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Andrea Giovino - From Former Associate To Mob Boss John Gotti To An Empowered Future · Cats & Pudding with Jennifer Dilandro

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  Speaker 3: Conditions apply. This is the Cats in Footing Podcast, a
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  Speaker 4: Good afternoon everybody, and welcome to the show. And I
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  Speaker 4: have an excellent guest today. Oh my god, there should
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  Speaker 4: be no introduction.
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  Speaker 2: I love them.
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  Speaker 4: I'm so happy that you're here. Thank you, you had
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  Speaker 4: you are. I met you through Michelle Michelle, and just
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  Speaker 4: so happy to be here that you are here with
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  Speaker 4: us on.
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  Speaker 2: The show today.
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  Speaker 4: My my new friend Andrea have the same you have
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  Speaker 4: the same name as my as my sister Lasso.
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  Speaker 3: That's why I love you.
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  Speaker 2: Oh, thank you, and we uh.
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  Speaker 4: You have just done a documentary on the Gottis.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah. I do a lot of crime documentaries. Many many
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  Speaker 3: crime documentaries. I've been on Gotti and Son on a
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  Speaker 3: any Netflix, get Gotti Mafia Killers on reels. I do
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  Speaker 3: mostly my work is crime documentaries because I grew up
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  Speaker 3: in that background, and I know a lot of the
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  Speaker 3: real mobsters, not these as do I you know, lots
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  Speaker 3: of real you know, hung around, not just hung around
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  Speaker 3: with them. I was arrested myself and facing like a
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  Speaker 3: lot of prison time. Wow. So I was arrested with
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  Speaker 3: twenty two organized crime guys. That's why my story was
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  Speaker 3: so unique because you know, I was entrenched in you know,
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  Speaker 3: making a lot of money. I was lending money out
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  Speaker 3: like a bank back in the day. And so yeah,
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  Speaker 3: so uh, you know, I had like a crew behind
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  Speaker 3: me that you know guys.
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  Speaker 2: That can you talk about the family right now?
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  Speaker 4: Because family I was because I don't know if it
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  Speaker 4: was a post I mean with the people.
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  Speaker 3: Now what I did. I started my own enterprise with
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  Speaker 3: which family?
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  Speaker 2: Can I say?
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  Speaker 3: It wasn't I wasn't conducted, It was.
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  Speaker 2: Not connected to one five families.
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  Speaker 3: And that I had. I had guys behind me that
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  Speaker 3: were back in me that I grew up with. So
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  Speaker 3: I grew up with a lot of street guys and
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  Speaker 3: they were connected or they were made. Yeah, you're talking
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  Speaker 3: like John Gay and a lot of you know, you know,
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  Speaker 3: big names. And then so if I had a problem,
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  Speaker 3: I had people back in me to get the money
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  Speaker 3: that was owed to me.
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  Speaker 4: And how did you get involved with this? Like just
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  Speaker 4: like usually they didn't. I mean, we usually were not
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  Speaker 4: part of that life. No, but I know I grew
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  Speaker 4: up in Howard Beach. Yeah, but I got.
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  Speaker 3: Involved because given my background, my mom was very good
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  Speaker 3: friends with crazy Joe Gallo and she did a lot
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  Speaker 3: of stuff for him. And then we grew up in
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  Speaker 3: a neighborhood that you know. I'm one of ten children,
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  Speaker 3: and my brothers were street guys.
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  Speaker 2: Ok.
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  Speaker 3: So my brothers did a lot of a lot of
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  Speaker 3: prison time. When did fifteen years, the other did seven years.
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  Speaker 3: So a lot of my background was from that and
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  Speaker 3: they knew I could be trusted. Plus, at twenty two
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  Speaker 3: years old, I was living with Frank Leno, which was
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  Speaker 3: a mob captain for the Banano I was the Banano
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  Speaker 3: crime family. And then later on at twenty one, I
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  Speaker 3: was with Mark Ryder, which was with the Gambino and.
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  Speaker 2: With him for a long time.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah, but up until current he passed away in September
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  Speaker 3: of this year. I was visiting him in Allenwood Federal Prison.
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  Speaker 2: My god, I used to visit my ex husband and
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  Speaker 2: Allan one.
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  Speaker 4: So actually, did you go to the did you go
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  Speaker 4: to the Baseball World Series?
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  Speaker 2: When you were there? That's what the that was.
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  Speaker 3: When when I got back in touch with Mark, it
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  Speaker 3: was a couple of years ago, maybe three four years ago. Uh,
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  Speaker 3: it was due to his story is so unique, and
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  Speaker 3: we myself and some producers from Netflix wanted to get
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  Speaker 3: his story and they wouldn't let them in to speak
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  Speaker 3: to him, but they let me in because it was
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  Speaker 3: documented that I knew him back in the day. So
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  Speaker 3: you know, they go through a whole background check on
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  Speaker 3: who you know, who you don't know to get into
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  Speaker 3: the prison. So we were taken down all the documentation
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  Speaker 3: of like how he became he was a Jewish guy,
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  Speaker 3: but how he became so close in the mob and
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  Speaker 3: how so well respected and they made the film about
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  Speaker 3: him King of New York. Yeah. So so that and
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  Speaker 3: then after Get Gotti was the number one hit in
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  Speaker 3: forty five countries for seven weeks, I was asked actually
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  Speaker 3: to do a podcast. So when I started my podcast,
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  Speaker 3: which is just Andrea Giovino on YouTube. I it's all
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  Speaker 3: crime because that's basically what I know is crime anything crime.
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  Speaker 3: You know, when the FEDS arrested me, they said, if
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  Speaker 3: you press any letter in the dictionary, she'll tell you
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  Speaker 3: everything about you know, whether it's robbery or extortion.
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  Speaker 2: Or and what you started reading up on it. And
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  Speaker 2: that's no.
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  Speaker 3: No, I was involved in because I was involved in what.
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  Speaker 4: You become well, I mean you once you start getting
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  Speaker 4: charged with things, you start to learn the law.
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  Speaker 3: And well I learned the law. But when I was
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  Speaker 3: arrested with twenty two guys, my husband at the time
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  Speaker 3: was already incostly rated doing eight years, and I was
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  Speaker 3: arrested with my brother and other people. But I never
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  Speaker 3: had to how long were you in jail for?
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  Speaker 2: Were you in jail?
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  Speaker 3: I was arrested at Cadman Plaza, So I spent like
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  Speaker 3: a night overnight.
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  Speaker 2: So that you aren't you didn't.
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  Speaker 3: I didn't have to do time because what happened was
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  Speaker 3: they really didn't want me. They wanted my husband. They
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  Speaker 3: wanted because they were Yeah, there were a lot of
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  Speaker 3: murders involved. So my husband at the time and my
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  Speaker 3: brother cooperated and in release, to release me from the kids.
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  Speaker 3: So they cooperated so that they will get so then
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  Speaker 3: I can what they do. That's what they do. So
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  Speaker 3: I was arrested and I had four small kids at
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  Speaker 3: the time.
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  Speaker 4: So so they want to get somebody, so they don't
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  Speaker 4: cast now they're going ton't ask somebody.
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  Speaker 3: To get They don't. They don't really care.
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  Speaker 2: They probably didn't really care about it.
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  Speaker 3: They didn't care.
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  Speaker 4: Want to press on you to get and they got
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  Speaker 4: what they wanted and they didn't want what they're doing.
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  Speaker 3: I mean, I never they're smart.
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  Speaker 2: No, you're never.
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  Speaker 3: It's smarting them not not.
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  Speaker 2: No, because they know what they're doing and they already
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  Speaker 2: know everything.
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  Speaker 3: They know it all, you know. I always say, because
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  Speaker 3: they also did a show about the whole P. Diddy stuff,
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  Speaker 3: And I always say when the Feds come, they know everything,
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  Speaker 3: not that they just know everything. They have a solid case.
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  Speaker 2: Yes, they're not going to come in.
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  Speaker 3: They don't, they don't lose. It's like ninety five percent.
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  Speaker 3: They have a solid case against you. Yes, you could
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  Speaker 3: pay your attorney millions of dollars, but I mean I
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  Speaker 3: know a lot of people that paid hundreds of dollars
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  Speaker 3: and they don't get out so when the Feds come,
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  Speaker 3: you're in trouble. That's it, You're in trouble.
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  Speaker 2: They have a case built already before they go there.
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  Speaker 3: They know everything.
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  Speaker 4: My husband wasn't cost rat. He was arrested. He was
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  Speaker 4: arrested with eighty seven people that morning. So when we
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  Speaker 4: walked into the courtroom they had stacks.
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  Speaker 2: I mean, this was being built for years when they
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  Speaker 2: got in.
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  Speaker 4: Then they're not going to come and arrest that many
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  Speaker 4: people unless they have a solid case they want anything,
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  Speaker 4: because they're not further, They're not gonna be fulls out
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  Speaker 4: of themselves.
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  Speaker 2: They're not going to waste time.
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  Speaker 4: No, it's and unless they do get a collar and
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  Speaker 4: be able to make it stick, they're not.
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  Speaker 2: They're not going through all that.
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  Speaker 3: No. And like I'm from the streets, so like there
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  Speaker 3: was nothing.
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  Speaker 2: That not what's the inevitability.
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  Speaker 3: It's it's like yeah for me, like nothing scares me.
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  Speaker 3: I've just always been that way. I'm a lady all
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  Speaker 3: the way. But like, don't poke a tiger because you'll
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  Speaker 3: see a whole different side of me.
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  Speaker 2: I could.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah. And then with that, even with when I started
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  Speaker 3: my podcast, I got a lot a lot of negativity
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  Speaker 3: from the male genre because I'm the only female right
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  Speaker 3: now doing a podcast on crime. There is nobody else
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  Speaker 3: doing it. So I got a lot of bashing, you know,
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  Speaker 3: until I held my own and until I was on
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  Speaker 3: somebody else's podcast. And I got a call from federal
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  Speaker 3: prison from Mack Wrider while I was doing a podcast,
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  Speaker 3: and I said, Hey, Mark, I'm doing a podcast for you.
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  Speaker 3: I was on John Livia and he does crime also
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  Speaker 3: at a Staten Island and he's I said, hey, Mark,
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  Speaker 3: I'm doing a podcast right now. I said, but people
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  Speaker 3: are questioning my integrity about who I knew. No. Originally,
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  Speaker 3: originally I think he was. Yes, So I said, he flipped. No, no, no, no,
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  Speaker 3: he did thirty seven years in prison. No, he never
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  Speaker 3: got out. He never flipped.
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  Speaker 2: He went because he killed somebody. That's what he wanted
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  Speaker 2: to know.
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  Speaker 3: He went to jail because he was a major heroin trafficker.
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  Speaker 2: So that's the Yeah, yeah, Mark, Yeah.
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  Speaker 3: So Mark, as he's talking to me from Allenwood Federal Prison,
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  Speaker 3: which is being taped, he says, who wants to know
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  Speaker 3: you were in the streets? Yeah, everybody respected you, you know,
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  Speaker 3: And he's saying this, and then after that came out
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  Speaker 3: that yes, she was in the streets. Everyone respected her.
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  Speaker 3: John got he knew her very well. All these eyes
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  Speaker 3: knew her very well. Then it all toned down because
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  Speaker 3: you had all these younger thugs that was saying, we
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  Speaker 3: don't know who is she. Yeah, you don't know me
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  Speaker 3: because you weren't with these people.
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  Speaker 4: You're you're in different exactly.
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  Speaker 3: Of course you don't know me, and I won't know
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  Speaker 3: you either. Truthfully, you're not supposed to know me. Your
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  Speaker 3: name shouldn't even be out there. If you're in the streets,
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  Speaker 3: you don't want your name out bare. So but now
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  Speaker 3: you know everything. My podcast grows every day, So it's great,
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  Speaker 3: you know, because it's the it's a woman's point of view,
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  Speaker 3: you know, And.
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  Speaker 2: Do you enjoy doing it?
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  Speaker 3: I do want. I have some really great Yes, you'll
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  Speaker 3: have to come on.
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  Speaker 4: You have to come on my my story.
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  Speaker 3: Yes, well that basically I'd love for you to talk
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  Speaker 3: about that.
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  Speaker 2: Twice went away.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, unfortunate. I know I went through that, and
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  Speaker 3: I was just saying to my son on the way.
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  Speaker 4: We do the talk, I think the women more than
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  Speaker 4: the menzoes a lot of times because we're stuck out
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  Speaker 4: here there and there they're's working out every day.
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  Speaker 3: You know. It's so funny because that's why I really
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  Speaker 3: did go out on the streets, because I had no
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  Speaker 3: formal education and the only thing I did know was
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  Speaker 3: the streets. So I put money out on the streets
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  Speaker 3: and I was lending out money like launch sharking, and
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  Speaker 3: then from that it went into lending money to big
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  Speaker 3: drug deals like I'd front the money for them, and
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  Speaker 3: then I got arrested for that. So it was I
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  Speaker 3: was arrested on a Rico. So when I got arrested
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  Speaker 3: on Rico, I was charged with everything else they were
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  Speaker 3: being charged with.
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  Speaker 4: What do she explain to everybody what a Rico crime is? God,
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  Speaker 4: just just give a quick synopsis.
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  Speaker 3: Of what it is. A Rico crime is was basically,
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  Speaker 3: I feel made for the Italians, you know, put that
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  Speaker 3: in place. And so if you're on if you're on
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  Speaker 3: my case, and yes, and you did murders and I'm
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  Speaker 3: just getting arrested for loan shocking Rico, I'm getting charged
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  Speaker 3: with what you're getting charged anything you did anything else
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  Speaker 3: the twenty two guys did.
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  Speaker 2: You're guilty by that.
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  Speaker 3: It's all enterprise.
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  Speaker 4: It's an enterprise, right, So it's an organized crime enterprise.
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  Speaker 4: So it's made for the Italians.
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  Speaker 5: Right, right, So I think it got racketeering, extortion, it's
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  Speaker 5: every coersion everything, well, whatever it is, it's something like that.
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  Speaker 4: That's what That's what my ex husband went to for
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  Speaker 4: recal charge. So yeah, it's every Italian, every Italian, I
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  Speaker 4: swear they get that.
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  Speaker 3: But basically that happened, you know, because that's all I
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  Speaker 3: knew what to do, is you know, know, how to
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  Speaker 3: maneuver and make money and stuff like that. But and
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  Speaker 3: then later on, you know, I gave him a second chance.
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  Speaker 3: He came out of prison, my husband sounds like my story,
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  Speaker 3: and then it did. He didn't change. He never changed.
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  Speaker 3: And people don't change, they just they just don't. Not
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  Speaker 3: not that type of personality.
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  Speaker 2: Their personnel is a very very narcissistic.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah, personality narcissisistic. And you know it's always the.
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  Speaker 2: Everybody else's fault.
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  Speaker 4: They did the guest lighting, the gas lighting, the all
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  Speaker 4: of that, all the whole thing, and they are stereotypical sociopaths, narcissists.
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  Speaker 2: So I just associated, like you said.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah, So, I you know, wrote a book once I
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  Speaker 3: wrote the book Divorced from the Mob, that was. It
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  Speaker 3: came out in two thousand and four, I did a
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  Speaker 3: whole media blast. I was on sixty minutes. I was
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  Speaker 3: on the view with all the women I know. You know,
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  Speaker 3: it's funny when I was asked to be on the view,
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  Speaker 3: Barbara Walters was on and well that was the view.
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  Speaker 3: That was that was the view. And then now they're
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  Speaker 3: too political. They yeah, too much for me much. The
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  Speaker 3: producer had called me before.
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  Speaker 4: And was just hurting them they should stop with the politics.
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  Speaker 4: Doing the entertainment.
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  Speaker 2: Forgot about the politics.
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  Speaker 3: Well, so the producer had called me the day before
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  Speaker 3: to give me a list of questions before I did
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  Speaker 3: the view, and because we had another hit show at
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  Speaker 3: the time called I Married a Mobster and my show
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  Speaker 3: came in highest rating of all the shows. So I
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  Speaker 3: said the producer, I said, no, I don't. I don't
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  Speaker 3: need a list. I said, I go right off the cuff.
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  Speaker 3: There's nothing about me that's fake. What you see is
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  Speaker 3: what you get. I said, But I will tell you
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  Speaker 3: something if any one of those women try to poke me,
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  Speaker 3: I said, I'm going to tell you now. Well, at
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  Speaker 3: the time it was talk soup. We'll be all over
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  Speaker 3: talk soup, I said, because I've done my research on
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  Speaker 3: each and every one of them. I'm no dummy coming on.
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  Speaker 3: When I went on, they were Sweetest Pie. It was
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  Speaker 3: Droy dehar it was Whoopy Goldberg. It was Barbara Barbara.
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  Speaker 2: Well Barber's a late. It was Alt.
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  Speaker 3: It was at the time, Elizabeth Hasselhall and Star Jones. Okay,
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  Speaker 3: and they were lovely. They were all lovely. That group
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  Speaker 3: was lovely. They weren't what it is.
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  Speaker 4: She she was on the case with what my husband
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  Speaker 4: was indeed, and when he was sixteen, I'll tell.
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  Speaker 2: You about that, Okay, Yeah, but this was three times
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  Speaker 2: it was.
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  Speaker 3: So I was like, yeah, because I knew at the
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  Speaker 3: time even then, like they made a couple. I don't
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  Speaker 3: remember who it was. Women go wolf crimes and not me.
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  Speaker 3: I'm telling you right now, I'll go right back at you.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah.
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  Speaker 3: So it when it went beautiful.
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  Speaker 4: Yeah, because they know they're not gonna they're gonna have
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  Speaker 4: an answer and you're gonna go yes, yes, And now
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  Speaker 4: they'll just.
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  Speaker 2: Scream over you now because that's all they do is
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  Speaker 2: scream over people.
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  Speaker 3: I think the show has really got plumbing.
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  Speaker 4: People don't watch anybody, you know what it's become. You
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  Speaker 4: know what six entertainment. Well, you're not an expert and
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  Speaker 4: not telling people what to think. But politics stop.
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  Speaker 3: Like either is that I have lost a lot of
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  Speaker 3: followers and friends from political views. I don't. I don't
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  Speaker 3: feel that if you tell me who you're voting for,
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  Speaker 3: I'm not going to be mad at you. I'm not
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  Speaker 3: going to not be your friends. That's what it should be.
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  Speaker 3: It should be that.
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  Speaker 4: And you shouldn't avoid phocals because you think I'm gonna
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  Speaker 4: say something to you.
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  Speaker 2: And I wouldn't do that.
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  Speaker 3: But that's okay. Maybe he maybe for on his point,
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  Speaker 3: but he did that for a reason. But what I'm saying,
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  Speaker 3: you don't burn a relationship.
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  Speaker 2: No, it's ridiculous.
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  Speaker 3: It's what your political view is.
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  Speaker 2: But that's what it's become now.
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  Speaker 3: If the political view was totally opposite from what my
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  Speaker 3: view was and they won, I would not be mad.
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  Speaker 3: I would say, okay, then this is it. My whole
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  Speaker 3: thing of what I feel is whatever is best for
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  Speaker 3: the country, absolutely what the country? Can you know? Men
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  Speaker 3: together and come and unite together. Not that I'm going
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  Speaker 3: to be upset with you.
• 16:59
  Speaker 4: I'll go after the person and try to hurt them.
• 17:03
  Speaker 3: And no, I've gotten but I don't respond to it
• 17:07
  Speaker 3: because I'm not gonna lower myself. I'm gonna explain to
• 17:09
  Speaker 3: you what I know.
• 17:10
  Speaker 4: I believe you know what my thing is is as
• 17:13
  Speaker 4: far as that and I and I don't.
• 17:15
  Speaker 2: I don't like to get political on this show. I am.
• 17:19
  Speaker 2: I am in the middle, and I'm for common sense.
• 17:21
  Speaker 4: And if something is telling me that common sense wise
• 17:25
  Speaker 4: it's not right, I'm not doing it. I don't care
• 17:29
  Speaker 4: if they don't if they look like me, if they're
• 17:31
  Speaker 4: a woman, if this. I'm not voting for somebody based
• 17:33
  Speaker 4: on gender. I'm not voting for somebody based on race.
• 17:36
  Speaker 4: I'm voting for somebody because they're qualified for the job
• 17:39
  Speaker 4: and I feel like they're going to get things done.
• 17:41
  Speaker 4: I worry about my family, and at the end of
• 17:43
  Speaker 4: the day, that's.
• 17:44
  Speaker 2: All I care about.
• 17:45
  Speaker 3: Yeah, and I have grants and economics, and I worry
• 17:48
  Speaker 3: about the economy. I worry about our safety with other countries, Yes,
• 17:52
  Speaker 3: which was a big issue for me.
• 17:54
  Speaker 2: Absolutely, I worry.
• 17:55
  Speaker 4: But the nurse who got did you hear the record
• 17:57
  Speaker 4: about the nurse who got raped by the migrant came
• 18:00
  Speaker 4: in and she was screaming for her life, and you
• 18:02
  Speaker 4: just heard them keep bashing.
• 18:03
  Speaker 2: A rock on a head.
• 18:04
  Speaker 3: Yeah, I've seen that.
• 18:05
  Speaker 4: And you're telling me that there's no there's no problem here.
• 18:09
  Speaker 3: No, there is a major, pro major problem.
• 18:11
  Speaker 2: You don't know any of these people that are coming through.
• 18:14
  Speaker 4: And listen where your parents were from.
• 18:17
  Speaker 3: We're from Italy. Come over, but come over and I
• 18:21
  Speaker 3: can tell you my son's here also in the audience.
• 18:24
  Speaker 3: I can tell you this, and my son's here. To doubt.
• 18:27
  Speaker 3: I have helped many, many people. I've taken them in
• 18:30
  Speaker 3: my home from other countries that come here on these
• 18:34
  Speaker 3: or help raise their children, help help them in every
• 18:38
  Speaker 3: way I can. But come legally, Yes, come legal, don't
• 18:42
  Speaker 3: come illegally. I'm the first one to say absolutely, I
• 18:46
  Speaker 3: want to help you.
• 18:47
  Speaker 5: I don't see how.
• 18:48
  Speaker 2: You take that on.
• 18:49
  Speaker 4: Now do all these other people that cry to want them,
• 18:51
  Speaker 4: well here, why don't you if you want them, and
• 18:53
  Speaker 4: why don't you take them on.
• 18:55
  Speaker 3: I've taken them on to.
• 18:59
  Speaker 4: And you take them into your house and bring them
• 19:02
  Speaker 4: in and you and you sponsor them.
• 19:05
  Speaker 2: Just want them everybody to come in.
• 19:06
  Speaker 3: And that's promoted her as a cleaner and her husband
• 19:10
  Speaker 3: and working for off family and then another family. I
• 19:13
  Speaker 3: helped raise their little girl because I have a nice
• 19:16
  Speaker 3: property and the kid would come from one and a
• 19:19
  Speaker 3: half till I still speak to her. She just graduated college.
• 19:23
  Speaker 4: It's about but legally, don't come here because you want
• 19:26
  Speaker 4: free stuff. Not come here because you have other things.
• 19:29
  Speaker 3: You come in as a major criminal and start hurting.
• 19:34
  Speaker 4: People's hurting people here.
• 19:36
  Speaker 2: Now that's not it's not right.
• 19:38
  Speaker 3: I'm not There was many many reasons that it didn't
• 19:41
  Speaker 3: work for me.
• 19:42
  Speaker 4: No, and I agree with that, And it was the safety.
• 19:44
  Speaker 4: It was that I mean for me was the countries.
• 19:47
  Speaker 4: You know, the countries that we're dealing with. I mean,
• 19:49
  Speaker 4: you're dealing with these crazy people.
• 19:51
  Speaker 2: Huh, you know that.
• 19:53
  Speaker 1: You know.
• 19:53
  Speaker 4: That's just what it is. And I like, I say
• 19:55
  Speaker 4: it like this, and I don't like. I'm gonna say again,
• 19:57
  Speaker 4: I'm not gonna I don't like really too much politics. Yeah,
• 20:00
  Speaker 4: it's common sense and that's it, and that's it. I'm
• 20:02
  Speaker 4: going to do for what I feel is right. And
• 20:04
  Speaker 4: at this point now, if I feel what's right is
• 20:06
  Speaker 4: right right, if somebody's gonna get angry at me because
• 20:09
  Speaker 4: that's the way I feel, No, it shouldn't have to
• 20:11
  Speaker 4: worry about your feelings. That to make sure I get
• 20:13
  Speaker 4: your pronouns right, but you're not gonna get upset.
• 20:16
  Speaker 3: With you if I shouldn't be. I'm a big supporter
• 20:18
  Speaker 3: of women in general. I love to support women. I
• 20:22
  Speaker 3: love to help another woman. I probably would not want
• 20:25
  Speaker 3: to be do a reality show. And that's why I
• 20:27
  Speaker 3: always do documentaries because it's really true crime.
• 20:30
  Speaker 2: Because you want to like to bash all the way.
• 20:33
  Speaker 3: I don't want to do that. I'm not gonna do
• 20:35
  Speaker 3: that for about I'm just not no. I feel like
• 20:37
  Speaker 3: I'm up here. I'm a practicing Catholic. My my morals
• 20:41
  Speaker 3: and and my.
• 20:43
  Speaker 2: Well you know that that's not fashionable too.
• 20:46
  Speaker 3: Well, practice Catholical Christian, you get. I'm in church all
• 20:52
  Speaker 3: the time, and I'm very close to my church. I'm
• 20:55
  Speaker 3: very close to the Lord. I'm not going to go
• 20:58
  Speaker 3: ahead and go just bash somebody and abuse them for money.
• 21:01
  Speaker 3: That's just not me. I'm not going to do that.
• 21:04
  Speaker 3: I just have too much integrity for that. And I
• 21:08
  Speaker 3: think a lot of that. It's sad to me. I
• 21:11
  Speaker 3: don't watch the reality because I don't like to see
• 21:14
  Speaker 3: women doing that to each other. Well, you know what,
• 21:16
  Speaker 3: it's not something I want to see.
• 21:18
  Speaker 2: On And this is my problem with, especially even with
• 21:21
  Speaker 2: the new feminists. Now.
• 21:22
  Speaker 4: You know, I'm a feminist, I'm full women, but I'm
• 21:25
  Speaker 4: not for women acting like men.
• 21:27
  Speaker 2: We're not men. No, we're not now be a woman, to.
• 21:31
  Speaker 4: Be proud to be a woman, because we are different
• 21:34
  Speaker 4: and we should be held on a pedestal.
• 21:36
  Speaker 2: I still want my door open for me, not because
• 21:38
  Speaker 2: I respect exactly, that's a respect thing.
• 21:42
  Speaker 3: Exactly.
• 21:43
  Speaker 2: Helped me out of a car.
• 21:44
  Speaker 4: I'll take my hand, not because I oh, I don't know,
• 21:48
  Speaker 4: because it's respect.
• 21:50
  Speaker 3: It's a word. And I think chivalry doesn't exist anymore now.
• 21:54
  Speaker 2: And it's not right.
• 21:55
  Speaker 4: And and this is where these new feminists have I
• 21:58
  Speaker 4: have a problem with, because now they're making it that
• 22:01
  Speaker 4: women now are marrying weak men and they're having problems
• 22:05
  Speaker 4: in their.
• 22:05
  Speaker 2: Relationships because you do need a strong man. I am sorry.
• 22:09
  Speaker 2: You cannot have a man who's not strong. No, and
• 22:12
  Speaker 2: these these these men today are not.
• 22:14
  Speaker 4: And I'm thanking God that I kind of see the
• 22:16
  Speaker 4: tide shifting a little bit.
• 22:18
  Speaker 2: We need strong men, we do to build a family.
• 22:21
  Speaker 3: Just having this conversation that I've been single for a
• 22:25
  Speaker 3: long time, I get many men that like to take
• 22:28
  Speaker 3: me out always, you know, and I'm comfortable in my skin.
• 22:33
  Speaker 4: I feel, are you okay if you never found somebody again?
• 22:38
  Speaker 3: And we decided to And you know why because because
• 22:41
  Speaker 3: I have a full life. I have a beautiful family.
• 22:45
  Speaker 3: I'm very busy with my kids. I have four kids,
• 22:47
  Speaker 3: three adult sons and one my daughter has three little babies,
• 22:51
  Speaker 3: so you're busy. I got my podcast. I have a
• 22:57
  Speaker 3: full life. So I've had three failed marriage. I mean,
• 23:01
  Speaker 3: I know what it is, you know, with marriages and
• 23:04
  Speaker 3: maybe five engagements. It's like, okay, it's not working. And
• 23:09
  Speaker 3: I think for me, to be honest, I have a
• 23:12
  Speaker 3: very strong personality. So it has to be a really there's.
• 23:17
  Speaker 4: Got to be a strong guy that can it can
• 23:19
  Speaker 4: handle me, but a strong guy and a sense of
• 23:21
  Speaker 4: his self esteem to die.
• 23:25
  Speaker 3: That's the difference.
• 23:26
  Speaker 2: Somebody who's got confidence, like hey.
• 23:29
  Speaker 3: I let her be who she is.
• 23:32
  Speaker 2: But sometimes you need that little person to say, hey
• 23:34
  Speaker 2: listen right.
• 23:36
  Speaker 3: But somebody that automatically is my nature is to cater
• 23:41
  Speaker 3: I can't everybody. It's like my kid, what do you
• 23:45
  Speaker 3: want to eat? What do you want? So I cater to.
• 23:47
  Speaker 4: That's the Italian thing, you know, That's just the way
• 23:50
  Speaker 4: Italian moms are that we can't take that.
• 23:52
  Speaker 3: That's that's genetic. So I just think that, you know
• 23:55
  Speaker 3: how my life is today, I'm not lonely. I live
• 23:59
  Speaker 3: in a beautiful home. I have I do have a husband.
• 24:02
  Speaker 3: It's my one hundred pound piple, you know, and and
• 24:06
  Speaker 3: uh he's there with me. And I just think.
• 24:10
  Speaker 2: That one and the kids still home with you, just
• 24:12
  Speaker 2: no one by.
• 24:13
  Speaker 3: Myself on a beautiful property, beautiful and the kids come
• 24:16
  Speaker 3: to me in the summer because I'm the one with
• 24:18
  Speaker 3: the pool. So it's it's it's nice. It's really You
• 24:23
  Speaker 3: enjoy your grandkids, and I enjoy my watch them. Yes,
• 24:28
  Speaker 3: not all the time, my daughter don't take advantage, but yeah,
• 24:30
  Speaker 3: if they want to go somewhere, me or the other
• 24:33
  Speaker 3: grandmom will watch.
• 24:33
  Speaker 4: Like that's the greatest part about being a grandparent. It's
• 24:36
  Speaker 4: like you could give them back, like all right or not.
• 24:38
  Speaker 3: But I let my little social circle of friends who
• 24:40
  Speaker 3: will go to dinner and go out and I have
• 24:42
  Speaker 3: guy friends, you know, but I don't.
• 24:45
  Speaker 2: So you have a you have a full you have
• 24:47
  Speaker 2: a full life, and you're okay.
• 24:48
  Speaker 3: At this point, Jen, I don't feel like I need
• 24:51
  Speaker 3: a significant other to make me happy. I'm happy. I'm
• 24:55
  Speaker 3: a happy person.
• 24:56
  Speaker 2: You know what.
• 24:56
  Speaker 4: You know, nobody needs anybody to if you need somebody
• 24:59
  Speaker 4: else to make you happy.
• 25:00
  Speaker 3: But you're not there, not happy, You're not going to be.
• 25:02
  Speaker 4: You have to be happy by yourself and being a
• 25:05
  Speaker 4: good relationship with you for us to be happy with something.
• 25:08
  Speaker 2: And that's what you learn as you get older.
• 25:10
  Speaker 3: I'm comfortable in my skin. You know. If you don't
• 25:12
  Speaker 3: like me, that's okay too.
• 25:13
  Speaker 4: And I feel the same way. I'm like, you know
• 25:15
  Speaker 4: what if I'm with somebody, with someone, if I'm not,
• 25:17
  Speaker 4: I'm not.
• 25:17
  Speaker 2: I'm okay. I'm okay. I can handle it.
• 25:20
  Speaker 4: And at the end of the day, it's it's hard
• 25:22
  Speaker 4: to be in a relationship with somebody. It's not easy,
• 25:25
  Speaker 4: especially in the beginning, like everything is so romantic and
• 25:28
  Speaker 4: so lustful. You know, everybody's like, how come it's that
• 25:31
  Speaker 4: romantic and all this all the time? I go because honestly,
• 25:34
  Speaker 4: that's not true.
• 25:35
  Speaker 2: That's not a true relationship.
• 25:36
  Speaker 4: When you start, Yes, that's hard, but you can never
• 25:39
  Speaker 4: sustain that every day that.
• 25:42
  Speaker 2: That oh my god, for.
• 25:45
  Speaker 3: Six months of the relationship is fake in a sense,
• 25:49
  Speaker 3: because each person is trying. It's lost trying to impress
• 25:53
  Speaker 3: one another. So the first hand on the knees exciting
• 25:57
  Speaker 3: the first case, well, everything excite, Everything is exciting. But
• 26:00
  Speaker 3: after six months then you'll get to know who.
• 26:02
  Speaker 2: They get your hand off my kney, You annoying me,
• 26:05
  Speaker 2: bla blah blah.
• 26:06
  Speaker 4: So but if you could be somebody's friend, friendship is
• 26:11
  Speaker 4: that's where I find now as I'm getting older.
• 26:13
  Speaker 3: Friendship.
• 26:14
  Speaker 2: I forget about the physical attraction. It's a friendship. I said.
• 26:18
  Speaker 2: I wish I was gad because I would totally marry
• 26:20
  Speaker 2: like somebody like you.
• 26:21
  Speaker 4: I would be like, exactly, I'm just I can't do it,
• 26:25
  Speaker 4: no matter how hard I've tried. And you know what
• 26:27
  Speaker 4: I in the past, everybody, I just can't.
• 26:31
  Speaker 3: I like, sorry, culture, we both know the culture. It's
• 26:35
  Speaker 3: the Italian culture. It's the same.
• 26:37
  Speaker 4: And but I would I would totally marry someone like
• 26:40
  Speaker 4: you if I If I did, I would know except
• 26:43
  Speaker 4: that nice.
• 26:44
  Speaker 2: When you marry me, I propose, yes, Except because my
• 26:52
  Speaker 2: last name is Guccio.
• 26:57
  Speaker 3: I love her all right, Okay, so that's it. We're connected.
• 27:04
  Speaker 4: So Giovanna, Giovino, Giovanna, I would say that, well Giovanno.
• 27:09
  Speaker 3: Okayvin, whatever you know, I love it so, I believe
• 27:16
  Speaker 3: for even younger women there. I think even for young
• 27:21
  Speaker 3: women watching. It's that when you really get to a
• 27:25
  Speaker 3: point of being comfortable in your skin, like really comfortable
• 27:29
  Speaker 3: in your skin, you don't care about anything.
• 27:31
  Speaker 2: It's well, you're comfortable in your skin.
• 27:32
  Speaker 4: I wasn't comfortable good until I was in my forties, honestly, Iroba.
• 27:36
  Speaker 3: Believe fifty probably fifties, you become really comfortable with who
• 27:40
  Speaker 3: you are. Right now, I'm so like, like I don't care.
• 27:42
  Speaker 3: It's like like you, I get invited to a lot
• 27:46
  Speaker 3: of events. I pick and choose what I want to
• 27:48
  Speaker 3: go to and where I'm going, and I want to
• 27:51
  Speaker 3: be comfortable. Sometimes I'll get dressed and sometimes I'll wear
• 27:54
  Speaker 3: a pair of sneakers. You know, it depends on you know,
• 27:57
  Speaker 3: where I'm going and how I feel and not caring.
• 28:02
  Speaker 3: You know. It's that when you really like who you are,
• 28:05
  Speaker 3: you develop and you develop into who you you know
• 28:09
  Speaker 3: supposed to be sure.
• 28:10
  Speaker 4: And now I find myself picking and choosing where I
• 28:12
  Speaker 4: want to go because I'm not always like running to
• 28:14
  Speaker 4: everything that everybody.
• 28:15
  Speaker 3: I said, yeah, because I have to come in from PA.
• 28:17
  Speaker 3: I'm in b County and it's about an hour and
• 28:19
  Speaker 3: a half an hour and forty five, so I pick
• 28:22
  Speaker 3: and choose what invent I want.
• 28:24
  Speaker 4: It takes me an hour to get here from Queens
• 28:25
  Speaker 4: also from our beach to taste.
• 28:27
  Speaker 3: So are you familiar with Bucks County? Did you ever
• 28:30
  Speaker 3: go New Hope? Yes?
• 28:31
  Speaker 4: I never want to see Pennsylvania. You were again to
• 28:34
  Speaker 4: go into allan Wood all those.
• 28:36
  Speaker 3: Years Now it's no way at that. No, no, but
• 28:39
  Speaker 3: I do no Bucks, I did. Bucks County is a beautiful,
• 28:41
  Speaker 3: beautiful are It's actually beautiful this time of year.
• 28:43
  Speaker 4: I did like I did, like the outlets stole over there. Okay, yeah,
• 28:47
  Speaker 4: I just spent thousands and thousands of dollars of the trip.
• 28:49
  Speaker 2: Oh my god, let's go to the out let's. Yeah,
• 28:52
  Speaker 2: that was the best.
• 28:53
  Speaker 3: It's timing here like Christmas time. There's an area called
• 28:55
  Speaker 3: Peddler's Village. You still look it up. It's absolutely no.
• 28:57
  Speaker 3: But I've heard books, they film, they feel. There's several
• 29:00
  Speaker 3: movies for homemark there. That's how beautiful it is.
• 29:04
  Speaker 4: Well, I love to come up you could I all
• 29:06
  Speaker 4: come to Pennsylvania for you? I swear to God, I
• 29:09
  Speaker 4: would never drive to Pennsylvania.
• 29:10
  Speaker 2: I could.
• 29:12
  Speaker 3: I have two guest rooms. You could stay, you could
• 29:14
  Speaker 3: stay over. I'll show you all around anybody animal. I
• 29:18
  Speaker 3: have a big piple, but he's.
• 29:20
  Speaker 2: A mush I love, but I love Piple.
• 29:22
  Speaker 3: I'll show you he's such a mush that you would
• 29:26
  Speaker 3: love them. What's his name, Casper? He's old white. I
• 29:28
  Speaker 3: love it. My purple died, Yeah, she died with the
• 29:32
  Speaker 3: well mine died, and then I got this one, so
• 29:35
  Speaker 3: I love him.
• 29:36
  Speaker 4: I can't believe somebody called me to asked me if
• 29:37
  Speaker 4: I wanted a poodle just now.
• 29:38
  Speaker 2: Now I'm not a pool. I was like, why would
• 29:41
  Speaker 2: think I would want a poodle? Do I look like
• 29:42
  Speaker 2: I want a poodle?
• 29:43
  Speaker 4: No?
• 29:43
  Speaker 3: Yeah, I'm not a poodle. So yeah, basically like life
• 29:48
  Speaker 3: is good. I always thank Jesus. I always thank God
• 29:51
  Speaker 3: because I feel grateful today for health and all you know,
• 29:55
  Speaker 3: just to be healthy and to feel good.
• 29:58
  Speaker 2: And how old are you?
• 29:59
  Speaker 3: If you don't my me asking, I am sixty eight,
• 30:02
  Speaker 3: I'll be amazing.
• 30:03
  Speaker 2: Wow, yeah you don't look it. Thank you look amazing.
• 30:07
  Speaker 2: You look so good.
• 30:09
  Speaker 3: I'm very into health and.
• 30:12
  Speaker 2: Villas in both.
• 30:12
  Speaker 3: I never did it, got a common I've never done it.
• 30:15
  Speaker 2: You would love her, and it's just a little fresh.
• 30:19
  Speaker 2: I've never I love it.
• 30:22
  Speaker 3: It's just a little but I do. I've always done
• 30:26
  Speaker 3: yoga for like thirty five years now. I walk everything,
• 30:29
  Speaker 3: or you do the hot yoga, no, sa sasa, whatever
• 30:34
  Speaker 3: it's called. I do that. I do yoga, I do walking,
• 30:36
  Speaker 3: I do lightweight. I eat well, you look, I look amazed. Smoked.
• 30:42
  Speaker 3: I never drank. I never drank. I never got drunk.
• 30:44
  Speaker 2: Even when you were doing all this ship on.
• 30:46
  Speaker 3: The street, you never drunk, never did drugs.
• 30:49
  Speaker 2: That's why.
• 30:49
  Speaker 3: That's why. Yeah, I always had a sharp.
• 30:52
  Speaker 4: You know who else didn't do drink or smoke with
• 30:54
  Speaker 4: your drugs, and that's why it's so successful.
• 30:57
  Speaker 2: Friend Donald too, you know that.
• 31:00
  Speaker 3: Oh I didn't know that. Yeah, okay, yeah, never did
• 31:02
  Speaker 3: any of that. Never got drunk, never did drugs, never
• 31:04
  Speaker 3: did anything. And that's not saying I didn't pick up
• 31:11
  Speaker 3: drug addicts to try to fix them.
• 31:14
  Speaker 4: Yes, but well you're the fixer. I was the fix
• 31:17
  Speaker 4: You're the fixer. So that was that was that was
• 31:20
  Speaker 4: that was your role.
• 31:21
  Speaker 2: So I feel like you still try to fix people now.
• 31:24
  Speaker 3: No, I don't have you put that. Nah, I know
• 31:26
  Speaker 3: better now. I've had a lot of like therapy within
• 31:29
  Speaker 3: myself and learned a lot about codependency and you know,
• 31:33
  Speaker 3: character defects and just people, you know, insecurities and stuff. No,
• 31:37
  Speaker 3: I'm pretty good with red flags. I can see if
• 31:41
  Speaker 3: this guy is you know, just not for me, or truthfully,
• 31:44
  Speaker 3: if he's a bushit artist. No, you know, I could
• 31:48
  Speaker 3: see by their behaviors, their their mannerisms, how they carry themselves.
• 31:54
  Speaker 3: My friends call me the PhD. Without the PhD. You know,
• 32:00
  Speaker 3: you have the school of hot Moss because I have
• 32:02
  Speaker 3: so much knowledge to people and stuff like that.
• 32:06
  Speaker 4: And I don't because she never really went to college
• 32:09
  Speaker 4: because we used to didn't go to high school.
• 32:11
  Speaker 3: I haven't. I didn't even go to high school.
• 32:13
  Speaker 4: But but it's funny we used to say was when
• 32:15
  Speaker 4: we said on another podcast, is that when they when
• 32:17
  Speaker 4: we used to go away, we say they went to college.
• 32:19
  Speaker 4: I used to say that army, that prison, and I said,
• 32:22
  Speaker 4: that's president. And I said, I would never said my
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  Speaker 4: uncle went to college, because they would because uncle.
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  Speaker 2: You know college.
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  Speaker 4: I say it was in the army, not the college,
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  Speaker 4: because he was too dumb, so they would never be.
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  Speaker 2: But it's so, you know, you I don't.
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  Speaker 4: I think that it doesn't matter the most successful people
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  Speaker 4: in the world. Never doesn't have a high school diploma.
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  Speaker 4: Look the mob, sucker bar look at look at all
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  Speaker 4: these billions.
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  Speaker 3: And then people said, oh no, you'll never be in author.
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  Speaker 3: Well I had a big house publisher, do a hord College.
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  Speaker 4: Doesn't mean that you're ignorant. What people years ago didn't
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  Speaker 4: have formal educations? By g dropped out and not when
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  Speaker 4: she was nine years old from school.
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  Speaker 3: Okay, so that's fifth grade, right.
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  Speaker 4: And she was brilliant. She read every day I read
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  Speaker 4: and and she.
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  Speaker 3: And that self educated self educated aside, Like I said,
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  Speaker 3: I could speak and hold my own with anyone three languages.
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  Speaker 4: You know, I can't be that stupid exactly. It's not
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  Speaker 4: about the formal education. It's about you know, you know
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  Speaker 4: the person.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah, it's about getting out there and doing and you know,
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  Speaker 3: being again comfortable and knowing who you're speaking.
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  Speaker 4: I know a lot of educated idiots, do you know?
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  Speaker 3: Yes, of course I do. Yes, that will educated more wrong?
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  Speaker 4: You like, how did this person get here? Like I
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  Speaker 4: don't even know how? Right, I look at them in astonishment. Right, Yes,
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  Speaker 4: that's it's true. But see and and I bet you
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  Speaker 4: did you ever get that? Sometimes that like they would
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  Speaker 4: look at you because you didn't have a formal education
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  Speaker 4: and get you.
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  Speaker 3: Was speaking engagement. People admire that because I say I'm
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  Speaker 3: not you know, I have if I have a seventh
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  Speaker 3: grade education, and I can get up here, and I've
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  Speaker 3: done so much in my life and accomplished so much
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  Speaker 3: in my life, there's no reason why you people can't.
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  Speaker 3: You know, it's a motivation. It's getting out there, feeling comfortable,
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  Speaker 3: not having anyone make you feel insecure. You know, if
• 34:18
  Speaker 3: I can't get through the front door, I'm going to
• 34:20
  Speaker 3: go to the back door. If I can't go to
• 34:21
  Speaker 3: the back door, I'm going to go through the window.
• 34:23
  Speaker 3: I get my stuff done. And now I am actually
• 34:27
  Speaker 3: working with some producers because to get my life story
• 34:30
  Speaker 3: out there. So for more of a series series of
• 34:36
  Speaker 3: my life story, we have, but it's it's it's more
• 34:41
  Speaker 3: for like a bigger network, like it's either like for
• 34:45
  Speaker 3: Netflix kind of, but yeah, because Netflix just loved that.
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  Speaker 3: When I did Netflix, you know, everyone was asking who's
• 34:54
  Speaker 3: the woman with the pink jacket because I had this
• 34:56
  Speaker 3: pink blazer on and a lot of the magazines actually
• 35:00
  Speaker 3: have something coming out that I just did in Italy
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  Speaker 3: for Ray TV. Uh, it's RII. It's a big thing
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  Speaker 3: over in Italy. I did a small documentary for them
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  Speaker 3: and I'm doing the London Times. I've done stuff all
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  Speaker 3: over the world, all over the world, but all upscale,
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  Speaker 3: you know, everything of honesty, upscale, helping people, helping women
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  Speaker 3: not to go down the road I went down, and
• 35:25
  Speaker 3: to really change their life and not pick the bad guy.
• 35:29
  Speaker 3: Because if the bad boys, good looking and old, don't
• 35:31
  Speaker 3: go with that, do.
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  Speaker 2: You have to? You know, it's so true that we
• 35:35
  Speaker 2: always run for that.
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  Speaker 4: Yeah, where are products of what happens?
• 35:40
  Speaker 3: I say that on that swag guy. Yeah, I talk
• 35:43
  Speaker 3: about that on my podcast and.
• 35:46
  Speaker 4: We do love that swag I can't say that we don't.
• 35:48
  Speaker 4: It's you know, it is charming.
• 35:51
  Speaker 2: But again, sociopaths, yes, narcissists, Yah're all charming? Yes right, yes, Well, Andrea,
• 35:57
  Speaker 2: let me tell you something.
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  Speaker 4: You are an amazing lady. You have a great story.
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  Speaker 4: I love talking to you. I would love to have
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  Speaker 4: you back on the show again. I love to come and.
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  Speaker 3: Do your show, come to my shirt.
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  Speaker 2: I love to do collab and do something with you.
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  Speaker 2: We would greatly.
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  Speaker 3: We have a chemistry you do, and we.
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  Speaker 4: Have a lot I feel like we're just talking to
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  Speaker 4: me about things that you went through.
• 36:19
  Speaker 2: I went through a lot of the same things you, like.
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  Speaker 3: You could feel the chemistry. It's and you don't really
• 36:25
  Speaker 3: get that with a lot of people, no.
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  Speaker 4: You know, but I feel that with you. And you're
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  Speaker 4: just You're You're a good egg. You got a good
• 36:32
  Speaker 4: you gotta good you got a good path, You've got
• 36:34
  Speaker 4: a good good aura there.
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  Speaker 3: Thank you, so happy to have you.
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  Speaker 4: Thank you, and please tell everybody where they can find
• 36:42
  Speaker 4: you about your podcast and what's coming up next for you.
• 36:45
  Speaker 3: So I'm on Instagram on Andrea Giovino. My podcast is
• 36:49
  Speaker 3: on YouTube at Andrea Giovino one. I have a lot
• 36:53
  Speaker 3: of things coming about as far as my life story
• 36:57
  Speaker 3: making it for the big screen. And I think you
• 37:00
  Speaker 3: hear a lot more about me.
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  Speaker 2: That's amazing.
• 37:03
  Speaker 3: And what about your podcast podcast? It's Andre Okay, yes
• 37:07
  Speaker 3: and anything.
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  Speaker 4: And the documentary about Gottietti is on Netflix that's called
• 37:13
  Speaker 4: Get Gotti.
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  Speaker 3: I mean, I've done a lot of documentary reels. Mafia
• 37:17
  Speaker 3: kills them in every one of them. I married a mobster.
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  Speaker 3: I've done that. That won an award with my segment.
• 37:24
  Speaker 3: That's how I got on the view.
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  Speaker 2: So you got a lot of stuff.
• 37:28
  Speaker 3: I have a lot. Yeah, I've done every show out there.
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  Speaker 4: Well, everybody look out for Angio. She's amazing and I'm
• 37:35
  Speaker 4: so happited to have you on today.
• 37:37
  Speaker 3: Thank you.
• 37:37
  Speaker 4: And for old school Italian cafe in the heart of Queens,
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  Speaker 4: best espresso, coffee, cappuccino, latte imported directly from Italy, Panini's
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  Speaker 4: delicious pastries, gelato, Doulce being Cafe and we'll have to
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  Speaker 4: invite you that one that may we'll do the podcast.
• 37:59
  Speaker 3: Out of the Yeah, that would be nice.
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  Speaker 2: Everybody, have a great day.
• 38:03
  Speaker 3: Thank you so much.
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  Speaker 2: That was good.
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  Speaker 4: That was