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- 0:00Speaker 1: Good morning Usa yo yo yo yo yo yo yo
- 0:03Speaker 1: yo yo yo yo yo yo yo yo yo yo
- 0:04Speaker 1: yo yo yo yo yo yo yo yo yo yo
- 0:06Speaker 1: yo yo yo yo yo. I'm DJ Envy and now
- 0:10Speaker 1: go body named is Charlottage, the guy with the world
- 0:12Speaker 1: the most dangerous morning shore the Breakfast Club and currently
- 0:14Speaker 1: we are on vacation, man, totally disconnected. Yes, we're not
- 0:18Speaker 1: even really here. You think you're listening to us, but
- 0:20Speaker 1: we're not. Well, we are not. We're here in spirit.
- 0:23Speaker 1: Yeah yeah, but hey, it's okay because we had given
- 0:26Speaker 1: you some of the best of this week, the best donkeys,
- 0:28Speaker 1: the best interviews you guys, which are the best callers
- 0:31Speaker 1: in some of the best moments the Breakfast Club has
- 0:33Speaker 1: had in the last couple of months. So sit back, relax,
- 0:36Speaker 1: enjoy and have fun. Keep a lock right, it's gonna
- 0:38Speaker 1: be running the boards. It's the Breakfast Club morning, yo.
- 0:43Speaker 1: This is your time to get it off your chest.
- 0:45Speaker 1: Eight hundred and five A five, one oh five one.
- 0:47Speaker 1: We want to hear from you on the Breakfast Club. Hello.
- 0:51Speaker 1: Who's this? Yeah? This is the Sugar. Hey, what up, sugar?
- 0:55Speaker 1: And get it off your chest? Bro, man, I just
- 0:57Speaker 1: want to talk about my kids. Man, they'd be dressing yeah,
- 1:00Speaker 1: with the b Bucks vacation coming up. But I love
- 1:04Speaker 1: him though, I love the death he said, with it
- 1:06Speaker 1: what bug man, they'd be. They'll be sticking up the
- 1:09Speaker 1: bad room with the with the wives and the folds.
- 1:14Speaker 1: It's it's bad. It's the b bug how these kids
- 1:18Speaker 1: is bad? Man? Think it? Kids? Well, we gotta nine.
- 1:20Speaker 1: We got a nine year old and we got a
- 1:22Speaker 1: fat year room. You gotta teach how to wipe the ass.
- 1:24Speaker 1: That's wild nine to five din you know the white
- 1:27Speaker 1: big booky by now absolutely, man, pray for me, then
- 1:31Speaker 1: y'all pray for me. Then that means that means they
- 1:34Speaker 1: daddy don't really know how to wipe me as that's true. Whoa, whoa.
- 1:38Speaker 1: I watched the episode with you a ray Ja man,
- 1:40Speaker 1: I'm not a man. So you learned how to wipe
- 1:43Speaker 1: peple asks by watching the episode of the Breakfast Club
- 1:44Speaker 1: with ray Jack, and we're helping people. It does. I
- 1:48Speaker 1: appreciate ray Jake man, I'll be laughing. How old are you, brother,
- 1:53Speaker 1: I'm a good young thirty man. I was born in
- 1:55Speaker 1: the nineteen ninety hundreds. Man, so he was he thirtyears
- 1:58Speaker 1: old and just learn how to probably wipe his assos.
- 2:02Speaker 1: And if you got bed bugs, bro, this is a
- 2:03Speaker 1: serious problem. I mean you gotta do something. Yeah, yeah,
- 2:09Speaker 1: all right, but I appreciate that. Man. If we are
- 2:12Speaker 1: doing nothing cleaning this house. See yeah, I see niggas everything.
- 2:19Speaker 1: See that's the that's the when you're a child, that's
- 2:21Speaker 1: the one that your parents stay away from them because
- 2:23Speaker 1: that family dirty over there. That's that's that, that's that
- 2:25Speaker 1: dirty family. Lord have mercy. Hello hello. Yeah. I'd like
- 2:32Speaker 1: to say I'm a black boom Art Johnson from Long Beach, California.
- 2:35Speaker 1: I love black, love what I'm bugged to, my baby,
- 2:39Speaker 1: to a fact woman. The black woman is the pressure
- 2:42Speaker 1: thing gonna hurt. And if you date outside that, I
- 2:45Speaker 1: don't think nothing light right or white holy dark skin
- 2:50Speaker 1: art consult and I'm better. We've been together you and
- 2:54Speaker 1: all I want to say is owing the store, brother,
- 2:57Speaker 1: make sure your kids look like you ain't white black,
- 3:01Speaker 1: instead of going in there looking like any other and
- 3:04Speaker 1: you don't know what they are. See this black, I'm black.
- 3:08Speaker 1: I agree with you, that me and doctor black. Because
- 3:11Speaker 1: when you're going that store and they don't know what
- 3:13Speaker 1: your kids identify, it is they're gonna look at him
- 3:15Speaker 1: as others. But when you stay with your stay with
- 3:17Speaker 1: your black woman, they gonna know your kids the black
- 3:20Speaker 1: when they're going that supermarket? Are they going that mall?
- 3:22Speaker 1: Keep it black on black black Africa? He looks like
- 3:27Speaker 1: the African or bother where we came and everybody see
- 3:32Speaker 1: us black ain't nowhere. I'm my black brother? Doctor? Why yeah,
- 3:40Speaker 1: all right? Why you just said, Charlottagne. You keep telling
- 3:43Speaker 1: people I'm Dominican. I'm not Dominican. People starting to believe
- 3:45Speaker 1: I'm dominic I'm black, but I ain't. I'm black for
- 3:48Speaker 1: really the other black black? You know what to get
- 3:53Speaker 1: your hello? Who's this? This beard? Out of pumping on? Man?
- 3:57Speaker 1: Ain't bossil build a blast the day. I want to
- 4:00Speaker 1: tell y'all doing a great job. Y'all keep it positive
- 4:03Speaker 1: for me every morning. Thank you brother. How was your weekend?
- 4:05Speaker 1: What you do this week? And you said you want
- 4:06Speaker 1: to share something about your weekend. All I wanted to
- 4:09Speaker 1: said was it was a great weekend. Man. You know,
- 4:11Speaker 1: but something to say, employee, it UM gives me good
- 4:16Speaker 1: mental health. I read this book. Thank you, UM, tell
- 4:19Speaker 1: him thank you? When do you have you the man? Man?
- 4:22Speaker 1: I got a car in the making. Whenever you bring
- 4:25Speaker 1: your cars to the Florida, MA, I'm gonna bring you through.
- 4:27Speaker 1: All right, we come in the Florida. I think in October.
- 4:29Speaker 1: We're doing it the same weekend. It's fifties Tycoon weekends,
- 4:32Speaker 1: so I just stay tuned for the day, so I'm
- 4:34Speaker 1: not sure the exact day, though, I appreciate. Brother. Hello,
- 4:38Speaker 1: who's this yo? This is from Florida. What's up? What's up?
- 4:42Speaker 1: What's happening? Good morning, sir? Yes, sir, did you just
- 4:49Speaker 1: tell us what's gonna go duke for duke with any
- 4:52Speaker 1: country in this world? No, that's not what I said.
- 4:55Speaker 1: I said, I said, I said you. I said, you
- 4:58Speaker 1: don't want want nobody to be going new for new.
- 5:01Speaker 1: I said, We'll all be dead with it within a
- 5:03Speaker 1: matter of minutes. Absolutely, But I just wanted to put
- 5:06Speaker 1: on the record that America is that that country we
- 5:12Speaker 1: spent some military, no country wanting with us. It will
- 5:15Speaker 1: be over within a matter of matter of Yeah, yeah, yeah,
- 5:20Speaker 1: But you're acting like Russia and China don't have nuclear
- 5:22Speaker 1: weapons too, bro, bro be a lot of debt. You
- 5:24Speaker 1: don't want that. That's not what your instruction. I don't
- 5:26Speaker 1: want that at all. I don't think they're weapons are
- 5:30Speaker 1: advanced as ours, as quick as ours. I think I
- 5:34Speaker 1: think that y'all sound ridiculous, and I think y'all have
- 5:36Speaker 1: no idea what nuclear weapons are. You do not want
- 5:39Speaker 1: nuclear warfare, but sounds stupid. I hate when people say, yeah,
- 5:41Speaker 1: I will, our weapons are so more that you don't
- 5:44Speaker 1: want that. You do not want. You do not want
- 5:47Speaker 1: country to start throwing nukes around. That's not that, it's
- 5:50Speaker 1: there's no tomorrow. People. When when that happens, and we
- 5:53Speaker 1: faced a lot of them, don't do that. Begetting off
- 5:58Speaker 1: your chest. Eight hundred five eight five one oh five one.
- 6:01Speaker 1: If you need to vent, hit us up now. It's
- 6:03Speaker 1: the Breakfast Club. Good morning, the Breakfast Club. It's a
- 6:09Speaker 1: new thing. Is your time to get it off your chest? Wait, wait,
- 6:13Speaker 1: whether you're man or black, something, get up and get something.
- 6:17Speaker 1: Call up now. Eight hundred and five eight five one
- 6:19Speaker 1: oh five one. We want to hear from you on
- 6:21Speaker 1: the Breakfast Club. Hello, who's this? You're every what's up?
- 6:25Speaker 1: Traf dollar man? What's up? Start pieces? What's happening? I'm
- 6:30Speaker 1: telling until I'm telling say hilarious. Well, well, well isn't
- 6:36Speaker 1: this that's not that hilarious? How are you? How are
- 6:39Speaker 1: you doing? Don't you start that, trav Now you be nice.
- 6:43Speaker 1: We're gonna go blow for blow traff. It seemed like
- 6:46Speaker 1: they know you don't play with me because I'm gonna
- 6:48Speaker 1: get to know you in a minute. There's more. What's up?
- 6:51Speaker 1: There's more? Got tell you something more? You better tell
- 6:54Speaker 1: it right? What's up? Changing into missus? Jeff? Kind of
- 6:58Speaker 1: funny because you walk kind of funny. Ain't know, hater,
- 7:01Speaker 1: she's hilarious. I think that I can't travel, argued about
- 7:04Speaker 1: just before travel trave you was mad at just for something,
- 7:08Speaker 1: but that was that was years ago. And see I
- 7:11Speaker 1: can't say that she has, uh she has. She has
- 7:14Speaker 1: said something about the gaging with the years ago. Don't
- 7:18Speaker 1: need to bring that up. Sorry, Oh you gay? Yeah
- 7:20Speaker 1: you gay. I'm just giving us some contact. I don't
- 7:23Speaker 1: want her to think you just coming out of no read.
- 7:24Speaker 1: I felt like it was coming from a place, but
- 7:26Speaker 1: I ain't know he was gay? All right, what's up
- 7:28Speaker 1: with you? You're kind of funny, she's hilarious and whatever,
- 7:34Speaker 1: be like you kind of screamed you you know that,
- 7:40Speaker 1: don't you know that you would be thinking of straight
- 7:43Speaker 1: when they need I'm not what I'm saying, so until
- 7:45Speaker 1: I get, until I get the talking, you do that
- 7:48Speaker 1: kind of straight now that I think that kind of
- 7:50Speaker 1: straight sor heavy? Just listen. I want to I need
- 7:56Speaker 1: what I do right. I think the first thing that
- 7:58Speaker 1: lives above me, I think he'd be his girl up.
- 8:01Speaker 1: I don't allow my business. You call the cops. You
- 8:05Speaker 1: want nobody to die? He beat it down? Call the police?
- 8:07Speaker 1: Why do you? But you gotta give us some context.
- 8:09Speaker 1: Why do you think he's doing that? They could just
- 8:10Speaker 1: be having rough steps. But I don't know, because because
- 8:14Speaker 1: because the Africans, I don't know if he does yelling
- 8:17Speaker 1: when he thought but like he's like going off her
- 8:22Speaker 1: his language on the whippy who I'll be hearing FURGI
- 8:24Speaker 1: to move right, but he'd be like napping on her.
- 8:27Speaker 1: And if he makes me want to call the cops,
- 8:29Speaker 1: I don't know what they're talking about. Maybe you should
- 8:31Speaker 1: tell the landlord first. Yeah, the maintenance man. Oh he
- 8:37Speaker 1: maintenance maintenance man ain't live upstairs. I will. So when
- 8:42Speaker 1: you go to work, why don't you just go up
- 8:43Speaker 1: there and ask? As the girl she's not gonna see
- 8:46Speaker 1: but you can see a face if he gives she
- 8:47Speaker 1: getting beat or something. Yeah, you know I should have
- 8:50Speaker 1: been like, I'm mocked out and open the door there.
- 8:54Speaker 1: You shouldn't tell somebody if you really feel that. Definitely,
- 8:57Speaker 1: if you feel like it's going down up there, you
- 8:58Speaker 1: should tell somebody. Draft so crazy man getting off your
- 9:03Speaker 1: chest eight hundred five A five one oh five one.
- 9:06Speaker 1: If you need to vent hit this up now. It's
- 9:08Speaker 1: the Breakfast Club, Good morning, the Breakfast Club doing it
- 9:15Speaker 1: And I'm doing it on my own terms because I
- 9:17Speaker 1: kind of backed away from the industry because it became
- 9:19Speaker 1: too much for me to still do it and then
- 9:22Speaker 1: find someone like AMP who believed in me and allows
- 9:26Speaker 1: me to be who I am, because you know, in
- 9:28Speaker 1: this business they try to change you to meet a
- 9:30Speaker 1: certain criteria and I never fit into that Yahia and
- 9:35Speaker 1: didn't want to. And I love that. I love it.
- 9:37Speaker 1: And so for the Rolling Stones magazine of all time, Yeah,
- 9:42Speaker 1: the greatest one of the things of all time. How
- 9:44Speaker 1: do you feel being left out of that? I don't
- 9:46Speaker 1: feel anything. I don't pay any attention to that. That's
- 9:49Speaker 1: somebody behind the desk who doesn't really know what they're
- 9:52Speaker 1: talking and how could you leave Celine Diona? How could you?
- 9:57Speaker 1: He said, great, you know, how could you? So I
- 9:59Speaker 1: don't pay attention is that I don't pay attention to
- 10:01Speaker 1: awards and all that, even though I have awards of
- 10:04Speaker 1: everything that of musically, but it doesn't mean anything. What
- 10:08Speaker 1: means matters to me and which has kept me with
- 10:10Speaker 1: my sold out shows that I'm proud of is my
- 10:13Speaker 1: people coming to see me and playing their hard earned money.
- 10:17Speaker 1: That's what keeps me going. Yeah, I grew with the
- 10:19Speaker 1: Rolling Stone. Clearly those people are culturally clueless, you know
- 10:22Speaker 1: what I mean. They're leaving people like you clean theon all.
- 10:26Speaker 1: But see, I was never played on VHRON or MTV,
- 10:29Speaker 1: none of my videos because they always said I was
- 10:31Speaker 1: too urban and I only had a pop record with
- 10:33Speaker 1: Never Knew Love. That's the only one they allowed to
- 10:37Speaker 1: cross over. I wonder you said something earlier. You said
- 10:39Speaker 1: that you never had the machine behind you. And it's
- 10:41Speaker 1: interesting because you can see how that might still impact
- 10:43Speaker 1: you now when it comes to these lists, right exactly
- 10:46Speaker 1: when you think about it, like back in the day
- 10:48Speaker 1: when MTV, I want my MTV and they didn't want
- 10:51Speaker 1: to play Michael. You know, it was the president of
- 10:53Speaker 1: the company that said, if you don't play him, I'm
- 10:55Speaker 1: going to expose that you're racist. And I don't think
- 10:58Speaker 1: really anything has changed. I think you have to have
- 11:00Speaker 1: and back then, I didn't have that kind of person
- 11:03Speaker 1: that would go on the front line for me. But
- 11:05Speaker 1: Michael did, and I'm glad he did because just imagine
- 11:09Speaker 1: you not hearing Thriller the way it was, or being
- 11:11Speaker 1: exposed to all those wonderful videos that he did, and
- 11:15Speaker 1: they didn't acknowledge his forty at the anniversary of Thriller
- 11:18Speaker 1: or anything at the Grammys or American Music Award. How
- 11:21Speaker 1: did it ain't pick and choose who got the machine
- 11:23Speaker 1: back then though, because I feel like back then it
- 11:25Speaker 1: you really needed talent to get a deal. You really
- 11:28Speaker 1: needed talent to get a deal. That's why my audience
- 11:32Speaker 1: is predominantly black, because Beet and all those black outlets
- 11:38Speaker 1: played my videos, you know, and Black radio supported me
- 11:41Speaker 1: so much. So That's why I'm able to survive. That's
- 11:45Speaker 1: why I don't understand why a lot of black artists
- 11:47Speaker 1: like don't go back to the black publications and things
- 11:51Speaker 1: like that that made them. You know, that's well, I
- 11:54Speaker 1: know always why I know I don't know understand that.
- 12:00Speaker 1: I never understand why they think vanilla ice cream is
- 12:03Speaker 1: colder than chocolate. I think it's because they want that mask.
- 12:06Speaker 1: Look you know what I mean, but you couldn't have that.
- 12:08Speaker 1: Let me tell you something. I went to, Oh what's
- 12:11Speaker 1: the Girl's group? They came to Charlotte and they sold
- 12:14Speaker 1: out the arena. There was nothing there but black people escaped. Yes,
- 12:20Speaker 1: so what's wrong with the black dollar? I definitely get
- 12:22Speaker 1: what you're saying that. My generation they also feel like
- 12:26Speaker 1: because I don't although I'm a part of them, they
- 12:30Speaker 1: felt that some type of advanced validation when you get
- 12:34Speaker 1: like it did he call it the crossover? Right? It's
- 12:36Speaker 1: like you know and people, I did a show for
- 12:38Speaker 1: Fox sitcom on Fox people yep, yep, shout out to
- 12:42Speaker 1: the show row and I was on it with Simbad.
- 12:45Speaker 1: He played it was amazing, right, I love him too,
- 12:49Speaker 1: Like the show people was telling me because people was
- 12:52Speaker 1: only used to seeing me on like walling out and
- 12:54Speaker 1: all that type of stuff, you know, more production with
- 12:56Speaker 1: black people. And then they were like, oh, that's your crossover.
- 13:01Speaker 1: Fox is your crossover. It's like you really made it now,
- 13:03Speaker 1: I really made it because I'm on Fox, you know,
- 13:06Speaker 1: working around all these white people. No, I've been made
- 13:09Speaker 1: it and then still I still ain't make it. That's
- 13:11Speaker 1: that sitcom wasn't like the cream of the crop for
- 13:14Speaker 1: me yet. I'm still not where I want to be
- 13:16Speaker 1: in terms of, you know, just where I'm going, right,
- 13:19Speaker 1: But I didn't consider that as my crossover. That's another
- 13:23Speaker 1: show that I'm on. That's another stepping stone, right, you know,
- 13:26Speaker 1: so I never so I get exactly what you're saying.
- 13:29Speaker 1: And that's what we think, we think when we cross
- 13:32Speaker 1: over to that pop. We've made it. Why do we
- 13:35Speaker 1: want to be so accepted? And I never really want
- 13:38Speaker 1: I just wanted to be accepted. I wasn't good at smoothing,
- 13:41Speaker 1: you know. I wasn't chomagne. I wasn't good at doing that.
- 13:45Speaker 1: And I didn't want to go to the parties and
- 13:47Speaker 1: have to meet this one. And I didn't like auditioning. Yeah,
- 13:50Speaker 1: I know that's Do you like it? No? I know
- 13:53Speaker 1: they look at you like you're crazy, but they make
- 13:55Speaker 1: it so hard for you. I won't do it, or
- 13:58Speaker 1: they'll act like we got mold stuff emails when we
- 14:00Speaker 1: come back, don't move. It's the breakfast Club. Good Morning,
- 14:03Speaker 1: the Breakfast Club on Everybody's dj n V. Charlemagne the guy.
- 14:10Speaker 1: We are the Breakfast Club. Let's get back into it.
- 14:12Speaker 1: It's the Breakfast Club. Good morning. Question about Michael Till
- 14:16Speaker 1: because I want to know I will answer. Okay, good
- 14:19Speaker 1: So it's the truth that you and the date I
- 14:22Speaker 1: called it dating? How was that? It was wonderful? Michael
- 14:25Speaker 1: was gentle, he was kind, very determined, knew where he
- 14:30Speaker 1: wanted to go, and we just had fun. Yeah, used
- 14:33Speaker 1: to come to the whiz all the time. So was
- 14:35Speaker 1: he a smooth criminal? He was a smooth criminal. Can't
- 14:43Speaker 1: we say that? I loved him that afro and chocolate? Yeah,
- 14:48Speaker 1: So why do you change all that? I think that's
- 14:50Speaker 1: what people get Michael Miskin screwed, and you know they'll
- 14:53Speaker 1: they'll they'll labeled Michael toom as an Uncle Tom or
- 14:56Speaker 1: you know, a coon because of that. I gotta be
- 14:59Speaker 1: strategic cause that's my baby. But um, Michael wanted to
- 15:03Speaker 1: be the king of pop. He had a fetish with
- 15:06Speaker 1: Elvis Presley and he had his eyes on Lisa Presley
- 15:11Speaker 1: when she was very young. I think he always knew
- 15:14Speaker 1: he wanted to because he felt like that was the epitome. Yeah,
- 15:19Speaker 1: you know, and I think he really wanted to be king.
- 15:23Speaker 1: But then when he got over there, they showed him
- 15:26Speaker 1: that you still and he broke his heart. Yeah, don't
- 15:32Speaker 1: until his path. No, he was too different. Yeah, I
- 15:35Speaker 1: couldn't relate to that. Michael. It had gone too far.
- 15:39Speaker 1: But I think he knew that it had gone too far.
- 15:41Speaker 1: But what can you do. You can't go back at
- 15:44Speaker 1: this point. Yeah, you can't go back. Because we went
- 15:46Speaker 1: to the opening of the Atlantis and he asked me
- 15:52Speaker 1: to come. He asked to see me, and I didn't
- 15:55Speaker 1: go because I was rehearsing, and I often wondered what
- 15:59Speaker 1: he wanted, what he wanted to tell me. He probably
- 16:01Speaker 1: wanted to tell me something or you know, but it
- 16:04Speaker 1: had gone too far and I couldn't relate. And Michael
- 16:08Speaker 1: was taught the moonwalk by my ex husband, Jeffrey Daniel.
- 16:12Speaker 1: I went to those rehearsals. Yeah, I know, everybody claimed
- 16:15Speaker 1: that they did not Jeffrey Daniel taught Michael the moonwalk
- 16:19Speaker 1: and all those things. But you know, the Motown people,
- 16:22Speaker 1: they don't always give people credit. You know, they're taught
- 16:25Speaker 1: not to give people credit. I love giving people credit
- 16:28Speaker 1: for what they do for me, because you can't do
- 16:30Speaker 1: this by yourself. But you know, Michael never gave him credit,
- 16:34Speaker 1: and he should have. M It's just interesting to me, how,
- 16:38Speaker 1: you know. I always wondered, like, what can make a
- 16:40Speaker 1: person like totally lose their blackness? And have you seen
- 16:44Speaker 1: somebody lose their blackness or fall out with black people
- 16:47Speaker 1: to find a way to get back with the communicause
- 16:50Speaker 1: it feel like once you, once you turn your back
- 16:52Speaker 1: on us, we turned our back on you forever. Yeah,
- 16:54Speaker 1: but look at it. You know, I can remember a
- 16:57Speaker 1: time people not gonna like this either, But I could
- 17:00Speaker 1: remember a time when Michael would be at the awards
- 17:02Speaker 1: and you would have to get in a line to
- 17:04Speaker 1: see him. I never did that. I'm not getting an
- 17:08Speaker 1: a line to see nobody. Ain't nobody that important? Nobody's
- 17:10Speaker 1: more important than God? And I think there's no one
- 17:12Speaker 1: that's you know, like some people say, well, how can
- 17:15Speaker 1: you say something about Oprah or something about Gail? Aren't
- 17:18Speaker 1: you afraid? I fear God? And you know that, you
- 17:21Speaker 1: know that, Charlemagne, I only fear fear God. I don't
- 17:25Speaker 1: feel a backlash. I mean, I'm sixty six years old.
- 17:30Speaker 1: You know what I say, but I think and nobody
- 17:35Speaker 1: like nobody. I don't care who you are and how
- 17:38Speaker 1: much money you have, because you could lose that. Look
- 17:41Speaker 1: at Harvey Weinstein. I remember a certain person calling him God.
- 17:46Speaker 1: I you know, Charlie Rose, who would have thought, you know,
- 17:50Speaker 1: Matt lower where he was kind of arrogant. He was arrogant. Yeah,
- 17:54Speaker 1: But I just don't think that anybody's under approach. But
- 17:57Speaker 1: I do think Michael knew he went too far. And
- 17:59Speaker 1: you gotta remember, towards the end of his career he
- 18:01Speaker 1: went to Jesse Jackson and al shot and he even
- 18:05Speaker 1: wanted to give Pops his minister Barkon his catalog and
- 18:10Speaker 1: Pops wouldn't take it. And he had a lot of
- 18:12Speaker 1: Muslims around him. Towards the end, Michael never forgot he
- 18:17Speaker 1: was black. I think he just got caught up in
- 18:19Speaker 1: that bride. That ride can be vicious, as we see
- 18:23Speaker 1: with other people that are white dealing with the Britney
- 18:26Speaker 1: Spears and and and I go back to them because
- 18:30Speaker 1: I really see how the business has tormented them and
- 18:34Speaker 1: the people around them. Um, the movie Pride, Seven Deadly
- 18:37Speaker 1: Sins Story, it's gonna be all lifetime, Yes, with with
- 18:41Speaker 1: nephew Tommy, who did a brilliant job. He plays with
- 18:45Speaker 1: my son Gabe, and Ken your King who's a Canadian actress.
- 18:49Speaker 1: And Erica Campbell came in to play Pastor Trey. My
- 18:55Speaker 1: first feature That's Crazy, First Broadway and everything else. Nobody
- 19:00Speaker 1: decided seventy Mills should be active. They wouldn't give me
- 19:03Speaker 1: a job, dam they wouldn't you want to do more? Oh? Yes,
- 19:07Speaker 1: I got the bug now, but I'm not auditioning. No,
- 19:11Speaker 1: tell him, yes, she's not auditional, so don't ask her.
- 19:14Speaker 1: What rules? Would you want to play mothers? I mean
- 19:17Speaker 1: I could play a mother, you know, an older sister,
- 19:21Speaker 1: but mothers. I want to do a Christmas Yes, I
- 19:24Speaker 1: want a therapist. Or I want to play somebody really
- 19:27Speaker 1: tough and like gangster. I could see that too. I
- 19:31Speaker 1: can see that too. Now until you see your side,
- 19:36Speaker 1: I would you don't shorter than you? When does the
- 19:42Speaker 1: movie time? Movies Real eight and then Black to Broadway
- 19:46Speaker 1: is yes? Well, Stephanie Mills is always a pleasure sitting
- 19:51Speaker 1: down the bill with you and talk to you. And
- 19:53Speaker 1: I just love seeing you all the time. I love
- 19:55Speaker 1: seeing you too bad biyes, Yes, that's right. It's Steph
- 20:00Speaker 1: any Middle. Y'alls to the Breakfast Club. The Breakfast Club,
- 20:04Speaker 1: Your mornings will never be the same. What up, Y'alla's
- 20:09Speaker 1: DJ Envy and we are on up y'all, j Envy.
- 20:17Speaker 1: We are on vacation. But hey, it's okay because we
- 20:20Speaker 1: had given you some of the best of this week,
- 20:22Speaker 1: the best donkeys, the best interviews, you guys, which are
- 20:25Speaker 1: the best callers in some of the best moments the
- 20:28Speaker 1: Breakfast Club has had in the last couple of months.
- 20:30Speaker 1: So sit back, relax, enjoy, and have fun. It's the
- 20:32Speaker 1: Breakfast Club, the Morning morn and everybody's DJ NV Charlomagne
- 20:36Speaker 1: the guy. We are the Breakfast Club. We got our
- 20:38Speaker 1: guest co host just hilarious here, yes, and we got
- 20:42Speaker 1: our special guest Tyler long way from ringside, my brother,
- 20:47Speaker 1: don't way from ringside, man, shout out the rust, Pard.
- 20:50Speaker 1: That's when I first that's when I first met Charlemagne. Yeah,
- 20:52Speaker 1: y'all know he's a good actor. That's a goddamn live
- 20:55Speaker 1: I ain't never seen you ain't never seen ringside, have
- 20:57Speaker 1: seen him act? Shouldn't want to ask. That's a guy there.
- 21:00Speaker 1: That's when I first met this man. Gonna lie though.
- 21:02Speaker 1: He showed up professional. He knew his lines and he
- 21:05Speaker 1: had a few of them. Ye think he was a
- 21:10Speaker 1: true professional. That's when I met him, like, I don't know,
- 21:12Speaker 1: eight years ago now were Chesnut? First of all, Mars
- 21:18Speaker 1: Chestnut thinks that I'm him, he said, I didn't make
- 21:22Speaker 1: this up. He started there. But things have been on
- 21:24Speaker 1: the up since then. For you, though, brother man, you
- 21:26Speaker 1: know what, it's always good to have a job. You
- 21:28Speaker 1: know what I'm saying. Let's let's go back from Let's
- 21:30Speaker 1: go back to beginning for people that don't know who
- 21:31Speaker 1: you are, young man for Philly had football dreams high
- 21:35Speaker 1: school to football, college to football, and then decided that
- 21:38Speaker 1: football wasn't the key to answer. Yeah, you know a
- 21:41Speaker 1: lot of times like, um, you know, our losses can
- 21:43Speaker 1: really be lessons if you got enough, you know, if
- 21:45Speaker 1: you can really see it for what it is. So
- 21:47Speaker 1: it's like, um, I just always thought I was gonna
- 21:49Speaker 1: play you know, football and the NFL whatnot, like since
- 21:52Speaker 1: a little boy went all the way through Pop Warner
- 21:54Speaker 1: got a scholarship and whatnot. But it's like, you know,
- 21:56Speaker 1: what I figured out is that it's not always it's
- 21:58Speaker 1: not all about having a skill set and this really
- 22:00Speaker 1: crosses genres anywhere. You know what I'm saying, you gotta
- 22:02Speaker 1: know the right people, you gotta have the right politics
- 22:04Speaker 1: going on. And you know, I had a couple of injuries.
- 22:06Speaker 1: I was getting a little bit of trouble. Um. You know,
- 22:08Speaker 1: I didn't end up making it, but you know, in hindsight,
- 22:10Speaker 1: it definitely was one of my biggest lessons. Eagles, Oh
- 22:13Speaker 1: for sure. It was a tough loss. Congratulations. So then
- 22:20Speaker 1: you are a friend of y'alls invited you to LA blind? Yeah,
- 22:25Speaker 1: you know it was. It was. It was very blind.
- 22:26Speaker 1: But I had to blindfold on me already. So, like
- 22:28Speaker 1: like I said, I had, I got in a little
- 22:30Speaker 1: bit of trouble, couldn't get a job. I couldn't really
- 22:31Speaker 1: figure nothing out. I had two friends they really like,
- 22:34Speaker 1: you know, I call him cousins, but you know, not
- 22:36Speaker 1: by bloody but black understand the training now in LA. Yeah,
- 22:44Speaker 1: so they were thinking about training and he's like, well,
- 22:46Speaker 1: our football trains so but but the cats I'm talking
- 22:50Speaker 1: about shout out to Leona Leroy. They were they were boxers.
- 22:53Speaker 1: So I kind of just hanging around the gym. Finessed
- 22:55Speaker 1: the job. Personal training so somebody came up and just
- 22:58Speaker 1: asked me. The audition super small. I hope it never
- 23:00Speaker 1: sees the light of the day. I appreciate it. I
- 23:02Speaker 1: appreciate that's called super slumber, horror movie, crazy slaughter. The
- 23:11Speaker 1: more your star ride, it's gonna come out. It's gonna
- 23:13Speaker 1: come out somebody buddy produce in the bat like. It's
- 23:18Speaker 1: not a porn though. And you know, so I showed up.
- 23:20Speaker 1: I did it, I booked it, and it wasn't enough,
- 23:22Speaker 1: you know, a couple of thousand dollars, but it was
- 23:23Speaker 1: enough to kind of pique my interest. I had some
- 23:25Speaker 1: natural skill set, but I wasn't like the best at it.
- 23:28Speaker 1: So at that point I started to, Um, you know,
- 23:29Speaker 1: I apply myself to get the head shots and get
- 23:31Speaker 1: into a class, and you know, this thing started going.
- 23:34Speaker 1: You get deep running, you start doing reading, getting into
- 23:36Speaker 1: therapy and all the things that that it takes to
- 23:38Speaker 1: really sharpeness tool. But it takes work. I had to
- 23:42Speaker 1: tie up everything. They said that he actually walked in
- 23:44Speaker 1: wearing his outfit as you were auditioning. That had to
- 23:47Speaker 1: be kind of stream you with, um, six foot six
- 23:51Speaker 1: walking in dressed out how tall he is? Yeah, like
- 23:55Speaker 1: a basketball player walking through But um, yeah, so it
- 23:58Speaker 1: was like that that was that was a long audition process,
- 24:01Speaker 1: maybe over the span like four or five months. You know,
- 24:03Speaker 1: he was auditioned in a few different shows for like
- 24:05Speaker 1: plenty of different roles at the same time. So it's
- 24:08Speaker 1: a you know, it's like a gauntlet. You're going in
- 24:10Speaker 1: for this role, this this different TV show, and you know,
- 24:13Speaker 1: maybe like three or four auditions into it, we had
- 24:15Speaker 1: like some type of callbacks. They brought us to Atlanta
- 24:17Speaker 1: and he was in the middle of shooting something while
- 24:19Speaker 1: he was coming down to look at the audition and
- 24:22Speaker 1: anybody that knows him like, he don't got no time
- 24:23Speaker 1: for nothing. He's doing twelve things at once. You think
- 24:25Speaker 1: he's Jamaica. He got fifty different jobs. So you know,
- 24:28Speaker 1: on his lunch break from shooting something with me, did
- 24:30Speaker 1: he came in to check out what was going on
- 24:36Speaker 1: each perspective, how hard he worked, right, and how much
- 24:39Speaker 1: tunnel vision you need to really get done what you're
- 24:41Speaker 1: trying to do in this business, and that's what the
- 24:43Speaker 1: has and to half not right. Yeah, And so when
- 24:46Speaker 1: did you get p Valley Valley was probably like we
- 24:48Speaker 1: did nine seasons that the HA and have nots. I
- 24:50Speaker 1: think we went off the air maybe in like twenty twenty.
- 24:52Speaker 1: We probably stopped filming maybe twenty eighteen, twenty nineteen, and
- 24:56Speaker 1: I had booked it maybe like twenty nineteen. So for
- 24:58Speaker 1: the last season of the having half in the first
- 25:00Speaker 1: season to Pee Valley, we were shooting them at the
- 25:02Speaker 1: same time. It's just crazy because back then in the
- 25:04Speaker 1: first season, we shot on Tyler Perry Studios. So like
- 25:07Speaker 1: I was having a couple of days that were crazy,
- 25:09Speaker 1: were like, you know, we would I would shoot a
- 25:11Speaker 1: ten hour, eleven hour day over here, you know, six
- 25:13Speaker 1: to seven over here, go take a shower and clock
- 25:16Speaker 1: in eight to six am for Pee Valley. But it
- 25:19Speaker 1: was just like and that's two different roles and two
- 25:21Speaker 1: different scripts and two different whoa, Yeah, it was. It
- 25:24Speaker 1: was definitely, um, you know it definitely it was difficult,
- 25:27Speaker 1: you know for those few days. But this is these
- 25:28Speaker 1: are the problems that we that we asked for, you
- 25:30Speaker 1: know what. I'm sat in between sets, you know, yeah, yeah,
- 25:38Speaker 1: Now I ask you know, you say you were playing football,
- 25:40Speaker 1: and this is a question that I ask every football
- 25:42Speaker 1: player or anybody that's played football. Would you allow your
- 25:45Speaker 1: child to play football, especially because you had a bad
- 25:48Speaker 1: back surgery. So yeah, for sure, I had yeah, knee
- 25:51Speaker 1: surgeries like playing concussions. It's man, It's it's different nowadays,
- 25:54Speaker 1: you know, with all the science and everything that we know.
- 25:56Speaker 1: So I would probably say, I mean, I don't want
- 25:57Speaker 1: to I want to be a dreamkiller. I play, you know,
- 26:00Speaker 1: don't want to be tough and one I got two
- 26:01Speaker 1: boys now graduated. But I do think that, like you know,
- 26:06Speaker 1: I would be a fool and not apply some of
- 26:07Speaker 1: the things that we know now. I wouldn't want them
- 26:09Speaker 1: to play my position. I was running back. It's just
- 26:11Speaker 1: constant contact. Maybe a little wide receiver, quarterback something. Yeah.
- 26:15Speaker 1: You know, we got mored with Tyler Leplie. When we
- 26:17Speaker 1: come back to the Mister Breakfast Club, good morning, wanting
- 26:19Speaker 1: everybody is DJ Envy Charlemagne the guy we all the
- 26:23Speaker 1: Breakfast Club. We got our co host, Jesse Hilary is
- 26:25Speaker 1: joining us, and we have Tyler Leplie in the building.
- 26:28Speaker 1: Charlemagne Valley were getting season three, Yeah, yeah, yeah, season
- 26:38Speaker 1: season three got green. Let shout out to Tory Hall. Yeah.
- 26:41Speaker 1: And in that matter of fact, so look I heard
- 26:44Speaker 1: when they was auditioning when they were doing the screen
- 26:46Speaker 1: test with the chemistry. Read who's gonna be big Bone?
- 26:49Speaker 1: That your name? Yeah man? Yeah yeah, your girls stole
- 26:52Speaker 1: that friendly shout out my bones, ain't that big man? Yeah? Man?
- 27:00Speaker 1: Always take the stop. I know somebody, yo, man, who
- 27:10Speaker 1: you want? Just some miracles miracles miracle concept though, so yeah,
- 27:19Speaker 1: I met her before that already, know Damn. I auditioned
- 27:24Speaker 1: for that four times, four times the first season, the
- 27:29Speaker 1: second season, Yo, what's up coutry, what's up with you?
- 27:32Speaker 1: He's saying, I can't. I don't got the accent. They
- 27:35Speaker 1: saying that. I that you you gotta be from Mississippi,
- 27:40Speaker 1: a place ain't even real, Like no, Lisa, that ain't
- 27:44Speaker 1: et real. You know what I'm saying. I turned that.
- 27:48Speaker 1: That's like me auditioning for Black Panther, Like you gotta
- 27:51Speaker 1: talk like they're doing with Connor what I said. So,
- 27:54Speaker 1: but I get it because I can't be country that
- 27:58Speaker 1: I can't. It's like she continues to go back you've
- 28:01Speaker 1: been Yeah, yeah, yeah, they're gonna keep bringing you back.
- 28:05Speaker 1: Absolutely absolutely, But yeah, I just I had heard. I
- 28:08Speaker 1: had heard that because Miracle was the only one that
- 28:09Speaker 1: actually did the chemistry read yeah, and I had asked,
- 28:12Speaker 1: like who else, because a lot of times with chemistry read,
- 28:13Speaker 1: they have a few people, so we can, right, right,
- 28:16Speaker 1: But I think the only one, the only other person
- 28:18Speaker 1: they brought up was you. Yeah. Yeah, this is before
- 28:20Speaker 1: y'all was a couple and all of that. Yeah. Yeah,
- 28:22Speaker 1: So I remember I was shooting the first season of
- 28:24Speaker 1: Harlem and appreciate it. Yeah, we got the new season
- 28:28Speaker 1: all right now on Amazon. Fine, you know, to stop that,
- 28:31Speaker 1: But yeah, I remember we were shooting the first season
- 28:33Speaker 1: and I had had a day off and Coutr hit
- 28:35Speaker 1: me and she was like, yeah, do you mind, um,
- 28:37Speaker 1: do you mind just just doing some chemistry reads with
- 28:39Speaker 1: us so we can see the chemistry between Diamond and
- 28:43Speaker 1: you know, his potential love interest. We didn't know her
- 28:45Speaker 1: name is gonna be big one at the time. I
- 28:46Speaker 1: think it was maybe like maybe like March or whatever
- 28:49Speaker 1: year that was twenty twenty, and so I had met
- 28:51Speaker 1: her on FaceTime. And then I remember a couple of
- 28:54Speaker 1: months later, I had showed up to my friends dinner
- 28:57Speaker 1: party or he was having a birthday party. He was
- 29:00Speaker 1: having at dinner underknown to me, we had a mutual
- 29:02Speaker 1: we had a mutual friend. She was there and between
- 29:04Speaker 1: the time I had met her on FaceTime and that
- 29:06Speaker 1: point she had booked it, So now I knew she
- 29:08Speaker 1: was about to be, you know, working with me. I
- 29:11Speaker 1: know what it's like to transition into this business. You know,
- 29:12Speaker 1: it can be a lot, you know, coming from where
- 29:14Speaker 1: she's coming from into something like this, especially something like
- 29:17Speaker 1: pe Valley accent and so many things. You gonna have
- 29:19Speaker 1: it with her. You know, she was just my she
- 29:21Speaker 1: was my friend at first, and really that's how I
- 29:23Speaker 1: was going into it. Let me just kind of be like,
- 29:25Speaker 1: you know, big bro and kind of just you know
- 29:26Speaker 1: what I'm saying, bro B, it was big Bro talking
- 29:40Speaker 1: about like that I just kind of went to school
- 29:46Speaker 1: or a little bit or just just be um, you know,
- 29:48Speaker 1: be any help that that she may need, because you know,
- 29:50Speaker 1: ninety five percent of her scenes are with me. It's
- 29:52Speaker 1: kind of like everything I go through on Harlem with Megan,
- 29:54Speaker 1: all my stuff was with her. So you know it
- 29:56Speaker 1: behooves us to have a cool relationship. You don't have
- 29:59Speaker 1: to like, right, no, but yeah we did. Man. We
- 30:02Speaker 1: hit it off and we were just we just clicked
- 30:04Speaker 1: so hard that it just it just was what it was.
- 30:06Speaker 1: So by the time we started shooting on set. It
- 30:08Speaker 1: already was was what it was? How does that work
- 30:10Speaker 1: in this area? Because to me, that's not perfectly normal.
- 30:11Speaker 1: But then you see all of these situations where like
- 30:14Speaker 1: an employee hooked up with an employee, you know, it's
- 30:16Speaker 1: a stand like like what is that y'all gotta disclose
- 30:18Speaker 1: after the production of the studio or yeah, um, you
- 30:21Speaker 1: know it's it's about It's about like communication, I think
- 30:24Speaker 1: is your best friend and just kind of knowing what's
- 30:26Speaker 1: going on and also and also like compartmentalizing what's going on.
- 30:30Speaker 1: It's like, yeah, that's my girl. But when we show
- 30:31Speaker 1: up on set, we're here to do work. But that
- 30:34Speaker 1: what happens when when when you're a miracle at home
- 30:36Speaker 1: arguing about something right, could be something y'all arguing because
- 30:39Speaker 1: every couple gets to it and you gotta go to
- 30:40Speaker 1: work the next day. Y'are not really talking. But now
- 30:43Speaker 1: y'all got to turn it on. How is that? I
- 30:46Speaker 1: know how to do that? But against me it's on? Yeah,
- 30:51Speaker 1: all jokes aside, Yeah, like, um, has that happened? Yeah? Sure,
- 30:55Speaker 1: I mean a big bro to her that Now you know,
- 31:02Speaker 1: we got the type of connection where like you know,
- 31:04Speaker 1: like this on the service always rolls off the sleep,
- 31:06Speaker 1: you know what I mean. So it's like we hain't
- 31:08Speaker 1: never been crazy like that. I mean, you know we
- 31:10Speaker 1: get there always think what you just say? Ya, I
- 31:15Speaker 1: don't know, man, it comes to whatever off to sleep
- 31:22Speaker 1: like that's what. I don't know if he said it
- 31:28Speaker 1: with y'all or a big boy he said that. He said,
- 31:31Speaker 1: sometimes you gotta think about things. How you don't want
- 31:32Speaker 1: to think about things? He say, what that means he's saying,
- 31:34Speaker 1: I don't know, it just sounds it makes sense. Though.
- 31:38Speaker 1: How does she feel when you got to do scenes
- 31:39Speaker 1: with Miss Magan? You know, she's um, she's a she's
- 31:43Speaker 1: a professional too, man. She understands that, you know, as
- 31:45Speaker 1: much as she's a professional, she understands that I'm a professional,
- 31:48Speaker 1: you know what I'm saying. And it's like it's and
- 31:50Speaker 1: she and it's it's also great that she's been in
- 31:52Speaker 1: some of those you know, she's she's been in the
- 31:54Speaker 1: scene like that with man, she's been on set. She
- 31:56Speaker 1: sees how it is and she kind of understands that.
- 31:58Speaker 1: You know, it's it's a it's a muscle that you
- 32:00Speaker 1: turn on the turn off, so it's not even you know,
- 32:02Speaker 1: you got all type of all type of sound people
- 32:05Speaker 1: on cameras, and it's like it's way more awkward than
- 32:07Speaker 1: you than it looked, right, even if it's a girl
- 32:10Speaker 1: or not, it's still Yeah, for sure, I was. That
- 32:13Speaker 1: was the first time you had to do that though,
- 32:16Speaker 1: the first sex scene or the first love scene like
- 32:18Speaker 1: period in life. No, not on me on film, because
- 32:26Speaker 1: I mean the first time, it's just weird. Yeah, yeah,
- 32:29Speaker 1: it got hard. What you want to ask, what about
- 32:33Speaker 1: your scene in that movie? Did you have time to
- 32:35Speaker 1: even get hard in the same because I've been I've
- 32:42Speaker 1: been you know, I've been doing it, you know, uh
- 32:45Speaker 1: with the Lord's Blessing Man, I've been doing it for
- 32:47Speaker 1: a while. So it's probably like, yeah, even a decade ago,
- 32:49Speaker 1: probably one of the first couple of seasons to have
- 32:51Speaker 1: to have not and it was it was definitely very awkward.
- 32:54Speaker 1: You know, as as an actor, you kind of got
- 32:55Speaker 1: to figure out, um, you know, what your process is
- 32:58Speaker 1: and how you break into things and out of it,
- 33:00Speaker 1: you know, to do it without like you know, drinking
- 33:02Speaker 1: in the bag, you know for real. So it's like,
- 33:05Speaker 1: you know, figuring all that out was was a learning process.
- 33:07Speaker 1: But it was it was cool. You know, I was
- 33:09Speaker 1: on set with professionals, and you know, I kind of
- 33:12Speaker 1: learned how to be um. You know when you're when
- 33:15Speaker 1: you're having new people come on set. You know, it's
- 33:17Speaker 1: supposed to welcome with open arms, have open communications. Is
- 33:20Speaker 1: this it's okay, it's not okay. And that's how you
- 33:23Speaker 1: kind of get through it until you figure out how
- 33:24Speaker 1: to do it and be comfortable in it. The social
- 33:26Speaker 1: media a gift and a curse because you are like
- 33:28Speaker 1: a you like an internet doling. But then it's just
- 33:30Speaker 1: like you see everything that that that that y'all got
- 33:33Speaker 1: going on. Yeah, you know, was that new for you? Yeah?
- 33:36Speaker 1: For sure, you know, because I had never I've always
- 33:38Speaker 1: been like a private person, and um, you know, that's
- 33:42Speaker 1: definitely one of the one of the downsides with being
- 33:44Speaker 1: with being in the open about anything. It doesn't matter
- 33:46Speaker 1: if it's my girl, for my kids, my parents, you
- 33:50Speaker 1: know what I'm saying. You you open things up to
- 33:52Speaker 1: the trolls in this world, and it's like the one
- 33:55Speaker 1: the one reason I feel like I've always been um private.
- 33:59Speaker 1: You know, people think it's it's secret, that's secrecy, it's privacy.
- 34:02Speaker 1: And the one reason I've always been you know, private
- 34:05Speaker 1: with my private life is is you know, I'm just
- 34:07Speaker 1: conscious of the fact that this is the life that
- 34:09Speaker 1: I chose and everything that comes with it. I'm cool with,
- 34:11Speaker 1: you know what I'm saying. My family didn't choose this, right,
- 34:14Speaker 1: you know, So like I've always been conscious of, I've
- 34:16Speaker 1: always been conscious of, you know, just just that aspect
- 34:20Speaker 1: of it. So you know, back to your question, you
- 34:22Speaker 1: know that that is that is part of the downside
- 34:24Speaker 1: with it. It's like, you know, it's it's great to
- 34:25Speaker 1: win in front of everybody, but if you're in front
- 34:27Speaker 1: of everybody and you lose, he's gonna talk about that too. Yeah,
- 34:30Speaker 1: So it's like it's just one of these things that
- 34:32Speaker 1: all right, we got mored with Tyler Lepli when we
- 34:34Speaker 1: come back, so don't move. It's to Breakfast Club. Good
- 34:36Speaker 1: morning morning. Everybody is DJ, Envy, Charlemagne and God. We
- 34:40Speaker 1: all to Breakfast Club. We got our co host, Jess
- 34:42Speaker 1: Hilary is joining us and we have Tyler Leplie in
- 34:44Speaker 1: the building. How do you stay focused because you know,
- 34:47Speaker 1: ladies love you, so I'm sure that in the DMS,
- 34:49Speaker 1: I'm sure that that holler and that you so how
- 34:51Speaker 1: do you stay focused from the beginning when you were
- 34:52Speaker 1: a trainer? So when you think about lights Kin brothers,
- 34:54Speaker 1: it's usually me you what else you get? What say?
- 34:58Speaker 1: Nobody asking about you? So back to you say, so,
- 35:11Speaker 1: how do you stay focused? Yeah? Again, like internally, I'm
- 35:15Speaker 1: just never too far away from the beginning. Man, I
- 35:17Speaker 1: just he was never out there. Why he was getting
- 35:22Speaker 1: into the ruts? Yeah yeah, yeah, but I think that,
- 35:26Speaker 1: you know, I'm just still close to, like, you know,
- 35:28Speaker 1: where I started, and I just remember some of those roadblocks,
- 35:30Speaker 1: like I couldn't figure it out. I didn't have a passion.
- 35:33Speaker 1: I wasn't I wasn't really good at something, you know
- 35:35Speaker 1: what I'm saying. I was kind of just like aimless.
- 35:37Speaker 1: I was kind of lost in a sense. So to
- 35:39Speaker 1: you know, fast forward twelve years and be so locked in,
- 35:42Speaker 1: like be so passionate about something to the point where
- 35:44Speaker 1: I would do it for free, but I get paid
- 35:46Speaker 1: handsomely for it, and you know, want to put the
- 35:49Speaker 1: work in. I'm just I'm just in such a blessed position,
- 35:51Speaker 1: you know. And I also always think about that analogy
- 35:53Speaker 1: the man in the arena. None of the problems of
- 35:54Speaker 1: being in that arena really affect me because at the
- 35:56Speaker 1: end of the day, I'm in I'm I'm in the arena.
- 35:58Speaker 1: It's easy for me to focus. It's a lock in
- 36:00Speaker 1: renascent me. A song I didn't know you wrapped? Yeah, yeah, yeah,
- 36:04Speaker 1: just dropped something last week. Yeah. I mean, I've been
- 36:06Speaker 1: doing music as long as I've been as as long
- 36:07Speaker 1: as i've been acting. But um, you know, it's just
- 36:09Speaker 1: that it's acting popped off first. You know what I'm saying.
- 36:11Speaker 1: I've been an artist as far back as I can remember. Um,
- 36:14Speaker 1: they but they both their own separate beast. They're gonna
- 36:16Speaker 1: come up down time. But it's like, if something doesn't happen,
- 36:20Speaker 1: it ain't never gonna be for the you know, the
- 36:22Speaker 1: lack of me not giving one hundred percent. So you
- 36:24Speaker 1: know I've been dropping. We're just gonna we're gonna keep
- 36:25Speaker 1: pushing into this podcast. So Michael B. Jordan got to
- 36:28Speaker 1: move over and right now. Yeah, but this plenty room
- 36:33Speaker 1: at the table, you know. So I'm just saying that.
- 36:36Speaker 1: All right, Well, I gotta ask you this to your
- 36:38Speaker 1: ex fiance my girlfriend. Yeah it was Mike's girlfriend. Never Okay,
- 36:44Speaker 1: thank you for cleaning it up. So yeah, ex girl.
- 36:47Speaker 1: I remember it was something you know, going know each other, right, Yeah,
- 36:50Speaker 1: I definitely know each other. Um, miracle Wat's head. It
- 36:53Speaker 1: said something about, you know, like she takes on your
- 36:55Speaker 1: kids and her kids, Like, how is that situation now?
- 36:58Speaker 1: Because I know that April got mad at that? How
- 37:00Speaker 1: is that now? Though? Um, you know it's it's it's
- 37:03Speaker 1: a process, you know, it's like it's definitely better than
- 37:05Speaker 1: it was. Still got a little way to go. As
- 37:07Speaker 1: much as I would not like it to be like that,
- 37:10Speaker 1: you know, I can't rush anything because this is you know,
- 37:12Speaker 1: again the problems of the man here, and it just
- 37:14Speaker 1: it kind of happens like this. The one thing I
- 37:16Speaker 1: will say is that again, that's that's some other two
- 37:18Speaker 1: of my children. You know what. I'm trying to have
- 37:19Speaker 1: nothing but love and respect for us. So you know,
- 37:22Speaker 1: I give her grace and patience as she actually figures
- 37:24Speaker 1: out what she got to feel herself through. Right, And
- 37:26Speaker 1: you know, it doesn't help that everything's like you talked about.
- 37:28Speaker 1: It doesn't help that everything is in the public eye,
- 37:31Speaker 1: you know what I mean. So like I kind of
- 37:32Speaker 1: understand where it's coming from. You know, what I will
- 37:34Speaker 1: want for somebody to treat my kids like that, like
- 37:38Speaker 1: my kid is there is you know what I yeah,
- 37:40Speaker 1: and you know, to get back to that part, it's like,
- 37:42Speaker 1: you know, Miracle does such a great job of just
- 37:44Speaker 1: loving me for everything, and yeah, just just just the
- 37:47Speaker 1: fullness of who I am and everything that comes with it. Sure,
- 37:50Speaker 1: you know, it brings me back to that. I don't
- 37:52Speaker 1: know if it was a meme someone viral on on
- 37:54Speaker 1: Instagram and it was about like, you know, the dad
- 37:56Speaker 1: came home, I only got mcdowns for his kids? You
- 38:00Speaker 1: want that? Or like you want someone who really loves
- 38:02Speaker 1: all three? Like it's exactly so, I want my kids
- 38:05Speaker 1: eating healthier in McDonald But McDonald you only get for
- 38:11Speaker 1: one one. Yeah. Yeah, that's one thing I didn't know
- 38:14Speaker 1: about her. People may not know that from the outside
- 38:16Speaker 1: looking in because the package looks like what it looks like. Yeah,
- 38:18Speaker 1: she is just man. She got she got the biggest
- 38:20Speaker 1: heart and she really just like a down south home
- 38:23Speaker 1: grown girl at the end of the day. So she
- 38:25Speaker 1: really has everything that I need as a man, for sure.
- 38:28Speaker 1: You love is it hard to love out loud? I
- 38:31Speaker 1: guess when you have a next like you like you
- 38:32Speaker 1: know you bought, we saw you buy the bench for
- 38:35Speaker 1: famercle Instagram. Yeah, shout out the man. Are you are
- 38:47Speaker 1: you afraid to put stuff like that out there because
- 38:49Speaker 1: it might piss off the act? Yeah, I mean, you know,
- 38:51Speaker 1: I don't really I don't really think about it like that.
- 38:53Speaker 1: You know, she's got to push gifts to It just
- 38:55Speaker 1: wasn't you know, it wasn't in front of everybody, and
- 38:56Speaker 1: it was at a different you know place in my
- 38:58Speaker 1: in my career and stuff and want the job money
- 39:02Speaker 1: at the time. You know, she I gave her. I
- 39:04Speaker 1: gave her equity in the house that we had before.
- 39:06Speaker 1: So when I saw it, she you know, she had
- 39:08Speaker 1: some money and that's dope. You know, she taking care
- 39:10Speaker 1: of everything when we were together, and even when we weren't,
- 39:13Speaker 1: she still had a full time nanny because she's got
- 39:14Speaker 1: a job that requires her to be away for like
- 39:16Speaker 1: twelve hours a day. So like, even if it's not
- 39:18Speaker 1: what you see on Instagram, you know, I provide for
- 39:20Speaker 1: all of my family, you know what I'm saying. But yeah,
- 39:22Speaker 1: it can be. You know, social media can make things
- 39:25Speaker 1: scared to not scared, but like can't feel away so
- 39:29Speaker 1: much like of watching what you do in this relationship
- 39:31Speaker 1: because of his past relationship. He's still if you want
- 39:35Speaker 1: to love loud, you know, maybe this girl is different.
- 39:37Speaker 1: You know Avery was was private, you know, Miracles different.
- 39:41Speaker 1: So it's like you were just I don't. I don't,
- 39:44Speaker 1: not that you asked me that, but I'm just saying
- 39:46Speaker 1: I don't think that you should, because woman, you know
- 39:52Speaker 1: what was then was then this is now. Yeah, and
- 39:54Speaker 1: there was love and there was love in both scenarios.
- 39:56Speaker 1: Just you know, I'm in love with Miracle. Now we
- 39:58Speaker 1: have we have a family, and this is this is
- 40:00Speaker 1: how I'm moving birthdays and Valentine If you don't did
- 40:03Speaker 1: the g wagon just for a push? Oh my god, man,
- 40:05Speaker 1: I was making that. I was making a joke. My
- 40:08Speaker 1: family recently, like the last five months is like loaded
- 40:11Speaker 1: up like everybody's birthday, Valentine's Day, Christmas. It is like
- 40:15Speaker 1: it's all compounded into like this five months run. So
- 40:18Speaker 1: I was like, I'm gonna need them three jobs. He said,
- 40:23Speaker 1: he just dropped the mixtape. But yeah, I don't. I don't.
- 40:28Speaker 1: You know what I give. I give out of the
- 40:30Speaker 1: goodness of my heart. I don't really take tabs of it.
- 40:32Speaker 1: You know, it's it's nice. You may get you may
- 40:34Speaker 1: get a g wagon. One day, you may get a
- 40:35Speaker 1: conversation another two flowers or something like. I don't really
- 40:38Speaker 1: pay attention to it. I'm not coming to damn conversation
- 40:41Speaker 1: for a birthday, university or Christmas. If you know what,
- 40:47Speaker 1: let's have a talk. I love how the game has
- 40:49Speaker 1: changed for y'all though, because back in the day, I say,
- 40:51Speaker 1: about fifteen years ago, they'd have told you, Tyler, don't
- 40:53Speaker 1: tell nobody you in a relationship, you know what I mean.
- 40:55Speaker 1: The women have to feel like they can have you. Yeah, yeah,
- 40:59Speaker 1: I have. But you know, I've never I've never lived,
- 41:02Speaker 1: I've never lived for for anybody else. So you know,
- 41:04Speaker 1: I think it's one thing I love about Harlem that, like,
- 41:07Speaker 1: I see this through line of people chasing the life
- 41:09Speaker 1: that that they see for themselves as opposed to the
- 41:11Speaker 1: life the others see for them, you know what I'm saying.
- 41:13Speaker 1: And I connect with that because I've always been like that.
- 41:15Speaker 1: So I don't really listen to that too much because
- 41:17Speaker 1: it can be difficult. I just last question for me,
- 41:20Speaker 1: how do you pronounce your son's name Zi Zi? Yeah?
- 41:23Speaker 1: Zi spelled l e oh. Yeah. Za's his middle name.
- 41:28Speaker 1: In her family, everybody got the middle name Lee, and
- 41:31Speaker 1: she wanted to do something different, so Zale and I
- 41:34Speaker 1: kind of like how I played off a lepile zale
- 41:36Speaker 1: leple sound like what do you want to do next time? Like?
- 41:41Speaker 1: What do you want to do next ultimate? I mean
- 41:43Speaker 1: you said you want to you want to knock Michael B.
- 41:45Speaker 1: Jordan up, you want to put your drink out? Now,
- 41:50Speaker 1: I'm just try. I'm I'm just trying to get to
- 41:51Speaker 1: where they at. That's all um. Now. I think for me,
- 41:54Speaker 1: it's like, man, I just gotta I gotta, I gotta
- 41:56Speaker 1: check off everything that I'm feeling, you know what I'm saying,
- 41:58Speaker 1: and not let the obstacles get in the way. You know.
- 42:00Speaker 1: I feel like in the tug of war between like
- 42:02Speaker 1: the heart and the mind, sometimes we overthink things and
- 42:05Speaker 1: we're getting our own way, you know. So I don't.
- 42:07Speaker 1: The short answer is right now, I'm I'm producing the movie.
- 42:11Speaker 1: I got you know, the music dropping, We got pe
- 42:13Speaker 1: Valley and Harlem seasons three coming up. So it's like,
- 42:16Speaker 1: you know, that's gonna take up most of the twelve months.
- 42:17Speaker 1: But it's like, you know, as I look into the
- 42:19Speaker 1: crystal ball, you know, the sky is the limit, and
- 42:20Speaker 1: I don't want to put a limit on myself, you know,
- 42:22Speaker 1: because I would have never thought in a million years
- 42:24Speaker 1: when I was going through that rut that I would
- 42:26Speaker 1: be sitting right here with y'all. Know what I'm saying. Never, Yeah,
- 42:29Speaker 1: I couldn't. I couldn't. Like right before I came out, man,
- 42:33Speaker 1: I was, I went around the room, grab a little
- 42:35Speaker 1: jewelry here, and now I was at the pawn shop.
- 42:37Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying. Like I didn't have I
- 42:38Speaker 1: didn't have fifty dollars to my name. So it's like
- 42:41Speaker 1: to see where it went if you just follow what
- 42:44Speaker 1: you're feeling. That's what I'm on. I'm trying to. I'm
- 42:46Speaker 1: trying to just get to to, you know, where where
- 42:49Speaker 1: my destiny is taking me. You were running back, running backs,
- 42:53Speaker 1: We see the whole. Yeah, I mean it's a crazy analga. Yeah. Absolutely.
- 42:56Speaker 1: So you're producing the film, you are like holding auditions. No, no,
- 43:00Speaker 1: I'm I'm doing it with with um, he said, No,
- 43:03Speaker 1: Jess and me and you. That means you da I
- 43:11Speaker 1: mean not yet you mean what you say. No, ladies
- 43:21Speaker 1: and gentlemen, we appreciate you for joining us, brother, y'all.
- 43:27Speaker 1: Oh man, the Miracles got the role Jess again. Okay,
- 43:33Speaker 1: it's the Breakfast Club, the time to let y'all. No,
- 43:38Speaker 1: let's don't be a dust because right now you want
- 43:40Speaker 1: some real doctor. It's time for Donkey of the Dead.
- 43:44Speaker 1: So if you ever feel I need to be a
- 43:46Speaker 1: duk man with the heat, did she get the name? Please?
- 43:51Speaker 1: I had become Donkey of the Dead the Breakfast Club, bitch,
- 43:55Speaker 1: you're yes, Donkey. Dave goes to a twenty year old
- 43:59Speaker 1: man who was in Brazil at Carnival having big fun. Okay,
- 44:05Speaker 1: slew to everyone who has been having big fun at
- 44:07Speaker 1: carnivals all around the world, dropping a cluees bombs where
- 44:09Speaker 1: everybody at Carnival all around the world. I'm talking like
- 44:12Speaker 1: I know what I'm speaking on, but I don't. I
- 44:14Speaker 1: just saw Nicki Minaj and Trinidad for Carnival and Ashanti
- 44:18Speaker 1: I saw her on Instagram saying she was upset she
- 44:20Speaker 1: was missing Carnival. And now I read this story about
- 44:22Speaker 1: this young man this morning at Carnival. So I'm just
- 44:25Speaker 1: assuming it's Carnival season. I'm just assuming that now Carnival
- 44:28Speaker 1: looks like a lot of fun for those of you
- 44:30Speaker 1: who like going out in public and having a lot
- 44:32Speaker 1: of the public there. It's a very public thing. And
- 44:34Speaker 1: one reason I try to avoid so much of the
- 44:36Speaker 1: public is because it's hard to control that much crazy
- 44:39Speaker 1: when it's that much public. Okay, the more public there
- 44:42Speaker 1: is out, the more chances of you encountering crazy. And
- 44:46Speaker 1: today's donkey is absolutely crazy. See this man, this twenty
- 44:50Speaker 1: year old was arrested for harassing women. I would think
- 44:53Speaker 1: women being harassed at carnivals are very common because the
- 44:55Speaker 1: women be out there looking amazing, you know, dressed in
- 44:58Speaker 1: their carnival garb, which to me is you usually a
- 45:00Speaker 1: two piece swimsuit and a lot of feathers, and you
- 45:02Speaker 1: have a lot of men who can't handle being around
- 45:04Speaker 1: all that. Okay, they just scraped up perverts, all right,
- 45:05Speaker 1: shame on those types of dudes. But this man took
- 45:08Speaker 1: harassment to a whole nother level. Okay, But I have
- 45:10Speaker 1: to commit the police for being on top of the situation,
- 45:12Speaker 1: because when a person looks suspicious or as acting as
- 45:15Speaker 1: especially as this man was, he should be seized immediately.
- 45:18Speaker 1: And I know you can't look at a person and tell, hey,
- 45:22Speaker 1: this person is gonna be someone who sexually harasses women.
- 45:24Speaker 1: But this man wasn't hard to identify at all. See
- 45:27Speaker 1: the reason this human is getting donkey in the days
- 45:30Speaker 1: because he decided to go to carnival in Brazil dressed
- 45:35Speaker 1: in a seven foot penis costume. Oh you want to
- 45:38Speaker 1: see the pictures, let me show you the picture. Nope,
- 45:40Speaker 1: I don't want to see that picture. Look at the picture.
- 45:43Speaker 1: Get a picture. Oh, I mean it's a black one.
- 45:52Speaker 1: This is a black penis. But it's this a black man. No,
- 45:55Speaker 1: that's right. He's either white or Latino, he's some type
- 45:57Speaker 1: of other. Listen. If you can't beat him, you join now.
- 46:01Speaker 1: I'm not gonna happen doing that. I don't like that.
- 46:03Speaker 1: I don't like this white or Latito or other deciding
- 46:06Speaker 1: to dress in a shock size slong suit. Okay, a
- 46:11Speaker 1: shock size his size, ain't that size? He that size?
- 46:15Speaker 1: Why would you say that? I mean shot size. Ain't
- 46:17Speaker 1: talking about his penis. Find I'm not talking about some
- 46:20Speaker 1: mighty be Okay, good, here we go. We're on a
- 46:22Speaker 1: straight path today. That's nice. Crooked with you, y'all. I mean,
- 46:32Speaker 1: I don't love him, but the relationship boy like them.
- 46:40Speaker 1: You'll listen. I don't know what makes one want to
- 46:44Speaker 1: wake up and dresses Indiana bones. But we live in
- 46:46Speaker 1: an error where people can wake up and identify with
- 46:48Speaker 1: whatever they want to identify ass and this man dressed
- 46:50Speaker 1: up as a seven foot skin flute to harassed women
- 46:53Speaker 1: at carnival. Let me tell you something. There's so much
- 46:55Speaker 1: wrong with this number one. It's the harassment. Number two.
- 46:59Speaker 1: Why you got be a colored chuck dickens. Okay, y'all
- 47:02Speaker 1: be knowing what y'all doing when you decide to present
- 47:04Speaker 1: as a black anything, because you know how people perceive
- 47:07Speaker 1: black skin all around the world, even when it's black foreskin. Okay,
- 47:12Speaker 1: Now you really gotta go see the pictures for yourself,
- 47:14Speaker 1: because not only is he presenting as a seven foot
- 47:17Speaker 1: meat puppet, this man, this man is this man dressed
- 47:21Speaker 1: as a Wu tang wang got on flip flops. You
- 47:23Speaker 1: ain't see that blax god on flip flops man right
- 47:29Speaker 1: a third leg with all these toes out. Yo, listen,
- 47:32Speaker 1: I don't care what you say. They may hate us,
- 47:34Speaker 1: but everybody loves the black. Yeah, I'm saying, piece, yes, wow, wow,
- 47:41Speaker 1: moth the ice so yeah or bother me. The most
- 47:45Speaker 1: about this situation is this man really woke up and
- 47:47Speaker 1: chose sexual violence. He literally woke up and said, I'm
- 47:50Speaker 1: going to harass and chase women dressed as a seven
- 47:52Speaker 1: foot dark dingleling. Okay, I think the only suitable punishment
- 47:56Speaker 1: is for him to be in prison, in a cell
- 47:59Speaker 1: one on one with the largest penis in the penitentiary.
- 48:03Speaker 1: I think he'd love that, You think, I think. I
- 48:05Speaker 1: don't know. It wouldn't be prisoner, would be jail. You know.
- 48:08Speaker 1: Go find the biggest Johnson in the joint. I'm talking.
- 48:11Speaker 1: Go find someone who got something that's the size of
- 48:13Speaker 1: those little women from Atlanta, Okay, and let that man
- 48:16Speaker 1: get chased around of jail. So with it, all right, Peter,
- 48:18Speaker 1: miss Minnie, find someone who got a PDD her size
- 48:20Speaker 1: and let him go to work. Okay, ain't no fun
- 48:23Speaker 1: when the rabbit got the custod launching, is it? Now?
- 48:26Speaker 1: You about to meet a seven foot spank aaron batter
- 48:28Speaker 1: up young man Okay, that's twenty year old should have
- 48:31Speaker 1: to experience the same trauma that all old women at
- 48:33Speaker 1: carnival had to experience. Because he wants to dress up
- 48:35Speaker 1: like a seven foot we need to poop, all right,
- 48:38Speaker 1: Please give this twenty year old from Rio de Jannaro dokey,
- 48:46Speaker 1: Oh the day, yeah, dog, oh the day. Yeah, tell
- 49:00Speaker 1: him just being chased in harass is not fun. Yeah,
- 49:05Speaker 1: all right, being chased harass is not fun. I mean
- 49:09Speaker 1: being chased by a big black you know what I'm saying.
- 49:15Speaker 1: But it happens usually. Act like this doesn't just happen
- 49:20Speaker 1: to you. I'm just saying, like, I'm just saying, those
- 49:24Speaker 1: people want if you want somebody to do it, yeah,
- 49:27Speaker 1: if you want somebody to cook cool, all right. I
- 49:30Speaker 1: don't think he woke up. It was like, you know what,
- 49:32Speaker 1: I'm gonna go on harass people with this. I think
- 49:35Speaker 1: he's thinking, like, they don't like what I got, so
- 49:37Speaker 1: let me give them what I don't got, hoping and
- 49:40Speaker 1: I can get something. You know what I'm saying. That's interesting, Okay,
- 49:46Speaker 1: they ain't still like na thank you for that, dunkey today,
- 49:49Speaker 1: Charlotte Man, the Breakfast club never treated my child crazy.
- 49:56Speaker 1: That was just something you know that we as mothers,
- 49:58Speaker 1: as women or whatever, But nah, it's never been that way.
- 50:02Speaker 1: So do you want them to take a mother type
- 50:04Speaker 1: role or you just want them just to be cool?
- 50:06Speaker 1: You don't gotta take them. That's what they end up
- 50:08Speaker 1: doing anyway, but you don't have to take that. You
- 50:11Speaker 1: don't have to be over nurture, like oh you know
- 50:13Speaker 1: what I'm saying where it seems fosil if it's something
- 50:15Speaker 1: that you just because he needed. My son's dad has
- 50:18Speaker 1: been with a lot of girls who didn't have kids,
- 50:19Speaker 1: so they didn't really even have experience and being around kids.
- 50:22Speaker 1: But they tried that. It was just like, you don't
- 50:25Speaker 1: really gotta try to be his mother, but you have to.
- 50:29Speaker 1: You have to like my child. My child gotta like
- 50:31Speaker 1: you too. Like but let me ask you, Jesse, so, yeah,
- 50:34Speaker 1: you know when it's a younger child, they have to
- 50:35Speaker 1: be motherly, right, but what is is it like mom too?
- 50:40Speaker 1: Is it like did it never happened? And that never happened?
- 50:45Speaker 1: He better not ever called nobody else, no mom, not
- 50:48Speaker 1: mom to Okay, okay, yeah, I don't get mom two
- 50:56Speaker 1: three whatever? No is I'm the first and only mom.
- 51:00Speaker 1: He can call them miss whatever because you gotta put
- 51:02Speaker 1: a hand on it. I don't care how young the girl, whatever,
- 51:05Speaker 1: it's gonna be miss whatever her name is. Now, what
- 51:07Speaker 1: about you know? Tyler bought his miracle or g wagon right,
- 51:11Speaker 1: and I asked him, like, you know, just to keep
- 51:14Speaker 1: the piece. Do you do stuff like that for your
- 51:16Speaker 1: other baby moms? Is that expected? Man? Because when you
- 51:19Speaker 1: think about when people get divorced, you know, they got
- 51:22Speaker 1: to make sure that they're they're exits set up the
- 51:24Speaker 1: same way that set I think they should. You know,
- 51:26Speaker 1: I'm gonna tell you why. Because you don't want your
- 51:28Speaker 1: one kid to be driving into G sixty three G
- 51:30Speaker 1: Wagon and that's one hundred and eighty thousand dollars and
- 51:32Speaker 1: the other kid to be driving in a Ford Escort.
- 51:35Speaker 1: What's wrong for Look? Yo, that's that's what listen, man.
- 51:39Speaker 1: Why would you say that word up? Say it? Prisus? Okay, yeah,
- 51:48Speaker 1: not not if my brother got a G sixty three.
- 51:50Speaker 1: That's what I'm saying. I'm pulling up. Yeah, what you're saying,
- 51:52Speaker 1: I'm pulling up in that No do you have so
- 51:54Speaker 1: you're saying you have to do that if you got
- 51:56Speaker 1: If I got an X and she got kids, of mind,
- 51:59Speaker 1: she gotta be right the same way with my new woman. Right.
- 52:01Speaker 1: I don't agree with that. I don't know what envy
- 52:03Speaker 1: is saying over there, but I don't. I don't think that.
- 52:07Speaker 1: I don't think that. I think whatever I do for
- 52:09Speaker 1: my kids all right, cool, I don't I shouldn't have
- 52:11Speaker 1: to be responsible for what you got going on after me.
- 52:15Speaker 1: Like I'm in a new relationship. My responsibility is my
- 52:17Speaker 1: kids and me protecting the kids gonna still be in
- 52:20Speaker 1: the p Yeah, that's what I'm saying. The kids go,
- 52:22Speaker 1: your kids, as long as they not dropped in the back.
- 52:25Speaker 1: It's you're in the back, so you're good. You don't
- 52:28Speaker 1: got no buills, You ain't got nothing to worry about.
- 52:29Speaker 1: You still want four wheels. I'm not saying you gotta
- 52:31Speaker 1: have another Mercedes, but give me something that the kids
- 52:34Speaker 1: feel cold. And then I'm making fun of Listen, we
- 52:37Speaker 1: grew up different whatever. But he didn't buy the kids
- 52:40Speaker 1: at GI Wagon. He bought Miracle or g Wagon. Yeah,
- 52:42Speaker 1: the baby wagonbe don't know number no g Wagon. That's true.
- 52:48Speaker 1: It ain't that kids like your son is in fifth grade.
- 52:51Speaker 1: He knows the difference between the g Wagon and the priest.
- 52:53Speaker 1: I'm telling you my kids, and all right, y'all, listen,
- 52:57Speaker 1: I don't care I said what I say. That's it.
- 52:59Speaker 1: All right, let's go to the phone. Jests soon definitely
- 53:01Speaker 1: know the different tween the wagon. At the point I
- 53:04Speaker 1: get that man three hundred dollars birthday. He didn't want that.
- 53:09Speaker 1: I have a gwagon and I also have I forgot
- 53:12Speaker 1: the name of whatever my other bends is. I got
- 53:15Speaker 1: both of them right. But my baby father, he got
- 53:20Speaker 1: a nice little actor showing my son the best of
- 53:24Speaker 1: both words. You know what I'm saying, Tyler, Little kids,
- 53:28Speaker 1: they're gonna know the best of I say, he's so stupid. Hello,
- 53:37Speaker 1: hey boy, I love you too. Baby. What's your thoughts, Mama?
- 53:43Speaker 1: What do you think? Yeah, I'm a lover, so a
- 53:48Speaker 1: very important or whoever my brother's father was to treat
- 53:52Speaker 1: her exactly how I retreat her. You know, I want
- 53:54Speaker 1: her to feel about She got to mom. You know
- 53:56Speaker 1: it's I'm plaint. However that now is it? That's not
- 54:01Speaker 1: your experience? No, woman, it's just like so jealous of
- 54:06Speaker 1: my child. I don't understand it. Like she started baking
- 54:11Speaker 1: my daughter's saw it when I was pregnant, and I
- 54:13Speaker 1: came to her when the baby was born, like, girl,
- 54:17Speaker 1: I'm my mother, you and her man, let's come together
- 54:19Speaker 1: bring it and let's a friend. And it's definitely gonna
- 54:22Speaker 1: goes down that way. And my daughter is now seven.
- 54:24Speaker 1: It was still the little back This is a good
- 54:26Speaker 1: example of maybe you should treat both like the baby
- 54:28Speaker 1: dad should probably treat both of them the same, like
- 54:30Speaker 1: you buy one of three? Is you got yes, and
- 54:34Speaker 1: like he starting to realize that, like you have to
- 54:37Speaker 1: be there for your thing mother no matter what, because
- 54:39Speaker 1: at the end of the baby has a comment everything
- 54:44Speaker 1: you're still and he had a new girlfriend that Yeah,
- 54:48Speaker 1: I don't know that's how things happened like that because
- 54:50Speaker 1: my baby has been in that situation too, But it's different.
- 54:53Speaker 1: It sure he felt the way because he was having it.
- 54:55Speaker 1: That's when her though she she was having a baby.
- 54:57Speaker 1: The baby wasn't even here yet and then and so
- 55:00Speaker 1: she probably felt the way because honestly, breaking news. We
- 55:04Speaker 1: never heard she talking about the last talk about the
- 55:06Speaker 1: last Yeah, the girl you hung up on the um, Yeah,
- 55:09Speaker 1: like it is. Yeah, that's different. The girl she met
- 55:13Speaker 1: the guy and his baby mother was still pregnant. Yeah,
- 55:16Speaker 1: broke up while she was pregnant. So she probably still
- 55:19Speaker 1: was like you could go back with her anytime. That
- 55:21Speaker 1: baby is so fresh and so new. Yeah, you know,
- 55:23Speaker 1: so that's different, all right. Eight hundred five A five
- 55:26Speaker 1: one oh five one. What are your thoughts if you
- 55:28Speaker 1: buy your baby, but your new baby mom or your
- 55:31Speaker 1: new fiance a g wagon. Let's say, you know, is
- 55:35Speaker 1: it you're right? You are you supposed to buy the
- 55:36Speaker 1: old baby mom? Is something comparable you could be driving
- 55:40Speaker 1: in a comparable type of lifestyle? Yes? And do you
- 55:43Speaker 1: want someone to treat your kids like they're their own
- 55:45Speaker 1: as well? All right, let's talk about it. It's the
- 55:47Speaker 1: Breakfast Club. Good morning, it's topic time, eight hundred five
- 55:56Speaker 1: five one oh five. Want to join it to the
- 55:58Speaker 1: discussion with the Breakfast Club, wanting everybody Steve, we all
- 56:05Speaker 1: the Breakfast Club? We have what's wrong with you? Oh?
- 56:09Speaker 1: Now I was singing Justin Steffords, He's singing. Stefan jes
- 56:13Speaker 1: Hilarius is our co host. We're asking eight hundred five
- 56:16Speaker 1: A five one on five one. It's coming from our
- 56:18Speaker 1: tyler to play what's his name? All the time? Black
- 56:26Speaker 1: always want to fancy up their name name be Johnson,
- 56:28Speaker 1: Reginald val Johnson play Tyler left leave was here earlier.
- 56:35Speaker 1: This is what he said. Miracle Watt's head said something about,
- 56:39Speaker 1: you know, like she takes on your kids and her kids,
- 56:41Speaker 1: Like how is that situation now? Because I know that
- 56:43Speaker 1: April got mad at that she how is that now though? Um,
- 56:46Speaker 1: you know it's it's it's a process. You know, it's
- 56:49Speaker 1: like it's definitely better than it was. Still got a
- 56:51Speaker 1: little way to go. As much as I would not
- 56:53Speaker 1: like it to be like that, you know, I can't
- 56:55Speaker 1: rush anything because this is you know, again the problems
- 56:57Speaker 1: of the man you ring. It just it kind of
- 56:59Speaker 1: happens like that. It's the one thing I will say,
- 57:01Speaker 1: is that again, that's that's some other two of my children.
- 57:03Speaker 1: You know what. I'm trying to have nothing but love
- 57:05Speaker 1: and respect for us. So you know, I give her
- 57:06Speaker 1: grace and patience as she as she figures out what
- 57:09Speaker 1: she gotta feel herself through. You know what, I will
- 57:11Speaker 1: want for somebody to treat my kids like that, like
- 57:14Speaker 1: my kid is there? You know what? I Yeah. So
- 57:17Speaker 1: we're asking eight hundred five A five one oh five one.
- 57:20Speaker 1: You know, if you buy your fiance something, are you
- 57:22Speaker 1: supposed to take care of your baby mom's the same way?
- 57:24Speaker 1: And also do you want your fiance, you know, look
- 57:27Speaker 1: at you your other kids the same way as they
- 57:29Speaker 1: look at your kids. That's the question we're asking grenin Hello,
- 57:32Speaker 1: who's this? This is siquana Hey Shiquana, Hey, guys, good morning. Yes,
- 57:37Speaker 1: what right? She got so bad? But she play with,
- 57:51Speaker 1: don't play with, don't play What's what's your thoughts? Mom? Um? Honestly,
- 57:54Speaker 1: I just want the way in and say, um, it
- 57:56Speaker 1: depends on how long you know what the person, because
- 57:59Speaker 1: I have asked who would take our kids around his girlfriend?
- 58:02Speaker 1: He just met like a week ago, and I feel
- 58:04Speaker 1: that's something you shouldn't do. But if you're serious with
- 58:07Speaker 1: the person and you know you're feel like you got
- 58:09Speaker 1: a future with them, I mean, I see nothing wrong
- 58:11Speaker 1: with it. But on the stand still, it is a
- 58:14Speaker 1: lot of crazy people in the world. You got to
- 58:16Speaker 1: be cautious. A lot of people harming kids and doing
- 58:18Speaker 1: crazy things to kids. So that's where I'm with it. Like, if, um,
- 58:22Speaker 1: you think you're gonna do at the first long term
- 58:24Speaker 1: and you're dating for a minute and you get to
- 58:26Speaker 1: know each other, you're talking about your kids, okay, but
- 58:29Speaker 1: on your first date, you're not taking their kids to
- 58:31Speaker 1: Chucky Keys to play together because y'allo kids. I agree, right,
- 58:36Speaker 1: I agree? I agree. You can't to be bringing anybody
- 58:39Speaker 1: around your Yeah, that's that's what she's saying. That's what
- 58:41Speaker 1: she's saying, but I do believe. I do believe that. Um,
- 58:46Speaker 1: if I got kids and you got kids and we
- 58:48Speaker 1: ain't got no babysit this, we want to see you
- 58:50Speaker 1: bad enough. Yeah, let's meet up at Hello, Hello, Hello, Hey,
- 58:57Speaker 1: what's your name? Monica? Monica? Good morning, good morning. What's
- 59:02Speaker 1: your thoughts, Mama, my thoughts? I do not date with me.
- 59:06Speaker 1: I don't date mess kid. For a fact. If I
- 59:10Speaker 1: can't let my kids go over to the other parent,
- 59:12Speaker 1: I don't feel comfortable. That's not like. How am I
- 59:15Speaker 1: gonna feel comfortable if my kid going to see his
- 59:18Speaker 1: other parent if I don't like or get along with
- 59:20Speaker 1: the other person, Now, is that better enough? But let
- 59:23Speaker 1: me ask you this, Monica, is that because you better
- 59:26Speaker 1: or is that because has he ever given you any
- 59:28Speaker 1: type of like, Yo, I'm gonna I'm gonna put my
- 59:30Speaker 1: son in jevity or put my kid in jevity, Like
- 59:32Speaker 1: it's he that you got to know the other parents too?
- 59:34Speaker 1: Are they ever gonna bring somebody that you don't like
- 59:37Speaker 1: around your kid that's gonna do something to your kid?
- 59:39Speaker 1: Is that better? Or is that just how you feel
- 59:41Speaker 1: that's not better? I think it's out as a mother. Yeah,
- 59:45Speaker 1: I'm gonna speak it for the mother thing to do.
- 59:46Speaker 1: As a mother, you have to feel comfortable. If you're
- 59:50Speaker 1: not comfortable with the man, she's gonna write me it's
- 59:53Speaker 1: not ever gonna work. So I would think that maybe
- 59:55Speaker 1: me and the girl would have to talk. I would
- 59:57Speaker 1: be maturing, be like, let me talk to the girl.
- 1:00:00Speaker 1: And that's if I'm still on her and I like her. Yeah,
- 1:00:04Speaker 1: you can go. But listen, Jeff, yes must and I'm
- 1:00:08Speaker 1: talking about it. You have to stay the permanent co
- 1:00:12Speaker 1: host on the show. I've been crying all week. Yeah,
- 1:00:16Speaker 1: this is the funniest show ever been in my life.
- 1:00:19Speaker 1: Teller man is at his best with you. Thank you
- 1:00:22Speaker 1: so much, girl. I I agree with everything you say
- 1:00:26Speaker 1: that because I can't. I had you, and I think
- 1:00:29Speaker 1: I dressed the best win here out of everybody. Thank
- 1:00:33Speaker 1: you so much. Baby. I already told yes, she get
- 1:00:35Speaker 1: the permanent role. I'll guarantee you she won't be coming
- 1:00:37Speaker 1: here like she hosted the Award Show every day. I
- 1:00:39Speaker 1: guarantee you to be sweatsuits all right. So what's the
- 1:00:45Speaker 1: moral of the story. What is the moral of the story,
- 1:00:47Speaker 1: jes Because you've been co parenting very well for a
- 1:00:50Speaker 1: pretty long time. Now, oh man, the moral of the stories,
- 1:00:53Speaker 1: all right, So look what wish she said, which is
- 1:00:55Speaker 1: also a part of the moral. You still cannot say
- 1:00:58Speaker 1: because she said if you don't, if you don't trust
- 1:01:02Speaker 1: the other parents to date somebody that you you can't.
- 1:01:05Speaker 1: Really that's still in the sense controlling, Like you, you
- 1:01:07Speaker 1: don't know who they're gonna date. They dated you, So
- 1:01:10Speaker 1: if you're going off of that past, then you got
- 1:01:13Speaker 1: to include yourself. Like you can't just say he and not.
- 1:01:15Speaker 1: That's not the monica. But I'm just saying, like it's
- 1:01:18Speaker 1: just period. You can't control who some of you. Who
- 1:01:21Speaker 1: are you to say like, oh hey, I don't like
- 1:01:23Speaker 1: the way he dates. I don't. You don't until you
- 1:01:24Speaker 1: get to know somebody. But I like how she ended it.
- 1:01:26Speaker 1: If we have a conversation, Look, you're gonna be around
- 1:01:28Speaker 1: my child. This is who I am, this is you
- 1:01:30Speaker 1: know whatever. So the more what the story is, you
- 1:01:34Speaker 1: do not, I don't think you have to. You're not
- 1:01:36Speaker 1: responsible for your actual responsible for your kids. I think
- 1:01:39Speaker 1: that's what that is. That makes sense. You're not responsible
- 1:01:43Speaker 1: for your actually responsible for your kids. Yeah, you're not.
- 1:01:45Speaker 1: You're not responsible like my Like I said, my son's
- 1:01:48Speaker 1: dad has five kids with five different women. As after
- 1:01:52Speaker 1: he moved on, he take care of his bomb father
- 1:01:55Speaker 1: take care of his kids, and I don't try to
- 1:01:56Speaker 1: support no more for none of them. But no more. Yeah,
- 1:02:00Speaker 1: but he is not responsible for their mothers right, not
- 1:02:04Speaker 1: in that nothing. Yeah, it's different than the marriage because
- 1:02:06Speaker 1: the divorce you gotta settle that, you gotta you get this,
- 1:02:09Speaker 1: I get this whatever. But like girlfriend, boyfriend, yo, if
- 1:02:11Speaker 1: if it's not about my child, yo, I'm in my relationship.
- 1:02:16Speaker 1: Let's say you move on and now that one child
- 1:02:19Speaker 1: lives a different life than those off those other four kids,
- 1:02:22Speaker 1: how do you think the other four kids will feel like?
- 1:02:24Speaker 1: You know what I mean? Like, yeah, that one kid
- 1:02:25Speaker 1: he gets you know, he gets to go to the
- 1:02:28Speaker 1: football games, he gets to go to this because he's
- 1:02:30Speaker 1: with the father old day long in that house. Don't
- 1:02:32Speaker 1: you feel like all the kids should have that same
- 1:02:34Speaker 1: love and that same feeling. But that's what I'm saying.
- 1:02:37Speaker 1: What the ex gotta do with that. I'm gonna go
- 1:02:39Speaker 1: pick my kid up and we're gonna I'm gonna take
- 1:02:41Speaker 1: you with the rest of my kids. Your daddy, it
- 1:02:44Speaker 1: ain't I'm gonna pick you in the baby mother up
- 1:02:45Speaker 1: and y'all and no, I'm picking my all. I'm gonna
- 1:02:47Speaker 1: get all my kids together, just like Rome do it,
- 1:02:50Speaker 1: just like my son's dad does it. He don't do
- 1:02:52Speaker 1: nothing with all his other kids. Or if he got
- 1:02:54Speaker 1: his girls his girls Day and boys boys Day, then
- 1:02:57Speaker 1: he got days when he get all of them, so
- 1:02:59Speaker 1: he does. I don't know, but my baby father though
- 1:03:02Speaker 1: it basically what justice saying. She only buying McDonald's for
- 1:03:04Speaker 1: her son. She ain't buying me donald for the rest
- 1:03:06Speaker 1: of your own kids. It's the Breakfast Club. Good Morning,
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