Latest / The Bechdel Cast / Real Women Have Curves with Mala Muñoz
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- 0:00Speaker 1: On the Bel cast. The questions asked if movies have
- 0:04Speaker 1: women in them? Are All their discussions just boyfriends and husbands?
- 0:08Speaker 1: Do they have individualism? The Patriarchy? Zef in, best start
- 0:13Speaker 1: changing it with the Beck del cast. Jamie, it's so
- 0:17Speaker 1: hot in here. Can you please turn the fan on
- 0:21Speaker 1: in this recording studio? It gets, it gets the PODCAST, dusty, can't.
- 0:28Speaker 1: Can't turn on the fan. The podcast will be covered.
- 0:30Speaker 1: It does, it will be a catastrophe for us. Sorry,
- 0:33Speaker 1: we'll fine. I'll just take off all my clothes then.
- 0:36Speaker 1: All right, that's not my business. I guess I'll do
- 0:38Speaker 1: the same. Cool, same, yeah, that sounds great. Actually, the
- 0:41Speaker 1: only person that's going to piss off is mommy, Mommy podcast. Cool. Well,
- 0:48Speaker 1: I'm glad we sorted that out. Yeah, that I get
- 0:50Speaker 1: that resolved very cleanly. Welcome to the Bechtel cast. My
- 0:56Speaker 1: name is Caitlin Darante, my name is Jamie Loftus, and
- 0:58Speaker 1: this is our podcast where we take a look at
- 1:01Speaker 1: your favorite movies using an intersectional feminist Lens, using the
- 1:06Speaker 1: Bechdel test as a jumping off point for discussion, which,
- 1:10Speaker 1: of course, is a media metric created by careeer cartoonist
- 1:13Speaker 1: Alison Bechdel, sometimes called the Bechtel Wallace test, whereby two
- 1:19Speaker 1: people of a marginalized gender have to have names, they
- 1:23Speaker 1: have to speak to each other and their conversation has
- 1:26Speaker 1: to be about something other than a man, and ideally,
- 1:30Speaker 1: for our sake, it is a meaningful, substantial conversation and
- 1:36Speaker 1: not just like Hey, what Um now, keep this going,
- 1:43Speaker 1: this feels this sounds good, this feels good. How's your soup?
- 1:47Speaker 1: And then the other person says, I'm not listening to you,
- 1:50Speaker 1: go away, and then the first character disappears forever and
- 1:53Speaker 1: they're like, my name is crystal as they're leaving, but
- 1:58Speaker 1: it's too late. We didn't year it on screen. That's
- 2:01Speaker 1: an example of something that is great writing, but not
- 2:05Speaker 1: great to pass it. Look anyways, it's a flawed metric,
- 2:08Speaker 1: because that was an amazing scene we just did. I'm
- 2:11Speaker 1: going to base an entire screenplay around it. Yeah, it's
- 2:13Speaker 1: called it's gonna be called a suit, an extremely supi movie,
- 2:19Speaker 1: an extremely no, no, it's not, and I can't engage
- 2:24Speaker 1: with this joke any further. I can. I draw the line. Look, look,
- 2:33Speaker 1: in the case of today's episode, Bechtel Test Not a problem.
- 2:38Speaker 1: Let's just say that right now. No problem at all. Yes,
- 2:41Speaker 1: and so I said, let's let's get to it. Let's
- 2:43Speaker 1: get our incredible returning becktel cast guest into the room.
- 2:47Speaker 1: Let's get her in the mix. We simply must. She's
- 2:50Speaker 1: a comedian, podcaster, creator and host of a podcast for potheads,
- 2:56Speaker 1: and do you remember her from our episode on Selena?
- 2:59Speaker 1: It's Mama unios. Okay, everyone, thank you for having me.
- 3:04Speaker 1: It feels great to be back. It's our pleasure and
- 3:07Speaker 1: it is also mine. We brought you back in one
- 3:10Speaker 1: degree heat. It's you know what, there's literally nothing else
- 3:14Speaker 1: I would rather be doing than podcasting about this film
- 3:18Speaker 1: in a heat wave. It's apt. It makes sense. Yeah,
- 3:21Speaker 1: I feel like I'm in the movie. It's true. We
- 3:24Speaker 1: were joking about how, by the end of the episode,
- 3:26Speaker 1: we will all be taking our clothes off, hopefully because
- 3:30Speaker 1: of the heat. Look, PR nightmare. Maybe we'LL HR get involved,
- 3:36Speaker 1: may possibly. Am I open to it? Yes, it's so.
- 3:41Speaker 1: Today it is one hundred, or like ninety seven degrees
- 3:47Speaker 1: in where I'm at in l a right now. Unpleasant,
- 3:50Speaker 1: but you know, it's not unpleasant the movie, Oh my God,
- 3:55Speaker 1: Very Fun Watch, very enjoyable. Real women have curves. Mala,
- 3:59Speaker 1: what's your relationship, your history with this film? You know,
- 4:03Speaker 1: I feel like my relationship with the film starts with
- 4:05Speaker 1: my relationship with America Ferrera, because she was like a
- 4:09Speaker 1: Disney Channel Darling. She was in gotta kick it up,
- 4:12Speaker 1: about the Latina dance team, and that's where, like, I
- 4:17Speaker 1: was born in ninety two. That's where I was first
- 4:19Speaker 1: introduced to America Ferrera. So when real women have curves
- 4:23Speaker 1: came out, it was like, Oh, this is a recognizable
- 4:26Speaker 1: actress who we love and she had this incredible like
- 4:30Speaker 1: role and I don't know if that's a movie that
- 4:32Speaker 1: a lot of people have seen, but in like little
- 4:34Speaker 1: Latina circles, gotta kick it up, real women have curves
- 4:38Speaker 1: super just iconic, like staples of our media diet. So
- 4:43Speaker 1: did you see real women have curves, like right when
- 4:46Speaker 1: it came out, you know, so two thousand two. I
- 4:49Speaker 1: don't remember where I was or where I saw it.
- 4:53Speaker 1: I just remember that like it was like this standout
- 4:59Speaker 1: movie to me because of of loop anti vettos is
- 5:02Speaker 1: in it, George Lopez is in it, America Frere is
- 5:05Speaker 1: in it and there are others throughout the film who
- 5:08Speaker 1: are iconic actors and actresses, but I remember thinking like
- 5:12Speaker 1: Oh my God, like this little movie is like has
- 5:15Speaker 1: all these recognizable faces that I've seen in all these
- 5:18Speaker 1: other projects, like, you know, loop ant Thi vetto's played
- 5:22Speaker 1: in the Selena biopick. So so for that reason it
- 5:26Speaker 1: was like wow, like I've seen these faces in all
- 5:28Speaker 1: these other projects, Disney channel, Selena, George Lopez, and now
- 5:32Speaker 1: they're all here in this one movie, like that's fucking sick.
- 5:34Speaker 1: What a great cast and like really amazing performances across
- 5:38Speaker 1: the board. And learning about the I mean, we'll get
- 5:41Speaker 1: into it, but like learning about the production history of
- 5:44Speaker 1: this movie is like very frustrating and very fascinating and
- 5:48Speaker 1: I just like I can't wait to get into it.
- 5:51Speaker 1: Truly agreed. Jamie, what is your relationship with this movie?
- 5:56Speaker 1: I had kind of a similar journey. I I every
- 5:59Speaker 1: deep calm that came out was my favorite movie, and
- 6:03Speaker 1: so got to kick it up was, I feel, like
- 6:05Speaker 1: a significant one that was like kind of in like
- 6:08Speaker 1: the Upper Pantheon of D coms. I really, really loved it.
- 6:13Speaker 1: That was definitely how I even though I think that
- 6:15Speaker 1: technically real women have curves, was made before got to
- 6:19Speaker 1: kick it up. Definitely learned about America Ferra and like
- 6:23Speaker 1: fell in love with her through got to kick it up,
- 6:25Speaker 1: and I don't remember, I know I saw real women
- 6:28Speaker 1: have curves when I was a kid. I was trying
- 6:31Speaker 1: to sort out in my head the sequence of events
- 6:34Speaker 1: of like I might have seen, like got to kick
- 6:36Speaker 1: it up, sisterhood of the traveling pants and then seen
- 6:39Speaker 1: real women have curves. To be like we have to
- 6:40Speaker 1: get into vintage America Ferrara, but I definitely saw it
- 6:45Speaker 1: when I was in like either late middle school early
- 6:48Speaker 1: high school. Really really loved it. Um have revisited it
- 6:52Speaker 1: a couple of times over the years, but I hadn't
- 6:54Speaker 1: seen it in a really long time and definitely not
- 6:57Speaker 1: since I had moved to L A, and so it
- 7:01Speaker 1: was like such a delight to like revisit. I really
- 7:04Speaker 1: love this movie and, yeah, getting to learn more about
- 7:09Speaker 1: the film and kind of the the adult like I
- 7:12Speaker 1: feel like this is such a cool example of like
- 7:15Speaker 1: adapting something into a movie well, which is so often
- 7:20Speaker 1: done badly or sloppily or lazily or whatever, but like
- 7:23Speaker 1: this is just like a beautiful adaptation and I'm so
- 7:26Speaker 1: excited to talk about it. Yeah, Caitlyn, what's your history
- 7:29Speaker 1: with real women have curbs? I saw this movie in
- 7:34Speaker 1: high school because I came out in two thousand two.
- 7:37Speaker 1: I think I would have seen it in like two
- 7:38Speaker 1: thousand three or four when I was about honest character's
- 7:43Speaker 1: age in the movie, because I think, if my memory
- 7:49Speaker 1: serves me correctly, my mom had heard about this movie
- 7:53Speaker 1: and was like, I heard it's really good. Roger Eber
- 7:57Speaker 1: gave it three and a half stars. Let's watch it,
- 7:59Speaker 1: let's rent it from the video store, the ultimate yard stick.
- 8:03Speaker 1: This is a very like. I feel like I probably
- 8:05Speaker 1: watched this with my mom. It's a very mother like.
- 8:07Speaker 1: There's not a lot of mother daughter movie, I mean,
- 8:10Speaker 1: and the relationship will get there. But and it would
- 8:12Speaker 1: have required someone, we had to have the DVD of
- 8:15Speaker 1: this film to watch it. So I feel like I
- 8:18Speaker 1: went to blockbuster or someone recommended it and and because
- 8:22Speaker 1: I don't remember seeing it in the movie theaters or
- 8:24Speaker 1: on TV, like I feel like it was a DVD situation. Yeah, exactly. Yeah,
- 8:29Speaker 1: that's my recollection as well. Gosh, like yeah, like the
- 8:32Speaker 1: the later blockbuster years. What a beautiful what a beautiful time,
- 8:36Speaker 1: and it's twilight. Does anyone remember the last dvd they
- 8:39Speaker 1: got from blockbuster? Wow, I think that's a fun question.
- 8:43Speaker 1: My hometown was so small that we didn't even have
- 8:46Speaker 1: a blockbuster. We had to go to just like the
- 8:50Speaker 1: local video rental store, which I don't even remember what
- 8:53Speaker 1: it was called now. It might have just been called
- 8:54Speaker 1: like video store, the video store. Amazing Um. Anyway. So, yeah,
- 9:04Speaker 1: I saw it in high school as a teenager and
- 9:07Speaker 1: I haven't watched it since then, I don't think. But
- 9:11Speaker 1: there were two scenes in particular that are just like
- 9:13Speaker 1: steered into my memory. You know, when you watch a
- 9:15Speaker 1: movie that you and then you you don't see it
- 9:18Speaker 1: for years, but they are just like little moments that
- 9:22Speaker 1: you will never forget and then have just been like
- 9:25Speaker 1: logged into your memory bank forever. The scene where America,
- 9:29Speaker 1: for era, is like admiring her body. She like pulls
- 9:33Speaker 1: her robe open and it's like looking at herself in
- 9:35Speaker 1: the mirror, and then her mom comes in and she
- 9:39Speaker 1: like immediately knows that she's lost her virginity. That like
- 9:43Speaker 1: was completely steered into my memory. And then the climactic
- 9:46Speaker 1: scene at the end when all the women at the
- 9:49Speaker 1: dress factory are taking their clothes off and comparing bodies
- 9:53Speaker 1: and on his mom is horrified, like what a great scene.
- 9:58Speaker 1: I will never forget that. The other scene that I
- 10:01Speaker 1: did not remember her mom being like you lost her
- 10:06Speaker 1: virginity and being right. I was like, Oh, I'm glad.
- 10:09Speaker 1: I'm kind of glad that didn't stick with me. I
- 10:10Speaker 1: was like how did she know that? Uh, but I
- 10:15Speaker 1: think it was steered into my memory because I was
- 10:17Speaker 1: so afraid that that would happen to me with my
- 10:22Speaker 1: right like you can tell like I do. I look different.
- 10:25Speaker 1: And in that scene too, she opens with like she
- 10:28Speaker 1: uses such strong language with Anna, like throughout the movie.
- 10:31Speaker 1: One of the things that really sticks out to me
- 10:34Speaker 1: is like the vocabulary that Garman, that Anna's mother uses
- 10:39Speaker 1: so like immediately in that scene she's like you tramp,
- 10:43Speaker 1: and then she tells her like not only are you fat,
- 10:45Speaker 1: you know, very hard language that just really punctuates like
- 10:52Speaker 1: every aspect of the scene totally. One of the scenes
- 10:56Speaker 1: that stuck with me the hardest on this viewing was
- 11:00Speaker 1: the scene where it's like on his first day working
- 11:03Speaker 1: at the factory and her mom is body shaming her
- 11:07Speaker 1: and then the second another person enters the room she's
- 11:10Speaker 1: all of a sudden nice and you're like, oh no,
- 11:13Speaker 1: I know that dynamic, like that's so that I don't
- 11:17Speaker 1: know how many times I've like seen that like on screen,
- 11:22Speaker 1: like depicted in a very straightforward way of like well, yeah,
- 11:25Speaker 1: like you know, I could be a total asshole to
- 11:27Speaker 1: you when no one's around, but then the second there's
- 11:30Speaker 1: a third party might demeanor completely changes and you're like yeah,
- 11:33Speaker 1: that's I saw that a ton growing up, like it's
- 11:36Speaker 1: just yeah, Anna's mom has this way of just like
- 11:40Speaker 1: raining on her parade like at every possible moment, like
- 11:43Speaker 1: even from the opening scene of them, because like that
- 11:46Speaker 1: scene where she's like talking bad to Anna, like Anna's
- 11:49Speaker 1: like admiring a dress on one of the mannequins and
- 11:53Speaker 1: she's just looking at it and how pretty it is,
- 11:55Speaker 1: and her mother immediately comes in with you can't fit
- 11:59Speaker 1: into that, like you're way too fat. There's no way
- 12:02Speaker 1: there's enough fabric to cover you. Like look at your
- 12:04Speaker 1: chee cheese, they're so huge. And then in Wox Norma
- 12:07Speaker 1: and even the very first scene of the movie, Anna's
- 12:10Speaker 1: on her way to school, her last day of high school,
- 12:13Speaker 1: and her mom is sick in bed and asking her
- 12:15Speaker 1: to stay home to make breakfast for the men. You know,
- 12:17Speaker 1: she's just like a party pooper throughout the whole film.
- 12:22Speaker 1: That's that seemed like at the factory, like truly I
- 12:26Speaker 1: was like, Oh my God, she was literally just standing
- 12:29Speaker 1: there and the like. It turned into an attack, like
- 12:34Speaker 1: Oh yeah, yeah, we will unpack that relationship soon. Yes,
- 12:40Speaker 1: it's wild because she's so likable, she's so lovable the
- 12:43Speaker 1: mom even when she's saying all these horrible things, like
- 12:46Speaker 1: she's still kind of funny when she's saying them, and
- 12:48Speaker 1: like the tension between the two of them is like,
- 12:51Speaker 1: I don't know, there's something still endearing about her even
- 12:54Speaker 1: as she infuriates you. You know right. I feel like
- 12:58Speaker 1: a lot of that is just like Lupe onto be
- 13:00Speaker 1: of those performance as well, like her man across the board.
- 13:04Speaker 1: Like every performance in this movie is so good and
- 13:08Speaker 1: like layered and full of heart, and I mean the
- 13:11Speaker 1: fact that like America Ferra was fifteen when she started
- 13:15Speaker 1: this movie and like the whole range of like she's
- 13:19Speaker 1: just so fucking talented. It is such a good movie.
- 13:23Speaker 1: I am sad I slept on it for all of
- 13:25Speaker 1: those years in between, like when I first saw it,
- 13:28Speaker 1: and now you're back based I'm back, baby. Um. Shall
- 13:33Speaker 1: I do the recap? Let's do it. Okay. So we
- 13:38Speaker 1: meet Anna Garcia, played by America Ferrera. She's a teenager
- 13:43Speaker 1: who is about to finish high school in Los Angeles.
- 13:46Speaker 1: Ever heard of it? We meet her family, her sister,
- 13:51Speaker 1: a Stella, played by Ingrid and I'm not sure how
- 13:54Speaker 1: to pronounce her last name, Oly You, Um, Her dad,
- 13:58Speaker 1: role played by Jorgees Rivera Jr, her grandfather, her like Abulito,
- 14:03Speaker 1: and then her mom, Carmen, played by Loupe Ontiveros, who
- 14:09Speaker 1: Anna has a loving but difficult relationship with, as we've
- 14:14Speaker 1: hinted at and will discuss further. Carmen, we will learn,
- 14:19Speaker 1: gets on honest case about a lot of different things
- 14:22Speaker 1: and has certain pretty rigid expectations for Anna and and
- 14:27Speaker 1: for Estella. Yes, Anna heads to her last day of
- 14:32Speaker 1: high school. She and her family live in I think
- 14:35Speaker 1: east L A, boil heights, but right, because that was
- 14:39Speaker 1: like very based on the source material. This was adapted
- 14:44Speaker 1: from a play, I know we'll talk about this, but
- 14:46Speaker 1: played by Josafina Lopez, who writes about boil heights. A
- 14:49Speaker 1: ton like that is very much her background in her community.
- 14:52Speaker 1: And Yeah, Yep, but Anna takes several city buses to
- 14:57Speaker 1: get to school in Beverly Hills. Her teacher, Mr Gooseman,
- 15:02Speaker 1: played by George Lopez, asks her about her college applications,
- 15:07Speaker 1: but she says she's not going to college because her
- 15:09Speaker 1: family cannot afford it. He reminds her that there are scholarships, grants,
- 15:15Speaker 1: financial aid, but she's like, I don't know. Not that
- 15:19Speaker 1: she doesn't want to, it's just she knows it's going
- 15:22Speaker 1: to be like an issue within the family. Exactly. Um
- 15:26Speaker 1: Her family throws a little congrats on graduating high school celebration.
- 15:32Speaker 1: We also see Anna quit her job at a fast
- 15:35Speaker 1: food joint, which upsets her mom, but it's a fun
- 15:37Speaker 1: scene to watch her quitn I loved watching her Quinn.
- 15:41Speaker 1: That was very fun and I actually think that the
- 15:43Speaker 1: cashier is Lopez, the one who hands her. She is
- 15:49Speaker 1: in the movie as a character named Veronica, but I
- 15:51Speaker 1: was like, who's Veronica? I couldn't remember exactly. That's so cool.
- 15:56Speaker 1: All right, that's great and she killed it. She was
- 15:58Speaker 1: so great. And that unseen she's keeping on his check
- 16:02Speaker 1: in her Bra and Anna's like that's sick. Now I
- 16:07Speaker 1: like that seat even more. I was just like where
- 16:10Speaker 1: the character actor was was really funny and now that
- 16:13Speaker 1: I'm like looking at her picture again, I'm like, Oh yeah,
- 16:15Speaker 1: that totally was her. Amazing. So on a quit her job,
- 16:20Speaker 1: which upsets her mom, who suggests she works at the
- 16:23Speaker 1: clothing factory that her sister, Estella runs, something that neither
- 16:28Speaker 1: Anna nor Estella really want. But Anna needs to learn,
- 16:32Speaker 1: needs to earn money to help the family, and Estella
- 16:36Speaker 1: is behind on her work orders, so she will go
- 16:41Speaker 1: to work at the factory. Mr Gusmand pays on a
- 16:44Speaker 1: visit to keep encouraging her to submit college applications, but
- 16:49Speaker 1: her family, and her mom especially, are against Anna going
- 16:53Speaker 1: to college right now because she needs to work and
- 16:56Speaker 1: help the family. The next day Anna and her sister
- 17:00Speaker 1: and mom go to Estella's clothing factory where they assemble
- 17:05Speaker 1: dresses to be sold at Bloomingdale's for six dollars, even
- 17:08Speaker 1: though the manufacturer only pays them eighteen dollars per dress
- 17:13Speaker 1: to assemble each dress, and Anna points out how unfair
- 17:17Speaker 1: this is, how their labor is being exploited. Also, I
- 17:21Speaker 1: think probably at the time that would have been the
- 17:23Speaker 1: first time I had heard that issue discussed in a
- 17:27Speaker 1: movie like at all, for sure. Yeah, there's a an
- 17:31Speaker 1: interesting class discussion around this movie, for sure. And then
- 17:36Speaker 1: we meet the other women who work at the factory,
- 17:39Speaker 1: such as Pancha, Norma and Rosalie. Also on his mom, Carmen,
- 17:45Speaker 1: body shames on a several times and tends to comment
- 17:49Speaker 1: on most people's weight. That's just kind of a habit
- 17:54Speaker 1: of hers. Yeah, because there's that scene where, I mean
- 17:56Speaker 1: the scene we were just talking about, where she is
- 17:59Speaker 1: verbally towards her daughter. Someone like her employees start to
- 18:03Speaker 1: arrive and then she's nice to them, but then she
- 18:05Speaker 1: also turns on her employees pretty quickly and starts criticizing
- 18:09Speaker 1: them as well, and you're like, Oh, I guess this
- 18:10Speaker 1: is just her personality. So everybody gets it. Yeah, she
- 18:14Speaker 1: gives it to everybody. Everyone gets slice. You get a
- 18:18Speaker 1: polite hello and then things take a turn up. So
- 18:24Speaker 1: then Anna gives her filled out college applications to Mr
- 18:27Speaker 1: Goose Band, but he points out that she's missing a
- 18:30Speaker 1: personal statement and that she needs to write one as
- 18:33Speaker 1: soon as possible. Then Anna runs into her classmate Jimmy,
- 18:37Speaker 1: who seems to like her. He's got a little crush
- 18:43Speaker 1: and he gives on his phone number back at the factory,
- 18:48Speaker 1: Estella is struggling to keep up with the work order,
- 18:52Speaker 1: especially after several of her workers unexpectedly leave to move
- 18:57Speaker 1: to Mexico. Then we get a scene where carman tells
- 19:00Speaker 1: anna a secret, that Carmen thinks she's pregnant, but Anna
- 19:05Speaker 1: is like mom, that's pretty unlikely, probably not what's happening.
- 19:11Speaker 1: For All the ship that Anna has to put up with,
- 19:14Speaker 1: I love that she's always very quick to be like enough,
- 19:18Speaker 1: like stop, no, she advocates for herself exceptionally well. Yeah,
- 19:25Speaker 1: and I love her for it, even in situations where
- 19:27Speaker 1: you can tell, like I don't know or where it
- 19:29Speaker 1: felt to me like you could tell, she's like, I'm
- 19:31Speaker 1: not going to win this battle, but I have to
- 19:32Speaker 1: say this, like, you're not pregnant, mom. So then Anna
- 19:37Speaker 1: goes with Estella to speak to Mrs Glass, who is
- 19:41Speaker 1: the owner of the dress manufacturing company, to ask for
- 19:45Speaker 1: an advance so they can pay the bills and keep
- 19:48Speaker 1: the lights running at the factory. But Mrs Glass Still
- 19:52Speaker 1: Denies Them An advance. So then Anna goes to her
- 19:55Speaker 1: dad for a loan. Meanwhile, Anna goes out on a
- 19:59Speaker 1: date with that kid Jimmy. They have a nice time.
- 20:02Speaker 1: He's got big that kid Jimmy Energy too. Like I
- 20:07Speaker 1: was like, who is this Elijah would ask looking kid because, yeah,
- 20:12Speaker 1: Elijah Wood wasn't available. Slash. He's too old. That kid Jimmy.
- 20:17Speaker 1: He was only in movies for a couple of years
- 20:19Speaker 1: and then he who knows, he tapped out and he's done.
- 20:23Speaker 1: I liked his character, though, you know, he said some
- 20:26Speaker 1: things that made me go, but overall agree with that.
- 20:30Speaker 1: He was. He seems like a sweet kid. He's he's
- 20:33Speaker 1: very like her first nice white boyfriend. You know, it's
- 20:37Speaker 1: it's an experience, it's a type. It's, Oh, I had
- 20:41Speaker 1: a nice white boyfriends like back home, like and that's him, right, right, yeah,
- 20:47Speaker 1: so she goes out with Jimmy. Anna then turns in
- 20:50Speaker 1: her personal statement to Mr Gooseman. Let me see, another
- 20:54Speaker 1: day at work. It's hard, it's hot. Anna admires the
- 20:58Speaker 1: dresses she steams at the factory and it is sad
- 21:01Speaker 1: to remember that they're not for her. But then Astella
- 21:04Speaker 1: surprises Anna with a dress that she made especially for
- 21:07Speaker 1: Anna in a very sweet moment part and it is
- 21:13Speaker 1: a beautiful dress too, and I always wish there was
- 21:17Speaker 1: like a dress reveal moment, like an occasion for her
- 21:20Speaker 1: wear that dress. It was like, is there a cut scene,
- 21:24Speaker 1: because it felt like Chekhov's dress. Exactly where is the dress?
- 21:30Speaker 1: Where is she wearing it? Yeah, I hope she wore
- 21:32Speaker 1: it at like some I don't know, some New York event. Yeah,
- 21:37Speaker 1: she goes to a mixer at Columbia. Yeah, yeah, she's like,
- 21:41Speaker 1: I just wore a gown to orientation. Is that normal?
- 21:45Speaker 1: Can you do that? Then Mr Guzman stops by to
- 21:51Speaker 1: let Anna know that she's been accepted to Columbia University
- 21:54Speaker 1: with a full scholarship, but her parents are still like
- 21:58Speaker 1: now is not the right time for Anna to go
- 22:00Speaker 1: to college, which is extremely disappointing to Anna. She then
- 22:05Speaker 1: goes out with Jimmy again. They have sex, her mom
- 22:09Speaker 1: senses that she has lost her virginity and, like we
- 22:13Speaker 1: were saying earlier, she calls on a tramp and a
- 22:15Speaker 1: Puta and one of the biggest mysteries of the movie.
- 22:19Speaker 1: How did she know? How did she know it was
- 22:22Speaker 1: it because America frer was like looking at you in
- 22:25Speaker 1: the mirror being like go meet like why how did
- 22:28Speaker 1: she know? My guess is that she was just like
- 22:31Speaker 1: confidently admiring her body, body for the first time ever. Right.
- 22:37Speaker 1: So she's like, I better, I better put an end
- 22:39Speaker 1: to this confidence. My daughter's feeling. That was more the
- 22:43Speaker 1: spiky sense going off was I think my daughter is
- 22:46Speaker 1: having a good feeling. It's like her favorite refrain. She's
- 22:49Speaker 1: always like a mother knows, a woman knows, and this
- 22:53Speaker 1: time she was right. She turns out to not be
- 22:56Speaker 1: right about being pregnant because she goes to the doctor,
- 23:01Speaker 1: take a hundred shots and yeah, you're gonna make one eventually. True,
- 23:06Speaker 1: the reason that Carmen has missed several periods in a
- 23:08Speaker 1: row is a bit is because she is going through menopause,
- 23:12Speaker 1: not because she is gregnant. So then we see another
- 23:16Speaker 1: day at the dress factory. It's a particularly hot day
- 23:20Speaker 1: and Estella won't turn on the fan because it blows
- 23:22Speaker 1: dust on the dresses. So Anna takes off her shirt
- 23:26Speaker 1: and her mom freaks out, but Anna is like, what's
- 23:29Speaker 1: the big deal? We're all women here, we all have
- 23:31Speaker 1: the same parts. And then all of the other women
- 23:35Speaker 1: at the factory take their clothes off. They compare bodies,
- 23:39Speaker 1: they compare cellulate and stretch marks and they're like we're beautiful,
- 23:44Speaker 1: we're awesome. But Carmen is looking on in horror and
- 23:50Speaker 1: Anna is just like, this is who we are, mom,
- 23:52Speaker 1: real women, and Carmen storms out, while the other ladies
- 23:58Speaker 1: continue working and dancing and celebrating themselves and their bodies.
- 24:02Speaker 1: I'm I'm interested in talking about the shooting situation around
- 24:07Speaker 1: that scene. There's UH, there's a lot to talk about
- 24:10Speaker 1: there too. Oh, I'm interested to learn more. And then, finally,
- 24:16Speaker 1: on a heads off to Columbia University. She tries to
- 24:19Speaker 1: say goodbye to Carmen and to get her mom's blessing,
- 24:24Speaker 1: but Carmen refuses, so her dad and GRANDPA take on
- 24:29Speaker 1: a to the airport and then we see on a
- 24:32Speaker 1: walking down the streets of New York City. Ever heard
- 24:36Speaker 1: of it? And that's how the movie ends. So let's
- 24:42Speaker 1: take a quick break and then we will come back
- 24:44Speaker 1: to discuss and we're back. I feel like a little
- 24:56Speaker 1: bit of context for how this movie came to be
- 24:59Speaker 1: as a is a good place to start before we
- 25:01Speaker 1: get into the characters. So this, as we've sort of
- 25:04Speaker 1: hinted out already, this is a movie that is based
- 25:08Speaker 1: on a play by Josafina Lopez. Her background, as she
- 25:13Speaker 1: was born in Mexico and then immigrated to Los Angeles.
- 25:17Speaker 1: A lot of her work surrounds that experience and sort
- 25:21Speaker 1: of reflections of her experience. Um this play is very
- 25:24Speaker 1: much a part of that. She started writing reading about
- 25:28Speaker 1: her career. I never like gone down this wikipedia hole
- 25:31Speaker 1: and she's like so fucking cool. She wrote her first
- 25:35Speaker 1: play in high school. While the rest of us were
- 25:38Speaker 1: doing God knows what, she was at work and she
- 25:43Speaker 1: wrote a play called simply Maria, or the American dream.
- 25:47Speaker 1: She then went on to write real women have curves.
- 25:50Speaker 1: The play was very well regarded. It was very successful.
- 25:53Speaker 1: It's my understanding is it's pretty close to what happens
- 25:56Speaker 1: in the movie because she um co writes the screenplay
- 26:01Speaker 1: and is apparently one of my favorite characters. I just learned, Um.
- 26:06Speaker 1: But anyways, real women have curves is her biggest hit
- 26:09Speaker 1: so far and people want to adapt it in one
- 26:13Speaker 1: way or another. Originally, and I didn't know any of
- 26:16Speaker 1: this before reading this kind of retrospective piece, so at
- 26:20Speaker 1: the time it was going to be adapted for television
- 26:25Speaker 1: by Norman Lear, who is, first of all, a hundred
- 26:29Speaker 1: years old and still alive, which he got handed to him.
- 26:34Speaker 1: But he had a reputation in Hollywood for being one
- 26:38Speaker 1: of the only producers who championed diverse stories for television,
- 26:42Speaker 1: and so most diverse families you saw on television in
- 26:46Speaker 1: the seventies, eighties and nineties, into the two thousands, he's
- 26:50Speaker 1: still working, were a result of his champion he is
- 26:56Speaker 1: a white producer who was known for championing women stories
- 27:00Speaker 1: and diverse stories. So he seemed to hostephina Lopez to
- 27:04Speaker 1: be kind of a natural fit for getting this project
- 27:08Speaker 1: adapted into television. However, he did. He did one day
- 27:13Speaker 1: a time, right like the more recent adaptation. Yeah, yeah,
- 27:18Speaker 1: and the first one was also him and he did.
- 27:21Speaker 1: I'm trying to has like God, older TV is truly
- 27:25Speaker 1: not my strength, but let me get let me get
- 27:29Speaker 1: a few of his hits on the board. Sanford and
- 27:32Speaker 1: son was his, one day at a time. The Jefferson's
- 27:35Speaker 1: good times, Maud one of my favorite shows ever. Mary Hartman,
- 27:40Speaker 1: Mary Hartman like he had, he did he could. He
- 27:43Speaker 1: got stories on TV that no one else was trying to.
- 27:47Speaker 1: So hosaphina Lopez was excited that he wanted to help
- 27:50Speaker 1: adapt it, but even with the Norman learco sign they
- 27:55Speaker 1: could not sell real women have curves as a TV
- 27:58Speaker 1: series to net works. Network said it was not relatable,
- 28:03Speaker 1: a story enough, which we know is absolutely porship, porship,
- 28:09Speaker 1: but very typical of Hollywood TV. Yeah, to this day.
- 28:13Speaker 1: So Josie Lopez is discouraged. She's like one of the
- 28:16Speaker 1: biggest TV producers in the world. Can't get this produced.
- 28:19Speaker 1: Who's going to there's a second wind with this project
- 28:23Speaker 1: as a film script. So she meets a writer named
- 28:28Speaker 1: George Levu, which is what a what a fun name,
- 28:33Speaker 1: but I just like to say it. George Levue. She
- 28:38Speaker 1: she meets Levu and, uh, they decide. They decide to Um,
- 28:45Speaker 1: collaborate on a screenplay together, and finally they find an
- 28:51Speaker 1: executive who wants to fund the project. And it's a
- 28:55Speaker 1: I have a quote here. Um. So this project was
- 28:59Speaker 1: funded by H E O, which I don't think I knew,
- 29:02Speaker 1: not that it matters, I just didn't know it was
- 29:03Speaker 1: an HBO movie. So josephina Lopez says this. I believe
- 29:07Speaker 1: in in this retrospective, HBO's MoD Nadler had the power
- 29:13Speaker 1: to say yes. It came down to a female executive
- 29:15Speaker 1: saying women's stories matter, stories about mothers and daughters are
- 29:19Speaker 1: important to me because I love my mother, and I
- 29:21Speaker 1: remember asking Maud after we made the film why. She
- 29:24Speaker 1: said yes, she said because I love my mother. It
- 29:27Speaker 1: took a woman in a position of power to find
- 29:30Speaker 1: value in the story, which is I thought, I don't know,
- 29:34Speaker 1: that was like, that's really nice. And none of those
- 29:39Speaker 1: men love their mothers. They all hate their mothers. I
- 29:44Speaker 1: love my mother, not enough to fund a story of women.
- 29:47Speaker 1: Let's not. Let's not look look women to a point
- 29:55Speaker 1: very like us, the father of a daughter energy. Yes, uh.
- 30:02Speaker 1: So the project gets funded. Uh. They Find Director Patricia Cardoso,
- 30:08Speaker 1: who I believe is raised in Colombia. She signs on
- 30:12Speaker 1: for the project. Lavoo and Lopez become the hottest writing
- 30:16Speaker 1: team in Hollywood the movie. Oh Uh. And then another
- 30:21Speaker 1: huge thing that happens is George Lopez signs on as
- 30:24Speaker 1: a CO producer, which also was like a big hand
- 30:27Speaker 1: and Um, getting this movie in front of people. It
- 30:29Speaker 1: goes to Sundance and the rest is history. But it
- 30:33Speaker 1: was a huge I mean I think we see this
- 30:35Speaker 1: a lot of times in projects that are not centered
- 30:39Speaker 1: around the white experience and the white male experience. Like
- 30:43Speaker 1: it was a huge, uphill battle to get this project made.
- 30:47Speaker 1: Even though it was already like a proven successful entity
- 30:50Speaker 1: through the play right, and it really has aged so well.
- 30:55Speaker 1: I was watching it this morning and, like the jokes
- 30:58Speaker 1: land the right feels like still very like charming and
- 31:03Speaker 1: fresh and it's just a fun watch and like nothing
- 31:06Speaker 1: in that movie is standing out in a bad, cringe
- 31:10Speaker 1: e way unless it's supposed to be. You know, it's
- 31:13Speaker 1: just like so well written and you know it's like yeah,
- 31:17Speaker 1: the work speaks for itself. It's funny and like it's
- 31:20Speaker 1: just like, I don't know, this movie has so charming. Sorry,
- 31:25Speaker 1: there's like a trash removal truck right outside my window
- 31:28Speaker 1: making loud noises. My air conditioners on because it's eight
- 31:31Speaker 1: million degrees. Sorry for all the noise my house and
- 31:37Speaker 1: I smell fire. There's a lot going on. Okay, okay,
- 31:43Speaker 1: let's go back to talking about the movie. That takes
- 31:46Speaker 1: place in l a around like literally this exact time
- 31:50Speaker 1: of year. Yeah, during a heatwave, in the summer, sweltering heat,
- 31:55Speaker 1: oh my gosh. But Yeah, this movie does age so
- 32:00Speaker 1: well and we've talked about there's like a span of
- 32:03Speaker 1: time for movies and honestly it ranges for a quite
- 32:08Speaker 1: a long time, but you know, if you're from a
- 32:11Speaker 1: certain generation, especially the movies of like the late nineties,
- 32:14Speaker 1: early two thousand's, like if that's when you're coming of
- 32:16Speaker 1: age and those are like the movies and the media
- 32:19Speaker 1: that you were like most exposed to, which is the
- 32:22Speaker 1: case for me at least. That era was just such
- 32:27Speaker 1: a crapshoot for for most media, because it was like
- 32:31Speaker 1: just steeped in sexism, racism, homophobia, Transphobia, able is m like,
- 32:37Speaker 1: you name it. Marginalized communities were punched down to in media.
- 32:41Speaker 1: So it's just so refreshing to see a movie that's
- 32:43Speaker 1: twenty years old, from the early two thousand's to be
- 32:47Speaker 1: a movie that is like so, I mean feminist masterpiece.
- 32:51Speaker 1: Number one has so many strong, impactful messages, the exact
- 32:57Speaker 1: type of thing that like young people need to see
- 33:00Speaker 1: to like be influenced in the right direction, because it
- 33:03Speaker 1: has such strong themes and messaging about like body positivity,
- 33:07Speaker 1: sex positivity. It showcases a complicated relationship between a mother
- 33:13Speaker 1: and daughter, but one that's this very authentic and and
- 33:16Speaker 1: familiar to a lot of people. So it's just like
- 33:19Speaker 1: it's doing so much class commentary that there's something that
- 33:26Speaker 1: honestly like didn't even didn't connect for me until I
- 33:29Speaker 1: saw it like explicitly kind of said by the creators
- 33:31Speaker 1: of the movie, because I didn't have my proper two
- 33:35Speaker 1: thousand and two goggles on. I guess was just showing
- 33:40Speaker 1: boil heights as the community that it is, versus how
- 33:45Speaker 1: east L A and Latin people from l a were
- 33:48Speaker 1: shown in media at this time. That, like this movie,
- 33:51Speaker 1: had a huge hand in, you know, offering a counter
- 33:54Speaker 1: to the really prejudiced, like overly simplistic narrative that was
- 33:59Speaker 1: being shown in everything else. Um, which is like such
- 34:02Speaker 1: a big part of Josafina Lopez's work. It's very wholesome,
- 34:08Speaker 1: it is. Yeah, for sure. Yeah, and like, yeah, just
- 34:11Speaker 1: think about all the movies that you see that are
- 34:13Speaker 1: like set in L A, about rich white people living
- 34:16Speaker 1: in wealthy neighborhoods, living in huge houses. That basically just
- 34:21Speaker 1: ignores huge swaths of the population of L A. Yeah,
- 34:26Speaker 1: there's a huge Latin x community that is not often
- 34:30Speaker 1: represented in movies here in L A and often not
- 34:34Speaker 1: represented favorably, if it is represented at all. Yeah, I
- 34:38Speaker 1: was just gonna say that real women have curves. Is
- 34:41Speaker 1: Markedly youthful and feminine when compared to other L A
- 34:46Speaker 1: chicano Mexican American films, like literally the other movies that
- 34:51Speaker 1: we can compare it to in the same sort of
- 34:54Speaker 1: genre or or cultural space, is like blood and blood
- 34:57Speaker 1: out American me and then, you know, me Familia has
- 35:02Speaker 1: more of a family dynamic at the beginning. But these
- 35:05Speaker 1: films and then zoot suit, and these are all iconic films.
- 35:09Speaker 1: zoot suit is a musical, you know, it's a piece
- 35:12Speaker 1: of theater. But all of these films also have a
- 35:15Speaker 1: lot of violence in them. There's a lot of trauma,
- 35:18Speaker 1: there's prison and gangs and the ethos is very masculine
- 35:23Speaker 1: and it's very much like a lot of men on
- 35:26Speaker 1: screen and what they're going through in their lives. And
- 35:29Speaker 1: then you have real women have curves with like I
- 35:33Speaker 1: was on Hostafina Lopez on her website and reading about her,
- 35:37Speaker 1: her like about me, which seems like she wrote it,
- 35:39Speaker 1: which is awesome, and she's talking about how she started
- 35:42Speaker 1: writing this play when she was eighteen, you know, and
- 35:45Speaker 1: how like yeah, and how the sensibilities of an eighteen
- 35:48Speaker 1: year old girl have everything to do with why the
- 35:52Speaker 1: film is everything that it is and it's it's I
- 35:55Speaker 1: think it feels so fresh because it is because like
- 35:58Speaker 1: such a young person wrote it. And it feels very
- 36:02Speaker 1: like like fresh too, because it doesn't look or feel
- 36:05Speaker 1: like steeped in Super Trendy stuff of the time, like
- 36:10Speaker 1: it doesn't really look like a two thousand's film, I guess,
- 36:13Speaker 1: like it's not super stylized, like their wardrobe or their
- 36:17Speaker 1: makeup or their hair or the music. You know, it's like, yeah,
- 36:21Speaker 1: very wholesome and like a zoomer today who like goes
- 36:25Speaker 1: thrift Ng might end up pulling some of the outfits
- 36:28Speaker 1: so that America Ferrera is wearing in. Real women have curves,
- 36:31Speaker 1: you know, like it just feels very like, yeah, it
- 36:34Speaker 1: feels like young. I was thinking that so much of
- 36:36Speaker 1: it has come back around. Oh yeah, absolutely. I have
- 36:40Speaker 1: a quote from UH, Mr Levo himself, let's say his name, Um.
- 36:46Speaker 1: But yeah, like speaking to you know, like drew attention
- 36:49Speaker 1: to the fact like this is based on Josaphina's experience
- 36:54Speaker 1: so much as told through the soft, warm, humorous tone
- 36:57Speaker 1: of her experience. Hopefully that's what you're seeing when you
- 36:59Speaker 1: see the city as different from the gangs and the
- 37:02Speaker 1: grittiness of other films from this time. Jo Safina. Wanted
- 37:05Speaker 1: to show the city as a vibrant place where women
- 37:07Speaker 1: can have full lives and grow, and I feel like
- 37:10Speaker 1: this movie pulls that off a million percent. Oh Yeah, yeah,
- 37:16Speaker 1: I want to share a quote from the Director, Um
- 37:21Speaker 1: Patricia Patricia Cardoso, says, quote. I wanted to show a
- 37:25Speaker 1: part of Los Angeles we don't usually see in a
- 37:27Speaker 1: beautiful way, not a seedy neighborhood filled with stereotypes of
- 37:31Speaker 1: east l a. It was important to expand the concept
- 37:34Speaker 1: of beauty for women, but also for the city and
- 37:37Speaker 1: the neighborhoods. Unquote. So it's like in this vision from
- 37:42Speaker 1: the director, from the writer, all comes through very clearly,
- 37:47Speaker 1: in very satisfying ways. Um had one other behind the
- 37:52Speaker 1: scenes thing I wanted to and I know this will will,
- 37:54Speaker 1: this will come in and out for the rest of
- 37:56Speaker 1: the episode, but I was happy that this article like
- 37:59Speaker 1: as I was so curious of like the sequence of
- 38:02Speaker 1: America Ferrera Lore So. I guess that she had already
- 38:06Speaker 1: shot got to kick it up before she shot. Real
- 38:08Speaker 1: women have curves and I just like, I love this story.
- 38:12Speaker 1: It was like when she got her check from got
- 38:15Speaker 1: to kick it up, she got a car and wanted
- 38:20Speaker 1: to go to drama camp and like those are that's
- 38:23Speaker 1: what she used her money for. As like she's so great,
- 38:27Speaker 1: they wanted her to audition for this movie. She was like, well,
- 38:30Speaker 1: I'm going to drama camp, so if you're still casting
- 38:34Speaker 1: when I'm done at drama camp, like hit me up,
- 38:37Speaker 1: basically and then and like listening to her talk about
- 38:41Speaker 1: that in her thirties and she was like that was
- 38:42Speaker 1: a bold move for a seventeen year old to do,
- 38:45Speaker 1: but uh, fortunately, they still wanted me to be in
- 38:48Speaker 1: the movie. So I live America fure so much. I
- 38:52Speaker 1: was curious about like what scenes in this retrospective they
- 38:56Speaker 1: would talk about, and there was a fair amount of
- 38:59Speaker 1: discussion around, I feel like the scene that people remember
- 39:01Speaker 1: best from this movie when they're in the factory at
- 39:04Speaker 1: the end and they take their clothes off and they
- 39:06Speaker 1: talk about their bodies and it's like this really celebratory,
- 39:09Speaker 1: cool moment Um. So I guess America Farre was I
- 39:13Speaker 1: said she was fifteen. I was wrong. She was seventeen
- 39:15Speaker 1: when this movie was being shot, but still still, she
- 39:18Speaker 1: was still a kid and I guess that on the
- 39:21Speaker 1: day that this was being shot, she decided that she
- 39:27Speaker 1: didn't want to take her pants off. So this was
- 39:30Speaker 1: sort of this was hashed by a few people, I mean,
- 39:33Speaker 1: and it seems like, you know, fifteen years later she's fine,
- 39:37Speaker 1: everyone's relationship is fine. But at the time, so the
- 39:41Speaker 1: scene had been blocked, they were ready to shoot it.
- 39:44Speaker 1: I think prior to the scene being shot, America Frero said, okay,
- 39:47Speaker 1: that's okay, I'll do that. But I just wanted to
- 39:50Speaker 1: share a few quotes from her because kids acting is
- 39:54Speaker 1: like such a such a Myer, and I she was
- 39:58Speaker 1: uncomfortable during that scene. So she says. I was seventeen
- 40:02Speaker 1: years old and it was only my second job. I
- 40:04Speaker 1: never had to take off my clothes in front of
- 40:05Speaker 1: a crew, most of them men. I'm sure it was
- 40:09Speaker 1: incredibly intimidated by that. I remember wearing a robe between
- 40:12Speaker 1: takes and as the day went on it was too
- 40:14Speaker 1: much of a hassle to get the robe on and off,
- 40:16Speaker 1: so I was like whatever, I'll stand here without the rope.
- 40:19Speaker 1: But basically the crew tells this story about how she
- 40:22Speaker 1: decided she wasn't comfortable taking her pants off and then
- 40:25Speaker 1: I believe the director Um faked getting a phone call
- 40:30Speaker 1: from an HBO executive. She was like you know well,
- 40:34Speaker 1: you know this is a really important part of the script.
- 40:36Speaker 1: We need you to do this, and America fare was like,
- 40:39Speaker 1: I'm not comfortable with that, I don't want to do
- 40:40Speaker 1: it anymore. And she's like, well, let me call HBO.
- 40:44Speaker 1: The director goes outside fakes a call. So this is
- 40:48Speaker 1: from George Lavu is recapping this. Okay. So, no, sorry,
- 40:52Speaker 1: this is George lavue making the call. Lavu canceled out. Okay,
- 40:57Speaker 1: George Levu harshed her in his narrative. I don't like
- 41:01Speaker 1: him anymore. Yeah, not, it's always. It's always Lavu, though,
- 41:07Speaker 1: isn't it? So lavo says I made an excuse. I said,
- 41:12Speaker 1: let me call Colin Calendar, who was the head of
- 41:15Speaker 1: Hbo Films at the time. I said, let me see
- 41:17Speaker 1: what he wants. So I took my phone outside and
- 41:19Speaker 1: I pretended to call Colin. I came back and said
- 41:22Speaker 1: Colin said you have to do it, and she said okay,
- 41:26Speaker 1: we'll do it. I didn't know what we were going
- 41:28Speaker 1: to do. I couldn't imagine the movie without that scene.
- 41:30Speaker 1: Hopefully they're happy it happened that way. Then Patricia Cardoso
- 41:35Speaker 1: jumps on this train and says America was mad at
- 41:39Speaker 1: me the whole day. It took two days to shoot
- 41:41Speaker 1: that scene and she was so mad she wouldn't even
- 41:43Speaker 1: look me in the eyes. The next day she came
- 41:45Speaker 1: running to me and said, you know, now I understand
- 41:47Speaker 1: why it was important for the character to take off
- 41:49Speaker 1: her pants. Can we please shoot the scene again? I
- 41:52Speaker 1: said no, you did it perfectly. America Ferrera now in
- 41:57Speaker 1: her thirties. This is kind of put a pin on
- 42:01Speaker 1: this discussion that I was like, I'm mad at them personally.
- 42:05Speaker 1: But she says, I clearly see how this film empowered
- 42:09Speaker 1: others to feel seen, liberated and beautiful, but I was
- 42:13Speaker 1: a child playing everything, but a typical child. More than
- 42:16Speaker 1: saying Oh, that's my body, people watched it and said, Oh, yes,
- 42:19Speaker 1: that's how my mom responds to my body, that's how
- 42:21Speaker 1: my culture responds to my body, that's how the world
- 42:24Speaker 1: responds to my body. For me, being a young woman
- 42:27Speaker 1: going through my own journey with my body, having seen
- 42:29Speaker 1: and talked, having it seen and talked about and projected
- 42:33Speaker 1: upon by people, watching this movie, if anything, sort of
- 42:36Speaker 1: stunned me for a while, because that in and of
- 42:38Speaker 1: itself sent a strong message about how I should feel
- 42:41Speaker 1: about my body and it was a much longer journey
- 42:44Speaker 1: for me to get to a place where I felt
- 42:45Speaker 1: empowered about my body the way that film helped others feel. So,
- 42:51Speaker 1: I mean it's levels, for sure. It's complex. I mean personally,
- 42:56Speaker 1: I'm like okay. Production Wise, I don't think that that
- 42:58Speaker 1: was a very that was a dishonest and irresponsible way
- 43:02Speaker 1: to handle that, especially with someone who's an underage, who's
- 43:06Speaker 1: a miner, right, right. I mean she's seventeen in this situation,
- 43:10Speaker 1: and like that was the one production thing that I
- 43:13Speaker 1: learned that didn't sit super well because it's like yeah,
- 43:18Speaker 1: this like she's an incredible performer, she's, but it's I mean,
- 43:23Speaker 1: a teenager talking about their body on screen is so
- 43:27Speaker 1: I can't imagine how excruciatingly difficult that must have been.
- 43:31Speaker 1: And so to have like pressure put on top of
- 43:33Speaker 1: her like you have to do this, like that sucks.
- 43:37Speaker 1: It's it's like this period of your life where, I
- 43:41Speaker 1: R L teenagers are still wearing t shirts in the
- 43:44Speaker 1: swimming pool and like not showing their bodies to anybody,
- 43:47Speaker 1: like if they feel uncomfortable. And I think what's interesting
- 43:51Speaker 1: too is like America Frera like in that quote. Nowhere
- 43:54Speaker 1: is she saying that she didn't like her body or
- 43:57Speaker 1: she felt fat or she felt not proud of her
- 44:00Speaker 1: body or uncomfortable in her body. You know what I mean?
- 44:02Speaker 1: It's like there's all these projections and it has so
- 44:06Speaker 1: much to do with like, of course, it's literally the
- 44:09Speaker 1: plot and it's the movie and it's the character and
- 44:13Speaker 1: it's the storyline, so that's all baked in there. Like
- 44:16Speaker 1: she's cast in this role because the main character, Anna
- 44:21Speaker 1: is a Godrida, she's Chubby, so she's got to look
- 44:23Speaker 1: the part, you know. And then I think about the
- 44:26Speaker 1: fact that like all the levels right, because that script
- 44:30Speaker 1: was written by somebody, Josafina, who probably experienced this exact
- 44:34Speaker 1: same type of body shaming that goes on in our families.
- 44:37Speaker 1: And then those actresses, being Latina's, probably have all experienced
- 44:41Speaker 1: something similar in their own lives and I don't know
- 44:45Speaker 1: that in their particular families or lives that just because
- 44:48Speaker 1: we have this awareness in the script and in the
- 44:51Speaker 1: movie that, you know, everybody is beautiful and that fat
- 44:55Speaker 1: is beautiful, that those actresses, when they go home their families,
- 44:58Speaker 1: are not necessarily board like that script is probably still there.
- 45:02Speaker 1: You know, like that is still happening in the outside world,
- 45:06Speaker 1: you know. So it's just I just think about the
- 45:08Speaker 1: compounded levels of it all in a in a movie
- 45:11Speaker 1: like this, right. Yeah, and you hear about stories where,
- 45:16Speaker 1: like a scene like this is in the script and
- 45:19Speaker 1: it calls for nudity, partial nudity, you know, people wearing underwear.
- 45:25Speaker 1: I didn't feel like inappropriate or exploitative, but I also
- 45:30Speaker 1: can totally understand why a seventeen year old actor, when
- 45:33Speaker 1: the moment comes to take your clothes off in front
- 45:35Speaker 1: of two people, no matter how safe you are, it's
- 45:39Speaker 1: like that you can feel amazing about your body and
- 45:42Speaker 1: be uncomfortable with that. Like that's so that's what I
- 45:45Speaker 1: was gonna say. You hear stories about like some productions
- 45:47Speaker 1: being like, okay, I know this is going to be
- 45:49Speaker 1: a potentially very uncomfortable scene for the actors, so we're
- 45:52Speaker 1: going to take a bunch of precautions to make it
- 45:55Speaker 1: as comfortable as possible, and that ranges from like hiring Choreo,
- 46:00Speaker 1: if it's like a sex scene, like a sex choreographer
- 46:03Speaker 1: will basically be hired, or like there will be like
- 46:06Speaker 1: social workers or other kind of like mental health professionals
- 46:09Speaker 1: on set or like nearby to consult with if the
- 46:12Speaker 1: actors need like to consult with somebody or talk to someone.
- 46:15Speaker 1: There will be a reduced crew, where like normally the
- 46:18Speaker 1: crew might be two hundred people, but on a shoot
- 46:20Speaker 1: day like that you scale it way back. I've heard
- 46:23Speaker 1: of Um like let's say the DP is a man,
- 46:26Speaker 1: but they will like temporarily hire a woman. I mean
- 46:29Speaker 1: they could have just hired a woman anyway, but they
- 46:33Speaker 1: they did say that, like it wasn't actually two hundred
- 46:37Speaker 1: people it was. That was like I think America Frere
- 46:41Speaker 1: was like, Um, hyper hyper what is hyperbole? Hyperbolic? Yeah,
- 46:48Speaker 1: I went to school, I swear uh so per Levu Um.
- 46:54Speaker 1: There were like dividers up so that not every member
- 46:57Speaker 1: of the crew had access to the shooting of this scene.
- 47:01Speaker 1: So I don't have the number count, but but it
- 47:04Speaker 1: was like America decided she didn't want to take off
- 47:06Speaker 1: her pants in front of the crew and I guess
- 47:09Speaker 1: she told her director that. She was like, Oh, I
- 47:12Speaker 1: don't think that the character would actually do that or
- 47:14Speaker 1: all this stuff, and it just I mean also, I
- 47:18Speaker 1: don't envy the director's position and that situation either, because
- 47:22Speaker 1: that's a really true especially on a on a like
- 47:25Speaker 1: a lower budget movie. That's a really, really difficult position
- 47:28Speaker 1: to be put in, for sure, but it could have
- 47:30Speaker 1: been handled better. She's a kid. I wonder too, that scene.
- 47:35Speaker 1: I wish that I could see it like how it
- 47:38Speaker 1: was staged for the theater and for the stage, because
- 47:42Speaker 1: I can imagine that, you know, obviously on camera you
- 47:46Speaker 1: see a certain you can only see so much and
- 47:49Speaker 1: things are kind of far away, you know, and I
- 47:51Speaker 1: feel like on the stage and in the theater you're
- 47:53Speaker 1: much up close and personal, and I can just imagine
- 47:56Speaker 1: that the row of like the factory scenes and a
- 48:00Speaker 1: row of sewing machines and the women's sewing and the
- 48:03Speaker 1: sounds and the visual is probably very striking and dynamic
- 48:06Speaker 1: on stage and I'm sure that when it gets to
- 48:08Speaker 1: that part about them taking off their clothes and showing
- 48:11Speaker 1: off their stretch marks and their cellulite, that that's very
- 48:14Speaker 1: impactful on stage and very dynamic, you know, in a
- 48:17Speaker 1: different way than in the movie. And like I wonder
- 48:20Speaker 1: how it was handled even like for the stage and
- 48:24Speaker 1: the taking off the clothes and the lead actress and
- 48:27Speaker 1: and those pieces, because it's a scene that everybody loves.
- 48:31Speaker 1: It's like a standout scene for everyone. I would love
- 48:35Speaker 1: to see a stage production of this. I also didn't
- 48:38Speaker 1: know that, I guess Hostephena Lopez opened a theater in
- 48:41Speaker 1: boil heights. Yes, that's Gasa zero zero one. I want
- 48:45Speaker 1: to say. Yeah, yeah, back in two thousand's on first
- 48:49Speaker 1: street she has a restaurant, also called Gasa Fina, on
- 48:55Speaker 1: First Street in Mariachi Plaza, and then so so and
- 48:58Speaker 1: Mariachi Plaza is featured in the movie throughout like you
- 49:02Speaker 1: see it, and Anna goes on her dates in Mariachi
- 49:05Speaker 1: Plaza and she walks through Mariachi Plaza to catch for
- 49:08Speaker 1: bus to high school. So right there on first she
- 49:11Speaker 1: has her restaurant, Gasa Mama Casa Gasa, and then the
- 49:15Speaker 1: theater down the street. That's so cool. Yeah, so that
- 49:19Speaker 1: was all. That was all the behind the scenes stuff
- 49:22Speaker 1: I had. Um. Well, yeah, so let's let's take a
- 49:25Speaker 1: break and then we'll come back and discuss the story,
- 49:29Speaker 1: the movie, the characters, et Cetera, and we're back. Okay,
- 49:41Speaker 1: let's get into talking about the the actual what happens
- 49:46Speaker 1: in the movie. I really liked Um. I know, I
- 49:49Speaker 1: feel like every time we see public transportation in a movie,
- 49:52Speaker 1: I get so excited. But I really like I feel
- 49:57Speaker 1: like we've covered five trillion movies where it's like New
- 49:59Speaker 1: York is end of the character rre or ray or ran,
- 50:02Speaker 1: but this movie, I think like l a is on
- 50:06Speaker 1: is like really strutting its stuff in this one. It
- 50:09Speaker 1: is so beautiful and so like well done, and I
- 50:14Speaker 1: love that you sort of navigate the city with public
- 50:17Speaker 1: transit and I just really liked it. Yes, heart agree.
- 50:21Speaker 1: That is again like something you don't see when you want,
- 50:26Speaker 1: except for the iconic film speed. Have happened that the
- 50:31Speaker 1: L A metroly not. But UH yeah, I mean there's
- 50:35Speaker 1: there's so much this movie is doing as far as
- 50:38Speaker 1: representation goes, as far as just like again, powerful messaging.
- 50:44Speaker 1: You know, it's a predominantly Latin x cast Um. I
- 50:48Speaker 1: love that Spanish is spoken frequently among the characters, because
- 50:53Speaker 1: I feel like a lot of Hollywood executives would cite
- 50:56Speaker 1: that is a thing like that will make this movie
- 50:59Speaker 1: too inaccessible for a mainstream audience. But it's funny too,
- 51:03Speaker 1: because you already had so many like, okay, like we
- 51:06Speaker 1: had tons of star wars movies already at this time
- 51:09Speaker 1: and they're speaking all kinds of different made up alien languages,
- 51:13Speaker 1: like in those films. But Spanish is too much, that
- 51:17Speaker 1: is too inaccessible right, like, oh no, a language that
- 51:21Speaker 1: most people in the US speak to some degree. Can't
- 51:25Speaker 1: have that. We like, not that. Meanwhile, elvish is making
- 51:32Speaker 1: a huge comeback at this same time, alright, because Lord
- 51:36Speaker 1: of the Rings Two towers comes out the same year.
- 51:40Speaker 1: There you go. I feel like the movie sometimes I
- 51:43Speaker 1: feel like a movie, like real women have curves, especially
- 51:46Speaker 1: at this time. is almost like a crossover situation, even
- 51:50Speaker 1: though it's Mexican Americans, like in L A, like her
- 51:55Speaker 1: character ostensibly is like, you know, first or second generation
- 51:59Speaker 1: like Mexican American. And part of why I love the
- 52:03Speaker 1: bus conversation and the travel conversation is because there's this
- 52:07Speaker 1: crossover that happens in L A. It's this east side
- 52:09Speaker 1: West side crossover, and you see them. She's crossing the
- 52:13Speaker 1: bridge via bus and via her dad's pickup truck to
- 52:17Speaker 1: go from her east side neighborhood passed through downtown to
- 52:21Speaker 1: work or to end up in Beverly Hills on the
- 52:24Speaker 1: West Side for school or for the dad's job, and
- 52:28Speaker 1: I think that's almost like the story of the movie.
- 52:32Speaker 1: It's like born here on the east side, she she
- 52:34Speaker 1: was taking meetings and she was on the west side Hostafina.
- 52:37Speaker 1: I'm sure a lot trying to get this movie made
- 52:41Speaker 1: and it's like a journey that I think like if
- 52:44Speaker 1: you're in L A local like we joke about this,
- 52:46Speaker 1: me and my co hosts, because we live. I live
- 52:49Speaker 1: sort of in the mid city area, which is a
- 52:50Speaker 1: little more Um West, but it's close to downtown and
- 52:54Speaker 1: the USA lives sort of southeast and our community is
- 52:58Speaker 1: sort of here, west of Librea and beyond, and we
- 53:02Speaker 1: hear so many people, like transplant saying, oh l a like,
- 53:05Speaker 1: I never go east of Librea, anything east of Libraa
- 53:08Speaker 1: is the east side. Downtown is the east side, silver
- 53:10Speaker 1: like is the east side. There's this disconnect in in
- 53:13Speaker 1: what L A is. We've I've we've heard this so
- 53:16Speaker 1: many times. So anytime that we have to go to
- 53:18Speaker 1: the west side and leave our little enclaves, it's a thing,
- 53:22Speaker 1: it's a journey. It's Oh we're going to the west side,
- 53:25Speaker 1: you know. So I feel like Safina was going to
- 53:27Speaker 1: the west side and in this movie they traveled to
- 53:30Speaker 1: the West side it's like Iv. Yeah, for for listeners
- 53:34Speaker 1: who do not understand truly the grand trek that Anna
- 53:40Speaker 1: was taking to get to school every day, it's I
- 53:42Speaker 1: was I was just trying to do the math in
- 53:43Speaker 1: my head. I'm like that's at least an hour and
- 53:45Speaker 1: a half if the bus comes on time, because she's
- 53:49Speaker 1: like transfers. She like goes from like boil heights to
- 53:52Speaker 1: Hollywood and vine from Hollywood and Vine Hills, like she's
- 53:56Speaker 1: taking transfers, which is a yeah, that's the bus is here.
- 54:01Speaker 1: Look pro but we could use some more routes. Could
- 54:06Speaker 1: use some more routes, use some more frequency, because sometimes
- 54:10Speaker 1: you're like why am I doing a Yo Yo act
- 54:13Speaker 1: to get somewhere that is objectively three miles from where
- 54:16Speaker 1: I'm sitting? Unclear, look right, but, but, but I loved
- 54:21Speaker 1: that the movie took that time to show you that
- 54:25Speaker 1: journey because it feels like it effortlessly communicates the class
- 54:31Speaker 1: struggle that Anna is dealing with without having to like
- 54:35Speaker 1: bop you over the head with it. It's just like
- 54:37Speaker 1: an effortless part of the story. I love how it
- 54:40Speaker 1: you're just told visually and also like when you see
- 54:43Speaker 1: that kid Jimmy come to the east side and like,
- 54:47Speaker 1: clearly it sounds like he's like one of the people
- 54:50Speaker 1: you're talking about where it's it's he's like what? What?
- 54:55Speaker 1: Like there's a part where he's like because she knows
- 54:58Speaker 1: him from school and he goes to school in Beverly Hills,
- 55:01Speaker 1: so you can presume that he probably lives in Beverly
- 55:04Speaker 1: Hills as well, like shares little brother or something. Yes,
- 55:08Speaker 1: he's Elijah Wood's son. Um, he's he's of the Wood family,
- 55:14Speaker 1: for sure. Yes, summering with the wood family. He's like,
- 55:19Speaker 1: I wanted to go to Europe with you. Things are
- 55:22Speaker 1: just too easy here, you know, you're handed everything, you're
- 55:25Speaker 1: handed school, you're handed a car. That's why I went
- 55:28Speaker 1: to teach. And it's like, okay, you're saying this to Anna,
- 55:32Speaker 1: who comes from a working class, blue collar family where
- 55:37Speaker 1: most of her family works in a clothing factory where
- 55:40Speaker 1: their labor is for sure being exploited because they're assembling
- 55:45Speaker 1: dresses for eighteen dollars to be assauled at the Bloomingdale's
- 55:49Speaker 1: that his family probably shops at. Like and Anna takes
- 55:53Speaker 1: the bus. She's like, what are you talking about? I
- 55:56Speaker 1: take the bus. And he's like we have buses here.
- 56:00Speaker 1: Like what I love about that scene is like Anna
- 56:05Speaker 1: doesn't say any of that. You know, she just like
- 56:08Speaker 1: listens to him and she's like okay, sure, Jimmy. You know,
- 56:12Speaker 1: she doesn't have to. It's so fascinating to me she doesn't.
- 56:16Speaker 1: She doesn't feel compelled to tell him he's wrong or
- 56:19Speaker 1: that he has it easy or that her life is
- 56:21Speaker 1: so hard. or well, here's what she's she's on the bus,
- 56:24Speaker 1: she doesn't have a car. It's not easy for her,
- 56:26Speaker 1: and I always find those choices really fascinating of like
- 56:30Speaker 1: how much Anna is like sharing with him or not.
- 56:33Speaker 1: You know, Um, because I think that in in and
- 56:36Speaker 1: that sex scene that they have where he's like I'll
- 56:39Speaker 1: write you, I'll call you, and she's very kind of
- 56:41Speaker 1: cold and says no, like for what she knows, like
- 56:46Speaker 1: this guy is for for the now, but this is
- 56:48Speaker 1: not he's not my future and he doesn't need to
- 56:51Speaker 1: know all of me, and I think that's so interesting. Yeah,
- 56:55Speaker 1: and that's just like that's just like fe so real
- 56:59Speaker 1: to and just it just shows how she is a
- 57:02Speaker 1: very like multidimensional, complex character where, you know, she has
- 57:06Speaker 1: no qualms about challenging her mom challenging her sister, you know,
- 57:11Speaker 1: challenging Mrs Glass, the owner of the clothing manufacturer, like,
- 57:16Speaker 1: but she isn't quite so challenging to some of the
- 57:19Speaker 1: things that Jimmy says, because he says something like uh,
- 57:22Speaker 1: and you know, we'll talk all about like the body
- 57:25Speaker 1: and fat shaming that she experiences, but he says something
- 57:28Speaker 1: like you're not fat, you're beautiful, as if those two
- 57:32Speaker 1: things are mutually exclusive. Jimmy, Jimmy, Jimmy, Jimmy, and she
- 57:38Speaker 1: doesn't challenge that. But it's just a much more different
- 57:42Speaker 1: dynamic that she has with this kid she's like rich
- 57:46Speaker 1: white kid she's just getting to know, versus her mom,
- 57:50Speaker 1: who she's lived her entire life with. And that just felt,
- 57:53Speaker 1: like said, you know, we all kind of switch our
- 57:55Speaker 1: behavior and you know, based on who we're interacting with,
- 57:59Speaker 1: and and so that just felt very familiar relatable. Yeah,
- 58:04Speaker 1: it's just such a cool character where every time, I
- 58:08Speaker 1: don't know, like you can see, even in that scene
- 58:10Speaker 1: with Jimmy, I really like when she was like we're
- 58:13Speaker 1: not gonna have anything to talk about in three months,
- 58:15Speaker 1: like don't bother, like that was so cool. And then
- 58:18Speaker 1: but in the scene right after you do see that
- 58:21Speaker 1: like there is some insecurity attached to her setting that
- 58:25Speaker 1: boundary in that way where she's like, well, you're gonna
- 58:29Speaker 1: have some like skinny white girlfriend in a couple of
- 58:31Speaker 1: months anyway. So, like, why would I the subject feeling
- 58:35Speaker 1: like why would I emotionally invest in a Jimmy of
- 58:38Speaker 1: the world? And here's my question. Jimmy says that he's
- 58:44Speaker 1: got into Teachers College, which leads me to believe he's
- 58:47Speaker 1: enrolling at Columbia University. She gets into Columbia University, she
- 58:52Speaker 1: ends up in New York. Is there a real women
- 58:56Speaker 1: have curves, sequel, where she wears the red dress in
- 59:02Speaker 1: New York and they reunite somehow? Is that why they're
- 59:06Speaker 1: loose ends? Well, this is becoming a what? Oh my gosh,
- 59:10Speaker 1: it's becoming a to all the boys I love before
- 59:13Speaker 1: style saga. Yes, the whole thing. I have to wonder.
- 59:20Speaker 1: It's not too late? Yes, it's twenty years later, but
- 59:23Speaker 1: you know, I'm still waiting for that red dress payoff,
- 59:25Speaker 1: I'll be honest. The other thing that I thought was interesting,
- 59:31Speaker 1: as it relates to the kind of class commentary, is
- 59:35Speaker 1: Mrs Glass. So again, she's the owner of the dress
- 59:38Speaker 1: manufacturing company that Estella is a contractor of, and there's
- 59:43Speaker 1: that scene where stella she's like first trying to write
- 59:46Speaker 1: an email to her, and Anna is like, you gotta
- 59:50Speaker 1: go down and talk to her. You're never going to
- 59:52Speaker 1: get anywhere with an email. So Anna goes with her,
- 59:55Speaker 1: you know, ends up like advocating pretty hard for more
- 1:00:00Speaker 1: than Estella camp, but it's also like, you know, more
- 1:00:03Speaker 1: is at stake for Estella, so you don't you know,
- 1:00:05Speaker 1: you get why she's a bit intimidated by Mrs Glass Um,
- 1:00:10Speaker 1: but there's that moment where Mrs Glass is like, you know,
- 1:00:13Speaker 1: I believe a woman like me should help a woman
- 1:00:16Speaker 1: like you, but I can only help you so much,
- 1:00:18Speaker 1: and basically tells her she has to pick herself up
- 1:00:20Speaker 1: by her bootstraps because she, despite also being like a
- 1:00:24Speaker 1: Latina woman who, you know, like saw something in Ostella
- 1:00:28Speaker 1: and like that's why she wanted to help her out,
- 1:00:29Speaker 1: but she's also a capitalist who is for sure exploiting
- 1:00:32Speaker 1: Estella's labor. You hate to see it, but that ship
- 1:00:37Speaker 1: also does happen. It does happen. Yeah, I find the
- 1:00:39Speaker 1: Mrs Glass character so fascinating because that character can be
- 1:00:43Speaker 1: open to so many interpretations, like we can create so
- 1:00:46Speaker 1: many storylines behind her life. Is this like an Argentinean
- 1:00:50Speaker 1: Latin out with the last named glass, like is she
- 1:00:54Speaker 1: like a third gen like Mexican American who like went
- 1:00:58Speaker 1: to like Harvard Business School? Like, who is this woman
- 1:01:01Speaker 1: and how did why is she the way that she is,
- 1:01:04Speaker 1: you know, and I love the tension there too with
- 1:01:07Speaker 1: like you have Anna, who like went to Beverly Hills
- 1:01:09Speaker 1: High School and his college bound and is very kind
- 1:01:13Speaker 1: of Um. She feels like she knows a lot of
- 1:01:16Speaker 1: things right, and I feel like there's a lot of
- 1:01:18Speaker 1: like power trips in this movie about what we know
- 1:01:21Speaker 1: and what we don't know. So I think Anna feels
- 1:01:23Speaker 1: like among her family she knows more things than like
- 1:01:26Speaker 1: her mom, and her mom feels like, well, a woman
- 1:01:29Speaker 1: knows and a mother knows, and that's her favorite saying,
- 1:01:32Speaker 1: you know, because she's a mom, so she knows and
- 1:01:34Speaker 1: she's a married woman, so she knows. And Anna went
- 1:01:36Speaker 1: to Beverly Hills high so she knows, you know. And
- 1:01:39Speaker 1: so Anna thinks, Anna thinks that she's about to help
- 1:01:42Speaker 1: her sister out and like negotiate with this business lady.
- 1:01:45Speaker 1: But Anna is weighing over her head and this lady
- 1:01:48Speaker 1: is way out of her league and Anna is actually
- 1:01:51Speaker 1: doing more harm than good and she thinks she's helping,
- 1:01:54Speaker 1: you know. And so it's like maybe there's a reason
- 1:01:56Speaker 1: Estella has been kind of moving the way she's been moving,
- 1:01:59Speaker 1: because maybe Estella knows something that Anna doesn't know, and
- 1:02:03Speaker 1: I love all of that. That kind of merry go round.
- 1:02:07Speaker 1: I don't think in my I think I got I
- 1:02:09Speaker 1: was so caught up in the Anna of it all
- 1:02:12Speaker 1: in my earlier viewings, because it's like that is especially
- 1:02:15Speaker 1: if you're like a teen girl. You're plugging yourself into Anna,
- 1:02:18Speaker 1: like end of story. I didn't think as much as
- 1:02:22Speaker 1: I probably should have about Estella's character and I'm prepping
- 1:02:26Speaker 1: for this episode I was like kind of blown away
- 1:02:29Speaker 1: by how much there is in Estella's character, even though, like,
- 1:02:34Speaker 1: I mean, she's a main character, but she doesn't like
- 1:02:36Speaker 1: actually speak that much. She doesn't take a ton of
- 1:02:40Speaker 1: like action, action or because it's so honest story and
- 1:02:44Speaker 1: the relationship between Anna and her mother is so focused on.
- 1:02:47Speaker 1: But I really love Estella and I don't think I
- 1:02:50Speaker 1: like had the tools to understand what she was up
- 1:02:54Speaker 1: against when I first saw this movie because Anna is
- 1:02:58Speaker 1: so headstrong and like she's back on everything and in
- 1:03:02Speaker 1: a way that it's like really Cathartic and cool to see.
- 1:03:04Speaker 1: And and I think in my mind at the time
- 1:03:06Speaker 1: I'm like, well, why doesn't Estella stand up for herself
- 1:03:09Speaker 1: more and like not understanding there the dynamic there where,
- 1:03:14Speaker 1: even watching like how it's like it's clear that ten
- 1:03:18Speaker 1: years prior Estella was treated the way Anna is being
- 1:03:22Speaker 1: treated now by her mother, which is, I feel, like
- 1:03:25Speaker 1: represented in that scene where their mom basically says, like well,
- 1:03:28Speaker 1: it's too late for Estella. I'm going to focus on Anna,
- 1:03:32Speaker 1: and it seems like Estella has put so much energy
- 1:03:37Speaker 1: and and like her life into pleasing her mom and
- 1:03:40Speaker 1: doing what she thinks is the right thing and trying
- 1:03:42Speaker 1: to like meet the bar that their mom is setting
- 1:03:46Speaker 1: that no one can ever actually reach, and then, ten
- 1:03:49Speaker 1: years later, be blamed for it and she's still not
- 1:03:53Speaker 1: the mom's favorite right and then like ten years later
- 1:03:56Speaker 1: she's still catching ship for it and her mom has
- 1:03:58Speaker 1: given up on her for no reason, even though Estella
- 1:04:01Speaker 1: seems like she like is I mean, I don't know
- 1:04:05Speaker 1: enough about how a textile factory is run to say
- 1:04:07Speaker 1: this for sure, but it seems like Estella is kind
- 1:04:09Speaker 1: of like doing the bulk of the day today Um stuff.
- 1:04:14Speaker 1: She's handling all the rent issues and the and the
- 1:04:17Speaker 1: checks and like a lot of the high level stuff,
- 1:04:20Speaker 1: but is like not appreciated by the powers that be, certainly,
- 1:04:24Speaker 1: but also doesn't seem it seems like she's really undervalued
- 1:04:27Speaker 1: by her own mom and just like seeing how that
- 1:04:30Speaker 1: because that does, I don't know, like being Estella's age
- 1:04:34Speaker 1: and not Anna's. Now you're like that does wear on you.
- 1:04:36Speaker 1: And of course there's just like Anna has the energy
- 1:04:40Speaker 1: to fight every battle and it's like, but that changes
- 1:04:45Speaker 1: over time and I just love Estella and with the
- 1:04:49Speaker 1: Stellash I feel like a Stella's underrated too, because if
- 1:04:52Speaker 1: I knew somebody who had their own dress manufacturing business
- 1:04:57Speaker 1: and was selling gowns to blooming als, like was filling
- 1:05:01Speaker 1: orders constantly, that's a big fucking deal, like that's an
- 1:05:05Speaker 1: accomplished seamstress designer, like businesswoman, like that's nothing to sneeze at.
- 1:05:13Speaker 1: She's being exploited. It is literally a sweatshop setting, but
- 1:05:17Speaker 1: it's impressive when we really break it down and think
- 1:05:20Speaker 1: about what it's what she's doing there, and I don't
- 1:05:23Speaker 1: think that annesty is that. It's literally Phantom threading, like
- 1:05:29Speaker 1: it's also it's like further complicated by so you can
- 1:05:34Speaker 1: kind of imagine that Stella took up this business because
- 1:05:39Speaker 1: that's what her mom did. Like Carmen says that she
- 1:05:42Speaker 1: has been sewing for thirty eight years and she started
- 1:05:44Speaker 1: when she was like thirteen. So, like you have, Stella
- 1:05:47Speaker 1: like taking in her mom, you know, like taking after
- 1:05:50Speaker 1: her unless expression take something footsteps, following, following others footsteps.
- 1:05:57Speaker 1: I was like, why can't I put this sentence to age?
- 1:06:00Speaker 1: It's so she's following in her mom's footsteps, possibly to
- 1:06:07Speaker 1: impress her mom, possibly because that's the skill her mom
- 1:06:10Speaker 1: taught her. You know, there's could be any number of
- 1:06:12Speaker 1: of reasons. and Um I was able to open up
- 1:06:15Speaker 1: her own factory, Um, which I think maybe it seems
- 1:06:19Speaker 1: to be implied that like that's something that Carmen didn't
- 1:06:23Speaker 1: have the opportunity or the money that you need to
- 1:06:26Speaker 1: start your own business, but it's something that Estella was
- 1:06:29Speaker 1: able to do, and so she started her own business
- 1:06:32Speaker 1: and now she employs her mom, so she's her mom's
- 1:06:36Speaker 1: boss and then her mom mentions how, from decades of sewing,
- 1:06:43Speaker 1: she's she's become arthritic, she can't see very well and
- 1:06:47Speaker 1: she's like not actually able to work very well because,
- 1:06:51Speaker 1: like this hard labor has has really worn on her
- 1:06:54Speaker 1: over the years. But she's ashamed by that and is
- 1:06:57Speaker 1: not really communicating that too love. But she tells it
- 1:07:00Speaker 1: to Anna and it's just like there's like so many
- 1:07:04Speaker 1: such an interesting and complicated family dynamic. Yeah, there's a
- 1:07:08Speaker 1: lot of layers and it's like you you have this
- 1:07:12Speaker 1: situation where, like the mother and the sister have dignity
- 1:07:17Speaker 1: in their work, even though it's not ideal, because that
- 1:07:20Speaker 1: is such a step. Like she's a business owner, she
- 1:07:23Speaker 1: is doing deals with blooming Dale's and they're they have
- 1:07:26Speaker 1: this team, they're employing people. Right. There's this scene where
- 1:07:30Speaker 1: Carmen and Anna's father they're talking to each other and
- 1:07:33Speaker 1: the father is saying she can learn a lot at Columbia,
- 1:07:37Speaker 1: like she's accepted, she got a scholarship, she can go
- 1:07:40Speaker 1: get educated, and her mother says, I can educate her,
- 1:07:44Speaker 1: I can teach her how to sew, I can teach
- 1:07:45Speaker 1: her how to take care of children, I can teach
- 1:07:48Speaker 1: her how to keep a house she doesn't do laundry.
- 1:07:50Speaker 1: She's my greatest disappointment, you know, she doesn't listen to me.
- 1:07:53Speaker 1: And you know, it's interesting because I think there's a
- 1:07:56Speaker 1: piece there where like the mom and the sister are like,
- 1:08:01Speaker 1: we like our lives and we are doing work and
- 1:08:05Speaker 1: we are supporting ourselves and this is a dignified life
- 1:08:09Speaker 1: that's also worth living, you know. And so there's this
- 1:08:12Speaker 1: like divide there where she's very young and and she's
- 1:08:16Speaker 1: pushing back on it and she's Pooh pooing it, but
- 1:08:19Speaker 1: it's what's allowed also allowed her to go to Beverly
- 1:08:22Speaker 1: Hills High School, you know, and she's had that familial support.
- 1:08:26Speaker 1: So there's that push and pull there. Were like in
- 1:08:29Speaker 1: their heart of hearts, they want more for her, but
- 1:08:31Speaker 1: they know that, like this is their world and for
- 1:08:34Speaker 1: her to step out of it, what does that mean
- 1:08:36Speaker 1: about their world and them and all of that? I
- 1:08:40Speaker 1: mean it's like and and I get like that whole
- 1:08:42Speaker 1: message is conveyed in like a single scene which is wild,
- 1:08:47Speaker 1: like the scene when Mr Guzman comes back to the house,
- 1:08:53Speaker 1: and I did I know that this is like she's
- 1:08:54Speaker 1: wrong for this, but it did always make me laugh
- 1:08:56Speaker 1: every time. Um, carbon saw Mr Guzman coming and is
- 1:09:00Speaker 1: like who is that? Let's get him out of here,
- 1:09:01Speaker 1: like slamming the door, and George Lopez's face. Man, yeah, man,
- 1:09:07Speaker 1: you're like that's that's her teacher. But but yeah, like
- 1:09:11Speaker 1: that that whole class tension of like, and I feel
- 1:09:15Speaker 1: like you see it a little bit in Estella's character
- 1:09:17Speaker 1: as well, where it's it's not like Mr Guzman is
- 1:09:20Speaker 1: trying to say like one thing is more valuable than
- 1:09:23Speaker 1: the other, but I think like his perspective is like, well,
- 1:09:27Speaker 1: you sent her to this like Bougie high school. Do
- 1:09:31Speaker 1: you want her to have access to what the Bougie
- 1:09:33Speaker 1: high school was supposed to have gotten her access to?
- 1:09:36Speaker 1: And then, from where Carmen and Ostella are sitting and
- 1:09:39Speaker 1: from where the whole family sitting, it makes total sense
- 1:09:42Speaker 1: to be like well, why are you telling us that
- 1:09:44Speaker 1: the life that we have isn't enough? Like it feels
- 1:09:48Speaker 1: like Anna is the only person in the room at
- 1:09:51Speaker 1: any given time who understands that Um and like understands
- 1:09:57Speaker 1: both sides of it, and we don't. I guess we
- 1:09:58Speaker 1: don't know enough about Mr Kos months background. Maybe he
- 1:10:01Speaker 1: does understand this tension and his power is just kind
- 1:10:03Speaker 1: of very limited in this situation, because you're totally right, Mala,
- 1:10:08Speaker 1: like it's so wild the way that Estella is treated
- 1:10:13Speaker 1: and like the circumstances she has to work under, because
- 1:10:16Speaker 1: she's also I liked that you have that details. She's
- 1:10:18Speaker 1: a brilliant designer and like I hope that you know
- 1:10:21Speaker 1: in the inevitable, uh, you know, real women have curves.
- 1:10:25Speaker 1: To return of the red dress. Um, she has extremely
- 1:10:30Speaker 1: curvy movie. Yeah, she has like her own like fashion
- 1:10:36Speaker 1: house or like something like that, where, like she's so talented,
- 1:10:41Speaker 1: but it's like it's got a I g boutique right
- 1:10:44Speaker 1: exactly excited, is like doing expensive custom red carpet looks
- 1:10:49Speaker 1: for America, Ferraro question mark. Um, but and then the
- 1:10:55Speaker 1: movie explodes. Um, but, but I I that it was interesting.
- 1:11:00Speaker 1: How like there's those moments with a Stella, the moments
- 1:11:04Speaker 1: I liked most between Anna and Ostella, or when Estella,
- 1:11:08Speaker 1: I think, would sometimes internalize how various systems were failing
- 1:11:14Speaker 1: her and her business as individual failures, which is, you know,
- 1:11:18Speaker 1: how the systems want you to feel. And I feel
- 1:11:22Speaker 1: like you know, even though the Mrs Glass thing did
- 1:11:25Speaker 1: not pan out and was that was kind of naive
- 1:11:28Speaker 1: on on his part to think you could just march
- 1:11:30Speaker 1: in and change a girl boss's mind. Um. But, like Estella,
- 1:11:37Speaker 1: it seemed like I had internalized a lot of shame
- 1:11:39Speaker 1: about it and like she wasn't able to talk to
- 1:11:42Speaker 1: people about it. And you would imagine if she went
- 1:11:45Speaker 1: to Carmen about it, Carmen would give her shit about
- 1:11:47Speaker 1: it because that is very inherent to how Carmen treats
- 1:11:50Speaker 1: her daughters. And just like watching Estella, this like brilliant
- 1:11:55Speaker 1: business owner who should be, you know, in Milan or
- 1:11:59Speaker 1: what I or like having to internalize this bullshit is
- 1:12:04Speaker 1: it's I don't know, it's like pretty subtle in the
- 1:12:06Speaker 1: way that it's like telegraphed in the movie, but I
- 1:12:08Speaker 1: just I don't know, it just felt like this whole
- 1:12:11Speaker 1: other element to what's going on in her life that
- 1:12:15Speaker 1: I didn't take a lot of note on because I
- 1:12:18Speaker 1: was America for he built and just didn't understand the
- 1:12:22Speaker 1: world as well. And yet there's still so much to
- 1:12:26Speaker 1: love about on this character to where like so we've
- 1:12:30Speaker 1: been kind of dancing around the mother daughter relationship throughout
- 1:12:34Speaker 1: the entire discussion. So so let's just get into it.
- 1:12:39Speaker 1: It's a complicated relationship. It's clear that Carmen very much
- 1:12:43Speaker 1: loves and cares for her daughter and is coming from
- 1:12:46Speaker 1: a place where she thinks what she's doing, what she's saying,
- 1:12:50Speaker 1: is what's best for her daughter. She's not really doing
- 1:12:53Speaker 1: anything out of like spite or malice. It's just this
- 1:12:57Speaker 1: is what she knows and she's trying to pat sit
- 1:13:00Speaker 1: along to her daughter and it's what she thinks is
- 1:13:02Speaker 1: best for Anna. This often manifests as carmen policing Anna's
- 1:13:09Speaker 1: body in two pretty major ways. One is her size
- 1:13:13Speaker 1: and the other is her sexuality, and this is obviously
- 1:13:16Speaker 1: informed by Karmen's religious beliefs and her kind of cultural like.
- 1:13:23Speaker 1: You know, yes, she is reinforcing a lot of patriarchal
- 1:13:26Speaker 1: standards that were pretty par for the course for her
- 1:13:30Speaker 1: generation her culture. Anna is from a younger, more progressive generation.
- 1:13:35Speaker 1: She grew up in a different country and culture from
- 1:13:38Speaker 1: her parents and this has kind of empowered her to
- 1:13:41Speaker 1: push back against like her mom's ideology, because we constantly
- 1:13:46Speaker 1: see that kind of tug of war of Carmen either
- 1:13:51Speaker 1: fat shaming or Slat Shaming Anna and then an a
- 1:13:55Speaker 1: challenging it. So again we have like harmon constantly making
- 1:14:01Speaker 1: comments about on a weight her size. She says things
- 1:14:05Speaker 1: like you know, you would look beautiful if you lost weight,
- 1:14:08Speaker 1: and constant comments about her body. And then you have
- 1:14:13Speaker 1: Anna again, constantly challenging this and pushing back and saying
- 1:14:17Speaker 1: things like well, I happen to like myself and yeah,
- 1:14:21Speaker 1: maybe I do want to lose weight, but part of
- 1:14:22Speaker 1: me doesn't, because my weight says to everybody fuck you,
- 1:14:26Speaker 1: and she says, you know, how dare anybody try to
- 1:14:28Speaker 1: tell me what I should look like or what I
- 1:14:31Speaker 1: should be when there's so much more to me than
- 1:14:34Speaker 1: just my weight. And that's such a wonderful thing to
- 1:14:37Speaker 1: be in a movie that is targeted to. I mean
- 1:14:42Speaker 1: everyone should watch this movie, but it's like targeted to
- 1:14:46Speaker 1: probably a younger audience. Um, you know, teens, tweens. So
- 1:14:50Speaker 1: you have like this young character who's like advocating for
- 1:14:54Speaker 1: herself and pushing back against this harmful ideology of fat
- 1:14:58Speaker 1: shaming and body I've been watching dance moms and Abby
- 1:15:03Speaker 1: Lee Miller has sort of helped me to better understand
- 1:15:06Speaker 1: Carmen's character. Because, yes, because Abby Lee is known for
- 1:15:13Speaker 1: her harsh words and teaching tactics with her students, but
- 1:15:16Speaker 1: her students also win, like they sweep right, and so
- 1:15:20Speaker 1: Abbe Lee. One of her competitions was like listen, I
- 1:15:23Speaker 1: tell you the harsh truth and rehearsal, because I don't
- 1:15:27Speaker 1: want to put you on a stage and parents and
- 1:15:29Speaker 1: other coaches are saying nasty things about your technique and
- 1:15:33Speaker 1: your unppointed feet in the audience and you're getting dinged.
- 1:15:36Speaker 1: I'm saying it so you fix it and other people
- 1:15:39Speaker 1: are not saying it and humiliating you. And I feel
- 1:15:42Speaker 1: like there are some older women, and I know for
- 1:15:45Speaker 1: a fact Latina mothers, because my mother kind of is
- 1:15:48Speaker 1: of this sort of mindset sometimes, like I'm your mother
- 1:15:52Speaker 1: and if I don't tell you, who's going to tell you?
- 1:15:54Speaker 1: and I feel like Carmen has this sort of very
- 1:15:58Speaker 1: like she likes to tell cautionary tales, like if you
- 1:16:00Speaker 1: don't listen to your mother, this is what's going to
- 1:16:02Speaker 1: happen to you. I'm telling you because I'm your mother.
- 1:16:05Speaker 1: Like there's that one scene where they're watching that Novella,
- 1:16:08Speaker 1: and I love this title, Los B Mass, and the
- 1:16:13Speaker 1: girl like it, doesn't listen to her mom and gets
- 1:16:15Speaker 1: decapitated in the process trying to run off with some
- 1:16:18Speaker 1: guy and Karmen is like that's that's what happens. That's
- 1:16:22Speaker 1: what happens when you don't listen to your mother. A
- 1:16:24Speaker 1: mother knows the right man for her daughter, you know.
- 1:16:27Speaker 1: So it's like, for me, that's who karmen is. People
- 1:16:30Speaker 1: like poor Anna's trying to write her college essay at
- 1:16:32Speaker 1: the table. She's like stop. The decapitation comes up like
- 1:16:39Speaker 1: mid essay writing. Yeah, oh, that's perfect. And then there's
- 1:16:44Speaker 1: also this Um, this undercurrent throughout the movie that these
- 1:16:48Speaker 1: women in the factory are making dresses that they can't
- 1:16:52Speaker 1: fit into because glamorous clothing is often not manufactured for
- 1:16:58Speaker 1: larger bodies. Because Have Puncha saying talking about address that
- 1:17:03Speaker 1: Estella is designing, and she says something like yeah, I
- 1:17:05Speaker 1: would definitely wear that if it would fit me parentheses.
- 1:17:10Speaker 1: It wouldn't. Or like you, I couldn't probably find a
- 1:17:13Speaker 1: dress that would fit me like this. But that's why
- 1:17:15Speaker 1: in real women have curves to a Stella is the
- 1:17:19Speaker 1: most famous inclusive designer in the entire worldly. She's stiling Lizzo. Yes, yeah,
- 1:17:29Speaker 1: the script rights itself. Honestly, yeah, we don't. We don't
- 1:17:32Speaker 1: need Lavoo. This time to get him out of there. Yeah,
- 1:17:37Speaker 1: La Boo more like it, more like lapoo. And then
- 1:17:49Speaker 1: that's really sweet scene where you see a stella giving
- 1:17:53Speaker 1: the dress that she made for Anna and she says
- 1:17:57Speaker 1: like I cut this specifically for your body and says
- 1:18:00Speaker 1: like pretty dresses aren't just for skinny girls, and it's
- 1:18:04Speaker 1: just such a beautiful little like button on that through
- 1:18:08Speaker 1: line of the movie. The dresses are such a double,
- 1:18:11Speaker 1: a triple whammy, because it's like it costs these women
- 1:18:15Speaker 1: money to make these dresses. Practically like not only can
- 1:18:18Speaker 1: they not fit in the dresses they're making, but they
- 1:18:20Speaker 1: can't afford the dresses they're making because they cost six
- 1:18:23Speaker 1: hundred dollars. And the constant throughout the film is I
- 1:18:26Speaker 1: don't think we ever see the women really get paid,
- 1:18:29Speaker 1: you know, until the very end they reimburse the dad
- 1:18:32Speaker 1: because of the loan. The landlord is coming because she's
- 1:18:35Speaker 1: laid on rent. Like the dress is actually even just
- 1:18:38Speaker 1: to work is like costing them and it's wild to see.
- 1:18:43Speaker 1: It made me so sad, like and it made me
- 1:18:45Speaker 1: I felt like a moment of like frustration with Estella.
- 1:18:48Speaker 1: I was like, but then it's like, but she's being
- 1:18:50Speaker 1: put into an impossible position. It's just and and I
- 1:18:54Speaker 1: feel like it's the movie, I guess, in that moment
- 1:18:56Speaker 1: did kind of telegraph clearly why Estella feel like this
- 1:19:00Speaker 1: is all her fault, because she's the one that has
- 1:19:04Speaker 1: to tell her employees, I can't pay you, even though
- 1:19:07Speaker 1: you're doing really, really hard work, like all the time,
- 1:19:11Speaker 1: and I won't turn a fan on because of dust,
- 1:19:14Speaker 1: like it's of course she feels terrible, but it's like,
- 1:19:17Speaker 1: but yeah, I don't know that this viewing I was
- 1:19:21Speaker 1: Estella pilled this one Um. And the thing about the
- 1:19:25Speaker 1: movie too, is like that. There's so much, so many questions,
- 1:19:28Speaker 1: because Anna goes off to New York, she's treating her stuff,
- 1:19:32Speaker 1: but remember, like Estella stayed behind because she had to
- 1:19:36Speaker 1: go to the factory. Like the factory continues. The dead
- 1:19:39Speaker 1: is still there, like the turnover. That's all still, that's
- 1:19:43Speaker 1: still going on while Anna is in New York. Right
- 1:19:46Speaker 1: at least Estella gets her own bedroom now, because they
- 1:19:49Speaker 1: were sharing a bedroom. That she deserves. She deserves. Yeah,
- 1:19:55Speaker 1: she doesn't. I mean she serves her own place. We
- 1:19:57Speaker 1: could like I wanted to get back to mom a
- 1:20:00Speaker 1: little bit as well, because I really do think it's
- 1:20:03Speaker 1: like it's such a tricky role. I feel like it
- 1:20:08Speaker 1: is such a testament to loupe onto veros for making
- 1:20:13Speaker 1: Carmen a lovable character and like, because I feel like
- 1:20:17Speaker 1: on paper it's tough. The things she says to her
- 1:20:21Speaker 1: daughters can be so cutting and awful, and the fact
- 1:20:24Speaker 1: that she is able to get across like I do
- 1:20:26Speaker 1: believe that she loves her daughters, but there's all these
- 1:20:30Speaker 1: layers of and I know that there's there's so many Oh,
- 1:20:34Speaker 1: there's another fire Um. Oh, I know there's so many
- 1:20:39Speaker 1: layers of what Carmen is kind of projecting onto her daughters.
- 1:20:43Speaker 1: It's a lot of cultural values that she grew up with.
- 1:20:47Speaker 1: It's a generational value, it's uh, it's internalized shame being
- 1:20:51Speaker 1: projected back onto her kids, and there was an element
- 1:20:55Speaker 1: of it, the closest I could get to like relating
- 1:20:58Speaker 1: to outside like just being a body shamed by female relatives,
- 1:21:02Speaker 1: which happened in my family brutally and all the time.
- 1:21:07Speaker 1: But it almost felt like there is like this part
- 1:21:10Speaker 1: of Carmen that wants her daughters to suffer in the
- 1:21:15Speaker 1: same exact ways she did and like to not suffer
- 1:21:18Speaker 1: in though it almost reminds me of like whence like
- 1:21:21Speaker 1: with this whole student loan forgiveness debate, where people are like, well,
- 1:21:25Speaker 1: I had to be an extreme debt for twenty years,
- 1:21:27Speaker 1: so my kids should too, and it's like no, that
- 1:21:30Speaker 1: doesn't I don't know what, but but on a human
- 1:21:35Speaker 1: level you can understand how. You know she, I mean Carmen,
- 1:21:39Speaker 1: has had to deal with ship her entire life and
- 1:21:42Speaker 1: she was raised a very particular way and you understand
- 1:21:45Speaker 1: how she got to where she is in the way
- 1:21:49Speaker 1: she views the world and also be like, but you
- 1:21:52Speaker 1: have to let your daughters. You know, you've got to
- 1:21:55Speaker 1: want more for your kids. You've got to want them
- 1:21:57Speaker 1: to be able to go their own way, and it's
- 1:21:59Speaker 1: such a difficult relationship to see play out because you you,
- 1:22:04Speaker 1: I don't know. You feel so much for everybody, but
- 1:22:06Speaker 1: sometimes you just want to be like Carmen. Come on, yeah,
- 1:22:10Speaker 1: there's there's a piece to where it's like Carmen, she
- 1:22:14Speaker 1: is harsh and she can be mean. There's this really
- 1:22:17Speaker 1: interesting layer there, though, where it's like sometimes, like Mexican
- 1:22:21Speaker 1: families do speak that way to each other and it
- 1:22:24Speaker 1: can come off as harsh and mean, but it's not
- 1:22:27Speaker 1: unbelievable and it's not unrealistic. And I feel like sometimes
- 1:22:31Speaker 1: like Oh, it's almost like you actually can't body shame
- 1:22:35Speaker 1: like a Latina, because our families have already been doing
- 1:22:38Speaker 1: it for years, like we've been hearing this stuff for
- 1:22:42Speaker 1: our lives, like people speak about our bodies in very
- 1:22:45Speaker 1: public and specific terms, like your body part isn't just
- 1:22:49Speaker 1: the body part. It becomes like a stand in for
- 1:22:51Speaker 1: your whole identity, like we have words just to refer
- 1:22:55Speaker 1: to you in relation to a body part. Like if
- 1:22:57Speaker 1: you have a big butt, you don't just have a
- 1:22:59Speaker 1: big butt, you are a Nalgona, like that can be
- 1:23:03Speaker 1: your nickname. Like if you have big cheat cheese, you
- 1:23:06Speaker 1: can be a Cheechon, like that's your nickname, that's your title.
- 1:23:09Speaker 1: You Know Gorrita, she calls her throughout. This is and
- 1:23:12Speaker 1: I love the caption, the translation, because she goes, this
- 1:23:15Speaker 1: is my Gorta right here, and it's this is my
- 1:23:17Speaker 1: fatty right here, right my butterball, butter ball also in
- 1:23:21Speaker 1: the captions. But these are actual terms that people actually
- 1:23:26Speaker 1: call girls and women, like I R L and so
- 1:23:30Speaker 1: is it uncomfortable? Yeah. Are they sometimes terms of endearment? Yeah,
- 1:23:35Speaker 1: are they sometimes kind of cute. See Names. Yeah, but
- 1:23:38Speaker 1: can they also be used like to cut? Also? Yes.
- 1:23:41Speaker 1: So there's also like that sort of like very subtle
- 1:23:45Speaker 1: like line that I love. That whole Stefin know plays
- 1:23:48Speaker 1: with with her writing. Yeah, and it works so well.
- 1:23:52Speaker 1: And then again, the other thing that common tends to
- 1:23:57Speaker 1: do with on a mostly well part. So it's like
- 1:24:01Speaker 1: Carmen has this idea that, you know, a woman has
- 1:24:04Speaker 1: to save herself, quote unquote, till marriage. She can't have
- 1:24:07Speaker 1: sex until she's married, and it's also her duty to
- 1:24:10Speaker 1: get married and start raising a family and to take
- 1:24:12Speaker 1: care of that family and to take care of her husband.
- 1:24:15Speaker 1: And she wants Anna to get married as soon as possible.
- 1:24:19Speaker 1: And you know, she has that little the figurine of
- 1:24:23Speaker 1: of San. I forget which sat anth St Anthony. So
- 1:24:29Speaker 1: you know she's holding out. She's like and she's like
- 1:24:31Speaker 1: I've I've lost hope that Estella will get married. But now,
- 1:24:36Speaker 1: so now I have to really focus on this future
- 1:24:39Speaker 1: for Anna. So that's kind of where she's coming from
- 1:24:42Speaker 1: as far as like Anna's like sexuality and like her
- 1:24:47Speaker 1: expectations of what Anna is going to do with like
- 1:24:53Speaker 1: starting a family and that kind of stuff. Anna does
- 1:24:55Speaker 1: not buy into this. She's just like, I'm gonna like
- 1:25:00Speaker 1: start dating this kid, Jimmy, for the summer. She wants
- 1:25:05Speaker 1: to have sex with him. She tells him, you know,
- 1:25:07Speaker 1: I feel ready. She has sex on her terms, which
- 1:25:10Speaker 1: I think is an amazing thing to show on screen
- 1:25:12Speaker 1: of like, you know, a young woman feeling ready to
- 1:25:15Speaker 1: have sex for the first time, and the condom scene
- 1:25:19Speaker 1: that she buys a condom. Everything is on her terms.
- 1:25:23Speaker 1: You know, she gives consent like this. This is all
- 1:25:26Speaker 1: like I loved it to see on screen that actual
- 1:25:29Speaker 1: sex scene when, you know she's like she turns the
- 1:25:32Speaker 1: lights back on. She's like, I want you to see
- 1:25:34Speaker 1: my body, this is what I look like. That whole thing,
- 1:25:37Speaker 1: I felt, was handled so beautifully, and I don't think
- 1:25:40Speaker 1: it's like an act of protest against her mom's ideology,
- 1:25:43Speaker 1: but it's just like what she wants to do and
- 1:25:45Speaker 1: it's like what she's doing, despite it, not wanting what
- 1:25:48Speaker 1: her mother wants for her. And Anna Pushes back on
- 1:25:51Speaker 1: this and says, why is a woman's virginity the only
- 1:25:54Speaker 1: thing that matters? A woman has thoughts, ideas, a mind
- 1:25:58Speaker 1: of her own, and so annas like constantly advocating for
- 1:26:02Speaker 1: like I'm more than my weight, I'm more than my size,
- 1:26:05Speaker 1: I'm more than my virginity, you know, and it's just
- 1:26:09Speaker 1: like feminist icon. Eighteen year old ANA and America for air,
- 1:26:13Speaker 1: like performs the hell out of those speeches. I like
- 1:26:16Speaker 1: it's so good. Yeah, I I really, and I liked that.
- 1:26:21Speaker 1: I feel like a lesser movie, I don't know, like
- 1:26:23Speaker 1: this is such a case study for like women like
- 1:26:27Speaker 1: writing and directing stories about women, especially with the amount
- 1:26:31Speaker 1: of specificity that Josephina Lothpez does. Like it just works,
- 1:26:35Speaker 1: like it's amazing, and I feel like a lesser story
- 1:26:40Speaker 1: would have because I was just like, okay, other teen
- 1:26:43Speaker 1: movie analogs, you see that, like in a lesser movie
- 1:26:47Speaker 1: and a Lesser Story, Anna would have been like, Oh,
- 1:26:50Speaker 1: this boy thinks I'm beautiful, so I'm in love with
- 1:26:53Speaker 1: him now and like all this stuff. But she like
- 1:26:57Speaker 1: is very in charge of her sexuality. She's I loved it.
- 1:27:01Speaker 1: They went out of the way to be like and
- 1:27:03Speaker 1: she made sure that she was safe. She protected herself,
- 1:27:06Speaker 1: because who knows what's going on with this kid Jimmy,
- 1:27:08Speaker 1: but also doesn't know how condoms work, which is very
- 1:27:11Speaker 1: true of seventeen year old um and that when she
- 1:27:15Speaker 1: was done, she was like, you know, I I don't
- 1:27:18Speaker 1: want this to be a relationship. I feel like teen
- 1:27:20Speaker 1: movies so often put young women in the situation of
- 1:27:24Speaker 1: like the first boy that is nice to me or
- 1:27:27Speaker 1: finds me attractive or like, sees me for who I like,
- 1:27:30Speaker 1: the whatever, walking down the stairs moment. What's that movie
- 1:27:33Speaker 1: that I used all that? Yes, like the first the
- 1:27:36Speaker 1: first boy that sees me for who I really am,
- 1:27:39Speaker 1: is the love of my life and Blah, blah, blah.
- 1:27:41Speaker 1: And an is like, I live in the real world.
- 1:27:43Speaker 1: I don't want to keep seeing you, and like it's
- 1:27:46Speaker 1: just such a that happens nowhere. Like it was just
- 1:27:50Speaker 1: so cool to see her take charge of everything. Yeah,
- 1:27:53Speaker 1: I love, too, that the movie manages to be very dramatic, hilarious,
- 1:28:00Speaker 1: hilarious but also very dramatic, and nothing that dramatic happens
- 1:28:05Speaker 1: plot wise, like she graduates high school, dates a boy
- 1:28:10Speaker 1: and goes to college, you know, like and like works,
- 1:28:13Speaker 1: like it feels so cinematic them, you know, very wholesome,
- 1:28:19Speaker 1: but there's it's so cinematic, and that's for me, is
- 1:28:24Speaker 1: the you know, she doesn't get pregnant, she doesn't go
- 1:28:27Speaker 1: to jail, no one dies of an overdose, like, there's
- 1:28:29Speaker 1: no stabbings, like, but drama, and that's the brilliance of
- 1:28:33Speaker 1: the movie and the writing, like that's the storytelling, because
- 1:28:35Speaker 1: you're captivated and you're like feeling feelings and going through
- 1:28:40Speaker 1: it with her, and I feel like that is the
- 1:28:42Speaker 1: drama of Teen Angst. That's how heightened it can be.
- 1:28:46Speaker 1: She's just being a teen girl, going the fuck through
- 1:28:49Speaker 1: it and clashing with her mom and you, like the
- 1:28:53Speaker 1: movie doesn't take any shortcuts when it comes to like
- 1:28:56Speaker 1: this is a dramatic story, so someone has to die,
- 1:29:00Speaker 1: you know, like it's just like life is dramatic, yeah,
- 1:29:05Speaker 1: and Hilarious, and the movie balances both very well. It's
- 1:29:10Speaker 1: so good. Yeah, it's well, you said it perfectly where
- 1:29:14Speaker 1: you're like yeah, like teen girl life is everything feels
- 1:29:19Speaker 1: like a movie. Everything Teen Angst, angst, and so this is,
- 1:29:24Speaker 1: I think, just in that vein. Yeah, teen girls, you know,
- 1:29:28Speaker 1: struggle or in the trend there in the trench. Truly,
- 1:29:34Speaker 1: if you're a teen girl listening, I salute you. It
- 1:29:37Speaker 1: does get better. Eventually. You will eventually. Eventually it's hold on,
- 1:29:42Speaker 1: and another thing I feel like I just was so
- 1:29:45Speaker 1: impressed and like blown away by the writing of like
- 1:29:49Speaker 1: there's no character, however small, that you don't have some
- 1:29:53Speaker 1: level of investment in, because the script goes out of
- 1:29:56Speaker 1: its way to like, you know at least something about
- 1:30:00Speaker 1: women who works with Estella, like you get to know
- 1:30:04Speaker 1: them over the course of the movie even like, and
- 1:30:07Speaker 1: I think again, in like a less thoughtfully written movie,
- 1:30:10Speaker 1: it would just be like background, seems stress number four,
- 1:30:14Speaker 1: but that role like doesn't exist. You learn everyone's name,
- 1:30:17Speaker 1: you learn a little bit about them or at least
- 1:30:19Speaker 1: get a taste of their personality, and I feel like
- 1:30:22Speaker 1: that just makes the payoff of this like it could
- 1:30:25Speaker 1: have been a like I am spartacus moment where you're
- 1:30:28Speaker 1: like this is kind of cool, but who are these people?
- 1:30:30Speaker 1: But it's like you know who, who these women are,
- 1:30:33Speaker 1: and you have already have gotten to know like a
- 1:30:36Speaker 1: little bit of their history and their relationship with their
- 1:30:38Speaker 1: coworkers throughout the movie, and so it feels like, Oh,
- 1:30:42Speaker 1: I'm in a room full of women whose lives I
- 1:30:44Speaker 1: know something about and now they're finally comfortable talking about
- 1:30:49Speaker 1: their their bodies and their insecurities and they're like everything
- 1:30:52Speaker 1: and it just felt so yeah, like the attention to
- 1:30:56Speaker 1: detail is is so awesome. Absolutely. What else? What else
- 1:31:04Speaker 1: we got going on? Sorry, I feel like I just
- 1:31:06Speaker 1: blacked out for a second because I inhaled a yeah,
- 1:31:16Speaker 1: I want to share one last quote from the creator
- 1:31:23Speaker 1: of this property, Cosavina Lopez. So the play seems to
- 1:31:28Speaker 1: be a bit more focused on the on a character
- 1:31:33Speaker 1: being undocumented for some portion of her life and the
- 1:31:37Speaker 1: anxiety about being undocumented and being deported, and that is
- 1:31:43Speaker 1: a focus on the play that is eliminated from the movie.
- 1:31:47Speaker 1: So this quote, this quote is a little bit about
- 1:31:50Speaker 1: Savina talking about being undocumented, just to put that into context.
- 1:31:53Speaker 1: But HOSTAFNA says, quote, I was undocumented for thirteen years.
- 1:31:58Speaker 1: I wanted to write a play to affirm my humanity
- 1:32:01Speaker 1: because I felt so dehumanized being undocumented. I've always had
- 1:32:04Speaker 1: issues with my weight and one of my teachers told me,
- 1:32:08Speaker 1: not in a mean way, she thought I was a
- 1:32:11Speaker 1: great actress, that I had the ability to play Juliette
- 1:32:14Speaker 1: and Lady Macbeth, but no one was going to cast
- 1:32:16Speaker 1: me as the Angeneue if I didn't lose weight, because
- 1:32:19Speaker 1: only thing girls get the lead. Men write roles and
- 1:32:22Speaker 1: direct the movies. So I had to adhere to those standards.
- 1:32:26Speaker 1: Otherwise I'd always play the side character. I thought, okay,
- 1:32:29Speaker 1: if I lose the weight, that I'm going to be
- 1:32:31Speaker 1: told by casting people that I should change my name
- 1:32:35Speaker 1: to a white name change my hair color. If I
- 1:32:37Speaker 1: do this, I'm going to have to give up who
- 1:32:39Speaker 1: I am to be an actress. I refused to do that.
- 1:32:42Speaker 1: The problem isn't that I'm undocumented, Mexican, working class or overweight.
- 1:32:47Speaker 1: The problem is society. Unquote. She said that sentiment feels
- 1:32:55Speaker 1: like it. It comes through in this movie very well
- 1:32:59Speaker 1: and that that's the core of what so much of
- 1:33:01Speaker 1: this movie is about and it's just such a positive
- 1:33:06Speaker 1: thing for that to be out in the world. Hell yeah,
- 1:33:11Speaker 1: that's such a nice school. She's so cool. The last
- 1:33:15Speaker 1: thing I had. This is not a criticism, it was
- 1:33:19Speaker 1: just something that I is something we've talked about on
- 1:33:21Speaker 1: the show before and so I wanted to sort of
- 1:33:23Speaker 1: see what y'all felt about it. I really love that
- 1:33:27Speaker 1: this movie puts mother daughter Relationships Front and center and
- 1:33:31Speaker 1: gives them precedents. We get a few scenes with their father,
- 1:33:37Speaker 1: who seems to be a very nice, affable, kind of Guy,
- 1:33:42Speaker 1: real nice guy, right, but as is their grandfather. I
- 1:33:46Speaker 1: just feel like, I don't know, I mean, I I
- 1:33:50Speaker 1: don't I don't even think that I would want anything
- 1:33:52Speaker 1: to be changed. I just think that there are moments
- 1:33:55Speaker 1: in movies that center around mothers and daughtered where it's
- 1:33:58Speaker 1: like the Dadd is always like the quote unquote, Nicer Guy.
- 1:34:03Speaker 1: It just felt like a little I was like, okay,
- 1:34:06Speaker 1: so mean they're scary, like we're getting we're getting into
- 1:34:10Speaker 1: scary territory with mean dad. Right. So it's like all
- 1:34:15Speaker 1: all the kind of baggage is rolled into Carmen and
- 1:34:20Speaker 1: it just like, I don't know, I mean, I didn't
- 1:34:22Speaker 1: really feel strongly about it. I just always feel like
- 1:34:25Speaker 1: I noticed when there's a lot of movies where it's
- 1:34:27Speaker 1: like the dad is, quote unquote, the Nice Parent. Yeah,
- 1:34:31Speaker 1: I would say that, yes, and that that certainly is
- 1:34:33Speaker 1: a trope that we've discussed to a large extent on
- 1:34:37Speaker 1: the show, but I think it all depends on how
- 1:34:39Speaker 1: the movie approaches it and how the movie actually handles it.
- 1:34:43Speaker 1: In this movie it didn't feel tropy. It didn't feel
- 1:34:46Speaker 1: like it was leaning into stereotypes about uh, a mom
- 1:34:50Speaker 1: being right. What is the word I'm searching for. But
- 1:34:53Speaker 1: she's like so I mean Carmen is so like contextualized
- 1:34:57Speaker 1: and well written and like you understand, yeah, why she
- 1:35:01Speaker 1: reacts the way she does. Right, there's there's all these shows,
- 1:35:04Speaker 1: like there's like I think of like the mom on
- 1:35:06Speaker 1: like Malcolm in the middle. Then there's like, UM, everybody
- 1:35:11Speaker 1: loves Raymond, the White Debrah, and I love all these characters,
- 1:35:14Speaker 1: all these women. What's the other one? But there's a
- 1:35:17Speaker 1: bunch right, like where like the MOM is, Oh, my
- 1:35:20Speaker 1: wife and kids, the dad is like funny goofball, and
- 1:35:23Speaker 1: then the mom's kind of, kind of a bit, kind
- 1:35:25Speaker 1: of strict, always yelling, high strung, like he's always doing
- 1:35:28Speaker 1: stupid things to stress her out. And I feel like
- 1:35:31Speaker 1: in this film, like Carmen is like an Antihero. We
- 1:35:36Speaker 1: can't stand her and she sometimes because of the things
- 1:35:39Speaker 1: she says, but we still love her. And I also
- 1:35:42Speaker 1: feel like I love that on US character is allowed
- 1:35:45Speaker 1: to be kind of a brat, like Carmen's kind of
- 1:35:49Speaker 1: a bitch and on us kind of a Brat. And
- 1:35:51Speaker 1: as much as they insist that they are different, the
- 1:35:55Speaker 1: more we see their similarities, and I feel like it's
- 1:36:00Speaker 1: so interesting the way she pits them against each other,
- 1:36:03Speaker 1: but it's like we're learning more about each one of
- 1:36:06Speaker 1: them because they're the same person. You know. It is
- 1:36:10Speaker 1: like another thing where it's like I want to see. Yeah,
- 1:36:13Speaker 1: I feel like we're making a strong case for a sequel.
- 1:36:15Speaker 1: I want to see what this relationship between them looks
- 1:36:17Speaker 1: like twenty years down the line, like, because I do
- 1:36:21Speaker 1: understand like there her parents. I mean there's so much
- 1:36:25Speaker 1: anxiety around Anna leaving to go to college, especially across
- 1:36:29Speaker 1: the country, and like I feel like there's a subtext
- 1:36:31Speaker 1: like she's gonna Change, she's gonna like not be the
- 1:36:35Speaker 1: girl that we raise and like she'll lose touch with
- 1:36:38Speaker 1: who she is if she leaves, and I would love
- 1:36:41Speaker 1: to see that relationship examined twenty years down. My last
- 1:36:47Speaker 1: observation is so there is another movie about like a
- 1:36:54Speaker 1: young woman who has just graduated from high school, who
- 1:36:59Speaker 1: lives in California and has a difficult relationship with her mother.
- 1:37:04Speaker 1: She dates a boy and has sex for the first
- 1:37:06Speaker 1: time and then she goes off to college across the country.
- 1:37:09Speaker 1: I also think in New York City, and that movie
- 1:37:12Speaker 1: is Ladybird. There's a lot of parallels here and Ladybird
- 1:37:17Speaker 1: is kind of a Brat. Yeah, and like a lot
- 1:37:20Speaker 1: of body stuff with the mom as well body stuff.
- 1:37:23Speaker 1: You know, there's class commentary in that movie as well.
- 1:37:26Speaker 1: Very similar movies. I would say if you like Ladybird,
- 1:37:29Speaker 1: for sure check out real women have curves, if you
- 1:37:32Speaker 1: haven't seen it. I think the real women occurs does
- 1:37:35Speaker 1: it better. I find it to be a more fifteen
- 1:37:38Speaker 1: years earlier. Yeah, exactly, I didn't make that connection. Yeah, totally. So. Yeah,
- 1:37:44Speaker 1: if you liked Ladybird, definitely check out real women have curves,
- 1:37:48Speaker 1: if you haven't seen it. Sorry, I got caught up
- 1:37:53Speaker 1: in my own horrible Lady Bird joke, which is, instead
- 1:37:56Speaker 1: of that boy Jimmy, Ladybird has that boy timmy. To
- 1:38:01Speaker 1: Me Shalomay, yes, to me shallowmy most hilarious joke of
- 1:38:06Speaker 1: all time, ha ha, and on that. No, there's actually
- 1:38:11Speaker 1: no good way to transition this, but I mean talking
- 1:38:13Speaker 1: about Timothy Shalomy, I do think passes the Bechtel test,
- 1:38:17Speaker 1: if that's where you're going. I don't know. What is
- 1:38:20Speaker 1: he like, you know, like this, can we even a
- 1:38:23Speaker 1: good question? You really vouch for him? I feel like
- 1:38:25Speaker 1: it's still kind of a mystery. It eludes me. But
- 1:38:28Speaker 1: you know, it doesn't elude me whether this movie passes
- 1:38:31Speaker 1: the Bechtel test or not. Yes, we did it. This
- 1:38:34Speaker 1: movie super passes the Bechtel Test. It's barely even worth
- 1:38:37Speaker 1: discussing because it passes between almost any pairing of characters
- 1:38:42Speaker 1: that aren't men. I like we discussed before Um, this
- 1:38:47Speaker 1: movie does takes a lot of care to give every
- 1:38:51Speaker 1: character in the movie, particularly the women, a name and
- 1:38:55Speaker 1: some information about them. So really any interaction happening at
- 1:38:59Speaker 1: the factory that isn't explicitly about marriage passes the Betel test.
- 1:39:03Speaker 1: They're talking about their bodies, they're talking about school, they're
- 1:39:06Speaker 1: talking about work, they're talking about deadlines, they're talking about taxes,
- 1:39:09Speaker 1: they're talking about they're just, you know, dare say it,
- 1:39:13Speaker 1: being full on people and characters the whole damn movie. Yap,
- 1:39:18Speaker 1: and as we also Um touched on in the episode,
- 1:39:21Speaker 1: this movie is has just so much focus on the
- 1:39:25Speaker 1: female characters and the relationships between female characters. And while
- 1:39:29Speaker 1: there are, you know, there's a dad, there's the GRANDPA,
- 1:39:33Speaker 1: there's a couple male cousins, those characters are like pretty
- 1:39:38Speaker 1: secondary or tertiary and it's really so much of a
- 1:39:41Speaker 1: focus on the women and their relationships. So still depicted
- 1:39:45Speaker 1: up with love. It's not like they're like left by
- 1:39:47Speaker 1: the boys up, but like, but, you know, like, but yes,
- 1:39:52Speaker 1: it is. It is a women's movie and, Um, you know,
- 1:39:56Speaker 1: women that we don't usually get focused on, women who
- 1:39:59Speaker 1: are working class, women who are immigrants, women who are
- 1:40:01Speaker 1: people of Color and Latin x specifically. So it's just
- 1:40:05Speaker 1: this movie is doing so much that no other movie
- 1:40:08Speaker 1: of its time is doing, and still most movies now
- 1:40:11Speaker 1: we're not doing so. With that in mind, another per
- 1:40:15Speaker 1: grade transition, and do you mean the Nipple scale? Yes,
- 1:40:20Speaker 1: the only perfect metric, and it is, of course, a
- 1:40:25Speaker 1: scale of zero to five Nipples, based on examining the
- 1:40:31Speaker 1: movie through an Intersectional Feminist Lens. So, you know, given
- 1:40:38Speaker 1: all possible factors, to consider every potential factor one might consider, Um,
- 1:40:44Speaker 1: with regards to this movie and this rating, I would
- 1:40:47Speaker 1: give it a four. Hell Yeah, yeah, I think. I mean,
- 1:40:49Speaker 1: I would go like four, four and a half. It's
- 1:40:52Speaker 1: I was really happy to see, like, especially, I mean
- 1:40:55Speaker 1: just the fact that, like, women wrote and directed and
- 1:40:58Speaker 1: produced this and, like, most of them are women of color.
- 1:41:02Speaker 1: Like that, I feel like. I mean, yeah, still unheard
- 1:41:04Speaker 1: of now and it's still and it's a classic, like
- 1:41:08Speaker 1: you can't. It's I feel like real women have curves
- 1:41:11Speaker 1: kind of yet to be topped, except by real women
- 1:41:14Speaker 1: have curves to coming out next year, yes, pending. And
- 1:41:17Speaker 1: then we also, Um, you know, bequeath you the power
- 1:41:21Speaker 1: to gift your four Nipples to any character person, actor,
- 1:41:27Speaker 1: production person of your choice. Um, you can distribute in
- 1:41:31Speaker 1: pairs or not, you know, like kind of uh, get
- 1:41:34Speaker 1: creative with it. Oh, this is so difficult because I
- 1:41:38Speaker 1: want to give to each to just America and Loupe,
- 1:41:42Speaker 1: you know, just split them up half and half, but
- 1:41:44Speaker 1: I also want to give Hostafina to but I have four.
- 1:41:49Speaker 1: You know what? I'M gonna give loop anti vettos too,
- 1:41:51Speaker 1: because she passed away R I p. I'm gonna give
- 1:41:55Speaker 1: Lopez to because she wrote it, she's an icon, and
- 1:41:58Speaker 1: I'm gonna give a go for one because she's the
- 1:42:01Speaker 1: youngest and I think it's still working on icon status.
- 1:42:05Speaker 1: That's how we'll do it. I think that that was
- 1:42:07Speaker 1: very judicious of you. That was very diplo about it.
- 1:42:12Speaker 1: Thank you. I'M gonna go forward a half and I'm
- 1:42:14Speaker 1: gonna docket the half nipple just for making America, for her,
- 1:42:19Speaker 1: uncomfortable when she was seventeen. She is a living legend
- 1:42:23Speaker 1: and a child and I'm, you know, gonna, I'm gonna
- 1:42:26Speaker 1: put that one on Lavo. No nipples for Lavu from me. Zero.
- 1:42:30Speaker 1: But outside of that, I think this movie is so
- 1:42:32Speaker 1: fucking awesome and it, I mean it was doing so
- 1:42:35Speaker 1: many things no other movies we're doing. Josephina Lopez is
- 1:42:38Speaker 1: an incredible writer and I just love every element of
- 1:42:43Speaker 1: this movie. And I'm now and Estella stand for life.
- 1:42:47Speaker 1: So I'll give one nipple to anna, one to Estella.
- 1:42:51Speaker 1: I'll give the half to carmen because she's doing her
- 1:42:54Speaker 1: best and I have, I have loved for her, but
- 1:42:59Speaker 1: leave Anna and Asti alone. Um, I'll give one to Poncha.
- 1:43:04Speaker 1: I loved Poncha. I feel like super underrated character and
- 1:43:09Speaker 1: I will give one too. I should give one to
- 1:43:12Speaker 1: Hostephina Lopez, but I'm going to give it to Hostafina Lopez,
- 1:43:15Speaker 1: playing the manager of the Burger joint because, Um, that
- 1:43:21Speaker 1: is acting, scene steeler, scene steeler. Exactly, where was Major
- 1:43:27Speaker 1: Oscar snub that year? Oh, and then the last thing
- 1:43:30Speaker 1: I wanted to say was I guess as of last year.
- 1:43:32Speaker 1: There's a musical being written around this. So hopefully people
- 1:43:38Speaker 1: are listening to this episode from the future and just
- 1:43:40Speaker 1: saw real women have curves on Broadway. I feel like
- 1:43:43Speaker 1: this would be such a good musical. Hell, yeah, I
- 1:43:45Speaker 1: love musicals, Um, and I love musical adaptations that aren't
- 1:43:49Speaker 1: already Disney movies, so this seems like something I would love. Caitlyn,
- 1:43:55Speaker 1: what is your writing for this Flim? This flim gets
- 1:43:59Speaker 1: I would say four and a half. I was going
- 1:44:01Speaker 1: to give it a five before I knew about the
- 1:44:05Speaker 1: the sketchy things that were happening, especially in that one
- 1:44:08Speaker 1: in that one particular scene where America Ferrera expressed discomfort
- 1:44:13Speaker 1: and then they deceived her with like Yucky but Um,
- 1:44:18Speaker 1: aside from that, this is such a wonderful movie. Again,
- 1:44:22Speaker 1: a focus on women, women's stories, women's relationships, positive Latin
- 1:44:29Speaker 1: x representation that we so rarely see in cinema, especially
- 1:44:34Speaker 1: in in this era, messages of body positivity, of sex positivity,
- 1:44:39Speaker 1: a focus on a working class family in Los Angeles,
- 1:44:43Speaker 1: a side of Los Angeles that we don't tend to
- 1:44:46Speaker 1: see or that tends to be Um demonized in most media. Multigenerational,
- 1:44:52Speaker 1: which I feel like we haven't like explicitly, like there's
- 1:44:55Speaker 1: just there's so much and so much is accomplished so effortlessly,
- 1:45:00Speaker 1: so effortleless. Oh my gosh, I'm so bad at that word,
- 1:45:03Speaker 1: like everyone has those words. It takes a lot of
- 1:45:06Speaker 1: effort for me to say effortlessly. There we go. Um,
- 1:45:13Speaker 1: so much is accomplished in a movie that is less
- 1:45:17Speaker 1: than an hour and a half, which we were texting about.
- 1:45:20Speaker 1: Every movie should be less than an hour and a
- 1:45:22Speaker 1: half long. If this movie can do what it does
- 1:45:25Speaker 1: in an hour and a half, what's your excuse? I
- 1:45:29Speaker 1: was about to say something flippant annoying. And what's your excuse? Titanic. Okay,
- 1:45:35Speaker 1: now that's straight up. One exception. Yeah, I know, I know,
- 1:45:39Speaker 1: I know, I know, I know. I'm so sorry. Everyone.
- 1:45:40Speaker 1: Who are you giving your nipples to? Um, I'm going
- 1:45:43Speaker 1: to give my nipples to one to America Ferrera, one
- 1:45:48Speaker 1: to Lupe Anti Veros, one to Ingrid, oh, you who
- 1:45:53Speaker 1: plays a stella. I'll give one to the women who
- 1:45:56Speaker 1: work in the clothing factory and then my half nipple
- 1:46:01Speaker 1: I will give to Los Angeles public transportation, because it's
- 1:46:07Speaker 1: called the metro pre as owner, but it is public transportation.
- 1:46:16Speaker 1: It is, and I do take it sometimes brave occasional
- 1:46:22Speaker 1: redline user. Wow, I love to bully people who don't
- 1:46:25Speaker 1: use enough public transportation. But that said, you drove me
- 1:46:28Speaker 1: to the beach yesterday, so it makes you think it does.
- 1:46:32Speaker 1: It does indeed. Right. So, Um, that is real. Women
- 1:46:38Speaker 1: have curves. Mala, thank you so much for being here. And,
- 1:46:41Speaker 1: uh yeah, where can we find you online? Plug away. Yes,
- 1:46:45Speaker 1: so I'm on all social platforms at Mala, underscore, Monos,
- 1:46:51Speaker 1: M U N O Z is the last name, and
- 1:46:54Speaker 1: you can listen to I have two podcasts out. One
- 1:46:57Speaker 1: is called Look Radio, which is, uh, the flagship podcast
- 1:47:02Speaker 1: that I co host with my co producer Diosa, and
- 1:47:05Speaker 1: then my solo show, might one, a podcast for pod heads,
- 1:47:10Speaker 1: and we're on apple, apple podcast, spotify, all the usual places.
- 1:47:14Speaker 1: Hell yeah, also your stand up sucking rules. Thank you
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- 1:47:41Speaker 1: And that is all for five dollars a month. Oh,
- 1:47:44Speaker 1: can you imagine? Can you imagine? Nearly it's actually sometimes
- 1:47:49Speaker 1: I do reflect on the value and just I'm like, wow,
- 1:47:52Speaker 1: what a deal, what a steal. Where are we? Okay, uh,
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- 1:47:59Speaker 1: Slash the Bechdel cast, if you are so inclined. And
- 1:48:04Speaker 1: with that, um I mean I think we should mention
- 1:48:07Speaker 1: we've been shirtless for the last half of the episode.
- 1:48:11Speaker 1: I mean, am I gonna put my clothes back on?
- 1:48:13Speaker 1: We'll see. Carmen deal with it right. Bye, bye, bye,