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22 - Why You Have to Stop Chasing and Start Holding Yourself
What do you do when the relationship is over—and there's nothing left to fix?
Most men never get trained for that moment.
They've been taught to pursue, to fix, to solve. So when the connection breaks, when communication stops, when everything feels like it's slipping away—the instinct is to do more. Reach out. Say something. Try to pull it back together.
But that's not leadership.
That's reaction.
In this conversation, Shane shares what happened when his relationship hit that point. No contact. Divorce initiated. Completely cut off. And for the first time, there was nothing he could do to…
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