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Sisanie's Friend Won't Respond to Her Texts, But She's Active on IG · On Air with Ryan Seacrest

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  Speaker 1: Sisney, there's a friend of yours that's watching your IG
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  Speaker 1: stories but didn't text you back, and you're holding a.
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  Speaker 2: Cross I know.
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  Speaker 3: So I texted Tanya, I'm just kidding. It's not Tanya.
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  Speaker 2: I have a friend that I just you know.
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  Speaker 3: It was one of those things where I was like,
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  Speaker 3: oh my gosh, she was told me about this restaurant
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  Speaker 3: that she went to, and so I was trying to
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  Speaker 3: figure out what it was and I couldn't think of
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  Speaker 3: the name.
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  Speaker 2: So I texted her like, hey, what was the name
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  Speaker 2: of that?
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  Speaker 3: D D D D?
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  Speaker 2: Nothing? And then I went on with life and I
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  Speaker 2: forgot about it too.
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  Speaker 3: And then that night I was laying on the couch
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  Speaker 3: and I see that she's responded, like she's actually like
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  Speaker 3: saw my stories and like responded in a group chat
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  Speaker 3: that we're in, and I was like, wait a minute,
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  Speaker 3: and so like, either she forgot about me and it's
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  Speaker 3: not that big of a deal.
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  Speaker 1: She doesn't clearly want to respond to whatever it was
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  Speaker 1: you were talking about, whether she forgot about you, whether
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  Speaker 1: she doesn't want to talk about the topic. But don't
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  Speaker 1: let that navigate any of your emotion.
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  Speaker 2: That's the problem.
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  Speaker 3: Fine, But what it made me realize is that I
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  Speaker 3: also do this, and so now I'm hyper aware of
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  Speaker 3: when someone texts me and I haven't responded to them,
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  Speaker 3: and then if I see their story, then that reminds me.
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  Speaker 3: I'm like, oh my gosh, to go respond to the
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  Speaker 3: text before I like their story.
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  Speaker 1: Yes, so okay, so all this stuff is a calculation
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  Speaker 1: to you. What I do sometimes is if you don't respond,
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  Speaker 1: I think it seems very Now when I actually get
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  Speaker 1: it sent to me, it seems really harsh and rude.
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  Speaker 1: But I'll just send boop question mark, boop one line
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  Speaker 1: question mark.
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  Speaker 2: But it's harsh.
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  Speaker 1: I didn't know it was so harsh.
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  Speaker 2: So you know what you can do that's a little
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  Speaker 2: bit cuter.
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  Speaker 3: Is the eyeballs, like the two eyes just looking like EO.
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  Speaker 3: So I use the microphone emoji and I say, is
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  Speaker 3: this thing on much better? Yes?
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  Speaker 2: The question mark is harsh.
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