Latest / Honey Badger Radio / Speaking With Emperor of Misogyny Paul Elam | Fireside Chat 228
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- 0:00Hello, everybody walking on Honey Badger Radio. My name is Brian and this
- 0:03is the Fireside Chat and I'm joined by our very special guest and friend of
- 0:07the channel, Paul Elam. Welcome to the show. Paul. It's good
- 0:11to have you back. I think the last time. Yeah, yeah,
- 0:14yeah, it's great to have you. I think the last time you were
- 0:16on this show you were still living in Texas. So it's been like seven
- 0:23to eight years ago. Yeah, yeah, yeah, I know I've been
- 0:25meaning to go back. Yeah, And so since then you've moved to Virginia,
- 0:33which is where I ended up going also because I got it on good
- 0:38advice that if I was looking to leave Chicago, of Virginia will be the
- 0:42next best place. So what do you think about Virginia so far? I
- 0:45love it. We've never looked back. I mean, needless to say coming
- 0:50from Houston, I don't miss the weather. I don't miss six million people
- 0:54in the general vicinity. I don't miss the traffic. I don't miss a
- 0:58lot of things. It's beautiful here. We've never looked back. We love
- 1:03it. Wow, I didn't have six million people in Houston the metropolitan area.
- 1:08Yeah, over we would a joke about it. The metropolitan area here
- 1:14is three hundred thousand people. The metropolitan in Houston is six million, three
- 1:19hundred thousand, so we just put off the six million. Yeah, that's
- 1:25funny because I thought Chicago is a population about three million, so I would
- 1:30have thought and you know, from when I was from what I understood,
- 1:33I thought Chicago was like one of the biggest. But it's half the size
- 1:37of h Well if it's actually if I think, if you count the entire
- 1:41Chicago metropolitan area, you're gonna come out with it. Because when I say
- 1:45six point three million, yeah, I'm talking about the Houston metro area.
- 1:49Yeah, yeah, right right, the city part of the city, not
- 1:52what people say is the city, Yeah, and all the suburbs and yeah
- 1:57at it all together. Yeah yeah, yeah, well yeah, I like
- 2:00it a lot too. I like the nature. There's like there's not a
- 2:06lot in Chicago, although they do try. It's I've also been in New
- 2:08York where there's like none, so you know, that's way worse. But
- 2:14but yeah, I like that. I don't know, like it's it's it
- 2:16is nice. So if if there's anybody looking to relocate and uh, you
- 2:21know, you you want to go somewhere where you have some friends. I
- 2:23would I would consider Rono because there's at least two people that you probably would
- 2:28get along with. So absolutely through the wind. No more Jojo, go
- 2:34back to your bed, go later. Okay. So we got this news
- 2:38about well you are You're every time you make a new group, it makes
- 2:46the hate list. So this we covered it on the show last week that
- 2:53X Y Crew is now on the SPLC's hate watch list. And you're the
- 2:59only supremacist group I think in the country. Yeah, in the world,
- 3:06in the world, that's right. Yeah, And and it's all all of
- 3:08this evil where where the Legion of Doom rest is in Roanoke, Virginia,
- 3:14which is a small town southwest part of the state. So I don't know,
- 3:20like the SBLC knows. I belonged to a church also, and I'm
- 3:23wondering if my church just a group. Oh I just do they know?
- 3:28What church? Do you belong to? Well? I'm almost hesitant to stay
- 3:31right now? Oh yeah, you know what, that's fair? That's fair?
- 3:35Is it? Is it a Protestant or Catholic or can you at least
- 3:38church it's a it's a Protestant, church in a secret location. Yeah,
- 3:44undisclosed location. Uh. So, you know, it's funny that you say
- 3:51that. My wife and I started going to church too. And you know,
- 3:54before that I was, I was agnostic. I didn't really think about
- 3:59it too much. It was kind of forced on me when I was young,
- 4:01so I was turned off by it. But then after I went through
- 4:04all the stuff that I've been through, you know, cancer and all these
- 4:08other things in and out of the hospital, you know, my wife was
- 4:13she was like just basically said, we have to we have to find something,
- 4:17some community that was kind of like where the primary thing was, right.
- 4:20We don't know anyone here and all that. So we started attending.
- 4:24And I'm not I'm not telling I'm not evangelizing to anybody. I'm just saying,
- 4:28this is what worked for us. And so you know, that's that's
- 4:31that. So I was, you know, I had debated asking you about
- 4:34it because I hadn't. I guess like, I didn't really know if you
- 4:41were sort of that way, or if that changed or what have you.
- 4:44And if that's too personal, we don't have to get into it. But
- 4:46oh no, I mean I'm totally fine with that. I think my story
- 4:49is similar to yours, bro, Yeah, actually quite similar. I have
- 4:54a similar background and I needed something. I needed something additional in my life.
- 5:01And so without proselytizing, which I'm not going to do, or evangelizing
- 5:06to anybody, I've got no interest in that, I will tell you that
- 5:11I in studying religions and looking around the world and looking what works in people's
- 5:16lives and what doesn't, I've found that the idea of having Jesus Christ as
- 5:23a role model in life was really sound if you look, if you ignore
- 5:29religious people and their ideas around religion and sort of sort it all out and
- 5:33just look, how did Christ live, what did he say, what did
- 5:36he do? And look? And this is even if some people will say,
- 5:41wait a minute, we have got no proof Jesus exists, I'm including
- 5:44those people in this conversation too, because even if he didn't exist, the
- 5:47story of Christ is a great, great instructive event on how to live if
- 5:57you want to live by principles and if you want to connected to something greater
- 6:00than your soul. And that works for me. So I do it without
- 6:03apology. Yeah, but I am a happy Christian. Yeah all right,
- 6:09all right, Well that's cool. I'm not an expect expected conversation, but
- 6:15one that I'm I'm pleased to know about. So so that met means you're
- 6:20just doubly hateful, right because like the SBLC has decided it and you know,
- 6:26have you heard about So I've been getting into this thing lately. I've
- 6:30been looking at I've been reading some books. I'm in the middlest of reading
- 6:35a book by a man named Father Saraphim Rose, who was an Orthodox Christian
- 6:42church father who wrote about like sort of social issues. And he had this
- 6:46book that I think he was working on in the seventies and eighties, so
- 6:49it's old and it's called Nihilism, and in it he basically just talks about
- 6:57the sort of mindsets you know, that lead to nihilism and how it all,
- 7:01it all kind of stems from an avoidance of what he calls ultimate truth.
- 7:05Now I know that, you know, as a church father, for
- 7:08him, that ultimate truth is Christianity. But the other stuff, you know,
- 7:13you can throw that off you want to. But all the other stuff
- 7:15that he talks about is very, very poignant because what I'm seeing, you
- 7:18know, I was talking about this with on the show A couple of times.
- 7:24And one of the things that I've I've noticed that there are women in
- 7:28the manisphere space, or at least like sort of tangentially in the space Laurence
- 7:31Southern and Shuan Head or June I remember her last name, and they were
- 7:39sort of in their own way commenting on this this what's happening with men,
- 7:43that there's all of this despair and depression and suicide and joblessness and and of
- 7:49course, you know, troubles with women because like you know, not just
- 7:55what feminism did, but more like what feminism did to bring out the worst
- 8:01parts of women's character. If that's like a better way to put it.
- 8:05You think that's fairy, I think it's fair. Yeah. Well, it's
- 8:11easy though to make a boogeyman of feminism. Feminism presents itself as a boogeyman,
- 8:16the irrational ideas, lies, falsehoods, imaginary narratives, that sort of
- 8:24thing. But our troubles with women are mostly rooted in how men shape women
- 8:31to be. Yeah, not in feminism. Feminism could go away today,
- 8:37and I think men would be nearly in as much trouble, yeah, as
- 8:43they are, simply because we train women to have entitlement issues that men try
- 8:50to satisfy. That's our relationship in a nutshell. On the overview of it,
- 8:56that men end up depressed, is not surprised. Yeah, yeah,
- 9:01and well. And I think another thing too is that our I think our
- 9:05society essentially tells men they put them in what I call a black category.
- 9:11Now I didn't make this up, but this is something that Mao Zedong created
- 9:15when he was starting his cultural revolution. He had a list of things called
- 9:18black categories, and these were essentially peoples or groups that were opposed to the
- 9:24revolution, opposed to the state. And I think that in the United States
- 9:28and in the West in general, in the UK and Canada wherever, they've
- 9:31been building these black categories over not just several years or decades, but generations,
- 9:39and men were one of the first groups to be put into one of
- 9:41these categories. So this is why, for example, when there's a discussion
- 9:46around abortion, men are not allowed to have an opinion, right, no
- 9:50uterus, no opinion. That's putting men in that category. If there's a
- 9:54discussion around what children are learning in schools, you know, like people worried
- 10:01about what their children are learning a ski schools, most of the people who
- 10:03are there are single mothers, and there are mothers that are there defending their
- 10:07kids. But one of the reasons why mothers are heard is because they're not
- 10:11men. They're not in the black category. Right. It also applies to
- 10:15people who are conservative, Christian, straight, you know, and cisgendered and
- 10:20all that. So these are all black, I help, yeah, everything
- 10:24that you are so and that means that even if you just have an opinion,
- 10:28which you know, I guess you could say is at the root of
- 10:31your whole project, because you've been placed in a black category, it's easy
- 10:35for the SPLC or the ADL or Citizens United or the United Nations or any
- 10:41of these other massive, very powerful, you know institutions to just say,
- 10:46oh, no, he's one of the bad guys. Right. Yeah.
- 10:50So as a result of that then, and this has been going on for
- 10:54so long, I think what's happened with men is is that and this is
- 10:58also true of women. They don't have a purpose, They lack a higher
- 11:01calling. And so what are what is men's calling in the meantime, Well,
- 11:05it's to attract women. And that's why you because they don't have anything
- 11:09beyond that, right, It's just get laid, you know, get make
- 11:11the money, get the girl, et cetera. And so yeah, and
- 11:16all they're doing is looking for the approval, right, and so like I
- 11:18think as a consequence of that, this is why we have these like I
- 11:24guess they call them manisphere guys or they're in the space the red Pill Manisphere
- 11:28space, but they're really just like you know, these sort of dating podcasts
- 11:33and like these like Fresh and Fit and Andrew Tad and what's another one,
- 11:39the whatever podcast. What do you think about the growth in those in those
- 11:43groups. I think it was inevitable, but I think this has also been
- 11:48doubling down on being very vagina centric. Is people like tight it's all about
- 11:56getting light, it goes, it goes is you know, I equate Tate
- 12:01and I have nothing personal against the guy at all. I don't question how
- 12:05he makes his money, but I do comment on it. Yeah, what
- 12:09I'm reminded of with people like Andrew Tate is you remember when you were a
- 12:13kid and the comic books, and there was always like the ad on the
- 12:18back of it of the guy getting saying, oh yeah, yeah, the
- 12:20Atlas, the Atlas stin in two dollars and they would instruct you and how
- 12:30beat how to beat the guy that's kicking he's saying people's face. Yeah,
- 12:33you know that's Andrew Tate stick. That's what he does. And that's what
- 12:39a lot of these guys do. I see it very prominently in the Black
- 12:43manisphere, and I actually grieve for that cultures of matriarchy to begin with,
- 12:50it's very very matriarchal, and what I see and people I really respect,
- 12:54like Mia i'm City and Ali and others Kevin Samuels the same way. It's
- 13:00all about improving yourself in the eyes of women. And I think it's a
- 13:07dead id. I agree, and you know I have also because the thing
- 13:13is, I'm with you on the tape thing, like, I don't have
- 13:16anything personal against the guy. I understand why a lot of men are drawn
- 13:20to that because again that's what they know. Like most of them are raised
- 13:24by single mothers. They've been centered around pleasing women from from birth, and
- 13:28so there's a guy that's like, I can show you how to do it,
- 13:31like you know better than anyone else, and so yeah, I think
- 13:35that's a that's a problem. But again I do believe though that he gets
- 13:41treated really unfairly by the media and like the and like the establishment and to
- 13:46me, because if I have to arrange things, you know, like in
- 13:50a what is the higher priority. I always put the media at the establishment,
- 13:54and the academics and the intellectuals and the feminist first. The politicians,
- 13:58those are the people that I that are my primary opponent, and guys like
- 14:01Tate I don't worry about. I mean, if I think he's being trying
- 14:05to treat it unfairly, I'll defend him in you know, in that case.
- 14:07But if he does something on lawful and something happens to him, oh
- 14:11well right, yeah, yeah, that's that's sort of my take on that.
- 14:16And who knows if he actually did anything like lawful. I mean,
- 14:18we never know what the truth is about anything anymore. Yeah, but you
- 14:24know, he doesn't present I think is the most appealing guy to a lot
- 14:28of people. But he's enormously popular. I'm just with you on that.
- 14:35I'm like not interested in any ways. It just doesn't matter, right,
- 14:41I don't. I don't think Andrew tit is different from the guy on the
- 14:45back of the comic book forty years ago. Nothing new. He's just bigger
- 14:50and more visible. That's all. Yeah, Yeah, And of course there
- 14:54is also I have a theory that not that Tate's not a real person,
- 14:58but I think he's him fresh and fit and like the whatever podcast, some
- 15:05of these really prominent ones, I feel like they're astroturfed into like prominence,
- 15:09because then people like you or me or Karen, like we get ignored.
- 15:13Right, Janice vmnoes doing amazing work. Nobody knows who she is, so
- 15:18you know, you feel like, oh, I see they put out these
- 15:20guys that are easy, they like straw men in the flesh they can tear
- 15:24down, right, Does that make sense? Well? And I think also
- 15:28part of it is, I mean, there's a reason that somebody like Pearly
- 15:35Things has one point six one point seven million subscribers after a short period of
- 15:39time on YouTube, and I've been there for fifteen years and I've got like
- 15:43one hundred and twelve thousand. I think those of us that are actually telling
- 15:48the truth and yeah, who happened to have penises? Yeah, are the
- 15:52last people anybody wants to listen to what. People don't want to hear the
- 15:56truth. It's so uncomfortable person in society doesn't want to hear it. And
- 16:03if they are wanting to hear it, if they're open to hearing it,
- 16:06they'd much rather hear it from a set of tits. Yeah, yeah,
- 16:10that's true. I mean, I think, you know, Pearl's an interesting
- 16:14case because I'm hoping to have her on. I saw that you you were
- 16:17on her show once, and I got Mike Buchanan to like put me in
- 16:22touch with her. She's currently in Las Vegas, so I won't hear from
- 16:26so she gets back. But she is an interesting case because there's another woman
- 16:30competing for attention with her. You might know Roma Army or Chloe Roma.
- 16:36Yeah, yeah, yeah, and Chloe Roma. I think she's also really
- 16:40big. She's getting up close to the same number of subs as Pearl.
- 16:44But I think that I look at why these people are big, right,
- 16:48because Cloie Roma is not saying anything that we haven't been saying for at least
- 16:51ten years. But I think that she also incorporates feminist belief into it.
- 16:56So she's trying to make both of these things work at the same time and
- 17:00doesn't realize that they're basically mutually exclusive. I mean, in my opinion,
- 17:04I don't think they work, but because I think because she speaks on these
- 17:10issues in this way, then that you know, the big tech companies are
- 17:14willing to let her content like slip by. That's what I believe anyway.
- 17:18I think that you're right. I think that if you if you're gonna tell
- 17:22the hard truths, which is gonna come around at some point, no matter
- 17:26what, it's gonna make you unpopular. Yeah. There's another element to this
- 17:32too, Brian, that I think it's true when I think of people like
- 17:34Karen and Janis and you would be a handful of others that have been at
- 17:38this for so long. Is that I see us as we're kind of like
- 17:44the Winston Churchills of the Men's movement. We were needed, and we started
- 17:51a lot of things rolling. But as soon as our purpose initially had served
- 17:55to put this out there and to create people like Andrew and others which I've
- 18:02sorted as our children, you know, they threw Churchill into the bus as
- 18:06soon as his usefulness was done to them politically. And I think that's kind
- 18:10of what happens to us. And guess what, I'm okay with it.
- 18:12I mean, I live a quiet life. I kind of love to live
- 18:15in a quiet life. I'm not that interested in being out in the trenches
- 18:19anymore. Get out with idiotic feminists. I prefer to do other things,
- 18:26like work with men. But I do see it as kind of like that
- 18:30we were the ones that kicked in the door on this stuff back in the
- 18:33day, and we've served that purpose, so now it's time for other people
- 18:38to take it, and of course a lot of them will fuck up the
- 18:41message. Yeah yeah, but it's okay, that's okay. I agree with
- 18:45you on percent. Like what I've noticed is that when I have had guests
- 18:49on, I get people at different points in their life. You know.
- 18:53I've been lucky enough to have some very large voices like Reverend Jesse Lee Peterson,
- 18:59Sheriff David Clark. You know, I'm so lucky to have that,
- 19:02But I also got to talk to people who I didn't know who they were
- 19:04going to become. You know, Carl Benjamin Sargon, he was on our
- 19:07channel way back, Blair White. You know, it is like a trans
- 19:11woman. I mean, yes, yes, huge now like she's she was
- 19:17on Roseanne bar or something. You know, I'm like, well, I
- 19:18have I'm I'm one degree of separation away from Roseanne Bar you know, and
- 19:23you know what that And to me, that's fine, Like I don't care.
- 19:27I don't care if I am the person who gets to get the message
- 19:30out there. I just want someone to get it out there. I just
- 19:33want that conversation to happen, so that that's my whole thing. So I'm
- 19:37with you on that. So let's talk about x Y crew, Let's talk
- 19:41about what the SPLC said, and then let's talk about what it really is.
- 19:45Well, the PLC people could there'll be a link available people could read
- 19:51about at least read by response to it at a Voice forben dot com.
- 19:56But basically, all they said is that we were a hate group. No
- 20:00justification, no observations of anything that we've done or justify it, no quotes,
- 20:06no plants in our organization to observe us doing nefarious things. They just
- 20:11said we're a hate group. And the way they spelled it out it was
- 20:15largely because I run it, so that that I guess I'm the I think
- 20:22Rollo Tamasi called me the Charles Manson of the men's movement as far as feminists
- 20:27are concerns. Oh yeah, right, So I mean that's fine. They
- 20:33just said we're a hate group and publiced it, and of course the SPLC,
- 20:38you know, their public their publications have been used by lunatics out there
- 20:44to go out and target and shoot people because and that's sort of like the
- 20:48SPLT stick. They're looking over there, there's the bad man be ashamed of
- 20:52something happened to him. Yeah, it does. It does feel very mafioso
- 20:56like, yes it does. And they walked complished, and of course they're
- 21:02not going to get that, but that was the deal. They just oh
- 21:07and what was really funny is back in the day, as most people know,
- 21:11after I wrote an article reaction article to Jezebel's piece on women beating up
- 21:17their boyfriends, and so they declared us a hate group and a Voice for
- 21:22Men. Then when Cassie j made her movie and called them, they said,
- 21:26no, that's really not true. They're not a hate group. And
- 21:30then later they decided we were a hate group, and Voice for Men was
- 21:33a hate group until I left, and when Robert Brockway took over a Voice
- 21:37for Men, they were no longer a hate group. But because I left
- 21:41them with X White Crew, they are a hate group. This is like
- 21:44the thinking of four year olds that we're right. It's it's not very cogent,
- 21:51but that's what they do, and we're going to continue to do what
- 21:55we do. Yea, and people will believe it or not believe it.
- 21:59Unfortunately too many new believe it. So then what, okay, So what
- 22:03does it mean to be a male supremacist? I have absolutely okay, okay,
- 22:11and I never have. I mean, I think in one way this
- 22:17is a part of criminalizing thought. If I want to say which I fully
- 22:22believe men are more logical on average than women. I believe that's true.
- 22:30I believe been are more aggressive on average than women, or their aggression is
- 22:37is is expressed in different ways. But I would say men are definitely more
- 22:42physically aggressive. Yes, yes, that doesn't mean I'm a female supremacist for
- 22:48for holding that thought. That what it doesn't score for men. I think
- 22:53a lot of things about both sexes, but if we talk honestly about them,
- 22:56then they're that's that's there freeway Just say, oh, well, he
- 23:02says women are illogical? Yeah, yeah, exactly, And what would what
- 23:07would ever make a man say something like that? I wonder whever the person
- 23:12who said that does so is the SBLC basically just a feminist organization. It's
- 23:18a shame. Yes, it is a feminist organization. I pointed that out
- 23:22in my rebuttal to them. And here's the thing. They actually this is
- 23:29a sad story. The SPLC was responsible for putting a whole bunch of the
- 23:34Ku Kux Klan out of business back in the seventies. Good work, as
- 23:40far as I'm concerned, a wonderful service to society. They really did at
- 23:45one point have a meaningful mission. Now their mission is to raise money and
- 23:51to play politics. They demonize the mothers who are trying to have a voice
- 23:55in the school programs for their children. Yes, they did. They are
- 24:00in the list. Yeah, the prow Boys, Patriot Prayer. I mean,
- 24:03from what I know, these guys are not hate groups at all.
- 24:06They're patriotic basically. Yeah. Absolutely. And the groups that opposed gay marriage.
- 24:14I mean, to me, it's an arguable thing. You know,
- 24:18it should be you should have a discussion about that. I don't. I
- 24:21personally don't care about gay marriage. It doesn't I'm like, sure, why
- 24:25do you want to do that? Yeah, but it's fine with me.
- 24:30But they put groups that advocate for heterosexual man woman marriages on Hey boys,
- 24:38Yeah, yeah, like Catholics I think was on there too. Yeah,
- 24:42they call them radical Catholics, yes, which we really all know the subtext
- 24:49to that is all Catholics. Yeah really, I mean yeah, just I
- 24:52don't know that there's a different Joe Bud from one. Oh yeah right Catholic.
- 24:57I forgot Catholic with three k's, but he had other Katholic. Uh
- 25:06so yeah, it's it is. It is a mess. Unfortunately. This
- 25:10is just sort of like, you know, the norm for us. We
- 25:12always had to deal with with that kind of thing. But what does X
- 25:17Y Crew really do and what what kind of like I'm a part of it,
- 25:21so like spoiler alert, I kind of know. But for those of
- 25:23you guys who don't know, Wow, somebody who actually wants to know what
- 25:29we do and ask a question wild ideas. Obviously you have no future in
- 25:33the mainstream media, Brian. So if you dream that's why I'm doing this,
- 25:38you can do that now. X Y Crew is a sort of an
- 25:42intellectual refuge for like minded men to discuss their lives, to discuss improving their
- 25:51lives. We have guys from all walks of life, in all different stages.
- 25:55I would say of red pilled development, guys that are mixed how much,
- 26:00other guys that are just talked to a guy today that's planning to get
- 26:04married next month. We have married guys, single guys, all kinds of
- 26:08guys. But the main point is that we can be men in a male
- 26:12only environment. Well except for Janis is one group. Janis is an honorary
- 26:18man once a week for an hour. But everything else is all done by
- 26:22men, and we allow men only to talk about their lives honestly and openly.
- 26:29I mean, it's amazing. It seems like it's a simple thing,
- 26:33because you know, women can talk about their lives and the world will shove
- 26:37microphones in their face and demand everybody else shut up because they're talking. When
- 26:42men begin to speak honestly about our lives, the world tells us to shut
- 26:48up. That's the reaction. Don't talk about it, quit whining whatever.
- 26:53This drives them into suicide, I think because they don't have anywhere to go,
- 27:00and we wouldn't be we are. We've been going five years now doing
- 27:03this. We are a place to go. A guy can come in talk
- 27:07about his life honestly. If he's married to a borderline female, he can
- 27:11tell the truth about what's happening in his relationship. There are horrendous things happening
- 27:18in those relationships. They're awful. We give a guy a place to go
- 27:22to talk about that. We give guys a place to go to help other
- 27:26guys. We've got guys that show up whose lives are asymptomatic of any of
- 27:30this stuff. Their presence there's just to be a listening ear to others who
- 27:36want to talk about problems and do things about it. It's also a place
- 27:41of supreme accountability. In my opinion, we have looked at what feminism did
- 27:48for women when it comes to victim identity. It's not a very good way
- 27:52for BEMU. It's not the way we're ever men. Men are not wired
- 27:56that way. This is why the toxic mask any stuff that they're like,
- 28:00you need to talk about your feelings more men don't. They want to solve
- 28:03problems, they want to work through them, right, and yeah, they
- 28:07want to talk about them, but not in this kind of like let's all
- 28:11you know, have like a cry session. You know, well, the
- 28:15cyclobabilists will be all this all over this, but I say, from the
- 28:19time, fuck your feelings. Yeah, your feelings are not going to put
- 28:25bread on your table. Your your feelings are not going to repair your life
- 28:29from all the damage that has been done. Yeah, And men operate on
- 28:33action. We do things. We even express our grief through doing things.
- 28:37I saw a meme on Twitter the other day that said, instead of going
- 28:41to therapy, a lot of men will rebuild a steam engine and spend running
- 28:47it with no pay instead of going to therapy. And it's true. And
- 28:52we focused a lot of attention on that on how you help men, And
- 28:57it's also oh, I'm sorry, go ahead. Well I would just say
- 29:00you don't do it with boxes of Kleenex and hooks. Yeah, yeah,
- 29:03yeah, And I and also I think that there is something to the conversation
- 29:11happening the way it's happening with us, like over on a in a Zoom
- 29:15meeting, you know, because I do the goals and Growth on Thursdays at
- 29:18four. Sometimes I miss it because of scheduling, but usually I make it
- 29:22there and everyone is on camera, you know, and we're all talking to
- 29:26each other. This if this humanizes people more. So you don't get into
- 29:30as many like online spats like you might on Twitter or in forums like the
- 29:37in cell forums for example, I haven't I don't go to forums, but
- 29:41i've I've had some of those guys on my show, and sometimes things get
- 29:45heated. But a lot of it has to do with the fact that you're
- 29:48just typing at other people's letters, right, So this is a lot better.
- 29:53You can see, you know what they're thinking, you can tell when
- 29:56someone's trying to speak up and all of that. What do you think about
- 30:00that? Well? Absolutely, And if you look at the response article that
- 30:06I wrote for SPLC, that is one of the things that I addressed in
- 30:10there is that we're a lot of I said red pill, but it's actually
- 30:15all environments on the internet. They're crash and burn over flame wars, over
- 30:21unnecessary conflicts. And the red pill community is one of the worst about that.
- 30:26It really is. And that's over whether or not you put a comma
- 30:30or a period somewhere, and that's going to be their thing. They're helled
- 30:34to die on just sort of crash and burn. Maketown dot com. I
- 30:40went and checked it today. It's not there. Oh, it was a
- 30:45huge forum. Yeah, I can't even get it to ring up. But
- 30:48we see these these forums and these community groups spring up because they're needed,
- 30:56and then just as quickly they crash and burn because guys can't get along.
- 31:00But when you put me in an environment where we're looking at each other,
- 31:04yeah, when we see each other's faces, the expressions, all of a
- 31:08sudden, all that goes away. We don't have any of those problems at
- 31:12X Y Crew. Never do we have. I think we had maybe one
- 31:18person in five years, rach quit. Compare that to your average for right,
- 31:23Quit by the hour you can. But yes, the men respect each
- 31:30other. And this isn't something nobody had to corral them and say here's the
- 31:33rules, you will respect each other. It just happened. As soon as
- 31:37we started gathering and talking to each other face to face. There were no
- 31:41problems, There were no conflicts. There were disagreements, and we still have
- 31:45disagreements, ninety nine percent of them resolved quickly, and every once in a
- 31:52while there's two people that just will never get along, just like real life.
- 31:57So for me, it's been It's so much better than what you get
- 32:04out of a Facebook page or these discussions. Been talking to each other about
- 32:10their lived experience and holding each other's feet to the fire. Define solutions is
- 32:15a great way for men to go. It works and that's why X Y
- 32:20crew we're not going anywhere. Yeah, we've been here for five years.
- 32:24We'll be here as long as I'm sucking there, and after I quit breathing,
- 32:28somebody else will be running it. So there is a space for many.
- 32:34Yeah. So, like I got into a I recently reopened my Twitter
- 32:39account. I got a new one because I don't want to miss out on
- 32:43all of a drama and also I'm using it to promote my other channel.
- 32:47But there was someone who came after me and said, like, they know,
- 32:52we know that we need to like stop I don't know fighting with feminists
- 32:55on the internet. I don't know who this person is. I assume a
- 32:59feminist as a woman, and she's wearing a mask, so I just assume
- 33:02if you're wearing a mask, we're not talking, right, You're obviously yeah,
- 33:07you're obviously a feminist. Right, where's your Ukraine flag and whatever the
- 33:10current thing is? But she nek, yeah, Ukraine mask. Right.
- 33:16She was like, you know, why why don't you create a space,
- 33:21And I said, well, we try to create spaces and feminists always break
- 33:24them up, and because you know, I don't know if you know,
- 33:28but like Laura Bates, you know who that is. She's a she's an
- 33:31English feminist, and she's always talking about the the Mannisphere sort of internet space,
- 33:37and she doesn't say it explicitly, but based on her criticisms, basically
- 33:42she wants to shut the whole thing down. She wants to ban men from
- 33:45the Internet completely or at least wherever they go. She wants them monitored by
- 33:50women basically, right, So it's like, what, men can't have a
- 33:52space, And I think that that is part of the problem I was talking
- 33:57about earlier, where you know, I think men need a purpose side of
- 34:00women, and I think that a lot of these red pill guys are.
- 34:02They're in the same situation. Even though take converted to Islam. I don't
- 34:08think that that's like I don't think that he's really understands what a higher purpose
- 34:14is, a higher calling and this is what men want. And by extension,
- 34:16I think women want that too, and I don't think they're gonna do
- 34:20anything until they see what men are doing. Unfortunately. I mean, I
- 34:22wanted to believe before when we started doing this that, like, you know,
- 34:27one of the things we want to do at Honey Badger Radio is motivate
- 34:30women to get involved. And it has worked. We've got a lot more
- 34:34women speaking out, but it's too few. And I think, well,
- 34:37if this is going to change course, because like we're at a point now
- 34:39where our population is collapsing, Like people like you or we're already retired,
- 34:46right, there are gonna be like the next generation is going to be they're
- 34:50they're coming up on retirement. They're expecting like that the you know, the
- 34:54safety net will take care of them. But unfortunately, because so many women
- 34:59are drain on that system and so few men are paying into that system,
- 35:04and then they're not having children, there's gonna be a point where there's going
- 35:07to be no one to pay into the system that supports people. Right,
- 35:10So it's unsustainable. And I'm like, well, the thing that has to
- 35:15happen, and I'm not saying that I know how, but the only thing
- 35:17that can happen is people have to form families or otherwise all of your dreams
- 35:22of like universal healthcare and UBI and all this other shit, it's not going
- 35:27to happen. And before that, infrastructure is going to collapse, right,
- 35:30and that includes importing a bunch of people because they're not reproducing either, like
- 35:35you know, the all the illegals and everything, so it's a it's it's
- 35:38a problem. So I'm like, okay, well, then the only thing
- 35:40that going to happen now is that men have to put women aside for a
- 35:45moment, focus on themselves, make the most of what they are, find
- 35:50that higher calling, pursue it, and then the the women, if they're
- 35:53smart enough, they'll follow. Does that make sense? It makes sense.
- 35:58However, I don't think men are ever going to quote unquote put women aside
- 36:04for them, Yeah, until they have no other choice. Only then,
- 36:10I mean, men will be down to their last fifty cents with the government
- 36:16trying to get two dollars out of them, still trying to please and take
- 36:22care of women. And as long as been to keep doing that, I
- 36:25think we I think we have to crash and burn first, Yeah, before
- 36:30we'll any kind of real resurgence of sanity into the system. Because you're right
- 36:37right now, women basically are net losers where it comes concerns taxes and entitlement
- 36:44spending. They really don't pay taxes compared to men at all. They collect
- 36:49more in entitlements and they put into the system and men make up the difference
- 36:53for the obviously not sustainable, particularly in a system that's not appropriated. Uh,
- 37:02it's just not gonna happen. So I think I think what we gotta
- 37:07do. I believe very strongly what Aaron Clary always says, enjoy the decline,
- 37:14watching watch it on TV, have a beer, and the whole fucking
- 37:17thing burn because that's what's coming. And that's all right, yeah, I
- 37:22know. And you know it'll just be the Amish left, and that's okay
- 37:27because they're having lots and lots of kids. So the Amish, the Luddites,
- 37:31the Middenites, all those guys will thrive after the poll. Everybody else
- 37:37will suffer. Yep. Uh. You know a quick point about we were
- 37:42talking about earlier about planting the seed, and you mentioned the article, you
- 37:47know, bash, a violent Bitch Month article that that basically was like your
- 37:52it's your you know, your big thing, right, uh? And and
- 37:57I think that is the seed. That is an example because if it weren't
- 38:00for that, then Cassie Jay would not have started on that journey. That
- 38:04was the thing that drew her in, right, and now she's got a
- 38:08movie that does a deep dive. Fortunately she had the integrity and the honesty
- 38:14to like pursue it justly, unlike everyone else, and I mean everyone else
- 38:19that had a chance to do this stuff. And now I think I think
- 38:22that the conversation is changing. I have some optimism, at least around the
- 38:28conversation. I do think that it's you know, we're probably going to see
- 38:31a collapse. I don't know if it'll be in my lifetime, but it's
- 38:35certainly we're certainly on the way. But I have noticed that I've seen the
- 38:39word missentry used in casual conversation, right, I've seen it in headlines.
- 38:45I've seen it in headlines too. Yes, absolutely, and it is Yes,
- 38:51we have Definitely. There's no doubt in my mind that I can go
- 38:55to my grave knowing that I was one of the people, one of the
- 38:59handful of people pool that actually did something to start changing the narrative and have
- 39:04people using a different language. It's absolutely happening. And by the way,
- 39:07the Red Pill movie that is probably probably the best I told you so that
- 39:14could ever happen to anybody. I have had people for years, ever since
- 39:19I started doing this, Paul, why don't you sound more like Warren?
- 39:22How why do you have to be so confrontational, so rude, so brou
- 39:28shouldn't you be more like Warren? Warren wrote a best seller on these issues
- 39:34and was quickly forgotten. And if I had not done things the way I
- 39:39had did them, the Red Pill movie would have never been made. And
- 39:44that movie has influenced a lot of people's I bet it's been seen by several
- 39:49million at this point, and it has influenced people's thinking about men, about
- 39:53men's issues. You see. I think it's not sufficient, but you see
- 39:59more literal empathy about men's condition that you ever saw before. Yes, m
- 40:06yeah, more people are are making content about it again. I already talked
- 40:08about June her online persona's shoe on head and she used to be a regular
- 40:15on our show years ago again before she blew up. Because it's like it's
- 40:20like we have the magic touch. You come on our show and then you
- 40:22go on to blow up later. This mean I might expect her, Yeah,
- 40:27you might, you might blow up. You probably see you on Alex
- 40:30Jones, Like you know, in a week or so, here's hoping here's
- 40:36a little seventeen seventy six will rise again anyway. So yeah, So like
- 40:43about the the Cassie Jay things. So yeah, I thought that that was
- 40:49really amazing and and this this, this is by the way, despite how
- 40:53the media treated her and that film and how badly like these large sort of
- 41:00streaming companies, you know, restricted access, like I think that Netflix wouldn't
- 41:05display it. She was asking them and asking them, and I believe there
- 41:08was another streaming service that didn't do it, but it ended up on Amazon,
- 41:14I think, and so they were okay with it. I mean,
- 41:16they just wanted to make money, and you know what, that's fine by
- 41:19me. Make the money, right, And now I think you can watch
- 41:22it for free on YouTube. And I've been seeing, like you said,
- 41:25more of this is coming out. More people are talking about these issues.
- 41:29Shoe made a video where she was talking about because she was a leftist,
- 41:35so she was talking about it from that perspective. And we went through the
- 41:38video and I got pretty heated. And I don't normally do that, but
- 41:43I have been getting really frustrated with some of the things that in particular women
- 41:47on the internet have been doing that have been like claimed to have been like
- 41:52on our side. But I think this is something that even my wife said,
- 41:55you know, at some point. It seems like many women reach a
- 41:59point when they're in this space where they're like, I can't like, you
- 42:02know, I can't deal with this much truth or you know, these men,
- 42:07their their frustrations or their anger. You know, I just can't handle
- 42:10it and I got to leave. And I think that that does happen or
- 42:14they can't handle the skepticism that our audience throws their way. And the thing
- 42:20is, if they really understood the issues like they claimed to, they would
- 42:25understand that skepticism, understand the resistance to them by wounded men who don't trust
- 42:31women in this space. The ones that have lasted I think got that.
- 42:37I see Karen Strong as somebody that really got that from the beginning and didn't
- 42:40react to the just yea that sort of thing. People like Sidney Watson and
- 42:47others, you know, they've got a few rude comments. Lauren Southern was
- 42:51another one who came out. And what did Laurence say? She said,
- 42:54I gave them the benefit of the doubt, like that was hers to furrowed
- 43:00us. Yes, the credibility, the arrogance and entitlement came out in the
- 43:06end, and it frequently does. Yep, Yeah, that's right, I
- 43:09remember that very well. And you know, and again I had Sidney Watson
- 43:14on too, like again when she was small, you know, and I
- 43:16but I could tell something was up because she kept making these kind of middle
- 43:22ground cases and I was like, this is not really an issue of you
- 43:25know, like when I say men had this problem, I'm not saying women
- 43:29don't have a problem, but that that's kind of what's what her brains was
- 43:34translating, right, And I'm like, yeah, but we already have a
- 43:37movement for women. I don't know if you've heard. It's it's a little
- 43:43excessive, you know, so but anyways, yes, it has made the
- 43:50rounds. And so like June, well, you know, I'll come back
- 43:53to Shoe. I want to ask something else. I want to I'm gonna
- 43:57do some super childs. I saw the guys send some super child I will
- 44:00read them in a little while. Jojo is being so he's just laying there.
- 44:06I don't know what's going on with him. He's expecting me to give
- 44:07him more treats. I don't have anything else, all right, but who
- 44:12I saw I see some some familiar names that are a part of x Y
- 44:15crew, that like have sort of things they do. Who's involved with this?
- 44:20Who? Who? If somebody decided they wanted to be a member,
- 44:22it's only five bucks a month, guys, and it's and I think it's
- 44:25totally worth it. Who a month And we don't turn away anybody based all
- 44:30money. If you've just been divorced and you're broke, get a hold of
- 44:35us. We'll get you in it. Yeah, there you go. So
- 44:37even if you're struggling. So who who else is a part of this besides
- 44:42you and me? You and me and Janice Fiamingo is a part of it.
- 44:47We have a Rob Tiller from Australia who is an interesting guy. He's
- 44:52a Texas transplant to Australia. He was the one. He was a guy.
- 44:58He got fired from a job for posting a Bettina Aren't article on his
- 45:02Facebook page about violence. Yes, I bet just think of Peter posted one
- 45:09of my articles. He posted one from Bettina Aren't. He got fired and
- 45:15he sued to try to win and of course they signed with the company that
- 45:17fired him. Totally bad situation. But he's was this in the Was this
- 45:23in the States that this court thing happened? Was this in Australia? It
- 45:28wasn't Australian, okay, okay. Where he is a counselor. That was
- 45:31his job was counseling, working with domestic violence victims and others. And he
- 45:36posted this article which was very helpful about the subject. They fired him for
- 45:40it. He facilitates a weekly group. We have other Australians facilitating groups.
- 45:45We've got a gentleman from the UK who does a photography group. Oh yeah,
- 45:52is it Tom? It's not Tom, It's oh yeah. Tom is
- 45:54the guy. By the way, guys, Tom is the guy who films
- 45:58the ic ms when we have them live. He does all the footage.
- 46:01Very hard working guy, super cool dude. I love a brilliant teacher when
- 46:07it comes to auditivisual stuff. He knows his stuff very well. Poor guy
- 46:13had a heart attack not too long ago, but he's recovering nicely. We're
- 46:19expecting a long life out of him. Well he has to live. We
- 46:22won't let him die. But yeah, that about sums it up. I
- 46:28mean, we have people very backgrounds. Donald Offendale's another one who hosts a
- 46:32group on Wednesday nights, a check in group for guys. And that's check
- 46:37in groups is just where we come in and give a summary of how a
- 46:40week or month or year our life has gone, and get feedback from others.
- 46:46It is not Again, as Brian pointed out earlier, I want people
- 46:50to know these are not group therapy sessions where we sit around and pass Kleenex
- 46:54and guess what every wanted a guy. While a guy will tear up,
- 46:58that's okay. We're not feelings or emotions. They're very real and we're there
- 47:02for that. But we find most often men operate best when we're talking about
- 47:07solutions and holding each other to account for achieving our goals. Somebody's going to
- 47:15do this is nearly every day of the week. It's a wonderful resource for
- 47:22men. We have guys. One gentleman showed up was quite suicidal. He
- 47:28was he was in bad trouble and he has now ended up. He runs
- 47:32our cybershed. He's there all the time for new guys. Can we have
- 47:37a cybershed that operates twenty four hours a day where you can come in.
- 47:40Most of the time there's somebody there. Sometimes they're going, but it's a
- 47:45place outside the meetings that people can come in. And this gentleman runs that
- 47:50for us, maintains it has maintained it for years now since he joined us,
- 47:54and he's become an institution around x Y Crew for his wonderful work being
- 48:02there for men who show up in bed shit. Yeah, see what I
- 48:07mean? He had, he has a purpose now, he has his calling,
- 48:09right, gives him something greater than Yes, Yes, something greater exactly
- 48:15exactly yes. And also you know, I just I didn't notice this before,
- 48:21but you have a music round table, Uncle Mike. Does he like
- 48:24teach people how to play instruments? Is that what that is? He doesn't.
- 48:29This is just where guys come together and we share music with cool cool
- 48:34Yeah, and sometimes those those meetings last three and four hours of talking about
- 48:39music. Yeah, playing one song after another and talking about music. It's
- 48:44amazing how much fun it is. It is. It is a lot of
- 48:46fun. Yeah, that's great, man. Okay, So I got about
- 48:51ten minutes. I'm gonna read some super Child. Is there anything else about
- 48:53x Y Crew that I did not mention or SPLC or whatever that you wanted
- 48:59to bring up? Screw the SBLC. We're done. But what I want
- 49:05to stress to guys at their look if talking to other guys that being in
- 49:09a group of guys. If that doesn't appeal to you, find I get
- 49:14it. Under said, it's not for everybody, but if you'd like to
- 49:16help roll in and toss in five bucks a month anyway, you'll be sponsoring
- 49:21some of the guy that can't pay it. We do this, like I
- 49:23said, we provide probably I would say fifty sixty hours of life support per
- 49:30month to all the guys there for five bucks a month. We need support
- 49:38to keep doing this. So look, you know, if you want to
- 49:43be a big donor, fine, right me. But most importantly, if
- 49:46you got the price of a Starbucks to spare once a month, drop it
- 49:51on us. It'll support another guy who's who's in real trouble, who really
- 49:55does need us to come in and be a part of us. Yeah,
- 50:00pay it forward. So so, yeah, there was speaking of pay it
- 50:04forward. I watched this is like as an aside. I watched The Sound
- 50:08of Freedom on Sunday. So I don't know if you've seen that movie.
- 50:14I haven't. I don't know if you have it, if you had any
- 50:15interest in it or whatever, but I do, well, yeah, I
- 50:20do recommend it. I do recommend it, and I think the main reason
- 50:22why I decided I really wanted to see it was because of how the media
- 50:27treated it, because it reminded me of the Red Pill. It was the
- 50:30same thing. And they have a system called pay it Forward where you know,
- 50:34if you like are able, you can pay for an extra ticket and
- 50:38that would somebody can get to watch the movie free. So maybe you could,
- 50:43like, I don't know, look at that model and you could do
- 50:44something like that with X Y crew. So guys that can't afford it,
- 50:47you know, they can have somebody else sort of pay their way. So
- 50:51just something to think about. Check it out. Yeah, yeah, definitely,
- 50:54it's very it's very cool. So I got some super chows. I'm
- 50:58gonna read them out. So a couple from this morning. So before the
- 51:02show, commenter gives us ten dollars and says thank you for Firesight Chat two
- 51:07twenty seven and maintaining frame sixty six. This is Firesight Chat two twenty eight.
- 51:13So you're talking about Phil Mitchell. Yes, Phil Mitchell's great. I'm
- 51:15glad he came on. Apparently, despite being a gay man that cares about
- 51:20therapy for men and healing them in a masculine way, he's still the enemy
- 51:23to feminists. So you remember all that intersectional garbage. It doesn't mean anything.
- 51:29It comes down to men of the enemy or people who oppose their narrative.
- 51:32Are the enemy? Maintaining frame sixty seven? Is its five bucks?
- 51:37It says great show. Thank you. By the way, did you know
- 51:39that Amazon has been a military contractor for at least a decade now? They
- 51:44sell cloud services to the government. In general, big tech has joined the
- 51:47military industrial complex. Not surprising, I mean, no surprise at all,
- 51:52Earth, Yeah, no surprise there. Corporations are generally they are government institutions,
- 52:00our fascist institutions. They are not capitalist, no matter what these people
- 52:02tell you. So yeah, sure. I mean who was the one who
- 52:07benefited the most when they were locking down all the small businesses? It was
- 52:09Amazon, so yeah, Walmart and Walmart, Yeah, all the big companies,
- 52:15but especially Amazon. I think they became a trillion dollar company after that.
- 52:19So well, it was like I understand it. The the virus didn't
- 52:24go into places like Amazon, yeah, I didn't go or or to uh
- 52:30yeah yeah. And it didn't go to like you know, BLM riots or
- 52:35anything like that, Like it didn't spread those places, just like beaches in
- 52:37Florida that yeah, yeah, Okay, so I got one more. ZARX
- 52:45gives his twenty bucks. Thank you. Zarankson says, Brian, please forgive
- 52:49the length, Paul. I'd like to know if what you said regarding red
- 52:52pill philosophy in part six of your Fight Club review is something you still believe.
- 52:57If so, how can we get that message out there, seeing as
- 53:00so many are trying to tear down what will be helpful to men in spite
- 53:05of the fact that they merely dip their toes in the water. If that,
- 53:08I've included it in case you don't remember it, so he does have
- 53:12it here, I'll read it for you. Yeah, okay, remember what
- 53:17I said in part six? Yeah, I don't remember what I said yesterday.
- 53:22Red pill philosophy, at least as I understand it, reduced to its
- 53:24core wisdom, informs us that the enemy, the real enemy, is within.
- 53:30It's not women that get us, it's our naivete and mindless attachment to
- 53:35them. It's not guinocentrism, it's our willingness to enslave others by making sacra
- 53:39sanct it's crazy dictates. It's not calm surism, consumerism. It's our under
- 53:45undeveloped values and our attachment to things, our worship of objects, and the
- 53:51imagined status that they bring. That's the beauty of red pill philosophy. It
- 53:53doesn't require the world to change for us to reap the benefits. If we
- 53:58want to erase the impact of consumer in our lives, the only thing we
- 54:02need destroy is our credit cards, not Walmart, not Ikea, not Starbucks,
- 54:07but the part of ourselves that is foolish enough to believe and think those
- 54:09things are important. Red Pill men don't seek to destroy marriage, they just
- 54:14quit participating in it. Our reaction to the stupidity of marriage is a strike,
- 54:17not a war. Red Pill men place the onus for change where it
- 54:21belongs on ourselves. That is the freedom. It's the only answer that has
- 54:24was ever needed. End quote. Well that was pretty good. Yeah,
- 54:30it was pretty profound. I don't know who wrote that, But yeah,
- 54:32I don't know who wrote that. Somebody he should have a show. I
- 54:36will be happy to tell your listener that your viewer rather that I definitely believe
- 54:43that all of it, every word. Yeah, me too. But it's
- 54:46like, I think that's the biggest flaw in the red pill community is too
- 54:52much obsession with what doesn't work what doesn't work in women, what doesn't work
- 54:59in government, what doesn't work in corporations, what's not working is here,
- 55:05M that's what's not working, and we fixed that that other stuff. It
- 55:09lessens the impact of it. We've become detached from it and free from it.
- 55:15So I would say hell yes to every last word of that. Yeah,
- 55:19thank you, Zerrank's very good. I agree percent too. I mean,
- 55:22I'm a political person, but I think that it all starts from the
- 55:27very very bottom. Nonetheless, so person, but you're not waiting for Joe
- 55:31Biden for you, No, I'm yeah, that's my whole thing is.
- 55:37And this is what I kind of ranted about because Shoe, you know,
- 55:40as a leftist, she's always thinking about what can the government do? And
- 55:45I'm like, they have done enough, like you know what I mean,
- 55:49and nothing. Yeah, I said, if they get out of the way.
- 55:52And this is the thing like women and I include women like that are
- 55:57supposedly you know, red pill women or claim to be or whatever. They
- 56:01see the state as a replacement for men. So when they say we need
- 56:06the state to do this, they want to say, or what they really
- 56:09should be saying is how can I encourage the men in our community to make
- 56:15this better because the state will not do it. And the problem is is
- 56:17that we have demonized men, we have marginalized men, we have minimalized them,
- 56:22we have attacked them, we have you know, done everything you could,
- 56:25and yet somehow they're managing to keep everything running regardless. And yet we're
- 56:30still people like that are still complaining or they're trying to figure out how they
- 56:34can get the government to do stuff. And I'm like, can we just
- 56:37focus on the people who actually, like who pays the government? Guys?
- 56:40Why are you including the middleman here? Just go to the people. I
- 56:45need your help, ladies. So it's nothing wrong with saying I need your
- 56:47help, like the like, there's no shame in that. So anyway,
- 56:52Yeah, I can be political, but only in so far as I would
- 56:55like to remove obstacles. That's all that is is stickles, all right?
- 57:00And I got one Rumble ranch because we're also on Rumble. What's up Rumble
- 57:05gang, shout out to you guys. Hopefully Rumble will continue to grow because
- 57:08I think it's going to be a very good competitor to YouTube. I believe
- 57:12that in the long run, uh oi can woee who I always butcher his
- 57:15name. I don't even know how you're supposed to say, be give us
- 57:17a dollar and just says based indeed, agreed. All right. So I
- 57:25feel like there was one Oh, yeah, you were asking me something.
- 57:28I'm gonna quit to the patient show. But you mentioned that song before we
- 57:32started. That song by that's been going viral. Do you remember the name
- 57:39is like the rich Man from Richmond, Richmond, north of Richmond, north
- 57:45of Richmond. Yeah, yeah, and I don't remember the name of the
- 57:47artist. Is brilliant delivery of just just wonderful. But I was really hardened
- 57:54that he included a line in there directly about the oh we're doing the men
- 58:00is kicking them whither down. The young men are suffering and we just kick
- 58:05them. Yeah. For that line to be a part of a song that's
- 58:12gone viral, really think I think it affirms what we were talking about earlier,
- 58:16Brian. The narrative is changing. It's not the taboo. That's what
- 58:22we did in the beginning. We took the taboo thing and said, fuck
- 58:25it, we're gonna say it anyway. We're gonna say out in publicly,
- 58:29and we're gonna keep saying it until people figure out that it's not really very
- 58:34radical. Just say thing we're saying. It's common sense, and I believe
- 58:38that's happening. Now. I'm just I will pay for the download of that
- 58:44guy's song in a heartbeat. Yeah, I'm over the moon over that line.
- 58:49I'm glad you brought that up. I do think that this is changing.
- 58:52And yeah, so I guess we're out of time for the main show
- 58:55guy, So we're gonna take Paul into the Patron show. If you guys
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- 59:20So that's feed the Badger doctor. If you feed the badger, you
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- 59:28feeding the badger. That's right. We need more badgers, so please please
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- 1:00:02Thank you guys so much for coming on today's episode of the Fireside Chat,
- 1:00:07and we will talk to you all in the next video. Have a
- 1:00:09good one, everybody,