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The Breakfast Club REWIND (Kehlani, Devale and Khadeen Ellis and The Lucas Brothers) · The Breakfast Club

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  Speaker 1: Good morning, Usa, yo yo yo yo yo yo yo
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  Speaker 1: yo yo yo yo yo yo yo yo yo yo
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  Speaker 1: yo yo yo yo yo yo yo yo yo yo
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  Speaker 1: yo yo yo yo Yo. I'm DJ Envy and now
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  Speaker 1: nobody named Charlottagne guy with the world Most Dangerous Morning.
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  Speaker 1: Yore to Breakfast Club and currently we are on vacation, man,
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  Speaker 1: totally disconnected. Yes, we're not even really here. You think
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  Speaker 1: you're listening to us, but we're not. Well, we are not.
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  Speaker 1: We're here in spirit. Yeah yeah, and we're gonna be
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  Speaker 1: playing some of our top interviews and some throwbacks, so
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  Speaker 1: keep a lot right, it's gonna be running the boards
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  Speaker 1: and we'll see ell in the new year. Happy holidays.
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  Speaker 1: It's the Breakfast Club. Good morning. This is your time
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  Speaker 1: to get it off your chests, whether you're Man or blast.
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  Speaker 1: So we but have the same any we want to
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  Speaker 1: hear from you on the Breakfast Club. Hello, who's this? Hi?
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  Speaker 1: Beneath you? Ya? Joy? How you doing good? Look? I
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  Speaker 1: don't even want to be up yo long, I don't
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  Speaker 1: on my way to work and I wur to say
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  Speaker 1: my poem this morning. Oh yeah, Harriet, it's entire of
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  Speaker 1: remodeling my home. Okay, okay, I like this, I like
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  Speaker 1: what it could be going. I need you to have
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  Speaker 1: more enthusiasm me okay. I had to divorce Depression said
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  Speaker 1: about the pain, beat up confusion, and kicked out the range.
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  Speaker 1: Stressed tried to stay complaining every day, but I said,
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  Speaker 1: don't look at me again, don't even say hey. Anxiety
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  Speaker 1: kept trying to get back in along with this company
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  Speaker 1: that calls sin and Gloom. Thought she still had a room,
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  Speaker 1: but I cleaned the mall out with the biggest rooms.
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  Speaker 1: I heard a knock at the door. It didn't sound
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  Speaker 1: the same. I just knew it was lie coming back
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  Speaker 1: to play more games. But when I opened the door,
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  Speaker 1: piece stood. There was ease and comfort. Follow ups. Oh,
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  Speaker 1: I was so pleased. Power called and said he was
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  Speaker 1: on the way. Enjoy sent me a card. I got
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  Speaker 1: it on Tuesday. Loved, yet it was delayed. Was the
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  Speaker 1: only one that prays praised. Poured up in the vine
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  Speaker 1: is called healing my heart of scar Friendship came running,
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  Speaker 1: put her arms around my neck. Her brother came to
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  Speaker 1: his thing with respect. Mercy, who was so kind of
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  Speaker 1: helping me remodel my home, got rid of all the trash.
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  Speaker 1: Now the uglans. Go. I did that. I did that.
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  Speaker 1: That is amazing that I farely got y'all. Go ahead,
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  Speaker 1: where can people here? I see some more of your poetry. Well,
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  Speaker 1: my books on Amazon? Okay, what's the name? Moment? It's
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  Speaker 1: entitled The Reaper. Hello, who's this? What's the deal? There's
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  Speaker 1: a Marvel Carty mob? What's up? Get it off? You
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  Speaker 1: change your real name? Your last name Boccardi. Yes, you're
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  Speaker 1: a liar. Your last name is actually Boccardi. Like the drink.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah no, not cart Oh McCarty, okay, got you all
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  Speaker 1: right McCarty, Okay, that makes more sense to get chess man?
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  Speaker 1: All right, what's there? Man? I wanted to just give
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  Speaker 1: a shout out. Man, I marriage and love my life
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  Speaker 1: this weekend. Congratulations came like, sure, that's what I like
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  Speaker 1: to hear. I want to shout out Kyola McCarty, the
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  Speaker 1: new Miss McCarty, and I just want to say I
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  Speaker 1: love her. Okay, got out to the breakfast club, Angel, Angel,
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  Speaker 1: Charlotte Magne the Guard and congratulations brother, and have a
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  Speaker 1: good one. Hello. Who's this? This is Romero? Romero? What
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  Speaker 1: I'm getting off your chest? Man? I'm a little hot man.
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  Speaker 1: I've been trying to get into this real estate game
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  Speaker 1: and they're not making it easy for a brother at all. Man.
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  Speaker 1: I brought my first property, renovated it, got it off
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  Speaker 1: the ground, man, and I'm trying to buy another one
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  Speaker 1: in these prices is crazy right now, same properties that
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  Speaker 1: was ninety thousand is born for like one hundred and
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  Speaker 1: eighty thousand, man, for six hundred quare feet. Yeah, I
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  Speaker 1: mean that's that's what this this whole pandemic did. I
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  Speaker 1: mean a lot of people with the interest rate solo,
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  Speaker 1: a lot of people are buying houses and inventories down,
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  Speaker 1: so people are raising the prices like crazy. Man. I
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  Speaker 1: don't know how they expect somebody to get in the
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  Speaker 1: game with these kind of prices. Lands. It's stupid, man,
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  Speaker 1: It's very difficult. Well, oh, man, I appreciate shar though. Man,
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  Speaker 1: thanks for taking my call. I'm glad to get it
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  Speaker 1: off much. Yeah, there wasn't gonna be no positive advice
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  Speaker 1: for that one. It is what it is. When the
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  Speaker 1: prices is what they are, they all they are. Hello,
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  Speaker 1: who's this? Oh this is Marion john what's up up?
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  Speaker 1: Marion Johnson? So you remember me? Man? Cocktail party? Man? Yeah,
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  Speaker 1: he just said his name. Y'all. Y'all remember the male dancer,
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  Speaker 1: the male dancer? Yeah, I remember, I was talking about
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  Speaker 1: the book about the male dancers cocktail party. I don't
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  Speaker 1: quite remember, y'all, was talking about our male dancers. A guy,
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  Speaker 1: a guy. If this girl went to the strip jointing,
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  Speaker 1: I mean, I had a house party and what would
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  Speaker 1: you what would you think about that? Oh? Got you? Yeah? Yeah, okay,
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  Speaker 1: I'm starting to come back to me now. Yeah. Yeah,
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  Speaker 1: I was just trying to throw the link up there.
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  Speaker 1: It's on ASA Publishing. Come our corporation dot com, slash
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  Speaker 1: Marion Johnson's M. E. R. And Johnson, or you go
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  Speaker 1: to Amazon and buy Marion Johnson. Okay, thank you, Marion Johnson.
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  Speaker 1: That's a good last name you got for a male
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  Speaker 1: scrippy Johnson Johnson. Yeah. Yeah, my scripper name was black Cat. Okay,
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  Speaker 1: should have been black Johnson. Black Cat? Why was it
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  Speaker 1: black Cat? Where you like walking across the stage like
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  Speaker 1: a black cat? That's right, that's right, shaking everything, shaking everything, okay,
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  Speaker 1: black Cat. It's the Breakfast Club. Good morning, the Breakfast Club.
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  Speaker 1: This is your time to get it off your chest.
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  Speaker 1: Whether you're man or blast so peop better have the
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  Speaker 1: same industry. We want to hear from you on the
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  Speaker 1: breakfast club. Hello, who's this? This is race baby Lash
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  Speaker 1: India bass Wist. Oh my goes get Morty DJ Sherlavay,
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  Speaker 1: Oh good morning. Oh yeah, can I say break week
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  Speaker 1: like it's really really fast? What I was You're saying, girl,
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  Speaker 1: this like really really fast. Stop cursing for that. Imry
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  Speaker 1: talking to your daughter, bro, Stop cursing. She was cursing radio.
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  Speaker 1: You said it's so hard. You said it's so aggressive
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  Speaker 1: for daddy. Oh I listened to yeah every day. All right.
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  Speaker 1: I am so tired these door dast customers not tipping
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  Speaker 1: at least tips like dollars. They're driving like they're driving
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  Speaker 1: like twenty five minutes for order and tell the fine
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  Speaker 1: that they only tipped in two dollars to at least
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  Speaker 1: five gasses two serious, man, I'm trying to tell you,
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  Speaker 1: but yesterday I had an order that was like thirty
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  Speaker 1: minutes away, and mind you, the order said it was
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  Speaker 1: like nine dollars. At first, I was like this, I
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  Speaker 1: guess I'll take it. Trying to find out drive all
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  Speaker 1: the way up there because from early tips three dollars
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  Speaker 1: so please listen to what you just said. Though you
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  Speaker 1: know the order was ten dollars. He said, she tips
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  Speaker 1: twenty percent what would have been two dollars to customer
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  Speaker 1: gave you thirty percent three dollars. So what would you
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  Speaker 1: expect the customer to tip on a on a ten
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  Speaker 1: dollars order? I just well, on a ten dollars order
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  Speaker 1: and West tip fine at least fine, because sometimes five
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  Speaker 1: dollars I'm gonna getting myself. Oh you know what that
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  Speaker 1: I would never order anything on door dash for ten dollars.
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  Speaker 1: Some people I didn't think. I never would because there's
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  Speaker 1: also like a fee. There's a processing fee on top
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  Speaker 1: of that. Right, yeah, that gets rid of the delivery fee,
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  Speaker 1: but there's still a processing fee and all of that
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  Speaker 1: he delivered. Want to give a shout out right quick,
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  Speaker 1: because I just want to give a shout out to
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  Speaker 1: my friend Nicholas and Georgia, and a shout out to
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  Speaker 1: my husband who was in jail right now, but he
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  Speaker 1: gets to listen to y'all. You guys, have a great
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  Speaker 1: day and stay safe. We'll do a queen you too.
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  Speaker 1: Come on this yo this season? What's up? Br chest?
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  Speaker 1: He ses, I'm name everybody. Oh my goodness, man, do
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  Speaker 1: you want to change your name? Now? Man, I'm just
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  Speaker 1: get off my chestim quick. Don't because you walkee, because
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  Speaker 1: I don't like when Charlomne and ve Me do that.
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  Speaker 1: You um, but yeah, I leave it on my chest. Um.
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  Speaker 1: I don't like when people kind of take people. I
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  Speaker 1: don't like when other people trying to take other people
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  Speaker 1: back and still hold like a like a like a
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  Speaker 1: brudge again. And you know, like for example, if Youde
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  Speaker 1: he's on a girl and he like, I forgive you,
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  Speaker 1: I take you back, but like one week years down
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  Speaker 1: the road, you still like throwing it back in my face.
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  Speaker 1: That's like, come on now, so this just happens. This
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  Speaker 1: just happened to you, Caesar. I mean yeah, I mean
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  Speaker 1: just this is like this is like on long a
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  Speaker 1: gold type stuff. You know I'm talking about like even nowadays,
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  Speaker 1: you know, like I see my partner goold du it
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  Speaker 1: a birth food with guys, It's like, hey, OK. You
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  Speaker 1: know well, I will say that sometimes things trigger you,
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  Speaker 1: you know, so you might have forgiven somebody, but that
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  Speaker 1: doesn't mean that you completely forget it. And so there
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  Speaker 1: might be certain times when you fall back into some
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  Speaker 1: old habits. It takes a long time to build up
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  Speaker 1: that trust, so it's an effort on both people's parts,
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  Speaker 1: though I do agree, you can't just keep on beating
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  Speaker 1: somebody up after you said, let's work on it. But
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  Speaker 1: every now and then, you know you don't intend for
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  Speaker 1: it to happen, but you get a little mad. You're right,
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  Speaker 1: you're right, you're right. We all you when we all
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  Speaker 1: be trying to, you know, love our best lives out here.
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  Speaker 1: I feel you. Well, Thank you, bro, good luck man,
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  Speaker 1: get it off your chest. It's the Breakfast Club. Good morning,
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  Speaker 1: the Breakfast Club Morning. Everybody is DJ Envy Angela Ye,
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  Speaker 1: Charlomne the guy. We all the Breakfast Club. We have
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  Speaker 1: a special guest on the line right now. Con Hi.
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  Speaker 1: Your first time on the Breakfast Club. This is amazing.
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  Speaker 1: Oh I know you look nervous with good people, with
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  Speaker 1: nice people. Sure, I just never did this before. Well,
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  Speaker 1: you know it's important because you have the album. It
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  Speaker 1: was good until it wasn't, so we had to make
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  Speaker 1: sure that we got you on. So you announced that
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  Speaker 1: you were putting out this album on your birthday. Happy
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  Speaker 1: belated birthday, by the way, Thank you appreciated. So how
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  Speaker 1: are you doing just mentally right now? Physically? We know coronavirus.
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  Speaker 1: There's a lot going on. Are you good? Is your
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  Speaker 1: family good? I'm good? Yeah. I have a one year old.
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  Speaker 1: She just learned how to walk on her around her birthday,
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  Speaker 1: which was in March. Um, So just trying to like
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  Speaker 1: finish up on my house and do all the kinds
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  Speaker 1: of things I would normally be doing outside, like you know,
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  Speaker 1: these press runs or music videos or things like that.
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  Speaker 1: Doing it from inside my house has been has been
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  Speaker 1: a challenge, but it's been super fun. So I'm good.
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  Speaker 1: How did you How did your child help you evolve?
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  Speaker 1: How did you your one year old help you evolve
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  Speaker 1: as a as a human? Um? He's made me super patient,
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  Speaker 1: and I think that she also makes me kind of
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  Speaker 1: be able to stay grounded in situations where I would
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  Speaker 1: normally like get really anxious or get nervous or just
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  Speaker 1: kind of like feel like things are getting to be
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  Speaker 1: coming too much. You just look at this tiny human
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  Speaker 1: and just realize she has no idea what's going on,
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  Speaker 1: And he said, Okay, let me get on your level
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  Speaker 1: and just relax. How were you staying insane during all this?
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  Speaker 1: Because you can't leave It's not like you'd be like,
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  Speaker 1: you know what I'm gonna I'm gonna leave for a
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  Speaker 1: little bit. There's no leaving for a little bit. I
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  Speaker 1: have a gratitude list, but I literally run through it's
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  Speaker 1: like an anxiety combating thing that I do with myself.
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  Speaker 1: Or I'll run through literally like head to toeba things
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  Speaker 1: that I'm grateful for, from having you know, ten toes
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  Speaker 1: on my feet, to like air on top of my head,
• 11:41
  Speaker 1: and it's getting just my eyes working and things like that.
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  Speaker 1: So every time I'm anxious, I just do that and
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  Speaker 1: I'm fine. Stuff good. You know, Klon, I deal with
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  Speaker 1: anxiety too. But I'm gonna tell you something. You got
• 11:51
  Speaker 1: a one year old now, so enjoy it because when
• 11:53
  Speaker 1: they get older and they start going to school, your
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  Speaker 1: parental paranoia gonna go through the roof. I mean I
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  Speaker 1: feel that I have. I'm the oldence of five prisons,
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  Speaker 1: so I kind of like already experienced back to it
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  Speaker 1: like a small degree. I know it's nothing compared to
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  Speaker 1: me having like my own child, but to some extent,
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  Speaker 1: I know how that felt, just like when my little
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  Speaker 1: siblings started like getting out the house and going and
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  Speaker 1: do it. Yeah, and California is opening back up and everything.
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  Speaker 1: So what are your think what are your thoughts on that?
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  Speaker 1: Because they are saying Friday certain things will be opened up.
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  Speaker 1: We know the parks are open, Like when do you
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  Speaker 1: when are you going to feel like, Okay, I can
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  Speaker 1: go to the park. I'm not going outside. Smart. I
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  Speaker 1: don't think that everybody working outside at the same time.
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  Speaker 1: It's smart. So I don't just wait it out and
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  Speaker 1: just give myself more time. And I have a daughter
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  Speaker 1: to think about at the end of the day. So
• 12:43
  Speaker 1: you know, you know recently, you know, I know that
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  Speaker 1: you Comin and Keshia Cole did a record and it
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  Speaker 1: was a misunderstanding what that record? What happened with that record?
• 12:50
  Speaker 1: What was the situation? Well, me and Comara did a
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  Speaker 1: joint project and we had completed everything for the project.
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  Speaker 1: It was a really long, kind of exhausting like situation.
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  Speaker 1: I had pushed my album back for the project, but
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  Speaker 1: we had got it done. I want to got to
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  Speaker 1: like the final decisions. We just weren't agreeing on certain decisions,
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  Speaker 1: and I got kind of tired of being talked to
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  Speaker 1: very very very aggressively, so I just withdrew kind of
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  Speaker 1: quietly and I think that that was kind of confusing.
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  Speaker 1: I'm not sure. I put a snippet up of the
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  Speaker 1: song that had Keisha col on it on social media
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  Speaker 1: maybe this month, but months before the project was ever
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  Speaker 1: even supposed to come out, just to kind of like
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  Speaker 1: get some energy towards it. I had let the snippet
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  Speaker 1: go quite The Sands brought the snippet back up, like
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  Speaker 1: after the project already wasn't a saying. The Sands oft
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  Speaker 1: the stift back up and made it this like huge
• 13:37
  Speaker 1: viral thing, which I don't even know how that came about.
• 13:40
  Speaker 1: And I quotuated and said, oh, the y'all want this,
• 13:42
  Speaker 1: prove it, and then they went crazy again reached out
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  Speaker 1: to Keisha. Keisha was sailed down to be on it.
• 13:47
  Speaker 1: She tried to teach the Kamaya. They fell out because
• 13:49
  Speaker 1: of that. Kamaya basically felt like if she wasn't on it,
• 13:53
  Speaker 1: then the song shouldn't be out. But I wrote that
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  Speaker 1: song in the span of us doing our project, and
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  Speaker 1: I even try to reach out during the process, like, hey,
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  Speaker 1: I know you didn't write on this song, you only
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  Speaker 1: wrote your verse, but I still want to do good
• 14:06
  Speaker 1: business because we did it in the in our sessions
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  Speaker 1: that were for just us together. So I feel like
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  Speaker 1: to give you publishing, I feel like to do like
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  Speaker 1: the proper business behind it. I got a really negative response,
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  Speaker 1: a really aggressive, like violent response. So I just stepped
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  Speaker 1: away further, stepped away quietly like I did before, and
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  Speaker 1: I put the song out, and things just accumulated after that,
• 14:28
  Speaker 1: like just the response acculated every single time, even you know,
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  Speaker 1: when this was brought into the public very recently, I
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  Speaker 1: just responded how I responded in private, which was if
• 14:37
  Speaker 1: people are having a dual conversation about it, if you
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  Speaker 1: want to have a basing conversation about it, I'm not tripping.
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  Speaker 1: And it just kept getting met with It's just like aggression,
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  Speaker 1: and just at some point I decided to let it go,
• 14:47
  Speaker 1: you know, right, all right, we had more with Kalani
• 14:50
  Speaker 1: when we come back, don't move. It's the Breakfast Club.
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  Speaker 1: Good morning, checking you back with the classic Red. It
• 14:57
  Speaker 1: was a podcast, The Breakfast Club. If you missed The
• 15:05
  Speaker 1: Breakfast Club, you don't come from my world. It's dangerous.
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  Speaker 1: Check out this rewind wanting everybody is DJ Envy, Angela Yee, Charlemagne,
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  Speaker 1: the guy we are. The Breakfast Club was still kicking
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  Speaker 1: it with kalani Ye Killanne for you moving forward? Right?
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  Speaker 1: You think you would want to be in an open
• 15:21
  Speaker 1: relationship because that's something that you discuss. So is that
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  Speaker 1: something you feel like that's what you can envision? Well,
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  Speaker 1: I mean to be honest, it kind of the last
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  Speaker 1: one was kind of open, and I think that's what
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  Speaker 1: the big deal was about the situation that had happened
• 15:36
  Speaker 1: was because I did give this space for communication and
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  Speaker 1: it to be open, and it wasn't kind of honored.
• 15:42
  Speaker 1: What's kind of made it worse when you're like, hey,
• 15:44
  Speaker 1: I low key am saying and you know she can
• 15:46
  Speaker 1: go down as long as everything's communicating and everyone's adult,
• 15:50
  Speaker 1: because I know how I know how this wife is
• 15:52
  Speaker 1: and I'm not really a big tripper off of most things.
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  Speaker 1: In general. You asn't mad at you and you was
• 15:58
  Speaker 1: mad at the communication. There was no communication. Yeah it was.
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  Speaker 1: It was a lot of lies and a lot of
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  Speaker 1: covering up and it was That's what I'm saying. When
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  Speaker 1: it was like deep and it was like intri kid.
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  Speaker 1: It wasn't like a simple like I found out the
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  Speaker 1: basic or something. It was deep and it was intricate
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  Speaker 1: and it was like a big weaving or something that
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  Speaker 1: turned into something else. That's just like, that's why I
• 16:18
  Speaker 1: never spoke up on the outside the club team, because
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  Speaker 1: that wasn't something that mattered to me. That wasn't a
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  Speaker 1: rule breaking situation. I was like, I just don't feel
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  Speaker 1: like getting online and deeply explaining that that it's not
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  Speaker 1: a situation that matters to me. Then I got to
• 16:32
  Speaker 1: deal with everybody you know, coming at my mentality about
• 16:35
  Speaker 1: an open relationship. So could you define what? Could you
• 16:39
  Speaker 1: define what open is? Because I'm old, I need to
• 16:42
  Speaker 1: know what opened me. I mean, I think it's whatever
• 16:46
  Speaker 1: boundaries you guys said with each other. If you decide
• 16:49
  Speaker 1: to like what magnes Toe was, like you if it
• 16:55
  Speaker 1: doesn't matter to you too can get other people. That
• 16:57
  Speaker 1: doesn't matter to me. It's it's really it's like each
• 16:59
  Speaker 1: one of those relationships has to be set by each
• 17:02
  Speaker 1: little rule with the two people, like if not like
• 17:05
  Speaker 1: a formula for an open relationship, like you know, you
• 17:08
  Speaker 1: have to go through each individual step with those things.
• 17:11
  Speaker 1: So I personally can't define an open relationship for anybody
• 17:13
  Speaker 1: else though, if I so for you, if I if
• 17:16
  Speaker 1: I somebody else when I'm with you, that an open
• 17:20
  Speaker 1: that part of your open relationship checklist, I think, yeah,
• 17:23
  Speaker 1: I think it depends on what type of sexual relationships
• 17:27
  Speaker 1: that you're having. Outside of mind. I'm very, very very
• 17:31
  Speaker 1: big on sexual safety and sexual health and honesty. On
• 17:36
  Speaker 1: the honesty, I'm very big on communicating it thoroughly and
• 17:39
  Speaker 1: all parties involved, giving consent for it, and being in
• 17:42
  Speaker 1: the know of what's going on. Like, if there's three
• 17:46
  Speaker 1: parties and you know there's three people being sexually active
• 17:49
  Speaker 1: with each other, they need to be on full fully
• 17:52
  Speaker 1: the same page. They need to all be fully in
• 17:54
  Speaker 1: the same page health wise. It's all of these things,
• 17:56
  Speaker 1: you know what I'm saying. So for me, it's like honesty,
• 17:58
  Speaker 1: everybody being in the same page, everybody being a hundry
• 18:00
  Speaker 1: person in the know, nobody being loved out and sets that.
• 18:04
  Speaker 1: And so it was okay for you to see other
• 18:06
  Speaker 1: people as well though, because sometimes for guys, an open
• 18:08
  Speaker 1: relationship is them doing them but you not. Yeah, he
• 18:12
  Speaker 1: wasn't super down, but I also wasn't interested. Like he
• 18:17
  Speaker 1: was like, I don't want the idea of that, but
• 18:18
  Speaker 1: if it comes up. He was like, very like, he
• 18:21
  Speaker 1: just I don't know how to explain it. He you
• 18:23
  Speaker 1: know he's he was a guy, so if it comes out,
• 18:26
  Speaker 1: but it never came up because I just wasn't interested.
• 18:28
  Speaker 1: I'm so busy with my daughter making an album and
• 18:31
  Speaker 1: with the relationship that I did have. It just wasn't
• 18:33
  Speaker 1: It wasn't a thing for me. Would he mind you
• 18:35
  Speaker 1: being with other women? Um? Yeah, because honestly he wasn't. Um,
• 18:40
  Speaker 1: he doesn't have this weird kind of like masculine awkward
• 18:45
  Speaker 1: look at like sexual or roman to relationships with women.
• 18:49
  Speaker 1: Like he wasn't like it's a girl flooring don't matter.
• 18:51
  Speaker 1: He was like, no, you really like girls. He really
• 18:54
  Speaker 1: fall in love a girl, So like, I don't need
• 18:56
  Speaker 1: you go in and fall in love. Falling in love
• 19:00
  Speaker 1: a girl could a girls could do a lot of
• 19:01
  Speaker 1: other things that I don't know how to do. She
• 19:03
  Speaker 1: could eat better than I can, she could do a
• 19:05
  Speaker 1: lot of No, I get it. I think it's more so.
• 19:08
  Speaker 1: I think it's more soud the emotional connection he was
• 19:10
  Speaker 1: scared of because I'm thinking, I'm thinking you saw some
• 19:13
  Speaker 1: text messages from YG and those text messages were a
• 19:16
  Speaker 1: little bit too emotionally connected. Whoever he was reaching out
• 19:19
  Speaker 1: to there was a little bit too emotionally connected for
• 19:21
  Speaker 1: your liking. They were just intricate and strategic and dishonest.
• 19:26
  Speaker 1: I wouldn't even say they were extremely do they were
• 19:29
  Speaker 1: just they were just. It showed me. It showed me
• 19:32
  Speaker 1: aside that I didn't want to see you ain't cyg
• 19:34
  Speaker 1: how you fuck up an open relationship? YG, Well, Kalanie,
• 19:38
  Speaker 1: I can't wait till we get you in person. Now,
• 19:41
  Speaker 1: you know, we all comfortable with each other, so and
• 19:43
  Speaker 1: I want to talk more when that. You know. The
• 19:45
  Speaker 1: album's out right now, so make sure you guys get it.
• 19:47
  Speaker 1: I think for anybody going through whatever they're going through,
• 19:49
  Speaker 1: there's a song for you on this album that you
• 19:51
  Speaker 1: can relate to. And I think that's what makes it
• 19:53
  Speaker 1: such an important piece of work. So congratulations, there's congrats,
• 19:57
  Speaker 1: thanks for joining us this morning. All right, well it's
• 19:59
  Speaker 1: the Bakfast Club. Is Kolani Tack with the classic It's
• 20:04
  Speaker 1: the Breakfast Club from this was a podcast. It's topic
• 20:09
  Speaker 1: time called eight hundred five eight five one oh five.
• 20:16
  Speaker 1: Want to join it to the discussion with the Breakfast Club.
• 20:18
  Speaker 1: Talk about it. Everybody's DJ Envy and Julu Yee, Charlomagne
• 20:24
  Speaker 1: the guy. We are the Breakfast Club. Now if he
• 20:27
  Speaker 1: just joined us. We're talking about a story we reported
• 20:30
  Speaker 1: during our front page news about a pastor in Brooklyn.
• 20:33
  Speaker 1: You want to break it down, you yeah, Bishop Lamar Whitehead.
• 20:36
  Speaker 1: He was in the middle of a tournament. It was
• 20:37
  Speaker 1: live streaming when three masks gunmen broken with their guns
• 20:41
  Speaker 1: and stole four hundred thousand dollars worth of jewelry from
• 20:45
  Speaker 1: him and his wife, maybe from some churchgoers too. We
• 20:47
  Speaker 1: don't know where all the jewelry came from, but he
• 20:50
  Speaker 1: did have on some rings of chain. Right. So when
• 20:54
  Speaker 1: we reported the story earlier today, people were like, well,
• 20:56
  Speaker 1: I mean, why the hell is he wearing four in
• 20:58
  Speaker 1: a thousand knowledge worth the jwelry and Brooklyn and the
• 21:00
  Speaker 1: mill of Recession with all the wolves out and people
• 21:01
  Speaker 1: are starving. Those people are right me myself. You know, yes,
• 21:06
  Speaker 1: it wouldn't be the smart decision to wear four hundred
• 21:08
  Speaker 1: thousand dollars worth of jewelry, but that's just right. He
• 21:11
  Speaker 1: works hard. Forty can wear whatever you want to wear, right,
• 21:13
  Speaker 1: that's what life is about. And they can rob whoever
• 21:15
  Speaker 1: they want to rob. And they're gonna rob the people
• 21:17
  Speaker 1: that they see yat here, and they're gonna rob the
• 21:19
  Speaker 1: people who they see y'all here flothing and stunting. The
• 21:21
  Speaker 1: reality is, if you're gonna spend four hundred thousand dollars
• 21:24
  Speaker 1: on the jury, you should have security. And that goes
• 21:27
  Speaker 1: for any path, that goes for anybody who wants to
• 21:30
  Speaker 1: wear those kind of luxury things. Have security protecting you.
• 21:34
  Speaker 1: That's it simple as that. And I feel like, you know,
• 21:38
  Speaker 1: churches should have security. Period. We've seen enough mass shootings
• 21:42
  Speaker 1: happen happening in churches in places of the worship nowadays
• 21:45
  Speaker 1: that things like that, you know, should be prevented by
• 21:48
  Speaker 1: having on security in the churches. Anyway, if you're gonna
• 21:50
  Speaker 1: spend that kind of money on your cars and that
• 21:52
  Speaker 1: kind of money on your jury, how about spending on
• 21:54
  Speaker 1: keeping your congregation safe. Yeah. I get what you're saying,
• 21:57
  Speaker 1: But I also feel like if that man that past
• 22:00
  Speaker 1: the works hard, spend his money or whatever he wants
• 22:02
  Speaker 1: to spend his money, you know what I mean, if
• 22:04
  Speaker 1: he wants to you know, who's who's the big crown
• 22:07
  Speaker 1: and have weird Dina mc crown, he should be able
• 22:09
  Speaker 1: to not worry about getting robed. No, that's not that's
• 22:11
  Speaker 1: not how this works in there. That's how it should work.
• 22:13
  Speaker 1: That's life. I don't care how you're gonna amatic, you're
• 22:16
  Speaker 1: gonna you're gonna do things how they should or how
• 22:18
  Speaker 1: things are well exactly, I don't want to pay taxes.
• 22:24
  Speaker 1: We should not have to pay taxes because black people
• 22:27
  Speaker 1: built this country. Come free. What No, because I don't
• 22:31
  Speaker 1: not going to jail, all right. I'm not gonna have
• 22:34
  Speaker 1: the RS knocking out my door, all right. So my
• 22:37
  Speaker 1: point is, yes, people should be able to wear what
• 22:40
  Speaker 1: they want to wear without being robbed. But that's not
• 22:42
  Speaker 1: the reality of the situation. So if you're gonna spend
• 22:44
  Speaker 1: four hundred thousand or some jury spend three fifty on
• 22:47
  Speaker 1: jury and fifty thousand on security, I mean, of course
• 22:51
  Speaker 1: I would hope that something like that wouldn't happen. It's
• 22:53
  Speaker 1: like when somebody's driving a nice car and then they
• 22:55
  Speaker 1: blame you for getting car jack because why would you
• 22:58
  Speaker 1: driving such a nice cars? Shit? So why I can't
• 23:00
  Speaker 1: drive a nice call and this, you know, in this neighborhood.
• 23:03
  Speaker 1: So I get that, and it's a shame that something
• 23:05
  Speaker 1: like this had to happen me personally. You know, I
• 23:08
  Speaker 1: live in Brooklyn and I don't even own jewelry. Whereth
• 23:11
  Speaker 1: that much money? And I mostly wear a costume jewelry anyway,
• 23:14
  Speaker 1: you know what you're smart, you're telling you're giving out
• 23:17
  Speaker 1: the right message just for so that's but I would
• 23:21
  Speaker 1: think in church, you would hope that would be a
• 23:23
  Speaker 1: safe haven, but unfortunately it's not. And you know, I'm
• 23:26
  Speaker 1: sorry that something like this had to happen to him,
• 23:28
  Speaker 1: Like congregation is traumatized from this experience. And I feel
• 23:32
  Speaker 1: like he's gotten a lot of press lately and the
• 23:34
  Speaker 1: way that they the way that they talk about him
• 23:36
  Speaker 1: in the media or the flashy you know, and I
• 23:39
  Speaker 1: think that's why that's why he was targeted, because of
• 23:43
  Speaker 1: how the media has put him out there for things
• 23:44
  Speaker 1: that have happened, you know, in the past. You just
• 23:47
  Speaker 1: told Brooklyn. Look, man, I know y'all hit me on
• 23:49
  Speaker 1: the radio. I know y'all know I got the businesses,
• 23:51
  Speaker 1: but they ain't nothing over here for y'all. All My
• 23:54
  Speaker 1: money is in my businesses. Like I'm still trying to right,
• 23:59
  Speaker 1: we get it. I got on constant Jwelry, Right, Yeah,
• 24:02
  Speaker 1: I believe not real gold earring that car and drive
• 24:06
  Speaker 1: ain't even real cars. A fake car too. All plastic people.
• 24:09
  Speaker 1: I here ruthless. They robbed Amy from Jeopardy. They heard
• 24:14
  Speaker 1: about Amy winning all of them goddamn bride winning, and
• 24:17
  Speaker 1: they robbed Amy bro not Amy. Hello, who's this man?
• 24:20
  Speaker 1: It's the free from mom haunters. Y man. They was
• 24:26
  Speaker 1: wrong for going in there robbing that, robbing that pass
• 24:28
  Speaker 1: for like that in that church. But my whole thing
• 24:31
  Speaker 1: that they take fulling a thousand off the church, off
• 24:33
  Speaker 1: the passer or was that just collectively with the jewlry. Well,
• 24:37
  Speaker 1: we don't know. It sounds like he had jewelry, But
• 24:39
  Speaker 1: if you really think about it, let's say the plastic
• 24:41
  Speaker 1: brought himself a nice watch. Right, everybody's wearing a Richard
• 24:44
  Speaker 1: Mill He maybe bought a Richard Mill watch. That watch
• 24:47
  Speaker 1: could be two three hundred thousand right there. So it
• 24:49
  Speaker 1: ain't a lot of jewelry. Just gotta watch him. And
• 24:51
  Speaker 1: if his wife got one on a an engagement ring,
• 24:54
  Speaker 1: that's four hunted. Yeah, they took their rings and everything. Man,
• 24:56
  Speaker 1: y'all asking the wrong questions. How much they're gonna get
• 24:58
  Speaker 1: forward in the street, man? What was that? That's that's
• 25:01
  Speaker 1: how much they're gonna get in the street. How much
• 25:03
  Speaker 1: they gonna get if it's a Richard mill watch, let's
• 25:05
  Speaker 1: say probably get about a cash by eighty seventy. You
• 25:09
  Speaker 1: know you're right. It could be their wedding bands, her
• 25:12
  Speaker 1: wedding ring and all of that too, and sometimes people
• 25:14
  Speaker 1: spend money on that stuff. Eight hundred five eight five
• 25:17
  Speaker 1: one oh five one. We're talking about the pastor who
• 25:19
  Speaker 1: got robbed in Brooklyn while he was live streaming. They
• 25:22
  Speaker 1: took it for his joy, They said, four hundred thousand dollars.
• 25:24
  Speaker 1: People are like, oh, well, you shouldn't be wearing that
• 25:26
  Speaker 1: in Brooklyn anyway, doing a live terment during the recession.
• 25:29
  Speaker 1: But I feel like he worked hard for You should
• 25:31
  Speaker 1: wear whatever you want to win. Man, shut up, No, yes,
• 25:34
  Speaker 1: you can wear whatever you want to wear. People can
• 25:36
  Speaker 1: rob whatever they want to rob. The reality of the
• 25:38
  Speaker 1: situation is, don't wear nothing you can't protect and if
• 25:41
  Speaker 1: you can't protect yourself, you better high somebody to protect
• 25:43
  Speaker 1: it for you. All right, Breakfast club coming the Breakfast club,
• 25:50
  Speaker 1: wanting everybody Choloman the gay. We are the breakfast Club.
• 25:56
  Speaker 1: We have some special guests in the building. He was hating.
• 25:58
  Speaker 1: He turned to Mike, all we have this. Believe it.
• 26:03
  Speaker 1: I don't believe it. What's up? Everybody. How are y'all?
• 26:07
  Speaker 1: I love that. I love that they are collectively the
• 26:09
  Speaker 1: dead ass podcasts are. Don't get more New York than that. No,
• 26:14
  Speaker 1: I don't for the podcast through like that. That's it,
• 26:17
  Speaker 1: it had to be done. Let's yo, yo, it's funny,
• 26:21
  Speaker 1: bro it's story. We do got mass stories. But it
• 26:25
  Speaker 1: really is just like our life. Like we just two
• 26:28
  Speaker 1: kids from Brooklyn who hustled like everybody else. And I
• 26:31
  Speaker 1: met my best friend when I was eighteen, my wife here,
• 26:34
  Speaker 1: and we just lived life together, grinding, taking chances with
• 26:38
  Speaker 1: each other, and we wanted to just show people like
• 26:40
  Speaker 1: this is how fun marriage can be, even though there's
• 26:43
  Speaker 1: some tough times, but it's just fun. Let's talk about
• 26:46
  Speaker 1: the real tims, Like I give you an example. When
• 26:48
  Speaker 1: I first met my wife. This was in two thousand
• 26:51
  Speaker 1: and two. We were at a banquet of our our
• 26:53
  Speaker 1: elementary school we was going to and Pam Oliver was hosting,
• 26:57
  Speaker 1: and Pam Oliver she was reading down the list of accomplishments.
• 27:00
  Speaker 1: Valet's got a scholarship to Hofstra, aspires to play in
• 27:02
  Speaker 1: the NFL. If you want to do that, you know
• 27:04
  Speaker 1: you're gonna have to grow in game more weight, and
• 27:07
  Speaker 1: she was like, like, like one of those. It was
• 27:13
  Speaker 1: no Condecember, you know. And I was kind of like,
• 27:15
  Speaker 1: you're gonna have to get your way out. And I'm like,
• 27:20
  Speaker 1: I'm like, yo, she's laughing at me. Right. So me
• 27:22
  Speaker 1: and my wife wasn't together at that moment, right, that's
• 27:25
  Speaker 1: the day we met. So fast forward four years now,
• 27:29
  Speaker 1: I get a trial with the Lions make the team.
• 27:31
  Speaker 1: My first home game starting was against the Jets. It
• 27:33
  Speaker 1: all comes full circle. My family's in the stands and
• 27:36
  Speaker 1: the Jets, you know, they looked out for me. They
• 27:38
  Speaker 1: got my wife down at the time, was my girlfriend.
• 27:40
  Speaker 1: She got home on the down there on the on
• 27:42
  Speaker 1: the stadium and she's on the field with my mom
• 27:44
  Speaker 1: and they're like, yo, your mommy, your wife's down there.
• 27:46
  Speaker 1: Tell some pictures. Get up there, right. So I'm down there.
• 27:49
  Speaker 1: As soon as I come down, I see my wife,
• 27:51
  Speaker 1: my girlfriend at the time, and she's like, yo, yo,
• 27:53
  Speaker 1: you see that bitch, Pam all over there. And I'm
• 27:56
  Speaker 1: four years later and I'm I'm like, yeah, I see it.
• 27:59
  Speaker 1: I'm like, yeah, I see it. I was like, you
• 28:00
  Speaker 1: remember number eighty, Oh you pressed? Pam checked this out.
• 28:03
  Speaker 1: She says to me, she says to me. She says
• 28:06
  Speaker 1: to me, I'm supposed to be returning punts and she
• 28:08
  Speaker 1: called me over. I'm like, she paying Oliver. I'm like, yeah,
• 28:11
  Speaker 1: you're gonna say something to her. I'm like, I can't.
• 28:13
  Speaker 1: I'm about to play again. She said, you don't got
• 28:15
  Speaker 1: you I already did so I'm like, that's so. This
• 28:19
  Speaker 1: isn't the middle of MetLife Stadium. Three pounds bang bang,
• 28:22
  Speaker 1: me and her body bump in the middle of MetLife
• 28:24
  Speaker 1: Stadium right before a game. My coaches like to get
• 28:27
  Speaker 1: your eyes over here. But it's just too Brooklyn, Like,
• 28:29
  Speaker 1: you got so many stories that said he needs to
• 28:31
  Speaker 1: get his weight up, that he would never make it
• 28:33
  Speaker 1: to the NFL. Over there, and I gave her the
• 28:38
  Speaker 1: laugh to say. She was like, no way are you
• 28:41
  Speaker 1: said say that? Yeah you said that. What if she
• 28:44
  Speaker 1: took her away, go off and slash and nothing? Nothing?
• 28:51
  Speaker 1: Shout out to Pam Oliver because she's a pioneer what
• 28:53
  Speaker 1: she she was being honest. I was five, I was five,
• 28:56
  Speaker 1: one hundred and forty pounds. Somebody dreamed that's all you
• 29:01
  Speaker 1: can give constructive criticism, But yeah, he does that all
• 29:07
  Speaker 1: the time. No, I don't do that. I don't tell
• 29:10
  Speaker 1: somebody will never be able to do something your day
• 29:15
  Speaker 1: job stop wrapping. But that not But that don't mean never.
• 29:17
  Speaker 1: That just means like little constructive criticism, like you might
• 29:20
  Speaker 1: want to bind me to do that. I can respect
• 29:26
  Speaker 1: the value. You said you booked two jobs, and I
• 29:27
  Speaker 1: heard on one of the podcasts you guys are talking
• 29:29
  Speaker 1: about how the dynamics of your relationship have changed. Let's
• 29:32
  Speaker 1: talk about that because it is different now, right, because
• 29:34
  Speaker 1: the value is gone for periods of time and y'all
• 29:37
  Speaker 1: not physically together. So how has that changed your relationship.
• 29:40
  Speaker 1: It's it's it's kind of changed our relationship in a
• 29:43
  Speaker 1: little bit. I mean, we just came out of a
• 29:45
  Speaker 1: pandemic where we couldn't do nothing, so we was on
• 29:47
  Speaker 1: each other all the time. But I mean the time
• 29:50
  Speaker 1: to miss each other kind of took us back to
• 29:52
  Speaker 1: college in the league, because when I was in the league,
• 29:54
  Speaker 1: I'd be going for weeks, I'd be going for months
• 29:56
  Speaker 1: and doing those times, we really really missed each other.
• 29:59
  Speaker 1: So when we came back it was fireworks. Right. I
• 30:01
  Speaker 1: think we need that. I've been together phrase years almost
• 30:04
  Speaker 1: nineteen years out. Yeah, we definitely need a space. So
• 30:06
  Speaker 1: him being away filming for a couple of weeks at
• 30:08
  Speaker 1: the time. That gives me time to you know, rejuvenate
• 30:11
  Speaker 1: the sexy and whatnot, and you know, rebuild that you know,
• 30:15
  Speaker 1: wanting to see each other, like it's necessary when you've
• 30:17
  Speaker 1: been with somebody for so long. It's very necessary. In
• 30:20
  Speaker 1: the league for years, Okay, I guess you don't. You
• 30:22
  Speaker 1: don't get the pension, yea. I missed about three games.
• 30:25
  Speaker 1: Three games, bro, I learned. I learned a lot about
• 30:28
  Speaker 1: I learned a lot about like ownership and finances through
• 30:33
  Speaker 1: the NFL. BRO Like they found ways, for example, it's
• 30:36
  Speaker 1: all about cheaper, younger talent. Right. So I played for
• 30:39
  Speaker 1: the Lions for three years. I got picked up by
• 30:41
  Speaker 1: the Browns, got released, and my agent told me like, yeah,
• 30:44
  Speaker 1: it's gonna be hard for you to get back into
• 30:46
  Speaker 1: the league. And I was like, what you mean. He
• 30:47
  Speaker 1: was like, whoever picked you up now it was gonna
• 30:49
  Speaker 1: be responsible for your pension from now until you've done
• 30:52
  Speaker 1: so for them, It's like, I might as well just
• 30:53
  Speaker 1: go get a rookie, paid them the league minimum having
• 30:56
  Speaker 1: rather than having to pay you a million dollars. And
• 30:59
  Speaker 1: from a business point, I get it. You know what
• 31:01
  Speaker 1: I'm saying from a business standpoint, from my ownership standpoint,
• 31:03
  Speaker 1: I get it. But from a player standpoint, I'm like,
• 31:05
  Speaker 1: this is jacked up. But that's what the CBA is
• 31:08
  Speaker 1: always fighting for, you know, They're always fighting to make
• 31:10
  Speaker 1: sure players are taken care of. So at that point
• 31:13
  Speaker 1: I made a decision. I didn't want to play ball
• 31:15
  Speaker 1: no more. I wanted to focus on TV film. My
• 31:17
  Speaker 1: wife wasn't too happy about that at the time. She
• 31:19
  Speaker 1: was like, what, I who leaves a bag on the table.
• 31:23
  Speaker 1: To me, I felt like, all right, well, they don't
• 31:25
  Speaker 1: want to play play you in the NFL. The Canada,
• 31:27
  Speaker 1: I think had some interest in him trying to send
• 31:29
  Speaker 1: me to Canada. You might as well just like, go
• 31:34
  Speaker 1: to Canada and play here or two. Because to me,
• 31:36
  Speaker 1: I kind of felt like he also did not He
• 31:38
  Speaker 1: wasn't able to live out his full potential playing in
• 31:40
  Speaker 1: the NFL, so I feel like he still had more
• 31:42
  Speaker 1: to prove. I cursed out Pam Oliver for you. I
• 31:45
  Speaker 1: understand that had more to prove. I understand that, but
• 31:48
  Speaker 1: this was my thing, right. I also had a function
• 31:50
  Speaker 1: in payment addiction that playing football, and kind of that
• 31:54
  Speaker 1: was dangerous for me because what people don't understand about
• 31:56
  Speaker 1: football is you have to make it through practice in
• 31:58
  Speaker 1: order to play. So I wake up in the morning,
• 32:00
  Speaker 1: take four talent or take four talent, or before practice,
• 32:04
  Speaker 1: take four time or after practice, then take two vikings
• 32:06
  Speaker 1: and to go to sleep. And I'm doing that Monday
• 32:09
  Speaker 1: through Saturday just to get through practice, and then I'm
• 32:11
  Speaker 1: taking payments on Sunday at the time. At the time,
• 32:15
  Speaker 1: she didn't know so, and I didn't know how it
• 32:16
  Speaker 1: was affecting me. It wasn't like a payment addiction where
• 32:18
  Speaker 1: it was like I need the payments on to get high.
• 32:21
  Speaker 1: I just needed it so my body was numb so
• 32:23
  Speaker 1: I could play ball. So I was like, man, I
• 32:25
  Speaker 1: really just don't want to do this no more. Has
• 32:27
  Speaker 1: the things you're doing now feel that void that football left,
• 32:30
  Speaker 1: because I hear that from so many athletes, like either
• 32:32
  Speaker 1: they didn't make it pro or they made it pro
• 32:35
  Speaker 1: and it was only it was only there for a
• 32:36
  Speaker 1: short time. Bro let me that was your dream though
• 32:39
  Speaker 1: playing football, it was always a means to end. When
• 32:41
  Speaker 1: I first met kid eighteen, she was like, yeah, what
• 32:43
  Speaker 1: you want to do with your life? And I was
• 32:45
  Speaker 1: like that Martin was on TV. She was like that.
• 32:48
  Speaker 1: I was like, you're gonna be an actor. I want
• 32:49
  Speaker 1: to tell stories and she's like, how are you gonna
• 32:51
  Speaker 1: do that? And I told I was going to use
• 32:53
  Speaker 1: football as a means though. But what happens is when
• 32:56
  Speaker 1: football becomes your whole life for ten years and people
• 32:59
  Speaker 1: are constantly giving you a structure for what your life
• 33:01
  Speaker 1: is gonna be, when that's taken away, suddenly there's no
• 33:05
  Speaker 1: way to avoid depression. Bro. They don't matter how much
• 33:07
  Speaker 1: money you got. I got boys who got twenty five
• 33:09
  Speaker 1: million in the bank who called me and randomly be like, yo,
• 33:11
  Speaker 1: d I'm not I'm not doing well. Like what you mean.
• 33:14
  Speaker 1: They're like, Yo, it's me and my kids and my
• 33:16
  Speaker 1: wife in the house. I don't know what to do.
• 33:19
  Speaker 1: I'm like, well, you got money, start some businesses. You're like,
• 33:21
  Speaker 1: money ain't a thing to me, Like I don't. I
• 33:23
  Speaker 1: don't care about that. I just don't have a purpose.
• 33:25
  Speaker 1: And that that's when we also started, you know, talking
• 33:28
  Speaker 1: about black mental men's health on the podcast, because we
• 33:31
  Speaker 1: don't talk about that, and I know you big on that, Charlemagne,
• 33:34
  Speaker 1: and it's kind of it's good to see it be normalized. Now.
• 33:38
  Speaker 1: All right, we got more with the violin Codeine Ellis.
• 33:40
  Speaker 1: When we come back from the Dead Ass Podcast. Is
• 33:42
  Speaker 1: the Breakfast Club? Good Morning Morning, everybody is DJ Envy
• 33:45
  Speaker 1: Angela Yee, Charlemagne the guy. We are the Breakfast Club.
• 33:49
  Speaker 1: Now from the Dead Ass Podcast, we have the volt
• 33:51
  Speaker 1: in cadeen etlas Charlemagne. Can y'all talk about that time
• 33:54
  Speaker 1: y'all went viral when y'all had that discussion about monogamy.
• 33:56
  Speaker 1: What happened was we were we were so there was
• 33:59
  Speaker 1: there was a whole already behind it. The Monday, the Monday,
• 34:02
  Speaker 1: this were supposed to be shooting four episodes of the podcast, right,
• 34:06
  Speaker 1: Kaye and I have this thing with sex where I'm like, yo,
• 34:09
  Speaker 1: I like when you get dressed up. For example, kay
• 34:11
  Speaker 1: don't dress like this every day. She knows she's coming
• 34:13
  Speaker 1: on the Breakfast Club. She put a makeup on, she
• 34:16
  Speaker 1: got her thirty six dollars with when you married. Sometimes
• 34:21
  Speaker 1: you're like, ya, like, how my wife get dressed up?
• 34:23
  Speaker 1: So Monday up, Monday, she dressed up, and I was like, Yo,
• 34:28
  Speaker 1: let's you know tonight, let's do something. She's like, I
• 34:30
  Speaker 1: got you tonight. You be in a moment, you go
• 34:32
  Speaker 1: to an event or whatever. So I had my little
• 34:34
  Speaker 1: hair doing and the ponytail. He likes the pony tail.
• 34:36
  Speaker 1: So she had the ponytail, and she said, I'm gonna
• 34:38
  Speaker 1: take care of you tonight. Monday coming go. She forget Tuesday.
• 34:43
  Speaker 1: You know how this man when you're married. And then Tuesday,
• 34:46
  Speaker 1: so she get dressed again. We had we had the podcast.
• 34:49
  Speaker 1: She get dressed up against I got you to night.
• 34:51
  Speaker 1: She's talking hot. Tuesday night, I get home, she forget again.
• 34:54
  Speaker 1: She put that head when she put that hescoff on.
• 34:56
  Speaker 1: You know, bro, she did it Monday, Tuesday, Wednesday, Thursday night.
• 35:01
  Speaker 1: She promised me. She was like, bro, I got you
• 35:04
  Speaker 1: to night. She had this long she had, she had
• 35:08
  Speaker 1: the rhyd stones off forehead. Everything was looking nice. She
• 35:10
  Speaker 1: was like, yo. So that night I run to the
• 35:14
  Speaker 1: bath room. I come back. She got the stocking cap on,
• 35:17
  Speaker 1: and she got the stocking cap on with the little
• 35:20
  Speaker 1: little ponytail. Here she took took it out. Piss brother.
• 35:25
  Speaker 1: I'm like, Joe, this a week. You've been promising me
• 35:27
  Speaker 1: that she was gonna do this. So now I put
• 35:30
  Speaker 1: on a little all in one body suit from Savage Fancy.
• 35:34
  Speaker 1: He was like, look at you in your dry ass
• 35:36
  Speaker 1: dusty body perfectly. So now I'm pissed, right, So now
• 35:49
  Speaker 1: we have sex. Then we have angry sex, but it
• 35:51
  Speaker 1: ain't the type of sex I was trying to have. Right,
• 35:53
  Speaker 1: So we wake up the next morning Tommy and Belly
• 35:57
  Speaker 1: d But my thing is you still put it off
• 36:02
  Speaker 1: and you didn't do what I asked you to do.
• 36:03
  Speaker 1: So we wake up that morning. Now we got to
• 36:05
  Speaker 1: do a podcast, so we get in there. We already
• 36:07
  Speaker 1: submitted the terms we're gonna do for the podcast, so
• 36:10
  Speaker 1: we get there, like, hey, the podcast is about monogamy.
• 36:12
  Speaker 1: I'm like, so we're talking about sex, right, And it
• 36:15
  Speaker 1: came to this point in the podcast and I'm like, yo,
• 36:19
  Speaker 1: me ask you a question. If sex is going to
• 36:22
  Speaker 1: be a chore for you as a wife, why did
• 36:25
  Speaker 1: you want monogamy? Right? And she was just like, you
• 36:28
  Speaker 1: didn't want monogamy, and I was like, I did, but
• 36:30
  Speaker 1: I felt like you kind of pushed monogamy on me.
• 36:32
  Speaker 1: I said that, and her response was, oh, so I
• 36:35
  Speaker 1: forced you to marry me. I didn't say that. She moved, Yeah,
• 36:39
  Speaker 1: I didn't say that. But this is where I messed up, Right.
• 36:47
  Speaker 1: I was so mad and I was being petty, and
• 36:49
  Speaker 1: we both petty that I didn't take it back and
• 36:51
  Speaker 1: be like, no, baby, didn't force me to marry you,
• 36:53
  Speaker 1: I said, because now I'm mad because now I'm being
• 36:58
  Speaker 1: petty and I'm like at the time when we was
• 37:00
  Speaker 1: getting married, we you know, we weren't even agreeing on
• 37:03
  Speaker 1: when we were going to get married because I had
• 37:06
  Speaker 1: I lost my money playing ball. I had said that
• 37:08
  Speaker 1: at that time, like, I think we should wait to
• 37:09
  Speaker 1: get married because financial I'm on a good spot, and
• 37:11
  Speaker 1: she was like, I'm not waiting no more. I wanted
• 37:13
  Speaker 1: to get married. So I kind of felt like, yeah,
• 37:15
  Speaker 1: like you wanted to get married at this point. So
• 37:17
  Speaker 1: now that you wanted to get married at this point,
• 37:19
  Speaker 1: when it comes time to do these things as a
• 37:21
  Speaker 1: wife and you keep putting me off, it kind of
• 37:23
  Speaker 1: makes me feel like you didn't really want monogamy, you
• 37:25
  Speaker 1: just wanted me to do sorry, twenty seven year old Kade.
• 37:28
  Speaker 1: At the time, I was thinking, I want to be
• 37:30
  Speaker 1: clear about what the intentions are. What am I expecting
• 37:34
  Speaker 1: to gain from this relationship or not, because at that
• 37:36
  Speaker 1: point we've been together for nine years, so I just
• 37:39
  Speaker 1: want to know where we go with which is how
• 37:41
  Speaker 1: I got to get there, which she took that as pressure.
• 37:43
  Speaker 1: To me, I was just stating where I stood in
• 37:46
  Speaker 1: that time. Happen that conversation. Now you said so that
• 37:51
  Speaker 1: what happened? So happened was? I said, uh right, And
• 37:56
  Speaker 1: we end up having a full argument on the podcast.
• 37:59
  Speaker 1: We get over it. The podcast comes out like four
• 38:01
  Speaker 1: weeks later, we forget that we had this whole argument, right,
• 38:05
  Speaker 1: and now we now we're arguing about something else. And
• 38:07
  Speaker 1: then people are hitting me on Twitter, like Joe, y'all
• 38:09
  Speaker 1: trending on Twitter, and I'm like, for what? And they
• 38:12
  Speaker 1: just like your monogamy comment. I just was trying to
• 38:15
  Speaker 1: make a point, but y'all took it and y'all ran
• 38:17
  Speaker 1: with it. But I'm like, that's I mean. To be honest,
• 38:20
  Speaker 1: you know, we people was mad it was men versus women.
• 38:23
  Speaker 1: Agreed with me, women agree with her, and it created content,
• 38:27
  Speaker 1: but people was mad at us for a little bit
• 38:29
  Speaker 1: she accomplished. I mean, I get, I get, I see
• 38:33
  Speaker 1: both sides, you know what I mean, Because it's not
• 38:35
  Speaker 1: like you want to You're not gonna creep on your woman.
• 38:37
  Speaker 1: I'm not like that's you're desirable. It's all you're trying
• 38:40
  Speaker 1: to say. I appreciate right there, his wife is right
• 38:49
  Speaker 1: there that it's just that old, that old adage that
• 39:00
  Speaker 1: you don't do somebody else will not saying he would No,
• 39:04
  Speaker 1: I would never say that to my wife, you know
• 39:06
  Speaker 1: what I mean, But sometimes like I don't want it
• 39:08
  Speaker 1: to be a choir and trying to my wife that
• 39:18
  Speaker 1: will say to me, do that was just like women
• 39:20
  Speaker 1: out there want me I am a sex symbol. Like
• 39:22
  Speaker 1: he lets me know, listen, this is the truth. And
• 39:26
  Speaker 1: I agree, and women went and women went kadeen as well. Yo.
• 39:31
  Speaker 1: Now here's the thing, Envy. This is my point. This
• 39:35
  Speaker 1: is my point, Envy. And when Kay says she wants
• 39:38
  Speaker 1: something or she needs something, I make it my point
• 39:41
  Speaker 1: to get it done because I understand that. I'm like,
• 39:43
  Speaker 1: I'm not going to disregard your feelings and your needs
• 39:46
  Speaker 1: because the same way you want monogamy, I want monogamy too.
• 39:49
  Speaker 1: If my wife want if I want monogamy, and I'm
• 39:51
  Speaker 1: gonna say to my wife, yo, I want to be
• 39:53
  Speaker 1: the only person you come to for all of this.
• 39:55
  Speaker 1: When she says she want to need something, I'm gonna
• 39:57
  Speaker 1: take care of it. So when I asked for the
• 39:59
  Speaker 1: same thing you're constantly saying, he later later later, be like,
• 40:03
  Speaker 1: why are you always on me? It's like damn, Like, yeah,
• 40:05
  Speaker 1: why don't you do the same for me if I'm
• 40:07
  Speaker 1: trying to do the same for you. So it's not
• 40:09
  Speaker 1: a thing where I'm like I could get mad chicks.
• 40:11
  Speaker 1: It's like, yo, let's serve each other. And that's ultimately
• 40:13
  Speaker 1: what the podcast is about. We're talking to people about
• 40:17
  Speaker 1: I had to make a decision in my life to
• 40:19
  Speaker 1: learn how to serve my wife so I could be
• 40:21
  Speaker 1: a better husband, you know, like even even the sex thing.
• 40:23
  Speaker 1: You know, how we figured out what happened with her
• 40:26
  Speaker 1: sex drive? Yeah, because how doing these revelations over like
• 40:28
  Speaker 1: the past five seasons and kind of started where we
• 40:30
  Speaker 1: were like bitching about what we have problems. People were
• 40:35
  Speaker 1: talking about, oh wow, let's hear more about this because
• 40:37
  Speaker 1: I'm having the same issues. And then we kind of
• 40:39
  Speaker 1: felt like we had a breakthrough recently we figured it out. Bro. Yeah,
• 40:42
  Speaker 1: that conversation we had about monogamy made us sit down
• 40:45
  Speaker 1: and be like, yo, let's figure out what's going on
• 40:47
  Speaker 1: with your body and mind. We spoke to a doctor,
• 40:50
  Speaker 1: we got off the birth control, and it was like
• 40:52
  Speaker 1: night and day. August we was having issues she got
• 40:55
  Speaker 1: off the birth control September. I can't get away from me, Bro,
• 40:59
  Speaker 1: Like I can not get her away from me. I'm like,
• 41:01
  Speaker 1: I'm like, I'm like, I need a break. And then
• 41:03
  Speaker 1: talking about that, we realized that there were so many
• 41:05
  Speaker 1: people out there they were just having the same issue.
• 41:07
  Speaker 1: You know, that's such a good convo because men have
• 41:10
  Speaker 1: fragile egos, right absolutely. It's like, if you don't want
• 41:13
  Speaker 1: to sleep with me, I start questioning myself, like you'd
• 41:15
  Speaker 1: be like will Smith on Fresidan, what I like that? Literally?
• 41:20
  Speaker 1: Does I tell you? Bro? When I when I say,
• 41:24
  Speaker 1: I'll say to her like, yo, other chicks want me.
• 41:25
  Speaker 1: I'm the same type of dude that my ego. I'll
• 41:27
  Speaker 1: be like, you know how, this is my ego. I
• 41:30
  Speaker 1: go to my wife and I ask for something. She's
• 41:31
  Speaker 1: constantly rejecting me. I make me feel bad. I don't
• 41:34
  Speaker 1: mind being honest and saying that. Like I start looking
• 41:36
  Speaker 1: at myself like my heads standing a little bit. I'm
• 41:40
  Speaker 1: not see what I'm saying. Let me let me get
• 41:43
  Speaker 1: back in the gym. I'll be looking at her like yeah,
• 41:46
  Speaker 1: looking good, Like what's up? I don't move. We have
• 41:53
  Speaker 1: more with the volt and Cadeen Ellis from the Dead
• 41:55
  Speaker 1: Ass Podcast is the Breakfast Club Morning Morning, Everybody's DJ,
• 41:59
  Speaker 1: Envy Angela Yee, Charlomagne the guy we are the Breakfast Club.
• 42:03
  Speaker 1: Now from the Dead Ass Podcast, we have the val
• 42:05
  Speaker 1: In Kadeen Etlas Charlomagne. Did y'all expect the podcast to
• 42:08
  Speaker 1: blow up the way that it did? I didn't. Well.
• 42:11
  Speaker 1: First of all, I'll say this, I was not completely
• 42:15
  Speaker 1: signed up for any of this from Jump and my
• 42:17
  Speaker 1: because I grew up in a very traditional West Indian
• 42:19
  Speaker 1: household where it's the first thing I was taught as
• 42:22
  Speaker 1: soon as I can remember anything, was you don't tell
• 42:25
  Speaker 1: people your business like you are. You stay to yourself.
• 42:28
  Speaker 1: Anything that happens in this household, and this family stays
• 42:31
  Speaker 1: in the house, you know. But Deval and I started
• 42:33
  Speaker 1: to do the videos, they picked up some traction you're all,
• 42:39
  Speaker 1: let me tell you. But I was just not not
• 42:41
  Speaker 1: with it in the very beginning. This is my belief.
• 42:44
  Speaker 1: I believe that there's a delusional quality that all successful
• 42:47
  Speaker 1: people have. When I started this whole thing with social media,
• 42:51
  Speaker 1: I told her I was like, y'all want my own sitcom?
• 42:53
  Speaker 1: I want to do TV. I want to do this,
• 42:55
  Speaker 1: But I'm not going to sit back and wait for
• 42:56
  Speaker 1: somebody to pick me. You know what I'm saying, Like,
• 42:58
  Speaker 1: I'm just not going to do that. So I'm create
• 43:00
  Speaker 1: my own content. I created this social sitcom. It was
• 43:02
  Speaker 1: fifteen second videos, and I continue to stay consistent. One
• 43:07
  Speaker 1: of the big people who was was very inspirational in
• 43:10
  Speaker 1: my life was fifty cent right because he was the
• 43:13
  Speaker 1: one that said to me, if you stay consistent when
• 43:14
  Speaker 1: something pop, you got a catalog. And um, I also
• 43:17
  Speaker 1: respect fifty because you know he hit me with the Hollywood. Yeah,
• 43:20
  Speaker 1: we're gonna work. And I got a story about Charlomagne too.
• 43:23
  Speaker 1: We have to sorry to bother you take screen screening, right,
• 43:27
  Speaker 1: I catched out of Charlomagne. Charlemagne catch out of me,
• 43:29
  Speaker 1: and I could see in Charlomagne's face that Charlomagne already
• 43:31
  Speaker 1: knew like this looked like the type of that's gonna
• 43:32
  Speaker 1: run up on me right now, right, he said. So
• 43:42
  Speaker 1: Charlomagne walked by me right now. I was like, yo,
• 43:45
  Speaker 1: Scharman was good. He gave me a pound whatever. Was like, yo,
• 43:46
  Speaker 1: let me, how let you? He was like all right,
• 43:50
  Speaker 1: So we walk outside. I don't like his tone. So
• 43:55
  Speaker 1: I'm like, yo, Charlemagne, me and my wife got a
• 43:57
  Speaker 1: podcast coming out. We're doing this, we're doing that. He listening,
• 44:00
  Speaker 1: He's like mmmmmmmmm. He was like. I was like, yeah,
• 44:02
  Speaker 1: I was wondering. You know what I'm saying. I want
• 44:03
  Speaker 1: getting the breakfast clubs so we could talk about it.
• 44:05
  Speaker 1: He was like, yeah, he can take my off. Let
• 44:07
  Speaker 1: me meet your phone and give you my number. Right,
• 44:09
  Speaker 1: So he takes my phone, right, and he puts all
• 44:12
  Speaker 1: the numbers in there and I close. I'm like, a looking,
• 44:14
  Speaker 1: you don't want to keep him too much, you know
• 44:15
  Speaker 1: what I'm saying, because a lot going on. Charlotta Mayne
• 44:17
  Speaker 1: walk away. Right, we get outside, I look at my phone.
• 44:20
  Speaker 1: He only put nine digits in there, right, No do
• 44:23
  Speaker 1: this in there? Right? So he can't do that on purpose.
• 44:27
  Speaker 1: I was ready to go back in there come after y'all.
• 44:29
  Speaker 1: Was like you Charlottagne, me with the cake on him,
• 44:32
  Speaker 1: be like, yo, he tried to stunt on y'all. He
• 44:34
  Speaker 1: played trying to swerve you like he was a bad bitch.
• 44:38
  Speaker 1: Going back inside. I'm like, nahitch right, So I definitely
• 44:43
  Speaker 1: didn't do that on purpose. So this is the thing, though,
• 44:45
  Speaker 1: I said, Okay, I said, real talk, Charlottagne probably get
• 44:48
  Speaker 1: people to do two minute pitches every single day. I said,
• 44:51
  Speaker 1: I understand again, people have to see what you bring
• 44:53
  Speaker 1: to the table for you to get opportunity. I said,
• 44:55
  Speaker 1: if this ain't our moment, this ain't our moment. So
• 44:58
  Speaker 1: then things did take off. I'm definitely not that guy.
• 45:01
  Speaker 1: I pay attention to everything because you never know what's
• 45:03
  Speaker 1: gonna be what, Yes, what's your true? What's your true?
• 45:05
  Speaker 1: But I wasn't. I wasn't mad. I was gonna say
• 45:08
  Speaker 1: another thing on another episode. Y'all were talking about that, right,
• 45:10
  Speaker 1: it's about you being called this sim CONDEI you're being
• 45:12
  Speaker 1: called the missive, but that is important in relationships. That's
• 45:16
  Speaker 1: kind of how you should be toward each other there
• 45:18
  Speaker 1: at certain times. Yeah, It's it's funny on social media,
• 45:22
  Speaker 1: like I'll say something in men's favor and women will
• 45:25
  Speaker 1: just be like, oh, he's sexive and he's misogynistic. But
• 45:28
  Speaker 1: then if I say something in women's favor, then I'm
• 45:30
  Speaker 1: a simp. It's like, like, you know, people are gonna
• 45:33
  Speaker 1: be triggered by whatever you say, but this is my truth,
• 45:36
  Speaker 1: Like you know, my life is not a monolithic version
• 45:39
  Speaker 1: of what blackness is like. Some days I feel like
• 45:41
  Speaker 1: as a man, I should stand up for my masculinity.
• 45:44
  Speaker 1: Some days I feel like, you know what, I can't
• 45:46
  Speaker 1: push the patriarchy too much, Like this ain't fair. So
• 45:48
  Speaker 1: I'm gonna say both when I think it's fair. Sometimes
• 45:51
  Speaker 1: people be mad, sometimes people love it, but it's my truth.
• 45:53
  Speaker 1: I'm never gonna run from. I mean not get women
• 45:55
  Speaker 1: all the time that are just hy Condeini, what's your prayer?
• 45:57
  Speaker 1: What did you say? What you do? I was like,
• 45:59
  Speaker 1: y'all saying that, like this is like nineteen years in
• 46:04
  Speaker 1: the making. So what you're seeing now de valancating that
• 46:07
  Speaker 1: you see now have been through nineteen years. Where So
• 46:10
  Speaker 1: if we're not transparent about where we've been things, we've
• 46:13
  Speaker 1: had conversations we had at twenty seven, and people want
• 46:16
  Speaker 1: to hold us to that one six minute clip, then
• 46:19
  Speaker 1: be my guests, but we at least know that we're
• 46:21
  Speaker 1: sharing the entire thing. So, like I said before, I
• 46:23
  Speaker 1: wasn't signed up for it, but now that I am,
• 46:25
  Speaker 1: I feel like it's our duty to be able to
• 46:27
  Speaker 1: have to tell people this is the entire picture here,
• 46:30
  Speaker 1: and then the beauty behind it is that we pick
• 46:32
  Speaker 1: and choose what we want to share and how we
• 46:33
  Speaker 1: want to share it. I don't know, but there's no
• 46:35
  Speaker 1: pedestals for me. The many people put you on the
• 46:38
  Speaker 1: pedestal and you you the greatest thing. That's how I
• 46:41
  Speaker 1: was fearful in the beginning. But I think the good
• 46:43
  Speaker 1: thing with us with the podcast and just even with
• 46:45
  Speaker 1: our content in general, is that we really try to
• 46:47
  Speaker 1: try to show the entire picture, like we did a
• 46:50
  Speaker 1: whole episode on cheating, because they're like, we're gonna put
• 46:52
  Speaker 1: ourselves out there before anybody tries to put us out there,
• 46:55
  Speaker 1: you know what I mean. Nobody can come to us
• 46:56
  Speaker 1: with stories now because everything's out there, both cheating, Yeah, yeah,
• 47:02
  Speaker 1: and we we we've held a hard conversation to have though,
• 47:05
  Speaker 1: Oh definitely this episode was a hard It's never it's
• 47:08
  Speaker 1: never an easy conversation to have. But I will say
• 47:10
  Speaker 1: this though, if you learn to to accept people and
• 47:14
  Speaker 1: accept them to have changes in life, you don't hold
• 47:17
  Speaker 1: people to that moment. And I've learned to not not
• 47:20
  Speaker 1: hold people to that, especially my wife, you know, saying
• 47:22
  Speaker 1: because I hope she doesn't hold me like that and
• 47:24
  Speaker 1: give me grace. I'm gonna give you grace. I was
• 47:26
  Speaker 1: after nineteen years, if you wasn't cheating somebody lying. So
• 47:29
  Speaker 1: I was like from eighteen to and we've been through
• 47:33
  Speaker 1: a lot, through the NFL, all this stuff. We had
• 47:35
  Speaker 1: an ups and down the same thing in college because
• 47:37
  Speaker 1: when we first got together when we were eighteen, I
• 47:39
  Speaker 1: told I didn't want to be a boyfriend because I
• 47:41
  Speaker 1: was just I don't want to be a boyfriend. And
• 47:42
  Speaker 1: she was like, well, I don't want to be number
• 47:45
  Speaker 1: two to nobody else, and I was like, damn, like
• 47:46
  Speaker 1: I'm really not each other like a really fragile time
• 47:51
  Speaker 1: because I came from a very like strict Withinian household,
• 47:54
  Speaker 1: so I couldn't go out, I couldn't do anything. I
• 47:55
  Speaker 1: couldn't date, I can't do anything. So when I got
• 47:58
  Speaker 1: to college, I was ready to have fun, you know,
• 48:00
  Speaker 1: and he had just gotten into college too, and he
• 48:02
  Speaker 1: was ready to have fun. And then we met each
• 48:04
  Speaker 1: other like just couldn't a lot of times it was
• 48:06
  Speaker 1: like trying to put a square peg in a triangle
• 48:09
  Speaker 1: hole because it's like we're trying to make this work
• 48:10
  Speaker 1: because we want to be together, but it just wasn't.
• 48:13
  Speaker 1: It wasn't working. And then not for nothing, I was
• 48:16
  Speaker 1: trying to be honest and tell her what I didn't want,
• 48:19
  Speaker 1: but I wanted her more than anything else, and I
• 48:21
  Speaker 1: realized I couldn't have my best friend only on my terms.
• 48:25
  Speaker 1: And that was when I had to make a decision
• 48:26
  Speaker 1: of you know what, I value monogamy with her more
• 48:30
  Speaker 1: than I value all the other aspects in life. I
• 48:32
  Speaker 1: feel like Kadena and I have a like there's a
• 48:34
  Speaker 1: divine aura that brings us together, that we work better
• 48:38
  Speaker 1: collectively and individually when we're together. I was just gonna say,
• 48:42
  Speaker 1: just as individual too, the way that both of you
• 48:45
  Speaker 1: carry yourselves and you can you're amazing people individually. But
• 48:48
  Speaker 1: I think that's important to when you talk about that
• 48:50
  Speaker 1: as an individual, how you have to be able to
• 48:52
  Speaker 1: be an independent individual before you can even be whole
• 48:56
  Speaker 1: in a relationship. No, that's true, and not for nothing.
• 48:59
  Speaker 1: I think y'all have to give yourselves a lot of
• 49:01
  Speaker 1: credit for what you've done for the culture. Because I've
• 49:04
  Speaker 1: heard your stories about your marriage and everything you've been through, right,
• 49:07
  Speaker 1: I've heard Envy stories about his marriage. Used to send me,
• 49:10
  Speaker 1: He used to send me the Twelve Days of Christmas. Ye,
• 49:13
  Speaker 1: you being a businesswoman and doing everything that you do
• 49:16
  Speaker 1: y'all really for me? What like set me up to realize, Like, Yo,
• 49:19
  Speaker 1: I could do everything I want to do because I
• 49:21
  Speaker 1: watched these people here do everything they want to do. Yeah,
• 49:24
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• 49:37
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• 50:00
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• 50:05
  Speaker 1: Dead Ass Podcast on the Breakfast Club. Thank you for
• 50:08
  Speaker 1: joining us. Make sure you're telling to watch out for Florida, Milia.
• 50:14
  Speaker 1: The craziest people in America come from the Bronx and
• 50:16
  Speaker 1: all of Florida. Yes, you are a donkey. The Florida
• 50:21
  Speaker 1: man at tapped in at N for a very strange reason.
• 50:25
  Speaker 1: It gave him too much money. Florida man is arrested
• 50:27
  Speaker 1: after definitely stay he riggs the board to his home
• 50:29
  Speaker 1: and an attempt to electric kid his partant wife. Police
• 50:31
  Speaker 1: arrested in Orlando man for talking a Flaminia the Breakfast
• 50:35
  Speaker 1: Club Bitchy Donkey other Day with Shallam Haine, a guy.
• 50:38
  Speaker 1: I don't know why y'all keeping him. Get y'all elected.
• 50:40
  Speaker 1: Oh it's me, It's me, Hondua. Listen. Donkey of the
• 50:43
  Speaker 1: Day for Tuesday, May twenty fourth goes to a Florida
• 50:46
  Speaker 1: woman named Tianna's Jones. What did Yunkashalla always say about
• 50:50
  Speaker 1: the great state of Florida, Well, the craziest people in
• 50:52
  Speaker 1: America come from the Bronx and all of Florida. And
• 50:56
  Speaker 1: I'm starting to think this is just my own personal
• 50:58
  Speaker 1: opinion that I probably formulated while I was high off
• 51:01
  Speaker 1: about fifteen milligrams of inedible. But I'm starting to think
• 51:04
  Speaker 1: some of this stuff we see online is actually just
• 51:07
  Speaker 1: alternate realities. You know, if you're a Marvelhead like myself,
• 51:10
  Speaker 1: you are familiar with the multiverse. I believe certain things
• 51:13
  Speaker 1: we see on Instagram or from another Earth, Earth eight
• 51:17
  Speaker 1: three eight. Okay, we are on Earth six one six,
• 51:20
  Speaker 1: two different earths. But if you don't know you're looking
• 51:22
  Speaker 1: at Earth eight one eight while you're on Earth six
• 51:24
  Speaker 1: one six, then you will be confused and you will
• 51:26
  Speaker 1: think that these people actually exist amongst us, which keeps
• 51:29
  Speaker 1: us in a constant state of anxiety. Okay, we are
• 51:32
  Speaker 1: United States of anxiety because of what we see on
• 51:35
  Speaker 1: Earth eight one eight. Actually it's not Earth eight one eight.
• 51:38
  Speaker 1: We're looking at this Earth six six six. Okay, planet
• 51:41
  Speaker 1: of the beast. All right, nothing but the devil in
• 51:43
  Speaker 1: fact is Satan's anis and there's a rash around. It
• 51:45
  Speaker 1: might be monkeypox. Not sure, but this woman, Tianna's Jones
• 51:49
  Speaker 1: of Florida, was arrested after calling nine one one because
• 51:54
  Speaker 1: McDonald's employees got her happy meal order wrong. You heard
• 52:00
  Speaker 1: me right. Tanna's Jones was upset that McDonald's in Florida
• 52:03
  Speaker 1: got her happy meal order wrong. Tana's is twenty two.
• 52:07
  Speaker 1: I know what you're thinking. She's way too big and
• 52:09
  Speaker 1: grown for a devil damn happy meal, but it might
• 52:12
  Speaker 1: not have been for her. She placed an order online
• 52:15
  Speaker 1: which I even didn't even know you could do it McDonald's.
• 52:18
  Speaker 1: But it is twenty twenty two, so it makes sense.
• 52:20
  Speaker 1: She ordered a happy meal, a filet of fish, tea fries,
• 52:26
  Speaker 1: and a chocolate shake. Exactly exactly. Watch this value meal.
• 52:33
  Speaker 1: Get all up in your guts. Okay, French vanilla butter
• 52:35
  Speaker 1: pecan comes out your butt. Now what does one do
• 52:37
  Speaker 1: when McDonald's gets there order wrong? Well, Tanna's. When she
• 52:41
  Speaker 1: arrived at the drive through, she was directed to pull
• 52:43
  Speaker 1: up to the third window. But you know you can't
• 52:46
  Speaker 1: give nobody in Florida direction. Okay, they don't take directions
• 52:48
  Speaker 1: in Florida. Jones ignored the directions, parked their car, and
• 52:52
  Speaker 1: entered the restaurant to address the mistake. Now, I keep
• 52:55
  Speaker 1: telling y'all, we must keep in mind we are discussing
• 52:58
  Speaker 1: Florida here. So when discussed and Florida, just know that
• 53:01
  Speaker 1: the way you would address a wrong order at a
• 53:03
  Speaker 1: fast food spot anywhere else in the world is not
• 53:07
  Speaker 1: the way Floridians would. Would you like to know Tianna's
• 53:10
  Speaker 1: definition of addressing the mistake. Let's go to Fox thirteen
• 53:14
  Speaker 1: for the report. Please Thursday night, the drive through at
• 53:17
  Speaker 1: this McDonald's detective say when twenty two year old Tianna's
• 53:20
  Speaker 1: Jones got the wrong order, her frustration exploded into a frenzy.
• 53:25
  Speaker 1: They have it ready, but because it was a special order,
• 53:28
  Speaker 1: they confused some things and they ask her pull up
• 53:31
  Speaker 1: to window three. We'll fix it for you really quick. Well,
• 53:36
  Speaker 1: she got mcmad and stormed inside, her temper getting hotter
• 53:40
  Speaker 1: and hotter by the second, until she called nine people
• 53:46
  Speaker 1: don't know how to run McDonald. I want my money out,
• 53:52
  Speaker 1: my money. I bought my money, the sure, says Joan's sister.
• 53:56
  Speaker 1: Tried to get her a chill, Nope, Employees offered to
• 54:00
  Speaker 1: reimburse her. Didn't work. She flipped out even more, whacking
• 54:04
  Speaker 1: a sign off the counter that barely missed hitting an employee.
• 54:07
  Speaker 1: Then she tore into a bunch of bottles, screwed behind
• 54:10
  Speaker 1: the counter, and went to work on stacks of cups
• 54:13
  Speaker 1: and other supplies. I don't know what was wrong with
• 54:15
  Speaker 1: her that night. I don't know if she was like
• 54:19
  Speaker 1: two fry short of a happy meal, or maybe it
• 54:22
  Speaker 1: was she was short of a happy male completely, but
• 54:25
  Speaker 1: she created a mcmass and she acted like a McNutt
• 54:31
  Speaker 1: instead of leaving with one from the restaurant as a
• 54:34
  Speaker 1: grand finale, she whipped up a little shake of her own.
• 54:37
  Speaker 1: She pulls her shirt up. There you go, there's a
• 54:39
  Speaker 1: little torque on the way out the door. Ah. We
• 54:44
  Speaker 1: live in a world full of hepatitis and COVID and
• 54:47
  Speaker 1: white supremacy and social media and heart disease and colon
• 54:50
  Speaker 1: cancer and World War three possibly in aliens and June
• 54:54
  Speaker 1: teeth create value ice cream. And she caused nine on
• 54:57
  Speaker 1: one because her McDonald's thought was wrong. Okay, listen, listen
• 55:00
  Speaker 1: to nine one one callers. People don't know how to run.
• 55:07
  Speaker 1: I want my money out, my money. I bought my money.
• 55:12
  Speaker 1: They tried to offer a refund, by the way, she
• 55:15
  Speaker 1: didn't take it for whatever reason. So I don't get
• 55:16
  Speaker 1: what she's complaining about. But I remember when Flavor flavoring
• 55:19
  Speaker 1: Public Enemy told us now when one was a joke. Okay,
• 55:22
  Speaker 1: it's hard enough to get nine one one operator to
• 55:24
  Speaker 1: take issues with black people serious as it is, And
• 55:26
  Speaker 1: now we're wasting their time over devil damn McDonald's. I
• 55:29
  Speaker 1: understand Tianna's is five months pregnant, so the hormone changes
• 55:32
  Speaker 1: could be one reason for this uncontrollable anger. And she
• 55:35
  Speaker 1: was hungry, okay, angry, and a pregnant woman who I understand. Okay,
• 55:41
  Speaker 1: all right, she give me back that filet of fish.
• 55:43
  Speaker 1: Give me that fish, Okay, not Tiana's. I understand you,
• 55:45
  Speaker 1: twenty two. But wrong fast food orders are a part
• 55:48
  Speaker 1: of life, and I shouldn't have to tell you that.
• 55:49
  Speaker 1: This isn't how you react to wrong fast food orders.
• 55:52
  Speaker 1: And what's so interesting about this is I want to
• 55:55
  Speaker 1: know what was messed up. Okay. The only thing that
• 55:57
  Speaker 1: could piss her off like this is they forgotten the
• 55:59
  Speaker 1: happy Meal. You can only be this unhappy if they
• 56:01
  Speaker 1: actually forgot your happy meal. That makes all the sense
• 56:04
  Speaker 1: in the world, because I bought the happy meal because
• 56:06
  Speaker 1: I was trying to make me or some young child happy.
• 56:09
  Speaker 1: If they forgot the happy meal, then I understand you
• 56:12
  Speaker 1: getting irate. What makes this story extra Florida is after
• 56:16
  Speaker 1: this woman comes in McDonald's, knocks over condiments, goes behind
• 56:20
  Speaker 1: the counter and throws stacks of cups, then calls nine
• 56:24
  Speaker 1: one one irate, she twerks on the way out. Listen
• 56:28
  Speaker 1: to this part. You get that little girl. There's a
• 56:30
  Speaker 1: little twerk on the way out the door, A little
• 56:32
  Speaker 1: twerk on the way out the door. You know what
• 56:34
  Speaker 1: happened here? Somebody pulled up to the drive through playing
• 56:36
  Speaker 1: her favorite song. Okay, might have been City Girls, but
• 56:39
  Speaker 1: you know when your favorite record comes on one of
• 56:41
  Speaker 1: those need Girls spirituals that touches your soul, don't matter
• 56:45
  Speaker 1: what you're doing, you're gonna stop and do a little jig. Okay.
• 56:47
  Speaker 1: All I know is if you five months pregnant and
• 56:50
  Speaker 1: you go to McDonald's and you order a happy meal
• 56:53
  Speaker 1: for lay of fish, tea fries, a chocolate shake, and
• 56:58
  Speaker 1: you twerk, whoa, whoa. Once again, I'm not gonna sit
• 57:04
  Speaker 1: here and ask why Tiannas did this? All right, there
• 57:07
  Speaker 1: is no logic in it. It's simply Florida ladies and gentlemen,
• 57:11
  Speaker 1: Florida please give Tiannas Jones to Sweet Signs and Hamletones.
• 57:15
  Speaker 1: You donkey, oh the day, Yeah the dog, Oh the day. Ye.
• 57:33
  Speaker 1: A happy meal for laya fish, tea fries, and a
• 57:39
  Speaker 1: chocolate shake and you twerk. Last time I heard a
• 57:43
  Speaker 1: order that was guaranteed to give you bubble guts like
• 57:46
  Speaker 1: this was on the Laicia Keys. You don't know my name, well,
• 57:49
  Speaker 1: that Kyla Greens and Hot Coco or something that was
• 57:52
  Speaker 1: a recipe for disaster. Okay, I haven't heard the recipe
• 57:55
  Speaker 1: for disaster like this in a long time. This is guaranteed.
• 57:58
  Speaker 1: Bubble Guts to breakfast Club, Good Morning, the breakfast club corner.
• 58:09
  Speaker 1: It was, you know, he's yes, absolutely using it for himself.
• 58:13
  Speaker 1: So it could have been done. But we're not Cornell West.
• 58:16
  Speaker 1: We we thought maybe we can do something a bit
• 58:18
  Speaker 1: more practically. So we went to law school. I went
• 58:21
  Speaker 1: to Duke, he went to NYU. He wasn't passionate at
• 58:24
  Speaker 1: all about it. I thought that I really wanted to
• 58:27
  Speaker 1: be a lawyer, but it just didn't work out. Yeah,
• 58:30
  Speaker 1: and then right around that time in law school, I
• 58:31
  Speaker 1: started experimenting with drugs. Like I started smoking, I started
• 58:34
  Speaker 1: doing adderall, I was drinking, and like I was starting
• 58:37
  Speaker 1: to like because the stress of law school. I never
• 58:40
  Speaker 1: felt anything like that before. And I'm from Newark. I've
• 58:43
  Speaker 1: seen that violence. I've seen like people using drugs. Didn't
• 58:46
  Speaker 1: never wanted to touch a drug. Then I get to
• 58:48
  Speaker 1: law school, I'm like, damn, I can't take this exam.
• 58:53
  Speaker 1: Three years of law school almost finished, were almost finished.
• 58:57
  Speaker 1: We did like with two years and like ninety eight
• 59:00
  Speaker 1: percent about thirty year we have about two weeks left
• 59:03
  Speaker 1: before our exams, and we were like, okay, man, let's
• 59:06
  Speaker 1: go do standout. I want to go back to the
• 59:07
  Speaker 1: law school thing. Have you ever unpacked that? Because you
• 59:09
  Speaker 1: came up in the hood, so that seems so normal
• 59:11
  Speaker 1: with the fact that when you was in law school
• 59:13
  Speaker 1: you was like fish out of water kind of that's
• 59:15
  Speaker 1: exactly what Yeah, that's exactly what it felt like, Alice
• 59:18
  Speaker 1: in Wonderland, Like, I had never seen people use drugs
• 59:21
  Speaker 1: so openly from like privilege. It's got what you as
• 59:23
  Speaker 1: a black man, right, because you see people in the hood,
• 59:26
  Speaker 1: they're usually leaning on drugs for for trauma reasons, right
• 59:29
  Speaker 1: y'all y'all doing this for fun, not going to jail exactly,
• 59:34
  Speaker 1: Like it blew our minds, now, how can they especially
• 59:38
  Speaker 1: at law school, you know, these guys are the people
• 59:39
  Speaker 1: who are gonna be right, policy right, laws right, and
• 59:42
  Speaker 1: they're breaking the rules and these policies are going to
• 59:44
  Speaker 1: affect you know, black people. So it was like a
• 59:47
  Speaker 1: weird sort of situation where you're like, how can I
• 59:50
  Speaker 1: study this and know that these these people are gonna
• 59:52
  Speaker 1: write these laws that affect my people? But there they
• 59:55
  Speaker 1: don't even care about the rules are the laws. Get
• 59:58
  Speaker 1: back to it. So y'all decided not to fish law
• 1:00:00
  Speaker 1: school after stand up in let's do comedy. Yeah, when
• 1:00:03
  Speaker 1: you're working on comedy or did some of the family
• 1:00:05
  Speaker 1: gonna say y'all funny, I'm like, listen, nobody, family. I
• 1:00:09
  Speaker 1: think it was just like I went I did some
• 1:00:11
  Speaker 1: stand up in New York. I went to like a club.
• 1:00:13
  Speaker 1: I did a club and it was just I sucked,
• 1:00:15
  Speaker 1: but I liked it. But what makes you do that?
• 1:00:17
  Speaker 1: But you know what, let me try. I was losing
• 1:00:18
  Speaker 1: my mind. I think I was losing my mind. Like
• 1:00:20
  Speaker 1: I was literally like drinking, doing drugs, and I was like, man,
• 1:00:25
  Speaker 1: I'm not I'm not gonna do this law school anymore.
• 1:00:28
  Speaker 1: And I was just losing. I was breaking up with
• 1:00:30
  Speaker 1: my girlfriend at the time. He was breaking up with
• 1:00:32
  Speaker 1: me at the time, and I was just like I
• 1:00:36
  Speaker 1: was on one man, like it was crazy, but I
• 1:00:38
  Speaker 1: was on stage and that was the only time I
• 1:00:40
  Speaker 1: felt normal. And you went to his first show, No,
• 1:00:42
  Speaker 1: he sent me. He sent me a clip of it.
• 1:00:44
  Speaker 1: You didn't even go. You know, I was in North Carolina.
• 1:00:46
  Speaker 1: He was in New York, right. He sent me a
• 1:00:48
  Speaker 1: clip of his first show. And I was like, Yo,
• 1:00:50
  Speaker 1: this terrible, the worst set I thought. I know, I
• 1:00:56
  Speaker 1: knew he was having like the crisis of mental health.
• 1:00:58
  Speaker 1: And I was like, dude, man like this, do it
• 1:01:00
  Speaker 1: a few more times, but you know, get back to
• 1:01:02
  Speaker 1: the books because this ain't But he kept with it,
• 1:01:06
  Speaker 1: like he still kept going to the open mics and
• 1:01:09
  Speaker 1: he still kept, you know, trying to get better at it.
• 1:01:11
  Speaker 1: So after like a couple of weeks he called me again.
• 1:01:15
  Speaker 1: It was like, Yo, I think we need to quit
• 1:01:16
  Speaker 1: law school. I think we need to write it was crazy.
• 1:01:22
  Speaker 1: I want to be a lawyer. I didn't put three
• 1:01:24
  Speaker 1: years into this. I'm not gonna just drop it for comedy.
• 1:01:27
  Speaker 1: But he was very persuasive. And then that's when I
• 1:01:30
  Speaker 1: had that moment of clarity, like, man, let's just do it.
• 1:01:33
  Speaker 1: Let's try it. So he would have been a law
• 1:01:36
  Speaker 1: That's what I said. I used my three years of
• 1:01:38
  Speaker 1: legal education just to convince him to drop out of
• 1:01:40
  Speaker 1: law school. So now what is your mom? Say? Your mom,
• 1:01:42
  Speaker 1: you know, struggled to get you in good school, worked
• 1:01:45
  Speaker 1: hard for you. Yeah, she's so excited my boys about
• 1:01:48
  Speaker 1: to be attorneys. And he like, Mom, now we're dropping out.
• 1:01:50
  Speaker 1: We're gonna be I mean she thought we were losing
• 1:01:54
  Speaker 1: our minds. I mean, she knows, like our whole story.
• 1:01:57
  Speaker 1: So she's familiar with our father not being there. She
• 1:02:00
  Speaker 1: familiar with the drugs, and he's like, you know, maybe
• 1:02:01
  Speaker 1: you guys should go to therapy or something. Make sure
• 1:02:04
  Speaker 1: you think about what you're doing before you're doing it,
• 1:02:05
  Speaker 1: just being a mom. But eventually when she saw that
• 1:02:08
  Speaker 1: we were serious about it and we were made us happy,
• 1:02:10
  Speaker 1: he was huge, completely on board, right dad. You know
• 1:02:13
  Speaker 1: he thought that he's gonna get some free legal advice
• 1:02:15
  Speaker 1: all right. Once we dropped out, he got upset. He's
• 1:02:20
  Speaker 1: been super supported. I love how you said, my mom
• 1:02:22
  Speaker 1: knows our whole story, like people like my mom is
• 1:02:25
  Speaker 1: my day one? Oh really? I mean you can't lie
• 1:02:29
  Speaker 1: to her, like you know what I mean, you can't
• 1:02:31
  Speaker 1: lie to pretty much. You can't lie to your mom.
• 1:02:33
  Speaker 1: She just sees right through that. We got more with
• 1:02:36
  Speaker 1: the Lucas Brothers. When we come back, don't move. It's
• 1:02:38
  Speaker 1: the Breakfast Club, Good morning morning. Everybody is DJ Envy
• 1:02:41
  Speaker 1: Angela Yee, Charlomagne, the guy we are the Breakfast Club
• 1:02:44
  Speaker 1: were still kicking it with the Lucas Brothers. Charlomagne. Do
• 1:02:47
  Speaker 1: you think censorship artists, uh, woke culture that we're in
• 1:02:51
  Speaker 1: right now, is that going to dilute the art? No,
• 1:02:54
  Speaker 1: I don't think so. I think that it's going to
• 1:02:56
  Speaker 1: make because even more, what's the way to look for
• 1:02:58
  Speaker 1: making us like I think creative? I creative. You have
• 1:03:01
  Speaker 1: to be creative, you have to be a little bit
• 1:03:03
  Speaker 1: more considerative because I think about it. Look, there was
• 1:03:07
  Speaker 1: a period when black face was like the top style
• 1:03:09
  Speaker 1: of comedy. People were like, the people like, you can't
• 1:03:11
  Speaker 1: do black face anymore. I'm sure that people who were
• 1:03:13
  Speaker 1: doing black face were like, this is ruining comedy, this
• 1:03:16
  Speaker 1: is hurting the purity. But it's like, no, you just
• 1:03:18
  Speaker 1: have to, you know, adjust and make better comedy. I
• 1:03:21
  Speaker 1: think that's how evolution works. It's like you just have
• 1:03:23
  Speaker 1: to if people are like they don't make fun of
• 1:03:26
  Speaker 1: trans or don't make fun of gays, and now we
• 1:03:28
  Speaker 1: can't do those things. I think it makes our comedy fresher.
• 1:03:31
  Speaker 1: I think it makes it purer because now you're, you know,
• 1:03:35
  Speaker 1: got to be a bit more inventive. You gotta just
• 1:03:37
  Speaker 1: be a bit more creative and clever. But does it
• 1:03:39
  Speaker 1: really reflect reality? Meaning like I should get a certain
• 1:03:42
  Speaker 1: type of license to reflect reality or right, if you're
• 1:03:46
  Speaker 1: not able to reflect reality without people offending, people saying,
• 1:03:50
  Speaker 1: oh that that shouldn't be in the movie. It's offensive. Like,
• 1:03:52
  Speaker 1: but it's a movie. I'm trying to tell a story here, right, right, right, No,
• 1:03:56
  Speaker 1: I see what you're saying. I guess I just think
• 1:03:59
  Speaker 1: like it's not just about you know, telling the freest
• 1:04:01
  Speaker 1: form of comedy, but it's also like a moral and
• 1:04:04
  Speaker 1: social component to the comedy that we do. Again, you
• 1:04:08
  Speaker 1: can choose to be offensive, you can choose to say
• 1:04:11
  Speaker 1: whatever you want, but you have to be prepared for
• 1:04:13
  Speaker 1: the backlas. You know, you could do whatever you want. Yeah, so,
• 1:04:17
  Speaker 1: but for us, it's like you still got to take risk,
• 1:04:20
  Speaker 1: but got to you have to. I mean that's art.
• 1:04:22
  Speaker 1: Art is risk taking. Yeah, I mean, you guys are
• 1:04:24
  Speaker 1: doing a remake of Revenge of the Nerds. I heard
• 1:04:27
  Speaker 1: with us Seth McFarlane right that movie would be considered problematic, toxic,
• 1:04:31
  Speaker 1: reinforcing great culture. It was problematic, you know in the nineties,
• 1:04:36
  Speaker 1: we didn't notice. How do you remake that for this era,
• 1:04:40
  Speaker 1: you know, times of change. I feel like we have
• 1:04:43
  Speaker 1: an opportunity to comment on the film in the eighties.
• 1:04:47
  Speaker 1: You know, I think that like they did in twenty
• 1:04:49
  Speaker 1: two Jumps three to twenty one Jumps, they took an
• 1:04:51
  Speaker 1: approach where it allowed for them to you know, create
• 1:04:54
  Speaker 1: a new story but also comment on the past. And
• 1:04:57
  Speaker 1: I think that's what we want to do, because he
• 1:04:58
  Speaker 1: that's my thing. Nobody's knowledging the shift in culture, right, right,
• 1:05:02
  Speaker 1: there was a shift in culture. The stuff that you
• 1:05:05
  Speaker 1: used to could have get away way to music, music, movies, whatever,
• 1:05:07
  Speaker 1: you just can't anymore. But we haven't acknowledged that. Yeah,
• 1:05:11
  Speaker 1: it's almost like we just started handling out retrorafter speeding tickets, right,
• 1:05:15
  Speaker 1: It's weird. I think I think there's been a shift
• 1:05:17
  Speaker 1: in the number of things. I feel like there's been
• 1:05:19
  Speaker 1: a shift in science. We've we've gone from you know,
• 1:05:22
  Speaker 1: straight Einstein sort of relativity to sort of a quantum
• 1:05:26
  Speaker 1: sort of perspective of science. And I think that that's
• 1:05:28
  Speaker 1: reflective of in the Internet, where everyone has a point
• 1:05:30
  Speaker 1: of view and everyone feels like their reality is real.
• 1:05:32
  Speaker 1: Like like everyone says we're speaking out of truth. Everyone's
• 1:05:36
  Speaker 1: truth is sort of legit. I mean, even if it
• 1:05:39
  Speaker 1: contradicts someone else's reality. And that's quantum. You know what
• 1:05:42
  Speaker 1: I mean, like, everyone's perspective is legitimate, even flat earths,
• 1:05:46
  Speaker 1: even flat eartherst, Like, if they believe it, why is
• 1:05:49
  Speaker 1: it not, you know, like they truly believe It's even
• 1:05:51
  Speaker 1: if you put forth evidence that you know their beliefs
• 1:05:54
  Speaker 1: are erroneous, they're still going to believe what they want
• 1:05:57
  Speaker 1: to believe. Right, So you're putting yourself at a disavent,
• 1:06:00
  Speaker 1: and it's trying to use reason to a person that
• 1:06:02
  Speaker 1: doesn't even use reason. Right, Well, do you think about
• 1:06:03
  Speaker 1: putting their disclaimers, you know how they've been putting disclaimers
• 1:06:06
  Speaker 1: like on movies and TV shows just to give people like, okay,
• 1:06:09
  Speaker 1: this was filmed during this time. I mean, I think
• 1:06:12
  Speaker 1: that that's a more effective approach than just completely banning something.
• 1:06:16
  Speaker 1: I mean, I think that maybe that works. But again,
• 1:06:19
  Speaker 1: I think we're assuming that audiences aren't intelligent. We're assuming
• 1:06:23
  Speaker 1: that they can't differentiate between what's offensive and what's not offensive.
• 1:06:27
  Speaker 1: It's and then you're gonna have a small minority of
• 1:06:29
  Speaker 1: people who go online and say take this down. But
• 1:06:32
  Speaker 1: I think what's happening now is people being very reactive
• 1:06:34
  Speaker 1: to those minority of voices. Yeah, I feel like eventually
• 1:06:38
  Speaker 1: hopefully that they'll be like a leveling out where we're like, Okay,
• 1:06:41
  Speaker 1: maybe we shouldn't be that reaction there, Maybe we should.
• 1:06:43
  Speaker 1: Maybe we should have some sort of due process in
• 1:06:46
  Speaker 1: assessing what we do with a particular piece of art,
• 1:06:49
  Speaker 1: because it's a very slippery slope. Like I even saw
• 1:06:51
  Speaker 1: what they did with a YG this weekend with the
• 1:06:53
  Speaker 1: meet the Fokker's record, right, and I think they took
• 1:06:55
  Speaker 1: it down, but then they put it back because they said,
• 1:06:56
  Speaker 1: if we take this down, and we're gonna have to
• 1:06:58
  Speaker 1: do this all across the boars so many things people
• 1:07:02
  Speaker 1: could be offended by, Like it's like you can't go
• 1:07:04
  Speaker 1: down that role when it comes to art. I think
• 1:07:06
  Speaker 1: we need to make a distinction between offense and harm, right,
• 1:07:09
  Speaker 1: I think we need to. I think when we're assessing
• 1:07:11
  Speaker 1: how we limit someone's liberty, like is that exercise of
• 1:07:15
  Speaker 1: liberty harming a person or is it offending a person?
• 1:07:18
  Speaker 1: If it's harming, then I think we can take a
• 1:07:20
  Speaker 1: more proactive approach to the piece of art and maybe say, hey,
• 1:07:23
  Speaker 1: maybe we should consider taking it down if it's just
• 1:07:25
  Speaker 1: offending someone, Like I think you have a right to
• 1:07:27
  Speaker 1: be offended. I'm saying, I don't think that that offense
• 1:07:30
  Speaker 1: should equate to completely eliminate in a work of art.
• 1:07:34
  Speaker 1: I think we have to I think we have to
• 1:07:35
  Speaker 1: be able to process offense and have honest conversations about
• 1:07:39
  Speaker 1: that which offends. But I think that that shouldn't result in,
• 1:07:43
  Speaker 1: you know, a boycott of someone's work of art that
• 1:07:46
  Speaker 1: they've put years into. Like if it's harmful, if it's
• 1:07:49
  Speaker 1: causing violence, if it's like causing like blatant racism, then
• 1:07:53
  Speaker 1: you got like black face, for example, that that was
• 1:07:55
  Speaker 1: harmful to black people, you know what I mean, like
• 1:07:57
  Speaker 1: birth of a Nation, what's directly harmful to black But
• 1:08:00
  Speaker 1: so it should be removed. I mean, I don't think
• 1:08:02
  Speaker 1: that that's a problem. I don't. I don't have an
• 1:08:04
  Speaker 1: issue with that. But if it's just offensive, I'm like, yeah,
• 1:08:07
  Speaker 1: we gotta have kickers that don't move. We got more
• 1:08:09
  Speaker 1: with the Lucas Brothers. When we come back, it's the
• 1:08:11
  Speaker 1: Breakfast Club, Go Morning, the Breakfast Club Morning. Everybody is
• 1:08:18
  Speaker 1: DJ Envy Angela Yee, Charlomagne the guy we are the
• 1:08:21
  Speaker 1: Breakfast Club were still kicking it with the Lucas Brothers.
• 1:08:24
  Speaker 1: Charlomagne Judas in the Black Side. Well, first of all,
• 1:08:26
  Speaker 1: you've done a lot more than us in the Black Side.
• 1:08:27
  Speaker 1: I remember aller friends of the people, you know what
• 1:08:30
  Speaker 1: I mean, you little round? Who else was on that?
• 1:08:35
  Speaker 1: Jermaine Fowler, Josh Bennowitz. Yeah, Like if you think about
• 1:08:40
  Speaker 1: it now, that show should have been a hit. It
• 1:08:42
  Speaker 1: should have been, but you know, you know, sometimes things
• 1:08:46
  Speaker 1: fell to launch. I mean you think about Okay, see
• 1:08:48
  Speaker 1: the thunder that had all the talent in the world,
• 1:08:50
  Speaker 1: they couldn't get a championship. I don't remember when network
• 1:08:52
  Speaker 1: that was true TV. How you going from TV the
• 1:08:56
  Speaker 1: Oscar nominated? I meant to say, how do y'all go
• 1:09:09
  Speaker 1: from that to Oscar nominated? What are the steps? What's
• 1:09:11
  Speaker 1: the process? It's a grind man Like. It was crazy
• 1:09:14
  Speaker 1: for us because, like it was, we were going to
• 1:09:16
  Speaker 1: nowhere fast. Scotch show gets canceled and we were like,
• 1:09:18
  Speaker 1: let's just go to Lucas. Lucas Bros. Movement gets canceled,
• 1:09:22
  Speaker 1: Like so we got two cancelations under our belt with
• 1:09:24
  Speaker 1: five years and we're like, so we we escaped from
• 1:09:27
  Speaker 1: New York and humiliation in our minds and we go
• 1:09:31
  Speaker 1: to LA and we're like, all right, we're gonna figure
• 1:09:33
  Speaker 1: this out here. We're gonna you know, we're gonna figure
• 1:09:36
  Speaker 1: out I act, We're gonna write something. Before we went
• 1:09:38
  Speaker 1: to LA, we were already like thinking about Judas. You know,
• 1:09:41
  Speaker 1: we were already right right, really brainstorming like some of
• 1:09:44
  Speaker 1: the beats of the story. We were just doing a
• 1:09:46
  Speaker 1: lot of research. Around twenty twelve, twenty thirteen, we started
• 1:09:49
  Speaker 1: doing a ton of research about have To. We didn't
• 1:09:51
  Speaker 1: know how to turn it into a film, but we
• 1:09:54
  Speaker 1: knew like, this is something that we would like to
• 1:09:56
  Speaker 1: potentially turn into a film. So we went to LA
• 1:10:00
  Speaker 1: with the gold in mind of either getting the script
• 1:10:02
  Speaker 1: deal to write, to write Judas, or to sell pitch somewhere.
• 1:10:05
  Speaker 1: We had ambitions going into Cali, but we were still
• 1:10:10
  Speaker 1: so focused on comedy that it was sort of like
• 1:10:12
  Speaker 1: a bouncing at trying to get Judas made, but also
• 1:10:15
  Speaker 1: trying to like, you know, get our comedy career, you know,
• 1:10:18
  Speaker 1: back on that. I'm back back on tracks. So we're
• 1:10:20
  Speaker 1: in La. We're pitching the story around town, getting no traction.
• 1:10:24
  Speaker 1: People like this doesn't make any sense, It's not gonna
• 1:10:26
  Speaker 1: make any money. It's it's a period piece about a
• 1:10:29
  Speaker 1: black revolutionary socialism. What are you guys crazy? And we're like, yeah,
• 1:10:32
  Speaker 1: all right, we are crazy. So we we kind of
• 1:10:36
  Speaker 1: went away from the material for a bit, went back
• 1:10:38
  Speaker 1: to comedy. We were doing this pilot with Effects Killer Mike.
• 1:10:43
  Speaker 1: It was for him and that eventually went to Netflix
• 1:10:44
  Speaker 1: it and go to Effects. So we did the pilot
• 1:10:48
  Speaker 1: for Trigger Warning for Effects and Shaka King was directing it,
• 1:10:52
  Speaker 1: and that's how we that's how we met Shaka and
• 1:10:56
  Speaker 1: we knew that after we got rejected from all of
• 1:10:58
  Speaker 1: our pitches, we were like, I think we need to
• 1:11:00
  Speaker 1: work with a filmmaker who can can can take this
• 1:11:03
  Speaker 1: idea and make it into a film. And so that's
• 1:11:05
  Speaker 1: when we we're like, we gotta, we gotta, we gotta
• 1:11:07
  Speaker 1: reach out to Shaka. And then we hung out with
• 1:11:09
  Speaker 1: Shotka in our apartment in Hollywood, listening to music, just
• 1:11:12
  Speaker 1: vibing on cinema and we sort of pitched him our
• 1:11:15
  Speaker 1: idea and he said it was great, and we started
• 1:11:19
  Speaker 1: to develop a beefier outline. And then but simultaneously, Will
• 1:11:24
  Speaker 1: Bursting the other core writer, and Oscar Nominee was you know,
• 1:11:27
  Speaker 1: working on his own script, and Jamaine Fowler our boy
• 1:11:30
  Speaker 1: from a frol TP he knew he made the connection.
• 1:11:33
  Speaker 1: He knew Will, he knew that we were working on
• 1:11:35
  Speaker 1: our thing, and he just wrote us all together. We
• 1:11:38
  Speaker 1: used our story outline that we worked on with Shaka,
• 1:11:41
  Speaker 1: and so Shotka and Will went together and basically rewrote
• 1:11:45
  Speaker 1: will script using our story outline, and they wrote a
• 1:11:49
  Speaker 1: brilliant script and uh it went. They sent it to
• 1:11:53
  Speaker 1: Ryan Coogler. We didn't know that Shatka knew Ryan Coogler.
• 1:11:56
  Speaker 1: But once I mean once Ryan got it, that's one
• 1:11:59
  Speaker 1: thing started to like pick up because I love the
• 1:12:02
  Speaker 1: script and he definitely wanted to make it. He wanted
• 1:12:05
  Speaker 1: that to be his first project on its new production company, Propinity,
• 1:12:09
  Speaker 1: and so things just started to get crazy. Yeah. First
• 1:12:13
  Speaker 1: it was like we were nowhere and then Shaka Will,
• 1:12:16
  Speaker 1: Ryan Charles, I'm like what how did all in a
• 1:12:19
  Speaker 1: year that just started happening. We were like what the uh?
• 1:12:22
  Speaker 1: And then we went out with you know, the script
• 1:12:25
  Speaker 1: with Macro with Ryan with shocka or Will and us
• 1:12:28
  Speaker 1: Macro financing half, Acro financing half, and the white man
• 1:12:32
  Speaker 1: still saying no, white man still say still said we
• 1:12:36
  Speaker 1: put half the money. He's gonna get a bidding war
• 1:12:38
  Speaker 1: where we think that you know, this is we got Khaluyah,
• 1:12:42
  Speaker 1: we got Keith, we have our stars, we have a
• 1:12:45
  Speaker 1: brilliant script, we have these great producers, and still, you know,
• 1:12:47
  Speaker 1: it's a struggle. Think about that, all of that already
• 1:12:51
  Speaker 1: attached Daniel Keith, Ryan money, Macro, half the money with
• 1:12:57
  Speaker 1: Lucas Brothers and the white man like no, And I
• 1:13:01
  Speaker 1: don't think people realize how hard it is to get
• 1:13:03
  Speaker 1: a movie made, and especially when you have a dream
• 1:13:06
  Speaker 1: team like that and you still can't get traction, Like
• 1:13:09
  Speaker 1: that's how hard it is. Just Ryan after Black Panthers,
• 1:13:13
  Speaker 1: billionaire Black Panther, the hottest producer in the game. And
• 1:13:16
  Speaker 1: still but fortunately enough Warner Bros. You know, they they
• 1:13:20
  Speaker 1: put up half the money and they wanted to distribute it.
• 1:13:23
  Speaker 1: They love the script. When they let us shoot it,
• 1:13:26
  Speaker 1: they re lit it, they let us shoot it, and
• 1:13:28
  Speaker 1: it just came out as perfect as I thought it.
• 1:13:30
  Speaker 1: Why did't want to Brothers get it? I want, I need,
• 1:13:32
  Speaker 1: I need white people to understand how coolest it can be.
• 1:13:34
  Speaker 1: So I want to know why did Warner Brothers get
• 1:13:36
  Speaker 1: it over every other black executive, Black exacts, Black exacts,
• 1:13:41
  Speaker 1: they get it. Nigia really like he was the key
• 1:13:45
  Speaker 1: what's your last name? I don't know how to not
• 1:13:48
  Speaker 1: to you, Nija Kaikendall. I think I may have mispronounced that,
• 1:13:51
  Speaker 1: but yeah, she's She's a buriant executive, and she was
• 1:13:55
  Speaker 1: the one who sort of he saw the importance of
• 1:13:57
  Speaker 1: the film. She loved the script, and she was the
• 1:13:59
  Speaker 1: one who sort of just powered it through. Luna's why
• 1:14:05
  Speaker 1: diversity matters. That's exactly why that because you're telling these
• 1:14:09
  Speaker 1: stories and if you're sitting across from a group of
• 1:14:13
  Speaker 1: white people, they just don't even hear it. They don't
• 1:14:15
  Speaker 1: know the language, they don't know the why it matters. Why.
• 1:14:18
  Speaker 1: This is how we had to describe Fred Hampton. The
• 1:14:20
  Speaker 1: white people were like, Fred Hampton is the velvet underground
• 1:14:23
  Speaker 1: of civil rights leaders. We thought perhaps that they'll see
• 1:14:26
  Speaker 1: the connection. They did. It was like, you know, how
• 1:14:31
  Speaker 1: many white executive problems like Okay, Ryan Cooper's coming here
• 1:14:33
  Speaker 1: to talk about doing Black Panther, Another Black Panther. It
• 1:14:38
  Speaker 1: was at Marvel, But maybe we probably like trying to
• 1:14:40
  Speaker 1: find mess around it. Now, I see you tweeted it.
• 1:14:42
  Speaker 1: If you guys wouldn't ask as you are returning from
• 1:14:46
  Speaker 1: stand up and you're cutting off half your family yeah,
• 1:14:48
  Speaker 1: but we're gonna do that before. Yeah, I mean we
• 1:14:50
  Speaker 1: got to figure out. How do we figure out who
• 1:14:53
  Speaker 1: we're gonna cut ot? Yeah, well, well family members you
• 1:14:54
  Speaker 1: cut north, oh man, just the ones who haven't talked
• 1:14:58
  Speaker 1: to me in years and like hit me up for money.
• 1:15:01
  Speaker 1: So like the ones who like didn't know I existed,
• 1:15:03
  Speaker 1: Like like, oh you, I'm your cousin from your father's side,
• 1:15:06
  Speaker 1: Can you let me buy all three hundred dollars? Like ah, man,
• 1:15:08
  Speaker 1: get yeah, man, it's crazy. It's crazy. It's like comfortable
• 1:15:12
  Speaker 1: because they think you got money because you got an
• 1:15:14
  Speaker 1: Oscar nomine. He's like, you don't get paid for this.
• 1:15:16
  Speaker 1: You gotta pay your way for always to get extra
• 1:15:19
  Speaker 1: money for an ASCAR nomination. It's it's expec close with
• 1:15:22
  Speaker 1: your dad while he while he was in jail. Wire
• 1:15:24
  Speaker 1: you close with your dad. We were close at first,
• 1:15:28
  Speaker 1: you know, we went to go visit him a bunch,
• 1:15:30
  Speaker 1: and then we moved to North Carolina. Our mom remarried,
• 1:15:34
  Speaker 1: so we sort of became distant. We grew a little
• 1:15:36
  Speaker 1: distant because we couldn't visit them as much and we
• 1:15:38
  Speaker 1: weren't really calling them. And that was like that must
• 1:15:41
  Speaker 1: have been like five or six years and then once
• 1:15:43
  Speaker 1: he got out, we started to work on our relationship.
• 1:15:46
  Speaker 1: But you know, it was a lot to unpack. I
• 1:15:47
  Speaker 1: mean yeah, you know, as we got older, we started
• 1:15:50
  Speaker 1: to fill the ramifications of not growing up with a father,
• 1:15:54
  Speaker 1: but a lot of anger ramifications of grown up with
• 1:15:57
  Speaker 1: a father who went to prison. So it's like, you know,
• 1:15:59
  Speaker 1: you just have raided. You hate the law, you hate
• 1:16:01
  Speaker 1: the government, you hate all that, and you're trying to
• 1:16:03
  Speaker 1: figure out ways to cope, and uh, it was tough.
• 1:16:07
  Speaker 1: It was tough. It's still tough sometimes to to to
• 1:16:10
  Speaker 1: speak with our dad because of so much we missed
• 1:16:12
  Speaker 1: out on so much, you know what I mean, And
• 1:16:14
  Speaker 1: you can never forget how much you missed out on right,
• 1:16:17
  Speaker 1: Like even like to this day, I go to the
• 1:16:19
  Speaker 1: park and I see you dad like throwing the ball
• 1:16:21
  Speaker 1: with their son, and I tear up a little bit.
• 1:16:23
  Speaker 1: I'm like, man, it's kind of I wish I had that, Like,
• 1:16:25
  Speaker 1: it's it kind of sucks to know that. It's sad
• 1:16:28
  Speaker 1: man right now, father and sons. Man. Like I can't
• 1:16:52
  Speaker 1: even like scroll on Instagram and I see people like saying,
• 1:16:55
  Speaker 1: I'm like, girl, it just it's hurts. Shut up. You
• 1:17:06
  Speaker 1: might be in to make up for you know, I
• 1:17:09
  Speaker 1: do have one final question. How do y'all maintain your
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  Speaker 1: own identity? That's twins? Oh, that's a great question. That's
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  Speaker 1: a great question. That's a great question. We don't. No.
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  Speaker 1: You know what's crazy is that for a while we
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  Speaker 1: tried to like establish your when I didn't right, just
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  Speaker 1: like I want to be Keith, he wants to be Kenny.
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  Speaker 1: We went to law school. We were just trying to
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  Speaker 1: do our own thing, and we just had a breakdown,
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  Speaker 1: and uh, I think we realized, like we're just stronger together,
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  Speaker 1: and why do you need an individual identity? Like why
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  Speaker 1: why do we Why do we emphasize that so much?
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  Speaker 1: Like why is that such a thing that we place
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  Speaker 1: an importance on that I was supposed to be normal?
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  Speaker 1: Like normal normal is being a single ten of being
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  Speaker 1: an individual. And I think that that's why people get
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  Speaker 1: so stressed out. Why is that normal? But everyone's like
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  Speaker 1: has a desire to get married. So are we to
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  Speaker 1: have a desire to have a family or we have it?
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  Speaker 1: So there's this notion that the individual supreme. But we
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  Speaker 1: rushed to these group identities so quickly. We have sports teams,
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  Speaker 1: we have our family, we have, you know, religion, religion,
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  Speaker 1: a political party. We rushed to these eternities exactly, exactly,
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  Speaker 1: so I think we have to readjust how we see
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  Speaker 1: what normal is. It's not necessarily about the individual, it's
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  Speaker 1: not necessarily about you know, willing yourself to greatness. It's
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  Speaker 1: really a community type thing. And I think that he
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  Speaker 1: and I kind of see that, and we're like, we
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  Speaker 1: have a group identity right right, right, and we just
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  Speaker 1: so happened to look exactly like weird group, but a
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  Speaker 1: group nonetheless. Well, I hope y'all win to Oscar Man Man.
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  Speaker 1: Y'all gonna give a phenomenal speech. I really think y'all
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  Speaker 1: will give a great speech. And I want to see
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  Speaker 1: y'all update with the military jacks. The military jack at
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  Speaker 1: least depends something. I think we'll keep our pens up.
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  Speaker 1: I'll keep the free heering. Lucas. It's the breakfast clogal morning.
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  Speaker 1: It's topic time called eight hundred five eight five one
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  Speaker 1: oh five. Wanted to join it to the discussion with
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  Speaker 1: the Breakfast Club talk about it. I want everybody, DJ
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  Speaker 1: Envy and Jela Yee, Charlomagne the guy. We are the
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  Speaker 1: Breakfast Club now if he just joined us. We're talking
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  Speaker 1: about a story we reported during our front page news
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  Speaker 1: about a pastor in Brooklyn. You want to break it down,
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  Speaker 1: you yeah, Bishop Lamar Whitehead. He was in the middle
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  Speaker 1: of a sermon, it was live streaming when three masks
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  Speaker 1: gunmen broken with their guns and stole four hundred thousand
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  Speaker 1: dollars worth of jewelry from him and his wife, maybe
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  Speaker 1: from some turnsgoers to. We don't know where all the
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  Speaker 1: jewelry came from, but he did have on some rings
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  Speaker 1: and chain right. So when we reported the story earlier today,
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  Speaker 1: people were like, well, I mean, why the hell is
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  Speaker 1: he wearing four undred thousand dollars worth of jewelry and
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  Speaker 1: Brooklyn in the middle of recession with all the wolves
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  Speaker 1: out and people are starting. Those people are right me myself.
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  Speaker 1: You know, yes, it wouldn't be the smart decision to
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  Speaker 1: wear four hundred thousd it is worth the jewelry, but
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  Speaker 1: that's his right. He works hard for You can wear
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  Speaker 1: whatever you want to wear, right that that's what life
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  Speaker 1: is about. And they can rob whoever they want to rob,
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  Speaker 1: and they're gonna rob the people that they see ya,
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  Speaker 1: and they're gonna rob the people who they see y'all
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  Speaker 1: here flossing and stunting. The reality is, if you're gonna
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  Speaker 1: spend four hundred thousand dollars on the jury, you should
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  Speaker 1: have security. And that goes for any path, that goes
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  Speaker 1: for anybody who wants to wear those kind of luxury things,
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  Speaker 1: have security protecting you. That's it simple as that. And
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  Speaker 1: I feel like, you know, churches should have security. Period.
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  Speaker 1: We've seen enough mass shootings happening happening in churches, in
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  Speaker 1: places of the worship nowadays that things like that, you know,
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  Speaker 1: should be prevented by having on security in the churches. Anyway,
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  Speaker 1: if you're gonna spend that kind of money on your
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  Speaker 1: cars and that kind of money on your jury, how
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  Speaker 1: about spending on keeping your congregation safe. Yeah. I get
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  Speaker 1: what you're saying, But I also feel like if that
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  Speaker 1: man that pastor works hard can spend his money or
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  Speaker 1: whatever he wants to spend his money, and I mean,
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  Speaker 1: if he wants to, you know, who's debating in crown
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  Speaker 1: and wear a diamond crown, he should be able to
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  Speaker 1: would not worry about getting wrong. No, that's not that's
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  Speaker 1: not how this works. In me, that's how it should work.
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  Speaker 1: That's life. I don't care. How would you're gonnatic, you're
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  Speaker 1: gonna you're gonna do things how they should or how
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  Speaker 1: things are. Well exactly, I don't want to pay taxes.
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  Speaker 1: We should not have to pay taxes because black people
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  Speaker 1: built this country. What nocause I don't not going to jail,
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  Speaker 1: all right. I'm not gonna have the RS knocking out
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  Speaker 1: my door, all right. So my point is, yes, people
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  Speaker 1: should be able to wear what they want to wear
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  Speaker 1: without being robbed. But that's not the reality of the situation.
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  Speaker 1: So if you're gonna spend four hundred thousand on some jury,
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  Speaker 1: spend three fifty on jury and fifty thousand on security,
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  Speaker 1: I mean, of course I would hope that something like
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  Speaker 1: that wouldn't happen. It's like when somebody's driving a nice
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  Speaker 1: car and then they blame you for getting car jack
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  Speaker 1: because why would you driving such a nice car? Still,
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  Speaker 1: so why I can't drive a nice car and this,
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  Speaker 1: you know, in this neighborhood. So I get that, and
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  Speaker 1: it's a shame that something like this has to happen
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  Speaker 1: me personally. You know, I live in Brooklyn and I
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  Speaker 1: don't even own jewelry worth that much. Money, and I
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  Speaker 1: mostly wear costume jewelry anyway. You know what, you're smart.
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  Speaker 1: You're telling him that you're giving out the right message
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  Speaker 1: this morning. So that's cads for me. But I would
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  Speaker 1: think in church, you would hope that would be a
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  Speaker 1: safe haven, but unfortunately it's not. And you know, I'm
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  Speaker 1: sorry that something like this had to happen to him.
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  Speaker 1: Congregation is traumatized from this experience. And I feel like
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  Speaker 1: he's gotten a lot of press lately and the way
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  Speaker 1: that they the way that they talk about him in
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  Speaker 1: the media or the flashy you know, and I think
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  Speaker 1: that's why that's why he was targeted, because of how
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  Speaker 1: the media has put him out there for things that
• 1:22:35
  Speaker 1: have happened, you know, in the past. You just told Brooklyn. Look, man,
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  Speaker 1: I know y'all hit me on the radio. I know
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  Speaker 1: y'all know I got the businesses, but they ain't nothing
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  Speaker 1: over here for y'all all. My money is in my businesses.
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  Speaker 1: Like I'm still trying to right, we get it. I
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  Speaker 1: got on costume jewelry right now. Yeah, I believe not
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  Speaker 1: real gold earrings real cause a fake car too plastic people,
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  Speaker 1: I hear ruthless. They robbed Amy from Jeopardy. They heard
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  Speaker 1: about Amy winning all of them goddamn bride winning, and
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  Speaker 1: they robbed Amy bro not Amy. Hello, who's this man?
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  Speaker 1: It's the free from mohuns. Man. They was wrong for
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  Speaker 1: going in there robbing that, robbing that pass for like
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  Speaker 1: that in that church. But my whole thing that they
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  Speaker 1: take one hundred thousand off the church, off the passer
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  Speaker 1: or was that just collectively with the jewelry? Well, we
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  Speaker 1: don't know. It sounds like he had jewelry. But if
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  Speaker 1: you really think about it, let's say the pastor brought
• 1:23:32
  Speaker 1: himself a nice watch. Right, everybody's wearing a Richard Mill
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  Speaker 1: he maybe he bought a Richard Mill watch. That watch
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  Speaker 1: could be two three hundred thousand right there, So it
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  Speaker 1: ain't a lot of jewelry. Just gotta watch him. And
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  Speaker 1: if his wife got one on an engagement ring, that's
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  Speaker 1: four hunted. Yeah, they took their rings and everything. Man,
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  Speaker 1: y'all asking the wrong questions. How much they're gonna get
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  Speaker 1: for it in the street? Man? What was that? That's
• 1:23:52
  Speaker 1: how much they're gonna get in the street. How much
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  Speaker 1: they gonna get if it's a Richard Mill watch, let's say,
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  Speaker 1: probably get about a cash by eighty. You know, you're right.
• 1:24:01
  Speaker 1: It could be their wedding bands, her wedding ring and
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  Speaker 1: all of that too, And sometimes people spend money on
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  Speaker 1: that stuff. Eight hundred five eight five one o five one.
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  Speaker 1: We'll talk about the pastor who got robbed in Brooklyn
• 1:24:11
  Speaker 1: while he was live streaming. They took it for his joy,
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  Speaker 1: they said, four hundred thousand dollars. People are like, oh, well,
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  Speaker 1: you shouldn't be wearing that in Brooklyn anyway, doing a
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  Speaker 1: live sermon during the recession. But I feel like he
• 1:24:21
  Speaker 1: worked hard for You should wear whatever you want to wear. Man,
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  Speaker 1: shut up, No, yes, you can wear whatever you want
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  Speaker 1: to win. People can rob whatever they want to rob.
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  Speaker 1: The reality of the situation is, don't wear nothing you
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  Speaker 1: can't protect. And if you can't protect yourself, you better
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  Speaker 1: high somebody to protect it for you. All right, Breakfast
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  Speaker 1: Club for morning