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Episode #263 Agency Turns Chaos Into Cooperation · The Puppy Training Podcast

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  SPEAKER_00: What if the secret to better listening wasn't more control, but more choice?
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  SPEAKER_00: In today's episode, we are exploring the power of choice in puppy training and why giving your dog safe, structured opportunities to opt in, take breaks, and participate willingly can dramatically improve learning.
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  SPEAKER_00: Welcome to the Puppy Training Podcast.
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  SPEAKER_00: I'm Amy Jensen, founder of Baxter and Fella, the online puppy school.
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  SPEAKER_00: Here we are all about helping you create the best possible experience raising a puppy.
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  SPEAKER_00: From training tips to practical tricks, all aimed at fostering a happy, well-behaved dog who truly feels like part of the family.
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  SPEAKER_00: So if you are ready to enjoy the journey and strengthen the bond with your dog, let's get started.
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  SPEAKER_00: Hello, everybody, and welcome back to the Puppy Training Podcast.
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  SPEAKER_00: I'm Amy Jensen and I'm so glad you are here today.
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  SPEAKER_00: This episode is one I'm especially excited about because it highlights something that is changing the way we raise and train puppies in modern dog training circles.
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  SPEAKER_00: So today we are talking about the power of choice in training.
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  SPEAKER_00: And here's the heart of it.
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  SPEAKER_00: When dogs have choices, they actually learn faster and they trust us more deeply.
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  SPEAKER_00: Let that sink in for just a second.
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  SPEAKER_00: For a long time, dog training focused on control.
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  SPEAKER_00: I'm making my dog comply, I'm making sure they listen, I'm ensuring they did what I asked them to do when I asked it, and I want obedience right away.
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  SPEAKER_00: But progressive science-based training has shifted the conversation some.
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  SPEAKER_00: We're no longer asking, how do we make dogs obey?
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  SPEAKER_00: Instead, we're asking, how do we create willing, confident learners?
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  SPEAKER_00: And one of the most powerful tools we have is choice.
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  SPEAKER_00: Now, when I say choice, what do I mean by this?
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  SPEAKER_00: Choice-based training means I'm intentionally building opportunities for my puppy to say yes.
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  SPEAKER_00: They can say no, they can opt in, they can take breaks, they can offer behaviors and get rewarded for that, and they can participate willingly.
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  SPEAKER_00: It's about giving them agency, a sense of control over what happens to them.
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  SPEAKER_00: Now, some people worry, if I give my puppy choices, won't they just choose to ignore me?
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  SPEAKER_00: But here's what's fascinating when choice is built into the training thoughtfully and carefully and strategically, puppies actually become more engaged.
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  SPEAKER_00: They want to participate because participation to them now feels safe.
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  SPEAKER_00: Now, why choices matter, the science behind it?
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  SPEAKER_00: Let's uh step back for just a second and look at the research.
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  SPEAKER_00: Now, research in animal behavior consistently is showing that animals who have some control over their environment, they experience less stress, they learn faster, they often show more resilience and they display fewer problem behaviors.
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  SPEAKER_00: So control is going to reduce anxiety in our dogs.
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  SPEAKER_00: Think about this in your own life.
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  SPEAKER_00: If you're forced into something, do you tend to resist it?
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  SPEAKER_00: If you're invited into something, are you more willing to participate?
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  SPEAKER_00: Our puppies are no different.
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  SPEAKER_00: When we remove the pressure and we add some agency into there, learning becomes a collaborative partnership instead of confrontational.
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  SPEAKER_00: So here's some practical ways to add choice into your dog's training.
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  SPEAKER_00: How do we actually implement this in everyday life?
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  SPEAKER_00: Number one, when I'm out on a walk with my dog, I love to use a go sniff cue.
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  SPEAKER_00: This is one of my favorite cues.
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  SPEAKER_00: Sniffing is not distraction, sniffing is what we call decompression.
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  SPEAKER_00: So instead of viewing the environment as the enemy, which sometimes we can see it that way, we can teach our puppies that training happens, then you get released to go sniff, then we come back together again.
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  SPEAKER_00: Now, this does several really great things.
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  SPEAKER_00: It reinforces coming back to you, it prevents frustration, it gets rid of those power struggles, it lowers their arousal and it makes training more sustainable.
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  SPEAKER_00: So here's how it might look on a walk.
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  SPEAKER_00: You ask for a sit, your puppy sits.
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  SPEAKER_00: You mark and reward them, and then you say cheerfully, go sniff.
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  SPEAKER_00: Now sniffing becomes reinforcement.
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  SPEAKER_00: That's the reward.
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  SPEAKER_00: And guess what?
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  SPEAKER_00: Puppies come back faster when they know they'll get to go back to the environment.
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  SPEAKER_00: That's the power of providing them with a structured, structured choice.
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  SPEAKER_00: Okay, so number two would be building breaks into training.
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  SPEAKER_00: You guys, puppies have such short attention spans.
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  SPEAKER_00: So instead of trying to just push through, try this.
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  SPEAKER_00: Train for 30 to 60 seconds.
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  SPEAKER_00: That's it.
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  SPEAKER_00: Then toss a food reward away from you and them and say, all done.
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  SPEAKER_00: Let your puppy wander.
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  SPEAKER_00: When they reorient to you, start again.
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  SPEAKER_00: Watch what happens.
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  SPEAKER_00: Most puppies choose to come back.
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  SPEAKER_00: That's engagement.
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  SPEAKER_00: And when a puppy comes back on their own free will, that's worth more than compliance under pressure.
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  SPEAKER_00: Okay, number three is consent-based handling.
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  SPEAKER_00: So giving your dog a voice when it comes to touching them.
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  SPEAKER_00: This is huge.
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  SPEAKER_00: Consent-based care, we call it cooperative care here at Baxter and Bella, is becoming a gold standard, I would say, in modern training, especially for grooming and vet prep.
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  SPEAKER_00: So instead of holding a puppy still for nail trims and forcing them to not move, we teach them to place their chin in your hand.
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  SPEAKER_00: They rest their paw on your lap or they stand on a mat.
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  SPEAKER_00: And here's the key: if they move away, we pause.
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  SPEAKER_00: Movement away means withdrawal of consent.
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  SPEAKER_00: They're just needing a little break.
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  SPEAKER_00: This builds trust at lightning speed.
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  SPEAKER_00: Your puppy's going to learn, you listen to me.
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  SPEAKER_00: Oh, okay, my body signals matter to you.
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  SPEAKER_00: That means I'm safe.
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  SPEAKER_00: And ironically, when puppies know they can leave, they usually stay because there's no fight.
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  SPEAKER_00: Now, what about real life?
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  SPEAKER_00: I can hear some of you thinking, okay, that sounds great, but real life doesn't always allow for choice.
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  SPEAKER_00: And you are right, safety always comes first.
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  SPEAKER_00: We don't give a puppy the choice to run into traffic.
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  SPEAKER_00: Choice-based training doesn't mean I'm permissive either.
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  SPEAKER_00: It means we thoughtfully design environments where the right choice is easy.
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  SPEAKER_00: You'll hear me say, set your dog up for success a lot.
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  SPEAKER_00: And we want it to be reinforcing.
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  SPEAKER_00: So we reward a lot.
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  SPEAKER_00: So we manage as we teach.
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  SPEAKER_00: Those two go together and we give agency within safe boundaries.
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  SPEAKER_00: Now, one of the biggest benefits of offering choice is confidence building.
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  SPEAKER_00: When puppies learn that their behavior influences outcomes, that their signals are respected by us, they are part of the process and they become thinkers.
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  SPEAKER_00: This is so fun in puppy training.
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  SPEAKER_00: I love this part.
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  SPEAKER_00: You can see the little wheels turning in your puppy's brain.
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  SPEAKER_00: They're problem solving, they're experimenting, they're offering you things to see what gets that next reward.
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  SPEAKER_00: And those puppies grow into adaptable adult dogs.
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  SPEAKER_00: Now, this is especially powerful if you have a shy puppy.
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  SPEAKER_00: Maybe you got a rescue dog that doesn't have a lot of exposure to the outside world.
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  SPEAKER_00: Maybe you have a sensitive breed, or maybe you have a high-drive working dog that just wants to go and go and go all day long.
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  SPEAKER_00: Giving them choice is going to reduce anxiety.
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  SPEAKER_00: And anxiety is at the root of so many behavior struggles that we see today.
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  SPEAKER_00: Let me share a quick example.
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  SPEAKER_00: I worked with a puppy who hated harnesses.
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  SPEAKER_00: Every time the harness came out, she would run away.
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  SPEAKER_00: The old model might have said, just put it on.
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  SPEAKER_00: She'll get used to it.
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  SPEAKER_00: Instead, I tried to give her choice.
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  SPEAKER_00: So I put the harness on the floor.
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  SPEAKER_00: Every time she looked at it, she got a food reward.
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  SPEAKER_00: Every step she took toward it, she got reinforcement.
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  SPEAKER_00: Eventually, she chose to stick her nose through it.
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  SPEAKER_00: And here's the magical moment.
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  SPEAKER_00: The first time she initiated putting it on herself, that's empowerment.
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  SPEAKER_00: And the harness became a cue for good things.
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  SPEAKER_00: So not because we forced compliance, but because we factored in and built in participation.
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  SPEAKER_00: It's all about relationship, you guys.
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  SPEAKER_00: So let's clear something up.
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  SPEAKER_00: Some people will say choice-based training isn't going to work.
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  SPEAKER_00: Um, you're gonna just, your puppy's gonna run the household and there's not going to be any boundaries or structure.
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  SPEAKER_00: But actually, it's called structured freedom, right?
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  SPEAKER_00: We do control the environment, we control the reinforcement, what we reward our dogs with, and we control the safety.
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  SPEAKER_00: So we're not just letting our dogs, like we said, run out into the street.
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  SPEAKER_00: But within that framework, the puppy does get voice.
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  SPEAKER_00: And that voice is going to build trust.
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  SPEAKER_00: So are you thinking you want to start this today?
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  SPEAKER_00: Give it a try.
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  SPEAKER_00: If you want, try these simple things.
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  SPEAKER_00: Add a go sniff, release cue on walks.
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  SPEAKER_00: So you have a go sniff section and then we start walking again, and then we do a go sniff and then we start walking again.
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  SPEAKER_00: Uh, number two would be just to pause.
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  SPEAKER_00: If your puppy pulls away during handling, if you're grooming or doing those nail trims and they pull away, listen to them.
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  SPEAKER_00: Give them a few minutes or seconds, maybe not minutes, but seconds, whatever they need, they might need a minute, and listen to their body language and then go back to it.
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  SPEAKER_00: End a training session while your puppy still wants more.
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  SPEAKER_00: Avoid just pushing and pushing and pushing and going out too long that your puppy's attention span just can't handle it, and then you end in disaster.
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  SPEAKER_00: We want to end with a success.
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  SPEAKER_00: Notice what changes.
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  SPEAKER_00: Notice your dog's engagement levels with you.
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  SPEAKER_00: Notice how quickly they're learning things.
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  SPEAKER_00: Notice their emotional state, right?
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  SPEAKER_00: You'll likely see more tailwax, softer eyes.
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  SPEAKER_00: Now, at the end of the day, training isn't just about behavior, it's about relationship.
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  SPEAKER_00: When our dogs feel heard, they trust us more deeply.
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  SPEAKER_00: And that trust is what carries you through adolescence, through distractions, through life transitions.
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  SPEAKER_00: Um, trust is the foundation and it grows when your puppy learns.
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  SPEAKER_00: My human listens to me.
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  SPEAKER_00: All right, you guys, that's it for today.
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  SPEAKER_00: Thanks for tuning in.
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  SPEAKER_00: I hope you have a great rest of your week.
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  SPEAKER_00: If you need more resources, check out our website, www.baxterambella.com, and we'll talk soon.
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  SPEAKER_00: Happy training.
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  SPEAKER_00: Thanks for tuning in to the puppy training podcast.
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  SPEAKER_00: I hope today's tips help you feel more confident and excited about raising your dog.
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  SPEAKER_00: Remember, with a little patience and consistency, you can create a loving bond and a well-behaved pup who's a joy to have in your family.
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  SPEAKER_00: For more resources, visit Baxter and Bella online.
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  SPEAKER_00: Until next time, happy training.