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Almost Famous OGs: Trista’s Wedding Special Part 1 · The Ben and Ashley I Almost Famous Podcast

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  Speaker 1: This is the almost famous podcast with iHeartRadio.
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  Speaker 2: All Right, Bob, I'm so excited about this episode because
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  Speaker 2: it was, of course one of the best weekends, nice days,
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  Speaker 2: all of the above of my life. So we are
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  Speaker 2: going to do a two parter for everybody listening, We
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  Speaker 2: are going to do a two parter. So this is
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  Speaker 2: going to be the first episode where we are going
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  Speaker 2: to talk and actually we're going to reminisce all about
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  Speaker 2: my wedding to Ryan. And you were there, of course
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  Speaker 2: for all of you were there, Well, you weren't really
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  Speaker 2: there for the engagement, I guess, but you were there
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  Speaker 2: for the you know, leading up to the engagement, and
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  Speaker 2: then you were there for our bachelorette and bachelorette parties
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  Speaker 2: or bachelor and bachelorette parties, and then for the wedding
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  Speaker 2: of course.
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  Speaker 1: So I am so excited.
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  Speaker 3: I love it.
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  Speaker 4: Can you blame it's twenty years I mean, isn't that crazy?
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  Speaker 1: I really can't. I do not feel that old.
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  Speaker 4: Do I love that old? You do not?
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  Speaker 1: Thank you?
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  Speaker 4: I mean, oh my gosh, I mean it's.
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  Speaker 2: Crazy that it was on the spot. No, no, twenty
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  Speaker 2: years ago.
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  Speaker 5: I mean I've thought about it in many episodes when
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  Speaker 5: you say, you know, oh, I'm the fairy, you know,
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  Speaker 5: the fairy godmother.
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  Speaker 4: I've been around forever.
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  Speaker 5: I'm always like, but you don't look at You don't
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  Speaker 5: look at that's for sure. But I remember your wedding.
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  Speaker 1: Yes, well, I hope so millions do.
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  Speaker 4: But I will tell you I remember it just thinking
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  Speaker 4: to myself.
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  Speaker 5: First of all, you know, we were relatively fresh off
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  Speaker 5: the show, right, and then I had just gone to
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  Speaker 5: film my season as a Bachelor. But I remember thinking like, uh,
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  Speaker 5: you know, I felt a lot of things. One, I
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  Speaker 5: was so proud of the two of you. Second, I
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  Speaker 5: was so disappointed that you guys set the bar this
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  Speaker 5: high and I wasn't getting married from the show, you know.
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  Speaker 5: But it was amazing, such a cool event, and you
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  Speaker 5: get to know your friends and your family and such wonderful,
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  Speaker 5: wonderful people. And I mean, but it was the biggest
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  Speaker 5: production I mean ever, right. It made what we had
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  Speaker 5: done on The Bachelorette and The Bachelor looked like potatoes
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  Speaker 5: compared to what went on.
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  Speaker 4: At that wedding.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, true story.
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  Speaker 2: Which actually it's funny that you bring that up, because
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  Speaker 2: I will be getting to interview Stephanie Leidecker, who was
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  Speaker 2: a producer on my season and maybe probably even your season,
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  Speaker 2: and then she ended up being like the correspondent for
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  Speaker 2: the show. I don't know if you remember this part,
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  Speaker 2: like torrespondent for the show, and she would like throw
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  Speaker 2: it back to Chris, who was like outside waiting for
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  Speaker 2: the you know, the venue to be prepped. And so
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  Speaker 2: I am excited to talk to her about the fact
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  Speaker 2: that for the like in the negotiations for the wedding,
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  Speaker 2: they said, you can either have cameras in your face
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  Speaker 2: twenty four to seven during that entire weekend, like we
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  Speaker 2: are going to follow you around everywhere. You will not
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  Speaker 2: have any time off from the cameras, and both of
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  Speaker 2: us were like yuck, Like we want to be able
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  Speaker 2: to enjoy this with our family and friends. We want
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  Speaker 2: to have moments without the cameras, because first of all,
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  Speaker 2: we didn't want them in their faces, Like we didn't
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  Speaker 2: want everyone at there at the wedding and there for
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  Speaker 2: the weekend to have to suffer through the cameras, because that's.
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  Speaker 1: Not what she was signed up for.
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  Speaker 2: Of course we had, but so anyway, it was either
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  Speaker 2: that or we have Stephanie with me, and then Charlie
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  Speaker 2: of course with Ryan, and even though that was so strange,
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  Speaker 2: it ended up happening because we were like, we just
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  Speaker 2: don't want cameras in our face twenty four seven, you know. Yeah, yeah,
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  Speaker 2: so production, Yes, for sure, it was a production.
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  Speaker 4: I remember.
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  Speaker 5: I remember that very well because I remember, you know, obviously,
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  Speaker 5: you know, Charlie was coming off the same timeframe that
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  Speaker 5: I was coming off of, and and it was kind
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  Speaker 5: of awkward because he was in theory the runner up, right,
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  Speaker 5: so it's kind of like, oh okay, But it was
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  Speaker 5: one of those moments where it was like, you know,
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  Speaker 5: it was so undeniable. I mean, you know, it really
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  Speaker 5: was so undeniable for you and Ryan that I mean,
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  Speaker 5: I think Charlie would have been lying if he said
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  Speaker 5: that he didn't sense it as well. You know, it
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  Speaker 5: was one of those things that was just such an
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  Speaker 5: obvious thing for any of us that were there. And
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  Speaker 5: then you know, to be at the wedding and to
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  Speaker 5: be invited first and foremost was a huge honor.
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  Speaker 4: But I also felt like, you know, I loved you know, just.
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  Speaker 5: Your your mom and everyone being there and Ryan's family,
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  Speaker 5: and you know, it was just one of those moments
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  Speaker 5: where it was kind of like, you know, it's it
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  Speaker 5: was hard to remember at times that it that it
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  Speaker 5: was in the lead up, I should say hard to
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  Speaker 5: remember that it was a real wedding because you know,
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  Speaker 5: you're seeing it, like you're seeing all the production crews
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  Speaker 5: and everything. But then once the wedding, once I saw
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  Speaker 5: you at the wedding, once I saw Ryan up at
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  Speaker 5: the front, and then I saw you coming down the aisle,
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  Speaker 5: then it was I forgot it was a TV show.
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  Speaker 5: I forgot that it was it was only about the wedding.
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  Speaker 5: And I remember thinking that to myself, like, you know,
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  Speaker 5: because I love weddings. And I remember thinking as you
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  Speaker 5: were coming up the up the aisle, and I'm looking
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  Speaker 5: at Ryan and he's like emotional because he is an
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  Speaker 5: emotional guy, and you know, just looking at the family
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  Speaker 5: and friends, and it was great because the real, the
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  Speaker 5: real feelings of a real wedding far surpassed the sound
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  Speaker 5: of the choppers circling over us and all that's nothing.
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  Speaker 4: I forgot until it was brought up. I kind of
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  Speaker 4: forgot all about it. You know. It's just a real
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  Speaker 4: beautiful moment.
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  Speaker 1: Thank you.
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  Speaker 4: Oh you're very.
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  Speaker 2: Welcome, and I so I don't know if you've watched
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  Speaker 2: it back, but I watched it back and love the
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  Speaker 2: fact that we were in Saint Martin with you know,
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  Speaker 2: all of my my friends and Ryan's friends. Yeah, and
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  Speaker 2: you were of course part of it because you guys
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  Speaker 2: had become friends from the show, so they had you
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  Speaker 2: kind of like host this little party. And I want
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  Speaker 2: to ask you, how freaking awkward was it when you
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  Speaker 2: were having to like rope in Ryan's friend Ben, who,
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  Speaker 2: by the way, has totally come around.
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  Speaker 1: He he had a.
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  Speaker 2: Little bit of a drinking problem, but he has he
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  Speaker 2: has been sober for years now. And yeah, and I'm
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  Speaker 2: really actually really proud of them, and We're both still
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  Speaker 2: very close, like Ryan and he and Ryan are still
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  Speaker 2: very close. Sure, but that whole part was so freaking awkward.
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  Speaker 1: Can you talk about that?
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  Speaker 5: You know, I just didn't think they were going to
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  Speaker 5: use it. I mean I was, yeah, So, I mean.
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  Speaker 4: It was it was just a because I thought he
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  Speaker 4: was such a cool guy. It was just like a
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  Speaker 4: I was almost I thought.
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  Speaker 5: I mean, in my mind, I thought I was like
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  Speaker 5: helping protect them from you know, but you know, from
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  Speaker 5: anything being aired. And then the fact that I got
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  Speaker 5: aired anyway, I was like, oh, dude, like yeah, I
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  Speaker 5: mean I remember thinking.
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  Speaker 4: That, you know, I was.
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  Speaker 5: I don't know, it was weird, Like when you look
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  Speaker 5: back at those moments I have, I have conflicting I
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  Speaker 5: have conflicting emotions about some stuff because I'm like, man,
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  Speaker 5: you don't need to have drama in everything, Like you know,
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  Speaker 5: it's like, can't we have just let this be like
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  Speaker 5: an awesome which it was one hundred percent of the time, frankly,
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  Speaker 5: an awesome, fun gathering of people who love you and
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  Speaker 5: a door guys and want to see you be happy.
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  Speaker 4: Can't we just let that be it? Why are you
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  Speaker 4: got to make these little wrinkles and you know?
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  Speaker 5: And then I felt like I got set up a
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  Speaker 5: few times to ask some questions I would have never asked,
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  Speaker 5: but I thought you guys knew about them and we
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  Speaker 5: were all prepared for them. And I'm like, so how
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  Speaker 5: did this go? And then I'm like, wait what? And
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  Speaker 5: then I realized, in my heart of hearts, i feel
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  Speaker 5: like a villain. All of a sudden, I'm walking away
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  Speaker 5: from the game.
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  Speaker 1: Oh we knew it wasn't you.
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  Speaker 2: No, we knew it was coming from production. I mean,
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  Speaker 2: how could you not being like what we had gone through.
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  Speaker 2: And one of those questions was so our parents are
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  Speaker 2: sitting at you know, at one of the tables and
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  Speaker 2: you're asking us questions and we're having to it's kind
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  Speaker 2: of like the Newlywed game.
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  Speaker 4: Yeah, it was. It was a fun segment.
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  Speaker 2: But it was the question of sEH, when's the first
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  Speaker 2: time you had sex? And and I was like what,
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  Speaker 2: I'm like, and I go naturally, I'm like I don't
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  Speaker 2: want to talk about that, and they're like, well you
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  Speaker 2: just did.
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  Speaker 1: Like Everyone's like, well you just did. I'm like, damn it,
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  Speaker 1: you got me. So anyway, it was.
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  Speaker 2: It was actually a really cute moment because I think
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  Speaker 2: Ryan came to the rescue, like he was like.
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  Speaker 1: He wrote on the board.
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  Speaker 2: It never happened or it hasn't happened yet or something
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  Speaker 2: like that. He came to the rescue. I can't remember
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  Speaker 2: exactly what he said, and I was like, yay, thank you.
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  Speaker 5: Didn't he say, because I feel like I stole this
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  Speaker 5: from him and I haven't seen it since we did it.
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  Speaker 5: I never even got to see it. But I did
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  Speaker 5: he say, if you didn't see it on camera, it
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  Speaker 5: didn't happen. Did he say that?
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  Speaker 2: I don't. I don't think so it was something else,
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  Speaker 2: but he did definitely kind of like save that moment
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  Speaker 2: from like embarrassment, and it ended up being a really,
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  Speaker 2: you know, a really sweet cute moment the part with Ben, though,
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  Speaker 2: You're right, like I think I was feeling the same
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  Speaker 2: way in that I didn't feel like it was gonna air.
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  Speaker 6: I didn't even know that. I knew that it was.
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  Speaker 2: Being filmed, like I was being filmed because I think
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  Speaker 2: we had taken a b or something and and I
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  Speaker 2: on film like where you can watch it back. Actually
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  Speaker 2: I wonder if people can watch it back. But we'll
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  Speaker 2: get there when you watch it back, I say he
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  Speaker 2: Ben is not my favorite friend of yours right now
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  Speaker 2: or something. Yeah, yeah, because he was being he was
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  Speaker 2: just being rude and disrespectful to you, kind of being
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  Speaker 2: the host, and even was like.
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  Speaker 1: He shouldn't be doing this. One of your friends should be.
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  Speaker 4: Doing it, right, I remember that, Yeah, you.
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  Speaker 1: Know, it was it was just disrespectful.
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  Speaker 4: I didn't disagree with him.
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  Speaker 5: That was the hard part, because yeah, this part of me,
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  Speaker 5: a part of me was like, you know, I do
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  Speaker 5: feel I understand why I'm here, but I would have
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  Speaker 5: hoped I would have been invited regardless of It was
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  Speaker 5: like one of those things where I was like, I
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  Speaker 5: don't disagree with him, Like there are some moments where
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  Speaker 5: you just wanted to be your closest friends when it's
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  Speaker 5: around your wedding and not have this dude that you know,
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  Speaker 5: he didn't know me, Ben didn't know me, so but
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  Speaker 5: I remember, you know, I remember thinking that in those moments,
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  Speaker 5: going oh god, he's probably not wrong. I mean, I
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  Speaker 5: you know, I don't like that he's saying it, but
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  Speaker 5: I get where he's coming from. And you know, because
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  Speaker 5: I think people forget like even though we were at
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  Speaker 5: that time, especially living all like literally every day on camera,
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  Speaker 5: that felt like it is still our real lives. I mean,
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  Speaker 5: you guys have proven that twenty years later, right that
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  Speaker 5: that it really still was your real life. And I
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  Speaker 5: remember being hyper aware of it at that time, like
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  Speaker 5: thinking to myself, like, this is such an important time
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  Speaker 5: for them.
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  Speaker 4: I don't want to have like producers saying go ask this.
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  Speaker 5: And then when I realized I was asking some stuff
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  Speaker 5: that maybe I didn't feel comfortable with, I'm like, why
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  Speaker 5: didn't they just say no?
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  Speaker 4: You know? But I just thought, Okay, yeah, It's all good.
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  Speaker 2: If anyone was going to understand it, it was us,
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  Speaker 2: you know, like that, Yeah, we had been living planning
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  Speaker 2: the wedding even after the show, you know.
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  Speaker 1: So no, there was.
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  Speaker 6: There were no ill There was no ill will or anything.
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  Speaker 2: I mean, please, Charlie was there in the room with
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  Speaker 2: Ryan when he's getting ready. Like the funniest part, The
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  Speaker 2: funniest part is Charlie's like.
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  Speaker 6: Hey, Chris, so Ryan's dad is about to give him
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  Speaker 6: his last words before they walk out to the ceremony.
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  Speaker 6: He's like, let's listen.
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  Speaker 2: In and he like, oh my god, Ryan and his dad,
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  Speaker 2: And I was like, this is hysterical that this is
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  Speaker 2: what my wedding was like, this is.
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  Speaker 5: You know what though, it was, I mean what a
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  Speaker 5: watershed moment. I mean not only for the you know,
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  Speaker 5: for the for the franchise, but for you and Ryan too.
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  Speaker 5: I mean, you guys, really that's what put everything on
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  Speaker 5: the map as it being something that you really truly
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  Speaker 5: could find love from, because you guys proved it. And
• 11:37
  Speaker 5: you know, I think I think, you know, a twenty
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  Speaker 5: year later, vowral renewal, you know, vowl renul would probably
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  Speaker 5: prove it even more because you know, at the end
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  Speaker 5: of the day, it's it is still something that we
• 11:47
  Speaker 5: both know. Is you know, people when they hear you're
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  Speaker 5: on the show, oh that's not real, right, And I
• 11:52
  Speaker 5: always said to myself, I'm like, well, Tristan, Ryan are real,
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  Speaker 5: you know, And I mean I just I just had
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  Speaker 5: a conversation before we were on the phone this morning
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  Speaker 5: about it how Ryan and I were I'll never forget
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  Speaker 5: me basically being like, why do they keep talking about
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  Speaker 5: me playing football in college?
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  Speaker 4: He played for the Ravens, which it was so annoying,
• 12:10
  Speaker 4: like he's not just a firefighter? Okay.
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  Speaker 5: I was more defensive of the pigeonholing Ryan than I
• 12:16
  Speaker 5: was of me. You know, it was like, I it
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  Speaker 5: met more to me because I just I don't know,
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  Speaker 5: I think about that sometimes, but yeah, it was. It
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  Speaker 5: was one of those moments where I mean, I was
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  Speaker 5: so honored to be invited, and you know, it was
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  Speaker 5: definitely one of those things that I mean, everything from
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  Speaker 5: you know, the reception, it was just so gorgeous. I mean,
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  Speaker 5: everything was perfect, Like you guys didn't miss a beam.
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  Speaker 2: Well, we had Mindi Weiss, who also I will be
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  Speaker 2: talking to. I totally forgot to mention that, and my
• 12:46
  Speaker 2: maid of honor Sarah and Ryan chimes in. So for
• 12:49
  Speaker 2: everyone who's thinking, ah, should I say some time for
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  Speaker 2: this episode.
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  Speaker 1: You should.
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  Speaker 4: Yeah, you definitely should.
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  Speaker 5: It'll give you all the feels because it'll make you
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  Speaker 5: feel like you were at the wedding, which I was,
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  Speaker 5: and I will tell you to this day, easily one
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  Speaker 5: of the most beautiful weddings I've ever been.
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  Speaker 2: Ah, thank you, And I wonder I'm glad that you
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  Speaker 2: say that, because in one of the clips, Stephanie Leidecker
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  Speaker 2: is interviewing you and Russ and Jamie Blythe and you're
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  Speaker 2: with Estella, Yes, and she was she was like.
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  Speaker 1: I'm so happy for you guys.
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  Speaker 2: You know that you're so happy, or says something like that,
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  Speaker 2: and she's like, how is life And you're like, well,
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  Speaker 2: we're taking it easier.
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  Speaker 4: Yeah. I mean, I will say this and this is
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  Speaker 4: you remember that.
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  Speaker 5: I do. I remember that vividly. I I was trying
• 13:41
  Speaker 5: to be a good guy. Okay, as I want to say,
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  Speaker 5: I'm not going to get the means, you know, the
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  Speaker 5: real story, but I was trying to be a good
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  Speaker 5: guy and I was trying not to put out these
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  Speaker 5: platitudes that were gonna because I already knew where things
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  Speaker 5: were going. And yeah, I had kind of communicated that
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  Speaker 5: to Estella before before the wedding, which was a mistake,
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  Speaker 5: but I thought I was doing a good thing and
• 14:00
  Speaker 5: doing that and being honest, and so I was just
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  Speaker 5: kind of like, oh god, you know, I knew the
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  Speaker 5: question was probably gonna come, and yeah, but I was
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  Speaker 5: I was just trying to you know. I mean, to
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  Speaker 5: this day, I still really like her and have a
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  Speaker 5: care for time, so that part of it never changed.
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  Speaker 5: But it was like I kind of realized in that
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  Speaker 5: moment we were going down this path. We'd already been
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  Speaker 5: trying to keep it secret for five months, you know,
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  Speaker 5: and yeah, and you know, but we still get told
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  Speaker 5: this that one of the shortest relationships ever because it
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  Speaker 5: was like three weeks after the finale, but you know, yeah,
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  Speaker 5: but we really had been dating for five months. But
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  Speaker 5: you know, I remember thinking, I'm like, I don't want
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  Speaker 5: to ruin anything. I don't want to make anything about us,
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  Speaker 5: you know. Yeah, and you know, sure enough we couldn't
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  Speaker 5: dodge that bullet. But you know, it was what it was.
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  Speaker 2: It's all good. You could just tell. I was like
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  Speaker 2: in hindsight looking back. You know, obviously I knew that
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  Speaker 2: things were rocky, and you know, just if if anyone
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  Speaker 2: was watching the show, you know, the million people who
• 15:00
  Speaker 2: were watching the show, I'm pretty sure they understood that
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  Speaker 2: maybe things weren't gonna you.
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  Speaker 4: Know, they were gonna end in marriage.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, maybe not.
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  Speaker 7: I don't know what.
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  Speaker 4: A great friendship story to tell these.
• 15:12
  Speaker 1: Many years, right, that's right, it is. I mean we've
• 15:15
  Speaker 1: had her on the show.
• 15:16
  Speaker 4: Yeah, she's awesome.
• 15:17
  Speaker 2: Beautiful and lovely, and I'm just so happy for her happiness.
• 15:21
  Speaker 4: I am too, I am too.
• 15:22
  Speaker 2: Yeah, No, it was it was fun. It was just
• 15:25
  Speaker 2: fun watching it back and you know, getting to like
• 15:29
  Speaker 2: see it remind myself all the people that were there
• 15:32
  Speaker 2: that I have maybe lost touch with even Yeah.
• 15:36
  Speaker 5: Yeah, life gets in the way years of years later, right,
• 15:39
  Speaker 5: I mean it's like you have children now and you
• 15:42
  Speaker 5: have your you know, commitments elsewhere, and you know, I
• 15:44
  Speaker 5: think about that too.
• 15:45
  Speaker 4: I mean, gosh, Canyon and I have been married. This
• 15:49
  Speaker 4: will be seven years.
• 15:51
  Speaker 5: We're married in twenty sixteen, so amazing, Yeah, seven years
• 15:54
  Speaker 5: this November, And I mean I even think about it sometimes,
• 15:57
  Speaker 5: I'm like where what who?
• 16:00
  Speaker 4: You know, where are these people. I mean, you know
• 16:01
  Speaker 4: you think.
• 16:02
  Speaker 5: About that stuff years later, right, so you know, but
• 16:05
  Speaker 5: it's definitely you know, I love you guys. I love
• 16:08
  Speaker 5: you and Ryan so much together and loved being a
• 16:11
  Speaker 5: part of that chapter. But that day was definitely all
• 16:14
  Speaker 5: about you and Ryan. And you know, like I said,
• 16:18
  Speaker 5: I forgot it was even a TV show because after
• 16:20
  Speaker 5: a while being made into a TV show, I should say,
• 16:23
  Speaker 5: because after a while it just became about two people
• 16:25
  Speaker 5: I truly care so much about finding happiness and taking
• 16:29
  Speaker 5: that next step together. And hey, twenty years Proofson the pudding.
• 16:32
  Speaker 5: You know, you guys are definitely real too. Yeah, if
• 16:35
  Speaker 5: anybody would have an a doubt, can you really find
• 16:37
  Speaker 5: love on that show? UK's Sutter Nay Wren.
• 16:41
  Speaker 1: Let's look at this ring?
• 16:43
  Speaker 4: Yeah yeah, I think I can't think you can't. Well,
• 16:47
  Speaker 4: I'm excited to watch your episode a long with everybody else.
• 16:49
  Speaker 4: I'm really excited.
• 16:50
  Speaker 1: Thank you.
• 16:51
  Speaker 2: I know it'll be it'll be really fun to connect
• 16:54
  Speaker 2: with Stephanie and Sarah and Ryan and Mindy Weiss, like
• 16:57
  Speaker 2: just all the things that she's done since the since
• 17:00
  Speaker 2: the wedding.
• 17:00
  Speaker 1: I mean she was.
• 17:01
  Speaker 2: Huge, massive before, but now she's just all everyone knows
• 17:07
  Speaker 2: who she is if you did do before because Kardashians
• 17:10
  Speaker 2: and just all of the events and weddings that she's
• 17:12
  Speaker 2: done since. So yeah and not, I'm not I'm not
• 17:16
  Speaker 2: taking any responsibility for that. She was amazing before she
• 17:20
  Speaker 2: did my wedding. That's why I wanted her.
• 17:22
  Speaker 4: Yeah.
• 17:23
  Speaker 1: Yeah, I'm just.
• 17:24
  Speaker 2: So excited to talk to everybody, including you, So thank
• 17:27
  Speaker 2: you for ching.
• 17:28
  Speaker 5: Thank you, thanks for having me at the wedding and
• 17:30
  Speaker 5: on today's episode of course.
• 17:32
  Speaker 1: And Bachelor Party.
• 17:35
  Speaker 2: Okay, great, Well, thanks guys for listening, and I hope
• 17:39
  Speaker 2: you tune in. I'm going to be talking to Stephanie
• 17:41
  Speaker 2: Laidecker next. So I am really really excited to bring
• 17:55
  Speaker 2: in our first guest. She was a producer on my
• 17:58
  Speaker 2: season of the Bachelorette and she ended up commentating, officiating,
• 18:03
  Speaker 2: whatever hosting, co hosting with Chris Harrison. The word is
• 18:08
  Speaker 2: she was there in the room with me, with my girlfriends,
• 18:11
  Speaker 2: with my bridesmaids, getting all the you know, behind the
• 18:15
  Speaker 2: scenes action for the wedding. And we've stayed in touch
• 18:19
  Speaker 2: thanks to Facebook, and she's had so much success in
• 18:23
  Speaker 2: terms of production. But I just adore her and I'm
• 18:26
  Speaker 2: so excited to talk to Steph Leidecker.
• 18:29
  Speaker 1: Hi, guys, Hi, step.
• 18:31
  Speaker 7: It's been far too long. I don't I want to
• 18:34
  Speaker 7: be in But are we live?
• 18:37
  Speaker 1: We are live.
• 18:38
  Speaker 2: We're just going for it. We're just gonna go for it.
• 18:41
  Speaker 2: I am so excited to talk to you. I mean,
• 18:43
  Speaker 2: obviously we've been friends on Facebook since we met, since
• 18:47
  Speaker 2: the show.
• 18:48
  Speaker 7: I don't even know.
• 18:49
  Speaker 2: Facebook wasn't on. Facebook wasn't a thing when we did
• 18:52
  Speaker 2: this show, so we were not Facebook friends then. But
• 18:57
  Speaker 2: I have just been watching. Did you watch any of it?
• 19:01
  Speaker 8: Oh?
• 19:02
  Speaker 9: I feel like I'm all of it and then some
• 19:04
  Speaker 9: I can't. I mean, I need ten hours if you
• 19:07
  Speaker 9: could carve out a three day weekend for us to
• 19:09
  Speaker 9: discuss your wedding. If I sound like I'm out of breath,
• 19:12
  Speaker 9: it's because I found this little.
• 19:17
  Speaker 7: Little memorabilia from your wedding. It was actually like a
• 19:20
  Speaker 7: mic You put it over your microphone.
• 19:22
  Speaker 9: Yes, and it says twistin Ryan's wedding and all things.
• 19:26
  Speaker 9: Thank and congrats on all the success and your beautiful family.
• 19:30
  Speaker 9: You are the shining star of what love is all about.
• 19:34
  Speaker 1: Thank you. That's so sweet.
• 19:37
  Speaker 2: And I love that you saved the mic box or
• 19:40
  Speaker 2: mike cube or whatever you call it.
• 19:41
  Speaker 7: I should send this to you.
• 19:43
  Speaker 3: I will.
• 19:43
  Speaker 1: No, No, you need to keep it.
• 19:45
  Speaker 2: I have so many measured I have lots of things.
• 19:48
  Speaker 2: I actually so we are selling our house or we're moving,
• 19:52
  Speaker 2: and I've been putting stuff in boxes, and I have
• 19:57
  Speaker 2: so many things from the wedding memorabilia and I haven't
• 20:01
  Speaker 2: even scratched the surface because I haven't gone through any closets.
• 20:04
  Speaker 1: But like just I have.
• 20:05
  Speaker 2: Candles that have surrounded our bathtub since we moved into
• 20:09
  Speaker 2: this house, which was before we got married. Well, I
• 20:12
  Speaker 2: guess that it would be after the wedding, but yes,
• 20:15
  Speaker 2: I mean it's all over the house, So you keep that.
• 20:18
  Speaker 7: I'm going to keep this one.
• 20:19
  Speaker 9: You just said the buzzword of The Bachelor, which is candles. Right,
• 20:23
  Speaker 9: So we're having candles around a bathtub. It sounds like
• 20:26
  Speaker 9: you're living down the tradition for now almost twenty years.
• 20:30
  Speaker 7: My goodness, it's pretty extraordinary. So much has.
• 20:33
  Speaker 9: Happened since then, and yeah, I get to play along
• 20:36
  Speaker 9: and watch from a distance, but those were some really
• 20:39
  Speaker 9: idyllic times.
• 20:40
  Speaker 7: Your wedding was the wedding of a lifetime, and you.
• 20:44
  Speaker 9: Know, I had the benefit of being a producer on
• 20:46
  Speaker 9: your season with when you fell in love with Ryan
• 20:49
  Speaker 9: and I, you know, we were hiding in broom closets
• 20:52
  Speaker 9: getting to watch you guys have a really authentic, beautiful experience.
• 20:57
  Speaker 9: And if I remember correctly, I feel like Ian didn't
• 21:01
  Speaker 9: even know what show he was on when he showed
• 21:03
  Speaker 9: Toy was like, I have no idea where I am.
• 21:06
  Speaker 7: I've never seen the show.
• 21:08
  Speaker 9: And then he fell deeply in love and it was
• 21:11
  Speaker 9: the real deal. And so much is always made about
• 21:13
  Speaker 9: it being impossible or it's just for the cameras, and
• 21:18
  Speaker 9: I mean, granted we're twenty years ago, but old school,
• 21:21
  Speaker 9: it was pretty extraordinary to kind of be on that
• 21:24
  Speaker 9: journey with you from a distance and getting to participate
• 21:28
  Speaker 9: in your wedding.
• 21:29
  Speaker 7: I still have a juicy sweatsuit from that.
• 21:35
  Speaker 2: So that's so funny because Blakesley, they are back now.
• 21:38
  Speaker 1: I don't know if you've heard, but they're trendy again.
• 21:41
  Speaker 2: And Blakesley is like, Mom, do you have any juicy
• 21:44
  Speaker 2: sweatsho sweatsuits? And I'm pointing to this box in my
• 21:47
  Speaker 2: closet top of my closet that it says bride because
• 21:51
  Speaker 2: mine's or no, it says missus Sutter or something like that,
• 21:55
  Speaker 2: and I said, probably, yeah, you probably don't want to
• 21:57
  Speaker 2: wear that one, which is yours, just it doesn't have
• 22:00
  Speaker 2: any importance.
• 22:01
  Speaker 9: I don't had any embroidery, but I remember the embroidery
• 22:04
  Speaker 9: so well. So, yeah, you had the best girlfriends that
• 22:07
  Speaker 9: were your bridesmaids.
• 22:08
  Speaker 7: I hope they're all.
• 22:09
  Speaker 1: Well, yeah they are, well, they are.
• 22:11
  Speaker 7: Awesome, writhing in all of the above. But you know,
• 22:13
  Speaker 7: it was a real wedding.
• 22:14
  Speaker 9: Yes, it's also a TV show, but the truth of
• 22:16
  Speaker 9: the matter was you were going through the paces of
• 22:18
  Speaker 9: a real thing and somehow I ended up with a
• 22:21
  Speaker 9: juicy sweatshirt and juicy sweatpands, you know, original.
• 22:25
  Speaker 7: Navy there definitely should have a.
• 22:27
  Speaker 9: Comeback and somebody should wear them and maybe the those.
• 22:32
  Speaker 7: So yeah, I'm glad to hear. You know. Love has thrived.
• 22:36
  Speaker 1: Love has thrived.
• 22:37
  Speaker 2: So tell everybody about how you got like behind the scenes,
• 22:42
  Speaker 2: how did you get chosen to kind of be And
• 22:45
  Speaker 2: I guess I should back up because I don't know
• 22:47
  Speaker 2: if people haven't seen it in a long time or
• 22:49
  Speaker 2: they'd never saw it. We had so as part of
• 22:54
  Speaker 2: the agreement for our wedding, they said, do you want
• 22:57
  Speaker 2: to have cameras on you twenty four to seven, or
• 23:01
  Speaker 2: we can give you another option. We're like, what's the
• 23:03
  Speaker 2: other option? And they said, we need to have someone
• 23:07
  Speaker 2: on a mic with you every so often as kind
• 23:10
  Speaker 2: of like a behind the scenes reporter, and then someone
• 23:13
  Speaker 2: with Ryan and Lo and Behold. Like, for me it
• 23:17
  Speaker 2: was awesome because we were friends as you were a producer.
• 23:21
  Speaker 2: But for Ryan it was Charlie, which is the craziest thing, Like,
• 23:26
  Speaker 2: I can't even believe that flew Like I am laughing
• 23:30
  Speaker 2: so hard watching this back, and Charlie's like, Bob is
• 23:34
  Speaker 2: about to give Ryan his last, you know, final words.
• 23:37
  Speaker 1: You know, let's listen in. And I'm like, oh my god,
• 23:41
  Speaker 1: is so cringe.
• 23:43
  Speaker 9: It was so Banana is the only weird Banana's part
• 23:46
  Speaker 9: of your wedding is me being there with a microphone.
• 23:49
  Speaker 4: So how that.
• 23:52
  Speaker 7: We were just laughing about it here at work? How
• 23:55
  Speaker 7: that happened? I was a producer on your.
• 23:56
  Speaker 9: Season on now First Bachelorette, and you know, had the
• 23:59
  Speaker 9: better bit of seeing it all go down, and internally,
• 24:03
  Speaker 9: I don't know, somebody, my then boss was like, oh yeah, Lieducker,
• 24:07
  Speaker 9: you're going to be at the wedding, and you know,
• 24:09
  Speaker 9: it's like you get a co host with Chris Harrison,
• 24:12
  Speaker 9: which sounded so incredibly exciting, was wedged in a dress
• 24:16
  Speaker 9: that it wasn't actually sewn in the back, and all
• 24:18
  Speaker 9: of the can't no.
• 24:20
  Speaker 7: I was like a disaster. I was a disaster.
• 24:23
  Speaker 9: You were so poised on your wedding day and all
• 24:26
  Speaker 9: I brought was a frazzleed element to it.
• 24:28
  Speaker 7: Yeah, they were like they would my shots.
• 24:30
  Speaker 9: They would be like live at the you know, rehearsal
• 24:34
  Speaker 9: dinner or it was as if I was on space
• 24:38
  Speaker 9: weighing in on the activities.
• 24:40
  Speaker 7: It was so scary. I was a deer in headlights.
• 24:42
  Speaker 7: I could search for words. And then the camera guy
• 24:45
  Speaker 7: and you know.
• 24:46
  Speaker 9: All of the crew were people that I had worked with,
• 24:48
  Speaker 9: like you forever, so like, you know, they're heckling me
• 24:51
  Speaker 9: during the commercial breaks, totally, why hucker.
• 24:54
  Speaker 7: You are crushing it in the worst way. I'm like,
• 24:57
  Speaker 7: this is not very helpful, and the.
• 24:59
  Speaker 9: Commercial bridge give me something to say to like you're
• 25:01
  Speaker 9: at a wedding, it's tristic normal.
• 25:04
  Speaker 7: I was like, okay, okay, okay. I was nervous. I
• 25:06
  Speaker 7: was so nervous.
• 25:07
  Speaker 9: There's words can't say, but what I wasn't nervous about.
• 25:10
  Speaker 7: Was just it was a big deal.
• 25:12
  Speaker 9: Remember I remember showing up and there was chairs being
• 25:16
  Speaker 9: set up for your actual ceremony, and then within a
• 25:19
  Speaker 9: date it had just like this layering of pink and
• 25:23
  Speaker 9: blushes and it was so magnificent and major. That was
• 25:27
  Speaker 9: like a big was the super Bowl of weddings. It
• 25:30
  Speaker 9: really felt that bad.
• 25:31
  Speaker 2: I mean I felt I felt it, but you know,
• 25:34
  Speaker 2: I was part of it, so I don't know how
• 25:36
  Speaker 2: much you can truly feel. But yeah, I mean it
• 25:38
  Speaker 2: was like I watching back and having Mindy talk about
• 25:43
  Speaker 2: how they were twenty four seven around the clock. They
• 25:46
  Speaker 2: had people working on stuff, and I believe it because
• 25:49
  Speaker 2: if you look at the space beforehand, it was just
• 25:52
  Speaker 2: a ballroom, you know, and they transformed that place like
• 25:56
  Speaker 2: the cherry blossoms everywhere, which Blakeslee has cherry blasts like
• 26:00
  Speaker 2: a kind of a wall mural in her room.
• 26:04
  Speaker 1: That I just love. All the little details that she did.
• 26:07
  Speaker 1: It was.
• 26:07
  Speaker 2: It was such an encreasing I still can't believe that
• 26:11
  Speaker 2: it was my wedding. I can't like and it was.
• 26:14
  Speaker 9: Real TV events, you know. For those who maybe have
• 26:17
  Speaker 9: watched it or hadn't seen it back you know, back.
• 26:19
  Speaker 7: Then this was the first of its kinds.
• 26:21
  Speaker 9: This was you know, America's sweethearts getting married viewers and
• 26:27
  Speaker 9: you know, people like me who were working behind the
• 26:29
  Speaker 9: scenes got to play along. So there was a real
• 26:32
  Speaker 9: payoff in it for everyone. Yeah, and it really felt important.
• 26:37
  Speaker 9: And you know, listen, everybody can say what they want
• 26:41
  Speaker 9: about reality TV. We call it unscripted now because it's
• 26:44
  Speaker 9: way fancier sounding, but no, in our day, and again
• 26:49
  Speaker 9: not to date myself as well, it was really all
• 26:53
  Speaker 9: you were creating dates and circumstances that would allow real
• 26:57
  Speaker 9: conversations and authenticity to occur. And you know, like every
• 27:02
  Speaker 9: woman alive, going through the pacing of dating is not
• 27:04
  Speaker 9: easy and doing it poised. You know, people don't realize
• 27:08
  Speaker 9: it's a lot of work to be the bachelorette let
• 27:10
  Speaker 9: amone have that really end in epic success?
• 27:14
  Speaker 7: And yeah, you bring up Charlie, Charlie, where is Charlie?
• 27:17
  Speaker 9: I know, I don't I remember I planned Charlie's hometown.
• 27:23
  Speaker 9: But you know I remember Ryan, he had the artwork
• 27:27
  Speaker 9: and he was writing poetry for you. And you know,
• 27:30
  Speaker 9: also something like worth noting behind the scenes too, is
• 27:33
  Speaker 9: you know, we're all sort of become this extension of
• 27:36
  Speaker 9: family and you know, people are really decent, and I'm
• 27:39
  Speaker 9: sure some people are not, but you guys so were
• 27:42
  Speaker 9: and made everybody feel very connected.
• 27:44
  Speaker 7: To the process. And you know, as the first bachelorette.
• 27:47
  Speaker 9: You know, again, people don't realize you have to really
• 27:50
  Speaker 9: it's your journey, it's real life, and it's also like
• 27:53
  Speaker 9: a major TV show. You know, those Rose ceremonies. I
• 27:57
  Speaker 9: think it was back in the day when it was
• 27:58
  Speaker 9: still in Malibu. You know, you would drive to Malibu
• 28:01
  Speaker 9: to go to wait and it would be lit up
• 28:03
  Speaker 9: like the super Bowl. You know, it's totally production and
• 28:07
  Speaker 9: you know, you expect a huge production to have the
• 28:11
  Speaker 9: value of production, yes, and of course check that box.
• 28:14
  Speaker 7: But then what you don't expect.
• 28:16
  Speaker 9: Is maybe you know, what is it almost twenty years
• 28:19
  Speaker 9: now of marriage?
• 28:20
  Speaker 1: Is that twenty years?
• 28:21
  Speaker 6: Yeah?
• 28:22
  Speaker 9: You know, amen, and yeah, I'm sure that shaped a
• 28:26
  Speaker 9: lot of people's lives.
• 28:28
  Speaker 7: So high five.
• 28:29
  Speaker 9: Hi, guys, have a bajillion more lovely years to come.
• 28:34
  Speaker 1: Thank you. It's crazy.
• 28:36
  Speaker 2: I mean, we do still get people who come up
• 28:39
  Speaker 2: to us and say, you know, I was there at
• 28:42
  Speaker 2: your wedding. I was invited, you know, and I love
• 28:45
  Speaker 2: that we got to be able to share that with people.
• 28:47
  Speaker 2: You know, it was it was crazy that my ex
• 28:52
  Speaker 2: boyfriend was in the room with my soon to be
• 28:56
  Speaker 2: husband commentating on my wedding, and that there were helicopters
• 29:01
  Speaker 2: and you know, the so many crazy things. I don't
• 29:06
  Speaker 2: know if you've heard stories like this where someone said
• 29:09
  Speaker 2: that paparazzi got into Rancho before people were there and
• 29:14
  Speaker 2: they hid those like throwaway cameras and they would walk
• 29:18
  Speaker 2: up to people and be like, we'll pay you five
• 29:20
  Speaker 2: thousand dollars if you go to that bush and you
• 29:24
  Speaker 2: go get a picture during the wedding, and you know,
• 29:28
  Speaker 2: get Yeah, isn't that crazy?
• 29:29
  Speaker 7: Uh huh.
• 29:30
  Speaker 9: It doesn't surprise me though, because the level of fame
• 29:32
  Speaker 9: that came with that time period was really unparalleled. You
• 29:36
  Speaker 9: were sort of entering into this phase that now, what
• 29:40
  Speaker 9: are we twenty seven.
• 29:42
  Speaker 7: Seasons right now?
• 29:43
  Speaker 5: Yeah?
• 29:43
  Speaker 9: Right, you're coming on twenty for the Bachelorette. It's a
• 29:46
  Speaker 9: lot of seasons, right, So so much has come from
• 29:48
  Speaker 9: that time period.
• 29:49
  Speaker 7: But yeah, you know, someone's got to crack it. You know,
• 29:53
  Speaker 7: pace in.
• 29:54
  Speaker 9: Point not only I guess sack it. You factor and
• 29:57
  Speaker 9: you stayed and took the throne. So you know, what
• 30:00
  Speaker 9: would you say. I know you've talked about this so
• 30:02
  Speaker 9: many times, but is there like a takeaway piece of
• 30:05
  Speaker 9: information just for so many marriages. I'm not even just
• 30:09
  Speaker 9: talking about on the Bachelor or the Bachelorette.
• 30:12
  Speaker 7: You know, it's hard out there.
• 30:13
  Speaker 9: It was there a key ingredient that you sort of
• 30:15
  Speaker 9: sensed from the jump when it came to run.
• 30:18
  Speaker 2: You know, well as you know knowing him, he's just
• 30:22
  Speaker 2: the most genuine person.
• 30:24
  Speaker 1: You know, he's sincere. He he made me.
• 30:28
  Speaker 2: Feel so safe and and we were kind of the
• 30:33
  Speaker 2: epitome of opposites attract He's the introvert, I'm the extrovert.
• 30:41
  Speaker 2: He's I don't know. I just feel like there are
• 30:44
  Speaker 2: little things. But I think in reflecting, you know, every
• 30:48
  Speaker 2: so often because we do get this question a lot,
• 30:51
  Speaker 2: and I love that you're asking me a question.
• 30:53
  Speaker 1: By the way, always the consummate producer.
• 30:59
  Speaker 7: Right, you're in a chair, you're in the interview chair.
• 31:02
  Speaker 2: I TM, we're starting our ITM So anyway, I really
• 31:08
  Speaker 2: truly feel like forgiveness is a big part, like not
• 31:12
  Speaker 2: just big things, like not big betrayals. I'm not talking
• 31:15
  Speaker 2: about that. And you know, obviously in relationships that that happens,
• 31:19
  Speaker 2: that needs to happen. But I think the little things
• 31:23
  Speaker 2: like if if he upsets me one day and says
• 31:27
  Speaker 2: something upsetting, or if I upset him one day, or
• 31:30
  Speaker 2: if everything is just going wrong and like I do something.
• 31:34
  Speaker 2: I don't know, just all the little things that I
• 31:37
  Speaker 2: feel like in living together for twenty years, you know,
• 31:42
  Speaker 2: just little things can get at you. And I think
• 31:44
  Speaker 2: that it's a constant state of forgiveness when you are
• 31:49
  Speaker 2: in those like you know, not super likable moments.
• 31:54
  Speaker 7: Of course you're also roommates, yeah.
• 31:56
  Speaker 2: Exactly, and just consideration and and friendship and I don't know,
• 32:03
  Speaker 2: just enjoying life together. I think that we both have
• 32:06
  Speaker 2: such a great we have a great value for our family,
• 32:11
  Speaker 2: and I think just trying to focus on that as
• 32:13
  Speaker 2: much as possible, you know, moving to Veil when we again,
• 32:17
  Speaker 2: when we were you know, in the throes of all
• 32:20
  Speaker 2: the chaos, I think was one of our best decisions ever.
• 32:27
  Speaker 2: You know, I don't know that we wouldn't have survived.
• 32:29
  Speaker 2: I don't think if we were in LA because it
• 32:30
  Speaker 2: was too much for him, Like he just couldn't he
• 32:33
  Speaker 2: did not want it. And I recognize that we recognize
• 32:38
  Speaker 2: that that's what we needed as a couple, and we
• 32:40
  Speaker 2: made a decision together to really focus on a relationship.
• 32:45
  Speaker 9: So and I'm sure that decision too was questioned a
• 32:47
  Speaker 9: thousand times because La is always so alluring in that regard.
• 32:51
  Speaker 2: But saying I mean it is still like I feel
• 32:54
  Speaker 2: like everyone moves there and I'm just like, no, don't
• 32:58
  Speaker 2: do it.
• 33:01
  Speaker 7: Come to Congrats to Denver. So congratulations. Are such a
• 33:06
  Speaker 7: great city, such a great We love it.
• 33:08
  Speaker 1: We love it, Okay. I I am so sad.
• 33:12
  Speaker 2: I don't want to I don't want to not chat
• 33:14
  Speaker 2: with you for the next three hours, but I am
• 33:17
  Speaker 2: so excited that we got to have this little bit
• 33:19
  Speaker 2: of time.
• 33:20
  Speaker 7: I will see you in Colorado.
• 33:22
  Speaker 9: Please do give my love to your incredible husbands and
• 33:25
  Speaker 9: those two beautiful babies.
• 33:26
  Speaker 1: When are you coming to Colorado?
• 33:27
  Speaker 7: Are you sooner than later?
• 33:29
  Speaker 8: Yeah?
• 33:29
  Speaker 9: Actually we are going to be shooting in Colorado shortly,
• 33:32
  Speaker 9: so I will you.
• 33:34
  Speaker 7: Know whether in Denver or in Veil. Yes? Yeah, congrats
• 33:38
  Speaker 7: and all the success more to.
• 33:39
  Speaker 1: Come you too.
• 33:40
  Speaker 2: I'm so sad that we didn't get to chat about
• 33:42
  Speaker 2: where you are. I know Kati Studios, but I same
• 33:47
  Speaker 2: same crime. All your success all crime, all time.
• 33:51
  Speaker 1: I love it. Okay, thanks, so good to chat. Okay.
• 34:07
  Speaker 2: So next guest is a very special person in my life.
• 34:11
  Speaker 2: Her name is Sarah Flood, and she was my maid
• 34:14
  Speaker 2: of honor on my big day and we have stayed
• 34:17
  Speaker 2: in Chuch. She's still one of my besties. And I'm
• 34:19
  Speaker 2: so excited to just re so excited to get into
• 34:26
  Speaker 2: the memories of the wedding. She said she was crying
• 34:28
  Speaker 2: when she was watching it. So I'm so excited to
• 34:30
  Speaker 2: chat and just reconnect.
• 34:32
  Speaker 4: How are you.
• 34:34
  Speaker 2: I'm good, Thank you, I'm so excited.
• 34:40
  Speaker 7: Okay.
• 34:40
  Speaker 1: So how much fun was that watching that back?
• 34:43
  Speaker 8: Oh my gosh, I mean really, I was in here
• 34:46
  Speaker 8: at the first two minutes. It was awesome and I
• 34:49
  Speaker 8: have waited for years to be able to watch it again.
• 34:52
  Speaker 1: I know, I know.
• 34:54
  Speaker 2: So she keeps asking everyone, Sarah's like, when can I
• 34:57
  Speaker 2: get a DVD? When can I get a some so
• 35:00
  Speaker 2: we can watch it because you're okay. So at the wedding,
• 35:04
  Speaker 2: if people remember this or they didn't watch, Sarah was
• 35:07
  Speaker 2: my maid of honor and her son was what like
• 35:11
  Speaker 2: sixteen no, nine months at the time, nine months, Yeah,
• 35:14
  Speaker 2: he was nine months, and so the little flower girls.
• 35:18
  Speaker 2: They pulled him down the aisle in a sweet little
• 35:23
  Speaker 2: fire engine.
• 35:24
  Speaker 1: Did you guys keep that? Did we give that to you?
• 35:27
  Speaker 3: No, we didn't get it. I would love to have it.
• 35:30
  Speaker 8: It was the cutest nod to Ryan is a firefighter, totally.
• 35:35
  Speaker 1: I loved that moment.
• 35:36
  Speaker 2: That was one of my favorite moments. And of course,
• 35:38
  Speaker 2: now he is how tall six something?
• 35:42
  Speaker 8: He is six to two, yes, so he's grown from
• 35:45
  Speaker 8: that little fifteen pounder that your nieces were pulling down
• 35:48
  Speaker 8: the aisle.
• 35:49
  Speaker 1: Hees, yes, amazing.
• 35:51
  Speaker 3: And I remember my mom standing.
• 35:53
  Speaker 8: At the end of the aisle just hoping that he
• 35:56
  Speaker 8: would stay quiet, right, you never know what to expect
• 35:58
  Speaker 8: from a bait, and so she was back there keeping
• 36:02
  Speaker 8: him happy, feeding him cheerios one by one. And so
• 36:05
  Speaker 8: as I rewatched that the other day, you can tell
• 36:09
  Speaker 8: he's still holding on to something between his thumb and forefingers.
• 36:13
  Speaker 3: So I think he had an extra little cheerio for
• 36:15
  Speaker 3: that ride down.
• 36:16
  Speaker 1: Yeah he did. That's a smart mama.
• 36:18
  Speaker 2: It was a smart grandma. Oh my gosh, So how
• 36:23
  Speaker 2: young were we?
• 36:23
  Speaker 7: Like?
• 36:24
  Speaker 2: That was so crazy watching I was like, whoa, we
• 36:28
  Speaker 2: are so young? And I said that I think I
• 36:31
  Speaker 2: said that to Ryan he's like, well, it's twenty years ago.
• 36:33
  Speaker 2: I'm like, yeah, I know, but it's a stagger.
• 36:36
  Speaker 8: And you know what made me crack up is rewatching
• 36:39
  Speaker 8: the Bachelor bachelorette party. And so we were all at
• 36:43
  Speaker 8: Satan Martin and the girls were on one half of
• 36:45
  Speaker 8: the resort and the guys were at the other. And
• 36:48
  Speaker 8: I remember at one point in the day a message
• 36:51
  Speaker 8: came through from Ryan and then you can see on
• 36:54
  Speaker 8: your screen that it's a flip phone.
• 36:56
  Speaker 3: He was looked up.
• 36:56
  Speaker 7: The clip phone.
• 36:57
  Speaker 8: You're like, oh my gosh, Ryan just sent me a
• 36:59
  Speaker 8: bit make sure what the guys are doing this afternoon.
• 37:02
  Speaker 3: And that blew my mind.
• 37:04
  Speaker 8: Right, that's just indicative of how long ago the wedding was.
• 37:09
  Speaker 2: And then the part where we invited you guys to
• 37:13
  Speaker 2: go to New York and you know, like get fitted
• 37:17
  Speaker 2: for the dresses and everything, and we're like, why don't
• 37:20
  Speaker 2: we send them a message and we pick up the
• 37:21
  Speaker 2: flip phone and we did like a little selfie.
• 37:24
  Speaker 1: Before selfies were selfies, you know.
• 37:26
  Speaker 8: Yes, yes, And the image quality is just nothing like
• 37:31
  Speaker 8: it is today.
• 37:32
  Speaker 2: I mean, thank goodness, I will I will say thank goodness.
• 37:35
  Speaker 2: It wasn't high definition because I just make up is
• 37:39
  Speaker 2: not what it is today, and even though I was
• 37:42
  Speaker 2: twenty years younger. But yeah, I mean it was crazy
• 37:47
  Speaker 2: kind of reliving that because I really haven't thought about it.
• 37:51
  Speaker 2: You know, who thinks about their wedding, you know, in
• 37:54
  Speaker 2: the on the daily. I definitely don't, so getting to
• 37:58
  Speaker 2: relive it and I just one thing is I just
• 38:03
  Speaker 2: remember how happy I was because everyone was there, Like,
• 38:08
  Speaker 2: you know, the people that we that we love most
• 38:12
  Speaker 2: in the world were there just celebrating, and that's what
• 38:17
  Speaker 2: made it the.
• 38:18
  Speaker 1: Best weekend ever, you know for me.
• 38:20
  Speaker 3: Yeah, it was remarkable. And yeah, watching that back, I mean.
• 38:24
  Speaker 8: You're being me ear to ear and every shot you're
• 38:27
  Speaker 8: on cloud nine. Here you are this girl who is
• 38:30
  Speaker 8: getting her princess dream wedding with an abundance of flowers,
• 38:35
  Speaker 8: pink flowers everywhere. But yeah, to be surrounded by all
• 38:39
  Speaker 8: those people that love and support you all, it just
• 38:41
  Speaker 8: it means everything.
• 38:42
  Speaker 3: And it showed on both of your faces.
• 38:45
  Speaker 2: Yeah, I mean, obviously it was. It was the best
• 38:48
  Speaker 2: day of my life because I was marrying my best friend,
• 38:50
  Speaker 2: But it was just just to be able to celebrate
• 38:54
  Speaker 2: it with everyone there and like take over the whole
• 38:57
  Speaker 2: I mean, I never thought I would take over a
• 39:00
  Speaker 2: do you know what I mean? Like, well, okay, here
• 39:02
  Speaker 2: are the resorts, here are the hotels that you can
• 39:04
  Speaker 2: stay at, you know when you're when you're telling people
• 39:08
  Speaker 2: to come to the wedding, and instead we were like, okay,
• 39:11
  Speaker 2: just come here, it's all for us, and we just
• 39:14
  Speaker 2: it was like everywhere you turn, if you walk out
• 39:17
  Speaker 2: the door, you're like, oh, I know you, I know you.
• 39:19
  Speaker 2: I Oh yeah, that's because it's everyone that we invited, right, yes.
• 39:26
  Speaker 8: Nor did you think you would have four helicopters flying
• 39:29
  Speaker 8: overhead trying to get images of the wedding as it
• 39:32
  Speaker 8: went down?
• 39:33
  Speaker 3: Oh my gosh. Yeah no.
• 39:36
  Speaker 2: Okay, So is there anything that wasn't on the episode
• 39:41
  Speaker 2: that is like a standout memory for you?
• 39:44
  Speaker 3: Oh?
• 39:45
  Speaker 8: I think my standout memory was when Nick was coming
• 39:47
  Speaker 8: down the aisle, just yeah, you're so sweet. They all
• 39:50
  Speaker 8: honored him in that way and included him in your ceremony, so.
• 39:55
  Speaker 2: Well, it was about you guys, and he was just
• 39:58
  Speaker 2: so cute, like how could we but we had to
• 40:01
  Speaker 2: have a ring bearer and he was like the perfect.
• 40:03
  Speaker 1: Age even though he couldn't walk it.
• 40:06
  Speaker 2: So that's why we did the fire engine because he
• 40:09
  Speaker 2: can't walk so oh.
• 40:11
  Speaker 3: My gosh, yeah, he was barely crawling. Then he enjoyed
• 40:15
  Speaker 3: that ride.
• 40:16
  Speaker 8: And I was watching him check out those little girls
• 40:18
  Speaker 8: that were pulling him.
• 40:19
  Speaker 2: They loved the girls loved him, and he loved those girls.
• 40:24
  Speaker 2: And have you I actually should show you a picture
• 40:28
  Speaker 2: of these girls. They are stunners.
• 40:31
  Speaker 3: Oh that's awesome.
• 40:32
  Speaker 2: Yeahs yes, I mean it's crazy to think about these
• 40:38
  Speaker 2: teeny little you know. I feel like when my parents
• 40:42
  Speaker 2: when I was young, and I would see somebody that
• 40:45
  Speaker 2: was friends with my parents and they would be like, oh,
• 40:48
  Speaker 2: I knew you when you know you were so tiny,
• 40:52
  Speaker 2: And I say the exact same things to these you know,
• 40:56
  Speaker 2: little little ones who I you know, knew way back when,
• 41:00
  Speaker 2: and now they're you know, adults, like actual adults.
• 41:05
  Speaker 3: Yes you remember them vividly. They may or may not remember.
• 41:09
  Speaker 8: Us as well, but yes, right, you remember them so
• 41:12
  Speaker 8: well from when.
• 41:12
  Speaker 2: They were I know so as as my maid of
• 41:16
  Speaker 2: honor and as this was you know, a production, if
• 41:21
  Speaker 2: you will. Were you nervous at all, like on top
• 41:25
  Speaker 2: of just being you know, the consummate made of honor?
• 41:30
  Speaker 1: Did that make you nervous?
• 41:31
  Speaker 7: Like?
• 41:32
  Speaker 1: Did I? I?
• 41:34
  Speaker 2: I still I've wondered to this day if you know
• 41:37
  Speaker 2: you all kind of held it against me that here.
• 41:44
  Speaker 3: I loved it. Yeah, terarified.
• 41:46
  Speaker 8: Though it was so nerve wracking to get up at
• 41:49
  Speaker 8: your reception and offer a toast that would be honoring
• 41:53
  Speaker 8: to you and Ryan and just know that the audience
• 41:55
  Speaker 8: was so big.
• 41:57
  Speaker 3: But no, it was so much fun.
• 41:58
  Speaker 8: It was so much fun, and looking back, it's just
• 42:00
  Speaker 8: filled with tons of memories, as you say, being surrounded
• 42:03
  Speaker 8: by the people that you love and watching the two
• 42:06
  Speaker 8: of you be so in love.
• 42:08
  Speaker 3: So it was good fun.
• 42:09
  Speaker 8: And I just remember going through that process, and you
• 42:12
  Speaker 8: would lavish gifts on us every time we met you,
• 42:14
  Speaker 8: whether it be in New York City when we were
• 42:17
  Speaker 8: invited to be your bridal party, or meeting at the wedding.
• 42:21
  Speaker 3: Or the bachelor or bachelor att party in Saint Martin.
• 42:24
  Speaker 8: You just showered us with personalized pajamas and tops and
• 42:29
  Speaker 8: cosmetic bags and robes and.
• 42:31
  Speaker 3: All this fun stuff. So you spoiled us and we
• 42:34
  Speaker 3: were grateful.
• 42:36
  Speaker 1: Well, of course that wasn't me. That was production.
• 42:38
  Speaker 2: I had a say and like, you know, oh we
• 42:41
  Speaker 2: should do this or we should do that, But that
• 42:43
  Speaker 2: definitely wasn't me, So I can't take all the credit,
• 42:45
  Speaker 2: but that was one of my most fun Like my
• 42:50
  Speaker 2: I love doing.
• 42:51
  Speaker 1: That kind of stuff.
• 42:52
  Speaker 2: And like if I had all the money in the world,
• 42:55
  Speaker 2: what would make me happiest is to be able to
• 42:57
  Speaker 2: share it with people. And so I love of being
• 43:00
  Speaker 2: able to have that opportunity to to know, to lavish,
• 43:05
  Speaker 2: you know, gifts.
• 43:06
  Speaker 1: Spoil you guys, Rutten, you did it.
• 43:09
  Speaker 4: You did it?
• 43:10
  Speaker 2: Do you still have because as I was watching the
• 43:14
  Speaker 2: like SPA day before the wedding, we gave.
• 43:18
  Speaker 1: You, guys those little jelly purses. Do you still have that?
• 43:22
  Speaker 3: Or jelly my cosmetic bag? You have? The jeans?
• 43:29
  Speaker 2: Yes, love, you got jeans. I don't even remember this.
• 43:32
  Speaker 2: Do you tell me all the things? Like what did
• 43:34
  Speaker 2: we give you it? Each of the things? Do you remember?
• 43:37
  Speaker 8: I remember a SPA day you gave us pink of course,
• 43:40
  Speaker 8: wrap around howl to wear, the vulcro top, and we
• 43:45
  Speaker 8: had a glorious pink fuzzy slippers.
• 43:48
  Speaker 3: You just slid your foot and them. It was like
• 43:51
  Speaker 3: walking on a cloud. It was so dreamy. We had those.
• 43:54
  Speaker 8: You gave us the cosmetic bags that had pictures of
• 43:59
  Speaker 8: you with each a girl that you were given the
• 44:03
  Speaker 8: gift too.
• 44:04
  Speaker 3: Yeah, gosh, we had jeans.
• 44:05
  Speaker 8: We had pink monogram tank tops with our initials that
• 44:10
  Speaker 8: we wore at the rehearsal.
• 44:13
  Speaker 1: Yeah. I love that.
• 44:17
  Speaker 2: I was actually just going through. So I have like
• 44:20
  Speaker 2: a closet, and in Blakesley's closet, I have kind of
• 44:23
  Speaker 2: like a gift section where I keep gifts. And I
• 44:26
  Speaker 2: still have like two or three of those cosmetic bags.
• 44:30
  Speaker 1: That have Me and Ryan on them that they gave
• 44:33
  Speaker 1: like extra to me.
• 44:35
  Speaker 2: Not that I will ever give them to somebody, because
• 44:37
  Speaker 2: who's going to be like, Okay, I get a gift
• 44:39
  Speaker 2: bag or a cosmetic bag.
• 44:42
  Speaker 8: What about your anniversary? So it is twenty years this December.
• 44:46
  Speaker 8: What are you all doing to celebrate?
• 44:48
  Speaker 2: We haven't planned anything yet. I was literally just thinking
• 44:51
  Speaker 2: about this morning.
• 44:53
  Speaker 4: You know.
• 44:54
  Speaker 2: We talked about how we did avournewl that you were
• 44:57
  Speaker 2: at ten years ago in Beaver Creek, and I was
• 45:02
  Speaker 2: thinking about possibly doing another vow renewal, but maybe this
• 45:07
  Speaker 2: time at the beach somewhere, because you know.
• 45:08
  Speaker 1: How much I love a beach.
• 45:10
  Speaker 2: Yeah. So, I don't know, we have not planned anything.
• 45:14
  Speaker 2: We're in the midst of this crazy move. So I
• 45:17
  Speaker 2: am like kind of all systems dedicated to that right
• 45:21
  Speaker 2: now and just getting through the end of the school year.
• 45:25
  Speaker 2: But it's in the back of my mind if I
• 45:27
  Speaker 2: get any extra time, which I don't know when that's gonna.
• 45:30
  Speaker 3: Happen, but.
• 45:32
  Speaker 1: That is one of the plans.
• 45:35
  Speaker 2: One of the things I'd like to plan in the
• 45:36
  Speaker 2: next year is something for our anniversary, because it's twenty years.
• 45:40
  Speaker 3: It's crazy and your anniversary. Do I'll go back and
• 45:44
  Speaker 3: watch the video.
• 45:46
  Speaker 4: No, you have no way.
• 45:48
  Speaker 1: Can you imagine Ryan watching it?
• 45:49
  Speaker 2: I mean, I've been walking around with my phone like
• 45:52
  Speaker 2: watching episodes and I actually did just show high screen
• 45:58
  Speaker 2: recorded part of it because I was watching this the
• 46:02
  Speaker 2: part where Bob was giving Ryan like his last little
• 46:06
  Speaker 2: piece of advice before they went down to the actual wedding,
• 46:12
  Speaker 2: and Ryan looks exactly like Max, or Max look looks
• 46:17
  Speaker 2: exactly like Ryan, and.
• 46:18
  Speaker 1: I was like, you have to see this. This is
• 46:21
  Speaker 1: your son, Like this is you and.
• 46:22
  Speaker 2: But it's your son. It's so weird. It's so weird
• 46:25
  Speaker 2: because I don't always see it. I always see Blakesley,
• 46:29
  Speaker 2: like Blakesley and Ryan to me are twins, and so
• 46:33
  Speaker 2: many people are always like, oh my gosh, Max is
• 46:36
  Speaker 2: so much like his dad. I don't really see it
• 46:38
  Speaker 2: that much. I see more of me growing up than Ryan.
• 46:42
  Speaker 2: But oh my gosh, in this little clip, it is
• 46:46
  Speaker 2: Max that amazing.
• 46:47
  Speaker 8: Yeah, it's giving you anse into what Max is going
• 46:50
  Speaker 8: to look like when he's twenty five.
• 46:52
  Speaker 1: Yeah, it's so exciting and so fun. I love that.
• 46:56
  Speaker 1: I love it. Okay, any more fun memories. Let's see.
• 47:04
  Speaker 2: Oh, one thing you brought up. I am so bummed.
• 47:08
  Speaker 2: The one thing that I regret about this wedding is
• 47:12
  Speaker 2: not having my own videographer because in the like agreement
• 47:16
  Speaker 2: that we wrote with them, they said that I could
• 47:19
  Speaker 2: bring my own videographer, but I thought, oh uh, why
• 47:23
  Speaker 2: would I need a videographer? You were recording this for
• 47:27
  Speaker 2: a television network and I didn't. And so I don't
• 47:32
  Speaker 2: have the like your speech recorded. I don't have the
• 47:40
  Speaker 2: any of the speeches from the rehearsal dinner. I don't
• 47:43
  Speaker 2: have like any of that.
• 47:45
  Speaker 3: And like, if we were.
• 47:46
  Speaker 2: Married today, everyone would have their phones out, someone would
• 47:50
  Speaker 2: have recorded it.
• 47:51
  Speaker 1: But now, but then it was like you just didn't do.
• 47:54
  Speaker 2: That, and I don't even think it was allowed, Like
• 47:56
  Speaker 2: even if you had a camera, they didn't let you
• 47:59
  Speaker 2: record anything or take a back.
• 48:00
  Speaker 8: We had to turn all that in so we wouldn't
• 48:04
  Speaker 8: be taking pictures and recording anything.
• 48:07
  Speaker 2: Your flip phone, my clip phone got confiscated because we
• 48:15
  Speaker 2: always used to have those little tiny automatic cameras, right,
• 48:19
  Speaker 2: that's what everyone carried back then.
• 48:21
  Speaker 1: You carried your whatever, your BlackBerry, and.
• 48:24
  Speaker 2: Your so funny to me, Oh my goodness, I just
• 48:33
  Speaker 2: I just wish. Do you know anyone that like, I
• 48:37
  Speaker 2: never gave you a recording of that? Did I the
• 48:42
  Speaker 2: rehearsal dinner, like your speech?
• 48:44
  Speaker 3: No, I would love to have it too. Yeah, so yeah,
• 48:48
  Speaker 3: like you we just saw it was.
• 48:49
  Speaker 1: Do you have it written down somewhere that you saved?
• 48:53
  Speaker 3: I would love to ye. I'll rewrite it.
• 48:55
  Speaker 2: I'll rerite, rewrite it, and then we'll record you and
• 48:59
  Speaker 2: we'll have you the same outfit. Actually, I'm sure you could.
• 49:02
  Speaker 2: You could fit into your same outfit that you were.
• 49:04
  Speaker 3: I don't know about me. Oh my gosh, yes you could.
• 49:08
  Speaker 8: And that's so funny you say that because literally two
• 49:10
  Speaker 8: of the dresses that I had at your bachelorette party,
• 49:13
  Speaker 8: I thought, oh my.
• 49:14
  Speaker 3: Gosh, those are still in my closet. So yes, twenty
• 49:18
  Speaker 3: years later, same stuff.
• 49:20
  Speaker 4: I mean, I love.
• 49:21
  Speaker 3: Time to go shopping. I think that's what that means.
• 49:24
  Speaker 1: Hey, Michael, time to go shopping.
• 49:26
  Speaker 2: Sorry, she's going shopping and we just gave her the
• 49:28
  Speaker 2: go ahead to do so, So there you go.
• 49:31
  Speaker 3: The whole thing was so cool. And you know, when
• 49:34
  Speaker 3: people ask.
• 49:35
  Speaker 8: Now, how are you all or they learned that I
• 49:38
  Speaker 8: was involved in some way in your wedding, they always
• 49:41
  Speaker 8: want to know are they happy? Are they still together?
• 49:43
  Speaker 8: And it's so easy to say yes. And I enjoyed
• 49:47
  Speaker 8: looking at your vows again and watching you all pledge
• 49:51
  Speaker 8: your love to each other and make those commitments. Because
• 49:55
  Speaker 8: here you are twenty years later, with life having happened right,
• 50:00
  Speaker 8: career changes and the addition of kids and the loss
• 50:05
  Speaker 8: of pets and health issues and life. And to see
• 50:09
  Speaker 8: you all still as strong today or stronger by what
• 50:13
  Speaker 8: you have gone through, it's so great a testament to
• 50:16
  Speaker 8: the depth of your love.
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  Speaker 3: So you picked the right one.
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  Speaker 6: I love you.
• 50:22
  Speaker 1: Thanks, I love you. That's so sweet. I did.
• 50:26
  Speaker 2: I did pick the right one, and it is confirmed
• 50:30
  Speaker 2: all the time, even twenty years later.
• 50:33
  Speaker 1: So thank you for coming. I'm so glad that.
• 50:36
  Speaker 2: We got to chat, and I'm so glad to so
• 50:40
  Speaker 2: I don't know if you can like screen record it,
• 50:43
  Speaker 2: but now you have it to watch but just don't
• 50:45
  Speaker 2: like it might expire.
• 50:46
  Speaker 1: So the link that you got to watch the episode, so.
• 50:49
  Speaker 8: Make sure already downloaded.
• 50:52
  Speaker 3: I've got it forever now.
• 50:54
  Speaker 2: Okay, good yay, awesome, Okay, love you, Sarah, Thank you
• 51:00
  Speaker 2: on the podcast, and give a hug to Michael and
• 51:03
  Speaker 2: the boys.
• 51:04
  Speaker 3: I will do it. Hello to write and kids.
• 51:07
  Speaker 2: Okay, buddy, all right, that is it for part one
• 51:12
  Speaker 2: of this super fun podcast I have loved doing.
• 51:15
  Speaker 1: Of course, you know.
• 51:16
  Speaker 2: It's one of the best days of my life, so
• 51:20
  Speaker 2: why wouldn't I want to talk about it? Anyway, Stay
• 51:22
  Speaker 2: tuned for part two, where I get to talk to
• 51:25
  Speaker 2: even more people, so exciting.
• 51:27
  Speaker 6: I hope you've loved it as much as I have.