Trump supporters have been arrested for the January
25:40
Speaker 1: sixth Capitol riot. Now, I do again want to remind
25:43
Speaker 1: people this particular story. Guys look it up because there's
25:45
Speaker 1: a lot of information on this one that I couldn't
25:48
Speaker 1: get in on who was charged and why, and their
25:50
Speaker 1: husbands and baby daddy's and all. It's a lot with
25:53
Speaker 1: this story. So I want to have you guys to
25:54
Speaker 1: look it up. But I remember charlomagne An Mvu talked
25:58
Speaker 1: about several times like when are people going to to jail?
26:00
Speaker 1: And so I just want to remind people that there
26:02
Speaker 1: have been over a thousand people who have been charged
26:04
Speaker 1: now convicted and going to jail. As another story, but
26:07
Speaker 1: there's some movement on that it's been. It's been quite
26:10
Speaker 1: a few that have been cont And we also got
26:13
Speaker 1: to talk about this Vermont High School basketball team, girls team.
26:18
Speaker 1: They're forfeiting a tournament because they don't want to play
26:20
Speaker 1: against a transgender player. Yes, as of twenty twenty two,
26:24
Speaker 1: the Vermont private schools are expected to follow the state's
26:28
Speaker 1: antidiscrimination discrimination rules if they want to get state funding.
26:32
Speaker 1: In other words, if you want to get the bag,
26:35
Speaker 1: you have to do what we say. But earlier this year,
26:38
Speaker 1: mid Vermont Christian School and another religious affiliated school told
26:41
Speaker 1: the Vermont Board of Education that they wanted to reserve
26:44
Speaker 1: their right not to follow all of the antidiscrimination discrimination
26:48
Speaker 1: rules due to their religious belief Well, it appears that
26:51
Speaker 1: they try to exercise that right and decided in February
26:55
Speaker 1: not to play in a tournament because they refuse to
26:57
Speaker 1: play against a team with a transgender player. Now, the
27:01
Speaker 1: head of school, Vicky Falk, explained that the reason for
27:04
Speaker 1: the forfeit was that her school did not think it
27:06
Speaker 1: was fair to have girls a girls team play against
27:09
Speaker 1: an opponent with a biological male, because it jeopardized the
27:13
Speaker 1: fairness of the game and safety of the players. Since then,
27:17
Speaker 1: the Diversity, Equity and Inclusion and Activities Committee, the Activity
27:21
Speaker 1: Standards Committee, and the VPA Executive Council made a decision
27:25
Speaker 1: that the team violated the policies and they are now
27:29
Speaker 1: banned for all future activities and tournaments moving forward. So
27:33
Speaker 1: they can't play anything tournaments, not in a tournament, or
27:36
Speaker 1: activity anything because they violated that policy. That's not fair
27:40
Speaker 1: because that sounds like common sense to me. Like we've
27:42
Speaker 1: all seen Juwanna man, we've seen Grandmama who I'm saying,
27:47
Speaker 1: we've seen that was probably out there averaging thirty and
27:51
Speaker 1: twenty against the women. Man, remember that, Remember that swimmer
27:55
Speaker 1: that he was a man and then he transitioned to
27:57
Speaker 1: a woman, and when he was swimming as a man,
27:59
Speaker 1: he was like number eighty, Yes, and then when you
28:01
Speaker 1: transition to a woman like number one or something. That's
28:03
Speaker 1: what I'm my point. Whoever they were playing again, I
28:06
Speaker 1: got to see the status. If this person is averaging
28:08
Speaker 1: fifty two blocks, I'm not playing against them either. That's
28:13
Speaker 1: not fair. Yeah. My concern is, you know, even the
28:18
Speaker 1: religious beliefs, you know them saying up front, you know, hey,
28:21
Speaker 1: we don't mind following your policy for we're a private
28:24
Speaker 1: school and it's a Christian school, it's a Christian high school.
28:26
Speaker 1: So it's really interesting to see, you know how, I
28:29
Speaker 1: guess they're not getting any leeway based upon you know,
28:32
Speaker 1: their own individual right, you know, based on the religious beliefs.
28:35
Speaker 1: And they attached that again to what okay, if you
28:38
Speaker 1: don't do what we say, you won't get funding. And
28:40
Speaker 1: so this is just a real interesting story and I
28:43
Speaker 1: think guys should look it up and look more into it.
28:45
Speaker 1: I knew, I knew they were going to ask the
28:48
Speaker 1: resident gave his opinion. People would be surprised, But I
28:51
Speaker 1: actually agree with you. I just I don't think it's fair.
28:53
Speaker 1: I mean, can you imagine, like when you look at
28:55
Speaker 1: what happened with DeMar Hamley, if you put a biological
28:59
Speaker 1: woman on the field than she was, he was to
29:01
Speaker 1: get hit. There could be like some real serious I
29:04
Speaker 1: don't know, people are gonna be mad because they said, oh,
29:06
Speaker 1: you should say equality. I'm all for equality, but in
29:08
Speaker 1: this instance, I just don't know that that's not equality
29:10
Speaker 1: when somebody has a biological advantage against you, you know
29:14
Speaker 1: what I mean? And I just yeah, I don't, I don't,
29:16
Speaker 1: I don't. I don't dig it. I don't think it's fair.
29:18
Speaker 1: But I've always said, You've heard me on record say this,
29:21
Speaker 1: you should put one transgender woman. But on every w
29:25
Speaker 1: NBA team. I think that Kaylin out there. She's like
29:28
Speaker 1: the greatest athlete ever. Get washed. Now the generation, the
29:32
Speaker 1: WNBA player, the Agian Wilsons and all the middle wash
29:34
Speaker 1: Kaylyn gen. But you should have if you want to
29:37
Speaker 1: make the w NBA even more exciting, because I like
29:40
Speaker 1: the fundamental basketball the w NBA plays. Where you really
29:42
Speaker 1: want to make it more exciting, put one transgender woman
29:45
Speaker 1: on each team. Can he plays? Not use Jawana Man
29:47
Speaker 1: as a reference stuff, because that's what made me think
29:49
Speaker 1: of Kaylin. But I'm just talking about how ridiculous it
29:53
Speaker 1: looked when this person with a biological advantage was out
29:56
Speaker 1: there playing against women. That movie showed us what could
29:59
Speaker 1: go down. You know, I'm not mad at him. I
30:02
Speaker 1: do wish that this team wasn't hiding behind religion. No
30:03
Speaker 1: task like even like even with the religious rule, just
30:06
Speaker 1: stay straight up. No, it's just not fair what they did.
30:09
Speaker 1: The statement. Yeah, they said in the statement that no,
30:12
Speaker 1: this is this is not fair based on you know,
30:15
Speaker 1: having a lady ladies play against a biological man. I
30:20
Speaker 1: was just pointing to the fact that when they changed
30:23
Speaker 1: this policy, they put it on the table earlier last year,
30:26
Speaker 1: saying we're telling you now, we're not going to be
30:28
Speaker 1: in line with everything you know on this discrimination policy
30:31
Speaker 1: they had in place. So they're they're doing they're playing
30:33
Speaker 1: both angles on this plane, playing both angles, hilarious, having
30:39
Speaker 1: Laverne concept here. I saw the trans Barbie back here
30:41
Speaker 1: to that was Jason put that play together. I was
30:45
Speaker 1: trying to get the stats, but I can't find this.
30:47
Speaker 1: I need to see the stats. That's what I need.
30:49
Speaker 1: I need to see how much this person was averaging
30:50
Speaker 1: on that team playing both sides. It's too early in
30:53
Speaker 1: the order for what do you think task Well, you know,
30:57
Speaker 1: I think, but again, I'm always going to look at
31:00
Speaker 1: the pop politics side of it, and I think when
31:03
Speaker 1: we remember last week we talked about separation of church
31:05
Speaker 1: and state. UM, we talked about you know, being able
31:09
Speaker 1: to have the right to do something, and the fact
31:12
Speaker 1: that they said last year that this is not in
31:14
Speaker 1: line with our beliefs, I'm leaning more towards that. I
31:17
Speaker 1: hear what you guys are saying, but you know, I'm
31:19
Speaker 1: always looking at looking at it from a legal lens
31:22
Speaker 1: or political lens, and I think they made that clear
31:25
Speaker 1: last year. So they obviously they could have had an
31:27
Speaker 1: opportunity as well not to accept the money. You know,
31:29
Speaker 1: you could always not accept the money and do whatever
31:31
Speaker 1: you want to do, so you can look at it
31:32
Speaker 1: from from that way as well. That's true. So that's
31:35
Speaker 1: two different sides of this no pun intended. Pause. All right,
31:38
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31:47
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Speaker 1: April twenty second in Atlanta at Pullman Yards. That's right,
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Speaker 1: all right, Well, thank you tess again and when we
32:25
Speaker 1: come back, Elliott Connie will be joining us. He has
32:28
Speaker 1: a new book, The Solution Focus Brief Therapy, culturally competent Psychotherapist.
32:35
Speaker 1: You're gonna ever meet man and we're gonna chop it
32:36
Speaker 1: up with him when we come back, So don't move.
32:38
Speaker 1: It's to breakfast club the morning. The breakfast club because
32:43
Speaker 1: I think we're told you respect your parents no matter what.
32:46
Speaker 1: They can say whatever they want, they could do what
32:47
Speaker 1: every they want. But yeah, I think that I don't
32:48
Speaker 1: agree with that. Yeah, well I want one hundred percent.
32:50
Speaker 1: Was raised that way, like you respect your parents, don't
32:52
Speaker 1: matter what you do. But I was in such a
32:54
Speaker 1: bad place. I was like, I'm pretty sure that I'm
32:57
Speaker 1: not supposed to die behind that rule. Like I'm pretty
32:59
Speaker 1: sure I'm I'm supposed to suicide out of here just
33:01
Speaker 1: because I'm not supposed to talk back to my father.
33:04
Speaker 1: So I got back. I got to a place where
33:05
Speaker 1: it was like I gotta set this boundary or else.
33:08
Speaker 1: I wonder if it's it's the term rules or an
33:11
Speaker 1: adult you know what I mean? Because as an adult,
33:13
Speaker 1: as you know, you set the rules. So now when
33:15
Speaker 1: your child, because no matter how old you. Are you
33:17
Speaker 1: still he still looks at you, I'm sure of as
33:19
Speaker 1: his child grow, I'm sure is the setting of rules.
33:23
Speaker 1: I think that's an interesting point, like if I said
33:24
Speaker 1: something other than rules. But I think to your point,
33:27
Speaker 1: but if you if you look at your child that
33:29
Speaker 1: you wouldn't take anywhere the boundary rule request, it wouldn't
33:32
Speaker 1: really matter. Like I was raised in that, you know,
33:34
Speaker 1: nineteen eighties, nineteen nineties, where black child is to be
33:37
Speaker 1: seen and not heard and all that stuff. I don't.
33:39
Speaker 1: I don't think it would have mattered. But I also
33:40
Speaker 1: agree with you. I think part of the issue in
33:42
Speaker 1: today's world is not respecting authority. I'm talking about not
33:46
Speaker 1: respecting abusers. I'm talking about not allowing abusers to have
33:49
Speaker 1: free reign to your life. I do think we have
33:51
Speaker 1: to learn to respect the authority, and I think it's
33:53
Speaker 1: a lot of reasons contributing to our kids. Don't do that.
33:55
Speaker 1: You you told me the other day that you feel
33:57
Speaker 1: like kids should disrespect their parents. I think parents should
34:00
Speaker 1: expect I'm in the contract of wild in the context
34:05
Speaker 1: of our conversation, go ahead, Jason, let me let me
34:09
Speaker 1: put that in context. My mother would say, Ellie, go
34:11
Speaker 1: do the dishes, and I would be like, why didn't
34:13
Speaker 1: you ask one of them? And that would get me popped.
34:15
Speaker 1: You know that that would get you luck to be
34:16
Speaker 1: popp and I tell you so, yeah, yeah. But if
34:19
Speaker 1: you're teaching your child to be confident, to be strong,
34:22
Speaker 1: to value their voice, they should ask those kinds of
34:24
Speaker 1: questions and it allows you to parent them. But we
34:27
Speaker 1: shouldn't translate that as disrespect. They're just practicing. It's not disrespecting.
34:30
Speaker 1: They're practicing their voice. That was in our era. I
34:35
Speaker 1: would never think to talk back, and I would never
34:37
Speaker 1: even think to talk to my parents the way my
34:39
Speaker 1: kids talk to me, at least say it's not disrespect,
34:42
Speaker 1: it's just them being like asking valid questions. I don't
34:45
Speaker 1: agree with you with that, La, because and this is
34:47
Speaker 1: gonna sound crazy here we go. I got six kids,
34:49
Speaker 1: So if I tell one of my kids to do something,
34:51
Speaker 1: I expect it to be done. I'm not gonna do
34:53
Speaker 1: it something that's gonna be detrimental to their health, something
34:55
Speaker 1: that's going to hurt them. It's part of what everybody
34:58
Speaker 1: needs to do to be in this household. Agree with
35:01
Speaker 1: meaning if if dad's shows a dad's way is to
35:04
Speaker 1: make the money, pay the bills, do this, that and
35:05
Speaker 1: the other, and I ask you to shovel the snow.
35:08
Speaker 1: Don't ask me why don't say, well, why didn't you
35:10
Speaker 1: ask this this? You know, sibling, why didn't you ask
35:13
Speaker 1: this one? No, because I asked you to do it.
35:14
Speaker 1: But you could explain it to them just the way
35:16
Speaker 1: you explained to Just listen. You shouldn't have to. This
35:19
Speaker 1: is a rule that applies to everything, because it's one thing.
35:21
Speaker 1: If a kid says, hey, you know, I want to
35:23
Speaker 1: try some finno, well no, don't do finn on. Let
35:25
Speaker 1: me explain you why so you invite them to a
35:27
Speaker 1: conversation about it versus I expect these things to be
35:29
Speaker 1: done as your parents, so go do them. Yes, I
35:32
Speaker 1: think when you start inviting the kid into I mean,
35:34
Speaker 1: I don't have kids clearly yet, but when you have
35:36
Speaker 1: this perceived negotiation of what you expect as a parent,
35:39
Speaker 1: then you invite them into a different type of relationship
35:42
Speaker 1: for sure, and not all things in negotiations. I just
35:45
Speaker 1: think we need to have more conversations. If my child said,
35:47
Speaker 1: don't want to try finno, it is perfectly okay to
35:50
Speaker 1: say no and let me sit you down and we're
35:51
Speaker 1: going to converse as to why. Like, conversation is powerful.
35:55
Speaker 1: Look at what you guys have done with conversation. So
35:57
Speaker 1: I've ended my relationship with my father a few years ago,
36:00
Speaker 1: very intentionally, very you know, I told him it's over.
36:04
Speaker 1: When you say you still because I want to go
36:06
Speaker 1: back to you saying that you still want or desire
36:08
Speaker 1: to have that relationship. People always try to guilt me
36:10
Speaker 1: in that, like that's your dad. You need your dad
36:12
Speaker 1: and he gonna die soon. You got to have that relationship.
36:14
Speaker 1: I feel like people should have the permission to leave
36:16
Speaker 1: a relationship forever if they choose to and still be
36:19
Speaker 1: at peace. Because do you feel like people have guilted
36:22
Speaker 1: you into believe in that you need to have closure.
36:25
Speaker 1: You can't have closure aout having a relationship, right, Yeah, Jason,
36:27
Speaker 1: it's a funny thing you say. So the situation I
36:30
Speaker 1: was in and am in with my father, you talk
36:32
Speaker 1: about people trying to kill you. I went to got
36:34
Speaker 1: a whole master's degree in family therapy. My teachers would
36:37
Speaker 1: talk to me about they talk to whole class, what's
36:38
Speaker 1: your relationship like your dad? And then I'd say my situation, Oh,
36:41
Speaker 1: you need to call him, You don't know, like people
36:43
Speaker 1: telling me that I need to subject to myself to
36:45
Speaker 1: abuse aren't listening. So when I tell you now, like
36:48
Speaker 1: I pray every day, and it's true, I pray every
36:50
Speaker 1: day for healing to happen and for me to have
36:52
Speaker 1: a relationship with this man because because that's my dad
36:54
Speaker 1: and I love him to this day, and I feel
36:56
Speaker 1: like I have this gift of forgiveness that i'd like
36:58
Speaker 1: to give him that he is not willing to accept
37:00
Speaker 1: because he's got to do these things in order to
37:02
Speaker 1: accept it. However, do I have peace? Of course I do,
37:06
Speaker 1: because I've given myself this thing, and anybody can come
37:08
Speaker 1: into my life as long as you give me emotional
37:11
Speaker 1: and physical safety because I can sort out everything else.
37:13
Speaker 1: Maybe maybe I don't understand because I don't I don't
37:15
Speaker 1: have the type of relationship you guys have with your dad.
37:18
Speaker 1: But I kind of feel like what you said, because
37:20
Speaker 1: Charlemagne and I always talk about it like our parents
37:23
Speaker 1: didn't have They didn't know right, There was no instruction manual.
37:26
Speaker 1: They did the best that they could at that time,
37:28
Speaker 1: especially that time, especially you know the grandparents and great
37:32
Speaker 1: grandparents into slavery, so you know, my dad was growing
37:35
Speaker 1: up when you know, he couldn't use a certain bathroom
37:37
Speaker 1: because he was black. So I get it, but you
37:39
Speaker 1: never feel that way, like I at least want to
37:41
Speaker 1: try to menace and have a conversation before my dad dies.
37:44
Speaker 1: Like when my mother died. Right before my mother died,
37:47
Speaker 1: literally in the hospital, she said, I did the best
37:50
Speaker 1: that I could. And she was a bad mom, I mean,
37:52
Speaker 1: and when she got sick and all that, with drugs
37:54
Speaker 1: and all that, and I felt given her peace by
37:57
Speaker 1: accepting that as her apology and saying, I accept your apology.
38:01
Speaker 1: It's good I forgave her. And then she passed away. Yeah,
38:04
Speaker 1: I understood in that moment when she said I did
38:06
Speaker 1: the best that I could. Was you basically did the
38:08
Speaker 1: best that you could with the limitations of health and
38:10
Speaker 1: drugs and all that. But at some point there also
38:12
Speaker 1: has to be accountability. And I feel like we're taught
38:15
Speaker 1: you know, no matter what your parents do, they can
38:17
Speaker 1: bring you in this world, take you out, you know,
38:19
Speaker 1: do what I say you do, Like at some point
38:21
Speaker 1: you have to be accountable, all right, We got more
38:23
Speaker 1: with Elliott Connie. When we come back, don't move. It's
38:25
Speaker 1: to breakfast Club. Good morning, Envy. Charlomagne the guy we
38:29
Speaker 1: are to Breakfast Club. We have Jason Leol co host him.
38:32
Speaker 1: We're still kicking it with Elliott Connie. He has a
38:34
Speaker 1: new book out and of course he's a therapist. Charlomagne,
38:38
Speaker 1: you know what I want you to talk about. You
38:39
Speaker 1: know you've you've you've created something called the solution focused
38:42
Speaker 1: brief therapy. Can you break that down? What it is? That? Yeah, man,
38:45
Speaker 1: solution f brief therapy. It's a type of therapy that
38:48
Speaker 1: I could best describe as outcome driven, as opposed to
38:51
Speaker 1: problem driven. I think I think we associate most therapies
38:55
Speaker 1: with solving problems like I got this problem depression and anxiety, alcoholism, whatever,
38:59
Speaker 1: and I go to a psychotherapist, couln't want to solve
39:01
Speaker 1: that problem. And that never resonated with me when I
39:03
Speaker 1: was in graduate school. And what solution, folks, a proof
39:05
Speaker 1: therapy is is more like, regardless of the problem, what
39:09
Speaker 1: are you trying to evolve into? What are you trying
39:11
Speaker 1: to grow into? And who are you trying to become?
39:13
Speaker 1: And let's figure out ways to create that because when
39:15
Speaker 1: you create that, that's inherently going to solve or adjust
39:19
Speaker 1: your experience with the problem. How do we do that
39:21
Speaker 1: in the world where everybody is afraid of being canceled
39:23
Speaker 1: and everybody that's canceling people act like they don't have problems, right,
39:27
Speaker 1: you know what I mean? Like, are you talking about
39:28
Speaker 1: Twitter or whatever? Ten years ago I said the craziest
39:31
Speaker 1: things when I found Twitter. But now you'll be held
39:33
Speaker 1: accountable for it. So how do you help people like
39:36
Speaker 1: resonate in the world where their cancel culture is a
39:38
Speaker 1: real fear that they may have? You know, Jason's funny.
39:40
Speaker 1: So I started my career as a psychotherapist. I'm now
39:43
Speaker 1: working on TV projects and all these other things, and
39:45
Speaker 1: almost every entertainer I talked to talks to me about
39:48
Speaker 1: cancel culture. And it's hard to me to explain. But
39:50
Speaker 1: cancel culture in a lot of ways is irrelevant because,
39:53
Speaker 1: like Jason for example, is don't do message it. I
39:56
Speaker 1: like Jason, So if you are your authentic self, cancel
39:59
Speaker 1: culture doesn't really exists unless you break like not just
40:02
Speaker 1: for being out there, but you could break some significant
40:05
Speaker 1: rules that all of us will say, We're not okay
40:07
Speaker 1: with that as a world, And I think I'm okay
40:09
Speaker 1: with that actually, But like if you're just being your
40:11
Speaker 1: authentic self. There are some people that are saying I can't,
40:13
Speaker 1: I can't do that, but there's some people are gonna
40:15
Speaker 1: connect with it, and you just have to be yourself
40:17
Speaker 1: with the people you connect with vibe with you. How
40:19
Speaker 1: do you get the world on therapy? You invite therapists
40:22
Speaker 1: up to the breakfast club. But I mean, seriously you.
40:27
Speaker 1: That's what I said earlier when we were talking about
40:28
Speaker 1: parenting is conversation is powerful. And invite people into the
40:33
Speaker 1: conversation with all of your massive platform, and that's exactly
40:37
Speaker 1: what you do. That's how we change the world. I
40:39
Speaker 1: was going to ask you think everybody needs therapy. No,
40:41
Speaker 1: I don't think everybody needs therapy. But I will say, Jason,
40:45
Speaker 1: expect if I can use you as an example, Jason
40:47
Speaker 1: having a trauma and appearing as if he's had a
40:51
Speaker 1: trauma prove his mental health. For example, if you have
40:54
Speaker 1: a physical illness in your body and you sneeze and cough,
40:58
Speaker 1: that is evidence that your body is healthy because it's
41:01
Speaker 1: responding to the germs within it. It would be weird
41:04
Speaker 1: if Jason got shot, observed, or murder, and all the
41:06
Speaker 1: other things that have happened if he's just running through life,
41:09
Speaker 1: I'm an account working in my cubicle like that'd be weird.
41:11
Speaker 1: So the fact that Jason was doing things evidence of
41:14
Speaker 1: his trauma. It triggers him to say, man, you need
41:16
Speaker 1: to go deal with that. And I think a lot
41:18
Speaker 1: of people have dealt with things and we think that
41:20
Speaker 1: it's weakness, but it's actually evidence of your mental health
41:22
Speaker 1: that you went through something and you're emotionally sneezing like
41:25
Speaker 1: you went through something, you're emotionally coughing. And we need
41:28
Speaker 1: to be able to have the conversation to say, here's
41:30
Speaker 1: how we deal with emotional sneezes and emotional costs. Is
41:32
Speaker 1: that thing that we deal with do we have to
41:35
Speaker 1: deal with though, and meaning not have to deal with
41:37
Speaker 1: as as in speaking to somebody, but you know, let's
41:39
Speaker 1: say you know Jason, you know, seeing somebody get shot,
41:42
Speaker 1: and he dealt with it his own way. He was
41:43
Speaker 1: able to think about it, talk about it. He's never
41:45
Speaker 1: going to forget it. It doesn't traumatize him, but he
41:47
Speaker 1: goes through it in his own way as he necessarily
41:50
Speaker 1: have to speak with somebody. So I'm going to answer
41:53
Speaker 1: you a question in two parts. When I say deal
41:55
Speaker 1: with I don't mean talk about that issue like one
41:58
Speaker 1: of the beautiful things about salute some focused brief therapies
42:01
Speaker 1: I wouldn't require, Jason, all right, let's therapists use these
42:04
Speaker 1: words that I told me either trigger words like let's
42:06
Speaker 1: unpack that? Like no, I don't want to I don't
42:08
Speaker 1: want to unpack that. I don't want to talk to
42:10
Speaker 1: you about the shooting or whatever. Now, can we talk
42:13
Speaker 1: about other things and get you to healing? Of course,
42:16
Speaker 1: can you do it on your own? It's harder to
42:18
Speaker 1: do on your own in a very similar way that
42:21
Speaker 1: personal training. Anybody here ever hired a personal transfer. Of course,
42:24
Speaker 1: a therapist needs to make you uncomfortable, and it's hard
42:27
Speaker 1: for you to make yourself that uncomfortable, in the same
42:30
Speaker 1: way that a personal trainer makes you uncomfortable and more
42:33
Speaker 1: uncomfortable than you would have Like, can you be effective
42:35
Speaker 1: you go to gym on your own, Sure, but a
42:37
Speaker 1: personal trainer is going to push you a little bit
42:39
Speaker 1: further than you would have pushed yourself on that day,
42:41
Speaker 1: and you will have to be a bit more uncomfortable
42:44
Speaker 1: to deal with the things a personal trainer ask you
42:45
Speaker 1: to do. Your present training facts you should be angry
42:49
Speaker 1: at your therapist time. I can't believe you asked me that.
42:51
Speaker 1: I can't believe you said that. I can't believe I'm
42:53
Speaker 1: in this space and you wouldn't have gone there on
42:55
Speaker 1: your own, so and can you work on on your
42:57
Speaker 1: own of course, But there's something about the uncomfortable nature
43:01
Speaker 1: that a therapist can produce by asking the kind of
43:04
Speaker 1: questions that way well, solute fu for your therapists a
43:06
Speaker 1: very question oriented way of doing things. And it's hard
43:09
Speaker 1: to be that uncomfortable if you're just doing it. And
43:11
Speaker 1: a lot of times I think a lot well, I
43:13
Speaker 1: think a lot of people know what they're supposed to do, yes,
43:16
Speaker 1: but necessarily don't want to do that. Correct. Does that
43:19
Speaker 1: mean that they need therapy because they know what they're
43:22
Speaker 1: supposed to do, but they don't necessarily want to do
43:25
Speaker 1: we though, well, but hold on. But to Envy's point,
43:27
Speaker 1: let me think of an example, because I give you
43:29
Speaker 1: a perfect example. I'm avengeful, hands down, straight up. There's
43:33
Speaker 1: people that have done things to me that I need
43:35
Speaker 1: my clap back, I need my revenge. I love that.
43:41
Speaker 1: And if you mess with me, I'm cool. But if
43:42
Speaker 1: you mess with my family, I need that revenge. And
43:44
Speaker 1: I know I shouldn't feel like that, and I know
43:46
Speaker 1: Charlemagne would be like, oh, you need to heal because
43:48
Speaker 1: it's that. Yeah, but that's good and I understand that.
43:50
Speaker 1: I know that as a person, but I need my
43:52
Speaker 1: link back and I'm not happy until I get that
43:56
Speaker 1: link back. When you mess with Gia, Madison, Logan, London,
44:00
Speaker 1: Brooklyn Jackson and Peyton, I need my lick back. I
44:02
Speaker 1: think he was like that before all of them came
44:03
Speaker 1: in the picture, but not let me know. I'm led
44:09
Speaker 1: a couple of times. But sometimes when it comes to them,
44:11
Speaker 1: I know what I'm supposed to do, and I know
44:14
Speaker 1: what a therapist is gonna tell me that. Is there
44:16
Speaker 1: anything wrong with that thought? So I'm I don't personally
44:19
Speaker 1: see anything wrong with that. I'm gonna tell you, I'm
44:21
Speaker 1: gonna give you my therapist dance. I don't put on
44:23
Speaker 1: my therapist had ant. No, there is nothing wrong with
44:26
Speaker 1: being vengeful, petty getting my lick back clack back. I'm
44:31
Speaker 1: that way too, right, Yeah, but there's nothing wrong with
44:36
Speaker 1: that inherently as a trait. Here's where we might need therapy,
44:40
Speaker 1: Like if you just came from to me for therapy, like, hey,
44:42
Speaker 1: I do these things. Does it cause your life any
44:44
Speaker 1: particular harm? No? Then why would you change it? But
44:47
Speaker 1: oftentimes there's a secondary consequence that we pay for our choices,
44:51
Speaker 1: and we need to not have that secondary consequence. Now
44:53
Speaker 1: I don't search for it, like I'm not, it's not
44:55
Speaker 1: on my mind every day, but if it comes around,
44:58
Speaker 1: I remember and I make sure, but get out of trigger.
45:01
Speaker 1: Let me give you an example, like I don't know
45:02
Speaker 1: your wife, but let's say your wife is anxious. I
45:05
Speaker 1: got a very close friend his wife is super anxious.
45:08
Speaker 1: So let's say you had an altercation with somebody, like,
45:10
Speaker 1: I need to get this person back. They have threatened
45:12
Speaker 1: the people. Correct, I gotta get this person back. If
45:14
Speaker 1: you were to do that, if you were married to
45:16
Speaker 1: my friend's wife, she'd be so anxious she wouldn't sleep
45:18
Speaker 1: for a month because she'd be so afraid that they're
45:21
Speaker 1: going to attack back. And at that point, you have
45:23
Speaker 1: to protect her from you at that moment, because she's
45:25
Speaker 1: not sleeping because you've done something that is now making
45:28
Speaker 1: her available to anxiety. And now I would say envy,
45:32
Speaker 1: like is it a problem being vengeful? No, But you
45:35
Speaker 1: decided to marry this person who's paying a consequence because
45:38
Speaker 1: you sought revenge, and now what something has to be solved.
45:42
Speaker 1: I understand, but also like let's say, let's say you
45:44
Speaker 1: say something about my family or whatever it may be.
45:46
Speaker 1: Let's let it go, right. I know what it is,
45:48
Speaker 1: and I know I'm gonna run into you. I know
45:49
Speaker 1: we're gonna see something and not physically right. But then
45:52
Speaker 1: I see online that your house is about to go
45:54
Speaker 1: and foreclosure. This really happened. By the okay, I'm gonna
45:59
Speaker 1: try to buy that house. I'm gonna bulldoze it, and
46:02
Speaker 1: then I'm gonna give it to the good Will, which
46:04
Speaker 1: really just really happened down that's the that's the time.
46:08
Speaker 1: I'm one. I wasn't looking for it, but if the
46:10
Speaker 1: lands and body looking for he was looking at the
46:12
Speaker 1: lists in my lap, I am going to buy it.
46:18
Speaker 1: I am going to bulldoze it, put your name on
46:21
Speaker 1: the bulldozer, and then give it to the good Will.
46:24
Speaker 1: I get my resent and I don't need the charity hurt.
46:29
Speaker 1: Nobody got hurt, but envy, I actually have. His name
46:32
Speaker 1: is envy. I envy that level of petting. I actually
46:36
Speaker 1: have no run with that, and I envy that level
46:38
Speaker 1: of pendingness. However I was looking for it. It just
46:40
Speaker 1: fell on my lap. However, if you would now again
46:42
Speaker 1: I don't know anything about your wife, but he would
46:43
Speaker 1: married to a wife that knows you did that. She's like,
46:46
Speaker 1: now they're gonna buy, They're gonna bulldoze. Now you've stressed
46:50
Speaker 1: her out and you have to think about your choices
46:52
Speaker 1: in the way, and now you might be married to
46:53
Speaker 1: somebody else that's you know, I'm gonna help you drive
46:55
Speaker 1: the bulldozs. So I don't think inherently because of the trait,
46:58
Speaker 1: you need therapy, all right. We got more with Elliott
47:00
Speaker 1: Connie when we come back Don't Move, just a breakfast club.
47:03
Speaker 1: The movie Wanting Everybody is dj NV Charlomagne the guy
47:06
Speaker 1: we are to Breakfast Club. We have Jason leeo't co
47:08
Speaker 1: host hand. We're still kicking it with Elliott Connie. He
47:11
Speaker 1: has a new book out, and of course he's a therapist. Charlemagne.
47:15
Speaker 1: We always have these conversations about culturally competent therapists. And
47:18
Speaker 1: one of the reasons I like talking to you is
47:20
Speaker 1: because I don't have to explain a Twitter beef. You
47:23
Speaker 1: know what I'm saying. I don't have to explain what
47:27
Speaker 1: somebody said about me on a blog or you you
47:31
Speaker 1: see it, you know it already. Like you know, other
47:33
Speaker 1: therapists I've had, you've had to explain that to them.
47:35
Speaker 1: That takes a lot of time out of a session. Yeah,
47:39
Speaker 1: but that goes back to representation. I hope all of
47:41
Speaker 1: you guys take that very very especially you, Like there
47:44
Speaker 1: are people watching you that you're never gonna meet, never
47:46
Speaker 1: gonna see in twenty years from now. They're still alive,
47:49
Speaker 1: Like forget. They may be walking in your footsteps and
47:53
Speaker 1: have their own media company, but they're still alive because
47:56
Speaker 1: representation matters. And there's a frustration. I was talking to
47:59
Speaker 1: somebody about that this weekend. There's a frustration associated with
48:02
Speaker 1: being black because we have to explain things to people.
48:05
Speaker 1: And I was talking with somebody the other day this
48:06
Speaker 1: and I was furious, I'm tired of explaining this. But
48:10
Speaker 1: I was talking to this person about racial trauma. And
48:13
Speaker 1: this is a clinician. This is a professional clinician at
48:17
Speaker 1: a professional clinician event, and somebody gave a lecture about
48:20
Speaker 1: racial trauma. And this person came up from and said,
48:22
Speaker 1: what do you think of the lecture? I said, I
48:24
Speaker 1: thought it was I thought it was good. That person
48:26
Speaker 1: explained a lot of things that y'all need to hear.
48:28
Speaker 1: And she said, well, I liked it too, but I
48:30
Speaker 1: was really frustrated because he said that black people and
48:33
Speaker 1: particularly men, experienced trauma every day. That can't be true.
48:37
Speaker 1: He said, it's absolutely true. I don't know a black person,
48:41
Speaker 1: particularly black man, that don't experience trauma every day. And
48:44
Speaker 1: she said, how could that be? Said, let me explain
48:46
Speaker 1: it to you. If I locked you in your bedroom
48:49
Speaker 1: and I took the most venomous snake and I threw
48:52
Speaker 1: it in the bedroom with you, and I locked that
48:53
Speaker 1: door and I close it. I don't want you out
48:55
Speaker 1: for a week. You didn't just experience trauma on the
48:58
Speaker 1: day you got bit. You experienced trauma every second of
49:02
Speaker 1: every day because you knew there was a venomous snake around.
49:05
Speaker 1: And she was like, oh, I get it now. Well,
49:07
Speaker 1: I'm tired of explaining that to y'all. Right, I don't
49:09
Speaker 1: want to explain blackness twenty four hours of my day.
49:13
Speaker 1: I don't want to explain to everybody what we mean.
49:15
Speaker 1: There's a context for living this life that you and
49:18
Speaker 1: I just get and I think we need more black therapists.
49:21
Speaker 1: Somebody said to me, why do I think black people,
49:23
Speaker 1: in particular men don't go to therapy, and they said,
49:25
Speaker 1: it's because black men doesn't such. So don't do that.
49:28
Speaker 1: Don't say we don't go to therapy for some sort
49:30
Speaker 1: of flaw on us. We don't go to therapy for
49:33
Speaker 1: two very basic reasons. Number one, therapy was not built
49:36
Speaker 1: for us. Number two, it is not currently being done
49:40
Speaker 1: by us. So we need more therapists doing this so
49:43
Speaker 1: that we fit into it. A lot of people go
49:45
Speaker 1: to therapists and the first time they go, they don't
49:48
Speaker 1: have a favorable time and they feel like and they
49:52
Speaker 1: feel like because of that, they don't want to go back.
49:55
Speaker 1: I just want to talk about that people who are
49:57
Speaker 1: looking for therapists, because sometimes you find the wrong person,
50:00
Speaker 1: it's not the right fit, and people are scared to,
50:02
Speaker 1: you know, to go back. Right. I tell people all
50:04
Speaker 1: the time, like, you don't go to you know, a
50:07
Speaker 1: restaurant and have a bad experience and then just boycott food. Right,
50:11
Speaker 1: You don't do that, You find another restaurant, right, And
50:16
Speaker 1: I think I think we need to recognize therapies the same.
50:18
Speaker 1: If I go to see a therapist and it doesn't work.
50:20
Speaker 1: It doesn't mean therapy didn't work, just mean that's particular
50:22
Speaker 1: therapist didn't work. And we need to be just as
50:25
Speaker 1: variant in our attempts to find a good therapist as
50:28
Speaker 1: we are on our attempts to find good food. I
50:30
Speaker 1: want to ask too, like, you know, we've seen so
50:32
Speaker 1: many people discussing mental health nowadays. Number one, do you
50:35
Speaker 1: think it has been a rise of black people going
50:38
Speaker 1: to therapy? And what do you think folks still get
50:41
Speaker 1: wrong about mental health? Um? So, to answer the first question, yeah,
50:44
Speaker 1: I think we do have more Black people going to therapy.
50:46
Speaker 1: It's it's the Tiger Woods effect, right, Like we're all
50:48
Speaker 1: old enough to remember when Tiger Woods took over golf,
50:51
Speaker 1: Black people started going to play golf and they weren't
50:53
Speaker 1: playing golf before that. Serena Williams and Venus Williams similar thing,
50:57
Speaker 1: like young black girls go to tennis courts to play
51:00
Speaker 1: tennis because representation matter. So the fact that you guys,
51:03
Speaker 1: probably more than any other platform in the world, platforms
51:07
Speaker 1: talk about black mental health. More Black people are going
51:11
Speaker 1: to therapy because they heard Charlemagne suggested someone they heard it.
51:15
Speaker 1: So now they're like, man, maybe I can go do this.
51:17
Speaker 1: And it's the exact same thing that happened in tennis.
51:19
Speaker 1: It's the exact same thing that happened in golf. And
51:21
Speaker 1: what I think we get wrong more than anything else,
51:24
Speaker 1: is we think the therapist is supposed to solve our problems,
51:27
Speaker 1: and that's actually not true. Like life is a turbulent flight,
51:31
Speaker 1: the therapist is supposed to make you a better pilot.
51:33
Speaker 1: I just got one last question. I know, I know,
51:35
Speaker 1: we're wrapping up. Charlemagne always talks about being anxious, and
51:38
Speaker 1: people always talk about anxiety. But I don't look at
51:41
Speaker 1: anxiety as a bad thing. It's how you control it. Right.
51:44
Speaker 1: I have six kids, Charlemagne has four. When they go
51:47
Speaker 1: out until even to this day, when I go out
51:50
Speaker 1: as a grown ass man, my mom and dad still
51:53
Speaker 1: have anxiety about me going out because they're scared, right,
51:56
Speaker 1: but they're not scared to a point where they're you know,
51:58
Speaker 1: listening to the right, but not to the point where
52:00
Speaker 1: they're calling me a six in the morning. Oh yeah,
52:02
Speaker 1: are you done? But anxious, same thing with my kids.
52:04
Speaker 1: That's never gonna change. No, that's healthy anxious, Okay, Like
52:07
Speaker 1: anxiety is like everything else is a degree of healthiness
52:10
Speaker 1: to it. And then some people go way beyond the
52:12
Speaker 1: spectrum to where and think about it in this term.
52:14
Speaker 1: When something is interrupting your ability to live a normal
52:17
Speaker 1: daily life, that's when it becomes a problem. So that
52:19
Speaker 1: anxiety like my daughter's at NYU, she just called me,
52:23
Speaker 1: told me she's going to a party. I'm gonna have
52:25
Speaker 1: a hard time relaxing tonight because I'm something could happen,
52:28
Speaker 1: Like that's that's normal. But if you have anxiety where
52:31
Speaker 1: like my daughter's at NYU and I can't eat, I
52:34
Speaker 1: can't sleep, like that's that's the problem. And I think
52:38
Speaker 1: we have to learn how to manage that and learn
52:39
Speaker 1: how to manage that. People here anxiety, they're automatically thing negative, right,
52:42
Speaker 1: the only think bad. But there is healthy anxiety, like
52:45
Speaker 1: you love that daughter or all your children that not
52:48
Speaker 1: in specificallycause we're talking about you don't want anything bad
52:51
Speaker 1: to happen to her. So when she tells you, I've
52:52
Speaker 1: done this thing that puts me at risk, even mild risk,
52:56
Speaker 1: I'm gonna be worried about that. The only things that
52:58
Speaker 1: will happen are things that intended for you to experience
53:01
Speaker 1: and so you can't have faith and anxiety because anxiety
53:06
Speaker 1: is fear based. So if I believe very strongly, like
53:09
Speaker 1: like God's got me, that means if I'm going through
53:11
Speaker 1: something hard, I'm going through that hard thing for a reason.
53:13
Speaker 1: So there's no reason to I just have to trust everything.
53:18
Speaker 1: And that's what I would say. I with an end
53:19
Speaker 1: by saying like, if you can figure out a way
53:21
Speaker 1: to trust every experience, you're going through all of these
53:24
Speaker 1: things for a reason, and be grateful for everything, like everything,
53:29
Speaker 1: you are untouchable emotionally, like you were just an indestructible force.
53:34
Speaker 1: When you're just grateful for everything, not just grateful for
53:37
Speaker 1: the good things, not just grateful for the profound thing,
53:39
Speaker 1: but I mean, like grateful for all of it. Life
53:42
Speaker 1: is different. What if I can only get there through medication?
53:45
Speaker 1: You can get there through conversation. Conversation far more powerful
53:47
Speaker 1: than medication. Okay, promise? What if I can only get
53:49
Speaker 1: there by being petty? As we've already established, ladies and gentlemen.
53:59
Speaker 1: The solution focus brief DEAs the artist solution focused therapy
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54:07
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54:09
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54:11
Speaker 1: new book. The book is called The Solution Focus Brief
54:13
Speaker 1: Therapy Diamond And and a lot of people out there like,
54:15
Speaker 1: if you're a clinician, get the book is going to
54:16
Speaker 1: teach you how to do solution focus brief therapy like
54:18
Speaker 1: no other book will do. But what's more important to
54:21
Speaker 1: me if you're not a clinician and therapy is hard.
54:24
Speaker 1: Like my colleague and I wrote this book so you
54:26
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54:30
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54:32
Speaker 1: like I want therapy, but I like, I got how
54:34
Speaker 1: am I gonna get kids coverage? And how am I
54:36
Speaker 1: gonna get to there? Whatever? You can have your life
54:39
Speaker 1: change through conversation, and sometimes that conversation is through a book.
54:42
Speaker 1: So this book isn't just for professionals. It's for people
54:44
Speaker 1: who want to be inspired. And an inspired person can
54:47
Speaker 1: do anything. And if you're not a clinician, the book
54:50
Speaker 1: sounds clinical, but I promise you, if you read this book,
54:53
Speaker 1: you'll be inspired to change your life. All right, Well, Elliott, Connie,
54:56
Speaker 1: Ladies and gentlemen, we appreciate you doing this. Man, Yeah,
54:58
Speaker 1: how can he find you? You can find find me
55:00
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55:06
Speaker 1: Elliot spelled two els, two ts, and you can go
55:09
Speaker 1: to my website Elliot Connie dot com and that's where
55:11
Speaker 1: you can find all my stuff. All right, well it's
55:13
Speaker 1: the Breakfast Club Elliot Conne Ladies and gentlemen, brning. Everybody's DJ,
55:17
Speaker 1: Envy Charlomagne, the guy. We are to Breakfast Club. Jason Lee,
55:20
Speaker 1: our co host is y'all, and let's get to the room. Les,
55:22
Speaker 1: Let's go. I've mastered the tea thing. The only place
55:26
Speaker 1: I want to come and talk to about was here
55:27
Speaker 1: because I really feel like everybody in the culture pays
55:30
Speaker 1: attentionally off. But I knew I can talk my talk
55:33
Speaker 1: to me. This is the rumor report on the Breakfast Club. Listen.
55:40
Speaker 1: One of the best R and B artists in the
55:42
Speaker 1: world dropped a new song yesterday, and I'm talking about Tyrese.
55:46
Speaker 1: He posted a snippet of his new remix to his
55:49
Speaker 1: song I Don't Think You Ever Loved Me? And I
55:51
Speaker 1: think it was addressed in Charlomagne, the remix man The
55:55
Speaker 1: remix features two Chains and Jeezy, and instead of talking
55:57
Speaker 1: about the song and the caption, he decided to talk
56:01
Speaker 1: about you. Charlotmagne, did you see it? I did see that, actually,
56:05
Speaker 1: he said. And for everybody out there, this is Tyrese's words.
56:09
Speaker 1: He said, um, I sent my remix to Charlottage and
56:11
Speaker 1: he texts back that nobody cares. That's facts the links
56:14
Speaker 1: in the bio. And then he said, I see the
56:18
Speaker 1: ex dark He's still losing sleep over me because I'm
56:21
Speaker 1: still my original complexion, because you, Darky definitely not losing
56:25
Speaker 1: no sleep. And first of all, I didn't say nobody cares.
56:28
Speaker 1: I said, we don't care. We being me myself and
56:33
Speaker 1: I okay, I don't care. Why are you so hard
56:35
Speaker 1: on him? He just sent you his record. Look, in
56:37
Speaker 1: this business, if you can't be used, you're useless. We notice.
56:41
Speaker 1: But Tyrese is the person only who only reaches out
56:43
Speaker 1: when you want something. I like it shot use your useless?
56:47
Speaker 1: Yeah yeah yeah, but when we know that in this business, right,
56:49
Speaker 1: But he's a person who only reaches out when he
56:52
Speaker 1: wants something. You never say what's up? Man? How are you?
56:55
Speaker 1: It's always me? Me, me, me, me me, me, me,
56:59
Speaker 1: and he sent me that. So like two or three times,
57:01
Speaker 1: we're like, yo, we don't care when he texts you that,
57:04
Speaker 1: and you said I'm gonna text him back. I thought
57:06
Speaker 1: you were. I thought you are like homies. You were
57:08
Speaker 1: really serious that you don't care. No, No, they go
57:10
Speaker 1: back and forth. There was a group text with me,
57:12
Speaker 1: him and Tyres and it gets nasty. Wow, we don't care.
57:16
Speaker 1: And then he replied, back light kin behavior. Listen, I
57:20
Speaker 1: was saying, I was saying, Jesus. I was saying outside
57:24
Speaker 1: the room. Last time I saw Tires. He was at
57:26
Speaker 1: the Clide Davis party and he was walking out with
57:30
Speaker 1: Kim Burrell. You know Kim Burrell. She's had a lot
57:32
Speaker 1: to say about the games. And so later when he
57:34
Speaker 1: said that she had pneumonia and that he wanted us
57:36
Speaker 1: to pray for I was like, I wanted to text
57:38
Speaker 1: me and say my gay prayers. That wasn't gonna happen.
57:43
Speaker 1: Gay prayers worked too, prayers prayer na I left that
57:46
Speaker 1: one alone. God bless her. Listen Clode Bailey, and you're
57:49
Speaker 1: not gonna play a clip of his record? Who record?
57:52
Speaker 1: You know what Yellow found game? Let's keep Oh. He
57:54
Speaker 1: did say though, he said, Hey, homie, this is when
57:57
Speaker 1: you know it's about to get real. He said, hey, homie,
57:59
Speaker 1: what you cannot do is disrespect one of the only
58:01
Speaker 1: real R and B singers that doesn't need auto tune,
58:03
Speaker 1: that is still out here giving us real R and
58:04
Speaker 1: B music and real lyrics. Who's that? Tyres said that
58:09
Speaker 1: to you? No? Oh sorry, oh sorry it was a
58:12
Speaker 1: mister financial advisor on social media said that sorry, we
58:15
Speaker 1: ain't taking you advice. All right? Well, anyway, moving on,
58:17
Speaker 1: Halle Halle Berry and Chloe Bailey are in the news now.
58:20
Speaker 1: Chloe Bailey's sex scene and Swarm, I guess is kicked
58:23
Speaker 1: off a conversation about colorism and this is a topic
58:26
Speaker 1: that I hate talking about because this was created by
58:28
Speaker 1: white supremacy. But whatever. Social media started giving their opinions
58:31
Speaker 1: on Chloe Bailey's opening sex scene in the Donald Glover's
58:33
Speaker 1: show Swarm, and people are criticizing her for her choice
58:36
Speaker 1: to accept the role, and one person said that where
58:38
Speaker 1: is the Chloe Bailey mentor police. She's been making terrible
58:41
Speaker 1: decisions lately. She should have never done that sex scene
58:43
Speaker 1: and Swarm. And I'm not even gonna go into her
58:47
Speaker 1: most recent collaboration. Now people are saying, can't do a
58:49
Speaker 1: sex scene in the movie Well, people are comparing it
58:51
Speaker 1: to halle Berry, halle Berry saying that she could have
58:54
Speaker 1: she could get an oscar because halle Berry got one
58:57
Speaker 1: from the movie Ball And people are saying the only
59:00
Speaker 1: reason why she got that is because she's light skinned.
59:02
Speaker 1: I'm so confused. I'm lost. This is ridiculous. I don't know.
59:07
Speaker 1: I did say, I did see the scene. I will
59:08
Speaker 1: say I love Chloe and I love the fact that
59:11
Speaker 1: she's doing whatever she wants to do and it's her body,
59:13
Speaker 1: her choices. But uh, I couldn't stop thinking about Laurie
59:16
Speaker 1: Harvey in that scene for some reason. Why that she
59:19
Speaker 1: was getting humped on by her man. It's a movie,
59:23
Speaker 1: it's acting. That was kind of sponsored by pornhub dot com.
59:26
Speaker 1: I remember, well. I had a conversation with Making Good
59:29
Speaker 1: last year on my late night Talks to Hellable week
59:30
Speaker 1: and she was talking about how she got to be
59:33
Speaker 1: cautious of the role she chooses now because nowadays people
59:36
Speaker 1: can't determine reality from acting. And I thought that was
59:40
Speaker 1: so strange, But now I'm starting to see it play out.
59:42
Speaker 1: She's an actress. I see a problem with I don't
59:44
Speaker 1: see a problem with me. But even what you just
59:46
Speaker 1: said about you can't think Laura Harvey. I wouldn't be
59:48
Speaker 1: thinking that. I'd be like, this is a movie. Well,
59:50
Speaker 1: and then you can't. I mean her sister is a mermaid.
59:52
Speaker 1: I mean, I don't know where it but got Disney
59:57
Speaker 1: start now, I don't. I don't know it is acting.
59:59
Speaker 1: It should be escaping, but people look at colorism is
1:00:02
Speaker 1: not our issue, but it's become our problem. I don't
1:00:05
Speaker 1: know it's it's this is a crazy conversation. I don't
1:00:08
Speaker 1: even know what the skin color got to do with
1:00:10
Speaker 1: any of that. I was confused. Then they said Hallie Berry,
1:00:14
Speaker 1: Hallie Berry getting backshots, bro got her an oscar? I think,
1:00:18
Speaker 1: I mean was that why she got the oscar? I
1:00:20
Speaker 1: mean I didn't personally care from Austar. I don't think
1:00:22
Speaker 1: anybody personally cared for as well. That's it. I don't
1:00:28
Speaker 1: even know why we're talking about. I mean, yeah, that's
1:00:29
Speaker 1: the room report. Okay, we'll just swarm on TV. Yeah
1:00:35
Speaker 1: not play man, shut up Mancord. Yes, okay, y after
1:00:41
Speaker 1: day Tis posted this one. Got a good thing. You
1:00:43
Speaker 1: put the ways brothers he put Jamie Fox put Martin
1:00:47
Speaker 1: let his single, but then the Second Wife was his song.
1:00:50
Speaker 1: That was too easy. But I didn't say nothing because
1:00:52
Speaker 1: I'm not petty, right, but that was very easy. But
1:00:54
Speaker 1: you had the comments. I know. I started to like,
1:00:57
Speaker 1: how was nobody posting your song? I want to go
1:01:00
Speaker 1: go it all fairness type races and the major artists.
1:01:03
Speaker 1: I mean that that. That last album he had was
1:01:05
Speaker 1: Fire Shame was one of my favorite songs. I didn't
1:01:07
Speaker 1: know y'all have beef. We don't have any I don't
1:01:10
Speaker 1: have any text nobody. He said, I'm trying to get
1:01:13
Speaker 1: Charlotte Mane to play your record. Gotta be funny. He
1:01:16
Speaker 1: might get on live and just don't know DJ. And
1:01:19
Speaker 1: by the way, you old tyres Re saved your life.
1:01:22
Speaker 1: He didn't say my life. He saved your marriage. Didn't
1:01:24
Speaker 1: say if he helped save my marriage. Sounds wow? It
1:01:27
Speaker 1: does sound wild, really wow. See that man had actually
1:01:30
Speaker 1: done something for you. He never done anything. I've done
1:01:33
Speaker 1: a zillion things with Race. I love Tarras. What do
1:01:36
Speaker 1: you do? We can't talk about it that right I
1:01:37
Speaker 1: talk We talk about it when we come back. Ok
1:01:39
Speaker 1: Now he did though, absolutely positively. Tire saved your marriage.
1:01:42
Speaker 1: That's wild and that's nothing I want to tell my kids.
1:01:45
Speaker 1: Are were gonna play that. We're gonna play the record
1:01:47
Speaker 1: on the way out? No, wow, can we edit it
1:01:53
Speaker 1: with just two change in Jesu Versus? You'll come on, man,
1:01:56
Speaker 1: we just ordered several copies and bulldoz. Come on, man,
1:01:59
Speaker 1: I'm gonna play recording the mix. I'm not gonna tell
1:02:01
Speaker 1: you that. No, no, no, I'm not gonna let you
1:02:04
Speaker 1: do that. I'm not gonna let you do that. I'm
1:02:07
Speaker 1: not gonna let you do that. No. No, He's gonna
1:02:12
Speaker 1: go at you for about an hour on Live Today.
1:02:15
Speaker 1: Call types of names. He's gonna calle me a beach bench.
1:02:17
Speaker 1: She gonna call you darkie. He's gonna go back and
1:02:19
Speaker 1: he bad nut hanging with Kim Brown. You bad not
1:02:21
Speaker 1: say no gay jokes. Jesus Christ, please get it your
1:02:25
Speaker 1: donkey too, man oh Man. Four after the hour, somebody
1:02:29
Speaker 1: that's capital Riyant White. Okay, his name is Cleveland grow
1:02:32
Speaker 1: but married junior. He needs to come to the front
1:02:34
Speaker 1: of congregation. We like to have a word with him
1:02:35
Speaker 1: for we're gonna do that. We're gonna edit. No, we're
1:02:37
Speaker 1: not the new tireasion right now the way it's just
1:02:39
Speaker 1: jeez and two change verses. He can't do that, man,
1:02:41
Speaker 1: that'll be so amazing. No, come on, man, stop no
1:02:44
Speaker 1: man at one time? What no, No, I ain't messing
1:02:47
Speaker 1: with you. Man, didn't just have a segment with the psychotherapist. Yes,
1:02:51
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1:02:54
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1:02:57
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1:03:41
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1:03:45
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1:03:48
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Speaker 1: he's a human jar of helmets, okay, the type of
1:04:09
Speaker 1: person that gets excited when Donald Trump calls for a protest,
1:04:11
Speaker 1: the type of human who stands back and stands by
1:04:14
Speaker 1: when Trump tells him to and waits for a command
1:04:16
Speaker 1: to take back his country. I'm not making this up, Okay,
1:04:19
Speaker 1: I'm not assuming things, all right, Because he was arrested
1:04:22
Speaker 1: and pled guilty back in twenty twenty one to make
1:04:24
Speaker 1: to making interstate threats, which is a felony, and he
1:04:28
Speaker 1: was sent us to serve more than two years in
1:04:29
Speaker 1: prison and three years probation probation after being arrested the
1:04:32
Speaker 1: day after the Capitol riots because he threatened to shoot
1:04:35
Speaker 1: former House Speaker Nancy Pelosi. Yes, he was arrested after
1:04:39
Speaker 1: his own mama, his mother the womb from which he came,
1:04:42
Speaker 1: called the FBI concerned about a text he sent to
1:04:45
Speaker 1: an uncle saying thinking about heading over the Pelosi speech
1:04:48
Speaker 1: and putting a bullet in her nogging on live TV.
1:04:52
Speaker 1: He also made a similar threat to the mayor of
1:04:54
Speaker 1: a DC. Now here's the thing about those kind of threats.
1:04:57
Speaker 1: He didn't just text it. You know. He got in
1:04:59
Speaker 1: his vehicle, probably a pickup truck, and headed to DC
1:05:02
Speaker 1: for the insurrection that happened on January six, But he
1:05:05
Speaker 1: was delayed because of car trouble, and he arrived on
1:05:08
Speaker 1: the evening of January six, after the riots were over. Now,
1:05:11
Speaker 1: when this man got arrested in a Washington, DC hotel room,
1:05:15
Speaker 1: listening to what was seized from him and his arrest,
1:05:17
Speaker 1: an assault rifle, a semi automatic handgun, and more than
1:05:21
Speaker 1: twenty five hundred rounds of ammunition, including armor piercing rounds.
1:05:25
Speaker 1: And now Cleveland wants his stuff back. Okay, he doesn't
1:05:29
Speaker 1: just want his stuff back. He wants his stuff back
1:05:31
Speaker 1: for a specific reason. He's done his time and he
1:05:34
Speaker 1: wants his ammunition and his artillery back. And Manning's is
1:05:37
Speaker 1: so heavy on this one. Let's go to eleven A
1:05:39
Speaker 1: Live for the report. Police. A Georgia man who served
1:05:41
Speaker 1: time for his part in the insurrection at the US
1:05:44
Speaker 1: Capital now once his guns at ammunition returned Cleveland, Meredith
1:05:48
Speaker 1: Junior was arrested soon after the insurrection. Agents found he
1:05:52
Speaker 1: drove hundreds of miles to DC and brought twenty five
1:05:55
Speaker 1: hundred rounds of ammunition and two guns with him. Meredith
1:05:59
Speaker 1: was released from in December, and violins obtained by eleven Alive.
1:06:03
Speaker 1: We have learned that he is now asking the court
1:06:05
Speaker 1: to release the firearms and the mcs during his arrest
1:06:09
Speaker 1: back to his attorney so they can be sold. Come home, man, Now,
1:06:12
Speaker 1: I'm not mad at anyone who knows the law and
1:06:14
Speaker 1: uses the law to their advantage. Because the motion sites
1:06:18
Speaker 1: twenty fifteen US Supreme Court case that in cases where
1:06:20
Speaker 1: a defendant was banned from owning guns, judges may allow
1:06:25
Speaker 1: the transfer of sees firearms to a third party as
1:06:28
Speaker 1: long as the judges convinced the defendant will not have
1:06:31
Speaker 1: access to them, and in this case, the motion will
1:06:34
Speaker 1: call for his lawyer, Tyler Dixon and salt the fire
1:06:36
Speaker 1: arms to a buyer unknown to Meritith. That's the law. Okay,
1:06:40
Speaker 1: I'm not mad at it at all. But the reason
1:06:42
Speaker 1: Cleveland Grover Meritith Junior is getting donkey at the dead
1:06:45
Speaker 1: because yes, he served his prison time. But can you
1:06:48
Speaker 1: imagine threatening to kill an elected official, threatening to shoot them,
1:06:52
Speaker 1: getting caught with guns, sent to prison, and then coming
1:06:55
Speaker 1: home and asking for your potential murder weapons back so
1:06:57
Speaker 1: you can sell them and make money. Imagine, if you will,
1:07:00
Speaker 1: a big beach from being bath Right coming home from
1:07:03
Speaker 1: prison and asking law enforcement to give his lawyer to
1:07:07
Speaker 1: twenty one million dollars worth of assets they seized, including
1:07:10
Speaker 1: the cash, the jury, the thirteen homes between Detroit, Georgia
1:07:13
Speaker 1: and la the three dozen vehicles. Hey give my lawyers
1:07:16
Speaker 1: that so I can sell them, so I can sell
1:07:18
Speaker 1: them to make some money. The absurdity, right, do you
1:07:20
Speaker 1: think they would laugh big meat out the courtroom. You
1:07:22
Speaker 1: think they would laugh big meatch lawyer out the courtroom.
1:07:24
Speaker 1: Only in America can you threaten to kill someone literally
1:07:28
Speaker 1: say I want to shoot her in the head, get
1:07:29
Speaker 1: caught with guns after traveling where you are to where
1:07:31
Speaker 1: the person is, get caught with the weapons you threaten
1:07:34
Speaker 1: the person with, and then there is a law that
1:07:36
Speaker 1: allows you to possibly get said of weapons back, and
1:07:39
Speaker 1: you want those weapons back so you can sell them.
1:07:41
Speaker 1: Why do you want to sell them because you need
1:07:42
Speaker 1: the money. You just got out of prison trying to
1:07:45
Speaker 1: get back on your feet. But if I'm to judge,
1:07:47
Speaker 1: I'm gonna say get back on your feet. How about
1:07:48
Speaker 1: you get back in this cell. Okay, I'm locking you
1:07:51
Speaker 1: back up. You need to go back in this cell
1:07:52
Speaker 1: and sit here until you learn the era of your ways.
1:07:55
Speaker 1: Because you don't think you did anything wrong. If you
1:07:57
Speaker 1: thought you actually did something wrong, didn't want to go
1:08:00
Speaker 1: near any guns, but in particular the weapons that essentially
1:08:04
Speaker 1: got you locked up. But in America they called Cassidy
1:08:07
Speaker 1: rules everything around me, because let's be clear, only a
1:08:10
Speaker 1: human that's capitol riot white is getting two years for
1:08:13
Speaker 1: all those guns and AMMO in the first place, hand
1:08:16
Speaker 1: a threat to an elected official. An white would just
1:08:19
Speaker 1: be happy to be home. A non white would only
1:08:22
Speaker 1: only okay, I don't know what a non white would
1:08:25
Speaker 1: do in a situation like this, because he wouldn't have
1:08:26
Speaker 1: the option. He'd still be in prison. Okay, Only a
1:08:29
Speaker 1: member of Vanilla Isis would feel privileged enough to say,
1:08:32
Speaker 1: run me my weapons back so I can make some money.
1:08:36
Speaker 1: Some donkey. The days just sell themselves. Please give Cleveland
1:08:39
Speaker 1: Grover Meritith Junior the biggest he hall. I'm tripping, Chelsea.
1:08:46
Speaker 1: Let Chelsea handle give him the biggest hell. He ha
1:08:49
Speaker 1: he ha. That is way too much. Dan mann Is,
1:08:52
Speaker 1: oh man, Oh, Kathy Griffin just hit me. She what
1:08:55
Speaker 1: she got something to say to? Please give this giant
1:08:57
Speaker 1: jar of male the biggest heahaway, Chris Rock feel about
1:09:03
Speaker 1: the situation. Oh oh my girl, she clocked in yet right, Okay, okay,
1:09:13
Speaker 1: anybody else I think that's all we do? All right, well,
1:09:18
Speaker 1: thank you for that. Don't get to day. So all right,
1:09:20
Speaker 1: let's open up the phone lines eight five five, one
1:09:23
Speaker 1: oh five one. Now. Elliott Connie was joining us at
1:09:26
Speaker 1: last hour and one of the most coachingly competent psychotherapist
1:09:29
Speaker 1: you're ever gonna meet in your life. And during that
1:09:31
Speaker 1: conversation we were talking about get back, like getting your
1:09:35
Speaker 1: licks back. We have a piece of that combo. I
1:09:37
Speaker 1: give you a perfect example. I'm avengeful, hands down, straight up.
1:09:41
Speaker 1: There's people that have done things to me that I
1:09:43
Speaker 1: need my clap back. I need my revenge. I love
1:09:45
Speaker 1: that actually, and if you mess with me, I'm cool.
1:09:50
Speaker 1: But if you mess with my family, I need that revenge.
1:09:52
Speaker 1: And I know I shouldn't feel like that. I know
1:09:54
Speaker 1: what the therapist is gonna tell me that. But is
1:09:56
Speaker 1: there anything wrong with that? Though? So I'm I don't
1:09:59
Speaker 1: personally say anything wrong with that. I'm gonna tell you.
1:10:01
Speaker 1: I'm gonna give you my therapist ance. I don't put
1:10:03
Speaker 1: on my therapist had answer. No, there is nothing wrong
1:10:07
Speaker 1: with being vengeful petty getting my look back clack back.
1:10:10
Speaker 1: I'm that way too though, right, all right, So we're
1:10:16
Speaker 1: asking eight five eight five one oh five one. What's
1:10:20
Speaker 1: the pettiest thing you've done to get your look back,
1:10:23
Speaker 1: to get revenge? That is the question. I waited to
1:10:25
Speaker 1: hear this from YouTube Paige individuals, Jason Lee and DJ Envy.
1:10:29
Speaker 1: I can't wait to hear I think I know a
1:10:31
Speaker 1: lot of them though, you know most of my Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah,
1:10:34
Speaker 1: I don't. I'm trying. I actually was thinking about it
1:10:37
Speaker 1: because I know I've done so many things. Um, because
1:10:40
Speaker 1: I can't really think of anything that I sought out
1:10:43
Speaker 1: to be petty. Four. Because there's probably been so many.
1:10:45
Speaker 1: One thing I will say recently, my pettiest get back
1:10:48
Speaker 1: was that I felt good about and I didn't even
1:10:50
Speaker 1: have to be messy, was when there was a video
1:10:52
Speaker 1: that went viral of me going to a party with
1:10:57
Speaker 1: Asap and Rihanna, and then they took it and said
1:11:00
Speaker 1: that basically I was sneaking in the picture. They made it.
1:11:03
Speaker 1: They made it look crazy again, like to be honest thing,
1:11:06
Speaker 1: and I wanted to say something, but then I thought,
1:11:07
Speaker 1: you know what, what can you say with the internet.
1:11:09
Speaker 1: You're never gonna beat the internet. So I just left
1:11:11
Speaker 1: it alone. And then Rihanna gave me the baby photos
1:11:13
Speaker 1: and I put them out, So that was my getback.
1:11:15
Speaker 1: It was petty, the way I put it out and
1:11:16
Speaker 1: the way I, you know, through it in everybody's face
1:11:18
Speaker 1: that they couldn't get it. But I can't remember. I'm
1:11:20
Speaker 1: trying to think of things that I've been really really petty,
1:11:24
Speaker 1: And we'll talk about it when we come back, and
1:11:25
Speaker 1: we want to hear from you. I've never been petty.
1:11:27
Speaker 1: Eight hundred five eight five one oh five one. That's
1:11:30
Speaker 1: a damn lie. You just trying to take time. Reis
1:11:32
Speaker 1: had his own song exactly I'm going to do that.
1:11:34
Speaker 1: But that's funny. That's not petty. We're talking about it
1:11:37
Speaker 1: when we come back. It's the breakfast club. Go about it.
1:11:39
Speaker 1: The breakfast club, my family. I'm the type. I'm gonna
1:11:45
Speaker 1: buy your house. I'm going to get a bulldoze up,
1:11:48
Speaker 1: I'm gonna knock it over, and then I'm gonna give
1:11:50
Speaker 1: the land to goodwill. That is me. I'm the type
1:11:53
Speaker 1: if you if you park in front of my driveway,
1:11:56
Speaker 1: I'm gonna let all the airs out of your tire.
1:11:58
Speaker 1: You're gonna think it's a flat tire. You're gonna go
1:12:00
Speaker 1: to the place to try to change the flat time
1:12:01
Speaker 1: you're gonna realize it's just air. That is me. I
1:12:04
Speaker 1: used to have road rage. I used to throw it.
1:12:05
Speaker 1: I used to keep a cup of McDonald's McDonald's cup
1:12:08
Speaker 1: with change in it just to throw it. Drives if
1:12:11
Speaker 1: they cut me off. That used to be me. I'm
1:12:13
Speaker 1: a change guy. Though I'm a change individual. That's not
1:12:16
Speaker 1: me anymore. I'm calm, I'm cool, Jason, full of change
1:12:21
Speaker 1: at people all day long. It's New York. We used
1:12:24
Speaker 1: to keep pennies in a cup just for people. That
1:12:26
Speaker 1: used to walt I don't do that anymore. I'm a
1:12:28
Speaker 1: change individual. That's nuts. I couldn't remember times I've been
1:12:32
Speaker 1: petty because I've so since tried to become a different person.
1:12:34
Speaker 1: So I called somebody on my team and she gave
1:12:36
Speaker 1: me a list. You know. One of the things I
1:12:38
Speaker 1: remember when I started my podcast, I wanted to have
1:12:40
Speaker 1: Little Mama on, and I invited her on and she
1:12:43
Speaker 1: wanted glam and she wanted a car service and all that,
1:12:45
Speaker 1: and I was like, we ain't got no money for that.
1:12:47
Speaker 1: So she didn't show up, and we still had to
1:12:49
Speaker 1: show to produce. So I printed out the photo of
1:12:51
Speaker 1: her here when you interviewed her, and I taped it
1:12:53
Speaker 1: on a chair and I interviewed the chair for forty
1:12:55
Speaker 1: five minutes. That's petty. That's kind of petty. Yeah, that's
1:12:58
Speaker 1: kind of petty. I don't I honestly haven't done anything petty, Really, No,
1:13:03
Speaker 1: I haven't. I have learned in life there is nothing
1:13:05
Speaker 1: I could do or say that will take care of
1:13:07
Speaker 1: a person who harmed you more than life can, all right,
1:13:11
Speaker 1: Because here's the thing about those kinds of people. They
1:13:13
Speaker 1: are just those kinds of people, and they didn't just
1:13:14
Speaker 1: do you wrong. They've done a bunch of people wrong,
1:13:16
Speaker 1: so eventually it all catches up. And I promise you
1:13:19
Speaker 1: when it comes to that, I'm undefeated. I let people
1:13:22
Speaker 1: say whatever, I let people do whatever. I used to
1:13:24
Speaker 1: be the person who I can't wait to run back
1:13:26
Speaker 1: here and talk about you on this microphone. But just
1:13:28
Speaker 1: like now, for what like, nobody can piss you off
1:13:31
Speaker 1: without your consent, and I'm not letting it. Nobody piss
1:13:32
Speaker 1: me off, old petty, I'm not And I don't even
1:13:36
Speaker 1: think got up as petty. I think when you when
1:13:38
Speaker 1: you say something about a person, a person may have
1:13:41
Speaker 1: said something about you, and you respond verbally, that's just
1:13:44
Speaker 1: a response. That's not going out of your way to
1:13:47
Speaker 1: try to get get out of person. You know what
1:13:49
Speaker 1: I mean. I've never I've never used any energy going
1:13:53
Speaker 1: out of my way to try to hurt somebody. Yeah,
1:13:57
Speaker 1: well I get that. I don't go out of my
1:13:58
Speaker 1: way either. I do respond, though, and sometimes that is
1:14:02
Speaker 1: looked at as being petty. Right, Like you don't have
1:14:04
Speaker 1: to respond to your point. Every everything doesn't require response.
1:14:08
Speaker 1: I'm learning that times that's still get We can give
1:14:10
Speaker 1: it to him. It just depends where you take it.
1:14:12
Speaker 1: Like you know, buying somebody's house. You're wanting the bulldozer.
1:14:16
Speaker 1: That's that's an ex tree, you know what I mean.
1:14:18
Speaker 1: That takes a lot of energy to exert that have
1:14:23
Speaker 1: to go into that. I'm not doing all now. The
1:14:24
Speaker 1: person that that I was going to do that to hit,
1:14:27
Speaker 1: what he did wasn't extreme, Oh Barry, Okay, energy was matched,
1:14:32
Speaker 1: But you shouldn't always match energy going not. You know
1:14:34
Speaker 1: what I'm saying. Sometimes you got to you can't. You
1:14:36
Speaker 1: got to teach people how to treat you. Sometimes times
1:14:38
Speaker 1: you got to. Sometimes sometimes you gotta punch somebody in
1:14:40
Speaker 1: the face. I don't know if those people that were
1:14:42
Speaker 1: learned because it's not about you. Those people that treat
1:14:45
Speaker 1: you like that, treat everybody like that. We take those
1:14:48
Speaker 1: type of things personal, but it's not just us. That's
1:14:51
Speaker 1: why those people always end up crashing and burning in
1:14:54
Speaker 1: such a harsh way because it's not just us. They
1:14:56
Speaker 1: do like that. They do everybody like that, so eventually
1:14:58
Speaker 1: it catch us up. I don't even take stuff like
1:15:00
Speaker 1: that person as that person's character. They gotta live with that,
1:15:03
Speaker 1: they gotta deal with that. The just the punch in
1:15:05
Speaker 1: the face just feels better sometimes and when I mean
1:15:08
Speaker 1: to punch in the face, you know what it is.
1:15:09
Speaker 1: I just I like to kill people, right, and not
1:15:11
Speaker 1: kill people in the physical form, but kill them in
1:15:13
Speaker 1: the fact that they just can't do anything. They can't eat,
1:15:16
Speaker 1: they can't pay their bills, like they are dead to
1:15:18
Speaker 1: the world. That's how I feel. That's not your place
1:15:21
Speaker 1: to do, though. Life goes deaf for people. And I'm
1:15:22
Speaker 1: actually in the lawsuit right now now to just remember
1:15:24
Speaker 1: that something paid that I did. Somebody was harassing me
1:15:26
Speaker 1: online and I told him, nigga, I'm king calling in
1:15:28
Speaker 1: the internet. Don't play with me and you keep doing
1:15:30
Speaker 1: what you do with everybody else, and he kept doing.
1:15:32
Speaker 1: He released my home address. So what I did was
1:15:34
Speaker 1: I waited, waited, waited, and I saw this kid stream
1:15:39
Speaker 1: saying that he was trying to have sex with him allegedly.
1:15:41
Speaker 1: So what I did was I took that clip, called
1:15:44
Speaker 1: his department build and tell him I was gonna hire
1:15:45
Speaker 1: people on Craigslist of protest and leaflet the community that
1:15:48
Speaker 1: he was a pedophile. Jesus. I called Twitter. I had
1:15:51
Speaker 1: his Twitter deleted because he was harassing me on Twitter
1:15:54
Speaker 1: releasing my home address. I trademarked his business and owned
1:15:57
Speaker 1: it and then I had a removed from the app
1:15:59
Speaker 1: and he lost all of his income. So still that's
1:16:03
Speaker 1: a lot, Jason, that's what I'm talking about. That But
1:16:05
Speaker 1: that's my code. That's what I'm talking about. That took
1:16:07
Speaker 1: a lot of time, a lot of energy. It's still
1:16:10
Speaker 1: good for My assistant did all the research and called
1:16:13
Speaker 1: his up. I'm gonna chance bumping right now, why can't you? Now?
1:16:18
Speaker 1: We called the Baltimore Police Department. We filed charges, and
1:16:20
Speaker 1: I reached out to the kids too much as a
1:16:22
Speaker 1: former child molest survivor and UH and an advocate to
1:16:26
Speaker 1: let them know that their son was That's a lot.
1:16:28
Speaker 1: That's a lot, bro, that's a lot. Is the king
1:16:31
Speaker 1: of a le. Now you got me one to do
1:16:32
Speaker 1: something good. I heard something that Hies song. I'm gonna
1:16:35
Speaker 1: do that, Jason. I'm gonna That's exactly what I'm gonna do.
1:16:38
Speaker 1: I'm gonna play Tyreesa's song to show that I am
1:16:40
Speaker 1: not petty and I don't have any ill feelings towards
1:16:44
Speaker 1: Tyresa that we're gonna play at the end of this break,
1:16:46
Speaker 1: we're gonna play ty Rees's new record Wow, Hello, Who's Astring? Two?
1:16:49
Speaker 1: Change in jeez, it's carry Hey Carrie, good morning. Have
1:16:52
Speaker 1: you done something petty? What's the pettiest thing you've done
1:16:54
Speaker 1: to get your look back? And that's what I'm calling.
1:16:57
Speaker 1: I'm hoping you and Charlotte Mane to give me petty lessons.
1:17:00
Speaker 1: People have done some nasty things to me and I'm
1:17:03
Speaker 1: always nice like a big mine. Now you sign Caribbean?
1:17:06
Speaker 1: Where are you from me? Come come on now, you
1:17:09
Speaker 1: know what to do. Go get that goddamn chicken bone
1:17:12
Speaker 1: and get you a little piece of that person. You
1:17:15
Speaker 1: know what to do. You know what. I kept listening
1:17:19
Speaker 1: with you. I can't Charlotte, I have one lady. I
1:17:23
Speaker 1: feel sorry for her letter at my house. You destroyed
1:17:26
Speaker 1: my house. You rats and roaches and at the holes
1:17:30
Speaker 1: stole my plan for my furniture eat revanage. But I
1:17:35
Speaker 1: just can't do it. I can't believe we're sitting there
1:17:38
Speaker 1: having this conversation as a black magic don't exist. It's
1:17:43
Speaker 1: hard to do. Jay. Hello, yo, yo morning, good morning,
1:17:50
Speaker 1: good morning. What's up? Man. What's the pettiest thing you've
1:17:52
Speaker 1: done to somebody? He is Jay Coodle. I'm from the city.
1:17:55
Speaker 1: Sorry all right, So I'm working for the city and
1:17:58
Speaker 1: I have a lifeguard or whatever, and um, I got
1:18:00
Speaker 1: wrote up for a no car or no show, so
1:18:03
Speaker 1: and I called off. I had somebody, you know, I
1:18:05
Speaker 1: called off or whatever. They they didn't believe me for
1:18:07
Speaker 1: whatever reason, so they gave me like three days spending
1:18:11
Speaker 1: me or whatever. So I, uh, I took the boss
1:18:14
Speaker 1: uh chestick, yeah, and uh you know, hit my goots,
1:18:19
Speaker 1: hit my under arm. Listen. I'm like, listen, y'all, darn
1:18:23
Speaker 1: me dirty, you know what I'm saying. I'm like, listen,
1:18:26
Speaker 1: if I wouldn't, if I wouldn't have called off, I
1:18:28
Speaker 1: can see that. But I really called off, and y'all
1:18:30
Speaker 1: still wrote me up and gave me three days off.
1:18:32
Speaker 1: Somebody gotta pay for this. Maybe wild if you had crabs, though,
1:18:35
Speaker 1: if you had crabs, that would just like totally deliver.
1:18:37
Speaker 1: I got another story about that. But that's that's what
1:18:41
Speaker 1: what what? What flavor goots though? Because the gooch can
1:18:43
Speaker 1: change flavors depending on what time of day. And I
1:18:45
Speaker 1: did I just finished hoping, Oh my god, so confused.
1:18:50
Speaker 1: Vinegard goobye, sir, so vinegaroches nut? Goodbye, sir? Whoa wow?
1:18:56
Speaker 1: Whoa one five one? What's the pettiest thing you did
1:19:01
Speaker 1: to get your lick back? Let's talk about it is
1:19:03
Speaker 1: the Breakfast Local Morning. Call me your opinions to the
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Speaker 1: one morning. Everybody is DJ Envy Charlomagne the guy. We
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Speaker 1: are the Breakfast Club and now if you just joined us,
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Speaker 1: we're talking. Uh. We have our co host Jason and
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Speaker 1: we're talking get back. All right, what's the pettiest thing
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Speaker 1: you did to get your get back? Hello? Who's this? Hello? Hey?
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Speaker 1: What's your name? Hey? I'm Nia. How are you? Hey? Neil?
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Speaker 1: What's the pettiest thing you did to get your get back? So?
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Speaker 1: The pettiest thing I did? Um, I was working at
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Speaker 1: a job with my ax whatever I thought my boys
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Speaker 1: and long story show. I had this dark opportunity that
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Speaker 1: I taught like, Okay, this is gonna put me on
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Speaker 1: the mat, gonna make back back whenever. Well, he basically
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Speaker 1: he was like, yeah, you should take it. Who used
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Speaker 1: to be a real supporters. I'm like, you know, I
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Speaker 1: got the best boyfriend. Let me came my two weeks
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Speaker 1: in and get a different job. So I went to
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Speaker 1: the new job or whatever. Come to find out, everybody
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Speaker 1: at the old job was like girl. The reason why
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Speaker 1: he did that because a new girl is then he's
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Speaker 1: like having up film. Huh, that's the oldest made me
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Speaker 1: leave this job or he could do him. That's okay.
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Speaker 1: So me and my brain, me being petty, I had
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Speaker 1: made like he's like wanted post to saying he was
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Speaker 1: wanting for rape. Oh my god, no, no, that's criminal.
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Speaker 1: That's criminal. Jesus, you need to be a jail. Oh no,
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Speaker 1: he tried, he tried. That's I can't say my name
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Speaker 1: on him because you're going with support right now. But anyway,
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Speaker 1: I thought he was waningful rap. I've been all over
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Speaker 1: the park a lot in his job, and I went
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Speaker 1: to his MoMA neighborhood because he lived. His mom would
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Speaker 1: put it all over the old the stop side. So
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Speaker 1: you falsely accused this man a rap. I did that.
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Speaker 1: That's more than petty. People like you should actually be
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Speaker 1: thrown under the jail, like like you should be like that,
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Speaker 1: be like that. You're playing with that man's life. You're
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Speaker 1: playing with that man. There have to have lecca me
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Speaker 1: leave my job. Another female. He could have just broke
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Speaker 1: it off. And until it is dead because of people,
1:21:06
Speaker 1: and until it is dead because of people like you. Exactly,
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Speaker 1: god Man, Tenti park five did years in prison because
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Speaker 1: of people like her. What are you talking about? That
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Speaker 1: beyond that's not even that like, that's criminal. She should
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Speaker 1: be in jail. All right, Well, I don't want to
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Speaker 1: play anymore with you, guys. I want to. I want to.
1:21:26
Speaker 1: I want to do something positive. I'm gonna. I want
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Speaker 1: to salute to Tyrese. So you know, your new single Tyrese,
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Speaker 1: I Don't Think You Ever Loved Me is actually tough.
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Speaker 1: It's dope. I think the record is dope. The atl
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Speaker 1: Legacy remix with Two Chains and Geez is fire. So
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Speaker 1: I just want to congratulate Tyrese on the release of
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Speaker 1: the record and let's play it. Let's play the record
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Speaker 1: right now, just Two Chains and Geez featuring Tyrese. You
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Speaker 1: have evolved. I don't Think You Ever loved Me? Okay,
1:21:53
Speaker 1: we're talking about on the record, tyres was all over
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Speaker 1: the record. No, no, he's not singing on the record.
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Speaker 1: That was tyre He's all over the record. That's the
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Speaker 1: vision he sent me. That is the version he sent me.
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Speaker 1: He sent me that version with just two changing Jeezy
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Speaker 1: and him doing the atlets and here, see Jason here,
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Speaker 1: I thought he changed. I thought, I don't think you
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Speaker 1: have thought I was a different person, But you're not.
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Speaker 1: You're the same shot. I thought that was a dope
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Speaker 1: way for him to like embrace what we all saw
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Speaker 1: him go through. And the denial is making it even worse.
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Speaker 1: What y'all talking about, salute the black time man. That
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Speaker 1: is crazy, you know what I mean? You try to
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Speaker 1: do something nice and then y'all gonna jump on. And
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Speaker 1: that's why he called your darky yesterday. Well I'm happy
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Speaker 1: to be a darkie. Okay. You see how you saw
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Speaker 1: these beige people doing, you Tyres discouraging me from playing
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Speaker 1: your records. You know what, when we come back, he
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Speaker 1: got the room report. What we're talking about Cameron is
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Speaker 1: now I think he's leaving hip hop to get into talk.
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Speaker 1: He's gonna launch his own advice talk show. Okay, all right,
1:22:45
Speaker 1: well we'll get into that next. It don't move. It's
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Speaker 1: the breakfast Club. Good morning, the Breakfast Club. Not right?
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Speaker 1: What you did, Tyre, spot I didn't do not to
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Speaker 1: stop it, knock it off. That was just playing. I'm
1:22:55
Speaker 1: having a little fun this morning. That's all, super petty.
1:22:57
Speaker 1: He can joke. I can't joke. See, that's why I
1:22:59
Speaker 1: don't like to play, because he when I play, everybody
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Speaker 1: you know all I'm tight when I played. When I
1:23:02
Speaker 1: want to have a little fun, it's because you're not
1:23:04
Speaker 1: doing it regularly. When you do it regularly, if I'm
1:23:06
Speaker 1: not doing it, well, I don't do it regularly for
1:23:08
Speaker 1: a reason, I hurt people. Yes, anyway, we are to
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Speaker 1: Breakfast Club. Good morning. Jason Lee is here, our co host.
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Speaker 1: Let's get you the rooms. I've mastered the tea thing.
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Speaker 1: The only place I want to come and talk to
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Speaker 1: about was here because I really feel like everybody in
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Speaker 1: the culture parstially off. But I knew I can talk
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Speaker 1: my talk talk to me. This is the rumor report
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Speaker 1: on the Breakfast Club. Well listen, I said that the
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Speaker 1: Dip Sat the Dip Sat. Dip said Rapper Cameron was
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Speaker 1: launching his own advice talk show, uh and leaving hip hop.
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Speaker 1: I sort of lie, but he did say he's launching
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Speaker 1: a talk show and he's calling out doctor Phil. This
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Speaker 1: is what he said, come and talk to me, taking
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Speaker 1: the doctor filling number, doctor pell y'all number. I'm taking
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Speaker 1: everybody out of doctor Phil. Mug rapping because I'm doing
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Speaker 1: everybody black well prawn for my not even black and
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Speaker 1: prayer every race. I'm gonna tell them a real advice
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Speaker 1: they need to hear, to stop trying to act like,
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Speaker 1: well we got with my friend in the crowd, he's
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Speaker 1: a specialist. Hey, where do you think? No, stop cheating
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Speaker 1: on him. You can talk about your girl crazy and
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Speaker 1: all this crazy, but you come over with postive seven
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Speaker 1: eight talk in the morning. Every one right with O.
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Speaker 1: That's that's the responses I like. Well, Cameron is a
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Speaker 1: highly entertaining human, So if he wants to do a
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Speaker 1: talk show, he could do a talk show and that
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Speaker 1: show that he got with him and Mace as funny
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Speaker 1: as hell. Who would you love to see on that?
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Speaker 1: But Doctor Phil shows over right? Phil shows camp. So
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Speaker 1: that was the other part. Doctor Phil already announced this
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Speaker 1: show is going up there after over twenty years. Correct,
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Speaker 1: I don't know who I would like to see on that,
1:24:40
Speaker 1: but I do remember, and maybe I'm wrong, maybe I
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Speaker 1: got my timelines mixed up, but I remember Cam saying
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Speaker 1: he was going to do a show that ended up
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Speaker 1: being what we now know is to catch a predator.
1:24:50
Speaker 1: I remember him saying that years ago it's when like
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Speaker 1: all hip hop was the booming sight and it was
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Speaker 1: on the Ill Seed Rumor report. They went to beat
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Speaker 1: him up though right, I don't remember what I remember
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Speaker 1: him saying he was gonna do a show where he
1:25:02
Speaker 1: was gonna be setting up, remember, and then while to
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Speaker 1: catch a pretty theme. It was like twenty years ago,
1:25:08
Speaker 1: not even joking. I'd love to tune in if he
1:25:10
Speaker 1: had Karen Simbil on there. Oh my god, what I mean,
1:25:13
Speaker 1: because you're giving it, Joe Budden, you stop like one, no, no,
1:25:19
Speaker 1: that's too much for whatever. So he could have Joe
1:25:21
Speaker 1: to see seeing the intro music. Come and talk to
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Speaker 1: me anyway. On the Jason Lee Show tonight, I got
1:25:27
Speaker 1: n l E Chopper. He came on to talk about
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Speaker 1: a lot of things, and one thing I had to
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Speaker 1: ask him was his beef that everybody on the internet
1:25:33
Speaker 1: was talking about with him an NBA young boy, and
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Speaker 1: I was really amazed at the conversation what he shared.
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Speaker 1: But this is what he said. But I think about you,
1:25:40
Speaker 1: and I think about another rapper who's really successful as
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Speaker 1: an Organs. I like how he can kind of see
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Speaker 1: one on one who has a really huge following. And
1:25:50
Speaker 1: I'm like this guy's everything about him as positive. What
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Speaker 1: has he ever had any beef with anybody at all?
1:25:55
Speaker 1: And then of course you know I found the stuff
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Speaker 1: with NBA. Young boy, y'all had your time. That was
1:26:00
Speaker 1: at a time when you were in lle travel with
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Speaker 1: no love at offer anybody for myself, Are you in
1:26:06
Speaker 1: a different place now with what that relationship? Where that
1:26:09
Speaker 1: relationship ended, It's no beef. It was another in the
1:26:12
Speaker 1: beef more so like misunderstanding or anything like that. But
1:26:17
Speaker 1: it was never no beef. See beef to me or
1:26:20
Speaker 1: we come from it is like somebody died and like
1:26:23
Speaker 1: you trying to get to get back for that person
1:26:25
Speaker 1: that passed away. But it was another in new beef
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Speaker 1: with men bro. I don't really get a lot of
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Speaker 1: young male rappers on my show talking about the issue
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Speaker 1: that they have with other rappers. But I always see
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Speaker 1: like academics or blad talking to them about the beef
1:26:37
Speaker 1: that they have and it gets really real in the streets.
1:26:39
Speaker 1: I've had a lot of friends die from violence. So
1:26:41
Speaker 1: it was interesting here in his perspective. So as he
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Speaker 1: kept talking, he really went into a place that I
1:26:46
Speaker 1: had never heard a rapper in this generation speak about
1:26:50
Speaker 1: beef with other rappers. That's what he said. But when
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Speaker 1: he said in the song that your mother will be
1:26:56
Speaker 1: devastated when young boys send your stupid ass to God,
1:27:00
Speaker 1: that's beef. I mean, it's internet music beef whatever. It's
1:27:03
Speaker 1: not like somebody's chasing you down in the street. But
1:27:05
Speaker 1: that's kind of I mean, especially with your fans being
1:27:07
Speaker 1: as rather as they are his fans being the way
1:27:09
Speaker 1: that they are, that gets people gasolate to when now
1:27:12
Speaker 1: the fans turning into something. You know, some people have
1:27:14
Speaker 1: to release certain tension, certain anger on a on a
1:27:19
Speaker 1: beat or musically, so that it's not bottled hands where
1:27:23
Speaker 1: when you see a person you want to release it physically.
1:27:26
Speaker 1: He murged me on a beat, he killed me on
1:27:28
Speaker 1: a beat, but physically I'm here. I actually heard of
1:27:31
Speaker 1: og rappers say something like that. They said that if
1:27:34
Speaker 1: social media was around back in the nineteen hundreds, um,
1:27:38
Speaker 1: it would have been a lot less beef in the street,
1:27:40
Speaker 1: because people would have been saying things on social media
1:27:43
Speaker 1: and getting it out right. So a lot of things
1:27:45
Speaker 1: probably would have got squashed before it got to this
1:27:48
Speaker 1: to the actual street level, because back then, all you
1:27:50
Speaker 1: have to do all you can do is running to
1:27:51
Speaker 1: a person, right, you know what I mean? If I
1:27:53
Speaker 1: have heard have heard stuff like that, but hearing that
1:27:55
Speaker 1: from a twenty year old who's in the game now
1:27:57
Speaker 1: that all these rappers getting killed up, I actually admired it,
1:28:00
Speaker 1: saying that Anna Lee Chop is very small dude. Him
1:28:03
Speaker 1: and his mom they run close. I think she was
1:28:04
Speaker 1: probably I'm sure. Yeah, she manages him, so they run
1:28:07
Speaker 1: pretty close. He really but really bright individual. I just
1:28:09
Speaker 1: can't wait till his rhetoric that he displayed in interviews
1:28:12
Speaker 1: matches the continent of his music. That's what I can't
1:28:15
Speaker 1: wait for. Well, he's a new hit, new project out,
1:28:18
Speaker 1: I think out today. She hasn't been here in New York,
1:28:19
Speaker 1: and I'm gonna go check it out. And that's that episode.
1:28:21
Speaker 1: There's on the Jason Lee Sham Revolt tonight, and that
1:28:24
Speaker 1: record did his new record don't I don't, I don't.
1:28:26
Speaker 1: I don't believe he goes there that it's more of
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Speaker 1: a dance record. You probably heard of it, Damn Love
1:28:31
Speaker 1: Don't Live. Remember we had this conversation last time. He
1:28:34
Speaker 1: was so crazy. The last time he was here, he
1:28:36
Speaker 1: was sounded just like that, very positive. But then the
1:28:39
Speaker 1: music didn't match that, you know what I mean. So
1:28:40
Speaker 1: I just hope that you know, well, speaking to project,
1:28:43
Speaker 1: speaking to social media, gas like and everybody's reacting to
1:28:45
Speaker 1: the conversation we just had about Tamar Braxton and Candy
1:28:48
Speaker 1: and Todd and whether or not Todd is going to
1:28:49
Speaker 1: get a peach. And I don't know that they're saying
1:28:52
Speaker 1: that Tamar was the bully. But then when we were
1:28:54
Speaker 1: looking at that photo, people are saying, that's not a
1:28:56
Speaker 1: receipt of Tamar's man checking Todd. Yeah, he said he's
1:28:59
Speaker 1: looked little a little bigger than Todd. You know, I
1:29:01
Speaker 1: said earlier because you asked me a question. You said,
1:29:03
Speaker 1: who would win in the fight between Todd and Tamar
1:29:06
Speaker 1: Braxton Beyonce. I think his name is JR. Jail Ye,
1:29:10
Speaker 1: And I said, Todd right with a punt further review, Okay.
1:29:15
Speaker 1: I was told JR is the X Marine and I
1:29:18
Speaker 1: can tell that there's a clear side size advantish and
1:29:21
Speaker 1: Jay all looks irish. Okay, he does look irish. I
1:29:24
Speaker 1: might root for Todd, you know publicly that backdoor. Bet No,
1:29:31
Speaker 1: you can't take it back. Earlier, you like it's hot
1:29:34
Speaker 1: as black. I'm going with the black man didn't have
1:29:35
Speaker 1: all the stats of the fighters, so I didn't. You
1:29:37
Speaker 1: didn't give me that. You know, I'm looking at the
1:29:39
Speaker 1: stats of the fighters now, I'm looking at the height
1:29:41
Speaker 1: and weight and the arm reaching background X Marine. You
1:29:46
Speaker 1: have hell with an ex marine bro, especially at X Marine.
1:29:49
Speaker 1: That's irish. I'm telling you that, right with j'all backdoor
1:29:52
Speaker 1: bet that's what I'm doing at the table publicly, go Todd,
1:29:55
Speaker 1: you know what I mean. But you know, put your
1:29:58
Speaker 1: money on that's right, jail, Okay. I don't want to
1:30:00
Speaker 1: see any any of that happened. I don't want to
1:30:01
Speaker 1: see turn the violence. It was no Jesus, stop it, Jason.
1:30:05
Speaker 1: It was just a hypothetical. Yeah, all right, well, thank
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Speaker 1: you for I do No, I don't know. I don't
1:30:15
Speaker 1: I'm working on me. All right, Well, people's choice mixes
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