Latest / Intuitive Coaching with Amy Radio / How to Trust Divine Timing When Your Manifestation Hasn’t Happened Yet
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- 0:01Speaker 1: Hi, It's Amy with Intuitive Coaching with Amy Radio, and
- 0:04Speaker 1: this is your sacred space for spirituality, intuition, manifestation, metaphysical
- 0:11Speaker 1: wisdom and personal development. Today, I want to talk to
- 0:15Speaker 1: you about something that every manifestor has to navigate. What
- 0:21Speaker 1: do you do when you feel like you're doing everything
- 0:23Speaker 1: you know to do to create the result you desire,
- 0:26Speaker 1: but you still don't know when it's going to happen?
- 0:30Speaker 1: Or how do you navigate divine timing meaning spirits in
- 0:34Speaker 1: charge of the How how do you move through that
- 0:40Speaker 1: space where you believe it's possible. You're taking action, you're
- 0:43Speaker 1: doing your spiritual practices, and yet you're still waiting for
- 0:47Speaker 1: physical evidence to appear. So from my experience, you have
- 0:52Speaker 1: two choices. The first thing you have to do, no
- 0:56Speaker 1: matter what, is relax and center yourself. And I want
- 0:59Speaker 1: to emphasize something here. You can rest your body, but
- 1:03Speaker 1: your mind's still running. You could be lying down, taking
- 1:07Speaker 1: a break, trying to relax, but internally you're still questioning
- 1:12Speaker 1: is it going to happen? Why isn't here? What am
- 1:14Speaker 1: I missing? Is something wrong? So the real work is
- 1:17Speaker 1: learning how to rest your mind, and that's where trust
- 1:23Speaker 1: comes in. So then number one, after you rest your mind,
- 1:31Speaker 1: your first choice is to surrender, really surrender. It looks
- 1:38Speaker 1: similar to rest, but surrender is a spiritual practice unto itself.
- 1:43Speaker 1: It is giving the situation fully and completely over to
- 1:46Speaker 1: spirit and you go and do you do something else.
- 1:51Speaker 1: So it's very difficult to make that shift if your
- 1:55Speaker 1: mind's still running. So I'm gonna say you got to
- 1:58Speaker 1: relax your mind, re elects your mind, and then surrender.
- 2:03Speaker 1: And in the surrendering, you have to allow yourself to
- 2:10Speaker 1: trust that things are coming together, even if you can't
- 2:13Speaker 1: see exactly how, and you must have so much trust
- 2:17Speaker 1: and spirit to handle it that you go about your business.
- 2:22Speaker 1: You know, you do all the things you say you've
- 2:24Speaker 1: been putting off. You know, you go live your life.
- 2:30Speaker 1: And then your second choice is to continue to take action.
- 2:36Speaker 1: And I want to say this, Both these choices, surrender
- 2:39Speaker 1: and taking action are in the realm of faith. So
- 2:46Speaker 1: surrenders faith inspired action is faith. Resting and trusting that
- 2:50Speaker 1: spirit is moving in your favor is also faith. And
- 2:56Speaker 1: continuing to follow your inner guidance and do what you
- 2:59Speaker 1: need to do is faith. Both these paths surrendering and
- 3:05Speaker 1: continuing to take action support your manifestation coming into form.
- 3:11Speaker 1: Here's what I would not recommend is constantly checking for
- 3:16Speaker 1: results from a place of fear and desperation. Okay, I
- 3:20Speaker 1: want to be clear here because there's a lot of
- 3:23Speaker 1: talk and Internet land about don't be checking for results.
- 3:27Speaker 1: Come out. We're human beings. If you're expecting something, you're
- 3:32Speaker 1: going to be checking for it. That's fine. You just
- 3:35Speaker 1: want to be aware of the energy that you're in
- 3:38Speaker 1: when you're checking for results, So you don't want to
- 3:42Speaker 1: be in fear and you don't want to be in desperation.
- 3:46Speaker 1: If you can get excited as you check for results,
- 3:50Speaker 1: or be as neutral about it as you can. If
- 3:55Speaker 1: you're expecting a manifestation, of course you're going to be
- 3:57Speaker 1: looking for signs and you want to notice when things
- 4:02Speaker 1: are moving. One more time. I think that's just a
- 4:05Speaker 1: part of the human experience. But check the fear, check
- 4:10Speaker 1: the desperation, check the doubt even I think sometimes, and
- 4:20Speaker 1: I think this happens to even the most spiritual people.
- 4:22Speaker 1: I think when you've been wanting something for so long,
- 4:24Speaker 1: and you've been working at it for so long, and
- 4:33Speaker 1: I think sometimes just as self preservation, you can slip
- 4:38Speaker 1: into doubt or a skepticism, and then you start checking
- 4:45Speaker 1: for confirmation that that skepticism and doubt is true. Yeah,
- 4:50Speaker 1: if you're in that state, just don't check. Just be
- 4:53Speaker 1: in the place of I'm going to trust. I'm going
- 4:55Speaker 1: to trust, I'm going to keep showing up. I'm going
- 4:57Speaker 1: to do my part. If you are still very optimistic, sure,
- 5:03Speaker 1: God check why not? You know, though, long before I
- 5:10Speaker 1: knew the word manifestation, I've said this many times on
- 5:14Speaker 1: the program. I was a manifestor. And I remember I
- 5:17Speaker 1: had auditioned for a show in college. And this was
- 5:24Speaker 1: back in the day before we had cell phones, yeah,
- 5:30Speaker 1: before cell phones, And I remember I was waiting for
- 5:38Speaker 1: the director call back on my answering machine. Yes, we
- 5:43Speaker 1: had answering machines. And my sophomore year at college, and
- 5:49Speaker 1: I remember my brother was away at college and I
- 5:53Speaker 1: had moved the answering machine into his room and because
- 6:00Speaker 1: I wasn't constantly checking the answering machine to see if
- 6:02Speaker 1: I had gotten a call back from the director, and
- 6:06Speaker 1: I remember shutting his bedroom door and saying, Okay, I'm
- 6:11Speaker 1: just gonna let this be and I'm going to go
- 6:14Speaker 1: about my life. And then sure enough, you know, I
- 6:19Speaker 1: went about my life, and then I came back. I
- 6:21Speaker 1: opened the door, I checked the answering machine. There was
- 6:24Speaker 1: a callback for me. But I think a part of
- 6:28Speaker 1: my surrendering was saying, Okay, I'm not going to be
- 6:32Speaker 1: standing near constantly checking the answering machine. I'm going to
- 6:35Speaker 1: shut this door and I'm going to go about my business.
- 6:43Speaker 1: The other thing I would strongly encourage you to not do.
- 6:48Speaker 1: These are the things. This is one another one of
- 6:50Speaker 1: those lessons I wish people had said to me a long,
- 6:53Speaker 1: long long time ago, especially when it comes to being
- 6:58Speaker 1: in business for yourself. The other thing I would strongly
- 7:01Speaker 1: encourage you not to do is judge your situation simply
- 7:04Speaker 1: because you are not seeing results with your physical eyes.
- 7:12Speaker 1: Don't decide it's not working. Don't decide it's not going
- 7:16Speaker 1: to happen. Don't decide that something's wrong with you. Because
- 7:19Speaker 1: this is the other one, is that when you're not
- 7:21Speaker 1: seeing results, Even when when I'm working with women around
- 7:28Speaker 1: dating and being on the dating apps and they've really
- 7:31Speaker 1: made a declaration that they're going for the type of
- 7:34Speaker 1: partner they want, not just what they can get, they
- 7:39Speaker 1: suddenly feel like they don't see anybody liking them, and
- 7:44Speaker 1: then they assume, Oh, I must be doing something wrong
- 7:47Speaker 1: and there's something wrong with me, or I'm not a
- 7:48Speaker 1: match to the type of man that I want, and
- 7:54Speaker 1: that can trigger shame, and shame can cause you to
- 7:57Speaker 1: shut down, and then you're no longer on the journey. Right,
- 8:01Speaker 1: So don't make any don't make any assumptions about what's
- 8:08Speaker 1: going on. Remember, spirits how and when is not our
- 8:12Speaker 1: how and when. As frustrating as that must be, I've
- 8:16Speaker 1: said this many times in the program. I often say, Spirit,
- 8:19Speaker 1: if you just do it my way, but I'm always
- 8:22Speaker 1: grateful for the way that Spirit does it because I
- 8:27Speaker 1: am a better human on the other side. And I
- 8:32Speaker 1: think this is you know, this judging of circumstances or
- 8:40Speaker 1: deciding something's not working based on the results you're presently seeing,
- 8:46Speaker 1: is one of the ways people can get lost in
- 8:48Speaker 1: their journey. Listen, we have to enter the unknown. This
- 8:54Speaker 1: is another lesson I wish that I had learned ten
- 8:58Speaker 1: years ago, because it actually does have a name. You've
- 9:03Speaker 1: done everything you know to do, and then you enter
- 9:05Speaker 1: the unknown. And instead of allowing the unknown to be
- 9:10Speaker 1: a part of the process. We're human beings and so
- 9:15Speaker 1: we have the tendency to make the unknown means something negative.
- 9:20Speaker 1: It's even worse when you have somebody in your ear
- 9:23Speaker 1: who may not be on the same spiritual path as you,
- 9:26Speaker 1: telling you this, because you can easily say, oh, it's
- 9:32Speaker 1: not happening, maybe I can't have this, maybe I'm doing
- 9:35Speaker 1: something wrong. And then when you move into that place,
- 9:38Speaker 1: you shrink, you move into shame, you start thinking that
- 9:43Speaker 1: there's something wrong with you. When you're just on the journey,
- 9:48Speaker 1: the unknown is not comfortable, no, especially depending on your personality.
- 9:54Speaker 1: I'm a type of aries. I don't I don't. I
- 9:57Speaker 1: don't care for the unknown, but hey, it's a part
- 10:03Speaker 1: of it and there's no way around it. And so
- 10:05Speaker 1: one of my cards talks about the mystery and the unknown,
- 10:09Speaker 1: and in the image there is a woman and she
- 10:13Speaker 1: has a blindfold over her eyes, and that image is
- 10:17Speaker 1: powerful because that's what manifesting feels like. At this stage
- 10:22Speaker 1: of the journey, where you've been working at taking action,
- 10:24Speaker 1: doing the practices you know to do, you're walking forward
- 10:29Speaker 1: without knowing every detail. You don't know every twist and turn.
- 10:32Speaker 1: That's scary. So imagine you're blindfolded and you're in a maze.
- 10:37Speaker 1: One of those hedge mazes, and yeah, that's that's not fun, right,
- 10:45Speaker 1: kink aside, That's just not fun, right. But that's the
- 10:49Speaker 1: way it goes. That's a part of faith because when
- 10:53Speaker 1: you do get to the end of the maze, you
- 10:57Speaker 1: feel really good, I did that, I did that, And
- 11:03Speaker 1: so you just got to keep moving, you keep trusting,
- 11:05Speaker 1: you keep believing. That is the part of the manifestation
- 11:09Speaker 1: where you build the spiritual strength I was talking about
- 11:11Speaker 1: a few shows ago. You become a new you in
- 11:16Speaker 1: those moments. You learn how to hold your vision without
- 11:21Speaker 1: needing immediate proof, and you learn how to stay connected
- 11:25Speaker 1: to spirit and to what you desire without letting circumstances
- 11:29Speaker 1: decide what is possible for you. If you're really struggling
- 11:35Speaker 1: with this time, want even more right? What even more so,
- 11:41Speaker 1: say you're you're hoping for this result, not even more right.
- 11:46Speaker 1: You're wanting you know, you've got your list what you
- 11:48Speaker 1: want in a partner, what you want in a relationship,
- 11:50Speaker 1: and you're outdating. Want it to be the most just
- 11:54Speaker 1: wanting it to be the most greatest romantic experience of
- 11:58Speaker 1: your life. Just want even more and have fun with
- 12:02Speaker 1: that feeling, so that it's a little bit of pain
- 12:06Speaker 1: relief as you're navigating this unknown. And I want to
- 12:13Speaker 1: remind you of something and I know you know this,
- 12:16Speaker 1: and this is not me questioning your manifesting intelligence. You've
- 12:21Speaker 1: heard these messages before, but when you are in the
- 12:24Speaker 1: middle of your journey, when you are waiting, when you're uncertain,
- 12:28Speaker 1: we forget. And this show, this show is just a reminder.
- 12:35Speaker 1: We need to hear these messages over and over and
- 12:38Speaker 1: over again. How many things have you manifested where you
- 12:41Speaker 1: know how the unknown shows up? And you know that
- 12:47Speaker 1: the unknown feels even more potent when you're really going
- 12:56Speaker 1: for the thing that you want, when you're in that
- 12:59Speaker 1: moment where you're like, God, it's I'm ready for it
- 13:05Speaker 1: to be good, and I'm going to focus on what
- 13:07Speaker 1: is really really good. You're not compromising, you're not settling
- 13:10Speaker 1: for crumbs. You're like, I want it to be good. Yeah,
- 13:13Speaker 1: then the unknown gets really scary. So don't give up,
- 13:21Speaker 1: don't assume it's not working. Rest your mind, relax, center yourself,
- 13:28Speaker 1: and keep yourself in that place as much as you
- 13:30Speaker 1: can and surrender or keep taking action inspired action, trust
- 13:39Speaker 1: your intuition to guide you. That cool idea. You have
- 13:42Speaker 1: just keep going, hold your head high, stay in your faith,
- 13:48Speaker 1: trust that things are moving even if you can't see,
- 13:53Speaker 1: Know that you are safe and protected, that spirit is
- 13:55Speaker 1: in fact guiding you, and just keep going. Believe it's possible.
- 14:02Speaker 1: Believe it's possible. Believe it's possible. All right, let's talk
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