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The-Mystery-of-Marriage · Apostle Joshua Selman

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  Speaker 1: By faith. We understand that the worlds were framed by
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  Speaker 1: the word of God. Faith comes by hearing and hearing
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  Speaker 1: by the word of God of eternity. Working International actually
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  Speaker 1: takes you on faith building journey into God's world. It's
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  Speaker 1: in it's partnership, it's friendship. This is what is really
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  Speaker 1: really going to change our mindsets in very strong ways.
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  Speaker 1: To night, can I have the brothers say Amen.
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  Speaker 2: Mhe yah, don't shout yet.
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  Speaker 1: We don't know how the flight will be. Hadelujah, What
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  Speaker 1: are you? Where you come for? Poinnonia? Just be solemn
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  Speaker 1: and let the world direct you allelujah. But I know
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  Speaker 1: we will be blessed. You know. I have a very
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  Speaker 1: creative mind, and so every time I sit down in minutes,
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  Speaker 1: my mind just goes off just thinking of so many things. Allelujah.
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  Speaker 1: My mind can travel around the world in seconds and
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  Speaker 1: return back. It's a gift of God, bean, and so
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  Speaker 1: I imagine a lot. You can You can just imagine
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  Speaker 1: when I sit down, I think of so many things
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  Speaker 1: at the same time. And while I just sat there
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  Speaker 1: all through the service, I was just thinking, my goodness,
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  Speaker 1: look at what God is doing in the lives of people.
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  Speaker 1: Let me tell you something when you permit the world
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  Speaker 1: please project Lamentations three twenty seven. Let's just look at it, say,
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  Speaker 1: scripture we have come to be very familiar with. Can
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  Speaker 1: you hear me outside? You need to hear me. If
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  Speaker 1: you're hearing me outside, can you say amen, please, God
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  Speaker 1: bless you, Thank you very much, Lamentations three twenty seven.
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  Speaker 1: Can we read together? One to read? Please read it
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  Speaker 1: again with conviction one to read. The Bible says it
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  Speaker 1: is good. There are a few things in scripture, or
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  Speaker 1: a few times in scripture when the Bible says something
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  Speaker 1: is not good, like the scripture aeron shed it is
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  Speaker 1: not good. And there are some things that God tells
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  Speaker 1: you it is good. Hallelujah. This is one of the things.
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  Speaker 1: It is good that a man bear his yoke in
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  Speaker 1: his youth. That means bearing your yoke is a non
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  Speaker 1: negotiable requirements. It's not whether you will, pa, it's the
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  Speaker 1: question is when a man must be a his yoke.
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  Speaker 1: But the Bible says, the advantage you have is the
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  Speaker 1: advantage of time. Allelujah. That it is good. It is
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  Speaker 1: good that a man here he's yoke in his youth.
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  Speaker 1: Rotherson says, this is what we are doing while laboring
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  Speaker 1: in the world and in prayer. And a labor is
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  Speaker 1: not in vain at all. The Bible says to the
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  Speaker 1: vision tarry in the end it will speak allelujah. Only
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  Speaker 1: fools look for comfort at the time of training. When
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  Speaker 1: you watch an athlete, a world class athlet, being trained,
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  Speaker 1: it doesn't see comfort at that level. But when he
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  Speaker 1: wins the medal, he can pop up the wine and
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  Speaker 1: dance and rejoice. I guarantee you, if you stay with God,
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  Speaker 1: you will rejoice. Yes you will, Yes you will. A
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  Speaker 1: man does not bear his you twice. You can pay
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  Speaker 1: it in the days of your youth. Pay that price
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  Speaker 1: once and for all, and live the rest of your
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  Speaker 1: life in beauty and glory. Or enjoy the momentary satisfaction
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  Speaker 1: right now and spend the remaining part of your life
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  Speaker 1: paying the price. And let me tell you, as the
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  Speaker 1: years advance the price increases, it's not the same. I
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  Speaker 1: choose to pay the price now, whatever it will take.
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  Speaker 1: It's a decision I have made then, no matter what
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  Speaker 1: it will take, I'd rather pay the price now and
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  Speaker 1: enjoy myself while doing it. No problem, young enough, hallelujah.
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  Speaker 1: But when you enjoy yourself at seventy that's a terrible
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  Speaker 1: time to sustain any injury. Many of our parents are
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  Speaker 1: now thinking of paying the price Hallelujah, haven't spend the
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  Speaker 1: most full part of their lives. So please and please
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  Speaker 1: take seriously what we're doing here. We're not just runing
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  Speaker 1: a programmed that must necessarily run every week. This is
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  Speaker 1: a programming. God is doing something to you. He's replacing
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  Speaker 1: your ideologies with a higher value system. That's what we
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  Speaker 1: shared last week. Your kingdom com He's enforcing the principles,
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  Speaker 1: the ideologies of the king. You can imagine this little girl.
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  Speaker 1: Imagine what this lady will look like under this kind
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  Speaker 1: of atmosphere in the next ten years. She will not
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  Speaker 1: know any other language or culture. For her. It's not
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  Speaker 1: renewal is growth at once, there's nothing to renew there.
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  Speaker 1: We are the ones who need to renew a lot
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  Speaker 1: of junk that we spend our lives receiving. So please
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  Speaker 1: pay attention in the name of the Lord Jesus. Whenever
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  Speaker 1: the world is about to come, that's not the time
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  Speaker 1: to be distracted. Here and there. You may interact with
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  Speaker 1: your neighbor and enjoy the meeting, but be very focused
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  Speaker 1: the days of our ignorance, God overlooks, but when knowledge comes,
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  Speaker 1: you become responsible for that part of your life. Hallelujah.
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  Speaker 1: Many of us are representing children that will come in
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  Speaker 1: the future. Many of us are representing generations. There's so many.
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  Speaker 1: For every one of us sitting here, there is at
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  Speaker 1: least a nation, depending on your concentration, hallelujah. When they
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  Speaker 1: looked at the womb of her that was with child,
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  Speaker 1: they said they had two nations. There were just two
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  Speaker 1: little children. Yeah, but they said there are two nations.
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  Speaker 1: Only God how many knows how many nations are represented here.
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  Speaker 1: And if you don't listen well and understand well, you
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  Speaker 1: will teach that eraord to a whole generation. Hallelujah. Help
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  Speaker 1: us tonight's Spirit of the Living God, in the name
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  Speaker 1: of Jesus Christ, say I received grace to bear my
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  Speaker 1: yoke in my youth Dephicians Fife, The Mystery of Marriage,
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  Speaker 1: The Mystery of Marriage, Ephicians, Chapter five. Allelujah. One of
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  Speaker 1: the tragedies that have plagued that generation over time. Please
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  Speaker 1: listen before we read that scription. One of the tragedies
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  Speaker 1: that has plagued our generation is that many of the
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  Speaker 1: things we do today. We were not mentored and taught
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  Speaker 1: into it. Hallelujah. Either we were wrongly mentored or not mentored
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  Speaker 1: at all. We didn't have patterns that we will be
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  Speaker 1: able to follow. Hallelujah. Ninety percent of people who ever
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  Speaker 1: get into anything marriage, they've not read one book about marriage. Hallelujah.
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  Speaker 1: The only exposure that most people have over the issue
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  Speaker 1: of marriage is just marriage counseling. That is maybe two
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  Speaker 1: weeks and they just share some basic things. You never
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  Speaker 1: excel in an area you are not trained for. You
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  Speaker 1: must be trained, skilled, annoyingted, or gifted in that area
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  Speaker 1: to ever excel. You never excel in anything by lock. No,
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  Speaker 1: you don't get a degree by mistake. You stay to
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  Speaker 1: and pay the price for a season. You don't become
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  Speaker 1: an adult by mistake. There are definite things you keep doing. Hallelujah.
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  Speaker 1: Please let me tell you something. Never run your life
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  Speaker 1: any area of your life based on lock is too risky.
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  Speaker 1: It becomes riskier when you carry others along. Are you
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  Speaker 1: getting my point now? God did not structure the kingdom
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  Speaker 1: to work on guesst walk. The Kingdom of God is
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  Speaker 1: a well organized structure with systems that reflects the ideology
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  Speaker 1: of the King. And when you subscribe to his ideology
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  Speaker 1: in any system, you will find righteousness, you will find peace,
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  Speaker 1: and you will find joby alle Lujah. Tonight you want
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  Speaker 1: to hear what the King has to say about the
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  Speaker 1: mystery of marriage. And it's not necessarily a marriage and
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  Speaker 1: relationship talk while exploring the mysteries of the Kingdom. This
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  Speaker 1: may probably be the last of them. That's why I
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  Speaker 1: decided to give it the title, because I don't just
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  Speaker 1: want to say mysteries of the Kingdom perform. This is very,
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  Speaker 1: very serious. The mystery of marriage is not at all
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  Speaker 1: talking about love between a man and a woman necessarily,
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  Speaker 1: because Paul begins to tell us that it's an adumbression
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  Speaker 1: of something greater than just a man and a woman.
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  Speaker 1: And if you understand the mystery of marriage, not only
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  Speaker 1: will you truly be a good husband or a good wife,
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  Speaker 1: or a good father or a good mother, or you
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  Speaker 1: will also be a very effective Christian because it will
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  Speaker 1: teach you the revelation of coinn Onia. Allelujah. Deficients five.
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  Speaker 1: Please let's read verse thirty one. Verse thirty one. There's
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  Speaker 1: a lot to talk about. I'll be so fast Hallelujah.
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  Speaker 1: Deficients five. Please, I want you to humble yourself as
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  Speaker 1: you listen tonight. Whether you are married or not, no
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  Speaker 1: man outgrows the need for greater knowledge at every level.
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  Speaker 1: There is still more that we can add to our lives. Allelujah,
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  Speaker 1: Praise the Lord. Five. Verse thirty one, are you ready
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  Speaker 1: one to read? And shall be joined? And they two
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  Speaker 1: shall be very sensitive words for this cause. That's going
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  Speaker 1: to be our first discussion. So the Bible never said
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  Speaker 1: the man who just from and meet a woman because
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  Speaker 1: he wants to marry is set for this cause. That
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  Speaker 1: means there is a revelation that sponsors this action. And
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  Speaker 1: if you do not know what the cause is all about,
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  Speaker 1: then you can never be effective in marriage. Everyone said
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  Speaker 1: for this cause? What cause? There was something he had
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  Speaker 1: been explaining down to chapter thirty that's the cause. And
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  Speaker 1: on the strength of that revelation chapter thirt I mean
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  Speaker 1: verse thirty one, nown says for this cause, it is
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  Speaker 1: in light of what has been aforementioned. Whoever has understood
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  Speaker 1: the prior revelations alongside the implication of working in them,
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  Speaker 1: is qualified to fulfill thirty one. Are you getting my
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  Speaker 1: point now? For this cause? It didn't say for a cause,
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  Speaker 1: so you don't choose it for this cause. Shall a
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  Speaker 1: man leave his father and mother and shall be joined
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  Speaker 1: to who his wife? It says. And there too, notice
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  Speaker 1: he didn't say shall come to his wife. He didn't
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  Speaker 1: say shall have children to his wife. It uses a
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  Speaker 1: very strange word. He says, shall be joined to his wife,
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  Speaker 1: and they too shall become not just one spirit, but
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  Speaker 1: one flesh. That it too. This is Paul speaking. He said,
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  Speaker 1: this is what this is a great mystery. I told
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  Speaker 1: you a mystery, a hidden truth. The moment you see
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  Speaker 1: that something is a mystery, scripture. It means you are
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  Speaker 1: going to have to depend on the Holy Ghost to
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  Speaker 1: tally to give you the explanation. It's not just left
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  Speaker 1: to experience. Are you getting my point? The Bible tells
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  Speaker 1: us marriage is a mystery. That means in that revelation
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  Speaker 1: of marriage, to be effective both physically husband and wife
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  Speaker 1: and spiritually your relationship with God is to take the
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  Speaker 1: illumination of the Holy Ghost. And tonight we're going to exploit.
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  Speaker 1: He said, this is a great mystery, but I speak
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  Speaker 1: concerning what Christ, and that means marriage is a reflection
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  Speaker 1: of something greater than the whole Marriage is a reflection
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  Speaker 1: of something great than the desire of a man to
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  Speaker 1: a woman who get married and decide to spend their
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  Speaker 1: lives together. If we understand the mystery of marriage, you
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  Speaker 1: will understand the mystery of spiritual power. You will understand
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  Speaker 1: the mystery of fellowship and intimacy with God. You will
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  Speaker 1: understand the mystery of authentic Christianity. Failure to understand this
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  Speaker 1: will produce failure in every aspect of your life, both
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  Speaker 1: in the home and in your spiritual life. Say amen,
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  Speaker 1: but I speak concerning Christ and the Church. Hallelujah. The
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  Speaker 1: first thing I want us to examine tonight. The Bible
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  Speaker 1: talks to us about a number of things. When you
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  Speaker 1: read from Ephesians, especially chapter four, and then you start
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  Speaker 1: up not really chapter five, from verse twenty two, but
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  Speaker 1: when you look down you really die to thirty three,
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  Speaker 1: it explains a few things. Number one, it tells us
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  Speaker 1: the concept of marriage. What is the concept of marriage
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  Speaker 1: from the Kingdom's perspective, not just from Africa's perspective, not
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  Speaker 1: just from Nigeria's perspective. What is the concept of marriage?
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  Speaker 1: Like Aaron said, yeah, when he was off the stage,
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  Speaker 1: he said it was not man's initiative at all. Number two,
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  Speaker 1: I'll be talking about something that I feel is very
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  Speaker 1: sensitive and will bless us. Not only does God tell
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  Speaker 1: us about the concept of marriage, he refus to us
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  Speaker 1: how a man can find this woman that becomes his pride.
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  Speaker 1: God did not leave us to guess work and chance. Hallelujah.
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  Speaker 1: Number three. The Bible in this scripture reveals to us
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  Speaker 1: the partners and the persons involved in this union called marriage. Hallelujah,
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  Speaker 1: because there are so many people who are uninvited guests
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  Speaker 1: and are now being initiated and invited to be part
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  Speaker 1: of this sacred union, this revegnation of marriage. Tonight we're
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  Speaker 1: going to be exploring who are the parties and the
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  Speaker 1: persons involved. Who are who must be involved for a
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  Speaker 1: union to be called marriage, whether spiritually or physically. Number
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  Speaker 1: what now? Number four? And I think this is where
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  Speaker 1: I'm going to dwell in the roles, the codes of conduct,
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  Speaker 1: and the privileges that are associated with this mystery called marriage,
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  Speaker 1: the roles of the various participants, the privileges, and the
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  Speaker 1: code of conduct. The kingdom is a well organized structure,
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  Speaker 1: and it has codes of conduct. It doesn't leave us
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  Speaker 1: to guess work. You will be so blessed tonight and
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  Speaker 1: the Lord is going to be taking away a lot
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  Speaker 1: of religion, especially from many of us brothers. I will
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  Speaker 1: be on your case tonight because you must be award
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  Speaker 1: winning husbands in the name of the Lordster's Christ. Some
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  Speaker 1: of you are smiling. Carry your notebook? Are you ready? Now?
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  Speaker 1: The Bible says for this cause, Let's explore what that
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  Speaker 1: cause is? What is the cause? Really? What is it?
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  Speaker 1: Because if you do not understand that cause, the Bible
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  Speaker 1: never said, you know, we don't to a police. Go
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  Speaker 1: back to verse thirty one. We never talk about the cause.
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  Speaker 1: We just said, Therefore, sale, man, that's not accurate. Hallelujah.
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  Speaker 1: The issue of a man leading his father and mother
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  Speaker 1: is from the strength of his understanding this cause. Everybody said,
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  Speaker 1: for this cause, rather shout for this cause? What does
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  Speaker 1: that mean? For this cause? It means because of the
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  Speaker 1: above reason, or being aware of the prettier statements and
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  Speaker 1: being prepared to abide by the conditions, understanding the full
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  Speaker 1: implication of im not in them. That means if you
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  Speaker 1: say I am ready to leave my father and my mother,
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  Speaker 1: you must have understood thoroughly what Paul had to teach
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  Speaker 1: about a man or a husband and a wife, their roles,
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  Speaker 1: the participants involved. On the strength of that, you say, Lord,
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  Speaker 1: for this cause, I have founder students and the implication,
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  Speaker 1: and I'm ready to take a step. How many people
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  Speaker 1: who walk up and down, dreaming day and night of
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  Speaker 1: marriage and they do not understand the cause for this reason,
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  Speaker 1: on the strength of this revelation number one, the concept
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  Speaker 1: of marriage. The Bible clearly shows us that marriage is
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  Speaker 1: the union between a man and a woman, a man
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  Speaker 1: and a woman. Please write it, you must write man
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  Speaker 1: and woman. Write it. The Bible clearly tells us. Please,
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  Speaker 1: let's settle some confusion once and for all. The Bible
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  Speaker 1: tells us marriage is the union between what whu? Not
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  Speaker 1: a man and an animal, not two men in love
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  Speaker 1: with one another, not two ladies fantasizing about one another,
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  Speaker 1: a man and a woman. The second revelation about the
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  Speaker 1: concept of marriage is that that union must happen in
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  Speaker 1: the presence of their parents or the representatives. He said,
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  Speaker 1: here for a man in that old picture, we see
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  Speaker 1: that there is man, there is woman, there is father,
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  Speaker 1: there is mother. No bad dog. Right, we're exploring the
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  Speaker 1: ideologists of the kingdom. So it matters that in marriage
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  Speaker 1: there must be the weaknessing by either father or mother
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  Speaker 1: or in an event where they are absent representatives that
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  Speaker 1: are delegated to standing their stead. Listen, In scripture, the
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  Speaker 1: role of the parents is even higher than the role
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  Speaker 1: of the priests that joins the marriage. Are you getting
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  Speaker 1: what I'm saying now? Very important? The Bible recognizes in fact,
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  Speaker 1: when you read all through scripture, the blessings that come
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  Speaker 1: from father and mother to their children is part of
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  Speaker 1: what solidifies the union, not even necessarily the blessings of priests.
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  Speaker 1: I follow me tonight. So the union between whom father okay,
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  Speaker 1: husband or man and woman really in the presence of
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  Speaker 1: father and mother, meaning that the father and mother in
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  Speaker 1: the ideal sense, are the ones who are supposed to
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  Speaker 1: train and raise the children to understand that cause. The
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  Speaker 1: Bible says for this cause, so according to God's pattern,
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  Speaker 1: the father and the mother should be involved in raising
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  Speaker 1: the children to maturity, and they release them now being satisfied,
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  Speaker 1: like a lecturer that releases a student to be awarded
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  Speaker 1: a degree program, and the student stands to defend himself
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  Speaker 1: before he is released, and on the strength of the
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  Speaker 1: lecturer satisfaction, a recommendation is given. We call it a degree,
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  Speaker 1: and he says, you can't go and get a job anywhere.
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  Speaker 1: Are you getting my point now? That means when the
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  Speaker 1: man and the woman fails, who is to blame? Are
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  Speaker 1: you getting this now? According to God's structure, when a
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  Speaker 1: marriage fails in a nineteen sense, the parents are to
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  Speaker 1: be held responsible because forget about what has happened in
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  Speaker 1: our society. I'm telling you God's original pattern. Now, are
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  Speaker 1: you getting my point? Now? Don't feel but don't hate
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  Speaker 1: your parents. No, that's why God is correcting it. Parents
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  Speaker 1: do not just have the responsibility to kill children. No,
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  Speaker 1: they're supposed to train and build them. Are you learning
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  Speaker 1: something tonight? Any marriage that is done without the weakness
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  Speaker 1: of a parental presence is not recognized by Heaven. Let
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  Speaker 1: me tell you straight to the point. Please don't confuse
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  Speaker 1: what the westernization and the rest has brought God's accurate
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  Speaker 1: pattern of marriage. This is why when you are giving
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  Speaker 1: a woman in marriage, they say, who keeps this woman?
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  Speaker 1: She didn't just come from the jungle in to the church.
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  Speaker 1: In other words, who trained her, who satisfied her to
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  Speaker 1: be qualified to be a woman and a prospective mother. Allelujah.
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  Speaker 1: The parents are the ones who must prepare a woman.
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  Speaker 1: They take the lady from being a girl to being
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  Speaker 1: a woman. They transit the man from being a boy naive,
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  Speaker 1: void of knowledge to a place of responsibility. Allelujah. Now
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  Speaker 1: notice and not that revelation again is that marriage is
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  Speaker 1: between a man and a woman. Everybody is a man woman.
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  Speaker 1: Although they are children, they are not toddlers. Are you
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  Speaker 1: getting my point? That tells you that the adombration of
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  Speaker 1: marriage and woman and marriage is not a new birth concept.
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  Speaker 1: It's prepared than new birth, because as newborn babies were
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  Speaker 1: fed on the milk of the world bond. Marriage is
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  Speaker 1: an affair of people who have sustained maturity. Please are you?
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  Speaker 1: Are you getting this? Paul calls it a great mystery.
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  Speaker 1: The Bible says, and else long as it is a
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  Speaker 1: child different not from a slave, though he be lord
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  Speaker 1: of all, but it's under Titus and governors until the
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  Speaker 1: time appointed. Marriage is the clearest revelation to man. That's
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  Speaker 1: the church about God's intention. As far as intimacy is concerned,
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  Speaker 1: intimacy and oneness, marriage is the technology that brings two
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  Speaker 1: people into oneness oneness in the flesh, physical oneness recognized
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  Speaker 1: by heaven. Brothers and sisters. This is the concept of
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  Speaker 1: marriage from God's standpoint. It may sound very simple, but
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  Speaker 1: you see the danger if when you ignore the principles
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  Speaker 1: of the kingdom there are severe consequences. It's not that
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  Speaker 1: God punishes you. The structure has been designed that way. Allelujah.
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  Speaker 1: Another revelation about the concept of marriage. Please project that
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  Speaker 1: very verse is so rich and there is a lot
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  Speaker 1: to learn. Who leaves his father and mother? Ladies and gentlemen,
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  Speaker 1: what about time man says, who leaves his father and mother?
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  Speaker 1: What is the revelation of leaving your father and mother?
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  Speaker 1: It's not rebellion, It's called risk. Are you getting me?
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  Speaker 1: Leaving your father and mother is a spiritual communication that
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  Speaker 1: you have attained a state of responsibility where you can
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  Speaker 1: now build a need for yourself and continue. Did you
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  Speaker 1: know in scriptures men were called and traced to their fathers,
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  Speaker 1: so the son of Kish Are you getting my point now?
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  Speaker 1: So a man must leave his father and mother. What
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  Speaker 1: that means is that you must relinquish dependence on them financially, spiritually,
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  Speaker 1: you must be able to stand. You must attain structure
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  Speaker 1: enough to now lead and not that generation and not
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  Speaker 1: that family. This, this on its own is a revelation.
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  Speaker 1: We can spend the whole night talking about all. The
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  Speaker 1: brother said, responsibility, writes it and underline it. I'll be
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  Speaker 1: dealing with it in the course of this teaching. Responsibility.
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  Speaker 1: That means listen. That means that there are certain maybe
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  Speaker 1: by next week, our tiation. The Gospel of Salvation versus
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  Speaker 1: the Gospel of the Kingdom. The Gospel of Salvation is
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  Speaker 1: the gospel that saves men. That's the gospel that reveals
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  Speaker 1: the substitutionary work of Jesus and his work of Chrice
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  Speaker 1: and Messy. In the Gospel of Salvation, man does not
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  Speaker 1: do anything. All he does is to receive by faith
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  Speaker 1: the free gift that Christ say as a substitute. But
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  Speaker 1: in the Gospel of the Kingdom it translates you to
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  Speaker 1: take advantage of that grace and begin to function in
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  Speaker 1: responsibility as an ambassador with the So in that one
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  Speaker 1: you now do the work on the strength of what
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  Speaker 1: Christ has done. I hope that will have time and
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  Speaker 1: we'll talk about that. Listen. The Gospel of Salvation is
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  Speaker 1: only one ten of God's universal agenda. Although listen, it
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  Speaker 1: is very important because that's the gospel that brings you
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  Speaker 1: into the Kingdom. But you just dwell on the Gospel
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  Speaker 1: of Salvation. That's where you talk about the grace of God.
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  Speaker 1: Everything has been done. He died for you, you received his life.
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  Speaker 1: Now you are joint hell with Christ. That's the Gospel
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  Speaker 1: of Salvation. But when you transit to spiritual maturity, there
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  Speaker 1: is a shift from Christ being Savior to Christ being King.
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  Speaker 1: At that point you are initiated into the Gospel of
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  Speaker 1: the Kingdom. And in the Gospel of the Kingdom, you
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  Speaker 1: now begin to understand, on the strength of your intimacy
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  Speaker 1: with Christ, that God has an agenda and that his
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  Speaker 1: six end voice through it. It can carry this agenda
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  Speaker 1: with and there are conditions. Allelujah. Marriage is a very
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  Speaker 1: powerful mystery that reflects Christ and the Church. The second
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  Speaker 1: thing I want us to look at very quickly. The
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  Speaker 1: Bible does not leave us in the dark as to
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  Speaker 1: how a man should find a woman that becomes his pride.
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  Speaker 1: If God instituted marriage, are you getting my point? Now?
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  Speaker 1: That means there should be a structured system through which
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  Speaker 1: a man should be able to meet his bride. Is
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  Speaker 1: that correct? The same way Christ hadn't breaded in. Christ
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  Speaker 1: left his father to prove are you guessing my point now?
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  Speaker 1: To prove that he has satisfied the condition, And then
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  Speaker 1: he again, I'm do a technology he looked for his
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  Speaker 1: pride the church. Sons of Solomon. Let's look at something there.
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  Speaker 1: For many of you that will be the first time
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  Speaker 1: you're reading it. Songs of Solomon is after Ecclesiastis. Songs
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  Speaker 1: of Solomon Chapter three. Sons of Solomon is such a
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  Speaker 1: sensitive book. John's read the only part I ask you
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  Speaker 1: to read. I'm not ready for trouble this and I
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  Speaker 1: praise God. If I save us six, read only verse six.
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  Speaker 1: If I say us two, read praise the Lord, hallelujah.
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  Speaker 1: Sons of Solomon, Chapter three, from verse one to four,
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  Speaker 1: very interesting scripture. See dah, brothers, open your eyes. God
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  Speaker 1: is about to answer your prayer right now. Wake up.
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  Speaker 1: Your destinies about to change. This is not just a
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  Speaker 1: story about romance. I told you the mysteries of the
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  Speaker 1: Kingdom have the operasion of the Kingdom hidden in stories
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  Speaker 1: and parables. You can look at the romance and be
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  Speaker 1: ecstatic about it, But when the Holy Goost guides you
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  Speaker 1: you can draw for the spiritual principle, and this is
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  Speaker 1: what you want to look at. By night on my bed,
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  Speaker 1: I sought him. This is a woman. This is the
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  Speaker 1: contemplation of the pride. Ladies, listen, this is a woman's heart. Now, Solomon, Solomon,
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  Speaker 1: how he entered the heart of a woman to draw
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  Speaker 1: forth her contemplations by night? Are you gutsing my point? Now?
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  Speaker 1: By night on my bed this is the church, the
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  Speaker 1: pride of Christ. I sought him who I what soul loves?
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  Speaker 1: This is very important. Sensitive words are beginning to come
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  Speaker 1: into the equation now he said. Notice it didn't say
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  Speaker 1: who my eyes delights him, whom your soul loves. I
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  Speaker 1: already loved the person, and you have not seen him.
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  Speaker 1: This is the spiritu technology. But behind love that is genuine,
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  Speaker 1: not lost. She has not seen the housband, but planted
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  Speaker 1: in hyes, the ability to love him. And it's from
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  Speaker 1: the soul. Real. That means it's not tied to money.
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  Speaker 1: It's not tied to what you have seen. This is
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  Speaker 1: a woman thinking on her bed, how did our soul
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  Speaker 1: start loving someone shall not see? Are you getting my point? Now?
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  Speaker 1: All through from the garden of Eden, through the law,
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  Speaker 1: and the prophet man began to seek for one whom
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  Speaker 1: his soul loved. Are you getting my point? To seek
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  Speaker 1: for a way and a kingdom and his system? And
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  Speaker 1: they began to do all kinds of rituals. It was
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  Speaker 1: this contemplation. Why was it by night, because that was
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  Speaker 1: the season of man's fall. Are you getting my point? Now?
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  Speaker 1: In need of redemption? The right time talks about the
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  Speaker 1: time of darkness, talks about the absence of knowledge and salvation.
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  Speaker 1: He said, I sought shamed, but I want sister. You
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  Speaker 1: will never marry until you are ready to love. Are
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  Speaker 1: you getting my point? So the question about their meeting
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  Speaker 1: together does not even start with the man. He starts
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  Speaker 1: with the woman. Please are you following me? Show you
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  Speaker 1: a mystery? The woman is busy thinking in her heart.
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  Speaker 1: Verse two, I will rise, Everybody, say I will rise,
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  Speaker 1: Say action, say cooperation. The woman would have died there
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  Speaker 1: on her bed. She said, Look this passion, this is
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  Speaker 1: genuine love. Look, let me tell you, brothers and sisters.
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  Speaker 1: In as much as we avoid emotional ecstasy, I'm going
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  Speaker 1: to be addressing things that would bless you when when
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  Speaker 1: the love of God, as far as marriage is concerned,
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  Speaker 1: is upon you listen, that love becomes a priority. This
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  Speaker 1: lady was contemplating for so long she could not lie down.
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  Speaker 1: Sleeper said, Look, I will arise and go about in
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  Speaker 1: the streets. Have you seen love drive a brother before?
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  Speaker 1: Rain does not matter, sun does not matter. Listen. If
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  Speaker 1: you don't have that kind of love, your marriage can
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  Speaker 1: not work. That is the kind of love that this excuses.
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  Speaker 1: That's the kind of love that this excuse for everyone's wrongdoing.
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  Speaker 1: There are many people getting into marriage who's left love.
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  Speaker 1: Love is not personate enough to get them to that remp.
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  Speaker 1: Please listen, because God is answering someone's prayer. Now, there
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  Speaker 1: is no managing in marriage. It's better to faid in
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  Speaker 1: life and make it in marriage. The Bible use this marriage,
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  Speaker 1: I said, just stick to show whether a bishop is
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  Speaker 1: a good bishop or not not praying tongues. A bishop
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  Speaker 1: must be a husband of one wife able to keep
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  Speaker 1: his family marriage. Is that serious? I will arise and
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  Speaker 1: go about to the city, he said, And in the
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  Speaker 1: broadway I will seek him again whom my That means
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  Speaker 1: there is an imprint in her heart. She's just looking
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  Speaker 1: for the face that will match that imprint. Are you
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  Speaker 1: getting my point, ladies, how many of you get into
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  Speaker 1: relationship she only because of what or I see? Genuine
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  Speaker 1: love starts from your spirit, man, Chenuine love starts way
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  Speaker 1: before any man appears. It's not that you see somebody
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  Speaker 1: told that and handsome all of a sudden you cannot sleep.
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  Speaker 1: There is a character and a nature of love that
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  Speaker 1: is welled up in you. Are you getting my point? Please?
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  Speaker 1: I sought him, but I found him not Verse three,
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  Speaker 1: Let's hurry up the watchman. This is a powerful revelation
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  Speaker 1: in a bid to look for someone. Please, lady, sister, anybody,
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  Speaker 1: thank you. Watch this. This lady is looking for the
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  Speaker 1: person I so loved. Now in a big too such.
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  Speaker 1: There are certain people she met on the way called watchmen.
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  Speaker 1: Are you getting my point? Now? This watchmen, the watchmen
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  Speaker 1: that go about the city found me to whom I said,
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  Speaker 1: saw ye him that my soul loved. That is, in
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  Speaker 1: a bit to communicate this desire. She met an evangelist,
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  Speaker 1: she met a man of God. She came for a meeting.
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  Speaker 1: This watchman have the ability to channel her to the
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  Speaker 1: true love. This is someone following, and the Bible says,
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  Speaker 1: past fall, it was it was but a little that
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  Speaker 1: I passed from them, but I found him whom my
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  Speaker 1: soul loved. It after she met and encountered this watchman.
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  Speaker 1: After a season, many things happened during my encounter with
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  Speaker 1: the watchmen, and she found this one that has soul loved,
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  Speaker 1: and she said, I held him and will not let
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  Speaker 1: him go. She has found the love of her life. Indeed,
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  Speaker 1: no confusion, it says, until I have brought him to
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  Speaker 1: whose house, the woman that trained me, the woman that
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  Speaker 1: qualified me to get into marriage, to my mother's house,
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  Speaker 1: and into the chamber of her that conceived me. This
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  Speaker 1: is not romance at all. This is a very deep
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  Speaker 1: spiritual communication. So the process starts with God, who is
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  Speaker 1: able to put that desire? Are you getting my point now?
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  Speaker 1: If that desire is not planted in your sister, you
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  Speaker 1: may never truly get married. Please believe what I'm saying.
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  Speaker 1: It's not just the issue of no man wants who
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  Speaker 1: asked me out. It started with God in a desire.
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  Speaker 1: When God puts that desire, all these two years of
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  Speaker 1: posting men and say I'm thinking about it, is either
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  Speaker 1: he's not the one, or he's the one, As simple
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  Speaker 1: as that. When she found the person I have truly loved.
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  Speaker 1: She knew it. Hallelujah, Thank you. Now I want you
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  Speaker 1: to see the level of person I loved him, I
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  Speaker 1: help him. Are you getting my point? Now? Look that
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  Speaker 1: that level of love cannot happen in a human sense.
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  Speaker 1: It takes the spirit of God. Are you get to
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  Speaker 1: what I'm saying now? Do you see that many of
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  Speaker 1: the things we call love in marriage and relationship truly
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  Speaker 1: is not that God kind of love. I'm not just
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  Speaker 1: talking of akape that love God God plans for his
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  Speaker 1: wife and a wife or that man. Let me tell you,
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  Speaker 1: I want to give you a lead most test, very clear, lady,
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  Speaker 1: if the guy you are thinking of saying yes to,
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  Speaker 1: if you are not passionate about him in love, patch
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  Speaker 1: your lord and live quickly before you say yes. That
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  Speaker 1: love is the ingredient that will sustain that relationship to
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  Speaker 1: the Tick and team. Please, are you getting what I'm saying?
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  Speaker 1: It is not enough to love a woman or love
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  Speaker 1: a man. You must have passion. The Bible describes it
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  Speaker 1: as fire, not lost. Because you saw a nice lady,
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  Speaker 1: If you got it not lost, Remember that this love
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  Speaker 1: we're talking about start that before she even looked at him,
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  Speaker 1: that was why the day you gave your life to Christ,
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  Speaker 1: you knew it. You knew you had found something. I
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  Speaker 1: wouldn't trade you for silver or gold. I wouldn't trade
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  Speaker 1: you for reach is on too, you are? You are
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  Speaker 1: myverything lost. Usually tribes just on the senses. Are you
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  Speaker 1: getting my point? Now? When you see a lady looking hot,
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  Speaker 1: looking fine, you're not even sure of what you have now,
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  Speaker 1: whether it is lost or is it a physic that
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  Speaker 1: attracted you. So many brothers just see a lady looking
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  Speaker 1: nice and hot, and he said, I love this girl.
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  Speaker 1: In two minutes, you see a perfect stranger. They call
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  Speaker 1: it lover's first site. Nonsense, spirit are things don't work
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  Speaker 1: like that. That's destruction at first sight. A man who
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  Speaker 1: meets a lady. Listen, remember, I'm still discussing for this
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  Speaker 1: cause you just see a perfect stranger. You've never seen her.
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  Speaker 1: You just from what's your name? Tyler said, Taiwan, I'm
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  Speaker 1: in love. Ah, hold on, listen, listen in as much
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  Speaker 1: as you see the person and connect with the person,
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  Speaker 1: to just look and say, I am asking you out
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  Speaker 1: give me an answer. Now we're going to spend the
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  Speaker 1: rest of our lives together. I used to beat do
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  Speaker 1: you know the implication of staying with one person one
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  Speaker 1: use five years to finish. To finish your degree, you
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  Speaker 1: almost kill the old school before you graduated. Now you
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  Speaker 1: want to spend the rest of your god giving life
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  Speaker 1: to get all together. To wake up and see the
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  Speaker 1: same person at the side of your bed is a
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  Speaker 1: great mystery. God must help you. It's not chiven to man.
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  Speaker 1: I'm telling you will be tired if this love does
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  Speaker 1: not come from the spirit. I don't care what you saw.
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  Speaker 1: If you fed like an that's why a brother can
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  Speaker 1: see a lady right now? Oh you saw a lady
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  Speaker 1: at a dina erron Ah, my Lord, what is wrong? Oh? God,
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  Speaker 1: give me this pressing. Two weeks later she removed her
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  Speaker 1: with one and you just passed as if you didn't
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  Speaker 1: see her. Everyone says, make progress, they make progress. I'm
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  Speaker 1: pressing into God. Now that the excuse people use. I'm pressing.
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  Speaker 1: I need Please, don't distract me. I need to press
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  Speaker 1: into God. The same guy that is pressing into God
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  Speaker 1: one week later is seeing another person again. The retreat
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  Speaker 1: is over by force.
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  Speaker 3: Allelujah.
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  Speaker 1: Listen. Let me tell you something, sisters. If you are
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  Speaker 1: really a spiritual lady, you will understand when seasons a
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  Speaker 1: brother should not really come and just of course there
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  Speaker 1: are principles of friendship building intimacy. But I'm telling you
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  Speaker 1: a brother shouldn't just come and take you unawares. Where
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  Speaker 1: did you keep your spirit? There are there are seasons, hallelujah.
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  Speaker 1: You are prepared from your prayer life and the dealings
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  Speaker 1: of God. In that season you begin to sense that guy.
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  Speaker 1: Based on the dealings of the spirit. I'm already beginning
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  Speaker 1: to sense the release. So you go to pray and
• 46:44
  Speaker 1: all of a sudden error flashes your mind and like Jesus,
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  Speaker 1: I bind it. What is going on here? I have
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  Speaker 1: found home my soul. No, please let me talk for
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  Speaker 1: a few minutes about this love thing. If you are
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  Speaker 1: not passioning, sister, how many of you have seen how
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  Speaker 1: many of you have seen a lady who a guy
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  Speaker 1: calls by eleven o'clock and she's quarreling him. I'm tired.
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  Speaker 1: Why will you call me at this time and say
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  Speaker 1: I'm sorry, I'm sorry. I you know what all this
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  Speaker 1: loyalty that guys do when they're waiting for years and
• 47:23
  Speaker 1: the lady is now recking. Please, I'm tired. I will
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  Speaker 1: talk to you later on, as tired as she is.
• 47:30
  Speaker 1: Another brother calls ten minutes later, criterly before it finishes, Hello,
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  Speaker 1: how are you? I mean? Her expression cannot even be hidden.
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  Speaker 1: Her heart certainly turns to her face and her voice,
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  Speaker 1: and the guys know. The guy knows that she has
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  Speaker 1: been missing and waiting for that call. Network calls you
• 47:51
  Speaker 1: call help because of credits. Now you are calling by yourself.
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  Speaker 1: Say no, no, no problem. You have been trying, truly.
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  Speaker 1: Let me tell you listen, when you get married to
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  Speaker 1: the person your heart truly does not love, you have
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  Speaker 1: signed a record of unfaithfulness. Forever, you will struggle. I
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  Speaker 1: don't care whether you are anointed with fire on your head.
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  Speaker 1: Believe what I'm telling you. That's why where you married?
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  Speaker 1: Because of money. You saw the guy and he told
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  Speaker 1: you that I just came back from Dubai. I haves
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  Speaker 1: from buildings around. I have a lot of this, and
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  Speaker 1: your heart just males. Your mother says, let's praise mommy. Please.
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  Speaker 1: You have been taking decision from me all the days
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  Speaker 1: of my life. This one I'm stamping my feet and
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  Speaker 1: was marry him because you want the money, And then
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  Speaker 1: the money does not go again. The money disappears and
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  Speaker 1: you find out that your heart is not stay to
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  Speaker 1: love him again. Everybody say passion, Everybody say love. When
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  Speaker 1: you marry the person you genuinely love, you can sit
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  Speaker 1: together and drink garry, even if you stay in the
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  Speaker 1: touch house, and you find fulfillment and satisfaction. When you
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  Speaker 1: marry somebody you don't love, you give excuses over everything.
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  Speaker 1: If you're already married, there's nothing you can do about it.
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  Speaker 1: Just trust God to paint the cross for you to
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  Speaker 1: the color you want. But that cross you must carry
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  Speaker 1: it someone getting blessed. I'm not necessarily speaking in a
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  Speaker 1: marriage and a relationship talk. I'm just trying to show
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  Speaker 1: you how marriage relates, because in a standard marriage is
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  Speaker 1: in there things we're going to talk about, issues of divorce,
• 49:58
  Speaker 1: issues of all of these kinds of Another thing we
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  Speaker 1: see is that there was a seeking. Everybody says seeking
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  Speaker 1: both on the path of the man. The part of
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  Speaker 1: the ladies, not really seeking, as it were, is positioning, right.
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  Speaker 1: You position yourself to be found, and the man seeks.
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  Speaker 1: There are all kinds of arrow gunt men who are
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  Speaker 1: too proud to seek. You will remain unmarried. I tell
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  Speaker 1: you the truth. Jesus said, I came to seek, and said,
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  Speaker 1: keeps my pride called the lost. I came to seek.
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  Speaker 1: He told the prophet, go and look for a prostitute.
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  Speaker 1: Go around, sick, you will find this prostitute called Goma Marya.
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  Speaker 1: As an adumbration of my desire to reconcile to this
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  Speaker 1: my bride. Ladies tell the man sick, shout it, Samon, heartcake,
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  Speaker 1: ladies like me, all around, seek my brother. Open your
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  Speaker 1: eyes before they fool you with good looks, sick by
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  Speaker 1: the spirits. You don't seek blindly? How do you seek?
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  Speaker 1: You shall seek me and find me when you go
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  Speaker 1: for retreats. That's seeking. When you read a good book,
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  Speaker 1: you are positioning yourself to seek. Well, shout seek. There
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  Speaker 1: are many brothers yelling at the gates of heaven. Pay
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  Speaker 1: are night, Oh God, oh God, this and that. Get
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  Speaker 1: up and seek, and since that position yourself. It's not
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  Speaker 1: enough to say why when this brother look at me.
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  Speaker 1: See it's a spirit to our atmosphere. When you are
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  Speaker 1: not ready for relationship, it's like a magnet. It pushes
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  Speaker 1: people away. To be ready doesn't mean I like a
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  Speaker 1: man for this cause. Have you positioned yourself? We have
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  Speaker 1: to run. The Bible reveals three ways that connections are
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  Speaker 1: made for marriage and relationship. Number one is desire and passion. Desire,
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  Speaker 1: tenuine godly desire and passion. Please, everything I'm saying here
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  Speaker 1: is tied to the kingdom. Not everyone is going to
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  Speaker 1: see a vision about his wife, and it doesn't mean
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  Speaker 1: you are not spiritual. Say amen, now look up. Not
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  Speaker 1: everybody is going to see a vision. You were just
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  Speaker 1: standing and all of a sudden you saw this welfare
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  Speaker 1: lady cookie and God says, a rise, a rise, Why
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  Speaker 1: citians down here, go and take your position. He said, nay, Lord,
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  Speaker 1: but I'm weak, And God he said, no, no, no,
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  Speaker 1: You're not weak. If that's what you are waiting for,
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  Speaker 1: you may be disappointed. God can plant a genuine persion. Listen, please,
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  Speaker 1: you are a worker in the house, right, streadful worker,
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  Speaker 1: not talking of chealous. You're not contributing anything to the
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  Speaker 1: Kingdom of God. And you want to read every aves
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  Speaker 1: that others are working for. You must you must genuinely
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  Speaker 1: participate in the kingdom beauty. One day suddenly you find
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  Speaker 1: out genuine desire, Please remove loss from it. You see that, Ah,
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  Speaker 1: you notice that there is an unusual desire and persion
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  Speaker 1: for patients com patience unusual desire. Now watch the when
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  Speaker 1: this happens, brothers, is too early. Many of you don't
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  Speaker 1: have self control. Once you feel learn it in you land.
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  Speaker 1: It is the letty larns it back at you. Be temperate.
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  Speaker 1: Don't just say let me ask first too, before another
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  Speaker 1: person will come and ask. You don't know whether she's
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  Speaker 1: in a relationship. You don't know whether what you just
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  Speaker 1: go and disgrace yourself. The Lord told me you are
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  Speaker 1: the one. She says sorry, we're getting married next week,
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  Speaker 1: and you grry. You now feel stupid, You feel irresponsible.
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  Speaker 1: A word spoken in Q season. Letty shout you season.
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  Speaker 1: There is a que season, my brother, So God can
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  Speaker 1: use a simple godly desire. I've seen this lady. I
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  Speaker 1: connect behind the spirit and over time as you build friendship,
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  Speaker 1: please bless you. Many brothers don't even understand the concept
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  Speaker 1: of friendship. They just come and say, a stranger, you
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  Speaker 1: are my wife, I will marry you. One prayer about
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  Speaker 1: it out here tomorrow. What sort of nonsense is that?
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  Speaker 1: Is very rude in me? No, it does work for others,
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  Speaker 1: but I'm telling you it's very rude. You don't walk
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  Speaker 1: up to a lady and just say you are my wife.
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  Speaker 1: Prayer about it. That's bullying, especially if you're a man
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  Speaker 1: of God or you're a great person. Don't use position
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  Speaker 1: to intimidate ladies. Someone learning something tonight. Desire and passion.
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  Speaker 1: There are many of us that you find yourself having
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  Speaker 1: a godly genuine desire for someone, and some of us
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  Speaker 1: are very embarrassed. Suddenly you embarrassed as somebody you're always
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  Speaker 1: praying with, Ah, guy, why am i? And now you
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  Speaker 1: go to prayada, you find yourself looking at ushers you
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  Speaker 1: are trying, trying ah. And see there are brothers that
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  Speaker 1: come here by three o'clock and still sit outside. Everybody
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  Speaker 1: is a passion because the person they're waiting for us
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  Speaker 1: not come and they say, look, let me pay that price.
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  Speaker 1: What is it? If this is a cross I must carry,
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  Speaker 1: I must carry? That person is very good because the
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  Speaker 1: day the lady breaks her hand ah, or the day
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  Speaker 1: they carry out his surgery on her, that person will
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  Speaker 1: sustain your love. There are many ladies. The day something
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  Speaker 1: happens to the guy, they just turn around as if
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  Speaker 1: it's not the one. They're like, he has no as
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  Speaker 1: them out of they're so not proud of him. Something
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  Speaker 1: as little as running in a football filler and it
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  Speaker 1: takes last the lady, just don't God, brothers for my
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  Speaker 1: answers too early? What sort of what? What is your
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  Speaker 1: concept of marriage? The brother has malaria and it for me,
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  Speaker 1: And everybody is looking and you you just started nauseating.
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  Speaker 1: You are not You're you're feeling so discomforted. You're not
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  Speaker 1: ready for marriage. As simple as that is someone listening
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  Speaker 1: to me. I'm hurrying on because I want to talk
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  Speaker 1: on rules and codes of contact. So in person number two,
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  Speaker 1: the prophetic God has also positioned the prophetic to help
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  Speaker 1: the man in locating the woman. The prophetic there means
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  Speaker 1: either prophecy or the ministry of the Holy Spirit in
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  Speaker 1: your life. And please almost balance this because that's what
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  Speaker 1: brought the issue of vision. I saw it. Vision, I
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  Speaker 1: saw it, drim I saw this. Hallelujah. Hold on, let
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  Speaker 1: me use your opportunity and balance something right now. Look up, everybody.
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  Speaker 1: God does not ordain you as a spiritual matchmaker moving
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  Speaker 1: around and looking at people and say, eron, the lady
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  Speaker 1: you are sitting behind whether you see a vision or
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  Speaker 1: you have a dream about yourself or somebody else. It
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  Speaker 1: must be handled with utmost maturity, because marriage is a
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  Speaker 1: great mystery. Are you getting my point? Now? You can
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  Speaker 1: warm me an innocent lady and tell her, do you
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  Speaker 1: know that I saw a man looking at you and
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  Speaker 1: all of his sudden it becomes an artificial desire, especially
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  Speaker 1: if it falls at a point in a life where
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  Speaker 1: she is vulnerable. Ladies, you know what I'm talking about, right,
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  Speaker 1: And then at that point, all of his sudden, this
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  Speaker 1: lady now begins to tire and maybe less as your
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  Speaker 1: ma min is even my name is business with another lady.
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  Speaker 1: If someone getting what I'm saying, please be cheerful when
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  Speaker 1: it has to do with giving people prophecy. Don't stand
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  Speaker 1: with utmost authority and look and say I have seen it.
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  Speaker 1: If it does not happen, God didn't call me and
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  Speaker 1: the lady is waiting, then she sees the guy's invitation
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  Speaker 1: card like what's the name er Nepos? And the lady's
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  Speaker 1: not wondering, Oh God, what is going on? This is
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  Speaker 1: my husband here leaving me, oh Lord? And people engaging
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  Speaker 1: all kinds of skills and spiritual activity and a bit
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  Speaker 1: to recover back the kingdom does not leave us a confusion.
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  Speaker 1: Don't you, on another hand, neglect the place of the prophety.
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  Speaker 1: There are so many people have seen in my dreams
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  Speaker 1: and visions way before. In fact, when I saw it,
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  Speaker 1: they did not even know themselves, even me. When I
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  Speaker 1: saw it, I was surprised, and by the hand of God,
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  Speaker 1: God came and connected them. You know why I'm saying this.
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  Speaker 1: When it comes to marriage, even prophecy can change. So
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  Speaker 1: when you type people, you now look and say, Kasham
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  Speaker 1: stand up. Is a tall guy one day he will
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  Speaker 1: sit down two seats close to you. Write it down.
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  Speaker 1: His name is Ria. If you're missing you have missed
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  Speaker 1: your husband first. Yes, Casham is still going around hoping Edria.
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  Speaker 1: Where are you here? Is planning his wedding? Are you
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  Speaker 1: getting my point? Aaron now comes and is Adria. They
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  Speaker 1: told me Adria, fair guy. Adria. Any that guy that comes,
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  Speaker 1: I don't want the guy is fair. Casham will sit
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  Speaker 1: forever no husband because somebody injected the wrong prophecy into her.
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  Speaker 1: Are you get to what I'm saying now? There are
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  Speaker 1: many of us who may be sitting down right now
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  Speaker 1: the way we are wrong. Prophecies wrong prophecies. Please be careful.
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  Speaker 1: It must be discerned and balanced. Carefully. Listen to me. Listen.
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  Speaker 1: It was God himself that appointed Saul to be king.
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  Speaker 1: Is that true? It was the same God that now
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  Speaker 1: rejected Soul as king two of us. It was God
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  Speaker 1: that appointed Moses to take God's people to the land
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  Speaker 1: flowing with milk and honey? Did God tell him you
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  Speaker 1: not get there? Letter on? It was the same God
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  Speaker 1: that stopped him. So be careful. That you saw a
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  Speaker 1: lady in the vision is no guarantee that you must
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  Speaker 1: marry her. There are many factors that must come together alignment.
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  Speaker 1: Are you getting my point? There is alignment. There is
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  Speaker 1: what parental approver, and all of these other factors for others,
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  Speaker 1: maybe tribal differences or whatever it is. There are factors together,
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  Speaker 1: so it doesn't just make it work automatically. Please get
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  Speaker 1: this revelation. If you don't get it, you are going
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  Speaker 1: to fool yourself into error. However, under a guide the
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  Speaker 1: atmosphere of the world and spiritual maturity, prophecy can be
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  Speaker 1: very powerful. Hallelujah. Prophecy can be powerful in helping you
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  Speaker 1: understand your spouse. Number three, Please play Mike define connection
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  Speaker 1: just like that, no vision, no nothing, define connection. For instance,
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  Speaker 1: we now give confer me empty just gives them a
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  Speaker 1: song to score together in doing this work as empty
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  Speaker 1: for the spirit of God. Come on now, the spirit
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  Speaker 1: of God, God fitting worship tim Riaza. I'm not mass making,
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  Speaker 1: I'm just giving an example. Allelujah. And in the course
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  Speaker 1: of the Riaza, they have a cost to this course
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  Speaker 1: about life, and they find out that there is a
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  Speaker 1: connection in ideologies. All of a suddenly famous supernaturalist as
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  Speaker 1: having credit Ferefore does God cooperating with the events w happen?
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  Speaker 1: Somebody just sends one five, whereas they wouldn't have sent
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  Speaker 1: one five. Every time you pray towards that relationship. Taiwan
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  Speaker 1: now wants to go eat by two, but she's delayed
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  Speaker 1: to go by four. The only seat left is the
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  Speaker 1: seat where family city. Everybody said, dif I connection, Oh
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  Speaker 1: it happens, Absolutely, it happens. They've been inviting you for
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  Speaker 1: colnonia for how many years? Suddenly twenty and fourteen, God
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  Speaker 1: just brings you, they say, turn around and hold one another,
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  Speaker 1: and goodness, good destiny, it happens. Say it happens. Your
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  Speaker 1: wife is an shure now say a man very happy,
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  Speaker 1: sitting down smiling, and see the wife blushing. Are you
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  Speaker 1: getting the point? Now, let me tell you something. In
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  Speaker 1: the house of God, your wife is there. In the
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  Speaker 1: House of God, sister, your husband is there. The Bible says,
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  Speaker 1: she that lives by the altar, shoe eats by the author.
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  Speaker 1: I'll say it to I'll say it by the end
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  Speaker 1: of today. Who would turn around and great one another?
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  Speaker 1: You will just great one another. I said, Oh God,
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  Speaker 1: open my eyes with this corporate annoys and opened my eyes,
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  Speaker 1: the Bible saying he broke bread, and their eyes were open,
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  Speaker 1: alas the sister you have been seeing every day. The
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  Speaker 1: Lord tells the son of man, the season has come.
• 1:05:21
  Speaker 1: Aaron was moving around and he went to prayer band
• 1:05:26
  Speaker 1: while the sister was praying card take your cabaco sotoba
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  Speaker 1: la dah bah. God was saying, Joseph, jo save ruthe.
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  Speaker 1: You will soon go to Naomis by your saf Do
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  Speaker 1: you know many of you because of your marriage, God
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  Speaker 1: took you from you got to order and something they
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  Speaker 1: didn't give you admission there. God relocated you and brought
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  Speaker 1: you in his season. Everybody said, divine connection. That's how
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  Speaker 1: we meet Destiny help us. That's how many of you
• 1:05:54
  Speaker 1: gave your life to Christ. You were strolling around and
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  Speaker 1: you had a preacher preaching. You just said, let me
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  Speaker 1: enter and listen to the message. Define connection, and you
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  Speaker 1: met Destiny. That's how some of you came to Coynonia.
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  Speaker 1: It's one of the principles. In fact, let me tell
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  Speaker 1: you the truth, it's one of the strongest ways that
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  Speaker 1: couples are connected together. Something in the House of God.
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  Speaker 1: So as you pray, say Lord, connect me divinely, Oh
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  Speaker 1: my God, watch a game. So the party is involved.
• 1:06:30
  Speaker 1: In a true kingdom marriage, there are three parties involved.
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  Speaker 1: Everybody said three parties. Number one is the man. Number
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  Speaker 1: two is the woman who would become his wife. Number
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  Speaker 1: three is Jesus himself represented in the person of the
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  Speaker 1: Holy Spirit. In a kingdom marriage, you do not have
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  Speaker 1: two people alone. Please understand this. That means in a
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  Speaker 1: kingdom marriage, even the man is not the final authority.
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  Speaker 1: He submits to a government higher than him. This is
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  Speaker 1: the only way the values of the kingdom can be
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  Speaker 1: initiated and sustained. There are men that believe they are
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  Speaker 1: the alph and omega, and they look at the lady
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  Speaker 1: and said, didn't I pay or dowry? I will be
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  Speaker 1: too in this room and will lock the door here
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  Speaker 1: when you know there is a tad witness who can
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  Speaker 1: also deal with you. Now the man slaps are two
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  Speaker 1: weeks later his hand and his leg andnot move again,
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  Speaker 1: and it's the same woman who will carry him to
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  Speaker 1: the hospital. Do you know the Bible said that on
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  Speaker 1: account of your faithfulness to your wife or not, you
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  Speaker 1: can stop your prayers from being answered. There are many
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  Speaker 1: people sweating in the bush whereas the answer to their
• 1:07:45
  Speaker 1: prayer is just delegions in honor of the wife. Please, brothers,
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  Speaker 1: understand that in a kingdom marriage, you are not the
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  Speaker 1: final authority, although you are the head physically, but compared
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  Speaker 1: to Christ, you are also the pride. Are you following me? Now?
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  Speaker 1: Number three? If we just well here, it's all right.
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  Speaker 1: The rolls the rolls now five verse twenty two. Please
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  Speaker 1: open your eyes. Five verse twenty two we start reading downward.
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  Speaker 1: God is about to distribute rolls to the parties involved.
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  Speaker 1: He's about to give codes of conduct. Ladies, can you
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  Speaker 1: read this one? To read the first three words? Please?
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  Speaker 1: First three words? Are you ready? One to read? Submit?
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  Speaker 1: What your money. We want your ability to cook, It says,
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  Speaker 1: so mid what see to understand the gravity of this revelation.
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  Speaker 1: It says, offire your body as a leading sacrifice. It's
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  Speaker 1: the same word he's using here for the woman. Submit
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  Speaker 1: every free thing about you. Ladies need to hear this message.
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  Speaker 1: All these women are live movement that is going rebellion
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  Speaker 1: against men. We are the freedom fighters fighting for our rights.
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  Speaker 1: It must happen our way, The Bible says, wife, submit,
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  Speaker 1: What are you seeing why you don't have a choice
• 1:09:35
  Speaker 1: about submission? Your choice is the kind of head you
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  Speaker 1: submit to, So you must You must trust God for
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  Speaker 1: a head that is worth your total submission. Wives, submit
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  Speaker 1: yourself to your own husband the same way you submit
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  Speaker 1: yourself onto the Lord. That's a dangerous statement. I saw
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  Speaker 1: some people lying on the ground. Some of you were
• 1:10:08
  Speaker 1: rolling on the floor. Some of you were lying down
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  Speaker 1: on the ground as a sign of submission and surrender.
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  Speaker 1: The Bible says, in that same way, if you are
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  Speaker 1: going to be a faithful wife man, this statement is
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  Speaker 1: so egos thinking you need the grace of God? Are
• 1:10:30
  Speaker 1: you saying why? It is a great mystery. Wives submit
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  Speaker 1: yourselves onto your housband in the same capacity. You come
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  Speaker 1: to Coinonia and you're worshiping, and you don't care whether
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  Speaker 1: you're with one faults or not. You are just giving
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  Speaker 1: him all the praise. And he's saying that same person
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  Speaker 1: transfer to your hosband. Are you saying the marriage is
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  Speaker 1: not a child play? Twenty three? For the husband? It
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  Speaker 1: gives you the reason why you should submit. Hallelujah. Let
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  Speaker 1: me tell you very quickly submit to your own husbands
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  Speaker 1: the same way. Why is the reason for submission or
• 1:11:16
  Speaker 1: what is the reason for submission? Except for the husband?
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  Speaker 1: Is what reason? Number one? Ladies, you are not equal
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  Speaker 1: in the home. You are equal in Christ. You are
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  Speaker 1: equal in creation based on the grace and the blessings
• 1:11:34
  Speaker 1: of God. You are equal. But when it comes to marriage,
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  Speaker 1: the same way you are Jesus Christ. You are one
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  Speaker 1: with Christ in that marriage. But when it comes to
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  Speaker 1: your roles in the kingdom, when the gospel of the
• 1:11:46
  Speaker 1: kingdom is taught, are you getting my point? Now? You
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  Speaker 1: understand that like a fetful pride, you must submit to
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  Speaker 1: your husband in all things. Are you getting my point? So,
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  Speaker 1: although you are equal, you are not equal because you qualified.
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  Speaker 1: You are equal because he married you. He brought you
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  Speaker 1: into that oneness. So give him that honor. And then
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  Speaker 1: the Bible says something interesting again, he said, and he
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  Speaker 1: is the savior of the body. Listen, dangerous statement the man.
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  Speaker 1: What does it mean being a savior? It means he's
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  Speaker 1: the one who paid the price to make the marriage walk.
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  Speaker 1: He paid the dowry. Although I hear that in Nigeria
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  Speaker 1: there are some places where there's the women that do
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  Speaker 1: all kinds of things. I don't know what they believe in, honestly,
• 1:12:40
  Speaker 1: but I'm teaching you the kingdom. In other words, give
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  Speaker 1: the man that honor for going to look for clothes
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  Speaker 1: and put him in three three words error. I'm buying
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  Speaker 1: one cow and dragging it to your mother's house. The
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  Speaker 1: Bible says, submits to him in honor. Don't trivi your
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  Speaker 1: lives what he has done. Are you getting my point?
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  Speaker 1: On account of that price he paid, it traveled with
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  Speaker 1: you to the village to quan see all your relatives.
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  Speaker 1: They insulted, and he said, yes, sir, they said, lie down.
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  Speaker 1: He lay down. He did all kinds of things, paid
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  Speaker 1: all kinds of transport, flans for people, he said, because
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  Speaker 1: he has paid this price, just like Christ paid the
• 1:13:27
  Speaker 1: price to run from us. He said, he paid that
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  Speaker 1: dowry that made you a wife. So don't trivial lives
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  Speaker 1: it without dowry. Without that price, there is no marriage.
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  Speaker 1: The man paid the dowry, and he said in response
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  Speaker 1: to that, so me. The place is quiet right now,
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  Speaker 1: but still an Ladies saying the name of Jesus, you
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  Speaker 1: know what to say. Say it so in the name
• 1:14:04
  Speaker 1: of Jesus, I received grace to be submissive. Many of
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  Speaker 1: you have very bad attitude towards men. Generally not to
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  Speaker 1: talk of the man who is your husband. You can
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  Speaker 1: shout at anybody. You can give it to anybody and
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  Speaker 1: don't care say me, they know I'm fired. Don't try me.
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  Speaker 1: I will give it to you. May God deliver you.
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  Speaker 1: Because this is not a mindset of the kingdom. Write
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  Speaker 1: it quickly in your prayer requests. During Mirabustavis transformation Transformation
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  Speaker 1: twenty five, guys, are you ready say yes, all right,
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  Speaker 1: let's read one to read. Ah, this is not you
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  Speaker 1: shouted with the same voice. One to read. Stop. Husbands,
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  Speaker 1: do what it is A think about loving her house funds,
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  Speaker 1: love your wife. If the Bible stop there, they would
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  Speaker 1: have been a big confusion, because any man would have
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  Speaker 1: created this reference for love. Are you getting me so
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  Speaker 1: I can say I sent you to one there narrative
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  Speaker 1: church card, Ha, what sort of nonsense is this? Didn't
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  Speaker 1: I try the Bible say ah, I did not leave
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  Speaker 1: you to guess your concept of love is said even
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  Speaker 1: as what Christ loved the church? Behold, I show you
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  Speaker 1: a mischief, husbands. There is a standard that has been created.
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  Speaker 1: Everybody says standard. Say it a standard, whether you are Egro,
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  Speaker 1: whether you are Euroba, whether you are houstar that you
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  Speaker 1: are from wherever, there is a standard and uncompromising, non
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  Speaker 1: need goost shaped kingdom standard for every man to love
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  Speaker 1: his wife. Ladies, that's good news. You should clap and
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  Speaker 1: thank God for him, because he didn't leave some of
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  Speaker 1: these quel men to their personal opinion. There are men
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  Speaker 1: seeing you see people around, and you look, there's no
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  Speaker 1: love in them. And then it so happens that most
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  Speaker 1: of this men marry very good wives, very good godly wives,
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  Speaker 1: and the man comes, he cannot love her, He cannot
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  Speaker 1: do anything. A job in the house is just to
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  Speaker 1: keep producing babies. Sexual intimates is not necessarily love. That's
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  Speaker 1: why a man can sleep with the prostitute and pay
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  Speaker 1: her and person on the street, and not even known husbands.
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  Speaker 1: Love your wife as Christ loved the church? How did
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  Speaker 1: Christ love the church? Because God knew that many men
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  Speaker 1: who still argue it and complain, So he added to
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  Speaker 1: let you know, how did Christ love the church? Let's
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  Speaker 1: read on, brothers, want to read. He gave? He did?
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  Speaker 1: He gave himself. You know what it means to give yourself,
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  Speaker 1: So it's not only the woman. The woman is submitting
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  Speaker 1: herself in everything, and the Bible says the man has
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  Speaker 1: to give himself. What does it mean to give himself?
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  Speaker 1: It means sacrifice, It means persion. It means build her
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  Speaker 1: and make her glorious spiritually, socially, physically, financially, constrain yourself,
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  Speaker 1: no matter now, what it takes to prove your love
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  Speaker 1: for your wife. Next verse place twenty six. That's for real, okay,
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  Speaker 1: twenty seven or twenty seven, twenty eight. I just want
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  Speaker 1: to jump that he might present that bride. So as
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  Speaker 1: a man, if you are truly loving your wife, you
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  Speaker 1: should be able to present her as a bride that
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  Speaker 1: glorious church without having spot or wrinkle or any such thing.
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  Speaker 1: That you should be holy without blemish this exact standards.
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  Speaker 1: God is giving a man that there is a kingdom
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  Speaker 1: perspective of love that should be channeled to the woman.
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  Speaker 1: She should see passion from you to her. She should
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  Speaker 1: see the sacrifice you are making financially, spiritually, physically. If
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  Speaker 1: that is not, brothers and sisters, you are not loving
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  Speaker 1: your wife. So you should only think of marriage when
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  Speaker 1: you are aware and prepared to play your role. Christ.
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  Speaker 1: The Bible says Philippians two, verse five. Let this mind
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  Speaker 1: be in you, which was also in christisus that although
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  Speaker 1: he knew he was God, he taught it not to
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  Speaker 1: be a quality for the love that he had. Are
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  Speaker 1: you getting my point? For his pride the church, he
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  Speaker 1: came down to become a man, went to every price,
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  Speaker 1: through the viting of kid salmone, through the knaeling of
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  Speaker 1: the cross, that the gradation and everything he did it
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  Speaker 1: as a demonstration of his love. So when you tell
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  Speaker 1: the lady I love you, she looks at your life
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  Speaker 1: to see the sacrifice. I'm busy, I'm busy. I'm busy. Please,
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  Speaker 1: I'm busy. I can't talk to you. Let me tell
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  Speaker 1: you you always have time for what you love. Always,
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  Speaker 1: since that's when a guy starts being not necessary, I'm busy.
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  Speaker 1: It's a sign to sit down and talk. Thank you Jesus.
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  Speaker 1: As simple as these things are, they will produce award
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  Speaker 1: winning homes if you abide by them. Summarizing what is
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  Speaker 1: the role of the wife to love with such passion
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  Speaker 1: and to submit in everything? The Bible says that submit
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  Speaker 1: in everything, everything, everything, everything. I think that's past twenty nine?
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  Speaker 1: Is that twenty nine? Yes? I think so. Okay, No
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  Speaker 1: one of the scriptures anyway, I cannot find exactly where
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  Speaker 1: it is, but it says submit in everything. Let me
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  Speaker 1: say everything. Now, that's a very dangerous statement. Submit your body,
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  Speaker 1: submit your finances. Finances caused big trouble. My mother was
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  Speaker 1: just seeing me of a wedding that happened in josh
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  Speaker 1: in twenty four hours. The wedding scattered as they went
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  Speaker 1: to the hotel room. They didn't even give thanks. The
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  Speaker 1: lady Joe said, the money that was collected, he said,
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  Speaker 1: most of the people came because of me. I hardly
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  Speaker 1: saw your people there. So the money that was raised,
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  Speaker 1: please for peace to range. Just channel it to me.
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  Speaker 1: And the guy said, you will know I paid your dowry.
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  Speaker 1: That was the case close, she parted her things like
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  Speaker 1: she was joking and left submitting everything. There are women
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  Speaker 1: that pass their phones from their husbands. This this section
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  Speaker 1: is passworded and they call the name of the rich
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  Speaker 1: man Rachel or Mary, Hello Mary, how are you? And
• 1:22:21
  Speaker 1: elonic way? Oh God, why are you calling me? By
• 1:22:23
  Speaker 1: this time? The Bible says that it's called unfaithfulness. Some
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  Speaker 1: of you are already startinty in your relationship. Somebody, wilse,
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  Speaker 1: do my phone please, ah Monsteu check everything when there
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  Speaker 1: is transparency and truth. Are you getting my point now?
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  Speaker 1: The Bible says, he who works in the light will
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  Speaker 1: not stumble, especially this our generation. We have a lot
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  Speaker 1: of hidden skeletons, so many things, and ladies in a relationship,
• 1:22:56
  Speaker 1: the guys they're dreaming, hoping to marry her. Whereas there
• 1:22:59
  Speaker 1: are five or six different people. One gives morning in January,
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  Speaker 1: the other one gives money in February, the other one
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  Speaker 1: gives money in March. By April, the first one can
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  Speaker 1: repeat the second repeats again. Don't laugh because as we
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  Speaker 1: are seated here, I know this is the house of God.
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  Speaker 1: There are people right now in this situation. You want
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  Speaker 1: to be a faithful pride, allelujah, your commitments. Submit in everything,
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  Speaker 1: submitting everything. If it's your husband is your husband. You
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  Speaker 1: don't need to know how much is in my account.
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  Speaker 1: The Bible says, submitting everything, your body everything. I had
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  Speaker 1: a story of a woman who doesn't allow her husband
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  Speaker 1: to meet with her until he pays her. Yeah, so
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  Speaker 1: it says, stingy man, So I know exactly how to
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  Speaker 1: get money from him. You may be justified. They make
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  Speaker 1: clap for you, but you are for relating the ordinance
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  Speaker 1: of marriage in the kingdom. And don't you think God
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  Speaker 1: will spare you because the man is irresponsible. Remember there
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  Speaker 1: is a third witness in that marriage. That's why I
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  Speaker 1: told you it's not just two people alone. There is
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  Speaker 1: a third witness. Husband, as you slave your wife, there
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  Speaker 1: is a third witness. Woman. As you cheat on your husband,
• 1:24:32
  Speaker 1: there is a third witness. Let me start from relationship,
• 1:24:36
  Speaker 1: as we play games with one another in relationship, some
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  Speaker 1: of you ladies in the horse and you call the
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  Speaker 1: guy and you put the phone on last speaker and
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  Speaker 1: it's just communicating his love and you are laughing. There
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  Speaker 1: many people laughing. They're just laughing and say, really, I
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  Speaker 1: love you. To the guys say I love you, and
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  Speaker 1: you're just laughing at him. There is a third weakness.
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  Speaker 1: There is a third witness. There is a third witness.
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  Speaker 1: The guys. They're planning and praying, putting on his Facebook
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  Speaker 1: so so so it's my wife, and you are now
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  Speaker 1: laughing from the one. You never plan to get married
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  Speaker 1: to him. So I will sort this guy dry like
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  Speaker 1: this thing that is tingy and almost open it. You're already,
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  Speaker 1: you are done introduction. The person does not let me
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  Speaker 1: tell you it's not fair. It's called harlowe. It's a
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  Speaker 1: great mystery. Faithfulness is very important. It's a different thing
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  Speaker 1: in the relationship does not work, but that you are willingly,
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  Speaker 1: consciously and faithful. It doesn't work that way. Many of
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  Speaker 1: us say, gather them plenty, Just gather the Bible saying
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  Speaker 1: the morning sow your seed, in the evening, sow your seed.
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  Speaker 1: You don't know which one you will read from. Continue
• 1:25:52
  Speaker 1: when all the seeds grow. I don't know which one
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  Speaker 1: you will cheat. I leave my head in I see Lord, listen.
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  Speaker 1: The Bible says, submit in everything, submit your mindset. Let
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  Speaker 1: me say, submit your mindset. I must still with the
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  Speaker 1: issue of mindset. If I cannot finish this topic today. Listen, listen,
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  Speaker 1: brothers and sisters. I don't care whether you saw it,
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  Speaker 1: stuff falling and hit the system. Fellow you two to
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  Speaker 1: prove that your wife, if your mindset do not agree,
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  Speaker 1: your marriage will not walk. Can two walk together? Emmo
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  Speaker 1: Street US three. The man will not brand this mindset
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  Speaker 1: to meet you, just like Christ will not submit this
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  Speaker 1: mindset to your ego culture or your robot culture, or
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  Speaker 1: outside culture or Platue culture or Penduey culture or code culture.
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  Speaker 1: You will have to submit with all that repentance. You
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  Speaker 1: submit your mindset. There are many top one wives in
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  Speaker 1: the world today who come with your ideologies. The family,
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  Speaker 1: for instance, may have just five thousand coming in a month,
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  Speaker 1: and the woman can come and say me, oh, I
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  Speaker 1: don't wear two thousand and five for rapper. If it's
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  Speaker 1: not this is not that the husband is saying, don't worry.
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  Speaker 1: God is faithful, He will help us. So I mean
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  Speaker 1: I don't I don't buy chicken that you know, I
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  Speaker 1: don't do all of these things. Submit your mindset. Everybody says,
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  Speaker 1: submit your mindset. In the little time that I have
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  Speaker 1: counseling people, one of the biggest issues I've seen in relationship.
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  Speaker 1: Is not that the marriage is not workable, but both
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  Speaker 1: parties are not yet willing to bend and submit their mindsets.
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  Speaker 1: Everybody say mindset, same mindset. You must submit your mindset.
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  Speaker 1: There are ladies who have all kinds of poisonous mindsets.
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  Speaker 1: Your concept of love is spend lovish leers onto death,
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  Speaker 1: even if it's to borrow, Josh borrow. I won't gift
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  Speaker 1: every day if in two days it does not send
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  Speaker 1: richarch card. This guy doesn't love me. God forbid utilities number.
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  Speaker 1: What sort of life are you living? That's a mindset
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  Speaker 1: that most common. That scrutiny. Ah, many of you are
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  Speaker 1: looking at me frowning. You're not started. You better look
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  Speaker 1: at me well, because I will press this thing like
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  Speaker 1: an eel till it's taste. The brother is working hard,
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  Speaker 1: trying to save a little. You are starting announcing your
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  Speaker 1: bed day in September from February. This guy's already been
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  Speaker 1: under pressure. What is this lady's saying now? In essence?
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  Speaker 1: I want to come at coin on her and it's rainy.
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  Speaker 1: The guy's okay, Let me arrange a small bike for you.
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  Speaker 1: Just got the phone bike. Don't look for a tagy
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  Speaker 1: to carry me. What sort of life is that? Everybody
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  Speaker 1: says submitting everything? This thing is paying many ladies. I
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  Speaker 1: will say it, I love you too much because that
• 1:29:24
  Speaker 1: mindset is what has pushed many of us. It's a mindset.
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  Speaker 1: We have suffered a lot of things, and you believe
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  Speaker 1: that the man says cape good that will make you
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  Speaker 1: feel happy. What they didn't give you at home, in
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  Speaker 1: your own father's house. You want to yoke the man
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  Speaker 1: now to give you by force. They give you five
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  Speaker 1: thousand other pocket money. The guy's giving you forty thousand.
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  Speaker 1: It's not enough. You know my needs are increasing.
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  Speaker 4: Ah.
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  Speaker 1: The guy just calculates and says, ah, this relationship is
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  Speaker 1: just six months. My back is already paying me. What
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  Speaker 1: sort of thing is this? Don't let society make you
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  Speaker 1: feel this is the pattern. I'm teaching you the way
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  Speaker 1: of the kingdom. Listen. If you are as shamed or
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  Speaker 1: being desperate about your relationship, I'm putting your hands on
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  Speaker 1: deck to walk it together. You can as well pack
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  Speaker 1: up from now. There are many ladies who do not
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  Speaker 1: want to show any sign of person and desperation in
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  Speaker 1: their relationship. They call it being cheap. So when it's
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  Speaker 1: time to put their hands. They're feeling barrassed by it.
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  Speaker 1: Let the guy not think I'm too cheap. It's the
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  Speaker 1: same thing that happens. So when there's anything he says,
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  Speaker 1: in fact, you know that, Joseph, guy are start there
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  Speaker 1: calling the hillo. You are not threatening the guy. The
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  Speaker 1: guy now goes to say, please Sam borrow me five
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  Speaker 1: thousand and settle. I got this little and seto although
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  Speaker 1: it's not enough for board Tom honestly, and Joseph wanted
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  Speaker 1: to give me a fifteen. I'm not don't feel bad.
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  Speaker 1: I'm just saying it to let you see how much
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  Speaker 1: I'm committed in this relationship. What sort of threats is
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  Speaker 1: that somebody has been delivered this night in the name
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  Speaker 1: of Jesus. A woman of honor and dignity is a
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  Speaker 1: woman that defends the interests of the man. A man
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  Speaker 1: can meet you with one hundred thousand, and you will say,
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  Speaker 1: I've made up my mind. I will drink carry with
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  Speaker 1: this one. We have two hundred era. How much you
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  Speaker 1: are fifteen erra buy sugar with your old let me
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  Speaker 1: buy garry. I will sit down and while you take
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  Speaker 1: it together, you tell her I may not be able
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  Speaker 1: to show you anything now. But I assure you, as
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  Speaker 1: surely as the God of Heaven leaves with this world
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  Speaker 1: and this principles, you will smile one day and the
• 1:31:49
  Speaker 1: lady says, thank God. I know things would change in
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  Speaker 1: the future, but it's not because I'm trusting for future.
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  Speaker 1: Even if it does not change, it's a decision by revelation. Sister.
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  Speaker 1: The greatest thing you can do to a man in
• 1:32:03
  Speaker 1: your life is to let him know, make him feel
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  Speaker 1: secure the way he is not complasant, but let him
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  Speaker 1: know that it's not what is giving you that you
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  Speaker 1: love him with passion. And you can come and tell him.
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  Speaker 1: Somebody offered me to eat in the restaurant, but I
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  Speaker 1: came help him solve the guy put the cold water
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  Speaker 1: there and say, Lord, we thank you because you are
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  Speaker 1: changing our lives. When I said I loved you, I
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  Speaker 1: meant it. I know you're a man of destiny. You
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  Speaker 1: are going somewhere it may not look like if please
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  Speaker 1: don't be under any pressure. I know that I had
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  Speaker 1: to help you with five foundered nerror, but I love
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  Speaker 1: you and I honor you. You have given that man
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  Speaker 1: energy to arise and wrong. Many ladies are chilling their
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  Speaker 1: relationships with wrong mindset. Then when another lady starts doing
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  Speaker 1: to the man what you have refused to do. The
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  Speaker 1: guy leaves you with your expensive life and your life
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  Speaker 1: of no gratitude. You feel it an embarrassment. He brought
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  Speaker 1: with one for you you loved and said, oh God,
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  Speaker 1: there are two times this type is fake yourself now
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  Speaker 1: for you. This guy for the first time went to
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  Speaker 1: the market, strolled around like you're fool in the market
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  Speaker 1: looking for we won. God word, Yes it was fake,
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  Speaker 1: but didn't he right? And he brought it and you
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  Speaker 1: now put it and said, oh well, let me tell
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  Speaker 1: the truth. I'm not going to put it to I'm
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  Speaker 1: telling you straight. But oh, may God help you, you're
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  Speaker 1: not doing bad. Look at because he asks you out.
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  Speaker 1: All of its sudden that brother will leave you and
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  Speaker 1: comfort fellowship like this. And then the first thing is
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  Speaker 1: he sees his sister, who says, good evening. The brother's
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  Speaker 1: never gotten that kind of team from you. And the
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  Speaker 1: lady looks and there's water, and he says, sorry, way,
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  Speaker 1: don't sit yet, and she cleans the chair. The brother
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  Speaker 1: says in Jesus name, oh Lord, I care for colling. Listen, listen,
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  Speaker 1: I'm being since here with you tonight, hallelujah. At the
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  Speaker 1: end of the meeting, the lady is using please, I'm sorry,
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  Speaker 1: thank you, remember all those words. And after everything, this
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  Speaker 1: brother goes to the room and he's fighting thoughts, Oh Lord,
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  Speaker 1: why can I not have this lady behave like this?
• 1:34:29
  Speaker 1: Then the sister sends a text made the Lord of
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  Speaker 1: hold you and make you a mighty man. Let your
• 1:34:34
  Speaker 1: see the mighty upon the earth. Immediate list receiving it,
• 1:34:40
  Speaker 1: madam now sends her own O galfa, it's eleven o'clock.
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  Speaker 1: You have not called, and it's contrasting, and this guy
• 1:34:47
  Speaker 1: is saying, kay, oh God, I'm already getting to a
• 1:34:50
  Speaker 1: point where I need to come to terms with myself. Brothers,
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  Speaker 1: am I speaking? Please? This is what you are causing
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  Speaker 1: a lot of brothers. Without knowing the brother has five
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  Speaker 1: hundred narra, You go to buy seuyer. You know he
• 1:35:15
  Speaker 1: has five hundred narror. You just carry five, say put
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  Speaker 1: you at your dob caught it whenas this brother was
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  Speaker 1: seting one hundred narra maybe to take pab and you
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  Speaker 1: am later on you are causing pain to this guy.
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  Speaker 1: Then he goes to meet another lady who says, look, look, look,
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  Speaker 1: I know you confided in me and you let me
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  Speaker 1: know things are not going on. Well, pasly charge card,
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  Speaker 1: you said, I know you tried, but I know that
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  Speaker 1: you are. You are paying the price. It's too much.
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  Speaker 1: Look I am, I am very comfortable. God bless you.
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  Speaker 1: Before you know it, should I tell you what happened.
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  Speaker 1: When you finish quarreling that guy, he will call the
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  Speaker 1: lady who is behaving virtuals. When he started reporting you,
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  Speaker 1: you're already in trouble. Red Card, he's already teaching. Once
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  Speaker 1: he started reporting you to the virtuous lady, something is
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  Speaker 1: already going wrong. And then the lady was in the situation.
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  Speaker 1: She says, well, let's pray for this other one. Ah,
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  Speaker 1: I let bet you. I don't bet you. Sisters, I'm
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  Speaker 1: sharing with you sincere secrets. Submit your mindset, Submit your mindset.
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  Speaker 1: There's no time. Maybe another time would take on the man. Man.
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  Speaker 1: You know I always balance equations. Allelujah. It's very important.
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  Speaker 1: Whould it be that there is a sister sitting down
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  Speaker 1: here on a way to destroy her marriage because there
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  Speaker 1: is no submission. You shout at the man any day,
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  Speaker 1: any time, plus team, and after all, you are not
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  Speaker 1: even among the five people that came close to me.
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  Speaker 1: If not because of all this Christ and christenting, what
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  Speaker 1: will make me come and talk to you? And the
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  Speaker 1: brother leaves heartbroken? And the brother is now thinking, multiply
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  Speaker 1: this experience times twenty years, multiply times thirty years. This
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  Speaker 1: I have not become rich. This girl is already chilling
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  Speaker 1: me the day she becomes my damn call. That means
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  Speaker 1: you enter any of the chips when they buy the
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  Speaker 1: newtube and they say live it. Lets that cat you said,
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  Speaker 1: that's the one I most right? Look since that's when
• 1:37:42
  Speaker 1: you see this lost this post sed mmineering attitude is
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  Speaker 1: the hand of Satan on his way to destroy your relationship.
• 1:37:52
  Speaker 1: Are you hearing what I'm saying? We are going to pray.
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  Speaker 1: You must submit. You're not interested in submission. Don't get married,
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  Speaker 1: don't get into a relationship. There is a beautiful position.
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  Speaker 1: Men honor those below them their respect, and they cherish
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  Speaker 1: those above them. They fight those who claim equality with them.
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  Speaker 1: When you maintain this beautiful position, it's not making you weak. Ladies,
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  Speaker 1: Learn to speak to your mind, learn to honor him.
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  Speaker 1: Send him text messages of dignity. Listen. Many of you
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  Speaker 1: don't know what it means to be a man is
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  Speaker 1: bigger than bringing children into the world. The responsibility when
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  Speaker 1: all of you pray for the rent, you say in
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  Speaker 1: Jesus' name, I saw aficial rent is coming. You go
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  Speaker 1: to bed. It's left for the man to translate that
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  Speaker 1: vision into reality. We hardly remember father's day. We remember
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  Speaker 1: mother's day. When his father's they will forget the fathers.
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  Speaker 1: These are the men that labeled. Let me tell you,
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  Speaker 1: you don't know what it means to be a man.
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  Speaker 1: You're sitting down. There are school fees, there are all
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  Speaker 1: kinds of things. Please, ladies, respect men. Respect these brothers
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  Speaker 1: you see. They may be foolish, but respect them. They
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  Speaker 1: may sound naive. God knows why you put them in
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  Speaker 1: that position. When you maintain that postule, you're on your
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  Speaker 1: way to entering a godly relationship. It cannot always be
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  Speaker 1: your way. Write it. There are many ladies. If it's
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  Speaker 1: not your way, to hell with it. Change tonight, Change tonight.
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  Speaker 1: If Ile says we should go this way, and I
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  Speaker 1: say we should go this way, both of us must
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  Speaker 1: be able to submit to the world of God. If
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  Speaker 1: the word of God says two of you come this way,
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  Speaker 1: we should not be embarrassed to tea and ben to
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  Speaker 1: this thad witness the most authority above us. If someone
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  Speaker 1: learning something tonight, this is how to become a woman
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  Speaker 1: of virtue. I submit to you. Many of the ladies
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  Speaker 1: in our generation are not virtuous ladies. Please don't feel offended.
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  Speaker 1: I honestly submit to you on that God and without
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  Speaker 1: anybody us the out fletched lady, including in the church,
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  Speaker 1: they are not virtuous. They are godly, but they are
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  Speaker 1: not virtuous. This is why it looks like marriage is
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  Speaker 1: very difficult. No man wants a liability in his life. Sisters,
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  Speaker 1: and you better listen to what I'm saying. Could it
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  Speaker 1: be the reason why some of us have not had
• 1:40:54
  Speaker 1: a husband or somebody come into your life. You are
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  Speaker 1: rude at everybody. I can't greet anybody whenever you wanted
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  Speaker 1: me to say please, let people not think I'm doing
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  Speaker 1: notice me. I'm being desperate. Please means for I have dignity?
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  Speaker 1: Dot Tom messpecky an answer. It's one woman that I
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  Speaker 1: have come to model. There are two women that men
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  Speaker 1: told me as far as the character of family and
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  Speaker 1: how a woman should be at in the house. One
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  Speaker 1: is dot Tom Missus Pecky an answer. The other one
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  Speaker 1: is Reverend miss is fun Catholics at de Jumo. These
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  Speaker 1: two women have demonstrated to me the most authentic revelation
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  Speaker 1: of womanhood, and it has helped me to sub me
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  Speaker 1: to Christ. You see how many believers do not have
• 1:41:40
  Speaker 1: authentic power. They have not submitted to Christ. In everything
• 1:41:44
  Speaker 1: they believe in God, but they have not submitted. You
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  Speaker 1: have not submitted your finances, You've not submitted your body.
• 1:41:53
  Speaker 1: God tells you to go on a three day First Lord,
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  Speaker 1: I want my comfort. You already died to set me free.
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  Speaker 1: Why do I need to die again? There is no submission?
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  Speaker 1: Are you seeing how it relates to Christ and the
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  Speaker 1: Church like a faithful bride. That's why most of the
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  Speaker 1: songs that I write, I write songs that connote my submission.
• 1:42:18
  Speaker 1: I sing songs that could note His authority. It's not
• 1:42:21
  Speaker 1: because I know. I don't know that I am one
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  Speaker 1: with Him. When you come into the Kingdom, you will
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  Speaker 1: drop down as a woman. That means every man who
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  Speaker 1: truly works with God should be able to understand a woman,
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  Speaker 1: because that is really what he is in the spirit too.
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  Speaker 1: Like women, there are times where stubborn, and we have
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  Speaker 1: all kinds of mood swings. But like a loving husband,
• 1:42:50
  Speaker 1: God understands. There are times we even yell at him,
• 1:42:54
  Speaker 1: just like a lady will yell at the guy she's
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  Speaker 1: going out with. All the husbands even call him to
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  Speaker 1: be But God looks at our hearts, not our actions.
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  Speaker 1: And while you are insulting him and saying, God, I'm
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  Speaker 1: disappointed you let this happen to me. God just keeps quiet.
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  Speaker 1: Men lend this. When God is silent, he's about to speak.
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  Speaker 1: When you're a man who talks too much, you are
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  Speaker 1: not strong. Great men are men of few words. Let
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  Speaker 1: the woman be ranting when she finishes you, calm down.
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  Speaker 1: That's a man talking. You two you enjoy you start talking,
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  Speaker 1: then you start crying too. Two brides, you must sustaine
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  Speaker 1: strength and stability. Allelujah. They're coming to drive you out
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  Speaker 1: of the house. There's no right. The woman has cried
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  Speaker 1: and done everything, even get say I told you to
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  Speaker 1: get that job. You didn't get that job. And the
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  Speaker 1: man keeps quiet, and later he now calls her. And
• 1:43:57
  Speaker 1: when he's calling her, she's afraid because she is thinking
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  Speaker 1: it's going to give By Deathy slap or something, and
• 1:44:04
  Speaker 1: the man says, look, I understand, I know what you're
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  Speaker 1: going through, and I'm sorry, And she's flattered and embarrassed
• 1:44:12
  Speaker 1: and her perception about the man is changing. Is this
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  Speaker 1: not what Jesus Christ does to you? After we do
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  Speaker 1: all the nonsense that we do, we run to him.
• 1:44:23
  Speaker 1: And when we run to him, like the prodigal song,
• 1:44:25
  Speaker 1: he doesn't stand us at and say go back, go back,
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  Speaker 1: says come allelujah. Husband, you must love your wife on
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  Speaker 1: to death. You must sacrifice onto death. Jesus model that
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  Speaker 1: has showed it to us. She's always responsible. Wives, you
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  Speaker 1: must honor your husband. I didn't say that. Let me
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  Speaker 1: at it. Husbands, when a woman submits to you, you
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  Speaker 1: must show forth a level of responsibility that justifies that submission.
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  Speaker 1: Are you getting my point? When you keep stabbing a
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  Speaker 1: woman every day and say that's how Nigeria is? She
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  Speaker 1: gets up to go and look for something, and the
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  Speaker 1: man and please don't get me wrong, but I need
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  Speaker 1: to talk to some of us who are from the North,
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  Speaker 1: because it's generally believed that the North and the Middle belters.
• 1:45:30
  Speaker 1: I've shown quite a strong level of irresponsibility. We get
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  Speaker 1: married to a lady paid the darry and throw highway,
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  Speaker 1: and we said, we need three more children in this household.
• 1:45:43
  Speaker 1: And the woman, he said, for who to feed? You
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  Speaker 1: see a woman going to the farm. We went for
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  Speaker 1: a meeting in a particular place I would mention in Nigeria,
• 1:45:53
  Speaker 1: and I saw women riding bicycles. They are the ones
• 1:45:56
  Speaker 1: carrying firewood and doing everything. And I saw the men.
• 1:45:59
  Speaker 1: They just sat down with your pot belly. Just take him, Pierre,
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  Speaker 1: And she's sting around your neighborhood. I said, what cross
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  Speaker 1: irresponsibility of the highest order. Listen, let me tell you,
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  Speaker 1: brothers and sisters. You may not get a job now,
• 1:46:16
  Speaker 1: but are you reading books? You may not get a
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  Speaker 1: job now, can't you get up and make yourself productive?
• 1:46:23
  Speaker 1: Stop taking the lady for granted, yes, she has humbled
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  Speaker 1: herself and you are drinking Gary together, but do you
• 1:46:30
  Speaker 1: want to keep drinking Gary forever? Don't stretch her generosity?
• 1:46:35
  Speaker 1: Lady shout and tell the guys wake up, say it, wake, wake, wake.
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  Speaker 1: Many of us are not doing anything. There is none
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  Speaker 1: of us here who is young, young enough to begin
• 1:46:55
  Speaker 1: to plan your life. What books are you reading? What
• 1:46:59
  Speaker 1: are you doing about finances? Have you read any book
• 1:47:02
  Speaker 1: on fatherhood. We're going to round up all the brothers.
• 1:47:09
  Speaker 1: Stand up, lift your right hand. Unless trust God. For Christ,
• 1:47:16
  Speaker 1: we most correct what is happening in the family. Don't
• 1:47:19
  Speaker 1: feel embarrassed about it. I preach like this. I don't
• 1:47:22
  Speaker 1: shout out of annoyance. It's out of passion self. I'm
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  Speaker 1: in the name of Jesus. I received grace to be
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  Speaker 1: a responsible husband, to be a responsible father, to be
• 1:47:38
  Speaker 1: a responsible leader. I received grace to pay the price
• 1:47:44
  Speaker 1: now and build my spiritual life, and build my leadership life,
• 1:47:53
  Speaker 1: and build my family life, and build my financial life.
• 1:48:00
  Speaker 1: My wife will call me blessed, My children will call
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  Speaker 1: me blessed. My generation will call me blessed. My home
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  Speaker 1: will be a model home. May God bless you, and
• 1:48:16
  Speaker 1: may Him make this confession become true in your life
• 1:48:19
  Speaker 1: in the future. Don't forget that you stood before God's
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  Speaker 1: people are lifted your hands. When it's ten years down
• 1:48:27
  Speaker 1: the line, when young men become dra coolers in their house,
• 1:48:31
  Speaker 1: Remember you made a commitment. Now I will preach it
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  Speaker 1: while I have access to you. All the men that
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  Speaker 1: are killing their wives, many of us years, over seventy percent.
• 1:48:42
  Speaker 1: We crew on the hostile homes. Our fathers were dra coolers.
• 1:48:47
  Speaker 1: They practically abused us. It took the grace of God
• 1:48:51
  Speaker 1: for God to navigate the way. You cannot pack in
• 1:48:54
  Speaker 1: the same packing lot your parents packed and expect a
• 1:48:57
  Speaker 1: different results. You must take a decision now, and that
• 1:49:00
  Speaker 1: decision is not by faith. You will begin to walk
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  Speaker 1: at it. No more joking around. You're in a relationship.
• 1:49:11
  Speaker 1: You cannot be doing calls from morning till night. Let's
• 1:49:15
  Speaker 1: here be a time you are reading book, go on YouTube,
• 1:49:19
  Speaker 1: study on establishment, study on godly parenting. There's no time
• 1:49:24
  Speaker 1: where our time is already spent. Maybe I'll tach a
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  Speaker 1: pity next week before we go into another topic. Please
• 1:49:31
  Speaker 1: make that, make that commitment. I listened to a message
• 1:49:36
  Speaker 1: some weeks ago, maybe about two weeks by d. Tormas
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  Speaker 1: Munro on fatherhood. When I listened to that message, I
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  Speaker 1: got down on my knees and I cried. I said, Lord,
• 1:49:45
  Speaker 1: even at this point, I am not satisfied. I want
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  Speaker 1: to be an award winning houseband. I want to be
• 1:49:52
  Speaker 1: an award winning father. I want my children not to
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  Speaker 1: run away when they hear the horn of my car.
• 1:49:58
  Speaker 1: I want them to stand out, rejoicing that when my
• 1:50:02
  Speaker 1: children don't see me for six hours. They miss me.
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  Speaker 1: Many of you have not been home many years, and
• 1:50:08
  Speaker 1: you are not missing anybody because of the pain you
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  Speaker 1: have gone through. You are busy insulting your father. Now,
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  Speaker 1: in a few weeks, or a few months, or a
• 1:50:19
  Speaker 1: few years, it will now be your tone. You're already
• 1:50:22
  Speaker 1: emulating the mindset that you've lived under. That's why God
• 1:50:26
  Speaker 1: brought you to Coynonia to change you. Jesus is a
• 1:50:32
  Speaker 1: responsible person as that husband. He gives you breath, He
• 1:50:37
  Speaker 1: grants you favor, he forgives He understands that you are weak,
• 1:50:42
  Speaker 1: like the woman who is called a weaker vessel. He
• 1:50:45
  Speaker 1: knows that your frame is human and that there are
• 1:50:48
  Speaker 1: some things you cannot take. You must begin to show compassion. Brothers,
• 1:50:53
  Speaker 1: show compassion to these sisters. Many of you are pullice,
• 1:50:57
  Speaker 1: you pully a three lady around you. Many of you
• 1:51:00
  Speaker 1: are in relationships, and your relationship has all kinds of tensions.
• 1:51:05
  Speaker 1: Nobody can talk to you. You don't listen to any
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  Speaker 1: body's opinion. You do it as you please. You want
• 1:51:13
  Speaker 1: the lady to come to your place. Where are you come? Now?
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  Speaker 1: Come now? I don't want to hear anything you better change,
• 1:51:21
  Speaker 1: better change. I show you a great mystery. I show
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  Speaker 1: you a great mystery. God has never failed in his
• 1:51:31
  Speaker 1: responsibility as a faithful husband. God has been faithful to
• 1:51:36
  Speaker 1: an extent that after his finished work he still sat
• 1:51:40
  Speaker 1: down at the right hand making intercession for the saints.
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  Speaker 1: How many of you have given excuses for your wives?
• 1:51:47
  Speaker 1: How many are I've given excuses for the lady you
• 1:51:52
  Speaker 1: stand with? The lady you are going out with it?
• 1:51:54
  Speaker 1: See iren eyeing to pieces in the presence of other ladies,
• 1:51:58
  Speaker 1: and so she likes it? Dignity. Can I tell you something? Brothers,
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  Speaker 1: you the lady, your wife is a reflection of the
• 1:52:09
  Speaker 1: honor you are put on her. Are you what I'm saying?
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  Speaker 1: Your wife, just like the church, is the reflection of
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  Speaker 1: the honor that Christ has put upon us. He has
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  Speaker 1: made us head over principalities and powers. He devous dominion.
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  Speaker 1: You must bring your wife to be a partaker of
• 1:52:28
  Speaker 1: your honor and dominion. You see certain men, millionnaires, great men,
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  Speaker 1: and you now see your wife wretched, tracking around whereas
• 1:52:43
  Speaker 1: they are focus at home. I'll show you a mystery.
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  Speaker 1: Never do to any woman what Jesus Christ did not
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  Speaker 1: do to you? Write it. Brothers, never do to any
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  Speaker 1: woman what Jesus Christ didn't do to you. It's wrong,
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  Speaker 1: it's on goodly. Please see down. Ladies, please stand up.
• 1:53:11
  Speaker 1: We're going't you pray all ladies, our sisters, please kindly
• 1:53:14
  Speaker 1: stand up. This is a very prophetic commitment. Married or
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  Speaker 1: not married, please stand up, lift your hands self time.
• 1:53:27
  Speaker 1: In the name of Jesus. I received praise to be
• 1:53:33
  Speaker 1: a woman of excellence, to be a woman of FETs you,
• 1:53:40
  Speaker 1: to be a woman desperate to make my marriage walk says,
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  Speaker 1: to be a woman that represents godliness, to bear a
• 1:53:53
  Speaker 1: woman that reflects the image of the perfect Church. I
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  Speaker 1: received to be submissive. I receive grace to be temperate.
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  Speaker 1: I receive grace to be modest. I receive grace to
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  Speaker 1: be vegeos. I received grace for self control. I receive
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  Speaker 1: grace to love my husband, to submit to him. My
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  Speaker 1: children will call me blessed. There's no share in my hope.
• 1:54:33
  Speaker 1: There's no tension in my hope. I am praised the
• 1:54:37
  Speaker 1: mindset of the Kingdom, and I refuse any mindset that
• 1:54:45
  Speaker 1: makes me short of being the perfect bride. May the
• 1:54:51
  Speaker 1: Lord bless you see. Let me tell you in the
• 1:54:55
  Speaker 1: years to come. When we celebrate God me children, when
• 1:54:59
  Speaker 1: we celebrate the grace of God, we will meet again
• 1:55:03
  Speaker 1: in future, and many of you will thank me for
• 1:55:06
  Speaker 1: this because your own will be a tension free soul.
• 1:55:10
  Speaker 1: I've follow from a very young age that some of
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  Speaker 1: the things I suffered growing up, my children will never
• 1:55:18
  Speaker 1: ever have to go through it. It's a pledge before
• 1:55:23
  Speaker 1: the God whom myself. Brothers, don't carry any man's daughter
• 1:55:30
  Speaker 1: to your house and jeopardize the remaining part of our life.
• 1:55:34
  Speaker 1: It's better to remain single. God do or know you
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  Speaker 1: for it, especially those of us in ministry. If you
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  Speaker 1: are getting into minisry, listen very well, because ministers have
• 1:55:49
  Speaker 1: a lot of tendencies. Everyone ris upon your feet in
• 1:55:58
  Speaker 1: one minute, before were hallelujah, just play softly please. I
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  Speaker 1: want everybody to think for one minute. Have your relationship
• 1:56:10
  Speaker 1: with Jesus Christ been like that of a faithful bride
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  Speaker 1: and a husband? So all of us are prides. Now
• 1:56:16
  Speaker 1: I want you to reflect in one minute is the
• 1:56:22
  Speaker 1: mystery of marriage at work in your relationship with the
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  Speaker 1: Lord Jesus Christ. Can you truly say you have been
• 1:56:29
  Speaker 1: a faithful pride submitting to him in all things? Not
• 1:56:33
  Speaker 1: just believing him. Many of us have submitted our finances,
• 1:56:38
  Speaker 1: but not our bodies, who are still playing har lod
• 1:56:42
  Speaker 1: three with God. Many of us. I wish I had time,
• 1:56:46
  Speaker 1: I would have taught on the faithful bride. There's still
• 1:56:49
  Speaker 1: another part of the teacher, in fact, a major part,
• 1:56:52
  Speaker 1: because I wanted to talk about spiritual unication, the concept
• 1:56:56
  Speaker 1: how that marriage. I need also understand the pober of marriage,
• 1:57:01
  Speaker 1: how that the purpose of marriage brings about oneness, and
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  Speaker 1: marriage from the Bible is an antitoe to a life
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  Speaker 1: of fornication, just like commitment to God is the antito
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  Speaker 1: to going around and mixing spirituality with witchcraft and mixing it.
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  Speaker 1: Becoming a faithful pride that submits God. Grant us Christ.
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  Speaker 1: What I want you to think your relationship with Jesus Christ.
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  Speaker 1: There are many of us you cannot say you are
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  Speaker 1: being faithful. Imagine yourself as a woman right now. Have
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  Speaker 1: you been faithful to this husband that has never failed.
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  Speaker 1: Imagine a money in your life who cannot fail. Imagine
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  Speaker 1: a mane in your life who loves you more than
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  Speaker 1: your wildest imagination, that, in spite of our hallow three,
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  Speaker 1: he has been faithful. Please listen we're about to pray. Now,
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  Speaker 1: I want you to imagine everybody for one minute. What
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  Speaker 1: kind of home do you see yourself building, especially our brothers.
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  Speaker 1: I want you to imagine right now. What do you
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  Speaker 1: see your children calling you in the next ten years?
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  Speaker 1: It disastined your life or a gift? What do you
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  Speaker 1: see happening? Sisters? What do you see your husband calling
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  Speaker 1: you after five years? Can you look at you and say,
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  Speaker 1: even if I missed out on the will of God,
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  Speaker 1: I know I did not. I never made a mistake.
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  Speaker 1: Will a brother look at you after ten years and
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  Speaker 1: be crying every day and said, I missed it? Oh God,
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  Speaker 1: I missed it. There's one of my friends, quite an
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  Speaker 1: elderly friend of mine. Every time he talks to me
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  Speaker 1: about marriage, he tells me something. He said, I missed
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  Speaker 1: it in my marriage. Make sure you do not miss it.
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  Speaker 1: This man loves the Lord with all his heart. I'm
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  Speaker 1: telling you I have never seen I thought I was
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  Speaker 1: a jeeva till I met that man. That man dwarfed
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  Speaker 1: my giving life by a factor that got me scared.
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  Speaker 1: And I said, how could such a nice man make
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  Speaker 1: a mistaken his marriage? See if you need to go
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  Speaker 1: for a retreat over your relationship. Let me even talk
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  Speaker 1: to you if you are in a relationship. If you
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  Speaker 1: are married, well that's all right. But if you are
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  Speaker 1: in a relationship that you know is not going anywhere,
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  Speaker 1: don't see thembarrassed and say people have already seen me
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  Speaker 1: with the guy. What do I tell people if there
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  Speaker 1: is need to go for a retreat? Let me tell
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  Speaker 1: you right now. The sign at the periodic checks that
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  Speaker 1: come to your heart here and again, those things are
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  Speaker 1: the voice of God calling you to flow things out.
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  Speaker 1: There's no perfect relationship, but there are godly relationships. Go
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  Speaker 1: back God and flog it out with testiny, so that
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  Speaker 1: if in case it was because of the guy's money
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  Speaker 1: or your perception of his annointing, that's what drove you.
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  Speaker 1: You better find a solid reason right now that can
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  Speaker 1: last for eternity. And there are many of us. Yes, sisters,
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  Speaker 1: God is speaking to you. Godly men come and keep
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  Speaker 1: asking you out. You know the food that they are receiving,
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  Speaker 1: the spiritual nourishment. I'm not talking about childless people who
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  Speaker 1: parading a crowd like this as believers. A godly man
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  Speaker 1: comes to your life, you keep posting and pushing everybody
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  Speaker 1: instead of going home to pray few compatibility and settle
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  Speaker 1: down my retality. You keep pushing everybody around, only to
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  Speaker 1: find out that life is like a graph. There is
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  Speaker 1: a big period of your life. There is a level
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  Speaker 1: you get to wear. All a man who would have
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  Speaker 1: married you are already married. At that point. You don't
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  Speaker 1: have options again, and there are some of us brothers.
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  Speaker 1: You keep parading ladies around you, believing that you're a
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  Speaker 1: fine guy. You're a charismatic guy because of your anointing.
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  Speaker 1: There are all kinds of ladies parading around you. You
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  Speaker 1: have promised all of them that you are thinking about it,
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  Speaker 1: and you are feeling hot. The Bible says, do not
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  Speaker 1: be deceived. God cannot be moved. You have stopped those sisters.
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  Speaker 1: They have said no to every brother waiting for you
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  Speaker 1: because you give them assurance that you are coming. It's
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  Speaker 1: time to think about your life this night. Think about
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  Speaker 1: your life this night. Do not make commitments to any
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  Speaker 1: man's daughter that you don't plan to go far with Allelujah.
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  Speaker 1: Now lift your voice and ask for grace first, to
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  Speaker 1: be a faithful pride. This is the secret of spiritual power.
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  Speaker 1: While out of time, but I want you to pray,
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  Speaker 1: Please pray. This is the most important commitment. No matter
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  Speaker 1: what it is that you want to to. Just give
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  Speaker 1: yourself some time and pray. Lord, I receive praise to
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  Speaker 1: be a faithful pride. I submit to you. I submit
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  Speaker 1: my body. I submit my body. I submit my motile
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  Speaker 1: physical body. It will not be used as an instrument
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  Speaker 1: of phnication, it will not be used as an instrument
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  Speaker 1: of spirit to our hallottery. I submit now husband, set
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  Speaker 1: full husband of my life. Like a faithful pride, I
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  Speaker 1: minister to your needs. The Bible says, a desire shall
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  Speaker 1: be to our housband. My desire is only to my king.
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  Speaker 1: My desire is only to my Lord. My desire is
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  Speaker 1: only the one who take the dowry to make me
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  Speaker 1: a pride. I cannot look at any other God. Again.
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  Speaker 1: I am fulfilled. I am satisfied. Can be many gods
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  Speaker 1: working magic, but I am committed to be a fed
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  Speaker 1: fuel pride. When things go well and when things don't
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  Speaker 1: go well, I have played my allegiance like a faithful pride.
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  Speaker 1: I submit to you. When ministry goes well, I still
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  Speaker 1: submit to you. When you give me prosperity, I submit
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  Speaker 1: to you. Make a decision. It's not enough to believe
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  Speaker 1: in God. When you come to the kingdom, you submit. Allelujah.
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  Speaker 1: Now you're going to pray. You're still praying as the bride.
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  Speaker 1: You're going to say Lord to night, I submit my mentality.
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  Speaker 1: I submit my mentality. Lift your voice and trade. You
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  Speaker 1: are not just a husband that is there to meet
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  Speaker 1: my needs. You also have needs. I'm sorry for embracing
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  Speaker 1: a mindset that only things about myself, my money, my marriage,
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  Speaker 1: my exams, my academics, my ministry. Man, your fos have
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  Speaker 1: been on stful pride. We forget that God as a
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  Speaker 1: husband also has a need and need to be honored,
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  Speaker 1: and need to be believed, and need to be trusted
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  Speaker 1: and need to be represented. Allelujah. Make up your mind
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  Speaker 1: tonight to truly me to go in every day. One
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  Speaker 1: last prayer point. We're going to pray. Right now. You're
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  Speaker 1: going to say, Lord, my marriage will not fail because
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  Speaker 1: of me. I wouldn't be the reason why my relationship
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  Speaker 1: will fail. Guys keep coming into my life and everybody
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  Speaker 1: is complaining. The problem is not the man, The problem
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  Speaker 1: is me. Help me. Oh God, pray guys, ron enter
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  Speaker 1: twelve relationships. None is working. I assure you the problem
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  Speaker 1: is not a guy. The problem is you.
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  Speaker 4: Pray net I received grace to pray my role. The
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  Speaker 4: sisters pray. I don't see.
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  Speaker 1: Submission as an embarrassment. Again, I stop me my mindset.
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  Speaker 1: I saw it, my ideologies. I serve the man. He
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  Speaker 1: enjoys my presence, his eyes onto him. I put my
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  Speaker 1: hand on the plow. I'm determined to make my relationship walk. Allelujah, Father,
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  Speaker 1: we trust you for marriages in this place that only
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  Speaker 1: reflect Christ and his Church. In the name of Jesus,
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  Speaker 1: I prophesy to every dying marriage made the hand of
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  Speaker 1: the Lord come upon you, every family facing any kind
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  Speaker 1: of marital tension. I stretch my hands and I pray
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  Speaker 1: that the messy of God comes into that in the
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  Speaker 1: name of Jesus Christ. Allelujah, Allelujah. Please let me recommend
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  Speaker 1: two books very quickly. Allelujah. Please, every lady should read
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  Speaker 1: this before she gets married. I've forgotten I think fifteen
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  Speaker 1: and listen to me. Hallelujah. You're worshiping with us for
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  Speaker 1: the first time. Please rise up on your feet and
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  Speaker 1: come out very quickly. God bless you. Will love you,
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  Speaker 1: please very quickly, very quickly. Thank you for coming. Don't
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  Speaker 1: be ashamed, don't be afraid. Christless hope for you. God
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  Speaker 1: bless you. Celebrate them as they comings and outside we
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  Speaker 1: bless you keep coming. Those of you worshiping with us
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  Speaker 1: for the first time, we love you, We honor you.
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  Speaker 1: Thank you so much for coming. This is Coinonia. Bless
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  Speaker 1: you for coming. You will never be the same in
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  Speaker 1: the name of Jesus Christ. Stretch your hands sense of
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  Speaker 1: God as we pray for them, prophesy blessings upon them.
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  Speaker 1: Your life will refin's like this spiritual marriage of faithfulness
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  Speaker 1: and submission. In the name of the Lord Jesus, we
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  Speaker 1: declare that you are blessed. You are blessed in your
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  Speaker 1: going out, You are blessed in when you're coming in.
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  Speaker 1: All that you do is blessed in the name of
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  Speaker 1: the Lord Jesus Christ. Thank you so much. We bless
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