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- 0:01Speaker 1: Every day up waiting, go click your ass up the
- 0:04Speaker 1: breakfast Club. Finish for y'all done.
- 0:07Speaker 2: Good morning, Usa.
- 0:09Speaker 1: Yo yo yo yo yo yo yo yo yo yo
- 0:10Speaker 1: yo yo yo yo yo yo yo yo yo yo
- 0:12Speaker 1: yo yo yo yo yo yo yo.
- 0:13Speaker 3: Yo yo yo.
- 0:14Speaker 4: Hilarious as he stood up playing in this third day,
- 0:20Speaker 4: How y'all feel out there?
- 0:22Speaker 1: I feel blessed, black and holly favorite, Happy to be
- 0:24Speaker 1: here another day to serve our beautiful listeners. Good morning,
- 0:26Speaker 1: what's up? Just how you feel it?
- 0:27Speaker 5: Good morning? Second day down.
- 0:29Speaker 4: Yesterday I went to do uh some more chapters of
- 0:32Speaker 4: my audio book, right.
- 0:33Speaker 2: I mean how many more you did?
- 0:34Speaker 5: Man?
- 0:35Speaker 4: I read one hundred and ten pages in five hours yesterday,
- 0:39Speaker 4: more than I did the first day. And it was
- 0:40Speaker 4: only forty one pages. Okay, so yeah, okay in the day.
- 0:43Speaker 4: I'm a finish all right, So I'm low as your book.
- 0:47Speaker 5: This is pretty long.
- 0:48Speaker 4: It's like it's like and thirty pages. Yeah, it's like two.
- 0:52Speaker 5: It's a quick, nice, nice quick.
- 0:54Speaker 6: My my kids would have knocked down a couple hours.
- 0:57Speaker 1: Actually, two hundred and eleven pages and that's including the knowledge.
- 1:01Speaker 5: Yeah, so that's pretty good, healthy read.
- 1:03Speaker 7: Yeah.
- 1:04Speaker 1: I could have did that in forty eight hours.
- 1:05Speaker 5: That's that's all you do anyway, So that's fine.
- 1:08Speaker 6: I can't knocket out a couple of hours within but
- 1:10Speaker 6: it's all whatever, go free or to just book though
- 1:13Speaker 6: it for twenty eight Maybe that's right, that's right. And
- 1:16Speaker 6: today on the show, Eva Marcel will be joining us,
- 1:19Speaker 6: you know, from America's Next Toime Model. She's an actress,
- 1:22Speaker 6: she was on Real Housewives of Atlanta.
- 1:24Speaker 2: I believe she'll be joining us.
- 1:26Speaker 1: Man really not Sluthor EVAs because there's a lot of
- 1:28Speaker 1: people who were affiliated with America's Next Top Model, and
- 1:32Speaker 1: I guess they got promo for other things, but they
- 1:33Speaker 1: don't want to they don't want to come to certain places,
- 1:36Speaker 1: Like there was a person who didn't want to come
- 1:37Speaker 1: to Breakfast Club. They were scheduled for breakfast Club, but
- 1:40Speaker 1: then they wanted us to put in writing that we
- 1:42Speaker 1: wouldn't ask them about America's Next Top Model. I've never
- 1:44Speaker 1: had that request in you know, twenty eight years.
- 1:46Speaker 7: Rate.
- 1:47Speaker 2: Well, you know you said the name the other day.
- 1:48Speaker 1: Well, I don't whatever. You act like you don't have
- 1:53Speaker 1: been doing radio forever. Maybe people didn't hear me say it.
- 1:55Speaker 1: I'm just maybe I'll say it during interview.
- 1:58Speaker 6: Maybe okay, next out maybe maybe you will, but maybe
- 2:01Speaker 6: you will not. But yes, even will be joining us.
- 2:03Speaker 6: And today is Erica Badduo's birthday.
- 2:06Speaker 1: My man the Clues Boss Erica. I'll knocked everything off
- 2:09Speaker 1: this table over for Erica. But you hear me, Eric
- 2:12Speaker 1: your girls, that's my wife's favorite artist. So I've been
- 2:15Speaker 1: listening to them, you know, twenty eight years so, but
- 2:17Speaker 1: but I love both of them as individuals. Erica, but
- 2:20Speaker 1: that's my that's my that's my girl. All right, Well,
- 2:22Speaker 1: let's get on America. What you want to I want?
- 2:25Speaker 1: I mean, I got a lot of favorite Erica by records,
- 2:27Speaker 1: but my favorite record is off New America Part one
- 2:30Speaker 1: called The Healer. We got the Healer. Oh yes, sir,
- 2:33Speaker 1: Yes sir.
- 2:34Speaker 6: Happy birthday, bad Dude. Front page News is next. Don't
- 2:38Speaker 6: go Anywhere's the breakfast Club? Good morning Owning everybody. It's
- 2:40Speaker 6: DJ m V Jess, Hilary Charlamage the guy.
- 2:43Speaker 2: We're at the breakfast Club.
- 2:44Speaker 1: Every boy, big boy dude. Yes, Erica said, we ain't dead,
- 2:49Speaker 1: said the children don't believe it. We just made ourselves
- 2:50Speaker 1: invisible her Yeah see.
- 2:53Speaker 8: Me, Jess.
- 2:54Speaker 6: Okay, Well, let's get in some front Page News.
- 2:56Speaker 2: What's uping to me?
- 2:58Speaker 9: MV Jos Charlam, how y'all doing this morning? Good morning,
- 3:03Speaker 9: So we started this morning with new questions about what's
- 3:05Speaker 9: not in the Jeffrey Epstein file. So an NPR investigation
- 3:09Speaker 9: reports the Justice Department may not have released all the
- 3:13Speaker 9: documents tied to the Jeffrey Epstein case, including FBI interviews
- 3:18Speaker 9: and records connected to a woman who was accusing of
- 3:21Speaker 9: President Trump of sexual assault decades ago. Now, according to NPR,
- 3:25Speaker 9: more than fifty pages of FBI interview notes appere in
- 3:29Speaker 9: official evidence log but are not publicly available in the
- 3:32Speaker 9: DOJ's online database. A Democratic Congressman, Robert Garcia, who oversees
- 3:38Speaker 9: the House Oversight Committee, says he believes certain FBI interviews
- 3:41Speaker 9: were withheld.
- 3:42Speaker 10: Let's listen to what he had to say.
- 3:44Speaker 11: It appears that the dj is withholding critical documents as
- 3:49Speaker 11: it relates to a survivor who made allegations about President
- 3:53Speaker 11: Trump when she was a minor, of which who we
- 3:56Speaker 11: know who the survivor is.
- 3:58Speaker 2: Of course, they're redacted and we're not going to really information.
- 4:01Speaker 11: So while some of the documents in that list are there,
- 4:05Speaker 11: they're clearly a series of documents have been removed, and
- 4:10Speaker 11: we understand and it's been confirmed that those those documents
- 4:15Speaker 11: have been removed likely pertained to some allegations that the
- 4:21Speaker 11: survivor made about President Trump.
- 4:24Speaker 1: So why would anybody want why would anybody want to
- 4:27Speaker 1: protect you know, anyone that's in the Epstein files, Like
- 4:31Speaker 1: even if you're in the DOJ right and I know
- 4:33Speaker 1: that you're not supposed to be beholden to the President
- 4:36Speaker 1: of the United States of America, Like, why would you
- 4:37Speaker 1: want to protect him if he, you know, might be
- 4:40Speaker 1: connected to something so heinous.
- 4:42Speaker 10: It's a really good question.
- 4:44Speaker 9: But according to NPR and their investigation, the woman told
- 4:47Speaker 9: investigators that in the early nineteen eighties, when she was
- 4:49Speaker 9: about thirteen years old, Jeffrey Epstein introduced her to Donald Trump,
- 4:53Speaker 9: and she alleges that Trump sexually assaulted her. FBI record
- 4:57Speaker 9: show agents interviewed her four times.
- 4:59Speaker 10: This is according to.
- 5:00Speaker 9: The investigation by NPR, and only one interview appears in
- 5:05Speaker 9: the public release, and that version, though does not reference Trump.
- 5:09Speaker 9: So in that one that appears in the files, it
- 5:12Speaker 9: does not appear to reference Trump. The White House they
- 5:15Speaker 9: strongly deny the allegations. They call it false, and the
- 5:18Speaker 9: Justice Department says though it is reviewing the records and
- 5:20Speaker 9: will publish any documents they may have left out that
- 5:23Speaker 9: were not properly released. But meanwhile, another high profile name
- 5:28Speaker 9: is addressing his ties to Jeffrey Epstein. I'm talking about
- 5:31Speaker 9: Bill Gates. So, speaking to his foundation, Gates says he
- 5:34Speaker 9: began meeting with Epstein back in twenty eleven, years after
- 5:38Speaker 9: Epstein had already pled guilty to soliciting a minor, and.
- 5:42Speaker 5: He admits that he failed to properly vet him.
- 5:44Speaker 9: And continued meeting with him through twenty fourteen, even after
- 5:48Speaker 9: his thin wife Melinda Gates, raised concerns, and Gates told
- 5:51Speaker 9: The Wall Street Journal in the past that he was
- 5:53Speaker 9: stupid for maintaining his relationship with Epstein.
- 5:56Speaker 12: Let's listen to that, well, Jeffrey in retrospect, I was
- 6:00Speaker 12: foolish to spend any time with him, and he sort
- 6:03Speaker 12: of got time with various people by spending time with
- 6:06Speaker 12: other people. So, yes, I think I was quite stupid.
- 6:10Speaker 12: You know, I thought it would help me with global
- 6:13Speaker 12: health philanthropy. In fact, had failed to do that, and
- 6:17Speaker 12: it's just a huge mistake.
- 6:20Speaker 9: Yeah, So, in a private meeting with his foundation that
- 6:24Speaker 9: Gates confirmed that he flew on Epstein's private jet he
- 6:27Speaker 9: met with him in New York, in Washington, Germany, and France,
- 6:31Speaker 9: but says he never stayed overnight and he never visited
- 6:34Speaker 9: Epstein's private island. And He's also addressing newly released Epstein
- 6:38Speaker 9: files that show photos of him with women whose faces
- 6:41Speaker 9: were redacted, and he says that those were Epstein's assistant
- 6:45Speaker 9: and that Epstein asked him to take photos with those
- 6:47Speaker 9: women after he met them, but he says that he's
- 6:50Speaker 9: never spent spent any time with any of the victims.
- 6:53Speaker 9: And Gates is also revealing that Epstein he became aware
- 6:56Speaker 9: of two extramarital affairs that Gates had with Russian women,
- 7:01Speaker 9: and Gates he says that Epstein later referenced that in
- 7:04Speaker 9: an email and suggested that that information could damage him
- 7:08Speaker 9: and damaged his reputation. And Gates is also acknowledging this
- 7:11Speaker 9: morning that his association with Epstein may have also helped
- 7:14Speaker 9: Epstein appear more legitimate, meaning if Bill Gates is hanging
- 7:17Speaker 9: out with him, then other people will feel safe hanging
- 7:19Speaker 9: out with him.
- 7:20Speaker 1: Bill confessed to smashing two other cheeks story.
- 7:23Speaker 2: Yes he did, Yeah, he did.
- 7:24Speaker 12: He did.
- 7:25Speaker 9: He said that there were two other Russian women that
- 7:29Speaker 9: he yes smashed.
- 7:34Speaker 1: If you confessed to getting some other cheeks outside of
- 7:36Speaker 1: the marriage, man, it was probably more than two times.
- 7:40Speaker 1: If you confessed the two, that means probably did at
- 7:42Speaker 1: least ten Jesus one hundred and seven billion dollars. Come on, man,
- 7:45Speaker 1: only two?
- 7:46Speaker 6: But you know, he apologized. But why did he apologize
- 7:49Speaker 6: because he said he didn't do anything wrong. He just
- 7:51Speaker 6: said that, you know, he took a meeting he was
- 7:52Speaker 6: gonna give money for philanthropy, And but why apologize if
- 7:56Speaker 6: I did nothing wrong? I apologize, Well.
- 8:00Speaker 1: He cheated, Oh, I mean for that point, so apologized
- 8:02Speaker 1: to his wife.
- 8:06Speaker 9: And I think he's saying he's apologizing the envy because
- 8:09Speaker 9: he hung around with him even longer than.
- 8:11Speaker 5: He should have.
- 8:12Speaker 10: So after he was convicted, he was still.
- 8:13Speaker 9: Hanging out with him, and he was in the documents.
- 8:17Speaker 9: There's pictures of him in the documents with women, and
- 8:19Speaker 9: so I think he's apologizing to his foundation because he's
- 8:22Speaker 9: bringing unwonted attention show to his cause.
- 8:26Speaker 1: And there must be Uh. It is interesting. That is
- 8:28Speaker 1: a good point though, because it's like he's the only
- 8:30Speaker 1: person that's confessing to anything. I haven't heard nobody else
- 8:32Speaker 1: in the ft files, and you know, admit that anything.
- 8:35Speaker 2: To say that it was even now.
- 8:36Speaker 1: And for him to be who he is, he could
- 8:38Speaker 1: just shut the hell up and it would go away.
- 8:40Speaker 10: It would be a story that's very very true, very
- 8:44Speaker 10: very true.
- 8:44Speaker 9: So a lot of accountability this morning, if you call
- 8:47Speaker 9: it that coming from Bill Gates in that that statement there,
- 8:50Speaker 9: or that that talk that he had with his foundation,
- 8:53Speaker 9: and coming up in the next hour for the millions
- 8:56Speaker 9: of people who keep America running, new rules are coming.
- 8:59Speaker 9: I'm talking to all my truck drivers this morning. We'll
- 9:01Speaker 9: explain what's changing in the next hour.
- 9:04Speaker 2: All right, everybody else, get it off your chest. Eight
- 9:06Speaker 2: hundred five eight five one oh five one. If you
- 9:08Speaker 2: need to vent, hit us up now. Phone lines are
- 9:10Speaker 2: wide open. It's the Breakfast Club. Good morning.
- 9:14Speaker 13: This is your time to get it off your chest.
- 9:16Speaker 13: Eight hundred five eight five one five one. We want
- 9:19Speaker 13: to hear from you on the breakfast Club.
- 9:22Speaker 2: Hello.
- 9:22Speaker 3: Who's this Hello?
- 9:23Speaker 7: What's this?
- 9:24Speaker 14: PJA from Long Allen?
- 9:25Speaker 2: What's up? Brother j Get it off your chest?
- 9:28Speaker 1: Brother? How you doing?
- 9:29Speaker 7: Man? I'm sorry to bother you this morning. Man, bothering
- 9:32Speaker 7: us brother with my wife.
- 9:33Speaker 14: Now, my wife's had a baby in the bathroom at
- 9:35Speaker 14: the hospital.
- 9:35Speaker 7: Man, she was neglected the entire time.
- 9:37Speaker 14: Man, what hospital, women's hospital in Long Allan?
- 9:43Speaker 1: How does that happen? How did they end up leaving
- 9:45Speaker 1: her in the bathroom. Why wouldn't they take her in
- 9:47Speaker 1: the room.
- 9:47Speaker 14: So it's the situation. We arrived there at two fifteen am.
- 9:52Speaker 14: I begged them three times at the receptionist. My wife
- 9:54Speaker 14: need the room. My wife's the room. They talking about, Oh,
- 9:56Speaker 14: she's just diolated.
- 9:57Speaker 7: This is normal. Normal.
- 9:59Speaker 14: My wife come to the back. She texted me, I'm bleeding.
- 10:01Speaker 14: I run back to the lady again. My wife says
- 10:03Speaker 14: she's leading. She said, oh, that's normal. Don't worry about it.
- 10:05Speaker 14: Don't worry about it. So a housekeeper, my wife comes
- 10:09Speaker 14: to the whole way. Now a housekeeper that that's cleaning
- 10:11Speaker 14: the hallway. She demanded, get this woman a doctor. She's
- 10:15Speaker 14: she's in pain. She clearly tests you in pain. My
- 10:17Speaker 14: wife is like, I think I got use the bathroom.
- 10:18Speaker 14: She goes to the bathroom. The water break she touched
- 10:21Speaker 14: me agains. So I run out and tell the nurses
- 10:23Speaker 14: or my wife' said a water break nobody moves, nobody
- 10:25Speaker 14: does nothing, does nothing. So I run in there myself.
- 10:27Speaker 14: She said, the baby is coming. I run back to
- 10:29Speaker 14: the nursing station. I'm yell, the baby's coming. By the
- 10:32Speaker 14: time we get there real and the baby fell out
- 10:34Speaker 14: head first, by.
- 10:36Speaker 2: Lord Jesus, Jesus Jesus.
- 10:38Speaker 1: And no doctors, no nurses came in the bathroom, even
- 10:41Speaker 1: trying to hold no.
- 10:43Speaker 14: Nothing we got, we got images, we got video, we
- 10:45Speaker 14: got everything.
- 10:46Speaker 5: Is the baby? Is the baby? Okay?
- 10:49Speaker 14: Save so so far, so far, so good, Like I've
- 10:53Speaker 14: been thinking. It took me to the neurologists, pediatrician. It's
- 10:56Speaker 14: just scary because even my wife at the percent that
- 10:58Speaker 14: everything came out like right there, she's okay.
- 11:02Speaker 1: What was the excuse to the hospital gave you after that? Like,
- 11:04Speaker 1: what did they say to you?
- 11:05Speaker 14: Let me explain this part too, and again I'm sorry,
- 11:08Speaker 14: I'm I'm I'm so sorry.
- 11:09Speaker 8: Son.
- 11:09Speaker 14: We get it off minutes. A woman came in fifteen
- 11:12Speaker 14: minutes after us. She was screaming, agonize, O pain, Oh,
- 11:15Speaker 14: this baby is coming, this baby is coming. They allow
- 11:17Speaker 14: her to get a room. Their excuse was that she
- 11:20Speaker 14: was a lot more louder than my wife heard of
- 11:22Speaker 14: me and to show like she needs more attention only
- 11:25Speaker 14: for us to have our babies seven minutes before us.
- 11:27Speaker 5: Still was she a white woman?
- 11:28Speaker 7: Yes?
- 11:29Speaker 4: And was all the other all the nurses, like all
- 11:31Speaker 4: the nurses and staff they're white too.
- 11:33Speaker 7: Yep.
- 11:34Speaker 14: That's that's that's that's the fight we're trying to. We're
- 11:36Speaker 14: trying to, like literally, I DMS all of you guys.
- 11:38Speaker 14: I've sent you guys emails, like I'm trying to get
- 11:41Speaker 14: this message out there. Man, I come up there. I
- 11:42Speaker 14: just want to expose the situation because we was on
- 11:45Speaker 14: we was on eyewitness news so far. But I need
- 11:47Speaker 14: to get this message out here, like past woman is
- 11:49Speaker 14: hospital wrong, gut and is horrible? Man? Is your my wife?
- 11:52Speaker 5: Is your wife? Okay?
- 11:55Speaker 14: Now, I mean she's she's all her best to be
- 11:57Speaker 14: okay for the baby. But you know, in and out
- 12:00Speaker 14: every other hour, every other day.
- 12:02Speaker 7: A fighter, damn.
- 12:03Speaker 2: And what town is that Long Island?
- 12:05Speaker 14: Brother, it's the New High Park. It's a hospital court
- 12:09Speaker 14: women's hospital.
- 12:10Speaker 1: You gotta get you an attorney, give him attorney, brother,
- 12:12Speaker 1: You definitely got to get an attorney.
- 12:14Speaker 14: Yeah, I mean that's that's what we're working on now.
- 12:16Speaker 14: But I just feel like, for the most part, people
- 12:18Speaker 14: only you know what, they don't hear they steel And
- 12:21Speaker 14: I was like, I just I just really gotta get
- 12:23Speaker 14: the message of course, like because you got.
- 12:25Speaker 7: You got, you gotta.
- 12:26Speaker 14: You gotta let people know that. It ain't telling how
- 12:28Speaker 14: many times it happened that nobody's soaked up, but it
- 12:31Speaker 14: went under the.
- 12:31Speaker 1: Road, right Eddie, get this brother's information. Man, Please let's
- 12:35Speaker 1: see if we can get them to Ben Crump or somebody.
- 12:38Speaker 2: Good luck, brother, I'm glad. I'm glad you your baby's doing.
- 12:41Speaker 14: Fine, man, yo, And can I say one more thing, man,
- 12:44Speaker 14: I'm extremely thankful for you guys. I appreciate you guys, man,
- 12:47Speaker 14: like I really you know, you guys really motivate me.
- 12:50Speaker 14: So please thank you man. Keep pushing the message forward.
- 12:52Speaker 1: Bless you and your family. Healing energy. Wow, well you
- 12:56Speaker 1: never know people going through board all that.
- 12:59Speaker 6: Get it off here chest eight hundred five eight five
- 13:01Speaker 6: one oh five one. If you need to vent hit
- 13:03Speaker 6: us up now. It's the breakfast club. Good morning, Ray.
- 13:06Speaker 3: Right ray yo, Charlotte, man, yea.
- 13:08Speaker 1: What up are we lying?
- 13:10Speaker 8: This is your time to get it off your chest.
- 13:11Speaker 6: I got an indoor pool, door pool.
- 13:14Speaker 8: We want to hear from you on the Breakfast Club.
- 13:16Speaker 4: Get on the phone right now, He'll tell you what
- 13:18Speaker 4: it is.
- 13:18Speaker 5: We lie.
- 13:19Speaker 8: Hello, who's this yo?
- 13:21Speaker 7: Which up? Is a key from Brookley?
- 13:24Speaker 2: Get off your chest?
- 13:25Speaker 7: Oh? Peace? Peace man? Hey man yo.
- 13:27Speaker 15: First of all, man, I just want to give a
- 13:28Speaker 15: big shout to your people all in the back.
- 13:31Speaker 7: You know, everybody that works behind the Breakfast Club. Man,
- 13:33Speaker 7: you know you guys are are some dope people. Man.
- 13:35Speaker 7: Thank y'all keeping that machine going there.
- 13:37Speaker 1: They get on my nerve, they well, what's up? Brother?
- 13:41Speaker 7: Yeah? Man? Yo? All right yo, real quick yo, Charlomagne's.
- 13:44Speaker 1: Peace, God, peace, King? How are you brother?
- 13:46Speaker 7: All right?
- 13:47Speaker 15: Man, I'm good, brother, I'm good. Listen, man, you're a
- 13:49Speaker 15: forty six year.
- 13:50Speaker 1: Old man, forty seven all right?
- 13:52Speaker 7: Forty seven? All right? God bless you, forty seven year
- 13:55Speaker 7: old man? Married three cabs? Correct?
- 13:57Speaker 1: Four?
- 13:58Speaker 8: How you got four? Information?
- 13:59Speaker 7: You just make sure I'm correct.
- 14:02Speaker 2: You're getting the game.
- 14:03Speaker 7: Charlatane, do you know where your birth certificate is at? Uh?
- 14:07Speaker 1: No, at my mama house? Is at my mama house?
- 14:10Speaker 7: You live in New Jersey? Why is your why? Why? Why?
- 14:13Speaker 7: Why is your perstificate at your mama's house?
- 14:14Speaker 16: Souse?
- 14:15Speaker 1: I was grew up in most corner, South Carolina. So
- 14:16Speaker 1: I'm sure is that my mother house under her beds.
- 14:18Speaker 7: And it should be on your personal Charlomagne is responsible
- 14:23Speaker 7: for you to not have, for you not to have an.
- 14:26Speaker 15: Important documentary documentation about yourself, like a FIR certificate or
- 14:30Speaker 15: Social Security number?
- 14:31Speaker 1: Response, what are you trying to get at her? What
- 14:33Speaker 1: you wanted to have?
- 14:34Speaker 7: The all all, I'm I'm gonna tell you right now,
- 14:39Speaker 7: stream right now. No, I'm not no, No, it's not
- 14:43Speaker 7: about that. It's not about that. It's not about that.
- 14:47Speaker 7: I'm telling you right now.
- 14:48Speaker 15: It's a narrative that it's hard for people to get, uh,
- 14:51Speaker 15: the type of documentations like FIR certificates or Social Security calls.
- 14:55Speaker 7: I got to cut that narrative out, especially somebody like.
- 14:57Speaker 15: Myself that's also black. I lost my Social Security card
- 15:02Speaker 15: and my Social Security in my Firth certificate, and I've
- 15:05Speaker 15: replaced both of them. It don't cost over twenty dollars
- 15:07Speaker 15: to replace your certificate, No, it doesn't.
- 15:09Speaker 2: It doesn't cost.
- 15:09Speaker 6: It's a lot of time, like you just had to
- 15:12Speaker 6: do with huzz Over because I didn't know when you
- 15:13Speaker 6: got married you had to change your Social Security to
- 15:16Speaker 6: your spouse's new new last name. And it took a
- 15:19Speaker 6: full day of doing it, Like her full day was
- 15:22Speaker 6: done going to the Social Security office and I had
- 15:24Speaker 6: to get a personificate before. It took me about two
- 15:26Speaker 6: days to get it. It takes some time, bro, It's not easy.
- 15:28Speaker 6: You just don't walk and get it.
- 15:29Speaker 7: It's not easy, but it's possible.
- 15:31Speaker 15: And this whole narrative that oh, poor people can't get
- 15:35Speaker 15: it or you can't get easy access to it, these
- 15:38Speaker 15: things and it's important, it's responsible for you to have
- 15:41Speaker 15: those type of things. Yeah, but I have some copies
- 15:44Speaker 15: of my pirth certificate but no, no, I keep it
- 15:47Speaker 15: at home. But what I'm saying is you should have it.
- 15:50Speaker 15: You're like, there's no reason why you know your first
- 15:53Speaker 15: tipic should be only the way in most court.
- 15:55Speaker 1: You know, why are you worried about what I'm doing?
- 15:58Speaker 5: Is trying to tell you that you know.
- 16:00Speaker 15: Because you know you were you you had posted on
- 16:03Speaker 15: Instagram a while ago, like you would just be like
- 16:05Speaker 15: you guys just trying to spend the narrative that black
- 16:07Speaker 15: and poor people don't have easy access to these documentations
- 16:11Speaker 15: and that's just that's not true.
- 16:13Speaker 6: Keep and I'm getting and I'm almost guaranteed his wife
- 16:15Speaker 6: has a birth certificate because I'm sure they had to travel,
- 16:17Speaker 6: they need a passports. I'm sure his wife got all that.
- 16:19Speaker 6: You know, Charlaine, don't know much about that house. Listen,
- 16:21Speaker 6: my wife, he and all that.
- 16:24Speaker 7: But I love you guys, man, I love you guys.
- 16:26Speaker 7: You guys you got ticket.
- 16:27Speaker 1: I appreciate, but he does have to. It is important
- 16:31Speaker 1: to acknowledge that. You know, if the Trump Save America
- 16:34Speaker 1: Act passes, twenty one million Americans will be at risk
- 16:37Speaker 1: of losing their voting rights because only one in three
- 16:39Speaker 1: Black Americans have a valid passport. Nearly half of black
- 16:42Speaker 1: Americans under thirty don't have a driver's license with their
- 16:44Speaker 1: current name and address. Okay, and millions of women whose
- 16:47Speaker 1: names change after marriage don't have matching documents. Correct, So
- 16:50Speaker 1: those things are important to acknowledge very I mean, you know,
- 16:52Speaker 1: I know, like we like to act like things are
- 16:54Speaker 1: so cut and dry, but they're not. Yeah, okay, do
- 16:57Speaker 1: you know do you know what your birth certificate is?
- 16:59Speaker 1: Y just now know yours is LRD. I'm all right?
- 17:03Speaker 8: Is that my mother?
- 17:04Speaker 1: I was like you was that you that?
- 17:05Speaker 5: Lord?
- 17:06Speaker 7: Okay?
- 17:07Speaker 2: My crib Okay, mine is at my crib. I got
- 17:10Speaker 2: all my kids versus figure.
- 17:15Speaker 17: Damn.
- 17:16Speaker 5: I'm like that growing up.
- 17:17Speaker 2: You get your past port and global entry and all that.
- 17:19Speaker 2: You need, all that information so.
- 17:21Speaker 1: You might be in my house.
- 17:22Speaker 2: I told you.
- 17:24Speaker 4: Gonna say second, and I got you know, I know,
- 17:28Speaker 4: I know she gottbottificate.
- 17:31Speaker 1: It's in the same probably I have no idea.
- 17:34Speaker 2: You got it all. Get it off your chest. Eight
- 17:37Speaker 2: hundred so crazy.
- 17:38Speaker 1: I remember a long time ago seeing my birth certificate
- 17:41Speaker 1: at my mama house and all it said was boy Milvey.
- 17:44Speaker 1: Oh my god, I don't even have my name on it.
- 17:46Speaker 1: That's how old you are. That is seventy least they
- 17:49Speaker 1: put boy boy.
- 17:52Speaker 2: Damn. That's We got the latest with Lauria coming up.
- 17:55Speaker 2: What we talked about the morning.
- 17:56Speaker 18: Yes we do so Cardi b did and a few
- 17:58Speaker 18: weeks ago and we talked about it here. And now
- 18:00Speaker 18: there are reports that she had to go off on
- 18:03Speaker 18: producers and it all involves and arch nemesis.
- 18:05Speaker 1: Of hers lying on Cardio.
- 18:07Speaker 5: We're gonna get into.
- 18:08Speaker 18: This conversation, okay, because I've been trying to figure out
- 18:11Speaker 18: where all of this came from and why after all
- 18:14Speaker 18: these good reports about her tour.
- 18:15Speaker 5: We're gonna talking about it.
- 18:16Speaker 1: Why you dressed like up?
- 18:17Speaker 18: First of all, I'm wearing I like, okay, love the
- 18:21Speaker 18: red crazy. If you like it, just say that nice.
- 18:24Speaker 18: That's how you compliment.
- 18:25Speaker 6: The latest with Lawrence Next is to Breakfast Club. Good morning,
- 18:28Speaker 6: you'll talk Yello cool bab.
- 18:29Speaker 5: Yeah, I mean not dumbing myself down. I'm being myself.
- 18:36Speaker 18: I'm the home guy that knows a little bit about
- 18:37Speaker 18: everything and everything the little.
- 18:40Speaker 10: Brown girls look at you and go, I want to
- 18:42Speaker 10: be like you.
- 18:42Speaker 5: Take me through that, through that.
- 18:45Speaker 13: The latest Breakfast Club ll cool bad talk to me
- 18:52Speaker 13: Llo cool bad young Stop time.
- 18:54Speaker 2: Shut up.
- 18:55Speaker 5: I'm talking those stops on the head looking over there.
- 18:58Speaker 18: Put your head down so they can see what your
- 18:59Speaker 18: hair on and we say the hairlines in the middle too.
- 19:03Speaker 8: All right, y'all.
- 19:03Speaker 18: So SNL Right, So Cardi b was on SNL. She
- 19:07Speaker 18: was the musical guest on their one thousandth episode. We
- 19:10Speaker 18: talked about that episode. It was the episode where she
- 19:12Speaker 18: did Bodega Baddy and everybody was so excited because they're like,
- 19:15Speaker 18: in this climate, this is great. And Pete Davison was
- 19:18Speaker 18: also on that episode. Now, there was a report that
- 19:20Speaker 18: broke yesterday via TMZ that Cardi B got upset on
- 19:25Speaker 18: the set ahead of a rehearsal. During a rehearsal, So,
- 19:28Speaker 18: according to TMZ, she got upset because she overheard a
- 19:31Speaker 18: joke that was supposed to go into the weekend update
- 19:34Speaker 18: of the show, and the joke was about Nicki Minaj. Now,
- 19:36Speaker 18: according to this report, the joke had nothing to do
- 19:39Speaker 18: with Nicki Minaj and Cardi who we know have issues
- 19:42Speaker 18: and have had issues ongoing. But she just, according to
- 19:45Speaker 18: this report, would have felt a way that the joke
- 19:47Speaker 18: was even being inputed in the show, knowing that she's
- 19:50Speaker 18: the guest on the show. Now they're alleging that the
- 19:54Speaker 18: joke has something to do with Cardi B's affiliation to
- 19:56Speaker 18: Maga and that Cardi when she got upset and things
- 19:59Speaker 18: escalat and she started to leave the show, she threw
- 20:02Speaker 18: her phone at the TV, allegedly breaking a TV monitor.
- 20:05Speaker 18: She went a producer's office and they alleged that she
- 20:07Speaker 18: punched a screen until it broke.
- 20:09Speaker 5: Now, I feel like this was this.
- 20:12Speaker 1: This slow, this how long ago?
- 20:17Speaker 5: Three weeks ago to yeah, but and this is my thing.
- 20:19Speaker 18: I feel like this report, this is a lot over
- 20:22Speaker 18: a joke that didn't even evolve her and Nikki directly.
- 20:24Speaker 18: I can understand her feeling like, y'all know what y'all
- 20:26Speaker 18: doing by and putting a joke and I'm here.
- 20:29Speaker 4: Respectful though, like do we know what the kids like?
- 20:31Speaker 5: We made the TV?
- 20:33Speaker 6: This is true, I'm saying, I don't believe that it's true.
- 20:37Speaker 6: Happened three weeks ago.
- 20:38Speaker 18: Somebody would card punching and kicking television screens, And I.
- 20:42Speaker 5: Do know what I'm saying. If she had did that,
- 20:44Speaker 5: it was something to warrant that.
- 20:45Speaker 4: Like, so all that they mentioned in their report, in
- 20:48Speaker 4: TMZ's report is that the joke has something to do
- 20:50Speaker 4: with mag nothing to do with Cardi B and Nicki Minach.
- 20:53Speaker 5: So I'm like, okay, So I reached out.
- 20:55Speaker 18: I was trying to figure out potentially what this joke
- 20:57Speaker 18: might have been. I, having her back, also reached out
- 20:58Speaker 18: to Carty's team. They didn't respond, but Cardi responded herself
- 21:01Speaker 18: on X and she said, HM, all of these little
- 21:04Speaker 18: random stories, f it, let them talk, let them eat cake,
- 21:07Speaker 18: let them come to the ball. And she's headed into
- 21:09Speaker 18: another sold out, you know show on the Little Miss
- 21:12Speaker 18: Drama tour. And yeah, because yesterday was this story that
- 21:18Speaker 18: broke and there was like a story about her and
- 21:20Speaker 18: Stefan Diggs and the breakup around the super Bowl, and.
- 21:23Speaker 1: You know, just nobody cares about the truth from the
- 21:26Speaker 1: live more entertaining and nine times out of ten when
- 21:28Speaker 1: you out there like doing something great what she is
- 21:30Speaker 1: right now being on tour, you know, celebrating the successful
- 21:33Speaker 1: album sold our shows. It's gonna be a lot of
- 21:35Speaker 1: you know, untruth set around that success.
- 21:38Speaker 18: Yes, and there was a woman I tried actually about
- 21:42Speaker 18: her earlier. She's a producer and a writer. Name was
- 21:44Speaker 18: Jamie Sullivan.
- 21:45Speaker 1: Jamie Jamie.
- 21:46Speaker 18: Yeah, and Jamie She I don't know if she was
- 21:48Speaker 18: maybe working the show that day or what, but she
- 21:50Speaker 18: commented on the Jasmine Brands post of the story and
- 21:52Speaker 18: said that this was not true and that she was
- 21:54Speaker 18: there and that this this was lies.
- 21:56Speaker 5: White jameis Yeah, that's my girl. Yeah.
- 22:00Speaker 18: Well she she says she was there and that this
- 22:01Speaker 18: didn't happen, It didn't go down like that. Yeah, basically yes,
- 22:06Speaker 18: all right, now moving on, So I know you guys
- 22:08Speaker 18: have been.
- 22:11Speaker 4: Just like, okay, yo, chill yo, go ahead.
- 22:21Speaker 18: I'll be missing that, okay, all right, So moving on.
- 22:24Speaker 18: So we've been seeing the celebration for Nipsey Hustle over
- 22:28Speaker 18: the weekend. He got the Nipsey Hustle Boulevard on Slashing
- 22:32Speaker 18: in Crenshaw, which is where he grew up, right, But
- 22:34Speaker 18: yesterday I saw a story that the Marathon Burger store
- 22:37Speaker 18: that he owns their expanding, uh to that his family
- 22:40Speaker 18: owns it. They're expanding to Long Beach and they're doing
- 22:43Speaker 18: it with Snoop Dogg's family, which is fire to hear.
- 22:46Speaker 18: But just wanted to take some time to send some
- 22:48Speaker 18: congratulations their way for that.
- 22:53Speaker 1: How fat I am every time I see Marathon Berg
- 22:56Speaker 1: I wanted I never had a Trill Burger either, I
- 22:59Speaker 1: had a Marathon.
- 23:03Speaker 2: J Cole was working there.
- 23:04Speaker 5: I was about to mention that.
- 23:05Speaker 18: I was about to tell y'all, yes, so Jake Cole
- 23:07Speaker 18: because remember he was in Arizona because he was trying
- 23:10Speaker 18: to get to l A.
- 23:11Speaker 5: So he got to l A. So he got a
- 23:13Speaker 5: job real quick to pay for the car. That's crazy.
- 23:19Speaker 18: He got to l A and he went by Marathon
- 23:21Speaker 18: Burger and he was, you know, he was working there
- 23:24Speaker 18: for the day, just showing his love and respect to
- 23:25Speaker 18: Nipsey and Nipsey's family.
- 23:27Speaker 4: And did he get his car out the shop.
- 23:33Speaker 18: Yeah, from that I know of, Yes, he got the
- 23:36Speaker 18: car out the shops. But yeah, he was also in
- 23:38Speaker 18: the studio too with some of the folks over at TD.
- 23:40Speaker 18: So people are wondering if that means new music is
- 23:42Speaker 18: coming as well. But yes, okay, yeah, and that's all.
- 23:47Speaker 18: We have more time. But do we have the Chris
- 23:50Speaker 18: Bosh audio in?
- 23:51Speaker 5: All right?
- 23:51Speaker 18: So yesterday we heard we learned some news about Chris Bosh.
- 23:57Speaker 18: He was talking about a health scare that he had.
- 23:59Speaker 18: He says he woke up in a pool of blooding.
- 24:01Speaker 18: There have been conversations about his health previous to this.
- 24:04Speaker 6: Let's I think he said he woke up. I think
- 24:05Speaker 6: he said he was going out to date. He was
- 24:07Speaker 6: going to date night and passed out. Yes, let's take listen.
- 24:10Speaker 19: So I woke up covered in my own blooves. It
- 24:12Speaker 19: was crazy. It was fast, it was instant. There was
- 24:15Speaker 19: no warning. I didn't have any time to prepare for it.
- 24:20Speaker 19: I was getting ready to go on a date with
- 24:22Speaker 19: my wife and the next thing you know, I was
- 24:25Speaker 19: on the ground. I won't get into specifics, but you
- 24:28Speaker 19: can kind of see. I'm still recovering. But it was
- 24:31Speaker 19: a scary thing and it came fast, and it made
- 24:34Speaker 19: me really have a different outlook on life. No matter
- 24:37Speaker 19: what it is. Make sure you don't wait, don't wait
- 24:40Speaker 19: to take action, because it could come fast. It could
- 24:44Speaker 19: come quick, and I'm lucky to be alive and I'm
- 24:47Speaker 19: feel great about that. And now I'm thinking about how
- 24:50Speaker 19: I lived my day to day life. That's really it.
- 24:52Speaker 19: I agree with him, thought, but he didn't wake up.
- 24:54Speaker 19: He's still sleep.
- 25:00Speaker 6: Because when I heard the story, she made it seem
- 25:02Speaker 6: like he was sleeping and woke up like that, But
- 25:03Speaker 6: he was actually going out and passed out.
- 25:05Speaker 5: That what was But I just meant like he woke
- 25:06Speaker 5: up like he just like what?
- 25:08Speaker 18: But yeah, So back in twenty sixteen when he retired,
- 25:11Speaker 18: it was due to a blood clot and he admitted
- 25:13Speaker 18: in a newsletter that he was old, more more from
- 25:17Speaker 18: life after having already survived a health situation that ended
- 25:20Speaker 18: his prior career.
- 25:21Speaker 1: But yeah, so did he ever say what was wrong?
- 25:24Speaker 5: No, we don't have.
- 25:25Speaker 18: Any details on that yet, and you know, maybe he'll
- 25:27Speaker 18: he'll talk about that, because again, he's been open about
- 25:29Speaker 18: some of the things that he's gone through. But I
- 25:30Speaker 18: think he just wanted to send that message to people
- 25:33Speaker 18: after you experienced something like that.
- 25:34Speaker 1: I believe when you get to a certain age, okay,
- 25:36Speaker 1: and you start to have, you know, your health issues,
- 25:38Speaker 1: if you're going to say something about them publicly, I
- 25:40Speaker 1: think you it's kind of like your duty to tell
- 25:42Speaker 1: us everything because we wanting I'll be wanting to know,
- 25:44Speaker 1: just as a man.
- 25:45Speaker 6: I watched the interview. I've watched it full too, just
- 25:48Speaker 6: to see what he was like, what the reason, like
- 25:53Speaker 6: everything I need to know for my own personal benefit.
- 25:56Speaker 6: I think that that's your that's your duty when you
- 25:58Speaker 6: get to a.
- 25:59Speaker 2: Certain he's not that old, he's only forty one years old.
- 26:02Speaker 5: Yeah, you know what too?
- 26:04Speaker 7: Like.
- 26:04Speaker 18: I mean, of course I knew who he was because
- 26:06Speaker 18: he's a Hall of Famer. I don't I'm not like
- 26:08Speaker 18: a big sports person. But when I saw this, I
- 26:10Speaker 18: thought maybe this was going to like because he's been
- 26:12Speaker 18: talking about his half years prior to this, I thought
- 26:14Speaker 18: this was going to turn into him telling people like
- 26:16Speaker 18: where to go to get things checked out, or like,
- 26:18Speaker 18: I thought it was going to lead to something else
- 26:19Speaker 18: in there.
- 26:19Speaker 1: I just want to know what happened. I wonder to
- 26:21Speaker 1: know why did you wake up in a pool of blood, Like,
- 26:23Speaker 1: because you know, I'm a hypochondriac, so where my anxiety
- 26:26Speaker 1: set up? I'll be thinking about that over and over
- 26:28Speaker 1: and over and over. I'm actually gonna text my doctor
- 26:30Speaker 1: to then, like, so your earon what happened to Chris Bobby?
- 26:33Speaker 1: What do you think this could potentially be?
- 26:35Speaker 6: And not only that, just imagine if his wife wasn't there,
- 26:37Speaker 6: because his wife was when I think they found him.
- 26:39Speaker 6: So imagine if he was just there by himself and
- 26:41Speaker 6: he would just would he have died?
- 26:43Speaker 2: What passed? Like, what would have happened? It's just very scary.
- 26:45Speaker 18: Well, he has Letters to a Young Athlete, which is
- 26:47Speaker 18: a book, and he says in his caption that he
- 26:49Speaker 18: wrote about my experience. So maybe there's there, there's more there,
- 26:52Speaker 18: but nothing that he talked about in this video that
- 26:54Speaker 18: he posted about.
- 26:55Speaker 4: So a man woke up in the pool of blood,
- 26:57Speaker 4: don't want to tell us what happened? Member Tamar woke
- 26:59Speaker 4: up in the pool of blood.
- 27:00Speaker 18: I mean, ya, shock is a thing too. They get
- 27:02Speaker 18: to a point where they want to but yes, uh yea,
- 27:04Speaker 18: and it.
- 27:04Speaker 1: Is their own health issue, so you know, they're not
- 27:06Speaker 1: entitled to share with anybody. But if you're going to
- 27:09Speaker 1: say something. Yeah, I would like to know more. I'm
- 27:11Speaker 1: not gonna lie. I would lie.
- 27:12Speaker 5: Actually I would care what happened up?
- 27:15Speaker 18: Yeah, Well, we'll be back in the next Latest talking
- 27:17Speaker 18: about some more things because Lamar Odom is talking about
- 27:21Speaker 18: his drug addiction at the time of saying that he
- 27:24Speaker 18: loved drugs and how it stopped him.
- 27:26Speaker 5: You know, that's our.
- 27:26Speaker 1: Shot, lamardel whole nothing like I smoke crack, all right,
- 27:32Speaker 1: so I gotta avoid grab.
- 27:34Speaker 7: That's right.
- 27:35Speaker 8: That's the latest Lamoring.
- 27:37Speaker 6: Now when we come back, we got front page news
- 27:39Speaker 6: and then even more Sella be joining us.
- 27:41Speaker 2: I don't go anywhere. It's to breakfast club. Goo morning.
- 27:44Speaker 2: Everybody's dj m V.
- 27:46Speaker 6: Just hilarious, Charlamage the guy we are the breakfast club.
- 27:48Speaker 6: Let's get back in some front page news.
- 27:50Speaker 2: What's up to me?
- 27:51Speaker 10: Good morning? Envo Charlamage.
- 27:52Speaker 9: How y'all doing this morning?
- 27:54Speaker 10: Good morning?
- 27:55Speaker 9: So we start this hour in Los Angeles, where the
- 27:58Speaker 9: leader of the second largest district in the country is
- 28:01Speaker 9: now at the center of a federal investigation. So FBI
- 28:04Speaker 9: agents they rated the home of LAUSD Superintendent Alberto Cavallo.
- 28:09Speaker 20: Yesterday.
- 28:10Speaker 9: Agents served a court approved search warn at his home
- 28:13Speaker 9: and at the LAUSD headquarters in downtown LA and at
- 28:17Speaker 9: a third property in Florida linked to a consultant that
- 28:20Speaker 9: he worked with. Now authorities are not saying what they
- 28:23Speaker 9: were looking for. The warrants are sealed and no charges
- 28:26Speaker 9: have been announced, but sources say the investigation appears tied
- 28:29Speaker 9: to an LAUSD filled AI chat box contract with a
- 28:33Speaker 9: now collapse company called all Here. Now the district they
- 28:38Speaker 9: launched this tool back in twenty twenty four months later,
- 28:40Speaker 9: the company collapse and its founder was arrested on fraud
- 28:43Speaker 9: charges and the chat box it was pulled LAUSD. They
- 28:47Speaker 9: spent about three million dollars on the project. Now the
- 28:49Speaker 9: superintendent he promised a review, but there has been no
- 28:52Speaker 9: public update.
- 28:54Speaker 1: Now the rate it.
- 28:54Speaker 9: Comes as tensions, though, between the district and the federal government,
- 28:58Speaker 9: have been escalating. Cabalo He's been a vocal opponent against
- 29:02Speaker 9: the aggressive ICE enforcement. He's refused to let ICE agents
- 29:06Speaker 9: onto campuses campuses, directing schools to create safety perimeters around
- 29:11Speaker 9: students and graduations and supporters. They're calling it protection, but
- 29:15Speaker 9: critics like the Trump administration have called it defiance. Let's
- 29:18Speaker 9: listen to some neighbors who witnessed the RADI yesterday and
- 29:21Speaker 9: what they had to say.
- 29:22Speaker 16: I was with my wife for having a cup of
- 29:24Speaker 16: coffee when we heard the sirens. They had a rifle
- 29:30Speaker 16: pointed at the superintendent. Talent out of this and I'm
- 29:34Speaker 16: thankful maybe there was an intruder.
- 29:36Speaker 17: He's in a position of power, second largest school district
- 29:41Speaker 17: in the nation, and he advocates for children and immigrants,
- 29:45Speaker 17: and you know that these people stay away from our schools.
- 29:52Speaker 9: So this isn't the first time that Washington has stepped in.
- 29:55Speaker 9: Just last week, the Trump administration, they moved to join
- 29:58Speaker 9: a federal lawsuit LAUSD of discriminating against white students. So
- 30:03Speaker 9: the lawsuit it challenges the districts decade old desegregation framework.
- 30:08Speaker 9: So that lawsuit argues that schools that are labeled PHBAO,
- 30:12Speaker 9: meaning they have mostly Hispanic, Black, Asian or other non
- 30:15Speaker 9: white students, they receive smaller class sizes, more staff, more money,
- 30:20Speaker 9: and schools that are not labeled that way, including those
- 30:22Speaker 9: with more white students, do not receive those same benefits.
- 30:25Speaker 9: And the Justice Department says that that violates the Constitution's
- 30:28Speaker 9: Equal Protection clause. Now, the LAUSD says it remains committed
- 30:33Speaker 9: to equal access for all students, and right now that
- 30:36Speaker 9: investigation continues, and it's important.
- 30:38Speaker 10: To note that the federal.
- 30:40Speaker 9: Government says they're not targeting lausd but they are just
- 30:43Speaker 9: targeting the superintendent, and they raided his office in downtown
- 30:47Speaker 9: LA looking for documents or whatever. They haven't actually said yet,
- 30:52Speaker 9: so we're still waiting to see exactly what they're what
- 30:54Speaker 9: they're hoping to find.
- 30:55Speaker 1: Sometimes I want to do these people know these policies
- 30:58Speaker 1: were implemented because other race his were discriminated against four
- 31:02Speaker 1: years like I got us on this day. This whole
- 31:05Speaker 1: white discrimination of outrage we're.
- 31:08Speaker 9: Seeing Ley, Yeah, it's uh, it's more rampant than ever now,
- 31:13Speaker 9: for sure.
- 31:13Speaker 1: I saw a woman on a plane, a jet Blue
- 31:15Speaker 1: fight the other day going off saying how that the
- 31:17Speaker 1: woman was serving the black people and not her, and
- 31:19Speaker 1: she's like, you're not serving me because I'm white.
- 31:20Speaker 4: I'm like, yeah, it's happening for sure.
- 31:29Speaker 9: And now to a tragic situation in Missouri involving students
- 31:32Speaker 9: in an HBCU so at Lincoln University, a track and
- 31:35Speaker 9: field athlete is dead this morning after a stabbing and
- 31:39Speaker 9: his girlfriend, who was also a student and a sprinter
- 31:42Speaker 9: at the university has now been charged in connection with
- 31:44Speaker 9: his death, so please say. Twenty three year old Cavan
- 31:48Speaker 9: Goldsen was found with stab wounds to his chest and
- 31:50Speaker 9: back at his apartment near campus his girlfriend or He
- 31:54Speaker 9: was airlifted to a nearby hospital where he later later died,
- 31:58Speaker 9: and according to investigators, his girlfriend twenty seven year old
- 32:01Speaker 9: Danita Jackson. She told officers that she left work early
- 32:04Speaker 9: on Sunday night because she wasn't feeling well, and when
- 32:07Speaker 9: she returned home, she said she found Goldson inside her
- 32:10Speaker 9: roommate's bedroom behind a locked door. Jackson told police that
- 32:14Speaker 9: she used a hair clip to unlock the door and
- 32:16Speaker 9: she found Goldsen and her roommate in bed together, but
- 32:19Speaker 9: they were clothed.
- 32:20Speaker 7: She said.
- 32:21Speaker 9: An argument turned physical, and according to court documents, Jackson
- 32:25Speaker 9: told officers that Goldsen kicked her in the stomach, knocking
- 32:28Speaker 9: her off the bed, and then he began choking her,
- 32:31Speaker 9: and she said that she reached under the bed, grabbed
- 32:32Speaker 9: a knife and stabbed him and then called nine one
- 32:35Speaker 9: one and when officers arrived, they took Jackson into custody
- 32:38Speaker 9: and prosecutors they have now charged her with second degree
- 32:41Speaker 9: murder and armed criminal action.
- 32:45Speaker 10: Yeah, yeah, very very sad.
- 32:47Speaker 9: At Lincoln University, they released a statement they called it
- 32:49Speaker 9: called it a tragic situation, and says its thoughts and
- 32:52Speaker 9: prayers are with everyone impacted.
- 32:55Speaker 5: Yeah, very sad.
- 32:56Speaker 12: Yeah.
- 32:57Speaker 9: And because we know we have thousands of talk drivers
- 33:00Speaker 9: listening this morning, the story is for you. The Trump administration,
- 33:04Speaker 9: it's cracking down on who can legally hold a commercial
- 33:07Speaker 9: driver's license in the US. And this could impact a
- 33:10Speaker 9: lot of people in the industry. So the push it
- 33:12Speaker 9: follows a crash that happened in California that left a
- 33:14Speaker 9: five year old girl with permanent brain injuries, and the
- 33:17Speaker 9: driver was foreign born and had obtained a California CDL,
- 33:22Speaker 9: And now the President is calling for what he's naming
- 33:25Speaker 9: the Delilah's Law, which could block states from issuing CDLs
- 33:28Speaker 9: to undocumented immigrants. Now, at the same time, the Department
- 33:32Speaker 9: of Transportation is stepping up enforcement. So that includes stricter
- 33:36Speaker 9: English language requirements and a proposal to shut down about
- 33:39Speaker 9: five hundred and fifty trucking schools a federal officials say
- 33:43Speaker 9: are unqualified or operating as sham programs.
- 33:46Speaker 10: So here's why that matters.
- 33:48Speaker 9: Because if you already if you're already licensed, you already
- 33:51Speaker 9: meet the English requirement.
- 33:52Speaker 10: That part may not affect you.
- 33:54Speaker 9: But if you trained at or you're currently enrolled in
- 33:56Speaker 9: one of those schools facing closure, that could affect your sification,
- 34:00Speaker 9: your renewal, or your ability to get licensed at all.
- 34:04Speaker 9: Federal officials believe this could impact about one hundred and
- 34:07Speaker 9: ninety four thousand truck drivers. They could feel some sort
- 34:09Speaker 9: of impact from this broader enforcement.
- 34:13Speaker 4: A lot of them truck drivers are for and a
- 34:16Speaker 4: lot of them don't really understand English. They don't speak English,
- 34:18Speaker 4: so that is very dangerous, you know what I mean.
- 34:20Speaker 4: They can't read the signs, a lot of them. So
- 34:25Speaker 4: I appreciate this story.
- 34:26Speaker 1: You mean your husband.
- 34:28Speaker 4: I hope that they start taking this very serious because
- 34:34Speaker 4: this is a serious matter.
- 34:36Speaker 1: I'm saying, will your Mexican husband be impacted?
- 34:41Speaker 4: Do you think my Mexican and black husband will be impacting?
- 34:44Speaker 1: I don't know.
- 34:45Speaker 5: I didn't know.
- 34:47Speaker 1: Shoot, where's his birth certificate?
- 34:49Speaker 8: Do you know?
- 34:49Speaker 1: What?
- 34:51Speaker 21: Where is mother?
- 34:53Speaker 7: Where?
- 34:53Speaker 17: Shut up?
- 34:57Speaker 5: Hilarious?
- 34:58Speaker 9: And lastly, before we go, I just wanted to to
- 35:00Speaker 9: say that Jesse Jackson will be lying in state. He'll
- 35:04Speaker 9: be in South Carolina this week or this Monday. He'll
- 35:07Speaker 9: be lying in the state capitol, so for visitors who
- 35:10Speaker 9: want to get there, he'll be there this Monday, March second,
- 35:14Speaker 9: in the South Carolina State Capital. Flags will be at
- 35:17Speaker 9: half staff to honor him. He was his family had
- 35:20Speaker 9: reached out to the Washington to the Capitol. There House
- 35:24Speaker 9: speaker Mike Johnson, he turned down him lying in state
- 35:28Speaker 9: inside the US Capitol building.
- 35:29Speaker 10: But he will be in.
- 35:30Speaker 5: South Carolina, so that's where the funeral will be.
- 35:33Speaker 9: Well, the funeral will actually be in Chicago March sixth.
- 35:37Speaker 9: The public the public celebration and there will be a
- 35:40Speaker 9: private funeral March seventh, conor him.
- 35:43Speaker 8: Wow.
- 35:43Speaker 6: So DC turned him down, like Johnson Asuka for that,
- 35:46Speaker 6: that's crazy Wow.
- 35:47Speaker 1: South Carolina, Helada, Yeah, for sure.
- 35:49Speaker 10: They held it down.
- 35:50Speaker 9: So they're saying, if you plan to go get there early,
- 35:53Speaker 9: arrive early. There will be a lot of traffic and
- 35:55Speaker 9: a lot of security. So it's it's Thursday, so if
- 35:58Speaker 9: you plan plan accordingly, that will be all right.
- 36:01Speaker 7: Thank you.
- 36:02Speaker 9: Of course that's your front page news I mean me Brown,
- 36:04Speaker 9: follow me at Mimi Brown TV. For more stories, call
- 36:07Speaker 9: the Black Information Network or is it BI innews dot com?
- 36:10Speaker 6: All right, now when we come back, even Morsel will
- 36:13Speaker 6: be joining us. And don't go anywhere.
- 36:14Speaker 2: It's the Breakfast Club.
- 36:15Speaker 8: Good morning, good morning.
- 36:16Speaker 6: Everybody's dj V just Larry show you the guy with
- 36:20Speaker 6: all the Breakfast Club.
- 36:21Speaker 2: We got a special guest in the building. Yes, we
- 36:23Speaker 2: do even Moresel, welcome back. How do you feeling?
- 36:25Speaker 10: I am you bless and highly favorite.
- 36:27Speaker 21: How y'all doing it at.
- 36:34Speaker 1: It's good to see you even because you're one of
- 36:36Speaker 1: the few people that's doing press right now, because everybody
- 36:40Speaker 1: in their mama that was on America's Best Top Model
- 36:42Speaker 1: is scared to definitely press. All that documentary is that
- 36:45Speaker 1: I'm not gonna stay as who But there was a
- 36:47Speaker 1: person who.
- 36:48Speaker 2: Told us we're still there but ahead, Oh, there.
- 36:50Speaker 1: Was a person who told us that they weren't coming
- 36:52Speaker 1: up here unless we put in writing that we didn't
- 36:55Speaker 1: ask them about America's Next Time Model.
- 36:56Speaker 10: Yes, oh really? Were they promoting other things?
- 36:59Speaker 7: Yeah?
- 37:03Speaker 22: The club that she's in right now when is popping
- 37:06Speaker 22: and you know what, shout out to Anny Harlowe and
- 37:08Speaker 22: I can absolutely appreciate her sentiments. And I can tell
- 37:12Speaker 22: you why one of the young ladies on the documentary
- 37:15Speaker 22: if you saw it Danny dropped dead gorgeous. She was
- 37:20Speaker 22: one of the winners, and she said something that I
- 37:23Speaker 22: think it's I know, it's very true. It's something that
- 37:25Speaker 22: I try not to talk about a lot because I'm
- 37:28Speaker 22: very grateful for where I am. But doing Top Model
- 37:32Speaker 22: definitely put the scarlet letter on your back. I mean
- 37:36Speaker 22: to know me, y'all knew me when you did when
- 37:39Speaker 22: you were with Wendy. Y'all know me as Eva Pickford.
- 37:41Speaker 22: I changed my name to Eva Marcel, which is my
- 37:44Speaker 22: legal middle name. But I changed it so that when
- 37:46Speaker 22: I went to audition, I walked in rooms, I wasn't prejudge.
- 37:49Speaker 22: They just saw a girl named Eva. It's not that
- 37:51Speaker 22: uncommon of a name. So they see Eva m letter
- 37:55Speaker 22: read for the role, and so then I would get
- 37:57Speaker 22: the role, and later they would realize like, oh my god,
- 37:59Speaker 22: that's that girl from that show. But I can tell
- 38:02Speaker 22: you about ten thousand doors or closed as for sure.
- 38:09Speaker 10: Can I tell you why? It's because we live in
- 38:12Speaker 10: a new day.
- 38:12Speaker 22: We live in a day today where to be a
- 38:15Speaker 22: reality star is to be a Kim Kardashian. To be
- 38:18Speaker 22: a reality star is to amplify a brand. And so
- 38:22Speaker 22: when you put someone like a just hilarious on something.
- 38:26Speaker 22: You already know that you're gonna get automatic clicks because
- 38:28Speaker 22: we're coming to see you off the top. And so
- 38:31Speaker 22: if you're selling athletic where we might mess around to
- 38:33Speaker 22: what outfit too, but we're gonna watch it because of you.
- 38:36Speaker 22: When I came up, there was no social media, Charlotte
- 38:38Speaker 22: Mane at all. My interviews came through you, So my
- 38:42Speaker 22: voice came through you. And so me being a part
- 38:45Speaker 22: of a brand took away from the brand because y'all
- 38:49Speaker 22: came to see me. And if you're breaking out as
- 38:53Speaker 22: a designer, you're not trying to worry about the girl
- 38:57Speaker 22: that's walking down the runway hangers. You're more so worried
- 39:00Speaker 22: about the designer and the looks. And so it was
- 39:04Speaker 22: an odd time because that big transition happened to where
- 39:08Speaker 22: reality stars became the big thing, but it didn't change
- 39:12Speaker 22: when it came to Top Model because it was a
- 39:15Speaker 22: TV show first for them, but for us it was
- 39:19Speaker 22: a competition. It was a competition that said, if you
- 39:22Speaker 22: win this show, the baddest person in modeling, the Queen
- 39:27Speaker 22: of modeling, Tyra Banks, has said you are good enough.
- 39:31Speaker 22: She put you through a boot camp that said, you
- 39:34Speaker 22: can do the riggers and if you get this done,
- 39:36Speaker 22: you go out into the world, You're gonna be a star.
- 39:39Speaker 22: And then we went out into the world and they
- 39:40Speaker 22: were like, I'm sorry, I'm sorry, mister Starr.
- 39:43Speaker 10: When are you gonna twinkle?
- 39:45Speaker 1: But you in Takara and like a winning y'all found
- 39:48Speaker 1: a way to brand y'allselves. And I always talked about
- 39:50Speaker 1: branding like she always used branding, like even before it
- 39:53Speaker 1: was a buzzwords. I feel like, did you learn that there?
- 39:56Speaker 22: Absolute see for me and I can only speak for myself.
- 40:00Speaker 22: I come from South central Los Angeles. I come from
- 40:04Speaker 22: You're gonna hustle, that that's part of who you are.
- 40:06Speaker 22: And then I went to college and I went to
- 40:08Speaker 22: Clark Atlanta University, home of w Eb Duvois.
- 40:11Speaker 10: And the model was find a way or make one.
- 40:14Speaker 22: So between coming up in the hood and knowing I
- 40:17Speaker 22: had to get mine in the paint and then going
- 40:19Speaker 22: to college and understanding scholastically what that meant and putting
- 40:23Speaker 22: that into to work. After doing Top Model, I was like, oh, okay, cool.
- 40:29Speaker 22: So the tyra said I wasn't good enough and I
- 40:33Speaker 22: won the show. I'm popping now I got to do
- 40:36Speaker 22: the work, and that was one thing that I was
- 40:39Speaker 22: never confused about, one thing that Tyra did instill in me.
- 40:42Speaker 22: And I believe the rest of the girls, how much
- 40:44Speaker 22: they picked it up or not, I think that they
- 40:46Speaker 22: believed that as soon as you won, like the stars
- 40:50Speaker 22: would open and you would get a billion dollars in
- 40:52Speaker 22: your bank account. They're like, no, we're gonna give you
- 40:54Speaker 22: one hundred thousand dollars sprinkled not quickly and.
- 41:00Speaker 2: Right for that hundred thousand.
- 41:01Speaker 10: Well, see, no I didn't.
- 41:03Speaker 22: And I know I've heard other stories and I cannot
- 41:06Speaker 22: discount anyone's story. But Eva Marcel Pickford got her.
- 41:10Speaker 1: Hundred two weeks.
- 41:14Speaker 22: Yeah, it was like you get your initial money and
- 41:17Speaker 22: then when you came and I had the privilege of
- 41:20Speaker 22: actually signing one of the only girls is signed to
- 41:23Speaker 22: cover Girl. So after getting that initial one hundred thousand,
- 41:28Speaker 22: they're like, okay, now we want you to sell Mescara.
- 41:31Speaker 10: Now you know what I mean. And so it went
- 41:32Speaker 10: on from there. But the work never stopped.
- 41:35Speaker 22: The work is ten thousand times more than anyone expected,
- 41:40Speaker 22: and I think that's not what's talked about.
- 41:42Speaker 5: What do you think made you into cars?
- 41:44Speaker 18: Experiences with top models so different because I feel like
- 41:46Speaker 18: y'all are the only two girls that could talk completely
- 41:49Speaker 18: positive about everything.
- 41:50Speaker 5: And even when you talk about the negative, it's not
- 41:52Speaker 5: nothing like with the other girl.
- 41:54Speaker 22: No, No, I mean the negative is is it's life right,
- 41:58Speaker 22: Like That's why I say you, I mean, you have
- 42:00Speaker 22: sharpie's here, but you usually learn how to write with
- 42:02Speaker 22: a pencil. That's why they have eracers because to air
- 42:06Speaker 22: is to be human. You're not gonna always get it right.
- 42:08Speaker 5: And it's not just me.
- 42:09Speaker 22: It's Yaya DaCosta, who played Whitney Houston on Lifetime. Yah
- 42:14Speaker 22: Yah went on to do I mean five seasons of
- 42:17Speaker 22: Chicago med. She did Lincoln Lawyer, My Girls Popping, Yeah,
- 42:21Speaker 22: and a lot of the women are I would be
- 42:24Speaker 22: a bit biased to say season three we definitely stood out,
- 42:28Speaker 22: and the black girls for sure stood out. But I
- 42:31Speaker 22: think that that's what they were casting at that time
- 42:33Speaker 22: they cast it, or an early season season three, they
- 42:36Speaker 22: didn't really know what they were doing. It wasn't even
- 42:38Speaker 22: called reality TV. Like, if you really think about it,
- 42:41Speaker 22: back in two thousand and three two there was no
- 42:44Speaker 22: reality TV. You had Survivor and you had a real
- 42:47Speaker 22: world and that was it, and then you had Top
- 42:51Speaker 22: Model and American Idol. I won the same year as Fantasia.
- 42:55Speaker 22: So that's how long I know. That's how long ago
- 42:58Speaker 22: it is. To answer your question, Lauren, I think that
- 43:02Speaker 22: it was just a great group of stars. They got
- 43:05Speaker 22: women that were bona fide stars in their own right.
- 43:09Speaker 22: I don't know if the producers knew exactly what it
- 43:12Speaker 22: is they were going to tap into and and and
- 43:14Speaker 22: really made that star twinkle, but they taught us how
- 43:17Speaker 22: to shine, and they had stars like it or not.
- 43:21Speaker 22: And t Car walked in there f A B O
- 43:24Speaker 22: l O. I mean when I tell you that girl,
- 43:25Speaker 22: it's fabulous to this day.
- 43:28Speaker 2: Fabulous wrong, but I love it.
- 43:32Speaker 6: She spelled That's how she spelled it.
- 43:36Speaker 10: When she walked in, She's like, f A B.
- 43:37Speaker 22: I was like, listen, that's a shout out to the
- 43:44Speaker 22: one and only NAP star. A net out of New
- 43:47Speaker 22: York City. She got five shops.
- 43:48Speaker 10: But Annette, she does me from my TV show All
- 43:51Speaker 10: the Queen's Men. Yeah, yes, that's a net.
- 43:56Speaker 22: And thank you for that because representation means a lot.
- 44:00Speaker 22: That's why I'm hearing today to talk about my movie
- 44:02Speaker 22: and Top Model on all the things that I used
- 44:06Speaker 22: to represent who black women are and I fight like
- 44:10Speaker 22: crazy from my natural hair.
- 44:12Speaker 2: Were you invited to talk on the documentary that they did? Well,
- 44:15Speaker 2: you invite because didn't see you?
- 44:16Speaker 1: No, no inted.
- 44:17Speaker 10: I was not invited to talk about the documentary. I
- 44:20Speaker 10: was asked.
- 44:22Speaker 22: When I realized that the documentary was coming out and
- 44:25Speaker 22: they started promoting it, I was asked by you know,
- 44:27Speaker 22: New York Times everybody, like, you know, what.
- 44:29Speaker 10: Do you think? What do you think?
- 44:30Speaker 22: It's hard to think when you don't know what you're watching.
- 44:33Speaker 22: I had no clue how they were going to skew
- 44:35Speaker 22: this what they were going to do. But I am
- 44:38Speaker 22: intelligent enough to know that after twenty two years of
- 44:42Speaker 22: a show, there's no way you can actually do a
- 44:45Speaker 22: positive documentary speaking about the way this woman truly changed
- 44:49Speaker 22: the modeling game without talking to the people that helped
- 44:53Speaker 22: do so. So I kind of knew they were going
- 44:55Speaker 22: to kind of skew it in a way that wasn't
- 44:57Speaker 22: that was a bit biased. And I'm not here to
- 45:00Speaker 22: say that that Tyra's perfect, But I will be the
- 45:02Speaker 22: first person to say I rock hard body with Tyra
- 45:06Speaker 22: Limbanks that because we most likely all have positive things
- 45:11Speaker 22: to say and so you can't a documentary or either
- 45:14Speaker 22: they didn't call it to Kara, I believe.
- 45:17Speaker 10: I'm not sure if they called Yah y'ah to do
- 45:20Speaker 10: it or not.
- 45:20Speaker 5: But I tried to do an interview.
- 45:22Speaker 18: I mean I reached out to your rep prior to
- 45:25Speaker 18: it and he said that you wanted to watch it
- 45:27Speaker 18: to Ya y'all's team and they said, no, she's not
- 45:29Speaker 18: doing the Top Model conversation me and so Car did
- 45:31Speaker 18: an interview. But one of the things that I saw,
- 45:33Speaker 18: because I saw you do the interview with with the
- 45:36Speaker 18: CBS Mornings, you won't see Yes Marnings and people were
- 45:40Speaker 18: upset about the feeling like you were defending some of
- 45:43Speaker 18: the things that happened in the interview, even though you
- 45:45Speaker 18: said you were horrified.
- 45:47Speaker 5: How do you feel when you see that?
- 45:48Speaker 18: Because I know you've said Tyra has done so much
- 45:50Speaker 18: for me, You're not going to get me to a
- 45:51Speaker 18: point where I'm doing what we see a lot of
- 45:53Speaker 18: the other girls.
- 45:54Speaker 22: It's not more and so about how much she's done
- 45:56Speaker 22: for me, It's about how much Tyra has done as
- 45:58Speaker 22: a whole. I think that we as onlookers with media journalists.
- 46:04Speaker 22: I think it's very easy to look on the outside
- 46:06Speaker 22: end and to point and call a flaw, especially years
- 46:12Speaker 22: and eons later. If I was to look back at
- 46:15Speaker 22: Golden Girls the first three episodes, they had a very,
- 46:18Speaker 22: very cute and flamboyant gay man who absolutely disappeared after
- 46:23Speaker 22: episode four, where is said best friend?
- 46:26Speaker 10: He's nowhere.
- 46:28Speaker 22: The world wasn't ready for it. We don't talk about it,
- 46:31Speaker 22: we don't deal with it.
- 46:32Speaker 16: Now.
- 46:32Speaker 22: If we look at today's landscape about diversity and inclusion
- 46:36Speaker 22: and where we should be, look at Friends. It took
- 46:39Speaker 22: what eight seasons for them to get a black girlfriend,
- 46:42Speaker 22: and it was Ayisha. I mean, we can look back
- 46:45Speaker 22: at a lot of projects and think about where we
- 46:48Speaker 22: were and look at where we are, what we can affect,
- 46:51Speaker 22: and where we can go. But I think that we
- 46:54Speaker 22: don't do ourselves a proper service when we look at
- 46:56Speaker 22: something like Top Model, which was so historic, that was
- 47:00Speaker 22: a brainchild of a very audacious young woman that decided
- 47:04Speaker 22: to go out and do something great. Did she stumble
- 47:07Speaker 22: along the way. I don't see anybody at the Olympics.
- 47:10Speaker 10: Who didn't stumble. We all stumble that it means to
- 47:13Speaker 10: heirs to be human.
- 47:14Speaker 22: But I think that it's very easy to point a
- 47:17Speaker 22: finger it's but it's hard, and it's easy to say
- 47:21Speaker 22: all the people's flaws.
- 47:23Speaker 10: But what good did she do? I know what good
- 47:25Speaker 10: she did.
- 47:25Speaker 22: Winnie Harlowe was wearing the runways out. I have multiple businesses,
- 47:31Speaker 22: organization things that I do and despite what I've had
- 47:34Speaker 22: to hurtle over. I mean, Kerrie Washington had to hurtle
- 47:38Speaker 22: over and she didn't do top models, So I counted
- 47:41Speaker 22: all joy I'm not.
- 47:42Speaker 5: I don't.
- 47:43Speaker 22: I don't live in the woes of yesterday. We all
- 47:45Speaker 22: have our trauma. The beauty of me is that I've
- 47:47Speaker 22: healed from mine.
- 47:48Speaker 5: Haven't talked to Tyer since the doc because she hasn't
- 47:50Speaker 5: said anything.
- 47:51Speaker 22: I haven't talked to her since the documentary. I went
- 47:54Speaker 22: to lunch with mister Jay just the other day and
- 47:57Speaker 22: we chatted for a while.
- 48:00Speaker 10: Yeah.
- 48:01Speaker 22: I feel for everybody a part of the documentary because
- 48:07Speaker 22: they don't know what life is like to live under scrutiny.
- 48:11Speaker 22: You know, I know, y'all know, but most don't know
- 48:15Speaker 22: that are in the early two thousands, what it really
- 48:18Speaker 22: feels like to get troll daily.
- 48:21Speaker 18: How's mister j holding up too, because now the conversation
- 48:24Speaker 18: I saw a publicist, what's her name, Katron. She made
- 48:28Speaker 18: a statement that said, basically, like he does this every
- 48:31Speaker 18: few years to try and get his name in the
- 48:33Speaker 18: media and throw things tivers away in a negative way.
- 48:36Speaker 5: So bad about it.
- 48:37Speaker 18: And that's been a conversation about because how their friendship ended,
- 48:40Speaker 18: and like, what are his intentions?
- 48:43Speaker 5: You know, is he just telling his story?
- 48:44Speaker 22: Watching the documentary I learned about the friendship. I had
- 48:48Speaker 22: absolutely no idea, per my understanding. These are, you know,
- 48:52Speaker 22: like besties like me and my best to be rock
- 48:54Speaker 22: hard to the core. So I had no idea about
- 48:57Speaker 22: the severance him wanting to leave and then sang and
- 49:00Speaker 22: then kind of maybe feeling like he might be blackball,
- 49:04Speaker 22: Like that was all big news to me. I think
- 49:08Speaker 22: it's I think it's sad. I'm a loyalist. I'm a
- 49:11Speaker 22: scorpio to the core. Unless you do something just absolutely egregious,
- 49:16Speaker 22: we're gonna rock this thing to the wills fall off.
- 49:18Speaker 22: And so to watch this all play out. He wrote
- 49:23Speaker 22: a book called The Bitch to model the Meltdown a
- 49:26Speaker 22: while ago. It's a novel, and I mean his experience
- 49:31Speaker 22: is his experience. I I use the word go smacked
- 49:35Speaker 22: because I.
- 49:38Speaker 1: She said she was god smack. Why, I'm like, I
- 49:44Speaker 1: ain't never heard you talk like that. It felt like
- 49:46Speaker 1: you was on was it CBS this morning? I'm like,
- 49:48Speaker 1: why is she going to see this morning and coach
- 49:50Speaker 1: with you a little bit?
- 49:51Speaker 10: No, I didn't coach it.
- 49:52Speaker 3: I was.
- 49:52Speaker 10: I was bamboos, but I was let as straight out.
- 49:57Speaker 10: I said that first first.
- 49:59Speaker 22: Yeah, I said all of those things, But you also
- 50:03Speaker 22: have to realize, Charlevgne, I went to school for speech communication.
- 50:07Speaker 10: Speech is actually what I do. Vernacular is my thing.
- 50:15Speaker 10: On the Ricky Smiley Morning Show, they called me some
- 50:17Speaker 10: little more sill like. I enjoy words.
- 50:20Speaker 22: I enjoy syllables beyond monosyllabic English that were used to
- 50:24Speaker 22: I think we as people have a way of being
- 50:28Speaker 22: extremely expressive and a lot of things we do, and
- 50:31Speaker 22: I think that words should be one that.
- 50:33Speaker 10: We exercise more oftenly.
- 50:35Speaker 7: So I was.
- 50:37Speaker 10: I couldn't find a word beyond a curse word.
- 50:40Speaker 21: I was.
- 50:41Speaker 10: I was in awe because to find out that you
- 50:44Speaker 10: were a part of a situation and had no clue,
- 50:48Speaker 10: it was just a bunch of a bunch of hibble giggle.
- 50:53Speaker 10: It was just it was and and and flabbergastari and
- 50:58Speaker 10: and I was just.
- 51:01Speaker 5: Gibble, Yeah, yeah, I was.
- 51:02Speaker 10: Taking it back.
- 51:04Speaker 1: You know, there's been a lot of conversation in recent
- 51:06Speaker 1: years about reality TV and mental health, like when you
- 51:09Speaker 1: look back, what did this show get wrong? Especially with
- 51:12Speaker 1: like young women?
- 51:14Speaker 10: Oh so many?
- 51:15Speaker 13: How long do we have?
- 51:18Speaker 22: I think what what we forget is that A we
- 51:22Speaker 22: were all young. We were very very young, and we
- 51:25Speaker 22: were very impressionable. And though even ken Max says this
- 51:29Speaker 22: show gave us a promise of a dream and of
- 51:32Speaker 22: a career, I think there's somewhere inside of ourselves that
- 51:35Speaker 22: we knew that that wasn't really true.
- 51:39Speaker 10: And not saying that.
- 51:41Speaker 22: The business wasn't something that we could do, but there's
- 51:44Speaker 22: just no way that all of us were going to
- 51:46Speaker 22: end up being these huge, big stars. And so I
- 51:49Speaker 22: think that I prepared myself mentally early on, like if
- 51:54Speaker 22: this doesn't work out, what do I do?
- 51:57Speaker 10: I wouldn't be gobsmacked. I was going back to college.
- 52:01Speaker 2: Brutally honest.
- 52:02Speaker 6: That bad, you know, because sometimes people need to hear
- 52:05Speaker 6: honesty in a place where people are being truthful to.
- 52:08Speaker 22: The truthful and honesty and hurt are are all different things,
- 52:13Speaker 22: and you always have that girlfriend.
- 52:15Speaker 10: That's like, oh girl, I was just keeping it real. No,
- 52:17Speaker 10: you were being very mean.
- 52:18Speaker 2: Sometimes people need to hear that.
- 52:20Speaker 1: Or truth without compassion is cruelty.
- 52:21Speaker 22: It is true, and and I think that we make
- 52:24Speaker 22: a great excuse to be honest while being extremely mean
- 52:29Speaker 22: and extremely hurtful. And so Janie Dickinson for an example,
- 52:34Speaker 22: I won the show, and I remember after winning, she
- 52:37Speaker 22: was like, thank God, now you can finally get your
- 52:39Speaker 22: nose job Jesus, and I quickly went to a mirror.
- 52:43Speaker 22: Didn't realize I had a nose issue at all. I
- 52:46Speaker 22: knew that I was too short, I knew I was androgynoust,
- 52:49Speaker 22: so they called me a man woman all these things.
- 52:52Speaker 10: But now I'm oh yeah, as I was so scared
- 52:56Speaker 10: to cut my hair shorter and go blonde because they
- 52:59Speaker 10: came on the.
- 52:59Speaker 5: Show, it was like your vibe was very like la cool,
- 53:02Speaker 5: like tomboyish.
- 53:03Speaker 22: I mean, I'm still here in a suit and like,
- 53:06Speaker 22: that's just I have three brothers, That's how I get down.
- 53:08Speaker 18: So you felt the way because that was your storyline
- 53:11Speaker 18: on the show, and they leaned into it, and you
- 53:12Speaker 18: were so confident on the show. I didn't know you
- 53:14Speaker 18: felt away about them calling you those I didn't know
- 53:18Speaker 18: I was mainly attracted them until I went to college.
- 53:21Speaker 18: I was walking down the quads and said, god.
- 53:24Speaker 10: Damn, trying to read. And I remember saying, is that a.
- 53:31Speaker 22: Good thing or a bad thing? And he also said,
- 53:34Speaker 22: if I ate a little bit more, I'll be fine.
- 53:37Speaker 7: Yeah.
- 53:38Speaker 22: Yet, but I didn't really have an idea of like
- 53:41Speaker 22: what aesthetics were and what men were into and all
- 53:44Speaker 22: that stuff until school. My confidence lied in the fact
- 53:47Speaker 22: that I knew who I was. My parents were very militant.
- 53:51Speaker 22: The computer room was exactly that because we read Encyclopaedia Britannic,
- 53:54Speaker 22: because every single day, book report, every single day. To
- 53:59Speaker 22: be to to I had to study, show myself approved,
- 54:02Speaker 22: like all all the time, straight A's, Dean's less scholarships.
- 54:06Speaker 12: That was That was me.
- 54:08Speaker 18: So the nose job then like that conversation, so you
- 54:11Speaker 18: took you looked in the mirror, and then what happens
- 54:13Speaker 18: following all the stuff.
- 54:15Speaker 22: I definitely had a male complex about my nose. Couldn't
- 54:19Speaker 22: figure out. I didn't see what was wrong, so I
- 54:21Speaker 22: didn't know what to make right, which was the hardest part.
- 54:24Speaker 22: Like you know, like say, like your hair is cut,
- 54:26Speaker 22: but you got a little piece right here, like you know,
- 54:28Speaker 22: you need to cut that piece.
- 54:29Speaker 10: I didn't know what to do. Your hair is bombed.
- 54:33Speaker 10: Don't listen to him. You can grow hair.
- 54:37Speaker 5: So there's that.
- 54:39Speaker 22: Okay, it's my choice, not by force.
- 54:45Speaker 5: I know that's right. Last time you were here, we
- 54:48Speaker 5: get into all that because you got some updates too.
- 54:50Speaker 22: We do have some up dates, but we want to
- 54:51Speaker 22: talk about getting push off this plane because said not
- 54:54Speaker 22: really wanted to hear.
- 54:57Speaker 10: Well because they lean into each other.
- 54:59Speaker 22: Yeah, so last time I was here, I was kind
- 55:01Speaker 22: of giving you an update on love and where I
- 55:03Speaker 22: was at. I was not in the most positive place,
- 55:05Speaker 22: which is this is one of the few stops I
- 55:07Speaker 22: made because I knew that I would reach all my
- 55:10Speaker 22: people and that you guys would hander me with a
- 55:13Speaker 22: nice glove.
- 55:14Speaker 2: Kid gloves shed sluss.
- 55:17Speaker 10: No, I wasn't kid gloves, y'all. I had a couple
- 55:19Speaker 10: of little one too.
- 55:20Speaker 22: But you know I had Lauren over here or so
- 55:22Speaker 22: I knew I was strip. But this movie, it reminds
- 55:26Speaker 22: me of a lot of spaces that a lot of
- 55:28Speaker 22: us Black women are in.
- 55:29Speaker 2: Women plane and survive.
- 55:32Speaker 22: So push off a plane and Survives about a woman
- 55:34Speaker 22: named Jane, who is in her late thirties early forties,
- 55:38Speaker 22: serial entrepreneur, all about her business, all about her money.
- 55:42Speaker 22: She owns three different hair salons. Dore's extremely well for herself.
- 55:47Speaker 22: The one thing she has never focused on is love.
- 55:51Speaker 22: So finally you get to that age and you're like
- 55:54Speaker 22: late thirties, early forties, You're like, maybe I want a man,
- 55:57Speaker 22: maybe I want kids, maybe I want all these things.
- 56:00Speaker 22: And so she goes on the dating gaps and all
- 56:01Speaker 22: the stuff, and she's trying to find love and she
- 56:04Speaker 22: meets a guy Tyler Lepley cool yes Cole for this movie.
- 56:10Speaker 22: And this is not colon I' first rendezvous. We did
- 56:13Speaker 22: a film before called Buried Alive and survived. So for
- 56:16Speaker 22: whatever reason, I love being.
- 56:18Speaker 10: Tortured by him.
- 56:19Speaker 7: I do well.
- 56:20Speaker 10: See, you know that's the black woman in me.
- 56:22Speaker 22: We're gonna survive. You're gonna knock us down, but we're
- 56:24Speaker 22: gonna get up. And so get pushed off of plane.
- 56:27Speaker 22: His weird hobby is that he likes skydiving, and instead
- 56:31Speaker 22: of being a prude, I like pickleball. So instead of
- 56:34Speaker 22: playing pickleball, decide the skydive, which was the best and
- 56:38Speaker 22: worst decision of My Life. You have to tune into
- 56:40Speaker 22: it on Saturday, February twenty eighth on Lifetime eight pm,
- 56:44Speaker 22: seventh Central. It's going down. Tyler Lepley and I back
- 56:49Speaker 22: in love again.
- 56:50Speaker 4: But I feel like the movie is a lesson about
- 56:52Speaker 4: trusting someone too soon as an accomplished woman, right.
- 56:56Speaker 22: But see the question truly is just when it is
- 56:59Speaker 22: too soon? Because there is one of my favorite scenes
- 57:02Speaker 22: in the movie is he asks me, uh to stand
- 57:05Speaker 22: on this this this ledge and fall backward? And you
- 57:09Speaker 22: ever seen that like that trust fall? Yes, I ain't
- 57:12Speaker 22: no way I'm falling backward. And we didn't have stunts,
- 57:16Speaker 22: we didn't have a pat down. And I've worked with
- 57:18Speaker 22: Tyler before. I'm a little denser than I look, so
- 57:21Speaker 22: I think I'm a little.
- 57:22Speaker 10: Heavier and he caught me.
- 57:24Speaker 22: And it's that feeling of trust, that letting go and
- 57:28Speaker 22: knowing that someone has you and not because you can
- 57:31Speaker 22: feel it, but because you don't fall. And I think
- 57:35Speaker 22: that is what she's searching for, that high of jumping
- 57:40Speaker 22: and not actually hitting the ground.
- 57:44Speaker 10: Do you have that they can?
- 57:46Speaker 7: You know?
- 57:46Speaker 22: My wedding song was that Leela James has a song
- 57:49Speaker 22: catch Me. I'm falling for you, and it speaks about
- 57:54Speaker 22: I'm ready, I'm about to jump now. I need you
- 57:57Speaker 22: down there because I do not want to fall, but
- 57:59Speaker 22: I do want to take this jump. And so I
- 58:02Speaker 22: think this is what this movie is about. And honestly,
- 58:05Speaker 22: sometimes you get it wrong and sometimes you get it right.
- 58:07Speaker 22: But the biggest part that I took away from it
- 58:11Speaker 22: is that most of the time you're going to get
- 58:13Speaker 22: it wrong. Ninety nine percent of the people you date
- 58:16Speaker 22: you will not be with forever. So get back on
- 58:19Speaker 22: that horse.
- 58:20Speaker 10: Try it again.
- 58:21Speaker 4: What about the reverse psychology and all the tactics, the manipulation.
- 58:25Speaker 10: And that's not your guy. If any of that stuff exists,
- 58:29Speaker 10: that's not your person. No, but see Cole he he.
- 58:35Speaker 22: The flags were there a lot of times. The flags
- 58:38Speaker 22: are there. You have you have sage council. Your homegirl
- 58:41Speaker 22: is like, friend, I am not feeling this.
- 58:44Speaker 10: You know this is crazy. My sister in this.
- 58:46Speaker 22: Movie she knew it. But she also was so close
- 58:50Speaker 22: to me. None of my relationships worked out. She used
- 58:53Speaker 22: to bet on my dates like this ain't gonna work.
- 58:56Speaker 10: Got twenty dollars. He's you know, he's a dud. So
- 59:00Speaker 10: there's that too.
- 59:01Speaker 22: You just have to believe in yourself, trust your instincts,
- 59:04Speaker 22: and keep your friends close because when he doesn't work out,
- 59:08Speaker 22: she will still be there.
- 59:09Speaker 5: So you're where you are right now in life.
- 59:11Speaker 18: In real life, it does parallel because I know you
- 59:14Speaker 18: and Mike got back together, and y'all are together, and
- 59:16Speaker 18: that is your forever.
- 59:17Speaker 5: We saw the like you know, well, he.
- 59:18Speaker 22: Will always be my forever because we have children together.
- 59:22Speaker 22: We have three amazing kids, and there is no life
- 59:27Speaker 22: without him since we've had them, so we're always forever.
- 59:30Speaker 22: I think that since the divorce, and because I'm not
- 59:34Speaker 22: very public and not a first strap kind of girl,
- 59:37Speaker 22: and you know, a lot of pictures up there, the
- 59:39Speaker 22: world's wondering, like what's going on, and we are at
- 59:42Speaker 22: a beautiful place. I think the first time the world's
- 59:45Speaker 22: aways together again was in essence. I was down there
- 59:49Speaker 22: hosting the main stage, and he was free.
- 59:51Speaker 5: And everybody was excited for you.
- 59:52Speaker 22: Also, because we love black love, we love love, especially
- 59:57Speaker 22: family unity. You know, Mike was adopted, and so when
- 1:00:01Speaker 22: it comes to what family looks like and what DNA
- 1:00:04Speaker 22: looks like and titles, we don't find ourselves too caught
- 1:00:07Speaker 22: up on that. I think that that's what kind of
- 1:00:09Speaker 22: hurt to begin with. Anybody that's dated for a long
- 1:00:12Speaker 22: time then got married. You realize things changed, but nothing
- 1:00:14Speaker 22: really changed but the title. But now you feel the
- 1:00:17Speaker 22: pressure to change things. All that stuff is gone. All
- 1:00:20Speaker 22: that's gone, and I am the beautiful mother of his
- 1:00:23Speaker 22: amazing children. He is amazing father to our children, and
- 1:00:27Speaker 22: we have a great relationship.
- 1:00:29Speaker 5: Real quick, What was the hardest thing about filming the movie?
- 1:00:31Speaker 22: Because you have and you okay, so the hardest thing
- 1:00:34Speaker 22: about filming this film? And shout out to Lifetime because
- 1:00:37Speaker 22: Lifetime is not going to give you a little stage
- 1:00:40Speaker 22: and make it pretty.
- 1:00:41Speaker 10: They want to get as gritty as possible. So two scenes.
- 1:00:46Speaker 22: One my drowning scene, because you can't fake drown Yeah,
- 1:00:51Speaker 22: so you have to really drown. So the drowning scene
- 1:00:54Speaker 22: was absolutely insane. And then being pushed off the plane
- 1:01:01Speaker 22: and the falling and the debris and being under oh
- 1:01:04Speaker 22: my goodness to special.
- 1:01:07Speaker 10: No it was real deal.
- 1:01:08Speaker 6: No, no, no, you mean they sent us the green
- 1:01:11Speaker 6: screen is stilling it on second Oh it won't be.
- 1:01:18Speaker 5: Saturday, can't get you.
- 1:01:20Speaker 10: What's what happened?
- 1:01:23Speaker 22: Charlemagne the god you happen to have the luxury of
- 1:01:26Speaker 22: getting the screenair prior to so there are certain VFX
- 1:01:30Speaker 22: and if you could appreciate the writer strike that we
- 1:01:33Speaker 22: just had, there's a lot of AI and VFX that
- 1:01:35Speaker 22: go into production now. So you got to see some
- 1:01:39Speaker 22: of the first cut, gotch and the world will see
- 1:01:43Speaker 22: the final cut on February the twenty eighth, on this
- 1:01:46Speaker 22: good Saturday. Get your popcorn, get your girls, grab your friends,
- 1:01:49Speaker 22: whatever your drink or non drink of choice is, get ready.
- 1:01:54Speaker 5: I'm like, if an't worried about doing press right now
- 1:01:56Speaker 5: because she won't get through the.
- 1:01:58Speaker 2: Well, definitely check it out.
- 1:02:00Speaker 1: Was the star earlier when when the producers of American
- 1:02:05Speaker 1: Next Time, I don't know what they were doing. And
- 1:02:06Speaker 1: that's why I say, you can't stop a star from
- 1:02:08Speaker 1: being a star, regardless of what the platform is that
- 1:02:11Speaker 1: you know causes them.
- 1:02:12Speaker 10: To take one to know one.
- 1:02:14Speaker 15: You have been.
- 1:02:15Speaker 10: I'll see you out here. Appreciate congratulations the two.
- 1:02:19Speaker 18: Hundred million shut up period, Jesus, I love a world exactly.
- 1:02:27Speaker 2: You don't do that.
- 1:02:28Speaker 18: Don't require just because he told you know, because I
- 1:02:31Speaker 18: got what I need to get out and he mad now,
- 1:02:33Speaker 18: so it's fine And.
- 1:02:36Speaker 5: It looked just like his happy face.
- 1:02:37Speaker 2: He's just angry Jesus Christ, even myself. Ladies and gentlemen,
- 1:02:40Speaker 2: m me myself down.
- 1:02:41Speaker 5: I'm being myself.
- 1:02:46Speaker 18: I'm the home guy that knows a little bit about
- 1:02:47Speaker 18: everything and everything the little brown girls.
- 1:02:51Speaker 1: Look at you, and I want to do like take
- 1:02:53Speaker 1: me that me that the ladies.
- 1:03:01Speaker 20: Talk to me.
- 1:03:04Speaker 5: Before we start the hour.
- 1:03:05Speaker 18: I wanted to update so last latest I mentioned Chris
- 1:03:09Speaker 18: Bosh wrote about his experience in his book, but he
- 1:03:12Speaker 18: actually wrote about on his substack. He still doesn't tell
- 1:03:14Speaker 18: you what happened to him, like what the cause was,
- 1:03:16Speaker 18: but that's on his substack, which he has linked on
- 1:03:19Speaker 18: his Instagram. Yeah, didn't want to update that there. Okay,
- 1:03:22Speaker 18: so let's get into lamar Oldham. So lamar Odam sat
- 1:03:25Speaker 18: down with Tracy McGrady and Vince Carter and on their
- 1:03:28Speaker 18: Cousins podcast and they're having a conversation about like his
- 1:03:31Speaker 18: journey in basketball, but also about his addiction or previous addictions,
- 1:03:36Speaker 18: which lamar Odam is very open about, and he says
- 1:03:39Speaker 18: he loving drugs messed up his career.
- 1:03:41Speaker 5: Let's take a listen to lamar Odom.
- 1:03:43Speaker 23: Keep it real, ch I love I love drugs. You're
- 1:03:45Speaker 23: talking to a real at hard drugs. I mean, b
- 1:03:48Speaker 23: I want smiff cocaine. If I ain't got to play ball,
- 1:03:51Speaker 23: let me, I don't have no responsibility. Did you do
- 1:03:53Speaker 23: drugs while you were playing?
- 1:03:54Speaker 7: Nah?
- 1:03:55Speaker 23: This was summertime. I did though, Yeah, yeah on front summertime.
- 1:03:59Speaker 23: So not doing No, I had some great so saying
- 1:04:02Speaker 23: summers dude. You know, if you get caught for sniff
- 1:04:04Speaker 23: and cocaine, that's spend that's going to be crazy.
- 1:04:06Speaker 1: You think that had an effect on your.
- 1:04:09Speaker 8: Overall how good?
- 1:04:10Speaker 7: Yeah?
- 1:04:11Speaker 23: Yeah, one hundred. I should be where y'all at in
- 1:04:14Speaker 23: the fame. No, you feel what I'm saying. You great talent.
- 1:04:17Speaker 23: I had people come to me before before I made
- 1:04:19Speaker 23: it to the NBA. Listen, bro, I was like thirteen
- 1:04:22Speaker 23: years old like that, Yo, you a Hall of Famer.
- 1:04:24Speaker 1: I respect Lamo Old him so much. The reason I
- 1:04:26Speaker 1: respect Lamo Old Him so much because smart people learn
- 1:04:28Speaker 1: from their own mistakes. Wise people learn from the mistakes
- 1:04:30Speaker 1: of others. He is so open about all his his
- 1:04:34Speaker 1: his the hurdles that he had, the overcoming life. He's
- 1:04:36Speaker 1: so open about his drug use. He's so open about
- 1:04:38Speaker 1: how it impacted him. You can learn so much just
- 1:04:40Speaker 1: listening from them. You can learn what not to do.
- 1:04:42Speaker 2: That's what I'm learned from himself though. That's the main thing.
- 1:04:45Speaker 24: You know.
- 1:04:45Speaker 5: Yeah, I think he's trying.
- 1:04:47Speaker 18: I mean he's yeah, Yeah, I think addiction is something
- 1:04:50Speaker 18: that you know, you got to continue to like work
- 1:04:52Speaker 18: on physically by doing things like rehabbing. Remember he had
- 1:04:55Speaker 18: checked into that rehair program. I just saw a report
- 1:04:57Speaker 18: that he had checked out after thirty days. And the
- 1:04:59Speaker 18: reason why he even checked in it is because he
- 1:05:02Speaker 18: just wanted to make sure he was sitting on the
- 1:05:03Speaker 18: path he needed to be on after the whole d
- 1:05:05Speaker 18: u Y situation.
- 1:05:06Speaker 1: Everybody the way, if you beat, if you, if you
- 1:05:09Speaker 1: as long as you ain't smoking the crack, no more
- 1:05:10Speaker 1: leaving the Coca loa, And okay, we don't want you
- 1:05:13Speaker 1: having a drink catching Duys either, but if you can,
- 1:05:15Speaker 1: if you're beating the hard stuff, you gotta give him
- 1:05:18Speaker 1: some points.
- 1:05:18Speaker 6: But it's always there's always a possibility that he can
- 1:05:21Speaker 6: go back, right because they always say that the smaller
- 1:05:23Speaker 6: stuff is a gateway to the biggest.
- 1:05:24Speaker 2: But I never smoke crack. I've been cracked.
- 1:05:27Speaker 6: I've never had no type of drugs, cocaine, none of that,
- 1:05:30Speaker 6: non nose is clear.
- 1:05:32Speaker 7: What was that?
- 1:05:34Speaker 4: I get what, I get what you saying, though, you know,
- 1:05:37Speaker 4: you hope you learned from himself, because he was reminiscent,
- 1:05:41Speaker 4: like it sounded like he was you know what I'm saying,
- 1:05:42Speaker 4: like he missed it a little bit, you know, like
- 1:05:44Speaker 4: he was liking it a little bit, because he did
- 1:05:45Speaker 4: say I had some some some pretty good coke hummers,
- 1:05:49Speaker 4: and we.
- 1:05:49Speaker 1: Ain't never did it. I smoked coke once in a
- 1:05:52Speaker 1: blunt with some weed, but I didn't know it. I
- 1:05:53Speaker 1: didn't know it, but I might do it again by accident.
- 1:05:55Speaker 1: But listen to me. But we've never smoked cracks, so
- 1:05:59Speaker 1: we don't know. When he described it, it might make
- 1:06:01Speaker 1: his mouth water. How you know, ain't nobody have a
- 1:06:03Speaker 1: smoke cray.
- 1:06:04Speaker 5: I haven't wanted you to confirm what well I mean.
- 1:06:08Speaker 18: I do want to mention him going to that rehab
- 1:06:11Speaker 18: center is also leading it to him doing some work
- 1:06:13Speaker 18: where it's going to help other people. So Lamar is
- 1:06:15Speaker 18: starting to work on a company now called Helio dot
- 1:06:18Speaker 18: Co and it's an AI powered nationwide search platform that
- 1:06:21Speaker 18: is designed to connect people to every type of wellness
- 1:06:23Speaker 18: and treatment center in the country.
- 1:06:25Speaker 5: So he's he's been trying to figure that out.
- 1:06:26Speaker 18: As well to helping other people because he knows the
- 1:06:28Speaker 18: journey isn't like linear, it's something that you got to
- 1:06:30Speaker 18: keep doing.
- 1:06:31Speaker 1: Lu keep telling your story, okay, because him telling this
- 1:06:35Speaker 1: story is such a it's going to help so many
- 1:06:37Speaker 1: other story.
- 1:06:38Speaker 6: But I just want to make sure he's okay. Like,
- 1:06:40Speaker 6: I don't want to see another duhy. I don't want
- 1:06:41Speaker 6: to see another problem another is shot. I love the
- 1:06:43Speaker 6: fact that he tells a story, but I just want
- 1:06:45Speaker 6: to make sure he gets to help that he needs
- 1:06:46Speaker 6: because we.
- 1:06:46Speaker 8: Need that brother around.
- 1:06:47Speaker 5: I get you well.
- 1:06:48Speaker 18: And a real quick update before we wrap up the hour.
- 1:06:50Speaker 18: So remember that hunted Hunter College professor Allison Friedman that
- 1:06:54Speaker 18: you gave Dounky of the Day too for the racist
- 1:06:56Speaker 18: remarks that she made on that zoom call. Yeah, so
- 1:06:58Speaker 18: there's been a little update here. So there was a
- 1:07:00Speaker 18: letter posted to the college's website from the president and
- 1:07:03Speaker 18: professor of the psychology department that let people know that
- 1:07:06Speaker 18: they have after their investigation, they are now placing Alison
- 1:07:09Speaker 18: on leave. Now they don't specify whether it's a pay
- 1:07:12Speaker 18: leave or not definitely, but they say that they're placing
- 1:07:15Speaker 18: her on leave and they stated, as I shared earlier,
- 1:07:19Speaker 18: they're investigating this matter under the university's applical applicable conduct
- 1:07:23Speaker 18: and non discrimination policies. And how ironic that this is
- 1:07:27Speaker 18: happening during Black History Month in this call was to
- 1:07:29Speaker 18: talk about that Black History Month and anti black systematic
- 1:07:33Speaker 18: racism and education.
- 1:07:34Speaker 1: You better blame it on coporate. What's that thing? Corporate?
- 1:07:39Speaker 5: Get it?
- 1:07:40Speaker 1: Corporate corp crack. I think people, I think if we
- 1:07:46Speaker 1: understood that more people are on cocaine, then we would,
- 1:07:50Speaker 1: you know, have a little bit more grace, a lot
- 1:07:52Speaker 1: more people. Don't be saying that. A lot of people
- 1:07:54Speaker 1: don't talk about the cocaine.
- 1:07:56Speaker 2: Yeah, but they on it for a reason.
- 1:07:57Speaker 4: I mean, nay, if you want cocaine, because when you're
- 1:08:01Speaker 4: taking it, because you want to take it.
- 1:08:02Speaker 1: So you know what I'm saying. When you when you
- 1:08:04Speaker 1: hear stories like this woman Alice, You're like, what the
- 1:08:06Speaker 1: hell was wrong her? She didn't know, she wasn't on
- 1:08:09Speaker 1: mute talking all crazy like that. She probably was high
- 1:08:11Speaker 1: as half, but she.
- 1:08:12Speaker 5: Shouldn't have did that and got on zoom. That's what
- 1:08:14Speaker 5: I'm saying. You you got to know when to take
- 1:08:16Speaker 5: the coke, like I But.
- 1:08:17Speaker 4: I'm saying I wouldn't take the coke before I had
- 1:08:22Speaker 4: a zoom.
- 1:08:22Speaker 1: Let me give you example. I come in here and
- 1:08:24Speaker 1: I know just be high, so I expect, but just
- 1:08:27Speaker 1: to say high things.
- 1:08:28Speaker 2: And marijuana high.
- 1:08:30Speaker 5: Yeah, I don't put it out there like that because
- 1:08:33Speaker 5: the niggas right.
- 1:08:34Speaker 2: Yeah, because you can't.
- 1:08:37Speaker 8: You can't just go for crack the coke.
- 1:08:39Speaker 1: Did you like when you know that somebody hi, you
- 1:08:43Speaker 1: deal with them accordingly, or when you know somebody got
- 1:08:45Speaker 1: an ailment, you deal with them according was.
- 1:08:48Speaker 2: A party drive? I think you talk. You take that part.
- 1:08:50Speaker 2: That's I don't know.
- 1:08:52Speaker 1: I know crack is fried cocaine because you know black people,
- 1:08:54Speaker 1: we love the fried things. So somebody at one white
- 1:08:56Speaker 1: decided to fry and here came this nice piece of rock.
- 1:09:01Speaker 2: Jesus Christ, that's the latest, Lady.
- 1:09:04Speaker 5: That's actually funny, Yo, some deep fried coke.
- 1:09:09Speaker 7: Just crack.
- 1:09:10Speaker 1: That's crazy.
- 1:09:10Speaker 2: We give you your donk.
- 1:09:11Speaker 7: Man.
- 1:09:12Speaker 1: Man, I need Bill Gates to come to the front
- 1:09:13Speaker 1: of the Congress because I've been thinking about this story
- 1:09:15Speaker 1: all morning. This man is worth one hundred and seven
- 1:09:17Speaker 1: billion dollars and he just confessed that he cheated with
- 1:09:21Speaker 1: two Russian women. We gotta discuss.
- 1:09:24Speaker 6: Okay, we have to discuss, all right, and then after
- 1:09:27Speaker 6: like that, I'm just just you know, all right, just
- 1:09:31Speaker 6: fix my mess. If you need relationship advice to any
- 1:09:33Speaker 6: type of advice, you can get on the phone lunch
- 1:09:34Speaker 6: right now, it's the breakfast club.
- 1:09:36Speaker 2: Good morning.
- 1:09:36Speaker 5: Don't be out here at you like a donkey, bitch.
- 1:09:41Speaker 8: It's time for Donkey of the day. I'm a big boy.
- 1:09:43Speaker 1: I could take it if you feel I deserve it.
- 1:09:45Speaker 2: Ain't no big deal, I know, Charlottageae, God have his mouth.
- 1:09:48Speaker 1: You got to say something you may not agree with.
- 1:09:50Speaker 1: Doesn't mean I'm mean who's getting that donky donkey?
- 1:09:52Speaker 2: That don't don't don't U donk the other day?
- 1:09:55Speaker 1: Right the breakfast club, bitch, you you can call.
- 1:09:59Speaker 7: Me the.
- 1:10:01Speaker 17: I mean.
- 1:10:06Speaker 1: Donk Here today for Thursday, February twenty six goals to
- 1:10:09Speaker 1: one of the most financially wealthy men walking God's green Earth,
- 1:10:12Speaker 1: and that is William Henry Gates, the Third commonly known
- 1:10:15Speaker 1: as Bill. Yes, Bill Gates. Bill is worth like one
- 1:10:18Speaker 1: hundred and seven billion dollars. Okay, but he is proven
- 1:10:22Speaker 1: that he's just as basic as the rest of us,
- 1:10:24Speaker 1: all right, No matter how smart, how rich you are,
- 1:10:28Speaker 1: you are not immune from bad judgment and the love
- 1:10:30Speaker 1: of poom boom okay. Bill has been having a rough
- 1:10:32Speaker 1: few weeks all right, ever since his name popped up
- 1:10:34Speaker 1: in the Epstein Files. Now a couple of weeks ago,
- 1:10:37Speaker 1: my guy Andrew Shultz, you know, I do a brillion
- 1:10:39Speaker 1: of this podcast with my man Andrew Shultz, he said
- 1:10:41Speaker 1: something about Bill Gates being in the Epstein Files that
- 1:10:44Speaker 1: stuck with me. He said, who are they trying to protect?
- 1:10:47Speaker 1: That they would give up Bill Gates in the first
- 1:10:50Speaker 1: round of Epstein file releases. They didn't waste no time
- 1:10:53Speaker 1: letting Bill Gates Epstein files fly. Okay, all the other
- 1:10:55Speaker 1: names that were redacted, why not the name of the
- 1:10:59Speaker 1: one of the world's wealth healthiest men. Well, there really
- 1:11:02Speaker 1: might be something to that, because Bill is doing what
- 1:11:04Speaker 1: we call throwing yourself on the mercy at the court.
- 1:11:07Speaker 1: Because this week Bill decided to apologize to his staff
- 1:11:11Speaker 1: for his history with Jeffrey Epstein, and he admitted that
- 1:11:14Speaker 1: having not one, but two a fast with Russian women
- 1:11:18Speaker 1: while married to Melinda Gates. Let's go to ABC News
- 1:11:20Speaker 1: for the report.
- 1:11:21Speaker 25: Please tonight, Microsoft co founder Bill Gates revealing more damaging
- 1:11:25Speaker 25: information about his personal life and admitting to a series
- 1:11:29Speaker 25: of stunning lapses and judgments, and building a relationship with
- 1:11:32Speaker 25: convicted sex offender Jeffrey Epstein.
- 1:11:35Speaker 8: Today the fallout growing.
- 1:11:36Speaker 25: As Gates was pressed by employees at a Gates Foundation
- 1:11:40Speaker 25: town hall, he acknowledged that his relationship with Epstein began
- 1:11:43Speaker 25: after Epstein was convicted of soliciting a minor, and he
- 1:11:47Speaker 25: claimed that he, one of the wealthiest men in the world,
- 1:11:50Speaker 25: did not properly research Epstein's background that would have revealed
- 1:11:54Speaker 25: his sordid past.
- 1:11:56Speaker 8: Knowing what I know now makes it, you know, one
- 1:11:58Speaker 8: hundred times worse case.
- 1:12:00Speaker 25: Acknowledged his association probably helped Epstein rehabilitate his image, and
- 1:12:05Speaker 25: he revealed other damning specifics, saying the men flew together
- 1:12:09Speaker 25: on a private jet and that they hung out in Germany, France,
- 1:12:12Speaker 25: New York, and Washington. Gates did acknowledge he had affairs
- 1:12:16Speaker 25: with two Russian women, and Gates also addressed these photos,
- 1:12:20Speaker 25: saying that we're pitchers Epstein asked him to take with
- 1:12:22Speaker 25: his assistance.
- 1:12:24Speaker 1: This story is hilarius to me. Okay, first of all,
- 1:12:26Speaker 1: black men don't cheat, but wealthy white ones do. And
- 1:12:29Speaker 1: this wealthy white one said I did some cheating.
- 1:12:32Speaker 7: Okay.
- 1:12:32Speaker 1: This is what Bill Gates said. I did some cheating,
- 1:12:34Speaker 1: but don't worry. It wasn't illicit. Illicit okay the pure
- 1:12:39Speaker 1: Webster's Dictionary Webster's Dictionary definition of illicit is forbidden by law,
- 1:12:45Speaker 1: rules are customs. Bill, you was married, Okay. Cheating on
- 1:12:49Speaker 1: your wife is technically illegal in several states. Now it's
- 1:12:52Speaker 1: usually not in force, but adult he is actually classified
- 1:12:54Speaker 1: as a felony in some states. In New York, did
- 1:12:56Speaker 1: you know, adulter is classified as a Class B misdemeanor
- 1:13:00Speaker 1: that is punishable by up to ninety days in jail
- 1:13:02Speaker 1: in a five hundred dollars fine. But beyond the criminal
- 1:13:05Speaker 1: aspect of it, cheating on your wife is considered illicit
- 1:13:08Speaker 1: because it violates the fundamental, mutually agreed upon vowels that
- 1:13:13Speaker 1: we make.
- 1:13:14Speaker 8: Okay.
- 1:13:14Speaker 1: We talk about exclusivity, we talk about trust, we talk
- 1:13:17Speaker 1: about fidelity. Cheating is illicit, okay. It is deemed socially, morally,
- 1:13:22Speaker 1: and often religiously forbidden. It disrupts the foundation of the
- 1:13:26Speaker 1: family structure. And that's why it usually leaves the divorce
- 1:13:29Speaker 1: because I can't trust you. All right, Now we know
- 1:13:31Speaker 1: why Bill and Melinda got divorced Because Bill was out
- 1:13:34Speaker 1: here cheating. But it wasn't illicit, Okay, my brothers, All
- 1:13:39Speaker 1: cheating is illicit, unless, of course, you and your wife
- 1:13:41Speaker 1: have an understanding. And that's what I don't get. You know, Bill,
- 1:13:44Speaker 1: why didn't you just tell your wife you wanted to
- 1:13:47Speaker 1: see other women?
- 1:13:48Speaker 7: All right?
- 1:13:48Speaker 1: You worth one hundred and seven billion dollars. You never
- 1:13:51Speaker 1: know what you put on the table. You know that
- 1:13:54Speaker 1: she might be okay with all right? From what I
- 1:13:56Speaker 1: saw you confess to they weren't underage girls. Knowledge that
- 1:14:00Speaker 1: he had affairs with a Russian bridge player who he
- 1:14:03Speaker 1: met at bridge events, and one with a nuclear physicist
- 1:14:07Speaker 1: who he met through business activities. What the hell were
- 1:14:11Speaker 1: they doing at this town hall? Were they playing true
- 1:14:13Speaker 1: for their okay? Bill, why were you confessing this to
- 1:14:17Speaker 1: your foundation like it was some sort of corporate performance review?
- 1:14:21Speaker 1: And why did you admit the cheating on your spouse
- 1:14:23Speaker 1: with named nationalities and career descriptions. You said this like
- 1:14:29Speaker 1: you was listing your business accomplishments. Russian women, bridge player,
- 1:14:33Speaker 1: Russian woman, nuclear physicists, Bill, Like, don't play with me.
- 1:14:37Speaker 1: I wasn't out here soliciting horse. Okay, he would never
- 1:14:40Speaker 1: that would be illicit. He was out here giving that
- 1:14:42Speaker 1: Microsoft penis to a bridge player, and he was giving
- 1:14:45Speaker 1: that little rocket to a nuclear physicist, but it wasn't ilicious, Okay.
- 1:14:50Speaker 1: Word of advice, if you're going to confess, just confess
- 1:14:53Speaker 1: and say I'm sorry. Okay, don't tell me you did
- 1:14:55Speaker 1: something wrong, but it wasn't that wrong, all right. Saying
- 1:14:57Speaker 1: I did some cheating, but don't worry it wasn't illicted
- 1:15:00Speaker 1: is like saying you robbed the bank ethically, okay, because
- 1:15:03Speaker 1: even if you robbed the bank defeat a bunch of
- 1:15:04Speaker 1: starving kids, I might understand, but you still committed the crime.
- 1:15:07Speaker 1: Right not to mention saying hanging with Jeffrey Epstein was
- 1:15:10Speaker 1: a mistake, a typo, was a mistake, Okay. Hanging with
- 1:15:14Speaker 1: Jeffrey Epstein could be considered a felony adjacent lifestyle choice.
- 1:15:18Speaker 1: All right. This whole story is just a reminder that
- 1:15:21Speaker 1: money doesn't buy morals. It just buys better lawyers and
- 1:15:25Speaker 1: bs explanations, by the way, explanations that we don't even need.
- 1:15:29Speaker 1: I want to know what do they have on Bill
- 1:15:32Speaker 1: Gates that he is feeling the need to confess these
- 1:15:34Speaker 1: things and get in front of these things because he's
- 1:15:36Speaker 1: the only one doing it. Okay, at least here in America,
- 1:15:39Speaker 1: they've been some powerful people who have resigned from their jobs,
- 1:15:42Speaker 1: Like I read this morning that Larry Summers, former Treasury Secretary,
- 1:15:46Speaker 1: he resigned from Harvard Richard Axel, a Nobel Prize winning
- 1:15:49Speaker 1: professor at Columbia University. He announced that he was stepping
- 1:15:52Speaker 1: down as co director of the Zuckerman Mind Brain Behavior
- 1:15:56Speaker 1: Institute because of his connection to Epstein. But they not
- 1:15:59Speaker 1: confessing inessing to any illicit behavior that we've seen yet.
- 1:16:03Speaker 1: So why is Bill Gates, who's worth one hundred and
- 1:16:05Speaker 1: seven billion dollars, deciding to fall on this sword? Inquiring
- 1:16:09Speaker 1: minds would like to know, also, Bill Gates, And this
- 1:16:12Speaker 1: is the moral to the story for everyone. Are you
- 1:16:15Speaker 1: apologizing or justifying your behavior? Because the sincere apology requires
- 1:16:19Speaker 1: taking full ownership of your actions without using But our
- 1:16:22Speaker 1: excuses are telling people you did something but it wasn't illicit. Okay,
- 1:16:27Speaker 1: justifications and validate the apology. Just focus on acknowledging the
- 1:16:32Speaker 1: impact of your actions, Okay, showing empathy and committing the change,
- 1:16:35Speaker 1: all right. The only time I care about justifications for
- 1:16:38Speaker 1: bad behavior is if you're gonna tell me you was
- 1:16:41Speaker 1: on crack, Okay, Other than that, keep it to yourself.
- 1:16:46Speaker 1: Please give William Henry Gates the third commonly known as
- 1:16:49Speaker 1: Bill Gates, the biggest he Hull talk about. It was
- 1:16:55Speaker 1: a lapse in judgment. No, you wanted some other cheeks.
- 1:16:59Speaker 1: I just don't understand why. Man, I can't say he
- 1:17:01Speaker 1: wanted some other cheeks. Sit down with your wife and
- 1:17:03Speaker 1: have the conversation. Because desire is that strong. If you
- 1:17:06Speaker 1: need to do it that bad, just go telling you
- 1:17:10Speaker 1: this is what you want to do. Have a discussion
- 1:17:13Speaker 1: about it.
- 1:17:13Speaker 5: I ain't gonna lets rosh the Kudo bridge player, a physicist.
- 1:17:19Speaker 1: Got to see him. It looks good on paper. I
- 1:17:21Speaker 1: got to see him.
- 1:17:22Speaker 4: Yeah, but that's what he said. It looked good for
- 1:17:24Speaker 4: him on paper.
- 1:17:25Speaker 2: He bridge player sounds it sounds what old bridge?
- 1:17:29Speaker 1: Yeah, it's a car game.
- 1:17:31Speaker 2: It's a card game.
- 1:17:33Speaker 1: Yes, I thought it was an instrument.
- 1:17:36Speaker 5: A bridge player, a Russian bridge player. That sounds like
- 1:17:39Speaker 5: somebody in a band.
- 1:17:40Speaker 8: Is why.
- 1:17:41Speaker 1: No, this is why we want to know people on crack.
- 1:17:43Speaker 2: Just let it go.
- 1:17:43Speaker 1: No, you understand what I'm saying. I need to know
- 1:17:45Speaker 1: what people are high. That's all I need to know.
- 1:17:48Speaker 5: Not off, no cracks.
- 1:17:52Speaker 1: No, you're for bridge play?
- 1:17:54Speaker 5: What's bridge? I know what I'm saying.
- 1:17:58Speaker 2: People.
- 1:17:59Speaker 1: You mean like when people play a bridge?
- 1:18:00Speaker 12: Yeah?
- 1:18:01Speaker 5: Like oh yeah no that's okay.
- 1:18:04Speaker 2: The guitar for real, I'm sorry the guitar.
- 1:18:07Speaker 5: She only played bridges and songs like she's in the
- 1:18:10Speaker 5: bridge player. She plays your challenge okay song. Oh yeah,
- 1:18:15Speaker 5: you are some clowned out niggas. Now that's crazy.
- 1:18:19Speaker 4: All right, I'm coming up next and re fix somebody mess.
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- 1:18:25Speaker 2: Five fe hundred five five five one. Just fix my mess.
- 1:18:32Speaker 6: If you have relationship issues or maybe you have an
- 1:18:34Speaker 6: issue playing bridge whatever, it may.
- 1:18:36Speaker 8: Be cold up right now?
- 1:18:37Speaker 1: Is it cracked?
- 1:18:38Speaker 2: No, it's not. That's the Breakfast.
- 1:18:43Speaker 8: By its real.
- 1:18:45Speaker 1: Kill my god.
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- 1:18:55Speaker 6: Morning everybody is j NV just hilarious. The guy all
- 1:19:00Speaker 6: to Breakfast Club is time for just fix my mess?
- 1:19:02Speaker 6: What's your question for?
- 1:19:03Speaker 7: Jess?
- 1:19:03Speaker 5: Good morning, Hi j Good morning.
- 1:19:06Speaker 20: My name is care I am from aken South Carolina,
- 1:19:09Speaker 20: and I wanted to call I am a new mom.
- 1:19:12Speaker 3: Who are five month.
- 1:19:13Speaker 20: Old baby and the dad?
- 1:19:16Speaker 7: Thank you? Thank you?
- 1:19:18Speaker 20: Me and the dad.
- 1:19:19Speaker 14: One of the baby was three months.
- 1:19:20Speaker 20: We recently slit up. It was kind of a shock
- 1:19:23Speaker 20: because we were, in my opinion, we never had really
- 1:19:27Speaker 20: had any problems. We were like a power couple.
- 1:19:30Speaker 14: We did business together, we were ready to.
- 1:19:32Speaker 20: Get married, and then at three months I found out
- 1:19:35Speaker 20: he was severely cheating on me throughout my entire pregnancy,
- 1:19:40Speaker 20: my post pardom sleeping with different women. After I found out,
- 1:19:45Speaker 20: we still live in the same house, but I figured
- 1:19:48Speaker 20: he was still he was still doing the same.
- 1:19:50Speaker 5: Stuff he was.
- 1:19:51Speaker 20: It's like he didn't care. It just was a shock
- 1:19:53Speaker 20: out of nowhere. I come from a two parent household.
- 1:19:56Speaker 20: My grandparents have always been married, and I I have
- 1:20:00Speaker 20: no idea how to navigate this single motherhood. I tried
- 1:20:05Speaker 20: intentionally not your single mom, but I am how do
- 1:20:08Speaker 20: I raise a little boy?
- 1:20:09Speaker 14: What are you?
- 1:20:11Speaker 4: Are you just living by yourself or you know, because
- 1:20:14Speaker 4: you said y'all live together and you still living with him?
- 1:20:16Speaker 7: No.
- 1:20:17Speaker 20: We recently split about a month ago. He moved into
- 1:20:20Speaker 20: his own apartment and I bought my first house.
- 1:20:23Speaker 5: Yeah, and you're just trying to figure out how to
- 1:20:25Speaker 5: do it by yourself.
- 1:20:25Speaker 20: How to do it by myself. I don't come from
- 1:20:29Speaker 20: I got you.
- 1:20:30Speaker 5: Are your parents still around or.
- 1:20:32Speaker 1: Still you know?
- 1:20:33Speaker 20: Yeah, they're a great support.
- 1:20:37Speaker 4: Yeah that's what I was. That's what I was getting to. Okay,
- 1:20:39Speaker 4: So as long as you have a village, you know,
- 1:20:41Speaker 4: it will get easier. But you know, I'm sorry, I'm
- 1:20:44Speaker 4: I apologize about, you know, your unfortunate situation with your
- 1:20:48Speaker 4: son's dad, But yeah, you have to you gotta. It's
- 1:20:51Speaker 4: on you and your village now, you know, like, yeah,
- 1:20:55Speaker 4: you have a you work with your schedule, Like what
- 1:20:58Speaker 4: do you need help with? Like what specifically do you
- 1:21:01Speaker 4: need help with?
- 1:21:02Speaker 7: Well, that's the thing.
- 1:21:03Speaker 20: I'm a realtor and I also do some flippant houses
- 1:21:07Speaker 20: and things for my suss super busy, but sometimes I
- 1:21:11Speaker 20: feel like I can't give my child the full I
- 1:21:17Speaker 20: give them attention, but I can't give them the full
- 1:21:19Speaker 20: what I want, you know, I'm saying, and then also
- 1:21:22Speaker 20: having to he goes with his dad. Sometimes it's just
- 1:21:26Speaker 20: it's just not the ideal parenthood that I wanted.
- 1:21:30Speaker 4: Okay, So it's not really that you need help parenting.
- 1:21:33Speaker 4: You're still trying to get over not being a family
- 1:21:36Speaker 4: with your son's dad, because this is not what you
- 1:21:38Speaker 4: plan for. That's just what that sounds like, you know,
- 1:21:41Speaker 4: cause you sound like you're a great mom.
- 1:21:43Speaker 5: You know, you work, you do have a.
- 1:21:44Speaker 4: Village, your parents help you out. You're very busy. So no,
- 1:21:47Speaker 4: you can't be with your child twenty four seven. But
- 1:21:49Speaker 4: no parent, you know, you know, with some exceptions, can
- 1:21:52Speaker 4: be around their children twenty four to seven. It just
- 1:21:55Speaker 4: sounds like, you know, you're going through the motions and
- 1:21:57Speaker 4: it's not going to be easy getting past that because
- 1:21:59Speaker 4: you found out not only was he cheating on you,
- 1:22:03Speaker 4: you know when the baby was here, he was cheating
- 1:22:05Speaker 4: on you while you were pregnant. So that's a lot
- 1:22:07Speaker 4: of hurt to get over. But Tom is gonna have
- 1:22:09Speaker 4: to deal with that, you know. Tom is the only
- 1:22:12Speaker 4: way to get through that. You know, I'm sorry.
- 1:22:15Speaker 20: Even after the baby came out, he's super apologetic and
- 1:22:19Speaker 20: he wants to be a family again.
- 1:22:21Speaker 7: And do this.
- 1:22:21Speaker 20: But I don't want that, this want I don't want that,
- 1:22:25Speaker 20: but I do want a family.
- 1:22:27Speaker 7: I want my son to have both parents.
- 1:22:28Speaker 14: So it's just really confusing.
- 1:22:30Speaker 4: Yeah, it's confusing, and I understand you do want that,
- 1:22:33Speaker 4: but don't allow yourself to fall for you know, to
- 1:22:37Speaker 4: fall back into that trap again just because he's showing
- 1:22:40Speaker 4: that he wants you now, you know what I mean.
- 1:22:42Speaker 4: He probably had time to reflect on whatever he did
- 1:22:45Speaker 4: and you know, things like that. But still you took
- 1:22:47Speaker 4: him back before and he did the same thing again.
- 1:22:49Speaker 4: You know, I know, I know you want your family,
- 1:22:52Speaker 4: but you can't. You can't force it out of desperation,
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- 1:24:35Speaker 3: some weird old dude. After three days knowing her was
- 1:24:37Speaker 3: acting really weird and I stood up for her. I
- 1:24:39Speaker 3: basically got kicked out of a group of like millions
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- 1:24:46Speaker 3: because I showed my law teim I was willing to
- 1:24:48Speaker 3: have her bag, she switched up on me and she
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- 1:25:06Speaker 3: like I should have left so heer.
- 1:25:07Speaker 14: I really should have left doer.
- 1:25:09Speaker 3: And I think the problem was she hunged around the
- 1:25:12Speaker 3: wrong people, like she had some really bad friends she
- 1:25:15Speaker 3: would go with, and I just really did not agree
- 1:25:18Speaker 3: with those friends and I didn't personally mess with them
- 1:25:20Speaker 3: at all. Yeah, So she recently hit up and I
- 1:25:24Speaker 3: said trying to talk about she was sorry, she took
- 1:25:26Speaker 3: accountability and she wanted to be friends. And I don't
- 1:25:30Speaker 3: know what I want to do because I forgiven her spiritually,
- 1:25:33Speaker 3: but I'm not sure. I don't want to be a
- 1:25:34Speaker 3: friend again because that's the last thing I want to do,
- 1:25:36Speaker 3: is thing used to go.
- 1:25:37Speaker 7: Back the way they was.
- 1:25:38Speaker 4: Yeah, I totally do understand. People hang out. You know,
- 1:25:41Speaker 4: people get mixed up with the wrong people and they
- 1:25:44Speaker 4: you know, they're influenced by certain people that they hang around.
- 1:25:47Speaker 4: But maybe something happened where she realized like, nah, maybe
- 1:25:52Speaker 4: she maybe she finally realized that she was hanging around
- 1:25:55Speaker 4: with the wrong people and being influenced by, you know,
- 1:25:58Speaker 4: some of their behaviors, and she realized that she lost
- 1:26:00Speaker 4: a good friend. I mean, y'all, y'all weren't together, right,
- 1:26:03Speaker 4: y'all just friends.
- 1:26:04Speaker 14: We weren't dating anything.
- 1:26:06Speaker 3: I mean like at one point they did a crush.
- 1:26:08Speaker 5: On her, like her, and she had no more.
- 1:26:11Speaker 4: Okay, don't say it like that, because you do like
- 1:26:14Speaker 4: a little bit. I can tell still, But like you
- 1:26:18Speaker 4: know what I'm saying, like I'm.
- 1:26:19Speaker 7: Glad to be single. I wouldn't listen.
- 1:26:21Speaker 3: I gotta say single for my mental health.
- 1:26:23Speaker 5: I got you, I got you.
- 1:26:24Speaker 7: No I hear that.
- 1:26:25Speaker 4: I hear that, brother, But noah, I think, yeah, I
- 1:26:28Speaker 4: think just give us some grace because she, like I said,
- 1:26:30Speaker 4: she may have realized, like you know what, I lost
- 1:26:34Speaker 4: out on a good friend, you know, being a clown,
- 1:26:37Speaker 4: you know what I'm saying.
- 1:26:38Speaker 5: So and she learned from that experience. It's nothing wrong
- 1:26:41Speaker 5: with giving a chance.
- 1:26:42Speaker 4: Now you approach the situation, you know what a little
- 1:26:44Speaker 4: guard up, you know, but and then you know, just
- 1:26:47Speaker 4: gaining her trust, if she going to do what she
- 1:26:49Speaker 4: need to do to gain your trust back, I wouldn't say.
- 1:26:52Speaker 4: You know, good friends are hard to come by, your
- 1:26:53Speaker 4: so don't don't throw it away. Just give it, you know,
- 1:26:56Speaker 4: give her a little chance. She hit you up, you
- 1:26:59Speaker 4: like that, you had a little crush, See what's up
- 1:27:01Speaker 4: with it?
- 1:27:01Speaker 3: Yeah, I definitely will think that that does help because
- 1:27:05Speaker 3: I definitely have other homies still who's done some experiences,
- 1:27:08Speaker 3: and if this was some other person I know about
- 1:27:11Speaker 3: I'm talking, it would have been a hard No, I
- 1:27:13Speaker 3: actually get a hard note to somebody else because I
- 1:27:15Speaker 3: know this person. I know they're not going to be
- 1:27:17Speaker 3: turning around. So yeah, that definitely does help.
- 1:27:20Speaker 4: Yeah, definitely definitely, you know, just just approach with caution,
- 1:27:24Speaker 4: but give another chance.
- 1:27:25Speaker 1: It's cool.
- 1:27:26Speaker 7: Okay, thank you so much, No proud for y'all.
- 1:27:29Speaker 6: Brother, thank you, it's my mess. Eight hundred and five
- 1:27:32Speaker 6: eight five one oh five women, we come back. We
- 1:27:34Speaker 6: got the latest with Lauren. Don't move, It's to breakfast club.
- 1:27:36Speaker 2: Good morning.
- 1:27:37Speaker 1: I want to hear nothing from you after what I
- 1:27:39Speaker 1: just heard from you. You need to shut up, okay,
- 1:27:42Speaker 1: and you get freaky talking to people and I get free,
- 1:27:47Speaker 1: actually disgusted, Yo, it's.
- 1:27:48Speaker 6: Not There was a brother on the on the chat
- 1:27:50Speaker 6: from Korea and Korean facial regiment is the new thing
- 1:27:55Speaker 6: now that with the moisturizing.
- 1:27:57Speaker 2: So I asked him myself, what's a good.
- 1:27:59Speaker 1: Said that's facial in career?
- 1:28:01Speaker 2: I did say facial facial regimen that people said career.
- 1:28:04Speaker 5: He said, all the brothers out there, what's the best
- 1:28:06Speaker 5: thing to put on your face?
- 1:28:07Speaker 7: I did not.
- 1:28:14Speaker 1: She gets them somebody that knows, somebody detail.
- 1:28:17Speaker 5: I'm the homegirl that knows a little bit about everything.
- 1:28:21Speaker 1: The latest on.
- 1:28:23Speaker 8: The laws, the latest with Laurence la Rosa.
- 1:28:25Speaker 1: Sometimes you have sometimes you have detail, sometimes you have
- 1:28:28Speaker 1: a little bit of every time it's the.
- 1:28:29Speaker 2: Leader to top dog law on the Breakfast Club.
- 1:28:33Speaker 5: Talk to me, Hey, y'all, what's that ra? What's right?
- 1:28:39Speaker 18: So the n w A c P Image Awards, they
- 1:28:41Speaker 18: are continuing to do their pre ceremony live stream like
- 1:28:44Speaker 18: special awards that they're giving out prior to the actual
- 1:28:46Speaker 18: award ceremony on television this weekend and h All Night three.
- 1:28:51Speaker 18: Last night, they gave Malcolm Jamal Warner an award following
- 1:28:56Speaker 18: his passing, but the award was for outstanding Guests performing
- 1:29:00Speaker 18: for Fox's drama series Murder in a Small Town. Among
- 1:29:03Speaker 18: various highlights that they gave out last night. They also
- 1:29:06Speaker 18: gave some awards to sinners as well. But I just
- 1:29:09Speaker 18: want to take mention a moment to mention that, and
- 1:29:12Speaker 18: I know a lot of outlets are reporting reporting this
- 1:29:14Speaker 18: just in remembrance of Malcolm Jamal Warners, So I'm sure
- 1:29:17Speaker 18: we'll see some of that in the award show that
- 1:29:19Speaker 18: goes down this weekend as well too.
- 1:29:20Speaker 1: On the twenty eighth, Energy to his family all way,
- 1:29:26Speaker 1: Lord have mercy.
- 1:29:26Speaker 18: Yes, Now, just shifting gears a bit, I want to
- 1:29:31Speaker 18: talk about something really quick that iHeart is going to
- 1:29:34Speaker 18: be doing. So this is the industry first. Now, I
- 1:29:36Speaker 18: know we talk a lot up here about how like
- 1:29:39Speaker 18: I know I have a lot of conversations about radio
- 1:29:41Speaker 18: and the position that radio plays, and music and new
- 1:29:44Speaker 18: music and social versus social media. So iHeartRadio TikTok Live
- 1:29:48Speaker 18: and Bruno Mars are coming together tonight and they'll be
- 1:29:52Speaker 18: doing a live where people will be able to get
- 1:29:54Speaker 18: love advice, submit their love stories, and get personalized song
- 1:29:58Speaker 18: dedications from Bruno Mar because he has a new album
- 1:30:01Speaker 18: coming out called The Romantic Album. This will happen tonight
- 1:30:04Speaker 18: at nine p m. Yeah, so you'll be able to
- 1:30:08Speaker 18: come and get some level qualifications. Is any relationship. I
- 1:30:12Speaker 18: don't mind those qualifications.
- 1:30:14Speaker 2: I'm sure we'll find out tonight.
- 1:30:15Speaker 1: I might need to submit some questions. That's my first question,
- 1:30:17Speaker 1: what the hell is your qualification?
- 1:30:19Speaker 6: You can go to the talk back feature actually, if
- 1:30:21Speaker 6: you want to go to the talk back feature right now,
- 1:30:24Speaker 6: which is on iHeartRadio dot com. Correct, and you can
- 1:30:26Speaker 6: submit your questions and you can all that other stuff.
- 1:30:28Speaker 6: And that's a first.
- 1:30:29Speaker 2: So tonight you no Mars Tik Tak with iHeart, which
- 1:30:32Speaker 2: is gonna be pretty dope.
- 1:30:34Speaker 18: According to a lot of the reports, he's not married,
- 1:30:36Speaker 18: but he has been in a relationship. But I don't
- 1:30:38Speaker 18: know where it is today, but they've been in a
- 1:30:39Speaker 18: relationship for like over a decade. It's someoneman named Jessica
- 1:30:41Speaker 18: Caban really.
- 1:30:43Speaker 1: According to reports, okay, I mean right, just the way
- 1:30:46Speaker 1: you are, don't mean you can be out here given
- 1:30:47Speaker 1: a romantic advice. First question, you're right, then my second
- 1:30:50Speaker 1: question is how when are you gonna marry you?
- 1:30:52Speaker 21: Will?
- 1:30:55Speaker 2: They're gonna block you immediately, block immediately.
- 1:30:59Speaker 7: Way.
- 1:31:00Speaker 5: I'm seeing that their breakup rumors too with them.
- 1:31:04Speaker 2: Just a positive.
- 1:31:09Speaker 8: Definitely checked it out.
- 1:31:10Speaker 2: Continue on, yes, all right now.
- 1:31:13Speaker 4: Other music news you should ask, I always go find
- 1:31:15Speaker 4: the answer, just keep just keep going.
- 1:31:17Speaker 18: And other music news shifting gears again. So Teddy Riley,
- 1:31:21Speaker 18: So Teddy Rally. He was here on the Breakfast Club
- 1:31:23Speaker 18: when we talked about this too, but he sat down
- 1:31:25Speaker 18: with the Weird in Miami podcast and talked about, you know,
- 1:31:28Speaker 18: his book and some of his stories that he's telling
- 1:31:29Speaker 18: in his new book. And one of the conversations that
- 1:31:32Speaker 18: they've posted the full interview wasn't out as of last night,
- 1:31:35Speaker 18: was a conversation about Keith Sweat and Teddy Riley says
- 1:31:38Speaker 18: he was not paid at all for the music he
- 1:31:40Speaker 18: did with Keith Sweat.
- 1:31:40Speaker 5: Let's take a listen Keith Sweating myself. You know I
- 1:31:43Speaker 5: never got paid for the album Crazy. My name is
- 1:31:47Speaker 5: on there right, Yeah, so somebody going pay still to
- 1:31:50Speaker 5: this day, and you never got paid.
- 1:31:53Speaker 1: So what happened like that?
- 1:31:55Speaker 2: You holler at him like yo with my check?
- 1:31:57Speaker 24: I did, and he told me he never got paid neither,
- 1:32:00Speaker 24: which I find it hard to believe. He never told
- 1:32:03Speaker 24: the truth about me, how we worked in the studio
- 1:32:07Speaker 24: and what I came up with.
- 1:32:08Speaker 8: You know, it's so crazy.
- 1:32:10Speaker 24: The first hundred maybe two hundred thousand records of his album,
- 1:32:14Speaker 24: My Name wasn't on the album. When you trust in
- 1:32:16Speaker 24: the person who calls you their little brother, trust no one,
- 1:32:19Speaker 24: trust no one.
- 1:32:20Speaker 5: Now that's really your business and stand on it. Did
- 1:32:23Speaker 5: y'all relationship kind of you no deteriorate my brother.
- 1:32:26Speaker 24: I'm a forgiving child of God.
- 1:32:28Speaker 1: I feel like keeps just still, like yo, man, it's
- 1:32:31Speaker 1: one of brothers. First of all, I love when you
- 1:32:34Speaker 1: dive in the unk news. Thank you very much.
- 1:32:37Speaker 5: I'm trying to get to the the heck the way
- 1:32:39Speaker 5: you were the hat aside, I feel like.
- 1:32:41Speaker 1: We've had this conversation with Keith hand Teddy though.
- 1:32:43Speaker 6: Yeah, Teddy was up here and spoke about this, and
- 1:32:46Speaker 6: in that conversation it seems like he was mad at
- 1:32:49Speaker 6: that Keeps sweat.
- 1:32:50Speaker 2: But then he said It wasn't keep swest fault. It
- 1:32:52Speaker 2: was the label's fault, but he definitely seemed like he
- 1:32:53Speaker 2: was a little upset with keeping about it.
- 1:32:54Speaker 18: I have Teddy Riley on the Breakfast Club if you
- 1:32:56Speaker 18: guys want to listen to it. He does kind of
- 1:32:58Speaker 18: say the same thing. But to your point, env, this
- 1:32:59Speaker 18: is a different toning. You guys want to listen to that, sure,
- 1:33:02Speaker 18: let's take a listen to Teddy on the Breakfast Lub.
- 1:33:03Speaker 1: Absolutely a lot of my business wasn't done.
- 1:33:06Speaker 21: You know.
- 1:33:06Speaker 24: Example, I did the Key Sweat album. I've only made
- 1:33:09Speaker 24: fifteen hundred dollars.
- 1:33:10Speaker 8: From that for This Day to Jesus.
- 1:33:12Speaker 24: But I got the publishing, but I never got my royalties.
- 1:33:16Speaker 24: No one never looked out for me. So now we're
- 1:33:18Speaker 24: going through different channels because you can't, you know, have
- 1:33:22Speaker 24: a person's name on the album and as a producer
- 1:33:25Speaker 24: and not have a contract. Thank God, I know the
- 1:33:29Speaker 24: business now.
- 1:33:30Speaker 18: Yeah, so I don't. I don't know what has progressed,
- 1:33:32Speaker 18: but the tone did seem a bit different. I did
- 1:33:34Speaker 18: try and reach out to Keith Sweat too, didn't hear
- 1:33:36Speaker 18: anything back.
- 1:33:37Speaker 5: So I know that money gone out.
- 1:33:41Speaker 1: That money gone. That's that money for years.
- 1:33:45Speaker 6: But if the record label has the record label has
- 1:33:47Speaker 6: the responsibile money gone?
- 1:33:48Speaker 1: That money been in a long time.
- 1:33:50Speaker 2: That label is a billion dollar company. I'm sure you.
- 1:33:53Speaker 6: Legally, they're gonna have to find out. Yeah, I mean, now,
- 1:33:57Speaker 6: if it's Keith and them, that's something different.
- 1:33:59Speaker 5: But if the label got it.
- 1:34:00Speaker 1: Keep saying he had and get paid either, So it
- 1:34:02Speaker 1: was the it was, wasn't it the brother who passed away?
- 1:34:07Speaker 8: So I don't know.
- 1:34:08Speaker 5: He ain't take it with him.
- 1:34:10Speaker 2: So I've spent I's gone.
- 1:34:13Speaker 1: Somebody in the ad man all right gone.
- 1:34:17Speaker 5: I don't know.
- 1:34:17Speaker 18: The full interview is still not out on the podcast
- 1:34:19Speaker 18: I looked on We're in Miami, So I'll wait to
- 1:34:21Speaker 18: hear back and hopefully we'll hear back from Keith Sweat
- 1:34:23Speaker 18: too for that that update, and we'll be back with
- 1:34:25Speaker 18: more in another latest.
- 1:34:26Speaker 5: Shout out the We in Miami podcast.
- 1:34:28Speaker 23: I like them.
- 1:34:28Speaker 5: I listened to this of all the time. Yeah, that's
- 1:34:30Speaker 5: really consistent.
- 1:34:32Speaker 18: Now, another conversation Ammon Smerd He sat down with Shannon
- 1:34:36Speaker 18: Sharp on Club Shah and they had a very in
- 1:34:39Speaker 18: depth conversation, but one a big part of the conversation
- 1:34:42Speaker 18: is going viral.
- 1:34:43Speaker 5: Picking up right now?
- 1:34:44Speaker 18: Is he mind talking about his father who passed away
- 1:34:47Speaker 18: not too long ago, and he could barely get through
- 1:34:49Speaker 18: the conversation, which was at the beginning of the conversation.
- 1:34:52Speaker 5: Uh, when this was brought up. Let's take a listen
- 1:34:53Speaker 5: to your mom talking about the last conversation he had
- 1:34:56Speaker 5: with his dad.
- 1:34:57Speaker 7: Do you remember the last conversation you had with your father?
- 1:35:00Speaker 2: Yeah?
- 1:35:01Speaker 8: He was, uh, my bad dog.
- 1:35:05Speaker 21: He liked when I liked when I wear a shirt
- 1:35:08Speaker 21: and tie stuff. He always got dressed for the office
- 1:35:11Speaker 21: every day. He would wear a shirt, shirt and tie.
- 1:35:14Speaker 21: Last cowbo. He just was like, man, you look good
- 1:35:17Speaker 21: at them. Uh, and them suits. Man, Like, I like
- 1:35:20Speaker 21: that you're taking jobs now that you're wearing that suit.
- 1:35:22Speaker 21: And then he told me, don't come home finished filming
- 1:35:25Speaker 21: because we was filming the podcast.
- 1:35:28Speaker 8: He got to go in the hospital.
- 1:35:29Speaker 7: Be right back.
- 1:35:30Speaker 8: Did you know your father was that sick?
- 1:35:32Speaker 1: I mean, I mean I knew he had to go
- 1:35:33Speaker 1: in the hospital. I thought he just had some like
- 1:35:35Speaker 1: you know.
- 1:35:36Speaker 8: People get older. Yeah, yeah, he was here.
- 1:35:39Speaker 7: I probably just hugging.
- 1:35:41Speaker 1: Sit this lap like.
- 1:35:45Speaker 8: M father.
- 1:35:48Speaker 5: His dad passed away.
- 1:35:49Speaker 18: He had announceid his dad passed away back in October
- 1:35:51Speaker 18: of twenty twenty five.
- 1:35:53Speaker 5: Now we have to wrap up.
- 1:35:55Speaker 18: I don't have time to play another audio from that then, Okay,
- 1:35:58Speaker 18: I just wanted to play this one on him talking
- 1:36:00Speaker 18: about being a father, because he talked a lot about
- 1:36:02Speaker 18: how his dad shaped too he is today who he
- 1:36:04Speaker 18: is as a dad, and he says without his dad,
- 1:36:06Speaker 18: we wouldn't even be talking to him now, and just
- 1:36:08Speaker 18: talks about how much of a positive role model he was.
- 1:36:10Speaker 5: Let's take a listen to your mom on being a father.
- 1:36:12Speaker 21: Luckily my ex is not. It's not like a war
- 1:36:15Speaker 21: or nothing anymore, Like we can talk to the kids
- 1:36:18Speaker 21: or whatever. I think the part that I could appreciate
- 1:36:21Speaker 21: the most is that my big girl, she knows the
- 1:36:24Speaker 21: weight of it. That's Juni junior Jenny. Jenny would be
- 1:36:27Speaker 21: like awesome, Like she knows, like I'm trying to make
- 1:36:31Speaker 21: sure I still check in, Like I ain't talked to
- 1:36:33Speaker 21: dad in a couple of days, so she like check
- 1:36:35Speaker 21: in and she wants to show the phone the rule,
- 1:36:37Speaker 21: but she like tries to stay on schedule.
- 1:36:38Speaker 1: So it's like her making an effort.
- 1:36:40Speaker 7: That's what took so long.
- 1:36:42Speaker 21: Like that was the process, The whole shebang of you
- 1:36:45Speaker 21: know what I'm saying, having to separate, that was what
- 1:36:48Speaker 21: the biggest hurt was, We're not going to have our
- 1:36:50Speaker 21: kids on a day to day like, I know how
- 1:36:53Speaker 21: much it I benefit that that my dad come home
- 1:36:56Speaker 21: and say, why this ain't clean?
- 1:36:59Speaker 1: Man of notes? That is so hard, man, And you
- 1:37:01Speaker 1: know why adult in is it's several reasons why adulting
- 1:37:03Speaker 1: it's so hard because you think about all the different
- 1:37:05Speaker 1: layers of this conversation. He's a father who just lost
- 1:37:08Speaker 1: his father, right, and so he's thinking about not being
- 1:37:12Speaker 1: there with his kids on a day to day basis.
- 1:37:13Speaker 1: But when you lose a parent, you start questioning I'm
- 1:37:16Speaker 1: sure your own mortality as well, and you just start thinking,
- 1:37:19Speaker 1: I just want to be here for as long as possible,
- 1:37:22Speaker 1: to be here, you know, with my kids, because that's
- 1:37:24Speaker 1: really what it's about, right, It's all about presence. Presence,
- 1:37:27Speaker 1: Like he misses the presence of his father, you know,
- 1:37:29Speaker 1: he wants to be here being the presence of his kids.
- 1:37:31Speaker 1: That's all we constantly think about, just being here. I
- 1:37:34Speaker 1: want to be here and I want the people I
- 1:37:35Speaker 1: love to be here. But guess what, that's just not
- 1:37:38Speaker 1: the reality. Eventually all of this comes to an end
- 1:37:41Speaker 1: as something that's.
- 1:37:41Speaker 2: My worst well, slew to my posts. Dad, just be
- 1:37:45Speaker 2: afraid of it.
- 1:37:45Speaker 1: I mean, it's sad, but that's just that's life. That's life, sadly,
- 1:37:49Speaker 1: you know. I just want to live as long as possible, Okay,
- 1:37:52Speaker 1: to be one hundred and one, and I just, I
- 1:37:54Speaker 1: just I don't want my brain and my penis to work.
- 1:37:56Speaker 1: And to be honest with you, I don't even care
- 1:37:57Speaker 1: my brain work. Crazy crazy, don't really.
- 1:38:00Speaker 5: Work on your body.
- 1:38:01Speaker 4: You want to keep You are not gonna be worrying
- 1:38:04Speaker 4: about pumping and all that at one hundred and one year.
- 1:38:06Speaker 1: You think you really about the healthiness of life. I
- 1:38:09Speaker 1: want to wake up in the morning still with an
- 1:38:10Speaker 1: erection at one hundred and one, and with the day
- 1:38:12Speaker 1: I don't. That's when I know it's talking about.
- 1:38:15Speaker 5: One hundred and one year olds.
- 1:38:17Speaker 1: We gotta go. We don't know what one hundred and
- 1:38:20Speaker 1: one is gonna look like in the future. All right,
- 1:38:22Speaker 1: I might be half robot.
- 1:38:23Speaker 2: That's the latest.
- 1:38:25Speaker 12: All right?
- 1:38:25Speaker 18: About any accident bigger, small, small, please call top Dog Law.
- 1:38:30Speaker 2: It's the Breakfast Club morning.
- 1:38:32Speaker 6: Everybody is teen j NV just hilarious, charlamage. The guy
- 1:38:35Speaker 6: we are the Breakfast Club. That's Black History Month. What
- 1:38:38Speaker 6: we're doing, you know every day during Black History Month.
- 1:38:40Speaker 1: My guy be Dot does a podcast called I Didn't
- 1:38:43Speaker 1: Know Maybe you didn't either, on the Black Effect Podcast Network,
- 1:38:45Speaker 1: and today he's going to tell you about Jamaica, the
- 1:38:47Speaker 1: black woman who built her own wall hospital.
- 1:38:49Speaker 26: We'll discuss the black woman who built her own war hospital.
- 1:38:54Speaker 26: Where it comes to Jamiaica broke combotment on All Friends.
- 1:39:00Speaker 26: Another episode of Deed most Antisiplated podcast on the Block
- 1:39:04Speaker 26: Podcast Network and entitled I didn't know.
- 1:39:09Speaker 2: Maybe I didn't know Ida, Maybe I didn't No need
- 1:39:13Speaker 2: You're host right here.
- 1:39:14Speaker 5: I'll be dark, which I'll.
- 1:39:16Speaker 7: Think, how do it?
- 1:39:16Speaker 2: I'll do on my Jamaica because I want to go.
- 1:39:18Speaker 26: To Jamaica this year and my manager slash strategist, she's
- 1:39:22Speaker 26: have Jamaica, so she turns that thing on and off.
- 1:39:25Speaker 1: You did you know what I'm saying? You live doing
- 1:39:27Speaker 1: the best there.
- 1:39:28Speaker 26: Whenever I try to do a Jamaican accent, my reference
- 1:39:31Speaker 26: point is Sebastian from the Little Mermaid.
- 1:39:34Speaker 7: Here.
- 1:39:35Speaker 5: If you see her, you can build a.
- 1:39:37Speaker 26: Close stew me like that's where I get that, or
- 1:39:40Speaker 26: I just say highly Salassi, I whenever I say highly Salassii,
- 1:39:44Speaker 26: it's holt.
- 1:39:44Speaker 1: He puts me in the frames to talk like bees.
- 1:39:47Speaker 5: I'm gonna work on it.
- 1:39:49Speaker 26: If you haven't figured it out yet today's episode, you
- 1:39:51Speaker 26: do still need your digital passport because we're headed to Jamn.
- 1:39:56Speaker 1: Come on, and I got a quick reminder for you.
- 1:39:58Speaker 2: Before we start.
- 1:40:00Speaker 5: When I'm black, when I didn't get ten e his street,
- 1:40:03Speaker 5: I gonna get big anyway.
- 1:40:05Speaker 26: But before we get in all of that, you know,
- 1:40:08Speaker 26: I gotta kick off the episode with three of the
- 1:40:10Speaker 26: most useless facts who will never ever, never, never ever
- 1:40:14Speaker 26: never never.
- 1:40:15Speaker 1: Need not a day in life.
- 1:40:17Speaker 26: Up first, one of the most important nurses in war
- 1:40:21Speaker 26: history wasn't even allowed to work for the British military.
- 1:40:25Speaker 26: The second useless fact, this same black woman treated wounded
- 1:40:29Speaker 26: soldiers on the front lines during the Korean War. And
- 1:40:32Speaker 26: your third useless fact, she treated those wounded soldiers by
- 1:40:36Speaker 26: building her.
- 1:40:37Speaker 2: Own hospital in a war zone.
- 1:40:40Speaker 5: Man, let's talk about Mary's sea Cole.
- 1:40:43Speaker 6: I didn't know.
- 1:40:45Speaker 1: I didn't know.
- 1:40:46Speaker 26: I didn't know.
- 1:40:48Speaker 15: I didn't know.
- 1:40:49Speaker 5: I didn't know. Maybe I didn't know.
- 1:40:51Speaker 10: I didn't know.
- 1:40:53Speaker 1: I didn't know.
- 1:40:54Speaker 9: I know.
- 1:40:55Speaker 26: Mary Seacole was born in Jamaica in the early eighteen hundreds.
- 1:41:00Speaker 26: She was a healer, a nurse, a businesswoman, and somebody
- 1:41:04Speaker 26: who knew how to get things done. She learned traditional
- 1:41:07Speaker 26: Jamaican healing from a mom who ran a boarding house
- 1:41:10Speaker 26: for six soldiers. By the time she was in her twenties,
- 1:41:13Speaker 26: Mary was already treating koalora outbreaks across the Caribbean.
- 1:41:17Speaker 2: And all kolora was was the ruins.
- 1:41:19Speaker 1: Yeah, there was a.
- 1:41:19Speaker 2: Diarrheal disease caused by bacteria.
- 1:41:22Speaker 26: When the Korean War broke out in the eighteen fifties,
- 1:41:25Speaker 26: Mary wanted to help wan the British soldiers, so she
- 1:41:27Speaker 26: applied to join the official nursing corps and they said
- 1:41:30Speaker 26: absolutely not not because she wasn't qualified. You know why
- 1:41:34Speaker 26: the eighteen fifties because she was black. Oh, and Mary
- 1:41:38Speaker 26: got the receipts. The rejection letter still exists. Mary applied
- 1:41:41Speaker 26: four times one, two, three, four. Meanwhile, Florence Nightingale got
- 1:41:47Speaker 26: the resources, the support.
- 1:41:49Speaker 1: And the history books from Mary.
- 1:41:51Speaker 5: Seco looked at their rejection and said, cool, Now I
- 1:41:54Speaker 5: gotta do it myself.
- 1:41:56Speaker 2: She traveled to the war zone on her own dime.
- 1:41:59Speaker 26: Here what she called a British hotel, part hospital, part
- 1:42:02Speaker 26: supply center, part refuge.
- 1:42:05Speaker 2: The British Hotel was two.
- 1:42:06Speaker 10: Miles from the front line.
- 1:42:08Speaker 26: Mary will ride out on horseback after battles to treat
- 1:42:11Speaker 26: the soldiers right where they fell under fire. She treated
- 1:42:15Speaker 26: soldiers directly on the battlefield, would use herbal medicines, provided food, care,
- 1:42:20Speaker 26: comfort man. The soldiers loved her. They called her mother
- 1:42:24Speaker 26: Sea Coal. But here's the global part that they just
- 1:42:28Speaker 26: don't teach. Mary Seacole wasn't just helping individuals, she was
- 1:42:32Speaker 26: building infrastructure. This has been the same theme all season.
- 1:42:36Speaker 26: When institutions blocked her, she created her own. That's the
- 1:42:40Speaker 26: whole playbook right there. If you don't learn anything else
- 1:42:44Speaker 26: this season, when you get blocked by an institution, create
- 1:42:47Speaker 26: your own. Because after that war, Mary Seacole returned to
- 1:42:51Speaker 26: England broke no pension, no recognition, no statue, no story,
- 1:42:56Speaker 26: just faded until people went back and looked for. In
- 1:43:00Speaker 26: two thousand and four she was voted her greatest Black Britain.
- 1:43:04Speaker 26: In twenty sixteen, she finally got a statue in London,
- 1:43:08Speaker 26: one hundred and thirty five years after her death.
- 1:43:12Speaker 1: A century later, you know the story.
- 1:43:14Speaker 2: Cardo G.
- 1:43:15Speaker 26: Woodson created Negro History Week because stories like Mary C.
- 1:43:18Speaker 26: Coles disappear without protection, not because they aren't powerful, but
- 1:43:23Speaker 26: because they challenge who gets the credit.
- 1:43:25Speaker 10: And CG.
- 1:43:26Speaker 2: Dub New that what I call Carter G.
- 1:43:28Speaker 1: Woodson.
- 1:43:28Speaker 26: If we don't preserve black excellence globally, U still will
- 1:43:31Speaker 26: hand the flowers to somebody else. Make sure you share
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