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GHEALEAD (Part 1) · Apostle Lazarus Femi

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  Speaker 1: Apostle Family, Lazarus is a man raised by God to
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  Speaker 1: demonstrate his wisdom and authority to the Last day Church.
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  Speaker 1: He is the lead pastor of like nature, and God
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  Speaker 1: told h years ago that a time will come where
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  Speaker 1: my wisdom will be needed to navigate tough times in
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  Speaker 1: the Body of Christ.
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  Speaker 2: Then I will.
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  Speaker 1: Cause your voice to be heard, and all who pay
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  Speaker 1: attention to my word on your lips will not lack
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  Speaker 1: light and direction. He is a man sent from God,
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  Speaker 1: sent to raise kingdom minded, culture shapers and global leaders.
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  Speaker 1: With Apostle Family Lazarus, every minute counts as you listen attentively.
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  Speaker 2: Amen.
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  Speaker 3: So I'm starting a news says today and it's tweaked
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  Speaker 3: word guilliad, And let me tell you what this series is.
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  Speaker 3: This series is my gift to you and to the
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  Speaker 3: Body of Christ, but to you primarily. And as I
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  Speaker 3: start teaching, you will understand what I mean by this.
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  Speaker 2: Is my gift.
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  Speaker 3: As I was praying to go towards the new season
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  Speaker 3: in my life.
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  Speaker 2: This is one of the instructions for the new season. Amen.
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  Speaker 3: So let me leave it there. Turn your Bibles to
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  Speaker 3: the Book of Luke chapter number four. Look chapter number four,
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  Speaker 3: and we're going to start the reading from verse eighteen.
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  Speaker 3: Look chapter number four, or if you're there, samen. The
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  Speaker 3: spirit of the Lord is upon me because he has
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  Speaker 3: sent me to preach.
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  Speaker 2: The gospel to the poor.
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  Speaker 3: The word poor there is synonymously the word paw used
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  Speaker 3: in Matthew five that blessed the poor in spirit.
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  Speaker 2: He has annoighted me to heal the broken, added.
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  Speaker 3: To preach deliverance to the captives and recovering of sight
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  Speaker 3: to the blind, to set at liberty.
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  Speaker 2: Then that I was bruised. Now I want us to pay.
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  Speaker 3: Very important attention because I want to show you a
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  Speaker 3: few things that you need to consider about the text.
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  Speaker 3: Look at what they amplified translation says, the spirit of
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  Speaker 3: the Lord is upon me because he has anointed me
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  Speaker 3: the anointed one, to preach the good news, that is
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  Speaker 3: the gospel to the poor. He had sent me to
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  Speaker 3: announce release to the captives and recovery of sight to
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  Speaker 3: the blind, to send forth as the liverd those who
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  Speaker 3: are oppressed, who are downtroden, crushed and broken down by calamity.
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  Speaker 3: That has a strong one that there is a form
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  Speaker 3: of healing and has nothing to do with the organs
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  Speaker 3: of the body, but has a lot to do with
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  Speaker 3: the mind.
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  Speaker 2: There are forms of.
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  Speaker 3: Healings that are something to do with the spirit of
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  Speaker 3: a person, because when the spirit of a man is broken,
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  Speaker 3: the Bible says, who can be it? As a matter
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  Speaker 3: of fact, the spirit of a man ought to be strong.
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  Speaker 2: To carry his infirmities.
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  Speaker 3: Are you seeing that now? But the target of the
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  Speaker 3: devil is to first attack our minds. So I want
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  Speaker 3: you to understand that the healing that comes from the
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  Speaker 3: Lord is not just physical healings as touching your physical bodies,
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  Speaker 3: but also the nature of your mind. Are you still
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  Speaker 3: there now? Give us that amplified translation. Look for it
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  Speaker 3: in if they can project it. I wanted to see
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  Speaker 3: something there. Look at this now. The spirit of the
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  Speaker 3: Lord is upon me because he has anointed me, the
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  Speaker 3: anointed one, that is the desire to preach the good news.
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  Speaker 2: That's the gospel to the poor.
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  Speaker 3: He has sent me to announced release to the captives.
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  Speaker 3: So there are people who are captives, but they are
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  Speaker 3: not locked in physical chains that can be seen with
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  Speaker 3: human eyes. Some are trapped in the past, some are
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  Speaker 3: trapped in non forgiveness, Some are trapped in.
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  Speaker 2: Traumas, some are trapped.
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  Speaker 3: In different forms of things, and they are still trapped.
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  Speaker 3: So there is the grace to release the captives and
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  Speaker 3: recovery of sight to the blind. Now look at this
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  Speaker 3: to send forth us the liward, say again this morning,
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  Speaker 3: I go for it as the liverd.
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  Speaker 2: Those who are oppressed, that is, those who.
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  Speaker 3: Are downtroading, bruised, Oh man, live, bruce people, those who
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  Speaker 3: are crushed.
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  Speaker 2: It is possible for the spirit of a man to
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  Speaker 2: be crushed.
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  Speaker 3: If you read Genesis, chapter number forty five, from verse
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  Speaker 3: twenty seven, maybe you can read for contexts brought our
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  Speaker 3: staffrom verse twenty seven. That's the story of Jacob. He
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  Speaker 3: saw had been taken from him. Sorry, Joseph had been
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  Speaker 3: taken from him. But this spirit was crushed.
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  Speaker 2: Look at it.
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  Speaker 3: So when they brought a new word, all right of
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  Speaker 3: Joseph to him and all he has said to them.
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  Speaker 3: He saw the wagons with Joseph, I said to kid,
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  Speaker 3: the spirit of Jacob their father was revived.
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  Speaker 2: So all the while something had died inside.
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  Speaker 3: So what I want to do this morning is to
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  Speaker 3: help you face your fears. So when they brought the
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  Speaker 3: words of Joseph, the Bible said, the spirit of Jacob.
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  Speaker 2: Was what revived.
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  Speaker 3: That means something that died inside. It is possible to
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  Speaker 3: be with a man whose spirit is dead. It is
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  Speaker 3: possible to be with a woman whose spirit is dead.
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  Speaker 3: Something has been mortified inside. It's cold, it can no
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  Speaker 3: longer respond to love, affection, and stimuli. Some people feel
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  Speaker 3: it is strength to say that you are not an
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  Speaker 3: emotional person.
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  Speaker 2: It is not strength. It is sickness.
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  Speaker 3: Because our emotions are not signs of weaknesses, but they
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  Speaker 3: are medium to which we express ourselves. We only can't
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  Speaker 3: think them within safe spaces. You can love, you can't forgive.
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  Speaker 3: In fact, you can be pained, and you can be hurt.
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  Speaker 3: It's not a weakness. If you're hurt, If someone that
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  Speaker 3: you love so much suddenly exit your life, it's gonna
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  Speaker 3: be painful, and it's okay.
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  Speaker 2: It's life.
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  Speaker 3: And that to cry in the midst of such a
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  Speaker 3: strong doesn't mean something is wrong with you. It doesn't
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  Speaker 3: mean you are the weak one. And there said we're
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  Speaker 3: men are being raised. Real men don't cry, but weal
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  Speaker 3: you men are emotional. If Jesus wept, you can weep.
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  Speaker 3: It's not a weakness.
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  Speaker 2: Because we are. We're having a societal culture where.
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  Speaker 3: Men are holding on to so much, and they are
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  Speaker 3: making conclusions that people are only seeing their reactions. There
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  Speaker 3: are fathers who have become dead towards their sons. There
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  Speaker 3: are sons who have become dead towards their fathers. There
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  Speaker 3: are brothers who have become dead towards their sisters. There
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  Speaker 3: are husbands who have become dead towards their wives. They
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  Speaker 3: will do their duty for duty's sake, but they are gone.
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  Speaker 2: One of the signs of death.
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  Speaker 3: And when it's when there is no longer response, or
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  Speaker 3: the receptors are gone, all the sensory neurons, the motto
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  Speaker 3: neurons collapsed gone, it is not a crime if you
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  Speaker 3: can respond. In fact, I will prefer the one we
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  Speaker 3: want to respond too much, not the one who has
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  Speaker 3: no response. It feels safe around the spouse who may
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  Speaker 3: be over react than the one who doesn't. You can
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  Speaker 3: be out of touch for two weeks and it doesn't
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  Speaker 3: miss you, and it says, I'm busy. Where there is affection,
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  Speaker 3: there will be emotions. So I don't want us to
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  Speaker 3: cover the things going on in our souls with religious
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  Speaker 3: facads and just show up and try to.
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  Speaker 2: Oh, how are you doing all this? Well? I'm good bro.
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  Speaker 3: No, No, the fact that you ignore it doesn't take
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  Speaker 3: it away. You have to face is that.
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  Speaker 2: Okay? Now, so this morning my duty is to walk.
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  Speaker 3: You back to the past, and let's rebuild SAMs chapter
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  Speaker 3: number eleven. Let's start the wadding from verse two palms
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  Speaker 3: eleven from verse what two? And I like everyone to
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  Speaker 3: fix their gaze as we study different scriptures today. If
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  Speaker 3: you're there, say hey, man, now look at this. For
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  Speaker 3: lo the wicked bend their bow. They make ready their
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  Speaker 3: harrow upon the string that they may what previoly shoot
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  Speaker 3: at what they upright?
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  Speaker 2: Where? Up right? Where in art?
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  Speaker 3: So it means that the devil has special interest in
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  Speaker 3: your heart. He has special interests in your heart. Now
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  Speaker 3: look at these three Now let's read this. I wanted
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  Speaker 3: to go if the foundations be destroyed, please do you mind?
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  Speaker 3: Can we take these three more times? Two more times,
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  Speaker 3: last time? If the foundation is out of place? So
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  Speaker 3: the foundation of our lives. When you're building, the foundation
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  Speaker 3: is the first structure that is built or erected intentionally,
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  Speaker 3: depending on the destination of the building. Okay, So how
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  Speaker 3: far the building will go is not determined by your intentions.
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  Speaker 3: It is determined by the success at the foundation level.
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  Speaker 3: So if you get the foundation level wrong, even with
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  Speaker 3: the best intentions, you will have to stop somewhere.
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  Speaker 2: Is that okay? Now, so the.
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  Speaker 3: Devil has seen that one of the ways to strategically.
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  Speaker 3: And when we talk about warfare against our souls, second
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  Speaker 3: Corinthians tend from these four says that from these three says, for.
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  Speaker 2: Though we walk in the flesh, we do not walk
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  Speaker 2: after the flesh.
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  Speaker 3: But the weapons of our warfare are not carnal, but
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  Speaker 3: mighty to God for the pulling down of strong golds
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  Speaker 3: castle imaginations.
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  Speaker 2: And listen to this whenever you hear warfare.
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  Speaker 3: Don't think might, think strategy, think strategy. It is only
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  Speaker 3: strategic to eat a man at the point that you
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  Speaker 3: will remain continuously eat it. And if there's any time
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  Speaker 3: in a man's life that if you eat him wrongly,
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  Speaker 3: and I mean any human now it is as do
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  Speaker 3: you have eat the person for the rest of his life.
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  Speaker 3: It is the season of his childhood. That's the place
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  Speaker 3: you see sometimes we ignore.
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  Speaker 2: The idea of raising children.
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  Speaker 3: And permit me to pose here to give us a
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  Speaker 3: better sense of purpose around the subject of marriage and parents.
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  Speaker 2: And listen to this.
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  Speaker 3: You cannot and let me say this, it will be
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  Speaker 3: wickedness to decide to marry a wrong person because you
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  Speaker 3: know time is going forgetting that that person becomes the environment.
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  Speaker 2: Of your true It is wickedness.
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  Speaker 3: You should not set you to marry someone whose mentality
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  Speaker 3: you don't want to see in your next generation. So
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  Speaker 3: the idea of marriage goes beyond the ability to contribute
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  Speaker 3: good genes to make the children look good and then
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  Speaker 3: batter their minds. It's a responsibility that God has given
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  Speaker 3: to you.
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  Speaker 2: As singles, for those who are still single.
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  Speaker 3: To be intentional about knowing the one for whom or
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  Speaker 3: with whom God has ordained you will spend the rest
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  Speaker 3: of your life. And that must be bettered, but not
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  Speaker 3: in the way. So parenting now is a very sacred responsibility.
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  Speaker 2: And let me say this.
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  Speaker 3: We are still dealing with traumas and associated with parents
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  Speaker 3: of the last generations, and yet we are dealing with
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  Speaker 3: a generation who have no sense of sacrifice. We are
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  Speaker 3: dealing with fathers who don't want to be fathers and
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  Speaker 3: mothers who don't want to be mothers.
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  Speaker 2: The trauma of the next generation will be.
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  Speaker 3: Greater because it is one It is possible to be
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  Speaker 3: pinned and yet become worse than those worths you.
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  Speaker 2: It is possible to be.
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  Speaker 3: Grieved and yet become worse than those who grift you.
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  Speaker 3: You are not ready to walk down the aisle, if
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  Speaker 3: you are not ready to commit. If you're a man
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  Speaker 3: who believing sleeping around, don't bring an innocent girl to sofer.
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  Speaker 2: You are a woman who believe you are.
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  Speaker 3: I don't know what gene I should put you, reigien
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  Speaker 3: zero or gen alpha. And your mentality about marriage is
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  Speaker 3: fire for fire, stay a looon for your while, and
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  Speaker 3: fire yourself. Don't bring children into that atmosphere where they'll
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  Speaker 3: be erecked because of your decisions. Because before I start
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  Speaker 3: teaching you and you feel like the victim, let me
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  Speaker 3: help you not to grow to become a villain.
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  Speaker 2: There are boys and there are girls. You see pastor
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  Speaker 2: please come. This is.
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  Speaker 3: In mathematics. There's something we'll call an integer. So let's
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  Speaker 3: it is a negative integer. Please come, sir. No, okay,
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  Speaker 3: Let me use a lady, let me use his wife. Ah, okay,
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  Speaker 3: And this is a positive integer. Let's say this is
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  Speaker 3: my nose two. And let's say this is plus two.
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  Speaker 3: This lady has walked extra she's a plus these guys
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  Speaker 3: abandoned themselves.
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  Speaker 2: He's a my nose.
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  Speaker 3: She believes that because of the level of training I received,
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  Speaker 3: what I know and all that when I meet any man,
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  Speaker 3: what I know will overshadowing plus two my nose two.
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  Speaker 2: The ansize Zeo.
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  Speaker 3: I'm saying that there are people that your own training
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  Speaker 3: can only play. You must let God do his work,
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  Speaker 3: and it must be clear he has worked, even if
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  Speaker 3: you will say I do. They are disasters waiting to happen.
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  Speaker 3: It takes those that their prayer partners have left to
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  Speaker 3: marry them. And I say this again, why we understand
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  Speaker 3: that the truck is a spiritual clinic.
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  Speaker 2: The disastrous are also there too.
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  Speaker 3: There are wolves, there are sheep, there are golds, there
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  Speaker 3: are lions.
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  Speaker 2: You see listen to this. Listen.
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  Speaker 3: What is also, Peter is follow me. I will make
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  Speaker 3: you fish, as of what men Ah. When you fish,
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  Speaker 3: you don't just catch fish. You can catch a snake too. Oh, yes,
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  Speaker 3: you can catch a poisonous fish. The one that you
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  Speaker 3: have to know how the skin it. If not, that's
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  Speaker 3: your last meal on it. That you find the person
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  Speaker 3: in church doesn't mean you've seen a child of God. No, no.
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  Speaker 2: Is that okay? Now?
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  Speaker 3: So I'm putting a disclaimer to it. Oh the fact
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  Speaker 3: the way I knew is my husband was that that
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  Speaker 3: day I saw it my round appostal disclaimer. Listen, the
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  Speaker 3: concept of building a family is laid on the foundation
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  Speaker 3: of sacri fights. If you want to be right, always,
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  Speaker 3: don't start your home. You can't take no sense, No,
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  Speaker 3: go on Twitter, join the girls, shout, go on, rampage,
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  Speaker 3: do all those things. You see why a girl is
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  Speaker 3: kneeling down a wedding day to serve the husband drink?
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  Speaker 3: You're angry?
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  Speaker 4: What's that?
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  Speaker 2: I don't do all those things? Ah? This this, this,
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  Speaker 2: this this rex rex rex rex. Lock yourself in the room,
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  Speaker 2: beat top of your own vexin. Don't bring that plague
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  Speaker 2: and hang around.
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  Speaker 3: Someone is trusting God for a destiny partner, not a problem.
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  Speaker 3: And let me tell you this. You see this still
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  Speaker 3: cold pressure. One of the things it does is that
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  Speaker 3: a bland. You are reasoning that you see a person.
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  Speaker 3: But let's do it on time. It is not for
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  Speaker 3: those doing it on time, but for those doing it right.
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  Speaker 2: Take your time.
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  Speaker 3: Don't get to the point that you will wish you did.
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  Speaker 3: Take your time. Be sure, ask questions. Look at our
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  Speaker 3: mind and his mind. It is not the best colors
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  Speaker 3: that will raise your children or the best food. Let's
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  Speaker 3: believe that those questions are using less questions. You are
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  Speaker 3: not a chef, and even if you are, you are
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  Speaker 3: not going to cook all your life. True or not true.
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  Speaker 3: It was your best food. So I like, I like
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  Speaker 3: spiced gisat. Please spaceit that thank you say, I hear
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  Speaker 3: say it again.
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  Speaker 2: I hear.
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  Speaker 3: You owe it to God and to his investment upon
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  Speaker 3: your life to marry right. And I've said this again
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  Speaker 3: and again. People went on a rampage. The church was
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  Speaker 3: lent normal lives. Breakup is part of life. There's nothing
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  Speaker 3: special about it. It is Listen to what I'm saying.
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  Speaker 3: It is possible that these people have passed us in
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  Speaker 3: church and the field. They are not good for each other,
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  Speaker 3: is normal. Never marry anything. They will see talk last
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  Speaker 3: last because somebody who was sharing a smooth other time
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  Speaker 3: and then say it tipayer.
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  Speaker 2: I don't know what that means.
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  Speaker 3: But because see see last last, everybody will leave your
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  Speaker 3: issue and face their problem. You want to get married,
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  Speaker 3: and all your thinking is about as fine as you are,
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  Speaker 3: as fine as is when you come together to produce you.
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  Speaker 3: Then how fine there will be that your thoughts? Have
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  Speaker 3: you seen fine children who have been messed up with
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  Speaker 3: a very brutal manner?
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  Speaker 2: Please be careful? Is that okay? Now?
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  Speaker 3: That foundation needs to be laid. Marriage is very honorable.
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  Speaker 3: It is not to rush into.
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  Speaker 2: Mm hmm. If you are not ready to commit, don't
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  Speaker 2: marry yet.
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  Speaker 3: The guy doesn't do church. He says he works from home.
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  Speaker 3: H no personal around can pastor in because he's given
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  Speaker 3: to the world and you like him like that.
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  Speaker 2: He's my own, my only one, my one and only h.
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  Speaker 3: I don't even do any kind of marriage where any
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  Speaker 3: pastor will call me and my wife where we are,
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  Speaker 3: we are. We are men in our own right. Your
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  Speaker 3: definition of masculinity is to be one that has no
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  Speaker 3: sense of accountability. What a way to be a man,
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  Speaker 3: And that in itself is a sign of low service
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  Speaker 3: thing because you feel once there is someone who provides
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  Speaker 3: instruction and guidance, they are If you're in your space,
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  Speaker 3: what do you think about yourself? How do you perceive yourself?
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  Speaker 3: What makes you feel like a man? Is it money
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  Speaker 3: or the ability to control a woman? What makes you
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  Speaker 3: feel like a man? That's why When many men go broke,
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  Speaker 3: they lose it because the only thing that makes them
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  Speaker 3: feel like a man is the money. What's masculinity beyond money?
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  Speaker 3: Say if you don't have money, now say women. You
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  Speaker 3: don't just have women. If a woman is any more
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  Speaker 3: than you must find a way to bring that down
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  Speaker 3: to your level so you can obey. It is not
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  Speaker 3: control that makes men, it is leadership. Some women say
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  Speaker 3: I can't marry a man. I don't when they do
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  Speaker 3: married vowels I don't do to submit and to obey.
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  Speaker 2: Let me tell you something.
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  Speaker 3: The reason why you don't do that is because you updated.
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  Speaker 2: Fools all your life. If you date a really, if.
• 25:15
  Speaker 3: You listen to what I'm saying, if you get involved.
• 25:18
  Speaker 2: With a real leader, you will know.
• 25:20
  Speaker 3: You will not know when you submit. Submission is not demanded,
• 25:25
  Speaker 3: it is commanded. In life compels you. You sitity leadership
• 25:28
  Speaker 3: you've not seen in your previous generation. You are compelled
• 25:31
  Speaker 3: to honor him. You don't know why you say my
• 25:34
  Speaker 3: king because he is And if that's still your feeling,
• 25:40
  Speaker 3: is a sign you are dating a fool right now?
• 25:43
  Speaker 2: Burk it. I don't care your age. Are you there?
• 25:54
  Speaker 3: Let me tell you something. Let me tell you. I'm
• 25:58
  Speaker 3: not even I'm going to start, But let me tell something. No,
• 26:01
  Speaker 3: I need to talk to you. Are you there? Let
• 26:06
  Speaker 3: me tell you something. Masculinity is on the attack because
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  Speaker 3: leadership is becoming scarce amongst men. Leadership is demonstrated with
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  Speaker 3: the lifestyle, not with the words that you follow God
• 26:22
  Speaker 3: in the persuading way that your children want to be
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  Speaker 3: like you.
• 26:24
  Speaker 2: That's leadership. That's leadership.
• 26:27
  Speaker 3: Now we go on line and see girls and talk
• 26:32
  Speaker 3: about sexual life and what they've done with their body online,
• 26:36
  Speaker 3: and they know that when it's time to set you,
• 26:40
  Speaker 3: they will not struggle. And the good ones struggle. They
• 26:44
  Speaker 3: know that because they know that we're in the air
• 26:47
  Speaker 3: of foolishness amongst men. What's left of them is testies.
• 26:50
  Speaker 3: They're gone. That's those left. They're gone.
• 26:54
  Speaker 2: It's there, all foolishness.
• 26:55
  Speaker 3: See people come in charge and get angry and say
• 27:00
  Speaker 3: past us this, past us that, and the online so
• 27:04
  Speaker 3: I can die for my I can die for what
• 27:06
  Speaker 3: you do, and they.
• 27:08
  Speaker 2: Come to church.
• 27:09
  Speaker 3: It is when it's torch matters the events. You are
• 27:14
  Speaker 3: not a man, just a boy who needs to be
• 27:21
  Speaker 3: trained and taught.
• 27:24
  Speaker 2: Are you still there? Or should I hand them so
• 27:28
  Speaker 2: let me balance it.
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  Speaker 3: There are girls who deserve to be single all their lives.
• 27:40
  Speaker 2: The Bible said it is better.
• 27:41
  Speaker 3: To dwell in the corner of a house than to
• 27:44
  Speaker 3: be with a contentious woman. The girl has the capacity
• 27:47
  Speaker 3: for peace, trouble, fire everywhere, born, no respect nor regard nothing.
• 28:02
  Speaker 3: And they believe if I can't wave my weeks like this,
• 28:05
  Speaker 3: I will get a man.
• 28:06
  Speaker 2: You will get a foolish one.
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  Speaker 3: You know when David was going to kill her instept
• 28:13
  Speaker 3: putting where the battle is years. But let the villiant
• 28:16
  Speaker 3: men withdraw from him. There are men that the villiant
• 28:19
  Speaker 3: men have left. Be careful. Take your time. You will
• 28:32
  Speaker 3: wish you did. Take your time, Take your time and
• 28:42
  Speaker 3: prepare yourself. Now listen to this. Waiting is not just
• 28:46
  Speaker 3: the passage of time. Waiting is a process for building
• 28:52
  Speaker 3: that has been five years since the last man asked you?
• 28:54
  Speaker 3: What doesn't mean you're waiting? You might be decaying, just
• 29:00
  Speaker 3: getting bad and worse.
• 29:05
  Speaker 2: Here I choose to wait correctly. Now.
• 29:11
  Speaker 3: I asked you a question while I was teaching this before,
• 29:13
  Speaker 3: that if anybody marries you now as the person being
• 29:16
  Speaker 3: favored or judged now here this hear me, hear me
• 29:22
  Speaker 3: The answer to that is not in screaming, but by
• 29:25
  Speaker 3: what to make out of your spouse.
• 29:28
  Speaker 2: There are hunters and their gardeners.
• 29:29
  Speaker 3: There are people that the last phase of a girl's
• 29:32
  Speaker 3: beauty is a wedding day. From that moment going forward,
• 29:37
  Speaker 3: she begins to shrink and depreciate till she looked like
• 29:40
  Speaker 3: a witch. It will bring or that way mad, They
• 29:42
  Speaker 3: will don't I it will do many things.
• 29:45
  Speaker 2: But she married him like that. There are demons in
• 29:55
  Speaker 2: captain the way.
• 30:00
  Speaker 3: Yeah, there are people now whose mentality about marriage is
• 30:08
  Speaker 3: it's just for the moment. Imagine someone who is marrying
• 30:13
  Speaker 3: someone just for the moment, and the person's intention is
• 30:18
  Speaker 3: to do it for life. You wonder why you are
• 30:21
  Speaker 3: making effort, but that person is pulling it down because
• 30:25
  Speaker 3: you didn't ask the person how long do you intend
• 30:29
  Speaker 3: to go with me? So why do you love me?
• 30:33
  Speaker 3: Say that time as you passed, As you passed and
• 30:40
  Speaker 3: I look at you, I said, what is this?
• 30:45
  Speaker 2: Mh huh.
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  Speaker 5: H.
• 30:51
  Speaker 2: Then you now he had the girl his sister namber
• 30:54
  Speaker 2: nothing and as he said, the uh, she's shaking it,
• 31:01
  Speaker 2: shaking it. Uh.
• 31:03
  Speaker 3: You know what she's said, This is all I've got.
• 31:06
  Speaker 3: That's all my assets front and back, not in here?
• 31:14
  Speaker 2: What do you have apart from what do you have? Married? Mentality?
• 31:28
  Speaker 3: Not just beauty. Now I use the word not just beauty,
• 31:40
  Speaker 3: not just hold on a minute, so you will not
• 31:46
  Speaker 3: say it's not that you find but I married her
• 31:49
  Speaker 3: as a dealer from God. When Adam saw ives message impressed,
• 31:55
  Speaker 3: what he use was wow, if your honest?
• 31:59
  Speaker 2: Yeah? So you.
• 32:06
  Speaker 5: Is that?
• 32:06
  Speaker 2: Okay? Now listen to what I'm saying.
• 32:10
  Speaker 3: There are many people who felt religion push them to
• 32:14
  Speaker 3: marry the person they don't love.
• 32:18
  Speaker 2: Now we are telling you, do you love the person?
• 32:22
  Speaker 2: Don't say I trust God? I trust God. You know.
• 32:28
  Speaker 3: That's why when we did the interview with the couple
• 32:31
  Speaker 3: admissionary couple who said when they went after the woman
• 32:34
  Speaker 3: he didn't like, I had to ask them, that are
• 32:38
  Speaker 3: you saying you've done marriage for thirty seven years and
• 32:41
  Speaker 3: you have no affection towards her.
• 32:43
  Speaker 2: So he said he came how he came.
• 32:46
  Speaker 3: I said, they will have to decide because of the
• 32:48
  Speaker 3: errors with which he came. And what to do you
• 32:52
  Speaker 3: now said, you are my wilderness gifts.
• 32:57
  Speaker 2: Be careful now pay attention.
• 33:03
  Speaker 3: Many people do marriage wrongly forgetting that they are going
• 33:06
  Speaker 3: to be the environment around which the next generation will
• 33:09
  Speaker 3: be raised, thoughts and built. As many of those who
• 33:17
  Speaker 3: are seated are still trapped in the pain and the
• 33:27
  Speaker 3: effect of the kind of environment.
• 33:30
  Speaker 2: They were raised and not bringing is a very serious thing.
• 33:36
  Speaker 3: Look at what the Bible said in Proverbs twenty two,
• 33:39
  Speaker 3: verse six. Look at what the Bible says in Proverbs
• 33:43
  Speaker 3: twenty two verse six. If you're there, say man, Proverbs
• 33:51
  Speaker 3: chapter number twenty two, verse six.
• 33:54
  Speaker 2: Train up a child in the way.
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  Speaker 3: He should go, and when is old, it will not
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  Speaker 3: depart from it. The amplified about this is very serious.
• 34:16
  Speaker 3: Look at the amplified train of a child in the
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  Speaker 3: way should go and keeping with his individual gift or bend.
• 34:28
  Speaker 2: That's a serious word now, and when he is old,
• 34:35
  Speaker 2: it will not.
• 34:36
  Speaker 3: Depart from it. Fruits don't fall far from the trees.
• 34:43
  Speaker 3: The foundation season of your life forms so much. It
• 34:51
  Speaker 3: forms your perspective, It forms your ideologies, It forms your
• 34:56
  Speaker 3: perception about the reality, It forms your perception about marriage.
• 35:00
  Speaker 2: It forms so much.
• 35:02
  Speaker 3: It forgies the kind of individual that you will grow
• 35:06
  Speaker 3: up to be. And that's why you can hear a
• 35:08
  Speaker 3: professor at seventy speak about the upbringing, because there is
• 35:14
  Speaker 3: something about it that doesn't go.
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  Speaker 2: Away, better good or bad.
• 35:25
  Speaker 3: The way you see life, the way you react towards life,
• 35:31
  Speaker 3: the way you talk, the way you see people, the
• 35:35
  Speaker 3: way you passive marriage, the way you passive you opposite sex,
• 35:40
  Speaker 3: the way you passive yourself, the way you perssive your giftings,
• 35:44
  Speaker 3: the way you passive your abilities.
• 35:46
  Speaker 2: They're all formed by your childhood experiences. Who are you out?
• 35:58
  Speaker 2: Do you see yourself.
• 36:03
  Speaker 3: When you try to remember growing up? What comes to
• 36:10
  Speaker 3: your my ear? How do you see your giftings? Let's
• 36:18
  Speaker 3: start from simple things. Do you think or do you believe?
• 36:23
  Speaker 2: You are fine?
• 36:25
  Speaker 3: It all depends on those who from the concept of
• 36:29
  Speaker 3: you to you. Do you feel you're handsome? Do you
• 36:37
  Speaker 3: feel you're beautiful? Do you still feel you are biggest?
• 36:43
  Speaker 3: Do you still feel you are tiny? Do you still
• 36:47
  Speaker 3: feel you are all? Do you still feel you are unprofitable?
• 36:54
  Speaker 3: Do you still feel your head dwarf? Many of these
• 36:59
  Speaker 3: names doesn't go away in our minds, and sometimes they
• 37:06
  Speaker 3: they form a niche. You see, if you take a
• 37:11
  Speaker 3: rope and tie a horse to this tree, and you
• 37:17
  Speaker 3: do that consistently for months, even when you put the
• 37:22
  Speaker 3: rope around the horse, and refuse to tie to the tree.
• 37:27
  Speaker 3: They all still won't leave because the object that is
• 37:30
  Speaker 3: now holding it down, it's the mind. Sometimes you have
• 37:34
  Speaker 3: left the abusive past.
• 37:38
  Speaker 2: There you've left. You are no longer.
• 37:49
  Speaker 3: Around the wicked antea, the abusive father, the wicked step mother.
• 37:56
  Speaker 3: And there is a misconception that people have now when
• 37:59
  Speaker 3: we talk about this functional background, it has only to.
• 38:03
  Speaker 2: Do with those who from broken homes.
• 38:06
  Speaker 3: There are homes where fathers and mothers are together that
• 38:09
  Speaker 3: is more dysfunctional than the broken home. There are single
• 38:15
  Speaker 3: and I say this with all sense of responsibility to
• 38:17
  Speaker 3: the church, that there are single mothers and single fathers
• 38:27
  Speaker 3: who are better off with their children there.
• 38:31
  Speaker 2: Than to raise the child around that fool.
• 38:37
  Speaker 3: The devil has used fear to keep people in places
• 38:41
  Speaker 3: where they died and the children are left to wonder.
• 38:46
  Speaker 3: One of the prayers I've been praying for you is
• 38:48
  Speaker 3: that God will keep you alive for your kids. Maybe
• 38:52
  Speaker 3: you didn't like the prayer, you know. One time, Yes,
• 39:00
  Speaker 3: I just jokingly asked my wife and I just said,
• 39:04
  Speaker 3: who is going to sit with me to interview me
• 39:06
  Speaker 3: for stories? I've listened to many experiences that I've carried
• 39:14
  Speaker 3: with people I interview, and I said to my wife
• 39:17
  Speaker 3: that even the most go everyone can be fitted into
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  Speaker 3: one month of my experience.
• 39:25
  Speaker 2: And sometimes you carry these things and.
• 39:28
  Speaker 3: You just see, you see, some of us have fought
• 39:31
  Speaker 3: through life to be able to deliver life from death
• 39:37
  Speaker 3: because when the devil handled your childhood, it wanted to
• 39:41
  Speaker 3: kill you there because it's afraid of what you can become.
• 39:46
  Speaker 3: So all the attempts, all the efforts, all the things.
• 39:50
  Speaker 3: Don't wait to make sure that this one doesn't come out.
• 39:56
  Speaker 3: Do everything possible to silence, break this try and make
• 40:01
  Speaker 3: sure this one does in rise, kill the night in
• 40:03
  Speaker 3: imo sometimes as the battle strategy around your childhood that
• 40:09
  Speaker 3: you've got to understand so you cannot cooperate with the
• 40:12
  Speaker 3: devil to kill you at the time he wants to
• 40:14
  Speaker 3: kill you. You've got to keep bouncing back. The abuse,
• 40:19
  Speaker 3: the insult, the lock, the de brevity, they're all part
• 40:24
  Speaker 3: of an awsome strategy to make sure you don't come
• 40:27
  Speaker 3: out the father you had will beat your mother and
• 40:36
  Speaker 3: cheat on her, or the one who'll never look back
• 40:39
  Speaker 3: his man attack. It's more of an attack on you
• 40:42
  Speaker 3: than just that woman. It is attacked by proxy. And
• 40:47
  Speaker 3: if I can't face an hovel towards you. Let me
• 40:50
  Speaker 3: face it on an incision that you belong to. So
• 40:53
  Speaker 3: when I kill the institution, you die in it. You've
• 40:58
  Speaker 3: got to understand that that the devil wants to waken
• 41:03
  Speaker 3: your foundation and many of you, and you are still
• 41:06
  Speaker 3: battling with the past. You see, when a child is
• 41:12
  Speaker 3: exposed to pain, the body will go on to grow,
• 41:17
  Speaker 3: but the child is still trapped in the old body.
• 41:22
  Speaker 3: It can be so bad that you can desire that
• 41:27
  Speaker 3: there are meetings that need to hold so you can
• 41:29
  Speaker 3: explain what happened twenty years ago. It can be so
• 41:35
  Speaker 3: bad that you can't desire that ever, individuals wanting to
• 41:39
  Speaker 3: come back from the dead so you can talk to
• 41:42
  Speaker 3: them to their faces that what you think about me
• 41:45
  Speaker 3: is really not to It can be so bad that
• 41:47
  Speaker 3: you need justice about matters of many decades.
• 41:52
  Speaker 2: You know why, because you are still trapped now.
• 41:58
  Speaker 3: They look at you and says, see how much grown,
• 42:01
  Speaker 3: But indepthly you are still there.
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  Speaker 2: My nes prayer.
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  Speaker 3: Is that this morning God will bring you out, and
• 42:21
  Speaker 3: they get men to that it will bring you out,
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  Speaker 3: and it will heal all that needs to be healed.
• 42:31
  Speaker 2: Money doesn't take away child, do trauma. It doesn't.
• 42:38
  Speaker 3: More friends doesn't take it away. More degrees doesn't take
• 42:44
  Speaker 3: it away. More women doesn't take it away. More men doesn't.
• 42:52
  Speaker 2: Take it away.
• 42:54
  Speaker 3: Enjoying nice vacations doesn't take it away. There is the healer,
• 42:59
  Speaker 3: the one who can go to our past and restore
• 43:03
  Speaker 3: the years that the locals and the tanker worms have eaten.
• 43:06
  Speaker 3: There is a void in the heart of a man
• 43:08
  Speaker 3: that only God can heal, because if you are not careful,
• 43:14
  Speaker 3: many of the things you now begin to do and
• 43:16
  Speaker 3: pursue will be an attempt to feel in the void
• 43:19
  Speaker 3: of the old days. You can marry someone to silence
• 43:25
  Speaker 3: the abusers of your past, and you can see in
• 43:29
  Speaker 3: an abusive marriage because they said, we know it will
• 43:32
  Speaker 3: not work. And then you now rather die there than
• 43:37
  Speaker 3: to work out, even when you know you are dying.
• 43:41
  Speaker 3: And by workout, I mean separate for a while and
• 43:44
  Speaker 3: let them be repaired. And there are cases that we
• 43:49
  Speaker 3: have seen that this person doesn't have what it takes
• 43:54
  Speaker 3: to fulfill God's planning.
• 43:55
  Speaker 2: This pers in his life. What do we do. You
• 44:03
  Speaker 2: can pursue a degree.
• 44:05
  Speaker 3: You can pursue degrees just to answer the questions of
• 44:07
  Speaker 3: your person. You want to ask yourself, why are you
• 44:10
  Speaker 3: doing what you're doing? Why are you doing what you're doing?
• 44:16
  Speaker 3: There might be insults I have been hanging in your mind,
• 44:18
  Speaker 3: things that they said. We know you can't do. We
• 44:21
  Speaker 3: know you can't amount to anything. We know you can't
• 44:23
  Speaker 3: become anything. We know you can't get a degree. We
• 44:27
  Speaker 3: know you are not smart. We know you can't stay
• 44:29
  Speaker 3: with the husband. We know you can't stay with a wife.
• 44:34
  Speaker 3: And you abandoned your direction to prove them wrong. You
• 44:39
  Speaker 3: are still trapped in your childhood mind. There are people
• 44:47
  Speaker 3: who are afraid of going to school to add more
• 44:49
  Speaker 3: degrees because of what the secondary school teacher said. There
• 44:57
  Speaker 3: are people who believe they are not intelligent because of
• 45:01
  Speaker 3: what sometimes what even their parent said. Have you seen
• 45:09
  Speaker 3: the case of parents who compare children with each other?
• 45:12
  Speaker 3: You are not as smart as your sister, You are
• 45:14
  Speaker 3: not as smart as your brother. Look at you, what
• 45:17
  Speaker 3: are you good for? You don't bring me joy? This
• 45:20
  Speaker 3: is my hope of tomorrow. This is the one where
• 45:22
  Speaker 3: I'm going to look up to you. I will not
• 45:23
  Speaker 3: expect anything from you or think who speaks as though.
• 45:27
  Speaker 2: They are God?
• 45:34
  Speaker 3: And sometimes parents look at their children and make them
• 45:38
  Speaker 3: eternal enemies. You compare them with every opportunity you have.
• 45:47
  Speaker 3: Some will even called their children so in Jacob. There
• 45:54
  Speaker 3: are parents who go on to tell their children you're
• 45:57
  Speaker 3: a mistake. There are parents who perceive the children as
• 46:02
  Speaker 3: the reward for their mistakes. They see the child as
• 46:06
  Speaker 3: a possibility that ought.
• 46:07
  Speaker 2: Not to be.
• 46:09
  Speaker 3: Never you think that you cannot have a dysfunctional experience
• 46:14
  Speaker 3: around your own blood. There are mothers waits their children
• 46:21
  Speaker 3: were perfect hatred, and there are fathers.
• 46:24
  Speaker 2: Who do the same. You wonder why.
• 46:28
  Speaker 3: Sometimes maybe the child remind them of what they ought
• 46:31
  Speaker 3: to be that they can never be, and they express
• 46:36
  Speaker 3: frustration on the child, and the devil is using them
• 46:41
  Speaker 3: successfully to kiel.
• 46:43
  Speaker 2: Something about the child. It's an attack.
• 46:55
  Speaker 3: On your mind, on your emotions, on your perception.
• 47:03
  Speaker 2: Of reality, of people, of life.
• 47:08
  Speaker 3: Sometimes the attack can be so much you decide I
• 47:12
  Speaker 3: will never get married. Sometimes you can't decide, I will
• 47:21
  Speaker 3: never marry from my village, I will never marry from
• 47:29
  Speaker 3: my place.
• 47:35
  Speaker 2: Sometimes you are right, sometimes you are wrong. How do
• 47:44
  Speaker 2: you know that you are still trapped in the past.
• 47:55
  Speaker 3: How do you know that you are still trapped in
• 47:57
  Speaker 3: your child would mind? One of the ways to know
• 48:03
  Speaker 3: is when you don't want to have any memory of it.
• 48:10
  Speaker 2: It ought to you. Your art keeps when you think
• 48:14
  Speaker 2: about it.
• 48:17
  Speaker 3: There are things you have removed from your mind, not
• 48:21
  Speaker 3: because you are better, but because you are better of
• 48:24
  Speaker 3: not remembering them. And sometimes you've normal that thoughts that
• 48:39
  Speaker 3: you barely remember anyone. But that doesn't mean it's not
• 48:44
  Speaker 3: in your subconscious because every now and then there are
• 48:48
  Speaker 3: things that reminds you of them, and you cry. When
• 48:53
  Speaker 3: Adam and Eve the voice of God, walking in the
• 48:58
  Speaker 3: cool of the evening in the garden, they eat themselves
• 49:06
  Speaker 3: and cover themselves with fig leaves, and they said, for
• 49:09
  Speaker 3: we are naked. And God said, who told you that
• 49:19
  Speaker 3: you are naked? He understood that that new consciousness they
• 49:27
  Speaker 3: had they now have. Someone said it, And the fact
• 49:34
  Speaker 3: that they said it doesn't mean it is correct. It
• 49:41
  Speaker 3: is possible to be here, and all you believe about
• 49:44
  Speaker 3: yourself is a lie. And before you know it, you
• 49:52
  Speaker 3: start behaving everything like the lie. Since they call you wicked,
• 49:57
  Speaker 3: you have become, since they call you daft, you start.
• 50:08
  Speaker 2: Behaving like that.
• 50:12
  Speaker 3: The tendency and the abilite for productivity began to die
• 50:17
  Speaker 3: when they said, we know you will not amount to anything,
• 50:22
  Speaker 3: And even when there are little other blocks and failures,
• 50:25
  Speaker 3: they will tell you we are not surprised, and you
• 50:32
  Speaker 3: start carrying yourself as one who I'm just here. One
• 50:39
  Speaker 3: of the very important questions you need to ask this
• 50:41
  Speaker 3: morning is the definition.
• 50:43
  Speaker 2: Of you that you have? Who gave you, who gave
• 50:50
  Speaker 2: you what you believe about yourself?
• 50:54
  Speaker 3: Who told you there are many of you now that
• 50:56
  Speaker 3: if we tell you you look good, you just use
• 51:01
  Speaker 3: religious statement to say bless God, or you are not
• 51:06
  Speaker 3: receiving it because you don't believe it is true. The
• 51:13
  Speaker 3: image that is still on your mind is the image
• 51:15
  Speaker 3: of your secondary school days where you have to track
• 51:18
  Speaker 3: and carry your bags on your head, and you don't
• 51:24
  Speaker 3: believe it. The definition of you that you have now,
• 51:28
  Speaker 3: who gave you? Ask your neighbor, who are you?
• 51:33
  Speaker 2: Who are you? Let me give you a bit of
• 51:38
  Speaker 2: a breakdown. I'm going to give you.
• 51:47
  Speaker 3: Fifteen signs that you are still trapped in your childhood.
• 51:54
  Speaker 2: Emotions or mind. Number one.
• 51:58
  Speaker 3: Fear a timidity when you are afraid, you're scared, you
• 52:06
  Speaker 3: are teamate, You're.
• 52:08
  Speaker 2: Not a bold person. Oftentimes, got someone that's talked courage
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  Speaker 2: and audacity out of you.
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  Speaker 3: Sometimes it can be because the father was missing one
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  Speaker 3: word to give a proper definition, one word to give
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  Speaker 3: a proper mentoring.
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  Speaker 2: And there are.
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  Speaker 3: Unfortunate cases that the father was better of missing was
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  Speaker 3: because it's a counterfeit of what the real father should be.
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  Speaker 3: The unfortunate case is that the mother was better of missing.
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  Speaker 3: And in fact, let me say this to you, there
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  Speaker 3: are cases of those who didn't grow up with either
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  Speaker 3: or both. Tonight it is actually missing so that God
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  Speaker 3: can fill in the gap. We're going to join it
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  Speaker 3: towards how to forgive and how to heal from all
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  Speaker 3: those tuffs but stilled me fear Second Molta, chapter number one,
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  Speaker 3: verse seven. It's a very popular scripture, but I want
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  Speaker 3: you to read it and personalize the reading. For God
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  Speaker 3: did not put your name there once to three ago.
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  Speaker 3: For God did not give familis us the spirit of timidity,
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  Speaker 3: of coward eyes, of craven and cringing and frowning fear.
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  Speaker 3: But He has given me the spirit of power and
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  Speaker 3: of love, and of a calm and well balanced mind
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  Speaker 3: and discipline and self control. I am not afraid, i
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  Speaker 3: am bold, I'm strong. I will no longer hide in
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  Speaker 3: the shadows and hide my giftings and hide for others
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  Speaker 3: to shine while.
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  Speaker 2: I remain reading. I will be pulled.
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  Speaker 3: I will manifest my potentials. I will become all that
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  Speaker 3: God wants me to become. I will do that all
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  Speaker 3: that God wants me to do. I will leave no
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  Speaker 3: stone unturned on turned from today, I step out of
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  Speaker 3: the shadows and I choose to be bold. I put
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  Speaker 3: off my old garments and I walk in boldness. Fear cleintain, fear,
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  Speaker 3: fear of being looked at, fear of being seen, fear
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  Speaker 3: of being heard, fear of being the only light, fear
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  Speaker 3: of success, fear of succeeding because all those who tried
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  Speaker 3: to either died or failed again, and you are now
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  Speaker 3: afraid that. Let me just be an average person. Maybe
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  Speaker 3: I will last longer that way. Fear of people's remarks
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  Speaker 3: and opinions. You want to write that down. Fear of
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  Speaker 3: what they think. You're always thinking, how do they see me?
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  Speaker 3: How do they perceive me? Up, I'm not going to
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  Speaker 3: be left alone here now. The way it looks like
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  Speaker 3: there's love here up the world is not going to
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  Speaker 3: happen again. You're anticipating being hot, You're expecting a fracas.
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  Speaker 3: You're expecting, Oh, this charge now that looks like everything
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  Speaker 3: is happy. Soon now they will know my character and
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  Speaker 3: they're going to leave me now. And that's your mind.
• 55:32
  Speaker 3: That's not Christ. That's your mind. That's not Christ. That
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  Speaker 3: when things are looking beautiful, I know, I know it
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  Speaker 3: doesn't always last.
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  Speaker 2: That's your mind.
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  Speaker 3: That when someone loves you say I know, it's because
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  Speaker 3: they don't know me enough. That's your mind. That's not Christ.
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  Speaker 2: That when a man comes to your life is because
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  Speaker 2: it doesn't know my past. That's your mind. That's not Christ.
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  Speaker 3: God has not given us the spirit of fear and timidity,
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  Speaker 3: the fear of people's remarks and opinions, the fear of
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  Speaker 3: starting again. If I let this go, where do I
• 56:20
  Speaker 3: start from? I'd rather stay with what is bad, because
• 56:25
  Speaker 3: I think this one came by luck. I don't think
• 56:28
  Speaker 3: I have what it takes to attract anyone. Fear of
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  Speaker 3: being left alone, fear of being left alone and sometimes
• 56:39
  Speaker 3: even by an abuser. You can abuse me, but don't
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  Speaker 3: leave me. I've been left alone for so long. Don't go.
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  Speaker 3: And when people see that you are afraid of them
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  Speaker 3: and leaving you, they will haunt you with rejection. In life,
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  Speaker 3: we breathain and breath out. We gain and we lose,
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  Speaker 3: and it's all part of life. Some will come and
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  Speaker 3: promise you even and earth and they will go.
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  Speaker 2: God help you.
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  Speaker 3: You are not looking at that person as the definition
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  Speaker 3: of escape from generational pattern because the.
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  Speaker 2: Devil is going to kick you right there.
• 57:40
  Speaker 3: The ultimate definition of deliverance is chising you the hope
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  Speaker 3: of glory.
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  Speaker 2: That's it. Even when prophesses aligned.
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  Speaker 3: People can still walk out of your life, and what
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  Speaker 3: God has said to you still remains. God has said
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  Speaker 3: you will marry a man of God, and the man
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  Speaker 3: of God broke your heart. And now here's an engineer
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  Speaker 3: asking you out.
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  Speaker 2: Does that mean?
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  Speaker 3: Girl can call him? And what's your definition of a
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  Speaker 3: man of God? The ability to hold mic because there
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  Speaker 3: are devils holding mics. Fear crippling fears, fear of repeating patterns,
• 58:34
  Speaker 3: and sometimes when people are afraid of repeating patterns.
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  Speaker 2: They end up in much more abuse. Oh, my mother
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  Speaker 2: raised me as a single mother.
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  Speaker 3: If I leave him, I'm going to become a single mother. Game.
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  Speaker 3: But you're dying and the child is there's this sorther one.
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  Speaker 3: The fear of being criticized. Don't criticize what I've done,
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  Speaker 3: because when they criticize your works, you feel not accepted
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  Speaker 3: when they tell you there's something you didn't do well.
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  Speaker 3: You can owe the pain for days because now you
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  Speaker 3: hand your definition from works, you will hand your definition
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  Speaker 3: from approvals. You love it because that's what forms the
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  Speaker 3: way you see yourself. Why do you wait for people
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  Speaker 3: who know nothing about your life to define you? Because
• 59:44
  Speaker 3: they're gonna define you from their own lens of mediocrity
• 59:49
  Speaker 3: and sometimes altern hatred and sometimes jealousy like and people
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  Speaker 3: who are jealous of you. But yet you give them
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  Speaker 3: pain to write about you, and you will find ways
• 1:00:02
  Speaker 3: to talk you down to their level so they can
• 1:00:05
  Speaker 3: beat you with experience, fear of rejection, fear of being seen.
• 1:00:19
  Speaker 3: I can't come out, I can't face the crowd. You
• 1:00:23
  Speaker 3: mean all the church will be looking at me at once?
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  Speaker 2: Ah, However, that.
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  Speaker 3: Dicked the ground and enter what's wrong with being seen?
• 1:00:31
  Speaker 3: You are important? You are important? Willie you ever take
• 1:00:41
  Speaker 3: the stage in your life? And if yes, when there
• 1:00:48
  Speaker 3: are amazing things God is doing in your life, but
• 1:00:52
  Speaker 3: you will never step out to testify because you feel
• 1:00:58
  Speaker 3: you can't. You still remember when you sang special number
• 1:01:02
  Speaker 3: as a child and you went.
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  Speaker 2: Off key it's not left you.
• 1:01:10
  Speaker 3: And whenever you want to come out, you see yourself
• 1:01:12
  Speaker 3: as that little girl in that gown. Although now you
• 1:01:16
  Speaker 3: are mature and maybe a mother of children, but you
• 1:01:18
  Speaker 3: are still a child in there.
• 1:01:27
  Speaker 2: When will you be the voice in the room that
• 1:01:30
  Speaker 2: you will speak? And you know men should listen because
• 1:01:33
  Speaker 2: you have something to offer.
• 1:01:36
  Speaker 3: Enough of texting and sending messages whatever you want to say.
• 1:01:39
  Speaker 2: You heard that right. You can't speak.
• 1:01:44
  Speaker 3: You forced yourself to write because you don't want your
• 1:01:48
  Speaker 3: voice to be heard, and when they read it, you
• 1:01:51
  Speaker 3: hide your face, So don't read it while I'm watching.
• 1:02:00
  Speaker 2: Fear. Maybe your voice was in the head.
• 1:02:04
  Speaker 3: You grew up in a place where you were only
• 1:02:05
  Speaker 3: seeing another head, and now you feel your contribution doesn't matter.
• 1:02:09
  Speaker 3: You'd rather walk in the group and let someone else
• 1:02:12
  Speaker 3: take the glory for what you did. And I I said,
• 1:02:15
  Speaker 3: don't no, no worry, I don't need it.
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  Speaker 2: You too.
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  Speaker 3: Some of you have not been able to step into
• 1:02:26
  Speaker 3: fantastic establishment because you feel it's not for my kind.
• 1:02:34
  Speaker 2: The woman at the Well of Samaria spoke from trauma.
• 1:02:38
  Speaker 3: How can you, being a Jew speak with the Samaritan?
• 1:02:48
  Speaker 3: And when Jesus said, go and call your husband. The
• 1:02:54
  Speaker 3: response is I don't have, But she took time to explain,
• 1:03:00
  Speaker 3: you know why.
• 1:03:01
  Speaker 2: That's the language of trauma.
• 1:03:03
  Speaker 3: Sometimes they've asked you for something, I say, I know,
• 1:03:08
  Speaker 3: I know, I know I didn't do well.
• 1:03:09
  Speaker 2: I know, I know, I feel right, I know it.
• 1:03:12
  Speaker 2: Did you come away? I know who asked? You can
• 1:03:17
  Speaker 2: call your husband. I don't have.
• 1:03:20
  Speaker 3: I married one, he died, and then this one.
• 1:03:26
  Speaker 2: And Jesus said, I know. And even the one you
• 1:03:30
  Speaker 2: are with now is not your husband.
• 1:03:31
  Speaker 3: And Jesus did not say, bad woman, look at your
• 1:03:38
  Speaker 3: life so miserable and terrible, you are not worthy of
• 1:03:45
  Speaker 3: my attention.
• 1:03:48
  Speaker 2: No, he spoke, heeling to her soul that she.
• 1:03:52
  Speaker 3: Became so bold, went around start telling people, I've seen
• 1:03:56
  Speaker 3: the Messiah who told you you've.
• 1:03:58
  Speaker 2: Lost your ministry because something failed.
• 1:04:03
  Speaker 3: And now you feel at tety two, that's just broken
• 1:04:06
  Speaker 3: pieces of you, that's left some bee in your twenties,
• 1:04:10
  Speaker 3: movie in your forties and your fifties, you are thinking,
• 1:04:12
  Speaker 3: what's the left of me?
• 1:04:14
  Speaker 2: Let me just survive and just go. You are not
• 1:04:17
  Speaker 2: going anywhere.
• 1:04:20
  Speaker 3: You will finish, you will recover, you will hear, you
• 1:04:25
  Speaker 3: will bounce back, You will become all you have ever
• 1:04:29
  Speaker 3: dreamed up becoming we excused for you to conclude about yourself, it's.
• 1:04:35
  Speaker 2: Gonna go right where you are and bring you out.
• 1:04:43
  Speaker 3: Some girls think I can't keep a man, and when
• 1:04:50
  Speaker 3: a guy breaks their heart they say they know I'm guilty,
• 1:04:54
  Speaker 3: but you are not people they are quick to take blame.
• 1:05:00
  Speaker 3: Says me, it's me, it's me. I know myself, I
• 1:05:03
  Speaker 3: know I know it's me. You don't anything he's say,
• 1:05:06
  Speaker 3: just let me begging.
• 1:05:07
  Speaker 2: It's me. Many times it's not you.
• 1:05:13
  Speaker 3: You just grew up from a place where it was
• 1:05:15
  Speaker 3: unless you, and now you thought that if something is wrong,
• 1:05:20
  Speaker 3: it's you. No fears feel of making mistakes. I don't
• 1:05:33
  Speaker 3: want to make any mistake. You get a validation from perfection,
• 1:05:38
  Speaker 3: not in the way I sees you feel being an
• 1:05:42
  Speaker 3: object of attraction, of attention. I don't like why people
• 1:05:46
  Speaker 3: are being attention to me.
• 1:05:47
  Speaker 2: I don't like it. I just want to just do myself.
• 1:05:51
  Speaker 2: Lucky lucky.
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  Speaker 3: Fear of being seen. You are aware that people don'tant
• 1:05:58
  Speaker 3: to be seen. They don't want you to see them.
• 1:06:02
  Speaker 3: They just want to be around, but not around. Fear
• 1:06:07
  Speaker 3: of unleashing your potentials. Some can sing, they won't. Some
• 1:06:13
  Speaker 3: can speak, they won't. Some can write, they won't. Some
• 1:06:18
  Speaker 3: are qualified to write books, they won't write. Some are
• 1:06:21
  Speaker 3: qualified to start podcast, they won't start because they always
• 1:06:25
  Speaker 3: feel it won't be enough. And when they do things,
• 1:06:30
  Speaker 3: they will criticize it and tear it and criticize it
• 1:06:34
  Speaker 3: and bash it and say no, it's not good and
• 1:06:37
  Speaker 3: it's the best around. Why they just won't see it
• 1:06:40
  Speaker 3: for themselves. Then the way they sound, they hate the
• 1:06:45
  Speaker 3: way they sing. Then they wait for you to say
• 1:06:47
  Speaker 3: they did it well enough, Oh thank you? What if
• 1:06:52
  Speaker 3: they didn't say that you are important?
• 1:07:01
  Speaker 2: You must train yourself to fall in love with you. You
• 1:07:05
  Speaker 2: must love you first before anyone else can, because they
• 1:07:08
  Speaker 2: will treat you the way you feel about yourself.
• 1:07:14
  Speaker 3: Are you still there? I'm wrapping up now. You know
• 1:07:17
  Speaker 3: I've taken time. And sometimes it is fear of the unknown.
• 1:07:28
  Speaker 3: I just don't know. But I'm afraid.
• 1:07:35
  Speaker 2: Someone's still afraid of the dark because of the.
• 1:07:38
  Speaker 3: Old Madame Koikoi stories. They are grown now and there's
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  Speaker 3: no Madame Kui kay and they know. And when the
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  Speaker 3: light goes out, the panic because a child is still
• 1:07:53
  Speaker 3: in there than his freedom, than his freedom shouted exposed
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  Speaker 3: it to the Lord to heal you from Tuesday. I'm
• 1:08:09
  Speaker 3: going to talk about all the signs of being trapped
• 1:08:15
  Speaker 3: in your old self. I'm going to talk about people pleasing,
• 1:08:21
  Speaker 3: which is a very important one. I'm going to get
• 1:08:24
  Speaker 3: into the subject of trauma again. When you are raised
• 1:08:39
  Speaker 3: in an abusive environment, you are being taught to do
• 1:08:45
  Speaker 3: life true fear and intimidation. He doesn't live by itself
• 1:08:54
  Speaker 3: unless you give the Holy Spirit a space to deal
• 1:09:00
  Speaker 3: with it. All objects remains in the state of innatia,
• 1:09:06
  Speaker 3: arrest or sometimes consistent motion unless they are compelled to
• 1:09:13
  Speaker 3: change by an external force acting on them. You won't
• 1:09:21
  Speaker 3: heal with time. You heal when you allow Christ. Too
• 1:09:28
  Speaker 3: many cases have been mentioned this morning, and I know
• 1:09:32
  Speaker 3: that God is intentional about setting his own free. What
• 1:09:37
  Speaker 3: I want you to do is not to do religious things,
• 1:09:43
  Speaker 3: but in the next five minutes we're going to expose
• 1:09:47
  Speaker 3: our heart to God. See, let me tell you there's
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  Speaker 3: an atmosphere freedom of the spirit was nacali.
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  Speaker 2: We're going to raise the same sound again.
• 1:09:55
  Speaker 3: If you want to come out and just pour it
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  Speaker 3: out at the feet of the Savior. Eh, do it.
• 1:10:08
  Speaker 3: You know I've told you that you're not gonna be
• 1:10:09
  Speaker 3: afraid of expressing yourself. Maybe you start from there. If
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  Speaker 3: you want to lay down on the floor, you want
• 1:10:18
  Speaker 3: to kneel, But just let him know. I yielded to
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  Speaker 3: you this morning, and I will not live my life
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  Speaker 3: trapped in the.
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  Speaker 2: Abuses of my past, in the abuse of my growing up.
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  Speaker 2: I will not live in that. I yield myself to you.
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  Speaker 3: So go ahead before the Lord, every one of us,
• 1:10:42
  Speaker 3: and cry your eyes out.
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  Speaker 2: Hear me, completely help me. You took my place. You
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  Speaker 2: surely grace other crawl.
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  Speaker 6: Oh you took my shame.
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  Speaker 2: You showed me.
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  Speaker 5: Gras at the cross where you died for Army and
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  Speaker 5: his glovespies.
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  Speaker 4: Like glad.
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  Speaker 2: From the sun joy shades, Oh.
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  Speaker 6: To the sky he the nger scribes singing, wool leave,
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  Speaker 6: don load, and he's.
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  Speaker 4: Bees like glass.
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  Speaker 2: From the sun.
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  Speaker 4: Joy You shot.
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  Speaker 2: To the scan and he's the chill.
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  Speaker 4: Scrot singing who flee, singing.
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  Speaker 2: Please don Lord sink England, the ch seeking glue.
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  Speaker 3: And is the.
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  Speaker 2: Peace like the l.
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  Speaker 7: From the song.
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  Speaker 4: Choice change shop to the sky. The agents cry, my guy.
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  Speaker 7: The jel scribe seek sir jeels look to the.
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  Speaker 2: Scan and here the jee screw seal that to the Lord.
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  Speaker 2: Yielded to the Lord. Just yield.
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  Speaker 3: It's the bomb of guilliad the heels completely the heels.
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  Speaker 3: It removes the pain, the appeuse the distortion is in
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  Speaker 3: your emotions.
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  Speaker 2: M h way, bless you well, thank you the atient
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  Speaker 2: of this. M hm. There I am that I am
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  Speaker 2: take away the pain the heart.
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  Speaker 3: And the conditions is that's created, that is refusing to
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  Speaker 3: go away at the wind from your presence will blow
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  Speaker 3: and the weak will become strong. Your children becomes embuilding again,
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  Speaker 3: and strength is restored.
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  Speaker 2: Ill homes, ill hearts, ill try.
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  Speaker 3: He experiences, and let it be restoration and oldness again.
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  Speaker 2: We bless your father, and we give you all the
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  Speaker 2: praise for all that you have done in Jesus might
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  Speaker 2: teen name. We have prayed. Amen, Thank you Lord. Let's
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  Speaker 2: get up on our feet and thank Jesus.
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