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The Provider Role Is Changing..So Why Haven't The Expectations? · So Shameless

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  Speaker 1: He fucked up?
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  Speaker 2: Imagine me fucking up.
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  Speaker 3: Come on now.
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  Speaker 2: I'm a fucking lady.
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  Speaker 4: You was in the bartender.
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  Speaker 2: So what the fuck that mean? But I quit too.
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  Speaker 1: I know.
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  Speaker 2: I heard. I want to talk.
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  Speaker 1: You want to talk about this? We don't talk about
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  Speaker 1: personal shit on here. You want to talk about stuff
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  Speaker 1: like this?
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  Speaker 2: Well, we don't have to. You would actually, yeah, because
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  Speaker 2: then he going to be texting me like, why would you?
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  Speaker 1: I don't care that. We don't really do personal.
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  Speaker 5: But even with the bartender, I quit that shit too
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  Speaker 5: because that's not my forte.
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  Speaker 2: Okay.
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  Speaker 5: Like, I guess it really is more about actually getting
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  Speaker 5: customers instead of shaking your ass.
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  Speaker 6: It is.
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  Speaker 1: But it's also how people view you.
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  Speaker 2: And I didn't look at it as that. I think
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  Speaker 2: I was kind of naive to the fact.
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  Speaker 1: You didn't see it that good. You was in a leotard.
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  Speaker 2: Because I feel like.
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  Speaker 1: Shaking your ass.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah.
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  Speaker 1: Grabbing both titties.
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  Speaker 2: But I do that with my friends all the time.
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  Speaker 4: On the internet to promote the bar.
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  Speaker 2: No, but that's the thing. I never posted videos like that.
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  Speaker 1: I saw them.
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  Speaker 2: But you got to think about it. I would keep
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  Speaker 2: it calm.
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  Speaker 1: You were shaking your ass when Mia talked. You wouldn't
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  Speaker 1: spread them. Nobody was like winking.
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  Speaker 2: Nah, I wouldn't do it.
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  Speaker 5: I would keep it cute. Like I wouldn't do too much.
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  Speaker 5: The ones of my close friends was like, okay, you
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  Speaker 5: probably should have posted that. You probably would have gotten
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  Speaker 5: more cuts.
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  Speaker 4: So here's the thing. There's a stigma on bartender dancer.
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  Speaker 1: There's a stigma. Yes, absolutely.
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  Speaker 4: So the minute you see the chick in there, she's
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  Speaker 4: one of those.
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  Speaker 1: Respectfully.
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  Speaker 5: I understood that, but I thought I was going to
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  Speaker 5: be the person that changed the narrative. I don't know
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  Speaker 5: why the fuck I thought that. But only because I
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  Speaker 5: knew I wasn't going. Nobody can tell me what the
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  Speaker 5: fuck I'm doing.
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  Speaker 1: So I see you here. I meet you here. Right.
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  Speaker 4: I'm just being honest.
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  Speaker 2: Right.
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  Speaker 1: And I'm like, oh, Paris, smart as fuck. And then
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  Speaker 1: I go to your page and you shaking ass in
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  Speaker 1: the club. I was like, oh, okay.
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  Speaker 2: She's going.
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  Speaker 1: She's going.
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  Speaker 2: I feel like most.
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  Speaker 1: But then, hold on, hold on, hold on. And then
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  Speaker 1: I see the boyfriend girlfriend content. And I'm like, oh,
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  Speaker 1: she's a mad, nice, loving boyfriend.
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  Speaker 5: But around that time, I was only in a relationship
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  Speaker 5: for about a month and a half, maybe, of me.
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  Speaker 2: Working in the club.
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  Speaker 1: Okay.
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  Speaker 2: So I wasn't heavily in a relationship in the club anyway.
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  Speaker 1: Okay.
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  Speaker 2: So it was just kind of like.
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  Speaker 1: Did the club help the breakup? Not at all.
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  Speaker 5: No, it had nothing because I wasn't doing anything. I
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  Speaker 5: wasn't talking to niggas. I probably lost customers for that.
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  Speaker 5: My second time working, a nigga spent almost $ 2, 000 on me.
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  Speaker 2: He asked for my number. I couldn't give that nigga
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  Speaker 2: my number.
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  Speaker 1: What, you going to give it to him?
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  Speaker 5: No, my friend took his number, but she was like, respectfully,
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  Speaker 5: she got a nigga because that's what I told her
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  Speaker 5: to say. But that nigga was in nightlife too. So nigga,
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  Speaker 5: he might as well have been a bar nigga or whatever.
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  Speaker 1: So if you weren't in the relationship. Okay. what is
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  Speaker 1: now the relationship in the club? You getting the numbers?
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  Speaker 1: You dating the customers and spending the two bands?
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  Speaker 5: But see, like I said, that was the dynamic after
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  Speaker 5: the relationship. Because after we got out of the relationship,
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  Speaker 5: I was still in the club.
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  Speaker 1: Now... It's up.
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  Speaker 7: It was.
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  Speaker 1: We're recording, by the way. Okay.
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  Speaker 2: I wouldn't... Got it.
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  Speaker 1: I respect that. I respect it. Absolutely. Once.
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  Speaker 2: Okay, so your question is, now, once you break up
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  Speaker 2: and you single, now you work in the club.
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  Speaker 4: You're working in the club.
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  Speaker 2: What's the dynamic now?
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  Speaker 1: What changes?
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  Speaker 4: What is the money getting you? Where is it going?
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  Speaker 4: Are you dating the money spenders?
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  Speaker 5: No, because I felt like I just want to keep
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  Speaker 5: it in the club. So if I'm going to show
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  Speaker 5: up and we're going to have some fun and you're
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  Speaker 5: going to spend your money and shit like that, it'll
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  Speaker 5: usually stay in the club. I don't really like to
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  Speaker 5: take it outside the club because outside the club, I'm
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  Speaker 5: not this person. So I don't want you to think
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  Speaker 5: that's what you're about to get outside to. And you
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  Speaker 5: only want to fuck me anyway. And I don't want
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  Speaker 5: to fuck you. So what are we doing here?
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  Speaker 4: So what's the ticket and number for?
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  Speaker 2: Well, I don't really take the numbers. I probably do
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  Speaker 2: an Instagram.
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  Speaker 4: But he was going to give you the number. And
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  Speaker 4: you said your friend took the number.
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  Speaker 1: Right, right, right. So what was the number going to?
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  Speaker 5: But you're talking about a dynamic from when I was
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  Speaker 5: in a relationship. That wasn't happening that much outside.
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  Speaker 1: I'm talking about out the relationship.
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  Speaker 5: So you're saying if a nigga came in a club
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  Speaker 5: and spent that much money on me while I'm outside
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  Speaker 5: of a relationship, while I'm working in a club.
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  Speaker 4: Yes, it's uncomfortable.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, he could take my number. You have to repeat
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  Speaker 1: the question because you got to think about it.
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  Speaker 2: No, because I got to make sure I know what
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  Speaker 2: the fuck I'm about to say. Respectfully. But I feel like.
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  Speaker 5: I might take his number depending on, sometimes I feel
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  Speaker 5: like I get a little funny with it because I
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  Speaker 5: feel like personally, when it comes to me, niggas like to,
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  Speaker 5: they like to talk.
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  Speaker 2: Like they, I don't, I don't want that narrative on
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  Speaker 2: my name.
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  Speaker 5: So just because he spent money on, nigga, you came
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  Speaker 5: to the club to spend money on somebody. So I
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  Speaker 5: just entertain with the fuck you want it. That don't
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  Speaker 5: mean I have to leave with you. That don't mean
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  Speaker 5: I got to go on a date with you just
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  Speaker 5: because you came in the club to do what you
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  Speaker 5: was already going to do anyway.
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  Speaker 4: So here's the thing. First of all, shout out to
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  Speaker 4: everybody that came in listening. We came in hot. We
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  Speaker 4: came in hot.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah. Right? I got Paris.
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  Speaker 4: She's here.
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  Speaker 1: Hey, y'all.
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  Speaker 4: Danielle, I believe your name is.
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  Speaker 2: Yes.
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  Speaker 4: She is a content creator.
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  Speaker 8: Yes.
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  Speaker 1: Right?
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  Speaker 4: Lola's here. Lola's been like a year since the last
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  Speaker 4: time I seen you.
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  Speaker 8: Yes.
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  Speaker 2: Long time.
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  Speaker 1: I love you. We be out together. Yeah. I see
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  Speaker 1: you often.
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  Speaker 2: Love you too.
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  Speaker 3: Right?
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  Speaker 1: It's just your schedule is just weird to try. I
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  Speaker 1: can hear every go.
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  Speaker 2: I'm so... Can I say something?
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  Speaker 1: It was the air.
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  Speaker 2: It was the air.
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  Speaker 1: Are we in it?
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  Speaker 2: I hate it. Firstly, I'm so sorry because we was
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  Speaker 2: talking about Lola. I am parched as fuck.
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  Speaker 5: I was drinking last night and I hate people like
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  Speaker 5: me because I don't like to hit saliva.
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  Speaker 1: You can push the mic. I'm so sorry. When you're
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  Speaker 1: doing something, just push the mic.
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  Speaker 2: I didn't want to break nothing.
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  Speaker 1: No, you good.
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  Speaker 3: All right.
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  Speaker 1: So Lola, welcome back. Thank you.
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  Speaker 4: It's just that you work your hours during the week.
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  Speaker 9: Yeah, my hours.
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  Speaker 2: I'm a track mom, all the things.
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  Speaker 4: Yesterday's here.
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  Speaker 3: Oh, shit. Yeah, what's good?
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  Speaker 1: Y'all good? Everybody all right? I'm good.
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  Speaker 3: What's good?
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  Speaker 4: What's the word?
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  Speaker 1: You a little bit more mouthy today? Because last episode- Yo, whoa, whoa.
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  Speaker 4: Whoa, whoa, whoa.
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  Speaker 1: Don't use that word. Mouthy is crazy. Don't use that word.
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  Speaker 1: This is so shameless.
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  Speaker 3: I already see how you're getting weird. Because we're childish.
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  Speaker 3: Mouthy's weird?
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  Speaker 2: We're fucking childish.
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  Speaker 1: All right. Okay. When I was in the club, and
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  Speaker 1: I spent a lot of time sub-promoting in the club.
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  Speaker 1: Sub-promoting means you got major promoters that hire people to
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  Speaker 1: bring their crews, their little- Right. You got to fill tables.
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  Speaker 1: Sell tables, we'll pay you off to sell at a table. Right.
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  Speaker 4: We'll pay you off for what they spend too, right?
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  Speaker 1: Boom. So I stop promoting, right? So we got your
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  Speaker 1: little girls. You got a bunch of girls that you know.
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  Speaker 1: Bring your girls. Bring your girls.
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  Speaker 4: Don't bring the fat one.
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  Speaker 3: Yo, you good?
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  Speaker 4: It's not a good look. I'm not.
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  Speaker 3: That's not fair.
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  Speaker 1: I'm not letting you do that.
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  Speaker 3: I'm not letting you do that.
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  Speaker 1: I ain't got that much power. No, but some clubs,
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  Speaker 1: it's not all clubs. I was working in VIP clubs.
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  Speaker 1: That means you got the Arabian Persian nigga at the
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  Speaker 1: door and he's looking to see which girls is coming.
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  Speaker 3: He's picking them out. Okay.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, I don't know about you.
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  Speaker 4: I don't know about your friend.
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  Speaker 1: That's crazy.
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  Speaker 2: How long ago was you doing this though?
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  Speaker 1: 10, 15 years. No, 15, 20 years. Even that.
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  Speaker 2: Here's the thing.
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  Speaker 5: It's very different now. Promoters don't do as much work.
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  Speaker 5: They do actually less work than the strippers and the bartenders.
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  Speaker 2: We retired. Not even retired. That was A.I. I literally
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  Speaker 2: don't know. I was doing any fucking thing.
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  Speaker 1: What is... Yo, I was like.
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  Speaker 3: I love that.
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  Speaker 1: I was doing anything.
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  Speaker 2: I'm taking accountability. I was doing anything. I did it
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  Speaker 2: for the plot. The plot is over.
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  Speaker 4: That's where I was starting. I was starting with this.
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  Speaker 1: You don't see... You're not a club girl. At all.
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  Speaker 1: Because the dating the promoters and dating the money girls
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  Speaker 1: is part of the club. If you're a club... That's
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  Speaker 1: your thing? You're doing that.
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  Speaker 3: It's part of the mix.
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  Speaker 1: I remember one time, Trey Saunce comes in the club.
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  Speaker 4: Trey Saunce was.
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  Speaker 1: Dating one of the dancers. One of the promoters. One
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  Speaker 1: of the bottle girls. He's dating one of the bottle girls.
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  Speaker 1: He calls her to come to the hotel.
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  Speaker 10: Right?
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  Speaker 4: I'm fucking sure. But I ain't Trey, so she's like,
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  Speaker 4: I'm going to see Trey.
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  Speaker 3: All right.
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  Speaker 1: She called me next morning.
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  Speaker 4: She crying.
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  Speaker 1: When she got there, her best friend was in there
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  Speaker 1: sucking his dick. She also a bottle girl. That's the... Stigma.
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  Speaker 1: That's the... That's the life. They going. Who got the money,
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  Speaker 1: they going. You understand what I'm saying?
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  Speaker 5: Wait.
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  Speaker 2: Okay, I'm going to let you go first.
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  Speaker 1: Hold on.
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  Speaker 3: You said she called you the next morning. Well, maybe
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  Speaker 3: the day.
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  Speaker 4: I spoke to her again. So she stayed over?
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  Speaker 3: I don't... I think she... Yeah, I think she.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, she went with it. They both looked at him.
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  Speaker 1: She popped in the... Oh, hey, girl. And it's like, oh,
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  Speaker 1: this is Trigger, so I can't. But she was emotionally
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  Speaker 1: attached to the nigga. Her friend just went one night like,
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  Speaker 1: fuck it.
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  Speaker 2: That's crazy.
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  Speaker 1: And so that's the club thing that I remember. When
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  Speaker 1: you're in the club, the nigga with the two, three bands,
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  Speaker 1: he call you going. Yo, come on, we're going to
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  Speaker 1: get something to eat. And whatever happens, happens. Instagram wasn't
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  Speaker 1: crazy like that. You ain't had to be posting and
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  Speaker 1: all that. It was just what happened, happened for a
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  Speaker 1: couple of dollars.
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  Speaker 2: It's so different now.
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  Speaker 5: Like, the bartenders and the dancers have to do majority
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  Speaker 5: of the work, I feel. And they rank you, and
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  Speaker 5: you are hired based off of who you can bring. Now, me,
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  Speaker 5: I'm not a... Look, I don't... No shade. I don't
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  Speaker 5: be fucking these niggas. So I'm not dependable. You might
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  Speaker 5: think you could come to the club.
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  Speaker 2: Not respectfully.
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  Speaker 5: I'ma just hope somebody come in this club, and I'ma
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  Speaker 5: do my entertainment. In a respectful manner, of course.
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  Speaker 1: What's the entertainment?
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  Speaker 2: The entertainment is I'ma do my little right cheek, left cheek,
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  Speaker 2: and that's about to fuck it.
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  Speaker 3: Can you break that down?
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  Speaker 1: No, no.
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  Speaker 5: All right, right cheek, left cheek is exactly what it is.
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  Speaker 5: I didn't say I was pulling my nipples out and
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  Speaker 5: putting my panties inside.
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  Speaker 1: I'm not doing it.
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  Speaker 2: Is this a regular club or a strip club? This
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  Speaker 2: is a strip club.
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  Speaker 3: Okay.
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  Speaker 2: Like, girls get naked, they do they.
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  Speaker 5: And I've worked with bartenders who's like, let me pull
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  Speaker 5: a nipple out to get an extra man, but I'm
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  Speaker 5: not doing it. So we got to split this anyway.
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  Speaker 5: So I'm going to just right cheek, left cheek, all
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  Speaker 5: this fuck. I'm going to play my part.
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  Speaker 2: Y'all split all the money at the end of the night?
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  Speaker 1: Yeah.
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  Speaker 2: So how the money works is... Oh, yes.
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  Speaker 1: Lola, you're 50.
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  Speaker 2: I don't even like... It's not happening. I'm from the
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  Speaker 2: protections era.
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  Speaker 1: Bitches keep their money.
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  Speaker 2: My thing is this. And I'm not the.
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  Speaker 5: Let's make this very clear. I'm not the spokesperson for
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  Speaker 5: this shit. I did it for probably a year or
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  Speaker 5: almost a year, and I'm now out of it like
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  Speaker 5: three months.
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  Speaker 2: It was cool. It's not fucking cool no more.
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  Speaker 5: But to answer your question, so they throw the money.
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  Speaker 5: The money that hits our bar... And the floor is
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  Speaker 5: our money. Because you got the dancers that dance behind you.
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  Speaker 5: If the money touches the stage, it's not your money. Because, yeah,
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  Speaker 5: they don't fuck around. So, basically, we gather all our
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  Speaker 5: money from our quarters. And then we count it. First
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  Speaker 5: of all, we have to pay for our outfits. So,
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  Speaker 5: you got to pay for your outfits. Sometimes you pay before,
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  Speaker 5: depending on the club. Sometimes you pay before. Sometimes you
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  Speaker 5: pay after.
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  Speaker 1: Mm-hmm. okay, fine.
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  Speaker 5: That would be like, what, maybe $ 80, $ 85 already.
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  Speaker 2: So you better hope, if you paid before, you better
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  Speaker 2: hope you make that money back.
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  Speaker 5: And if you pay after, you still got to take
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  Speaker 5: that out of your own pocket if you did not
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  Speaker 5: make that money to pay for your outfit. So either way,
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  Speaker 5: that's money coming out your pocket. Anyways, you count the
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  Speaker 5: total and then you break it in half amongst each other. Well, actually,
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  Speaker 5: I'm sorry, let me backtrack. You count the money in total,
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  Speaker 5: you give a percentage to the buzzboys. So the people
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  Speaker 5: who bring your money together and put it in the bags.
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  Speaker 5: And then after their percentage, then you break it in half.
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  Speaker 5: So pay for your outfit, break off the busboy, and
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  Speaker 5: then whatever's left, y'all, break it in half.
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  Speaker 2: So you just better hope you had a good fucking night, basically,
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  Speaker 2: is what I'm saying. Yeah, that's what... Hello?
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  Speaker 1: Shit. Yeah?
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  Speaker 6: I'm here?
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  Speaker 1: Hello? Shit.
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  Speaker 2: All right.
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  Speaker 8: Hmm.
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  Speaker 1: I have a million topics to talk about today. We
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  Speaker 1: spoke about the bar, the club, and all that. I
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  Speaker 1: do think that the perception about the women being in
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  Speaker 1: the club. Could you date a girl that was in
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  Speaker 1: the club? Dance in the strip club and had to
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  Speaker 1: shake the right and the left cheek for a couple
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  Speaker 1: of hours?
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  Speaker 2: Dance or bartend. It's two different things.
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  Speaker 1: It don't matter. It does matter. No, it matters.
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  Speaker 2: It's a difference.
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  Speaker 4: What's the difference?
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  Speaker 3: What's the difference?
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  Speaker 2: Well, what's the difference in your eyes from an outsider
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  Speaker 2: looking in?
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  Speaker 3: I think from outside looking in, I think the perception
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  Speaker 3: would be that the bartenders are just maybe pouring the drinks.
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  Speaker 3: Get the fuck out of here. That's the perception. I'm
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  Speaker 3: not saying that's what I believe.
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  Speaker 9: No, she wants to know what you believe.
• 11:50
  Speaker 3: Me personally, I think it's the same shit. Honestly, I
• 11:54
  Speaker 3: think it's the same thing. It's not necessarily the same.
• 11:56
  Speaker 1: The strippers have to stand on stage and bust open
• 11:59
  Speaker 1: and wink their booty hole and do all shit.
• 12:01
  Speaker 2: No, but they could get personal.
• 12:03
  Speaker 1: The bartenders actually are calling niggas to come and the
• 12:07
  Speaker 1: niggas is actually in their faces and the bartenders got
• 12:10
  Speaker 1: to go entertain the nigga and they go dance in
• 12:13
  Speaker 1: front of the nigga and the nigga actually think he
• 12:14
  Speaker 1: might have a chance with the bartender.
• 12:16
  Speaker 9: I think it's a hierarchy. I think the strippers are
• 12:20
  Speaker 9: low on the totem pole.
• 12:21
  Speaker 1: I can agree with that.
• 12:21
  Speaker 9: The bartenders are the influencers, the I got 100,000 followers,
• 12:26
  Speaker 9: I'm a little better than you.
• 12:27
  Speaker 2: That's exactly what it is. But they're still fucking.
• 12:29
  Speaker 1: Exactly. Majority.
• 12:31
  Speaker 3: Exactly.
• 12:32
  Speaker 2: I believe so.
• 12:32
  Speaker 1: So the bartenders is the ones that's actually the ones
• 12:35
  Speaker 1: that I would be more worried about because they is
• 12:38
  Speaker 1: the ones they coming for and they're going to entertain
• 12:40
  Speaker 1: their real clients.
• 12:41
  Speaker 3: So they have their real clients.
• 12:42
  Speaker 2: Okay, I see what you're saying.
• 12:44
  Speaker 1: I remember Bernice.
• 12:45
  Speaker 4: When Bernice was in the club. I bought a bottle.
• 12:48
  Speaker 1: I didn't give a fuck about Bernice. I want a bottle.
• 12:50
  Speaker 4: I'm hype.
• 12:50
  Speaker 1: I got my bottle. I'm at the bar, though. The
• 12:54
  Speaker 1: fucking security came over. Bernice was like, you got to move.
• 12:57
  Speaker 1: My client is coming.
• 12:58
  Speaker 8: Yeah.
• 12:58
  Speaker 4: I was like, I got a bottle. What you mean?
• 13:00
  Speaker 4: The nigga was like, I'm not holding a spot for
• 13:02
  Speaker 4: you for no bottle, bro.
• 13:03
  Speaker 1: You got to go.
• 13:03
  Speaker 5: They don't even sometimes give you a chair. No, they
• 13:06
  Speaker 5: wouldn't give me a chair. Yeah, you got to earn
• 13:08
  Speaker 5: that chair.
• 13:09
  Speaker 1: Nigga's like, yo, you got to walk with your bottle. Go.
• 13:11
  Speaker 3: Just walk with it.
• 13:12
  Speaker 1: I was like....
• 13:16
  Speaker 3: Damn.
• 13:16
  Speaker 4: Anyway.
• 13:17
  Speaker 2: Yeah, you got to earn the cheers. But that's that.
• 13:19
  Speaker 2: I feel like that's where I fucked up.
• 13:20
  Speaker 5: I feel like I went into it very naive because
• 13:22
  Speaker 5: I do enjoy shaking my ass.
• 13:24
  Speaker 2: I like to have a good time. I like to party.
• 13:26
  Speaker 5: But I forgot, regardless of whatever the fuck I want
• 13:28
  Speaker 5: to be naive about, this is still, like, this is
• 13:31
  Speaker 5: still what this looks like. And I feel like once
• 13:33
  Speaker 5: I got, I guess you could say backlash, kind of,
• 13:36
  Speaker 5: from people that supported me all of these years, they like, damn, girl, like,
• 13:40
  Speaker 5: I always looked up to you as such a, like,
• 13:42
  Speaker 5: a business owner and now you stripping. I'm like, damn,
• 13:44
  Speaker 5: I don't even strip. But it's like, once again, people
• 13:46
  Speaker 5: don't really see it as being different, which is understandable
• 13:48
  Speaker 5: if you're on the outside looking in.
• 13:49
  Speaker 2: Of course, that's what you're going to think.
• 13:51
  Speaker 5: And I guess I just had a mindset like nobody
• 13:53
  Speaker 5: can tell me what I'm doing because when it comes
• 13:55
  Speaker 5: down to it.
• 13:55
  Speaker 1: Tell a story.
• 13:56
  Speaker 2: Like, tell a story.
• 13:57
  Speaker 5: If you feel like I'm going, let me hear something
• 13:59
  Speaker 5: I did. Because strictly, I don't play that shit. I
• 14:02
  Speaker 5: don't like none of that.
• 14:03
  Speaker 2: I don't.
• 14:04
  Speaker 5: And it's like, I don't like the way they talk
• 14:05
  Speaker 5: to you. I don't like the way people in the
• 14:07
  Speaker 5: club will talk to you. You could tell, you're a worker.
• 14:11
  Speaker 5: I'm used to, when I work with a community of people,
• 14:14
  Speaker 5: we're a team. Ain't no fucking team. You might see
• 14:16
  Speaker 5: somebody today, you'll never see her again. Somebody might be
• 14:19
  Speaker 5: coming from out of town, they come, that's the last
• 14:21
  Speaker 5: time you see. You might be working with somebody that
• 14:23
  Speaker 5: fucked your nigga. And you don't get to really choose
• 14:26
  Speaker 5: unless you got a good relationship with the promoter or something.
• 14:28
  Speaker 2: You might control a thing or two.
• 14:30
  Speaker 5: But it's like, that club shit, I'm not going to lie,
• 14:33
  Speaker 5: that shit is not it.
• 14:35
  Speaker 4: Bad decision on your part?
• 14:36
  Speaker 2: I feel like, I'm.
• 14:37
  Speaker 5: Not going to necessarily say a bad decision because I
• 14:39
  Speaker 5: feel like it built character development because I wasn't really outside. Like,
• 14:42
  Speaker 5: I'm not somebody who was always in the clubs. My
• 14:45
  Speaker 5: time being in the clubs was with my dude at
• 14:47
  Speaker 5: the time. He was heavily in nightlife, so I'm outside
• 14:49
  Speaker 5: with him. And before him, yeah, I go outside a
• 14:52
  Speaker 5: time or two or a couple of times, but I
• 14:54
  Speaker 5: wasn't heavily in it to know. I just hear the stories.
• 14:57
  Speaker 5: So I'm like, I'm pretty, I could, I could shake
• 14:59
  Speaker 5: my ass like, oh, yeah, I could do this.
• 15:01
  Speaker 6: Like, it's easy.
• 15:02
  Speaker 1: No.
• 15:03
  Speaker 2: You can't bring niggas.
• 15:04
  Speaker 5: It's not that easy. And they will clip you right
• 15:06
  Speaker 5: from the schedule if you're not bringing niggas.
• 15:08
  Speaker 1: You got clipped?
• 15:09
  Speaker 2: I got clipped.
• 15:11
  Speaker 1: You guys should clip like that. She was thinking. She thinking.
• 15:13
  Speaker 1: I got clipped.
• 15:15
  Speaker 2: I got clipped.
• 15:16
  Speaker 3: No.
• 15:18
  Speaker 2: I got clipped. I got clipped. Maybe. No, because I
• 15:24
  Speaker 2: really got to think about this. This is some real
• 15:25
  Speaker 2: transparent shit. I'm going to be honest. I got clipped
• 15:28
  Speaker 2: from one club twice.
• 15:31
  Speaker 5: The first time was strictly, he'd say he's going to
• 15:33
  Speaker 5: test me out, put me on a schedule.
• 15:34
  Speaker 2: I knew I wasn't bringing no niggas, so I was
• 15:36
  Speaker 2: just happy to be there. I ain't going along.
• 15:37
  Speaker 5: I'm in a club that's doing that. You know, niggas come. Look,
• 15:40
  Speaker 5: my partner bring a nigga, I do the rest of
• 15:42
  Speaker 5: the work. Like, you just, look, I was very humble
• 15:44
  Speaker 5: about it.
• 15:45
  Speaker 2: That's fine. They took me off the schedule. That's cool.
• 15:47
  Speaker 5: I'm not really putting in effort anyway. I barely even
• 15:50
  Speaker 5: wanted to post the flyers, to be honest, because I
• 15:52
  Speaker 5: don't want this shit on my page. Let me just
• 15:55
  Speaker 5: show up like a thief in the night, do what
• 15:56
  Speaker 5: I do, come out in the morning, forget about it,
• 15:58
  Speaker 5: money in my account. That's how I want it to be.
• 16:01
  Speaker 5: And then the other time, I had a couple of
• 16:04
  Speaker 5: days in the club, probably like two, and then I
• 16:05
  Speaker 5: got clipped from one day because I got into an
• 16:08
  Speaker 5: argument with some bitch.
• 16:09
  Speaker 2: Them bitches be weird. took me right off the schedule.
• 16:12
  Speaker 1: That worked, yeah.
• 16:13
  Speaker 10: Yeah.
• 16:13
  Speaker 4: That's how it go.
• 16:15
  Speaker 5: And it was like, they be like, you have one fight,
• 16:16
  Speaker 5: you kicked out, so I ain't gonna get kicked out.
• 16:18
  Speaker 5: But it's like, I don't play with y'all bitches. Like,
• 16:20
  Speaker 5: I'm not, look, I'm very nice. I feel like I
• 16:23
  Speaker 5: speak to everybody with respect. I'm a respect your space,
• 16:25
  Speaker 5: respect mine. But they smoking, drinking, you don't know, you
• 16:30
  Speaker 5: could fuck with a girl as soon as she start drinking,
• 16:31
  Speaker 5: she start turning.
• 16:33
  Speaker 1: Yeah.
• 16:34
  Speaker 5: I don't, I don't, or you could be partners with
• 16:37
  Speaker 5: somebody who drink too much and do too much.
• 16:39
  Speaker 7: Mm-hmm.
• 16:39
  Speaker 2: It's like, I'm really chill. I'm a fun. I'm a
• 16:42
  Speaker 2: good time. But this is your bitch's life.
• 16:45
  Speaker 1: All right. All right. You all right? No. She's triggered.
• 16:50
  Speaker 2: I am triggered. It's performative. I am triggered. You in
• 16:52
  Speaker 2: a performance. I really be feeling like this is the
• 16:55
  Speaker 2: time to talk about it.
• 16:56
  Speaker 1: You know what, though?
• 16:57
  Speaker 4: I'm glad you was able to get in.
• 16:59
  Speaker 2: And get out.
• 17:00
  Speaker 4: Get the fuck out. Before shit. Remember, we was just
• 17:02
  Speaker 4: talking to my daughter about shit.
• 17:04
  Speaker 1: Yes.
• 17:04
  Speaker 4: You make lazy decisions or you make decisions that.
• 17:07
  Speaker 1: Aren't really in your aura.
• 17:08
  Speaker 5: Yeah.
• 17:08
  Speaker 1: And a lot of times you get hit with some shit. Bullshit.
• 17:12
  Speaker 2: You can't come out of.
• 17:13
  Speaker 1: Some shit you can't come out of. So luckily you
• 17:15
  Speaker 1: was able to step your toe in. He said, you
• 17:17
  Speaker 1: know what? It's not for me.
• 17:18
  Speaker 4: This ain't for me right here.
• 17:19
  Speaker 1: And you move.
• 17:20
  Speaker 4: Because honestly, I didn't know you very well. But when
• 17:22
  Speaker 4: I met you, I met you potting.
• 17:23
  Speaker 1: Right. And I'm like, oh, she's dope. Yo, take my number.
• 17:27
  Speaker 1: We'll get you on the show. Whatever, whatever.
• 17:29
  Speaker 6: Smart.
• 17:29
  Speaker 1: You know what I mean? You're going to do a show.
• 17:31
  Speaker 1: Remember we was talking about you doing your own shit?
• 17:33
  Speaker 1: And then you gave me your IG. And I'm like,
• 17:35
  Speaker 1: all right, cool. titties ass shaking I'm like what the
• 17:40
  Speaker 1: fuck cause it didn't fit the profile so what she's
• 17:42
  Speaker 1: saying right now I agree I can understand her having
• 17:45
  Speaker 1: a community that's like and she's like listen I got
• 17:48
  Speaker 1: two dollars I didn't pay for these shit I don't
• 17:50
  Speaker 1: know what y'all talking about I got things to do
• 17:52
  Speaker 1: but at some point you're able to say yo you
• 17:54
  Speaker 1: know what some old money ain't good money It's bad
• 17:57
  Speaker 1: for me. All good. Y'all ready to talk about the
• 17:59
  Speaker 1: shit I got to talk about? Let's get into it.
• 18:02
  Speaker 1: Get out of Paris' backyard. A cemetery of job opportunities.
• 18:07
  Speaker 1: All right. Here we go.
• 18:08
  Speaker 4: Let me see. I'm so excited. I have so many
• 18:12
  Speaker 4: topics today.
• 18:13
  Speaker 2: Okay.
• 18:15
  Speaker 1: Y'all ready?
• 18:16
  Speaker 3: Yes.
• 18:16
  Speaker 1: Let's go.
• 18:17
  Speaker 6: And why can't women just say, no, babe, I don't remember?
• 18:22
  Speaker 6: Why do they have to say, wrong bitch?
• 18:32
  Speaker 7: I don't know.
• 18:32
  Speaker 6: I'm getting old.
• 18:33
  Speaker 3: I lose memory. Yo, that ass. Yo, why can't niggas
• 18:36
  Speaker 3: just forget shit?
• 18:37
  Speaker 2: We got to keep a nigga on his toes.
• 18:40
  Speaker 9: Nah.
• 18:41
  Speaker 1: There's something behind wrong bitch. Yeah.
• 18:44
  Speaker 9: Usually the one that's saying wrong bitch has dealt with
• 18:46
  Speaker 9: the nigga that really was thinking about the wrong bitch.
• 18:49
  Speaker 9: You're the greatest man in the world and all of
• 18:51
  Speaker 9: a sudden we spring a wrong bitch. You probably did
• 18:53
  Speaker 9: some wrong shit. And that's why I'm saying it now.
• 18:56
  Speaker 4: No.
• 18:56
  Speaker 9: No.
• 18:57
  Speaker 3: No, I'm not rolling with that.
• 18:58
  Speaker 1: She may have dealt with a nigga that... Did that, yeah.
• 19:00
  Speaker 1: But that don't mean you got to do that with me.
• 19:02
  Speaker 2: You know what?
• 19:03
  Speaker 1: Why I can't be a regular person?
• 19:04
  Speaker 3: It's like women do it to all niggas. It don't
• 19:06
  Speaker 3: really matter how long you've been with the niggas. Anybody
• 19:09
  Speaker 3: makes a mistake or forgets, that's usually the response.
• 19:11
  Speaker 5: But if I genuinely don't remember... And you so excited
• 19:14
  Speaker 5: about it. I felt like if you was already passionate
• 19:16
  Speaker 5: about it in the first place, I would have remembered.
• 19:17
  Speaker 5: So why don't I remember?
• 19:18
  Speaker 6: Right.
• 19:18
  Speaker 2: And the fact that I don't remember. Some may add
• 19:21
  Speaker 2: it up.
• 19:21
  Speaker 6: Yeah.
• 19:22
  Speaker 2: I would have remembered.
• 19:23
  Speaker 9: A nigga said to me one time, he was like,
• 19:24
  Speaker 9: remember we went to that spot and we was eating edamame?
• 19:27
  Speaker 9: I've never fucking eaten edamame in my life. And that
• 19:29
  Speaker 9: shit will piss you off.
• 19:30
  Speaker 2: Edamame? That's so like specific. Wrong bitch, nigga. I don't
• 19:34
  Speaker 2: eat edamame.
• 19:36
  Speaker 1: What the fuck is wrong with you?
• 19:38
  Speaker 2: What is that?
• 19:38
  Speaker 10: Yo.
• 19:39
  Speaker 2: It's like some pod shit. I don't know. It look like.
• 19:42
  Speaker 9: What is edamame?
• 19:43
  Speaker 2: I don't know. It sounds fancy, though. It sounds very fancy.
• 19:46
  Speaker 4: It do sound fancy.
• 19:47
  Speaker 1: It do. Maybe he thought she was the type of
• 19:48
  Speaker 1: bitch to eat some fancy shit. Wrong bitch.
• 19:50
  Speaker 8: Okay.
• 19:50
  Speaker 1: You never hold up. You never went somewhere and forgot? Um.
• 19:55
  Speaker 9: I might have forgotten going somewhere, but eating something that specific.
• 20:00
  Speaker 9: And then when I saw what an edamame was, because,
• 20:02
  Speaker 9: you know, I had to Google it, motherfucker. Like, I
• 20:04
  Speaker 9: know I'm not going crazy. I would never eat that.
• 20:06
  Speaker 9: It looks like how peas are in that pod, but
• 20:10
  Speaker 9: it's like a flattened version.
• 20:11
  Speaker 2: I'm not eating that shit.
• 20:14
  Speaker 4: That doesn't even suit my eyes.
• 20:16
  Speaker 9: Yeah, stop it. That's why we be saying.
• 20:18
  Speaker 5: Wrong, bitch.
• 20:18
  Speaker 1: I think that y'all live through the idea, the thought,
• 20:22
  Speaker 1: of a nigga cheating too much. It's like literally your
• 20:25
  Speaker 1: everyday reality. Like, where are you right now? Why are you?
• 20:29
  Speaker 1: Wrong bitch. It's too much. You might be cheating.
• 20:33
  Speaker 3: Yeah.
• 20:33
  Speaker 1: It's too much. Like, why we can't just be regular people?
• 20:35
  Speaker 3: It could possibly be in the air type shit.
• 20:37
  Speaker 5: I think the thing for me is, if I say
• 20:39
  Speaker 5: I don't remember, you're like, nah, you remember when we... Nah,
• 20:42
  Speaker 5: I don't remember. No, because remember when you did this?
• 20:45
  Speaker 5: I just said I don't remember. How you don't remember when...
• 20:47
  Speaker 5: Wrong bitch.
• 20:48
  Speaker 1: But if.
• 20:49
  Speaker 2: If I just told you I don't remember.
• 20:50
  Speaker 1: Why you can't just not remember?
• 20:51
  Speaker 2: But why you trying to convince me I did something
• 20:52
  Speaker 2: that I did not do? You gaslighting me. Stop it.
• 20:54
  Speaker 1: Because you was there. I was there with you.
• 20:56
  Speaker 5: But if you just gave me three different reasons of
• 20:58
  Speaker 5: why I should remember and I still don't know what
• 21:00
  Speaker 5: you're talking about, I have to be the wrong bitch.
• 21:03
  Speaker 1: Or you could just not remember.
• 21:05
  Speaker 2: All of that, though? I don't remember everything.
• 21:07
  Speaker 1: Wait a minute.
• 21:08
  Speaker 4: So this is gaslighting.
• 21:09
  Speaker 1: Y'all know that.
• 21:10
  Speaker 2: No, for sure. Y'all are gaslighting.
• 21:12
  Speaker 3: Y'all are saying that niggas cannot forget. Y'all are saying
• 21:15
  Speaker 3: that y'all are incapable of forgetting things.
• 21:17
  Speaker 1: You were there.
• 21:19
  Speaker 2: You were there. All right, show me the picture. Show
• 21:21
  Speaker 2: me the picture. We ain't take not one picture. We
• 21:24
  Speaker 2: ain't take a picture that day.
• 21:25
  Speaker 8: A video.
• 21:26
  Speaker 2: A story. Nothing. An archive.
• 21:28
  Speaker 1: Please.
• 21:30
  Speaker 2: Pull it out. Cut the shit.
• 21:31
  Speaker 1: Are y'all serious?
• 21:32
  Speaker 9: Yo, you know when I don't remember something, I go
• 21:34
  Speaker 9: through my phone and I look at my pictures to
• 21:36
  Speaker 9: figure out what I was doing?
• 21:37
  Speaker 1: What is wrong with y'all? No, what is wrong with you? Exactly. Exactly.
• 21:42
  Speaker 1: For having the experience and reminding you about it. I
• 21:45
  Speaker 1: must have been, I should have been with a different bitch. Remembering.
• 21:48
  Speaker 1: At a moment. Because why the fuck was I with you? Because,
• 21:50
  Speaker 1: you know, I should have been with a different bitch then.
• 21:52
  Speaker 1: Because if it's reversed, you know, that's our fault too.
• 21:54
  Speaker 1: So if they say, yo, remember we did X, Y, Z?
• 21:56
  Speaker 1: We like, oh, we don't remember that. It's like, oh,
• 21:58
  Speaker 1: you don't remember that? Yo, it must have wasn't that important.
• 22:01
  Speaker 1: So we can't remember and we can't not remember. Is
• 22:04
  Speaker 1: there ever a time, how long does it take in
• 22:06
  Speaker 1: a healthy relationship that you don't think a nigga might
• 22:09
  Speaker 1: have possibly been with another bitch? How long? How long healthy?
• 22:13
  Speaker 1: No cheating? Nothing? How long before it doesn't instantly go
• 22:18
  Speaker 1: to wrong bitch?
• 22:20
  Speaker 9: You have to have set the pattern that I would
• 22:23
  Speaker 9: not be thinking that you're cheating from the beginning.
• 22:26
  Speaker 4: How long before you get there?
• 22:27
  Speaker 1: Two months? A year?
• 22:29
  Speaker 2: It's subjective. It really is.
• 22:31
  Speaker 9: I was dating a guy and I never had to
• 22:34
  Speaker 9: think that he was cheating. I never thought he was cheating.
• 22:36
  Speaker 9: He was a faithful, genuine, generous.
• 22:40
  Speaker 1: Honest, transparent... Got him. Got him. There you go.
• 22:45
  Speaker 3: We got him. It's all right.
• 22:46
  Speaker 2: Like I said, sometimes you got to keep the nigga
• 22:48
  Speaker 2: on their toes.
• 22:48
  Speaker 9: But he would have laughed it off and it would
• 22:50
  Speaker 9: have been funny. When you niggas start getting defensive, I
• 22:53
  Speaker 9: got him. Why are you getting defensive?
• 22:55
  Speaker 1: Because I wasn't with another bitch. Whatever.
• 22:58
  Speaker 2: What the fuck?
• 22:59
  Speaker 3: First of all, I'm getting in trouble because I remember
• 23:01
  Speaker 3: something and I wasn't with somebody. Like, that's a crazy take.
• 23:06
  Speaker 3: But do you give off the, I've been cheating?
• 23:09
  Speaker 8: No.
• 23:09
  Speaker 5: No.
• 23:10
  Speaker 2: And then this was.
• 23:11
  Speaker 4: Just an opener.
• 23:12
  Speaker 7: Yeah.
• 23:13
  Speaker 4: This week, you know, I just feel like ladies, I'd
• 23:15
  Speaker 4: be saying wrong bitch to my girl too.
• 23:16
  Speaker 2: See, exactly.
• 23:17
  Speaker 1: It's fun. I don't remember. Yeah. I just be having fun.
• 23:21
  Speaker 3: Fuck it.
• 23:22
  Speaker 1: Um, I do want to address some things as I
• 23:25
  Speaker 1: wanted to make sure that we started off light, right?
• 23:28
  Speaker 1: There's a lot of bullshit going on out here and
• 23:30
  Speaker 1: we're going to talk about some bullshit too, but, uh, Gary, Indiana, right?
• 23:36
  Speaker 1: 10 days, I believe no power. The food is spoiled.
• 23:42
  Speaker 1: The fucking water can't be filtrated. So they got to
• 23:46
  Speaker 1: like boil water, but they don't have ovens. The electric
• 23:49
  Speaker 1: stove is fucked up. So they out there with goddamn
• 23:51
  Speaker 1: logs and pots. A lot of them have left the
• 23:54
  Speaker 1: town of Gary in Indiana. This has been basically evacuated. Right.
• 24:01
  Speaker 1: And it's basically a ghost town. And, you know, a
• 24:03
  Speaker 1: lot of people are saying it's because it's a black town. Absolutely.
• 24:06
  Speaker 2: Where's the National Guard for Gary, Indiana? Call it for
• 24:09
  Speaker 2: everything else.
• 24:09
  Speaker 3: For sure. Oh, I did see Keith Lee and Tyrese Halliburton.
• 24:15
  Speaker 3: They was doing like a giveaway for people in Indiana.
• 24:17
  Speaker 3: They was helping people that, you know, stuff was off.
• 24:20
  Speaker 3: So shout out to them for doing that. But yeah,
• 24:21
  Speaker 3: I definitely agree with you because, you know, all black towns,
• 24:23
  Speaker 3: I think, get neglected in that way, especially those highly
• 24:26
  Speaker 3: populated black towns.
• 24:27
  Speaker 7: Mr.
• 24:27
  Speaker 1: One went up with the water.
• 24:28
  Speaker 5: Flint.
• 24:28
  Speaker 1: Flint. Michigan. You know, the water's still fucked up. Yeah.
• 24:31
  Speaker 1: It would have been fucked up the whole time. It
• 24:33
  Speaker 1: never was not fucked up. That's not nuts.
• 24:35
  Speaker 2: That's insane.
• 24:37
  Speaker 1: It's been fucked up since... Since you heard about it.
• 24:39
  Speaker 1: Since you heard about it. What is that, Biden? Early Biden?
• 24:42
  Speaker 3: Before that.
• 24:42
  Speaker 1: It's been like six, seven years.
• 24:44
  Speaker 5: I feel like they probably gave up on the project,
• 24:46
  Speaker 5: to be honest. Or they probably just There's no way.
• 24:48
  Speaker 5: Because I feel like if it was L.A., it would
• 24:51
  Speaker 5: have never went down like that. They would have had water.
• 24:52
  Speaker 2: The next day.
• 24:53
  Speaker 4: If it was fucking Dakota or some shit.
• 24:56
  Speaker 1: We're just talking about the fact that it's black towns.
• 24:59
  Speaker 4: Very unfortunate. That is like that.
• 25:00
  Speaker 9: And do you know that it's illegal to collect rainwater
• 25:03
  Speaker 9: in certain states? So y'all don't give the people water
• 25:06
  Speaker 9: and necessities that they need, but it is illegal for
• 25:08
  Speaker 9: you to put a pot or anything outside for you
• 25:11
  Speaker 9: to collect the rainwater.
• 25:12
  Speaker 1: Why?
• 25:13
  Speaker 9: I still don't fucking know. It's something about when it
• 25:16
  Speaker 9: lands on their land. It's their property, but this is
• 25:20
  Speaker 9: my pot. that the water is coming in. So I'm
• 25:23
  Speaker 9: still confused about that. But I do know that it
• 25:24
  Speaker 9: is illegal in certain states.
• 25:26
  Speaker 2: My pot on my yard that I paid for, I
• 25:31
  Speaker 2: can't even.
• 25:31
  Speaker 3: And it's also another way just to make you pay
• 25:33
  Speaker 3: for water, too.
• 25:33
  Speaker 5: Right.
• 25:34
  Speaker 3: That's another thing. So it's like, you know, anybody can
• 25:35
  Speaker 3: go outside and collect, you know, rainwater and filter it, right?
• 25:38
  Speaker 3: So in that case, you just have unlimited water if
• 25:40
  Speaker 3: that's the case. So it's like, nah, you're going to
• 25:42
  Speaker 3: pay for some of this, buddy.
• 25:43
  Speaker 2: They ain't going to charge you for any fucking thing. Like,
• 25:46
  Speaker 2: I'm over it.
• 25:46
  Speaker 5: Did y'all see that video of that girl? She was like, oh,
• 25:48
  Speaker 5: when I didn't pay my walk-in subscription and she fell?
• 25:52
  Speaker 2: Wasn't that a Black Mirror episode?
• 25:55
  Speaker 5: Somebody said that in the comments and I didn't get
• 25:57
  Speaker 5: the reference, but that's the.
• 25:58
  Speaker 1: Show, right? Yeah.
• 26:00
  Speaker 3: I haven't seen that show, but I feel like I
• 26:02
  Speaker 3: Hearing when people reference it, I can kind of understand
• 26:04
  Speaker 3: what they mean when they say that's some Black Mirror shit.
• 26:05
  Speaker 9: Yeah, and then they would put the, like, you had
• 26:07
  Speaker 9: a subscription to, let's just say, Breathe, right? And because
• 26:11
  Speaker 9: you have an oxygen issue. So you have a subscription
• 26:15
  Speaker 9: to Breathe. And as soon as your subscription runs out,
• 26:18
  Speaker 9: they'll start doing ads. So now you have your mental
• 26:20
  Speaker 9: looking at ads. You got to look at this episode
• 26:22
  Speaker 9: because it was crazy.
• 26:23
  Speaker 2: Now I got to watch it.
• 26:24
  Speaker 1: And then if you don't pay the.
• 26:25
  Speaker 2: Subscription, you die.
• 26:26
  Speaker 1: This is all interesting, but I do want to cap
• 26:28
  Speaker 1: off the rainwater thing. That shit fucked me up. So
• 26:31
  Speaker 1: I went deep diving and now I'm in Reddit.
• 26:33
  Speaker 3: Okay.
• 26:33
  Speaker 2: What are they saying?
• 26:35
  Speaker 1: Typical harvesting of rainwater usually isn't illegal. What's illegal is
• 26:38
  Speaker 1: trapping large amounts of water on your land. So you
• 26:41
  Speaker 1: can't go and build like an artificial lake to catch
• 26:44
  Speaker 1: all the rain on your property. This is because in
• 26:46
  Speaker 1: many places, farms depend on the water that would have
• 26:49
  Speaker 1: run off your property into streams. Simple rain barrels aren't illegal.
• 26:54
  Speaker 1: giant water storage like diverting streams is or taking away
• 26:58
  Speaker 1: from what feeds a stream. Can you look.
• 27:01
  Speaker 9: Up Gary, Indiana specifically? Is it legal to capture rainwater
• 27:06
  Speaker 9: in Indiana? And what is the amount at which it
• 27:09
  Speaker 9: becomes legal?
• 27:11
  Speaker 1: I'm fucking chat GBT. What the fuck is this? Yes.
• 27:13
  Speaker 9: These are the questions because I don't, that nigga on
• 27:17
  Speaker 9: Reddit is lying.
• 27:19
  Speaker 2: He could be working for the government, you know?
• 27:21
  Speaker 1: Yeah. All right. Yes, it's completely legal to capture Rainwater
• 27:25
  Speaker 1: in Gary, Indiana.
• 27:26
  Speaker 3: Okay.
• 27:27
  Speaker 1: Nice.
• 27:28
  Speaker 2: Just wanted to know.
• 27:29
  Speaker 9: That's the thing I have to do at this point.
• 27:31
  Speaker 4: It is fucked up, though, what is going over there.
• 27:33
  Speaker 4: I do... This leads into something else that has.
• 27:39
  Speaker 4: I spoke about this shit last week. They are hanging niggas.
• 27:45
  Speaker 3: Verbatim.
• 27:46
  Speaker 1: They are out here hanging niggas. Again, since last week...
• 27:52
  Speaker 1: I got a new one. Hold on. Where is it?
• 27:55
  Speaker 4: And I can't fucking believe it. Since last week.
• 28:01
  Speaker 6: Father of nine was found hanging in North Green, Idaho.
• 28:03
  Speaker 2: Let's get into it.
• 28:04
  Speaker 10: In Roanoke Rapids, police are investigating the death of 38-year-old
• 28:07
  Speaker 10: Demetrius Eugene Fleming. Now, Demetrius was found hanging from a
• 28:10
  Speaker 10: tree Friday at a home on Roanoke Avenue. Now, the
• 28:13
  Speaker 10: police chief, Lawrence Wiggins, is calling the situation an open investigation. Now,
• 28:17
  Speaker 10: the initial 911 call came in as an attempted suicide
• 28:20
  Speaker 10: from somebody that was close to the scene, but not
• 28:23
  Speaker 10: on the scene.
• 28:24
  Speaker 2: An autopsy is underway.
• 28:25
  Speaker 10: According to his obituary, Demetrius Fleming was a husband, father
• 28:28
  Speaker 10: of nine, and a musician who brought a lot of
• 28:30
  Speaker 10: joy to his community. Now, understand this comes just days
• 28:33
  Speaker 10: after a 32-year-old Black man was found hanging from a
• 28:36
  Speaker 10: tree near Nash Square in downtown Raleigh. Raleigh police ruled
• 28:40
  Speaker 10: it a suicide and said that surveillance video they have
• 28:43
  Speaker 10: shows that he acted alone. And then there's the case
• 28:46
  Speaker 10: of 16-year-old Juliana Nzita, a Congolese immigrant found hanging from
• 28:50
  Speaker 10: a tree on church grounds in Charlotte on May 8, 2026.
• 28:53
  Speaker 10: Police ruled it a suicide within three days, and no
• 28:56
  Speaker 10: autopsy was ever performed, only a physical examination, and her
• 28:59
  Speaker 10: phone was never found, and the police never even interviewed
• 29:01
  Speaker 10: the guy who discovered her body. Her family is still
• 29:04
  Speaker 10: seeking answers. We also can't forget Cedric Teju. On June 6, 2026,
• 29:07
  Speaker 10: the 36-year-old Congolese immigrant immigrant and community activist was found
• 29:12
  Speaker 10: hanging from a tree at Harris Depot Park in Harrisburg,
• 29:15
  Speaker 10: North Carolina. Now, Cedric was a community activist. The Caldwell
• 29:18
  Speaker 10: County Sheriff's Office determined that no foul play was involved
• 29:21
  Speaker 10: and said that there was physical evidence that was consistent
• 29:24
  Speaker 10: with suicide.
• 29:25
  Speaker 2: Four Black people have been found hanging within a year.
• 29:27
  Speaker 10: Three out of four of those have been ruled a
• 29:29
  Speaker 10: suicide so far, and the police are telling people not
• 29:32
  Speaker 10: to speculate. But when you have four hangings taking place
• 29:35
  Speaker 10: in a state that had hundreds of documented cases of lynchings,
• 29:38
  Speaker 10: you can't help but wonder if That's four in North Carolina.
• 29:31
  Speaker 6: That's four in two months. Black people ain't hanging themselves.
• 29:53
  Speaker 9: There's a million other ways to end your life if
• 29:56
  Speaker 9: that's what you choose.
• 29:57
  Speaker 2: I don't think we're going to choose to do so.
• 30:00
  Speaker 4: So what's happening?
• 30:01
  Speaker 3: What are we doing?
• 30:02
  Speaker 1: What's the response? What's the appropriate response to hearing that
• 30:05
  Speaker 1: niggas is getting hung out here?
• 30:07
  Speaker 2: Honestly, it seems like it's coming like the.
• 30:09
  Speaker 1: I.
• 30:11
  Speaker 5: Feel like they're hiding a lot of things and... It's
• 30:15
  Speaker 5: seeming like it's within the system somehow. Because why does
• 30:18
  Speaker 5: it always, it's ruled out as a suicide? Y'all didn't
• 30:20
  Speaker 5: even do an investigation to see if they had some
• 30:22
  Speaker 5: shit going on.
• 30:23
  Speaker 3: No autopsy is crazy.
• 30:24
  Speaker 2: Who said I was suicidal?
• 30:25
  Speaker 5: And now it's a thing where it's like, damn, do
• 30:27
  Speaker 5: I got to put it in my bio that I'm
• 30:28
  Speaker 5: not suicidal?
• 30:29
  Speaker 2: Like, part of it feels like this is.
• 30:33
  Speaker 9: Provocation for there to eventually become a race war. Like
• 30:37
  Speaker 9: anything that could get Trump to be able to stay
• 30:40
  Speaker 9: in office and be able to implement what they already
• 30:43
  Speaker 9: have in Project 2025, one of those is being able
• 30:46
  Speaker 9: to cite martial law. So if we do get angry enough,
• 30:49
  Speaker 9: if we actually stop paying attention to the bullshit, that's
• 30:52
  Speaker 9: on social media and shaking our ass and drinking on
• 30:54
  Speaker 9: the weekends and actually rile up and do some shit, boom,
• 30:57
  Speaker 9: martial law, he doesn't have to leave office.
• 30:59
  Speaker 1: It's no.
• 31:01
  Speaker 9: As we get closer to midterms, it's no coincidence that
• 31:04
  Speaker 9: all of this is happening to rile us up. Nolan,
• 31:07
  Speaker 9: this shit is to rile us up. And a lot
• 31:08
  Speaker 9: of us are getting very fucking angry and are ready
• 31:11
  Speaker 9: to do something, but then we have to be strategic
• 31:13
  Speaker 9: because doing something could cause a mass issue if Trump
• 31:17
  Speaker 9: doesn't leave fucking office.
• 31:19
  Speaker 1: You know that the Department of Justice... is now allowing
• 31:23
  Speaker 1: felons to apply to be able to own guns again.
• 31:28
  Speaker 1: I'm like, yo, I've lived my whole life. I didn't
• 31:31
  Speaker 1: even know that was a thing. I'm super happy. I'm
• 31:34
  Speaker 1: about to get the paperwork next week. I'm hyped.
• 31:36
  Speaker 4: Like, I never thought I'd be able to, but I
• 31:38
  Speaker 4: was thinking, this ain't for us.
• 31:40
  Speaker 1: No. This is for them.
• 31:41
  Speaker 9: They gearing up.
• 31:42
  Speaker 1: Because they already lost the first one. 100%. They not
• 31:45
  Speaker 1: trying to lose the next one. They on it for real.
• 31:48
  Speaker 1: They trying to even arm their felons. Right.
• 31:51
  Speaker 2: That's some scary shit.
• 31:53
  Speaker 1: What do you do?
• 31:54
  Speaker 3: What do you do?
• 31:55
  Speaker 1: Is there going to be a race war?
• 31:56
  Speaker 9: If everyone could get guns, nigga, I'm getting a gun too.
• 32:00
  Speaker 2: I feel like if, yeah, several.
• 32:02
  Speaker 9: I feel like we need to start teaching our kids
• 32:04
  Speaker 9: how to play basketball. Let's go to the fucking gun range.
• 32:06
  Speaker 9: I took my son to the gun range a couple
• 32:08
  Speaker 9: of years ago. Let's learn how to shoot. Because, again,
• 32:11
  Speaker 9: if everybody in this bitch got a gun, everybody's going
• 32:13
  Speaker 9: to kind of wisen up just a little bit. No
• 32:15
  Speaker 9: one's quick to back out on somebody knowing that everybody
• 32:18
  Speaker 9: in this motherfucker got a gun.
• 32:19
  Speaker 1: Let's all have guns.
• 32:20
  Speaker 3: Yeah, no, I think it's interesting that, like, all of
• 32:22
  Speaker 3: those cases, none of them were solved, right? Everything has
• 32:24
  Speaker 3: just been.
• 32:25
  Speaker 4: Up in the air. Suicide, they solved.
• 32:26
  Speaker 1: Yeah, it's suicide. Suicide, they solved.
• 32:27
  Speaker 9: And when it says injuries consistent with a suicide, is
• 32:31
  Speaker 9: death the injury? What the fuck are we talking about?
• 32:33
  Speaker 1: Like, what does that even mean?
• 32:34
  Speaker 3: And also, in one of the things, it said that
• 32:35
  Speaker 3: somebody close to the scene called and reported it, but they.
• 32:38
  Speaker 1: Wasn't on the scene.
• 32:38
  Speaker 2: But they weren't on the scene? What does that mean?
• 32:40
  Speaker 1: How the fuck you do that?
• 32:40
  Speaker 2: Who is this nigga?
• 32:41
  Speaker 1: What does that mean?
• 32:42
  Speaker 4: One nigga had his hands tied behind his back, and
• 32:43
  Speaker 4: they said it was a suicide.
• 32:45
  Speaker 3: That's what I'm saying. Once you tell me that you
• 32:47
  Speaker 3: don't do no autopsy, I'm already looking at you like,
• 32:48
  Speaker 3: all right, like.
• 32:49
  Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying? You just die. You know
• 32:51
  Speaker 1: what I'm saying?
• 32:51
  Speaker 3: There's nothing, basically.
• 32:52
  Speaker 4: Paris, you surviving the race war? You going to get
• 32:54
  Speaker 4: the hammers and you letting it go? You letting it fly?
• 32:56
  Speaker 2: Look, I already got guns in the house, respectfully, legally.
• 32:59
  Speaker 5: I have police officers that I'm with.
• 33:03
  Speaker 2: But, hell yeah. I'm too little for this shit. I
• 33:05
  Speaker 2: don't got time for.
• 33:06
  Speaker 5: Look, I feel like, especially me, because I feel like
• 33:09
  Speaker 5: I'm always on defense mode when it comes to certain things,
• 33:12
  Speaker 5: just being a woman that maneuvers a lot by herself.
• 33:15
  Speaker 2: Give me a gun. Honestly, I feel like.
• 33:17
  Speaker 1: Can you shoot?
• 33:19
  Speaker 2: I have went to the gun range a couple of times.
• 33:21
  Speaker 2: How'd you do? I feel like I did good, but
• 33:23
  Speaker 2: the shell went in my glasses and I got burnt.
• 33:25
  Speaker 2: So I need practice. Wait, you didn't have the goggles on? No,
• 33:28
  Speaker 2: I did.
• 33:28
  Speaker 5: But I don't, it like bounced off of something and
• 33:31
  Speaker 5: like tapped the glasses and it stayed.
• 33:32
  Speaker 2: And then I need to do more practice.
• 33:35
  Speaker 1: Yeah.
• 33:36
  Speaker 2: But hand me a gun. I'm all for it. You know,
• 33:39
  Speaker 2: make it be pink. Look, if we're going to do
• 33:40
  Speaker 2: this shit, let's do it right. Honestly.
• 33:42
  Speaker 5: I feel like everybody should have the right to protect themselves.
• 33:44
  Speaker 5: It's just scary because you don't know what everybody's intentions are.
• 33:47
  Speaker 5: And we have to understand that people already misuse their
• 33:52
  Speaker 5: gun thing nowadays. Did y'all know also that it is,
• 33:55
  Speaker 5: you can get your license to have a gun?
• 33:57
  Speaker 1: Yeah, now.
• 33:58
  Speaker 4: You gotta carry permits now.
• 33:59
  Speaker 2: Man, listen.
• 34:01
  Speaker 5: All I'm gonna say is, I'm just praying for everybody
• 34:04
  Speaker 5: out there who isn't going to be fortunate enough to
• 34:07
  Speaker 5: be able to protect themselves in said situations.
• 34:10
  Speaker 2: It's very unfortunate.
• 34:10
  Speaker 1: Them white boys at my job all went. They signed
• 34:14
  Speaker 1: each other up. They went as groups to the classroom.
• 34:17
  Speaker 1: You got to take classes. They went. I'm serious. They
• 34:19
  Speaker 1: made it a whole thing. They made it a whole thing. Like,
• 34:21
  Speaker 1: they went and they pick up trucks and they lumberjack ass.
• 34:23
  Speaker 6: And they pick up trucks.
• 34:24
  Speaker 1: It's a little scary. And they went and they got
• 34:26
  Speaker 1: their licenses. And the niggas is just like, oh, yeah,
• 34:28
  Speaker 1: that's cool. Nah, nigga.
• 34:30
  Speaker 2: But what you drinking on a weekend?
• 34:31
  Speaker 9: Nah, nigga.
• 34:32
  Speaker 2: Don't be paying attention.
• 34:33
  Speaker 4: A lot of my black.
• 34:34
  Speaker 5: Friends So my question is, is it to be expected
• 34:36
  Speaker 5: to happen in these type of towns? Because you don't
• 34:39
  Speaker 5: hear this stuff happening in Brooklyn, New York. You hear
• 34:41
  Speaker 5: it in, what town was that?
• 34:43
  Speaker 1: Gary.
• 34:44
  Speaker 2: Come on now.
• 34:46
  Speaker 1: No, no, no.
• 34:47
  Speaker 2: Raleigh.
• 34:47
  Speaker 1: That was Raleigh. North Carolina.
• 34:49
  Speaker 2: You said Roanoke.
• 34:50
  Speaker 9: I thought they were talking about Virginia at first.
• 34:51
  Speaker 1: Or North Carolina, you know, smaller rural towns.
• 34:53
  Speaker 5: Yeah, it's in the south. And it's a lot of, well,
• 34:55
  Speaker 5: I don't, that wasn't in the sundown town, right? No.
• 34:58
  Speaker 2: See, I don't know.
• 34:59
  Speaker 5: It's like the racism and all the races, they be
• 35:02
  Speaker 5: amongst it. Like, it's just too many of them out
• 35:04
  Speaker 5: there anyway. So it's like living in the South, you
• 35:05
  Speaker 5: really got to be careful.
• 35:06
  Speaker 2: Where you're located.
• 35:08
  Speaker 4: They did it in the day.
• 35:10
  Speaker 2: What that mean?
• 35:11
  Speaker 4: There wasn't no sundown.
• 35:13
  Speaker 1: Yeah.
• 35:13
  Speaker 4: The sun was out.
• 35:14
  Speaker 2: Well, sundown town meaning just a town full of mostly racists.
• 35:17
  Speaker 1: Yeah, but they don't care about that no more is
• 35:19
  Speaker 1: what I'm saying. I know.
• 35:20
  Speaker 3: Once you're doing it in a broad day, it's like,
• 35:21
  Speaker 3: all right. Because there's going to be no repercussion behind it.
• 35:24
  Speaker 5: I was just about to say, because the people around
• 35:25
  Speaker 5: them feel the same way. So they just, oh, okay,
• 35:27
  Speaker 5: let me mind my business.
• 35:28
  Speaker 1: Well, North Carolina is the home of the KKK. Right.
• 35:33
  Speaker 4: North Carolina is the home of the KKK, right?
• 35:36
  Speaker 5: And.
• 35:37
  Speaker 1: The idea is what we're talking about is the fact
• 35:39
  Speaker 1: that these are towns that are primarily black towns and
• 35:43
  Speaker 1: they're still getting hung.
• 35:45
  Speaker 4: It's like, this is nuts.
• 35:47
  Speaker 1: It's not even like, like you said, it's not even
• 35:49
  Speaker 1: like Tipton, Georgia or somewhere south of Augusta, Georgia or
• 35:52
  Speaker 1: some shit where it's like, you know, the whole state
• 35:55
  Speaker 1: is red.
• 35:55
  Speaker 3: Right.
• 35:56
  Speaker 1: No, it's just cities that are primarily black. where they're
• 36:01
  Speaker 1: coming in, I would think.
• 36:02
  Speaker 2: Snatching them out.
• 36:03
  Speaker 1: And they just doing what they're doing and keeping them
• 36:04
  Speaker 1: moving and nobody's looking for nothing.
• 36:06
  Speaker 3: Because I think in a lot of those states, I
• 36:08
  Speaker 3: think those, the towns that are black, the surrounding towns
• 36:11
  Speaker 3: be white. So I think although the town is black,
• 36:13
  Speaker 3: everything surrounding it be the other side. So it's easy to,
• 36:16
  Speaker 3: you know, go in and dip out, you know what
• 36:17
  Speaker 3: I'm saying? And do some shit and go back to
• 36:19
  Speaker 3: where you're from, I think. Especially when the police.
• 36:22
  Speaker 1: Is on your side. Right.
• 36:24
  Speaker 2: That part.
• 36:26
  Speaker 1: I saw this white influencer and I found it hilarious.
• 36:29
  Speaker 1: I'm going to lighten it up a little bit. Lighten
• 36:31
  Speaker 1: up what's going on. For one, I'm praying for the
• 36:34
  Speaker 1: people out there. Watch your fucking back. Drive your girl
• 36:38
  Speaker 1: to work. Pick your girl up from work. Pick your
• 36:41
  Speaker 1: kids up from fucking school. We got to be careful
• 36:44
  Speaker 1: out in those towns, right? This is a time where
• 36:46
  Speaker 1: we really got to activate and get back to.
• 36:49
  Speaker 4: Where we were before when we were more socially conscious.
• 36:52
  Speaker 4: You understand?
• 36:52
  Speaker 1: Like, Them white boys is doing that. They got the militias, bro.
• 36:56
  Speaker 1: I've been in one of they cribs, bro. The nigga
• 36:58
  Speaker 1: took me in the back room. He had walls of cabinets.
• 37:02
  Speaker 1: This one has shotguns. This one had AR-15s. He pulled
• 37:06
  Speaker 1: some shit out.
• 37:07
  Speaker 4: All handguns.
• 37:08
  Speaker 1: Handgun, handgun, handgun, handgun.
• 37:09
  Speaker 4: The fuck is this nigga prepared for?
• 37:11
  Speaker 3: Nigga to punish him.
• 37:12
  Speaker 2: He know what's coming.
• 37:14
  Speaker 8: Right.
• 37:14
  Speaker 1: They not playing. And this nigga's in New York, so
• 37:18
  Speaker 1: white boy. So imagine out there in the middle of
• 37:21
  Speaker 1: nowhere where you would get a fucking gun for $ 40
• 37:24
  Speaker 1: from Walmart.
• 37:25
  Speaker 2: No background check.
• 37:26
  Speaker 4: No background, nothing.
• 37:28
  Speaker 1: And you letting, you know, listen, man, we out here, fellas,
• 37:34
  Speaker 1: it's time for us to step up, take your girl,
• 37:36
  Speaker 1: take your daughter, take your wife to the gun range,
• 37:39
  Speaker 1: make sure that they got their own thing, make sure
• 37:41
  Speaker 1: that they registered.
• 37:42
  Speaker 4: And is this the real answer? Because we talking about
• 37:45
  Speaker 4: guns and shit.
• 37:46
  Speaker 1: I don't know. Am I inciting a race war? Is
• 37:48
  Speaker 1: there a different answer? Am I missing something?
• 37:50
  Speaker 9: I mean, it's never going to be just one simplistic answer.
• 37:53
  Speaker 9: There's multiple things that can be done. Someone in the
• 37:55
  Speaker 9: chat said all the guns in the world can't beat community.
• 37:57
  Speaker 9: That's the other side. Like you said, making sure that
• 38:00
  Speaker 9: we kind of like stay together. We always checking in.
• 38:02
  Speaker 9: We're always together. No one's by themselves. We have that
• 38:05
  Speaker 9: what they call in the military, your battle buddy. but
• 38:07
  Speaker 9: we can still have guns too. You know, we should
• 38:10
  Speaker 9: be able to be multifaceted in which we can do this,
• 38:12
  Speaker 9: we can play, we can chill, but we can also
• 38:15
  Speaker 9: make sure we're taking care of business. So guns are
• 38:16
  Speaker 9: not the only solution, but fuck, if them niggas got guns,
• 38:19
  Speaker 9: we need guns too. We can't be unarmed out here
• 38:21
  Speaker 9: when they got a militia in their goddamn house.
• 38:24
  Speaker 1: Honestly.
• 38:24
  Speaker 3: I agree.
• 38:28
  Speaker 1: So, shout out to Gary. Shout out to the people
• 38:31
  Speaker 1: out there that's going through that. I know it's a
• 38:32
  Speaker 1: lot of fear, a lot of unrest, and you're not
• 38:35
  Speaker 1: going to get no answers from that administration Right? That
• 38:38
  Speaker 1: administration that killed all the civil rights fucking businesses or programs,
• 38:45
  Speaker 1: you know, organizations that would have looked into it.
• 38:48
  Speaker 4: They killed all that.
• 38:49
  Speaker 9: Yeah.
• 38:49
  Speaker 4: So don't expect no real help.
• 38:51
  Speaker 1: So we, within our communities, we have to be a
• 38:54
  Speaker 1: little bit more conscious and activated. There was a white
• 39:00
  Speaker 1: activist that came across Blip and Google. Blip.
• 39:05
  Speaker 8: Right.
• 39:07
  Speaker 1: Let's see.
• 39:08
  Speaker 4: Let me see. It's so funny. I found it. I
• 39:10
  Speaker 4: was in the house cracking up with Teneita the other day.
• 39:13
  Speaker 3: Watch this.
• 39:15
  Speaker 7: Okay, so I saw a video of somebody else doing this,
• 39:17
  Speaker 7: and I thought that it couldn't be real, but it's
• 39:19
  Speaker 7: actually real.
• 39:20
  Speaker 6: Take a look at this.
• 39:21
  Speaker 7: So if we go right here to Google and we
• 39:22
  Speaker 7: type in here, I am alone with a white person.
• 39:25
  Speaker 7: If you feel unsafe, uncomfortable, or threatened right now, please
• 39:28
  Speaker 7: move to a public space or contact.
• 39:30
  Speaker 6: Emergency services immediately by dialing 9-1-1 now if.
• 39:33
  Speaker 7: We change this to i'm alone with a black person
• 39:36
  Speaker 7: it says being alone with another person is normal everyday
• 39:39
  Speaker 7: situation a person's race does not change who they are
• 39:42
  Speaker 7: as an individual and sharing a space with somebody who
• 39:44
  Speaker 7: is black requires no different approach than being with anyone
• 39:47
  Speaker 7: else Dial Let's Try I Am Alone With an Asian Person.
• 39:50
  Speaker 6: Being alone with another person is just a normal social situation.
• 39:53
  Speaker 7: Treat them with basic kindness, respect, and normal conversational courtesy
• 39:57
  Speaker 7: just as you would with anyone else.
• 39:59
  Speaker 6: But again, let's go back right here to I Am
• 40:00
  Speaker 6: Alone With a White Person.
• 40:02
  Speaker 7: If you feel unsafe, move to a public space right
• 40:05
  Speaker 7: away or call emergency services at 911.
• 40:08
  Speaker 6: Now let's try some religion.
• 40:10
  Speaker 1: Yo, the nigga went through different religions.
• 40:13
  Speaker 2: AI knows.
• 40:14
  Speaker 1: It went through everything. It only said that for white?
• 40:16
  Speaker 1: It only said that for white people. If you feel unsafe,
• 40:19
  Speaker 1: call 911.
• 40:19
  Speaker 3: Call somebody.
• 40:20
  Speaker 1: Move away. That's crazy. It's a well-lit area. Where do
• 40:25
  Speaker 1: you think Google learned that from? Do you think Google
• 40:27
  Speaker 1: is programmed by black people or black?
• 40:29
  Speaker 4: We're all programmed.
• 40:30
  Speaker 2: One of us is working in.
• 40:31
  Speaker 9: Every time we talk to it, every time we use
• 40:33
  Speaker 9: chat GPT, people are out here having full blown conversations
• 40:36
  Speaker 9: with chat.
• 40:37
  Speaker 2: You know, they take all the historical data.
• 40:40
  Speaker 9: I don't know if you heard, they started taking books
• 40:43
  Speaker 9: and using what's in the book and then destroying the
• 40:45
  Speaker 9: book afterwards. So that's been a whole thing. So they're
• 40:47
  Speaker 9: literally taking history from us and they know like. Yeah,
• 40:50
  Speaker 9: this is who these people are.
• 40:52
  Speaker 3: And I think the thing about with these AI type
• 40:55
  Speaker 3: of things, I think it's really hard to, not hard,
• 40:57
  Speaker 3: but I think we know that there's racism on the top.
• 41:00
  Speaker 3: But when you just have just the pure data, the
• 41:03
  Speaker 3: pure data is going to say, you know, the real
• 41:05
  Speaker 3: shit all the time. Everybody's scared of white people. That's
• 41:07
  Speaker 3: what I'm saying. So it's like, yeah, you could have
• 41:08
  Speaker 3: all of this stuff about the other cultures, but there's
• 41:11
  Speaker 3: something there. You know what I'm saying? There's some type
• 41:13
  Speaker 3: of information where there was like, hmm. It's getting well
• 41:16
  Speaker 3: in areas 9-1-1 and other people because there's a, you know,
• 41:19
  Speaker 3: there's some type of discrimination against those other groups. It's like, yo,
• 41:22
  Speaker 3: this should be more open. You should be more accepting.
• 41:24
  Speaker 3: Those people.
• 41:26
  Speaker 1: Watch out.
• 41:26
  Speaker 9: But you just said it. We were just talking about
• 41:28
  Speaker 9: what was going on in North Carolina. That is the
• 41:31
  Speaker 9: statistics that you're talking about. We know if you're by yourself... Nolan,
• 41:36
  Speaker 9: if you're in those areas and you're the token, the
• 41:40
  Speaker 9: lady that was found having had committed suicide or jumped
• 41:44
  Speaker 9: off the side of the house when she had a
• 41:45
  Speaker 9: sleepover with all these white women.
• 41:46
  Speaker 1: Yeah, I remember that.
• 41:47
  Speaker 2: It's a continual thing.
• 41:48
  Speaker 9: Not for nothing, sometimes I be a little triggered. Like,
• 41:51
  Speaker 9: I love going to women events, right? I love going
• 41:54
  Speaker 9: to conferences and different things. And a friend of mine
• 41:57
  Speaker 9: had invited me somewhere. And the first picture I saw
• 42:00
  Speaker 9: was of a white woman. And I'm like, I don't
• 42:01
  Speaker 9: want to go. And it's not that I don't feel
• 42:03
  Speaker 9: like I can learn anything from you or I don't
• 42:06
  Speaker 9: feel like my life is, you know, necessarily in danger,
• 42:11
  Speaker 9: but I feel more at ease. My anxiety is at
• 42:14
  Speaker 9: a smaller level. If I'm amongst my people, my healthcare
• 42:18
  Speaker 9: providers are black. My GYN is black. My PCP is black. Um,
• 42:23
  Speaker 9: My dentist is black. Like, I just feel like in
• 42:26
  Speaker 9: my skin, you.
• 42:27
  Speaker 2: Know who I am.
• 42:28
  Speaker 9: I can look at you in the middle of the
• 42:29
  Speaker 9: street and not know who you are. And I can
• 42:31
  Speaker 9: connect eyes with you. And I feel comfortable because you're here.
• 42:34
  Speaker 9: I don't always feel that way. And that's the truth.
• 42:37
  Speaker 9: I try not to say it out loud because, you know,
• 42:40
  Speaker 9: I don't want to fuck up any potential brand deals
• 42:42
  Speaker 9: and sponsorships I can get. But maybe the sponsorships and
• 42:45
  Speaker 9: brand deals that we need are the ones that recognize
• 42:47
  Speaker 9: that we don't always feel safe in their surroundings.
• 42:51
  Speaker 5: And that's the truth at the end of the day, too.
• 42:53
  Speaker 5: So I feel like nobody could take that from you,
• 42:55
  Speaker 5: especially if that's where you feel safe. Let's act like
• 42:58
  Speaker 5: there's not a reason for us to not feel safe
• 43:01
  Speaker 5: in these other places, especially when not to say like this,
• 43:04
  Speaker 5: but when it comes to like.
• 43:05
  Speaker 2: Men providers and stuff like that.
• 43:07
  Speaker 5: Honestly, some people do say they feel unsafe, which is
• 43:10
  Speaker 5: their bias to have if that's.
• 43:11
  Speaker 2: What they want.
• 43:12
  Speaker 5: But there's a lot of people nowadays I feel like
• 43:14
  Speaker 5: are saying that they feel more safe with men providers
• 43:18
  Speaker 5: than usual.
• 43:18
  Speaker 2: Because I would prefer to not have a man.
• 43:22
  Speaker 5: But I've heard a lot of people saying lately that
• 43:24
  Speaker 5: men are more gentle with them than the woman.
• 43:27
  Speaker 2: That's personally not my experience, but I am hearing it
• 43:30
  Speaker 2: more lately. So it's like, hmm. Have you ever had
• 43:32
  Speaker 2: a male GYN? I've never had a, I, okay. Let
• 43:38
  Speaker 2: me see how to put this. Forgot I'm live.
• 43:42
  Speaker 5: I've never had a male GYN, but I did have
• 43:47
  Speaker 5: to see a male in like an emergency. Like I
• 43:50
  Speaker 5: haven't had a set one, but in an emergency situation.
• 43:53
  Speaker 5: And he was exactly why the fuck I don't want one.
• 43:56
  Speaker 5: So I would just prefer to stick to what I have.
• 43:58
  Speaker 5: Not to say there aren't any qualified men providers in
• 44:03
  Speaker 5: all different types of fields.
• 44:04
  Speaker 2: But like I said, as far as preference, you just
• 44:07
  Speaker 2: got to do what works for you. I feel like
• 44:08
  Speaker 2: that's what's most important. Thank you, by the way.
• 44:11
  Speaker 4: I pay attention to the atmosphere.
• 44:13
  Speaker 2: I'm off like four hours of sleep. I'm really trying.
• 44:17
  Speaker 2: Let's talk about how niggas ain't shit. Give me up.
• 44:19
  Speaker 1: No, I'm joking. I'm joking. We're going to get there.
• 44:25
  Speaker 4: Where the fuck was we talking about?
• 44:27
  Speaker 2: White people.
• 44:28
  Speaker 9: Being scared of them. And AI seems to know. And
• 44:32
  Speaker 9: white activists, that is an oxymoron in itself.
• 44:35
  Speaker 5: Why?
• 44:35
  Speaker 2: It's kind of funny.
• 44:36
  Speaker 5: Why?
• 44:38
  Speaker 1: I've been seeing them all over the place.
• 44:39
  Speaker 3: There's always been white activists.
• 44:40
  Speaker 2: What are they activating?
• 44:43
  Speaker 1: Their privilege to help us, to help our children.
• 44:47
  Speaker 3: That's always been the case. They've always been around.
• 44:48
  Speaker 9: Okay, so an ally. When I hear activist, I think
• 44:51
  Speaker 9: of someone that is bringing together a collective of people
• 44:55
  Speaker 9: to help fight whatever those people's issues are. So when
• 44:59
  Speaker 9: I hear of white activists, we didn't call.
• 45:04
  Speaker 9: The Quakers or whoever was helping us during that, that
• 45:07
  Speaker 9: era of life.
• 45:07
  Speaker 2: We didn't call them activists.
• 45:10
  Speaker 3: Not the Quakers.
• 45:11
  Speaker 2: We didn't call them civil rights leaders.
• 45:13
  Speaker 3: Not the Quakers, but there were white people who were
• 45:15
  Speaker 3: activists in the civil rights movement.
• 45:17
  Speaker 9: We didn't call them that though. What was the word
• 45:18
  Speaker 9: that we called them? Um, Damn, I'm drawing a blank.
• 45:21
  Speaker 9: Hold on, let me go. We didn't call them that, though.
• 45:23
  Speaker 9: The ones that were allowing us to stay in their
• 45:25
  Speaker 9: homes when they were searching for runaway slaves?
• 45:27
  Speaker 1: No, I'm talking about the people that was outside with us.
• 45:29
  Speaker 2: No, the abolitionists, yes.
• 45:30
  Speaker 9: But what were the names of the ones that were
• 45:32
  Speaker 9: actually allowing us to come into their homes and hide
• 45:36
  Speaker 9: when we were running away from the plantation? We just
• 45:39
  Speaker 9: never called them activists. When you think of activists, you
• 45:41
  Speaker 9: think of a person of color.
• 45:42
  Speaker 4: Yeah, I can't remember.
• 45:43
  Speaker 2: I know what you're talking about.
• 45:44
  Speaker 3: I think that's what you're talking about.
• 45:45
  Speaker 2: Let me see.
• 45:46
  Speaker 1: All right. While Lola looks that up, So I'm looking
• 45:50
  Speaker 1: along my line of topics, right? And Paris says something
• 45:55
  Speaker 1: about men providing. I always try to save the toxic shit.
• 45:59
  Speaker 3: But since, yeah. Since you brought it up.
• 46:03
  Speaker 2: I said that out loud?
• 46:04
  Speaker 1: Yeah.
• 46:04
  Speaker 3: You said it. Slipped out.
• 46:05
  Speaker 1: Yeah. I have two white people, funny, that were speaking.
• 46:10
  Speaker 1: And this is what came out of it. Okay.
• 46:12
  Speaker 8: Historically, men never provided for women. They simply restricted women
• 46:16
  Speaker 8: from providing for themselves. they put restrictions on women so
• 46:20
  Speaker 8: they couldn't do certain kinds of work or they couldn't
• 46:21
  Speaker 8: work at all and then they said we're the providers
• 46:27
  Speaker 8: good thing you got us when they made the laws
• 46:31
  Speaker 8: and the legislation to restrict the movement of women.
• 46:37
  Speaker 1: Yo that shit fucked me up so much hold on
• 46:41
  Speaker 1: I didn't even think about that women couldn't have bank
• 46:45
  Speaker 1: accounts no Women couldn't do certain shit to take care
• 46:49
  Speaker 1: of themselves. And so it was that y'all needed us
• 46:54
  Speaker 1: to provide. So now why the fuck is we still providing?
• 47:00
  Speaker 1: When y'all have bank accounts, y'all making more money than us.
• 47:02
  Speaker 1: Who the fuck is providing for me? Y'all got more
• 47:04
  Speaker 1: emotion than us, but y'all talking about men supposed to
• 47:06
  Speaker 1: be provided. No, hold on. No, the only time we
• 47:08
  Speaker 1: was providing is because you couldn't provide for yourself.
• 47:10
  Speaker 2: And why couldn't we provide?
• 47:11
  Speaker 1: We couldn't provide for yourselves.
• 47:13
  Speaker 2: We couldn't.
• 47:13
  Speaker 1: So now that you can, wake the fuck up and
• 47:15
  Speaker 1: put some money on.
• 47:16
  Speaker 2: The electric bill. So now we supposed to provide for
• 47:18
  Speaker 2: you niggas?
• 47:19
  Speaker 1: For the house. Look at the economy.
• 47:21
  Speaker 2: First of all, let's take a step back.
• 47:22
  Speaker 1: For the house. You couldn't do it before. That was
• 47:25
  Speaker 1: the law they made. We didn't make that law.
• 47:27
  Speaker 2: Who's they?
• 47:28
  Speaker 1: The people that made the laws.
• 47:30
  Speaker 9: And y'all benefited from the laws.
• 47:32
  Speaker 10: Who?
• 47:32
  Speaker 7: Please.
• 47:32
  Speaker 2: Black men benefited.
• 47:34
  Speaker 1: From a lot of the laws that white.
• 47:35
  Speaker 2: Folk made for them.
• 47:37
  Speaker 1: Oh, my God.
• 47:37
  Speaker 2: Patriarchy still allowed you to be in charge.
• 47:40
  Speaker 1: Oh, my God.
• 47:41
  Speaker 4: Here we go.
• 47:42
  Speaker 2: Here we go. I'm glad we're going here.
• 47:44
  Speaker 1: We were dropped here with y'all.
• 47:46
  Speaker 9: And then y'all benefited from exactly what held us down.
• 47:49
  Speaker 1: What does that have to do with what we're talking about?
• 47:51
  Speaker 2: It has everything to do with it. You're talking about
• 47:52
  Speaker 2: what we had to provide.
• 47:54
  Speaker 1: You think we didn't want? We were getting a rubber nickel.
• 47:57
  Speaker 1: We wasn't getting no money. And they attacked us when
• 48:01
  Speaker 1: they seen us in somewhere. And then we decided to
• 48:04
  Speaker 1: paint and let y'all come work in the big buildings.
• 48:06
  Speaker 1: And we was downstairs in the mail room. And then
• 48:08
  Speaker 1: you was telling us, come provide. You up there in
• 48:10
  Speaker 1: the motherfucking knees. He's cooking you right now.
• 48:12
  Speaker 9: He's definitely not. I love when a man wants to
• 48:15
  Speaker 9: talk about what women are supposed to be doing traditionally.
• 48:18
  Speaker 9: But as soon as we talk about traditionally you niggas
• 48:20
  Speaker 9: need to provide, then it becomes an issue.
• 48:22
  Speaker 4: No, we're saying that.
• 48:23
  Speaker 2: You want a traditional woman.
• 48:24
  Speaker 9: You want a woman that cooks, that cleans, that sucks
• 48:27
  Speaker 9: your dick when you come home, that rears the baby,
• 48:30
  Speaker 9: does all the things, but then don't want to do
• 48:32
  Speaker 9: what that man was doing back.
• 48:33
  Speaker 2: Then to make us cook clean and suck dick.
• 48:36
  Speaker 1: You had to. You didn't have a choice.
• 48:39
  Speaker 2: Yeah, well, now I have a choice. I don't want
• 48:40
  Speaker 2: to suck your dick. And you don't want to provide.
• 48:43
  Speaker 2: Now we're even.
• 48:44
  Speaker 9: I'm in my house paying all my bills and not having.
• 48:46
  Speaker 1: To suck a dick.
• 48:47
  Speaker 4: No, I don't mind.
• 48:48
  Speaker 1: I actually like providing. Me, personally, I was saying this
• 48:51
  Speaker 1: on Facebook the other day. I've been going on Facebook lately.
• 48:53
  Speaker 1: And I was like, yo, fellas, y'all never... Yeah, I'm
• 48:55
  Speaker 1: getting into my old bag. I'm going over there with
• 48:57
  Speaker 1: the old people. I'm finally, you know, I'm getting.
• 48:59
  Speaker 3: In with my old people. Yo, this Facebook arc has
• 49:01
  Speaker 3: been crazy.
• 49:02
  Speaker 1: I love it. And I said to the... I said, fellas,
• 49:05
  Speaker 1: y'all never felt like you liked... spoiling a chick? Like,
• 49:09
  Speaker 1: you never just liked to spoil a chick? And the
• 49:12
  Speaker 1: niggas was like, mm, sometimes. Uh-uh. They really do love it. I... What?
• 49:16
  Speaker 4: Why'd you say uh-uh?
• 49:17
  Speaker 2: Because why... Sometimes... What is that? Why... Why sometimes? Like,
• 49:21
  Speaker 2: would you.
• 49:21
  Speaker 4: I think because y'all be using niggas.
• 49:23
  Speaker 2: Yeah, but y'all... Yeah, but not.
• 49:25
  Speaker 1: Here's my thing, though. Yeah, we be using niggas, but
• 49:28
  Speaker 1: so what?
• 49:28
  Speaker 2: But here's my thing.
• 49:29
  Speaker 5: I feel like a lot of men chase women that
• 49:31
  Speaker 5: they know are going to use them and then complain
• 49:33
  Speaker 5: that they're being used.
• 49:33
  Speaker 2: When that's the type of woman you're going after anyway.
• 49:35
  Speaker 1: So what the fuck are you complaining about? What is
• 49:36
  Speaker 1: the type of woman that you know is going to use?
• 49:38
  Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah.
• 49:38
  Speaker 1: How does that work? What's that type look like? Tell us.
• 49:40
  Speaker 2: Let me watch my words.
• 49:41
  Speaker 5: If you're dating a woman that's out of your caliber,
• 49:43
  Speaker 5: or you're dating a woman because she's a trophy to you,
• 49:46
  Speaker 5: or you're dating a woman that you know straight up
• 49:47
  Speaker 5: is out of your league, or you're dating one that
• 49:49
  Speaker 5: you know doesn't fucking like you, that's simply that. And
• 49:52
  Speaker 5: she shows you that. And she used you because you
• 49:54
  Speaker 5: watched her use you. And now you're mad that you're
• 49:56
  Speaker 5: being used. But you knew that wasn't in your league
• 49:59
  Speaker 5: in the first place. So what the fuck are you
• 50:00
  Speaker 5: complaining for? You knew that's not your speed.
• 50:05
  Speaker 1: No, no, no, no, I'm not agreeing.
• 50:08
  Speaker 2: You're not agreeing? Okay.
• 50:09
  Speaker 9: So let me, if you're dating a woman and you
• 50:11
  Speaker 9: know she doesn't like you, but she likes what you
• 50:14
  Speaker 9: can do for her, and the only reason you can
• 50:17
  Speaker 9: keep her on your arm is if you continue doing
• 50:19
  Speaker 9: for her, who's at fault?
• 50:20
  Speaker 3: Well, you see, listen, and this is the problem, and
• 50:22
  Speaker 3: this is where I think where the women mess up.
• 50:24
  Speaker 3: Because you say that you don't like the guy, you
• 50:25
  Speaker 3: say that you're not into him, but on the back end, like,
• 50:28
  Speaker 3: sometimes y'all slip up and give him some pussy sometimes.
• 50:30
  Speaker 3: And it happens.
• 50:30
  Speaker 2: Sometimes you got to pay the price.
• 50:32
  Speaker 3: So it's hard to then distinguish and say, oh, well,
• 50:34
  Speaker 3: you're over here, but I'm over here. It's like, no,
• 50:37
  Speaker 3: at the right time and at the right moment, you're going.
• 50:39
  Speaker 1: Just because I fuck a nigga, you're going. You're going.
• 50:42
  Speaker 3: So it's like, what's happening?
• 50:45
  Speaker 1: Just because I fuck the nigga don't mean I like him.
• 50:49
  Speaker 4: Wait, Queen sent him all over the day?
• 50:51
  Speaker 1: Hold on, hold on.
• 50:52
  Speaker 3: Say that again.
• 50:52
  Speaker 2: Just because I fuck the nigga didn't mean I like him.
• 50:54
  Speaker 3: So why doesn't that apply to men when they say it?
• 50:56
  Speaker 2: What do you mean?
• 50:57
  Speaker 3: When niggas say, yo, I just fucked a girl because
• 50:59
  Speaker 3: I just wanted to fuck her. Y'all be like, no,
• 51:00
  Speaker 3: it had to be something more.
• 51:01
  Speaker 1: No, I don't say that.
• 51:02
  Speaker 5: Niggas fuck to fuck all the time. It's a different
• 51:04
  Speaker 5: time now. I feel like everybody be on the same
• 51:06
  Speaker 5: page with a lot of things. A lot of people
• 51:08
  Speaker 5: just have those arrangements. That's why they call fuck buddies.
• 51:10
  Speaker 5: You give me what I want, I give you what
• 51:11
  Speaker 5: you want. We going about our day.
• 51:12
  Speaker 2: That's how that works.
• 51:13
  Speaker 4: My thing is this. Seriously, real shit.
• 51:16
  Speaker 1: If y'all were forced to be provided for back then,
• 51:21
  Speaker 1: by law, right?
• 51:23
  Speaker 9: Now.
• 51:24
  Speaker 1: You're not being forced. So what is the beef? When
• 51:27
  Speaker 1: we see things right now, we see how it is
• 51:30
  Speaker 1: right now. The niggas ain't got the same plays that
• 51:32
  Speaker 1: y'all got. Y'all are stomping us through college.
• 51:35
  Speaker 2: Respectfully.
• 51:35
  Speaker 1: Stomping us out through college. Stomping us out, entrepreneurs. Stomping
• 51:39
  Speaker 1: us out, corporate America. Stomping us out.
• 51:41
  Speaker 3: Mm-hmm.
• 51:42
  Speaker 1: Why are y'all still holding on to what you're supposed
• 51:44
  Speaker 1: to provide? But it's like, yo, niggas is like, yo,
• 51:47
  Speaker 1: I don't want to be you because this is all
• 51:49
  Speaker 1: I got right here. Y'all got more emotion than us.
• 51:52
  Speaker 1: Y'all got more style than us. Y'all got more everything
• 51:55
  Speaker 1: than us. Y'all even got more support from y'all community,
• 51:58
  Speaker 1: from the women community than niggas get. So why is
• 52:00
  Speaker 1: it that a nigga being... Yes, women, actually, it's a
• 52:03
  Speaker 1: whole black women movement. You don't know what I'm about
• 52:06
  Speaker 1: to ask. Because I'm still trying to get this off
• 52:08
  Speaker 1: before you stomp me out.
• 52:09
  Speaker 5: Uh-huh.
• 52:09
  Speaker 10: Right?
• 52:11
  Speaker 1: Why is it so, like, of a front for a
• 52:13
  Speaker 1: nigga to be like, yo... Meet me in the middle
• 52:17
  Speaker 1: for social media right now. Why is it so much?
• 52:21
  Speaker 2: I got your follow up. I got your follow up.
• 52:23
  Speaker 1: Go ahead.
• 52:26
  Speaker 2: You're asking a question.
• 52:27
  Speaker 9: And I don't think that those women that have all
• 52:30
  Speaker 9: this motion, that have all the college education, you're seeming
• 52:34
  Speaker 9: to think that we actually need you to provide instead
• 52:37
  Speaker 9: of thinking that we need reciprocity. There's a difference between
• 52:40
  Speaker 9: me wanting a man to completely provide for my life
• 52:43
  Speaker 9: and one that is just going to reciprocate what I'm
• 52:46
  Speaker 9: bringing to the table. But then at the same time,
• 52:48
  Speaker 9: like you said, there are a lot of men like
• 52:49
  Speaker 9: yourself that enjoy doing that. You'll see these little videos
• 52:52
  Speaker 9: on social media where a woman will be like, babe.
• 52:56
  Speaker 9: I don't have the rent to pay this month. And
• 52:58
  Speaker 9: he'll be like, when do you ever pay the rent?
• 52:59
  Speaker 9: And he knows that that's his life. He loves doing that.
• 53:03
  Speaker 9: Those men like doing it. The argument only comes when
• 53:06
  Speaker 9: a nigga tells you what you're supposed to be doing.
• 53:09
  Speaker 9: So then the back end becomes, well, you're supposed to
• 53:12
  Speaker 9: be doing this. My ex told me, my mother, she
• 53:16
  Speaker 9: only paid maybe like the electricity. And my father did everything.
• 53:20
  Speaker 9: And she cooked and she cleaned and she did all
• 53:22
  Speaker 9: of this. Nigga, you don't have enough money to pay
• 53:25
  Speaker 9: all this shit. You talking like you your father, but
• 53:27
  Speaker 9: you don't got your father's fucking motion. So now it
• 53:31
  Speaker 9: just becomes an argument. I'm going to say the nastiest
• 53:33
  Speaker 9: shit possible when we're arguing. But if we're going back
• 53:35
  Speaker 9: into what we were forced to do, men actually enjoy
• 53:39
  Speaker 9: doing what they consider.
• 53:40
  Speaker 2: To be their roles. And women... Some of them.
• 53:44
  Speaker 9: Enjoyed doing what was their roles. But then when it
• 53:46
  Speaker 9: became like a sense of entitlement, I don't enjoy it anymore.
• 53:49
  Speaker 9: And it goes more into just, okay, yeah, women were
• 53:52
  Speaker 9: not allowed to have jobs. We were not allowed to
• 53:55
  Speaker 9: have bank accounts.
• 53:56
  Speaker 4: You was always allowed to work.
• 53:57
  Speaker 1: Always. Always allowed to work.
• 53:59
  Speaker 9: No, we were not always allowed to work. No, not
• 54:01
  Speaker 9: always allowed. We were not always allowed to work.
• 54:03
  Speaker 1: When were y'all not allowed to work? There was a
• 54:05
  Speaker 1: period of time when- Like before the war and stuff
• 54:07
  Speaker 1: like that. Before what war?
• 54:08
  Speaker 3: Go ahead. That was like World War I. I think
• 54:10
  Speaker 3: maybe World War I or II, that's where a lot
• 54:12
  Speaker 3: of the women, that's when the waves of feminism, the
• 54:16
  Speaker 3: first wave of feminism, that's what started. That was the
• 54:19
  Speaker 3: first wave.
• 54:19
  Speaker 1: Women being able to get jobs and things like that.
• 54:21
  Speaker 9: The suffrage movement because we were fighting to be able
• 54:23
  Speaker 9: to work.
• 54:24
  Speaker 3: But that was just for specifically white women. That was
• 54:26
  Speaker 3: the first wave was for white women. The next wave
• 54:28
  Speaker 3: were for women.
• 54:29
  Speaker 1: Women were working during the Great Depression. They were tailors.
• 54:32
  Speaker 1: They were doing things. Doing things and working. Because they
• 54:36
  Speaker 1: were working for money.
• 54:38
  Speaker 9: OK, so then what about the fact that black women
• 54:40
  Speaker 9: were home and were choosing not to work?
• 54:43
  Speaker 2: They didn't want to work and their men didn't want
• 54:44
  Speaker 2: them to work either. I got this.
• 54:46
  Speaker 9: And then what happened? You know what happened after that?
• 54:48
  Speaker 9: White women said, you nigger bitches need to get to working.
• 54:51
  Speaker 4: Well, that's a different conversation.
• 54:53
  Speaker 1: You're saying they weren't allowed to work. I know they
• 54:56
  Speaker 1: were working.
• 54:56
  Speaker 2: But we just told you about a period of time
• 54:58
  Speaker 2: when women were not allowed to work.
• 55:00
  Speaker 4: To work at certain jobs. Is that what we're saying? No,
• 55:02
  Speaker 4: I'm talking about period.
• 55:03
  Speaker 3: No, work at home.
• 55:04
  Speaker 9: If I'm sitting in a house and I'm just stitching
• 55:06
  Speaker 9: up some shit, I can stitch and I'm doing something.
• 55:08
  Speaker 3: Tailors.
• 55:10
  Speaker 4: Go ahead, go ahead, go ahead, because I don't even
• 55:12
  Speaker 4: know what I'm arguing anymore.
• 55:14
  Speaker 9: Right, because that wasn't the basis of what I'm saying.
• 55:16
  Speaker 9: What I'm saying is there were a lot of things
• 55:18
  Speaker 9: that we were not allowed to do. Y'all focused primarily
• 55:21
  Speaker 9: on the providing aspect. You know, the fact that we
• 55:24
  Speaker 9: weren't allowed to do so much, I think the issue
• 55:26
  Speaker 9: is now that because we're allowed to do so much,
• 55:29
  Speaker 9: y'all realize we don't fucking like you. Now that you
• 55:31
  Speaker 9: have to bring your personality, now that you have to
• 55:35
  Speaker 9: have a sense of empathy, now that we don't have
• 55:37
  Speaker 9: to be with you simply because you make a dollar. One,
• 55:40
  Speaker 9: because we make our own dollar. And like you said,
• 55:43
  Speaker 9: sometimes make more. Y'all are really just angry that we
• 55:46
  Speaker 9: don't have to fucking be with you. So this whole
• 55:48
  Speaker 9: ride or die sentiment and men trying to say... My
• 55:52
  Speaker 9: grandmother stayed with my grandfather all these years. She fucking
• 55:56
  Speaker 9: had to. And I don't have to anymore. And you
• 55:59
  Speaker 9: also don't have to provide. But if the relationship I'm
• 56:02
  Speaker 9: in equates to the man that I'm with providing and
• 56:05
  Speaker 9: I'm also providing and what he needs as well, that's fine.
• 56:09
  Speaker 2: But it's no longer mandatory.
• 56:11
  Speaker 9: And for the ones that say that they don't like providing,
• 56:14
  Speaker 9: who's raising them? My son got a job. This is
• 56:18
  Speaker 9: not going to air, you know, until after the fact.
• 56:20
  Speaker 9: But he has a job. He has a new girlfriend.
• 56:22
  Speaker 9: He really likes his girlfriend. He's going to ask her
• 56:25
  Speaker 9: to be his girlfriend on Friday. He went to Pandora,
• 56:29
  Speaker 9: bought her a ring and a bracelet, bought like this
• 56:31
  Speaker 9: whole little board that he's going to have written up.
• 56:34
  Speaker 2: Clearly, the nigga likes to provide.
• 56:36
  Speaker 1: That's providing? The bracelet?
• 56:39
  Speaker 2: For a 19-year-old boy? You know, he's doing something for her.
• 56:42
  Speaker 2: That's providing?
• 56:43
  Speaker 9: What the fuck is he supposed to be doing as
• 56:45
  Speaker 9: a 19-year-old boy?
• 56:46
  Speaker 2: Fucking gift.
• 56:47
  Speaker 1: That's just like not providing.
• 56:48
  Speaker 9: What is providing for? What is provisions for a 19-year-old boy?
• 56:52
  Speaker 9: Just because we had kids at 19. I want to.
• 56:54
  Speaker 4: Hear Paris' part because I'm going to smoke both of
• 56:56
  Speaker 4: y'all anyway.
• 56:56
  Speaker 1: Go ahead.
• 56:57
  Speaker 5: First of all, I feel like nowadays in this generation,
• 56:59
  Speaker 5: I hate even saying in this generation, but let's talk
• 57:02
  Speaker 5: about it. I feel like a lot of the men
• 57:03
  Speaker 5: who complain about that now simply can't do it.
• 57:05
  Speaker 2: It's real.
• 57:07
  Speaker 5: I feel like if you love and like your woman,
• 57:10
  Speaker 5: you will do anything in your power to make her
• 57:13
  Speaker 5: life easier. If y'all actually like being together, it's already
• 57:16
  Speaker 5: a team thing. So it's nobody, oh, I'm cooking and
• 57:19
  Speaker 5: cleaning too much and you're not. Oh, well, I'm paying
• 57:21
  Speaker 5: all this. You have to be in a relationship with
• 57:24
  Speaker 5: somebody that you actually fucking like. Because once y'all start
• 57:27
  Speaker 5: resenting each other, it's, well, you're not doing enough for me.
• 57:29
  Speaker 5: You're not providing enough for me. You're not this and
• 57:31
  Speaker 5: you're not that. But when you're talking about a different dynamic,
• 57:33
  Speaker 5: I feel like... Sorry to sound biased, but a lot
• 57:36
  Speaker 5: of y'all niggas just want to... Y'all want to be
• 57:38
  Speaker 5: the birthday.
• 57:39
  Speaker 1: I'm sorry.
• 57:39
  Speaker 2: Y'all want to be the fucking birthday. And you're not
• 57:41
  Speaker 2: the birthday. And you're not the birthday.
• 57:44
  Speaker 5: But that's not to say you guys are less valuable,
• 57:48
  Speaker 5: because I do feel like men are very valuable in
• 57:50
  Speaker 5: their own right, respectfully. But at the same time, I
• 57:53
  Speaker 5: feel like being that we can make feel like I
• 57:57
  Speaker 5: don't need you anymore. I feel like now they feel
• 57:59
  Speaker 5: like they need to hear that they are needed in
• 58:02
  Speaker 5: some more ways. So it's just like I feel like
• 58:05
  Speaker 5: it's an ego thing because I feel like just like
• 58:07
  Speaker 5: the term it ain't tricking if you got it. I'm
• 58:09
  Speaker 5: not going to sit here and complain about spending money
• 58:11
  Speaker 5: on my girl. But that's my shorty. Like she points
• 58:13
  Speaker 5: to me, even if it's not financially, she keep me sane.
• 58:16
  Speaker 5: She keep me at peace. She cook for me. She
• 58:17
  Speaker 5: give me everything I need. That's something that money can't buy.
• 58:21
  Speaker 5: So I just feel like it depends on who you
• 58:22
  Speaker 5: talking to. Because nowadays, niggas always want to complain about
• 58:24
  Speaker 5: what they not getting, but they're not doing shit to
• 58:26
  Speaker 5: get it.
• 58:27
  Speaker 2: Like, where's the work at? Where's the reciprocity? What are
• 58:31
  Speaker 2: we doing here? So I just... Personally, I hate the conversation.
• 58:35
  Speaker 2: I really do.
• 58:36
  Speaker 5: Especially the 50-50 conversation. I feel like everybody in the
• 58:39
  Speaker 5: fucking America is talking about the 50-50 conversation. Do what
• 58:42
  Speaker 5: works for your relationship. There's nothing wrong with going 50-50
• 58:45
  Speaker 5: with your partner. We live in New York City. At
• 58:47
  Speaker 5: this point, go 50-50 and get an extra person at
• 58:49
  Speaker 5: this point. It's expensive as fuck to live out here.
• 58:52
  Speaker 5: You got to do what you got to do. But
• 58:54
  Speaker 5: at the end of the day, if you are in
• 58:57
  Speaker 5: a relationship or a situation where you are able to
• 59:00
  Speaker 5: provide and have a situation where y'all have that agreement
• 59:04
  Speaker 5: with it's okay for one to give more than the
• 59:06
  Speaker 5: other then just do what the fuck works for you
• 59:08
  Speaker 5: like but a lot of people want to be now
• 59:10
  Speaker 5: women be less less i take accountability we're going to
• 59:13
  Speaker 5: talk about it too because you know the niggas ain't
• 59:14
  Speaker 5: shit you know they kind of always ain't gonna be
• 59:16
  Speaker 5: shit But it's a lot of y'all women that just
• 59:19
  Speaker 5: want to straight up use niggas and y'all don't want
• 59:20
  Speaker 5: to do shit either. And that's, y'all set the standard
• 59:24
  Speaker 5: for a lot of the reason why men think all
• 59:26
  Speaker 5: of us are the same. And y'all see the good
• 59:29
  Speaker 5: women all around y'all. Y'all see the good women. Y'all
• 59:30
  Speaker 5: don't want to talk about that though. Y'all want to
• 59:32
  Speaker 5: talk about the women that's using y'all. So once again,
• 59:33
  Speaker 5: that goes back to my conversation about That's equal. Niggas
• 59:37
  Speaker 5: chasing women. It's like a cycle. You chasing women that's
• 59:40
  Speaker 5: out of your league, that's a user that you know
• 59:43
  Speaker 5: is going to use you. She's chasing a nigga that's
• 59:45
  Speaker 5: out of her league. And now everybody's just in this un.
• 59:48
  Speaker 1: Sloop.
• 59:49
  Speaker 2: Yeah. It's just a cycle of a lot of shit
• 59:52
  Speaker 2: to talk. What do we... Where's the progress?
• 59:55
  Speaker 1: First of all, I have no response to that. I
• 1:00:01
  Speaker 1: got nothing to say. She's absolutely right. I ain't even
• 1:00:05
  Speaker 1: going to argue.
• 1:00:06
  Speaker 7: Thank you.
• 1:00:07
  Speaker 2: I'm about to get smoked. I was ready for the smoke.
• 1:00:10
  Speaker 1: Google says, women have always worked, but formal and legal
• 1:00:15
  Speaker 1: permissions shifted across eras. Lower class women worked on farms
• 1:00:19
  Speaker 1: in an early 19th century factories while World War I
• 1:00:23
  Speaker 1: and World War II forced a permanent shift. Legal equality
• 1:00:27
  Speaker 1: arrived via 20th century milestones like the U.S. Equal Pay
• 1:00:31
  Speaker 1: Act of 1963 and Civil Rights Act of 1964.
• 1:00:35
  Speaker 2: You said legality shifted.
• 1:00:37
  Speaker 1: You're right. They worked whether they were supposed to, whether
• 1:00:41
  Speaker 1: they had permits or whatever.
• 1:00:42
  Speaker 4: I'll concede. I will concede. I will concede.
• 1:00:47
  Speaker 5: But can I also ask something, too? Why do we
• 1:00:49
  Speaker 5: always compare it to way back when... our parents and
• 1:00:53
  Speaker 5: grandparents and stuff was sitting in the crib getting fucked
• 1:00:56
  Speaker 5: all day, having 16 kids.
• 1:00:58
  Speaker 1: Like, this ain't the same. Even the money is different.
• 1:01:01
  Speaker 5: Even the traditional mindset is different.
• 1:01:03
  Speaker 1: It is.
• 1:01:04
  Speaker 3: The money is different, though. Even the worth of the
• 1:01:06
  Speaker 3: money is completely different.
• 1:01:07
  Speaker 1: And social. It was just in their little cubicle, in
• 1:01:11
  Speaker 1: their little... communities back then. Women are going to fucking
• 1:01:15
  Speaker 1: Egypt and Dubai and the boon. Respectfully. They not just
• 1:01:19
  Speaker 1: down the block from Miss Loretta no more. You gotta
• 1:01:22
  Speaker 1: respect your bitch now. She come on, she got motion.
• 1:01:25
  Speaker 3: That's where the whole you gotta be a good person
• 1:01:27
  Speaker 3: thing comes in. And I think on both sides, it's
• 1:01:30
  Speaker 3: the money aspect. It's like everybody can do it, right?
• 1:01:33
  Speaker 3: So it's more than just what you can do or
• 1:01:36
  Speaker 3: what you can provide. It's about who you are, how
• 1:01:37
  Speaker 3: you're moving.
• 1:01:38
  Speaker 4: Alright, so who are the purveyors of the nonsense then?
• 1:01:41
  Speaker 4: Right nowadays.
• 1:01:41
  Speaker 1: Because I feel like it's the women that pervades of
• 1:01:44
  Speaker 1: the nonsense. Me personally, and I'm doing a lot of
• 1:01:47
  Speaker 1: devil advocate shit. But it is like, y'all like, oh,
• 1:01:50
  Speaker 1: the niggas is chasing. Niggas is scared that they're going
• 1:01:55
  Speaker 1: to be used. And obviously, I know niggas don't have
• 1:01:58
  Speaker 1: a $ 60.
• 1:01:59
  Speaker 2: To their name.
• 1:02:01
  Speaker 1: We don't be having that much money to be used.
• 1:02:03
  Speaker 1: But you got the food nigga thing. Women are actively
• 1:02:06
  Speaker 1: talking like they the big dog now. They actively talking
• 1:02:09
  Speaker 1: like niggas don't have the value that they used to have.
• 1:02:12
  Speaker 1: Y'all got this power and y'all slapping us around with it.
• 1:02:15
  Speaker 1: And niggas is like, yo, I can't be one of
• 1:02:17
  Speaker 1: them niggas that's just getting beat up by these chicks
• 1:02:19
  Speaker 1: out here.
• 1:02:19
  Speaker 5: But honestly, I'm sorry. Honestly, I feel like it's the
• 1:02:22
  Speaker 5: industry and it's social media. That's simply what it is.
• 1:02:24
  Speaker 5: Everybody was okay with being a regular person until they
• 1:02:27
  Speaker 5: realized that they could be actually more. So I feel
• 1:02:29
  Speaker 5: like everybody's just shooting for what they feel like they
• 1:02:30
  Speaker 5: could get and seeing if they could get lucky. Because
• 1:02:32
  Speaker 5: I feel like when did we really have this conversation
• 1:02:35
  Speaker 5: about like, using people so heavily. I feel like nowadays,
• 1:02:38
  Speaker 5: now that you know that all you got to do
• 1:02:40
  Speaker 5: is look a certain type of way, you could get
• 1:02:41
  Speaker 5: a certain type of nigga and it could just be
• 1:02:42
  Speaker 5: that easy for you.
• 1:02:44
  Speaker 2: You just want to see if you could get in
• 1:02:45
  Speaker 2: where you're fitting.
• 1:02:46
  Speaker 5: So I feel like everybody's kind of living above their
• 1:02:49
  Speaker 5: means when they come. Because let's keep it above, if
• 1:02:51
  Speaker 5: you a regular ass bitch, regular meaning like you know
• 1:02:54
  Speaker 5: for a fucking fact that this nigga, that you couldn't
• 1:02:58
  Speaker 5: get this out the average nigga, I feel like that's
• 1:03:01
  Speaker 5: when they start the.
• 1:03:04
  Speaker 2: What's the word I'm looking for? Like, I just put
• 1:03:06
  Speaker 2: it like this.
• 1:03:07
  Speaker 5: I just feel like once we gain access to seeing
• 1:03:11
  Speaker 5: how easy it can get, I feel like that's.
• 1:03:13
  Speaker 2: When the pyramid started to trickle down.
• 1:03:16
  Speaker 5: Because I don't feel like everybody was thinking like this
• 1:03:18
  Speaker 5: at first.
• 1:03:19
  Speaker 3: I don't.
• 1:03:19
  Speaker 2: But I also.
• 1:03:19
  Speaker 1: I agree with that. No, I agree with that.
• 1:03:23
  Speaker 3: And I think the access to celebrities and things like that,
• 1:03:27
  Speaker 3: I think that changes the game, right?
• 1:03:28
  Speaker 1: Because back in the day... We always had MTV Cribs
• 1:03:31
  Speaker 1: back then.
• 1:03:31
  Speaker 3: No, no, no, no. Not in the same way, right?
• 1:03:33
  Speaker 8: So.
• 1:03:33
  Speaker 3: Imagine back in the day, right? The chins of your
• 1:03:36
  Speaker 3: girl going to get to see Usher, right? Or going
• 1:03:38
  Speaker 3: to link up with Usher.
• 1:03:39
  Speaker 4: Or going on stage.
• 1:03:40
  Speaker 1: Going on stage.
• 1:03:41
  Speaker 3: That was few far in between. That was basically guaranteed
• 1:03:43
  Speaker 3: to not happen. You could assure yourself, like, all right,
• 1:03:46
  Speaker 3: she ain't going to get to fuck Usher. Today, that's
• 1:03:49
  Speaker 3: a possibility. She might be in a hotel with Trey.
• 1:03:51
  Speaker 3: That might can happen. So I think the... the access
• 1:03:54
  Speaker 3: has changed how people view the situations, right? Because before,
• 1:03:57
  Speaker 3: it's like, yeah, I would never cheat on my person
• 1:03:59
  Speaker 3: unless it was Usher, unless it was this person.
• 1:04:01
  Speaker 1: But now this person is in the next room. Now
• 1:04:02
  Speaker 1: this person is downstairs. Yeah, so what makes, so what
• 1:04:05
  Speaker 1: happened to the chicks that would do that back, there's
• 1:04:07
  Speaker 1: always been low chicks back then and now it's everybody?
• 1:04:12
  Speaker 1: Annie and everybody. But it's not... Chick from no strength. Yes.
• 1:04:15
  Speaker 1: Chick from 125. Chick from... Auntie, grandma from over here.
• 1:04:18
  Speaker 1: Your grandma, she at the... She looking... Yeah. What the fuck?
• 1:04:22
  Speaker 1: Where's the regular bitches at?
• 1:04:23
  Speaker 2: But there are... That's the problem.
• 1:04:24
  Speaker 9: There are many regular women.
• 1:04:26
  Speaker 1: There are many... That look good.
• 1:04:27
  Speaker 2: Women that look good. Beyond that. That act good. That
• 1:04:30
  Speaker 2: college education is good.
• 1:04:31
  Speaker 1: Yes.
• 1:04:31
  Speaker 2: That make good money.
• 1:04:33
  Speaker 9: And y'all focus just on the women that are having
• 1:04:35
  Speaker 9: these conversations on social media.
• 1:04:37
  Speaker 6: Absolutely.
• 1:04:37
  Speaker 9: The woman that you're looking for.
• 1:04:38
  Speaker 1: Everybody's on social media.
• 1:04:39
  Speaker 9: Is not... Everyone is not having these conversations on social media.
• 1:04:43
  Speaker 9: Everyone is not wanting the man that makes the most
• 1:04:46
  Speaker 9: money or can provide the most or gives them the
• 1:04:48
  Speaker 9: most luxurious birthday trips. This shit has become a performance art. Like,
• 1:04:53
  Speaker 9: it's lame. But we right here and down the block
• 1:04:56
  Speaker 9: There's a girl that, oh, she doesn't dress nice enough
• 1:04:59
  Speaker 9: for you. So now you're not paying her no attention
• 1:05:01
  Speaker 9: because she's not the Bernice Burgos of the world. But
• 1:05:03
  Speaker 9: that's the woman that would absolutely love the fucking ground
• 1:05:06
  Speaker 9: you walk on and be able to cater to your
• 1:05:08
  Speaker 9: ego and doesn't need the necessary provisions.
• 1:05:11
  Speaker 1: But look how she walk. Look how she dress.
• 1:05:13
  Speaker 2: And that's your problem.
• 1:05:14
  Speaker 1: Hold on.
• 1:05:14
  Speaker 3: I think women do that all the time with guys, though.
• 1:05:17
  Speaker 3: We say, yo, that guy is nice. He does everything.
• 1:05:19
  Speaker 3: He's a great guy. I'm like, yeah, I don't like him,
• 1:05:21
  Speaker 3: but he corny. He's this, he's that. I'm not fucking
• 1:05:23
  Speaker 3: with him because he's not into this or he's not
• 1:05:24
  Speaker 3: into that. Y'all do the same thing with men.
• 1:05:25
  Speaker 9: And I just told one of my girlfriends last night
• 1:05:27
  Speaker 9: that I have a habit of doing that. And knowing that, okay,
• 1:05:30
  Speaker 9: then the man that I really need to be with
• 1:05:33
  Speaker 9: is on the other side of what my type is.
• 1:05:35
  Speaker 9: So you're absolutely right. But at the same time, we
• 1:05:38
  Speaker 9: are in... close proximity to what celebrity and what status
• 1:05:42
  Speaker 9: looks like. And we want, we've always wanted what seems
• 1:05:45
  Speaker 9: to be out of reach. So I can have a
• 1:05:48
  Speaker 9: million things on this list, but then the guy over
• 1:05:51
  Speaker 9: here is able to fulfill 18 versions of that. And
• 1:05:54
  Speaker 9: it's like, But he ain't got this. Yes, we all
• 1:05:58
  Speaker 9: go through that.
• 1:05:59
  Speaker 2: It's not to say that we don't.
• 1:06:00
  Speaker 4: So how are you going to change it? Because you
• 1:06:01
  Speaker 4: telling us about the problem.
• 1:06:02
  Speaker 2: How I'm changing it?
• 1:06:03
  Speaker 3: Yeah, how you changing it?
• 1:06:04
  Speaker 2: I'm not dating right now. I've been sitting on.
• 1:06:06
  Speaker 1: This pussy for a year. None of the abstinence.
• 1:06:07
  Speaker 8: Okay.
• 1:06:08
  Speaker 3: Stop.
• 1:06:08
  Speaker 9: Thank you.
• 1:06:10
  Speaker 1: Stop.
• 1:06:11
  Speaker 2: Stop my ass.
• 1:06:12
  Speaker 1: Literally. You've stopped your ass. I'm telling you to stop
• 1:06:15
  Speaker 1: the bullshit coming out of it. Hold on. Mm-hmm.
• 1:06:18
  Speaker 4: And I love you. You know I love you.
• 1:06:20
  Speaker 1: But I do need to understand where the hypocrisy stops.
• 1:06:23
  Speaker 1: Because you're saying that's what everybody else is doing, but
• 1:06:26
  Speaker 1: you're doing the same thing. Am I not inclusive of everybody?
• 1:06:30
  Speaker 1: So what I'm asking is, so what is the cure
• 1:06:31
  Speaker 1: for it? Now, abstinence is not the cure. That's not
• 1:06:34
  Speaker 1: the cure for relationships.
• 1:06:35
  Speaker 9: But remember when I told you there's never one simplistic
• 1:06:38
  Speaker 9: cure for anything? If abstinence is going to be one cure,
• 1:06:41
  Speaker 9: that's because on the other side of that means sitting
• 1:06:43
  Speaker 9: with myself long enough to know what it is.
• 1:06:45
  Speaker 2: That I like versus what it is that I need.
• 1:06:47
  Speaker 1: And you think that once you come back in, you're
• 1:06:48
  Speaker 1: going to go for the not cool nigga?
• 1:06:50
  Speaker 9: I never said I was going for a not cool
• 1:06:51
  Speaker 9: nigga because any nigga I'm with, I made cool. Any
• 1:06:54
  Speaker 9: nigga I'm with is cool.
• 1:06:55
  Speaker 2: I've never been with a fucking loser. I know that's right.
• 1:06:58
  Speaker 1: I'm just saying it is what it is.
• 1:07:00
  Speaker 2: But I might not go for it. Big Lola. Big Lola.
• 1:07:07
  Speaker 2: Any man that I'm with is cool.
• 1:07:08
  Speaker 9: But making sure that I'm cool enough to actually have
• 1:07:11
  Speaker 9: the man that is what I say I want. I
• 1:07:14
  Speaker 9: could have all these wishes in the world, but if
• 1:07:16
  Speaker 9: I'm still just a materialistic, superficial ass bitch, that man
• 1:07:20
  Speaker 9: is not even going to be checking for me. So
• 1:07:21
  Speaker 9: maybe right now I do need to be sitting on
• 1:07:23
  Speaker 9: something and giving myself a little breather because I couldn't
• 1:07:26
  Speaker 9: have possibly chosen all the wrong men and it had
• 1:07:30
  Speaker 9: been their fault.
• 1:07:31
  Speaker 2: There has to be some fault within myself.
• 1:07:33
  Speaker 9: So rather than me go back out there and do
• 1:07:35
  Speaker 9: the same shit expecting something different, maybe I need to
• 1:07:37
  Speaker 9: kind of reel it in a bit and figure out, Norman,
• 1:07:39
  Speaker 9: what it is, what's going on with you? And that's
• 1:07:42
  Speaker 9: why I said me and my girlfriend was having a
• 1:07:43
  Speaker 9: conversation last night that I've chosen men based on sometimes
• 1:07:47
  Speaker 9: superficial standards. My daughter's father was a sex Adonis. He
• 1:07:52
  Speaker 9: was just so handsome. But the nigga mentally, he and
• 1:07:54
  Speaker 9: I did not match up and we did not grow
• 1:07:56
  Speaker 9: at the same rate.
• 1:07:57
  Speaker 2: So what is it?
• 1:07:59
  Speaker 9: That I need that allows me to grow with someone
• 1:08:01
  Speaker 9: emotionally that regardless of whether he's dressed nicely right now,
• 1:08:05
  Speaker 9: when we're 85 years old, we're still emotionally and mentally connected.
• 1:08:09
  Speaker 2: That's what I'm looking for now.
• 1:08:10
  Speaker 9: I don't give a fuck how quote unquote cool you
• 1:08:13
  Speaker 9: are or how much money you got or any of
• 1:08:15
  Speaker 9: that shit because all of that can be fixed.
• 1:08:16
  Speaker 2: But what I do need is reciprocity.
• 1:08:19
  Speaker 9: I need empathy. I need understanding. I need trustworthiness. I
• 1:08:22
  Speaker 9: need loyalty. And I want to be able to provide
• 1:08:25
  Speaker 9: all that back to you. That don't mean that I
• 1:08:26
  Speaker 9: want the nigga making $ 6 outside because then that means
• 1:08:29
  Speaker 9: you don't really have work ethic and that's not going
• 1:08:31
  Speaker 9: to align with me. But I don't necessarily need you
• 1:08:34
  Speaker 9: to have close proximity to a celebrity for me to
• 1:08:37
  Speaker 9: feel like I should be with you.
• 1:08:39
  Speaker 4: No, that's peace. I loved everything you said, right?
• 1:08:43
  Speaker 1: And I started thinking about the things that you said
• 1:08:45
  Speaker 1: when all of the things you laid out, trustworthiness, all
• 1:08:48
  Speaker 1: of these things. And I think that as a man,
• 1:08:52
  Speaker 1: my problem was not seeing certain value in myself for
• 1:08:57
  Speaker 1: a long time where other people were seeing value in me.
• 1:09:01
  Speaker 1: I was like, kind of, I don't want to pause this.
• 1:09:04
  Speaker 1: I was sucking their value out to add to mine.
• 1:09:07
  Speaker 9: Right.
• 1:09:07
  Speaker 1: Right. Like if I could get her, I'm a bad,
• 1:09:10
  Speaker 1: I'm a doper nigga. And then, but how long I
• 1:09:12
  Speaker 1: got to lie to her? Cause I don't have that
• 1:09:14
  Speaker 1: inner confidence myself. So I got to keep lying to
• 1:09:18
  Speaker 1: her so hopefully she'll believe the lie and don't see
• 1:09:21
  Speaker 1: me for what I really am.
• 1:09:23
  Speaker 4: And that was a me problem.
• 1:09:24
  Speaker 1: And it really wasn't until I had a certain sort
• 1:09:28
  Speaker 1: of success, a stable job, stable place to live. You
• 1:09:33
  Speaker 1: know what I'm saying? Where I started more believing in
• 1:09:36
  Speaker 1: myself and were able to add value to other people
• 1:09:40
  Speaker 1: without feeling like they could get me for it or
• 1:09:43
  Speaker 1: like I was lying to them.
• 1:09:45
  Speaker 4: And I think.
• 1:09:46
  Speaker 1: I'm in a unique situation. Say the social, say the popular,
• 1:09:53
  Speaker 1: whatever it may be. That gives you a sort of confidence, right? Like,
• 1:09:57
  Speaker 1: you can't take that from me. I'm me.
• 1:09:58
  Speaker 8: Right.
• 1:09:59
  Speaker 1: A lot of niggas are still trying to prove who
• 1:10:02
  Speaker 1: they him before they could be a him to a her.
• 1:10:05
  Speaker 2: Too many hims out here. I'm telling you that now.
• 1:10:07
  Speaker 1: There's too many hims? Too many hims?
• 1:10:08
  Speaker 2: Every nigga think they him, but only I can be him.
• 1:10:12
  Speaker 2: You're just you.
• 1:10:13
  Speaker 9: I would disagree with that because internally, everyone is him.
• 1:10:17
  Speaker 2: Everyone is her.
• 1:10:18
  Speaker 9: They just haven't believed in themselves enough to actually be
• 1:10:21
  Speaker 9: that and fulfill that.
• 1:10:21
  Speaker 5: But at the same time, I feel like to flaunt it,
• 1:10:23
  Speaker 5: you got to feel it. I feel like it's like
• 1:10:25
  Speaker 5: a defense mechanism.
• 1:10:26
  Speaker 1: It is.
• 1:10:26
  Speaker 5: Like, if you know you lack a quality, but you're
• 1:10:28
  Speaker 5: trying to prove to me that you have that quality,
• 1:10:30
  Speaker 5: but I know and you know that you have work
• 1:10:32
  Speaker 5: to do, Like, that whole him thing, it's like, it's giving, like,
• 1:10:37
  Speaker 5: I'm bigger than a program. I feel like that's how
• 1:10:39
  Speaker 5: they weaponize it nowadays. And it's like, of course, you
• 1:10:42
  Speaker 5: should always feel like your higher self always. You should
• 1:10:44
  Speaker 5: always feel like the bad... Look, I don't give a
• 1:10:46
  Speaker 5: fuck how many thick bitches in the room. I said
• 1:10:48
  Speaker 5: I'm the thickest. I don't care what the fuck y'all say.
• 1:10:50
  Speaker 5: That's just how I walk around. But at the end
• 1:10:52
  Speaker 5: of the day, I be feeling like a lot of
• 1:10:53
  Speaker 5: men just used as a defense mechanism to show, like,
• 1:10:57
  Speaker 5: even though I might not seem worth it, I'm either
• 1:11:00
  Speaker 5: going to be worth it or.
• 1:11:02
  Speaker 2: that's just... That's just, like, how they feel about themselves.
• 1:11:05
  Speaker 2: And I think that shit is whack as fuck. Like, personally.
• 1:11:08
  Speaker 3: Well, no, I was about to say, I think for men,
• 1:11:10
  Speaker 3: especially in this day and age, there's not a lot
• 1:11:12
  Speaker 3: of places where there are people pouring into men. So
• 1:11:15
  Speaker 3: I feel like the self... To have to tell yourself
• 1:11:18
  Speaker 3: that I think is where we get that from.
• 1:11:20
  Speaker 5: I don't.
• 1:11:21
  Speaker 3: It's more of a confidence thing. I don't. I'm not
• 1:11:23
  Speaker 3: saying that is true. I'm not saying that you should
• 1:11:25
  Speaker 3: misrepresent who you are. But I think sometimes you have
• 1:11:28
  Speaker 3: to start with yourself.
• 1:11:29
  Speaker 5: Right.
• 1:11:29
  Speaker 3: So I got to fuel myself even for me to
• 1:11:32
  Speaker 3: even get on this path to become him. I got
• 1:11:34
  Speaker 3: to tell myself that I'm him right now so that
• 1:11:35
  Speaker 3: I could work on getting there.
• 1:11:36
  Speaker 5: But it's not even like telling yourself, like saying it
• 1:11:39
  Speaker 5: in confidence to yourself. it's more so you saying that
• 1:11:42
  Speaker 5: at somebody to weaponize.
• 1:11:44
  Speaker 1: Oh, like to people. Oh, okay. Yeah. But I need
• 1:11:46
  Speaker 1: you to believe it. I need you to believe it,
• 1:11:48
  Speaker 1: especially when I don't believe it. Because if I believe it,
• 1:11:50
  Speaker 1: I don't got to tell you.
• 1:11:52
  Speaker 2: I was just about to say that.
• 1:11:53
  Speaker 1: If I'm me, I don't got to.
• 1:11:54
  Speaker 2: You don't have to say it.
• 1:11:55
  Speaker 1: And I don't care if you don't think it. I
• 1:11:56
  Speaker 1: know who I am. Right. But it's the fact that
• 1:11:58
  Speaker 1: I'm trying to prove it to you. See, a lot
• 1:12:00
  Speaker 1: of times, and I said this on Hardest Off a lot,
• 1:12:02
  Speaker 1: a lot of men's, um, Belief in their self comes
• 1:12:05
  Speaker 1: from the ego. The ego needs to be at full.
• 1:12:09
  Speaker 1: And it comes from pussy, money, dick size, control of women.
• 1:12:15
  Speaker 1: Like those things make me believe that I'm really who
• 1:12:18
  Speaker 1: I want to be. And until you have that or
• 1:12:20
  Speaker 1: until you're comfortable not needing that to believe in yourself,
• 1:12:25
  Speaker 1: you're going to lie. You're going to manipulate. You're going
• 1:12:28
  Speaker 1: to cheat. You're going to get however you can get it.
• 1:12:31
  Speaker 5: Right.
• 1:12:31
  Speaker 4: Until you actually believe in yourself. And I think so.
• 1:12:34
  Speaker 1: Speaking back to what Lola was saying, I think a
• 1:12:37
  Speaker 1: lot of the things that stop men from giving you
• 1:12:40
  Speaker 1: all of those things, what did you say? Trustworthiness, loyalty, empathy,
• 1:12:43
  Speaker 1: because I don't have it in myself to give. I'm
• 1:12:46
  Speaker 1: still trying to figure out me. I'm still trying to
• 1:12:48
  Speaker 1: fill up my ego meter to where I don't need
• 1:12:51
  Speaker 1: to lie, where I don't need to cheat. where I
• 1:12:56
  Speaker 1: don't need to be more selfish or manipulative to get
• 1:12:59
  Speaker 1: what I need. I don't have it to give you yet.
• 1:13:01
  Speaker 1: And I don't know if y'all think that this is societal.
• 1:13:07
  Speaker 1: I just think that, as yesterday said, it comes from
• 1:13:09
  Speaker 1: this pressure for men to be a certain thing and
• 1:13:13
  Speaker 1: us not really having a community that makes us feel
• 1:13:17
  Speaker 1: like we don't. Women are making us feel like we
• 1:13:19
  Speaker 1: need it. The world is making men feel like you
• 1:13:22
  Speaker 1: got to be certain things. And if you're not, it's like...
• 1:13:25
  Speaker 1: And if you're not, you're not getting the word.
• 1:13:27
  Speaker 2: But why do men go to places that purposefully break
• 1:13:30
  Speaker 2: down their ego?
• 1:13:32
  Speaker 4: So we could get one of y'all.
• 1:13:33
  Speaker 5: Yeah, but then when we put it in your face
• 1:13:35
  Speaker 5: that you're not there yet... Hopefully, if we can get
• 1:13:36
  Speaker 5: one of y'all, because somebody going to go.
• 1:13:38
  Speaker 2: It's like a... Why are you doing that to yourself?
• 1:13:39
  Speaker 5: You're putting yourself in a predicament to possibly get shut
• 1:13:42
  Speaker 5: down and hurt your ego even more.
• 1:13:43
  Speaker 2: Like, where's the progress?
• 1:13:44
  Speaker 1: We don't do it without... See, that's a different thing, though.
• 1:13:46
  Speaker 1: Men will take a million no's and just be happy
• 1:13:48
  Speaker 1: with the yes they get for now.
• 1:13:49
  Speaker 3: Mm-hmm.
• 1:13:50
  Speaker 1: You know how many knows? I used to go out
• 1:13:52
  Speaker 1: on meows for women's numbers. I used to go out
• 1:13:55
  Speaker 1: and all I would do, Greek Fest, Jones Beach, whatever
• 1:13:58
  Speaker 1: it was, whatever.
• 1:13:59
  Speaker 4: You said meows?
• 1:14:01
  Speaker 2: Right, I was trying to figure it out.
• 1:14:01
  Speaker 1: When you was a, as a booster, you go on meows, right?
• 1:14:04
  Speaker 1: You go to stores and you steal. It's just what
• 1:14:06
  Speaker 1: it's called. I used to do that to get women.
• 1:14:09
  Speaker 1: I used to walk through the city, walk through fests,
• 1:14:12
  Speaker 1: and all I did was bag chicks, bag chicks, bag chicks.
• 1:14:15
  Speaker 1: And a hundred of them say no. 20 of them
• 1:14:18
  Speaker 1: said yes. And so as long as I got those
• 1:14:20
  Speaker 1: 20 and then those, that's where you get the good morning, beautiful.
• 1:14:23
  Speaker 1: And he don't hit you no more because he tagged
• 1:14:25
  Speaker 1: a hundred other beautifuls. Good morning, beautiful to 20 bitches.
• 1:14:29
  Speaker 1: And whoever responds to it. So he's bouncing off of
• 1:14:33
  Speaker 1: those and he forgot. He said, good morning to you.
• 1:14:35
  Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying? And so that's what that happens.
• 1:14:37
  Speaker 1: And so what, what I'm saying is I'm building up
• 1:14:41
  Speaker 1: my ego by how many women I could get. So
• 1:14:43
  Speaker 1: you're saying, oh, You getting shut down. Nigga, that nigga
• 1:14:46
  Speaker 1: don't give a fuck about himself enough to care.
• 1:14:48
  Speaker 2: It's not even about getting shut down.
• 1:14:50
  Speaker 5: But I just felt like if you naturally want to
• 1:14:53
  Speaker 5: boost your ego when it comes to different things, why
• 1:14:56
  Speaker 5: even gamble with the.
• 1:15:00
  Speaker 1: What's the loss that you think in trying?
• 1:15:01
  Speaker 5: For example, if you go to the strip club, you
• 1:15:03
  Speaker 5: want to be a nigga with all the bitches and
• 1:15:06
  Speaker 5: all the money. I go to these type of clubs.
• 1:15:07
  Speaker 5: Now I'm going to go to this club. I'm going
• 1:15:08
  Speaker 5: to try to holla at this type of shorty. And
• 1:15:10
  Speaker 5: she look you up and down in pure disgust because
• 1:15:13
  Speaker 5: you're not her fucking type.
• 1:15:14
  Speaker 4: That shit sucks.
• 1:15:14
  Speaker 2: Doesn't that break down?
• 1:15:16
  Speaker 5: Aren't you trying to build your ego up to try
• 1:15:18
  Speaker 5: to be a certain type of nigga?
• 1:15:19
  Speaker 2: But why would you go to a level that you
• 1:15:21
  Speaker 2: know you're not ready for yet?
• 1:15:22
  Speaker 3: Because I think the risk is, I think the risk,
• 1:15:25
  Speaker 3: sometimes the reward is worth the risk, I think, for men.
• 1:15:28
  Speaker 3: So it's like, I'll take the risk of my ego
• 1:15:30
  Speaker 3: being broken because if I get this, if I pull
• 1:15:32
  Speaker 3: this off, I'm him.
• 1:15:34
  Speaker 9: Nigga.
• 1:15:34
  Speaker 1: Oh, nigga. Nigga, it's over. I know, it's over. And
• 1:15:37
  Speaker 1: the strippers be good. When you got money in your hand,
• 1:15:41
  Speaker 1: the stripper make you feel like you really that nigga. Yeah.
• 1:15:45
  Speaker 2: As soon as you finish, you are nothing.
• 1:15:47
  Speaker 1: And they look you in your eyes. Like, if I
• 1:15:49
  Speaker 1: wasn't here, yo, after I leave here, I will call you.
• 1:15:53
  Speaker 1: I will fuck you. They sell it.
• 1:15:56
  Speaker 2: They sell it.
• 1:15:56
  Speaker 1: And you be like, word. And you throw that last dollar,
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  Speaker 1: and they be like.
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  Speaker 2: Walk away.
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  Speaker 3: That's it.
• 1:16:01
  Speaker 1: That's it.
• 1:16:06
  Speaker 2: I seen it.
• 1:16:06
  Speaker 3: Bro, that nigga done waited till you done closed out
• 1:16:08
  Speaker 3: the club. Nigga sitting outside. Nigga is waiting.
• 1:16:11
  Speaker 1: It's like $ 9 at the credit card machine. Yes. You
• 1:16:14
  Speaker 1: got $ 239 in there. You trying to take out $ 230. Yo.
• 1:16:21
  Speaker 1: And you, I'll be right back. Yo, you got more singles?
• 1:16:24
  Speaker 1: You go, you get your 20s. You take it, yo,
• 1:16:25
  Speaker 1: you get your singles. You cash it up and then
• 1:16:27
  Speaker 1: the nigga in the corner, like, yo, bro, let me
• 1:16:28
  Speaker 1: get that.
• 1:16:28
  Speaker 4: And she take your bread and walk.
• 1:16:30
  Speaker 1: Away, bro.
• 1:16:31
  Speaker 9: The problem is that a lot of men are trying
• 1:16:34
  Speaker 9: to find their ego that high in the wrong places.
• 1:16:38
  Speaker 9: And then when you say things like we don't, a
• 1:16:40
  Speaker 9: lot of men don't have the space to learn how
• 1:16:43
  Speaker 9: to become or be that person.
• 1:16:45
  Speaker 2: There are spaces. So there's this quote I love.
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  Speaker 9: It is easier to build strong children than it is
• 1:16:51
  Speaker 9: to repair broken men.
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  Speaker 10: Right.
• 1:16:53
  Speaker 1: Right.
• 1:16:55
  Speaker 9: It's easier to build strong children than it is to
• 1:16:57
  Speaker 9: repair broken men.
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  Speaker 3: I agree with that.
• 1:16:59
  Speaker 9: So what are we doing for the children that we
• 1:17:02
  Speaker 9: can repair? We know that we got our shit with us.
• 1:17:04
  Speaker 1: What are we doing?
• 1:17:05
  Speaker 9: There are so many different organizations that we can put
• 1:17:08
  Speaker 9: our men in. There are so many organizations for men
• 1:17:10
  Speaker 9: of your age, and we neglect those. And, yeah, they
• 1:17:13
  Speaker 9: might not have all the notoriety of, you know, the
• 1:17:16
  Speaker 9: things that we see online. But right-hand Bed-Stuy, Barry Cooper,
• 1:17:21
  Speaker 9: he runs the Bro Experience.
• 1:17:22
  Speaker 2: Do y'all know him?
• 1:17:23
  Speaker 1: Mm-hmm.
• 1:17:23
  Speaker 9: All he does is cater to young Black men, teaching
• 1:17:26
  Speaker 9: them what it means to be a man. And being
• 1:17:28
  Speaker 9: a man, as I'm sure y'all can attest to at
• 1:17:30
  Speaker 9: this age, is more than just getting pussy, having money,
• 1:17:34
  Speaker 9: and being that nigga. And when I talk about him,
• 1:17:36
  Speaker 9: so I get what you're saying with their actions is
• 1:17:38
  Speaker 9: what you're talking about. I'm talking about... Your intrinsic value
• 1:17:42
  Speaker 9: as a child of God, you are him. But the
• 1:17:45
  Speaker 9: way that you're trying to represent what him is is incorrect.
• 1:17:50
  Speaker 9: You are him just because you're a reflection of God.
• 1:17:53
  Speaker 9: You are that man as a black man. But how
• 1:17:56
  Speaker 9: are you relaying this? It ain't with a bitch. A
• 1:17:58
  Speaker 9: bitch is not going to make you be who God
• 1:18:00
  Speaker 9: has already ordained you to be. And that's the problem.
• 1:18:03
  Speaker 9: We looking in the wrong spaces.
• 1:18:05
  Speaker 2: I was her before I knew who her was.
• 1:18:07
  Speaker 9: And even when I'm at my fucking lowest and don't
• 1:18:09
  Speaker 9: remember who I am, I have a community of women
• 1:18:12
  Speaker 9: that are like, girl, stand the fuck up.
• 1:18:14
  Speaker 1: You're her.
• 1:18:14
  Speaker 9: So we need to have more men building community that
• 1:18:18
  Speaker 9: can kind of make them aware of you're more than just.
• 1:18:21
  Speaker 2: this bitch sucking your dick.
• 1:18:23
  Speaker 1: Right.
• 1:18:23
  Speaker 9: Because as soon as that $ 230, you're not even going
• 1:18:26
  Speaker 9: to be able to get the $ 230 out because it's
• 1:18:28
  Speaker 9: $ 9 for that ATM and $ 4 for your fucking bank.
• 1:18:32
  Speaker 2: And now still.
• 1:18:33
  Speaker 1: I'll be negative four.
• 1:18:34
  Speaker 4: I'll be negative four.
• 1:18:35
  Speaker 1: That's tomorrow. That's tomorrow.
• 1:18:36
  Speaker 3: Tomorrow's problem.
• 1:18:38
  Speaker 1: Yo, we ended in part one. Can I still have
• 1:18:40
  Speaker 1: y'all for part two? Y'all good? Yeah, for sure.
• 1:18:42
  Speaker 4: This has been, I'm loving this. I'm loving this.
• 1:18:45
  Speaker 2: Yeah, we had a great conversation.
• 1:18:46
  Speaker 4: Y'all really smoking. We got Paris some caffeine, so she
• 1:18:48
  Speaker 4: ain't yawning no more.
• 1:18:49
  Speaker 1: Yes.
• 1:18:50
  Speaker 2: I'm coming back, y'all.
• 1:18:52
  Speaker 1: We're going to take a two-minute break. Matter of fact, Paris,
• 1:18:56
  Speaker 1: where can they find you?
• 1:18:57
  Speaker 4: What you got going on?
• 1:18:59
  Speaker 5: Okay, so I'm about to get back on YouTube, so
• 1:19:01
  Speaker 5: y'all can follow me on YouTube, Paris Daniel Cole. I
• 1:19:04
  Speaker 5: know y'all going to be a little confused, but that's
• 1:19:06
  Speaker 5: why I said I'm coming back, work with me. You
• 1:19:08
  Speaker 5: can find me on Instagram, Paris Danielle Cole. Everything is
• 1:19:11
  Speaker 5: pretty much the same. Paris Danielle, Paris Danielle Cole, fill.
• 1:19:14
  Speaker 2: In the blanks.
• 1:19:14
  Speaker 5: I be on TikTok, do my little ones and twos.
• 1:19:17
  Speaker 5: And I'm slowly but surely getting back on the scene, y'all.
• 1:19:19
  Speaker 5: I'm trying to come from my silence and get the
• 1:19:21
  Speaker 5: word back out. So it's happening with.
• 1:19:23
  Speaker 3: Me, y'all.
• 1:19:23
  Speaker 1: Fire. Lola?
• 1:19:26
  Speaker 9: You know, y'all can find me on Instagram, LolaTheDivine.
• 1:19:31
  Speaker 1: On YouTube.
• 1:19:32
  Speaker 2: Yes, that's right.
• 1:19:32
  Speaker 9: Lola the Divine, because I am that girl. Okay. I also,
• 1:19:37
  Speaker 9: like you, am all over the place. Right now, I'm
• 1:19:39
  Speaker 9: back in school. I'm actually graduating in December, finishing my
• 1:19:43
  Speaker 9: bachelor's communications with a concentration in visual and media studies.
• 1:19:47
  Speaker 9: So I have kind of shifted, and I do a
• 1:19:49
  Speaker 9: lot of community activism, but I kind of want to
• 1:19:52
  Speaker 9: work now. more in corporate settings, ensuring that our Black
• 1:19:55
  Speaker 9: stories are told creatively and with truth. So that's where
• 1:20:00
  Speaker 9: I'm at, just pretty much trying to pivot. I'm very
• 1:20:02
  Speaker 9: big on the pivot.
• 1:20:03
  Speaker 4: Well, I'm loving both of y'all.
• 1:20:05
  Speaker 1: You know I've already tagged you, pull up when you can,
• 1:20:08
  Speaker 1: when your schedule allows. Paris, if you ever get a chance,
• 1:20:11
  Speaker 1: if you want to, pull back up. Yesterday.
• 1:20:15
  Speaker 3: Yes, sir. What's the word?
• 1:20:16
  Speaker 1: Where can people find you? Maybe compliment you on my
• 1:20:18
  Speaker 1: comments and shit.
• 1:20:19
  Speaker 3: Oh, yo.
• 1:20:20
  Speaker 1: Yesterday so fine.
• 1:20:21
  Speaker 2: Yo.
• 1:20:21
  Speaker 3: Y'all can find me on Instagram everywhere. Yesterday with three S's.
• 1:20:26
  Speaker 1: Period.
• 1:20:26
  Speaker 2: Why is it three S's?
• 1:20:27
  Speaker 3: Nobody.
• 1:20:28
  Speaker 1: Yes. Nobody knows.
• 1:20:31
  Speaker 9: Yes.
• 1:20:32
  Speaker 2: Yesterday.
• 1:20:32
  Speaker 1: Thursday.
• 1:20:33
  Speaker 2: Yeah.
• 1:20:34
  Speaker 3: We'll be back.
• 1:20:35
  Speaker 1: And go to Patreon if you want to hear the
• 1:20:38
  Speaker 1: show with no ads. Because I know I'll be busting
• 1:20:39
  Speaker 1: y'all ass with my ads every 10 minutes.
• 1:20:41
  Speaker 3: I know y'all be like. I listened to the pod
• 1:20:43
  Speaker 3: one day.
• 1:20:44
  Speaker 2: I mean, gotta get paid.
• 1:20:45
  Speaker 3: Since the shit started.
• 1:20:46
  Speaker 2: Gotta get paid.
• 1:20:47
  Speaker 3: Gotta get paid.
• 1:20:47
  Speaker 2: This economy is trash. Gotta get paid.
• 1:20:50
  Speaker 4: So shameless.
• 1:20:51
  Speaker 1: All right.
• 1:20:53
  Speaker 3: Yes.
• 1:20:53
  Speaker 1: Can you turn off this shit and we can, anybody
• 1:20:56
  Speaker 1: want to go stand in the AC in the back
• 1:20:58
  Speaker 1: or y'all want to get right to it? I'm good.
• 1:21:00
  Speaker 1: What's happening after this? Well, what?