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Is Living With Your Parents A Red Flag? · Billy & Lisa in the Morning

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  Speaker 1: Now this morning show in Boston.
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  Speaker 2: Billy and Lisa in the morning. Just a great start
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  Speaker 2: to my day on Kids one of eight.
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  Speaker 3: Well, good morning, everybody. Welcome into the Billy and Lisa
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  Speaker 3: Morning Show. It is a Wednesday morning. We will get
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  Speaker 3: some rain this morning, right Lisa.
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  Speaker 2: It's headed at our way.
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  Speaker 4: Yeah, and then it will clear out by this afternoon
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  Speaker 4: we'll have some sun and it'll be in the sixties.
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  Speaker 3: Well, so we're gonna have a Sunday day once we
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  Speaker 3: get through this rain, which unfortunately comes during the morning
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  Speaker 3: drive exactly. Okay, We've got jingle Ball tickets this morning,
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  Speaker 3: seven ten and a ten that means two shots at
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  Speaker 3: the one hundred eight thousand dollars a jackpot.
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  Speaker 1: And by the.
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  Speaker 3: Way, coming up at six point forty this morning, we
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  Speaker 3: will celebrate Jaylen Brown because the Celts have for the
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  Speaker 3: first game of the new season tonight in the TD
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  Speaker 3: Garden against the Sixers. It's Jaylen Brown Day in Boston
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  Speaker 3: this Friday, and it's also his birthday.
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  Speaker 2: Well it's well deserved. He does a lot for the community.
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  Speaker 3: And we're going to give back to Jalen exactly at
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  Speaker 3: six forty this morning, because he's always giving back to
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  Speaker 3: Boston and Lisa, you had another pack house last night
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  Speaker 3: the book club.
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  Speaker 4: There were no seats left and we were in a
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  Speaker 4: furniture store, so all the seats, all the chairs, everything
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  Speaker 4: was being you know, used last night at josson Maine
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  Speaker 4: and Burlington, which is, by the way, a beautiful, beautiful store,
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  Speaker 4: all decked out for the holidays.
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  Speaker 3: That's even better than the sellout that you have no
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  Speaker 3: seats in a furniture store.
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  Speaker 2: Exactly.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah.
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  Speaker 4: But of course there were no seats because we had
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  Speaker 4: Ellen Hildebrand, who is just an amazing novelist person, fun
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  Speaker 4: guests to have. Everyone loves her, and we were talking
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  Speaker 4: about her new book, The Academy, which she wrote with
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  Speaker 4: her daughter Shelby.
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  Speaker 1: That must have been fun. I know. We get some
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  Speaker 1: people that were there.
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  Speaker 2: Hey morning, Jeams, it's Amanda.
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  Speaker 5: I'm on my way to work and I just thought
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  Speaker 5: I would.
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  Speaker 6: Call in to say that last night's book club event
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  Speaker 6: was awesome.
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  Speaker 7: It was my first ever and I really hope to
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  Speaker 7: get to some more of them in the future.
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  Speaker 8: Lisa, you did.
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  Speaker 7: A great job and Ellen was funny as usual.
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  Speaker 5: Thanks for doing what you do now.
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  Speaker 1: You had a newbie there last night.
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  Speaker 4: We had a lot of newbies, which was amazing, so
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  Speaker 4: many new faces and Somemog's too.
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  Speaker 2: So we just we just had a packed house, a
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  Speaker 2: lot of fun.
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  Speaker 4: We raised a lot of money for raising a Reader
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  Speaker 4: Massachusetts again and so.
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  Speaker 3: The winning streak is alive. Another sold out, another packed house.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, it was really And you've got one this week,
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  Speaker 2: another one I do.
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  Speaker 4: I have Jeff Benedict who did my book club about
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  Speaker 4: six months ago.
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  Speaker 2: We were at the review for.
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  Speaker 4: That one, and he's back. He wrote the Dynasty and
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  Speaker 4: the Tiger Woods book, the Lebron book.
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  Speaker 2: He's a sports right now. But we'll be down in Hartford.
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  Speaker 4: So if you guys want to come, if you know
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  Speaker 4: people that are in Hartford or in you know sort
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  Speaker 4: of that you know down eighty four.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, what did they do if they want to go
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  Speaker 1: to Hartford?
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  Speaker 4: This just DM me and I'll put you on my list.
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  Speaker 4: But Jeff is amazing. He's coming out with a Tom
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  Speaker 4: Cruise book, so we're going to feel a lot about that.
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  Speaker 2: No one's written about Tom Cruise.
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  Speaker 1: Oh is he kind of right about the scientology?
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  Speaker 4: Yes, he's writing about everything. So the book's coming out
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  Speaker 4: in twenty twenty six. He'll be back in Boston for that.
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  Speaker 4: But we just have a lot to talk about with
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  Speaker 4: the Patriots and now the Rabel's there and what's going
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  Speaker 4: on with Belichick, and he always has some great insight
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  Speaker 4: on all that kind of stuff.
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  Speaker 2: So if you want to meet Jeff, you know, just
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  Speaker 2: come to Hartford.
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  Speaker 3: And since the last time you had him on, the
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  Speaker 3: Celtics have been on it. I mean, the brother Patriots
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  Speaker 3: have been on an incredible winning street. Yeah, number one
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  Speaker 3: in the f Yeah.
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  Speaker 4: So that's this Thursday from sixth staight at Farmington Gardens,
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  Speaker 4: which is a beautiful event space. And then I'm back
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  Speaker 4: at the Newbery on November sixth with Marissa Melzer but
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  Speaker 4: that's completely sold out.
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  Speaker 3: Well, that's quite a tour, yeah, the Lisa Book Club tour.
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  Speaker 3: Justin you have an update from over the borders in
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  Speaker 3: New Hampshire with those chickens of yours.
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  Speaker 1: You're now urinating in the yard I heard thanks to
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  Speaker 1: our listeners. Yeah, the raccoons did not come as far
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  Speaker 1: as I can see. Last night. We had seven the
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  Speaker 1: other night. A lot of our listeners is recommended coyote
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  Speaker 1: urine and human urine around the chicken coop. So my
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  Speaker 1: wife got the coyote Urin put it around the coop.
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  Speaker 1: I did urinate myself to protect them. A coyote justin cocktail.
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  Speaker 1: It's just the more the better to protect the poor
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  Speaker 1: chickens because God forbid something happens. I don't know what
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  Speaker 1: I would do. I don't see any other ring camera.
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  Speaker 2: Lisa, you'd have to buy more chickens.
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  Speaker 1: Well, yeah, clean out the coop.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah you worked that.
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  Speaker 1: The urine worked, I guess so yeah. No, I got
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  Speaker 1: no alerts, no text I looked at the video to
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  Speaker 1: the last night, no animals, so there's that.
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  Speaker 6: Hey, it's Sarah from mein Lisa, thank you again for
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  Speaker 6: another lovely book club event. And Justin, I saw you
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  Speaker 6: took my suggestion and bought the coyote urine. So does
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  Speaker 6: that make me a wildlife urine influencer. If ll Bean's
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  Speaker 6: motto is be an outsider, maybe my motto can be.
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  Speaker 1: P and outsider.
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  Speaker 6: I'll have to clearly workshop that anyway, Thanks again Lisa
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  Speaker 6: for last night, and I hope you.
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  Speaker 7: All have a great day. Love you bye.
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  Speaker 1: I think we're all gonna come up and pee in the.
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  Speaker 9: Art from the Planet Fitness Kids one of eight studios.
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  Speaker 2: We're back with Billy and Lisa in the morning.
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  Speaker 3: So at least I want to get clear on today's weather.
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  Speaker 3: It could get messy this morning, but nice this afternoon.
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  Speaker 2: Right, so you're gonna have to pack for both.
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  Speaker 4: Yeah, rain showers throughout the morning and then clearing out
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  Speaker 4: some of this afternoon attempts in the sixties.
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  Speaker 1: Okay.
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  Speaker 3: Meantime, the Celt's going to open the season in the
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  Speaker 3: TD Garden tonight with the Sixers. It's a seven thirty
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  Speaker 3: tip off. Coach Joe Missoula on the new season.
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  Speaker 10: Conn asks for a better preseason up until today, and
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  Speaker 10: now you know we go into you know, a season
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  Speaker 10: where there's every flowy.
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  Speaker 1: Changes and challenges and opportunities, and we have to fight
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  Speaker 1: to keep that identity on both us the floor. Let's go.
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  Speaker 3: Jaylen Brown questionable for tonight's game with the hamstring injury.
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  Speaker 3: But it is a big week for our buddy Jalen Brown.
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  Speaker 3: He turns twenty nine years old this coming Friday. Friday
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  Speaker 3: has been declared Jalen Brown Day in the City of Boston.
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  Speaker 3: At least you want to read part of that proclamation
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  Speaker 3: he posted.
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  Speaker 4: Yes, Whereas Jalen Brown's off court contributions to Boston outshine
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  Speaker 4: his on court resume, including launching multiple businesses such as
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  Speaker 4: Juice seven four seven, which have both opened retail stores
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  Speaker 4: in Boston and cultivated local talent, and whereas the Juice
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  Speaker 4: Foundation focuses its work on bridging the gap in underserved
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  Speaker 4: communities by offering programs for youth ranging from financial literacy
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  Speaker 4: to leadership and activism.
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  Speaker 3: Don't forget He also speaks at Harvard on a pretty
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  Speaker 3: irregular schedule, and Jalen Brown talks about his drive to
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  Speaker 3: accomplish so much and give back so much.
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  Speaker 11: I was taught principles and values of moral compass that
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  Speaker 11: you have internally. You know, there's a there's laws that
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  Speaker 11: we follow and a bye as citizens, and then there's
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  Speaker 11: like universal laws that you know, you could feel internally
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  Speaker 11: what's the right thing to do or what's the wrong
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  Speaker 11: thing to do, regardless of what the circumstance is. And
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  Speaker 11: I've always my family has always guided us to have
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  Speaker 11: that strong moral compass regardless of somebody's looking, somebody's not looking.
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  Speaker 11: So I don't know where it came from. I don't know,
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  Speaker 11: you know, it's just been a part of who I've
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  Speaker 11: been and who I am.
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  Speaker 3: Such a nice guy. Keep in mind, Jalen is a
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  Speaker 3: fourth time All Star. He helped lead the Celtics to
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  Speaker 3: their eighteenth NBA championship in twenty twenty four.
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  Speaker 1: He got the finals MVP.
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  Speaker 3: By the way and hard to believe, but Jalen has
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  Speaker 3: been with the Celtics for ten years now.
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  Speaker 1: Crazy and he talks about coming to Boston for the
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  Speaker 1: first time and what he was.
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  Speaker 11: Thinking all of the stuff that you hear about Boston
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  Speaker 11: on the way in. I didn't know what to think,
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  Speaker 11: you know, so I was quiet. I kind of like
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  Speaker 11: was just kind of observing but coming in, like if
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  Speaker 11: I would be honest, like this is I had never
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  Speaker 11: been to Boston really before. I didn't know much anybody here,
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  Speaker 11: so I was a little bit afraid, but like it
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  Speaker 11: what helped me a lot. I used to hang out
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  Speaker 11: on Harvard's campus a lot, Coach Amacker, because I just
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  Speaker 11: had got out of I just got out of college
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  Speaker 11: at UC Berkeley. Coach Amacker. I made friends with some
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  Speaker 11: of the guys at Harvard and he would let me,
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  Speaker 11: like he would let like the people know, like Jalen's
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  Speaker 11: gonna be hanging out on campus, I'll be at Felipe's
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  Speaker 11: I'll be working out in the gym. He just let
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  Speaker 11: me kind of hang out be in his office. And
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  Speaker 11: I had been used to a college environment because that's
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  Speaker 11: where I just came from. I was in college, so
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  Speaker 11: having that environment be extended to me helped me get
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  Speaker 11: more comfortable. So shout out to coach Amicker for that.
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  Speaker 11: But that helped me a lot.
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  Speaker 1: So hard to believe. Yeah, DJ pup Dog from Jamming
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  Speaker 1: Down the Hall was at the event last night, right, Yeah,
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  Speaker 1: he was there for the problem. He posted some good
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  Speaker 1: pictures and videos. Jason Tatum was there. I popped out
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  Speaker 1: with a lot of work with his Jews Foundation and
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  Speaker 1: you know, sneakers and everything. But yeah, it looked really cool.
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  Speaker 1: Now a lot of people probably know, maybe not that
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  Speaker 1: Jalen Brown is wicked smart. Oh yeah, Like he gives
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  Speaker 1: lectures at Harvard and MIT. He's a very good chess player. Well,
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  Speaker 1: Bill Kny the science guy, is his all time idol. Yeah,
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  Speaker 1: so much so that when he was getting draft for
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  Speaker 1: you know, getting drafted, a lot of teams passed on
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  Speaker 1: him because they thought he was too smart and that
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  Speaker 1: he would get bored playing basketball, And luckily the Celtics
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  Speaker 1: got him, so He's just a cool dude.
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  Speaker 9: Man.
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  Speaker 1: I always think about he came into this building one
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  Speaker 1: time to talk about one of his events, maybe the
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  Speaker 1: Jews Foundation. Yeah, yeah, And typically when these athletes artists
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  Speaker 1: come in, they have a huge entourage with them. So
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  Speaker 1: I got the call a text that he was here.
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  Speaker 1: So I went out to the to our you know,
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  Speaker 1: third floor of the door, and he wasn't there. So
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  Speaker 1: I texted the bag and said, he's not here. You know,
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  Speaker 1: he's down in the lobby. So I go down there
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  Speaker 1: and he's just sitting by himself in the chair. As
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  Speaker 1: people were walking around, they had no idea it was him,
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  Speaker 1: no manager, no agent, Jalen on the couch, and I
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  Speaker 1: got to walk up with him, getting the elevator with him,
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  Speaker 1: chat with him all the way up. He came on.
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  Speaker 1: He was fantastic, so nice, took pictures. Just a really
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  Speaker 1: soft spoken but really good dude. Yeah.
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  Speaker 2: He's so calming his voice. I could listen to it
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  Speaker 2: all day.
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  Speaker 3: Oh yeah, and so committed to health and fitness. You
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  Speaker 3: might wonder what's his secrets.
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  Speaker 11: Fascinating. That's one of the best forms of resetting your body,
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  Speaker 11: resetting your spirit, getting in an alignment when you fast
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  Speaker 11: for certain periods of time, your nervous system resets, your
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  Speaker 11: gut biome resets. You push all the bacteria, the bad
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  Speaker 11: bacteria levels no drop and so many times like what's
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  Speaker 11: in our stomachs has an effect on our emotions and feelings,
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  Speaker 11: like we don't understand, like the bacteria that is in you,
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  Speaker 11: it craves sugar, it craves stress, it craves all of
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  Speaker 11: these different things. It can hijack your nervous system. It's
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  Speaker 11: your second brain. So being able to fast kind of
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  Speaker 11: recess the levels in your second brain that allows you
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  Speaker 11: to get back to the discipline or the version of
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  Speaker 11: you that you want to be.
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  Speaker 3: Like we said, he's very smart, I'm so hungry, I
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  Speaker 3: could ride a horse.
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  Speaker 1: It's really fasting is really really good for you. I
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  Speaker 1: do internet fasting off and on. I think he does
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  Speaker 1: serious fasting though, like one to two days, maybe even
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  Speaker 1: three or four days. Some people do five days only water.
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  Speaker 1: So happy birthday to Jalen Brown. Congrats Jalen Brown, good
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  Speaker 1: luck on the new season. And remember Jalen if you
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  Speaker 1: need any help, We're always here.
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  Speaker 11: Billy and Lisa when we're bawling, Billy and Lisa in
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  Speaker 11: the morning.
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  Speaker 12: Morning, it's the Mayor of the South. Then you know,
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  Speaker 12: Halloween is fast approaching, so I want everybody to start
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  Speaker 12: thinking about costumes. I am working on mine. It's either
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  Speaker 12: going to be Carmen, Miranda or a showgirl. And with that,
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  Speaker 12: I have a Halloween joke. What is a ghost? Favorite drink?
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  Speaker 12: Anything with booze in it?
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  Speaker 2: To everyone?
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  Speaker 3: I have one.
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  Speaker 1: It's like even the corniest joke that he tells you,
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  Speaker 1: you feel like you just laugh? I know, does he
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  Speaker 1: come up with that's so funny? Yeah? Do you have
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  Speaker 1: your costumes? We were going to do the Cast of Severance,
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  Speaker 1: but then we lost our Dylan, So now we were
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  Speaker 1: all out on costumes. Yeah, what are we going to do? Now?
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  Speaker 1: Mine came in Amazon brought mine to the house. Yes,
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  Speaker 1: oh yes, you are a mosquito catcher.
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  Speaker 3: Yes, Michelle is a giant mosquito and I am, well
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  Speaker 3: basically a human fly swatter.
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  Speaker 2: Right, Okay, I like that.
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  Speaker 1: Okay, I mean you know all right, Lisa, do you
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  Speaker 1: have yours?
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  Speaker 4: The problem is is that I'm going to go as
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  Speaker 4: a wedding guest because I have to go to a
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  Speaker 4: wedding that weekend. I want to go to the rehearsal dinner,
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  Speaker 4: and then I have to go to my goddaughter's wedding
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  Speaker 4: on November first in Pennsylvani.
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  Speaker 1: What about for the office Halloween party.
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  Speaker 2: I'm working on it. Okay, nothing yet, Yeah, I'll do something.
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  Speaker 3: So even though we're not doing a morning show ensemble,
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  Speaker 3: you're still going to go solo and face the boycott.
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  Speaker 2: Yep, as usual.
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  Speaker 1: I got to stare it right down. Yeah, you know,
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  Speaker 1: well defy the boycott if you if you need some ideas, lease,
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  Speaker 1: we're here for you. Why don't you come down.
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  Speaker 13: The girl's costume wesh, we got every kind of girl's
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  Speaker 13: past room for Halloween, Sexy week, sexy devil, sexy cat,
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  Speaker 13: we got literally every girl's costume in the tie goddamn universe.
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  Speaker 1: There you go, happy Halloween. Oh man, Yeah, I don't
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  Speaker 1: have a costume yet. I usually just put on a mask. No,
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  Speaker 1: you've got to go all out. Your kids are ripe,
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  Speaker 1: they're the perfect age. Yeah. No, I mean I'll put
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  Speaker 1: on something scary. But my son's going to be He
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  Speaker 1: has two costumes, both from Squid Game. Oh boy. Yeah,
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  Speaker 1: he's like violent. Yeah, but he watches the lot, the
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  Speaker 1: reality version of it. Yeah, not the rail one, the
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  Speaker 1: rail one. There's too much.
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  Speaker 2: I had to turn it off.
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  Speaker 1: It's way too much.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, well, at least good luck at the Halloween party.
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  Speaker 1: We know you're not gonna win. I know you're not
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  Speaker 1: gonna have Lisa, Okay, yeah, let's paint a picture. Okay.
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  Speaker 3: Here at the office, tradition has it that everybody in
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  Speaker 3: the building, well most of the people, dress up, and
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  Speaker 3: then there's a big parade, the Grand Costume Parade. And
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  Speaker 3: for years Lisa spent days on her costume and looked perfect.
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  Speaker 4: Well because I wanted to represent the Morning Show, because
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  Speaker 4: no one else enters the costume contest but me.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah, and you clearly had the best costume by far
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  Speaker 3: every single year, but never even placed. I know.
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  Speaker 4: I thought the Barbie on the roller blades, I thought
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  Speaker 4: that would put me over those.
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  Speaker 1: There was a lot. There was a Kim Kardashian, Sabrina Carpenter. Oh,
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  Speaker 1: there's been several.
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  Speaker 4: Yeah.
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  Speaker 1: Well, the problem is that the sales the sales department,
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  Speaker 1: marketing depart and all them outnumber the on air department.
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  Speaker 1: Very true, right, way more people. It's a voting system,
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  Speaker 1: and there are prizes up for grabs that are usually
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  Speaker 1: pretty good. Yeah, the fixes in every Why don't you
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  Speaker 1: be a K pop demon?
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  Speaker 14: Hut?
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  Speaker 2: Well, I've always been on brand with you know, the
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  Speaker 2: radio station. Maybe I should just go off brand. There's
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  Speaker 2: something crazy.
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  Speaker 1: Do something crazy? Yeah? Who was the winner last year?
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  Speaker 1: I forget wasn't Who was it? I am the winner
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  Speaker 1: of the costume contest? Is Wendy? Come on up.
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  Speaker 9: From the Planet Fitness Kiss one o eight studios.
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  Speaker 4: We're back with a Villy and Lisa in the morning, and.
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  Speaker 3: We've got a pair of tickets to the jingle Ball
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  Speaker 3: completely sold out. Edgeharon is our headliner this year and
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  Speaker 3: we need to call her twenty five.
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  Speaker 1: The keyword is going to be amusement. Amusement is the keyword.
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  Speaker 3: We'll take caller twenty five right now at six one seven, nine,
• 15:51
  Speaker 3: three one eight.
• 15:54
  Speaker 1: Really, Lisa, Now.
• 15:56
  Speaker 4: The entertainment update with a Billy Constay.
• 16:01
  Speaker 3: So Travis Kelcey just brought up at nine percent steak
• 16:04
  Speaker 3: in six Flags. When it was announced six Flags stock
• 16:08
  Speaker 3: jumped as much as fifteen percent. Yeah, and let's face it,
• 16:12
  Speaker 3: the Kealthy Brothers longtime fans of six Flags.
• 16:15
  Speaker 1: Yeah, we did go to Stutter Part a lot just
• 16:17
  Speaker 1: about once or twice a year. For those of you
• 16:19
  Speaker 1: that don't know, Oh yeah, we gotta lay the loft.
• 16:22
  Speaker 1: Sater Point is roller Coaster USA.
• 16:25
  Speaker 8: It has been the premier roller coaster amusement park in
• 16:30
  Speaker 8: the country at least one I think he works.
• 16:33
  Speaker 3: So a couple of minutes ago, off the air, Justin,
• 16:36
  Speaker 3: I turned to Lisa and done him and I said,
• 16:37
  Speaker 3: least have you ever been to Six Flags?
• 16:39
  Speaker 1: And what did you say? Liz?
• 16:41
  Speaker 4: I said, yeah, that's where Ronnie ALBERTI pulled my pants down.
• 16:44
  Speaker 2: Okay, when I was in high school.
• 16:47
  Speaker 1: You dropped your jaws, he did.
• 16:48
  Speaker 2: We were standing in line, Yeah, had like a bunch
• 16:51
  Speaker 2: of friends.
• 16:52
  Speaker 1: It was.
• 16:52
  Speaker 4: I was horrified, But that definitely means he's what he did.
• 16:57
  Speaker 2: That's my memory.
• 16:58
  Speaker 1: So he just walked up from behind.
• 17:01
  Speaker 2: Pants me core memory like, wow, we'll never leave me.
• 17:06
  Speaker 3: I gotta be honest, Justin, when I said at least
• 17:08
  Speaker 3: have ever been a six Flags?
• 17:10
  Speaker 1: That wasn't the answer. I expecting that today's today's world. Yeah,
• 17:15
  Speaker 1: that's he got a register for that one. This a
• 17:17
  Speaker 1: cool one.
• 17:18
  Speaker 3: Somebody online did a mashup of Taylor Swiss Elizabeth Taylor
• 17:22
  Speaker 3: and the Backstreet Boys song Everybody aj from The Backstreet
• 17:26
  Speaker 3: Boys then reposted it, and Taylor connected rather commented, oh
• 17:32
  Speaker 3: my god, she loves it.
• 17:34
  Speaker 1: Here's a clip right here. It's really good.
• 17:38
  Speaker 3: No, there's no chance it'll become an official song, right like,
• 17:42
  Speaker 3: it's just like an internet mashup.
• 17:44
  Speaker 1: I love it, but actually it could if the Backstreet
• 17:46
  Speaker 1: Boys and Taylor both you know, they have the licensing
• 17:48
  Speaker 1: for the music. Yeah, they could. I like it.
• 17:51
  Speaker 2: That's a good one.
• 17:52
  Speaker 3: Yeah, the matches perfectly slaps does We announced yesterday AJ
• 17:56
  Speaker 3: has a new album coming out in November. Other Taylor
• 18:01
  Speaker 3: News Swifties are convinced that Taylor is going to sit
• 18:04
  Speaker 3: down with Call Her Daddy or Real soon in some
• 18:06
  Speaker 3: sort of a subtle tease. Apparently that shut up online.
• 18:10
  Speaker 3: It's not going to be today because Posh Spice.
• 18:14
  Speaker 1: Is on Call Her Daddy today. Aria, she's all over
• 18:17
  Speaker 1: the circuit. Huh.
• 18:18
  Speaker 4: Yeah, Well she has a Netflix show out, yeah yeah,
• 18:21
  Speaker 4: and she's working it somehow.
• 18:23
  Speaker 3: She discovered a personality yeah, all of a sudden on
• 18:26
  Speaker 3: this talk show circuit, which is cool.
• 18:28
  Speaker 1: I think she's a cool lady. Yeah. The Taylor Swift's
• 18:31
  Speaker 1: social management team that handles all of her social replied
• 18:34
  Speaker 1: to a fan tweet yesterday and said something along the
• 18:38
  Speaker 1: lines of are you calling her daddy? So that's why
• 18:40
  Speaker 1: they're running with this, So who knows, maybe next week.
• 18:43
  Speaker 1: I wouldn't be surprised me either, Me either.
• 18:46
  Speaker 3: Meantime, Charlie Pooth was on Fallon last night talking for
• 18:50
  Speaker 3: the first time about the baby on the way.
• 18:53
  Speaker 10: On Thursday, also released the music video for Changes that
• 18:57
  Speaker 10: that's got a lot of people talking.
• 18:58
  Speaker 1: I feel like I know what you're gonna ask.
• 19:00
  Speaker 10: Well, does it there's a there's a part in the
• 19:02
  Speaker 10: video where you and your beautiful wife Brooke are dancing
• 19:05
  Speaker 10: together and you're both holding her tummy.
• 19:11
  Speaker 1: I didn't leave much up to the imagination.
• 19:14
  Speaker 15: Yeah, we'll be uh, we're expecting a baby in March.
• 19:21
  Speaker 1: Yeah.
• 19:21
  Speaker 3: Until now, all we had was the picture in the video.
• 19:25
  Speaker 3: So Charlie Pooth likes to call himself Professor Pooth. We
• 19:30
  Speaker 3: see that online. He's a teacher of music. So he
• 19:32
  Speaker 3: asked Jimmy Fallon the night before he came on the
• 19:35
  Speaker 3: show last night to send him a voicemail of him
• 19:37
  Speaker 3: singing a song, and Jimmy chose Charlie's new song Changes.
• 19:43
  Speaker 10: There's been some changes and a life.
• 19:48
  Speaker 2: No, it's good and I like this part at the
• 19:50
  Speaker 2: end here word no.
• 19:54
  Speaker 1: Kind of improvise it. I improvise.
• 19:58
  Speaker 3: So last night Charlie took Jimmy's voicemail and created a song.
• 20:03
  Speaker 15: Look what happens when you put everything together.
• 20:06
  Speaker 1: There's been some changes and ninefold.
• 20:12
  Speaker 15: Let's put it with the drums now some changes change?
• 20:39
  Speaker 1: What are you talking about? Brilliant? Yeah, he's amazing.
• 20:45
  Speaker 2: I just can't get enough.
• 20:46
  Speaker 1: He's done it with us since studio he has so
• 20:48
  Speaker 1: I couldn't play the whole thing. So Charlie how he
• 20:51
  Speaker 1: created it was he took parts of Jimmy singing like
• 20:53
  Speaker 1: the there's been some changes, and took that like made
• 20:57
  Speaker 1: a high hat with it. So he built the beat
• 21:00
  Speaker 1: with Jimmy's own voice. It's incredible. Go watch it on YouTube.
• 21:03
  Speaker 1: It's fantastic.
• 21:04
  Speaker 3: Meantime, Lewis Capaldi did the BBC Live Lounge this week.
• 21:08
  Speaker 3: Remember the Paramore songs Still Into You? So Capaldi did
• 21:11
  Speaker 3: his own version of Still Into You as only he can.
• 21:15
  Speaker 1: It's so good. His voice is incredible. Lover who, by
• 21:19
  Speaker 1: the way, said this week his new album It's going
• 21:22
  Speaker 1: to be all happy songs. Yeah, I saw that. It
• 21:24
  Speaker 1: sounds like he's in a good place, me telling it right. Hey, Lisa,
• 21:27
  Speaker 1: what's going on? Well, there's always something going on.
• 21:30
  Speaker 2: You're happy, right there.
• 21:32
  Speaker 3: Good news for K pop Devan Hunters fans. New toys
• 21:36
  Speaker 3: are on the way. Mattel will release a three pack
• 21:39
  Speaker 3: of dolls ready for reorder November twelve. Has Bro has
• 21:43
  Speaker 3: Monopoly deal and that's already available for pre order at
• 21:48
  Speaker 3: the sold out jingle Ball, We've got tickets for College
• 21:52
  Speaker 3: twenty five, and I think we have College twenty five
• 21:54
  Speaker 3: on the line right now.
• 21:55
  Speaker 1: It's Heather.
• 21:57
  Speaker 3: Yes, what do you know, Heather, your caller twenty five?
• 22:01
  Speaker 3: Do you have the keyword.
• 22:04
  Speaker 1: Amusement?
• 22:05
  Speaker 14: And this is exciting you?
• 22:08
  Speaker 1: Bet it is.
• 22:08
  Speaker 3: You're going to jingle Ball for starters, but you qualify
• 22:11
  Speaker 3: for the one hundred and eight thousand dollars jingle Ball jackpot.
• 22:15
  Speaker 1: You will hold on right, Heather. Of course, I will
• 22:18
  Speaker 1: thank you so much. Okay, Lisa had a packed house
• 22:21
  Speaker 1: last night.
• 22:22
  Speaker 2: I did. We had Ellen Hildebrand, Queen of the Beach Reads.
• 22:25
  Speaker 2: She's off Nantucket.
• 22:26
  Speaker 4: She wrote a book about private schools, private boarding schools,
• 22:29
  Speaker 4: called The Academy with her daughter Shelby, and she was
• 22:32
  Speaker 4: at joss In Maine with us last night. Sold out
• 22:34
  Speaker 4: every it's a furniture store and there wasn't a seat left.
• 22:38
  Speaker 2: All the sofas were taken, every chair I.
• 22:41
  Speaker 1: Usually lay on the coach. YEP, take up three seats.
• 22:44
  Speaker 2: You're very comfortable.
• 22:45
  Speaker 4: But yeah, she was there and she talked about I
• 22:47
  Speaker 4: asked her how the idea for the academy came about.
• 22:50
  Speaker 8: The stories were crazy, and at some point in the
• 22:52
  Speaker 8: middle of her sophomore spring, I said, we are She
• 22:56
  Speaker 8: was telling me a particularly scandalous story and I said
• 22:59
  Speaker 8: we're writing a novel, and she very famously said, don't
• 23:04
  Speaker 8: temp me with a good time. So I was like, okay,
• 23:07
  Speaker 8: So she said yes, and then we just as she
• 23:10
  Speaker 8: moved through boarding school, we just were keeping notes and
• 23:13
  Speaker 8: we called it straight to the pages and stp and
• 23:17
  Speaker 8: everything that happened. We were just writing down, and then
• 23:20
  Speaker 8: when we went to write it, we created the characters
• 23:23
  Speaker 8: together and discussed their ARCSKA pause here to let you
• 23:28
  Speaker 8: know because some of you've already read the book. Yes,
• 23:30
  Speaker 8: there's obviously a book two.
• 23:32
  Speaker 4: Yeah, and there's going to be a show on a
• 23:34
  Speaker 4: streaming very popular streaming service that probably had the perfect couple.
• 23:38
  Speaker 4: She couldn't say exactly what it was, but you can
• 23:40
  Speaker 4: figure it out and that will be coming out in probably,
• 23:44
  Speaker 4: you know.
• 23:44
  Speaker 2: Twenty twenty seven, follow twenty twenty seven.
• 23:48
  Speaker 4: And then I asked her a really important question about
• 23:50
  Speaker 4: how she got started in writing and was she always
• 23:53
  Speaker 4: a writer?
• 23:54
  Speaker 8: My teacher, missus Buckwelder, you know, years and years and
• 23:58
  Speaker 8: decades decades later, came to my signing when I signed
• 24:02
  Speaker 8: in my hometown, and she sat in the front, and
• 24:04
  Speaker 8: I was able to say to her, you know, maybe
• 24:06
  Speaker 8: I showed extraordinary talented age seven, but more likely I
• 24:10
  Speaker 8: was enthusiastic about making up stories and writing them down.
• 24:13
  Speaker 8: And you encouraged me, and you called me an author,
• 24:15
  Speaker 8: and you sent me on my way. So for if
• 24:18
  Speaker 8: we have any teachers in the audience, do we have
• 24:21
  Speaker 8: any teachers?
• 24:21
  Speaker 2: Yeah?
• 24:22
  Speaker 8: That is the power of education, right there, is believing
• 24:25
  Speaker 8: in your kids and noticing their talents.
• 24:29
  Speaker 4: I thought that was really important to point out that
• 24:31
  Speaker 4: she was given this award as author of the Year
• 24:33
  Speaker 4: in second grade and it really propelled her to believe
• 24:36
  Speaker 4: in herself.
• 24:36
  Speaker 1: Absolutely.
• 24:37
  Speaker 4: Yeah, Ellen was a teacher at one point. Okay, yeah,
• 24:41
  Speaker 4: so I don't know. She's a really cool lady, obviously,
• 24:44
  Speaker 4: she just really is engaging with her fans.
• 24:46
  Speaker 3: So dedful night to answer Lewis Capaldi's question, Hey, Lisa,
• 24:50
  Speaker 3: what's going on?
• 24:51
  Speaker 1: What's going on? It's a Lisa's book Club because you
• 24:53
  Speaker 1: have another event this week.
• 24:54
  Speaker 2: We do.
• 24:55
  Speaker 4: Jeff Benedict will be in Hartford Farmington Gardens. He wrote
• 24:58
  Speaker 4: The Dynasty, the Patriots, huge Apple TV doc, Little bron Book,
• 25:03
  Speaker 4: the Tiger Book. He's coming out with a Tom Cruise book.
• 25:07
  Speaker 4: So yeah, if you want to go, like, if you're
• 25:08
  Speaker 4: down in that area, just DM me and I'll put
• 25:10
  Speaker 4: you on the list. It's this Thursday night at six
• 25:12
  Speaker 4: o'clock Farmington Garden.
• 25:13
  Speaker 3: Or take the drive. Let's fill up Hartford, Fill up Hartford. Hey,
• 25:17
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• 25:19
  Speaker 3: to your house. We've talked about this. You go to
• 25:21
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• 25:23
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  Speaker 3: Nadic Boston, Burlington or doverrug dot com and there you go.
• 25:33
  Speaker 1: So you a teacher, Lisa kiss to wait, Hey.
• 25:38
  Speaker 7: Guys had a question.
• 25:39
  Speaker 16: So i'ven't seeing this guy for a couple of weeks
• 25:42
  Speaker 16: and uh, Lisa, I know you're kind of newly on
• 25:44
  Speaker 16: the dating scene, so I wanted to pick your brain.
• 25:46
  Speaker 16: But we have now gone what was basically our third date.
• 25:50
  Speaker 16: He invites me over and I discover that he lives
• 25:53
  Speaker 16: at home with his parents.
• 25:56
  Speaker 7: Yeah, it's it's super awkward. He does not tell me this.
• 25:59
  Speaker 16: He's going to make me dinner, and I discovered that
• 26:01
  Speaker 16: he is essentially a failure to launch and has never
• 26:03
  Speaker 16: moved out.
• 26:04
  Speaker 7: He is thirty four. Is this a red flag?
• 26:06
  Speaker 1: Okay, run, don't walk? Okay, who's cooking dinner?
• 26:11
  Speaker 4: His mom's like, mom, we want now?
• 26:19
  Speaker 2: Oh my god.
• 26:20
  Speaker 4: So I think the biggest thing is that he just
• 26:23
  Speaker 4: didn't tell her, because that's a that's kind of a
• 26:26
  Speaker 4: that's like a big deal.
• 26:28
  Speaker 1: Right, he invited her over and tell him, didn't.
• 26:30
  Speaker 2: Tell her who his roommates are, basically.
• 26:34
  Speaker 1: Right, It's almost like it was a practical joke.
• 26:37
  Speaker 3: I know, you know, Hey, let's go over and want
• 26:40
  Speaker 3: to come over to my place, and doesn't mention that
• 26:43
  Speaker 3: his place is his mom and dad's place.
• 26:46
  Speaker 1: And it's too bad. Sounds like she's really into this dude.
• 26:48
  Speaker 4: Yeah, I mean I guess so the conversation is when
• 26:52
  Speaker 4: is it too old to be living with your parents?
• 26:55
  Speaker 2: And I know that you know, it's it's tough out there.
• 26:57
  Speaker 4: I mean it is a rent in Boston particular, even
• 27:00
  Speaker 4: outside of Boston is so expensive, and so you know,
• 27:04
  Speaker 4: obviously he's probably trying to save some money.
• 27:06
  Speaker 3: Well, maybe he's got one of those you know, apartments
• 27:09
  Speaker 3: above the garage setups or something, or maybe it's a
• 27:11
  Speaker 3: finished basement and he's got his own entrance or something.
• 27:14
  Speaker 3: I need more information from.
• 27:15
  Speaker 8: Her, right, but but but it's still too old.
• 27:19
  Speaker 1: It's a red flash.
• 27:20
  Speaker 2: I think it's I think I think that's too old.
• 27:24
  Speaker 4: I think even if you know you have to, you know,
• 27:27
  Speaker 4: things are tight. I still think there's a way to
• 27:31
  Speaker 4: not live with your parents, right.
• 27:33
  Speaker 3: You get a couple of roommates, you make it work. Yeah,
• 27:35
  Speaker 3: but at seventeen, my dad said, when are you moving.
• 27:38
  Speaker 1: Out at seventeen seventeen? Yeah, but you know, I'll be
• 27:41
  Speaker 1: honest with you. I'd love to live with my mom,
• 27:43
  Speaker 1: do my laundry, cook my day.
• 27:45
  Speaker 2: And that's the thing.
• 27:46
  Speaker 4: But it's it's it's painful when you're dating because this
• 27:50
  Speaker 4: awkwardness happens.
• 27:51
  Speaker 1: Right, my wife and I have this thought at my
• 27:54
  Speaker 1: house that because we have a split, right, so we
• 27:56
  Speaker 1: have full two full houses upstairs and down. Obviously my
• 27:59
  Speaker 1: mother and her mother lived downstairs, but we have this
• 28:02
  Speaker 1: thought that my son's probably never going to leave.
• 28:06
  Speaker 3: Well, it makes sense, see what I mean, there's an
• 28:08
  Speaker 3: example where it makes a lot of sense for your son.
• 28:10
  Speaker 3: Able when he gets older, he can take over for
• 28:12
  Speaker 3: the basement at some point. I mean, you've got that
• 28:14
  Speaker 3: much base. You can also add to that house. You'll
• 28:16
  Speaker 3: get so much land up there.
• 28:18
  Speaker 1: Okay, but what if what if it's my son he
• 28:20
  Speaker 1: lives downstairs and he brings a girl there and doesn't
• 28:22
  Speaker 1: tell them that we live upstairs? Is that different? You
• 28:25
  Speaker 1: got to say where you live.
• 28:27
  Speaker 3: If you and somebody to your place, you got to say,
• 28:29
  Speaker 3: by the way, my mom and dad live upstairs.
• 28:31
  Speaker 1: But I have my own sake.
• 28:32
  Speaker 2: Just want you to know, like Shepherd entrance, this is
• 28:35
  Speaker 2: the setup.
• 28:35
  Speaker 1: Yeah, you're not walking in and there's dad on the
• 28:38
  Speaker 1: Barker launcher in the living room. Right.
• 28:40
  Speaker 2: For me, that story that the red flag is that
• 28:42
  Speaker 2: he just never mentioned it.
• 28:43
  Speaker 1: I want to know who's cooking dinner? He invited her
• 28:46
  Speaker 1: over for dinner? Is he cooking the dinner, and where
• 28:48
  Speaker 1: are the parents when he's cooking dinner, the joining them
• 28:50
  Speaker 1: for dinner. I think it's a family dinner.
• 28:53
  Speaker 2: Yeah, this is so awkward.
• 28:57
  Speaker 1: Yeah. I told this story before. But one time I
• 28:59
  Speaker 1: had a hook up with the girl, a one night
• 29:01
  Speaker 1: stand whatever, and I ended up going to our house
• 29:03
  Speaker 1: and I slept over after we hooked up. And the
• 29:06
  Speaker 1: next morning I woke up and she was like, do
• 29:08
  Speaker 1: you want breakfast? And she brought me downstairs and her
• 29:10
  Speaker 1: mom and dad were at the table. They had cooked breakfast.
• 29:13
  Speaker 1: She didn't tell you, and she didn't tell me. I
• 29:15
  Speaker 1: walked down. Now I'm eating eggs and baking with the
• 29:17
  Speaker 1: mother and the father and they're like, oh, so, what's
• 29:18
  Speaker 1: your name? And dad knows you just climbed on his daughter. Well,
• 29:22
  Speaker 1: we didn't talk about that, you know.
• 29:24
  Speaker 2: I guess they were probably used to it.
• 29:26
  Speaker 1: Yeah. It's interesting because I saw this story in the
• 29:28
  Speaker 1: news today because Dakota Johnson was part of this vogue,
• 29:33
  Speaker 1: you know, like they asked her questions. Yeah, yeah, this video,
• 29:36
  Speaker 1: and one of the questions was about red flags.
• 29:38
  Speaker 7: Do you have any red flags?
• 29:41
  Speaker 2: Men who wear flip flops in public run.
• 29:44
  Speaker 1: Run flip flops?
• 29:46
  Speaker 3: Another one but just walking around. I mean, it's one
• 29:49
  Speaker 3: thing if you're on a boat.
• 29:51
  Speaker 1: Or you're okay with men.
• 29:52
  Speaker 4: Foot flops absolutely interesting yeast flops.
• 29:56
  Speaker 3: So if I okay, if I walked in tomorrow morning,
• 29:59
  Speaker 3: so the wearing flip flops, you wouldn't walk into Justin's
• 30:02
  Speaker 3: studio immediately and privately say what's going on with Bill?
• 30:05
  Speaker 2: Well, I think it's a look. I think some guys
• 30:07
  Speaker 2: can pull it off.
• 30:08
  Speaker 1: Okay, I don't. I don't wear I mean flip flops in.
• 30:12
  Speaker 4: The winter is weird because we live in New England.
• 30:15
  Speaker 4: But flip flops in the summer.
• 30:16
  Speaker 3: Okay, if it happened to you, you'd come in the
• 30:18
  Speaker 3: next morning. Yeah it was okay, but I was wearing
• 30:21
  Speaker 3: flip flops.
• 30:22
  Speaker 2: No, it has no don't I don't mind flip flops. Well, okay,
• 30:26
  Speaker 2: Devil's Advocate.
• 30:27
  Speaker 9: I am the primary caretaker for both of my parents,
• 30:30
  Speaker 9: and we cohabitate, is what I like to say, because
• 30:35
  Speaker 9: it's just what works back for our family. However, whenever
• 30:39
  Speaker 9: I need somebody new, it's probably one of the first
• 30:42
  Speaker 9: things I lest of now. And I'm not super keen
• 30:45
  Speaker 9: on hanging out there, even though I have a completely
• 30:48
  Speaker 9: separate apartment.
• 30:49
  Speaker 4: See, yeah, so she does the right So yeah, so
• 30:52
  Speaker 4: she puts it out there like this is this is
• 30:54
  Speaker 4: what we do.
• 30:54
  Speaker 2: This is our living arrangement.
• 30:56
  Speaker 3: And it's much more common now, right it is because
• 30:59
  Speaker 3: the name of the two comes.
• 31:00
  Speaker 1: They can help out with the rest.
• 31:01
  Speaker 2: But a lot of people have to take care of
• 31:03
  Speaker 2: their parents.
• 31:04
  Speaker 3: Oh yeah, and then there's that right, she's taking care
• 31:07
  Speaker 3: of the property, she said, she's a caretaker.
• 31:09
  Speaker 1: Yeah, for the house. You heard what she said. She
• 31:11
  Speaker 1: just tries not to like hang out there and invite
• 31:14
  Speaker 1: people over for dinner and.
• 31:15
  Speaker 3: You tell them immediately by the way, I live with
• 31:19
  Speaker 3: my parents. You know, I take care of the problem,
• 31:21
  Speaker 3: you know, So you got to let somebody know.
• 31:23
  Speaker 1: So this poor listener, I'm thinking about my situation now
• 31:25
  Speaker 1: her she was probably so awkward when she got there
• 31:28
  Speaker 1: and there are the parents, like, hey, welcome in, I
• 31:32
  Speaker 1: have a seat. We're having pot roads it's meat, the
• 31:36
  Speaker 1: meat we want it now.
• 31:39
  Speaker 2: Now it's topic time for the Billy and Lisa. In
• 31:43
  Speaker 2: the morning.
• 31:44
  Speaker 3: A couple of minutes ago, we're having this conversation, we
• 31:45
  Speaker 3: get a talk back from a woman who said, yeah,
• 31:47
  Speaker 3: she went on a date with a guy. He invited
• 31:49
  Speaker 3: her to his house for dinner. Went to the house.
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  Speaker 3: It's his parents' house, and it was a family dinner.
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  Speaker 2: And he's in his mid thirties and he never told her.
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  Speaker 3: If that's not a giant red flag. So we're talking
• 31:58
  Speaker 3: about red flags out there.
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  Speaker 1: Here's the message from one of our listeners. By the way,
• 32:02
  Speaker 1: if anyone ever has any questions, you can always even
• 32:04
  Speaker 1: talk back and ask us our advice. Well, mainly Lisa
• 32:06
  Speaker 1: is because that's who we listen to on the show
• 32:09
  Speaker 1: film and I w chime in too.
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  Speaker 7: Hey, guys, had a question.
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  Speaker 16: So I've ben't seeing this guy for a couple of weeks,
• 32:14
  Speaker 16: and Lisa, I know you're kind of newly on the
• 32:17
  Speaker 16: dating scene, so I wanted to pick your brain. But
• 32:20
  Speaker 16: we have now gone what was basically our third date.
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  Speaker 16: He invites me over and I discover that he lives
• 32:25
  Speaker 16: at home with his parents. Yeah, it's it's super awkward.
• 32:30
  Speaker 16: He does not tell me this. He's going to make
• 32:32
  Speaker 16: me dinner, and I discover that he is essentially a
• 32:34
  Speaker 16: failure to launch and has never moved out.
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  Speaker 7: He is thirty four. Is this a red flag?
• 32:39
  Speaker 2: Well, if he looks like Matthew McConaughey, I would keep him.
• 32:41
  Speaker 1: But good movie. Exactly. I'm surprised you didn't bring that up. Bill.
• 32:47
  Speaker 1: You're a big rom com guy.
• 32:49
  Speaker 3: Yeah, I turned of a big Matthew McConaughey fan. But
• 32:52
  Speaker 3: I can't believe this woman would have another date.
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  Speaker 4: Well, the thing is, he just never told her like
• 32:57
  Speaker 4: that's something you should say, like especial By the way,
• 33:00
  Speaker 4: this is my living situation, or and this is why
• 33:02
  Speaker 4: I do it and just give our heads up rather
• 33:05
  Speaker 4: than hey, we're having dinner with mom and dad tonight.
• 33:07
  Speaker 3: Or how about you're not invited to your place for dinner,
• 33:10
  Speaker 3: you go out to dinner.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, we don't know the situation right with that's we
• 33:15
  Speaker 1: don't know, like we're taken care of the parents that
• 33:17
  Speaker 1: happens too, or it is because rent is so expensive.
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  Speaker 4: I think they're all they're all good reasons why this
• 33:23
  Speaker 4: guy may be living there.
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  Speaker 2: But he just should have said something. By the way,
• 33:26
  Speaker 2: my brother.
• 33:27
  Speaker 3: Go ahead of this guy's listening, feel free to call
• 33:29
  Speaker 3: in and give us your side of the story.
• 33:31
  Speaker 1: Exactly.
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  Speaker 8: My brother was living in my parents' basement for a
• 33:34
  Speaker 8: year after college.
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  Speaker 2: He brought a girl home who knew that he was
• 33:37
  Speaker 2: living with this parent. We met her the next morning
• 33:39
  Speaker 2: as she was leaving, and.
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  Speaker 17: Then she got mad at my brother when he broke
• 33:42
  Speaker 17: up with her shortly after because he had brought her
• 33:45
  Speaker 17: home to meet his entire family.
• 33:49
  Speaker 1: Okay, see the family dynamic and the dating stuff and
• 33:54
  Speaker 1: the time, doesn't you know, it gets a little crazy.
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  Speaker 1: I'm just saying.
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  Speaker 3: I feel like most people I know that have just
• 33:59
  Speaker 3: gotten a or going through a divorce.
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  Speaker 16: Moved back in with their parents just temporarily, and in
• 34:04
  Speaker 16: that time they might.
• 34:05
  Speaker 2: Start dating people.
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  Speaker 16: So in that situation, I don't think it's really a
• 34:08
  Speaker 16: big deal.
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  Speaker 4: That they live with their parents as long as they
• 34:10
  Speaker 4: get out shortly after.
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  Speaker 3: Well, that's even sadder you go get divorced and move
• 34:15
  Speaker 3: in with your parents.
• 34:17
  Speaker 4: But again, she's right, there are a lot of different situations.
• 34:19
  Speaker 4: But again, it's just always good to give someone that
• 34:22
  Speaker 4: you're dating the heads up that that's what you're doing.
• 34:25
  Speaker 3: Yeah, don't invite somebody back to your place when there
• 34:28
  Speaker 3: is no your place, right.
• 34:30
  Speaker 2: When it's a rule number one exactly.
• 34:34
  Speaker 1: Right, mind, dad.
• 34:36
  Speaker 18: I experienced this with someone on Bumble I met, went
• 34:39
  Speaker 18: out with him for a while.
• 34:41
  Speaker 7: He told me he was helping out his parents.
• 34:43
  Speaker 1: He's fifty two just so you know, oh boy, i'd
• 34:48
  Speaker 1: safe because it's all ages.
• 34:50
  Speaker 3: Yeah, he still has the high school posters on his
• 34:53
  Speaker 3: bedroom wall.
• 34:53
  Speaker 1: In fifty two years, probably you get the lava lamp.
• 34:57
  Speaker 17: On the windy. This is Kim. I actually have the
• 35:01
  Speaker 17: opposite situation. You talk about kids living at home. What
• 35:04
  Speaker 17: if you're an adult. I'm an adult dating someone for
• 35:07
  Speaker 17: four and a half years whose kids still live with him.
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  Speaker 1: They're in the late twenties.
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  Speaker 17: Every time I go over there, it's, you know, there's
• 35:14
  Speaker 17: no signs of affect. Shit, Oh my god, here come
• 35:16
  Speaker 17: the kids. It's it's like living in high school again
• 35:20
  Speaker 17: and the kids of the parents.
• 35:23
  Speaker 2: It's interesting.
• 35:24
  Speaker 1: Yeah, she seems to be well, four years twenties. The
• 35:28
  Speaker 1: kids are in their twenties. That's you know, the early twenties.
• 35:31
  Speaker 1: Maybe in college. It's kind of okay.
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  Speaker 3: I mean things have changed, the economy has changed, and
• 35:36
  Speaker 3: a lot of times in your twenties.
• 35:38
  Speaker 1: It makes sense. I think it's pretty normal if you're
• 35:39
  Speaker 1: looking to start your life, stay.
• 35:41
  Speaker 19: Home, right, No other caty here. Being a thirty four
• 35:45
  Speaker 19: year old and never living on your own, I guess probably,
• 35:48
  Speaker 19: especially for a guy, is crazy, Like what's his social circle?
• 35:53
  Speaker 19: Does he have friends, are they like, what's up with this?
• 35:57
  Speaker 19: That's wild. I mean I live with my parents a
• 35:59
  Speaker 19: little bit for graduating undergrad, but that was mostly just
• 36:02
  Speaker 19: to help them financially. I could live on my own affight.
• 36:04
  Speaker 19: Oh that's crazy.
• 36:06
  Speaker 2: Yeah, I always it was never an option. It was like,
• 36:08
  Speaker 2: you're you couldn't wait to live on your own.
• 36:11
  Speaker 1: Oh yeah, you look forward to it your whole life.
• 36:14
  Speaker 2: You get your place, so you get your place with
• 36:15
  Speaker 2: your roommates.
• 36:17
  Speaker 1: Yeah.
• 36:17
  Speaker 3: Usually if you're going to college, you go to college
• 36:20
  Speaker 3: and you're never coming back, right, I mean you're coming back,
• 36:23
  Speaker 3: but I mean you're living in home.
• 36:25
  Speaker 1: Life change interesting when you're young. When you're a kid,
• 36:28
  Speaker 1: you can't wait to grow up, and then when you
• 36:30
  Speaker 1: grow up, you just wish you were young again.
• 36:32
  Speaker 2: Totally.
• 36:33
  Speaker 1: That's how life works, right, well, especially with the cost
• 36:35
  Speaker 1: of everything now. Yeah, it's so expensive.
• 36:37
  Speaker 18: So you're telling me women will not date a man
• 36:40
  Speaker 18: who lives at home with his parents, but they will
• 36:44
  Speaker 18: date a man who lives at home with his wife.
• 36:47
  Speaker 18: That's just crazy.
• 36:52
  Speaker 1: That's a point. Yeah, that's a good it's a real
• 36:55
  Speaker 1: good point.
• 36:55
  Speaker 7: Yeah.
• 36:56
  Speaker 1: Yeah. We also mentioned Dakota Johnson. She did to sit
• 36:59
  Speaker 1: down with both took some questions about red flags kind
• 37:02
  Speaker 1: of similar to this topic right here, and she was
• 37:04
  Speaker 1: asked this.
• 37:04
  Speaker 2: Do you have any red flags? Men who wear flip
• 37:08
  Speaker 2: flops in public?
• 37:10
  Speaker 1: Run run flipflops for men? Yay or nay?
• 37:13
  Speaker 5: Just because Justin brought this up. I hate men and
• 37:18
  Speaker 5: flip flops. I've been with my husband for twelve years,
• 37:20
  Speaker 5: and when he breaks out the flip flops in the summertime, Oh,
• 37:25
  Speaker 5: the ick settles in so thick, like, get those dogs
• 37:30
  Speaker 5: out of my face.
• 37:32
  Speaker 2: Oh God, I to have the complete opposite reaction.
• 37:36
  Speaker 1: No, ick, No, not at all.
• 37:38
  Speaker 2: I love foot flops.
• 37:39
  Speaker 1: I don't know. I get real subconscious about my feet,
• 37:41
  Speaker 1: so I don't really wear the mountain public, even though
• 37:44
  Speaker 1: my nothing wrong with my feet, but I feel like
• 37:46
  Speaker 1: people will look at them. It's just me.
• 37:48
  Speaker 12: Okay.
• 37:49
  Speaker 1: A show always says, why don't you put on your
• 37:50
  Speaker 1: flip flops?
• 37:51
  Speaker 2: I you could wear slides.
• 37:52
  Speaker 1: I do. I don't want flip Well what's the difference?
• 37:54
  Speaker 4: So slides slides are like have the band, and then
• 37:57
  Speaker 4: flip flaps are like the v Oh.
• 37:59
  Speaker 1: I don't win the V ever, I don't own a
• 38:01
  Speaker 1: pair of those. I wear slides. I wear UFOs. Oh yeah,
• 38:04
  Speaker 1: they're the best.
• 38:05
  Speaker 3: You wear slides, slides, You wear slides. I can't be
• 38:08
  Speaker 3: your front.
• 38:09
  Speaker 1: What do you mean I got the UFOs from you?
• 38:12
  Speaker 3: I know UFO is different because well I might have
• 38:15
  Speaker 3: four different pair of UFO, but slides, why not get
• 38:18
  Speaker 3: the flip flops?
• 38:18
  Speaker 1: No, through through the toe wear flip flops. You can
• 38:21
  Speaker 1: actually jog in their flip flops.
• 38:23
  Speaker 2: So you do wear flip flops.
• 38:25
  Speaker 1: I wear them all the time. Now you wear them out?
• 38:28
  Speaker 3: Like I'm not going out to dinner or going to
• 38:31
  Speaker 3: visit somebody wearing flip flops.
• 38:33
  Speaker 1: Right, I wear UFOs every day around my house. I
• 38:35
  Speaker 1: don't wear them out.
• 38:36
  Speaker 3: I know the other thing about slides. Strangely, my feet
• 38:38
  Speaker 3: won't work in slides. They never stay on my feet.
• 38:42
  Speaker 1: Really, yeah, they share that with warning.
• 38:47
  Speaker 8: Flops on guys are like skinny cheeks on guys.
• 38:52
  Speaker 5: It should not happen.
• 38:54
  Speaker 8: I do not want to see your hairy, ugly toes.
• 38:58
  Speaker 2: My god.
• 38:59
  Speaker 1: How about flip flops?
• 39:00
  Speaker 2: And much outrage at flip flops on guys? Yeah, okay,
• 39:04
  Speaker 2: Like you go to like.
• 39:05
  Speaker 4: Nantucket, the Vineyard, the Cape, Well, you go to like
• 39:08
  Speaker 4: Rhode Island.
• 39:09
  Speaker 2: Everybody's wearing flips.
• 39:10
  Speaker 1: You're talking about beach towns. That's where flips live.
• 39:14
  Speaker 4: But we're surrounded by beach town So what's wrong with
• 39:17
  Speaker 4: guys wearing flip flops?
• 39:19
  Speaker 1: It's just not from me.
• 39:20
  Speaker 3: No, you're going out to dinner with Okay, let me
• 39:23
  Speaker 3: ask you hypothetically.
• 39:24
  Speaker 4: You guys, if it was a very casual restaurant, I
• 39:26
  Speaker 4: wouldn't think anything of it.
• 39:28
  Speaker 1: Okay. So let's say you're going on a date.
• 39:29
  Speaker 3: A guy's coming to pick you up, he shows up
• 39:31
  Speaker 3: for dinner, he's taking you out to dinner, he's wearing
• 39:33
  Speaker 3: flip flops.
• 39:34
  Speaker 1: You would call me from the restaurant, and I got
• 39:37
  Speaker 1: a problem again.
• 39:38
  Speaker 2: Again.
• 39:38
  Speaker 4: It depends on where you're going to dinner, and it
• 39:40
  Speaker 4: depends on the time of year.
• 39:42
  Speaker 3: I guess the only place you should be going is
• 39:44
  Speaker 3: a clamshack because you're not going in, you're just sitting
• 39:49
  Speaker 3: at a picnic table outside.
• 39:51
  Speaker 1: Yeah, Okay.
• 39:52
  Speaker 14: Being someone who's twenty five in Boston, I got to
• 39:55
  Speaker 14: ask when's the right time to move out in this economy.
• 39:59
  Speaker 14: I mean, me and my girlfriend both work really good jobs.
• 40:02
  Speaker 1: We're making great money.
• 40:03
  Speaker 14: But we did house haunted and it's not looking too great.
• 40:07
  Speaker 14: So when can we expect to move out? Mid thirties,
• 40:11
  Speaker 14: late thirties, Like, what's the average time?
• 40:14
  Speaker 1: He's never moving. No, it's really tough. My brother and
• 40:18
  Speaker 1: his wife live downstairs from my mother's house. My mom
• 40:21
  Speaker 1: lives upstairs. It's a two family. My mother owns. Yeah,
• 40:24
  Speaker 1: and that's different. They have a decent amount of money
• 40:27
  Speaker 1: saved and they still have not been able to get
• 40:29
  Speaker 1: out because you know, the mortgage interest rates.
• 40:31
  Speaker 2: It's so hard.
• 40:32
  Speaker 1: The house market is so hard.
• 40:33
  Speaker 4: But I do have to say there is something nice
• 40:35
  Speaker 4: about that family dynamic where the family's all together.
• 40:38
  Speaker 2: I think that support system can go a long way.
• 40:41
  Speaker 1: Yeah, that makes sense to me.
• 40:42
  Speaker 3: If you've got a two family in the family, right,
• 40:45
  Speaker 3: mom and daddy living in one level and the next
• 40:47
  Speaker 3: level is available, it makes so much sense to move in. Yeah,
• 40:51
  Speaker 3: and you help with the mortgage.
• 40:53
  Speaker 2: You can help your parents.
• 40:54
  Speaker 1: Yeah, it's a win win.
• 40:55
  Speaker 3: You're paying rent which goes towards their mortgage, and you
• 40:58
  Speaker 3: have a place to live.
• 40:59
  Speaker 4: It's just it's like everybody is respectful of people's privacy
• 41:02
  Speaker 4: in their space.
• 41:03
  Speaker 1: Yeah. I think for that talk back or the original question,
• 41:06
  Speaker 1: I'm getting the idea that the guy lived with.
• 41:10
  Speaker 2: His within the house, not to something like in his
• 41:13
  Speaker 2: childhood bedroom.
• 41:15
  Speaker 1: Yeah, he had a bedroom right off the kitchen.
• 41:17
  Speaker 2: Yeah, that's failure to launch.
• 41:18
  Speaker 1: Yeah for sure.
• 41:21
  Speaker 20: Good morning guys, especially Billy, listen. The topic is very
• 41:25
  Speaker 20: simple today. If you're in your thirties, then you live
• 41:28
  Speaker 20: with your parents, it's a giant red flag. But if
• 41:31
  Speaker 20: you're in your thirties, then your parents live with you.
• 41:33
  Speaker 20: You're a good guy. If you're in your thirties and
• 41:37
  Speaker 20: Billy you want to live with me, come on over.
• 41:39
  Speaker 1: Bill, I knew he got