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Destiny At Hand · Outcast

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All right, welcome back for those are the new welcome and
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those have been listening. Thank you and that now start off
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with a prayer. Of course.
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So Lord, thank you for everything.
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Thank you for today. Thank you for just allowing us
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to be here. Protect us, God, guard our
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hearts and forgive us if we have sinned in any type of way, Lord,
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but always please, Father, guide us into the absolute truth.
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Amen, Amen. Amen.
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Amen. So yeah, I learned something
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really good today. Interesting, very interesting.
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Oh God, very good. You know, I think we've talked
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about this already plenty of times about about our
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predestination destiny, what's destined already in play.
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Yeah, I think we have spoken about it.
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Yeah, like. What do you What was the episode
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called? Do we call it destiny at hand?
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I don't remember. I don't remember destiny at
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hand. I'm just making.
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Maybe I'm I might be, I might just be making stuff up.
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I don't know but. What about it though?
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No, no, we've spoken about it like we, we've talked about
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being replaced, right? I know that we've talked about
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for sure like what is what God, what God says it's going to
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happen no matter what, never comes back empty.
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And either you are replaced or you're part of the journey.
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And you know, predestination is deep, but you're very simple,
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very simple. Like what God says is going to
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happen is going to happen. It's as simple as that, right?
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But I feel like, you know, the way, the way I guess God called
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me out. Like the question is like, if
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something does not go your way, let's just say like you thought
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it was going to go this way and then you realize that it's not
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going to go that way. Right.
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Then all of a sudden, are you going to like shift to a
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different motive or are you going to like continue like
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going at it? What I'm trying to say is
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basically like. No, there's no episode.
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I'm sorry, I was just. Searching, there's no episode.
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No, we're not going to wait. So what are you saying?
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You said we, we have spoken about.
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Yeah, we have I. Think we've mentioned it in the
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podcast? I don't think so.
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Maybe not, I don't know. Destiny.
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No, I mean, we've talked about being replaced.
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Yeah, you. You talked about that.
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That has to do a lot with that actually.
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But this is different though. OK, this is different.
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This is like, I'll give you like an example.
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Like when it comes to finding a wife or a husband, you know, a
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husband finding a, a man finding a wife or a woman finding a
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husband, you know, there, there are moments, you know, if you're
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destined to get married, you're going to get married either by
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the one that God has chosen for you or you're just going to
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choose one, right, right. Either way, destiny is just
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going to play out still. And I guess the question is,
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what if you're not meant to get married or something like that,
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Right? That's what.
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That sort of freaks everybody out.
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It does. You know, it does freak a lot of
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people out, you know? The way you said it, you're so
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scared. You know, 'cause you know,
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marriage is a beautiful thing. Everybody wants to get married.
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There's some people that say they don't want to get married,
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but I think it's a lie. But then there's some people
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that actually mean it. Like for example, Paul said, you
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know, I wish you guys were like me, single, he talks about.
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That in First Corinthians. Yeah, like, like, you know, but
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you know, we all have our own talents, you know, and maybe
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perhaps what I've seen, what I've read in Scripture, it seems
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like he had the opportunity to get married.
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I mean, for example, when he encountered that guy with the
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with the Y, with the with the daughters that were able to
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prophecy. Yes, the four, were they 4
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virgin daughters or three? I don't remember 44 virgin
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daughters 2. Daughters of Phillip.
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Yeah, yeah, You know what I mean?
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I, you know, Paul could have been like, all right, well,
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these woman right here, you know, that's right.
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He could have gotten married and I wouldn't have.
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Taken away you. Yeah, That wouldn't have taken
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away his salvation or anything. So but he decided to continue
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and just keep going and not get married.
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Yeah. And why do you think that is?
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Do you think his his. Do you think he was destined to
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be single or do you think marriage was still at hand for
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him? Paul, Peter, Peter.
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I think Peter did have a wife if I'm not mistaken.
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Oh, Peter, Peter. Did have a wife, but you know,
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they were so in deep, you know, Barnabas also had a wife.
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A lot of a lot of the disciples did have wife.
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Some didn't. Some of them that didn't, well,
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this 'cause that they dedicated, I mean, they went all out on,
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on, on, on the mission that was at hand at that moment.
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Paul was essentially from the type of Benjamin, if I'm not
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mistaken, and he was a Pharisee, you know, he studied, yeah, the
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Jewish law, Pseudonov Gamaliel, basically.
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There's like a little biography of him and, and, and, you know,
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he could, you know, he could've, he could get married.
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You know what I mean? He had that by design, right?
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Yeah. Because you're talking about
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predestiny and Destiny. Predestiny would then imply that
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there was something planned before Destiny took, before
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Destiny had hold of anything. So you're saying predestiny and
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destiny are two different things?
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Essentially, yeah, because predestiny is something that has
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already been predetermined before it had, before it even
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happened. Destiny is, it is meaning like
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remember what God revealed to that Destiny's a hand because it
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is. Yeah, right, dude.
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So predestination, Paul talks about it for we have been
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predestined before the foundation.
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So he used the word predestination because it was a
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thought before destiny took hold of, before it was in motion.
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Right, right. Right.
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So when it became in motion, certain things were fixed,
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right? Adam as a male, Eve as a female,
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something that's fixed in regards to their roles.
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You and I as a man, we know we're going to get married to a
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woman that's fixed, that's meant to be in regards to destiny.
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Like if I'm going to marry, it's going to be a woman, right?
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I'm going to be the other side, You know, it's going to be with
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a woman because I'm a man. You're a man that that's
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destined to be that way by design.
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But destiny also has it's amplitudes frequencies by that
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meaning like you can ascend up within destiny that's happening
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in real time, right to you and I what was determined before this.
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It doesn't pertain to us. We can only think of it.
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We can't do anything more with it, right.
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Yeah. So Paul, prior to Christ's
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intervention on his way to Damascus, he, he was just like
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any other Jewish guy, zealous for the Lord.
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You know, he had every right to get married one day, right?
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But it wasn't. It wasn't until God intervened.
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Yeah, right. Right.
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He still could have decided not to continue with that
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intervention. He could have just been like,
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all right, Lord, I know you are who you are and just stay that
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way. That's.
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It Yeah. But since his life was
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intervened in such a dramatic way, he he just changed entirely
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so much that we don't we still don't even know if he was
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married or not. So they speculate that if he was
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married, then he let it go to pursue the mission or if he
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wasn't married, he ignored it. He didn't want.
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It right? So therefore, as you can see,
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people say, well, like was he meant to be or not meant to be?
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He chose to serve God, the intervention.
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He's still after Christ intervening.
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He could have still chosen not to, but he he decided to follow
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it, right? Destiny was happening in real
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time. What I mean by that is like I
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have explained, it's, I'm trying my best way to describe it, but
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like there's something that's already fixed and there's
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nothing you can do about it. That's inevitable.
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It's happening whether you are OK with it or you're not OK with
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it, right? But there are certain things
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within destiny that have amplitude, meaning volume, low
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volume, high volume, right, if you will.
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And those moments like when Christ intervenes, it's that was
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a high amplitude within destiny. He went up, his mind
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transcended. If he will, repented, things
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changed. As a man that he was, he didn't
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take upon that design anymore. I don't care about marriage, you
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see. Yeah.
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He was more concerned with the business of God.
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Do you, you know what I'm saying?
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Yeah. But he also then speaks, you
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know, like in, you know, Chapter 7 of First Corinthians, he gives
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that advice, the first few, the first few verses to couples and
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unmarried men and widows, right. So back to the word you said
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predestination. And what about it?
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What about predestination? Like what do you mean like
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because? You brought it up.
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I know I was just bringing up what I what I learned.
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Oh, OK. What'd you learn about pre
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destination? Sorry, no.
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No, no, I mean I, I. Didn't mean to, no.
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No, no, I didn't. I didn't learn anything about
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pre. I mean, yeah, I just, I just
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realized right now, yeah, destiny and predestination are
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two different things. Yeah.
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But no, I just learned more about destiny, like how how deep
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it is. It's not.
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It's not just. It's not just one straight line,
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but it's more like. It is a straight well.
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How do I explain it like it's like like you you the way you
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said it is like a circle but it's going if.
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If we look at it from the front, from the front it looks like a
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circle. Yeah.
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But if we look at it from the side, you see a line and then
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waves. Yeah, yeah, yeah, exactly.
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Right. Yeah.
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So there's different ways of seeing it.
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We are, we are three-dimensional beings looking at 2 dimensional
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things. God is probably beyond a 5th or
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6th 7th dimensional being who sees destiny.
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You and I can't see it. Yeah, we.
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Live it exactly. But we can understand certain
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things, like, like what I just said.
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You and I are men. We're meant to marry a woman.
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That's fixed. Yeah.
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Because your desire is towards a woman that's fixed.
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That's why I had told you like a while ago, like those, you know,
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who like their same sex. I they're not born that way.
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No. No, I agree.
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But that's a, that's a, That's a different conversation.
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But so that, you know, those things are by design fixed
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destiny, right? Right.
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And those who, when Christ came to die for humanity and, and
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gave them the option, whoever believes in me shall have
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eternal life, and those who don't shall be condemned, right.
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Those who will be saved and condemned is fixed, right.
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Right. That's fixed, Yeah.
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That's yeah. But you choosing is what?
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That that's the amplitude I choose.
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You, yes. That's you.
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I don't want to say the word ascending.
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It's weird. I'm not saying like you're like
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some little God or anything like that.
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Right, Right. I'm saying like, like you are
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elevating within that destiny. I don't know what I'm saying.
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Yeah. Because of God, not because of
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you. It's because.
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Of God, no. Yeah, because the end result is
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either heaven or hell. Yeah, but yeah.
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You know you're choosing. Think of it that way, Yes.
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So, so to say, oh, you're meant to be single.
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You don't know that. Paul didn't know that.
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Paul didn't know he was meant to be single.
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Right. He could have easily chosen not
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to. Yeah.
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Right. But he was so concerned for the
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churches, for God's business, that he saw the idea that that
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pertains him as a man to be with.
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He saw it very like meaningless. Right, right.
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Yeah. Right, that's what he said.
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I, I prefer. You know what?
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Let me, let me, let me look for it.
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Which one? Which one?
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First Corinthians. OK, here it is, First
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Corinthians Chapter 7, just to get perspective of where he's
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coming from, right? Yeah.
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OK, Now concerning to the things in which I wrote to you, it is
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good for a man not to touch a woman.
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This is a question that they would write to him.
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Is it good for a man not to touch a woman but because of
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sexual morality? So the reason he's like but
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because of sexual morality, each man is to have his own wife
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because of sexual what is he referring to?
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Sexual immorality. Like the desire you have?
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The desire that leads to you having sexual relationships
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prior before marriage, right? Yeah.
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And stuff like that. You have a right to your own
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wife and each woman is to have his her own husband.
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The husband must fulfil his duty to his wife and likewise the
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wife also to the husband. The wife does not have authority
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over her own body, but the husband does.
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And likewise, the husband also does not have authority over his
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own body, but this wife does. So you see how they become one.
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Yeah. OK, stop.
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OK. And then he goes stop depriving
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one another. He's referring to sexual
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relationship, except by agreement for a time that so
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he's installing about like if, if there's going to be a time
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where you guys even look for God as a as a married couple,
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separate yourselves because lust, lust can fog.
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You might know. Yeah, right.
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So he says only for a time like that to devote yourselves to
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prayer and and and even only when you do that.
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But you guys have to also come into agreement to want to give
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each other that to each other back because you don't want to
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let the the you know, Satan tempt you because of your lack
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of self-control. Yeah, right.
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Right, so if he says self-control, I'm going to.
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I would be assuming that when he speaks self-control when he
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chooses this word. Here's possibly referring to the
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fruit of the Spirit. Yeah, self-control.
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Right. Yeah.
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So that means that we're constantly just developing that
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control depending on where you are, you like it or you don't
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like it. Right.
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But this say this, I say by way of concession, not of command.
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That's just an advice. This is not an ultimatum order.
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Yeah. I wish that all man were as
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myself meaning single. Yeah.
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And just attending to God. However, each this is where you
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were quoting everybody's talent. He has his own talent.
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I mean gift from God. So however, each has his own
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gift from God on this way and another in that.
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So in the gift of having the capacity of self-control, it
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comes in different ways, right? But I say to the unmarried men.
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So in Greek he's referring to unmarried men and to widows.
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Seems like that time young women lost husbands quick and they
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were available. That is good for them to remain
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as I mean like why don't you just decide to stay like me and
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you attend to God. But if they do have if they do
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not have self-control, let them marry for it is better to marry
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than to burn with passion. Now the next verse is he's he's
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giving advice to other type of couples.
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So that's where he's coming from.
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He gives that advice based on his experience, right?
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He says it based on concession, not command, right?
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He's just giving him advice and. Advice.
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Yeah. Right, so he decided.
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To just. To be that way.
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Yeah, exactly. But he also did.
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He also said that it's a gift. And many have this gift in
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different ways. Yeah.
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One in this way and then another in that way, whatever that may
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be. Yeah.
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So you and I, when we read this, can we say Paul was meant to be?
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No, he was meant to be a follower of Christ.
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Based on that, he then decided I want to just follow Christ.
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Yeah, yeah, yeah, exactly. So by destiny he was meant to
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follow God to. Follow God.
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He gave it his all and we have all his like almost 13 or 10 to
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13 epistles. So then I, you and I reading
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this, we can say he was meant to be a servant.
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A servant. Of God, yeah.
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Right by that what he was meant to be, he he decided to serve
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God right. Yeah, I mean, Christ
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encountering him and blinding him and all, you know, it's just
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that was bound to happen. Exactly so you could see destiny
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linear, right and you can see several like there's there's
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this destiny that's fixed it linearly and within that there's
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highs and lows amplitudes, right, right, right.
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And for those who who questioned God, well, like how do I know
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which one is the one for me? I know previously on Yearning
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aimlessly Part 1 and 2 we're talking about.
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You don't even know what you want, you know what I mean?
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No, it's true. Yeah.
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And then we speak about wretched with Christ.
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What does it mean constantly struggling that means you're not
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with Christ? Yeah, yeah, he's not.
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Fully your foundation, if Christ is your foundation in one hand,
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and in the other hand, you can do both because thanks to
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Christ, everything is through him.
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You're under him. Yeah, yeah.
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You should be able to at this point be able to know certain
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qualities that you want in a woman and vice versa a woman to
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a man. Yes, exactly.
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Like a God knows that you you will have attraction in all of
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this vice versa. But that won't be everything.
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You got to look for the qualities.
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Yes, right. Absolutely.
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He if you keep reading that chapter, he keeps, he keeps
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going on and he says, listen, if you attend, I wish you'd be in
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the business of God. I keep, I can't believe you keep
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reading. And because if not, well, you
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have to get married. And then the woman, now the
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woman has to worry for the husband.
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The husband has to worry for the wife.
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Yeah, it's a completely different type of burden, but
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it's not a bad burden. No, no, it's not.
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He's not talking about like saying or anything.
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It's a completely. Different burden now, yeah.
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To attend to her as much as her, she has to attend to you exactly
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as a man. Yep.
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Right. And so you have to decide what
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qualities you want to you want to pick, right.
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We talked about the yoke. Try to try.
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And by trying, I mean trusting God, push, you know, trust in
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him. If you like faith, ask for
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faith. Yeah.
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That that he leads you to the right one, to the one you're
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meant to be. You know, that amplitude,
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correct. That goes up within destiny.
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Yes. Because like I said, what's
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fixed is fixed. You're a man.
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You're meant to marry a woman. Yeah.
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Yeah, that's by logic. But who is the one you're meant
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to be? The one who you can enjoy by
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design. That's already fixed.
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Wouldn't it be nice that God chooses the one for you?
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Yeah, Yeah. You know what I mean?
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So that's that thing that's happening in real time within
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destiny. And so, yeah, that's where Paul
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is coming from. You and I can.
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We can say now, right? I can say like about my brother,
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you know, like, oh, you know, Wendy was meant to be because of
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certain things. You know, she's been there,
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she's supportive and all these things, right?
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But before, when they were dating?
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Can I really have said that? Right.
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Right, right. I could have, I could have maybe
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seen it. Oh, she might be right.
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Or if you're lucky and blessed, I would say blessed would be
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more appropriate. Word would be we're blessed to
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have a sister in Christ that you know, God uses her in
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extraordinary ways. And you know, we have some
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insight, maybe not all the time, like we would want to be
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awesome, but they happen spontaneously and and it's, it's
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great to know that we can be pointed into the correct
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direction, you know, and and and blessed because we're we are
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headed in the right direction or we might be heading in the wrong
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direction. We might be, you know what I
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mean? And so that kind of requires
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trust and and trusting in God and there is so much more to
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predestination. But we're but you, you said you
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finally understand what destiny means is that's what you refer.
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Yeah, yeah, absolutely. Because you started like
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predestination, Destiny is a hand.
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Yes, destiny is a hand at the end, you really don't know
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anything. But if you're going to go all
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out on God, just go all out on God.
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It doesn't even shouldn't even be worried about.
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The Destiny, yeah, you shouldn't like, you shouldn't be worried
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about Destiny. It's already happening.
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It's happening. There are things that are fixed,
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yes, and there are things that within what is fixed will be
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added on to, if you know what I mean.
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No, of course, of course so. If you're going to wait on her,
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you might as wait on her while you're going all out.
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All out on God, right? You shouldn't worry about like
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if you have this and that and that, God will take care of all
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that. I know that it is known.
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Obviously everybody talks about it, social media talks about it.
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How can you be a man and you're not even ready and you don't
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have all these things? That is true.
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There's the truth to it. You want to be like somewhat
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prepared. God knows that already, too.
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But if you are in a position where you have a good a decent
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job, save, stewardship your finances properly, Yeah.
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And when God tells you move, you move.
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Yes. He adventures with him.
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Yeah, with, with how Paul did. And we are in a world where
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opportunities are everywhere. In his time, you know, he had
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the skill of a tent maker. So wherever he went, he was able
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to make tents. Yeah.
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To feed himself and survive. Exactly.
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Be with whatever skill you have, wherever you go, you implement
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them, right. It's it can be nerve racking.
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So, I mean, I don't know. Do you have any of those?
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I feel like I'm the only one speaking.
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No, no, no, no, it's OK. I mean, to be honest, I brought
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this up and then you explained it really well.
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So I'm pretty much learning this in real time.
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But when I got out of all this is basically like, you shouldn't
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really be worried about your destiny or where destiny will
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lead you to. You should just be serving God
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and keep your eyes on God and being present and let's go all
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out on God. Yeah, because destiny is going
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to happen no matter where, no matter whether you like it or
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not. Yeah.
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Yeah, exactly. We don't have control over many
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things. Yes, we can sit here and think
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about what things are fixed and what things are not fixed.
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Yeah, but even then, like we have no control, right?
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Of a lot of things. Exactly.
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I explained them based on how I understand them.
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Yes, I may not be eloquent with my words or be philosophical
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about it, but that's how I understand it based on how God
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has revealed to me during times. Yeah, yeah, absolutely,
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absolutely. You know what I mean?
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Yeah. Now you know what I did learn
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something new, something that was in my heart.
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I had no idea it was in my heart.
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And you shouldn't let any, any, anything that you do not know
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affect you, because at the end they need to assume the destiny
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is is is foolish because you do not know anything.
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Yeah, it's, it's, it's we can't know everything.
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We can. It's just.
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A certain things we can't know it.
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Yeah, absolutely not. Yeah, we don't.
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We don't know. And if we know them, we're going
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to want them to happen. Too fast?
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Exactly. I know all that too well.
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But yeah, man, you just gotta look.
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You learned something. I learned something technically
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throughout the end of the towards the end of the week.
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You know, I was actually speaking about this with my
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friend Steve about being hospitable or hospitable like
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hospitality, because you know, for those who are The Who have
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been listening, we have a nonprofit, Breath of Life and we
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had these boxes we're going to send.
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It's just a little story here. So you understand.
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I'll link it. You you see what I mean.
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And while he was here, the guys were came.
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I'm like, oh, OK, yo, you know, I'm going to attend to them.
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And then I remember when we were working at your at your place,
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fixing the box, you did something that was very
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intriguing to me because I'm trying to learn this.
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You naturally were like how you doing water coffee man?
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And I asked her like, why did you think that?
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How did you did you think about it?
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Was it premeditated or or did you just think about it right
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then and there like was an incident like no, like I don't
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know. You were in my house and have
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resource and you right now I was telling Stevia that was
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interesting because like, I'm thinking like it's not like I'm,
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I don't think I'm not considerate.
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It just doesn't come to me naturally to want to be
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considerate. But if you ask me like I'll I'll
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do it. So when I went outside, you
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know, to attend the two guys at the agency that came to, to take
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the the boxes in my head, I was like, OK, let's let's try this.
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Do you guys some water? Do you guys want some water?
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Oh, yeah. Oh, that would be great.
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So I go and get water and then I see there's two mangoes.
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I'm just giving them two mangoes too.
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You know what I mean? Yeah, yeah, yeah.
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I grab the mangoes and I was like, use the mangoes and two
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waters. Now that felt great, right?
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Right. Because I meant it.
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And it felt like progress because it was small doses of
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it. Yeah.
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Yeah. No, I want everybody to think
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that I'm barbaric. I just.
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These things don't come natural to me.
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So the reason why I bring this up is because am I destined to
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be passive aggressive or harsh? No, I'm not.
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God makes those adjustments. Yeah, along the way.
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Absolutely it does. So one day when I do become that
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very gentle person gentleman, people will be like, oh, he's
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such a gentleman. Like, no, I will.
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They'll think that I was meant to be that.
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No, I've learned. Yeah.
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Yeah, I've learned that. Absolutely.
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So based on that, that's I don't have another way to describe it,
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but yeah, I've learned that too. So what I've truly learned now
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to get to the point is you know I was talking to see about this
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Like it seems like I am found with incomplete works.
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Yeah, yeah. And he was like, yeah, you're
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right. I was like, yeah, that's hard to
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hear, but it's true. Yeah, yeah, absolutely.
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Absolutely. You're put in the effort to
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continue denying yourself, yes. Right.
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Yes, yeah, yeah. And that's what it means to to
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wash your rope daily. Man, Yeah, absolutely.
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Yeah, right. So for all those listening,
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right, that'd be a dude or a chick, right?
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Be patient. Yeah, be very.
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Yeah, be. Patient.
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Yeah, be patient. Give your all with God too, and
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as you're waiting, because wherever you go, you can meet
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her there. It doesn't matter it he knows.
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If you want the one, then wait. Yes.
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But if you can wait, any girl that you find that's decent will
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be suffice. You're fulfilling what's already
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fixed anyways. Absolutely.
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You get it now. Yeah, yeah, absolutely.
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But if you want the one, then wait.
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Yes, continue hauling, continue. Well, this wraps it up for
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today. Is there anything else you want
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to say or or no? No, I just feel like I spoke
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this whole time. No, no, that's fine, bro.
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It's just, yeah, it's just, hey, but by the way, it's, it's not
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like obviously we're not talking about this because we seem to be
31:15
like desperate. No.
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No, no, no, by by no means no. It's just perspective.
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Yeah, it's just stuff that God is teaching us.
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Yeah, little by little, to be honest, 'cause you know what God
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taught us, we didn't really think about it or ask.
31:30
It just came naturally to us. And this these are tools that we
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will be using. Yeah, of course.
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Yeah. Yeah, that's what I say, you
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know? What do you mean?
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Like no, I'm just saying like these are just like wisdom stuff
31:44
that you use for your life to continue the refining of your
31:49
spiritual. Life, yeah, it's for the
31:51
betterment, it's. For the betterment of your
31:52
spiritual life. Yeah.
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So, yeah, no, that's pretty much it.
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We're not. Yeah, like you said, we're not
31:57
desperate or anything. I just wanted to call it that
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because, yeah, I seem to be talking about women these these
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days. Yeah, I.
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Don't know why. Vice versa.
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I I promise you this is nothing planned that I, I don't know why
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and God is just teaching us more and more each time.
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I don't know why. Maybe sooner or later we'll get
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married. I don't know.
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You know, you shouldn't even matter.
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Like you shouldn't be thinking about that.
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I mean, obviously everybody wants their special one.
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Yeah, everybody. I mean, even in the world, you
32:25
know, everywhere, everybody. Yeah.
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No one wants to be alone. They're petrified of that.
32:29
Yeah, yeah, yeah. Yeah, no, there's some awesome
32:34
benefits of being alone and you have that.
32:38
The annoying thing is just nature of the of the body that.
32:42
But then again, that's what Paul was referring to, lack of
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self-control. Now, yeah, I don't recommend it.
32:47
Like we've said before on Period's podcast, don't just go
32:53
get married Willy nilly because you just can't like right, you
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know, like if you, if you are in Christ, I would assume you have
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developed some like fruit of the spirit of self-control.
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Absolutely right. Yeah, it's.
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Like, well, I can't do this anymore.
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I'm done. I can't.
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I can't anymore. Yeah.
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That's just a pathetic excuse. Yeah.
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I mean, yeah, when he says lack of self-control, he's not
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referring that you don't have self-control.
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So you're lacking. Yeah, you, you, you just typing
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that one. Yeah, yeah, yeah, absolutely.
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You know right. And it's just Paul probably had
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a very well developed. I just firmly believe that in
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that verse, Chapter 7, verse 7 through 9, he says unmarried men
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and widows. I I firmly believe that he was
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referring to them both being a couple.
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Yeah. Because there was unmarried men
33:41
and widows available. Yeah.
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To date. Yeah.
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And I firmly believe he was talking to couples.
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It wouldn't make sense if he's talking to a single person.
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In Spanish it says saulteros in the Reno Valera.
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But as we know a couple that are dating, essentially they're
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still saulteros. They're not married.
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Absolutely. Yeah, Yeah.
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By definition so. Exactly.
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Keep that in mind, guys. Destiny is at hand.
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Yeah, and we're going to close it off.
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Thank you, Father, for this opportunity was a rough start.
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Definitely was a rough start, I would say.
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But you're amazing and incredible and you have control
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of everything. We, we can't even fathom it.
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We can think about it. We can meditate upon these
34:28
things and mysteries and but you show the way you reveal the way
34:36
you intercede for us, Holy Spirit, you testify for us.
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You show us what's in our heart and when it is exposed, it is
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not for shame, but for growth, for the betterment and
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refinement of our spiritual life.
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We thank you, Father, that you will be done in heaven like I
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mean that you will be done here on earth like it is in heaven.
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And if we have commit anything sinned, well then you know,
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Father, you have forgive us because of your Son who died for
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our sins and we're no longer mastered by it.
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We are grateful for that, to be your servant, to be a slave of
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righteousness and always lead us to the absolute truth, which is
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you. Until the next time, guys,
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farewell.