Latest / The Breakfast Club / Replay: From Black-ish to Boss Status_ Marsai Martin on Leadership, Legacy & Owning Your
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- 0:02Speaker 1: I'm a homegirl that knows a little bit about everything
- 0:04Speaker 1: and everybody.
- 0:06Speaker 2: You know, if you don't lie about that, right, Lauren
- 0:08Speaker 2: came in.
- 0:11Speaker 1: Hey, y'all, what's up. It's Lauren l Rosa and this
- 0:14Speaker 1: is the latest with Lauren le Rosa. This is your
- 0:17Speaker 1: Jelli dig on all things pop culture, entertainment, news, and
- 0:21Speaker 1: all of the conversations that shake the room.
- 0:24Speaker 2: Baby.
- 0:25Speaker 1: So today I am bringing you guys, live and direct
- 0:29Speaker 1: into a conversation that I'm pretty sure will shake the
- 0:32Speaker 1: room in a very positive, motivational way. I got to
- 0:36Speaker 1: sit down with marse Martin at Howard University during the
- 0:40Speaker 1: HBCU First Look Film Festival. I was honored to be
- 0:45Speaker 1: in conversation with her and also literally got honored as
- 0:49Speaker 1: one of their Like You Nominated Innovators in the Content
- 0:54Speaker 1: Creator Space, which was an award that's voted on by
- 0:57Speaker 1: the students that are involved in the program.
- 1:00Speaker 2: So that meant a lot to me.
- 1:02Speaker 1: But it also just meant a lot to me to
- 1:04Speaker 1: be in conversation with Marseille because I feel like, even
- 1:10Speaker 1: though Marseille Martin is so much younger than me, watching
- 1:13Speaker 1: her career has literally shown me what happened like what
- 1:18Speaker 1: happens when you're a multi hyphen it who is you know,
- 1:22Speaker 1: very secure and what it is that you do it.
- 1:23Speaker 1: Maybe some days you're not, but you're secure in the
- 1:26Speaker 1: fact that you do good work. And we had a
- 1:30Speaker 1: very in depth conversation just about what her journey has
- 1:33Speaker 1: been like just trying to make sure she get all
- 1:35Speaker 1: her props and all her just do, but doing really
- 1:38Speaker 1: good work in the film space, creating you know, hits,
- 1:42Speaker 1: blockbuster hits like Little, the movie Little which starts Regina
- 1:48Speaker 1: King and herself, Marseille Martin.
- 1:51Speaker 2: Yeah, and just.
- 1:52Speaker 1: What that looks like and doing it with family. Y'all
- 1:54Speaker 1: know how I feel about stuff like that. So I
- 1:57Speaker 1: want to, you know, kick off the conversation right here.
- 2:00Speaker 1: Little background. The HBCU First Look Film Festival is an innovative,
- 2:03Speaker 1: annual HBCU initiative that focuses on diversity and inclusion and opportunities.
- 2:09Speaker 2: And they bring together HBCU students with HBCU graduates who are.
- 2:13Speaker 1: Creators and leaders in film, television, and various broadcast industries.
- 2:17Speaker 1: So this, you know, Film Festival is a part of
- 2:20Speaker 1: a larger organization that is making sure HBCU students have
- 2:24Speaker 1: all of the opportunities that they deserve the outlets to
- 2:27Speaker 1: you know, put their represent and do them, but also
- 2:30Speaker 1: the people in the real conversations to understand what they're
- 2:33Speaker 1: walking into. So let's take a listen to the conversation
- 2:36Speaker 1: right now.
- 2:37Speaker 3: All right, So we're gonna get ready to have this
- 2:39Speaker 3: amazing fire side chat. And I'm excited because the moderator of.
- 2:44Speaker 4: The fire side chat is somebody who I like in
- 2:47Speaker 4: real life because she's just a dope human being. We
- 2:50Speaker 4: got to know during her time on TMZ, but now
- 2:53Speaker 4: she is a bona fide household name in her own
- 2:55Speaker 4: right with a podcast.
- 2:57Speaker 2: And she is the heartbeat of the breakfast club.
- 3:01Speaker 3: Can y'all show some love to my girl laurd Louilsa
- 3:06Speaker 3: and she stay fly and she went to Delaware Estate
- 3:10Speaker 3: Bru's up. You got your Mary J. Blige bouto on today.
- 3:14Speaker 3: I see I see you, come on y'all, sir Lawn
- 3:17Speaker 3: and said well love.
- 3:21Speaker 2: And joining her.
- 3:22Speaker 3: Is our ambassador for the HBCU First Look Film Festival
- 3:25Speaker 3: this year.
- 3:25Speaker 5: She is a multi hyphened creative, Hollywood's youngest executive producer.
- 3:30Speaker 3: Y'all fell in love with her own Blackish and you
- 3:32Speaker 3: liked her in.
- 3:33Speaker 6: Little and G twenty and she's just doing the thing
- 3:37Speaker 6: a ball of happiness.
- 3:38Speaker 7: She is a wonderful person. Come on, show her love
- 3:41Speaker 7: from us, say Martin, Hey Lord, it's all yours baby.
- 3:49Speaker 7: You got it from here, I said.
- 3:51Speaker 8: The lifetime navigating worlds that are well beyond her age.
- 3:54Speaker 8: We met her in the Milestone TV series Blackish. This Plano,
- 3:58Speaker 8: Texas native held her own as the whip smart elementary
- 4:01Speaker 8: school age Dianne Johnson in a TV family opposite Season
- 4:05Speaker 8: Masters Anthony Anderson, Tracy Ellis Ross, Jennifer Lewis, and Lawrence Fishburn.
- 4:10Speaker 8: At only fourteen, in twenty nineteen, she set the Guinness
- 4:14Speaker 8: World Record as the youngest Hollywood executive producer for the
- 4:17Speaker 8: movie Little signed a first look deal with Universal Pictures
- 4:21Speaker 8: and became the youngest person to achieved this with any
- 4:24Speaker 8: studio still in her teens. Forbes thirty for thirty named
- 4:28Speaker 8: her to the list. She's been celebrated with Time one hundred,
- 4:31Speaker 8: Next A, Refinery twenty nine's twenty nine Powerhouse Honors. She
- 4:36Speaker 8: is an eleven time and DOUBACP Image Award winner who
- 4:39Speaker 8: executive produced via her Genius Productions, the Skating Themed Saturdays,
- 4:44Speaker 8: a TV series for Disney.
- 4:46Speaker 9: As an actress, she portrayed first daughter to Viola Davis's
- 4:50Speaker 9: black female potus in the Action Pact G twenty and
- 4:54Speaker 9: has voiced multiple projects, including the popular Paul Patrol for
- 4:59Speaker 9: Paving the way for the next generation of storytellers, producers
- 5:02Speaker 9: and entrepreneurs and leading with Purpose is why Marseille Martin
- 5:07Speaker 9: is Cafe Moca's twenty twenty five Salute Them Awards.
- 5:11Speaker 2: Bridging the Gap, Honoree. I know that's right, Marseille. When
- 5:19Speaker 2: do you sleep?
- 5:20Speaker 1: I'm sorry that was like thirty things, and I know
- 5:22Speaker 1: you got like a thousand more accomplishments.
- 5:24Speaker 2: When do you sleep?
- 5:25Speaker 10: And when do I sleep? Yes, when I'm done with this.
- 5:29Speaker 10: You know, a quick little thirty minute power.
- 5:32Speaker 2: App got you well.
- 5:33Speaker 1: I mean, I'm honored to be here in conversation with you.
- 5:36Speaker 1: We met some time ago at the Breakfast Club and
- 5:39Speaker 1: even before that, we've always been a fan of your
- 5:41Speaker 1: work ethic, But just how you understood the business so early.
- 5:45Speaker 2: So young, and I know that you know I met
- 5:46Speaker 2: Mom backstage.
- 5:47Speaker 1: I know that has a lot to do with you
- 5:49Speaker 1: have great people around you, So let's get right on
- 5:52Speaker 1: into it, right So you embarked on your career at
- 5:55Speaker 1: a really young age. And we talk about you know,
- 5:58Speaker 1: in the business and being able to do all these things,
- 6:00Speaker 1: but what were some of the opportunities or challenges that
- 6:03Speaker 1: came with the opportunities of being in the spotlight so young?
- 6:06Speaker 2: Oh my goodness.
- 6:07Speaker 11: I mean, I will put it in perspective that I
- 6:10Speaker 11: started when I was five. So the the complications that
- 6:17Speaker 11: we had going from I mean Dallas to la and
- 6:20Speaker 11: then going from Huntington Beach to like Burbank, which is
- 6:25Speaker 11: a two hour drive going back and forth from the studio.
- 6:28Speaker 11: I mean, it was just a lot of sacrifice that
- 6:30Speaker 11: came here to it, as it is for anybody who
- 6:33Speaker 11: has a passion, and I believe. I mean, there's things
- 6:37Speaker 11: in the little details that like a lot of people
- 6:39Speaker 11: don't even think of, such as like you know, who's
- 6:41Speaker 11: doing your hair?
- 6:42Speaker 2: You know, how's your hair going?
- 6:44Speaker 10: Look, a lot of people don't know how to do
- 6:45Speaker 10: black people's hair.
- 6:47Speaker 11: And then when you know, we're able to fix that
- 6:49Speaker 11: with the amazing Roxy Lindsay, who.
- 6:52Speaker 2: Is such a like like.
- 6:54Speaker 11: A perfectionist when it comes to black women here of course,
- 6:57Speaker 11: but I mean there's just there's so many things that
- 6:59Speaker 11: you can talk about and you know, relate to when
- 7:03Speaker 11: it comes to just what it was like growing up
- 7:05Speaker 11: in that space. But I feel like, just as a whole,
- 7:09Speaker 11: the things that you don't even think about, such as
- 7:10Speaker 11: just your childhood just switching, you know, just shifting from
- 7:15Speaker 11: with me being a little girl from Dallas, Texas, going
- 7:19Speaker 11: from a public school that I was at for many
- 7:22Speaker 11: years and then going to homeschool, you know, such as that,
- 7:26Speaker 11: and just like the different shifts that puts on a
- 7:29Speaker 11: perfect person and what it takes on. So I feel
- 7:32Speaker 11: like it was a lot of changes that happened. But
- 7:35Speaker 11: I think with me being an old soul and always
- 7:39Speaker 11: around I'm not going to say, oh, grown people all
- 7:42Speaker 11: the time. I used to be around my aunties and
- 7:45Speaker 11: I was like eight years old and they were telling
- 7:47Speaker 11: me about they divorced stories and stuff, and I'm.
- 7:49Speaker 2: Like, exactly, girl, like this is what you have to do.
- 7:53Speaker 11: So going from that to then going on a set
- 7:57Speaker 11: that you know, it's legend that I also saw as
- 8:01Speaker 11: like my aunties, like Jennifer Luiz, like it was basically.
- 8:03Speaker 10: The same thing.
- 8:05Speaker 2: So I think it's just.
- 8:06Speaker 11: Being able to kind of change my mindset at such
- 8:09Speaker 11: a young age and not really thinking about how crazy
- 8:13Speaker 11: the shift is from someone else who meets the I,
- 8:16Speaker 11: but just you know, having fun, trying to find the
- 8:19Speaker 11: fun and everything that I do.
- 8:20Speaker 2: That I think that was the most important thing you
- 8:22Speaker 2: talk about the shift.
- 8:23Speaker 1: I can't imagine at such a young age what that
- 8:26Speaker 1: feeling was like. But do you remember when you were like, oh,
- 8:29Speaker 1: things are different for me than the kids that I
- 8:31Speaker 1: started going to school with, Like when you kind of
- 8:33Speaker 1: realize like, okay, I'm a celebrity, these things are happening.
- 8:37Speaker 2: Okay.
- 8:37Speaker 11: I will say when I went from my public school
- 8:42Speaker 11: in Daa, Texas, where I was with the same people
- 8:45Speaker 11: for many many years, and then moved to Huntington Beach
- 8:50Speaker 11: where it was just a bunch of white kids. I
- 8:52Speaker 11: went to like a YMCA, and I had like it's
- 8:57Speaker 11: like white, very like out there, jolly yes, and most
- 9:06Speaker 11: of and sometimes sometimes I would be you know, absent
- 9:11Speaker 11: because I would have to work. So when I come back,
- 9:14Speaker 11: I was like I was working, and you know, I
- 9:16Speaker 11: was a middle school kid talking about I had to work,
- 9:19Speaker 11: like you know, I was at work. So that's when
- 9:21Speaker 11: I kind of realized the shift in how different I
- 9:24Speaker 11: was from just other kids, and you know, it was
- 9:30Speaker 11: it was different at the time, but I was there
- 9:33Speaker 11: was something in me that was very vocal about being
- 9:35Speaker 11: like talking to my parents and me and like listen, y'all,
- 9:38Speaker 11: this this ain't gonna work. I was like, this is
- 9:40Speaker 11: not gonna work. I need to find something else. And
- 9:43Speaker 11: that's when I moved into homeschool, and then my mom
- 9:46Speaker 11: became my teacher, and then we had some amazing, amazing
- 9:49Speaker 11: tutors on the Blackish set that helped me out so much,
- 9:53Speaker 11: and I then eventually I had the same tutor up
- 9:56Speaker 11: until I was finished with school. So at the end
- 9:59Speaker 11: it was very helpful, you know, but that was definitely
- 10:02Speaker 11: the shift of like, wow, this is different.
- 10:05Speaker 1: So growing up in the industry and growing up around
- 10:07Speaker 1: the arts, you said something important, Like you said you
- 10:09Speaker 1: were able to go to your parents and say this
- 10:11Speaker 1: is not working for me, like I need to change
- 10:13Speaker 1: schools because whatever just wasn't.
- 10:15Speaker 2: On point for you to do what you need to do. Right.
- 10:17Speaker 1: Yeah, as a creative and a lot of you know,
- 10:20Speaker 1: the students and the people here are probably creators of businesses,
- 10:22Speaker 1: and they're young and they're figuring things out.
- 10:25Speaker 2: What would be your message to them?
- 10:27Speaker 1: About being able to say, hey, this is not working
- 10:30Speaker 1: for me, so that they're their best selves when they're
- 10:32Speaker 1: showing up and trying to create their projects and do
- 10:34Speaker 1: different things because you did at a very young age.
- 10:37Speaker 2: Yeah, I think it starts with.
- 10:41Speaker 11: Understanding the question behind the question of like, Okay, this
- 10:45Speaker 11: isn't working.
- 10:46Speaker 2: Why isn't it working? What are you feeling?
- 10:48Speaker 5: Like?
- 10:48Speaker 11: Tell me what the perfect scenario is? How do we
- 10:52Speaker 11: get to that point? And I think even at that age,
- 10:55Speaker 11: it was trying to understand myself before saying what I
- 10:59Speaker 11: had to say to everybody else outside of that, which
- 11:04Speaker 11: I definitely had to learn, you know, just growing up,
- 11:06Speaker 11: because I was a person that would say something and
- 11:09Speaker 11: then someone would ask me why and I was like, hmmm,
- 11:11Speaker 11: I don't know.
- 11:12Speaker 10: So I think to be able to.
- 11:16Speaker 11: Understand where it's coming from the feelings that are rooted
- 11:20Speaker 11: into it, it's helped me so much, whether I'm learning
- 11:24Speaker 11: with journaling or even like I'll do these voice memo
- 11:28Speaker 11: diaries of just me talking just it can be like
- 11:31Speaker 11: the most crazy ramble or whatever.
- 11:34Speaker 2: Is there like a diary or like what talk us
- 11:35Speaker 2: through that it's like.
- 11:36Speaker 10: A voice memo.
- 11:37Speaker 11: I would, I mean, I guess you can call it
- 11:38Speaker 11: a diary, but it's just a brain dump of things
- 11:41Speaker 11: that I have on my mind because I mean it
- 11:43Speaker 11: could be very overwhelming at times. So and then you'll
- 11:46Speaker 11: have all these questions. I'm like, Okay, how do we
- 11:49Speaker 11: how do we come to the solution? Yes, and just
- 11:52Speaker 11: go from layer to layer to later to layer, because
- 11:56Speaker 11: it's truly like an onion, you know, just trying to
- 11:58Speaker 11: figure out what is the core, the core situation which
- 12:02Speaker 11: has helped me, which has helped me so much. So
- 12:04Speaker 11: I think that would be my advice to people is
- 12:08Speaker 11: to learn yourself. Constantly learn yourself. Don't rush your process,
- 12:14Speaker 11: don't rush into making a decision. I think it just
- 12:17Speaker 11: it definitely helps in the long run and just your
- 12:21Speaker 11: growth as a whole.
- 12:31Speaker 1: Deciding to get behind the camera for you and you know,
- 12:34Speaker 1: creating projects and producing. Was that something that you were
- 12:38Speaker 1: always doing or was that something that you know one
- 12:40Speaker 1: day you were like, rememb what is this?
- 12:41Speaker 2: I want to try it?
- 12:42Speaker 11: Like?
- 12:42Speaker 2: How did that come about?
- 12:44Speaker 11: When I created little with my family? That was that
- 12:49Speaker 11: was honestly the peak of everything was being able to
- 12:54Speaker 11: actually see something that me and my parents created in
- 12:57Speaker 11: our living room turn into something that we go to
- 13:01Speaker 11: Atlanta and we're filming for three months, saying you are
- 13:04Speaker 11: just really seeing your dreams come to reality, which was
- 13:08Speaker 11: very surreal for me. And if you've watched a little before,
- 13:12Speaker 11: there's one scene in particular where it's literally when Jordan
- 13:16Speaker 11: wakes up and she has these big old clothes on,
- 13:20Speaker 11: she got this huge hair, and she's just now waking up.
- 13:23Speaker 11: She's trying to look for her glasses and then she
- 13:25Speaker 11: tries to see herself in the mirror and she just shook.
- 13:29Speaker 11: And even I think that was one of the first
- 13:30Speaker 11: scenes that we shot, and I was like, wow, I
- 13:33Speaker 11: cannot believe. I just remember me and my mom going
- 13:37Speaker 11: band for band on, like what she was gonna wear,
- 13:40Speaker 11: what she's looking like, what is she saying? And then
- 13:42Speaker 11: me actually doing that with a whole production everybody's saying
- 13:47Speaker 11: like doing it for takes on takes, and it just
- 13:50Speaker 11: was so special. And then to have that and then
- 13:56Speaker 11: to realize like, oh, I could do this.
- 13:58Speaker 10: Over and over and over again, like this is fun.
- 14:01Speaker 11: That's how Genius Productions came about. And I could do
- 14:04Speaker 11: it for other people, not just for me to feel this,
- 14:07Speaker 11: but for other young black girls who want to be
- 14:10Speaker 11: in front and behind the camera other black boys who
- 14:13Speaker 11: want to pursue anything, anything that they want. It's like
- 14:17Speaker 11: I understood what that energy was, yes, and how much
- 14:22Speaker 11: I want to share that with other people.
- 14:23Speaker 1: What are things that you so when you're doing little
- 14:27Speaker 1: you mom, your family, your home, you're figuring it out
- 14:29Speaker 1: and then you're on set, right What were some things
- 14:32Speaker 1: that you were realizing that you had been learning all
- 14:35Speaker 1: along the way that helped you a lot at that
- 14:37Speaker 1: time that somebody right here right now could be like
- 14:40Speaker 1: hyper focusing on because it'll get them to a point
- 14:42Speaker 1: where they could go out and do a production with
- 14:43Speaker 1: friends next month, next week. What are some of those
- 14:45Speaker 1: like core things that you were like, let see what
- 14:48Speaker 1: she did there. God, I didn't even know that this
- 14:49Speaker 1: was preparing me.
- 14:50Speaker 10: Ooh oh that's a tough one.
- 14:55Speaker 2: Mom said use your resources.
- 14:57Speaker 10: Oh look my mom is right here.
- 14:58Speaker 1: She's like, yeah, right here to front, y'all, Mom is
- 15:01Speaker 1: right hand to front.
- 15:04Speaker 10: The fad is skill of me?
- 15:06Speaker 2: Absolutely? Yeah.
- 15:08Speaker 10: I mean, like my mom was saying.
- 15:10Speaker 11: Definitely using your resources. I think connection is everything. The
- 15:14Speaker 11: reason even why a Little came about is because of
- 15:17Speaker 11: Kenya Bears and Will Packard and of course Kenya created Blackish. Yes,
- 15:22Speaker 11: so we had the idea, but it wouldn't have been
- 15:27Speaker 11: able to come to fruition the way it did without
- 15:29Speaker 11: the team behind it. And it's genuine people who want
- 15:33Speaker 11: to see you win, you know, it's not just there
- 15:36Speaker 11: were in it for the money, or they were in
- 15:37Speaker 11: it because I'm a prodigy or you know, or whatever
- 15:40Speaker 11: the whatever.
- 15:41Speaker 10: Story you make in your head. Yes, but it's I
- 15:46Speaker 10: mean I.
- 15:46Speaker 11: Was nine, I was nine when that that conversation started,
- 15:51Speaker 11: you know, so a lot of people can see that
- 15:55Speaker 11: in different ways. You know, they can see it and
- 15:58Speaker 11: you know, go with some kind of story that it's
- 16:01Speaker 11: not true or I'm just the face or whatever.
- 16:04Speaker 10: But they saw a girl with a passion, with.
- 16:07Speaker 11: An idea and wanted to follow suit with it, you know.
- 16:12Speaker 11: And I think that is the most important thing, is
- 16:14Speaker 11: just following your heart with people who want to protect it,
- 16:19Speaker 11: you know, because that's not I mean, that's not around
- 16:22Speaker 11: a lot you know, we were that. Yeah, people absolutely,
- 16:26Speaker 11: just genuine good people who you just want to be around,
- 16:30Speaker 11: you know, you never want to be around no fake people,
- 16:32Speaker 11: of course, But I think it's just important to just
- 16:35Speaker 11: curate your team, find your team find your energy that
- 16:38Speaker 11: you want to be around, and just create your plans
- 16:42Speaker 11: and go from there. We had a plan, yes, and
- 16:44Speaker 11: I think that was that was important. So I think
- 16:46Speaker 11: that was one thing is using your resources. Another thing
- 16:50Speaker 11: my mom says a lot is what's for you, what's
- 16:52Speaker 11: for you, and what's for you won't miss you.
- 16:53Speaker 10: I read every time.
- 16:55Speaker 11: And I say it here because there was a minute
- 16:58Speaker 11: where I, I mean, I was just on Blackish for
- 17:01Speaker 11: like it was.
- 17:03Speaker 10: What nine years of my life almost said.
- 17:05Speaker 11: And I feel like I was starting to as an
- 17:09Speaker 11: actor become stagnant or like, you know, as a whole,
- 17:13Speaker 11: I'm growing up in front of everybody's eyes as Diane,
- 17:16Speaker 11: not as Marseille, you know. So I think as a whole,
- 17:20Speaker 11: I had to sit back and it was more of
- 17:23Speaker 11: a complicated experience to find myself because of it, and
- 17:27Speaker 11: little in creating my production company and also turning into
- 17:32Speaker 11: the person I truly want to be, which is an
- 17:35Speaker 11: overall creator. I'm just a creator at heart. I just
- 17:38Speaker 11: like having fun, building businesses and stuff. That's just really
- 17:41Speaker 11: just what I want to do, you know. And I
- 17:43Speaker 11: just I think as a whole, that's what I wanted
- 17:45Speaker 11: to be and what I was destined to be. And
- 17:48Speaker 11: I realized, like, you know, as long as I follow
- 17:53Speaker 11: my path, as long as I trust in God, as
- 17:56Speaker 11: long as I don't stress about it, no pressure, just
- 17:58Speaker 11: do what is at hand.
- 18:00Speaker 10: And then if I.
- 18:02Speaker 11: I know that God is not going to put anything
- 18:04Speaker 11: in my heart and my mind and my gut that it's.
- 18:08Speaker 2: Not supposed to be, it's not supposed to be there.
- 18:10Speaker 10: You know.
- 18:10Speaker 11: It's everything that I think, everything that I feel. It's like, Okay,
- 18:13Speaker 11: this is this is here for a reason. I'm feeling
- 18:15Speaker 11: this way for a reason. So when everything came about,
- 18:18Speaker 11: I was just like, wow, this is.
- 18:19Speaker 2: Just really God's journey.
- 18:21Speaker 11: And even though I created Little at nine, I didn't
- 18:27Speaker 11: film me until I was thirteen. I didn't get the
- 18:29Speaker 11: record until I was fourteen. You know, I didn't create
- 18:32Speaker 11: my production company until I was fourteen fifteen. I didn't
- 18:34Speaker 11: start actually selling stuff until I was sixteen seventeen. You know,
- 18:40Speaker 11: I didn't start getting the recognition for it until I
- 18:42Speaker 11: was eighteen nineteen.
- 18:43Speaker 4: You know.
- 18:44Speaker 11: So I think to be able to trust the plan, yeah,
- 18:49Speaker 11: trust the process, find joy in the process is what's
- 18:54Speaker 11: the most important thing, because then you realize, like, wow,
- 18:57Speaker 11: this is perfect timing and what's the rush?
- 19:00Speaker 1: You know, I think that when you say it, it's
- 19:04Speaker 1: sometimes it's easier to say it than to live it
- 19:07Speaker 1: or feel it when you're in it. And I know, like,
- 19:09Speaker 1: how many of you guys are creators here? Raise your hand,
- 19:11Speaker 1: creators college everybody? Right, yeah, thank you for raising your hands, everybody.
- 19:15Speaker 2: Yes. So I think a lot of times, especially when you're.
- 19:18Speaker 1: Creative and you live with what you love so much, right, Like,
- 19:21Speaker 1: it's like your passion, the journey, it has its twists
- 19:24Speaker 1: and turns, and it may.
- 19:24Speaker 2: Feel like, oh when does the light hit?
- 19:26Speaker 1: But what she is talking about is kind of being
- 19:28Speaker 1: so committed to like what you're experiencing that you're not
- 19:32Speaker 1: worried about the end. And I know that's hard for us.
- 19:34Speaker 1: But there's a message in what she just says. So
- 19:35Speaker 1: I hope you guys felt that message as well too.
- 19:38Speaker 1: End in the resources thing, a lot of you guys
- 19:39Speaker 1: are here, your creators are in college. This is the
- 19:42Speaker 1: best place for you to find your director, your head
- 19:45Speaker 1: of photography, your publicists, your social media person like link
- 19:48Speaker 1: up with your people, not just from homecoming all the
- 19:51Speaker 1: fun things, but link up with them for real. And
- 19:52Speaker 1: I know Howard is the home with that, so I
- 19:53Speaker 1: know y'all doing that, but yeah, she dropping some gems
- 19:56Speaker 1: up here. You talked about Blackish, right, yeah, and having
- 19:59Speaker 1: to find yourself out side of your character because that
- 20:01Speaker 1: show was so impactful. Did you know going into and
- 20:04Speaker 1: people probably ask you this all the time, the impact
- 20:06Speaker 1: that it would have culturally, and did you understand it
- 20:08Speaker 1: while it was happening.
- 20:09Speaker 10: Absolutely not. I didn't know what was going on. I
- 20:12Speaker 10: was just having fun.
- 20:12Speaker 2: I was being Diane. It was it was.
- 20:14Speaker 10: Just fun and ad libing.
- 20:16Speaker 11: Even the June teenth episode where we were talking about
- 20:19Speaker 11: we built this and all this stuff.
- 20:20Speaker 10: I just liked the music.
- 20:22Speaker 2: I didn't really I didn't know.
- 20:23Speaker 10: I really didn't know.
- 20:24Speaker 11: I was learning what Juneteenth meant and the story behind
- 20:28Speaker 11: it while we were filming, and I think that was
- 20:30Speaker 11: such a special moment as a whole, for not even
- 20:34Speaker 11: just the audience, but as us. I mean, we grew
- 20:36Speaker 11: up on the show and there's so many stories and
- 20:40Speaker 11: concepts that even at home we would just talk about.
- 20:43Speaker 11: We would look at the script before the table read
- 20:45Speaker 11: and be like, what does this mean?
- 20:47Speaker 10: Like, you know, how does this reflect you know, my family?
- 20:50Speaker 10: Is it something that.
- 20:51Speaker 11: We're gonna go through eventually, and it was just so
- 20:55Speaker 11: important and it felt like it felt like school. It
- 20:58Speaker 11: felt like school as a whole you were learning something new.
- 21:01Speaker 11: I think that, Yeah, I think Blackish was just such
- 21:04Speaker 11: a pivotal moment for us as as just young adults
- 21:08Speaker 11: just trying to figure out our way. Even when Diane
- 21:11Speaker 11: had so many things happened to her during these seasons,
- 21:14Speaker 11: I was doing the same thing. When Diane got her cycle,
- 21:17Speaker 11: it was like a month or two I got my first,
- 21:20Speaker 11: when I was telling everybody Gods, it was like true,
- 21:25Speaker 11: true family dynamics on that show. Yes, And it was
- 21:30Speaker 11: just so important, so special. Even the hair episode. I
- 21:33Speaker 11: would talk to Tracy about it in the trailer before
- 21:36Speaker 11: getting into it. It was truly like an educational experience
- 21:40Speaker 11: for me and something that I just truly will never forget.
- 21:44Speaker 1: Do you feel like as a creator the responsibility that
- 21:47Speaker 1: has put on black creators right? So like with that show,
- 21:50Speaker 1: for every young person, you guys saw them something. But
- 21:52Speaker 1: to see a young black woman going through getting her cycle,
- 21:55Speaker 1: learning about Juneteenth, there's another black girl here that watched
- 21:59Speaker 1: that and she learned with you?
- 22:00Speaker 2: Is she felt seen right? That responsibility?
- 22:03Speaker 1: Do you take that into everything you do because of
- 22:05Speaker 1: black Ish or was that something that you were doing
- 22:07Speaker 1: head on, like you knew early on, Like I want
- 22:10Speaker 1: to make sure that like the girls who see me
- 22:11Speaker 1: understand this at a young age.
- 22:14Speaker 11: Absolutely, I think now it's deeper. It's deeper than that,
- 22:18Speaker 11: you know. I think now being behind the camera, I
- 22:21Speaker 11: want people to not just as an actress like there
- 22:25Speaker 11: might be you know, an amazing actress that happens to
- 22:28Speaker 11: be like an amazing black women that see that and
- 22:33Speaker 11: are excited about it. But now I'm like, Okay, where
- 22:35Speaker 11: are the black writers, Where are the black dps? Where
- 22:38Speaker 11: are the black I mean anything black wardrobe?
- 22:41Speaker 10: You know, where are the props?
- 22:42Speaker 12: You know?
- 22:43Speaker 11: So anything that I do at this point forward, I
- 22:47Speaker 11: want every detail to reflect who we are, right you know.
- 22:50Speaker 11: So anybody who from any position, any roles, you can
- 22:54Speaker 11: see that and be like, that's what I want to do.
- 22:58Speaker 11: That's where I want to be. That's the caliber that
- 23:01Speaker 11: I want to hit, you know. And I think that
- 23:02Speaker 11: is the most important thing is paying attention to the
- 23:06Speaker 11: little details, and not just with acting, but even with
- 23:09Speaker 11: the festival work that I do, with say Summer cookout
- 23:12Speaker 11: or the other businesses that we're trying to build.
- 23:15Speaker 2: It's always it's always learning.
- 23:18Speaker 11: I'm constantly learning, and I want to learn with other
- 23:20Speaker 11: people who are genuine, like we said, just good people
- 23:24Speaker 11: who just want to make good content, like good real
- 23:27Speaker 11: stuff that we want to put out there. I think
- 23:29Speaker 11: that's just the most important thing. Me and me and
- 23:32Speaker 11: my family will go still band for a band about
- 23:34Speaker 11: like this is what needs to be out there.
- 23:36Speaker 10: How do we make it?
- 23:36Speaker 11: How do we build it? How do we start it?
- 23:38Speaker 11: And I think that's just the start of It's that's
- 23:41Speaker 11: step one.
- 23:41Speaker 2: We got any people here that want to make some
- 23:43Speaker 2: good content.
- 23:44Speaker 11: Yes, out I will say something about I will say something.
- 23:48Speaker 2: About the resources part.
- 23:49Speaker 11: This is the best place truly to connect, not just
- 23:53Speaker 11: with your fellow students.
- 23:54Speaker 10: But we just had Ryan Coogo last night. You know
- 23:57Speaker 10: what I'm saying.
- 23:58Speaker 11: You have your legions here that are willing to talk
- 24:03Speaker 11: to you, willing to have the conversation. Don't be afraid
- 24:05Speaker 11: to have the conversation.
- 24:07Speaker 2: We do not bite. We can have the conversation as well.
- 24:10Speaker 10: Like the team that.
- 24:12Speaker 11: Is that we want to cure and want to build,
- 24:14Speaker 11: it starts here. That's what it is. It starts here.
- 24:18Speaker 11: And I want to see you guys' work. I want like,
- 24:21Speaker 11: I want to see it out there, any part of
- 24:23Speaker 11: social media, any like in real life, like promote your stuff, yes,
- 24:29Speaker 11: don't don't promote your stuff, you know, don't be embarrassed. Yes,
- 24:33Speaker 11: sometimes it does come with embarrassment to get your stuff done.
- 24:36Speaker 2: You know what I mean.
- 24:38Speaker 11: You can't be You gotta be comfortable with being uncomfortable
- 24:41Speaker 11: and that and that's just it. You know, don't be
- 24:43Speaker 11: afraid because it's already going to be a no if
- 24:45Speaker 11: you don't. If you don't do it, it's a it's
- 24:48Speaker 11: already a O. So go for it. Strive to be
- 24:52Speaker 11: your best. And now i'll see you want to say.
- 24:55Speaker 2: Hopefully that's your meetings.
- 25:05Speaker 1: Where we want to take some questions from the audience.
- 25:07Speaker 1: So yes, hands in there, any questions? First hand I
- 25:10Speaker 1: saw was over here. So when you ask your question,
- 25:13Speaker 1: you got to introduce yourself, your major, what you do,
- 25:16Speaker 1: and then your question. I'll be but I'm gonna go
- 25:19Speaker 1: to this side in the white with the headphones right here.
- 25:23Speaker 11: Hi.
- 25:23Speaker 13: My name is Timia Anderson. I'm a sophomore Film a
- 25:25Speaker 13: TV major, Cheminology minor from Mephicinnesci attend Howard, And my
- 25:30Speaker 13: question for you would be, what do you say to
- 25:33Speaker 13: keep yourself going when you're not getting the results you want?
- 25:37Speaker 13: Like maybe, like you know, work is moving slow, you
- 25:39Speaker 13: just start getting what you want, or you feel like
- 25:42Speaker 13: you're not doing enough. For example, I do photography around
- 25:44Speaker 13: campus and I have I do it every so often,
- 25:47Speaker 13: but I also feel like I could be doing more
- 25:50Speaker 13: than I am. And I'm not really sure if it's
- 25:52Speaker 13: just like me or if it's just like just myself,
- 25:55Speaker 13: or if it's something more I could be doing. So
- 25:57Speaker 13: what would you say you say to yourself, like to
- 25:59Speaker 13: keep yourself like stable?
- 26:01Speaker 11: Yeah, I would say, I say trust the timing A
- 26:09Speaker 11: lot of the time. That goes for what I was
- 26:11Speaker 11: saying in the beginning of what's the question behind the question,
- 26:15Speaker 11: Like why are you feeling this way? Why do you
- 26:17Speaker 11: feel like you should be doing more if you already
- 26:20Speaker 11: given your one hundred percent? Like is it comparing? Is
- 26:24Speaker 11: it you know, overthinking? Is it stress? Is it pressure?
- 26:29Speaker 11: Is it the pressure of school but also wanting to
- 26:32Speaker 11: do something different? It's it's those questions that you only
- 26:36Speaker 11: yourself can ask, you know, and then you go from there.
- 26:40Speaker 11: But I think that you know emotions are emotions. Sometimes
- 26:44Speaker 11: I be crying.
- 26:46Speaker 10: It's true, I cry and be like damn, you know.
- 26:50Speaker 10: Sometimes it just be like that, but not for long.
- 26:54Speaker 10: I don't let it do that.
- 26:55Speaker 2: I don't.
- 26:55Speaker 11: I don't sit in no sadness for long, no sadness.
- 26:59Speaker 11: I'm like, all right, I feel this way when we go,
- 27:01Speaker 11: get my ass back up and do what I have
- 27:04Speaker 11: to do. And that's just it. You know.
- 27:09Speaker 2: Sometimes you just have to find a new plan.
- 27:12Speaker 10: Sometimes you have to pivot.
- 27:13Speaker 11: Sometimes you have to lean on your connections and being
- 27:16Speaker 11: like this is how I feel.
- 27:17Speaker 10: How do we figure this out together?
- 27:19Speaker 11: Because nine times out of ten, you're never alone in
- 27:22Speaker 11: how you're feeling, you know, like how do I get
- 27:25Speaker 11: out of this funk? You know, most of the time
- 27:27Speaker 11: it's just the person on your left that you're like like,
- 27:30Speaker 11: this is what I need help with, or hey, help
- 27:32Speaker 11: me find this person so I can learn how to
- 27:34Speaker 11: be a better whatever, a better photographer, a better whatever,
- 27:39Speaker 11: like as like, knowledge is key, you know. So I say,
- 27:44Speaker 11: it's so many different things. But what do I tell myself?
- 27:48Speaker 11: I let myself feel what I have to feel in
- 27:49Speaker 11: the moment, whatever that is. If it's anger, I'll go
- 27:54Speaker 11: on my voicemail and be like this stop it, be like,
- 27:58Speaker 11: all right, we're cool. You know what I got to write?
- 28:00Speaker 11: What's the plan? What's the vibes? How do I get
- 28:02Speaker 11: out of this? Let you feel what you have to feel.
- 28:07Speaker 11: That's step one, and then you go from there. Then
- 28:11Speaker 11: then you find what that next thing is, you know, because.
- 28:17Speaker 10: The good comes with the bad. That's just that's just
- 28:19Speaker 10: what it is.
- 28:20Speaker 11: You're gonna have those stagnant moments and that's okay, but
- 28:23Speaker 11: trust the timing.
- 28:24Speaker 1: Absolutely. Yeah, We're gonna take some more questions. I'll go
- 28:28Speaker 1: straight to the back with the green and the white.
- 28:31Speaker 2: With the yes. She like, do I know green and white? Yeah? Girl,
- 28:34Speaker 2: you put that outfit on the day.
- 28:37Speaker 3: Hi.
- 28:38Speaker 2: My name is Brishet. I am a junior.
- 28:41Speaker 10: I'm a film major at Buois State University.
- 28:44Speaker 12: Yeap, oh my good.
- 28:47Speaker 14: Okay, And my question to you is when you think
- 28:50Speaker 14: about your legacy, do you see yourself as part of
- 28:53Speaker 14: a movement of young black creatives or as someone building
- 28:56Speaker 14: her own land entirely?
- 29:00Speaker 2: Girl, she came with the outfit the question.
- 29:02Speaker 10: Right, she said, this is what I gotta say.
- 29:07Speaker 2: I feel let them lead. You won't do it the
- 29:11Speaker 2: one you do it.
- 29:13Speaker 10: I know I have my peers, I know I have
- 29:16Speaker 10: my people around me.
- 29:18Speaker 11: But ever since I was little, I knew that I
- 29:21Speaker 11: was creating a lane for myself that is just outside
- 29:25Speaker 11: of what.
- 29:27Speaker 10: Other people are doing, and that's okay.
- 29:30Speaker 11: When I learned that was when I realized there was
- 29:33Speaker 11: nobody next to me that I can that I can
- 29:36Speaker 11: completely relate to because I was doing things are still
- 29:41Speaker 11: doing things at an age where nobody could even fathom
- 29:45Speaker 11: where to start.
- 29:48Speaker 10: So I see my legacy.
- 29:51Speaker 11: Being my own path and I take that head on
- 29:56Speaker 11: like and I think this comes from me being I
- 29:59Speaker 11: don't know who into astrology, but I'm a triple LEO.
- 30:03Speaker 11: I stand on like you know I stand on business.
- 30:07Speaker 11: I put my all into myself. I'm confident in myself.
- 30:10Speaker 11: I know what I have to do as well as
- 30:15Speaker 11: I know it's only me that can get myself there,
- 30:18Speaker 11: and I know what I'm capable of that is.
- 30:21Speaker 10: Different from all these other people out here.
- 30:24Speaker 11: You can see it in my resume, you can see
- 30:26Speaker 11: it in my work, you can see it in the
- 30:27Speaker 11: conversations I have with people. You can see me in
- 30:29Speaker 11: business because I don't play about that. I come from
- 30:33Speaker 11: a family that doesn't play about that, and that's just
- 30:37Speaker 11: that I get. I stay out the way and I
- 30:40Speaker 11: do my work, which is different, and that's it. So
- 30:47Speaker 11: I think as a whole, I'm just I'm just in
- 30:50Speaker 11: a path of my own and that comes from with
- 30:53Speaker 11: a whole different responsibility than anything else that I've seen.
- 30:57Speaker 11: But I take it head on and that's just that's
- 30:59Speaker 11: just the.
- 31:01Speaker 2: Yes, go well, last one? Okay, last one? Oh? I
- 31:07Speaker 2: want to say, you got to pick the last one.
- 31:09Speaker 2: I feel so much pressure. It's like I got the
- 31:10Speaker 2: auks right now, or y'all wasn't really feeling my music?
- 31:13Speaker 2: So giving it to you?
- 31:14Speaker 11: What? Yeah?
- 31:15Speaker 2: Stressful? Am it?
- 31:17Speaker 10: Oh?
- 31:17Speaker 5: No?
- 31:18Speaker 2: Do we got? Oh? What if this is the last question?
- 31:23Speaker 11: What if we just go, okay, let's do miss girl
- 31:30Speaker 11: in the white. I'm sorry, y'all, I go.
- 31:34Speaker 2: Hold it for your queen.
- 31:36Speaker 10: I was gonna be like better dance.
- 31:37Speaker 2: See how did that boom? Everybody? Handshake?
- 31:42Speaker 3: Hi?
- 31:42Speaker 12: First of all, thank y'all both for being here. Thank
- 31:45Speaker 12: you for picking me to a question. My name is
- 31:47Speaker 12: Selma So I'm a fourth year computer science major theater
- 31:52Speaker 12: arts minor from Oakland, California.
- 31:53Speaker 11: Yes, yes, I felt, yes, Yes, it's West Coast baby
- 32:00Speaker 11: contend you yes.
- 32:02Speaker 12: And my question is kind of about being like a
- 32:04Speaker 12: multi hyphenated creative.
- 32:07Speaker 10: I'm an actress, dancer, model, singer, creative.
- 32:10Speaker 12: Director, et cetera, et cetera, And I find it hard
- 32:14Speaker 12: sometimes to market myself when it's like there's so many
- 32:18Speaker 12: different things I'm interested in, so many different things I do,
- 32:21Speaker 12: so many different just lanes I want to go to.
- 32:24Speaker 12: So my question is for the multi hyphenic creatives, how
- 32:28Speaker 12: can we figure out ways to put it together as
- 32:32Speaker 12: like a full package that can be like presented and marketed.
- 32:36Speaker 2: Mmmm.
- 32:38Speaker 10: Well, I mean it starts with you.
- 32:41Speaker 11: I mean you're the only person who can market yourself truthfully.
- 32:45Speaker 10: You know your brand? What is your brand? That is
- 32:48Speaker 10: something that.
- 32:49Speaker 11: Is a full day of just sitting with yourself and
- 32:51Speaker 11: thinking about you know. That's that's where the little details
- 32:55Speaker 11: come in, Like when are you gonna pull out your
- 32:57Speaker 11: dancing skills, when you're gonna pull out your singing?
- 32:59Speaker 10: When are you gonna do that? Is all you?
- 33:01Speaker 11: No one can actually do that for you, you know, that
- 33:05Speaker 11: is something that every person that you see has kind
- 33:08Speaker 11: of curated that for themselves. I think one of my
- 33:12Speaker 11: favorite multi hyphen stars is Tianna Taylor, you know, which
- 33:18Speaker 11: is someone who styles herself, creates her own content, has
- 33:24Speaker 11: her own production company, the conversations that she has with people,
- 33:29Speaker 11: conversations that she has on her own, you know. So
- 33:33Speaker 11: those are things that you have to do to just
- 33:35Speaker 11: market yourself. You're the only person who can do that,
- 33:38Speaker 11: and that is a beautiful thing to do, all of it.
- 33:43Speaker 2: So my my advice would be to have fun.
- 33:49Speaker 11: Don't think too hard on it, just have fun with it,
- 33:52Speaker 11: because that's one of the best things to do is
- 33:54Speaker 11: just put yourself out there and have fun. I mean,
- 33:57Speaker 11: Halloween just passed, Like, what's a un neat thing that
- 34:00Speaker 11: you could do for Halloween?
- 34:01Speaker 10: I mean Thanksgiving it is coming up. What's a unique
- 34:03Speaker 10: thing you can do with.
- 34:04Speaker 11: Your family, like who are the fan of the friends,
- 34:07Speaker 11: the connections that you have.
- 34:08Speaker 10: They can go on campus.
- 34:09Speaker 11: And start your own series or start your own whatever,
- 34:12Speaker 11: like as a creative director to where you're able to.
- 34:15Speaker 10: Sprout all of that.
- 34:17Speaker 2: But have fun with it.
- 34:19Speaker 11: That's one of the best things I could say is
- 34:21Speaker 11: don't think too hard on it. It might be something
- 34:24Speaker 11: to even have fun with just for a day, you know,
- 34:27Speaker 11: And that's what I would say. You know, just find
- 34:29Speaker 11: ways to mark yourself and start and start there. You know,
- 34:32Speaker 11: I can't tell you how to market yourself because only
- 34:35Speaker 11: you know you. Yeah, there's only one you show us why.
- 34:40Speaker 11: There's only one you, period. That's your asset in the room. Girl,
- 34:43Speaker 11: You're welcome, And I tell you to real quick before
- 34:46Speaker 11: you go.
- 34:47Speaker 1: Sometimes too, like when you can do a bunch of things,
- 34:49Speaker 1: there's like one thing that is like super prevalent that
- 34:52Speaker 1: people just like run to you naturally about. Don't fight
- 34:55Speaker 1: that either, lean into that and then allow yourself to
- 34:58Speaker 1: like bring everything else into yeah, as it makes sense.
- 35:01Speaker 1: Like think about your favorite story that you go to
- 35:04Speaker 1: for I don't know, your favorite makeup product.
- 35:06Speaker 2: Once you go get that product, you just happen to
- 35:08Speaker 2: find everything else.
- 35:08Speaker 1: So if you are strong there and that's out there,
- 35:11Speaker 1: the people gonna find the rest of the stuff.
- 35:12Speaker 2: Just be ready, have it all together, have your looks
- 35:15Speaker 2: all the things.
- 35:15Speaker 11: And I will say this for everybody in the room,
- 35:18Speaker 11: even with the questions that I got, you don't need
- 35:21Speaker 11: to have it all figured.
- 35:22Speaker 2: Out right now. No, I know.
- 35:24Speaker 11: Sometimes people will look at tiktoks of us in our
- 35:26Speaker 11: twenty somethings.
- 35:28Speaker 10: Thrive and strive and whatever and being like, oh my gosh,
- 35:30Speaker 10: I need to be like them.
- 35:32Speaker 11: We don't have it all figured out either, we don't.
- 35:37Speaker 11: This is just our job, just like you have your job.
- 35:40Speaker 2: Girl. That's it. That's just it.
- 35:43Speaker 10: So you don't need to have it figured out out
- 35:45Speaker 10: right now.
- 35:47Speaker 11: Just create your path, create the story you want to tell,
- 35:49Speaker 11: and take it day by day because your twenties is
- 35:53Speaker 11: where you can actually make the most mistakes and come
- 35:55Speaker 11: back from it, you know. And that's just it, you know,
- 36:00Speaker 11: Just like, keep going, keep pushing, keep thriving the best
- 36:05Speaker 11: that you can do. Not put any pressure on yourself
- 36:07Speaker 11: at all. Y'all are still in school, y'all are still
- 36:11Speaker 11: focusing on other things and other problems. Just take it
- 36:15Speaker 11: day by day and it'll all fall in the place later.
- 36:18Speaker 4: Yeah, and ladies, before we bred it up, I got
- 36:20Speaker 4: a question from mom Carol because a bunch of the
- 36:22Speaker 4: students keep asking.
- 36:23Speaker 2: Me, come on, stand up, Mama Carol.
- 36:26Speaker 5: I put it on the spot. A bunch of the
- 36:28Speaker 5: students keep asking me and say what ut, Mom, Carol.
- 36:35Speaker 5: Bnt of the students have asked me this.
- 36:37Speaker 6: And you know, I have parents who don't see arts
- 36:40Speaker 6: and entertainment as a viable career, and they want me
- 36:44Speaker 6: to become a doctor or a lawyer, one of these things.
- 36:47Speaker 6: How did you have the unction to support your daughter
- 36:50Speaker 6: through this career path? And what advice would you give
- 36:52Speaker 6: the students about talking to their parents about them taking
- 36:55Speaker 6: the journey in arts and entertainment?
- 36:58Speaker 2: Hello, everybody.
- 37:00Speaker 15: I come from a family of artists, so it was
- 37:03Speaker 15: really easy for me to spot early that that would
- 37:07Speaker 15: probably be what her journey was. But if I did
- 37:10Speaker 15: have parents that didn't get it, or if I was
- 37:13Speaker 15: a parent that didn't get it, you got to understand
- 37:15Speaker 15: that the choices that I make for me are my choices,
- 37:20Speaker 15: and this is not a carbon copy of myself. And
- 37:24Speaker 15: God didn't give me a baby to just pour into
- 37:27Speaker 15: what I what I want her to be. I can
- 37:31Speaker 15: desire her to do all sorts of things, but she's
- 37:33Speaker 15: a blank piece of paper, and all I can do
- 37:36Speaker 15: is try to make sure that I give her all
- 37:38Speaker 15: the tools that are necessary. I make sure she's fed
- 37:41Speaker 15: and clothed and saying, and God does the rest. I
- 37:45Speaker 15: knew from a baby that this is the kid that
- 37:48Speaker 15: I had, so I just it was funny trying to
- 37:51Speaker 15: get people to see what I saw because everybody. They're like,
- 37:55Speaker 15: everybody thinks their baby is you know, everybody's baby can
- 37:58Speaker 15: do I was like, nah, everybody's baby can't do it.
- 38:00Speaker 2: This baby could do.
- 38:01Speaker 15: But you know, and then they saw what came to fruition,
- 38:03Speaker 15: and then they're.
- 38:03Speaker 2: Like, oh, I knew.
- 38:04Speaker 15: Remember when I told you no, girl, I'm like, yeah, okay,
- 38:08Speaker 15: but I mean, just tried your best to give your
- 38:15Speaker 15: parents grace because that's what was put under them, you know,
- 38:17Speaker 15: like that that seems like that they want stability.
- 38:21Speaker 2: You have to hear what's.
- 38:21Speaker 15: Behind that push. They may not get it because they
- 38:26Speaker 15: were told that same thing. You know, like the only
- 38:29Speaker 15: viable way to do anything is are these four careers,
- 38:32Speaker 15: you know, and there's the artist, the starving artists. That's
- 38:35Speaker 15: the actual title. So yeah, most artists are starving, you know.
- 38:39Speaker 15: So it's coming from a place of concern and love.
- 38:43Speaker 15: And if you give them that grace, they may never
- 38:45Speaker 15: understand it. But you gotta do what you got to
- 38:47Speaker 15: do for you and try to stay in that mindset
- 38:51Speaker 15: and know that there's the community of people that support
- 38:54Speaker 15: you even if they don't get it.
- 38:56Speaker 2: You just got to find your folks that do that'll
- 38:58Speaker 2: hold you.
- 38:59Speaker 10: Up and I will.
- 39:01Speaker 11: I will say that also comes with time. They sometimes
- 39:05Speaker 11: they just need to see it. Sometimes they just need
- 39:07Speaker 11: to see it because I mean it is people just
- 39:11Speaker 11: be like that sometimes. But also too, even this past year,
- 39:16Speaker 11: I've the conversations I have with my parents are very different.
- 39:19Speaker 11: They look different now because I realize that they're humans too.
- 39:22Speaker 11: They don't, like mom said, they don't have it all
- 39:24Speaker 11: figured out. This is the first time that they have
- 39:26Speaker 11: a twenty one year old or a twenty something year old. So,
- 39:30Speaker 11: like my mom said, to be able to give your
- 39:32Speaker 11: parents that grace, but also too, they might be a
- 39:34Speaker 11: part of the group that just needs to see it
- 39:36Speaker 11: to believe it.
- 39:37Speaker 10: And that's okay.
- 39:39Speaker 2: So keep moving forward.
- 39:40Speaker 11: And it's not saying that you can't do this or whatever,
- 39:43Speaker 11: because that can feel like projection at times.
- 39:46Speaker 2: But just follow your path and switch your mindset about it.
- 39:49Speaker 2: It's all about mindset. Now, we see where you get
- 39:51Speaker 2: it from though, right.
- 39:52Speaker 9: Yes, yep, full of love?
- 39:54Speaker 5: Can y'all give lad and mant say a roundab o' clock,
- 39:56Speaker 5: Come on, get up on your feet and.
- 39:57Speaker 2: Show them somewhere love.
- 40:00Speaker 1: I told y'all, I told you guys at this conversation
- 40:03Speaker 1: with Marseille Martin.
- 40:05Speaker 2: I mean, come on, let's think about it. Like Marseille
- 40:07Speaker 2: Martin is you know, blackish Little She is literally the girl.
- 40:16Speaker 1: She's so good at what she does and as you
- 40:19Speaker 1: guys were able to hear today, there is intention and
- 40:22Speaker 1: purpose and hard work and effort behind everything she does.
- 40:27Speaker 1: As always, I'm Laurena Rosa. This is the latest with
- 40:29Speaker 1: Laura Rosa, and y'all could be anywhere with anybody, having
- 40:32Speaker 1: these conversations and hearing from some of your favorite celebrities firsthand.
- 40:37Speaker 2: But y'all choose to be with me every single episode, and.
- 40:39Speaker 1: Men do I appreciate y'all for that, My Lowriders. I
- 40:43Speaker 1: will see you guys in my next episode.