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- 0:00Foreign.
- 0:05Welcome to Storm the Gates friends. We're your official podcast for the Mid Texas Conference
- 0:10of the Global Methodist Church. Your host here today, Shay Ryanga.
- 0:13And I'm so grateful for you guys all, all of our folks that,
- 0:17that watch this, that listen to this. Thank you again. Please don't be shy,
- 0:21don't be bashful about in the comments, asking a question,
- 0:24making a comment. If there's ever a topic or subject
- 0:29you want us to cover, please let us know and we'll reach out and try
- 0:32to do that. And today is just a super practical,
- 0:35really important, consequential conversation with Doug
- 0:40and Gina Baker. Dr. Doug Baker, pastor Doug Baker,
- 0:44Gina Baker are married, husband and wife. They've been married for some decades now
- 0:48and they, they lead Marvin Methodist Church in Tyler,
- 0:52Texas and they've created this resource called Walk to Walk for those watching.
- 0:57I'm just showing it's a little workbook real simple and it's a wonderful clear
- 1:02tool for disciple making, for multiplying disciples,
- 1:06facilitating that in a way that is,
- 1:09is accessible to anyone. And so friends, this is really important
- 1:13because many of you, if you've grown up in the church,
- 1:16have you been discipled? Who are you discipling?
- 1:20Are you taking that discipleship people piece seriously?
- 1:24So we you know, believe especially in the Methodist Wesleyan tradition as an
- 1:28emphasis, you know, at justification, salvation by
- 1:31grace through faith. When, when we come to receive in
- 1:34this faith, this saving faith, this trust in Jesus for what he did for
- 1:38us on the cross to forgive us from our sins, to die to save us
- 1:42from our sins when, when we receive that and trust in God, we're given this,
- 1:46this justification, this assurance of our faith that
- 1:50we're made in right relationship with Him. And that is
- 1:54just really the beginning of a journey. The journey continues on to be more
- 1:59and more like, like Jesus. And so God does not
- 2:02leave us alone. We have many of us in the Global Methodist Church are part
- 2:06of class meeting or a band meeting. We want to take spiritual accountability
- 2:10seriously, watch over one another in love and,
- 2:14and here is a one to one, one on one resource to help
- 2:19you do that very well with you know, talking about
- 2:22sharing our faith story, how we can engage
- 2:26in scripture and read through scripture, taking spiritual gifts inventory.
- 2:30There are all sorts of pieces to this friends, so walktowalk us.
- 2:34There's going to be some links in the show notes and show description as always.
- 2:38So please consider this resource for
- 2:43you personally in your relationships as a, as a prayer prompt.
- 2:47God, how do you want me to disciple someone? Who do you Want me to
- 2:51disciple? Who do you want me to disciple? And the how is right here.
- 2:54Consider this being the how as. As a. As an instructional
- 2:59guide. So 12 sessions, 13 sessions. If you do the intro as
- 3:03its own session. Very simple explanatory tool
- 3:06right here to help you. And so Doug and Gina Baker
- 3:10started the first draft of this in 2013, and they've made some
- 3:14adjustments over the years and they've been doing this as a discipleship
- 3:18ministry at Marvin Methodist Church. And they have revised
- 3:23it recently and are rolling it out in a. In a little simpler,
- 3:27smaller format that anybody can use.
- 3:30So you can buy it on their website, walktowalk Us. And if
- 3:35you're part of the Global Methodist Church, a conference outside of the Trinity Conference,
- 3:38they're part of the Trinity Conference. I'm in the Mid Texas Conference.
- 3:42If you're part of those conferences or not,
- 3:45this is a tool that you can use that would bless you and
- 3:49bless someone else. There's eternal implications to this as
- 3:54this is a wonderful tool to multiply disciples of Jesus friends.
- 3:58So hear about Walk to Walk with Doug and Gina Baker.
- 4:07How long have y' all been in Tyler or Texas now? Almost 20
- 4:11years. Almost 20 years. We came in 2007. Yeah. And so
- 4:15how big was top. How big was Tyler, Texas? What the green sign
- 4:20say outside of town? And what's it say now?
- 4:23I. I think that it says it was 110 when we
- 4:27first. You know. Yeah, maybe one. You know, I'm not sure it's grown
- 4:31as much residentially, though. I think it has because they're building a lot of homes.
- 4:35But the interesting thing to me has been just that because there's over 250,000 people
- 4:40in town every day because of three major universities and all the
- 4:44medical facilities. That makes the town feel a lot bigger than it
- 4:48really truly is. And we feel the traffic because especially
- 4:52in the holiday seasons. And then now at 5 o', clock, it's starting
- 4:56to get like we have a little bitty rush hour. Nothing like the DFW
- 5:01area. I grew up in LA and Houston, so it's though, not that bad.
- 5:04Yeah. Okay. Do you. It's not that bad. Have you ever met anybody
- 5:08at Pratt Holmes? You've probably seen the billboards.
- 5:12I've seen the billboard. Daughter was a newscaster.
- 5:16Yeah, she did a newscaster. Kelly, Kelly. Kelly.
- 5:20Okay. She actually reached out. I did something for her during disaffiliation
- 5:25about the Global Methodist Church. She was. She asked me. So long
- 5:29story short, my dad is really good friends with Lynn Pratt.
- 5:33Of Pratt Homes. And then Lynn's since retired and handed
- 5:38off the business. And my dad still goes out to visit often
- 5:42to Tyler and so fishes and has a lot of friends out
- 5:45there, but especially Lynn and his daughter,
- 5:49who was the news. I forget where she moved, but she. I don't know where
- 5:53she moved either. I don't know, but I've kind of always enjoyed her special
- 5:57stories, special segments, and then she just disappeared one day.
- 6:00Yeah. What's. What's y' all story? A little bit, to the extent that you don't
- 6:04mind sharing how y' all met and how long you've been married and. What.
- 6:07Where's the family today? We met at
- 6:11Memorial Drive Methodist Church in Houston, Texas, and we were
- 6:15both in the high school program. I became a Christian
- 6:19at age 15. Gina had been in the church longer than that. And I
- 6:23think our junior senior year, we kind of met a mutual friend, knew we
- 6:27were both going to Baylor and that we needed to meet. Okay. And so,
- 6:30you know, interesting, that. And then kind of our story, in the strange way that
- 6:35God works, we, you know, we started. We had our first date
- 6:39as friends at Baylor homecoming our freshman
- 6:42year. We were kind of both dating other people, and those.
- 6:45Those persons were out of town, and so we said, well, let's just go
- 6:49as friends. And then I think the next. That next
- 6:53summer, we actually taught a course together about taking God
- 6:57to college. So we actually had a. We had our first date,
- 7:00you know, didn't know, kiss, nothing there.
- 7:03And then, you know, then we get to Memorial Drive, invited us to come back
- 7:08because they knew we had both gotten involved at a church in Waco, First Methodist.
- 7:11Okay. And wanted us to come back and speak to the graduating seniors
- 7:15about taking God to college. And so we got together and
- 7:19put a lesson together and taught it. And so the fact
- 7:23that that was really our first act of ministry together, having no clue what was
- 7:27in our future. Wow. Y' all always been in the Methodist Church, or is it,
- 7:31you know, we. I know y' all have met a lot of folks like this,
- 7:34like Catholic, Mary's, Baptist. They end up in the Methodist Church. I was.
- 7:38I mean, my first five years of life, which you have
- 7:42hardly any memory of, I was in the Reformed church, but then my family moved
- 7:45from California to the Houston area. And then,
- 7:48interestingly enough, my family became kind of unchurched.
- 7:53We kind of tried to go from a small town and a small startup
- 7:57church. Parents very involved into big city life,
- 8:01went to Memorial Drive Presbyterian Church, tried to kind
- 8:04of break into a church of probably 8 or 10,000 members.
- 8:08Just after several attempts to
- 8:13try to plug in, get on a, you know, on ramp into that church,
- 8:16I didn't want to be there. I didn't know anybody in school. I. You know,
- 8:20mom and dad just kind of gave up, and we kind of got washed out
- 8:23to three boys. And scouting. Not scouting, but sports programs.
- 8:28And so for 10 years, Shay, from age 5 to
- 8:3215, I was unchurched. I was a CE Christian.
- 8:35Okay. And during that time, Gina was probably very. Well,
- 8:39at age 12, I guess, when y' all moved to Houston, wasn't it? Yeah,
- 8:42I was Presbyterian. My family was Presbyterian until I was 10. And then
- 8:46we joined the Methodist Church and been there ever since. But we were one hour
- 8:49a week, people. One. One hour on Sunday, that. And then in
- 8:53junior high, I wanted to get involved in the youth group, and that's
- 8:57when I started and played tennis competitively for several years,
- 9:01and things were probably slowed down a little bit, but by my junior and senior
- 9:05year in high school, I was real involved again, so. And the same
- 9:09person who introduced us, knowing we were both going to Baylor was the same person
- 9:14who, at age 15, harped on him for six months till he came to church.
- 9:19Yeah, absolutely. And one of the things with the Walk to Walk program is you
- 9:23share your faith stories. And so. And I always talk about significant
- 9:27people that kind of God places along the path. And David
- 9:31Reed was one of those individuals who, as Gina said, invited me
- 9:35to come to church for six months. And I finally was just so tired of
- 9:38him asking me to go. I just finally went. And that got me back connected
- 9:43to the church. And the beautiful part of that story is that my mom and
- 9:47dad started attending church after that because I started singing in
- 9:51the youth choir. And then I had the opportunity at a later time to
- 9:56lead my brother, my middle brother, to Christ. And so that was just a joy
- 10:00because then he became involved as a youth leader in the
- 10:04youth group at Memorial Drive. So that Memorial Drive holds a special
- 10:08place in our hearts. We were married there. That's where we really met each other.
- 10:12Our kids were both baptized. We both received Jesus. Yeah. We both made our
- 10:16professions of faith in Christ there, went through confirmation,
- 10:20and then I heard the gospel at age 15 at a youth rally there.
- 10:23So anyway, so that's the. That's kind of the
- 10:27story of how our. And your first appointment. Yeah, back.
- 10:31And after graduating from seminary at Fuller Theological Seminary, we.
- 10:35We got married. Right. A week after I graduated from Baylor University.
- 10:39I graduated in August. We got married the
- 10:42next Saturday, went On a honeymoon, drove to Southern California,
- 10:47started Fuller Theological Seminary. And then she. She got a retail job. I was a
- 10:51youth pastor. And then, you know, first appointment in 1990
- 10:55was back at her home church at Memorial Drive, and I served there for five
- 10:58years. Were there any faith heroes or people that really
- 11:02pushed you, inspired you at Fuller? Was. Was Dallas Willard there during
- 11:06that time? Dallas was not there. Trying to remember.
- 11:10No, George Barna wasn't there. Who? Church growth guy?
- 11:14Was it McGowan? McGowan. He followed.
- 11:17Oh, gosh. Who is that guy? I'm embarrassed. No, it's not trying
- 11:22to remember. He was the church growth guy. Came after McGowan.
- 11:25It'll come to me. But anyway, that was a big influence on me. And one
- 11:29of the things about Fuller Seminary that was so practical was just the fact
- 11:33that I took a class in church management. I took a class in
- 11:37evangelizing nominal Christians. Wow. Fuller was a very pragmatic
- 11:42school. And, and it's, you know, it's well known for having a school of psychology,
- 11:46a school of missions, and a school of theology. You know,
- 11:49Methodists were the third largest group on campus, and there may have only been about
- 11:5350 of us there out of 1500 students across all three schools.
- 11:57But, you know, I was glad to be there. Yeah, Presbyterians were the
- 12:01most most influential there, but I had a great experience there.
- 12:06And what. What would be the Louis
- 12:09Meads? Louis Meads was there. I took church ethics with Louis Meads.
- 12:13That was a. That was a blessing. And anyway,
- 12:16and then David Hubbard was, I think, the professor
- 12:21of Old Testament. He became the president of Fuller after I graduated.
- 12:24Okay. Awesome. What?
- 12:28So. So walk to walk is. I've got it
- 12:32here too. And I'm just so grateful y' all have done this. And I know
- 12:36we'll talk more at the end of all this about maybe getting some
- 12:40training set up. You guys mentioned that you're doing some trainings in Trinity Conference
- 12:45and would love for that to be the case too, in mid
- 12:48Texas. So we'll work on all that off, offline.
- 12:52But help me with a little bit of the story of what
- 12:56inspired you. The burden, the conviction.
- 13:00When did that start of wanting to do something like this?
- 13:03Mapping out this, this curriculum, this guidebook
- 13:07for one on one discipleship? You go ahead. Yeah, I think
- 13:12it was about 2013 when the original draft was done.
- 13:16Doug and I were away on vacation and ended
- 13:20up doing a lot of writing. And originally it was designed to
- 13:24help a new believer learn what it meant to follow Jesus.
- 13:28The more we've used it. The more we've gotten into it, we've seen how powerful
- 13:32a tool it's been to help people that have been in the church for sometimes
- 13:36decades become awakened in what it means to live a life
- 13:41like Christ lives. So Anyway,
- 13:44back to 2013, we, we wrote the entire, the entire
- 13:48first draft. We started using it within the church a little bit.
- 13:52Trained several people but. And you can relate
- 13:56to this. We've been in ministry he full time, me as a helper for
- 14:00four decades. And we have found that it's so easy to
- 14:03get caught up in church work and neglect the work of the church. Right.
- 14:07Amen. And so it was a couple of years ago where we felt like
- 14:11God gave us this gift back and we
- 14:15just really haven't. Didn't feel like we'd used it to the extent of what it
- 14:19was intended to do. And so. And it's helped us personally
- 14:23keep the main thing, the main thing in constantly discipling people
- 14:28but also trying to establish that culture within our,
- 14:33our church. And we're fortunate that the Marvin congregation has been incredibly receptive.
- 14:37They're doing a great job. But so the last couple of years has been making
- 14:42edits. You know, we've, we've learned a lot in the last several years.
- 14:46So what do we incorporate? What, you know, just letting God dictate that
- 14:50and now starting to not only train our own people but to reach out and
- 14:54train other churches. And I would just, I would just add to that that really
- 14:58one of the key seeds that was planted in my heart was when
- 15:02I did my doctoral work at Perkins, my, my project was about spiritual
- 15:06formation and it was about using retreats and spiritual
- 15:10exercises to really grow disciples. And, and part of
- 15:14my theory in that was about experiential learning. And I had to do a lot
- 15:18of exploration and experiential learning. And it's not just about head
- 15:22knowledge, it's about truly giving people the experience. So you tell
- 15:26them what they're going to be learning and then you teach it to them,
- 15:29then you give an opportunity it and then you debrief with them.
- 15:32So that, that became very important to me. And so that was a seed that
- 15:36was planted back when I wrote my doctoral project and that would have been back
- 15:40in 2006. Okay. And so I would plant that
- 15:44seed there. But even before there I had an opportunity to hear Billy Hanks
- 15:48speak. And he was talking about Operation Multiplication at that time has
- 15:52been rebranded but Operation Multiplication for him. And if you're not familiar with
- 15:56Billy Hanks, Billy Hanks would Go in before for a Billy Graham crusade and
- 16:00he would train churches on how to follow up with those who'd made decisions
- 16:04for Christ. And he. We were having a big revival, a citywide
- 16:08revival, and somebody got Hanks to come in and actually train the churches on making
- 16:11disciples. And I think that was the first time I really got this idea that,
- 16:16you know what, we do not always do a good job of discipleship.
- 16:21We just, we get people converted to Christ and then
- 16:25we, we just, we don't teach them the spiritual practices, we don't
- 16:29encourage them in their spiritual gifts. And, and, and, and due
- 16:33respect to Billy Hanks, he was Baptist. And a lot of his material was great.
- 16:37A lot of theory and a lot of, a lot of words
- 16:41in his, in his books. And, and he's had a great international
- 16:45ministry. So I have all due respect to him. But we knew that
- 16:49in the Methodist Church the same thing was happening. We have people that are believers,
- 16:53but they're not followers of Jesus. And I think we've,
- 16:57we've learned. And John Mark, John Mark Comers really hit this
- 17:02hard in his Practicing the Way book about, he quotes that 2023
- 17:05thing about biblical worldview. And 64% of
- 17:09the people are, are Christians identifying as Christians, but only about
- 17:134% are actually following Jesus. They actually have a biblical
- 17:18worldview that is formed by Christ. And so that was just, again, all these things
- 17:22have kind of helped to formulate in me that we've
- 17:26got to make disciples. And now I'm just so thrilled to be in the Global
- 17:30Methodist Church because, you know, not the United Methodist Church didn't have the same,
- 17:34you know, mission that we were to make disciples. But I think we're
- 17:38now seeing that, you know, making disciples has got to be the
- 17:42most important thing. Ryan Barnett spoke recently at our church about, you know,
- 17:46the, the experiment with, you know, a pluralism
- 17:50that failed in the umc. How many people can we get in the tent?
- 17:54How many people can we feel included in the tent instead of really,
- 17:58really driving home that we need to move people along a discipleship
- 18:02pathway to getting them to be followers of Jesus, teaching them the way,
- 18:07teaching them spiritual practices, getting them in mutual, accountable relationships,
- 18:11whether doing bands or class meetings or a walk to walk relationship.
- 18:15And so all of those factors really to me are bringing
- 18:19this, as Gina said, to a head, yes, we wrote the first draft
- 18:23in 2012. Then I became senior pastor in 13 here
- 18:27at Marvin Church. And when I became lead pastor here, it just my
- 18:32whole job description shifted away from what I was doing in Discipleship
- 18:36to really managing this great church. And so proud to
- 18:40have been a part of that. But then after Covid, we really said
- 18:44it's time to get back to this passion that God just has not allowed
- 18:48to let us get away from, which is being making disciples.
- 18:52Because I think what we realized, we're asking people to do something that
- 18:57they've never, a lot of them have never experienced. Yeah. When we get a group
- 19:00room full of people together and you ask how many people have been intentionally discipled,
- 19:05you might get one or two. Right. And so how can we expect
- 19:08our brothers and sisters in Christ to be making disciples
- 19:12when they don't know what to do? So this
- 19:16was written not so much not as a how to book, but let's experience
- 19:20this journey together. Right. And in so doing, grow closer
- 19:24to each other, but more importantly, grow closer to God. So.
- 19:28So you mentioned the first draft back in somewhere.
- 19:312013, 2014. What would you say has been the biggest shift
- 19:36adjustment, Edits, as you guys have been living with it,
- 19:39practicing it? What have you seen what was part of the
- 19:43early draft? Maybe that if anything has changed,
- 19:47is a little different now that you've really worked through it, kind of got a
- 19:51lot more experience. And now taking it beyond Marvin, but to other conferences.
- 19:55I would, if I'll speak that. First of all, I would just say that in
- 19:592012, when we first wrote it, we, we got about
- 20:0340 people in a room here at Marvin. We trained them all on doing the
- 20:07disciple making, answered the question why we do this?
- 20:11And then, and then, you know, gave them a tool and then said,
- 20:15go find someone to disciple. And of course nobody did it.
- 20:18Okay. So the one thing that's really helped is
- 20:22the way we pivoted in our training when we go into a church now,
- 20:26or even our own church. Cause we're currently doing a training right now, this fall
- 20:29here at Marvin. We, we get people started in the training.
- 20:33If it's a Saturday or if it's for us at Marvin, it's four consecutive
- 20:37Wednesday nights. So if we go into a church, we now do we get people
- 20:41paired up immediately. So if you come to a training, you already assigned
- 20:46somebody else that signed up with the thing. And we've seen the Holy Spirit put
- 20:50people together in a beautiful way. And so they already have a
- 20:53man on man or a woman with a woman. And so those individuals start
- 20:58the class. We spend the first hour answering the big question,
- 21:02why the biblical foundations for making disciples, what Jesus has called us to
- 21:06do. And then we, we get them sharing their faith stories. So if
- 21:10people come to a training, they're, they will have already been prompted to write their
- 21:14faith story. And so that day they're going to share their faith story with
- 21:19another person in the room and then we're going to tell God's story. Because part
- 21:22of this other part of the experiential learning is how many people know how to
- 21:26share the gospel. And I know there's lots of models out there, lots of ways
- 21:29to do that. We, I came up with one way to share the gospel.
- 21:33It's very scriptural, but they'll have the opportunity to be presented with
- 21:37that and then debrief with their partner on that experience. Then we borrowed
- 21:42Gary Thomas's sacred pathways and they will have done an assessment.
- 21:46They'll come to the training knowing what their spiritual pathway is or their sacred
- 21:50pathway, and they'll have an opportunity to go through an exercise with the
- 21:54person in their room there on that, on that day as well, and to have
- 21:59more conversation, spiritual conversation. And then, and then lastly
- 22:02we talk about spiritual gifts. They'll do another spiritual gifts test. They'll know
- 22:06their spiritual gifts. They'll hear the, the meaning of spiritual gifts, why they're
- 22:10given, how God uses that. So really the pivot for us, the main
- 22:15one for me has been the, the training model,
- 22:19the approach to get people sharing a Christ centered relationship, get them
- 22:23engaged in spiritual conversation early. And then,
- 22:27then they've got, they've got momentum. They walk out of the seminar, they walk
- 22:31out of our four weeks of doing it at Marvin and they're already, already into
- 22:35each other's lives and they're already. And that's the beautiful thing we've seen.
- 22:38It's been Shay, it's been amazing, the Christian friendships
- 22:42that have gone so deep and it's, and then we're seeing this hands,
- 22:47this hands off beautifully to a band or a class meeting.
- 22:50The other thing I would just add, and I'm gonna let Gina respond to the
- 22:53question as well, is I took a sabbatical in 2022 and
- 22:58when I did that, I beefed up my reading and I really got introduced to
- 23:02Mark Batterson, John Mark Comer, a whole lot of very new,
- 23:06the next generation of people. John Ortberg was
- 23:10already kind of in the mix, but I just started reading prolifically around
- 23:13spiritual formation. And so when we made our last edits, which was
- 23:18about a year ago, we went away, okay, for a few days at the lake.
- 23:21We, we integrated new content,
- 23:24we kind of rewrote chapter seven and we,
- 23:28I think we made it Better. We introduced a rule of life into Walk to
- 23:32Walk. And so all of those things, I think, made it better. And then
- 23:36when we got a graphic artist to redesign it into this smaller book that
- 23:39we have instead of the bigger notebook we have, I think it became a better
- 23:42product, a better, better content. And still
- 23:47at the heart of that is it's easy to use,
- 23:50it's engaging, it's with spiritual gifts.
- 23:54And not only spiritual gifts, but you get people sharing their faith
- 23:58story. And that's been there from the beginning because as Gina said,
- 24:02we were just in shock when you raised it. How many
- 24:06of you ever shared your faith story? There may be four people in the room
- 24:10of 40. Well, that's a big problem when we're trying to
- 24:14be a bold and witness as global Methodists. So.
- 24:17But the. The chapters in and of itself are essentially
- 24:21the same as they were when we first wrote it. Okay. Kept the contents
- 24:25the same. We just honed in on how we
- 24:29wanted to present that content. Okay. And we say at the front, it's not an
- 24:34exhaustive representation of what it means to follow Jesus, but it hits on
- 24:38a lot of the main things. And, and we've had people that, you know,
- 24:42never either. Either didn't know how to pray or didn't know that there were different
- 24:46types of way to pray, didn't know that there were different ways to study the
- 24:49Scripture. Learning their sacred pathways was powerful
- 24:53because when their friend could sit in a room quietly and read their scripture,
- 24:58read the Word for hours on end, and they couldn't picture themselves
- 25:02even coming close to that and felt like they were somehow out
- 25:06of step with God. Well, when they learn that they have a different spiritual temperament,
- 25:09different spiritual pathway, it opens up a whole new world to them. Yeah.
- 25:13Like Doug said on the session that we do on presenting the gospel
- 25:17and being able to articulate God's story, just watching in the
- 25:21room, people's just the light bulb
- 25:25go on where there's a part of that story that just hits them
- 25:30and in some cases for the very first time. And it's powerful to witness
- 25:34that. And then, you know, we all know that your best witnesses are for
- 25:38the faith are typically you're new and alive Christians.
- 25:42Right. And so the people that have had that experience, they're some of
- 25:46our greatest champions now because they. They get it.
- 25:50They know what it means. Yeah. We just simp. Walk.
- 25:53To walk is simply a. A tool, but it's an easy to use tool.
- 25:58We've seen it be incredibly effective, not because of what we've
- 26:02written, but because of what God does in the midst of all of that.
- 26:05And when two people come together and are committed to, to growing in
- 26:10Christ, it's, it creates some really beautiful things. To me I think it's
- 26:14so unique and special in so many ways because I mean John Wesley,
- 26:18some of us are a little more familiar with the class meetings, band meetings
- 26:22in any listeners are watching this, you know, know,
- 26:25maybe if they've grown up in a different church tradition. The idea
- 26:29of small group ministry. I like to say John Wesley I think invented small group
- 26:32ministry. There you go. It seems like he did. And so we kind of know
- 26:36that. But what I love about this is even, even class meetings
- 26:40and I'm part of one, you know, it, it doesn't get
- 26:44as personal as this gets. The one to one thinking about I,
- 26:48I mean my biblical imagination first goes to like a Paul with Timothy,
- 26:52someone like that, or Jesus and John
- 26:56and James and Peter, something like that. You get this personal.
- 27:00What I love about this resource is, is it's so simple
- 27:04to use, to use your words. It's very clear and it's not
- 27:09intimidating. And I mean that in the best way. Like you quote
- 27:14amazing people, you write accessibly. These are,
- 27:17these are tasks that I don't think everyone might have some apprehension
- 27:22if they've never done this before. Like to your point, who's shared their faith story?
- 27:25Okay, we think about that. When you present it and ask it in a big
- 27:28room, it's like oh boy. But when you look at the resource, you guys
- 27:32walk. It's. You guys hold our hand in
- 27:36this curriculum which is so needed for the one on one nature of it.
- 27:40Now I want to ask a question around how it can be adapted because I'm
- 27:43sure you've seen it adapted in different ways. Maybe it's been used beyond just a
- 27:471, 1 to 1. It's 12 sessions. I guess
- 27:51it could be 13 sessions if you use the intro session
- 27:55as its own session. Help, help me help us understand the
- 27:59vast majority of folks that engage with this, that go
- 28:03through it in yalls experience and taking your vision
- 28:08into account. Like is it best to do this on a weekly
- 28:11basis? Is it best to do this just once a month? Ideally,
- 28:15kind of. What's the start and end date? What's yalls
- 28:19rhythm at Marvin in terms of how you introduce this and
- 28:23how often throughout the year? We do the training at Marvin
- 28:27twice a year. One in the fall, one in the spring. That has
- 28:31seemed to work really well because like you said, it gets people into the material
- 28:35right off the Bat and they've stuck with it and pretty much stayed
- 28:39to doing it 12 weeks in a row. Now we tell people from the very
- 28:43beginning, you know, we know life happens, you know, scripts happen, illness,
- 28:47whatever. And we say, you know, it's okay if you have to miss a week
- 28:51or two weeks even, but don't skip a week without rescheduling
- 28:55your next one. Got it. Because it's too easy to just. And just let it
- 28:59go. You feel too far behind. But so doing it in the
- 29:03context of regular trainings has helped people stay on task. Now that's
- 29:08what, that's what we plan. But we have also seen God plan something
- 29:11totally different. We, we just found out when we started this last training
- 29:15class that we've got some other people that have been trained that have been asking
- 29:19for Doug's admin for books because they've just gone and found their
- 29:23own person and they're just doing it one on one, which is amazing.
- 29:27And the ministry has taken on a life of its own. It's very organic.
- 29:31I mean, we, we plan and try to be as faithful as we can with
- 29:35it, but we know that God's using it in other areas. I like
- 29:39that you mentioned classes and bands because one of the things that we'd like to
- 29:43explore, we too have a great discipleship ministry with classes and
- 29:48bands and we would like to see Walk to Walk somehow integrated
- 29:53with that ministry. The reason I say that is you've got people that are already
- 29:57comfortable to some degree and having spiritual conversation.
- 30:01They have a group of built in accountability. We would love for
- 30:05classes and bands to be trained so they can
- 30:10commit to one another, that they're going to go out and find somebody
- 30:13and disciple someone and their class or their band is going to hold them
- 30:17accountable to that. That's great. So we've, we'd like to see that be the next
- 30:21step of reaching out and helping people feel like they have
- 30:25permission to go, to go do this and they can do it.
- 30:28Yeah, yeah. I was going to add the, you know, the vision of the Global
- 30:32Methodist Church talks about multiplying disciples. And that's where
- 30:36I feel like this is what we're trying to get at. We're trying to get
- 30:40at a church that not only has a discipleship pathway,
- 30:43a church that not only knows what a disciple is and we can talk
- 30:47about what is a disciple, because I think that's an important question to answer.
- 30:50But then also, how are you going about multiplying disciples
- 30:55and what Jesus described? It's taken us about three to four years to get there.
- 30:59But when people begin to have this idea that, yes, I'm supposed
- 31:03to be multiplying disciples, then we begin to see people like,
- 31:07I've got a young man in the church who's being apprenticed,
- 31:11if you will, by a contractor who's recently retired, and he's a contractor.
- 31:15And so they already have a professional business relationship. They're both Christians.
- 31:19And he approached this man and says, will you do walk to walk
- 31:23with me? Will you disciple me? And that's one of those instances that
- 31:27we had nothing to do with it. That was totally Holy Spirit driven.
- 31:30And other individuals who like, like Gina just mentioned about,
- 31:34we find out later on that they're. They're doing this together. It has
- 31:39that flexibility that this young man, I was just talking to him, he said,
- 31:43I can't come to the training on Wednesday night. But, you know, Mike and I
- 31:46are meeting. We just met, you know, today for breakfast. Well, that's the beauty of
- 31:50it, you know, it's not like you have to have childcare lined up
- 31:54at the church on Wednesday nights in order to everybody meet. It can
- 31:58be at Panera, it can be at wherever you want it to be. Shout out
- 32:02to Panera, by the way. Yeah, you know, or you can, you know, and on
- 32:07your schedule and if you miss a week, you know, you can. You can get
- 32:10back on the track. And just the rhythm we've seen as we introduce
- 32:15it in the fall and in the spring in the church is we. We start
- 32:18with the four weeks. If you're doing it on a weekly basis to get people
- 32:22in the weekly habits, and then you release them to do
- 32:26the several sessions together whenever they want to do
- 32:29it whenever they want. We make the church available if they need to just have
- 32:32childcare and a meal and be here with. Wednesday nights are willing to do that.
- 32:36We check back in about week nine with spiritual
- 32:40gifts just to. Just to kind of bring them back together
- 32:43again. We have another class session and then at the end,
- 32:47when they should be finished, we have a celebration. And that's
- 32:51when we hear the testimonies. And that is when it's so
- 32:55exciting because you hear incredible stories and they range.
- 32:59There's such a range. I mean, one. One simple story was
- 33:03from Linnan, who shared that she never would have engaged
- 33:07in having a spiritual conversation at the office. But then a coworker
- 33:11lost a grandson to death, and it was very tragic and everybody
- 33:15was not sure how to handle it. But Linnaeann had confidence to
- 33:20reach out to this person and begin to Talk with her about spiritual
- 33:24matters and even pray with her. And then in her testimony, and it's on
- 33:28our website, she said, you know, she says, I would have never done that before
- 33:32without having walked a walk. So people are building confidence
- 33:36and having spiritual conversations, and that begins to spill over
- 33:40into regular life. And that's a total Holy Spirit thing.
- 33:44That's. That's showing transformation. And that kind of comes back to.
- 33:48I was saying, what is a disciple? A disciple is somebody who's
- 33:52following Jesus. They're being transformed and changed to become more
- 33:56like Jesus, and they're embracing Jesus's mission.
- 34:00And Jesus's mission is to make disciples and to multiply disciples
- 34:05and to grow the kingdom, not just show up at church and listen to
- 34:09a sermon and maybe go to your Sunday school class and listen to a lesson
- 34:12and then go home and do whatever you want to do for the rest of
- 34:15the week. It's following Jesus, ordering your life around him.
- 34:18And this, this is an intentional discipleship
- 34:22plan that gets you on a pathway to where you're
- 34:26learning different spiritual practices. Maybe you never knew before. You're learning about sacred
- 34:30pathways. You're learning you have spiritual gifts. If you never knew that before, you know,
- 34:34you're able to then maybe have more confidence. And, oh, I have a faith story.
- 34:38I've written it out. I can share it with another person now I'm more comfortable
- 34:41sharing, sharing it with others. So it's got a lot of practical things.
- 34:45Very pragmatic. If John Wesley probably like that word.
- 34:48Yeah, for sure. What about the. So you mentioned the
- 34:52multiplication piece. Yes. And amen. And have you guys. Any testimony around
- 34:56those folks that you've seen not only do this once,
- 35:00but. But stay committed? Is. Are there any folks that have been,
- 35:04gosh, you guys have been doing this a long time. You got any folks that
- 35:07have been, you know, you know, continually just disciple, making every
- 35:11maybe semester or once a year going through one
- 35:15of the sessions. Oh, oh, you want to go ahead and answer or else.
- 35:19Yeah, we've had people that have attended the training several times that have been in
- 35:23it before, but are coming to make themselves available in case somebody shows up
- 35:27that needs a partner. Awesome. Or if we know of somebody that, that wants to.
- 35:31To be discipled. So that's. That's been a big part of. Plus, I think
- 35:35the other thing that we're seeing too, is the people that God's
- 35:40bringing to our church because we have people
- 35:44that are ready. And we have had people just in
- 35:48the last six months that have just shown up with Some kind of just
- 35:52in a, in odd circumstances that have said something and
- 35:56somebody has been there at the same time that's been through walk to Walk and
- 36:00has said, would you like to be a disciple? I'll be happy to, you know,
- 36:03show you what this is all about. And they've said yes. And so, and I
- 36:07don't know that that would have happened if our church wasn't ready to receive them.
- 36:11Does that make sense? Yes, you know, yeah. And so that's just something
- 36:15that, and again, that's it. That's the organic Holy Spirit
- 36:19movement through the whole thing that, that we can testify to is
- 36:24that people just show up and are willing and ready. And I'll just
- 36:28give a little bit more backstory to kind of help me connect the dots.
- 36:31But had a, had a young woman right out of University of Texas, graduated from
- 36:36college, came up, we preached on the Holy Spirit in a sermon.
- 36:40And she comes up to me afterwards and she says, pastor, I, I don't,
- 36:43I don't really understand the Holy Spirit. I'm not really sure I, I,
- 36:47I heard what you said. I like what you said, but I don't think I
- 36:50understand it. And then I said, I'll tell you what. And then Gina came up
- 36:53afterwards and saw me talk to this young lady and I said, Gina, would you
- 36:57take, take her to, to lunch and then find out if
- 37:01she's interested in a walk to walk relationship. And then
- 37:04we already had Paula already trained, already been through a training class.
- 37:09Then Gina just handed her off to Paula and they doubled
- 37:13up on lessons. Cause she took a job in New York and she had to
- 37:17leave like in six, what was it like six weeks she had. So she,
- 37:21they doubled up on lessons so that before she moved to New York City,
- 37:25she was discipled by Paula. And Paula came
- 37:28out of that experience saying that this is one, this has been.
- 37:32She said, this is what I'm called to do. I've now found my purpose.
- 37:35This is my ministry. So Paula is now coming back just like Gina
- 37:39said. She'll come to the next training and she'll pick up who's in the room
- 37:43and do discipleship with there. And all of these individuals, I hope
- 37:47when we call them like Paula and just says, would you take on a
- 37:51person? Here's another story, Shay. This one probably. Can I add one thing?
- 37:54Speaking of multiplication location, before this woman left and moved
- 37:58to New York, we gave her an extra book, prayed over
- 38:02her that once she got to a new city where she knew nobody that
- 38:07God would bring and be preparing a New sister in Christ for her.
- 38:11So when you talk about multiplying, there's these.
- 38:14These family trees with the little branches that go
- 38:18off. And so we don't know what's come of that, but we figure
- 38:22it's our job to at least create
- 38:26that, help create that opportunity for God to work. Amen. And, and, and put
- 38:30that in front of people so that we. Trying to keep the multiplying.
- 38:35Yet now you've been. This has been done for you. Now who are you going
- 38:38to find? Right? So I. One more story, if I
- 38:42like stories. And I think this will really, really. This blew me away.
- 38:46Young lady came up to me after church and she
- 38:50said to me, pastor, I need to confess some sins. They're sexual sins.
- 38:54And I'm like, number one, it's not appropriate for you and I to go
- 38:58have a confessional time without another woman being present. So immediately found a
- 39:03person on our staff. But Gina had just done walk to walk with that individual.
- 39:07And so that woman and I and this young lady went
- 39:12into a private room and we, you know, I said, you're not
- 39:16going to tell. Don't tell me what you've done. I said, I put a holding
- 39:20cross in her hand and I said to her, now you. You know what
- 39:24confession means. You know how to talk to God. Do you know what prayer is?
- 39:27And she said, yes. She had enough religious background for that. I said, you just
- 39:31talk to God. You hold this cross, you talk to God, you confess the sin
- 39:35you need to confess. And this, this other woman I had in the room is
- 39:38going to be here with you. We both placed our hands on her shoulders while
- 39:41she did it. Tears are all over the table. She can imagine. And then
- 39:45when she was finished, I said, now would you be interested in having
- 39:50someone walk alongside you and do discipleship with you? And she
- 39:53said, yes. And this individual on our staff Gina had
- 39:58just trained was. They immediately began the next week.
- 40:01Now, that's the Lord doing that to me. I mean,
- 40:06in all my years of ministry, which is now over 35 years of
- 40:10ministry, never has a woman come to me and said, I want to confess sexual
- 40:14sins to you, Pastor. Or any sin. Or any sin, really. I mean,
- 40:18and very rarely, but I mean,
- 40:21it was just so beautiful that that day we had her.
- 40:25We had her already connected to somebody. And that. That is what's
- 40:29possible. But it just. That's. That takes probably years.
- 40:33May. I don't know, maybe I gave any limitations. Well, those windows
- 40:36of availability are often very small. And if someone's not
- 40:40ready and Willing to step in and come alongside some, you often lose them.
- 40:45Right. And so that's why I think it, it be neat to see
- 40:49churches all over just ready and waiting and watching
- 40:54for the people in their midst. And then like you just mentioned that the Lord's
- 40:58going to bring people to a church if he knows
- 41:02that there'll be people that are ready to do the work, to disciple, to walk
- 41:05alongside an individual. Amen. And share,
- 41:08Share Jesus. And teach them how to pray and
- 41:12teach them how to read scripture. Yeah. And, and teach
- 41:16them how. And one of our chapters is on, you know, what you do when
- 41:19you failed. You know, it's on, it's on confession of sin. And it gives the,
- 41:23you know, where you, the person is empowered to, as a priesthood
- 41:26of believers to declare, you know, you're forgiven over them.
- 41:30And we have, you know, that's being the priesthood. That's what God's
- 41:34called us to do. That's multiplying disciples. That's why we're so passionate
- 41:38about it. Yeah, we, it's not something you just, I think a
- 41:42lot of pastors say, oh, I want to, I believe in multiplying
- 41:46disciples, but we just don't know how to do it.
- 41:49And I've been a pastor a long time and didn't know how to do it.
- 41:52And, and, and we had a tool that we wrote a long time ago,
- 41:56but it's taken time to get it. You know, like you always like to
- 42:00say, you know, get back to them or as Bishop Jones would say, let's make
- 42:04the main thing the main thing. Yeah, really start making disciples rather
- 42:09than just making church members and believers. And the thing that
- 42:12we've, we have found true in our own life. And, and we,
- 42:16we bring this up at the trainings, but there are so many things on this
- 42:20earth that you can invest your time, your money, your resources in,
- 42:24very few of which are eternal. And,
- 42:27and this is eternal. Yeah. And I think the more people get
- 42:31into it, they realize how life giving it is. I've told
- 42:35this story in our training several times. You know, he, he's a very busy man.
- 42:39He has a lot of responsibility. I can tell when he comes home
- 42:43one day if he's just been in meetings all day or if he has had
- 42:47a spiritual conversation with somebody because it's life giving.
- 42:51His demeanor is totally opposite on those kinds of days.
- 42:55Right. And so, you know, to, to allow people to experience it
- 42:59and the joy that we have in being in the trainings is to witness that.
- 43:03Absolutely. And to see that take place. Yeah. And they see it
- 43:07in each other, which is good. Yeah. That's why we like doing some
- 43:11of the. Having them come back for some sessions rather than just
- 43:15turning them loose for the whole thing. Because there's something about experiencing it
- 43:19one on one, but also enjoying what your.
- 43:23Your fellow pilgrims are experiencing too.
- 43:27And Shea, you had asked a question earlier about, you know, have we seen people
- 43:31being committed to this? I've. I've now discipled
- 43:3512 individuals, but I have 20 people in my family tree,
- 43:40so you never know the impact. So I start looking at the people that I've
- 43:44discipled that now I've discipled someone else. And that's where you start seeing the
- 43:48multiplication. Yeah, that's. That's how you can change a church
- 43:53is to think beyond like, okay, I'm just investing in this one
- 43:58person right now. Yeah. But if that one person goes and disciples another and then
- 44:01that person disciples another, you know, we've seen how that multiplies out so quickly.
- 44:05And, and that's a vision that, that God, it didn't
- 44:09give just to me. I think Billy Hanks has that vision. Other people have had
- 44:13that vision. Certainly Amway has that vision. But.
- 44:17But anyway, it's really about the joy of
- 44:20seeing somebody come alive in faith. And let's just be honest. We.
- 44:24We. There are a lot of people who believe in God. They're saved,
- 44:28but they. They're not living the life that God has for them to live.
- 44:32And there's a lot of pastors out there that are running churches, and I've
- 44:36been running churches for a long time and, and it's.
- 44:40It's an honorable calling and vocation. But Jesus's heart,
- 44:44where Jesus shows up, where the Holy Spirit, I think does his best work is
- 44:48when we get do disciple making. Amen. That's so
- 44:52good. I. I've loved and been inspired by everything that
- 44:56y' all have said. And I remember Gina, when you said
- 45:00something about wanting to see the integration with bands.
- 45:04I also think about this resource and
- 45:08my. My initial gut and part of this was from just spending some time reading
- 45:12through it, looking at yalls website, reading through some of the testimonies and seeing some
- 45:17of the dynamics in stages of life different folks we're at.
- 45:21So. So my conviction is. And again, I got to get
- 45:25trained up myself too. So I'm open to all that is.
- 45:29I'm not so sure that our confirmans can't
- 45:33handle this. To me, I was kind of inspired to think
- 45:37about doing confirmation a little differently reading through this. And at
- 45:42the same Time letting that be sort of a charge,
- 45:45a call out to our church. Here is,
- 45:49here's what we're going to be committed to do and modify
- 45:52maybe if we need to, to a certain degree to make
- 45:56it work for confirmation, but then challenge our church to, to do
- 46:00the same. So anyway, I know you, you mentioned the
- 46:04integration with, with some of the band meetings and class
- 46:08meetings perhaps, but also I could see it very easily with,
- 46:12without too much being tailored to, you know, a more youth
- 46:16orientation as well. Sure. Yeah. It's certainly capable to make
- 46:21that pivot and we have no problem with how God wants to use it in
- 46:24the church. We've also encouraged people when they're trained to also
- 46:29do it with your, with your spouse, do it with your kids. You know,
- 46:33do your kids know your faith story? I'm still learning our kids faith story,
- 46:37you know, because most of us take our faith seriously when we
- 46:42start getting into adulthood. And by that time for most of us, our kids are
- 46:45living somewhere else. So to keep that within the family
- 46:49as well is important. And just to put again a
- 46:53story with that. When my son Brian was about is
- 46:57between his junior and senior year at Baylor, he was doing an internship with 3M
- 47:01in St. Paul, Minneapolis. And you know, he's up there the
- 47:06summer St. Paul lives living in an apartment. I don't know what
- 47:10his social life was. I doubt he had much social life. But I
- 47:13mean, I'd like to believe he didn't have much. Yeah. But I
- 47:18did. I did at that time it was called Life to Life. I did it
- 47:21with him by FaceTime. I. It was. I actually we
- 47:24did it all that that summer while he was in, in Minneapolis.
- 47:29We did, we did Life to Life, which now is Walk to Walk. But to
- 47:33me that's just what Gina said. I think parents can do this with their children.
- 47:37There's all kinds of ways that it can be used.
- 47:40Maybe, maybe if we do other versions of this in the future we'll
- 47:45be more sensitive to. Maybe this could be done as a family or this can
- 47:48be done maybe with compromise. But right now it's just a tool that in
- 47:52the toolbox for doing what Jesus has called us to do. Walktow Walk
- 47:56us. Is that the website? Walktowalk Us
- 47:59is the. Yeah, the website that we have. And Also info@walktow
- 48:04walk@walktowalk.org Infowalktowalk.org
- 48:08will get you also to if you have questions or if you want to respond
- 48:13and. And that's all in there too. And the books have it as well,
- 48:16so like, if you want to reach out to us, ask questions or
- 48:19invite us to come or I'm here at Marvin Church, just make, you know,
- 48:22call me or call Gina if you want to call Gina and ask her to
- 48:26come. Yeah, I want to make sure in the show description I don't miss some
- 48:29important details to connect people to this resource so they can consider buying
- 48:33for themselves. Churches consider buying. You get a discount the more you buy in
- 48:38bulk. So pay attention to that, friends. The discount starts at two books.
- 48:43Okay. Because ideally we want you to get one and then get one to
- 48:46share with somebody else. Perfect. So I've got some contact
- 48:51information there and then I'd love. I know you. You guys are in the
- 48:55Trinity Conference of the Global Methodist Church. And hey,
- 48:58I'm. If it's okay, I'd love to reach out to you maybe
- 49:02late this year, beginning of next year. I know we need to plan farther out
- 49:06because y' all are traveling and doing trainings, but would love to get you
- 49:10in mid Texas to do some trainings for leaders of our churches so we
- 49:14can use this resource as well across our conference.
- 49:19Ryan Barnett, dear friend, we just had dinner with he and Kim the other
- 49:23night while they were here for our revival. And so
- 49:27I'm, I'm a fan of the Midtext Conference. Awesome.
- 49:31Because of Ryan, I love Bishop Gregory as well. And also
- 49:35just the fact that, you know, that's where Baylor
- 49:39University is. So we're fans of the Wesley House and Truant Theological Seminary.
- 49:43Marvin's been a big part of helping raise money to make sure our next
- 49:47generation of leaders have scholarships to go and be a part
- 49:52of that great school. We're so thankful for, you know, Rusty Freeman and,
- 49:56and Dean still, and certainly Ryan. And so we
- 50:00have a lot of friends in Midtechs. We would love to help Mid Techs any
- 50:03way that we can. And ideally we would. We're trying to
- 50:07work on the most effective way that we could train church leaders and
- 50:11have them go back and train their churches. Sure. Like the most
- 50:15efficient way to get things out there and
- 50:19get this going because we've seen it. It does have eternal effects.
- 50:24So that's one thing that God may be doing because Brad McKenzie,
- 50:28who's an equipping elder here for our Trinity Conference, is actually going to be at
- 50:32our training in Conroe on October 3rd. Invite anybody who wants to come.
- 50:35I don't know if this will be on the air by then or not,
- 50:37but on October 3rd, we're going to be in Conroe we're going to do a
- 50:41training there, and Brad's coming with the idea like Gina just
- 50:44described. Maybe we get a bunch of people trained in the conference that then can
- 50:48go into churches and begin to, you know, see if we can
- 50:53recapture the joy of what's very near to the heart of God.
- 50:56Make disciples. That's awesome. Well,
- 51:00I'm gonna be sensitive to our time and give y' all the last word
- 51:04if there's anything else that we need to cover. But I just am so grateful
- 51:07for yalls time. Doug and Gina would love to close us in
- 51:11a prayer, but if there's anything else, I want to make sure I include those
- 51:15details in the show notes that'll be there for folks and look forward to
- 51:19reaching out to you some more so we can set something up for mid Texas.
- 51:23Well, I'd love to make a closing statement, then I'll turn it over to you.
- 51:26Is that okay? Okay. So three words that are very important in our training
- 51:31are intentional relational discipleship.
- 51:35And intentionality is very important because
- 51:39you have to make an intentional decision.
- 51:42There's so, you know, everything's being researched and
- 51:46stuff. Saying now about just our attention spans. We're so distracted. But you have
- 51:50to make an intentional decision that you want to be a disciple maker. You want
- 51:55to fulfill the Great Commission. And here's an example.
- 51:58And I told Gina I was going to share this. We just celebrated our 40th
- 52:02wedding anniversary. And I decided, as part of my gift
- 52:06to her was that I wanted to give her a love note every
- 52:10day for 40 days. And so I made that decision that I
- 52:14was going to do that. And in order to do that, I had to go
- 52:17purchase 40 note cards. And then. With golden retrievers.
- 52:20With golden retrievers, because we love golden retrievers. Yes. Thank you, Amazon.
- 52:24Again. But what was important in that moment
- 52:27was that, okay, not only had I made the commitment, okay, now I have
- 52:31these 40 cards, but I had to make time every morning I got
- 52:35up early, and I had to make time before I left the house because I
- 52:39wanted to make sure when she got up, when she was making her coffee,
- 52:42that she would find the love note for me. And there was these notes.
- 52:46And I put a lot of thought into reminiscing about things in the past,
- 52:49things we'd done, how we'd met, our time in seminary, churches we'd serve,
- 52:53vacations we'd had. But anyway, all that's to say is that it took a
- 52:57lot of intention on my part that didn't just happen. And I think
- 53:01that we all love and believe that disciple making should just happen and we
- 53:04all should be about it. But it takes hard work. It takes planning. You have
- 53:08to get the resource in front of you. You have to make time to do
- 53:12it. And I just want to encourage everybody. Don't get caught up in the work
- 53:17of the church. Just really do. You know, just do what God has
- 53:20really called you to do, which is make time to make
- 53:24disciples and to. I have a busy schedule. I have a very full schedule.
- 53:28But like she said, I will. I'm discipling somebody right now.
- 53:32I make time every week to meet with that individual. And I'm.
- 53:36And I want to expand this ministry to help others. That's the intentional part of
- 53:39it. Relational. Jesus's model was
- 53:43relational. You know, he's a rabbi because he chose
- 53:47that model of ministry. Could have probably chosen any. Any way to do disciple
- 53:51making, but he chose. I'll be. I'll be identified as a rabbi,
- 53:54but instead of people coming in, making application to follow me,
- 53:58and me just choosing out of that, I'll go find people. Now. There's something very
- 54:02important too, about God's got people out there he's trying to reach. But are we
- 54:06looking to find those individuals? And how did he do it? He got
- 54:10them. He got them in a band of, you know, those 12 disciples. Then he
- 54:14had, like you mentioned earlier, shay, the inner three, and then he also had
- 54:17the 72. Yeah, but he spent 90% of his time
- 54:21with those 12, and he spent 10% of his time with the larger group.
- 54:25And I think sometimes in the church, we're all about the numbers and we forget
- 54:29about what can happen and where the real transformation happens. Those guys
- 54:34live with Jesus, they walked with Jesus. They were in the dust of the rabbi
- 54:38borrowing that expression. And that's where they're.
- 54:41That's where they were really truly disciples. So much so that when it came
- 54:45time for them, when he said, go and make disciples, they knew what he was
- 54:48talking about because they had lived and experienced it. A lot of people
- 54:52don't make disciples because they've never been discipled. And I think
- 54:56that if, you know, if you experience this, then hopefully you begin
- 55:01to want to disciple others, and then you're living into, you know, the mission.
- 55:04And really that gets to intentional relationship, relational discipleship.
- 55:09Making a disciple who is not only trying to pattern
- 55:13their life after Jesus, they really, more than anything, want to be sanctified to become
- 55:17more like Jesus. Let's borrowing some of our global Methodist theology
- 55:21that we're really rallying around and spreading scriptural holiness and really,
- 55:25you know, going for the sanctified life, sold out
- 55:29for Jesus, that's going to lead you into the mission of multiplication.
- 55:32Then that's where you'll start seeing people differently. That's where people
- 55:37in our church are starting to look around and say, there's somebody
- 55:41that I think I could invest in or there's somebody I want investing in
- 55:45me. Yeah, we're changing culture here and it takes
- 55:49a lot of time. It takes a lot of intentionality. It takes a lot of
- 55:53relational bandwidth. But that's what Jesus called us
- 55:57to do. I think that's my closing statement. I don't want to use up too
- 56:00much time. I'll let you say something, sweetheart. You said it. Well, I would
- 56:04just say that in a world where people are becoming less engaged with people and
- 56:09more engaged with technology, the harvest is plentiful.
- 56:12Because I think they're realizing that the world comes up empty and that
- 56:17we have something better to offer. Not we ourselves, but Christ.
- 56:20And we're privileged to be a part of this ministry and anything
- 56:24that we can do to help the church, we consider it a privilege.
- 56:27So thank you for visiting with us today. Yeah, and Christians aren't
- 56:31mass produced, they're handcrafted. And I just
- 56:35think that that's a. That's the joy of salvation
- 56:40is having a front row seat to what God is doing in another person's
- 56:44life that you're investing in. That's a joy,
- 56:47man. Just had to say that right there at the end.
- 56:51I'll sit with that. Yeah.
- 56:54Okay. Well, shall we pray? Absolutely.
- 56:58Holy, mighty and merciful God. We just are so humbled and grateful for
- 57:02you, Lord, the joy being loved by you.
- 57:06To be given the grace, Lord, to love
- 57:10you and to love our neighbors, Lord, to make disciples of Jesus.
- 57:14Just pray, Lord, that your Holy Spirit would continue to
- 57:18move in mighty, mighty, mighty, mighty ways across walk to walk.
- 57:22I thank you for Doug and Gina's ministry. Lord Jesus,
- 57:26bless them. May your favor be upon them as they
- 57:30continue to train up new generations, new people
- 57:34to be disciple makers as they do the work themselves. And take
- 57:37that seriously, Lord, that we are not.
- 57:41That's Doug's word. So true. We are not mass produced to follow you.
- 57:45We are handcrafted. It takes intentionality.
- 57:48It takes real relationship, Lord, and always
- 57:52following you, coming and seeing what you
- 57:57would show us, what you would teach us, Lord, who would you would have us
- 58:00serve? And so God, continue to show your favor upon
- 58:04them. And Lord, multiply their witness across the Trinity Conference, across the Mid
- 58:09Texas Conference, across the Global Methodist Church and even
- 58:12beyond our Wesleyan Methodist traditions. Lord, for this
- 58:17is a kingdom of God mandate Lord, this is
- 58:20a kingdom of God call and priority. There is nothing worthy
- 58:26more of our time than disciple making,
- 58:29Lord for we long to see you face to face and
- 58:34we trust that your word is true when you say you will come again
- 58:38as you ascended, you will descend and bring about a
- 58:42new heaven and a new earth, Lord, and we long to be that family with
- 58:46you in glory. We ask all this in Jesus name.
- 58:49Amen. Amen thank
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