Latest / Wellness, Actually with Emily Oster & Perry Wilson, MD / Pelvic Health with Emily Oster and the Vagina Whisperer
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- 0:00Speaker 1: So I am so thrilled to be here with doctor
- 0:03Speaker 1: Sarah Reardon. She's a doctor of physical therapy, women's health,
- 0:06Speaker 1: pelvic floora therapist. She has two children. I know you
- 0:10Speaker 1: besked from Instagram where you are the Vagina Whisper, which
- 0:13Speaker 1: is just the absolute greatest Instagram handle. And I'm really
- 0:17Speaker 1: thrilled to get to talk. But before we get started,
- 0:19Speaker 1: can you just introduce yourself a little bit beyond what
- 0:22Speaker 1: I just said?
- 0:23Speaker 2: Absolutely, I feel you just like you wrapped it up
- 0:25Speaker 2: really well though. But I am Sarah Reardon. I am
- 0:28Speaker 2: a pelvic floor physical therapist. So I went to Washington
- 0:32Speaker 2: University in Saint Louis for undergrad and then physical therapy
- 0:35Speaker 2: school and specialized in pelvic floor therapy immediately after, which
- 0:39Speaker 2: really means, you know Pete's work with muscles in the body.
- 0:42Speaker 2: I work with the muscles in the pelvic region, which
- 0:45Speaker 2: are responsible for peeing, pooping, sexual health, menstruation, and have
- 0:50Speaker 2: a very important role during pregnancy and childbirth. I have
- 0:53Speaker 2: a private practice in New Orleans, which is my hometown,
- 0:56Speaker 2: called Nola Pelvic Health, and then an online platform for
- 0:59Speaker 2: education and exercise called also the Vagina Whisper.
- 1:03Speaker 1: Amazing all right, So we're going to touch on all
- 1:06Speaker 1: of that stuff, but I actually want to start a
- 1:08Speaker 1: little bit more with the basics, which is what is
- 1:12Speaker 1: the pelvic floor and where can I find it?
- 1:15Speaker 2: Well, everyone has one, all bodies, and the pelvic floor
- 1:21Speaker 2: is really a basket of muscles at the base of
- 1:23Speaker 2: your pelvis. So we think of the bony pelvis kind
- 1:25Speaker 2: of with your hip bones on the side and your
- 1:27Speaker 2: sit bones on the bottom, pubic bone in the front,
- 1:30Speaker 2: and then your sacred mind tailbone in the back, and
- 1:32Speaker 2: that helps support your spine and it plays a very
- 1:36Speaker 2: important role in movement. But the pelvic floor muscles are
- 1:39Speaker 2: at the base of that bony structure and they sit
- 1:42Speaker 2: like a hammock. So imagine a hammock kind of at
- 1:44Speaker 2: the very base of your pelvis, and that hammock supports
- 1:47Speaker 2: your pelvic organs, including your reproductive organs, so your bladder,
- 1:51Speaker 2: your rectum, your uterus, your ovaries, and it has a
- 1:56Speaker 2: supportive role. It also has what we call a sphincteric roles,
- 2:00Speaker 2: So there's openings in those muscles. In a female body,
- 2:05Speaker 2: there are three openings, one for the eu rethrow where
- 2:07Speaker 2: you're in exits, one for their anus where poop exits
- 2:10Speaker 2: and then the vaginal opening. In male bodies there are
- 2:13Speaker 2: two openings, one for urine and semen and then one
- 2:16Speaker 2: for the anal opening where poop exits. And then this
- 2:19Speaker 2: role also has a sexual function. And then again in
- 2:23Speaker 2: a female body there is a role with menstruation and
- 2:26Speaker 2: then pregnancy and birth, and so if you have a
- 2:30Speaker 2: vaginal birth, the baby exits through the vaginal canal.
- 2:33Speaker 1: Okay, So I feel like my introduction to the pelvic
- 2:38Speaker 1: floor was in the sort of pregnancy postpartum period. I
- 2:41Speaker 1: think prior to that, I had presumably not heard of this,
- 2:46Speaker 1: although I was benefiting from it. But I wonder if
- 2:50Speaker 1: sort of you could give us a sense of like
- 2:51Speaker 1: why is that where we're hearing it, Like what are
- 2:53Speaker 1: some of the issues that arise, or at least what
- 2:57Speaker 1: is the role that the pelvic floor plays in the
- 3:00Speaker 1: pregnancy postpartum period, and why do we hear about it
- 3:04Speaker 1: right period?
- 3:05Speaker 2: It's a great question, and you know it's really I say,
- 3:07Speaker 2: we see women all across the women and men, but
- 3:10Speaker 2: all across their lifespan from as early as difficulty inserting tampons,
- 3:13Speaker 2: their first attempt at sexual intercourse, and it may be
- 3:16Speaker 2: painful bladder or ball issues, and then even later in
- 3:19Speaker 2: life menopause. Postmenopause, we often hear about urinary leakage as
- 3:23Speaker 2: we age, so all across the lifespan. I think one
- 3:26Speaker 2: of the reasons we hear about it more often during
- 3:28Speaker 2: pregnancy and childbirth and postpartum is because our bodies go
- 3:32Speaker 2: through such a huge transformation. So these muscles that again
- 3:37Speaker 2: sit like a hammock, support your growing feetus during pregnancy.
- 3:41Speaker 2: So when we get those emails that are like, your
- 3:43Speaker 2: baby's the size of a blueberry, then it's the size
- 3:46Speaker 2: of an avocado, and then it's the size of a pumpkin,
- 3:49Speaker 2: we'll think of a hammock supporting a blueberry or an avocado.
- 3:52Speaker 2: It's not going to change that much the way that
- 3:54Speaker 2: hammock is supporting. But if you think about putting a
- 3:57Speaker 2: watermelon or a pumpkin and a ham we can think
- 4:00Speaker 2: of that hammock sinking lower, getting more stretched out, And
- 4:04Speaker 2: that's literally what happens to our pelvic floor and our
- 4:06Speaker 2: ligaments during pregnancy. So pregnancy itself changes the way that
- 4:11Speaker 2: our muscles are supporting our organs and the way we're
- 4:14Speaker 2: able to keep those sphincters closed, so we have a
- 4:17Speaker 2: more difficult time holding in urine, a more difficult time
- 4:20Speaker 2: holding in gas or stool because everything's just lengthened. And
- 4:24Speaker 2: then we take it to the next level, which is
- 4:27Speaker 2: a major event, which is childbirth, and often, unfortunately in
- 4:31Speaker 2: the United States, the majority of folks who give birth
- 4:33Speaker 2: fagulie are lying on their back, which is not the
- 4:36Speaker 2: most optimal position to necessarily open the pelvis and have
- 4:40Speaker 2: baby come down the birth canal. But they're also pushing
- 4:43Speaker 2: and holding their breath for a really long time.
- 4:45Speaker 3: So if you are.
- 4:46Speaker 2: Pushing and straining again, that's putting a lot of pressure
- 4:49Speaker 2: on these muscles which are already vulnerable and lengthened. And
- 4:53Speaker 2: then the majority of folks giving birth vagulie also have
- 4:56Speaker 2: a paraneal tear, which is kind of compromising the muscle
- 5:00Speaker 2: function in the structure. And then they go on to heal,
- 5:03Speaker 2: but it maybe doesn't heal as well as it was
- 5:06Speaker 2: prior to that injury. And then thirty percent of folks
- 5:09Speaker 2: are giving birth via cesarean section which we may think
- 5:13Speaker 2: is kind of spares the pelvic floor, but that's a
- 5:15Speaker 2: major abdominal surgery, and your abdominals are closely connected to
- 5:18Speaker 2: your pelvic floor. In addition, you also went through pregnancy
- 5:23Speaker 2: and so that itself changes your body. And then the
- 5:26Speaker 2: last thing is postpartum, and we know that we just
- 5:29Speaker 2: have very little follow up care and rehabilitation for moms
- 5:32Speaker 2: after giving birth. There's maybe one visit in our you know,
- 5:36Speaker 2: postpartum care with medical providers, and forty percent of folks
- 5:40Speaker 2: don't even attend that visit and then that's it. So
- 5:42Speaker 2: after this huge transformation, potentially major surgery, potentially a tear
- 5:46Speaker 2: at the vaginal opening or scar tissue, there's no rehabilitation.
- 5:51Speaker 2: And we don't do that with any other major medical event.
- 5:54Speaker 2: If you have surgery, if you have a knee replacement,
- 5:56Speaker 2: if you have a shoulder surgery, if you have an
- 5:58Speaker 2: ankle sprain, you get physical therapy, and yet there is
- 6:02Speaker 2: no follow up after this huge physical change.
- 6:06Speaker 1: I find that, you know, when I think about these issues,
- 6:10Speaker 1: just one of the pieces that is most frustrating about
- 6:14Speaker 1: the way we talk about postpartum and I don't know
- 6:18Speaker 1: how much of it is just that people want to
- 6:20Speaker 1: hide this, that it feels a shameful in the way
- 6:24Speaker 1: that if you said, my ankle hurts you. That's not private,
- 6:28Speaker 1: that's just something that could happen to anyone. But I
- 6:32Speaker 1: actually feel like part of the issue is that a
- 6:34Speaker 1: lot of the symptoms that arise as a result of
- 6:38Speaker 1: some of these issues are things that we have come
- 6:40Speaker 1: to think are just well, that's just what happens, right.
- 6:44Speaker 1: People are like, well, you know, after you have a baby,
- 6:46Speaker 1: you're just going to pee on yourself a lot of
- 6:48Speaker 1: the time.
- 6:48Speaker 3: And I guess that's just something you have to live with.
- 6:51Speaker 1: And I think they also have a hard time sort
- 6:55Speaker 1: of where is the line, like, where is the point
- 6:57Speaker 1: at which this is not just the way it is?
- 7:02Speaker 1: And like to be sort of very concrete for most people,
- 7:05Speaker 1: the first time you have sex after you have a baby,
- 7:07Speaker 1: it is a little different and can be uncomfortable, and that,
- 7:14Speaker 1: you know, But then the question is if that's still happening,
- 7:18Speaker 1: you know, six months later, that's a different thing. And
- 7:21Speaker 1: so how kind of how do people know when they
- 7:24Speaker 1: should ask for help? Maybe the answer is you should
- 7:26Speaker 1: always ask for help, But I'm curious if you if
- 7:28Speaker 1: you have a sense of how people could to understand
- 7:34Speaker 1: what's normal and what's something they should they should ask,
- 7:37Speaker 1: they should ask for.
- 7:38Speaker 2: Help with right, So I think this, I actually think
- 7:40Speaker 2: about this in two parts, is that one absolutely, as
- 7:42Speaker 2: a society, as a female, as a mom, one, I
- 7:47Speaker 2: am not the best at asking for help. I am
- 7:49Speaker 2: like I can do this.
- 7:51Speaker 3: I'm amazing.
- 7:52Speaker 2: I'm gonna push through, put my head down and just
- 7:55Speaker 2: keep going. And I think that that's a narrative that
- 7:57Speaker 2: we have kind of accept did because it's the way
- 8:01Speaker 2: that society is kind of set up for us. Right.
- 8:03Speaker 2: We don't have a ton of support physically, emotionally, psychologically
- 8:08Speaker 2: anything after giving birth, and so we really didn't feel
- 8:12Speaker 2: like we had another choice. The other thing is we're
- 8:15Speaker 2: talking about probably the most intimate part of our bodies.
- 8:18Speaker 2: It's not often that we that peeing problems, pooping issues
- 8:23Speaker 2: painful intercourse. That's not dinner table conversation for most people.
- 8:27Speaker 2: It's dinner table conversation for me.
- 8:29Speaker 1: But one of the things I might just one of
- 8:31Speaker 1: the things I admire so much about all of the
- 8:34Speaker 1: stuff that you do is just how much you're out
- 8:36Speaker 1: there like this is how you should sit to pee
- 8:39Speaker 1: like me. It's just amazing.
- 8:41Speaker 2: Okay, Well, I'm also and at work, I have this
- 8:43Speaker 2: amazing opportunity to work with people all day where this
- 8:46Speaker 2: is what we talk about, and so you see actually
- 8:48Speaker 2: how common it is, because you know, we have you know,
- 8:52Speaker 2: waitless of folks coming in to see us, and so
- 8:54Speaker 2: we realize, like, this is really common and people should
- 8:56Speaker 2: have access to this information. I always thought it wasn't
- 8:59Speaker 2: fair that I just happened to pick this right profession
- 9:02Speaker 2: where I got all of this education, and I'm like,
- 9:04Speaker 2: why doesn't everybody get this education?
- 9:06Speaker 3: This should be the standard of care.
- 9:08Speaker 2: But again going back to the question, I think that
- 9:11Speaker 2: these are really intimate things to talk about, and it's
- 9:13Speaker 2: once we do feel like, okay, maybe I should say something,
- 9:16Speaker 2: we don't even know where to go, like.
- 9:18Speaker 3: Who do you go back to?
- 9:19Speaker 2: Do you go back to your obgin, do you go
- 9:21Speaker 2: to your primary care doctor? Do you just talk to
- 9:23Speaker 2: a girlfriend? And then once you go to those people,
- 9:26Speaker 2: it often feels dismissed. And so I think that that
- 9:29Speaker 2: comes back to the medical side of things, where why
- 9:32Speaker 2: aren't our medical providers offering more care. I can't even
- 9:36Speaker 2: tell you how many times that I've been to an
- 9:38Speaker 2: office visit and I've never been asked about my bladder health,
- 9:41Speaker 2: my sexual health. It's kind of like you run through
- 9:43Speaker 2: this battery of tests and they're like, Okay, we'll send
- 9:45Speaker 2: your lab results if anything pops up. And there's no
- 9:48Speaker 2: question about any of these issues where I've given birth,
- 9:52Speaker 2: I'm going to be reaching menopause soon, I'm my body's changing.
- 9:56Speaker 2: Why aren't these questions being brought up so we can
- 9:58Speaker 2: proactively screen for them and give people the resources that
- 10:01Speaker 2: they need, which is where I think a lot of
- 10:03Speaker 2: the education needs to come in from the medical provider side.
- 10:06Speaker 2: And the data is clear that if we don't ask
- 10:09Speaker 2: patients specifically about these issues, they're not going to tell us.
- 10:13Speaker 1: And I think part of that is also that because
- 10:16Speaker 1: there's not education, people have no idea what that there
- 10:20Speaker 1: are resources, that there are approaches that could help them.
- 10:23Speaker 1: And so when I sometimes talk about this with people,
- 10:28Speaker 1: the impression I get is that they think if they
- 10:30Speaker 1: bring this up, they'll just be told do more kegels,
- 10:32Speaker 1: right I heard about Yeah, yeah, yeah, I know.
- 10:35Speaker 3: I'm supposed to do kegels when I watch TV. I'm
- 10:37Speaker 3: supposed to do kegels.
- 10:38Speaker 1: But I presume that there are things that one can
- 10:41Speaker 1: do beyond just additional kegels.
- 10:43Speaker 2: Right, That's exactly right. And so you know, the things
- 10:46Speaker 2: I tell people is that, like, if you are having
- 10:49Speaker 2: any sort of pain, pain is not normal. Pain is
- 10:51Speaker 2: a signal that something is not functioning optimally in your body,
- 10:54Speaker 2: and that should be addressed. And again that comes down
- 10:57Speaker 2: to like, well, how often do I just like kind
- 10:59Speaker 2: of grit my teeth and bear it like you don't?
- 11:02Speaker 2: I if sex is not pleasurable, comfortable, it shouldn't even
- 11:05Speaker 2: just be tolerable, then you should be seeking help. And yes,
- 11:09Speaker 2: the majority of people do. Nine out of ten people
- 11:11Speaker 2: do experience painful intercourse their first time after having you know,
- 11:16Speaker 2: giving birth. But again we should tell them that, like
- 11:18Speaker 2: we should say, hey, it may be a little bit
- 11:20Speaker 2: uncomfortable when you go back to it, U use lubricant,
- 11:23Speaker 2: take it slow. If it is uncomfortable persistent after that,
- 11:27Speaker 2: you need to go check in with a pelvic for therapist.
- 11:29Speaker 2: Like let's give them the resources to say, hey, when
- 11:32Speaker 2: you go back to exercise, when you go back to sex,
- 11:34Speaker 2: if there's an issue, this is who you see so
- 11:38Speaker 2: painful intercourse, pelvic pain of any sort, urinary leakage, no
- 11:42Speaker 2: amount of leakage is normal, So you may experience it
- 11:45Speaker 2: with a cough or a sneeze, but again that's in continence.
- 11:48Speaker 2: That is saying your sphincters are not responding well with pressure,
- 11:52Speaker 2: and that's that's a muscule skeletal issue that needs to
- 11:56Speaker 2: be addressed. Same thing with pooping issues, hemorrhoids, fissures, straight
- 12:00Speaker 2: with bowel movements, constipation not normal. You need to see
- 12:03Speaker 2: a petem so. And then again people say, well, like,
- 12:08Speaker 2: maybe it doesn't bother me that much. I'm like, well,
- 12:10Speaker 2: once it starts bothering to you the point where it's
- 12:12Speaker 2: affecting your life. You don't want to go out with
- 12:13Speaker 2: your girlfriends because your word, you're going to pee your pants.
- 12:16Speaker 2: You don't want to go running with your kids at
- 12:18Speaker 2: the park because you're afraid you're going to leave. You
- 12:20Speaker 2: quit working out, which is so important for your mental
- 12:22Speaker 2: health because you soak through your gym shorts or leggings
- 12:27Speaker 2: into me issues. I mean, as if we need enough
- 12:30Speaker 2: barriers to returning to sex after kids, pain does not
- 12:34Speaker 2: need to be one of them, right, I find the time,
- 12:40Speaker 2: right if I'm like, if I can just stay awake
- 12:41Speaker 2: long enough, you know, and so you know, we have
- 12:44Speaker 2: enough things that we have going on, and I think
- 12:47Speaker 2: that prioritizing ourself careen saying hey, this is bothering me.
- 12:51Speaker 2: I need to go see a therapist. And so it
- 12:53Speaker 2: is unfortunate that we often have to wait until there's issues.
- 12:57Speaker 1: But so I mean, I also think that so many
- 13:00Speaker 1: of those things you said, things like going out with
- 13:02Speaker 1: your friends or working out, I think we have trained
- 13:05Speaker 1: people to think of those kinds of self care as
- 13:08Speaker 1: sort of luxuries, like well, like I don't, you know,
- 13:12Speaker 1: sure would I like to be able to go running
- 13:14Speaker 1: without you know, urinary leakage. That would be great, but
- 13:18Speaker 1: you know, I I should just suck it up, like
- 13:21Speaker 1: you know, this is just something, Yeah, this would be
- 13:22Speaker 1: enjoyable for me, but I don't really have the time
- 13:25Speaker 1: to invest in in myself. And I think that that's
- 13:29Speaker 1: that is a dis you know, that is a disservice.
- 13:31Speaker 1: That is part of the kind of societal way that
- 13:33Speaker 1: this gets swept under the rug and that and that
- 13:36Speaker 1: we learn to try to just you know, push through
- 13:38Speaker 1: and Okay, I guess I'll do a kind of exercise
- 13:40Speaker 1: I don't like as much. But of course that is
- 13:43Speaker 1: that is also very damaging.
- 13:46Speaker 2: It is and I think that that's it's a lot
- 13:48Speaker 2: of it because we put more onus on the mother
- 13:50Speaker 2: right where I feel like, I mean, again, the research
- 13:52Speaker 2: also shows if you're experiencing gurinearying continence during pregnancy, you
- 13:56Speaker 2: have a higher risk of experiencing incontinence postpartum. So during pregnancy,
- 14:00Speaker 2: why aren't we sending those moms to a pet to
- 14:04Speaker 2: help train their pelvic floors. Why aren't we proactively educating
- 14:07Speaker 2: people on how to push optimally during you know, during birth,
- 14:11Speaker 2: or training medical providers about how to help patients do that,
- 14:14Speaker 2: versus kind of going through the same things we've always
- 14:16Speaker 2: done and then we're getting the same results that fifty
- 14:19Speaker 2: percent people are incontinent after the age of sixty five, right,
- 14:22Speaker 2: So I think it's always kind of looking at it
- 14:24Speaker 2: from both sides. But again, I mean, the hard part
- 14:28Speaker 2: about these pelvic floor issues is I don't think we
- 14:30Speaker 2: realize how far these ripples go. Like if you are
- 14:33Speaker 2: not able to do things that maybe feel like a luxury.
- 14:36Speaker 2: But we know that exercise helps with depression and anxiety
- 14:40Speaker 2: and sleep.
- 14:41Speaker 3: We know that.
- 14:42Speaker 2: You know, if you're not interacting with your kids in
- 14:45Speaker 2: the same way, that can affect your relationship, if you're
- 14:47Speaker 2: not interacting with your partner in the same way. People
- 14:50Speaker 2: are missing work because of pelvic floor issues, if you
- 14:53Speaker 2: are have a job where you have bladder issues and
- 14:56Speaker 2: you can't use the restroom off and I mean, I
- 14:58Speaker 2: think the ripples of these things we think, oh gosh,
- 15:01Speaker 2: but like how severe is that? I mean, I've had
- 15:03Speaker 2: people teachers who can't work, nurses who can't work because
- 15:07Speaker 2: of pelvil core issues. So these ripples start to really
- 15:10Speaker 2: kind of seep into different aspects of our life, and
- 15:13Speaker 2: that's unfortunate. Again, if we need we don't need more
- 15:16Speaker 2: barriers keeping women out of the workplace, right, so we
- 15:19Speaker 2: don't need more things affecting our mental health. So I
- 15:21Speaker 2: think it's you know, I think I always come back
- 15:24Speaker 2: to these statistics are very clear to me, and I
- 15:27Speaker 2: think that the medical system really has to change the
- 15:30Speaker 2: way it's functioning to provide more proactive care and make
- 15:34Speaker 2: this an integral part of pregnancy and postpartum recovery.
- 15:38Speaker 3: I agree with that.
- 15:39Speaker 1: I also think there's a potentially a role for more advertising.
- 15:45Speaker 3: I guess is the way I would I would put it.
- 15:47Speaker 1: I mean, I remember you presumably remember when viagra first
- 15:51Speaker 1: came out.
- 15:52Speaker 3: You know, there are a lot of commercials. It's probably
- 15:54Speaker 3: so true.
- 15:54Speaker 1: I don't watch commercials anymore because of streaming, but I remember,
- 15:58Speaker 1: you know, there's a lot of commercials for viagra. But
- 16:00Speaker 1: in some ways it has the same you know, like
- 16:03Speaker 1: a recktyle dysfunction has some of the.
- 16:05Speaker 3: Same shame aspects around it that you know.
- 16:08Speaker 1: But somehow, because it was for men, uh it or
- 16:13Speaker 1: maybe for another reason, uh, it became a something that
- 16:17Speaker 1: we were sort of telling everyone about. And I think
- 16:19Speaker 1: that was actually quite important for people to understand. Okay,
- 16:21Speaker 1: if I'm experiencing this, you know, it may not be
- 16:24Speaker 1: something I want to talk about with everybody. But now
- 16:26Speaker 1: I know that there's this sort of solution. So I
- 16:28Speaker 1: almost wonder if there's a role for I don't know,
- 16:32Speaker 1: like maybe you could have some advertisements, right, so television,
- 16:37Speaker 1: so it's Super Bowl.
- 16:40Speaker 2: That's that's the hard part is that those things take money,
- 16:43Speaker 2: and this yearn't backed by pharmaceutical companies or I mean
- 16:45Speaker 2: there's not a lot of like physical therapy isn't sexy, right,
- 16:49Speaker 2: it's not like that, and there's not a lot of
- 16:51Speaker 2: money in it. It's it's so there's nobody backing this,
- 16:55Speaker 2: and there's nobody backing the research either. I mean, who
- 16:57Speaker 2: backs these drug company trials. I mean these drug trials,
- 17:00Speaker 2: it's pharmaceutical companies.
- 17:02Speaker 3: So that's that's the hard part.
- 17:04Speaker 2: I always feel like it's a little bit of like
- 17:06Speaker 2: David versus Goliath, that like, these physical therapists are like
- 17:09Speaker 2: the boots on the ground and we're trying so hard
- 17:11Speaker 2: and we're just trying to work against this medical system
- 17:13Speaker 2: and these pharmaceutical companies that are just they really have
- 17:17Speaker 2: such an up because we're not taking doctors out to
- 17:20Speaker 2: lunch or we're not putting commercials on. And I do
- 17:23Speaker 2: think that some there are a lot of female There
- 17:27Speaker 2: are a lot of companies that are servicing female bodies,
- 17:31Speaker 2: like incontinence liners and you know, period product things where
- 17:35Speaker 2: they are changing their narrative a little bit instead of
- 17:37Speaker 2: seeing I'm hearing less and less little leaks are just
- 17:41Speaker 2: part of being a lady, and I'm hearing that like, hey,
- 17:44Speaker 2: this can help you live your life, but there's also
- 17:46Speaker 2: other resources for you. And I've worked with those that
- 17:49Speaker 2: really have that same philosophy of I'm not trying to
- 17:52Speaker 2: normalize this. I'm trying to make this normal conversation. But
- 17:57Speaker 2: I'm also giving people other options that are long term
- 18:00Speaker 2: versus just like flip a line or on and then
- 18:02Speaker 2: kind of go about your day.
- 18:04Speaker 1: All right, So I want to end by talking about resources.
- 18:07Speaker 1: So obviously your Instagram is is a resource, but in
- 18:11Speaker 1: terms of other you know, other resources.
- 18:14Speaker 3: If people feel like, you know, a I need to
- 18:17Speaker 3: learn more about this or more than that.
- 18:19Speaker 1: You know, I'm experiencing this issue and maybe I feel
- 18:21Speaker 1: dismissed or I brought it up to my provider and
- 18:23Speaker 1: they said, you know, little weeks are normal, you know,
- 18:26Speaker 1: don't don't worry about it.
- 18:27Speaker 3: What is the what is the place to go.
- 18:29Speaker 1: To almost arm yourself with information or understand what is possible?
- 18:34Speaker 2: So I think there's two that I would think about.
- 18:37Speaker 3: Is that one? Google? So Google?
- 18:41Speaker 2: Right? No, I mean, so you know what we're doing.
- 18:44Speaker 2: It's it's actually surprising. Social media has really helped elevate
- 18:48Speaker 2: the presence of pelvic floor physical therapy. It is and TikTok,
- 18:51Speaker 2: I mean there, this is where people there are pelvic
- 18:54Speaker 2: there's a pet pelvic floor. Yeah, and so there's several
- 18:58Speaker 2: of them. And so I think it's really as how
- 19:00Speaker 2: we're able to share this information that's free and reach
- 19:03Speaker 2: masses of people who we feel deserve this information and
- 19:07Speaker 2: then you know, I always say, they're like, oh, congratulations
- 19:09Speaker 2: on your follows. I'm like, that to me is not
- 19:12Speaker 2: I mean, if you work hard for those things. But
- 19:13Speaker 2: it's a testament to how many people really want this information. So,
- 19:18Speaker 2: but there are two places I would say to look.
- 19:20Speaker 2: One is called the Academy of Pelvic Health, so that
- 19:24Speaker 2: is where all physical therapists are. Not all physical therapists,
- 19:28Speaker 2: some physical therapists are members. It's our kind of national
- 19:30Speaker 2: organization of pelvic floor pts. But there's also on there
- 19:34Speaker 2: a PT locator, So if you're looking for a pelvic
- 19:36Speaker 2: floor therapist in your area, I would go to that
- 19:40Speaker 2: website and go to the PT locator and look for
- 19:42Speaker 2: someone in your area. And then in every state in
- 19:45Speaker 2: the United States, you can get a evaluation by a
- 19:51Speaker 2: physical therapist without a referral from a physician, So you
- 19:54Speaker 2: can at least get an evaluation to say like, hey,
- 19:57Speaker 2: how is my pelvic floor functioning? Do I need anything else?
- 20:00Speaker 2: And then most often we have relationships with physicians who
- 20:03Speaker 2: would you know, see you if you need a continuous
- 20:06Speaker 2: medical care or in my state, you don't even need
- 20:09Speaker 2: to follow up with a PT I mean with a
- 20:10Speaker 2: physician we can just continue seeing you as long as
- 20:12Speaker 2: you progress. And there's another website called Pelvic rehab dot
- 20:16Speaker 2: com that also is another great resource to find a
- 20:18Speaker 2: physical therapist. And then even on my website, I mean,
- 20:21Speaker 2: we have tons of blog posts about like what helps
- 20:24Speaker 2: with pain after sex? If you have, you know, pubic
- 20:27Speaker 2: bone pain during pregnancy, what do you do? How do
- 20:29Speaker 2: you push optimally during birth? I mean there's and I'm
- 20:32Speaker 2: not I'm sure there's so many other physical therapists that
- 20:35Speaker 2: just have these this information that we're teaching people day
- 20:38Speaker 2: to day in our clinics, and we just want more
- 20:40Speaker 2: people to have access to that info.
- 20:43Speaker 1: Also on your Instagram, sometimes you dress up like a vagina,
- 20:46Speaker 1: so that I do.
- 20:47Speaker 2: I do own a volv a costume, which my kids
- 20:49Speaker 2: think is a hot dog bun.
- 20:51Speaker 3: It doesn't. They're like, why what are we doing with a.
- 20:56Speaker 2: Hot dog bun today?
- 20:57Speaker 1: Mom?
- 20:58Speaker 3: And I'm like, just a couple of videos, you know,
- 21:00Speaker 3: so I do.
- 21:01Speaker 2: And it's you know, part of it is that I
- 21:03Speaker 2: also want to bring some levity and lightness to this.
- 21:06Speaker 2: I mean it kind of these are to me, these
- 21:09Speaker 2: are such approachable conversations for me personally, and I'm like,
- 21:13Speaker 2: we can have fun. It doesn't have to be so serious,
- 21:15Speaker 2: but we also don't have to like we can normalize it,
- 21:17Speaker 2: but it can also still be kind of fun to
- 21:19Speaker 2: talk about and learn about.
- 21:20Speaker 3: So right, I love it, I love it all right.
- 21:24Speaker 3: Thank you so much. This was a treat, and.
- 21:26Speaker 1: We'll put for those of you guys who are listening
- 21:27Speaker 1: on audio, we will put all of the in the transcript.
- 21:30Speaker 1: I'll put all the links in so if you want
- 21:32Speaker 1: to visit any of these websites and follow Sarah on
- 21:35Speaker 1: Instagram and everywhere else.
- 21:37Speaker 2: Awesome. Thank you so much Emily for having me