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KEEP PUSHING – When It Gets Hard, Keep Moving Forward · Motivational Podcast

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  Speaker 1: There two kinds of pain in this world. Pain it hurts,
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  Speaker 1: pain and uncles.
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  Speaker 2: When pain gets strong, you can't think, you can't reason.
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  Speaker 2: When pain gets strong, you can't figure things out. Sometimes
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  Speaker 2: we are so engrossed with the pain and we don't
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  Speaker 2: get the point. You can have pain so bad that
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  Speaker 2: you lose out type.
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  Speaker 1: You have pain so bad that you stop eating, and
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  Speaker 1: you stop talking, and you stop believing, and you stop smiling,
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  Speaker 1: and you don't have your personality because your pain is
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  Speaker 1: stopping you from being who you are. If you take
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  Speaker 1: a minute and look at your life, every time you're
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  Speaker 1: about to step into new territory, all hell breaks loose
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  Speaker 1: and sends a starm to stop you from getting it.
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  Speaker 3: The only way you're gonna get strength in your life
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  Speaker 3: is if you go through that hard moment, that tough moment.
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  Speaker 3: I wouldn't have a story if it wasn't for the
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  Speaker 3: sucking times in my life. I wouldn't have a story
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  Speaker 3: if it wasn't for me going through my depressed moment.
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  Speaker 3: So realize this. Just because it's a chapter, it doesn't
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  Speaker 3: mean it's your whole story. So for me, I just
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  Speaker 3: understand that it's very important to embrace pain, to go
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  Speaker 3: through it, because I believe the foundation of all strength
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  Speaker 3: is pain.
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  Speaker 4: Every day suffering, being broken, duck taking my feet up, stress, fracture,
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  Speaker 4: shin's plus being broken. This is my new normal. And
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  Speaker 4: your mind says, if we're not broken, this ain't normal.
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  Speaker 4: You gotta be broken. So then your mind tries to
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  Speaker 4: get tougher, get tougher.
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  Speaker 5: What's your pain thresholds?
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  Speaker 6: Yeah, it's real high.
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  Speaker 7: Imagine if you can use pain as a fuel.
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  Speaker 8: Imagine if you can use the pain as a passport.
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  Speaker 1: Imagine if you've be.
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  Speaker 8: Used the pain to push you to condition, to prepare
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  Speaker 8: you for the stages and the rooms you've got to
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  Speaker 8: walk into, at the tables you've got to sit at,
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  Speaker 8: and the stages you have to stand on. What if
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  Speaker 8: the pain can make you better? What if the pain
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  Speaker 8: can feel muscle? What if the pain could cost you
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  Speaker 8: to retire, to leap further, to run faster.
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  Speaker 7: What if the pain.
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  Speaker 1: Could help you? What if all pain isn't hurts, but
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  Speaker 1: it's help.
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  Speaker 9: Give me moved, give me more opposition, give me more pain,
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  Speaker 9: because that's the stuff that turns us to two champions.
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  Speaker 8: See the pain as a stage, See the pain as
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  Speaker 8: a plane, See the pain as an opportunity. You gave
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  Speaker 8: me an opportunity to reinvent myself. You gave me an
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  Speaker 8: opportunity to come out of my crave that you put
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  Speaker 8: me in.
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  Speaker 9: You left me for dad.
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  Speaker 10: I'm coming out alive.
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  Speaker 11: I'm coming off.
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  Speaker 8: Kicking, I'm coming out swinging.
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  Speaker 1: You left me.
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  Speaker 12: Oh, I want overcome.
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  Speaker 13: Suffer the pain of distance or suffer the.
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  Speaker 1: Pain of co direct.
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  Speaker 7: Pain is my mother in friends, embrace.
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  Speaker 13: The paint, love the pain.
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  Speaker 11: Come on in pain.
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  Speaker 1: Have a mother?
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  Speaker 13: Can see be comfortable? Since your ass down? I'm the ball, Repfest, Repfest,
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  Speaker 13: embrace the pain, make love to the pain and pain.
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  Speaker 11: Pain is my friend. I love it.
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  Speaker 14: I hunt from pain.
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  Speaker 15: Pain.
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  Speaker 1: You ain't looking for me, I'm looking for you.
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  Speaker 11: Repfest.
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  Speaker 9: Real, well, well real, I love you pain.
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  Speaker 13: Why do I love you? Because I know You're gonna
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  Speaker 13: make it? Bro, I love that shit.
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  Speaker 7: I want to do everything I said I'm going to do,
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  Speaker 7: so my appetite increases, it gets stronger every year. I
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  Speaker 7: want more every year. I want to do more every year.
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  Speaker 7: I want to help more every year. I want to
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  Speaker 7: be bolder. I want to be better. I want to
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  Speaker 7: be stronger every single year, every single year, your appetite
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  Speaker 7: to go up.
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  Speaker 16: You should never get settled.
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  Speaker 7: You should never get settled. You should never get contented
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  Speaker 7: every single year.
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  Speaker 10: Want to be godly.
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  Speaker 17: What that scripture is saying is that you literally that
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  Speaker 17: you can become.
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  Speaker 18: Godly through discipline.
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  Speaker 7: It says it right there in the scripture.
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  Speaker 19: That godliness comes by way of discipline, not easy.
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  Speaker 17: Not just because you feel like it, that sometimes you
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  Speaker 17: have to honor God in the grind.
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  Speaker 1: I'm gonna make love to pray.
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  Speaker 2: I'm gonna put this pain.
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  Speaker 11: How you afraid of you?
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  Speaker 2: Mother?
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  Speaker 6: You?
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  Speaker 1: He is afraid of me? He wrote with pain.
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  Speaker 15: I'm ready.
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  Speaker 9: I'm your maxim up, I'm your huffle mar.
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  Speaker 7: I'm here for it, bringing mother, bring the.
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  Speaker 14: Pain bets, rab beds, web beds, rab beads, ll.
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  Speaker 9: Roup round, roll round.
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  Speaker 4: Well, shut up and let me enjoy this pain. I
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  Speaker 4: don't want anything to numb it. I don't want anything
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  Speaker 4: right now because what I had done was I just
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  Speaker 4: in my mind, I had just climbed a mental wall
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  Speaker 4: that was amazing.
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  Speaker 6: You need to love pain to be an athlete.
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  Speaker 1: And I know no pain, No, this is whatever or
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  Speaker 1: the you know the crisis.
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  Speaker 6: Oh my, no, this is real. You need to love pain.
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  Speaker 5: However mentally physically, you need to love it if nuts
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  Speaker 5: stay where you are.
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  Speaker 12: Heroes and villains always have the same backstory pain. The
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  Speaker 12: difference is what they choose to do about it. Villain says,
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  Speaker 12: the world heard me, I'll heard it back. The hero says,
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  Speaker 12: the world heard me. I'm not going to let it
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  Speaker 12: hurt anybody else. Heroes use pain, villains are used by it.
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  Speaker 2: Pain is a motivator.
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  Speaker 1: Pain is not necessarily always bad.
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  Speaker 2: If you're in pain, it's going to motivate you to
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  Speaker 2: move to change something.
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  Speaker 4: And I don't want anybody to take that pain away
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  Speaker 4: from me at that point, because that was all confirmation.
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  Speaker 7: What it did was it showed me what is.
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  Speaker 4: Possible, and that's what set the new stage for me
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  Speaker 4: dash when I realized, oh man, I've really been underachieving
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  Speaker 4: my entire life.
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  Speaker 15: Pick up your damn suffering and bear it and try
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  Speaker 15: to be a good person so you don't make it worse.
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  Speaker 15: You know, I read a lot about the terrible.
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  Speaker 11: Things that people have done to each other.
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  Speaker 15: You just cannot even imagine it.
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  Speaker 7: The problem is you ain't never felt no pain before
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  Speaker 7: you're solved. It's a soft generation. You quit on everything.
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  Speaker 7: Our people did not quit. Harriet Tubman not only made it,
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  Speaker 7: she went back and got some more. She said, you
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  Speaker 7: know what, I made it, But I'm gonna walk all
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  Speaker 7: listen to me, not ride the bus. I'm gonna walk
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  Speaker 7: all the way back down to the south to get
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  Speaker 7: some more. And you quitting on eighteen twenty five. Now
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  Speaker 7: watch this. You quit after you listening. You get a
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  Speaker 7: sleeping bag and you wait for him. You wait for
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  Speaker 7: the first wra instructor to come in, and you come
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  Speaker 7: out your sleeping back. I need help. You quit after
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  Speaker 7: you do that. You quit after you had listen to me.
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  Speaker 1: U a wr a party.
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  Speaker 7: I'm having a party. Everybody come over. I got food everything,
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  Speaker 7: and let them get over there. Let it be all
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  Speaker 7: the best rioters, all right, I fool y'all. I want
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  Speaker 7: to have a writing party. I'm serious. You quit then,
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  Speaker 7: you ain't even tried yet.
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  Speaker 6: Most people go.
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  Speaker 19: Through life never discovering what their talents are. Most people
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  Speaker 19: never develop their talents. Have skills and abilities, but if
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  Speaker 19: you don't nurture them, if you don't develop them, they
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  Speaker 19: will never serve you.
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  Speaker 7: Your gifts can take you many places if you develop
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  Speaker 7: your gifts.
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  Speaker 20: Most of us don't like to do those things that
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  Speaker 20: come easy to us.
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  Speaker 11: I've always loved to talk to people.
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  Speaker 9: I decided taking.
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  Speaker 19: This advice to develop my skills as a speaker, and
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  Speaker 19: my gift has developed and.
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  Speaker 20: Developed and has taken me many places. You have something
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  Speaker 20: that you brought to the universe, and.
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  Speaker 19: That if you decide that my life deserves my developing.
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  Speaker 4: This what I do well, it's forty four degrees and
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  Speaker 4: it's nice and radioso.
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  Speaker 7: But no one curious about that. But guess what. You
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  Speaker 7: got to have the mentality to show.
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  Speaker 6: Up every day of your life.
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  Speaker 17: Now, what life knows at you, it's our responsibility to
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  Speaker 17: show it to the calseum of life. Prepare for fing battle.
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  Speaker 17: I don't care what you're going through. Put life's thrown
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  Speaker 17: at you. It's your response good and finds your new
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  Speaker 17: hundred percent taking fun of yourself to do that.
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  Speaker 7: Stay hard. My greatest asset is I was homeless, so
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  Speaker 7: I can't feel a whole lot of pain. I've already
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  Speaker 7: been along, not a whole lot of hurt.
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  Speaker 21: I can feel on a little paper, on a little test.
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  Speaker 2: So I leave you.
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  Speaker 7: I leave you. Listen to me. We have gotten to
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  Speaker 7: a point where it's mid terms, and we're moving forward
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  Speaker 7: the days of you getting money. I'm not saying we quit,
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  Speaker 7: but I'm saying today has got to go from external
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  Speaker 7: to internal.
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  Speaker 2: Don't worry about a little pain.
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  Speaker 7: I know you think it's painful to work fits hard,
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  Speaker 7: but let me tell you something.
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  Speaker 21: It's pain for the.
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  Speaker 7: Fail I know you think it's painful to have to
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  Speaker 7: study this long, but it's also painful to not graduate.
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  Speaker 21: And you got to decide today.
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  Speaker 7: That I want the pain of success more than I
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  Speaker 7: want the pain of failure. Come on, did you say
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  Speaker 7: what I just said?
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  Speaker 1: You gotta decide when.
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  Speaker 22: The excuses all go away and people can actually confront
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  Speaker 22: the fact that this is all because of me, and
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  Speaker 22: this is it hurts, but is also unbelievably empowering because
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  Speaker 22: if these problems are because of me, then I'm capable
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  Speaker 22: of fixing these problems. So even though extreme ownership hurts
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  Speaker 22: and is painful, it's also liberating because now you have
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  Speaker 22: control over your fate and over your destiny, and that
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  Speaker 22: is a glorious thing.
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  Speaker 18: And understanding this pain pleasure balance, whereby if you experience
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  Speaker 18: pain and you can continue to be in that friction
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  Speaker 18: and exert effort.
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  Speaker 8: I gotta look myself in the mirror every single day,
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  Speaker 8: and I'm either gonna allow the pain to eat me alive.
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  Speaker 8: I'm gonna allow the pain to fuel Because the pain
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  Speaker 8: can either be your prison or your path. For the
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  Speaker 8: choice is yours.
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  Speaker 1: Use the pain to your advantage.
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  Speaker 8: Play the pain like the musician place the Piado.
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  Speaker 4: I started feeling victory just by putting myself in the battle.
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  Speaker 4: It wasn't about going to Navy seal training, it wasn't
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  Speaker 4: about being the twenty third guy in that chair. I
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  Speaker 4: started realizing man just by going to war with myself
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  Speaker 4: every day.
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  Speaker 11: The pain is inevitable and it is unavoidable.
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  Speaker 1: You cannot live without pain.
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  Speaker 23: Now you navigate that name would determine how you propel
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  Speaker 23: into your purpose, how you advance in the marketplace, and
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  Speaker 23: everything else you've been called to do.
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  Speaker 20: Pain, Push through the pain, Understand that the pain is
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  Speaker 20: a necessary tool.
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  Speaker 24: Don't look at it as a badging, look at it
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  Speaker 24: as a learning experience. I'm not talking about the pain
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  Speaker 24: that's gonna make you feel like you're die. I'm talking
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  Speaker 24: about the pain that's gonna make you feel alive.
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  Speaker 1: Can't you have me that you have purpose?
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  Speaker 7: Chaptors, embrace the pains.
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  Speaker 10: Nobody wants to work out.
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  Speaker 11: Anybody want to be a body builder or don't Nobody
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  Speaker 11: want to list know it is waiting.
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  Speaker 13: This is your wake up col mother, Wake up the
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  Speaker 13: hurtlease you.
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  Speaker 25: You cannot leave the gym ever a failure.
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  Speaker 26: You have to give it everything you got.
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  Speaker 21: When you think you're done, deres fi more reps.
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  Speaker 1: Goes through And I don't care what happens.
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  Speaker 12: I threw up many times while it was looking out,
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  Speaker 12: But it doesn't matter like I.
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  Speaker 27: Whether there's so much I'm willing to die, I don't
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  Speaker 27: care if it chills me.
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  Speaker 13: Everything you've got right here, right up now, Sam, we
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  Speaker 13: don't know if we're gonna live to see them.
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  Speaker 8: Everything you gott right here.
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  Speaker 1: You don't get no pay after will come.
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  Speaker 28: But guess what.
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  Speaker 4: The more and more I got into that run. Each
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  Speaker 4: get stepping into that run, I'm trying to gain it
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  Speaker 4: more and more confidence. But to gain that fuck confidence,
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  Speaker 4: you have to be willing to pull yourself out of bed,
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  Speaker 4: pull yourself out of a funk, pull yourself out of
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  Speaker 4: whatever to life is thrown at you to gain that confidence.
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  Speaker 7: By the fuck time the run was over, I.
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  Speaker 4: Was like you motherfuck I once again beat your ass.
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  Speaker 4: You gotta be going to find the confidence. Stay in
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  Speaker 4: the fight, stay in the more, stay in the battle
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  Speaker 4: over your mind.
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  Speaker 7: See.
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  Speaker 29: Most people wanted easy, easy come, easy walk, easy go see.
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  Speaker 29: But when you go out what you're going to deal
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  Speaker 29: with and you deal with the difficulties of it, when
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  Speaker 29: you handle those hard things close it had making those
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  Speaker 29: hard decisions right now that you don't want to make,
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  Speaker 29: learning those things that you don't like to do. But
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  Speaker 29: you know that in order for you to get where
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  Speaker 29: you want to go, this is a hope that you
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  Speaker 29: have to flip through.
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  Speaker 30: The price of progress is pain.
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  Speaker 11: Most people do not want to experience pain.
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  Speaker 25: They like comfort.
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  Speaker 31: You got to pay a price for winning, but most
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  Speaker 31: people are willing to pay it. They may pay it once,
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  Speaker 31: but literally you got to pay it every single day.
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  Speaker 31: And the crazy part about that is the price changes.
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  Speaker 7: Davy.
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  Speaker 13: Be the guy who embraces the ugly, the miserable.
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  Speaker 1: Be the guy who.
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  Speaker 25: Embraces hard work to grind.
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  Speaker 1: Don't be afraid of being hurt.
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  Speaker 6: Actent, smile. You're going to fail, you know, and that's
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  Speaker 6: what makes you, that's what shapes you.
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  Speaker 20: Imagine if you will be on your deathband and standing
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  Speaker 20: around your band the ghost of the ideas, the dreams,
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  Speaker 20: the abilities, the talents given to you by life, and
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  Speaker 20: then you, for whatever reason, you never acted on those ideas.
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  Speaker 11: You never pursued that dream, you never use those talents.
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  Speaker 1: We never saw your leadership, you.
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  Speaker 11: Never used your voice, you never wrote that book.
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  Speaker 20: And there they are standing around your bed looking at
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  Speaker 20: you with large angry eyes that we came to you
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  Speaker 20: that only you could have given us life.
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  Speaker 28: There's no hacks, bro, it's you against you, you against you.
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  Speaker 17: And if you misunderstand that, give.
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  Speaker 13: A real problem.
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  Speaker 1: Look in the mirror.
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  Speaker 2: It's you verse you.
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  Speaker 30: Expand yourself. Take yourself out your comfort zone. Do not
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  Speaker 30: live in your bubble. Put some more air in your bubble.
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  Speaker 30: If you stay in your comfort zone, that's why you
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  Speaker 30: will fail. You will fail in your comfort zone. Success
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  Speaker 30: is not a comfortable procedure. It is a very uncomfortable
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  Speaker 30: thing to it, Tilda.
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  Speaker 17: Sometimes your motivation needs to be because no one else
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  Speaker 17: wants to do it.
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  Speaker 32: There's many teachers.
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  Speaker 6: We also need.
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  Speaker 32: The savage thing out there now is for the taking.
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  Speaker 32: If you are willing to go out there and crime
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  Speaker 32: and work hard, you know you got these people that
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  Speaker 32: don't want to go to work.
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  Speaker 22: Don't make excuses, don't blame any other person or any
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  Speaker 22: other thing.
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  Speaker 1: Powers do that, and that ain't you.
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  Speaker 9: You're better than that. The fears never.
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  Speaker 18: Reach any potential.
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  Speaker 7: But you can't be lazy and make everybody's great when.
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  Speaker 33: They're not tired.
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  Speaker 7: Exactly when they're tired, that's when the real Champi has
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  Speaker 7: come out.
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  Speaker 26: People often talk about being happy, and what they do
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  Speaker 26: is they talk about being happy in the same way
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  Speaker 26: a child in their very giddyish Christmas morning happiness, you know,
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  Speaker 26: like he unhappy.
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  Speaker 25: Unhappy.
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  Speaker 26: That's never going to be long lasting. That's going to
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  Speaker 26: be temporary. If you were like that all the time,
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  Speaker 26: you wouldn't even get anything done right. You didn't even
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  Speaker 26: be a mature adult. So the idea that you're out
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  Speaker 26: here searching for that feeling permanently is asidenim is immature.
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  Speaker 26: That is certainly happy, sure, but I've changed the paradigms
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  Speaker 26: where happiness is for me, anything above destraw is happy.
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  Speaker 26: Besides three or four monumentally destructive events are going to
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  Speaker 26: happen throughout my life. I've also I'm remember something unless
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  Speaker 26: I really really feel down I'm happy, So why wake up?
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  Speaker 26: It's not I'm thinking if I'm happier or not. If
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  Speaker 26: I'm not devastated, I'm happy. It's black or white. If
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  Speaker 26: it's not black, it's white. So even if i wake
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  Speaker 26: up and I'm furious and I'm stressed and I'm pissed off.
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  Speaker 32: I got much to do, I'm still happy.
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  Speaker 26: I've decided I'm happy. My happiness. There isn't this little
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  Speaker 26: giddy iss sh at the talk. My happiness is everything
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  Speaker 26: besides feeling distraught. That's how I've designed it in my mind.
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  Speaker 4: But they have to see what their journey is to
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  Speaker 4: start their journey. Several people live to be one hundred
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  Speaker 4: years old, and they have great lives, but somewhere in
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  Speaker 4: their life there was a point where they had the
• 17:32
  Speaker 4: decision to make. They can go left or right on
• 17:35
  Speaker 4: this path. Left was the easy route, Right was a
• 17:39
  Speaker 4: hard route.
• 17:40
  Speaker 3: A lot of people take the easy route and they.
• 17:43
  Speaker 6: Had a good life that way, But the better life
• 17:46
  Speaker 6: was going to the right side.
• 17:47
  Speaker 17: And you may have twenty years of pain and suffering to.
• 17:50
  Speaker 34: Get past it.
• 17:51
  Speaker 4: But a lot of us die never truly starting our journey.
• 17:54
  Speaker 26: Danger, risk, pain, suffering. Those are the things triumph over
• 17:58
  Speaker 26: triumph over exactly so you say, oh, should I build
• 18:02
  Speaker 26: a personal brand?
• 18:03
  Speaker 18: Well?
• 18:03
  Speaker 20: Can you?
• 18:03
  Speaker 26: And if you can, then perhaps you should consider it.
• 18:07
  Speaker 4: I wanted you to go home that night after you
• 18:10
  Speaker 4: beat the living I mean, and I smiled in your face.
• 18:15
  Speaker 4: I wanted you to feel worse than I did, and
• 18:18
  Speaker 4: you would go home to a nice, warm bed with
• 18:20
  Speaker 4: your wife or your kids and a nice meal. And
• 18:23
  Speaker 4: I was still out there in the grip.
• 18:24
  Speaker 7: I wanted you to think.
• 18:25
  Speaker 4: About me knowing that I'm comfortable being very unfreking comfortable.
• 18:31
  Speaker 21: If you go visit the darkness that you've been running from,
• 18:35
  Speaker 21: you'll have the opportunity to leave a better person. You'll
• 18:38
  Speaker 21: have a better understanding of yourself, you have a better
• 18:41
  Speaker 21: understanding of your purpose. But if you don't take that
• 18:44
  Speaker 21: trip and the darkness comes visits you, it's a guest
• 18:48
  Speaker 21: that will never leave.
• 18:49
  Speaker 4: I study the darkness. No answers in the light. None.
• 18:53
  Speaker 4: It's too happy, it's too nice, and we're not. We
• 18:55
  Speaker 4: need to be taught how to live and happy. That
• 18:58
  Speaker 4: just comes naturally to us.
• 19:00
  Speaker 29: The best way to fight the demons that change you
• 19:03
  Speaker 29: in the night is to stop and turn around.
• 19:06
  Speaker 28: The thing about pain is like you feel it right now.
• 19:09
  Speaker 32: It's temporary, man, But later in life you don't.
• 19:11
  Speaker 15: Remember the pain.
• 19:13
  Speaker 10: You just remember like the glory and like good times.
• 19:15
  Speaker 33: My exhilaration of pride and achievement, man, now outweighs all
• 19:20
  Speaker 33: the pain struggle.
• 19:22
  Speaker 7: Because if you push through the pain to achieve the pride.
• 19:25
  Speaker 1: You forget about the pain was ever even there.
• 19:27
  Speaker 21: But if you can't push through.
• 19:28
  Speaker 27: The pain and the pain stops you and breaks you down,
• 19:31
  Speaker 27: and then that pain is forever because you never got
• 19:34
  Speaker 27: cried to outbalance it.
• 19:37
  Speaker 7: Pain is temporary. It may last for a minute or
• 19:42
  Speaker 7: an hour, or a day or even a year, but
• 19:46
  Speaker 7: eventually it wields aside and something else will take its place.
• 19:52
  Speaker 7: If I quit, however, it will last forever.
• 19:54
  Speaker 35: Do it you can't do it, don't say you can
• 19:57
  Speaker 35: do it. Don't overleverage yourself. Don't overleverage your decision. And
• 19:59
  Speaker 35: then jump in and kind of dip a toe. I
• 20:02
  Speaker 35: think I'll try it out now, think if you're going
• 20:04
  Speaker 35: to try it out beforehand, But when it's time to
• 20:05
  Speaker 35: go dive, this.
• 20:07
  Speaker 4: Guy goes, hey, god, guess you're on that winter arc.
• 20:09
  Speaker 4: I'm like with the with the Winter arc, I go mother,
• 20:12
  Speaker 4: Come on that. Three sixty five.
• 20:15
  Speaker 1: It's not an ARC.
• 20:16
  Speaker 7: It's a fucking circle.
• 20:17
  Speaker 6: I've been on it for like thirty years.
• 20:19
  Speaker 21: It's a circle that he keeps.
• 20:21
  Speaker 4: Going around and around and around winter spring, summer fall.
• 20:26
  Speaker 4: Motherfuckn winter spring, summer fall. Have enough pride in your
• 20:32
  Speaker 4: self to not have this hacky shit to get motivated.
• 20:37
  Speaker 4: Love yourself enough to stay motivated. Three sixty and five ARC.
• 20:42
  Speaker 4: Do a circle, stay hard.
• 20:43
  Speaker 16: Most people want change without the challenge. They want glory
• 20:48
  Speaker 16: but avoid the grind. But greatness doesn't come round in comfort.
• 20:52
  Speaker 16: Every step forward it's paid in struggle. But it's in
• 20:56
  Speaker 16: those moments that the real work begins, when you push
• 21:00
  Speaker 16: past the doubt, fight through the discomfort, and decide to
• 21:05
  Speaker 16: show up anyway. Strength isn't given, it's earned.
• 21:09
  Speaker 1: Pain always leaves a gift always.
• 21:14
  Speaker 30: It's not going to change for you. It's COVID for
• 21:18
  Speaker 30: everybody say, just you your world forty two a fin
• 21:22
  Speaker 30: to crumble because you got to change your career.
• 21:25
  Speaker 7: You had to change your career.
• 21:26
  Speaker 30: You just said it in the question maybe it was
• 21:29
  Speaker 30: time for you to move on. Somebody sent me a
• 21:32
  Speaker 30: plaque to Data one. Data said, don't worry about the
• 21:35
  Speaker 30: people that God has removed from your life. He saw
• 21:39
  Speaker 30: things you didn't see. He heard conversations you couldn't hear,
• 21:43
  Speaker 30: and he saw he made.
• 21:45
  Speaker 2: Moves you wouldn't.
• 21:46
  Speaker 7: May do it. Just do it.
• 21:51
  Speaker 6: Don't let your dreams be dreams. Yesterday you said tomorrow.
• 21:56
  Speaker 7: So just do it.
• 21:58
  Speaker 11: Make your dreams come true.
• 22:01
  Speaker 1: Just do it.
• 22:05
  Speaker 16: Some people dream of success, while you're.
• 22:07
  Speaker 9: Gonna wake up and work hard at it.
• 22:09
  Speaker 7: Nothing is impossible.
• 22:13
  Speaker 4: You should get to the point where anyone else would quit,
• 22:16
  Speaker 4: and you're not gonna stop there.
• 22:19
  Speaker 29: No, what are you waiting for?
• 22:22
  Speaker 10: Do it?
• 22:24
  Speaker 1: Just do it?
• 22:28
  Speaker 11: Yes, you can, just do it.
• 22:33
  Speaker 4: Two forms of pain, pain that breaks you and the
• 22:36
  Speaker 4: pain that changes you, the pain that destroys you.
• 22:40
  Speaker 1: Isn't this ship.
• 22:43
  Speaker 6: Own your life?
• 22:44
  Speaker 36: Guys?
• 22:45
  Speaker 22: You get every opportunity.
• 22:46
  Speaker 1: There's no excuse not to be the horrist.
• 22:48
  Speaker 32: Mother should worker in the room, and all your defferent schoolwork,
• 22:52
  Speaker 32: the jim, your career, your relationship, your needs attached to it.
• 22:56
  Speaker 14: It's gonna mean more than anything.
• 22:58
  Speaker 27: That's your name's all.
• 22:59
  Speaker 6: You don't show up.
• 23:03
  Speaker 16: Better to be a warrior in a gardener than a
• 23:05
  Speaker 16: gardener in a war.
• 23:07
  Speaker 4: Go to that dark place where you're a lone, no
• 23:10
  Speaker 4: cell phones, no music, no TVs, no computers, you by yourself.
• 23:15
  Speaker 4: Very few people want to be alone anymore. They want
• 23:17
  Speaker 4: to be around no ways in people, and they have
• 23:19
  Speaker 4: to be You can't think.
• 23:20
  Speaker 11: People go, I don't know what I want to do
• 23:22
  Speaker 11: with my life.
• 23:22
  Speaker 4: It's too loud.
• 23:24
  Speaker 11: That's not working.
• 23:26
  Speaker 7: Some of y'all praying prayers and cop hours. You've been
• 23:29
  Speaker 7: praying for six years and you the same, husband, it
• 23:32
  Speaker 7: ain't no way you talking to the creator and he
• 23:35
  Speaker 7: did bless you when you're still the same. It's not possible.
• 23:38
  Speaker 7: So if you pray, it's just like a formality. It
• 23:41
  Speaker 7: ain't no way you talking to the creator that has
• 23:43
  Speaker 7: all power and you the exact same.
• 23:46
  Speaker 22: That's not possible.
• 23:47
  Speaker 7: So my wife like, Yo, this argument thing is killing me.
• 23:50
  Speaker 7: And this is why it was bad, because we'd go
• 23:52
  Speaker 7: six months right, six months straight nothing and then we
• 23:56
  Speaker 7: argue and it would seem like I gained eighty yards
• 23:58
  Speaker 7: and then.
• 23:59
  Speaker 1: I fumbled on the two yard line.
• 24:02
  Speaker 7: You might be like in killing the game, but I
• 24:04
  Speaker 7: was like six months good, eight months good fumbo. I'm like, no,
• 24:07
  Speaker 7: I'd lost the ball, some foolish or some dumb stuff
• 24:10
  Speaker 7: like we was having a basic conversation and at Boom
• 24:12
  Speaker 7: I was exploded and I was like, hey, you gotta
• 24:15
  Speaker 7: fix thats So I was like, you know what I'm
• 24:18
  Speaker 7: about to go once to sit like I'm going all
• 24:20
  Speaker 7: out right, so write that area down when you know
• 24:22
  Speaker 7: you ain't go all out.
• 24:24
  Speaker 36: How can you beat someone who cannot fucking quit? How
• 24:29
  Speaker 36: can you beat someone who every time they go through
• 24:32
  Speaker 36: a hard time they get better and they get stronger
• 24:35
  Speaker 36: instead of getting weaker and getting demoralized. How can you
• 24:38
  Speaker 36: beat someone who looks back on all the tests that
• 24:41
  Speaker 36: they've had and said, yeah, that wasn't sit, dude, bring
• 24:44
  Speaker 36: it the gone okay, as opposed to the person who's like,
• 24:48
  Speaker 36: oh my god, I can't believe this happened, and then
• 24:50
  Speaker 36: in two months another thing happens. Oh my god, I
• 24:53
  Speaker 36: can't believe this happened. It's gonna be the person who
• 24:55
  Speaker 36: has a stoic mentality who looks at it and says, this.
• 25:00
  Speaker 7: All right, we'll get through it.
• 25:02
  Speaker 36: And then the next thing happens, well, won't do that again,
• 25:05
  Speaker 36: but we'll get.
• 25:06
  Speaker 11: Through it right.
• 25:07
  Speaker 36: Not freaking out like the world's ending every two weeks. Here,
• 25:10
  Speaker 36: you can't live like that, even though you hate the
• 25:11
  Speaker 36: fact that you're not growing. You don't hate the fact
• 25:14
  Speaker 36: that you're not growing more than you hate the fact
• 25:16
  Speaker 36: of who you are. But you don't have the heart,
• 25:19
  Speaker 36: you don't have the strength, you don't have the tenacity,
• 25:22
  Speaker 36: you don't have the will to do something about it.
• 25:27
  Speaker 37: I would rather die than be that loser guy.
• 25:30
  Speaker 31: Think about that.
• 25:33
  Speaker 33: Do you want to walk out the door a damn loser?
• 25:35
  Speaker 16: They don't walk out the door and winner.
• 25:37
  Speaker 4: Build belief, Build confidence to the point where nothing can
• 25:42
  Speaker 4: hurt you because you know exactly who you are. You've
• 25:45
  Speaker 4: faced your demons, you were able to hear all your
• 25:48
  Speaker 4: past traumas. I'm no longer embarrassed, I'm no longer ashamed.
• 25:53
  Speaker 4: Being ashamed one of the biggest things that kill people
• 25:55
  Speaker 4: nowadays in their minds, kill them from moving forward. I'm
• 25:58
  Speaker 4: ashamed in myself.
• 26:04
  Speaker 18: That's what's painful is that it takes more effort to
• 26:08
  Speaker 18: start in the beginning, and more people are right about
• 26:10
  Speaker 18: the fact. They're like, hey, you're not going to hit
• 26:12
  Speaker 18: it big, and guess what a month in you're not.
• 26:13
  Speaker 18: But they're only measuring on months and it's six months
• 26:16
  Speaker 18: and you're measuring in decades.
• 26:19
  Speaker 6: Show me a trust fund kid that inherited a bunch
• 26:21
  Speaker 6: of money, and I'll show you someone mentally tortured. Having
• 26:25
  Speaker 6: stuff isn't fun. Getting stuff is fun.
• 26:28
  Speaker 5: Right.
• 26:28
  Speaker 6: It's not the pursuit happiness. It's the happiness of the pursuit.
• 26:32
  Speaker 7: Right.
• 26:32
  Speaker 6: It's just it's that thing. And it's not like you
• 26:35
  Speaker 6: know that the self help. It's not the journey, it's
• 26:36
  Speaker 6: the destination. It's not either the journey or the destination.
• 26:39
  Speaker 6: It's who you become on the journey.
• 26:43
  Speaker 16: I'm a good person.
• 26:44
  Speaker 38: I got a good heart.
• 26:45
  Speaker 21: I treat people with respect.
• 26:48
  Speaker 4: Ultimately, I want the most that I can possibly get
• 26:50
  Speaker 4: out of life.
• 26:51
  Speaker 14: I love to love.
• 26:53
  Speaker 21: I'm a good dude.
• 26:55
  Speaker 7: Am I perfect? No?
• 26:57
  Speaker 28: I got some of the men perfections over there.
• 26:59
  Speaker 36: I got some of the one from over here from
• 27:01
  Speaker 36: my man Dad.
• 27:01
  Speaker 21: Okay, that's life.
• 27:05
  Speaker 37: The easiest thing in life is to give up on
• 27:08
  Speaker 37: whatever you know, whatever you're focused on, or whatever you're
• 27:10
  Speaker 37: hopeful for. The hardest thing is to continue to keep going.
• 27:15
  Speaker 37: But we have to, like, we have to continue to
• 27:17
  Speaker 37: hold on. And I would imagine for so many people
• 27:19
  Speaker 37: out there that is that is probably the most difficult thing.
• 27:24
  Speaker 4: You can achieve, the absolute impossible you'll need great parents.
• 27:28
  Speaker 4: You'll need like a private school. You don't need to
• 27:32
  Speaker 4: have this humongous GPA and all serveship. What you need
• 27:36
  Speaker 4: is the one thing I talk about my book, what's
• 27:38
  Speaker 4: your straight up brutal work ethic. You have to be
• 27:42
  Speaker 4: willing to outwork everybody in the world.
• 27:47
  Speaker 30: Everything comes from the imagination. So the power of the mind.
• 27:50
  Speaker 30: People don't understand. We still don't understand. I still do't
• 27:52
  Speaker 30: understand how powerful it is. I'm still learning.
• 27:54
  Speaker 21: Well.
• 27:54
  Speaker 30: I know one thing is I can make things happen.
• 27:57
  Speaker 10: The mind is but a magnet to what you want.
• 28:02
  Speaker 4: And nothing is easy. But you have a choice to make.
• 28:05
  Speaker 4: Do you want to sit down and go back to
• 28:07
  Speaker 4: that guy you once were?
• 28:09
  Speaker 39: No?
• 28:10
  Speaker 22: So this is what it takes.
• 28:11
  Speaker 1: If you don't come in.
• 28:14
  Speaker 21: And treat every day as game day, you to never
• 28:16
  Speaker 21: be ready for game day every practice. Michael always said,
• 28:20
  Speaker 21: I practiced so hard so that games are easy.
• 28:25
  Speaker 22: If you want some kind of a good outcome, you're
• 28:27
  Speaker 22: going to have to work hard for it. And if
• 28:30
  Speaker 22: you and if you don't work hard for something, you're
• 28:32
  Speaker 22: not going to get an outcome that's really worth much.
• 28:36
  Speaker 14: If you can see it here and you have the
• 28:39
  Speaker 14: courage enough to speak it.
• 28:42
  Speaker 7: It will happen.
• 28:44
  Speaker 27: Remember this is that people are time wasters, and the
• 28:46
  Speaker 27: great majority of people have no goals, They have no priorities,
• 28:49
  Speaker 27: they have no plans, they have no concern about becoming successful,
• 28:52
  Speaker 27: and they think that you are the same. They think
• 28:54
  Speaker 27: because their time isn't worth anything, that your time isn't
• 28:56
  Speaker 27: worth anything.
• 28:57
  Speaker 4: Also, but never be ashamed of anything you did in
• 29:00
  Speaker 4: your life. Face it, fix it, and make it better.
• 29:04
  Speaker 32: When you figure out who you are and what you
• 29:07
  Speaker 32: want to do, and you devote your life to it
• 29:10
  Speaker 32: like a maniac, like you're all in on this thing
• 29:14
  Speaker 32: and you manifest, most of these people end up doing
• 29:18
  Speaker 32: what they say they're going to do and being who
• 29:20
  Speaker 32: they say they're going to become.
• 29:21
  Speaker 40: It's real and I believe that when you know where
• 29:24
  Speaker 40: you're going and you know what you want, the universe
• 29:26
  Speaker 40: as a way of stepping aside for you to be
• 29:29
  Speaker 40: successful at anything. The truth is you don't have to
• 29:33
  Speaker 40: be special. You just have to be what most people
• 29:37
  Speaker 40: aren't consistent, determine and willing to work for it, no shortcuts.
• 29:45
  Speaker 11: As long as you have a lot of determination and
• 29:46
  Speaker 11: will power, that's all you need.
• 29:48
  Speaker 6: And you have to have the will to win.
• 29:50
  Speaker 22: If you tell yourself the truth. If you tell yourself
• 29:53
  Speaker 22: the truth, and the truth is I'm not happy with
• 29:55
  Speaker 22: where I'm at. That's the truth. The truth is I
• 29:58
  Speaker 22: can do more. The truth is I can work harder
• 30:01
  Speaker 22: than I'm working right now. The truth is I can't
• 30:03
  Speaker 22: do more for my family. The truth is I can
• 30:06
  Speaker 22: do much better than I'm doing right now. And if
• 30:10
  Speaker 22: that's the real truth, if that's what you believe, if
• 30:13
  Speaker 22: you believe that to be the truth, you won't have
• 30:15
  Speaker 22: to find more. Discipline. Discipline will find you.
• 30:20
  Speaker 27: Remember, it's not what you have, but what you do
• 30:22
  Speaker 27: with what you have that separates winners from losers. It's
• 30:26
  Speaker 27: not what happens to you, but how you respond to
• 30:27
  Speaker 27: what happens to you that counts. The Greek philosopher epicted
• 30:31
  Speaker 27: this one said that circumstances do not make the man
• 30:34
  Speaker 27: or woman, They merely reveal him to himself. Your response
• 30:38
  Speaker 27: to the adversity of life is the real measure of
• 30:41
  Speaker 27: who you are and what you're made of.
• 30:43
  Speaker 28: When you respecting nice brothers, let's twenty degrees, so you
• 30:49
  Speaker 28: might be somewhere worse to get hot, so you might
• 30:53
  Speaker 28: have sore legs, sword back, sore shoulder.
• 30:57
  Speaker 6: So the struggle is.
• 31:01
  Speaker 10: It never gets it easier.
• 31:03
  Speaker 7: You gotta get harder.
• 31:06
  Speaker 32: You obviously don't win.
• 31:07
  Speaker 21: Is bad enough.
• 31:08
  Speaker 26: I became obsessed.
• 31:10
  Speaker 4: I became obsessed with being the baddest that God ever created.
• 31:15
  Speaker 4: Am I that I don't care? I believe it, and
• 31:18
  Speaker 4: I was trying to tell him.
• 31:19
  Speaker 28: Once you become.
• 31:20
  Speaker 4: Obsessed with something obsessed, it's.
• 31:23
  Speaker 28: Okay to be unbalanced for a while.
• 31:25
  Speaker 7: It's okay. Don't be all this stuff. People say. You
• 31:28
  Speaker 7: gotta be balanced to be the best in the world
• 31:32
  Speaker 7: at what you do.
• 31:33
  Speaker 4: If time about being the Navy seal people the best
• 31:35
  Speaker 4: at what you do, you have to be unbalanced to
• 31:38
  Speaker 4: find every bit of energy and strength that you have
• 31:42
  Speaker 4: to pull it off.
• 31:44
  Speaker 29: Then you get balanced.
• 31:45
  Speaker 10: Once you become great, you're a man.
• 31:49
  Speaker 31: You are a man.
• 31:50
  Speaker 10: Stand up and be a man. Make the hard decisions,
• 31:55
  Speaker 10: make the sacrifices, make the unpopular decisions. And because uncomfortable
• 32:00
  Speaker 10: in your own skin, and if you are not a
• 32:04
  Speaker 10: person that you are comfortable being alone with, that is
• 32:08
  Speaker 10: the one person in this universe that you have full power,
• 32:13
  Speaker 10: full right, and full responsibility to change.
• 32:16
  Speaker 36: You know, there comes a day, man, everyone's going to
• 32:18
  Speaker 36: have this day.
• 32:19
  Speaker 35: There comes a day where being average, being mediocre is
• 32:24
  Speaker 35: just sickening to you.
• 32:26
  Speaker 14: It's just sickening.
• 32:27
  Speaker 27: It makes you want to throw up because you've seen
• 32:30
  Speaker 27: people with far less talent than you as you're growing
• 32:33
  Speaker 27: up with them.
• 32:33
  Speaker 32: There are childhood buddies, whatever else.
• 32:35
  Speaker 33: They didn't have what you had yet now they're going
• 32:39
  Speaker 33: to become something that you hadn't.
• 32:41
  Speaker 36: There comes that day.
• 32:42
  Speaker 9: It's either when you're young, you know, and.
• 32:44
  Speaker 36: It strikes you on the baseball field because you're sick.
• 32:46
  Speaker 33: Of expecting now, or it's it's when you get fired
• 32:49
  Speaker 33: from your fifth job, you know, when your wife and
• 32:51
  Speaker 33: kids are because you don't have support anymore. There comes
• 32:53
  Speaker 33: a day where push comes a shelf.
• 32:57
  Speaker 7: We're being mediocre, being like average, It just burns.
• 33:01
  Speaker 25: It sucks so much.
• 33:04
  Speaker 4: Most of the time we knew the starting endpoint. So
• 33:07
  Speaker 4: on the way back, I started seeing people getting happy
• 33:10
  Speaker 4: and shit because the.
• 33:12
  Speaker 7: End was near.
• 33:13
  Speaker 4: But there were some asshole instructors. They were here the
• 33:17
  Speaker 4: happiness and go right on past the endpoint. When that happened,
• 33:22
  Speaker 4: everybody stopped talking, heads just stopped dropping, and I started
• 33:27
  Speaker 4: taking consoles. At that time, I knew what happened in
• 33:30
  Speaker 4: their minds.
• 33:32
  Speaker 11: They were living up.
• 33:32
  Speaker 4: The hope factor. They hoped the instructors will stop running.
• 33:37
  Speaker 7: They hoped the water was never cold.
• 33:39
  Speaker 29: They hoped the weather was good.
• 33:42
  Speaker 11: I don't live off that hope.
• 33:44
  Speaker 7: I wish the water was cold.
• 33:46
  Speaker 4: I wished them motherfucking instructions keep off and running.
• 33:49
  Speaker 7: I wished them Deraine.
• 33:51
  Speaker 4: When the inning is unknown and the distance is unknown,
• 33:56
  Speaker 4: that's what you know who you are.
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  Speaker 39: It was like an actor getting ready for a film.
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  Speaker 39: You gotta put yourself in that cage. When you're in
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  Speaker 39: that cage, you are that character. Then when you leave there,
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  Speaker 39: it's something completely different. But when I'm in that cage, bro,
• 34:08
  Speaker 39: don't you can touch me. Don't talk to me.
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  Speaker 41: You're always afraid to take the first step because all
• 34:13
  Speaker 41: you see is every negative thing ten miles down the road.
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  Speaker 13: But you can do anything you want.
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  Speaker 5: You are bound by nothing.
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  Speaker 1: Keep talking.
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  Speaker 4: I need you to keep talking about what you were
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  Speaker 4: just saying.
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  Speaker 12: It's warm on the couch. You miss bad, it's comfy,
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  Speaker 12: it's cozy. You've got work later on. You have an
• 34:29
  Speaker 12: argument last night, you're slightly hungover.
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  Speaker 4: God know, every motherfucker, Hey gonna doude I'm gonna do.
• 34:35
  Speaker 33: If you want something bad enough, you can't let anybody
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  Speaker 33: tell you you can't do something. I'll repeat that, if
• 34:42
  Speaker 33: you want something bad enough, you can't let anybody tell
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  Speaker 33: you you can't do something, not even yourself.
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  Speaker 26: If you give up on your dreams, If you give
• 34:50
  Speaker 26: up on your dreams, what do you have left?
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  Speaker 24: Nothing?
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  Speaker 18: Because everything else is petty. Everything else does show that
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  Speaker 18: you were thinking about these people all day long, which
• 35:02
  Speaker 18: means they win by default. He's like, all you can
• 35:05
  Speaker 18: do is think about your goal and winning. He's like,
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  Speaker 18: can win you win? That's when you become so big
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  Speaker 18: that they shrink into irrelevance. You cast a shadow that
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  Speaker 18: no one even can see them behind you.
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  Speaker 30: Everybody has a turn back moment. You have a moment
• 35:18
  Speaker 30: where you can go forward or you can give up.
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  Speaker 30: But the thing you have to keep in mind before
• 35:24
  Speaker 30: you give up is that if you give up, the
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  Speaker 30: guarantee is it will never happen. That's the guarantee of Quitty,
• 35:34
  Speaker 30: that it will never happen no way under the sun.
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  Speaker 30: The only way the possibility remains that it can happen
• 35:42
  Speaker 30: is if you never give up, no matter what.
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  Speaker 5: Going back to the gym, work because you have more
• 35:49
  Speaker 5: to show. You understand life. Continue, you cannot live it
• 35:53
  Speaker 5: in the past. I'm really good on that.
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  Speaker 6: You understand.
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  Speaker 5: I learned by the hears that. Listen, Cariscendo. Let's go
• 36:00
  Speaker 5: because pain you're going to have all the time, uncertainty
• 36:04
  Speaker 5: and constant work, constant work, constant walk. It doesn't matter
• 36:07
  Speaker 5: what's coming, it's going to happen in your life.
• 36:09
  Speaker 6: You have to continue.
• 36:10
  Speaker 5: This is the way I see the life.
• 36:12
  Speaker 34: Your mind has to be stronger than your feelings. Think
• 36:15
  Speaker 34: about every poor decision you've made in your life. There
• 36:18
  Speaker 34: was more emotion that was involved in it than there
• 36:22
  Speaker 34: was mind, every single one of them. Think about it
• 36:25
  Speaker 34: really was your feelings.
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  Speaker 1: Keep you in bed.
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  Speaker 21: Your mind tells you get up.
• 36:32
  Speaker 1: She just got here staring back at you.
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  Speaker 12: Yeah, that's your toughest the pullets every time you get
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  Speaker 12: into the room.
• 36:38
  Speaker 1: That's who your goalie gets.
• 36:42
  Speaker 32: Great things happen and really bad things happen, and you
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  Speaker 32: got to take it all in stride, and you got
• 36:47
  Speaker 32: to pick yourself up the next day, strap your shoes
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  Speaker 32: back on, and get out there and go to war again.
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  Speaker 21: A better person. You have a better understanding of yourself.
• 36:57
  Speaker 21: You have better understanding of your purpose. But if you
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  Speaker 21: don't take that trip and the darkness comes visits you,
• 37:04
  Speaker 21: it's a guest that will never leave.
• 37:08
  Speaker 30: Everybody has a turn back moment. You have a moment
• 37:11
  Speaker 30: where you can go forward or you can give up.
• 37:14
  Speaker 30: Thing you have to keep in mind before you give
• 37:17
  Speaker 30: up is that if you give up, the guarantee is
• 37:22
  Speaker 30: it will never happen. That's the guarantee of quitting, that
• 37:26
  Speaker 30: it will never happen. No way under the south. The
• 37:30
  Speaker 30: only way the possibility remains that it can happen is
• 37:34
  Speaker 30: if you never give up.
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  Speaker 25: No matter what.
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  Speaker 6: Is that when it feels scary to jump in, that
• 37:41
  Speaker 6: is exactly when you jump.
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  Speaker 37: Otherwise you end up staying in the same place your
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  Speaker 37: whole life. And that I can't do.
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  Speaker 5: There's not a fuck at that's up.
• 37:49
  Speaker 4: There's not a car, there's not a person. Everybody's in
• 37:52
  Speaker 4: their bed sleep dreading that. It's a Monday, hate It's
• 37:55
  Speaker 4: a Monday, and I'm loving it.
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  Speaker 1: I'm loving that.
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  Speaker 4: Where everybody's getting weaker, I'm getting stronger.
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  Speaker 35: I didn't have assid I went all the way I
• 38:02
  Speaker 35: found out and that ain't for me.
• 38:04
  Speaker 7: Or I found out and you damn right.
• 38:06
  Speaker 1: That is for me, that's a great place to get to.
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  Speaker 35: But the limbo of not knowing if you half asked something,
• 38:12
  Speaker 35: the limbo of going a hedge in my.
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  Speaker 12: Beat, what could have happened?
• 38:16
  Speaker 4: Body's broken, mine's broken. Spirit is broken. I started to say,
• 38:20
  Speaker 4: what if I can pull this off? When I first
• 38:22
  Speaker 4: walked into the Navy sit recruiter's office, he looked at
• 38:25
  Speaker 4: me and said, it only been thirty five African Americans
• 38:28
  Speaker 4: in seventy years. Make it through, you know? I said
• 38:30
  Speaker 4: to myself, what if I can be the thirty sixth
• 38:34
  Speaker 4: if the what if I can pull off a fucking miracle?
• 38:38
  Speaker 4: What if I can become someone that no one thinks
• 38:41
  Speaker 4: I can be a.
• 38:42
  Speaker 25: Lot of people are very, very very ambitious with their
• 38:46
  Speaker 25: words and very very very unambitious with their actions, and
• 38:50
  Speaker 25: that's what ends up costing them everything that they want.
• 38:53
  Speaker 18: They said, success is the only revenge. He's like, it's
• 38:56
  Speaker 18: not the best revenge. He's like, it's the only one.
• 38:58
  Speaker 18: There's no other revenge.
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  Speaker 38: From the bottom of my heart, if you know you
• 39:01
  Speaker 38: need to make it, you will make it. But you
• 39:05
  Speaker 38: need to commit to making it, which is what I think.
• 39:08
  Speaker 38: A lot of it boils down to do you actually
• 39:09
  Speaker 38: want to do this or not? Do you actually want
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  Speaker 38: to do this or not? Because if you actually want
• 39:15
  Speaker 38: to do it, what's going to stop you?
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  Speaker 17: Nothing?
• 39:18
  Speaker 22: And if you don't really want to do.
• 39:19
  Speaker 1: It, what's going to stop you?
• 39:20
  Speaker 22: Just about anything that comes up, just about any obstacle
• 39:23
  Speaker 22: that gets in your way becomes an excuse, It becomes
• 39:27
  Speaker 22: a reason, it comes a rationale for not proceeding down
• 39:30
  Speaker 22: that path.
• 39:30
  Speaker 7: I'm exactly where I want to be because I realize
• 39:33
  Speaker 7: I got to commit my very being to this thing.
• 39:36
  Speaker 7: As we begin to look at.
• 39:38
  Speaker 11: What we want, as we begin to look toward the future,
• 39:42
  Speaker 11: what's going to be crucial for you? It's every time
• 39:46
  Speaker 11: you find yourself saying that you can't do something, you've
• 39:50
  Speaker 11: got to affirm to yourself, Hey, hey, no, no, no,
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  Speaker 11: I can make it.
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  Speaker 1: This can happen for me.
• 39:57
  Speaker 11: You've got powers within you, once within you that you
• 40:01
  Speaker 11: haven't even reached for yet. Now, whatever goal you have,
• 40:06
  Speaker 11: here's what we know.
• 40:06
  Speaker 20: You're gonna have some opposition, You're gonna have some difficulties,
• 40:09
  Speaker 20: You're gonna have some challenges.
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  Speaker 11: Loan Journey, Loan Duck Knight.
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  Speaker 7: But when you hold on to your.
• 40:15
  Speaker 11: Dream, don't let anybody kill it in you. Just hold
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  Speaker 11: on to that dream when it doesn't make sense to anybody,
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  Speaker 11: including you.
• 40:21
  Speaker 41: Sometimes, just hold on.
• 40:23
  Speaker 11: Once you give yourself an opportunity to try and to
• 40:26
  Speaker 11: stretch it, you'll find out you can do more than
• 40:30
  Speaker 11: you can enerve to get to imagine.
• 40:33
  Speaker 7: The first level to success in life, The very first
• 40:36
  Speaker 7: level is you seeing it like it's clear to you.
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  Speaker 7: You know exactly what you want, You know exactly when
• 40:43
  Speaker 7: you want it, You know exactly what it tastes like.
• 40:46
  Speaker 7: You know what it looked like before you really blow up,
• 40:50
  Speaker 7: blow up and you get success. You literally have it
• 40:54
  Speaker 7: in the palm of your hand without having it. What
• 40:57
  Speaker 7: does your dream look like? What does it smell like?
• 41:00
  Speaker 7: What does it taste like? The problem with some of
• 41:03
  Speaker 7: youall is you want to last and support your dream
• 41:05
  Speaker 7: and yours. I don't know where you would die. It's
• 41:09
  Speaker 7: your dream. If you wanted to have it, get your
• 41:11
  Speaker 7: butt up and make it happen, if you wanted to
• 41:14
  Speaker 7: have it, rise and grind. I ain't putting my dream
• 41:18
  Speaker 7: on nobody else, and I don't care when no why
• 41:20
  Speaker 7: think about my dog on dream? This is my time,
• 41:24
  Speaker 7: This is my moment, tomorrow, Tomorrow, Tomorrow ain't no such
• 41:28
  Speaker 7: thing as tomorrow. We only got today.
• 41:34
  Speaker 42: It's necessary that you be patient. It's necessary that you
• 41:39
  Speaker 42: take a stand, that you dig in. It's necessary to
• 41:44
  Speaker 42: know there's gonna be some difficult times.
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  Speaker 11: I know I'm gonna have to take some blows, find
• 41:49
  Speaker 11: out how strong app can I stand up. I know
• 41:52
  Speaker 11: I'm gonna experience some rejection and disappointment. I know there's
• 41:56
  Speaker 11: gonna be some hard decisions to make.
• 41:59
  Speaker 20: The things are to be so uncertain that I'm gonna
• 42:02
  Speaker 20: feel overwhelmed and feel like I can't handle it.
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  Speaker 11: I know, I know I'm an experience.
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  Speaker 7: All of that.
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  Speaker 14: Why it's necessary.
• 42:09
  Speaker 11: It's a part of life. It's called light.
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  Speaker 29: All of that.
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  Speaker 41: We'll create you to a certain kind of us that
• 42:19
  Speaker 41: as you go through that experience what you become in
• 42:22
  Speaker 41: the process, that you'll discover a part of you that
• 42:28
  Speaker 41: you did not know was fair.
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  Speaker 20: No crowd to give up, krodate.
• 42:33
  Speaker 7: Keep going, No crowd of quick You already in pain,
• 42:38
  Speaker 7: you already hurt, Get a reward promise, don't go to
• 42:41
  Speaker 7: sleep until you succeed. It's about heart.
• 42:46
  Speaker 1: You gotta have heart.
• 42:49
  Speaker 7: Pain is temporary. It may last for a minute or
• 42:55
  Speaker 7: an hour, or a day.
• 42:57
  Speaker 41: Or even a year.
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  Speaker 7: Eventually it will subside and something else will take its place.
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  Speaker 7: If I quit, however, it will last forever. I dare
• 43:13
  Speaker 7: you to take a little pain. I dare you.
• 43:16
  Speaker 1: I dare you not to go home. Somebody said I
• 43:19
  Speaker 1: won't go home. I feel bad.
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  Speaker 34: Go through it.
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  Speaker 7: You ain't gonna die at the end of pain and
• 43:24
  Speaker 7: success