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New Dirty Little Secret: A Bride Wants to know A Piece Of Her Past! · Billy The Kidd In The Morning

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  Speaker 1: This is Dirty Little Secrets.
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  Speaker 1: Okay, Well, I'm getting married this fall and there's something
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  Speaker 1: that I've been carrying and I haven't told anyone.
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  Speaker 2: Uh oh, well, I was going to see congrats on
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  Speaker 2: getting married, but I guess not. Well, I mean congrats.
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  Speaker 2: Does this have to do with your fiance or something?
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  Speaker 1: The marriage? No? No, no, the marriage part is great.
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  Speaker 1: All right, you're happy. It's good. That part I'm I
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  Speaker 1: am not worried about. I know it's the right choice,
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  Speaker 1: but my parents got divorced when I was twelve, and
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  Speaker 1: I'm not gonna lie it like totally tore me up.
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  Speaker 1: And so from that point on, basically my dad disappeared
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  Speaker 1: from my life. But growing up, I was always told
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  Speaker 1: the same story, like he was a bad husband, he
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  Speaker 1: hurt my mom, and that narrative came from my mom
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  Speaker 1: and my grandparents, and I never questioned it. So I
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  Speaker 1: just accepted my dad was the villain, right, and I
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  Speaker 1: moved on, at least I tried to move on. But
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  Speaker 1: a lot of kids raised by one parents parent like
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  Speaker 1: it's they get curious and they like want to know
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  Speaker 1: their other parents. I feel like that's pretty natural, right. Yeah.
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  Speaker 1: I was one of those kids, and I got older
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  Speaker 1: and maybe shouldn't have done this part, but I did
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  Speaker 1: my own research and I found out that basically that
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  Speaker 1: wasn't the truth. The truth was that my mom was
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  Speaker 1: the one who stepped out, not my dad. Wow. And
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  Speaker 1: the reason, I mean, it's pretty heavy, right, Yeah. The
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  Speaker 1: reason was that he wasn't in my life was because
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  Speaker 1: it wasn't because he didn't care, which sort of made
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  Speaker 1: me feel good, right, you know that you did not
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  Speaker 1: want me, But it was because he had been pushed
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  Speaker 1: out by my mom And the story was only ever
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  Speaker 1: told for me from one side.
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  Speaker 2: Right, and this I feel like this happens. I mean
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  Speaker 2: I've heard of this happening before. So you feel like
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  Speaker 2: you've been lied to?
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  Speaker 1: Yeah? Yeah, I mean for a large part of my life,
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  Speaker 1: a lot of you know, a lot of it has
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  Speaker 1: been like all from my mom's side and her side.
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  Speaker 1: And I mean, I love my mom. She did the
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  Speaker 1: best she could, you know, but like finding that lieout
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  Speaker 1: like totally broke me. But like I feel this like
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  Speaker 1: over overwhelming need to make it up for all that
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  Speaker 1: lost time that I had without my dad, right, and
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  Speaker 1: I want to know my dad and I want him
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  Speaker 1: in my wife. So that said, like, I mean, this
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  Speaker 1: is not with any malice, but I invited my dad
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  Speaker 1: to my wedding.
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  Speaker 2: Oh really, And nobody knows this yet.
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  Speaker 1: No, no, nobody knows this yet. I mean I know it,
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  Speaker 1: and my dad knows it. But that's it. I know.
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  Speaker 1: It's bad kind of like it could blow up my
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  Speaker 1: whole family. Yeah, and it might cause some serious tension
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  Speaker 1: on like my day, on like our wedding day. I
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  Speaker 1: don't know, but honestly I don't. I don't even care
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  Speaker 1: anymore because I lost so many years with him that
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  Speaker 1: it was not my choice it was their choice and
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  Speaker 1: someone else's version of this story, and I want to
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  Speaker 1: know the whole thing, and I want a relationship with him.
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  Speaker 2: Well, I don't think there's anything wrong with that. I mean, really,
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  Speaker 2: it's it's your day if you want to do. I
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  Speaker 2: don't think you should blindside your mom, right, I think
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  Speaker 2: you should probably talk to your mom about it. I
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  Speaker 2: don't think maybe it should be up for debate on
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  Speaker 2: what you want to do. I should just think that
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  Speaker 2: you should be honest with her and say this is
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  Speaker 2: how I feel. I hold no resentment towards you, I know,
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  Speaker 2: because you know, even though you heard this side of
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  Speaker 2: the truth, who knows what the real truth is. I
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  Speaker 2: don't think there's anything wrong with him want you know,
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  Speaker 2: you wanting him at your wedding. That makes sense, Yeah,
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  Speaker 2: that's fair. But just your mom knowing is also part
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  Speaker 2: of it, because you have to be prepared. What if
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  Speaker 2: she somehow decides she doesn't want to go or yeah around.
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  Speaker 1: Him, gosh, I mean, I mean, I mean that's why
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  Speaker 1: I haven't told anyone yet. I don't like I kind
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  Speaker 1: of feel like, you know, just wait and like ask
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  Speaker 1: for forgiveness instead of permission, you know what, I mean,
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  Speaker 1: it is my wedding. I should get what I want
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  Speaker 1: on my wedding day.
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  Speaker 2: You know you should. But you know, I mean, I
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  Speaker 2: don't think there's I do think that if that happens,
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  Speaker 2: she is going to be upset. Yeah, the vibe of
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  Speaker 2: the wedding could be thrown and prep your fiance because
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  Speaker 2: you know, you gotta prep everybody.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, he's coming into some.
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  Speaker 2: Everybody close to you. I mean, how do you think
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  Speaker 2: your mom would react if you pull her aside and
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  Speaker 2: you're like, listen, I've been talking to my dad. I know,
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  Speaker 2: you know, I've heard two sides of this story, and
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  Speaker 2: I want him at the wedding and I don't want
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  Speaker 2: her to be drama. How do you think she would react?
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  Speaker 1: I mean, I think she'll feel betrayed and she'll be
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  Speaker 1: like pissed, but also like, you know, kind of like
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  Speaker 1: she's caught because this has been a lie. But I mean,
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  Speaker 1: I don't know, she doesn't even recognize that she's done
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  Speaker 1: anything wrong. I don't think, right, she just thinks that,
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  Speaker 1: you know, she's been telling the same story for so
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  Speaker 1: long that she thinks that's what went down. That's not
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  Speaker 1: the truth. She was the one who was like I'm
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  Speaker 1: taking my job and I'm gone, wow, Wow.
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  Speaker 2: Well, I mean, listen, it's your day, it's your day.
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  Speaker 2: Whoever you want there should be there. And I'm sure
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  Speaker 2: people listen there's someone out there who's been in a
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  Speaker 2: situation like this where yeah, well, I don't want you
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  Speaker 2: to talk to your dad. He's a bad guy, but
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  Speaker 2: you want to know who your dad is.
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  Speaker 1: I mean, I deserve to know the truth, no matter
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  Speaker 1: what that is.
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  Speaker 2: And I was the same way too. Yeah, I was
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  Speaker 2: twelve anymore. Yeah, my mom didn't speak bad about my father,
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  Speaker 2: but I knew the kind of guy he was because
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  Speaker 2: I was old enough to figure it out. But I
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  Speaker 2: still wanted to know him. Yeah, and I still wanted
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  Speaker 2: to talk to him and see what he was all about,
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  Speaker 2: because one, he's my dad.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, so yeah.
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  Speaker 2: Let us know what happens. And I think prepping some
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  Speaker 2: everyone on what's going to happen and that he's coming
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  Speaker 2: might actually help you too, because otherwise I think you'll
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  Speaker 2: be anxious all day. That a day you should be enjoyed.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, you should know how everyone feels before you show up.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, that way you know you're not walking into any surprises,
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  Speaker 2: and you kind of you know, prepare yourself and manage
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  Speaker 2: that drama first. So but do it, do it, and
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  Speaker 2: let us know, let us know what happens. And congratulations.
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  Speaker 2: This should be a happy time.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, I mean I'm happy. I'm just like, oh God,
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  Speaker 1: what have I done?
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  Speaker 2: Well, you're following your heart, nothing wrong with that, and
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  Speaker 2: uh and good luck?
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  Speaker 1: Okay, okay, thanks.
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  Speaker 2: You see all this drama when it comes to getting married.
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  Speaker 2: You see how much drama weddings cause. Yeah, why we
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  Speaker 2: got to do that? Why can't we just like pinky promise?
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  Speaker 1: No, Okay,