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Inspiring Human Potential Inner Growth 5D Self-Empowered Enlightenment Time · Inspiring Human Potential

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I found a little bit of time for some Enlightenment time
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especially on this very, very important full moon.
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Even though all of our Ascension moments are very, very important
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for the 5D Mystic. As we consistently expand, those
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who are open to the unconditional, love that.
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Is present within every body's opportunity and here's where I'm
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going to share a little bit of what I want to discuss in the
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lightworkers life because it's something important for those of
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you who do have Claire's. So for those who don't just bear
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with me, the ones of you who are aware of your whole oversoul.
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Okay. So you have nudges and have
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always had nudges where the expansion Ian is easy, the
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adaptation of your body is easy and I mean easy.
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Okay. So we don't talk about our
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actual Ascension process as hard, not, because we are
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against that feeling, because I know some people think that
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these are defense, mechanisms the ones who come at their
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Ascension from the shame cycle, and that's because they actually
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have in their physiology, and it's not because of an entity.
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We don't actually have to look at it that way because the
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science shows to us when a person's born, like a lot of
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things I can share with you and I have been on our process of
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development within the womb and the embodied mind brain with the
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spine and that nervous system and the way I learned it is from
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Daniel Siegel. So, the interpersonal
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neurobiology I don't remember all of how he explains it, but
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he gives a really good and actually the way It begins is
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the spine and then the brain comes.
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So their spine is what we have. So see, there you go.
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I don't know how to explain it but it's the spine and then the
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brain and then obviously our tissues or nervous system all
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these things and and there they have a whole way that they're
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explaining it. I haven't gotten the epigenetics
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yet. But what I have gotten is enough
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to bring to the table for those who have Claire's again aspects
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that support us those Of us who are connected to the energetic
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sphere, and as a will, gain the physics information in time.
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We'll keep connecting those dots to, but in the meantime for
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these energies are oversoul, okay?
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And our oversoul involves twin flames soul mates.
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All the people in your life. So this would be that you can
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call it a family of origin. So it would involve your
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caregivers, it would involve your friends.
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Is it would involve your family and involves all the people that
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you've interacted with so far in your life.
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So the 5D Mystic is the person who's consistently vibing from
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Enlightenment. And so here's where again, we
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don't have enemies. In fact, we don't consider the
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body and the mind to not be a part of our process of becoming
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expanded Consciousness. We would not be anything in the
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absence of our body and mind in life.
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So age group is beyond the spirituality stuff of belief
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systems, okay? We actually begin life with
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knowing that there's more to life than this, but we also know
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that it's never going to be confirmed when we die.
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We die. And that is it.
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So, we are very familiar with the unknown when it comes to,
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I'm aware that I live and that I will die.
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And as a human being, this is not going to be something I
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enjoy. Because I actually do appreciate
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the Actual life, I'm living. That's the five new mystic,
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which is why we don't actually end up in any type of in group,
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or out group for that matter because the group were in is I'm
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a human being and I'm living. What is a human life, which
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involves thoughts and emotions, which is fucking awesome because
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we use our brain, the thinking one not to do, and recruit a
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gutter critic, we don't do that. We actually are always able to
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use our brain to think not criticized.
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As we don't have a shame cycle, we have this love cycle which is
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really our somatic. Empath button is already very
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much alerted in the way of neutrality.
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So essentially we are born with what I'm going to say is an
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integrated mind we use left, right?
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All equally we don't make assumptions.
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We are actually always learning how not to make assumptions.
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So While others make sense of their life with groups, because
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they enter into Into a type of defense mechanism, the minute,
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they are engaging with life and that first year of life is when
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we begin to have things take place.
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So obviously yours we're very important to note I'm going to
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say this again and again and again a 5D person does not mean
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that this individual was born with a secure attachment because
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this is the beauty of infinite higher human consciousness.
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Potential experiences is There are plenty of people out there
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that love the fuck outta life and they had an upbringing, that
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was something that others will deem.
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In a judgmental way, they will not.
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They will talk to you in a way of honoring their story because
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they honor their life. Why?
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Because they were able to make sense of their life in that way,
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that they chose through that thinking, brain that thinking
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mind, it is their story and here's where, as The attachment
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data points from Daniel Siegel, who's sharing with me this data.
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And it's from the developmental attachment, study, people
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research people. Not the relationship one.
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They still point out certain things that are just as
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valuable, and we'll get to it in a minute.
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But I'm talking right now about the ones who take a look at that
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parent-child. And from the adult attachment
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interview, there's the ability to gather how The what's it
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called? How the person is when it comes
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to touch? Meant are they secure or non
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secure and with the non or insecure?
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Whichever one is one in the same, but Daniel Siegel uses.
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Non-secure, I think the researchers use insecure, the
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disorganized is the one that you want to remember is separate
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from the avoidant and ambivalent, because that infant.
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Had a household that was consistently in an area of
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terrifying for the infant. And so we all as people have the
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way that we are born, they find that we have.
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What is that expectancy experience expectancy of
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attaching? And they find that are mammalian
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Heritage that we are inclined to Age with each other.
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Here's where we will learn how to self-regulate by
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co-regulation. So its first co-regulation that
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takes place and teaches you, how to self-regulate even though I'm
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going to move into territory of saying, I would say people that
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like to give value more to co the we versus the, I are people
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who are trying to ensure people don't go and it's a whole
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movement of, you know, one group is all in favor.
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All it's all be alone and others.
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All let's let's be we I'm in the favor of when your own
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differentiate itself your own agents you are part of family
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called Humanity, you understand there's a connectedness but you
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independently think through your thoughts and emotions and then
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you link of course, and you join, but you don't merge.
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And it's not, because you're not part of the group, it's that you
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are okay, with being your own. Own self.
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The expression of what comes out of your mouth of your emotions
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again and you're not trying to do any type of hierarchy, you're
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not trying to build a group, the fact that people need to build a
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group is because they're identifying with their
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personality traits with their temperament traits.
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So this is the part they're identifying with categories and
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that's where they're using only their left brain.
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So they're in separation Consciousness.
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Those of us were unintegrated brain, the 5D Mystic, the 5D
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person in general, Even in the absence of Claire's, we do not
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disengage from the fact that we're part of each other and we
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affect each other. There's just a different way
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that we'll talk about it. So again, some people, they want
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to praise the group. Some people they want to praise.
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Individuality an individual, who is 5D.
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We don't praise shit where humans period we have life it's
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not needing to be in any type of hierarchical 1 2 3 4 like this
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is ridiculous to give a gauge to anything means.
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You don't know its value. When you do know, the value of
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Life, which means got one, 24 hours, you are consistently
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living in this present moment and a tuning to your environment
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in a way. That's always a window of
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welcome. I learned this new term for my
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class always, you know, let me try and expand my unconditional
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love my compassion, let me try and sure that I can be that
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support for my loved ones and them with me, you know this is
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where with us. We're not Inclined to look to
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them as something that has to match anything.
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So it's a very fascinating because I'm learning always from
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people but they all seem to only know one side of the coin.
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So I'm here to share that other side, which is we don't actually
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need to be taught how to be loving the ones that have a love
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cycle. And so let me not lose track of
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where I was going with wanting to share this important data
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point. Making sense of your life makes
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sense to do. This is what the attachment
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researchers have found and what affects a child is how their
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parent made sense of the The very, very difficult situations
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that happen to them. So one, their attachment style
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for the excuse me, the attachment category, because the
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styles for the relationship, people attachment category for
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the developmental researchers, and that involves Mary Mae and
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like, Alan, shworv and other people while the relationship
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research people. I don't remember who are the
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names for those ones, but Diane is one of the ones that I learn
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about that. Relationship angle from and
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she's really great. In fact, we have learned, thanks
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to Diane how the attachment wound from the way they present
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to us. And that is why the cymatics
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experiencing somatic experiencing with looking at
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attachment and Trauma was very helpful with Diane and Peter
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Levine because I got to see how somatic experiencing
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practitioners work with people's trauma that can Surface.
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And That trauma that surfaces from there also attachment
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wounds. And so we looked at how do you
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work with attachment and Trauma from the body and allow it to
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make its way? And, you know, he'll in a
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physical sense. And so it's very fascinating
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again, back to the developmental people.
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And this just this sentence that I've read to you in a couple of
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our podcasts. It's and that you'll probably
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hear again, but the ability. So for the parents to actually
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make sense of difficult experiences is what will make
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the process of transgenerational passage of suboptimal attachment
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to stop. So if a parent goes through a
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difficult situation or even you, here's where if you human being
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and here's where I'm going to talk to my 5D Mystics because
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You will know this. This is why we don't do ego
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death. Dark Night of the Soul are
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difficult experiences are not difficult.
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The ones of us who are a restored embodied self.
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We have always been in this. It's going to be okay, so we
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have secure attachment, we functional adults, were
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differentiated cells. We are always in a state of
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compassion. We only learn how to be more
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compassionate and that's where. So for me, I'll share this.
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I'll never forget as I Through the years and years of life.
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Right? And this is something that I
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understood because I'm giving words by my family of those
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character traits. Right?
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So one of them, for example, is that I'm highly sensitive.
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You're so sensitive not in a negative way, just you're so
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emotional. So sensitive, and the part about
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always being very much carrying and looking out for my twin.
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And you know my mom would I'd say you're acting like the
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mother, you're the sister, not the mother, you know, let her do
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her stuff so stuff like that. But again, the way that we will
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take in information because we're our own self agents
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because we have a love cycle. And again, I I say we as a group
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because I know some of us are from this area but obviously
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every one of you knows your story.
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So some people may not be in this consistent compassion
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group, right? And your Obviously a 5D this is
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where I'm just trying to say I use.
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We in this case to say, some some of you have experienced
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year after year, after year more love in your life.
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Because of your own inclined way of sensing and making sense of
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things with compassion, though, not with the human suffering,
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not with fear, not with shame, not with this, I wasn't seeing
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wasn't heard. And so I'm lesser than those of
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us who are The mature feminine with your own mature masculine,
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we don't look down or up to people.
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I learned how to be respectful because God taught me that I
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needed to respect my parents. I mean, if I remember when I was
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a kid, how I learned to just shut up and let people be the,
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you know, the the adults there was a way that I was able to
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understand it. Okay.
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Well God, this God that they're introducing me to says, respect
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your pet. You know, I got those 10 basic
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rules which made sense. And then it was the adults know
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better. Then some Sometimes it seemed so
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right? Most of the time actually and so
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I was able to make sense of why I had to listen to these adults
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and be respectful and I started to get older, I'm like hmm I
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don't think you're actually you know like these were areas where
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for me I'm like I don't I don't know about what you're doing,
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kind of thing and so I respected though the rules because that's
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what a child who is. Looking to the rules as guidance
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to behave and to also flourish in life as fascinated.
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Think of it as flourishing, I just said, okay?
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These are rules that are supposed to work with life and
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you know the most I can say is that it made sense and the way
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it was presented to me was in a good way, not in a terrifying
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way. So here I had probably, what is
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the ideal type of parenting style?
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Which is Not authoritarian, not permissive.
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Not those two authoritative. So authoritative is a parenting
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style. That involves an individual who
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is a parent or caregiver who had Tunes to their child, who is
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able to do the mine site to actually pick up on what their
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child or children need in the way.
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They need it. Not all the same not based on
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their own needs. This is where it's a very
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specific way to be able a to Other human being and their
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areas of sensitivity. So not all parents necessarily
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will be there the pens on the parent.
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So when you're present, this means there's a way for you to
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pick up another person's State. You ask you know you to dive in,
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you try to see you know, is this how you're feeling and so by
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matching up presents Attunement and done, you're seeing?
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Yeah, there's resonance. So there's ways you can note if
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If that's fitting or not fitting, I'd say that one of
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those amazing traits for my mother is definitely, she has a
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knack with children. I mean, even now as I see her
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with other kids, but she always had a way of sharing with us,
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your all different year. One type of Personality or
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sisters and other my twin and your younger sister.
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So there's this way for those who do have mine site with
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children because they're not using their ideas, they're
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actually Feeling the children's presents.
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So that's where it's very important because the infant
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gets seen suit and then feels safe and so is secure, and
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that's secure attachment, okay? So not everybody has that,
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right? And even those who do.
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So if I look at my siblings, they have a completely different
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way that they feel and or describe growing up.
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That's the part about noting how we have a nervous system.
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Mm Us the individual. Okay, this is what I'm trying to
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note because that's what I don't hear from the attachment style
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people. They're telling me how the child
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can be affected by the parent and how the parent can make
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sense of things. So that part I gathered in the I
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know my mother's, I know exactly what type of person she is.
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Although she I would let her speak for herself but in my eyes
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as a child growing up there's something very Pacific.
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She always taught us. And so the way that I know she
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will have made sense of her stories.
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What I'm saying? And again, though we have meme
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identical twin completely different in the way that we
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handled our own self at three years old, the store.
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You know, it don't spank me, I'm my own body, you can't my
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younger sister or my excuse me, twin sister after I got spanked
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goes and hugs or to reassure that you know I love you.
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Mommy I won't ever leave you because I'm making my suitcase.
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Delete, this sounds like a very silly story but it's an
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indication of what a three-year-old nervous system
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mine and my twins is doing. So for me, the caregiver I'm
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saying I'm going to leave you because you disobeyed what I
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told you not to do and I'm going to take a stand for myself.
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The other is going and making sure that the caregiver knows
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they're loved. And so here's where a low
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Parenting by the way, is something Is of our mammalian
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Heritage and my mother will say you were planning to go to your
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paternal grandma. That's the only reason you're
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making a suitcase but we don't know.
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Maybe even without a g, I would have made my suitcase.
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Who knows does it matter? No, it doesn't matter.
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These are again examples to say we all have an inclined way of
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being. So what I shared to me is very
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clear of a differentiated self in a household with the primary
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caregiver and I don't care that you're my primary caregiver, I'm
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still in differentiated elf to this day, we will have
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conversations bring up the, I'm my own person.
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Okay, so here's where, what you can see.
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The other reaction is, is reassuring in a way of loving.
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So tending to it, can be seen in various ways.
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Only my twin would be able to say why she thinks she did that
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because I can give you, it could be wanting to ensure safety,
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right? Of the with the caregiver, it
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could be to comfort the actual caregiver.
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So the Intent was. I want to make sure my mom knows
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she's loved. There's many variables.
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Again, these are examples to help those of you who are
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looking to explore yourself from the contemplative perspective,
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versus this inner critic outer critic.
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This is how it works. Not criticizing your upbringing
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up. Criticizing, if there's trauma,
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trauma, you're not criticizing being a human being, your
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understanding. This is what is awesome about
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all this updated information with the Amma experts the
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somatic experts. And this is being made available
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simply because technology is here and we have platforms and
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really it's because we all got locked down for basically like
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two years and people were not doing well and the Mental Health
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Community. Thank goodness.
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They said okay wait we're going to, you know, they had a
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platform to ensure that they could start sharing information.
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The reality is I looked back and I always will note this.
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I knew the timeline and still I heard, there's a timeline.
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There's no need to specify. Enlightenment time because it's
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for the light workers life but the time line was clear on
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aspects and so, everything I see is really just good information.
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Making its way to us, and it's because we have had enough of
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the years, to accumulate the data, the Mental Health
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Community, the good practitioners, the ones who are
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the ones, who are saying, okay, let's talk about this with love.
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Let's talk about this with compassionate.
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Let's talk. About this, where every person's
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body is their own wisdom and that we have no right to be
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telling any human being what and how to do, whatever.
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But what we want to do is to disengage people from becoming
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Fanatics when it comes to the holistic stuff.
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The natural put these stuff out. Anything that is Extreme is not
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something that is enlightening. You're now part of a group
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you're now in like a horse with blinders.
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But the horse has blinders, because he's ridden or she, you
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know, the horror before. There's reasons for that.
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The human being doesn't need blinders.
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The blinders are created, because there's the in and out
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circuit. So here's where belonging
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driver, certainty Drive. Here's where person not
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understanding their attachment wounds and or their attachment
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category. Are you secure or non-secure, is
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the first stepping stone to being able to be clear on, okay,
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if you're repeating the karmic Cycles, it's because your action
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not aware of your attachment moons.
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And or your attachment category. You're not paying attention to
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you, but it's really, you don't have this information in a way
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that can help you. So, let me break it down the
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sentence, again, making sense of your life.
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And here's where if you, the individual can make sense of
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your life, the same thing goes where you won't bring forth a
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suboptimal attachment for yourself life.
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Okay. So you can achieve your own
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secure attachment, that's the point that you may have a
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starting point in that first year of life.
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Is what's explain. And so this is what they look at
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and this, okay? So it's not related to
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temperament, it's not related to anything outside, it's related
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12 how the parent and or caregivers made sense of life.
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So whatever they have made sense of they will, if they made sense
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of it, they won't pass down the attachment moons, if you will,
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and if they haven't made sense of it, then they'll be reactive.
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But really this isn't and Unnecessary exploration.
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What you want to understand with what I'm sharing is the fact
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that if a parent is able to allow themselves to develop a
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sense of what they went through, they will have a secure
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attachment relationship to their experience, which is why it's
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not a trauma that they then passed down, it's not a
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suboptimal attachment, okay? Because they will not be
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relating their life experiences with trauma within their own.
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State. So their own body will be at
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ease and Equanimity this is the Dharma and so again for the
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parent it's clear in that first year of life, if your parent was
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somebody who was able to create secure attachment with their
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life experiences, then they will not have passed down anything
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from whatever difficult situations.
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They may have experienced the same thing goes for you as the
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person when I see people talking other Karma and then they don't
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actually realize that they have an attachment wound and or that
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they have a non-secure. Her attachment and they're not
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doing anything about their inner World, their emotions.
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Meaning, they're not seeing my repeat relationships, whether
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they be intimate and romantic or not, they're not looking at it
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from. Hmm, why do I find myself in
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certain, repeat patterns? Okay, so some people do the 5D
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Mystic. Actually, we're already here in
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knowing all of the choices we've made, because here's where, when
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experiences Are presented to us. They will not be again defined
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as a difficult because our emotions are not something that
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we find difficult. Our emotions are part of the
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experience of human life and I would say, it's independent from
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as I said again the beginning from secure attachment or not
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because it's really your own way as you begin to contemplate to
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tell yourself a story. So, for me, when I use me as a
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child growing up, I always was able to see all sides.
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I still can't understanding is one of my biggest things because
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I use right and left together, and I use the wholeness of it,
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not one, not the other. I don't need the laugh because I
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speak the word, the language, right?
26:28
So if I'm open by being present and hearing the words from
26:34
another, Without creating a category and making it fit
26:38
something. And this is why the mature
26:40
feminine doesn't have this need to be in any specific space with
26:46
their oversoul. So yeah, we will have gone
26:50
through the Ascension in a way that is very different.
26:54
And when those Claire's awakened, they come with the,
26:59
it's not something that makes us special.
27:02
It's something that we naturally know were part of a human.
27:05
Species. And we're energy fast forward.
27:09
We will have learned enough about metaphysics as a terrorism
27:12
because otherwise I wouldn't be able to share with you right
27:16
those experiences. But really, because that's
27:19
what's going to help us to understand when we begin astral
27:22
travel, when those Schumann resonance and astrology, when
27:26
everything is affecting our physiological body, because our
27:30
emotional plane is what we're learning to work with, and then
27:33
our physical, and then we move Beyond That non-physical.
27:36
But see, here's where it's not in a way of being spirituality.
27:40
People, when the enlightenment, so aged person is moving beyond
27:44
this non-physical. It's by learning that our body
27:46
and mind is part of what this experience being a human is.
27:51
So we tap into our infinite higher human consciousness
27:55
potential, and it's not a belief system, it's always
27:59
understanding more and more. And using information to create
28:04
expanding of Conversations. And here's where we want to
28:08
support the societal cultural transformation.
28:13
And the best way that this happens is only, if adults can
28:15
have actual conversations, which we don't see much of because
28:21
there's a good portion of people who are actually not insecure
28:24
attachment. So their stories, they're making
28:27
sense of them with conspiracies, their stories, they're making
28:31
sense of them with the influencers.
28:34
Their stories. These are all Groups of people
28:36
who are non secure because they are looking to others, whoever
28:42
it is that they've become an in-group and that's about how
28:46
they're doing it. This is not good or bad, it's
28:49
something we see. And again it's something that
28:51
will most likely stay because those people they will keep
28:55
getting their confirmation bias for the story that they tell
28:58
themselves, it's very straightforward.
29:01
So, the enlightenment time I share it to get those.
29:05
Of us together who are actually in 5D and know that it's about
29:10
The Human Experience and we were ready to have conversations on
29:14
all different types of levels of all these different, very
29:17
important information and things going on, but not the way that
29:20
the people who are in groups are doing.
29:24
And so, this is why first, it's about learning how to get into
29:30
your inner growth mindset. Follow your heart as a
29:33
differentiated self as your own. Own adult as your adult meaning.
29:39
You can make sense of things that take place and create your
29:43
own secure attachment. It's not because we don't Co
29:47
regulate it's because we actually learn to self-regulate
29:50
with compassion in the Forefront since not.
29:52
Everybody did have that in their own household.
29:55
They will not have learned a good co-regulation.
29:58
They will have learned an attachment mood co-regulation.
30:03
So if you're avoidant, this is where That ability to
30:06
consistently be in emotions. Actually creates a fear within
30:13
the, it's something that the person because a person, if they
30:17
don't know about attachment wounds in the actual way, they
30:20
won't notice that their habit, their pattern is a pattern
30:26
because of their learning to coagulate with a parent who was
30:30
not emotionally available, okay? And the only way that a person
30:33
can become aware of or one, that's why I share all the stuff
30:37
I share. So I'll give you Maria's
30:39
translation of this. If an individual is avoidant,
30:43
they're going to feel very nervous about opening up their
30:48
heart if they find an opportunity to actually love.
30:52
This is why they leaned away and they will not know unless
30:56
they've learned enough about attachment wounds by looking at
31:00
themselves though, if they're doing it because they're afraid
31:05
or not. So there, Have to have an honest
31:06
conversation with their own fear which again is one of those
31:11
things where most people don't do it because they got some
31:13
story going on because their society, their family of origin
31:17
will have said I do you always do this.
31:18
All you always do this. So they got that's the part of
31:22
where unless you are your own agents and this is what I see
31:26
many people. They are not their own agents,
31:29
okay? So they're just looking at
31:31
themselves as a pattern will these are the traits that I've
31:33
been given by my family. Versus actually sing.
31:37
Huh, interesting. Well, yeah, it makes sense.
31:41
And being independent with them though is very different.
31:45
So for me, when I was using examples of very sensitive and
31:48
trying to say something about the emotions, so feeling the
31:51
left of emotion is very much my entire life which is where, as a
31:55
teenager moving forward, I chose love and then there's other
31:58
specific ways that every time the depth of emotion would be
32:02
part of my equation, I was like Was if I don't choose love, I'm
32:08
going to emotionally die. Like, in the sense that the
32:11
depth of how I feel things because I'd been given this
32:15
attribute. You're so sensitive and my way,
32:17
as a child growing up, making sense of it.
32:19
Is what's wrong with emotions through the most amazing thing
32:22
you could ever want? I mean, of course, if I'm going
32:24
to feel love, I can feel sadness.
32:26
So, here's where, you know, that is the way that it makes sense,
32:30
and what I'm saying, is, here's why for me, for example, going
32:34
through any type of emotion, Ocean experience is not a bad
32:36
thing. It's not a difficult,
32:38
challenging thing, and any person who's in this 5D at this
32:41
point will feel the same will be the same.
32:44
Because that's the whole point of you becoming your mental
32:47
emotional and physical master in those planes and being connected
32:52
to this Akash, this Consciousness field.
32:55
So the avoidant, if they are not looking at their own conscious
33:03
choice being there, Ability. But they're looking at
33:06
themselves through the lens of society.
33:09
That told them you're always going to be this or your.
33:11
This here's where they might not do anything different and they
33:18
might just use, it's like a crutch.
33:20
They just use it over and over and over again.
33:21
Okay. So the avoidant would then just
33:24
go in and out in and out and keep on repeating their life
33:28
closed off to life until they obviously here's where people
33:31
meet each other and I'm sure some people that want these
33:35
Ships in the way of let's build it together.
33:38
Find that and that's exactly why there are those other social age
33:42
groups because those people will end up being able to move into
33:47
that karmic wheel, but learn how to self-love learn this or that
33:52
the indictment so age group. It's a, it's one of those that
33:55
doesn't have any Rule books, because we are actually
33:58
consistently in a space of compassion, unconditional love.
34:02
And here's the part of everyday is a free will A and we don't
34:07
cut people out, we don't cancel, we don't need to withdraw.
34:10
There's none of that because we are not afraid of heart-to-heart
34:14
conversations and when we are around people, we actually
34:17
already know their safety Behavior without even knowing it
34:21
and even without all the wisdom of the trauma and somatic expert
34:25
stuff. I've always done the best I
34:28
could to repair, so when I look back, maybe I would have less
34:33
vocabulary, right less. Standing and maybe there were
34:37
times of potential reactiveness on my end to up because that's
34:41
natural as you're growing up. Although I wouldn't say
34:44
potential reactiveness, I would say more of ignorance and
34:48
knowing other people's perspectives because of their
34:52
being stereotypes and generalizations and as anybody
34:55
who becomes a teenager, you're starting life with that.
34:58
So I had my way of moving beyond them all on my own.
35:02
In fact this is why my cheating boyfriend.
35:04
Ian have a Deal with it is just they were making a choice that
35:07
is not really showing me. You got, you know, it's showing
35:12
me that you're afraid of life. So for me, as a teenager,
35:15
anybody who would break rules or do something once I realized
35:20
that I was not wanting to cast stones.
35:23
By the way, you can see this is where Society did teach me how
35:26
to cast stones and that was one of my biggest moments of shame
35:30
because definitely, I actually knew like that's not what I Was
35:35
trying to do. I was trying to I thought that
35:38
they were giving me rules that would help people to live a good
35:41
life. Once I realized that they were
35:43
giving me rules based on aspects that had nothing to do with
35:47
life, was where the few, I'll never forget the feeling was
35:50
like I was so ashamed of myself but this is where I can only
35:53
connect it to that. Part of when you are connected
35:57
to Consciousness in life and you know another person has their
36:01
own Journey. You're like oh shit, I've been
36:04
casting. Bones.
36:06
And it's because Society told me that this is right or wrong.
36:09
And when I realized this, I said, well, you were kid to you,
36:13
you couldn't know any different, you're being taught black and
36:15
white thinking. So the person who's always
36:18
connected to Consciousness this way, is where we dismantle
36:24
structure not in a way of. Let me go and be a rebel know.
36:26
It's dismantling the untruth? And the untruth is, what is like
36:31
those people who gossip about each other in a way that isn't
36:35
let me say, you're bad person. Like the one friend that is
36:39
scared of me of my friends because I don't judge people
36:43
like this is a human being who thinks that they have a right to
36:46
say yes, people should and have to go to prison because they are
36:49
wrong. They are evil.
36:50
So this is the whole point. Those who want to stick to
36:54
societal structure in this way of using, only their left brain.
37:00
We don't have anything to say to them.
37:03
The people who are aware of, what I'm speaking about, are the
37:06
ones who I'm talking to, by the way.
37:08
And this is again, not about going and doing anything to
37:11
anyone. I'm talking about the awareness
37:14
that we don't have the right to say to someone how to achieve
37:19
their restorative embodied self. That's what life is to us.
37:23
We will note that they have a journey and we're not here to
37:26
tell them what to do. We learn how to listen, not to
37:32
share. Or speak because we begin to
37:35
make sense of this in our own way.
37:39
So, 5D Mystics there's, I don't know how many of us will find
37:42
out as subscribers move into the journey and I'll find out as I
37:46
get to know them and do not, we won't really do any numbers by
37:49
the way, but when I say 5D Mystic is a person who
37:54
understands what I'm talking about in this exact way.
37:58
And it's something again, not special.
38:01
It's the ability to To always see that another person has
38:05
their journey and it's not seeing Through The Eyes.
38:08
It's felt through the heart and it's not because of a soul,
38:12
because we're energy and so vibration and it's like a just
38:15
an energetic imprint that you will note.
38:18
If your 5D we don't do believe systems.
38:21
The thing is, I need words to express to you Concepts, that's
38:25
why I need to read more on the physics front so that I can
38:27
figure out a way to bring to you more.
38:30
But in the meantime, what I was trying to get to The oversoul
38:33
with this full moon is also this is that I know those of you who
38:37
are 5D's you're picking up on your over soul, I know it.
38:42
So, those individuals let them be there doing their own stuff,
38:47
but follow obviously your intuition with the people who
38:53
are actively a part of your life, and I'm saying, the people
38:57
who are expanding their Consciousness, that's the ones
38:59
who have chosen to commit to their story.
39:02
Okay. So like my lovely attachment
39:05
style friend. I think of them in these
39:07
moments, I'm not going to reach out, I'm going to respect there.
39:11
Request. They've created that rupture but
39:14
even if they hadn't, I know that they're not expanding, there's a
39:19
bunch of other people that I've picked up and they are also very
39:22
much clear on their 40 path. So those would be examples of
39:27
and I would not reach out. Even if I had whatever dream
39:30
because the dream is normal, since they're going through an
39:34
opportunity to expand their Consciousness, their actions
39:37
speak louder than their words. And really their actions and
39:41
words Me. Because in this case, there's
39:43
proof through the words and the actions that they've committed
39:47
to their wheel versus those who are open, those who are open,
39:53
there is a very different engagement which is welcoming,
39:57
they don't create and/or, set things in stone.
40:01
Okay, so long story short, right now, we got people from our over
40:05
still, who are going through their own stuff.
40:09
The ones are expanding, are the Is that you want to support
40:15
nudge? If you will because you know
40:17
that they have chosen to move into an expansion of themselves,
40:23
does it mean that they'll move into that Enlightenment sole job
40:25
or not? It means they've chosen that
40:28
they want to give their own life, a bit of more love.
40:32
And again, so as I was using the avoidant if I wanted to do
40:37
ambivalent, what I could say about the ambivalent is they
40:39
would be open to learning how To allow themselves to sit through
40:44
this next shoe is going to drop and to find a way to sue their
40:48
own selves. And this is where we are
40:50
learning either to self-soothe not, because we don't Co
40:55
regulate and not self-soothe with addictions or anything,
40:59
that we're learning to self-soothe, in the emotional
41:01
Realm, by having people around us that are willing to be
41:06
heart-to-heart, but the people all are open.
41:09
So whether there's avoidance or Ambivalent as, for the
41:13
disorganized, this would be where a person is open to
41:18
beginning a journey. If they're just beginning of
41:22
understanding on their own and with their loved ones, how to
41:27
begin to unravel this painful, you know, attachment and
41:34
self-preservation confusing way that their body feels the
41:38
disorganized attachment is a lot more.
41:41
X in my opinion because there's the inclined wanting to touch.
41:48
But within the same body, there is the wanting to run away.
41:52
And so the person and, you know, ambivalent and disorganized or
41:56
the, the most extreme this. Well I'm not surprised about my
41:59
attachment style from because they don't, they didn't look
42:04
into cymatics or sensory motor or trauma their own with their
42:08
own interest for themselves. They look into stuff.
42:11
To label other people and so they actually don't here and
42:15
didn't hear the words of your nervous system, okay?
42:18
So long story short, when you make sense of your life by
42:22
saying Humanity shitty, there you go.
42:25
If you make sense of your life by basically saying, I don't
42:28
believe in love, you won't believe in love.
42:32
If you make sense of your life, where you define yourself as a
42:36
monster or horrible, or you're always going to be alone, you
42:39
know, there you go. And there's plenty.
42:41
People that are in that boat. So that's not the people.
42:45
We are going to be engaging with because they have made their
42:48
decisions. They will potentially engage
42:51
with us, but it's only because we fit in their puzzle pieces.
42:55
And so here's where with are over.
42:57
So we know what that means. We're not going to, of course,
43:00
cancel. Anyone again we're able to
43:02
provide support because we can because we have compassion and
43:08
we're always attuned and present and we're always resonating
43:11
Because there's no need not to even if they put us in a little
43:15
box of there's we're not in those boxes, meaning that's not
43:20
who we are, but we will support their emotional.
43:23
Mental need to be felt because that's where they're part of our
43:28
group and we're proud of their group, their family loved ones
43:30
again where Humanity. So those relationships that
43:35
bring unconditional love, always allow for expansion experiences.
43:42
This doesn't mean that people move out of their adoptive child
43:46
harsh unforgiving. Know that's their story.
43:49
They get to choose. If they think life is unfair, if
43:52
they think life sucks, if they think, Humanity set this isn't
43:55
again, their life not ours. So the aspect of having
43:59
different opinions, very straightforward for those of us
44:02
who are differentiated selves, we link and join.
44:04
We do not say, hey let me tell you who to be no, no we say you
44:07
be you and I'll be me and either we'll get along and expand and
44:10
love and have fun. Fun or not.
44:12
And that's where we're at. We're at we love and have fun.
44:15
And that's it. This is why the police secure?
44:18
No problem. In fact, actually the more I
44:20
read about it in like this, so awesome, when you have five D
44:23
people. So obviously here's the secure
44:27
attachment, but if you have people who are open to secure
44:31
attachment of their own, and they actually do also have, by
44:35
the way, Claire's, and or Justice way about them, and
44:39
loving Humanity, loving differences, being Open, you
44:42
know the reality is you build trust in time.
44:46
So here's where no matter, what type of non secure attachment?
44:50
A person can have it is by seeing consistency in time that
44:57
they cannot deny themselves because they actually will see
45:04
actions words and everything match to what a person who is
45:10
their true self. Will be, which is where your 5dc
45:14
person in your Enlightenment, still age group.
45:16
That's who you've been pretty much your entire life and those
45:20
who are not. It's once they get out of those
45:22
shame cycles that they begin making these choices.
45:25
Because it's once they're out that they say, you know what, my
45:28
life is worth it. I'm not going to hide away in
45:31
shame. I'm not going to sit here and be
45:33
helpless or hopeless, because I'm not and, or because, if I
45:37
do, I'm giving up on my actual human life.
45:41
Here's where we're at. We want to support the people
45:45
who want to expand Consciousness together.
45:49
Shame doesn't it hides away, and it doesn't matter if it looks
45:52
like evil, it ain't evil. It's a sad story.
45:56
It's a sad story of people who don't know that dysregulation
45:59
and modulated embodied self has an answer.
46:03
There's a way out for every person who has unresolved trauma
46:06
and attachment wounds, that's what creates human suffering.
46:10
This is why that quote that I read to you.
46:11
You about said, Guru the whole human body and once you're
46:14
beyond, it's not about you being out of your body and mind.
46:19
It's about you understanding, how your mind and body work and
46:23
how your mind heart and gut work, and understanding it from
46:28
the human perspective is going to help you to actually live
46:31
your best life because then you'll know why meditation and
46:35
mindfulness work. And for those who have more of a
46:39
challenging time and Going to use my attachment stuff.
46:43
And again, they gave the answer, Humanity shitty.
46:45
Why should I do something? They made their conscious
46:48
choice. They condemned humanity, and
46:51
then they say, and so I condemn myself.
46:53
But the reality is that a bullshit sentence that came out
46:57
of their mouth. If Only They had heard the words
46:59
they used, they would see that they are criticizing their self
47:04
so that there's inner critic. But they're also saying you're
47:08
criticizing me even though that's not the case because they
47:10
knew that Was not and is not what I was doing by providing
47:14
them the support, which is why that didn't dawn upon them, but
47:18
they didn't hear themselves criticizing themselves and so
47:21
they didn't they didn't recognize that you're not a
47:26
wrong person or right person, we're not talking about it,
47:32
right or wrong. But again in order for a person
47:35
to be here, they'd have to first of all, not be comparing
47:38
themselves to humanity and being a shame cycle.
47:43
And really again reflective for their own well-being would be
47:50
I'm being supported by somebody with some information that is
47:54
focused on how to help me with my suffering.
47:58
The suffering was not even in the picture.
48:00
The suffering is there because Humanity sucks.
48:03
This is why the sufferings are so see, they again inner critic.
48:05
Outer critic does automatic, shame cycle.
48:07
This is rumination. This is dysregulated.
48:09
Modulated, they have the separation.
48:12
Consciousness is what that is right there.
48:13
It's not because you need to stop thinking, no, know if you
48:16
stop thinking you ain't going to develop anything secure
48:19
attachment related, functional dot, none of that.
48:21
And in fact this is why we got extremists.
48:23
This is why we have Fanatics is why we have people who are just
48:26
following Seeing someone, which is where, again, I will root for
48:30
sadguru to be the one that everybody follows that
48:33
spirituality leader. Because he talks about
48:35
unconditional love and he has a very good idea of how life
48:39
should be led and it's all optimal.
48:41
Like, I will definitely root for, for that person out of
48:44
every other one that is in the middle because of the longevity
48:49
and actual life sensitive. It's all in a positive there,
48:54
there's aspects again, I don't actually think this was going to
48:57
happen. Because that's not how the world
48:58
works. But I was giving an extreme
49:01
example because when I look at the holistic people they are
49:05
very it's almost like the snake oil people only if the holistic
49:11
people move into knowing about the science stuff and the
49:15
spirituality stuff when I see them like that.
49:17
Then there that's the 5D. By the way, the person who takes
49:21
all information 5D Mystic of course but 5D is the term that
49:26
only those of us. Us who know about light workers
49:30
will use. So, for the everyday person,
49:32
what I'm going to say is it's a human being who has a brain that
49:35
thinks. Well, it's like a Sabine or any
49:38
of those groups of academics, who know what the fuck they're
49:41
talking about. And they're dismantling the
49:44
mitts, they're dismantling the misinformation.
49:46
So the people who are 5 D, without the Claire's, if you
49:50
will and meaning, they don't, you know, come into the holistic
49:54
and spirituality, they're all already doing back.
49:57
They're the ones who are leading the way.
49:59
Thank goodness. That's what I've seen.
50:00
Is that, is that? I know the 5D's here because we
50:03
got the experts who have the data that they need to show.
50:06
Okay. Sorry.
50:07
People who think about devil evil Medieval Times, you know,
50:11
this ain't going to work. So we're going to move forward
50:13
to try and create more sustainability and here's what
50:16
we got going on. And so, there you go.
50:17
The Sciences are going to grow. And if there's anything that's
50:22
going to grow more a certain point for the inner well-being
50:25
of people, it is going to be the good mental health professionals
50:30
because they actually Empower people with information or
50:34
again, spirituality Journey great with the said Guru the
50:37
other stuff in the middle it's really where 4D stands and then
50:41
for the, you know, medieval times it's the 3D people and
50:45
they're just gonna, you know, sit in their groups and chitchat
50:48
about how horrible life has become and how it used to be and
50:52
all that stuff between men. Women who knows, you know?
50:55
So it's not for us for right now.
50:57
For us for right now is the amazing journey of being in
51:00
Oneness Consciousness, being your own masculine/feminine
51:03
learning about secure attachment.
51:06
You being able to make sense of your own life and to allow
51:10
yourself to connect with people who are here to be functional
51:15
adults with you. So only people who you want to
51:18
expand with and will expand with are those who accept your flaws,
51:22
and Imperfections who helped you to be seen and heard and loved
51:26
who teased with you, you At ease with them.
51:28
Thus is not because they don't have an in group or not group.
51:31
Again, you're not there, telling people who to be, I'm saying for
51:34
you, the individual who has achieved or is in this inclined,
51:38
wanting to be 5D or are five domestic or wanting to be in
51:42
that Enlightenment so age group. And here's where my voice as
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always, it's about speaking speaking from the heart coming
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together, allowing ourselves to just take it day by day, And I
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look forward to being back with more.
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In the meantime, I'm just very, very enamored with the energies
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for those of us who are established in knowing that
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Humanity rocks and a roles and that's always been the case.
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Even when I don't know about all this science stuff, as much as I
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do. Now, I still knew that we rocked
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because why wouldn't we, why would we not rock?
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You know, emotions are part of that and our history shows us
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that we were ignorant. So if you're ignorant, If you
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don't know, well, you can't know you can't do without knowledge.
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So there's there's a way that those of us who have always been
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a Quantum must have been able to move into this space and we'll
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talk more about. There's some other stuff that
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wants to come forth, but I'm gonna save it for tomorrow.
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It's channeled guidance type messages, but in the meantime,
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again, know we touched on different topics.
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All of it isn't a way that will flow with you.
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And if you have any questions, You just reach out and I'll, you
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know, do another episode answer questions or just have a chit
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chat with you and in the meantime, whatever I forgot I'll
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mention it to you in the next episode.
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Have a great day, everyone.