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Stop Reacting And Start Reflecting · The Brain’s Body Podcast: The Brain Is the Body

• 0:02
  SPEAKER_00: Welcome to the Brain's Body Podcast.
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  SPEAKER_00: I'm your host, Dr.
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  SPEAKER_00: Christopher K.
• 0:07
  SPEAKER_00: Slayton.
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  SPEAKER_00: And today we're talking about the brain and the body, but with emphasis on understanding the crisis itself.
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  SPEAKER_00: I talk about it a lot because a lot of people have difficulty taking in contact and processing that information because they're hurt.
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  SPEAKER_00: And what I mean by hurt, I mean that your sense path is reacting to contact.
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  SPEAKER_00: And you find it very, very difficult to move through that emotion.
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  SPEAKER_00: And what I'm talking about is that you know it because your brain's talking to you and telling you not again.
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  SPEAKER_00: Because when you react, the brain's first step is to catch up, get you to reflect.
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  SPEAKER_00: You have to reflect forward.
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  SPEAKER_00: And in forward feed is insight.
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  SPEAKER_00: So today I'm talking about the brain and the body, but I'm talking about it because there are so many situations, like you go into the supermarket, and for some reason this person just walks in front of you.
• 1:08
  SPEAKER_00: And not only walks in front of you, turns around and says, Why don't you go back to where you came from?
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  SPEAKER_00: And it's all to incite you because that is the behavior system.
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  SPEAKER_00: You trigger the stimulus and you react.
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  SPEAKER_00: The stimulus and you react.
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  SPEAKER_00: No, it's no mistake that many people are in crises because you're born into the breath of life emotionally.
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  SPEAKER_00: And as you move from the breath of life to the experience, thinking takes over.
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  SPEAKER_00: That's the brain.
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  SPEAKER_00: And the brain has to catch up with the body.
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  SPEAKER_00: So many of us never mature because the emotion that we were born with never maturated into thought, reflection, insight, discipline, focus.
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  SPEAKER_00: Where you begin to control and manage yourself, and no one has to do this for you, but you gotta learn how to sense, to feel, to focus, how you receive information, contact, interaction, and how you transfer that to thinking.
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  SPEAKER_00: Pause for a moment.
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  SPEAKER_00: You can feel what I'm saying.
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  SPEAKER_00: Your brain is talking to you, and it's your sense of feel for self.
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  SPEAKER_00: You have this innate ability inside of you to feel what you're experiencing.
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  SPEAKER_00: So you know when you react, you have to follow through.
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  SPEAKER_00: And some of us are able to follow through because we have discipline.
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  SPEAKER_00: And that discipline comes from being informed, that reflection, allowing that reflection to come forward so we can analyze the consequences, the before, the consequences as we hit the floor because we're so upset.
• 2:52
  SPEAKER_00: No, not again.
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  SPEAKER_00: What do I do to stop myself from doing that over and over and over again?
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  SPEAKER_00: Self-destructing.
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  SPEAKER_00: No, doing the same thing that you did yesterday when you said yesterday, I'm not doing this again.
• 3:06
  SPEAKER_00: We're talking about brain talk.
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  SPEAKER_00: We're talking about the brain's body.
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  SPEAKER_00: We're talking about how do you regain a sense of feel for self that focuses the brain and the body so senses become more organized.
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  SPEAKER_00: Your ears, your nose, your mouth, all those innate skills are one module of messaging moving at you simultaneously.
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  SPEAKER_00: So when you're crises, you ignore that.
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  SPEAKER_00: You ignore that your brain's talking to you and you just go off.
• 3:37
  SPEAKER_00: I mean, I'm talking about people, I got a daughter, curses all the time.
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  SPEAKER_00: And I had to say that.
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  SPEAKER_00: Curses all the time.
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  SPEAKER_00: I mean, just for no apparent reason, just totally upset.
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  SPEAKER_00: Why?
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  SPEAKER_00: Because it happened.
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  SPEAKER_00: What happened?
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  SPEAKER_00: Something happened.
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  SPEAKER_00: See, I come from a blended family.
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  SPEAKER_00: So something happened.
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  SPEAKER_00: It was before me, but something happened.
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  SPEAKER_00: And I'm looking at how the brain and the body do not connect.
• 4:03
  SPEAKER_00: Because if the brain connects with the body, you stop yourself from cursing and hurting yourself because we're talking about how do you make money if you can't talk properly to other people?
• 4:15
  SPEAKER_00: You're at work, you're cussing people out.
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  SPEAKER_00: Doesn't make sense.
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  SPEAKER_00: We're talking about brain talk.
• 4:21
  SPEAKER_00: We're talking about the brain and the leader of the body.
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  SPEAKER_00: Dr.
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  SPEAKER_00: Slayton Lie, be right back.
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  SPEAKER_00: What time is it?
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  unknown: Dr.
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  SPEAKER_00: Slate and Lye, the brain talker.
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  SPEAKER_00: It's time to learn how to talk to the brain.
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  SPEAKER_00: And the reason why you talk to the brain and not the body, because you're trying to connect that sense of feel for you to their brain.
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  SPEAKER_00: And if you can't do that, you walk away because it's useless.
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  SPEAKER_00: You get the same behavior pattern over and over and over again because the stimulus, the behavior system, is you you're aroused and you react because you're emotional.
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  SPEAKER_00: But you don't call it emotion, you call it something else passion, whatever.
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  SPEAKER_00: No, it's emotion.
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  SPEAKER_00: And your brain is not caught up to you, and that's why you're not maturing, because you refuse to reflect on the experience of self.
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  SPEAKER_00: Bam! That's when you realize what you're doing wrong.
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  SPEAKER_00: And you know I have to change.
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  SPEAKER_00: So what do you do?
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  SPEAKER_00: You grab a sense, a feel for the experience of self with the brain, the lead of the body, let the brain send that forward feed, that thought reflection, accept it.
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  SPEAKER_00: It's me.
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  SPEAKER_00: I'm screwing up the crisis itself.
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  SPEAKER_00: I'm screwing up, it's on me, not you, it's on me.
• 5:49
  SPEAKER_00: Wait a minute, what are we talking about?
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  SPEAKER_00: We're talking about when the brain rotates in the lead of the body, then you have information processing, discipline, and focus.
• 6:01
  SPEAKER_00: Because you have to understand how to manage yourself in these crisis situations.
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  SPEAKER_00: And I'm not talking to anybody, I'm still telling my daughter, but I don't want to say her name.
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  SPEAKER_00: I will say her name, but I'm not gonna say her name because it's upsetting when you have a kid who has never matured.
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  SPEAKER_00: It's very upsetting.
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  SPEAKER_00: So I talk about this growing body senses from the experience, you know, having children and and and and watching them come through zero to 18, and then what do they become next?
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  SPEAKER_00: No, no, no, very successful, but just can't control that emotion.
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  SPEAKER_00: And that's that's why you cannot stabilize yourself in the economy because you cannot calm yourself down.
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  SPEAKER_00: You can't be cool, you can't collect that sense of feel because you've lost it.
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  SPEAKER_00: What happened?
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  SPEAKER_00: That's what I'm saying.
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  SPEAKER_00: What happened?
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  SPEAKER_00: Let's figure this out.
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  SPEAKER_00: What happened?
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  SPEAKER_00: I'll be back shortly.
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  SPEAKER_00: Brains Body Podcast.
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  SPEAKER_00: Stay tuned.
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  SPEAKER_00: This is a new fresh one.
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  SPEAKER_00: Turn it over.
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  SPEAKER_00: Dr.
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  SPEAKER_00: Slayton Live, Dr.
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  SPEAKER_00: Slayton Live.
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  SPEAKER_00: Thank you very much.