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- 0:00Okay, hello everybody, and welcome to Honey Badger Radio. My name is
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- 1:00so what are we doing today, Allison? What are we doing?
- 1:04Bro brain? Well, uh, we are discussing an article titled can unapproachable
- 1:15makeup work is a man repellent? Yes? Like, why don't At this
- 1:22point I have to ask, why don't you just not wear any makeup?
- 1:27Well? But but the thing is is that, Okay, I thought the
- 1:33purpose of makeup was to make women look more appealing, enhanced features, cheekbones,
- 1:41you know, make their eyes look larger, increase neotony, make them
- 1:45look younger. But someone, some clever guardian journalists decided why should makeup do
- 1:53that? Why can't we make makeup that literally scares everyone away? So you
- 2:00or yeah, just men basically just scares men away? Well, then I
- 2:04mean why not? And but but then that means that not wearing makeup at
- 2:08all is not doing enough right because it means that you just have your default
- 2:15face. And the and the other thing is is that a lot of men
- 2:20like a woman with a natural face. And so if if the goal is
- 2:27to drive men away, then not wearing makeup at all might not be enough.
- 2:31You have to take it that extra step. It's like you have to
- 2:34put you know, the head of your enemies outside of your fortress so nobody
- 2:39wants to approach. It's like that's what they want to do. So or
- 2:43scarecrow in your you know, in your uh, in your cornfield, so
- 2:47that the crows don't come because they're afraid. I think that's what this is.
- 2:52This is effectively it's deterring men, and that's what it's I mean,
- 2:57that's I think that's the goal. But we'll have to look at the article.
- 3:00I haven't read it yet. This is all new to me. You
- 3:01raise an interesting point, but I think that for a lot of women,
- 3:07if they take makeup off, they'll just recede into the wall board that nobody
- 3:14will notice them. Because makeup is specifically about driving the eye to certain features
- 3:21in your face. It's a it's a it's it's a desire to get attention,
- 3:25right. That's why you put makeup on, to improve what you're presenting
- 3:30and to get attention for it. And what's interesting about this is that obviously
- 3:37these individuals still want to get attention, right, they still want people's eyeballs
- 3:42on them, but they want to make the impression that they are not wanting
- 3:51to engage with men. So they are some kind of radfem segregationists at the
- 3:55same time. So they're trying to say, look at me, I hate
- 4:00you, and they're trying to This is what I think I'm getting from this.
- 4:03Don't approach me because you're lesser than me, but I still want your
- 4:06attention. I still want you to pay attention to me, because you know,
- 4:11the best way to be invisible is just wear no makeup. Honestly,
- 4:15yep, yeah, just yeah, well yeah but that yeah, that's this
- 4:20is not about not getting attention. This is about trying to That's my that's
- 4:26my prediction. Like read, we don't know yet, but yeah, it
- 4:30would seem that way, just to freak people out. You know, I'm
- 4:31reminded. I think we talked a little bit about on a on a news
- 4:34show last week. The topic of uh, like the you know kind of
- 4:43glam rock shock rock bands from the eighties came up and I was talking about
- 4:47how de Snyder of Twisted Sister was not trying to look like a woman,
- 4:56not like an attractive woman. He was trying to freak people. It was
- 5:00like, why does kiss you know, why do they wear makeup? Why
- 5:02do they have names like the Star the Starman and the Demon and you know
- 5:06whatever and the Star Child I think it was, or whatever, the cat
- 5:11it was because they wanted to have like something, it's branding. It was
- 5:14just like, oh, be shocked, that's what Twisted Sister is. So
- 5:16maybe these this person I mean, we don't know, we'll read through the
- 5:20article is trying to sort of recreate that same energy that Oh my god,
- 5:26it's you know, it's so it's so shocking. I'm I'm such a normy.
- 5:30I'm not ready for this. You know, this is so like beyond
- 5:34advance. The suggestions are actually repellent. I mean, that's a question for
- 5:39our audience when you hear these suggestions. Is her makeup more repellent than her
- 5:44personality? Like? Has she managed to at least do that? Has she
- 5:47managed to make her makeup more repellent than her actual personality? This is what
- 5:51I'm curious. This is another thing. This is my big question. This
- 5:55is my big question for this this article. Question of the day. Yeah,
- 6:00my prediction is that she still wants attention, but she wants to have
- 6:03it in such a way that men know that they're unwanted. So she wants
- 6:09men's attention while basically projecting the idea that they are inferior to her and unwanted.
- 6:15Okay, and my that's that's that's my prediction. And my question is
- 6:21does her suggestions do her suggestions? Do her makeup suggestions? Do they make
- 6:28her or can they make a woman more repellent than this woman's personality? So?
- 6:33Can can this? Can her makeup suggestions make her more repellent than her
- 6:36personality already? Does? I'm gonna go I'm gonna go with a probably not
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- 10:20let us get into the story or the articles. So this comes from the
- 10:26Guardian and it is entitled A Beauty Hacks Life and Style. So that's a
- 10:31ironic title. And it says can unapproachable makeup work as a man repellent If
- 10:39bolder choice is such as strong liner and bleached brows make you feel safer,
- 10:45give them a goal a go. We have this lovely illustration. Are you
- 10:52freaking kidding me? Ladies? Do you honestly think a rapist or a serial
- 10:56killer is going to be repelled because of your eyeliner? Yeah? That's just
- 11:05freaking of this is this is the only people you're gonna repel are guys who
- 11:13are not psychotic. Okay, you know, and honestly good You need to
- 11:20honestly like that. That's fine because in women like this need to mate within
- 11:26their species, which is the psychotics. Right. I mean, honestly,
- 11:33at the end of the day, all all good things to this, not
- 11:37all good things, but you know, congratulations to this woman. She is
- 11:43announcing herself at the very least. So yes, you know, you know
- 11:48who to avoid. I think that was a lot of sentiments when I saw
- 11:52like the comments, not on the Guardian because the Guardian doesn't allow comments,
- 11:56but the comments on like the Twitter thread with this on it. Yeah,
- 12:01they were like, yeah, that's okay, good show us who we need
- 12:05to avoid. That's that's actually an excellent strategy. Yeah, it's like the
- 12:09bright colored hair. It's like, oh yeah, I know who to stay
- 12:13away from. Now it's helpful. It's like, yeah, go ahead.
- 12:16Well it's like they they're like poison arrow frogs. Yeah. I was gonna
- 12:20say, it's like poisonous animals. You know, they're letting, you know,
- 12:24stay away. So maybe this is the equation. That's that's what the
- 12:28makeup is. It's the same thing. It's like be afraid. So let's
- 12:31see what her what she's gonna say. This is from Anita bagwandas bagwandas the
- 12:41hack does, Unapproachable makeup scare men off the test. With over one hundred
- 12:48and twenty four million views on TikTok, the unapproachable makeup trend has become a
- 12:56firm gen Z favorite. The brief seems to be quote looking so good,
- 13:01they're too scared to approach you end quote, According to TikToker Maggie he beha,
- 13:07the they in question being men. Hold on a second, could this
- 13:11just be delusion? Like could she just be unattractive and men are approaching and
- 13:16she's like, man, I looked so good, you know, let's look
- 13:20at her. Uh yeah, let me let me open up. There's a
- 13:24TikTok. Unapproachable makeup no more than pissing men off, and nothing pisses them
- 13:30off more than when you look so good. This here is my unapproachable Ready,
- 13:35we're gonna start off with favor. I'm gonna yet, I'm gonna mute
- 13:41her because she is talking and you can't hear it because I'm not sharing my
- 13:46video. But it's okay, she's just so, she's just doing this makeup.
- 13:48I'm gonna skip ahead to the end of this. I kind of want
- 13:54to see, like how what the result is, to see if she Okay,
- 13:58this doesn't look okay, whatever it is, Well, it looks like
- 14:03Latina Gangster. I guess, Yeah, she does look kind of hood I
- 14:07guess going for that. Danielle Bergoli, you know, catch me outside?
- 14:11How about that? Yeah, I don't know. I mean, I don't
- 14:18think that. I don't. I don't. Why was this an art?
- 14:20Why did why is this a thing? Why? Why is this a thing?
- 14:24All right, well, anyway, not impressed, but let's continue.
- 14:28Mm hmmm. How so how does the trend manifest? Many of the looks
- 14:31lean into bold eye makeup, strong liner, and bleached brows, trends that
- 14:35aren't seen as traditionally pretty. So I follow that brief. I do this
- 14:41by creating none of them really bleached brows. Of them look particularly what they
- 14:52look like. Some of them look like, oh, I have a I
- 14:56have a history of arrest. But most of them just look pretty bland.
- 15:03Yeah, I don't, I'm not. I don't know if I'm moved by
- 15:07any of you from this. It just looks standard to me. Yeah.
- 15:11Although although the making the nose look shiny thing has been really like popular in
- 15:18the last I don't know, five years or so, it's like, oh,
- 15:24because I think it's so they want to like have that like I look
- 15:28like a Disney character nose or it's like this little button. So they put
- 15:33this little shine on the nose, on the tip of their nose, and
- 15:35it makes it look I mean I think that's the goal, right, And
- 15:39they and they also do a lot of like sculpting on you have quite them,
- 15:46Yeah, they make it makes Yeah, it makes the nose look.
- 15:50I guess they think it makes their nose look smaller because it's like this little
- 15:52shiny point like a cat or a dog. You know, dogs have wet
- 15:58noses. Uh, but yeah, I mean, I don't know, it's
- 16:02a weird, Like I said, it's a weird trend. Now, again,
- 16:06conversations men are just not having, by the way, yeah, I
- 16:08know, probably the only ones having this conversation. And again, this unapproachable
- 16:14makeup looks pretty bland. Maybe it's because you know, I used to go
- 16:18to goth clubs. Yeah, and this just looks like normy women with yeah
- 16:26face resting bitch face. It's like, okay, well this seems like a
- 16:32nothing burger to me. But let's let's move on. Let's see all right,
- 16:34let's see the premise gets more interesting. Sure, Sure, I got
- 16:37a super h chat from Senior Sticks for two dollars. Thank you, Senior
- 16:42Sticks. And he says, can HBr get Tim Poole, he got Kanye
- 16:45and others? Question Mark. I mean, I've spoken to Timpoole a couple
- 16:51of times, but he's not I don't know, he's not easy to reach.
- 16:56I'd like to I'll put it that way. If you have like an
- 16:57inside you know, scoop to get him, then yeah, help me out.
- 17:03I have spoken to him, but I'm fairly certain that he doesn't remember
- 17:07me at all. I saw him at myth Con I think it was Mythhysist
- 17:11Milwaukee, like in twenty seventeen or twenty eighteen, and I saw him before
- 17:15that in California. We went to this big party and like a lot of
- 17:19people were there, a lot of YouTubers. It was at VIDCN. Remember
- 17:23that Alison was that you were there. Temple was there, but he was
- 17:27very like kind of like in his own world like doing work and stuff.
- 17:33But we got to hang out with like Dave Cullen and Vernaculous and some other
- 17:37people that were pretty cool. So anyway, I've only run into him a
- 17:41couple of times I have spoken to him, but it's been years and I'm
- 17:44sure he doesn't remember me. But if you have a way, then yeah,
- 17:47I'll be glad to talk to him. Like you guys who are like,
- 17:49can you talk to these people? You guys have had as much chance
- 17:52as being able to talk to these people as we do. Yeah. Not
- 17:57hard and far from like famous YouTube exactly. I mean, we've been at
- 18:03it for a long time, but we don't have the pull, although some
- 18:06you know, we've left some impressions, I think. But anyway, so
- 18:10let's see how does this trend manifest. Many of the looks lean into bold
- 18:15eye, makeup, strongliner, and bleach brows, trends that aren't seen as
- 18:18traditionally pretty. So I follow that brief. I do this by creating a
- 18:22bold purple eye using Denessa Myrick's Twin Flames and Adore You twenty four pounds,
- 18:26Yeah, layering on black liner, and finishing by faking bleach brows by patting
- 18:33my concealer on them and powering them to set. This is really boring,
- 18:37Okay, of course, it is worth stating that not all men are predatory.
- 18:42How about thanks? Thanks lady, Thanks really appreciate it. It's worth
- 18:48stating I'm covering my ass here. Well, what this trend could be tapping
- 18:53into is the ongoing issues with street harassment. ONS data suggests that twenty four
- 19:00thousand women are harassed daily in the UK, despite tougher legislation being put in
- 19:06place in twenty twenty two. I have a doubt. Yeah, I mean,
- 19:11just because there's more like complaints, does it mean that there's diressment,
- 19:15there's more harassment. Although you know, there are certain cultural conflicts that may
- 19:21be occurring in the UK. I don't want to specify any first. Yeah,
- 19:25yeah, you know, that might be a source of it to a
- 19:27degree, you know, it could be. That's an interesting point. I
- 19:32mean, I don't want to presume anything, but it's possible that there is
- 19:37some other stuff at work. The culture of the UK may have changed a
- 19:44bit that might have contributed. But all right, anyway, so twenty four
- 19:52thousand women are harassed daily again, how you know, if you like,
- 19:56if you like, fearmonger women and to convince them that like, to broaden
- 20:03the definition or their their feelings on men speaking with them enough, would that
- 20:10not increase the complaints? If women are always feeling like men are preying on
- 20:15them. There's no like. Okay, let me look at the ons data.
- 20:23Thousands of women harrassed women, thousands of men harrassed women and say it
- 20:27was a compliment. Don't let them get away with it. Actually, that
- 20:33might be a good one to look at. You want to send me the
- 20:36link through discord and I'll click on the click on her. Oh, oh,
- 20:40is it on the is it? Is it in the myra? Wait?
- 20:42Where is it? Twenty twenty two? It's the twenty twenty two right,
- 20:48No, no, no, it's before that, the link before that
- 20:51under ONSNS data. Uh, why don't I see it? I see unapproachable
- 20:57makeup trend According to TikToker Meggie he Beijia Danessa meer As the Yeah, it
- 21:04just has twenty twenty two street harassment doubts new law will change behavior. So
- 21:11maybe it's just sent it to you so you can take a look at it,
- 21:14all right, or I'll look at it this way then, Yeah,
- 21:15it might be a little bit difficult to see. But I just I don't
- 21:21think this is precisely man repelling makeup, because honestly, first of all,
- 21:26a lot of these women would probably do better if they don't want to be
- 21:30noticed by just not putting makeup on, so you know that that that doesn't
- 21:40seem to be the issue here. I think it's more like they want attention.
- 21:45I don't know. Yeah, I mean, I mean, guys,
- 21:48take a look at the take a look at the the I think you showed
- 21:52them some of the some of the examples, right, well, of the
- 21:56makeup examples. Yeah, the makeup examples. I yeah, I mean it
- 22:00was a one video. There was one video and uh, I mean I
- 22:03could go to let me see an approachable wake up trend. I can open
- 22:07this in a new thing here, Yeah, gen z solution. Oh yeah,
- 22:11I mean all of us seems pretty pretty. I don't I mean whatever,
- 22:18right, I'm not whatever. Yeah, Like I'm not, I'm not
- 22:22really, I'm not. I'm not intimidated. This is pretty standard ship.
- 22:27Yeah. Maybe the last one, okay, girlies, here you go on
- 22:33into intimidating makeup where she looks like, I don't know, she's gonna kill
- 22:38you and then rape your corpse. But the rest of them are just pretty
- 22:42standard. Yeah, but you know, as you wish. But I think
- 22:51this other article might be interesting to go through. I could you want me
- 22:53to, Yeah, a little work down into the rabbit hole, tumble into
- 23:00the rabbit hole. Just gotta pile it on, aren't you. Yeah,
- 23:03I'm not, like I said, this isn't really like whatever. She doesn't
- 23:07she's not trying to be unattractive. I think that maybe the maybe the intimidating,
- 23:11unapproachable makeup trend is to like look so good that like men would have
- 23:18to be like the top tier guys to approach you. So, yeah,
- 23:22way way to price yourself out of the marketplace a little bit, a little
- 23:26bit. It's okay. It's like a bunch of mid women who are like,
- 23:27I'm gonna I'm gonna apply my makeup so that it intimidates all of the
- 23:33midmn and the only men who think they're worthy of me are going to approach
- 23:37me are the top tier because every other man will be intimidated by my beauty.
- 23:41No mm hmm, no, no, I should I read this article
- 23:47is eight months old. Thousands of men harassed women and say it was a
- 23:49compliment. Don't let them get away with it, Okay, m oh oh
- 23:55shit, I gotta I gotta get the archive link of this because yeah,
- 24:02it's it's the guardians making me buy things. But it's okay, I know
- 24:04how to get it archive pH works. It's not a big deal. Nope,
- 24:11I already got it open. Okay. So if a stranger slaps your
- 24:15bottom, is it bad behavior or bad manners to complain because they meant it
- 24:19as a compliment. Yeah, nobody does that. Yeah, in the Battle
- 24:23to End the I mean they literally when they were making the Barbie movie and
- 24:26they put that scene in there where the guy slaps her on the ass and
- 24:30she knocks him out. That's something they had to construct because it didn't like
- 24:37they were hoping that she would walk down like I think it was Venice Beach
- 24:42or whatever. Yeah, yeah, I think so, or like whatever on
- 24:45the beach in California, and that there would be like cat calls, and
- 24:49there wasn't any. In fact, it was only Ryan Gosling that got like
- 24:55any attention, because well, yeah, it was Ryan Gosling who got the
- 24:59He didn't get like necessarily cat called, but he got guys like hollering at
- 25:03him to you know, say hello and stuff. And plus you know,
- 25:06it's California, so there probably were guys hitting on him too, I mean,
- 25:11and why not Yeah, yeah, so they were just ignoring Robbie.
- 25:17Yeah. Well, I mean they were either ignoring her because they didn't,
- 25:22you know, they were not straight, or they didn't particularly find her flattering,
- 25:26But most likely it was because they didn't want to appear as a creep,
- 25:30because like, this is the environment, the climate we've created, is
- 25:34that men don't even want to talk to women. So why would a man
- 25:37like cat call a woman very It doesn't happen very often, And I think
- 25:44so they couldn't. Yeah that they couldn't the spontaneous ass Max they had to.
- 25:49I think it's hilarious that they even expected it, like, oh,
- 25:52well we could, we could, Well we'll bait them. It's like that's
- 25:56not gonna work. Like you've created you've created a climate or men don't want
- 26:00us do anything, and why should they, It's too dangerous for them.
- 26:04So it's funny that that we're still pretending like this is normal. Yeah,
- 26:08and we're going to continue to pretend like this is normal until we actually live
- 26:14in a society where men have told Most men have gotten the message except for
- 26:18the psychos, that they are not to approach to women. They are not
- 26:22to talk to women, they're not to look at women, and we will
- 26:26be living in a society where women get no attention from men whatsoever. Yep,
- 26:32Okay, he's a psycho. Well there you women, then you'll know
- 26:36m. In the battle to end the harassment women face in their everyday lives,
- 26:41the discussion has often centered on how women can do more to protect themselves,
- 26:45rather than stopping those who feel they are entitled to touch, pester,
- 26:48and target others. Men are the entitled ones, right, I feel entitled
- 26:55to pester women. You know, it's possible that the the only men that
- 27:00are you know, like I guess willing to do that are the kind of
- 27:06men you want the attention from. Like they're like the really forceful, I
- 27:11don't give a fuck psycho men. So those are the men you're gonna attract
- 27:15because you're eliminating everybody else. And those are the those are those are the
- 27:21men that you actually want. So not my problem, No, it's not
- 27:26my problem. It seems like we're rapidly becoming a society in which twenty women
- 27:30share one dark triadmin mm hmmm. Yep, well there goes the human future.
- 27:36But you know, not my problem ultimately, yep, as is it's
- 27:41everybody's problem. But you know what I mean. It's like, yeah,
- 27:44that's what you want, that's what you want. Yep. As Parliament debates
- 27:48new laws on public harassment on Wednesday, we can change this, but only
- 27:52if we stop excusing criminal behavior as clumsy seduction. That means being clear that
- 27:57when it comes to harassing women, it is no defense to argue you didn't
- 28:02mean any harm, because in twenty twenty three you really should know better.
- 28:07For women, learning to live is learning to be afraid. Oh my god.
- 28:14If you want the freedom of movement, it comes at a cost.
- 28:17We teach self defense in schools the merits of self defense, like, yeah,
- 28:22well, if they did, they probably have more confidence and be less
- 28:26afraid on the street. But they could also just understand that the likelihood of
- 28:33an incident is very low and that men are in more danger than women.
- 28:40But anyway, we teach self defense in schools the merits of carrying keys in
- 28:45your hands to walk home, to worry about not having such a good time
- 28:48on a night out that you're unaware of the person standing too close to you,
- 28:52and to worry about who can be trusted if you go to them for
- 28:56help. Our calculation oh yeah, go ahead. This is a legal initiative.
- 29:02And now men saying that they did not intend to do something miaarrest that
- 29:07is, the intent to commit a crime is no defense. It all hinges
- 29:14on how you make a woman feel. Guys, how you make a woman
- 29:18feel. And you know, being awkward is one step away from being creepy.
- 29:25Yep, they are conditioning women for fear, that's all it is.
- 29:32How are men supposed to navigate this at this point? Yep? I don't
- 29:41know. Keep going, okay, let's keep going. Our calculations using ONS
- 29:48data suggest that every day twenty four thousand women suggest notice the language. Wait,
- 29:53wait, wait, wait, where's the ONS data coming from? Then
- 29:57maybe it's this public harass but let me we'll finish the paragraph first. Our
- 30:03calculations using ONS data suggest that every day, Yes, suggests that every day
- 30:08twenty four thousand women experience public harassment in the UK who with those from minority
- 30:15communities much more likely to be affected. School age girls report experiencing this harassment
- 30:21every day and that their peers are slow to learn to stop it. One
- 30:25study in Northern Ireland show that only seventy three percent of the boys thought it
- 30:29was never acceptable to cat call, wolf whistle or shout at someone. All
- 30:33right, mean, back up for a moment. Twenty four thousand women.
- 30:38So, first of all, it says ons data suggests, So that doesn't
- 30:42really that doesn't really make this clear because it might be complete bs. Then
- 30:48you have the other aspect. It says, twenty four thousand women out of
- 30:55how many, like, how many women are there in the U even like
- 31:00of age? Right, is it in the millions? I'm gonna assume it's
- 31:04in the millions. So we're looking at a tiny percentage even if it even
- 31:08if which I don't think it is, but even if it was true that
- 31:12twenty four thousand women every day we're experiencing public harassment, then you have to
- 31:18get into what does it mean? What does public harassment mean? Right?
- 31:25And then so we're looking at all of the ways that this is being blown
- 31:29out of proportion. Okay, So first it starts with owensa to suggest,
- 31:33which I don't know what that means. That's a very very very fuzzy,
- 31:38like you know, claim, right off the bat, every day, twenty
- 31:42four thousand women, twenty four thousand out of how many, okay, experience
- 31:48public harassment? How do you define public harassment with those from minority communities much
- 31:55more likely to be affected. So I have to make a point about this
- 31:57one too, because they do the same thing in America. In the United
- 32:01States, they say that women face harassment, and my minority women are more
- 32:07likely to be affected. So what are they saying there? Well, generally,
- 32:12if you are from a certain like racial group or or cultural ethnic group,
- 32:17then you live in an environment where there are a bunch of other people
- 32:21who are like you. It's not it's segregation, but it's not like enforced
- 32:24by the state. It's the way people are. People self segregate. So
- 32:28there are Black neighborhoods, there are Latin neighborhoods, there are Asian neighborhoods.
- 32:32That's the way it is. Okay, So what do they when they say
- 32:37that minority women are more likely to be affected. What they're really saying is
- 32:43minority men are the ones engaging in this in this and the reason why I'm
- 32:49bringing this up is because this is the reason why when the discussion around race
- 32:57comes up, I see it as action from the real conversation, which is
- 33:01supposed to be gender. And that's so what they are saying is Black women
- 33:07are being harassed by black men, but we can't say that black men are
- 33:09harassmers because that would be racist. So instead we're just gonna say it's men,
- 33:14and we're gonna say that black women are more affected. This is just
- 33:16an example. So you see how they're playing with this, with the way
- 33:20they discuss this instead of just and it has to come after everything else that
- 33:25they've already set up. They set up all these other dominoes, you know,
- 33:29like ons day to suggest twenty four thousand women public harassment, which we're
- 33:35not going to define, and then minority communities. So you see how that
- 33:37works. It's it's very very manipulative, and we haven't even confirmed any of
- 33:43this is true. It's probably really blown out of proportion. Plus it's another
- 33:46thing too, is that culturally, the way that people have different like ethnic
- 33:54backgrounds, interact with each other and communicate is different. So, I mean,
- 34:00I grew up in the West Side of Chicago, Humble Park area,
- 34:04a lot of Puerto Ricans, Mexicans and blacks that live there. When there
- 34:08were you know, men and women talking to each other like you know,
- 34:14with romantic or even sexual interests, it was done in a different way,
- 34:19like the way that latinos like, you know, holler at women is different
- 34:22from the way white guys do it. You know, it's it's just different
- 34:24because it's culturally different. And the same goes for blacks, and there's an
- 34:29expectation from black women that men black men would be more forward. So if
- 34:35if you live in a culture that essentially normalizes this kind of communication, then
- 34:45those and then those girls go to you know, public school or college or
- 34:50whatever, and they are convinced by their professors that actually that thing that you're
- 34:54used to is harassment, and then they like internalize that. Then they're gonna
- 34:59start seeing something thing that was normal in the past as harassment. And I'm
- 35:04not talking about anything that's actually you know, like predatory or dangerous. I
- 35:07mean like guys saying, AO can of holler at you okay, which is
- 35:10normal. I mean, it's just it is that's the way it is.
- 35:15So they are there's so many things that are being distorted and manipulated. Does
- 35:21that make sense? Yes? Okay? Does yeah? Like, for example,
- 35:27one of the things that they have turned a situation, did you like
- 35:30okay, sorry, let me give you some context. The rate at which
- 35:36domestic partners kill each other. In the States in the seventies was more equal
- 35:43between men and women. In other words, you know, for every hundred
- 35:46women killed, there'd be something like eighty five ninety men, so it was
- 35:51much more equal. And then something happened in the intervening generation or couple generations
- 35:55to actually significantly decrease the number of men who were killed. So women stayed
- 36:02relatively stable or they just decreased less and men decreased significantly. Feminists turned something
- 36:08that got better for men into patriarchal oppression of women. But get this,
- 36:15the group that it got best for was black men. So feminism feminists turned
- 36:22something getting better for black men into patriarchal oppression of white women. I want
- 36:30you to think about that, if anything ever gets better for any minority man,
- 36:36not to mention white men. I mean, that's just a given.
- 36:39That's just the GII. You know, if anything gets better for minority men,
- 36:45if racism ever goes away, it'll be reframed as patriarchal oppression of women.
- 36:52That's why it all comes back. It all slides downhill to that first
- 36:58initiative, that first grievance initiative, which was women. It all slides back
- 37:04to that the foot in the door, and that's how they start controlling the
- 37:07like, that's how they get the foot in the door in the academia,
- 37:10in government, wherever. You're starting to see all of this new trends issues
- 37:16or radical trands, activist stuff, or even radical like black lesbian separatist stuff,
- 37:24black lives Matter, all of this stuff. It's because the original grievance
- 37:30narrative, women have it Worse, got its foot in the door, and
- 37:35they started to control the climate, the culture of these spaces. And now
- 37:39they're pursuing their next source of grievance. It all starts with that narrative.
- 37:46Yeah, and until you actually challenge that narrative, you're not going to go
- 37:51anywhere. And it's hard because it goes against our programming as men and women.
- 37:57It goes against our received identities. Men want to save women, women
- 38:00want to be saved, and that it all buys into that, It all
- 38:07feeds into that, and that's why it started there because it's the most comfortable.
- 38:13But inevitably, when you start, when you start running society through grievance,
- 38:17you're going to run through all of women's grievances pretty quickly because they honestly
- 38:22don't have that many, and then you're gonna have to find new sources.
- 38:27But it all starts with that one that we actually all care about and men
- 38:30care about, which is women. Which is why the trans issue is going
- 38:34to be so interesting to watch because it's it's for a lot of men.
- 38:37It's essentially elevating men into a position where they don't belong as people who need
- 38:44to be saved. That's that's women's real role, and that's where women should
- 38:47be. That's the role that women should occupy. And what we're having now
- 38:52is that a narrative that began about saving women is starting to be pointed to
- 39:00or to be about saving people who certain individuals can perceive as men. And
- 39:07there are having a bitch of a time with that one. So it's it's
- 39:09it's sort of like a snake eating its tail and it's it's finally got to
- 39:14you know, it's it's finally got to its ears, and there's nothing.
- 39:16No, it's gonna be interesting times, but yeah, this and the other
- 39:22thing is that this doesn't include the data for men, so it's an orphan
- 39:28No, it is, it is. And the other thing too, I
- 39:30was just thinking about speaking of, because the interesting thing that they're not talking
- 39:36about, like how men and women, like I was saying before, communicate
- 39:40and relate to each other in different cultures. So feminism operates under the presumption
- 39:46that it knows the best kind of culture, and everyone else has to operate
- 39:52within the framework that it has created or is expected to. And so they
- 39:59bring they they're all about multiculturalism, which will bring you know, different kinds
- 40:06of people from different ethnic backgrounds and different cultural norms into a place, and
- 40:13then they judge the men of those other cultures against, you know, the
- 40:16a standard that they have created, and when those men don't meet it,
- 40:20they they because they don't want to be called racists or whatever, they don't
- 40:23say it's because of that. They will just blame it on them as men.
- 40:28So it ends up on all men. Yeah, And so it ends
- 40:30up serving them anyway, because if you know, in like a Middle Eastern
- 40:35country, for example, the way that men and women relate to each other
- 40:38is probably I don't know for sure, but it's probably really different. In
- 40:42an Oriental culture, it's probably also really different in a whole different way.
- 40:47But when you bring all these cultures to one place, usually in a western
- 40:52country, the feminists of that country will say, well, are men in
- 40:55you know, because they hate their own men. These men are really bad
- 41:00because they're you know whatever, rapee predatory, et cetera. But even these
- 41:04foreign men are bad to their women too, So it and it works out
- 41:07because again they're operating under their own standards which no one can meet, and
- 41:13they're and they're using this to weaponize against all men of other groups as well.
- 41:19And of course they also make their women, those women paranoid of their
- 41:22own men. So like that that eukophobia or that miss injury, or that
- 41:29androphobia that the that feminists have of their men, they spread to the women
- 41:35of other cultures so that they will also fear their men. And so you
- 41:38have those, you know, these issues like where you have feminism growing in
- 41:44power in the Middle East. So anyway, and it's not and it doesn't
- 41:49take into account at all, you know how these cultures are different. Like
- 41:54as a as a Puerto Rican it was, you know, Latinos, we're
- 41:59like, we are pretty romantic and passionate people, so we tell women what
- 42:04we think, right and and before all this feminism came and educated those women
- 42:09I say, educated, brainwashed them. They would have been more reciprocal or
- 42:14at least understood. Oh yeah right, but now it's like we're speaking different
- 42:19languages. So it's not just obviously it's torn you know, white men and
- 42:24white women apart, but it's doing it. It's spreading everywhere else too.
- 42:29Yes, we so look at the birth rates all around the world. Yes,
- 42:31birth rates are declining everywhere, destroying the human Yes, especially in like
- 42:37the Far East countries like Japan and Korea. Can you just imagine like a
- 42:43museum of species, right, like just some kind of alien initiative, and
- 42:46then you just see like a human, except maybe the wax human is like
- 42:52dressed half in like a business suit, half in like a tiger loincloth or
- 42:57something, because they don't know what we really wear it or yeah, up
- 43:00a bunch of styles. And they're like, how did these people die they
- 43:04were so successful? Well exactly, Apparently women were dying and getting raped at
- 43:14crazy rates. Anyway, Yeah, the later half of their existence, women
- 43:22just the men just started to oppress and kill them. Yeah. Anyway,
- 43:27so I got a message it's not a super child. But I was hoping
- 43:30somebody would say this. So Carlos Palmaras said, if I did the math
- 43:36right, twenty four thousand, because that's everyday, twenty four thousand women experience
- 43:39public harassment. Twenty four thousand out of thirty four million is point zero seven
- 43:45to one percent. Less than one percent of women in the UK are experiencing.
- 43:52So it's again a lot if you look at it daily, but still
- 43:58like it's again and they're giving us data that you couldn't possibly be precise on,
- 44:04like they're saying, suggests that that's important because how can you possibly know
- 44:10what's really going on? How can you possibly know because you would have to,
- 44:15like, first of all, you would have to get women coming forward
- 44:19that frequently every day. So what they're doing is they're doing the same they
- 44:22do with the wedge gap. They get they get some data, they extrapolate
- 44:27it, they make an average out of it, and then they say,
- 44:30oh, how can we make this as scary as possible? And they put
- 44:31that out there. I don't think this is happening even but I'm saying,
- 44:36even if he was right, that's ridiculously low for someone to complain about.
- 44:40But anyway, Hi Baine, welcome to the show. Okay, But anyway,
- 44:47should I continue this article about the harassment I was talking? Okay,
- 44:52I think it'd be reasonable to complain about it. Maybe I just really doubt
- 44:55that that's what happened, unless you lump in every time a man approaches a
- 44:59woman for any me think and all, well, you could if they're if
- 45:02the women find those men unattractive, then it is always unwelcome in it it's
- 45:07always harassment. Or maybe the way they frame the question, have you ever
- 45:09been approached by someone that you didn't want to be approached by? It didn't
- 45:15And it doesn't have to be a man. It doesn't have to be like
- 45:20romantic or sexual in nature. It could be a guy going, hey,
- 45:22do you know what time it is? I mean, who knows? Is
- 45:25this where I catch the bus? You know? I think it's just way
- 45:30too vague for her to make like this kind of a this kind of a
- 45:35you know, sort of you know, solid statement on anyway. So let
- 45:42me see back to the article. I wouldn't miss any super chats or anything.
- 45:45Let me just check. Okay, I don't think so that one.
- 45:51Yeah, all right, back to the article. If treet harassment is widespread,
- 45:59which is not so, too is a sense that those charged with tackling
- 46:02it minimize it. The campaign group Our Streets Now states that oh more orphan
- 46:10statistics that seventy six percent of pupils don't feel confident reporting public sexual harassment to
- 46:16a member of staff at school, let alone the police. So don't feel
- 46:22confident. That doesn't mean that they're afraid. Six percent of pupils. No,
- 46:29yeah, the gender isn't specified. And also that yes, pupils,
- 46:35I'm guessing that it's young men are inflating those statistics, yes, probably,
- 46:43but then this is a country that doesn't even regard women raping men as rape.
- 46:47That's true. In November of twenty twenty one, the House of Commons
- 46:52Library data showed that more than two million crimes against women had gone unrecorded since
- 46:57twenty eighteen, and women are much less likely than men to report abuse to
- 47:01police if coming from If there are, if they're unrecorded, how do we
- 47:08know there are two million? Ah, if they're in three women who says
- 47:17who was a victim say they reported it to the cops. Where do you
- 47:23see that? Oh, you're looking at the again. But like what are
- 47:28we talking about? Like reporting what to the cops? Because in that country
- 47:31you can get reported to the police for misogyny is a hate crime? Yeah,
- 47:39okay, so they're basically talking about misogyny. Oh no, yeah,
- 47:45as well. They made it illegal to illegal to cat call women in Nottingham
- 47:51and like other parts of the UK illegal And what is cat call? Well,
- 47:57just you know, I mean it could be a guy. I think
- 48:00they made an illegal to stare at women too, which will I mean,
- 48:05how do you even define that? Like, what does that mean if you
- 48:07happen to look in a woman's direction, not even trying to check her out,
- 48:10or if you spaced out in public? Like do you go to jail
- 48:15for that? It sounds like you do if she wants you to? So,
- 48:17Like how I mean if you create and loosen the laws that allow women
- 48:22to punish men for i mean existing, then they're gonna do it because you've
- 48:27given them the power. Some of them are going to do it. H
- 48:34all right. Perceptions of personal space safety and experiences of harassment. I'm looking
- 48:39at the actual statistics from this. I'm just astounded that they say that men
- 48:44are more likely to Where is that coming from. I've never seen stats that
- 48:49suggest that they might actually be talking about in general? Are you looking at
- 48:57the hour. Streetsnow dot org is what you're looking at. More than two
- 49:00million crimes against women had gone unrecorded since nineteen is twenty eighteen, and women
- 49:06were much less likely than men to report abuse to the police. You see
- 49:09that? Mm hmm. Really, I wonder if this actually has anything in
- 49:15it. Oh god, damn, this is I'm still trying to figure out
- 49:20how to how to search through things on a PC. I'm not used to
- 49:25PCs. Sorry, guys, lies damn lies and statistics. All right,
- 49:32back to the article. I read some more of it, So more of
- 49:40it. I'm gonna look at the yeah, yeah, yeah, all right,
- 49:45with extensive evidence of how those responsible escalate their behavior. The extensive evidence,
- 49:51we don't know what that is. There's no links or anything. They
- 49:53start following women down the road and flashing them, but rarely stop there.
- 49:58Women don't need to be give in rape alarms or better street lighting, but
- 50:01a plan of action goet to arrest all the men. That's why we should
- 50:07all welcome the protection from sex based harassment in a public bill. It echoes
- 50:13the way the hate crime legislation penalizes those who target certain groups based on their
- 50:16identity by using an existing offense used to prosecute harassment from the Public Order Act
- 50:22in nineteen eighty six and applying a harsher sentence to those whose motivation is shown
- 50:28to be about the sex or precede sex of their victim. It's the first
- 50:31time the statute book will recognize how misogyny drives crimes against women. Yet,
- 50:39as ever, nothing is straightforward. Public order offenses allow the accused to claim
- 50:45a defense that they thought their behavior was reasonable, even if no one else
- 50:49would. I can't believe that we're like there are people like making legislation based
- 50:53on this. It's all so subjective, Like I'm sorry, but what kind
- 51:00of world do you want to live in? Like there do you? Maybe
- 51:04these people should just be in a room that's completely cushioned, maybe made out
- 51:07of marshmallows or something so they can never get hurt or hurt themselves. This
- 51:13contrast with other legislation that also covers harassment and English law and only allows a
- 51:17defendant to claim their behavior is reasonable if others would agree that they ought to
- 51:22know if their conduct was unacceptable. Without changing the element of the forthcoming Public
- 51:28Harassment Bill to be consistent with how harassment operates everywhere. This new law,
- 51:32while while while well intentioned, risk giving perpetrators the opportunity to claim she just
- 51:39can't take a compliment as an actual defense to a criminal offense. So they
- 51:44want to make it criminal for men to compliment women. I mean, like,
- 51:49that's really what it is. Like they might say, oh, you
- 51:51know, if they overstretch or whatever. But let's just pretend as an example,
- 51:57you have a guy and he's like mid therefore, you know, like
- 52:01bottom of the barrel to the eyes of a woman, and he greets a
- 52:06woman and she says this is misogyny and calls the cops on that guy.
- 52:10And of course, because you know, this isn't a real crime, like
- 52:14a knife crime or something, the cops show up and they are arresting this
- 52:17guy. And this guy says, well, I thought I was being nice.
- 52:22She's saying that's not good enough and that he should go to jail.
- 52:28Like that, that can't be used as a defense. You have a nice
- 52:30smile. It's right to jail, Right to jail right away. Yeah,
- 52:35as far as I can tell that, they are considering that sexist abuse,
- 52:38yep, and they should. That should be lead to at least a year
- 52:42in jail right away in the UK. This is freaking insane. Yep.
- 52:50Honestly, at this point, I think that somebody should sue these dating coaches
- 52:55who suggest that men walk up to women. Especially in UK. Maybe you
- 53:00could still get away with that and can't in the US. But it looks
- 53:06like you're putting your life in your hands because you what are you supposed to
- 53:09say to a woman? Like walking up to a woman can be construed as
- 53:15sexist abuse m hm and which will result in a year of prison time.
- 53:23Like I don't mean to be doom pilled, but these individuals really do not
- 53:30want men to talk to women, and apparently they are making the laws and
- 53:37the policies. Oh they want to. I don't know if this one passed,
- 53:40but they are certainly working around the clock to get their way. So
- 53:49I got a super chow and a big one from Meredith g. She gives
- 53:52us five dollars. Thank you Meredith. Once again, if you guys want
- 53:59to send us a super chower, go to feed Thebadger dot com force.
- 54:00That's just the tip, and she says for five dollars Redfield Relationships and Dating.
- 54:07Isn't it interesting that after we destroyed the industries that many black men worked
- 54:12in, which made them unattracted to their women, and then gave those women
- 54:16an alternative in social welfare. The numbers of black men killed by their partners
- 54:22went down. But please don't pay attention to the statistics that show black men's
- 54:28increase mortality rates due to murder and drug overdoses. Remember, women have it
- 54:32worse. Thank you, Meredith. Yeah, oh well, I'm reading this
- 54:39rereading this paragraph. Now. Usually there's a lot like when I read these
- 54:45articles, there seems to be a lot of deliberate confusion. But as far
- 54:49as I can tell, they're saying that the accused shouldn't be able to claim
- 54:52a defense that the behavior was reasonable. Even though people can make any defense
- 54:58that they want. How is that going to be excluded? Do they have
- 55:01to first prove that their behavior is seen as as reasonable to others before they
- 55:07can even use it as a defense. I think what she pre trial before
- 55:12the trial, Yeah, I think what she wants function what she seems to
- 55:15want is that men should have to prove their innocence, not like that,
- 55:22not that she has to prove their guilt, you know. I mean that's
- 55:27the impression that I get based on that. Yeah, okay, okay,
- 55:32there is still time to close this legal loophole. With the support of MPs
- 55:37in the coming weeks, we can ensure that all harassment offenses deal in the
- 55:39same way with claims of reasonableness by defendants towards their victims. It's clear the
- 55:45public would agree. According to one survey, one in three people think that
- 55:51sexist abuse should lead to more than a year in prison. Wow, that
- 55:55is insane. Sexist abuse should lead to more than a year in prison,
- 56:01according to one It's one survey, but it's the one she apparently likes the
- 56:05most because she brought it up. Isn't it interesting that it's not good enough
- 56:09that seventy three percent of boys in Ireland think you shouldn't shout at people,
- 56:14which seems really ambiguous to me, Like, hey, you want to go
- 56:17play football or you want to go play soccer? No football, No,
- 56:22that that's you can't do that. That's wrong. Okay, seventy three percent
- 56:27of Irish boys basically think it's wrong to talk to a woman in public.
- 56:32That's not good enough, right, that's not good enough. That is something
- 56:37you. Ireland should hang its head in shame and start kicking some ball sacks
- 56:44for only seventy three percent of Irish boys no to avert thine eyes when milady
- 56:52walks past, only seventy three percent. But one in three people think that
- 56:58men who give a woman a compliment if she takes it badly, should end
- 57:04up in jail for a year, and that that that indicates that that the
- 57:07public will is there. But seventy three percent doesn't indicate that actually Irish boys
- 57:14are respectful. Do you see what I'm getting at? Yeah? You reverse,
- 57:17it's not enough. The seventy three percent of Irish boys won't look at
- 57:21a woman. You know, that's not enough. That isn't enough to indicate
- 57:24that Irish boys respect women. But if one in three people thinks that,
- 57:30then we should do that that indicates the social will. Is there so much
- 57:34hypocrisy? Absolutely? And this is terrifying. I know if you're you're in
- 57:39the UK and is this real on the ground, Well again, I mean
- 57:47there is. I don't know about the prison time, but I do know
- 57:51that in parts of the UK and Scotland and Ireland, you know, sexual
- 57:57harassment. I mean remember in Scotland they pass some law that if you're a
- 58:01man and you're like in a pub and you brag about your sexual conquests to
- 58:05like other guys in the pub that you can go to jail for that.
- 58:09Ladies, okay, I mean, what kind of world do you want?
- 58:14I got? I got one more paragraph in this article. It will take
- 58:17more than a single offense to undo the generations of cultural hardwiring that says men
- 58:22harass women because they like them. In an era of Andrew Tait. Of
- 58:24course, we're gonna have to drop the at repeated failed hashtag me too prosecutions,
- 58:30maybe because they didn't have any legs on them, and the scandal of
- 58:34the police rapist Wayne Cousins. There is so much to address, but it
- 58:38is a start. Well but yeah, I guess, but it is a
- 58:45start, which is why it matters to get this right. A growing majority
- 58:47of young men and modern culture is increasingly questioning the ethos that boys will be
- 58:52boys. The law must too. I don't think, ladies, I don't
- 59:04think you need to worry about your makeup repelling men. Yeah, really not
- 59:10when the legal situation is like this and they have individuals proposing this stuff.
- 59:16And again, I don't mean to be doom pilled, but this seems like
- 59:20that there is a concerted effort to increase the penalties on men for approaching women,
- 59:27and they're gonna keep doing it until no men approach women. So these
- 59:31penalties are just gonna go up and up and up. Yeah, what point
- 59:36is it acceptable for a person like me and and Brian to say, Hey,
- 59:42this isn't a good situation for men, and maybe you should put your
- 59:45own interests first and not approach women in public. Yep. And maybe it's
- 59:52time for dating coaches to just not insert themselves in this. At what point
- 59:58do we stop blaming men for not approaching women when the climate is like that?
- 1:00:02Maybe, let me put it that way. At what point do we
- 1:00:06stop shaming men for not approaching women when there is a very powerful political,
- 1:00:10bought body who's trying to use every tool in their disposal to make it more
- 1:00:15dangerous for men to approach women. Yep, it's a good question, you
- 1:00:23know, instead listening, they definitely need to be ridiculed. They definitely need
- 1:00:31to be ridiculed. Okay. So I can't find any source on men being
- 1:00:37more willing to talk to the police, more willing to report abuse to the
- 1:00:39police, especially when we're talking about misogynist abuse, because I'm pretty sure that
- 1:00:46men are not going to report misogynist abuse to the police, and that the
- 1:00:51site that she uses is about misogynist abuse. It also says it has something
- 1:00:58it's it's basically taking a swipe of Boris, which was the previous PM of
- 1:01:04I think it's PM of the UK, and it's said that if we recognize
- 1:01:12misogynist abuse as a crime, it won't increase the number of crimes. So
- 1:01:16apparently they're talking about when they talk about ten million crimes against women, they're
- 1:01:22not actually talking about things that are now considered a crime. They have defined
- 1:01:27certain things as misogynist abuse, right, so a blonde joke, dumb blonde
- 1:01:32joke. Yeah, any disparagement towards women men is fine, you know,
- 1:01:39And apparently men feel freer to report the misogynist abuse that they experience according to
- 1:01:47this survey. This is total bullshit. Yep. And unfortunately, when feminists
- 1:02:00go to war against men approaching women in public, okay, that means that
- 1:02:06they extend all of the behaviors that are now considered wrong right to misogynist abuse.
- 1:02:13One year, Oh, complimenting a woman is misogynist abuse, and you
- 1:02:17get one year in jail for it if she takes it wrong, I guess
- 1:02:21which you don't have. You can't now cannot use as a defense unless other
- 1:02:27people agree. In the pre trial, which really asked, bears the question
- 1:02:31who are the people that are going to be asked if it's reasonable? I'm
- 1:02:37imagining that, you know, the feminists are already in there with We got
- 1:02:40selected people who have been educated and trained in identifying misogynist abuse, who are
- 1:02:47going to look at how you complimented that woman and determine it if it was
- 1:02:52reasonable? Well, of course, what are they gonna do? Will the
- 1:02:54woman didn't find it comfortable? She lodged the complaint. The complaint is itself,
- 1:03:00the accusation is and of itself is a conviction because this is all based
- 1:03:05on the woman's feelings. So if she feels like your compliment was misogynistic abuse,
- 1:03:10it is no pasco you're in jail. Yep, right away. That's
- 1:03:17what they're pushing for. I don't know if they've got it already. You
- 1:03:21know, if you're in the UK, please give us the heads up.
- 1:03:22Do they already have this? If you compliment a woman, you walk up
- 1:03:25to a woman and say that is a lovely Yorkshire terrier. You have misogynists
- 1:03:34abuse one, you're in jail? Is that where it is now in the
- 1:03:39UK? Yet, if you're in the UK, maybe you can help us
- 1:03:45with that. Help us out here, because this sounds insane. I mean
- 1:03:50yeah, I mean people are going to agitate for insane policies. I guess
- 1:03:55the real concern is, no, it's okay. I guess the real concern
- 1:04:00is if it passes, and in the UK it might. I mean they're
- 1:04:03they're you know, they're freaking they love making weird things illegal and you know,
- 1:04:09and and only enforcing other things I don't know. Yeah, And still
- 1:04:14in the UK it's it's still not rape for a woman to force a man
- 1:04:18to have sex. Good Lord, good grief. And then UK feminists will
- 1:04:26turn around and say ninety percent of rapists or men. I'm like, who
- 1:04:30the frick is the other ten percent? Like, seriously, who's doing the
- 1:04:34other ten percent? Magical rape sharks? Like what the hell? So I
- 1:04:43got a superchow. It's a little bit too big for the screen, but
- 1:04:46I'm gonna put it up there for a moment and read through it. I
- 1:04:49got five dollars from an anonymous person and they say, I've seen multiple Reddit
- 1:04:55posts on feminists and nonfeminist identifying subreddits accusing all men of using the word females
- 1:05:00instead of women or women. But let's be honest about this, it's mostly
- 1:05:05niggas doing this shit. I grew up in the ghetto and most of the
- 1:05:10I can say that, by the way, Puerto Ricans can say that I
- 1:05:14grew up in the ghetto and most of the people around me were black,
- 1:05:15and they would call women females. It never grew on me, probably because
- 1:05:19I'm Latino and hung out mostly with white people. But I've noticed that the
- 1:05:25only non blacks using the word female instead are cringe ass wiggers, chiggers,
- 1:05:29and spiggers. But when you point up point this out on those subreddits,
- 1:05:33your comments get deleted and they don't care about the truth. They don't call
- 1:05:36women females unless it's in the context of using the adjective female prior to a
- 1:05:41noun like driver. Why I am Why am I lumped in with ghetto retards?
- 1:05:47I don't know. But men are lumped in with the word literally men.
- 1:05:55Okay, all right, let's talk about Muslims for a moment. They
- 1:06:00have issues with women walking around with dental floss around their nipples. You know,
- 1:06:06they haven't spent generation you know, like the ou oh oh you mean
- 1:06:12oh yeah, right, sure for dressing the romiscuously. Yeah, sure,
- 1:06:16of course. Okay. Now, white guys in the West have had generations
- 1:06:20of it beaten into them. Don't look, don't cat call. You can't
- 1:06:26assume that's a prostitute. Right. Muslims are coming from a culture where women
- 1:06:32dress modestly and they're they're just sorted. They have to walk into our culture
- 1:06:39and have tits in their face twenty four to seven, and they respond a
- 1:06:43little bit weirdly, you know. I my German shepherd wasn't raised with kids.
- 1:06:47He responds a little weird with kids, you know. So they respond
- 1:06:51a little weirdly to the new visual stimulus, and they behave in certain ways
- 1:06:56that are not socially acceptable in the West. And then all men are blamed
- 1:07:00for it. No, no, no, sorry, just white men somehow,
- 1:07:04while the Muslim men under the umbrella of all men, but mostly white
- 1:07:11men. If they're pressed, they say, no, it's white men.
- 1:07:14White men are not doing it, you know, And people who are are
- 1:07:17not ghetto are not doing it right, but it's blamed on all men a
- 1:07:23subset, the behavior of a subset, even if the subset is not even
- 1:07:28culturally consistent with the overarchy. It's it is a consistent pattern that feminism will
- 1:07:34always take the worst behavior, no matter what, of men, even if
- 1:07:40they won't actually call that specific group of men out because it would be racist
- 1:07:45or culturally supremacist or whatever. They won't call it up, but they will
- 1:07:49blame all men for it. And that's how they do it, and it's
- 1:07:55it's just. And they'll use the behavior of men who are new to the
- 1:08:00Western landscape of women just letting everything hang out and men having to deal with
- 1:08:03it and they don't respond quite as they should. Shall we say, I
- 1:08:09don't know if should is the right way to put it. They'll blame that
- 1:08:12on all men, and they will take the behavior of psychos like a tiny
- 1:08:17percentage of men, like a tiny percentage of men that not only have brain
- 1:08:25deficits when it comes to impulse control, likely have IQ's under ninety, but
- 1:08:30also likely have been beaten or neglected or severely emotionally abused or sexually abused,
- 1:08:36and they will take that tiny subset of men that actually has nothing to do
- 1:08:42with men. Like, it's not the fact that they're men that they're engaging
- 1:08:45in raping and violence. It's the fact that they have been abused, and
- 1:08:48they have impulse control problems, and they probably have low intelligence. And they'll
- 1:08:54take that tiny subset and say all men are responsible for that. It is
- 1:09:00the continuous drum beat. All men are responsible for the tiny minority that does
- 1:09:05anything bad, but all men are not. Don't get credit for the far
- 1:09:12larger majority of men that keep society running and protected. Just just wrap your
- 1:09:17head around that. One. The vast majority of men's actions in society is
- 1:09:23to make sure that women are paid for and protected. But we can't look
- 1:09:30at that and say that categorizes men's behavior. No, we have to look
- 1:09:33at tiny minorities, either in the bottom or the top, and say,
- 1:09:38nope, that's the actual situation for men. Mm hm, okay, all
- 1:09:43right, it's okay. I got a couple of super chats and I guess
- 1:09:45we can wrap it up. I mean, I think we we get we
- 1:09:49get this, I could finish. Let me finish this little bit here.
- 1:09:54Hold on a second, So the the the unapproachable make trend has become a
- 1:10:00firm gen Z favorite. The brief seems to be looking so good they're too
- 1:10:04scared to approach you. So how does it manifest? How you read that
- 1:10:09bit? Of course, it's worth stating that not all men are predatory yup
- 1:10:13the verdict. If a makeup makes you feel safer, I fully back it.
- 1:10:16I also fully back wearing makeup purely for self expression. So perhaps this
- 1:10:21men repeller trend is a wider call to detach beauty standards from the male gaze
- 1:10:28too. What aren't they already pretty detached? Well, I mean, I'm
- 1:10:34not kidding. I looked at a long time ago, like probably a decade
- 1:10:42and a half ago. I looked at the surveys of beauty standards, specifically
- 1:10:47when it comes to weight men. Beauty standards when it comes to like physical
- 1:10:54size always lags behind women's. Okay, so, and it's never as skinny
- 1:11:00as women want. Never So in like the seventies, a woman, a
- 1:11:06man would like a woman who's like a size eight, right, his mother
- 1:11:14would want to see a woman who's a size four. And then in the
- 1:11:17eighties, suddenly men are liking a woman who's a size four, whereas their
- 1:11:24mother is like a woman who's like a size two, So it always lagged
- 1:11:27behind what women want. So women are actually the ones setting the beauty standard.
- 1:11:33They're the ones setting it, and they're also setting what they're willing to
- 1:11:38offer. See, because the thing is that putting makeup on your face,
- 1:11:43starving your ass into a size six, and putting on a corset, it's
- 1:11:47a hell of a lot easier than becoming a decent human being. M I'm
- 1:11:54gonna say that, you know, using having plastic surgery easy. Then learning
- 1:12:00to appreciate, how appreciate a man and just want a male companion. That's
- 1:12:09much harder than just viewing yourself in terms of what you see in the mirror.
- 1:12:14Then you don't have to care about anyone else. Your level of beauty
- 1:12:17or what you think you have justifies everything. Unfortunately, that's a losing game
- 1:12:24because you're gonna lose it, like you're gonna lose your looks eventually, and
- 1:12:30at that point in time, it's the people that you cared for, the
- 1:12:31people you've helped, and the relationships that you've cultivated over years that are going
- 1:12:39to be the only things you get to keep. But when you're young as
- 1:12:43a woman, it's easier to just starve yourself into the size six and flather
- 1:12:47on a bunch of makeup with a size zero and lather on a bunch of
- 1:12:51makeup and call it a day. Then actually develop yourself as a person,
- 1:12:58and that's what we're seeing much less develop yourself as a person who has any
- 1:13:02understanding and compare, compassion and concern for men, and appreciates them as companions.
- 1:13:10I'm just putting that out there. This is driven by women. Oh
- 1:13:13absolutely, PC I just shared there was a video clip on Twitter of a
- 1:13:19I don't know if it was a beauty pageant or something, but there was
- 1:13:21a woman who was very curvy, little you know, probably a little heavy
- 1:13:26set that was walking on the runway and Ian Miles Chong shared the video clip
- 1:13:33and said, guys, do you think this woman is fat or you know
- 1:13:36or whatever? And most of the men were like, you know, she
- 1:13:41could get it, like like not. I like that they didn't they didn't
- 1:13:45have crazy high standards. And Rachel Wilson comments and said, you know,
- 1:13:50it tells you that men's standards are not as you know, unreasonable as women's
- 1:13:56when it comes to beauty. So I think, you know, generally men
- 1:14:00try to look at the bright side, you know, in general. So
- 1:14:05I got two super chats, I should get to them. So Johnny Boy
- 1:14:09quick Draw gives us five dollars and says le Blonde is walking along when suddenly
- 1:14:14she spots a banana peel on the sidewalk up ahead. She rolls her eyes
- 1:14:17and says, here we go again, get it because she's gonna walk up
- 1:14:23and slip on it, like on purpose. All right, thank you,
- 1:14:26Johnny Boy QuickDraw. And then I got another one from TV Dinner Master Chef,
- 1:14:30who gives us five dollars or five pounds. I'm sorry and says Nottingham
- 1:14:34fifteen years ago saw my first male to female transsexual in public. She had
- 1:14:41balls, pairing high heels with a full five o'clock shadow. The woke runs
- 1:14:45deep. Thank you TV Dinner Master Chef. Heye, go go for it.
- 1:14:50Whatever could have been a drag queen too. I don't know, I
- 1:14:54can't. I don't know what the right terms are anymore. I think that's
- 1:14:59it, but I'm going to just double check. Yeah, I read that
- 1:15:03one, and yeah, no, that's that's it. That's everything that we
- 1:15:10got our super chats, and I've read through the whole article, including another
- 1:15:14one. So what do you want to just wrap it up? There?
- 1:15:17We've gone for trying to figure out what the hell's going on here with what?
- 1:15:24Well? What what exactly did they Where are they getting this twenty four
- 1:15:30thousand women report misogynist abuse because I'm looking through the actual data and all I'm
- 1:15:38getting is whether or not you feel very safe to very unsafe. So where
- 1:15:44the hell's the misogynist abuse in here? Oh so, basically, if they
- 1:15:47feel slightly unsafe, it counts. That's where they're getting that number from.
- 1:15:53Maybe, Okay, what where is the link for that? Well, you
- 1:15:58said twitch of the following have you you stop doing as a result? Okay,
- 1:16:02it's it's difficulty. It's a very elaborate thing. I'm just I managed
- 1:16:05to open up this Excel sheet. Oh okay, yeah, so I'm just
- 1:16:11looking at this to figure out. Okay, I'm coming to oh oh,
- 1:16:15here we go, All right, here we go. In the past twelve
- 1:16:19months, have you experienced any of the following types of harassment? Being shouted
- 1:16:26at by a stranger in public? All adults male twelve percent, female thirteen
- 1:16:30percent experienced cat calls, whistles, unwanted sexual comments are jokes from a stranger
- 1:16:35in public place. Males two percent, females fifteen experienced cat calls unwanted.
- 1:16:42Okay, felt that you were being followed males three percent, females eleven,
- 1:16:46even though males are far more likely to be being followed by someone who intends
- 1:16:50to do some kind of violence to them. But whatever, we're not looking
- 1:16:54at actual situations or measuring people's feelings. Yeah, we're measuring, like,
- 1:16:59do you feel like you're being Like it could be a guy just walking in
- 1:17:01the same direction as a woman but behind her, and she could just decide
- 1:17:05that he's following her. So it's a meaningless yere, it's just meaningless.
- 1:17:10Yeah it is. Okay, So felt physically threatened by a stranger in public
- 1:17:14six percent of men, five percent of women. Okay, uh, none
- 1:17:18of the above. Eighty percent of men, seventy percent of women. And
- 1:17:21again, a lot of this is felt you were being followed. Yeah.
- 1:17:26Generally that means if you felt you were vib you what percentage of women feel
- 1:17:30unsafe? Oh, look look at how high it is. They must actually
- 1:17:33be unsafe. Yeah, I know. And most of that is just like,
- 1:17:38Okay, if you felt you were being followed and it wasn't confirmed that
- 1:17:42you were followed. You weren't being followed. Yeah, just somethinge you just
- 1:17:45felt it, like we can't how can we act on that? That's ridiculous,
- 1:17:50ridiculous, all right? But the thing is that men are basically subject
- 1:17:56to all of this except unwonted sexual comments or jokes from stranger in public.
- 1:18:00Are the jokes sexual or are they just jokes? Okay, that's not specified.
- 1:18:10If I don't like them, then they were sexual and I hate and
- 1:18:13you should go to jail, jail right away. Okay. Thinking of your
- 1:18:17personal safety, how unsafe or unsafe would you feel walking on your own during
- 1:18:24the day on a quiet street? Uh? Men forty four percent, women
- 1:18:29thirty percent. Uh. I don't know why women think they're so unsafe.
- 1:18:36Well, I do, because they're subject to constant fear mongering campaigns. But
- 1:18:41if you're a woman listening to this, you are actually safer than a man.
- 1:18:45You should consider offering to escort a man home because your presence will likely
- 1:18:50prevent him from being attacked. I know that does that blow people's minds?
- 1:18:58Okay, thinking of your own personal safety and so this isn't not this prooves
- 1:19:02nothing. It proves that their campaigns of fear are working. Yep, that's
- 1:19:08what it proves. If anything. Yeah, that's like horrible, very unsafe.
- 1:19:19Would you feel walking on your own? Okay? So very unsafe is
- 1:19:24fifteen percent for men, seventeen percent for women, So it's pretty close.
- 1:19:30Busy public space quiet street ten percent for men, sixteen percent for women.
- 1:19:35Busy public space fifteen percent for men, seventeen percent for women. This is
- 1:19:40very unsafe. I think of a person on your own during the day in
- 1:19:45a park or other open space eleven percent for men, twenty percent for women.
- 1:19:50Why is this? What is the difference between quiet street and an open
- 1:19:56park except all of the real crime, uh, female viction that can't well
- 1:20:02real crime? What it is sort of fictionalized. That just makes women obsessed
- 1:20:06with the idea of being hijacked shanghaied in a park by the white slavers.
- 1:20:14Okay, so what would you do around your you? How would you feel
- 1:20:18using public transport on your own during the day in or around your local area?
- 1:20:23Sixteen percent both men and women unsafe? I wonder why that is.
- 1:20:29In the UK, there's there's a lot of men and women who don't feel
- 1:20:31safe using public transit. Thinking of your personal safety, how safe or unsafe
- 1:20:36would you feel walking on your own after dark in a quiet street close to
- 1:20:41your home, very or fairly unsafe? Thirty three percent of men would be
- 1:20:45fairly feel fairly unsafe and very unsafe, and sixty three Oh, that's fairly
- 1:20:57or very unsafe. Good. This is really confusing the way they described all
- 1:21:01this, But anyway, so it's half the amount of men who feel unsafe
- 1:21:06walking down a dark street. Again, not really born out by the statistics.
- 1:21:14Thinking of your personal safety, how safe or unsafe would you feel walking
- 1:21:17on your okay, on your own after dark in a busy public space such
- 1:21:23as a high street or train station, and keeps going on sixty two percent
- 1:21:27versus fifty seven percent women unsafe? See if there's anything interesting. So basically
- 1:21:35what we've found out from this lovely exercise is that women feel less safe than
- 1:21:41men. Could this be partly biological? Could women feel less safe because their
- 1:21:46hormonal system tends to make them less risk tolerant? I don't know. Probably
- 1:21:55also be because we have been we've been subject inflicting campaign after campaign after campaign
- 1:22:01of fear mongering on men or women for the last couple generations exaggerating their risks
- 1:22:08beyond all proportion. Yes, I would say, so, yeah, yeah.
- 1:22:14You propagandize a population, you make them like absolute neurotic piles of goo,
- 1:22:20and then you survey them and find that they're neurotic piles of goo,
- 1:22:25and then you blame the other half of the population. Well, I mean,
- 1:22:28actually, I'm just wondering if they're going like, hm, wow,
- 1:22:31looks like it's working, like all the yeah, like looking at this and
- 1:22:35they're like, oh, we got some room for improvement. Guys, there's
- 1:22:40still seventy you know, seventy percent of women still feel okay existing, and
- 1:22:45we haven't we haven't done enough damage. It flicked the terror of a movement
- 1:22:50upon these women. Let's get out there, let's let's hit those women.
- 1:22:54Let's hit them hard with the campaigns of terror. Yep. But you know
- 1:22:59they're probably still adding themselves on the bat back because their campaigns are starting to
- 1:23:02see some real good results, lots of women afraid of the world. But
- 1:23:08of course we're gonna blame men for that, because if there's even just one
- 1:23:12man out there being an asshole, it's not the women, not the feminists
- 1:23:17who are promoting that one man, like putting him in like a popemobile and
- 1:23:21taking him on tour. Look at this guy, he's such an asshole.
- 1:23:27He could be in your town. There's only one of him, but maybe
- 1:23:30we could rent him out to your town so he could be in there.
- 1:23:31You should be afraid of him, just one out of a population of seven
- 1:23:38hundred billion. But you know, there is just one that justifies us.
- 1:23:42Terrifying you all, Yeah, yep, you are. If you're a woman
- 1:23:47listening, you are not likely to be raped attacked in public period, much
- 1:23:56less likely than a man. You are far less likely to dive than a
- 1:24:00man. And not all of it is men's looking for trouble. A lot
- 1:24:03of it is criminals prefer to target men, and they prefer to target men
- 1:24:12for the simple fact that nobody's gonna come to his rescue enough. For a
- 1:24:16social species. Part of the power of being a social species is commanding the
- 1:24:23attention and the concern of others. And women do that men do not.
- 1:24:30I mean, would you really, okay, would you rather attack I mean,
- 1:24:35yeah, something. Maybe this is the wrong way to approach it,
- 1:24:41but would you rather attack a guy or a swarm of midgets like a single
- 1:24:46guy ever, swarm of midgets like I'm talking like tons of midgets like I
- 1:24:50didn't, I guess I'm not wouldn't use the word midgets. You already did
- 1:24:55a couple of times. It's okay, we know we don't mean little bit
- 1:25:00dwarves lustful of little people. And you know that the instant you even say
- 1:25:03a word to one of them, all of them are going to pile on
- 1:25:05pile or the one dude is like the same size as you, like,
- 1:25:10which would you rather? I don't know. I mean I think it'd be
- 1:25:15funny to fight a bunch of dwarfs, so I I kind of leaning towards
- 1:25:18that, but I throwing them around, you know, but not consider the
- 1:25:24humor angle. Yeah, I mean, if I'm gonna die, I might
- 1:25:28as well be funny. It might as well be funny. Yeah, God
- 1:25:31better listening to make sure it goes viral too. I want it to be
- 1:25:38everywhere, Yeah, viral. Man murdered by swarm of small people or man
- 1:25:44murdered by swarm of puppies I don't know about. Yeah, that's yeah,
- 1:25:48sure. I think I saw that online and it with a dark soul as
- 1:25:53you died message. But okay, this overload, Okay, all right,
- 1:26:00so we should wrap it up. Yeah yeah, I have to go pick
- 1:26:02up Lindsay soon. So all of this crap, Like I I'm telling you,
- 1:26:06I got a whole bunch of numbers and an Excel sheet. Nobody wants
- 1:26:11to look at that, but I looked at it, and that's what I
- 1:26:14found. They have found that women feel like they're less safe than men.
- 1:26:20Yeah yeah, but you've been You've been telling women that they're less safe than
- 1:26:25men for the last two generations. So what you have found is that terrorizing
- 1:26:32women, your campaigns to terrorize women have worked. Mm hmm. And now
- 1:26:42what we're gonna do now that their campaigns to terrorize women have worked, they're
- 1:26:46gathering the fruits of planting them. And that is all of this legal power
- 1:26:54over the relationship between men and women. Yep, good lord. Okay,
- 1:27:00all right, So you want to say the final things or I want to
- 1:27:08say this, Ladies, you don't need to worry about repelling men to your
- 1:27:12makeup. These people are creating laws that will do that for you. Secondly,
- 1:27:18the women that this are gonna hurt first are the less attractive women.
- 1:27:23Because attractive women will still get men interested in them. No, it doesn't
- 1:27:30matter how many legal legal hurdles you put in. You know, in obstacles
- 1:27:35you put, men will still hurdle them. They're not gonna hurtle them for
- 1:27:39a mid woman. So I guess your possibilities of developing a relationship goodbye if
- 1:27:45you're a seven or lower under this schema. But maybe you don't care.
- 1:27:49Maybe you're one of those individual women who are like, yeah, I'm gonna
- 1:27:51go it alone. I'm gonna be single, I'm gonna have cats, I'm
- 1:27:54gonna date another woman. I don't care that that will increase my odds for
- 1:27:59domestic violence, actual assault doesn't matter to me. And depression, you know,
- 1:28:04mm hmmm, grief like this is just yeah. Is there a positive
- 1:28:13note we can end on? Brian? Uh? Well, I you know,
- 1:28:17I don't want to. Yeah, okay, I got I got something
- 1:28:20I do. I just thought of something. It's not your fault. Guys,
- 1:28:23if you were starting to be repelled from this from dating women approaching women
- 1:28:29like that's it's totally acceptable. If that is your response to this situation,
- 1:28:34Go ahead, Brian, Oh that was what I was gonna say. It's
- 1:28:38not your fault. Shit, yeah, I was gonna say that, but
- 1:28:42you said it's okay. You say it. You said you you yoinked it.
- 1:28:45No, No, it's you. You said it. Just fine,
- 1:28:47that's okay. You didn't know it's all right, Yeah, obviously, guys,
- 1:28:51it's this has nothing to do with you. And I know that.
- 1:28:53You guys know that already, and I and I actually think that based on
- 1:28:57the data, most women don't believe this. They just you know, at
- 1:29:01least according to the data. So just you know, stay the course,
- 1:29:08don't let them get you down, and don't give them your I don't know,
- 1:29:14don't give them your soul. I guess you know, Yeah, don't
- 1:29:16don't let them dictate to you who you are at the issue. Okay,
- 1:29:20even if the majority, let's say sixty percent of women are like, what
- 1:29:24the hell is this nonsense? No, just keep approaching us, don't follow
- 1:29:28except to know whatever reasonable boundaries. Okay, even if sixty percent. All
- 1:29:35right, Let's see a man goes up to a woman in public, and
- 1:29:39then there's a forty percent chance that he's going to find the woman who's like,
- 1:29:44this is your compliment. You complimented the bow in my Yorkshire terriers hair,
- 1:29:48that's misogynist abuse. Go to jail for a year like that. The
- 1:29:55odds are too high to risk it at this point, at least in the
- 1:30:01UK. I don't know what the situation is in the in the USA.
- 1:30:05And maybe people from the UK will comment they'bly like a, well, we're
- 1:30:09not gonna be Yeah, I don't. I don't see them making that illegal
- 1:30:12here yet because we have like the first Amendments. But who knows. You
- 1:30:16know, nothing is like amendments and rights only matter if you protect them.
- 1:30:21So who knows the rights only matter when they don't harm women or can't be
- 1:30:27framed a harm because that narrative can literally take away all of your rights.
- 1:30:32That is like, this is the right annihilating narrative. Mm hmmm, violence
- 1:30:38against women. Women have it worse. Women are subject to some harm over
- 1:30:44there because of your free speech. Well guess what you have. They they're
- 1:30:47just bringing out the brief that is the narrative that can remove every single one
- 1:30:51of your rights, even if you're a woman. That's what's astounding about it.
- 1:30:56Yep, yep, yeah, okay, all right, So if you
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- 1:32:34the next video and have a great Thanksgiving everybody. I might be doing a
- 1:32:39call. I'm trying to do a call in show. Oh, I got
- 1:32:41another thing, hold on, I got one more super Chow and then I'm
- 1:32:45gonna leave for sure. So great. Indoors gives us ten dollars and says
- 1:32:50greetings from Italy. I was having dinner with three of my colleagues this night,
- 1:32:55and at some point the topic came on unwanted sexual advances by women who
- 1:33:00of them had stories about getting into a situation with a woman. They both
- 1:33:03refuse the woman's blatant sexual solicitation, mostly because they were shocked. Apparently the
- 1:33:09women in question thought the men would simply accept their offer. I also had
- 1:33:14such an encounter once, which makes three out of four. All right,
- 1:33:17wow, that well misinterest abuse. Yeah, you should call the cops for
- 1:33:23all three of those women. You call the police for daring to presume upon
- 1:33:29the sexuality of a man and their yep. And if that doesn't work,
- 1:33:33just say excuse me, ma'am, but I'm gay and this is triggering for
- 1:33:38me. Go to jail all right, So anyway, hi to jail away.
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