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Christmas Fun with Leah Itsines · Outspoken the Podcast

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Speaker 1: On today's episode of our summer series, A Very Outspoken Christmas,
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Speaker 1: we're joined by the talented Leah Edsinas. Now, this is
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Speaker 1: a really fun chat and will make you feel extra Christmassy.
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Speaker 2: Let's get into the episode.
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Speaker 1: Is there any other rumours that you've heard or seen
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Speaker 1: online that you're like, that is just so crazy, I
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Speaker 1: want to set the record straight?
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Speaker 3: That me and Kayla hate each other. That's the biggest one.
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Speaker 3: It's the weirdest thing. They're like, oh, they could never
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Speaker 3: get along with me. Kayla's like... They're like, my dad,
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Speaker 3: he says stiffness. And I'm like, what the fuck? Our
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Speaker 3: entire 30 years, like my past 30 years on this earth,
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Speaker 3: I've said stiffness and they were just going to switch
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Speaker 3: up on us now.
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Speaker 1: There's one rumour I remember hearing and it was like,
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Speaker 1: Kayla and Leah's mum have to go to the shop
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Speaker 1: to buy them Boost bars because they can't be seen
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Speaker 1: purchasing chocolate.
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Speaker 3: People are insane. That's the weirdest thing I've ever heard.
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Speaker 3: Who gets a Boost bar anyway? I think at the start,
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Speaker 3: you know, my parents were like, no way. Why would
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Speaker 3: the Daily Mail be writing this? Why would they be?
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Speaker 3: Who told them this? And we all just learn to
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Speaker 3: like 99.999% of the stuff that goes online is absolute trash.
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Speaker 3: Like it's such, it's just full lies.
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Speaker 1: So thank you so much for joining us on Outspoken.
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Speaker 1: We have previously been roasted by our listeners for pronouncing
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Speaker 1: your last name wrong, which is very hypocritical of us
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Speaker 1: considering our last name is Torba. Can you please put
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Speaker 1: an end to our argument.
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Speaker 2: For once and for all?
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Speaker 1: Well, firstly, Leah, I feel like we should maybe say
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Speaker 1: how we say your last name and you tell us
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Speaker 1: if it's correct.
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Speaker 2: Is it It's Sinus?
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Speaker 3: Yes.
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Speaker 1: Yes.
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Speaker 2: Thank you.
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Speaker 3: You got it right. So whoever's roasting you, it means
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Speaker 3: to just hang on for a sec because, yeah, a
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Speaker 3: lot of people say It's Sinus. I don't know. But
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Speaker 3: it's definitely It's Sinus. So you're right.
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Speaker 2: See, we used to say It's.
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Speaker 1: It's Stenis and then we learned it was yeah and
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Speaker 1: then yeah but yeah a lot of our Facebook group
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Speaker 1: are like you guys don't pronounce it right like listen
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Speaker 1: to this and there was like a really nitpicking disagreement
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Speaker 1: online about it do you get people coming up to
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Speaker 1: you and telling you how your name should be pronounced
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Speaker 1: like is that ever.
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Speaker 3: But you know what it's actually it's actually really funny
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Speaker 3: within our own household we already have an argument so
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Speaker 3: like my dad who it's his last name obviously We say,
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Speaker 3: he says, it's in us. I'm like, what the fuck?
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Speaker 3: Our entire 30 years, like my entire 30 years on
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Speaker 3: this earth, I say, it's in us. And they were
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Speaker 3: just going to switch up on us now. So now
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Speaker 3: we're literally, dad's like, it's in us. I'm like, no,
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Speaker 3: it's not. It's in us. We've never said that. So like,
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Speaker 3: we are literally arguing. So who knows really.
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Speaker 2: Just having an identity crisis.
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Speaker 3: Yeah so however you want to say it really we
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Speaker 3: can't even agree so do you.
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Speaker 1: Know what it's it's so exciting to actually have a
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Speaker 1: fellow Adelaide girl on the show like we love what
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Speaker 1: you are doing and but we're devastated to hear that
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Speaker 1: you're no longer officially in Adelaide anymore why the move
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Speaker 1: and and are you enjoying the Gold Coast just as
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Speaker 1: much as Adelaide.
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Speaker 3: Yeah do you know what it's Yeah, it's a crazy, honestly,
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Speaker 3: the weirdest thing that I, six months ago, you could
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Speaker 3: not have told me that we were leaving. I was like,
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Speaker 3: no way, no way, no way. Like my sister moved, obviously,
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Speaker 3: like over a year and a half ago now, maybe more.
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Speaker 3: And I was like a dead note, like not going
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Speaker 3: to happen, not moving, blah, blah, blah. But we spent
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Speaker 3: a lot of time up here, obviously, because my sister
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Speaker 3: and I are very close. So we came up here
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Speaker 3: like weeks at a time. We stay in the same house.
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Speaker 3: We just, honestly, when I say stars aligned, like stars aligned,
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Speaker 3: Mitch and I had like to make a decision whether
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Speaker 3: we were going to renovate or sell our house. And
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Speaker 3: if we were going to renovate, it's going to take
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Speaker 3: a while, whether we like, do we just move? Do
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Speaker 3: we stay? Do we whatever? And we just had this
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Speaker 3: massive conversation as a family, like Kayla and us. And
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Speaker 3: we were just like, you know, I have never in
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Speaker 3: my life, my family house, I went to primary school
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Speaker 3: two streets away, high school three streets away. Mitch and
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Speaker 3: I lived a street away from that. I've been in
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Speaker 3: this little like, I've never gone anywhere. I've never done anything.
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Speaker 3: I've never lived anywhere else. I've never traveled properly. Like
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Speaker 3: I've just really in my little bubble, right? And we,
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Speaker 3: our supplement business, all of our suppliers are up here.
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Speaker 3: So it's a lot easier business wise up here. And
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Speaker 3: I just thought, you know what? Like Gigi's still young.
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Speaker 3: She's two and a half. We don't have to sell
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Speaker 3: anywhere for school. We can just, if it's like now
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Speaker 3: or never. Right. And we just decided, we're like, you
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Speaker 3: know what? The worst, the worst that can happen is
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Speaker 3: we just come on. Like we just, there's no difference.
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Speaker 3: So like we said to ourselves, I will give us
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Speaker 3: a year just to try. And if we don't like it,
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Speaker 3: we'll go home. We love Adelaide. So we'll just see.
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Speaker 3: And yeah, We love it. It's an amazing growth change
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Speaker 3: for us. Wild, isn't it?
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Speaker 1: And Gold Coast people, I feel like they're quite similar
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Speaker 1: to Adelaideans. They're a bit more chilled and, yeah.
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Speaker 3: No one cares about anything. Yeah, and I always said, oh,
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Speaker 3: you know, people on the Gold Coast, they don't wear
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Speaker 3: any clothes, but when you're here, I get it. It's hot.
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Speaker 3: You don't want to wear clothes. It's too hot up here.
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Speaker 3: I get it. But, yeah, chill out.
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Speaker 1: Is it true that you guys, when you were living
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Speaker 1: in Adelaide, it was like your mum and dad were
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Speaker 1: on the same street, Kayla was on the same street?
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Speaker 1: Were you that close or was that just a bit
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Speaker 1: of a rumour? Your grandparents down the road?
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Speaker 3: No, not the same street but very like we were
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Speaker 3: literally like when my parents, it was like two streets
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Speaker 3: to Kayla. We were on an adjacent street to Kayla
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Speaker 3: so we were on the street over and then And
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Speaker 3: Jay's mum and sister were on the street over that.
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Speaker 3: So like that way. And then my grandparents were a
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Speaker 3: minute drive away, like very, very close. Like walkable distance
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Speaker 3: within like two minutes. So it was great.
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Speaker 1: That must have been helpful at Christmas time because, you know,
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Speaker 1: you could go, would you guys all go to your parents'
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Speaker 1: house the morning of or how would that all work
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Speaker 1: being so close?
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Speaker 3: Yeah. Yeah, pretty much. We'd just go straight there and
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Speaker 3: all the kids, everything there, everybody just pack up and
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Speaker 3: take everything there. It's always that mum. It's always the
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Speaker 3: mum and dad.
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Speaker 1: Yeah.
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Speaker 2: How does your husband feel about that?
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Speaker 1: Cause his parents just as close by, they just three
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Speaker 1: streets down or?
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Speaker 3: No, they're like a 20 minute drive, which in our
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Speaker 3: world is like, Oh my God, 20 minutes drive.
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Speaker 1: Okay.
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Speaker 3: Um, but no, they, so we, they always do, they
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Speaker 3: do like, you know, different Christmases on different, different families.
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Speaker 3: Cause he's not, Mitch is an only child. So, um,
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Speaker 3: for us, like it's a big fat great Christmas. And
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Speaker 3: for him, it was like something a little bit smaller.
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Speaker 3: So he thinks it's hectic and, but he's grown to
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Speaker 3: love it.
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Speaker 1: It's So is he just like the main character from
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Speaker 1: My Big Fat Greek Wedding?
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Speaker 2: I can't remember his name, the guy that rocks.
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Speaker 1: Off in his boat.
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Speaker 3: He is Ian. Yeah, Ian. I didn't mention Ian.
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Speaker 2: Absolutely. How do Greek Christmases compare?
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Speaker 1: Because I've often said to some of my Greek and
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Speaker 1: Italian friends, I actually wish that I was born into
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Speaker 1: that because you guys just seem to do.
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Speaker 2: It so much better.
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Speaker 1: Like there's seven course meals and is that, is it
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Speaker 1: just the best?
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Speaker 3: It's so good, honestly. And, like, this year is going
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Speaker 3: to be just the same. Like, all of our stuff
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Speaker 3: is just very much, like, anyone can come. It doesn't
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Speaker 3: matter who is coming, like, friends, family, neighbours. Like, it
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Speaker 3: doesn't matter. Like, there's never, like, an invite list. Like,
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Speaker 3: we just send out a big text saying, like, we're
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Speaker 3: doing Christmas. This is what time it's on. Like, rock
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Speaker 3: up if you want. Like, and that's how it works
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Speaker 3: in our family. We never have, like... We have a
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Speaker 3: sit-down time where everyone, like, sits and eats, but most
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Speaker 3: of the time there's shit flinging around everywhere. Like, there's, like, there's,
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Speaker 3: you know, you got to sit up and dance at
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Speaker 3: the start and there's people picking. We all get tongs
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Speaker 3: and we pick the lamb off the spit, like, as
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Speaker 3: we're eating it. It's just so much fun. It's all
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Speaker 3: about whoever comes, like, and we're just all just hanging out.
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Speaker 1: And is there a bit of pressure for you to
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Speaker 1: produce the goods? Because obviously you're such an amazing cook.
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Speaker 1: Are you sort of, like, is there particular tasks that
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Speaker 1: you get given?
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Speaker 3: Yeah, I get given most. Most of the stuff I
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Speaker 3: get given. It's usually, like, me, mum and Mia are
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Speaker 3: usually doing the most. And then, like, you know, the
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Speaker 3: guys are outside on the barbecue. We're inside just, like,
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Speaker 3: getting everything ready. But, like I said, like, it's very free-flowing.
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Speaker 3: So it's kind of like, oh, do we feel like
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Speaker 3: eating some squid now? Great, let's go make it. Do
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Speaker 3: we feel like doing it? Like, it's just very cruisy. But, yeah,
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Speaker 3: I think my mum would have the biggest role because
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Speaker 3: she does all the shopping. I don't want to do
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Speaker 3: any of that. But I 100% will cook all day.
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Speaker 3: But I enjoy it. I love it.
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Speaker 1: I remember, this is so Adelaide, but we wanted to
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Speaker 1: ask you about some rumours that keep floating around about
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Speaker 1: yourself and Kayla. There was one I remember hearing and
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Speaker 1: it was like, Kayla and Leah's mum have to go
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Speaker 1: to the shop to buy them Boost Bars because they
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Speaker 1: can't be seen purchasing chocolate. I think this was like
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Speaker 1: way back in the, you know, in the day of
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Speaker 1: the bikini body guide.
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Speaker 2: That was one rumour I remember. And I was like,
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Speaker 2: surely that is not the case.
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Speaker 3: People are insane. That's the weirdest thing I've ever heard.
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Speaker 3: Who gets a Boost Bar anyway? Boost is the football.
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Speaker 3: If I was to send mum to get me anything,
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Speaker 3: it would be something ridiculous. But we would buy our
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Speaker 3: own chocolate. Yeah. Definitely would.
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Speaker 1: Yeah, it just seemed like there were urban legends about
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Speaker 1: your family because everyone couldn't believe that there was some,
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Speaker 1: you know, a family that was so successful out of Adelaide,
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Speaker 1: which is a little bit sad. Like we're really downplaying
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Speaker 1: Adelaide here. Is there any other rumours that you've heard
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Speaker 1: or seen online that you're like, that is just so crazy,
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Speaker 1: I want to set the record straight?
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Speaker 3: That me and Kayla had each other. That's the biggest one.
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Speaker 3: It's the weirdest thing. They're like, oh, they could never
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Speaker 3: get along with me and Kayla. Yeah.
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Speaker 4: In what world like that is so weird like people
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Speaker 4: say things all the time we just laugh but it's
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Speaker 4: like that is so random oh like you know Leah
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Speaker 4: just like you know I don't even know Leah hates Kayla,
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Speaker 4: Kayla hates Leah because she's so mean.
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Speaker 3: I'm like Kelly is mean. She's mean to me. I'm
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Speaker 3: mean to her. We bully each other. That's just normal.
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Speaker 2: I'm like, yeah, I'm like, dude, you need to.
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Speaker 3: Put some makeup on. You look like shit. And she's like, yeah,
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Speaker 3: all right. And then hangs up on me and then
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Speaker 3: she'll call me and tell me I need to do
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Speaker 3: my hair. Like there's literally sisters. Unless you have a sister,
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Speaker 3: you won't get it.
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Speaker 2: Yeah, these are the people that don't have siblings at all.
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Speaker 3: Literally. I'm like, I am a bully.
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Speaker 1: Well, I think it's like a specific sister thing, though, because, like,
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Speaker 1: people don't get it the way we speak to each
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Speaker 1: other and you can have an argument and literally two
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Speaker 1: seconds later be over it and be like oh can
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Speaker 1: I borrow that of yours like our partners are like
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Speaker 1: what is going on weren't you just arguing with her
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Speaker 1: two seconds ago you're like yeah.
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Speaker 3: Like yeah and then or like Mitch would be like
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Speaker 3: oh you know like you know if he says anything
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Speaker 3: about Kayla I'm like I beg your pardon like you
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Speaker 3: can't say that I can say that but no one
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Speaker 3: else in this room can call her any names like
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Speaker 3: that is.
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Speaker 1: So funny talking about kayla i really enjoy hearing you
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Speaker 1: make cameos on her podcast and there was one episode
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Speaker 1: where you were talking about how you get compared a
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Speaker 1: lot and also talking about the trolling that you have
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Speaker 1: received which is just awful how do you deal with
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Speaker 1: that type of negativity.
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Speaker 3: Honestly, like I would say the last year has been
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Speaker 3: really good. Like I've really learned to just, you know,
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Speaker 3: shut it out. Honestly, like negativity post having a baby
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Speaker 3: literally handed postnatal depression to me on a fucking platter,
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Speaker 3: which is great. I'm sorry. But honestly, like. You know, but, like,
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Speaker 3: it is, unfortunately, it is what it is. And, like,
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Speaker 3: I've had, I've worked in, like, therapy to literally be, like,
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Speaker 3: how do I deal with this? Because this isn't normal. Like,
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Speaker 3: a normal situation, if someone doesn't like you or you
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Speaker 3: don't like them, like, you can just, like, leave, like, separate.
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Speaker 3: You know, you don't have to see them or you
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Speaker 3: don't contact them. You block their number or whatever. But, unfortunately,
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Speaker 3: I just can't do that. So I've just, like, had
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Speaker 3: to work really hard on being, like, my, mine and
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Speaker 3: Kayla's relationship, my self-worth, Kayla's self-worth, it's just not up
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Speaker 3: for discussion. Like, that just isn't for us. And we've
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Speaker 3: just had to, do a lot of like self work
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Speaker 3: to be like, okay, like whatever these people are saying,
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Speaker 3: whatever they want to say, like just let them, it's
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Speaker 3: like a one-sided beef at this point. Like, oh, we
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Speaker 3: don't care. We're so happy. Like that is, it just
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Speaker 3: kind of is what it is. And it's an unfortunate
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Speaker 3: thing that you have to go through. But I think
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Speaker 3: for the last like 10 years, it's, we just had
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Speaker 3: to grow some thick skin. That's what it is, unfortunately.
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Speaker 1: The crazy thing about it is I can't, and I
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Speaker 1: don't know if I'm just being biased towards you guys,
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Speaker 1: but I actually don't, I haven't seen you guys do
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Speaker 1: anything that would actually be.
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Speaker 2: Worthy of anyone. No one normally does. That's the thing. No,
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Speaker 2: but they don't.
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Speaker 1: But there's obviously a lot of controversial influencers out there
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Speaker 1: who might do something that does warrant.
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Speaker 2: Well, not warrant, but you can understand, oh, they're going
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Speaker 2: to copy a bit.
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Speaker 3: Of hate about that. But I'm so confused because.
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Speaker 2: You guys are so likeable.
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Speaker 3: I know. But it just shows you that. Yeah, not
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Speaker 3: even in the likeability. I think like I literally all
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Speaker 3: I do is make recipes and be a mum. Like
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Speaker 3: I don't understand it. I'm like, okay, if you hate
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Speaker 3: me for that, oh, Jesus.
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Speaker 1: On a more positive note, there is a very popular
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Speaker 1: other family member of yours that has an Instagram account
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Speaker 1: and there's been a few rumours. There's been a few
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Speaker 1: rumours swirling about that particular account.
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Speaker 2: And this is, of course... Now, is it your poo-poo?
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Speaker 3: Is that, sorry, I have to, yeah, yeah, yeah.
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Speaker 1: See, Astina's poo-poo, sorry, I'm so uncultured.
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Speaker 2: We'll edit that bit.
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Speaker 3: But yes, your poo-poo's.
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Speaker 2: Instagram account.
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Speaker 1: Now there is a rumor going around that maybe he
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Speaker 1: doesn't have full control of that account.
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Speaker 3: Is that true? Honestly, the one thing about our family
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Speaker 3: is we're pretty much a vault. So unfortunately, can't answer
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Speaker 3: that question. Can't answer it.
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Speaker 1: Because we really wanted to get him on the show
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Speaker 1: instead of you, Leah.
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Speaker 2: And this was just a way.
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Speaker 3: To get to him. But yeah, I get it. Honestly,
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Speaker 3: he would get canceled within five seconds of being on
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Speaker 3: the show.
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Speaker 2: He'd have his own tattle thread.
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Speaker 3: Oh, yeah. He would have a Lysandre on there every day.
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Speaker 2: What do your family think about it all though? Are they,
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Speaker 2: I mean, especially your, I suppose about.
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Speaker 1: All the, I suppose, the fame, the intrigue, the media scrutiny, everything. Yeah,
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Speaker 1: there's been, I suppose they've put up with it for
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Speaker 1: quite a while now. You guys have been in the
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Speaker 1: spotlight for such a long time. But initially, were they
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Speaker 1: really surprised by all of the reactions?
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Speaker 3: Yeah, I think like my family, obviously it's been the
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Speaker 3: last 10 years, maybe a little bit more. So I
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Speaker 3: think like we've obviously learned to grow. And I don't,
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Speaker 3: I think at the start, you know, my parents were like,
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Speaker 3: you know, why would the Daily Mail be writing this?
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Speaker 3: Why would they be, like who told them this? And
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Speaker 3: we're like, over time, I think, And we all just
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Speaker 3: learn to like 99.999% of the stuff that goes online
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Speaker 3: is absolute trash. Like it's such, it's just full lies.
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Speaker 3: And we know it because we can, we see it.
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Speaker 3: And obviously our family's around. I think it's hard for
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Speaker 3: like our parents to, like if someone said something about Gigi,
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Speaker 3: I'd be like, I'm ready to fight someone. As a parent,
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Speaker 3: they're like, they've had to do a lot of work
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Speaker 3: to be like, it's okay it's just an article it's
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Speaker 3: just a person blah blah but like both of my
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Speaker 3: parents worked in schools and my dad's still a teacher
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Speaker 3: and he just thinks like.
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Speaker 5: He he finds it hard because he's like it's just
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Speaker 5: bullying like it's just like kid bullying in the playground
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Speaker 5: I hate it he hates it but it's just like
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Speaker 5: he he also doesn't say he just don't worry about
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Speaker 5: it don't worry about it don't worry about.
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Speaker 3: It so it's very he's very like you know but
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Speaker 3: we've had to come to a point where like we
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Speaker 3: know what we know us and we're happy with us
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Speaker 3: so that's.
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Speaker 1: Yeah it would be so tough like I could just
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Speaker 1: I'd I can't imagine not being able to say anything
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Speaker 1: to defend your children. But then obviously it would probably
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Speaker 1: make it worse as well and then you'd get more articles.
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Speaker 2: So it's just like a– Exactly.
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Speaker 3: So it's just best to leave it, which is unfortunate.
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Speaker 3: I've had like a real thing about that because I've
14:50
Speaker 3: always wanted– and like a random rumor, like can't buy
14:52
Speaker 3: our own chocolate bar. That is so random. I've never heard–
14:55
Speaker 3: like who came up with that? And I kind of
14:58
Speaker 3: want to tiptoe like you want to be like– you
14:59
Speaker 3: want to go and tell that person like what is
15:01
Speaker 3: wrong with you? Like, who says that? Or who makes
15:06
Speaker 3: up that random thing? And then, like, that in itself, like,
15:10
Speaker 3: I don't get, I never get, like, it's called, like,
15:12
Speaker 3: a right of reply. Like, I don't get the right
15:14
Speaker 3: to say something because it's, like, it just, it's a
15:17
Speaker 3: stupid fight. It's dumb. Like, it's a waste of my
15:19
Speaker 3: energy and my time or I could be hanging out
15:21
Speaker 3: with my daughter. Like, I'd rather do that. So we've
15:23
Speaker 3: just had to, like, really... hold back and just let
15:26
Speaker 3: it go. But you know what I really like lately?
15:27
Speaker 3: Tammy Hembrough has been going on TikTok and derailing some
15:30
Speaker 3: media articles, which is just like, just laughs. And I
15:32
Speaker 3: think that's how we deal with it. We just laugh. Like,
15:35
Speaker 3: this is the only thing you can do because if
15:37
Speaker 3: you don't laugh, you'll just get frustrated, I think. Yeah.
15:39
Speaker 1: And that's a great thing about social media, like being
15:42
Speaker 1: able to actually have a right of reply, because obviously
15:44
Speaker 1: back before social media celebrities, like you'd have to put
15:47
Speaker 1: out a, you know, a press release that was written
15:49
Speaker 1: by a publicist. I mean, I think some influencers do
15:52
Speaker 1: need a little bit of help when it comes to
15:54
Speaker 1: some of the statements. It can be good and bad, though,
15:56
Speaker 1: because you don't want to have to, sometimes it's just best,
15:59
Speaker 1: I think, for people to ignore stuff. I mean, like
16:01
Speaker 1: you don't want to get on your story and be like,
16:03
Speaker 1: I have heard this rumour that my mum has been
16:05
Speaker 1: buying boost bars and this is ridiculous.
16:07
Speaker 2: You know what I mean?
16:08
Speaker 3: You get every single rumour. And then it just fuels
16:12
Speaker 3: the next one. It just fuels the next one and
16:14
Speaker 3: the next one. And then people expect you, like they
16:15
Speaker 3: can't wait for you to say something. It's just like,
16:17
Speaker 3: I just can't be bothered. I just actually can't be bothered.
16:19
Speaker 3: I'd rather just do something else with my energy because
16:22
Speaker 3: you take a lot of my energy and my energy
16:24
Speaker 3: is so spent with Gigi and our business that I'm like,
16:26
Speaker 3: I can't sit here and think of someone that I
16:28
Speaker 3: can't buy my own chocolate bar. You think that. You
16:30
Speaker 3: just do that. You do that and enjoy your day.
16:33
Speaker 3: I don't know how to help you. You know what
16:35
Speaker 3: I mean?
16:36
Speaker 1: I can understand why Tammy is coming out at the
16:38
Speaker 1: moment though because there is so much attention on this
16:41
Speaker 1: wedding that's coming up. Yeah. We can't pretend, like we
16:44
Speaker 1: have been talking about it a lot on our podcast,
16:46
Speaker 1: so we can't pretend that our halos.
16:47
Speaker 3: Are showing up.
16:48
Speaker 2: It's the wedding of the year.
16:50
Speaker 3: The wedding of the century. I love it. I love it.
16:52
Speaker 3: I mean, I can't wait. I can't wait. But I
16:54
Speaker 3: just like her debunking shit that's online because she's just like,
16:57
Speaker 3: this is stupid. Like, this is dumb. So I just
16:59
Speaker 3: like that and that's funny.
17:01
Speaker 1: Heading into Christmas, I want to get some tips from
17:03
Speaker 1: you because I'm actually doing Christmas at my house this
17:07
Speaker 1: year and I've checked out, obviously, your Instagram. I've gone
17:10
Speaker 1: and had a look and the recipes look insane.
17:12
Speaker 3: Yeah.
17:13
Speaker 1: Can you give some advice, I suppose, maybe to first
17:15
Speaker 1: time Christmas hosts? What have we got to do in
17:18
Speaker 1: the lead up to Christmas to get our shit organized
17:21
Speaker 1: for the day?
17:21
Speaker 3: Oh, it's hard. But do you know what we used
17:24
Speaker 3: to do? We used to say like, you know, whoever's
17:26
Speaker 3: hosting does everything, right? You do absolutely everything. And then
17:30
Speaker 3: that causes so much stress for that one person, right?
17:32
Speaker 3: So we've now been like, everyone, if you want to come,
17:35
Speaker 3: bring something, like bring a salad, bring something like something
17:38
Speaker 3: that just helps on the day so then when you're
17:40
Speaker 3: actually if it's your hosting you're just like i can
17:42
Speaker 3: just make a few things and then it just gives
17:45
Speaker 3: you like a little bit of a because i feel
17:46
Speaker 3: like the expectation of like you're hosting you also have
17:49
Speaker 3: to feed everyone like no offense that's a lot of
17:50
Speaker 3: money like you're spending a lot for everybody and you're
17:52
Speaker 3: doing a lot of time and effort and all that
17:54
Speaker 3: shit you're like oh my god it's a lot so
17:56
Speaker 3: delegate that's a great one but I would yeah like
18:03
Speaker 3: just be like because I feel like people that oh
18:05
Speaker 3: no no I'm hosting I'll have it like no no
18:07
Speaker 3: no I'm hosting I will have you over but you
18:09
Speaker 3: can bring things as well and you can we can
18:10
Speaker 3: all celebrate together right rather than stress on me so
18:13
Speaker 3: 100 delegate firstly but secondly I would have a list
18:18
Speaker 3: and get things that you can get in advance the
18:21
Speaker 3: week before like If you're going to make a potato salad,
18:23
Speaker 3: you can buy potatoes and they'll last a week. Do
18:25
Speaker 3: you know what I mean? Rather than doing that in
18:26
Speaker 3: Christmas rush, the worst. I try and do my things
18:30
Speaker 3: at least a week before, freeze things, all that stuff.
18:33
Speaker 3: Just so I'm like, I don't want to go to
18:34
Speaker 3: Woolies on the day before. Fuck that. Or delivery. We
18:38
Speaker 3: love a delivery. Yeah.
18:39
Speaker 1: I love that you're giving that advice to Amy because
18:41
Speaker 1: she really needs to listen to it because she's the
18:43
Speaker 1: type of person, she loves hosting. She's got a great
18:45
Speaker 1: outdoor area and she always puts her hand up. But
18:48
Speaker 1: she is one of the people that buys the things
18:51
Speaker 1: like the day of. And I don't even mean in
18:52
Speaker 1: the morning. Obviously, Christmas is a little bit different, but
18:55
Speaker 1: she'll have like a Halloween party recently. And you bought
18:57
Speaker 1: the stuff like at 2 p.m. and people coming home
19:00
Speaker 1: at 6.
19:00
Speaker 3: And I'm just like, what are you doing?
19:03
Speaker 1: I think, I don't know, for some reason, it doesn't
19:04
Speaker 1: seem like a proper event to me unless there is
19:07
Speaker 1: that stress beforehand. It's like a last minute assignment adrenaline.
19:10
Speaker 3: I do get it. I do love a birthday. I
19:13
Speaker 3: love a birthday for all that.
19:15
Speaker 1: Actually, I was following Gigi's birthday closely because it was
19:19
Speaker 1: under the sea theme.
19:21
Speaker 2: So I've just had a baby recently.
19:23
Speaker 1: He's nearly six months old and I'm already like going
19:26
Speaker 1: into birthday planning mode. So maybe I need to pick
19:29
Speaker 1: your brain about that because that looked amazing.
19:32
Speaker 3: I'm literally, I was, her birthday's coming around. It's in
19:34
Speaker 3: March and I'm like, is November too soon? Like do
19:37
Speaker 3: we start planning? I'm really excited. Like third birthday, I
19:41
Speaker 3: think we're going to go with mermaid fairy theme. So yeah,
19:43
Speaker 3: I'm very excited. I love a birthday. I feel like
19:45
Speaker 3: birthday is my thing because I think like I, it's
19:48
Speaker 3: that one person's day and it's like Gigi couldn't give
19:51
Speaker 3: a shit about last year, but I'm like, it's me.
19:52
Speaker 3: I'm like, I'm so excited to just make her happy
19:54
Speaker 3: for one second. So I, yeah, birthdays are great. And
19:58
Speaker 3: the first birthday, I literally bawled my eyes out the
20:00
Speaker 3: entire time. Second birthday was more fun. because I used
20:03
Speaker 3: to say oh my god they're 21 like oh my
20:04
Speaker 3: gosh one year old you're a year old second birthday
20:07
Speaker 3: I couldn't wait it was my favorite I was like
20:09
Speaker 3: painting things I was oh my god it was too
20:11
Speaker 3: much I saw.
20:12
Speaker 1: That I was so impressed like the big sea um
20:14
Speaker 1: like the crab and the fish are like so cool
20:17
Speaker 1: so I don't know what theme to pick because like
20:19
Speaker 1: Jack's only starting to just get a personality now and
20:21
Speaker 1: obviously I suppose the first birthday party you kind of
20:24
Speaker 1: just pick whatever you.
20:25
Speaker 2: Like I'm guessing.
20:26
Speaker 3: Totally. Or whatever's like easy to find. Yeah.
20:29
Speaker 1: And I did a Peter Rabbit baby shower. That stuff
20:33
Speaker 1: is hard to find. It was like, I thought it
20:35
Speaker 1: would be easy and it's expensive. It's like, you've got
20:37
Speaker 1: to get it from the UK. So yeah, I've got
20:38
Speaker 1: to find something that's cool, but like, yeah.
20:40
Speaker 2: Easy to get.
20:41
Speaker 3: Yeah, like a reject shop.
20:43
Speaker 2: Yes, exactly.
20:46
Speaker 1: Have you got any amazing Christmas traditions now that you've
20:50
Speaker 1: got Gigi?
20:51
Speaker 3: Yeah, well, we're putting up the Christmas tree tonight. We're
20:54
Speaker 3: doing it in November. I hate people who do it
20:55
Speaker 3: in December. But I was waiting for my Christmas thing.
20:57
Speaker 3: I would have done it first in November, but my
20:59
Speaker 3: Christmas decorations got delivered today, so I'm very excited about that.
21:02
Speaker 3: I we kind of want to start new ones because
21:04
Speaker 3: we haven't really you know Jesus this year only quite
21:07
Speaker 3: sort of understanding Christmas that Santa sort of loves she
21:10
Speaker 3: doesn't really understand a lot of it but she you
21:12
Speaker 3: know she loves decorations so now that we're up in
21:14
Speaker 3: Queensland it's not as easy just to like do things
21:16
Speaker 3: with my parents or like Kayla or whatever but I'd
21:19
Speaker 3: love to do like Christmas Eve, have all the kids
21:22
Speaker 3: and have like a sleepover. I don't know whether Kayla
21:24
Speaker 3: will be onto that, but I think like I, as
21:27
Speaker 3: a kid, I loved, we used to get the mattresses
21:29
Speaker 3: and me and Kayla, not mum and dad, me and
21:32
Speaker 3: Kayla used to do it ourselves and then mum and
21:33
Speaker 3: dad built like this. We'd wheel our mattresses into the
21:37
Speaker 3: living room and we'd have like a movie night. And
21:39
Speaker 3: I loved that so much. I feel like that'll be
21:42
Speaker 3: so fun for the kids if we can do like
21:44
Speaker 3: Christmas Eve, like little sleepover vibes. And then in the
21:46
Speaker 3: morning we all wake up together or whatever. We do
21:49
Speaker 3: like Christmas Eve Eve. So we do like that. And
21:51
Speaker 3: then it's Christmas Eve with their family. I don't know.
21:53
Speaker 3: We kind of want to pick something. We're doing, I've
21:55
Speaker 3: forced Kayla into matching PJs and photos. So that'll happen
21:58
Speaker 3: next week. I'm very excited. Just little things like that.
22:02
Speaker 2: She wasn't keen on that?
22:04
Speaker 3: Well, she just was like, we should do photos. I'm like,
22:06
Speaker 3: matching PJs. And she's like, can we just do photos?
22:08
Speaker 3: I'm like, no, no, matching PJ photos.
22:10
Speaker 2: We have to be doing it.
22:11
Speaker 3: She's like.
22:11
Speaker 1: We're doing the same thing and our husbands were thrilled
22:14
Speaker 1: that they were in on the action.
22:15
Speaker 2: We're like, we got you a present. They're like, what?
22:18
Speaker 3: I don't want that. Yeah.
22:20
Speaker 2: You're like, just pose for the photo. Just be in it.
22:22
Speaker 1: Like just, you know, I've got to know what movies
22:25
Speaker 1: were you guys watching?
22:26
Speaker 2: Like what are your Christmas go-tos?
22:28
Speaker 3: We, I just think we, the Grinch, obviously, like that's
22:32
Speaker 3: a vibe. I think we used to watch Home Alone
22:34
Speaker 3: just as well. Just that. I think that was fun,
22:36
Speaker 3: but we would honestly, it wouldn't really be about the movie.
22:39
Speaker 3: We'd kind of put something on and then we would
22:41
Speaker 3: just like, eat popcorn or do whatever. We were just
22:43
Speaker 3: kind of partying around the living room. But yeah, that
22:46
Speaker 3: was fun. I think now having kids, I'm like, that
22:49
Speaker 3: is so important for those little magical memories. And like,
22:52
Speaker 3: Santa warning, trigger warning anybody. Mum used to go outside
22:57
Speaker 3: when we were sleeping and she'd ring some jingle bells
23:00
Speaker 3: on the street. So me and Kayla would be like,
23:02
Speaker 3: go to sleep, go to sleep, go to sleep. So
23:03
Speaker 3: we'd hear it and we'd be like, oh, my God, oh,
23:06
Speaker 3: my God. So things like that, I kind of want
23:08
Speaker 3: to make it like a real magical time. So, yeah,
23:10
Speaker 3: I'm excited. I'm really excited. This is our year because
23:13
Speaker 3: Anna's at an age where she gets it and then
23:15
Speaker 3: Gigi's there. Jax just wants to rip everything, so that's perfect.
23:18
Speaker 3: So I think, yeah, it's going to be good for
23:20
Speaker 3: them all, I think. It'll be really good. Aww.
23:22
Speaker 2: So did I hear that correctly?
23:23
Speaker 1: Are you guys staying on the Gold Coast for Christmas?
23:25
Speaker 1: You're not coming back to Adelaide?
23:26
Speaker 3: Yes, we'll be staying on the Gold Coast for Christmas.
23:29
Speaker 3: So my parents are coming up, Mitch's parents are coming up.
23:32
Speaker 3: I am, like, this close to getting my Yamba ball
23:34
Speaker 3: up here. Like, I'm so close. So close. Yes. So
23:39
Speaker 3: we could, we could see them. We could not usually.
23:41
Speaker 3: So either year they either go to my mum's sister's
23:43
Speaker 3: house or ours. So either way, they'd kind of have
23:46
Speaker 3: somewhere to go, obviously. But I'm so close. I just
23:49
Speaker 3: have to have one more visit to Adelaide, which I
23:51
Speaker 3: go next week, not next week. I'm there for the
23:53
Speaker 3: whole week. Every day I'm going to be like, I'm
23:55
Speaker 3: booking your ticket. I'm booking your ticket. And I think
23:57
Speaker 3: they'll come. I think they'll come.
23:59
Speaker 2: That would be so special.
24:01
Speaker 3: It would be amazing if they do.
24:03
Speaker 1: We were speaking on the podcast last week about Kate's
24:06
Speaker 1: joined this, what is it called, like the Mums Christmas
24:08
Speaker 1: Mums Facebook group.
24:10
Speaker 2: Yeah, I love it. It's so good.
24:13
Speaker 1: Look, I mean, I'm not as sold on the group.
24:16
Speaker 1: Kate has added me as a group member anyway. It's
24:18
Speaker 1: very cute. It's like lots of handmade crafty Christmas kind
24:22
Speaker 1: of stuff. Some of it's good, some of it's not
24:24
Speaker 1: so good. But some of the mums on there have
24:26
Speaker 1: already done their Christmas shopping in November.
24:29
Speaker 3: Wow.
24:30
Speaker 1: Is that kind of when do you get your Christmas
24:32
Speaker 1: shopping done? Is this sort of all of the responsibility
24:35
Speaker 1: on you or is your husband pretty good at helping out?
24:37
Speaker 3: No, he's good. He buys her more than things than
24:39
Speaker 3: I do. It's so annoying. He'll buy her the same
24:41
Speaker 3: shoes like she's got but just in a different colour.
24:43
Speaker 3: I'm like, oh, she's got them. I bought her Crocs
24:46
Speaker 3: when I went to the shops. But I think what
24:49
Speaker 3: we're going to do this year is like there's a
24:50
Speaker 3: big W really close. Like the kids literally, like I
24:53
Speaker 3: came from a home from Adelaide and I got her
24:55
Speaker 3: a little tea set. And she's been playing with it
24:57
Speaker 3: for the past, like, 24 hours. I literally wanted to
24:59
Speaker 3: take it to bed last night. So they're very easily pleased. Like,
25:01
Speaker 3: I'm not going to buy them. Like, me and Kayla
25:04
Speaker 3: were like, right, we're going to spend $ 100. We're going
25:05
Speaker 3: to go together. We're going to go get Anna a doll,
25:07
Speaker 3: Gigi a doll, Jackson a toy. My mom has already
25:10
Speaker 3: filled up the cupboard already with it. I was like,
25:12
Speaker 3: the kids don't, like, as long as we do the
25:14
Speaker 3: Christmas traditions and fun, they're going to have, like, we're
25:16
Speaker 3: just going to go get. My mom used to do
25:18
Speaker 3: this all the time for us. She probably would spend maybe,
25:20
Speaker 3: I'd say, like, $ 50, right? And that would be her
25:23
Speaker 3: budget for me or Kayla or whoever. And she'd go
25:25
Speaker 3: into a store, but get little things like a little,
25:28
Speaker 3: I don't know, shaker toy, anything. And then she'd wrap
25:31
Speaker 3: everything up. So we'd have like 30 presents, but there
25:33
Speaker 3: were nothing that socks should wrap up individually, like things
25:36
Speaker 3: like that. Oh my God, there's so many things. And
25:38
Speaker 3: it's just like, it wasn't expensive, but it was just
25:41
Speaker 3: like the notion of like, wow, this, we're going to
25:43
Speaker 3: have all this stuff. So I think that's what we'll
25:45
Speaker 3: do for the kids. But we're just, I try and
25:47
Speaker 3: buy things in Black Friday because I'm like, it's like 50% off.
25:51
Speaker 3: So I'm trying to, I'm going to this week and
25:52
Speaker 3: next week, I'm going to buy all like the like
25:54
Speaker 3: little painting sets and things like that. And then I'll,
25:56
Speaker 3: that'll be fine.
25:58
Speaker 1: That sounds like a great plan. Cause I, at the moment,
26:00
Speaker 1: cause it's going to be Jack's yeah. First Christmas. I'm like, Oh,
26:04
Speaker 1: I've heard people discussing like, do you even buy babies
26:07
Speaker 1: a present for Christmas?
26:08
Speaker 2: I will be just because I'm, I don't know. I'm
26:10
Speaker 2: excited for it.
26:11
Speaker 3: But I don't think, I don't reckon I got Gigi
26:14
Speaker 3: anything for the first, her first Christmas. Cause I think
26:17
Speaker 3: she was like, I was worried she'd vomit on her. No,
26:19
Speaker 3: I'm kidding.
26:20
Speaker 2: So it's feeling.
26:22
Speaker 3: I think I was like, no, I'll just whatever. But
26:24
Speaker 3: I reckon there was so many things from, like, mum
26:27
Speaker 3: that mum would come the week of December, I bought this,
26:30
Speaker 3: I'm like, wrap it up. Like, let's not give it
26:32
Speaker 3: to her now, wrap it up. So she had so
26:33
Speaker 3: much stuff. I was like, what am I going to
26:34
Speaker 3: get her? She doesn't even, like, blink yet. So, like,
26:36
Speaker 3: I think the first year I was like, no, don't
26:38
Speaker 3: worry about it. But second year, this year is going
26:40
Speaker 3: to be all for it. I'm ready.
26:42
Speaker 1: Yeah, I heard they just like the wrapping paper better
26:44
Speaker 1: so you could just literally wrap a box.
26:46
Speaker 3: And they've got no idea.
26:47
Speaker 1: Yeah.
26:47
Speaker 3: Or just wrap like a mug or a Tupperware container
26:50
Speaker 3: and be like, wow, look at the thing this is.
26:51
Speaker 3: This is so cool.
26:53
Speaker 1: I know the thing is you're spending so much money.
26:55
Speaker 1: Like I've had to order, like I just got a
26:56
Speaker 1: playpen for him recently. That was like 200, like all
26:58
Speaker 1: these things. And I'm like, there's a lot of gifts
27:00
Speaker 1: that you've already received in your first six months of
27:02
Speaker 1: life that are quite costly.
27:05
Speaker 3: And my soul as well.
27:09
Speaker 1: Last year you had your wedding really close to Christmas.
27:13
Speaker 1: So how did that go? Was that sort of, At
27:15
Speaker 1: the time, you're like, oh, my God, this is too close.
27:18
Speaker 1: We should have done it, like, spaced it out? Or
27:19
Speaker 1: was it, like, so magical?
27:21
Speaker 3: No, it was great. Like, we just did something so cruisy. Like,
27:23
Speaker 3: I think if we did a massive wedding, I would
27:25
Speaker 3: have been like, this is too much. But we just did, like,
27:27
Speaker 3: we literally had 20 people. My closest family, like, Mitch's
27:30
Speaker 3: family and my family, that was already, like, 16 people.
27:32
Speaker 3: And then we had, like, a couple of friends each.
27:35
Speaker 3: We just had a celebrate at the house and we
27:36
Speaker 3: had a chef. Like, I literally did nothing. Like, everyone
27:38
Speaker 3: was like, what can I do to help? I was like, nothing. Like,
27:41
Speaker 3: people are coming in, setting up little tent things, some lights, like.
27:44
Speaker 3: a lady came and did all the table and I
27:45
Speaker 3: was like, other than that, I literally, literally did nothing.
27:48
Speaker 3: I went to the gym that morning and was like, oh, like,
27:49
Speaker 3: do you want to go get a coffee? Like, I
27:51
Speaker 3: don't know what to do with myself because I'm, I
27:53
Speaker 3: don't know, there's nothing I can do. So, no, it
27:55
Speaker 3: was really good. I loved it. It was just easy
27:57
Speaker 3: and it was nice because I got to see my
27:58
Speaker 3: really close family friends and then Christmas day was like
28:00
Speaker 3: just everyone and anyone. So, it was like nice to
28:03
Speaker 3: have that little almost calming moment really.
28:06
Speaker 1: Yeah. So, because Kayla got married like in December last
28:10
Speaker 1: year and then yours was two years ago. Did you
28:11
Speaker 1: guys purposely pick around Christmas because you love the season
28:15
Speaker 1: or did it just happen to fall on those dates?
28:17
Speaker 3: I think it just kind of fell on those dates.
28:19
Speaker 3: I think we were kind of hoping for hotter weather
28:20
Speaker 3: so it kind of went down to the December because, like,
28:22
Speaker 3: we were still in November and it was like, is
28:24
Speaker 3: it going to rain, is it not? So, like, we
28:25
Speaker 3: pushed it as far as we could. But, yeah, Kayla
28:29
Speaker 3: did the same sort of thing, like, backyard-y, fun music.
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Speaker 3: It was great. Like, we both kind of had cruisy weddings,
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Speaker 3: I would say. It was really easy.
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Speaker 2: It sounds good.
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Speaker 1: I don't know if you had the same photographer as Kayla, Christina,
28:40
Speaker 1: but I had her for my.
28:41
Speaker 2: Wedding as well.
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Speaker 3: Isn't she amazing?
28:43
Speaker 2: Yeah, she was so good.
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Speaker 1: I booked her in and then I, like before, I
28:46
Speaker 1: hadn't really heard much about her and then I saw
28:48
Speaker 1: her pop up on Kayla's page and I was like,
28:50
Speaker 1: I must have picked well.
28:51
Speaker 3: Like she's doing Kayla's thing. Yeah, yeah, yeah. So she's
28:54
Speaker 3: actually a family. Her dad and my dad are cousins somehow,
28:58
Speaker 3: one of those great things.
28:59
Speaker 1: Oh, wow.
28:59
Speaker 3: Cousin, cousin, cousin. So Kayla got her but she's the best.
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Speaker 3: She's honestly, she gets things from like, every angle like
29:06
Speaker 3: little candles I love I love I love it we
29:09
Speaker 3: literally we had me and Kayla so we're doing me
29:10
Speaker 3: and Kayla working on a project together we were just
29:12
Speaker 3: in Adelaide together and she was a photographer for it
29:14
Speaker 3: and she's just amazing like I just I love her
29:18
Speaker 3: so much yeah.
29:19
Speaker 1: Just back to Christmas quickly um before we go um
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Speaker 1: what about for family for presents do you guys do
29:24
Speaker 1: a secret Santa or do you actually buy everyone in
29:27
Speaker 1: your family a Christmas present.
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Speaker 3: Nah, we stopped doing that. Like, the minute Anna was born,
29:32
Speaker 3: I was like, sorry, Kelly, you get nothing. And I
29:36
Speaker 3: think like, so Mitch's, Jay's family does a secret Santa
29:41
Speaker 3: and we, we just kind of like hooked onto that.
29:43
Speaker 3: And we now do, I think we're like, we buy
29:45
Speaker 3: our present, not a specific person's present. And then we
29:47
Speaker 3: do the thing that you can steal other people's presents.
29:50
Speaker 3: Like you get a number and then like, yeah, it's a,
29:53
Speaker 3: it's yeah, you get a number. And then if you
29:55
Speaker 3: get whatever number is like one through to however many
29:57
Speaker 3: people are there. And then, There's all presents in the
29:59
Speaker 3: room and as soon as your number's called, you get
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Speaker 3: to pick a present, like pick what you want, open
30:02
Speaker 3: it and then it's your present. And then if the
30:03
Speaker 3: next person gets to pick their present and if they
30:05
Speaker 3: don't like it, they can take yours. So you kind
30:08
Speaker 3: of want to be the last, the higher number so
30:10
Speaker 3: you can pick whoever you want. It just makes for
30:13
Speaker 3: like a really funny morning because everyone just bites.
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Speaker 2: Do people purposely buy shit?
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Speaker 1: Present because we've played that before and i remember um
30:21
Speaker 1: our sister sophie she bought like such a bad present
30:23
Speaker 1: but everyone wanted it it was like some stress ball
30:25
Speaker 1: poo it was like it was like most random or
30:28
Speaker 1: are people actually buying good presents in.
30:30
Speaker 3: Your game well we said we said like we had
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Speaker 3: we had a max of fifty dollars because we were
30:34
Speaker 3: like oh don't buy anything and anything more expensive than
30:37
Speaker 3: that because then that that happens like someone buys like
30:39
Speaker 3: a three thousand or something and we're like i want
30:42
Speaker 3: that so So 50 bucks was the max and we
30:44
Speaker 3: all just like, and we all kind of bought things
30:47
Speaker 3: that were a bit funny. Like we thought like, you know,
30:49
Speaker 3: a candle with a willy on it and things like that.
30:51
Speaker 3: So like we kind of did, depends on who's buying.
30:55
Speaker 3: I think that's kind of the fun of it. You
30:56
Speaker 3: know that someone's like, you know, I'm always going to
30:58
Speaker 3: buy something dumb. So like the new latest candle will
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Speaker 3: buy something nice.
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Speaker 2: I hope your grandparents were fighting over that willy candle.
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Speaker 1: We hope you enjoyed this episode with Leah. She joins
31:13
Speaker 1: us again in our subs episode tomorrow where we discuss
31:16
Speaker 1: Christmas food as well as pregnancy cravings. Here's a little
31:19
Speaker 1: teaser of what you can expect.
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Speaker 3: Christmas crack, that's like 1 billion percent, that'll be our Christmas.
31:25
Speaker 3: That's us. Not that I knew that I was pregnant,
31:27
Speaker 3: but I had iceberg lettuce and I was like dipping
31:29
Speaker 3: it in French onion dip and I was like, something's
31:32
Speaker 3: wrong here. Something's amiss. Genuinely in pregnancy, if I had
31:37
Speaker 3: any nausea, any sort of like backache, I'd be like, oh,
31:40
Speaker 3: poor sugar coat. The worst bit it was, it was
31:42
Speaker 3: bloody hungry Jack's Uber Eats. Once I discovered that, I
31:45
Speaker 3: was over.
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