Latest / Reformed Thinking / Kingdom First, Anxiety Last: Fatherly Providence and the Disciples’ Freedom (Matthew 6:25–34)
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- 0:00Welcome to reformed thinking. And this is the deep dive where
- 0:02we get into the details of a text and really try to
- 0:05understand it. Today we're looking at a passage
- 0:07that I think everyone knows, or at least thinks they know.
- 0:11It's Jesus's teaching on worry in Matthew chapter 6, verses 25
- 0:16to 34. And our goal here isn't to just
- 0:18offer a few encouraging thoughts.
- 0:20We want to look at this through the lens of Scripture itself,
- 0:23understanding anxiety for what Jesus says it is.
- 0:26Which is what exactly? Well, he treats it as a
- 0:29spiritual issue, not just the psychological quirk, but
- 0:32something that points to a heart with, you could say, disordered
- 0:35worship. And the cure he offers is.
- 0:37It's all about the Father's Providence, his reliable care.
- 0:41OK, so key thing to get right from the start is that this
- 0:44whole discussion hangs on one word in verse 25.
- 0:47Yes, the word. Therefore, it connects
- 0:50everything Jesus is about to say on worry to everything you just
- 0:52said about treasure and masters. You can't serve God and Mammon,
- 0:57God and money or material security.
- 1:00Right. If you try to split your
- 1:01allegiance, if you try to find your security in your own
- 1:04resources, then anxiety isn't just a possibility.
- 1:07It's the inevitable result. It's the logical outcome.
- 1:11You've basically signed up for the job of managing the universe
- 1:13yourself, and that's a crust or a way.
- 1:15So that's our thesis for this deep dive.
- 1:17Anxiety is the symptom. And disordered worship is the
- 1:21disease. The solution Jesus gives isn't a
- 1:24technique, it's a re centering of the entire person on God's
- 1:27Kingdom and his. All right, let's jump into that
- 1:30first command. In verse 25, Jesus says do not
- 1:33be anxious about your life. This isn't gentle advice, is it?
- 1:37It lands with some real force. It's an alarm bell, it's a
- 1:40command, and it helps to know the Greek word here, marimna.
- 1:44It carries this idea of being pulled apart, being distracted
- 1:47or internally divided. Pulled apart, that's a very
- 1:50vivid picture of what anxiety feels like, a fragmentation of
- 1:52your mind, your attention. It is.
- 1:55It describes a state where you're constantly trying to
- 1:57secure the future, but you're doing it as if God isn't there,
- 2:00as if he's absent from his own world.
- 2:02And if that's your starting point, if you believe it's all
- 2:06on you. Then worry becomes a necessity.
- 2:08It feels like the only responsible thing to do.
- 2:11So this is where we see anxiety as the fruit of that divided
- 2:14allegiance you mentioned. If my real master is my bank
- 2:16account or my reputation. And you're going to worry
- 2:19because those masters are fragile.
- 2:20They can vanish overnight. Now this is an area where we
- 2:23need to be careful. Is Jesus condemning, say, having
- 2:26a budget or planning for retirement?
- 2:29Not at all, And that's a critical distinction.
- 2:32The Scriptures are full of praise for diligence, for a wise
- 2:35planning, for honest work. So what's he condemning?
- 2:38He's condemning a specific kind of worry, an unbelieving,
- 2:42consuming worry. It's a posture of the heart that
- 2:45leads to this restless, spiraling and a deep seated
- 2:48distrust of God. It's that clenched fist
- 2:51attitude. Yes, that insistence on control,
- 2:54as if we can take over God's role as the one who governs all
- 2:57things. And it reframes it for me.
- 2:59It's not about working versus not working.
- 3:01It's about theology is asking who am I actually trusting right
- 3:04now? That is the core question.
- 3:06You see, anxiety is a kind of work.
- 3:08It takes a huge amount of energy, but it's counterfeit
- 3:12work. Counterfeit work.
- 3:13Say more about that. It burns up all this internal
- 3:15fuel, but it produces nothing except more bondage.
- 3:20It's the spiritual opposite of the sort of peaceful diligence
- 3:23that comes from genuine trust. And I noticed Jesus is very
- 3:26practical here. He's not talking about abstract
- 3:29fears. He names the basics.
- 3:32What you will eat or what you will drink, What you will put
- 3:34on. He gets right down to our
- 3:36creaturely needs. He's not dismissing them as
- 3:39unreal, but he forbids us from making them the ultimate thing.
- 3:43If the means of life become the meaning of life.
- 3:45You're a slave to them. Then he asked this question.
- 3:48That just cuts through all the noise.
- 3:50Is not life more than food and the body more than clothing?
- 3:54It's an appeal to basic reason, isn't it?
- 3:56It exposes how irrational unbelief really is.
- 4:00Think about it, if God has already given you the greater
- 4:02gift, life itself, the very breath in your lungs.
- 4:05Why would you think he's going to drop the ball and the lesser
- 4:07supports needed to maintain that life?
- 4:09It makes no sense, but anxiety does that.
- 4:12It flips reality on its head. We fixate on the empty pantry or
- 4:16the worn out clothes and let that define everything,
- 4:18forgetting the gigantic gift of being alive in the first place.
- 4:22Jesus is trying to get our gaze to move upward.
- 4:24He is toward the giver and sustainer of life, and in that
- 4:28sense, this command do not be anxious is an act of incredible
- 4:31mercy. He's freeing his people from
- 4:34living in what you might call a closed universe A.
- 4:37Closed universe? What do you mean by that?
- 4:39A world where only the things you can see and measure and
- 4:41control are real. A world without a personal,
- 4:45caring God who acts. In that kind of World, Peace has
- 4:48to be earned. By frantic control, By saving
- 4:50more, By managing every single risk.
- 4:53Right. If you're an orphan in a
- 4:54universe like that, being afraid is the only logical response to
- 4:57anything. Every threat could be the end of
- 4:59you. So when someone today operates
- 5:01from a purely material, realistic worldview, their
- 5:04anxiety is actually rational within that system.
- 5:07It is Anxiety makes perfect sense if God is not in control.
- 5:11But Jesus forbids his followers from living that way.
- 5:15We're called to live as children of a father, not as orphans
- 5:18squandering to survive. OK, so then he gives his first
- 5:21reason. He grounds this command in what
- 5:23we can see every day. Look at the birds of the air.
- 5:26It's a call to re educate ourselves.
- 5:28Anxiety gives you tunnel vision. All you see are your problems,
- 5:30your deficits. Christ says look up, look
- 5:33around. I'm going to teach you about my
- 5:35Father's care using my creation. So we look and we see they
- 5:39neither sow nor reap nor gather into barns.
- 5:42For someone raised with a strong work ethic, that line can be a
- 5:46little. It can, and we have to be so
- 5:49clear here. This is not a command to be
- 5:50lazy. Birds are incredibly busy
- 5:52creatures. They work hard all day long.
- 5:54So what's? The point then?
- 5:55The point is what they don't do. They don't secure their own
- 5:58futures through anxious stockpiling.
- 6:01They aren't trying to control tomorrow by building bigger
- 6:04barns today. So the contrast isn't working
- 6:06versus not working. No, it's trusting your work to
- 6:09God versus worshipping your work as your Savior.
- 6:12The lie of the world is that peace comes from having total
- 6:16control over your resources. The birds tell a different
- 6:19story. They do.
- 6:20They work in dependence, not in pride.
- 6:22And right in the middle of that observation is the comfort.
- 6:25And yet your heavenly Father feeds them.
- 6:27He makes it so personal. It's not nature provides or the
- 6:31ecosystem works, it's your Heavenly Father.
- 6:33And that's our whole understanding of Providence.
- 6:35It's not some cold, impersonal force.
- 6:38As the Westminster Confession explains, Providence is the
- 6:41warm, wise governance of God. He personally upholds and
- 6:45directs all of his creatures. He's not a distant landlord,
- 6:48he's involved in the day-to-day operations.
- 6:50Yes, and that phrase, your Heavenly Father, is just packed
- 6:54with meaning. Heavenly points to His
- 6:57transcendent authority over everything.
- 6:59He's in charge of the whole system, but.
- 7:00Father points to his covenantal love for you.
- 7:03Anxiety tells you God is either too big to care or too distant
- 7:06to notice. Christ says no.
- 7:08The one who runs the cosmos is also your Father, and he is
- 7:11paying attention to the smallest details.
- 7:13Which leads to his knockout argument.
- 7:15The much more argument are you not of more value than they?
- 7:19And this isn't sentimental fluff.
- 7:21It's a statement of theological fact.
- 7:24Human beings are made in God's image.
- 7:26Christians are his adopted children.
- 7:28So the logic flows from lesser to greater.
- 7:31It has to If God's care is so detailed that it provides for
- 7:34creatures of a lesser standing, how could it possibly fail for
- 7:38His own beloved? Children.
- 7:39It's theologically inconsistent to think it would.
- 7:42It's irrational, and so that striving that comes from fear
- 7:45and distrust is shown to be, well, foolish.
- 7:49The question for us is not if we will work, but who we will trust
- 7:52while we work. Then Jesus just gears.
- 7:54He moves from the evidence of God's care to the total
- 7:58uselessness of worry itself. Verse 27.
- 8:01And which of you, by being anxious, can add a single cubit
- 8:03to a span of life? This is like a splash of cold
- 8:06water. Worry tries to sell itself as
- 8:07being useful, as being a responsible mental activity.
- 8:11If I worry about this enough, I can solve it.
- 8:13Right. Jesus just exposes that as a
- 8:15complete lie. Worry is powerless.
- 8:17It's all motion and no progress, all sweat and no harvest.
- 8:21Motion without power. I like that the anxious person
- 8:26feels like if they stop pedaling that worry bike the whole world
- 8:29will fall apart. And Jesus says you weren't
- 8:31holding it together in the 1st place.
- 8:32He's attacking that illusion of self management and the image he
- 8:36uses is brilliant. Adding a qubit to your stature
- 8:40or life. There's some debate about what
- 8:42that means, right? Height or lifespan?
- 8:44There is. If it's height, the point is
- 8:46obvious, you can't worry yourself taller.
- 8:49If it's length of life, which seems to fit the context of your
- 8:51life a bit better, the point is even stronger.
- 8:54You can't worry your way into living one second longer in.
- 8:57Either case, the conclusion is the same.
- 8:59Worry is totally ineffective in the areas that matter most.
- 9:02It has no say over the fundamental limits of your
- 9:05existence. And this gets to a really deep
- 9:07point about what it means to be a creature.
- 9:09It does. Anxiety is a form of pride.
- 9:12It's a protest against our own limits.
- 9:14It's the soul screaming. I refuse to be dependent on God.
- 9:17I should be able to control this.
- 9:18You see that everywhere today. The obsession with optimizing
- 9:21everything, bio hacking your way to a longer life.
- 9:24It's a frantic search for control.
- 9:26It's the same spiritual issue, just in a secular package.
- 9:29The desperate need for self sovereignty.
- 9:32But the minute a real uncertainty hits a bad
- 9:35diagnosis, a market crash, that illusion of control shatters and
- 9:39the anxiety is paralyzing. This also challenges that idea
- 9:43that worrying is a sign that you care.
- 9:46You know, I worry because I'm a responsible parent or a diligent
- 9:49employee. That's a common self
- 9:51justification, but it confuses moral duty with internal
- 9:54torment. Jesus commends diligence.
- 9:56He never commends worry. Worry isn't diligence.
- 9:59It's not you can care deeply, plan wisely, and act responsibly
- 10:03without being eaten alive by anxiety.
- 10:05In fact, you can only do those things well when you're free
- 10:07from it. And I love how this verse, verse
- 10:0927 sets up the big payoff later in the passage.
- 10:12The structure is just perfect here in verse 27.
- 10:14Worry is the false adder. It tries to add to your life,
- 10:17but it can't add a thing. It's useless.
- 10:19Utterly. But then in verse 33, the Father
- 10:23is the true adder. When you seek His Kingdom, He is
- 10:26the one who adds everything you need.
- 10:28That contrast is a call to repent, to stop trying to do
- 10:32God's job. OK, so from birds and the
- 10:34futility of worry, Jesus now moves to another part of
- 10:37creation, the flowers. And why are you anxious about
- 10:42clothing? Consider the lilies of the
- 10:44field. Yes, and this seems to address a
- 10:46slightly different angle of anxiety, maybe the fear of not
- 10:49measuring up, of being exposed, of lacking status.
- 10:51Again, he tells us to consider, to pay close attention.
- 10:55It feels like he's trying to break us out of this mindset
- 10:57that God is, I don't know, as a stingy minimalist.
- 11:00He is. He wants us to see his
- 11:02lavishness, his artistry. Look at these wildflowers.
- 11:05They don't work in a factory, they don't spin or weave, and
- 11:08yet they're clothes in a way that is just extravagant.
- 11:10God cares about beauty. He does.
- 11:12He adorns what he makes, even things that the world would
- 11:14consider temporary and trivial. This shows us that our worth
- 11:18isn't something we have to earn or manufacture.
- 11:20It's a gift. And then comes that stunning
- 11:22comparison. Even Solomon in all his glory
- 11:25was not arrayed like one of these.
- 11:27I mean, think about that. Solomon is the absolute high
- 11:30point of human wealth, security and splendor.
- 11:33He represents everything an anxious heart is chasing.
- 11:35And all that man made glory, all that effort and wealth gets out,
- 11:39shown by a simple flower that just receives it.
- 11:42Completely dismantles the lie that our value is tied to what
- 11:45we can achieve or what we can display.
- 11:47Anxiety about our appearance or our possessions often masks A
- 11:51deeper fear of being seen as insignificant.
- 11:54Christ shows us true glory is bestowed, not built.
- 11:58Then he hits US with the reality of their transients.
- 12:01If God so close the grass of the field, which today is alive and
- 12:05tomorrow is thrown into the oven.
- 12:07They're just being used for fuel in a clay oven, that's how
- 12:10fleeting they are. And the logic is the same.
- 12:12Much more argument if God puts that much care and artistry into
- 12:16something so temporary. Will he not much more clove you
- 12:18his children, who are eternal? Exactly.
- 12:21We are not grass destined to be burned.
- 12:23We're heirs of glory. And this is the great lesson for
- 12:26the anxious heart. What's that?
- 12:27You have to learn to interpret your circumstances through God's
- 12:30character. Not the other way around.
- 12:32Not the other way around. Don't let your present lack or
- 12:35uncertainty redefine God for you as being uncering or absent.
- 12:41Let His proven character redefine your circumstances.
- 12:44Which all leads to that direct, sobering diagnosis.
- 12:47Oh, you have little faith. And he's not saying this to be
- 12:50cruel. He's being a good doctor.
- 12:52He's identifying the root of the problem.
- 12:55So anxiety isn't just a personality flaw, it's a
- 12:58spiritual weakness. It's a failure of functional
- 13:00trust. Little faith isn't no faith.
- 13:03It's a faith that has been made small by forgetting.
- 13:05Forgetting what? Forgetting who the Father is,
- 13:08forgetting what he's promised, forgetting what he's already
- 13:10done. It's when we know things about
- 13:12God in our heads, but we live as if they aren't true.
- 13:15We live like functional atheists in that moment.
- 13:17That's a good way to put it. So the cure isn't just to try
- 13:20harder. The cure is to get a fresh,
- 13:22clear sight of the Father. That's what enlarges our faith
- 13:25so. Jesus then repeats the command.
- 13:27Therefore do not be anxious, saying, What shall we eat?
- 13:31He lists the questions again. The repetition feels
- 13:34intentional. It is.
- 13:35It shows how persistent these anxious thoughts are.
- 13:38The worried mind is constantly catechizing itself, rehearsing
- 13:42these questions of scarcity over and over again.
- 13:44So the life of a believer has to be a persistent, deliberate
- 13:48refusal to live in that story. A daily decision to see reality
- 13:52through God's reign, not our fears.
- 13:55And then he gives the reason. And it draws this sharp contrast
- 13:58between two ways of life. For the Gentiles seek after all
- 14:02these things. And Gentiles here isn't an
- 14:04ethnic category, is it? It's spiritual.
- 14:06It's spiritual. It refers to those who live
- 14:09without a covenant knowledge of the one true God.
- 14:12Their whole world is bounded by what they can see and touch and
- 14:15control. Which means their entire life is
- 14:18shaped by what you called Pagan survivalism.
- 14:20Yes, it's a restless chase for stability because in their world
- 14:24there is no father holding things together.
- 14:27If you believe the universe is random and impersonal, then
- 14:30being afraid is the only sane response.
- 14:32Hoarding makes sense. Anxiety is the default
- 14:34lifestyle. It is.
- 14:35It's the practical outworking of a godless worldview.
- 14:38And that's a hard truth because it means a lot of what passes
- 14:41for normal financial planning or career ambition in our culture.
- 14:45Can actually be a form of idolatry.
- 14:46Yes, we can end up treating Mamet, our money, our career,
- 14:50our influence as the thing that will give us the security only
- 14:54God can provide. And Mammon is a cruel master.
- 14:57It's never. Satisfied.
- 14:58It always demands more. More hours, more saving, more
- 15:02control. It promises peace, but it only
- 15:05delivers exhaustion. So against that frantic Pagan
- 15:08chase, Jesus gives this incredible assurance, and your
- 15:12Heavenly Father knows that you need them all.
- 15:14That one sentence changes everything.
- 15:16His knowledge isn't cold data collection, it's personal,
- 15:19loving, purposeful awareness. It's the difference between
- 15:22being monitored by a security camera and being cared for by
- 15:25your dad. A perfect analogy.
- 15:27Peace is not found in our ability to control our
- 15:29circumstances. It's found in the character of
- 15:31the Father who knows our knees before we even feel the panic.
- 15:34He knows. He knows we need to eat.
- 15:35He knows we need clothes. Before we start to spiral, he
- 15:39already knows and he cares. This is why worry is a
- 15:42contradiction of what it means to be a child of God.
- 15:44It is. We aren't orphans fighting for
- 15:47scraps. We are children of the King.
- 15:49And that truth frees us to work hard and plan well, but without
- 15:53our work becoming our worship. Which brings us to verse 33.
- 15:57This is the pivot point of the whole passage.
- 15:59Isn't it the great positive command that replaces the -1?
- 16:02This is the remedy. But seek first the Kingdom of
- 16:05God and His righteousness, and all these things will be added
- 16:08to you. You don't beat anxiety by just
- 16:10fighting it, you just place it with a greater love, a greater
- 16:13pursuit. The heart has to cling to
- 16:16something. Jesus tells us what to cling to,
- 16:18and that word seek means a continual, prioritized pursuit.
- 16:22It's the settled direction of your life.
- 16:24And first means first in rank, the organizing principle for
- 16:27everything else. Yes, if food and clothes are
- 16:30your first priority, you will worry because they're fragile.
- 16:34But if the Kingdom is your first priority, then all those other
- 16:36things get put in their proper place as concerns that the king
- 16:40himself will manage. It changes the question from how
- 16:43do I secure my own life to how do I best honor my king right
- 16:47now? And that is the pursuit.
- 16:49The Kingdom of God is his saving rule that has broken into the
- 16:53world through Jesus. To seek it means to live under
- 16:57His authority with glad submission.
- 16:59So it means caring about the things he cares about, the glory
- 17:03of God, the spread of the gospel, justice, mercy.
- 17:06Exactly. Anxiety shrinks your world down
- 17:09to just you and your survival. Seeking the Kingdom expands your
- 17:13world to God's global, eternal purposes.
- 17:17And what about seeking His righteousness?
- 17:19What does that add? That's the practical lived
- 17:21outside of it. It's about our sanctification.
- 17:23It's about our lives beginning to conform to God's character.
- 17:27And it's so important to see that this flows from our
- 17:29justification. We seek to live righteously
- 17:31because in Christ we've already been made righteous.
- 17:33We have. So we're not trying to earn our
- 17:35security by being good enough. We're living like the secure
- 17:38children of a good father. We're freed from that
- 17:41performance anxiety. And when our lives are ordered
- 17:43this way, seeking His Kingdom and His righteousness.
- 17:46Then the promise kicks in. All these things will be added
- 17:48to you. This is the father as the true
- 17:50adder. He steps in and provides what we
- 17:53actually need. He provides what is sufficient
- 17:55for a life of faithful obedience.
- 17:57This isn't a promise of a luxury lifestyle or a trouble free
- 18:01existence, but it is a promise that you will not be abandoned.
- 18:05You will have what you need to do His will.
- 18:09So the whole remedy is a reordering of your worship.
- 18:13When God's Kingdom is on the throne of your heart, anxiety is
- 18:16dethroned. The anxious life is spent
- 18:19securing the Kingdom. Life is spent obeying and
- 18:22receiving. And then verse 34 brings it all
- 18:24home to a daily practical level. This is how you live it out,
- 18:27moment by moment. Therefore do not be anxious
- 18:29about tomorrow, for tomorrow will be anxious for itself.
- 18:32Sufficient for the day is its own trouble.
- 18:35This goes right to the heart of so much modern anxiety.
- 18:37It's almost always about tomorrow or next week or next
- 18:40year. It's what we could call tomorrow
- 18:42borrowing. Time theft.
- 18:43It's a kind of spiritual time theft.
- 18:45You're stealing today's mental and emotional energy to pay for
- 18:48tomorrow's imagined disasters. And it's a debt that will crush
- 18:52you and. Notice how realistic Jesus is.
- 18:54He doesn't say today will be trouble free.
- 18:56He says sufficient for the day is its own trouble.
- 18:59He's not a Pollyanna. He knows life is hard.
- 19:02There will be temptations, disappointments, conflicts
- 19:05today. His point is don't multiply
- 19:08today's trouble by pulling tomorrow's trouble into the
- 19:10present. It reminds me of the manna in
- 19:12the wilderness. The connection is very strong.
- 19:14God gave them bread for one day at a time.
- 19:16If they tried to hoard it, it rotted.
- 19:18God gives us grace and daily portions.
- 19:21Worry is trying to stockpile grace and it just turns toxic.
- 19:25That phrase tomorrow will be anxious for itself is
- 19:29interesting, as if tomorrow is a thing with its own concerns.
- 19:33It's a call to humility to accept that we are creatures
- 19:36with limits. Tomorrow does not belong to us,
- 19:38it belongs to the Lord. To be anxious about it is to try
- 19:41and seize control of something that is God's alone.
- 19:44So let's draw a clear line for people listening How do we
- 19:47distinguish between wise godly planning and the sinful worry?
- 19:52That's the key practical question.
- 19:53I think it comes down to this. Wise planning is stewardship, it
- 19:56says. Lord willing, here's the path
- 19:58I'll take with the resources you've given me.
- 20:00It trusts God with the outcome. Worry demands guarantees.
- 20:04It says I cannot rest unless I know for certain how this will
- 20:07turn out. Planning is a finite task that
- 20:09leads to action. Worry is an infinite torment
- 20:12that leads to paralysis. So Christ is calling us to be
- 20:15diligent in the present and dependent for the future.
- 20:18Purposeful diligence and peaceful dependence today has
- 20:22its own duties that require our full attention.
- 20:24Loving our family, doing our work well, praying when we let
- 20:28worries about the future invade today, they rob us of our
- 20:31ability to be faithful right here, right now.
- 20:34So the practice is to stop asking what if.
- 20:37And start living in the truth of even if, even if the worst
- 20:40happens, my father knows even if trouble comes, His grace will be
- 20:44there for that moment, not a day before.
- 20:46He frees us to live one day at a time.
- 20:48This has been an incredibly helpful look at this passage.
- 20:51To sum up, we've seen Jesus show that worry is both futile, it
- 20:55achieves nothing, and it's faithless.
- 20:58It's a practical denial of our Father's wise and good care.
- 21:01And the solution isn't just to try harder, but to completely
- 21:04reorder our loves and our loyalties, to seek the King's
- 21:08reign above all else. Freedom from anxiety is a gift
- 21:11that flows from knowing we are children of a good and capable
- 21:14father. If God gave us the greatest
- 21:16gift, His Son, He won't fail to give us the lesser gifts we need
- 21:20for the road. Anxiety says I am on my own.
- 21:23The Gospel says you are not an orphan, you are a child.
- 21:27And that changes everything. So here's a thought to take with
- 21:30you, building on this deep dive. Jesus taught us to pray for Our
- 21:34Daily Bread, not our weekly or monthly supply.
- 21:38So how does the simple, practical discipline of praying
- 21:40only for today's bread fundamentally challenge that
- 21:43deep seated pride in us that wants to be in control of our
- 21:46own future? How does that simple prayer
- 21:48retrain your heart to live one day at a time?
- 21:51Some of the think about we'll talk to you next time on the
- 21:53Deep dive.