Latest / The Touch of a Mustang / From No Horse Experience to Training Mustangs Worldwide with Grace Thompson | Episode 69
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- 0:00We'll put you through college, whatever you want to do, but
- 0:02this is going to be really hard on your body.
- 0:04It's going to be really hard emotionally.
- 0:06It's a little bit lonely. And I was like, no, I want to do
- 0:09it. You can't go to college to be a
- 0:11horse trainer. You know, you have to get that
- 0:13real world experience and you have to work with people that
- 0:16understand how how you understand things that can teach
- 0:20you the way you can understand. Not everybody learns and teaches
- 0:25the same way. So sometimes you got to move
- 0:27around a little bit to find that good fit.
- 0:29I find the horses started at Liberty are a lot more confident
- 0:33once they understand that you are offering guidance, you're
- 0:36offering partnership, you're not trying to hurt them.
- 0:40The halter, all that other stuff comes really easy.
- 0:43She wants them as wild as possible.
- 0:45So most of the horses that I sent over there, we maybe can
- 0:50touch them like right between their eyes from in front of
- 0:53them. But generally they're they're
- 0:55wild when they get there. So we get them halter broke, you
- 1:00know, friendly at liberty, halter broke leading, loading
- 1:03and tying. They learn verbal cues.
- 1:06I had a horse that I taught to target my hand.
- 1:09Like he was so afraid of everything that like he could,
- 1:12but he could focus on one thing at a time.
- 1:14So I taught him like to target my hand and I could move my hand
- 1:17and his head would go that way. So that was interesting.
- 1:22So it's they basically are just gentle enough that we can lead
- 1:27them onto a trailer, off the trailer into a barn, and then
- 1:32back onto the trailer to the airport, into their little jet
- 1:36box containers. So it's three horses per
- 1:39container. When the trainers get them home
- 1:41in Germany, some of the trainers think they'll be able to get
- 1:44right up to them and pet them and touch them.
- 1:47No, they start over. A lot of these horses end up in
- 1:50just not good situations. If somebody doesn't care that
- 1:54they might end up in a kill pen or they might end up back and
- 1:57holding, or they might end up in an abusive home, somebody has to
- 2:02care. Somebody has to run in between
- 2:04for them. They're kind of a novelty there.
- 2:07The Europeans love the American West and John Wayne and wild
- 2:12horses. It's such a privilege to them to
- 2:15have one of our horses and we've lost that here.
- 2:17It's our dime a dozen. If you don't like the one you
- 2:19have, just get another one. Like it's so cool to work with
- 2:22people that really value them and see them the way that I see
- 2:25them. I have always had a passion and
- 2:30a soft spot for our veterans. I think that they are
- 2:35underappreciated and I'm taking they're not taking care of in
- 2:37our society. They're literally laying down
- 2:40their lives for our country and then ending up homeless and
- 2:44struggling with mental health and suicide.
- 2:48We're a military family. We're 5 generations military or
- 2:516 now, I think. My dad's a veteran, my grandpa's
- 2:55a veteran. I've got brothers in the Army
- 2:57and the National Guard. We are a military family.
- 3:00We support our veterans. So I think that horses really
- 3:04make a difference in people's mental health.
- 3:06I've seen it in my life and I don't have war trauma, but we
- 3:12all experience trauma in our lives and horses can heal that.
- 3:16Horses can make a difference. There are healers on this planet
- 3:21with the power to soften the suffering of mankind if they
- 3:25have remained in the recesses of the world, abused, discarded and
- 3:29labeled as trash. This is the touch of a Mustang.
- 3:33I am your host, Shalise Clough, and I'm here to tell the story
- 3:37of wild horses, Mustangs, and the humans who are discovering
- 3:41and sharing their gifts while working to protect their
- 3:43well-being and preserve their spirit so this divine power
- 3:48won't be lost. Join us on this quest with the
- 3:51Wild Mustang. Grace, thank you so much for
- 3:59being here at the Touch of a Mustang podcast.
- 4:02Thank you for having me. I'm super excited to chat with
- 4:04you and see what we get into today.
- 4:06Absolutely. Can you give everyone that is in
- 4:09the audience right now a quick introduction of yourself and
- 4:14tell us a little bit about what you do?
- 4:16I'm Grace Thompson. I am a 25 year old cult starter
- 4:20Mustang dentaler. I'm based out of East Tennessee
- 4:23and I work with mostly Mustangs, but also, you know, quarters and
- 4:27other breeds. I've competed in Mustang
- 4:30Makeover since I was 17. I think I did my first youth
- 4:34challenge and got hooked on that, did another youth
- 4:37challenge and then went adult. I've worked for lots of
- 4:41incredible trainers who have poured into me and helped make
- 4:44me the horseman that I am today. I work with some friends over in
- 4:50Europe who import the Mustangs for their own Mustang Makeover,
- 4:54so they do Mustang Makeover Germany.
- 4:56So I prep those horses for their flight and their journey to
- 4:59Europe. So that's really an interesting
- 5:02thing. And then I also have worked in
- 5:08New Zealand with a Kelly Wilson. Tell us about how you first got
- 5:12started or involved with horses. Where did that begin?
- 5:16Yeah. So I as a child, I wanted to
- 5:19train large marine life. I wanted to train orcas and
- 5:23dolphins and seals. That was, it was so fascinating
- 5:26to me, that predator to predator communication.
- 5:30But as I grew older and we moved further and further away from
- 5:34where that would be realistic for me, I started exploring
- 5:38other options and horses became the most viable large animal for
- 5:43me to work with. I knew nothing when I first
- 5:46started working with horses, Like clueless, no idea how to do
- 5:50body language. I could barely ride.
- 5:53And we worked with a trainer who lived up the road and was like,
- 5:56like these kids, you know, who taught us a lot of what we knew
- 6:01growing up. And then they got Mustangs in
- 6:06for the Mustang makeover. And I was so fascinated by him
- 6:11gentling these wild animals like they were totally wild.
- 6:15And I was like, I think, I think I can do that.
- 6:17As a kid, I was like, I can do that.
- 6:19So they meant for me through through my first makeover.
- 6:23They really, it wouldn't have been possible without their
- 6:27mentorship because I really was starting from scratch.
- 6:30I read all the books that I can get my hands on, any DVDs,
- 6:35anything that I thought might help me understand what I was
- 6:39dealing with. Did my first makeover, totally
- 6:42loved it, had a great experience.
- 6:45Wanted to do another one and my mentor was like, OK, this one I
- 6:49think you should do kind of on your own to see where you're
- 6:52actually at. It was so hard without as much
- 6:55help. It really showed me that I
- 6:58didn't know a lot. I had a lot to learn, but it was
- 7:02again, a great experience, good time competing.
- 7:06I was approached by a couple of trainers at that challenge who
- 7:10asked if I would come work for them, and I had to pick one or
- 7:12the other. So I picked the other and they
- 7:15mentored me through my first adult makeover.
- 7:17So even still up to that point, I was pretty like just doing the
- 7:21best I could as a kid, learning anything that anybody would show
- 7:26me, riding with trainers that offered me a place, just trying
- 7:31to learn as I went. But I knew pretty quick off the
- 7:34bat that I wanted to do this as a career.
- 7:36So it's, I don't know, the Mustangs kind of just suck you
- 7:40in like that. Like you do a couple and then
- 7:42you just fall in love with the process.
- 7:44You fall in love with who you become through the process.
- 7:48As a teenager, I was very easily frustrated.
- 7:52I was a middle child, you know that, you know, learning your
- 7:56place, finding your position, finding your voice.
- 8:00I feel like the Mustangs really helped me become who I am today.
- 8:04I think I would still be stuck in that, you know, frustrated
- 8:10teen phase if I hadn't have been pushed through by by some
- 8:13incredible horses and even trainers as well.
- 8:17Yeah, they are definitely good for helping you see areas where
- 8:20you can improve in your life. That's absolutely, absolutely.
- 8:25Once you decided on horses versus marine life or other
- 8:29large mammals, did you ever look back or was it something that it
- 8:32just felt right to go with the horses?
- 8:35I definitely feel like it just felt right.
- 8:37There's definitely still like a place in my heart for large
- 8:42marine life. And I definitely see myself at
- 8:45some point, you know, if an opportunity ever presented
- 8:47itself to do like an internship or learn more about those
- 8:51animals. I do have a soft side, a soft
- 8:53side for wildlife, but I really never looked back.
- 8:57I'd never seen myself doing anything but working with horses
- 9:01and especially wild horses. That really meets a need for me
- 9:05to help these wild animals that have ended up in a situation
- 9:09they didn't choose to get into a better situation.
- 9:12So I think that meets the need for me for helping our wildlife,
- 9:17even though they aren't classified as protected
- 9:19wildlife. But yeah, I never really looked
- 9:23back once. I just, I like, woke up one day
- 9:25and came downstairs and told my parents, like, I'm going to be a
- 9:27horse trainer. Like, I'm going to do it.
- 9:29And they were like, oh, please, please pick anything else.
- 9:32Like, we'll put you through college, like whatever you want
- 9:35to do. But like, this is going to be
- 9:36really hard on your body. It's going to be really hard
- 9:38emotionally. It's a little bit lonely.
- 9:42And I was like, no, I want to do it.
- 9:43Like, I'm doing it. And they supported me every day
- 9:46since they, you know, if I needed to be dropped off
- 9:49somewhere as a, you know, high school kid, they would take me.
- 9:52If I wanted to do a clinic, my dad would take me to a clinic.
- 9:56If I needed to be hauled to a show, my mom would take me to a
- 9:59show. Like they after that initial,
- 10:01like, Are you sure? They supported me all the way.
- 10:05So yeah, I've. Got none of your family were
- 10:08horse people before this. We were first all jumped into
- 10:12it. Yes, my sister and I, we rode
- 10:14growing up, but again, like we were pretty.
- 10:17We were pretty ignorant. Like we just rode for fun, but
- 10:21yeah, we were first. Yet everybody kind of assumes
- 10:23that we were born into horses. We were not.
- 10:27We were raised around horses, but like my parents were
- 10:30absolutely not horse people, so. Yeah, it is interesting because
- 10:34I think there's a misconception about there that you kind of out
- 10:38there that you kind of need to be born into it and a lot of
- 10:40people got into it as teenagers or adults.
- 10:45It's pretty cool, yeah. Yes, it is incredible.
- 10:47You definitely have to kind of make your own way.
- 10:50I think even the people that are born into it have to make their
- 10:52own way, make their own name, you know, so.
- 10:57Yeah, once you decided I'm going to do this as my profession, I'm
- 11:03all in. How did you start building on
- 11:06that? How did you start moving towards
- 11:08that? So pretty quick once I decided
- 11:11that's what I wanted to do, you know, we invested in books and,
- 11:16you know, DVD curriculum that I studied myself.
- 11:21And then right after that is when I started with the trainer
- 11:24with my first Mustang. I convinced my, it took me a
- 11:28little while to convince my parents that a Mustang was the
- 11:30best route. They bought me a quarter horse
- 11:32and I was like, that's great. But I really like, I want a
- 11:35Mustang. Yeah.
- 11:37So I prayed about this Mustang, like various, like exact, like
- 11:40basically set got a mail order of the exact horse I wanted.
- 11:44And I literally got that exact horse at pickup once I convinced
- 11:48my parents. So I worked with the trainer,
- 11:52the first trainer for the 1st 2 Mustangs and then I had the
- 11:56second trainer pick me up at the second makeover.
- 12:00They were like we, you know, we watched you compete the year
- 12:03before, we saw you compete this year.
- 12:05We really want to like you seem ambitious.
- 12:08We want to help you. Which was just honestly them
- 12:12being very kind because I didn't, I could barely ride.
- 12:16So they, I worked with them for six months or five months and
- 12:20then pretty quick after that I went to another trainer to work
- 12:24on some like liberty stuff. I was so fascinated by liberty
- 12:28horsemanship because to me that was the closest thing to my
- 12:33understanding of like the marine life.
- 12:35Like they, you know, the clicker training and the targeting and
- 12:38the marking, it was the liberty is the closest thing to that.
- 12:43So always so fascinated by the liberty.
- 12:46So I got in with some liberty trainers as quick as I could.
- 12:50Yeah, it's just kind of been like one person after the next
- 12:53that was willing to pour into a young kid.
- 12:58So I've, I've worked for a lot of trainers and it's, it's just
- 13:01kind of like that when you decide you can't go to college
- 13:04to be a horse trainer, you know, you have to get that real world
- 13:08experience and you have to work with people that understand how
- 13:12how you understand things that can teach you the way you can
- 13:15understand. Not everybody learns and teaches
- 13:19the same way. So sometimes you got to move
- 13:21around a little bit to find that good fit.
- 13:25So yeah, I just have, since I got out of the youth competitors
- 13:30and into adult, I've always just, hey, can I come ride with
- 13:33you for a couple of weeks or a month or six months, whoever
- 13:37needed a little help. And that's it just kind of took
- 13:41off from there. So, and I'm still learning, I
- 13:43still will go and you know, if somebody will call and be like,
- 13:46hey, I have a spot. Do you want to come ride?
- 13:47Like I throw a couple horses in the truck and go because you
- 13:52always have to grab those learning opportunities when you
- 13:54can. So, yeah, that's great advice
- 13:58for someone who's wanting to get into it from, you know, not
- 14:01doing it at all. It just kind of fills that pool,
- 14:04yeah. So tell us a little bit about
- 14:07how your methods and your journey with liberty have
- 14:11evolved over time. Yeah, so I remember the first
- 14:16makeover that I went and watched.
- 14:17I saw I didn't even know liberty was a thing, and I was running
- 14:23an errand for. I was helping.
- 14:25I was like grooming for a competitor.
- 14:26I was like, this was my very first experience and I was
- 14:31running to grab something and I heard them announce double Dan
- 14:34horsemanship in the arena. And I was like, oh, let me peek
- 14:37around the corner and see like these guys seem like a big deal.
- 14:39Let me see what's going on. And I'll never forget watching.
- 14:43I don't remember which one it was, but one of them ran out to
- 14:46the arena bridal list and like did the sliding stop and he's I
- 14:49was like, Oh my goodness, like that's incredible.
- 14:51And then the other one came out on foot doing liberty with
- 14:54another horse. And I was so fascinated by the
- 14:57fact that they were performing in front of such a large crowd
- 15:00with no bridle, no halter, no lead rope.
- 15:04And I just remember being like, Oh my goodness, like that.
- 15:07I have to learn how to do that. That's so incredible.
- 15:12And then the other people that inspired me through that are
- 15:14Stacy Westfall. Everybody's seen that freestyle
- 15:17of her coming out bareback and bridal list.
- 15:20And then Luke Gingrich, I'd found him around and seen him
- 15:23doing some, you know, bareback and bridal list and Liberty, you
- 15:26know, 2 jumping lead changes. And I was like, I have to
- 15:30understand that. So my first mentor at the time,
- 15:34Carrie, was like, you know, that's a lot of work.
- 15:38You're going to have to be really dedicated.
- 15:40Here's some resources. Here's like she handed me to
- 15:42Liberty Whips and was like, if you can figure this out, like
- 15:45I'll help you as much as I can. So she really encouraged me to
- 15:50dive into that passion. It literally lit like fire in my
- 15:54soul. And I just been in love with
- 15:57Liberty ever since. So I studied all of double dance
- 16:00material. I did clinics and I started
- 16:03working with, I went out to work for Hannah Catalino to learn how
- 16:07to gentle horses at Liberty. So we gentled, I think 10 wild
- 16:12horses at Liberty, which was remarkable because you have to
- 16:15your timing has to be so on point because they can just
- 16:19leave anytime. But it's really cool to see that
- 16:22connection genuinely form versus putting a halter and leader up
- 16:27on at pickup and just immediately starting that halter
- 16:30breaking process. It's so cool to see how the
- 16:33horses blossom from each perspective.
- 16:38Yeah. Does that kind of answer the
- 16:39question? That's kind of how I got
- 16:42interested in Liberty. So yeah, is that.
- 16:49And and that's really the methods that you use now in your
- 16:52own organization. So it just depends on what I'm
- 16:56doing. So Ioffer cult starting tune ups
- 16:59and Mustang generally. I try to use as much liberty as
- 17:04possible. Obviously some trouble horses
- 17:07need, you know, a clearer answer.
- 17:10I always say like a halter and leader is like asking them a
- 17:13question one out of 10. Starting them at liberty is more
- 17:17like asking a question one out of 100 or asking a number one
- 17:20out of 100. Give me a number one out of 100.
- 17:22They have a lot more wrong. They give you the wrong answer a
- 17:25lot more before they get the right answer, if that makes
- 17:27sense versus a halter. Give me a number one out of 10.
- 17:31They're going to figure out I should face A and walk that way
- 17:34a lot sooner than at liberty. But I find the horses started at
- 17:39liberty are a lot more confident.
- 17:42They once they understand that you are offering guidance,
- 17:45you're offering partnership, you're not trying to hurt them,
- 17:49the halter, you know, all that other stuff comes really easy.
- 17:54So for my Germany project with these Mustangs, and they all get
- 17:59started at Liberty because a lot of them come from bigger holding
- 18:02facilities and they're genuinely terrified of people.
- 18:05When they get to me, they are so terrified of people that I just
- 18:10stand in a corner and just like kind of work them with my body
- 18:14language, like in a corner of the round pen.
- 18:16They're running just really scared.
- 18:18And then over time I get to where they can approach me.
- 18:21Sometimes I can touch them. We can't actually halter them at
- 18:25Liberty for this project. They have to be haltered from a
- 18:29shoot, but they they get to where they trust people a lot
- 18:33better than just run them through, put a halter on them.
- 18:36Let's get them halter broke. There's definitely a time and a
- 18:39place for that. And I'm not knocking people that
- 18:41do it that way. And sometimes we have to do it
- 18:44that way. Sometimes you have a horse
- 18:45that's injured or is going to hurt themselves if they have too
- 18:49many options, but I prefer to give them, I, I want them to
- 18:53choose to be on my team versus you have to do this right now.
- 18:59So and I, most of my personal horses do some form of liberty.
- 19:05They at least like understand, you know, you can choose, you
- 19:09can choose to come, you can choose to go, you know?
- 19:13So yeah, I I use it as much as possible because I just love the
- 19:16fruit of that in my horses. Yeah, that's great.
- 19:21And I think it's also a great point to just note that
- 19:24different things are going to work in different situations
- 19:26depending on the goals and needs.
- 19:28And so it's important to not just get stuck on one Ave. that
- 19:32everything else is wrong. There are a lot of good methods
- 19:35and ideas out there depending on on what's needed between the
- 19:38horse and the person and the situation and all that.
- 19:41Absolutely. Tell us more about the Mustang
- 19:45makeover in Germany. I didn't even know that they did
- 19:48that, so that's really interesting.
- 19:51So yeah, tell us kind of what you do and then where the horses
- 19:54go after they leave their time with you.
- 19:57Yes, so I, I love this project. So five years ago, this is our
- 20:02fifth year doing it. Five years ago I had a BLM Rep
- 20:08call me. And they were like, hey, we know
- 20:10this lady in Germany that imports lastings and the person
- 20:16that was doing it for her just, you know, like, retired and
- 20:20she's looking for somebody to replace her.
- 20:23Would that be something you're interested in?
- 20:24And I was like, well, tell me like the details.
- 20:27And he was like, oh, you have six months and as many horses as
- 20:31you want to do and as much time. And if you need more than six
- 20:34months, that's great. They pay you just amazing.
- 20:37And they're going to go to Europe and it's going to be
- 20:39great. And I was like, oh, yeah, six
- 20:42months. Like I can get them so gentle in
- 20:43six months. Give the lady my number.
- 20:46So she calls me and she's like, yeah, this is what we need.
- 20:51You have six weeks. And we do 25 horses at a time.
- 20:54And I was like, oh, he's six months.
- 20:57And she's like, it's. Not the same story.
- 20:59It's not the same. She.
- 21:00Said no, it's six weeks and they have to be.
- 21:04At the time we were doing like the TIP program, which was the
- 21:06trainer incentive program. So we would get paid an
- 21:10incentive to halt or break, pick up all four feet, lead load and
- 21:13tie the horses. So they were doing an
- 21:15international incentive where they could lead, load, tie.
- 21:20We didn't have to pick their feet up.
- 21:21They don't have to be touched. So she wants them as wild as
- 21:26possible. So most of the horses that I
- 21:29send over there, we maybe can touch them like right between
- 21:33their eyes from in front of them.
- 21:35But generally they're they're wild when they get there.
- 21:39So we get them halter broke, you know, friendly at liberty,
- 21:42halter broke leading loading and time.
- 21:46They learn verbal cues. I had a horse that I taught to
- 21:49target my hand. Like he was so afraid of
- 21:52everything that like he could, but he could focus on one thing
- 21:55at a time. So I taught him like to target
- 21:57my hand and I could move my hand and his head would go that way.
- 22:02So that was interesting. So it's, they basically are just
- 22:07gentle enough that we can lead them onto a trailer, off the
- 22:11trailer into a barn, and then back onto the trailer to the
- 22:15airport, into their little jet box containers.
- 22:19So it's three horses per container.
- 22:21So you load one horse on the left, one horse on the right,
- 22:24one horse in the middle. They get hay.
- 22:26I water them every two hours on the flight and then they get to
- 22:32Frankfurt, Germany and rest for the night.
- 22:35And then we load them into the trainers trailers.
- 22:37When the trainers get them home in Germany, they're like,
- 22:40they're wild. Like the, some of the trainers
- 22:42think they'll be able to get right up to him and pet them and
- 22:45touch them. No, like they're wild.
- 22:47They start over. Once you get the rope, you can
- 22:50leave them anywhere. They will follow you anywhere.
- 22:53But they're not like they're not friendly, if that makes sense.
- 22:58And that's they want that accurate like wild horse
- 23:01challenge. So here we have the 100 day
- 23:04challenge and our horses are wild when we start them and we
- 23:07have to do all of the training. Obviously they can't ship
- 23:11completely feral horses. They do have to be somewhat
- 23:15manageable. But if they get them over there
- 23:18and let them sit for two days, like they're pretty feral.
- 23:22So they get this year they have I think almost six months.
- 23:26Usually it's more like 4 to get them gentle, ride them, show
- 23:31them. They do a lot of liberty there.
- 23:34Liberty's really big in Europe. So they're they're challenges.
- 23:39They're always like the stuff they get their horses doing is
- 23:41amazing. And we send a lot of really
- 23:44difficult horses there. We work with a lot of kill pen
- 23:48horses, a lot of like long term holding horses, last strike
- 23:53horses, horses that trainers here have deemed worthless and
- 23:59will never be worth anything or dangerous or difficult.
- 24:03They find a place there and because they do so much liberty,
- 24:06I think they're their approach is so much more slow and gentle.
- 24:11Those horses thrive. So we send as many as as we can
- 24:16physically fly. We send over there because they
- 24:20have such a better life, I think like they get a second chance.
- 24:24They get to try again, and they deserve that.
- 24:28Some of these horses, it's not their fault that they're
- 24:30difficult. They've been gathered up,
- 24:33separated from their families, sitting and holding, you know,
- 24:37worked and holding passed around Once they've been adopted, You
- 24:41know, some of these horses really have had a hard life
- 24:44before they're ever even gentled.
- 24:47So I think to me, it's important to get as many and good homes as
- 24:52possible, like good permanent homes.
- 24:54They deserve that. So my contact over there, Silky
- 24:59does a great job making sure these horses end up in the best
- 25:02case scenario. She always knows where they are.
- 25:06If the owners have to sell them, she gets them back and finds
- 25:09them a good home. Like these horses don't slip
- 25:11through the cracks in Europe. So to me, it's important when
- 25:15people call me and say, hey, I have this horse that's
- 25:18difficult. I'm like, just bring it.
- 25:19Just bring it to me like I will. I'll work with it and help it
- 25:22find a good home. Because a lot of these horses
- 25:26end up in just not good situations.
- 25:28If somebody doesn't care that they might end up in a kill pen
- 25:32or they might end up back and holding or they might end up in
- 25:36an abusive home, somebody has to care.
- 25:39Somebody has to kind of run in between for them.
- 25:41So thankfully we have an Ave. to move these horses to faith good
- 25:46homes. So that's kind of the long steal
- 25:48and both sides of it. She does.
- 25:50We do the makeover horses and then we do private like private
- 25:54home horses. So some of those kill pen
- 25:58horses, those tougher horses, they go to private homes or they
- 26:02go to trainers over there who train them and then they go to
- 26:05private homes. But all of the horses for her
- 26:09makeover event are straight from holding, like haven't been
- 26:13handled. They all have the same level of
- 26:15handling. They're gentle by us here.
- 26:19Again, horsemanship. And then they go straight to the
- 26:21trainers in Europe. So that's kind of the long spiel
- 26:26of it. But yeah, it's an incredible
- 26:29program. I love working with them.
- 26:30I think their mission is so powerful and important and it
- 26:34brings so much awareness to our horses here.
- 26:37They're kind of a novelty there. The Europeans love the American
- 26:41West and John Wayne and wild horses and they it's such a
- 26:47privilege to them to have one of our horses and that I think
- 26:50we've lost that here. It's become such a their dime a
- 26:54dozen. If you don't like the one you
- 26:55have, just get another one. Like I think it's so cool to
- 26:59work with people that really value them and see them the way
- 27:02that I see them. So yeah, it's amazing program.
- 27:07Yeah, that is incredible. It sounds like a really great
- 27:09program and especially to be able to get those difficult
- 27:12horses that probably, yeah, I would just end up crossing the
- 27:16border here and right, not having a good life one way or
- 27:20the other. Yes.
- 27:21That is amazing. And also how cool that there's a
- 27:27demand there, you know, that people do value them because
- 27:30like you say here, they're just so easily accessible, so easily
- 27:35disposable that they really have lost that value.
- 27:39That is really cool. I think that has probably some
- 27:42elements the other programs could follow to maybe help more
- 27:46horses. So I love that, Yeah.
- 27:49Tell us about your time in New Zealand.
- 27:52Oh wow, that was so much fun. So again, people always, it's so
- 27:57funny. My life is insane.
- 27:59People always ask me, are you home?
- 28:02Because I'm very rarely home. I'm always doing some just wild
- 28:07escapade. So this was this was similar.
- 28:10I had one of the girls that used to work for me.
- 28:14She called me one night and she's like, hey, I had this
- 28:17incredible opportunity and I just don't think I'm going to
- 28:19take it. I'm like, well, tell me what it
- 28:22is like. She's young.
- 28:23You should go do things I'm big on if you have the opportunity
- 28:26taken. And she's like, well, Kelly
- 28:30Wilson called me personally. She called her personally and
- 28:33asked me to come to New Zealand. Yeah, to gentle wild.
- 28:36They're wild canonical horses. And she's like, I just don't
- 28:39think I want to. I don't think I want to go.
- 28:42And I'm like back up, like the Kelly Wilson called you and
- 28:47asked you to come over and learn from her and gentle.
- 28:52They're wild. Like, that is an incredible
- 28:54experience. You should do it.
- 28:55She's like, I don't want to be that far away from home.
- 28:58You should do it. And I was like, give her my
- 28:59number. I will do it.
- 29:00Like, but she doesn't know me. She'd worked with this.
- 29:03She'd worked with this girl here in the States and knew her
- 29:05personally. So I didn't think I was like,
- 29:07she's not going to call me. She doesn't know anything about
- 29:09me. Well, she called me about a week
- 29:11later and she was like, hey, like, I've heard really nice
- 29:14things about you and I I need help.
- 29:17Would you be interested in coming to New Zealand for three
- 29:20months? And I was like, yes, like,
- 29:22absolutely. I'm, I'm coming.
- 29:25So I booked flights like that night, I was finishing up my
- 29:30Germany horse project last year. So I booked flights and didn't
- 29:35really think about like, you know, I thought about like, oh,
- 29:39you know, it'll be, it'll be so cool and all this stuff.
- 29:43Well, I land in Auckland and realize I don't actually know
- 29:47these people. This random person I've never
- 29:50met is picking me up. It's like 3 1/2 hours drive with
- 29:54this random person I've never met.
- 29:56It was such a crazy experience. The girl that picked me up ended
- 29:59up being like one of my best friends.
- 30:03Kelly is amazing. Like she's such a phenomenal
- 30:06teacher and listener and learner of the horse.
- 30:10It's always the horse first. You work for so many people that
- 30:15it's their image first or their profit first or their you know
- 30:20what's in it for them first. It's so rare to work for people
- 30:24where the horses actually first. Kelly is so passionate about
- 30:29saving these horses. So their wild horses have no
- 30:34natural predators. They are the biggest animal on
- 30:37there. Like range lands.
- 30:40They overpopulate really quickly.
- 30:43They have, I think they can only sustain, I think, 200 wild
- 30:47horses. So every year they have to
- 30:48gather at least 100 horses. The horse, they're ponies.
- 30:53They're not like at least our Mustangs are big and stocky.
- 30:58These are ponies, like, they're very like sporty, like people
- 31:02use them for, you know, English sports.
- 31:05But they're pony sized, so the demand for them is not very big.
- 31:10So Kelly will go and she'll go to the roundup and she'll pick
- 31:15horses that she has documented. You know some of them she's
- 31:18documented from birth. She goes out into the ranges and
- 31:20photographs them and writes their stories.
- 31:24So she'll pull as many horses as she can that have homes already.
- 31:29Like this person promised to adopt a three-year old stallion.
- 31:32This person said they would adopt A Marinfold.
- 31:34This person said they would adopt A 10 plus stallion and
- 31:38she'll pull those horses from the round up.
- 31:41The rest of the horses go straight to slaughter.
- 31:44They do not have any kind of government incentive to protect
- 31:48the horses or house the horses. They literally Kelly goes and
- 31:52picks what she can take and the rest go straight to slaughter.
- 31:57So they are working to eliminate that as an option.
- 32:01Their government just honestly cannot sustain housing them like
- 32:06we can. But it's so sad to see these
- 32:09ponies go straight to slaughter. So Kelly last year pulled 100
- 32:13horses from from the catch pens and helped 100 horses find home.
- 32:20So I think she and her team personally did 80 and then other
- 32:24trainers around the country did the other 2025.
- 32:29So it's really an incredible. Her program is remarkable.
- 32:32The horses come straight from the roundup, so they're on the
- 32:35ranges into stockyards, sorted, put on her truck and in her
- 32:40stockyards in like 24 hours. It's a really quick turn around.
- 32:44She lets them sit for a day or two and then we started dental
- 32:47ING them. So she has like a six weeks from
- 32:51when they're gathered to when they're in loving homes.
- 32:54So they, we start them at liberty like we teach them, you
- 32:58know, to face up to come to us. We teach them to be touched with
- 33:01the whip, preparing for the halter.
- 33:04We they learned how to cross obstacles at liberty.
- 33:08We were catching them in fields like with hot wire in three
- 33:11weeks from being completely wild.
- 33:14We were turning them out with their friends, catching them in
- 33:16hot wire like some of them took longer to learn the process.
- 33:21But once they have it, like they always can fall back on it.
- 33:26I think I worked with I personally did eight horses, but
- 33:29I helped gentle a couple of the other girls horses as well.
- 33:32Some of them took a couple of us.
- 33:35They were just really feral, really untrusting.
- 33:39Some of their they're not like our the Mustangs come from herd
- 33:44management areas. They don't call it that.
- 33:47It's like, but it's the same thing.
- 33:49So you have horses that were used to seeing people really
- 33:52gentle, don't mind people. And then you had horses that
- 33:55were from like a military testing site and they were super
- 33:59sensitive to noise. Seeing people like every
- 34:02morning. It was like the first time
- 34:03they've ever seen people. If you drop something and it
- 34:07clicked like they would that whole, all the horses from that
- 34:10area would just start take off running.
- 34:13So it's interesting to see how the horses from each area
- 34:17reacted to the same exact process.
- 34:21Some took a really, really long time.
- 34:24One of my stallions took I think 3 weeks before I got a first
- 34:28touch and then he started, He became a little bit aggressive,
- 34:32like he would come into my face really harshly and I was like, I
- 34:37just don't think I'm going to get him haltered at liberty.
- 34:39Like I think he's going to bite me or attack me or be scared.
- 34:44And she's like, you can do it. Like just keep trying you'll get
- 34:47it. I was like, OK, and I
- 34:50eventually, with lots of help and encouragement, did get him
- 34:53haltered and I was so sad to leave him.
- 34:56He we had such an incredible connection.
- 34:58By the time I did get him haltered, it was so powerful to
- 35:02see those horses choose us every day versus, like I said earlier,
- 35:09getting halters on them right away and kind of like
- 35:11manhandling them into domestic life.
- 35:14These horses came willingly. Some of them came within the
- 35:17first few days. Some of them it took three weeks
- 35:19before we could touch them, but it was such a unique experience
- 35:25and it's the style of horsemanship, so different.
- 35:27They're very European, like a lot of liberty, very English,
- 35:33which was different for me. I'm very much a Western girl,
- 35:37but I got to, you know, dabble in some jumping.
- 35:40By the time I left there, I was jumping a cross country course
- 35:43bridalists on one of Kelly's horses.
- 35:47So it was such a like well-rounded, unique experience
- 35:51and most all of it was at liberty, which was like so
- 35:56inspiring to me. I've always had this like in the
- 36:00back of my head, like, is there a better way we can do horses?
- 36:05Is there a softer way? Is there a more emotional
- 36:09connection type way we can do horses without allowing our
- 36:13horses to be pushy and walk all over us and take advantage of
- 36:17us? There's a fine line with that,
- 36:20you know, liberty. We want to be kind.
- 36:22We want to, if you don't mind, would you please?
- 36:25But also there still has to be boundaries.
- 36:27We are still people and they are horses.
- 36:29They can't treat us like herd mates though.
- 36:32We all want that, you know, spirit, wild horse, wild
- 36:37stallion, connection with our horses.
- 36:40But finding that middle ground has always been in the back of
- 36:44my mind, like, it's got it, there's got to be a way.
- 36:47So I feel like Kelly kind of showed me the way.
- 36:50It was really an emotional experience for me.
- 36:53I think probably once a week I would have to like, walk out of
- 36:55the pen and go cry. Like I wish I'd known this five
- 36:59years ago. I wish I'd known that I could
- 37:01make this an option for my horses.
- 37:05So I think as young people, we experiment and try so many
- 37:09things, trying to find the right way.
- 37:12And then one day the right way find you.
- 37:16So it was such a life changing experience for me.
- 37:19I really, it changed the way I see people.
- 37:22It changed the way I see horses. And it just reminded and
- 37:27encouraged me that there is always another way.
- 37:30Even if it doesn't feel like there's a right, you know,
- 37:32another way, there is always another way.
- 37:35You have to just keep looking and decide how important it is
- 37:38to you to find the right way. So it was important to me and
- 37:41the right way did find me. So yeah, I don't remember where
- 37:47I was going with that. I kind of.
- 37:48Got what an amazing opportunity to it was land in your lap.
- 37:52Yes, and it was interesting. So I was there for three months
- 37:57and I think it was 5 days before I was supposed to come home and
- 38:02Kelly had injured herself. She was supposed to do a demo
- 38:05with Dan steers of double Dan Horsemanship, which was so
- 38:08ironic. She had a liberty demo with one
- 38:11of her personal horses and he was going to ride a horse and
- 38:14she was going to do in hand liberty and she injured herself.
- 38:18And she's like, I just don't know.
- 38:19Like I hate to let Dan down. This is like our biggest
- 38:22performance of the year. It's at a big equine festival.
- 38:25It's their biggest, like, equine festival in New Zealand.
- 38:28And Dan was coming from the Liberty Festival in the States,
- 38:33so he was coming back home. But he's like, I'll just come by
- 38:36and do the equine festival in New Zealand as well.
- 38:40So she injured herself. And we were all sitting in the
- 38:43kitchen one night and she's like, I just don't know who's
- 38:46going to do this demo with Dan. Like, I'm injured.
- 38:49Like, somebody has to do it. And none of the other girls
- 38:51there said a peep. They were all just like, we
- 38:54don't want to do it. And I was like out like I will
- 38:57do it. That would be a dream come true
- 38:59for me if I got to work with like Dan steers of double Dan
- 39:02Horsemanship. So I extended my stay for
- 39:05another month and worked with her liberty horse Dallas and got
- 39:10to learn a lot more like performance liberty stuff.
- 39:12So we just been gentling the wild horses.
- 39:15So that last month I was there was when I got to work on some
- 39:19jumping, did the jumping bridal list and worked with Dallas and
- 39:22learned a lot of the more performance horse stuff.
- 39:26So that was such like the privilege of my life to be able
- 39:29to perform at the biggest equine festival in New Zealand with one
- 39:34of my like childhood role models, like inspiration.
- 39:38It was such like such a cool experience.
- 39:41So that was kind of the icing on the cake for that.
- 39:44My time in New Zealand, it was a lot of hard work, a lot of
- 39:47learning. It was like learning a foreign
- 39:49language, learning how Kelly teaches these horses, but that
- 39:53was like the icing on the cake. So yeah, phenomenal, phenomenal
- 39:57trip. And it really has changed how I
- 40:00do horses now so. What are some of the most
- 40:05notable lessons you've taken away from your time in New
- 40:07Zealand and or working with the Mustangs that go over to Germany
- 40:12that you've maybe integrated into what you do now?
- 40:16Probably the most, it's so hard to pick one, but definitely like
- 40:22it takes the time it yeah, the fun of them for sure is it takes
- 40:25the time it takes people, children, dogs, cats, horses,
- 40:32orca whales, they all learn in their own way.
- 40:35I think a lot of people get hung up on this is this is the way.
- 40:40This is my method. This is the only way to do
- 40:44horses. Everybody learns different.
- 40:48If we get so hung up on like copy paste, I do it this way
- 40:51every single time. We miss out on the opportunities
- 40:55that horses have to teach us something different, either
- 40:58about ourselves or about training or about the tools you
- 41:01have. Like every horse has something
- 41:04to teach you. And I think it's so sad when
- 41:06people get hung up on, well, I know, I know everything and this
- 41:10is this is the best way to do it.
- 41:13OK, maybe for like 75% of horses, that's the best way to
- 41:17do it. But what about the other, you
- 41:19know, 25%? What about those horses who who
- 41:23is making sure they have the best experience?
- 41:25Who's making sure they are taken care of?
- 41:27Who's making sure they learn? You know, and those 25% of
- 41:33horses get deemed dangerous or untrainable or unlovable and
- 41:38then they end up in bad situations.
- 41:40So I think being open to learning the way the horse needs
- 41:44to be taught, like Kelly said it best, if you've trained one wild
- 41:48horse, you've trained one wild horse.
- 41:50If you've trained 100 wild horses, you've trained one wild
- 41:53horse. Like every horse is so unique
- 41:57and should be treated like a unique individual and not like
- 42:00one more notch in my belt. Oh, well, I've trained 101
- 42:03horses. Like I'm so talented.
- 42:05No, it's just like you've done one horse.
- 42:09So that's been a really impactful thing.
- 42:11Like never go into it. Like you're just going to go in
- 42:14there and like smack out your program.
- 42:17Like you can definitely have a plan, definitely have an idea.
- 42:21Never have an agenda. If you think that you're going
- 42:25to go in there and just slap your agenda on a horse, they're
- 42:28going to slap you with their agenda and it's not going to be
- 42:31what you're hoping for. So that's definitely one.
- 42:36And the other one I think is being patient with yourself and
- 42:42the learning process. I think a lot of young trainers
- 42:45I grew up, some of my very best friends I met at my very first
- 42:49makeover, and I have had the privilege of watching all of us
- 42:53grow up in the horse world, being patient with their
- 42:58process. Like when I look back at videos
- 43:00from a few years ago, I'm like, who?
- 43:02Let me show that horse like that looks horrendous like, but in my
- 43:07mind that was the best I could do at the time.
- 43:09That was the most that was all the information I had.
- 43:15But you have to be patient with yourself.
- 43:16You, we are always learning and evolving and growing.
- 43:21You have to just trust the process.
- 43:23The horses are the same way. They don't know.
- 43:25You have to be patient with the fact that they were wild
- 43:28stallions two weeks ago. They were wild stallions with
- 43:31herds and families and babies and protecting from predators.
- 43:35And now we're trying to gentle them and get them to cross, you
- 43:39know, weird obstacles. And they're in weird footing and
- 43:44they're learning. Like, you can't rush the
- 43:47process, whether it's emotionally in your life, in
- 43:51your career. You have to just take it one
- 43:53step at a time. And I think again, as a teenager
- 43:57I was really rushy and impatient and easily frustrated by life.
- 44:02I didn't have a lot of direction, didn't really have a
- 44:05passion, and then one day a passion lit.
- 44:08But it's one step at a time. You can't jump to the end goal.
- 44:12I'm still working towards where I want to be, but it takes all
- 44:15the steps in between to get there.
- 44:18So I think my biggest thing is like, just trust the process, be
- 44:22patient with yourself. You're still learning and it's
- 44:26OK to not have all the answers. It's OK to not know what 2 steps
- 44:30ahead looks like. You just have to take the step
- 44:32in front of you. So I think that's my biggest
- 44:36motto in life is just trust the process.
- 44:38Like you're going to get where you're going.
- 44:39Nothing's going to keep you from who you're meant to be except
- 44:42for yourself. As long as you keep putting one
- 44:44Step 1 foot in front of the next, like you're going to get
- 44:47there. So yeah, I feel like there's so
- 44:51much to, I've learned so much from horses, but that's
- 44:54definitely the biggest one for me is just be patient.
- 44:57So. Yeah.
- 44:59And I think your life kind of speaks to that, the way these
- 45:02opportunities, you know, you took the action for it and then
- 45:05these new opportunities would present themselves.
- 45:07So that's really neat. Absolutely, yeah.
- 45:09I think good things come to people, good things come to
- 45:12those who wait. That is a very true statement.
- 45:16And trusting the process, if you can just relax and take one step
- 45:21at a time, the process that unfolds is beautiful.
- 45:24The things that come from struggling, the things that come
- 45:28from not understanding and working through learning how to
- 45:32do something new is beautiful. So I, yeah, I'm a big believer
- 45:38and just let things happen the way they're supposed to happen
- 45:41and good things will come to you.
- 45:45Yeah, that's great advice too, because a lot of frustration and
- 45:48even giving outcomes when you're kind of in the middle of that
- 45:50learning process. Yes, because we are so focused
- 45:53on the end goal instead of kind of seeing the benefit of the
- 45:57moments that we're in right there and right and how great it
- 46:00can be now. Well, and it's hard again, as
- 46:02young trainers, I see a lot of young trainers throw themselves
- 46:07into a, a learning opportunities, throw themselves
- 46:10in it all the way. And like we talked about
- 46:12earlier, sometimes it's not a perfect fit.
- 46:15You can't let that discourage you.
- 46:17It's OK to remove yourself from a situation that's not right,
- 46:21that's not helping you thrive and put yourself in a situation
- 46:24that might be better. Sometimes you got to tough it
- 46:27out and do hard things. But at the end of the day, if
- 46:31you're not growing, if you're not thriving, if you're not
- 46:33being nurtured and put in an environment where you can grow,
- 46:39it's OK to remove yourself and put yourself in a different
- 46:42environment that might be healthier for you.
- 46:45A lot of young people take the first opportunity that comes and
- 46:49tough it out until they're like, I'm going to like just muscle
- 46:52through this. You don't, you shouldn't have to
- 46:55muscle through it. It it might be hard, it might
- 46:58grow you, but you shouldn't outright suffer, if that makes
- 47:01sense. You should not be in a situation
- 47:04with a trainer that is abusing your willingness to learn.
- 47:09So yeah, but that's that's a tough place to be in too, so.
- 47:15Yeah, that is good insights. I think for horses and for
- 47:18people that, yeah, it would be a lot easier if there was always
- 47:21one answer and that was the right answer and we just knew
- 47:24that's the way to go. But it really is more a process
- 47:27of filling it out as you go and kind of gaining that
- 47:29understanding and getting those insights along the way, which is
- 47:33what makes it so tricky and frustrating sometimes.
- 47:35But definitely better if you can be open to that.
- 47:38Yes, Yep. Tell us a little bit about your
- 47:42cult starting. Oh, wow, that was fun.
- 47:46So again, same thing. I have opportunities fall in my
- 47:51lap all the time that I'm like, oh, I've never done that before.
- 47:53But I yes, I always say, yeah. So I was doing a Liberty demo,
- 48:01like a bareback and bridal list demo at the Southern Equine
- 48:04Expo. I guess it was.
- 48:05I did the demo two years in a row, and people always came up
- 48:09to me and they were like, we love the way you teach.
- 48:12We love the way you talk about your journey and your process
- 48:15and you're like, you're such a great teacher.
- 48:18Like, we would love to see you do something bigger.
- 48:20I was always in like a small pan, you know, in the back,
- 48:23which was fun. I was young, had no business in
- 48:26front of a big crowd. And the man that runs the
- 48:30Southern Equine Expo, like caught me in passing one day and
- 48:33he was like, hey, like I'm hearing great things about your
- 48:35demos. People really like you.
- 48:37Would you be interested in doing the cult starting challenge that
- 48:40we have here? And I was like, yeah, like I
- 48:44sure. Like I'll have to.
- 48:45I have nothing about that. Like I cult start for the
- 48:49public, but like I'm not really that good.
- 48:52And he's like, you'll figure it out.
- 48:53Like just say yes. And I was like, yes, I'll do it.
- 48:56Like send me the info, I'll do it.
- 48:59So I was like, Oh my gosh, like I have to actually like I'm very
- 49:03competitive. I don't want to get like last.
- 49:06Like I need to be, there's three of us.
- 49:08I need to be at least second. Like I you know, I don't have to
- 49:10win it. I'm probably not going to win
- 49:12it. I don't know anything about this
- 49:14that I'm going to try. So I was working with Ginger
- 49:18Duke and Kevin Graham at the time and I was like, I need
- 49:21help. Like you guys have, like what do
- 49:22I do? Kevin had worked with some
- 49:25other, I think he's done some cult starting in the past
- 49:28competitively. And he's like, I'll help you
- 49:30like make a process, you know, kind of a guideline.
- 49:35Obviously you're going to have to be flexible.
- 49:39So we, they had a bunch of Colts sitting in the backfield.
- 49:41We'd go out every day and I'd like catch whichever one came up
- 49:45to me and we'd take it up and we'd we'd work through, he'd
- 49:48start the timer, we'd work through a process and then write
- 49:52down like, how did that go? You know, I got hung up on this
- 49:55one thing that took up way too much time.
- 49:57I don't have time for that in a cult starting challenge.
- 50:02So the challenge at Southern Equine Expo is a little
- 50:06different than Road to the Horse.
- 50:07We have I think 3 hour long sessions and then we have one
- 50:12hour and a half session and then 145 minute session.
- 50:16So that sounds like a lot of time, but it's really not.
- 50:18By the 4th session we have to be riding out of the round pen with
- 50:22the other two competitors and we have to pen cattle.
- 50:25And then the fifth session, we have 45 minutes to get through
- 50:30all the obstacles. So it's a lot to get done in
- 50:34those sessions. So Kevin and I would, you know,
- 50:37we'd pull the cult up, work on, you know, you got to get her
- 50:41saddled and maybe step up and off of her in the first session.
- 50:45So we got it nailed down to where every time I pulled up a
- 50:47horse the first hour, I could get it saddled and get on it.
- 50:51And so I was like, that's good. And then we would work on the
- 50:54next phase of that, which was making sure, you know, can she
- 50:57drag obstacles? Can it does it cross obstacles?
- 51:00The first time I asked, you know, how do I make sure that
- 51:03I'm asking in a nice enough way that she's like, oh, I'm happy
- 51:06to do that for you. I worked with all Phillies.
- 51:10And then of course, we get to the challenge and I get a
- 51:12gelding. I draw a gelding and I'm like,
- 51:14oh, no, like usually it's mayor. It's like, so the gelding I drew
- 51:19was super, kind, super curious, like really wanted to please.
- 51:23And he was like, yeah, I can do that one time.
- 51:26He would only do stuff one time. And then he's like, I don't want
- 51:30to do it again. So any time I'd ask the second
- 51:33or third time, it was really a challenge.
- 51:35He was really like, I did it the first time, really good.
- 51:38I don't want to do it again. So we knew going into the last,
- 51:42the final round, I would have to pretty much go through the
- 51:45obstacles and get it right the first time.
- 51:48So you have to, in that final round, you have to go over the
- 51:51obstacles and declare. I declare, I'm doing the bridge,
- 51:54I declare the tarp. You know when you say I declare,
- 51:57that's when they score you. So Kevin was like, I think you
- 52:01need to just go through and declare each obstacle the first
- 52:05time you do it. Just like point him at it if you
- 52:07know he's going to go just I declare and do it.
- 52:10And it was so funny because the judges when they came up and
- 52:14talked to me after, they were like, we have never seen anybody
- 52:18just go through and declare the first, like declare the
- 52:20obstacles the first time and like actually do well.
- 52:23And he did everything he did, all the obstacles, like with
- 52:27just like point, I point him at it and he would just do it like
- 52:30it was flawless. It was so, so well done.
- 52:33But that was just the kind of horse he was.
- 52:35He was just really willing the first time.
- 52:38So that was great. Yeah.
- 52:41The other, it was such a learning opportunity because
- 52:45again, I wasn't, I was cult starting.
- 52:47I've been cult starting for a couple of years.
- 52:49But doing it under that much pressure and you have the other
- 52:54competitors around, you're really just trying to pay
- 52:56attention to what you're doing. But then like the one girl, her
- 53:00horse was bucking and going crazy.
- 53:02And I'm like, just focus. Like you don't have that much
- 53:05time. You can't stop and watch like
- 53:06you got to do your thing. But anyway, it was so such an
- 53:11interesting experience. I ended up winning it, but which
- 53:15was just like pure luck and definitely I, you know, having
- 53:19cabin help me cabin with my pen Wrangler.
- 53:22He really just knows me well enough to know, hey, you need to
- 53:27step back for a second. Just take a breath.
- 53:29Like you're getting a little anxious, you're getting a little
- 53:31rushed, like you need to just take, just walk out of the pen
- 53:34for a few minutes and give him a break or you've spent too much
- 53:38time on that. Move on to the next thing.
- 53:40He really helps me stay on track, which is half the battle
- 53:43in a cold starting challenge. He ended up his girlfriend got
- 53:48invited the next year to compete and she won it as well.
- 53:51So Calvin definitely has a knack for the pen wrangling, but.
- 53:54He's a good coach. Yeah, he's amazing.
- 53:58They've been such, such an inspiration to me and my whole
- 54:01journey. They've helped me with a lot of
- 54:03Mustangs. They're they're incredible
- 54:05people. But yeah, so it was, it was
- 54:09definitely a learning curve for me.
- 54:12Cult starting on your own, you take as much time as you need.
- 54:17You can do short sessions. You can, you know, really
- 54:22customize it to what the horse needs in this setting.
- 54:26Like you only have the time you have and you have to get stuff
- 54:30done, but you can't push them too far because they're babies
- 54:34and you only have so much time. Like you have to really keep
- 54:37things super interesting and interactive.
- 54:41But I loved it. I would definitely do 1 again.
- 54:45I love the pressure of competing once I enter the arena.
- 54:48I really like lock into what I'm doing Before I'm usually a
- 54:53wreck, and then once I enter that, the pen, you just lock in
- 54:57on what you're doing. But yeah, it was such a
- 55:01incredible learning opportunity to see how horses learn and
- 55:05process under that much pressure.
- 55:08Most of the stuff I do, I try to do it like take your time, as
- 55:12much time as you need to cross that bridge like I have all day,
- 55:16like I am in no hurry. And this time I was like, I need
- 55:20you to do it pretty quick. I need you to get it done.
- 55:23So it was interesting to see how how you can apply pressure but
- 55:27still be kind and considerate to the fact that he'd never seen a
- 55:32bridge before in his life, been out in the fields his whole
- 55:35life, never seen a tarp before. He needs a minute to think about
- 55:38that. That really helped me learn and
- 55:43change. I changed a lot of things in my
- 55:44program after that learning opportunity with Kavin and then
- 55:49through the competition, I changed a lot of things in my
- 55:51program. So yeah, it was such a cool,
- 55:57cool opportunity. Yeah, yeah.
- 55:59Was it hard at all to balance the well-being of the horse with
- 56:02the competition in the timeline? Yes.
- 56:04So thankfully I had a horse that was like really curious about
- 56:10me, really curious about, you know, people in the stands.
- 56:14Like the clapping never bothered him.
- 56:17The pressure didn't really seem to bother him.
- 56:19The biggest struggle we had was he was kind of A1 and done.
- 56:24So finding that balance of not letting him say no, I'm not
- 56:28doing that, but also not getting into a big fight with him.
- 56:33They just don't have the mental capacity to process being in
- 56:38trouble in that sort of a timeline.
- 56:40Like if you had to get onto one for something they didn't, it's
- 56:44hard for them to recover, if that makes sense.
- 56:46If you, if they, you know, buck or something.
- 56:49Mine didn't buck, but I've seen other competitors horses buck.
- 56:53Normally you would kind of correct that at home, but in
- 56:55that setting you can't make it a big deal.
- 56:58Or they're they will buck every time you put a saddle on them,
- 57:01They'll buck every time you get on them.
- 57:04So it is hard to process what is important for this situation and
- 57:09what is not important for right now.
- 57:13Like we had to prepare them to do obstacles and pen cattle in
- 57:17front of people and with other horses in three sessions.
- 57:21So it's important that you get on them as quick as you can, but
- 57:26it's also important you don't get on them too soon and make
- 57:28them buck. So it's so hard to and you're
- 57:32you're preparing them to go straight into a new home.
- 57:34My horse was sold with the first round.
- 57:36Somebody went up and bought my horse.
- 57:38My horse got sold immediately. He's going straight into a new
- 57:41home. No idea what kind of home he's
- 57:43going to get. How can I make sure that he's
- 57:46prepared to not hurt these people when he gets home or that
- 57:49he's not going to be scared of the saddle if they wait a week
- 57:52and pull the saddle out a week later.
- 57:55So covering your bases. Like he was really confident
- 57:58with the saddle. I could confidently pick his
- 58:00feet up. He was easy to catch after the
- 58:02first time. Stuff like that.
- 58:04Like what's more important, winning the challenge or making
- 58:07a horse that's going to be successful later in life?
- 58:10And that's a hard thing as a competitor to decide, But
- 58:15thankfully I was gifted the ability to be able to do both.
- 58:19I had a horse that could handle the pressure and took things in
- 58:22stride and was going to be a good citizen after.
- 58:25And it I won the challenge on him as well.
- 58:27So it was, I thankfully didn't have to like make a choice.
- 58:33I've seen competitors have to like sacrifice the competition
- 58:36to make sure their horse didn't have a horrible experience.
- 58:40But I thankfully had a really, really cool little horse that
- 58:43was like, willing to try. So yeah.
- 58:49Tell us now about what you are now doing with Get Horsemanship
- 58:53and your approach and all those things.
- 58:57Yeah. So I think through the past,
- 59:00we'll say a couple of years experience, I'm, I'm finding
- 59:04that it's OK to just take things slower.
- 59:07I always, I think Clint Anderson said it, be as soft as possible,
- 59:12but as firm as necessary. My horses that leave my
- 59:15programmer generally will respond off of as little
- 59:19pressure as possible, but also know there is a consequence, you
- 59:22know, for bad behavior. You know, like I don't.
- 59:27It's so hard in the liberty world to find a balance between
- 59:31being you do you, if you would like to, if you don't mind,
- 59:36could we please? And no, this is a boundary.
- 59:39You have to do this today. Like I always tell people, if
- 59:43there was an emergency, like I have a lot of people that come
- 59:46to me that want to do liberty, They want that warm fuzzy.
- 59:49They want that wild stallion of the Samaron connection.
- 59:54But if there's an emergency, if your barn's on fire, are you
- 59:58going to go in there and be like, if you please, will you
- 1:00:00please come and get in the trailer?
- 1:00:02Like hurry? They no, they have to understand
- 1:00:05that if you amp the pressure up, if you ask something, if you
- 1:00:08demand something right now, they have to be like, OK, like I
- 1:00:11trust you. We have a good enough
- 1:00:12partnership that I'll do it. So I think finding that balance
- 1:00:16of offering as much liberty as I can, but also.
- 1:00:22Making sure that these horses are safe if they ever, if
- 1:00:26something ever happens to be my personal horses can have normal
- 1:00:29lives to my liberty team can go and be, you know, saddle horses
- 1:00:34or pack horses or mounted shooting horses.
- 1:00:37We do some mounted shooting stuff.
- 1:00:40I always try to prepare my personal horses to have other
- 1:00:44careers outside of being liberty horses or being, you know,
- 1:00:50whatever I do, they can do other things too.
- 1:00:52So my program is, I like to say that I'm versatile.
- 1:00:57A lot of horses that come through my program can be Rd.
- 1:01:00Bratless. By the time they leave, they can
- 1:01:02do obstacles, they can do trails.
- 1:01:04We've worked Colts off of them, we've worked cows off of them.
- 1:01:08They go home with like a well-rounded experience.
- 1:01:13So I always tell people when they want to send a horse to me,
- 1:01:17I'm going to take as long as it takes.
- 1:01:19Like it might take six months, it might take a year, it might
- 1:01:22take a month, I don't know. I'm going to take as long as it
- 1:01:26takes for your horse to learn my process.
- 1:01:31And everybody wants something different.
- 1:01:32Some people just want to know that their their Mustang, their
- 1:01:36wild Mustang can be caught in a big pen, pick up all four feet,
- 1:01:40load no trailer, and they want to do the rest.
- 1:01:42Some people want a seasoned trail horse when it comes home.
- 1:01:48Everybody wants something different, but I always tell
- 1:01:50people it takes as much time as it takes.
- 1:01:53I'm going to try to do this with as much compliance from your
- 1:01:57horse as I can. I don't like to force horses
- 1:01:59into situations. Even with the Germany horses,
- 1:02:04excuse me, Even with the Germany horses, I take as much time as
- 1:02:07it takes. And if they're not ready to get
- 1:02:11on that plane and go to Europe, they don't go.
- 1:02:14We do not force them into that situation.
- 1:02:16If they can't handle the pressure, if they can't handle
- 1:02:20the stress, if they don't eat when they're under stress, if
- 1:02:22they don't drink water under stress, I will not put them in
- 1:02:26an environment that's that stressful, if that makes sense.
- 1:02:31They stay here and continue training or get adopted out to
- 1:02:35someone else or however they need to go.
- 1:02:38So I would just say through through the last two years, my
- 1:02:43approach has become a little bit softer and more understanding.
- 1:02:47I think as young people, there's a lot of pressure to just get it
- 1:02:51done. Get that horse road.
- 1:02:52Even if he bucks, you better get on him and ride him and get him
- 1:02:56broke in in 90 days because that client wants him back broke in
- 1:03:0090 days. And now I'm like, it might take
- 1:03:02more time than that. I am not.
- 1:03:04If I think he's going to buck, I'm not going to get on him.
- 1:03:06He's not ready if he's bucking, that's it.
- 1:03:09That is a, a fear response or a trauma response or he's in pain.
- 1:03:15I'm not going to ride him through that.
- 1:03:17I'm going to find a solution for him.
- 1:03:20If he's bucking, he's not ready for me to get on his back.
- 1:03:24If he's, you know, running through the halter, he doesn't
- 1:03:27trust people. He's worried about the halter.
- 1:03:30He's worried about being that close to people, whatever that
- 1:03:34looks like. Every horse is different.
- 1:03:37So just taking the time it takes to find a solution per horse.
- 1:03:41I have always reminded myself that I don't want to ever
- 1:03:45deliver a copy paste. This is the get horsemanship
- 1:03:48method. This is how you're going to
- 1:03:50train your horse. No, we have lots of options to
- 1:03:53train your horse. Whatever.
- 1:03:54I had this whole playbook of options for your horse.
- 1:03:58Whatever works best for him is what I'll do.
- 1:04:01So that's kind of where my program is at right now.
- 1:04:04I'm still learning things and building things into my program,
- 1:04:08but I try to do what fits your horse best, so yeah.
- 1:04:14Yeah, that's great. And it's nice to see more and
- 1:04:16more trainers kind of get to that point where time is going
- 1:04:21to be based on the needs of the horse rather than the human
- 1:04:24timeline. And I think as more trainers do
- 1:04:26that, that's what's going to be accepted more in the horse
- 1:04:30community. So I do think that's really good
- 1:04:31because yeah, 90 days is not going to be the same for every
- 1:04:34horse. Absolutely.
- 1:04:36And especially I feel like liberty is starting to take root
- 1:04:40here in the States. That's been very European and
- 1:04:44like in New Zealand, it's really big.
- 1:04:46It's really starting to take root here.
- 1:04:48I think in the future that's going to be the standard for
- 1:04:51horsemanship is going to be liberty.
- 1:04:54I think that's in the best interest of the horse.
- 1:04:56If done properly, I think people can make little monsters doing
- 1:05:00liberty and trick training and target training.
- 1:05:02It has to be done correctly, but I think in the future that will
- 1:05:06be the standard of horsemanship. So it's exciting to see that
- 1:05:10really start to take off here in the States.
- 1:05:12You know, with the Liberty Horsemanship or the Liberty
- 1:05:15Horse Festival and the competition, the Liberty Horse
- 1:05:18Competition and more people wanting to gentle wild horses at
- 1:05:22Liberty, it's going to take over at some point.
- 1:05:24And that's exciting because that means that our understanding of
- 1:05:29horses and horsemanship has gotten that deep versus just
- 1:05:34being ignorant and manhandling horses in the situations.
- 1:05:38So I'm excited to see that kind of take root here in the States.
- 1:05:42So. Yeah, it is great.
- 1:05:44And I think the more aware we are that there needs to be a
- 1:05:47balance. I think it can be really easy to
- 1:05:48lean one way or the other and, you know, to just be always soft
- 1:05:52and give the horse whatever they want and then they can often
- 1:05:55become dangerous or pushy or not listen, unless you're catering
- 1:05:59to them the whole time versus, you know, you being the boss.
- 1:06:02It's really great to see that partnership building between
- 1:06:05horse and human and that you guys are working together for
- 1:06:08the benefit of both. So I love that that's that's
- 1:06:11growing as well. So we were brought together from
- 1:06:18the Horses for Mental Health campaign.
- 1:06:21So talk a little bit about working with Samsung Strength
- 1:06:26Sustainable Veterans Project and the work that you're doing with
- 1:06:29them. Yeah, so I don't remember how
- 1:06:33Kathy found me. I had a horse for sale that I
- 1:06:38had started for a client. She just wasn't a good fit for
- 1:06:41her program. And she was like, I will sell
- 1:06:45her to you if you want to find her a home.
- 1:06:47So I was like, I'll take her. She's a big, beautiful buckskin
- 1:06:51Mustang from Oregon. And I had her advertised and
- 1:06:55just wasn't finding a home for her.
- 1:06:57And I thought it was so odd that I had this incredible horse that
- 1:07:00I couldn't find a home for. And I think Kathy found me on
- 1:07:04Facebook and was like, hey, would you consider donating your
- 1:07:08horse to our program? Like, I know that's a lot to
- 1:07:11ask, but like, here's what our program is and what we offer.
- 1:07:14And I was like, Oh yes, come get her.
- 1:07:19I have always had a passion and a soft spot for our veterans.
- 1:07:24I think that they are underappreciated and they're not
- 1:07:28taking care of in our society. They're literally laying down
- 1:07:32their lives for our country and then ending up homeless and
- 1:07:35struggling with mental health and suicide.
- 1:07:40We're a military family. We're 5 generations military or
- 1:07:436 now. I think my dad's a veteran, my
- 1:07:46grandpa's a veteran. I've got brothers in the Army
- 1:07:49and the National Guard. We are a military family.
- 1:07:52We support our veterans. So I always felt like I would at
- 1:07:56some point do some work supporting either a veterans
- 1:08:00organization or doing that ourselves here at our ranch.
- 1:08:06So when Kathy reached out to me, I was like, that is yes, I would
- 1:08:09love to work with you guys. I would love to support you guys
- 1:08:13because I think, I think that horses really make a difference
- 1:08:16in people's mental health. I've seen it in my life and I
- 1:08:20don't have, you know, war trauma, but we all experience
- 1:08:24trauma in our lives and horses can heal that.
- 1:08:28Horses can make a difference. I work in different things that
- 1:08:33I do in my career. I do work alongside veterans,
- 1:08:38you know, Army Rangers and guys that have had some pretty
- 1:08:41horrible things happen to them. And they all ride horses.
- 1:08:45They they all say horses save their lives.
- 1:08:49So yeah, I was so excited to be able to partner up with Samsung
- 1:08:52Strength. So they have Dasani, which is
- 1:08:55the first horse, and then I donated a second horse to them I
- 1:09:00think last year for somebody they were working with.
- 1:09:03And then they have a third horse that I trained that my client
- 1:09:07donated to them as well. So I love to see what they're
- 1:09:11doing. I love to help their program.
- 1:09:14If we have horses that are a good fit, I'm like, hey, I have
- 1:09:16a horse. Like do you guys need another
- 1:09:18horse? I think we're going down there
- 1:09:21for a clinic in May. So that's super exciting.
- 1:09:24Just love being involved with what they've got going on.
- 1:09:28They've always been really kind to everybody here at Get Horse
- 1:09:31and the Chip and my whole team. So yeah, we, we love them.
- 1:09:35They're an incredible program, great organization, so.
- 1:09:40Yeah, and this is a great time for anyone else who wants to
- 1:09:42contribute, to seek them out and to do donations.
- 1:09:47They're going to be in the Horses for Mental Health
- 1:09:49campaign where they're kind of working to build up their
- 1:09:52donations to make sure their horses are taken care of and
- 1:09:54they can keep providing those services.
- 1:09:56So super great opportunity there for anyone who loves horses and
- 1:10:00appreciates veterans. It's really good organization to
- 1:10:03support. Thank you so much for being
- 1:10:06here. I absolutely love listening to
- 1:10:09your experiences. I so admire your like yes,
- 1:10:12attitude that you're like, oh, I'm gonna go, you know, across
- 1:10:16the world to train horses. This sounds amazing.
- 1:10:19So such a good example and like so much great advice for someone
- 1:10:23who's wanting to get into the world of horses and to learn.
- 1:10:27One thing that really stood out to me is like, you're always
- 1:10:30learning. You're always taking advantage
- 1:10:32of opportunities to learn, and I think that is really a key with
- 1:10:35horses. Be open to that, open to
- 1:10:37learning new ways. Don't be stuck in the lane that
- 1:10:40you started in, because a lot of us did start where maybe we had
- 1:10:43these rules that you're supposed to follow and always commit to
- 1:10:47with horses. But there are so many, so many
- 1:10:50good ways to have a life with horses and appreciate the work
- 1:10:53you're doing, so many cool programs you're involved in, and
- 1:10:56definitely your heart for the Mustangs.
- 1:10:58They need all the help they can get from people who who care
- 1:11:01about them. So absolutely, absolutely, thank
- 1:11:05you so much for being here. Yes, thank you so much for
- 1:11:08having you tell everybody where they can find you, how they can
- 1:11:11take advantage of your services, what you offer to the public.
- 1:11:15Yeah, so I am on Facebook as Grace Thompson and Instagram and
- 1:11:22TikTok as get horsemanship that's gentle, effective and
- 1:11:27thorough horsemanship. So GET and then I also have a
- 1:11:32website, ioffer clinics, demos, lessons, virtual lessons, and I
- 1:11:37am taking in client horses at the moment.
- 1:11:41So yeah, if you know, I love to help people and I have the same
- 1:11:45approach for people as horses. Everybody needs something
- 1:11:48different. And I feel like a lot of
- 1:11:51training programs are very like, oh, we train raining horses or
- 1:11:55oh, we train ranch riding horses or we do X probably whatever you
- 1:12:00need. I'm happy to learn alongside
- 1:12:03you. I'm happy to help you find your
- 1:12:05passion with your horse. I'm, I always encourage people
- 1:12:08when they send a horse to me. Let your horse tell you what he
- 1:12:12wants to do. Horses always have a knack for
- 1:12:14something. Summer liberty horses, summer
- 1:12:16ranch horses, summer mounted shooting horses.
- 1:12:18Let your horse tell you. But yeah, so my website,
- 1:12:23Facebook, Instagram, Tiktok, reach out, shoot me a message
- 1:12:27and we'll see what we can do. Yeah, definitely a great
- 1:12:31resource for people to take advantage of and for someone who
- 1:12:34wants to help them build that partnership.
- 1:12:36So thank you again for being here and for sharing all your
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