Latest / Come Together with Ephraim Herschmann / #121: Guy Ben-Hanan / Charlie Kirk, Moral Battles, Jewish Meditation & Thought
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- 0:01Welcome to another episode of a come together
- 0:14and we're live. No time, dude.
- 0:17Cheers. Pouring out for Charlie.
- 0:19Man oh man, how many places to go with this dude?
- 0:23Or a fan, Emma. Yeah, man.
- 0:26What the holy soul? No.
- 0:28So about Charlie Kirk. Yeah, what do you it?
- 0:30Doesn't make sense. People would say that he was
- 0:33shot and killed by Israel or Jew.
- 0:37He's like the biggest advocate, the biggest non Jewish advocate
- 0:42for Israel. Yeah.
- 0:44Ever. Yeah, and so vocal and he has
- 0:46such far reach it would it makes more sense.
- 0:50On the youth generation too, like if Israel has been losing
- 0:52the PR war for the last three years on camp, you know on
- 0:56campuses and across like the youth groups, right.
- 0:59He's the only, he's literally the one of the only advocates
- 1:01that's going like from college campus to college campus
- 1:03preaching about Israel or talking about the positive
- 1:07influence of Israel and. People were saying that he's
- 1:08like shifting gears. Yeah, right.
- 1:12That's the claim. But there is still so much more
- 1:16to gain from him being 95%. Yeah.
- 1:19On your page. Then 5% critical which?
- 1:24Is my insanity so dumb? But also also, we know that I
- 1:27found this kid. He what?
- 1:29They found the kid, apparently. Yeah.
- 1:31Yeah. Dude, what do?
- 1:32You mean that they're going to stop being anti?
- 1:34They're going. To no well, of course not, but
- 1:36you think that but I mean, I'm sure the kids not a huge fan of
- 1:39Israel. You know they're doing the 22
- 1:44year old I. Bet you they'll find some way to
- 1:46link it back. Netanyahu, pay this guy to shoot
- 1:50to shoot him or they said I didn't.
- 1:52I haven't looked into it so much but they said that there was
- 1:54like a Jewish guy who stopped. Or yeah, who claimed to be
- 1:58claimed to be the shooter first to like let the guy get away?
- 2:01Always a Jewish guy that FS things up because.
- 2:05I don't know, man. You know what's funny?
- 2:07I was talking about college students about it, and they were
- 2:09like, how could the FBI make a mistake?
- 2:11How could the FBI students, college, high school students
- 2:14about this and they're like, how could the FBI make 2 mistakes on
- 2:18like who the guy is? Like wouldn't like the like
- 2:20witnesses like say who it was? And I'm like, I want to paint
- 2:24like a picture. Like I was like, if I'm 19 to 20
- 2:27and Charlie Kirk is coming and I'm going with my friends and
- 2:30hanging out in the back, I'm probably pretty drunk.
- 2:33Like I'm probably pregaming that like event, you know, and yeah,
- 2:37probably. Weren't sober.
- 2:38Yeah, and also, like, you're in a crowd with thousands of
- 2:41people. He's speaking all of a sudden,
- 2:44like like it probably happened so fast.
- 2:47You're not even looking. You're on your phone, you're
- 2:48texting, you're doing whatever you're with your friends, you're
- 2:50talking, you're most of the people probably weren't
- 2:52listening, especially from all the way back where like these
- 2:55camera footages are right? And then like and then something
- 2:58goes off and everyone starts panicking.
- 3:00Who the heck is going to be a reliable witness as to like who
- 3:04the right person? You know who the?
- 3:05People who had videos of this guy on the roof.
- 3:07Beforehand was crazy. But why and?
- 3:09Welcome you. Yeah, that should be legal.
- 3:11What should be illegal? It should be illegal to take a
- 3:13video of someone that is about to commit a crime commits the
- 3:17crime. But you don't submit that.
- 3:18Like you don't give that. You don't give that tip.
- 3:20Interesting. I don't know if I actually think
- 3:23it should be illegal. I don't know if I didn't think
- 3:24it all the way through like the with potential consequences on
- 3:27both ends. Say something a guy goes on a
- 3:29roof in the middle. Of A and like he's in a slight
- 3:31position dude. He's like, on his stomach like.
- 3:34How do you not scream something like, hey, there's a guy on the
- 3:37roof? Yeah, I think that people are.
- 3:40I think that people are afraid to say things and draw attention
- 3:43to themselves. Do you?
- 3:45Because I saw a guy who was celebrating immediately after he
- 3:48got shot. Well, that was well, yeah, I saw
- 3:50that guy too. I think that one guy is an
- 3:55extreme case and I think that the average, like even myself, I
- 4:00was in, I was in it when I was in Israel for the year.
- 4:02I was on a bus and someone left a bag on the bus and I will
- 4:09racial stereotype because it was an Arab that like I'm like all
- 4:13Jewish bus, you know, left a bag and walked off and then came
- 4:17back like a second later realized I forgot the bag and
- 4:19got it right. But in that like you're scared 5
- 4:21seconds that in between I was genuinely scared and I also did
- 4:25absolutely nothing right. Like I didn't go to the bus
- 4:27driver. I didn't like say, Hey, what's
- 4:29going on? I didn't like make a big deal,
- 4:31but like if you see like the notion of like see something,
- 4:35say something doesn't really exist because we're all in our
- 4:37heads about like not wanting to look like idiots, you know,
- 4:39around with everyone around us. Yeah, better to look like an
- 4:42idiot, that would be. Wrong.
- 4:43I know dude, it's easy to say. Hope.
- 4:46I hope that God forbid I'm never in that situation.
- 4:49But I hope, I hope that if I am ever in that situation, I have
- 4:52the the knowledge or the insight to actually do something that
- 4:57OK, maybe I'll be embarrassed and like I'm wrong.
- 5:01But like on the off pants exactly right as Israel is way
- 5:04better about that culturally than we are.
- 5:06Why? Because they need to no.
- 5:08No, no, what like. About like, oh, because every,
- 5:12every, if you go, if you go to Ben Gurion Airport, you're by
- 5:14Tel Aviv. Every couple of days there's
- 5:17some kind of bomb scare, like someone saying something about
- 5:19something going on to the bomb team, the bomb squad sent there,
- 5:22and it's not because there's a bomb every couple of days
- 5:24talking. About the civilians or you
- 5:26talking about the people that work in the airports?
- 5:27I'm talking about this, this the bombs, the the the security for
- 5:30the airport will identify, yeah, a bag and shut down portions of
- 5:34the airport until it's figured out on a very frequent basis.
- 5:37Yeah, right. And I and part of the reason why
- 5:39is I believe, I would imagine is because they, that part of that
- 5:44culture is to actually like be weary and say something.
- 5:47Like they're on high alert. They're on high alert all the
- 5:49time. That makes sense.
- 5:50We're not in high alert all the time because I you know, because
- 5:53we're freaking 5000 miles away from all our enemies.
- 5:56We're comfortable, but not as this is what I've been thinking
- 6:00about. Like does what?
- 6:01So what happens from here? Like, does it have to hit a
- 6:04point of like rock bottom before people start to get to change?
- 6:08Like, what's what's it going to take in America Change?
- 6:10Yeah. Yeah, We just saw the lead the
- 6:13the chick gets stabbed on the bus.
- 6:16Anything and these are happening in such.
- 6:19Dude, I saw the. Forward amount of.
- 6:20You saw the video of her reaction to happening I.
- 6:23Don't watch these. Videos.
- 6:25I don't watch them either. I watch the video and then I
- 6:27yeah, what can you, I know you. Can you imagine?
- 6:32Just mind your own business and then all of a sudden you just
- 6:37realize, oh shit, like I'm just dead.
- 6:38You get stabbed in the jugular. And then you just like, but
- 6:41she's like, and then like, she's kind of like put her head
- 6:44between her arms and just like fell, you know, And I'm like,
- 6:48and like, she knew what was happening.
- 6:50Oh, God, yeah, Dude, you know what?
- 6:54I'm the way that I hope that it's not going to happen, but
- 6:59what I fear is like, and this is completely baseless, just like
- 7:05what I feel like that with my post on like the like the
- 7:08emotional feel of society. I feel like it all this stuff
- 7:15feels like it's trying to invoke a reaction like this is
- 7:21happening to. It feels like this happening a
- 7:24lot, not exclusively, but very frequently to obviously
- 7:30conserve, You know, people are more on the quote UN quote
- 7:32conservative spectrum. What do you call that?
- 7:34Religious or white, You know, which is so funny because white
- 7:37doesn't have to be conservative, but like, they're just like,
- 7:40white has just become. So people that are white have
- 7:42just become so antithetical to people on the left that they're
- 7:46almost grouped that way by default.
- 7:48Like, they're almost like pushed into that side.
- 7:50Yeah. They're villainized to the point
- 7:52where like, you just make that assumption because the the
- 7:55villainization's been going on for over a decade now.
- 7:57Right, You want to talk about racial profiling or stereotypes?
- 8:01Yeah. Dude, it's the exact opposite.
- 8:03It's like, oh, because you're white, you must be conservative.
- 8:06You must have some sort of. If you're white, in good shape
- 8:09and like you wear like regular clothes, you have to be, yeah,
- 8:13it's straight. You have to be conservative.
- 8:14And you're like, what are you talking about?
- 8:17And you're pushing and you're pushing it.
- 8:19And but it's be they're pushed into that camp, right?
- 8:22Like a lot of the people probably wouldn't even put
- 8:24themselves in that camp unless they were pushed into or or
- 8:27forced into it by it's. True.
- 8:29Yeah, they are getting pushed into that camp.
- 8:34Guana peed in the pool. Is that what happened?
- 8:37No. Could have been dude, did you
- 8:40drop the deuce in your pool? You kidding me?
- 8:46What is that? That's.
- 8:47Pretty sure what's happening right now.
- 8:48What's happening dude? That can't be right, dude.
- 8:53Is that an iguana up there? They're for sure dropping a
- 8:55deuce in your pool. No, they're not, man.
- 8:57Yeah, they are. Keep talking for a minute.
- 9:00So Fran right now is checking out his pool.
- 9:03He's just noticing right now that iguanas are peeing and
- 9:06pooping in his pool from a tree overhead.
- 9:08Look, dude, there's the tail right there.
- 9:11Oh my God. Hey, what the?
- 9:17Fuck. Hilarious.
- 9:22And the pool's out of the bathroom, you see he's hanging
- 9:25over the pool, dude. He doesn't care.
- 9:30Also, he's aiming for the pool. He's aiming for your pool.
- 9:34He could have easily gone to butt over and hit the grass.
- 9:37Jesus Christ, man, now I don't feel.
- 9:40As bad when I peed in your pool? Wow, at least they didn't drop a
- 9:43deuce. Yeah, I do.
- 9:44Well, the truth is, I mean, I started watching the pool guy
- 9:49when he comes on Monday to clean him, like he just like, just
- 9:52takes like, what looks like bleach and just like, just like
- 9:55dumps a container in and just like mixes it and walks away.
- 9:57And I'm like, that's it. That's what you're doing.
- 10:00Yeah, that's it. He.
- 10:01He cleans the filter too. Is that David?
- 10:03Yeah. Still, everyone I know fired him
- 10:05except for me. Kitty fired him.
- 10:07No, Kitty's lazy. He didn't want to get another
- 10:10guy, but everyone else I know fired him.
- 10:12Well, to be fair, Pool doesn't look so bad besides for all the
- 10:15leaves. No, it looks great.
- 10:16It looks pretty good. Yeah, yeah, yeah.
- 10:18But I. Was great with my new guy.
- 10:20So I so, yeah, so I feel I was telling my, I was actually
- 10:23talking to my students about this and I was saying that.
- 10:26Wait, can I cut you off for a second?
- 10:27Sure, dude. That your students, they know
- 10:29Charlie Kirk? Like, do they see him?
- 10:31Do they listen? Some do, some just heard, heard
- 10:33his name and then heard he got killed.
- 10:35Really. Yeah.
- 10:36Yeah. Like go to a bunch of them asked
- 10:38me to like see the video. I'm like dude, I'm not showing a
- 10:4015 year old the video of a young dad getting killed.
- 10:44Why? Like what are you talking about?
- 10:46I didn't even watch the video. I saw the.
- 10:48I saw the video from like Ariel. Yeah.
- 10:50And then I saw a screenshot of my.
- 10:52Someone sent me a screenshot of literally the.
- 10:55Shot. Yeah, in his neck.
- 10:56And I'm like, there's no way that he's surviving it didn't
- 11:01you said it nicked, I think. Was it you or maybe Pacey?
- 11:04Who? Said Nicked.
- 11:05But it was. And then I saw the screenshot.
- 11:07I'm like, that's not a Nick. No, but it hit the IT didn't go
- 11:10through his neck. It like hit like the side.
- 11:13They looked like a hole. Yeah, and I didn't look that
- 11:15close, dude, and I didn't get any screenshots.
- 11:17Thank God, dude. Well.
- 11:20Yeah, you're saying? So their kids wanted to see it.
- 11:23I said no, but I also said that and this is actually I'm
- 11:28starting to kind of believe that and maybe I don't even know what
- 11:32I, I, I think I believe that this is the case that it almost
- 11:37feel like it's not just an attack.
- 11:40There's not just an attack on the West.
- 11:41There's a there's an attack on, on, on relationships and family
- 11:46values and life, essentially, right.
- 11:51And like the the trans shooter the other week that shot up the.
- 11:58Christian And I think a step further, I think it's more it's
- 12:02it's an attack on on speech. You're you killed a guy because
- 12:06of what he said. He didn't go ahead.
- 12:08He might have spoken about being pro-life, right?
- 12:12But he never, he never went ahead and forced anyone to carry
- 12:15out a pregnancy, right? So he's just talking, he's.
- 12:17Never actor. He's not an actor.
- 12:19Right, he's talking about ideas that people disagree with.
- 12:22Yeah. And and, and hopefully making a
- 12:24difference, but still, it's from his, his ideas.
- 12:27And I think it, it's worthwhile mentioning.
- 12:29I saw this guy this this rabbi on on Fox News.
- 12:32Did you see him? Well, in a second, I don't
- 12:35remember his name, but dude, it was such a good parallel.
- 12:37He's like Charlie Kirk was the Avramavino of of our time.
- 12:42No, it was very funny, a great line.
- 12:44He'd go. He'd go.
- 12:45Avramavino was the only. Everyone is throwing their kids
- 12:47into volcanoes, sacrificing their children in a time where
- 12:50idolatry is. Yeah, everywhere.
- 12:54And Avraham's the only one. Avraham's the only one who's
- 12:56talking. And, you know, And you know what
- 12:58he does? He says, come into my tent.
- 12:59Yeah, come in. Let's have a conversation.
- 13:01People leave the tent, and they're like, hey, you know
- 13:03what? That's a good discussion.
- 13:05Wow. Charlie Kirk is the guy who will
- 13:07set up shop with a literal tent. So.
- 13:09Hey, let's have a. Discussion about this and change
- 13:12people's minds that way. Yeah, God saves Avraham though.
- 13:18Yeah, but. Yeah, You know, it's, it's
- 13:20heartbreaking. You know, I hope, I hope that
- 13:24this actually causes a step in the right direction because the
- 13:27response could have been like blind rage that like would have
- 13:31led to like catastrophe. Like what I, I showed actually
- 13:35both my students, my students, the movies, the Joker with the
- 13:39Batman with the Joker. Like he didn't want to like hurt
- 13:43the Batman. He wanted Batman to abandon his
- 13:45values. Like, that's what he wants.
- 13:47Like that's what his goal was. His goal was to get Batman to
- 13:50like, break his one rule and to like, believe that society and
- 13:54like what? Batman is this.
- 13:56This is a famous one with Dark Knight, Yeah, Dark Knight, Heath
- 13:59Ledger. And with the interrogation
- 14:02scene, when, when, when Joker tells Batman not that way, but
- 14:07the one that leads to that, right.
- 14:09So where he has to either choose between Denton, whatever his
- 14:13name is, and, and the girl, and he's like, you're going to have
- 14:16to commit murder one way or the other because you're going to
- 14:18choose one life over the other. So now, Batman, you're a
- 14:21murderer, right? You know, and I'm going to force
- 14:24you to abandon you. I'm going to push you to the
- 14:26point that you abandon your values, right?
- 14:28You know, so good. I love that you show that.
- 14:31I did and then I showed them the scene from the new Spider Man,
- 14:35the one with the three like Tony with Tom Holland, Tobey Maguire
- 14:39and and the scene at the end where he's fighting Andrew
- 14:42Garfield's not to leave him out. Shut up.
- 14:45You're the man. Dude.
- 14:47You look remarkably young for a man in like your mid 40s.
- 14:50Something like dude he was Spider Man like 25 years ago.
- 14:53No, not that long. Ago 15 years ago, 15 years ago.
- 14:57Spider Man's like Tobey Barr's like 65 dude, and he looks so
- 15:02your choir looked like a pedophile in the first Spider
- 15:04Man movies dude. Sorry man.
- 15:07Somehow looked 30 as spider man. Yeah, dude, like Peter Parker's
- 15:10like in high school hitting on like a 14 year old dude, what is
- 15:13going on? But.
- 15:15What was the scene that you showed?
- 15:16The scene that I showed them was at the end when the Green Goblin
- 15:18also wanted Tom Holland to kill him.
- 15:21Right? Yeah.
- 15:22And, and Tom Holland is going nuts.
- 15:24And, and what I loved about that scene in particular was that you
- 15:26can see in his body language and his face that he lost control.
- 15:29Like he's not being himself. You see his veins, I think.
- 15:33Yeah, you think it. I think I remember.
- 15:35Between his eyes. Or his or his head.
- 15:37I remember, but I remember. He's got a blood streak, a
- 15:38couple of blood streaks just from like, fighting.
- 15:42Well, that was makeup. But yeah.
- 15:44His acting was the thing that brought out them.
- 15:47And then his face and you've seen his face and there's a
- 15:49moment in his face where you could see that he's deciding
- 15:52that he's going to do this. Like he's deciding he's going to
- 15:54kill Green Goblin, He's going to become a murderer, right?
- 15:57And like he's going to abandon that like neighborhood spider
- 15:59man value and like and he's puts his arm up and he's about to do
- 16:03and Tobey McGuire stops him. And Tobey Mcguire's face, like
- 16:06his eyes just say, like, what are you doing?
- 16:08Like, read, stop for you don't want to become this.
- 16:13And it feels like all this violence and all this cancelling
- 16:17and all this, like her is like trying to get people to abandon
- 16:23their values. And I feel that way even about
- 16:24the people that carry out the crimes, like like the trans
- 16:27shooter. If you intentional.
- 16:30The trans shooter I read like his part of the video that was
- 16:34up was like his notebook and there's like a four page
- 16:36manifesto. If you actually read the
- 16:38manifesto, he sounds sick, lost, scared and sad.
- 16:44Like he doesn't sound like a hateful villain that wants like
- 16:47nothing more than to like like turn society on his head and
- 16:50like an evil plot to like be like a villain.
- 16:52Like he's like, I don't even know why I'm so angry.
- 16:55I don't even know how like what's going on.
- 16:57I know that like I'm getting poisons from like all around me
- 16:59and like, and it's just been building up for so long and
- 17:02like, I don't know, I and I just have to like go before I go.
- 17:04I have to like, I have, I have this anger.
- 17:07I have to like, I have to, I have to acknowledge this.
- 17:10I have to like, do something about it and like, dude, to live
- 17:14in that guy's head for the last X amount of years, you know,
- 17:19that he's probably experiencing this.
- 17:21And I was also thinking, you know, do we have a legitimate
- 17:23loneliness epidemic? Do you ever listen to Scott
- 17:25Galloway talk about it or Diary of a CEO?
- 17:28Only only clips of that, but yeah, I love, I love both of
- 17:30them. Diary of a CEO.
- 17:31I listen to more, but I mean, I don't, I don't care if I get
- 17:37cancelled for this, but transgenderism was a mental
- 17:40illness up until whatever, like a couple of years ago.
- 17:44And then it became an acceptable thing and thing that was
- 17:47celebrated and encouraged. And now you see it all the time
- 17:52for people who are transgender aren't when they, when they
- 17:56transition, it doesn't make them happier.
- 18:00They're not. They're they're still missing
- 18:01that void. Yeah, so and then they have to,
- 18:04I guess, express it in some other way.
- 18:05And then you have people talking about it like Charlie Kirk, and
- 18:09you just keep talking about it, saying, hey, this is an illness,
- 18:12like we have to. Get did you see the way he spoke
- 18:14to the student about it? There's a video clip.
- 18:15I was talking to a student and she was like, listen, I want you
- 18:18to be feel comfortable in your body and in your skin.
- 18:22He's like what I'm asking of you.
- 18:24He's like what you're about to do is about to be a decision
- 18:27that can't go, that you can't go back on.
- 18:29Right, give some context. Sorry, this trans student,
- 18:30apparently he's having debate with that with with this trans
- 18:33student. Is that a college campus?
- 18:34Yeah, or the on a college campus and.
- 18:37And she's talking to him and he asks her, do you mind if I hear
- 18:40your story? And she says, well, I haven't
- 18:42come to my body since like third grade and like I always knew
- 18:44like I and, and he's like, and were you like I forgot.
- 18:49I don't want to like fill in the lines because I don't remember
- 18:51the exact, but the jet. But what he said at the end was
- 18:54the premise of what he was saying was you have a lot of
- 18:57different potential sources of why you feel this way.
- 19:00And the route that you're taking is going to have a permanent
- 19:03consequence where the other routes don't necessarily have to
- 19:06yet. So before you start making
- 19:08decisions that you can't go back from, start with decisions that
- 19:13you could go back with and that you could feel out and that you
- 19:15could say, hey, maybe this works, maybe it doesn't work.
- 19:18But like before, like and, you know, and like the example
- 19:21hypothetically could be like before you get a tattoo, put one
- 19:24of those kid ones on, you know, for a couple of days, see how
- 19:26you like it and then decide, oh, you'll want this for the rest of
- 19:28my life or not, you know, and like you can always change your
- 19:30mind if it with one of those like Kitty things and you get it
- 19:33now, you know, turn on, you know.
- 19:34I haven't heard him say that, but that's so good.
- 19:37And. Maybe take medication and see
- 19:40how you feel These dude, Zach. A lot of them are medicated.
- 19:43My, my three-year old son, I can't tell how many times he's
- 19:46told me something about wearing nail Polish, being a girl.
- 19:50I'm like, you're a boy, dude. Like.
- 19:52And then he gets excited. I'm a boy.
- 19:54And I'm like, yeah. And you're strong and you're
- 19:56fast and you're mean and you're aggressive.
- 19:59And he's like, and he gets pumped up and he goes, ah, but
- 20:01let me climb on your neck. I'm like, yeah.
- 20:04But he also, but he also has an older sister and a mom that's
- 20:06having that, that, that he, that he's appealing to also, you
- 20:09know. But if I were to encourage him
- 20:11and. Say yeah, yeah, yeah, honey,
- 20:13Yeah. Something else?
- 20:14Are you, do you really feel that way?
- 20:16You think I'm going to take it seriously as a three-year old
- 20:18kid, But obviously it could cause a lot of damage if I did.
- 20:22Yeah, I could either build this kid up and make him into the man
- 20:25that he's supposed to be, or I could really confuse the right.
- 20:28And part of what we say is a parent's job is that the kid
- 20:32doesn't know what they're experiencing.
- 20:34No, we don't know what we're experiencing most of our lives.
- 20:36And our brains are developed. You know, most of the time we
- 20:38have a hard enough time trying to come to terms with like what
- 20:40our lives are work and like, right, Balancing like life and
- 20:44being a good husband and being a dad and being present and being
- 20:46part of the community, doing whatever you're going to do and
- 20:48all your responsibilities. You're like, whoa, like how do I
- 20:50sort that? Imagine you're great.
- 20:52Like imagine being 5, like you can't work this stuff out, you
- 20:56know, like. You mean it's like you saw
- 20:58someone in your class that had nail Polish?
- 21:00And like, yeah, that's cool. My.
- 21:01Sister wears nail Polish. Like, why can't I wear a nail
- 21:03Polish? Right?
- 21:04And then you have a conversation.
- 21:05Can I wear a nail Polish? Yeah, you.
- 21:07Have a conversation and you have a conversation.
- 21:09Seriously. I mean, I hear.
- 21:11Yeah. Yeah.
- 21:12So, dude, wait, do you want to? I want to.
- 21:16Yeah. I want to finish this at you up
- 21:17first. Yeah, I think that.
- 21:20So I think that this is an attempt to get to get to get
- 21:27people to betray themselves and their values.
- 21:32What's this like, the people doing these shootings and these
- 21:34horrific things? Yeah, I think.
- 21:36It's intentional, that guy. No, I don't.
- 21:38I don't. Think, I don't know, man.
- 21:39I I I'm not convinced that these people are thinking that guy in
- 21:42the bus is at the range. I I agree with you, but I don't
- 21:46I they're not thinking, I don't think.
- 21:48And by the way, this is is happening again.
- 21:52This is where I think you and I might disagree on, like the
- 21:54board stuff. We're talking about me being on
- 21:56a board. I think a lot of this happens
- 21:59from top down. Yeah, this guy who stabbed the
- 22:04girl on the bus, he's been in prison 14 times.
- 22:08At a certain point you just say. That's the judge's fault, and
- 22:10the judge and. And who who the judge is at the
- 22:13top, who likes who, who puts the judges into power?
- 22:16I think it's people. People unfortunately do have
- 22:19influence when they're on the board or they're elected
- 22:22representatives. And like it or not, I think that
- 22:24that's. Well, yeah, Mike Benz also goes
- 22:26pretty deep into not all, not not to the level that it's like
- 22:311 to one ratio of like craziness, but what he what he
- 22:36what he pulls up a lot and you just check out his stuff.
- 22:39I'll send some of the stuff to you.
- 22:40He's amazing. Is for example, the way that How
- 22:43does a college become a premier college?
- 22:46Premier Yeah. Public staff, yeah, OK.
- 22:48How do they do that? They generally get a lot of
- 22:50funding and with that funding and with those grants able to
- 22:52attract a lot of people that are doing research and people that
- 22:54are doing high quality research, because you have more, you have
- 22:57more opportunity, you pay them more and they end up and they
- 22:59end up attracting, you know, and then even if there isn't, for
- 23:04example, unlimited money, all you need is a couple of people
- 23:06to create this reputation of you guys being a great university
- 23:09for everyone to want to join, regardless of how much money
- 23:12you're actually allocated or making.
- 23:14Right. Meaning at a certain point, for
- 23:15example, students are willing to go into debt to go to MIT.
- 23:18How come they're not willing to go into debt to go to Binghamton
- 23:20hypothetically, right? You're like, well, because your
- 23:22return, you expect an MIT is going to be great greater you're
- 23:25having yeah, exposure to right. So all you have to do is get the
- 23:29first couple of people. So he goes, you know, Columbia,
- 23:32for example, they're journalism schools apparently top of the
- 23:35country, you know, like they get like X amount of proportion,
- 23:39proportionate funds from the government relative to the other
- 23:44colleges that are much higher. And so the potential influence
- 23:48that you have on your graduates that are journalists is going to
- 23:52be enormous because you're. Potential influence.
- 23:56On the on that the government, that the college and the
- 23:59government in association with one another.
- 24:02Because the government is like. I'm funding it. $10 million, you
- 24:05better. Teach the whole the whole, the
- 24:06whole fight with Trump and Harvard is about the fact he's
- 24:09like, why are we paying for these kinds of studies and work
- 24:12to be done? The government, the taxpayers
- 24:14should not be paying for these kind of things.
- 24:15And the and the and the college has been saying, well, actually,
- 24:18the way we became Harvard is by you giving us this money, right.
- 24:22So, you know, you want and you know you and and that's you
- 24:25want, you know, the, you want all American institutions to
- 24:29collapse. You're going to really take
- 24:31Harvard away from everyone. You're going to take the Harvard
- 24:34like that everyone wants for and like for what?
- 24:36For like this stupid DEA, you know, Dei thing like or yeah,
- 24:40Dei, yeah. You should take it away.
- 24:41Well, of course, but the point is that it's not a once there's
- 24:45an argument to be made, there's a lot of, there's a lot of
- 24:48pushback that could happen, right?
- 24:49Trump is cutting a lot of. Money.
- 24:51But it's a business and it's run like a business.
- 24:52Yeah, and it is. And I guess business can get
- 24:54grants. But my point is that it is top
- 24:56down too. Like what you're saying, Like
- 24:58there are there are political, there are political influences
- 25:02on the on, on on. You know, if you're going to try
- 25:06to be a judge in Wisconsin and you're applying and you went to
- 25:10Harvard or Columbia or NYU, there are, and then you went to
- 25:14a local Wisconsin college, who's getting the job to be the judge?
- 25:18Right, because the diploma means more.
- 25:20From those places, right? But from those places you're
- 25:22also getting XY and Z influence and and associations, right?
- 25:25So the, so the, so the, so these judges that are that are letting
- 25:29these criminals go after 10111213 arrests, they're the
- 25:35ones that obviously have to answer to this, but it's still a
- 25:37systematic failure that could be acknowledged.
- 25:40You just need to answer. Yeah, the judge should answer
- 25:42today. A judge that lets a criminal go
- 25:45more than three times and then the guy commits a violent act.
- 25:49I mean, we have, you have a halacha like that.
- 25:50You have Torah like that. You have an ox that had that,
- 25:52that if your ox does XY and Z, if it damages, if it hurts, if
- 25:56it damages someone's property or hurts someone, and then you keep
- 25:59the ox and then it does it again and you keep the ox and it kills
- 26:01someone. You're responsible, dude.
- 26:03Yeah. And that's an animal.
- 26:05Forget about a judge with a human being.
- 26:06Right. What a great There's some.
- 26:10No, it's a good comparison, but ultimately it's not.
- 26:15It doesn't end with the judge. It ends.
- 26:18It ends higher. Who's that?
- 26:19Katanji Brown Jackson. That was who's that on the
- 26:22Supreme Court? They recently added to the
- 26:25Supreme Court maybe a year or two ago.
- 26:27Yeah. And when they're added, they're
- 26:30grilled, right. And what do you think they
- 26:32grilled her on? What was the question?
- 26:35What is the question that conservatives ask?
- 26:37Conservatives asks Israel. No, What is a woman?
- 26:40Oh, really? Yeah, and they and they grilled
- 26:43her on it. What is and this is a smart
- 26:46person, obviously, but like it's like so fundamental, but like,
- 26:50and she slipped up and she can't answer.
- 26:52She can't tell you what a woman is.
- 26:53And it's just like so telling that like, OK, you could be
- 26:55brilliant, but you could have it so.
- 26:58Twisted. Yeah, of course.
- 26:59You know why? Because knowledge and
- 27:00information is amoral. People are moral or not.
- 27:04Or I got, you know, so like you can have all this information,
- 27:07you could have all this knowledge and the way that you
- 27:10apply it could be the totally misconstrued, the wrong way, the
- 27:13totally immoral way, right? You know, And that's why I like
- 27:18humanities, like history is so subjective.
- 27:20Yeah, why do you think? Not to make this into a sheer,
- 27:24but I'm curious what your thoughts are and why.
- 27:26Torah is information, Allah is information, right?
- 27:29Jewish law. So why is it that we can say
- 27:33that we're moral? By the way, we just.
- 27:35Following a law we don't following.
- 27:37We don't say that. We say that actually Torah is
- 27:39quote UN quote, some like I am some of it.
- 27:42It's it could either be an election for life or, or a
- 27:45poison, you know, and. And so what's the?
- 27:48And it's the, it's the way that you apply it, right?
- 27:50There was AI forgot who it was. And we could, we could like look
- 27:53it up. Or another time, Jamie, ask, ask
- 27:57you know anyone when you get around.
- 27:58Jamie to the budget. Dude, I need a budget first.
- 28:02I'm gonna get a budget all Adam, but what I'm actually thinking
- 28:05of doing actually Rocco told me that was your idea that to start
- 28:08task rabbiting or what's the work up work up work up work for
- 28:13my social media for the for the podcast to.
- 28:17Do. Shorts, real clips, you know,
- 28:20like, get some traction. Yeah.
- 28:22And she's like, you could like. And yeah, whatever.
- 28:24Anyway, so information itself is amoral.
- 28:29Oh, yes. He had a story about this king
- 28:31of Israel that used that we say brought back idea, you know,
- 28:39laws that we forgot since the time that Moshe died.
- 28:42And he used that information to convince Binet Israel to or, or
- 28:46the people of Israel to build another golden calf in the
- 28:49actual baseline. Miktash.
- 28:51What? Yeah, that actually happened.
- 28:53What? Yeah, dude, get out of here and
- 28:55well, look it up. Look it up.
- 28:56What is it called? I have to look up the guy's
- 28:58name, but the point is that, like you're, the level of
- 29:01knowledge that you have has no association with whether or not
- 29:04you're a moral person or not. Yeah, there's no, I'm going to
- 29:08look this up right now because. OK, I'll find it.
- 29:11I'll find it after I send it to you and.
- 29:13Then I'll so interesting I'll post.
- 29:14But then what is? Right.
- 29:16So the question is, what is it right rather?
- 29:19Saying this Shama, but like what a soul, right soul.
- 29:22So by the way, and you even have this from the beginning of the
- 29:25Torah where you have Avram Avinu, you have Avram Abraham
- 29:31and Malkit said it comes to him after the after the king, with
- 29:34the after the war with the 5 kings.
- 29:35He was like the first like World War at the time and Avram
- 29:39participated. All that a World War.
- 29:40Yeah, sure. Yeah, it was the entire.
- 29:43I mean, it was basically an alliance between the 10 greatest
- 29:47nations. The. 5 kings were the only kings
- 29:49in the world, you think? Well, no, but I think most of
- 29:52the world at that time, it was generally or most of their world
- 29:56in that time at least was generally located around the
- 29:59Middle East and Africa and and, and society was placed around
- 30:09geographic locations that could support life like the Nile
- 30:11River. So like people would flock to
- 30:14places that they can that that could support themselves and
- 30:16their families, right. So I'm sure that there weren't
- 30:19that many like different places for people to really like, you
- 30:22have scattered societies and nomads and stuff like that.
- 30:25But like, as far as like cities go, there's, there's not, I
- 30:29mean, you'd have to have a place that's big enough for everybody
- 30:32to be able to kind of like live on that.
- 30:33Yeah, societies. So Abraham goes to war.
- 30:36So he goes to war and there's a guy that's Makita is his name.
- 30:39And Rashi, the most famous commentator says that he was
- 30:44really Shem Noah's son and Yeti Shiva, a seminary or school
- 30:50called the Shiva shame Weaver. And they they actually studied,
- 30:53you know, the original Torah, whatever, like some variation of
- 30:56Torah, right? And he and Avram had this face
- 30:59off and the measures talks about and the oral law talks about
- 31:03this face off that they have where they're both intimidated
- 31:06by each other because Makita deck is like this establishment
- 31:10that like, is the premise for like the divine word on earth,
- 31:15right? And Avram is like this new guy
- 31:17that's like this young guy that's running around trying to
- 31:19like spread this new philosophy and he's trying to work it out
- 31:22and he's debating like, you know, Charlie Kirking it and,
- 31:25and they finally come and they meet and they're both, you know,
- 31:29on one hand, you have one way 11 path, which is figuring it out,
- 31:35like looking forward into the future and trying to figure out
- 31:38where you're going to go and trying to use the word of God to
- 31:41identify how to explore and, and make the most of the future.
- 31:45And then you have the institution that is deeply
- 31:47rooted in the past, that is there to support it, that's
- 31:52there to support the foundation of it, right?
- 31:54So you have these two. Two pillars, right?
- 31:56You have to. Yeah.
- 31:57Schools of thought, Exactly. Right flashing.
- 32:01And that's why you have like every society has like, you
- 32:03know, like these like elders that are like, you know, the
- 32:05foundations and the principles of like these societies.
- 32:08And they and they have the wisdom and the knowledge and
- 32:10they have the experience of we already seeing people behave
- 32:12like this and do this. And then you have the youth that
- 32:14are constantly pushing the boundaries and trying to
- 32:16adventure and figure out, is it OK to go here?
- 32:19And they say, no, why is it not OK?
- 32:21You know, how do you get there? You know, And there's always a
- 32:23tension between the two. And that's really, by the way,
- 32:25the tension between like, liberalism and conservatism is
- 32:28generally like. How far to push that?
- 32:30Boundary exactly how far to push that boundary and conservatism
- 32:33is a very you know, is a very clear you know, Jordan Peterson
- 32:35loves to talk loves to talk about this.
- 32:37It's like you have a clear boundary with conservatism.
- 32:39You know, like Nazis, you know, like, like anyone.
- 32:45But you know, as soon as you're like whites and whites only.
- 32:51White. You know, and then you got a
- 32:54problem and like. That's true.
- 32:56But like with liberalism, like what you know, we have lines and
- 33:01they keep on getting pushed and the and, and it's not even that
- 33:04they shouldn't, these lines shouldn't get pushed, but we
- 33:06shouldn't give in every single time.
- 33:08Not every time. Not every boundary needs to be
- 33:10pushed and not every boundary should be pushed.
- 33:12And that's when you have like people pulling you in.
- 33:14So I don't, I don't really know that there's a very long answer
- 33:21to get to the point that I don't know what is like objectively
- 33:26always going to be the right. Like there is no way to really
- 33:28know. It's always going to be the
- 33:29objectively right thing to do. You know, like I don't think
- 33:34there's always a there's, there's always a clear right
- 33:37choice. This is what the right thing to
- 33:39do is, and this is not. But at the very least I think
- 33:42you need some sort of like a rule book.
- 33:44For sure when that's. And maybe that's where I think
- 33:47the Liberals lack. They don't have that like rule
- 33:50book. It's all like.
- 33:52And the rule book kind of imploded when it became about
- 33:54peace and love. And then it's about you're not
- 33:56tolerant of our peace and love, so we're not tolerant of you.
- 34:00That rule book kind of implodes, right?
- 34:02You know, like how you going to do that again?
- 34:04How you going to How you going to justify killing Charlie Kirk?
- 34:07In the name of peace and love, In the name of tolerance?
- 34:10Yeah. It's the same people that
- 34:11demand, what do you call it, sensitivities.
- 34:15Yeah. So the same people going ahead
- 34:17and executing. Yeah, yeah, and, and actually I,
- 34:20I, I heard this take and I've been thinking a lot about it
- 34:23too, along the same line of trying to get people to put to
- 34:25break their values. Is that Eric Weinstein was
- 34:30talking about October 7th. I.
- 34:32Don't know who that is. He's awesome.
- 34:34I'll tell you some stuff about him.
- 34:36There's two brothers, Brett and Eric Weinstein.
- 34:37Brett, a little bit more conspiratorial.
- 34:39They're podcasters. They're both.
- 34:43Brett is an evolutionary biologist and Eric is a
- 34:46mathematician and a physicist that spent like a career on Wall
- 34:49Street and then like kind of got into academia and into like
- 34:54theoretical physics and all this crazy stuff.
- 34:56Yeah, they both very impressive, both brilliant people, both
- 34:59also, you know, Jew, you know, proud Jews.
- 35:02And. And one of the things that they
- 35:04were talking about, one of the things that he was saying was
- 35:07like, what do you think that Hamas is trying to accomplish?
- 35:09Right. Like the line that like they're
- 35:11trying to like destroy Israel. Maybe they want to, but for all
- 35:16like all practical purposes, it's not happening, right?
- 35:19Like Israel has the US backing it.
- 35:21They've got technology that's world's better.
- 35:24Hamas is building like these rockets out of like, you know,
- 35:27right, like pipes on the floor and, and a shower head.
- 35:29And, you know, I'll try to like, shoot at Tel Aviv, like, great,
- 35:31you know, what are you? Going to do in like.
- 35:34Right so so what's your so what's your plan October 7th
- 35:36like what what what you have to you must have a game plan.
- 35:39OK, so his his theory and I and I think that.
- 35:42I'll tell you the answer. I don't care about his theory,
- 35:44but. I'll tell you the answer to his
- 35:45theory is to they they knew they're not going to win a
- 35:48physical war, so they could turn the entire world against Israel
- 35:51by evoking the most emotional reaction out of the Israelis.
- 35:55And just like that little kid, there's like a like a younger
- 35:58brother that pisses off the Big Brother until he beats the crap
- 36:01out of him and the parent come and goes, what the heck are you
- 36:03doing? You're like, you don't get he
- 36:05really pissed me off. You're like, yeah, but look what
- 36:07you're doing to him and you're bigger than him and you should
- 36:08know better. You know, that is.
- 36:10I literally tell me that that exact conversation has not been
- 36:13happening around the globe for the last 2 1/2 years.
- 36:16Yeah, but there's a difference between murdering and raping
- 36:22someone than pummeling a kid. It's not.
- 36:27Of course, but but and. Imagine the kid, the little
- 36:31brother let's say. Just to use a fair comparison,
- 36:35little brother took a knife and chopped off a hand.
- 36:38So he didn't kill him, he just chopped off his left hand.
- 36:42And then you kill it. That's cause for For what?
- 36:45Not not destroying him. OK, right.
- 36:48Definitely beating the shit out of him.
- 36:50OK, right. So again and and then, but the
- 36:53point remains the same, which is there are now varying degrees of
- 36:56appropriate response and the chances are that you're going to
- 36:58overreact is relatively high, extremely high actually, right?
- 37:04The point is all the same. What if What if that same little
- 37:06kid says I'm making it my life's mission to kill you and.
- 37:09You'll be like, I can't take you.
- 37:10I don't take you seriously because you're a stupid little
- 37:12kid and I could just step on you every single time that you do
- 37:14anything. Growing the kid grows.
- 37:16The kids not growing. Come on dude.
- 37:17Dude, we control Israel controls, you know, the food,
- 37:21power, water source. Like, I don't think I don't
- 37:24think that Hamas or anyone in Gaza ever seriously had I'm.
- 37:28Thinking more like that ideological kid, some
- 37:31ideological kid is growing. Even so, there's only there's a
- 37:34limit to how far ideology gets you in that kind of world.
- 37:36It's here. It's an where is it?
- 37:39OK, Well, that's another conversation.
- 37:41And the way that it's going to manifest is going to be very
- 37:42different, right? Because the way that it's
- 37:45manifesting in America is a much more slow, slow burn, slow
- 37:49trickle where you start to have institutions not not responding
- 37:53to crime and then you start to have universities supporting it.
- 37:56And then you start to have educate, but we're not having
- 37:59but but the skill that's happening and then you start
- 38:01implementing. That war quote UN quote needs
- 38:03to. Happen that war needs to.
- 38:05Right. It needs to transition from that
- 38:06war of aggression and missiles to probably a different type.
- 38:10Is that what you're saying? No, that's it's so interesting.
- 38:13No, that's not what I'm saying. That's a great point, though.
- 38:15What I'm saying was that's a legitimate war because but that
- 38:20is happening over the like the implementation.
- 38:24I, I, the, the, you got the judges, the universities, the
- 38:27schools, the, the, the political system, whatever it is, then
- 38:31you, the, then you have even the like, even the freaking fed, I
- 38:35mean like even just our national deficit, like the people like
- 38:38the fact that anyone refuses to just say like it's not a, it's
- 38:43not a rational conversation to say we have to stop spending.
- 38:47It's an emotional conversation because there is no reason to
- 38:51assume that we could just keep on spending the way we are.
- 38:53No one could ever say This is why it's a good idea.
- 38:57That does sound rational. You said it's emotional.
- 39:00No, it's an emotional choice to keep on, to keep on spending the
- 39:03deficit the way that we are. Oh, because it's irrational.
- 39:05It's irrational to do that, Yeah.
- 39:07It's irrational to to behave the way that we're acting in almost
- 39:10every capacity, right? And then you get 10 million
- 39:13illegal immigrants moving to our country and then crime.
- 39:16And then if and when hypothetically crime war to
- 39:19spike or enough incidents were to happen to cause the nation to
- 39:23start to attack itself, that's an attack, that's a war, right?
- 39:26Like this is like you're seeing a 50 year strategy being
- 39:29implemented all at one time, hypothetically.
- 39:32So I want to bring this back to being on a board.
- 39:35Yeah. So you don't see the value of
- 39:37like being in a position where you're like, hey, maybe we
- 39:40should instead focus on some other things right now, Like why
- 39:43are we not? Why are we spending?
- 39:44So why are we getting involved in so many things?
- 39:46Why are we like allowing so much corruption to happen?
- 39:49You don't think that there's a value in being in in?
- 39:51I know, but I don't. Think that, yeah.
- 39:52I don't think that having a board changes anything, really.
- 39:55Yeah. The same way that I don't think
- 39:57having a government to change anything either.
- 40:01Literally, you know, the last, the last 15 years you had,
- 40:04you're coming back and forth, Democrat, Republican, Democrat,
- 40:07Republican. And it's the same consequences.
- 40:09Because there's so many bad people going into it.
- 40:12Potentially for sure, by the way.
- 40:14And then the good, the good ones like Charlie Kirk and MLK, you
- 40:16just get shot down. Can't get too good, dude.
- 40:19Shit dude, that, that's so dark my God, you're right.
- 40:24I know, dude. Wow.
- 40:26Yeah, it's a shame. They just get it's like a movie.
- 40:30That's why you got to do podcasts and hide out man the.
- 40:32Movie that is so crazy. Dude, everything has been
- 40:35feeling like a movie, dude. Joe Rogan keeps saying a little
- 40:38like, sprinkle it in that we're in a simulation and I don't
- 40:40understand it, but slow, like at first I didn't understand.
- 40:44It makes so much sense to me. Slowly, the more I keep hearing
- 40:46it, I'm like, whoa, that's weird.
- 40:49But there's not even any. It's so funny because all these
- 40:51ideas have spent. I've been thinking about this
- 40:54also. We this is so we
- 40:57compartmentalize so much in our lives.
- 41:00Like we have our like religious beliefs.
- 41:02You know that there's God and there's Malachian or angels,
- 41:04whatever. And you have like whatever.
- 41:06And then there's like UFOs and aliens and like, that's
- 41:08something else. And like, but like the stories
- 41:11and the evidence and like the things that are happening, like
- 41:13the simulation theory, like why is simulation so different than
- 41:16saying God? Like why is like, right?
- 41:18Like, why is like saying that any different than saying
- 41:22there's a great creator that programmed into our system, into
- 41:24our world universe, which has laws and rules and then can be
- 41:30periodically broken or these chance experiences that are like
- 41:33lucky fortunes seem to happen that are like God's intervention
- 41:37into things, you know, like that's that.
- 41:39Why is that that that sounds like religion and simulation at
- 41:42the same time, you know, or alien.
- 41:44I don't know if I was talking to you about this, but like aliens
- 41:46in the field. And like every story in Navi,
- 41:48every story in the prophets was like these women that are
- 41:50barren. And then all of a sudden like
- 41:52they're in a field praying, but to God by themselves.
- 41:54And then an Angel from God comes down, tells them they're going
- 41:57to have a baby. And then nine months later they
- 41:58give birth and you're like, dude, that's not like we're OK.
- 42:03We're like we're saying different words, but like the
- 42:05concepts are exactly the same ideas.
- 42:09Wow. Yeah, Joe Rogan is willing to
- 42:12buy that aliens drop down into a field and like.
- 42:16Knock someone up. Knock someone up?
- 42:17Yeah. But he's not willing to make
- 42:19that same jump for like an Angel meeting someone or a Navi,
- 42:22right? And why is that right?
- 42:23But by the way, because of the religious association probably,
- 42:26or dogma or so, yeah. You know, like you don't want to
- 42:29like, oh, I believe in like the Bible, you know, because that
- 42:32that's there's such a strong push back to that there's.
- 42:35Connotation to it. It's an emotional you're a
- 42:37religious. Person.
- 42:38Yeah, that makes you. Stupid, right?
- 42:39Right. Yeah.
- 42:40You're religious. Forget about it, man.
- 42:42Now it's like, oh, you're into conspiracies.
- 42:44Oh, so you're open minded. You're like, you might have some
- 42:47faith in you. Yeah.
- 42:49And you know what's interesting? People.
- 42:50The reason why I think people take advantage of that is
- 42:52because just like with conspiracies and just like with
- 42:54God, especially if you're particularly creationist as in
- 42:59like you, like if you particularly believe that like
- 43:02we don't have free will and God is just making everything
- 43:04happen, you know, then like nothing is off the table for how
- 43:09crazy anything could get right? Like generally speaking, the
- 43:12reason why, like if you say like, for example, like this was
- 43:16a great example. Apparently there's an idea that
- 43:19the Hafez Kai maybe said, someone said a couple 100 years
- 43:23ago, like seventeen 1800s, that the final wars of before
- 43:28Mashiach, before they're dead, before the redemption, before
- 43:31whatever the anointed one comes Messiah Messiah is is going to
- 43:36be 12 minutes long. That's the final war and
- 43:38everyone's like, we don't know what that means.
- 43:40Right, it doesn't make sense. Doesn't make any sense.
- 43:41And then like that and then that woman that was going around on
- 43:44the podcast circuit I forgot wrote this book about like
- 43:47nuclear war. Looks like it's 6 minutes from
- 43:51Russia or China to America with a nuke.
- 43:54So if you're going to talk, so 300 years ago, right, we're
- 43:57talking about a concept that at the time felt creationist,
- 44:00right? Like, oh, what does that mean?
- 44:01So God's going to come and like blow up the war in 12 in 12
- 44:04minutes, Like, I don't know. But then also, Fast forward 200
- 44:08years and we have nuclear technology or we have, you know,
- 44:10we have nukes and bombs and ballistic missiles that
- 44:13literally could end the world in 12 minutes, you know, and you're
- 44:15like, oh, man, like. It's like Izzy likes to say the
- 44:18line of like, we're going to travel back on the on the wings
- 44:23of eagles. Yeah.
- 44:25It's like does that. Not travel back where?
- 44:27Oh, an airplane that looked like an airplane.
- 44:28Yeah, yeah. Yemenis all thought that
- 44:31Operation Magic Carpet, everyone thought that an airplane was.
- 44:34This happened all over the Middle East, in Africa, in
- 44:37particularly poor countries when they had all these big Aleas in
- 44:40the last like 50-60, seventy years.
- 44:43A lot of these third world, these third world countries
- 44:47legitimately thought that this was like Messiah.
- 44:50Well, maybe it was a smart. Yeah, they got BB instead.
- 44:59You thought you got so funny. Tell me about this meditation,
- 45:05dude. This not meditation.
- 45:07This you're. Going to get it was, I guess it
- 45:11was a meditate, it was a retreat.
- 45:13A retreat, That's the one I was looking for.
- 45:14Thank you. Retreat, I went on.
- 45:16Yeah, tell me about it. Maybe I could give you some back
- 45:18story first. Yeah, I would love some.
- 45:19I've never heard of him but Izzy for my birthday said I would
- 45:23enjoy I would enjoy this retreat.
- 45:25So he bought me this tickets to this thing months ago and I have
- 45:30never heard of him. And even after she bought it I
- 45:31never looked into it. So I was going in with no, I
- 45:36don't even know what the guy looked like.
- 45:39What did it look? Like small I see this old
- 45:43Australian. Australian.
- 45:46Australian nice, mid 50s nice. Who is his back story is like
- 45:50he's a Balchuva grew up in was it?
- 45:54Yeah, he grew up in Australia, wanted to get into film.
- 45:58Cool. And then basically he got into H
- 46:02but was like 24 years old and it was already like trying to make
- 46:04movies. So he's really into like
- 46:08production, being professional, having good music.
- 46:10He's really into that. Anyway, so Ravmar texted me that
- 46:15he was spending a Shabbos at at like Ravmar's community.
- 46:19And Ravmar said, Do you want to come?
- 46:21Oh, that's how you ended up there.
- 46:22You were there for the weekend. I was there for.
- 46:24And then you can't. And you went Sunday.
- 46:25And then I went on his. Retreat.
- 46:27He had a lot of exposure to this dude.
- 46:29Yeah, so I'm like hearing him speak Friday night and then I'm
- 46:31watching, and then and then how? Do you?
- 46:33How do you speak? Very well, very entertaining.
- 46:35He's like an entertaining, got it.
- 46:37He's an entertainer. Like he walks into acting,
- 46:40screen writing, directing. Gotcha.
- 46:42Whatever he went, he they got him into H because they said if
- 46:47we could get, if we could get you a meeting with Steven
- 46:49Spielberg's if you stay here for 2 two weeks.
- 46:51No way. And I don't remember what he
- 46:54said, like if they got him the meeting, but I think that
- 46:56convinced him to stay and then he just wanted to stay longer.
- 46:59Yeah, so that checks out. Dude, this guy was so anyways,
- 47:06so that that was my first exposure.
- 47:08Tim was with Shabbos and then on Sunday was a full day retreat
- 47:12from 9:00 AM to 10:00 PM. And at this retreat you go in
- 47:18and you're expecting like, OK, is this going to be like a weird
- 47:20like breath work type of situation?
- 47:21I'm just going to listen to this guy and get like into a trance
- 47:24or something. But really he keeps it light and
- 47:26entertaining. He, he knows that people are
- 47:28there and aren't comfortable. So he's, like, cracking jokes
- 47:30all the time, but then he guides you through these meditations
- 47:33that are rooted in, let's say, Kabbalah or Hasidic sources.
- 47:37Yeah. You know, these were people who
- 47:40are what? What would you say 150 years
- 47:43ago? There were like more.
- 47:44More. Yeah, when was the Benish Chai,
- 47:47for example? Because he was like quoting
- 47:48Benish Chai Baal Shemtov. Yeah, more than 115, yeah, 150
- 47:52years ago. But I mean, I think the, I think
- 47:53the, I think the sources for meditation goes even further
- 47:56back into that. Oh, yeah, probably.
- 47:58But like, these are like sources he's bringing down.
- 48:01He's saying, like these people would go out to the field and
- 48:02what they're writing is like, they could stay there for three
- 48:04hours. Yeah.
- 48:05So 150 years ago, they could stay there for three hours.
- 48:08Maybe today we could stay there for a couple minutes.
- 48:10Yeah, to get into that state for a couple minutes.
- 48:12So that's like his goal, right? This whole day his goal is to
- 48:16get you to like a fraction of what they claim to have felt or
- 48:19have gone through. OK, and I think he does a pretty
- 48:22good job of did you making you feel like you got it.
- 48:25You got a feeling of that meditative state of the light
- 48:28that they're able to see cool. And it's very.
- 48:30How did how did he get you into that state?
- 48:32Oh man, that's going to be a hard part.
- 48:34That's going to be a hard thing to to.
- 48:38Articulate, articulate. Well, we'll work on it together.
- 48:41I think you could do it dude. He'll say, for example, what is
- 48:45like, what is focus? Right.
- 48:48What state of mind are you in when you come in?
- 48:50Like are you? Skeptical.
- 48:51You're just going in. Oh me personally, I was open
- 48:53minded and skeptical. Yeah, a little bit like, let's
- 48:55see what this guy's got to say. Yeah, OK.
- 48:59And, you know, like this is not stuff that is completely foreign
- 49:03to me. Like I've read like my first
- 49:05year in Israel, I would read things Hasidic Masters or Ari
- 49:08Kaplan stuff. Yeah.
- 49:10And a reader be like, OK, I don't understand this, but it's
- 49:12kind of entertaining for the 1st 50 pages.
- 49:14And then you're like, OK, it's not, not for me.
- 49:17Like it doesn't make sense, but I know that it, it exists and
- 49:19like, cool, right? So, So what is it?
- 49:22He's going to, he's going to tell you about the, the, the
- 49:24name of Hashem, right? Yud and K and Viv K.
- 49:27Yud, K, Viv K. The name of God.
- 49:29Right. And then you tell you about the
- 49:31name, what it represents, and then kind of like meditating on
- 49:35on that name and the Rep. Thinking about.
- 49:37So for example, I think that name should go inside.
- 49:39Yeah, OK, one second I'm saying what I was going to say we're
- 49:44live and what I was going to say is that name of God you'd K
- 49:49Vubke, you'd hey Vubhey or Yahwah in English is generally
- 49:54associated because the the way that in Judaism at least well to
- 49:59explain it. You see the name?
- 50:01Yeah. I don't think you're supposed to
- 50:02pronounce it in English. That's why you're not supposed
- 50:05to say the J witnesses. Oh, interesting.
- 50:08I don't know. Fine.
- 50:10I'm not a fascist man anyway, it's the different names of God
- 50:17that we had are associated with different attributes or types of
- 50:20relationship that we're having with him.
- 50:22So for example, you know when when personality trait would be
- 50:26like the the strict or upset father at the way that you
- 50:31behave as opposed to the kind mother that would like comfort
- 50:35you or help you in times of need.
- 50:37So generally speaking, that name is associated with kindness.
- 50:42Can I bet? What did he tell you to do about
- 50:44it? Was it?
- 50:45OK, do you want me to really get into the meditation thing?
- 50:51Sure. OK, stop me if I'm like rambling
- 50:54too much. But so we know the concept that
- 50:56there is this infinite light, this aura and soph, that God is
- 51:01an infinite light and infinite goodness, right?
- 51:04So, and our neshama is our soul is a piece of that light.
- 51:09Part of big cosmic light, right? So we're supposed to feel our
- 51:13soul, right? And we're supposed to feel that
- 51:15way. So his meditation is guiding you
- 51:17on how to get there the day or the goal of this is to help you
- 51:23try to feel something, to feel connected to some sort of inner
- 51:26light. And he'll say and he'll so he'll
- 51:30teach you like there are focus techniques, right?
- 51:33And a focus technique would be like meditating on, on the word
- 51:37and the association with that word.
- 51:40So he started by saying, OK, there's a plastic cup.
- 51:44Let's see how long you could focus on a plastic cup before
- 51:46there's another thought that pops into your head.
- 51:48So everyone close your eyes, look at this plastic cup, get a
- 51:50good look in it, close your eyes and then raise your hand once
- 51:53you stop focusing on plastic cup.
- 51:55So on averages like 6 seconds, people, people would have a, a
- 51:59pop in, right. So say now so we're going to go
- 52:02through this thing and teach us about about focus and about dos
- 52:06and dimion. But I'm not going to get into
- 52:07that makes it relatable. He says, OK, now that you've
- 52:12you've got this skill or now that you understand the
- 52:15background, I want you to focus on five things that have to do
- 52:21with like let's say self respect.
- 52:23So he gave us notebooks. Write down 5 things that come
- 52:26into mind when you think self respect.
- 52:27What do you think about what I'm trying to think about?
- 52:29What I even think of? So he's giving you cleanliness
- 52:34like. Eloquence education, self
- 52:39respect, cleanliness, fitness education, mental health,
- 52:48creativity, self respect and. Pretty quick.
- 52:53So he gave us like a minute on one, then a minute on 2, and
- 52:58then a minute on three, then on 400, on five.
- 52:59Think about it. Get into the zone, right?
- 53:01He's telling you. So you write these things out on
- 53:04a paper. And so now I want you to close
- 53:06your eyes and when you have a thought and think about, think
- 53:10about the first thing. And when you have the thought
- 53:13that's coming into your head, just transition it into the
- 53:15second thing that you think that you associate self respect with.
- 53:18So give me an example. So first.
- 53:20So you said creativity, right? Let's say creativity and working
- 53:23out or being fit. So whatever images come into
- 53:27your head when you're thinking creativity, think about, close
- 53:29your eyes and think about that. Get into the zone of creativity.
- 53:32What do you associate that with? And then when the moment where
- 53:34you start to feel like I'm veering off of creativity, then
- 53:37shift into shift into working out and think about those
- 53:41things. And stay in that zone where
- 53:42you're focusing on these things. And meanwhile you're in your DOS
- 53:46is on self respect, right, OK, your.
- 53:48Consciousness. Your yes, your consciousness.
- 53:50That is your intentionality. So his thing is higher
- 53:53consciousness. Yeah, that's the whole goal of
- 53:56this thing. So your dais is on self respect.
- 53:58Your consciousness is on self respect.
- 54:00And your dimion, which is your imagination, is this
- 54:02encompassing circle around your dais.
- 54:05And the the the items inside of dimion are those are those
- 54:10moments fascinating is creativity.
- 54:12And so we did an exercise and he and he said, OK, now using that
- 54:16quote UN quote strategy, let's just call it a strategy, OK.
- 54:19But this is all written. Strategy.
- 54:20This is all written out in spawn that he's quoting first and then
- 54:23he'll teach you about the thing, right?
- 54:24So you're like. Whoa, was talking.
- 54:29About this. Yeah, dude.
- 54:31And then and then. He goes, OK, now I want you to
- 54:34close your eyes and let's see how long you can focus on self
- 54:36respect, right? And you're comparing that to
- 54:39just 30 minutes ago where you couldn't focus for six seconds
- 54:42on a cup. Now you're focusing on this much
- 54:45larger thing, which is self respect.
- 54:47And you're meditating on that. And you know how long people ask
- 54:49it for? 7 minutes, wow. 7 minutes before
- 54:53the hand started going up. Wow, now.
- 54:55Now he's playing music. Yeah, of course he's guiding.
- 54:59You, he's talking to you, right? And that's an assist, that's a
- 55:03layup, right? But imagine, imagine doing this
- 55:05for a long time. Yeah, right.
- 55:07Without technology, without being in a forest, without ever,
- 55:10ever seen, seen ATV or a screen and put yourself back 200 years.
- 55:15Yeah, Dude, you think that they couldn't focus for two hours?
- 55:19For sure dude, seen the field in the field.
- 55:22Just just their thoughts. They've never had these
- 55:24distractions before in their life.
- 55:26Yeah, I'd love it. Come on, I'd like you.
- 55:28Do you think you'd enjoy that? I don't know.
- 55:31I definitely enjoyed this. Yeah, this was.
- 55:34This was 10. This was 9:00 AM to 10:00 PM.
- 55:36No, that's your life. I enjoyed those moments, but
- 55:39he's like the, I don't know if you've heard this before, it's
- 55:41very common to hear that back then they were able to focus on
- 55:43on their dominant for three hours.
- 55:44Yeah, yeah, yeah. And you're can I tell you a
- 55:47story that he said. It's amazing.
- 55:48Sure you want you want to add in some things.
- 55:50No, I'm, I'm, I want to hear. I want to hear the story.
- 55:56OK, OK, so he said he's like this story said about a rabbi.
- 56:02By the way, I just wanted to this guy is not like a like this
- 56:06Buddhist guy who by the way studied Buddhism before this.
- 56:09So he is. But he's not sitting there like
- 56:12this. He's like cracking jokes the
- 56:14whole time. It's like, you know, so he said.
- 56:16He's grounded. Yeah, and he was talking about
- 56:18psychedelics the whole time. He's like, people will get this
- 56:20feeling from psychedelics. And there's an urge for
- 56:22psychedelics nowadays because we're really craving this.
- 56:26And this is what ties back into what you said earlier about
- 56:28pushing those boundaries so that we stay connected.
- 56:31That's his pitch. His pitch is like, we're we're
- 56:34going in this direction. We have it in our arsenal.
- 56:37Let's teach it. And let's use it.
- 56:39Yeah, well, I really feel like a preacher of his.
- 56:42I wasn't. Yeah, but you're doing a great
- 56:45job explaining what's happening right now.
- 56:47So, So I'll tell you the story that he said over.
- 56:49It was like, OK. You'll be happy to have this on
- 56:51the record, by the way, I think because you'll, because I, I
- 56:54think that it's hard when, first of all, you got yourself in the
- 56:58zone by starting to talk for the first hour anyway.
- 57:01And then you're getting prompted by someone that knows the kind
- 57:06of questions that I want you to get out to make it as clear as
- 57:10possible, OK, that I'm trying to assist you with this.
- 57:12So that would be fun, Yeah. OK, well, I want you to.
- 57:15I want you to chime in the field.
- 57:17So he says a story and he's like this the story is set over and
- 57:20insert your favorite rabbi, right?
- 57:22Your rabbi is the rabbi. OK, Your rabbi is time.
- 57:25OK, just insert this story. I don't know who the rabbi was,
- 57:28but this is not OK. So he's like, there's a there's
- 57:31a Jew who's growing up and he's getting and he was not
- 57:34affiliated, but he's getting more religious and he met, he
- 57:36met this rabbi. OK, whoever you have in your
- 57:39head now the guy says, hey, I want to get more religious.
- 57:42And the rabbi says, OK, cool. You know, let's let's teach you
- 57:45how to read Hebrew. So he's like, so they teach him
- 57:48how to read Hebrew and he's like obviously struggling through it,
- 57:50through it. He's learning a new language.
- 57:52Meanwhile, they go to dobining every day, right?
- 57:54So while he's learning, he's singing the Rabbi Dobin for for
- 57:57three hours, right. So the guy, the guy is
- 58:01continuing to see this day in day out until he finally learns
- 58:03how to read better and better and his feel becomes whatever,
- 58:0610 minutes. OK, So he goes, he goes to the
- 58:10to the Rabbi and he says Rabbi, like I understand that when when
- 58:15I was first starting out, like I understood why, why your
- 58:17davening was only was 3 hours long because like, you know, I
- 58:21was going through the words you were going right.
- 58:23And but now, like, you know how to read Hebrew, like, and you
- 58:26say this, I've been seeing you say this for a long time, like,
- 58:29you know the words, obviously. So like what?
- 58:34He's like, what are you? What are you not getting?
- 58:37Like, it should be 10 minutes long, basically.
- 58:39So the rabbit says, what do you do?
- 58:40He's like, I work. What do you work?
- 58:42He's like, I sell schmatas. I'm a schmatas salesman, OK?
- 58:45Well, well, we're back. So he goes.
- 58:50So he goes. What are Where do you sell your
- 58:52schmatas? So he goes, Can I continue using
- 58:54schmatas? Sure, that's a great word.
- 58:58Well, I saw them in New York, New Jersey, and then, you know,
- 59:02Philly. Yeah.
- 59:04Right. OK.
- 59:04Do you sell overseas? Yeah, sure.
- 59:06Where Where overseas? I I sell them in Mexico.
- 59:10OK. Where else?
- 59:11I sell them in Japan. OK.
- 59:14So, so, so while the guy's saying this, he's writing down
- 59:16these these names, the where does he sell the thing?
- 59:20Japan, You know, Mexico, United States.
- 59:23OK, so the kid, so the so the guy goes here.
- 59:26How long does it take you to travel?
- 59:28So he goes, you know, an airplane takes me, you know,
- 59:31whatever, the whole the whole day just to get there.
- 59:33OK, so I'll tell you what I could, I'll shorten, I'll
- 59:37shorten it for you. Take this paper.
- 59:40And he's like, he's like, what do you want me to do with this?
- 59:43He's like, there you go. I just saved you.
- 59:44I just saved you days. Yeah, is it not he's.
- 59:54Saying he's like, I, I these are places you have to go.
- 59:58Like you can't just read the name and sell schmantz like
- 1:00:02that. So the rabbi goes, the words in
- 1:00:04the sitter aren't just words on paper, they're places you have
- 1:00:06to go. Yeah, right.
- 1:00:08So that's why I'm there for three hours.
- 1:00:11So it's like a mic drop moment. That's a great answer.
- 1:00:14Dude, you're like, wow, like I'm OK, all right, so let me get in.
- 1:00:18Let me try to see what that's about.
- 1:00:20Like let me try to see and get in that zone.
- 1:00:22So imagine he opens with these stories and their teachings and,
- 1:00:26you know, like. You know, there minds, you know,
- 1:00:27I actually thought, I thought the story is going to go in a
- 1:00:29different, a different direction.
- 1:00:31There's an awesome story, You know, the source of prayer, the
- 1:00:34Torah, the source dominating is the beginning of gracious of, of
- 1:00:40Genesis when it's the second. Yeah, no, not even Adam yet.
- 1:00:45God even create didn't create Adam and Eve yet.
- 1:00:50It was the basically the first chapter is this account of
- 1:00:55creation, the famous seven days, the six days, whatever, 7 days.
- 1:00:59And then, and then there's a new chapter that opens and it begins
- 1:01:05with the story of creation again, but it tells it
- 1:01:07differently. And if you look at any Bible,
- 1:01:10any Bible that says this, and at one point it says that there was
- 1:01:14no rain on the ground yet because man was not yet created
- 1:01:20to work right, right, and to work the land, right.
- 1:01:25And that same commentary we talked about earlier, Rashi says
- 1:01:28that this is the source of prayer that God said.
- 1:01:34I want man to notice what the world needs on the man to be the
- 1:01:39voice of the world, the consciousness of the world and
- 1:01:42say, hey, this tree back here is really it's not looking great.
- 1:01:45You know, you can really use some help right now and this you
- 1:01:48know over there that you know that that that mango tree, you
- 1:01:52know, it needs a little bit less rain than avocado tree.
- 1:01:54So you know that would be even better.
- 1:01:56And So what the point that it's trying to bring out was I
- 1:02:01believe that men's meant the purpose of prayer is not just to
- 1:02:07request things, but it's to it's to think through what needs to
- 1:02:16be taken care of in your life, right?
- 1:02:18Like what how you know. And that's why we pray for
- 1:02:21different categories of things, because you're supposed to think
- 1:02:24the steps along the process as to what each aspect of your life
- 1:02:28needs. That just gave me a great shot.
- 1:02:29By the way, can I share? Yes, shot.
- 1:02:32Yeah. So there's a there's a teaching
- 1:02:33that Adam was able to see me from one end of the world to the
- 1:02:37to the. Next, Yeah.
- 1:02:39So think about it, this being the whole world was created for
- 1:02:41him based on what you're saying. You can all be in his awareness.
- 1:02:46Yeah. Yes, Right.
- 1:02:47Exactly, exactly. And that's why Moshe had that
- 1:02:49same life, because Moshe or Moses had the same was was that
- 1:02:53prophet that was like that close.
- 1:02:55He had like that grand sense of awareness and consciousness.
- 1:02:58And he also had that same light that that, that, that that Adam
- 1:03:01had. The Adam had.
- 1:03:04But the point, I think, is that him.
- 1:03:06Yeah. I don't know.
- 1:03:08You never heard that? Where'd you hear that?
- 1:03:09That's famous. That Moshe had that.
- 1:03:12That the light that was on Motion's face after after he
- 1:03:16left down from Almoy after Oh yes, the second time.
- 1:03:19Before he came from Hersing. I know.
- 1:03:21Yeah, but then he went to Almoy to put a mask on because, you
- 1:03:24know, could talk to him. OK, right.
- 1:03:27He wasn't relatable. He wasn't relatable on an
- 1:03:30individual level. He had this cosmic, this cosmic
- 1:03:34consciousness. Dude.
- 1:03:38Imagine spending, imagine also, but think about this, right?
- 1:03:40Whatever variation you want to say, state of mind,
- 1:03:42psychedelics, spiritual ecstasy, connection with God, use
- 1:03:47whatever words or state of he was in.
- 1:03:49Obviously a very separate state of consciousness and awareness
- 1:03:52for 40 days and 40 nights. Right.
- 1:03:54And when you return, you don't relate when you come back to a
- 1:03:58trip, right? If you take, if you take
- 1:03:59mushrooms or you take LSD and then you go into your KPMG
- 1:04:04office, you'll be like, what is going on right here?
- 1:04:07You know, like you'll be like, I can't relate to any of this.
- 1:04:10I can't speak to any of these individual like cogs like that
- 1:04:15are like running around, like, you know, like this, this quote
- 1:04:17UN quote rat race. I don't relate to it.
- 1:04:19Like there's a much bigger picture that I'm like part of
- 1:04:22that. I, I don't relate to that aspect
- 1:04:24of it. I think that he was able to
- 1:04:26relate to like once you have like that kind of like cosmic or
- 1:04:30grand awareness. And the point of like what
- 1:04:33maturing and growing up is, is including more in your realm of
- 1:04:38responsibility and awareness, right?
- 1:04:40You're not just responsible for yourself now.
- 1:04:42Now you're responsible for your wife and your kids.
- 1:04:44Now you're responsible as your parents get older for your
- 1:04:46parents, you know, and, and their well-being.
- 1:04:48And now you're responsible for your younger symbols.
- 1:04:50How are they doing? You know, how are you
- 1:04:51responsible for your neighborhood and your community?
- 1:04:53And then when you're when now when you're praying, you don't
- 1:04:56have just the awareness of just yourself, right?
- 1:04:59You have this enhanced awareness.
- 1:05:01Will you want will you the world in mind of your world, which is
- 1:05:04constantly expanding to have to have what's best for them.
- 1:05:07And the more that your world expands, the more the more time
- 1:05:10you need to really think about that.
- 1:05:12You know, the more consciousness you need to be like, listen man,
- 1:05:15like. Yeah.
- 1:05:17You know, like being a teacher, right?
- 1:05:19Feels like the same. Thing so so part of so I love
- 1:05:22that you're saying this because it's still it's it's leading
- 1:05:25right to something else that he was saying.
- 1:05:26He's like, I had a conversation with with a Rob that he
- 1:05:29respected and he was and and at this point he was already
- 1:05:33learning deeper stuff and he said, I have a shot in this
- 1:05:36thing, right? Like he had an explanation on
- 1:05:39this esoteric passage. So he like they discuss it.
- 1:05:44He gives it over to him and then he says, OK, I need to think
- 1:05:47about that. He goes, what do you mean?
- 1:05:48We just talked it through. He's like, yeah, but I want to
- 1:05:51think about it. And then this Danielle Katz was
- 1:05:55like, okay, so he goes, he takes out a notebook or something and
- 1:05:58pencils in a time to think about it.
- 1:06:00That's like you do that and his rapper is like, you don't.
- 1:06:08Yeah, dude. Yeah, like.
- 1:06:11How he's like. So how often do you spend 5
- 1:06:13minutes like actually consciously thinking about
- 1:06:15something, right? I just, I want to start doing
- 1:06:17that by the way, so I really want to start doing that.
- 1:06:19That's a great idea because I there's so many things I say I
- 1:06:23want to think about and I never get to thinking about them.
- 1:06:26We'll go on the next retreat together.
- 1:06:28I don't want to do. I don't want to do it.
- 1:06:31I'm going to end up like moving. I'd have an affiliate link.
- 1:06:34I'm just kidding. So funny dude.
- 1:06:39Yeah. OK.
- 1:06:40So keep so so anyway, so you so you're connecting that way
- 1:06:44you're getting to this meditate I guess more aware, meditative
- 1:06:47kind of. Oh, that's, I mean, I mean
- 1:06:49that's so that, no, that, I mean, that's basically it.
- 1:06:51That's like the the retreat. I mean, it's one day with lunch
- 1:06:54breaks dominating, breaks thinner.
- 1:06:56Are you, how do you, how do you, how do you implement this in
- 1:06:58your in your life now? Right.
- 1:07:00Yeah, exactly. I don't.
- 1:07:02Know well, I think for starters, definitely start by thinking
- 1:07:05about by setting aside time to think about things.
- 1:07:08Bro something is just jumped into your pool.
- 1:07:13I saw a huge splash. Shout out to Dalton.
- 1:07:20Yeah, dude, sorry about that. You took a pee break.
- 1:07:22Got some wine that works right back outside.
- 1:07:25Some good wine. Red.
- 1:07:26Red wine. Yeah, Man, I think that we all
- 1:07:29need a lot of this. I think that we need one of the
- 1:07:32actually the things that gets more full circle.
- 1:07:35I was thinking of and I was especially when I was talking to
- 1:07:37my students about like what was going on because we spoke about
- 1:07:38the trans shooter a couple weeks, a couple weeks ago too,
- 1:07:41right? And I was saying, imagine, think
- 1:07:44about this, right? Most Americans, I think it is a
- 1:07:47huge loneliness epidemic happening in America.
- 1:07:50Right. Most Americans don't feel like
- 1:07:53they have. Do you know people that?
- 1:07:55I do know some people. Do you really?
- 1:07:57Yeah, I do. I know actually, as it happens
- 1:08:02to be by the way, that that my, that my, that my religious
- 1:08:05community around me typically does not have that issue, but
- 1:08:09it's not always the case, but typically right, right.
- 1:08:11Anyway, imagine this, right, You're a regular American kid.
- 1:08:15This could have happened to me so easily.
- 1:08:16Like my life trajectory, right? Graduate college 20, end of
- 1:08:202017, right? I worked for a couple of years.
- 1:08:24I'm living in Seattle. 2020, COVID starts, right?
- 1:08:30Lockdown start. Yeah, I, Seattle in particular,
- 1:08:35you know, was pretty strict for the next two years.
- 1:08:38Can't socialize. Yeah, Now, I was lucky enough to
- 1:08:41have three friends I was living with, right?
- 1:08:43But one friend started dating someone else.
- 1:08:45One friend moved back to New York.
- 1:08:46Another friend moved back to New York.
- 1:08:48Right now I get an apartment, right?
- 1:08:50I work remote because I do sales sitting in my apartment by
- 1:08:55myself when I'm not doing sales on social media, True.
- 1:09:00You know, when I'm not doing sales, I'm scrolling.
- 1:09:03I'm by myself. I don't have community because
- 1:09:05I'm not Jew. I, I don't have a huge
- 1:09:07community. I'm not Jewish.
- 1:09:08I'm not Orthodox. I'm not going to shul, I'm not
- 1:09:10going to church. I'm not going to anything right.
- 1:09:12Why not? I'm just talking about a lot of
- 1:09:14Americans. I know, but why not?
- 1:09:16Why not go? To but that's a good question,
- 1:09:17right? You probably should.
- 1:09:19I, you know, I don't have more than 3 or 4 friends.
- 1:09:24I'm on Hinge or I'm on all these other dating apps.
- 1:09:26But like, none of them really turn into any kind of real
- 1:09:28relationships. Like, you just, like, match with
- 1:09:29people and then like, you kind of try texting awkwardly and
- 1:09:31then it stops and like, that's it, right?
- 1:09:34It is super, super, super easy to go from 2020 to 2025 and end
- 1:09:43up in a very, very dark place. Yeah, in a really, really dark
- 1:09:47place for a lot of people and I and people like, and this isn't
- 1:09:51just like a, like a random case. These are like grades at a time.
- 1:09:56And schools in Binghamton and NYU and Maryland where like kids
- 1:10:01are moving to the city got, got people moving to the city.
- 1:10:03And like, even if you have roommates in Manhattan, right,
- 1:10:05you got 3 roommates. One of your roommates works in
- 1:10:07finance. He's he's only, he's in your,
- 1:10:09he's talking to you half an hour a day. 5 five years, you're
- 1:10:13saying the five? Years.
- 1:10:14I'm saying that we have been prime for like a mental health
- 1:10:19societal breakdown for a long time.
- 1:10:22Community. People are not interacting with
- 1:10:25other people. No one goes to movies, people
- 1:10:27don't go to concerts very often very much.
- 1:10:30People do not have groups of friends.
- 1:10:32People do not have meaningful relationships.
- 1:10:33People don't have communities, religious or affiliations, even
- 1:10:39just the value like of having a rabbi that like you can talk to
- 1:10:42and like a guide, like a God in your life.
- 1:10:44Where like where the walls feel like they're caving in and
- 1:10:47you're stressed and you don't know who to talk to.
- 1:10:49And and you can't talk to your wife because you don't want to
- 1:10:51stress her out about how stressed out you are.
- 1:10:53And you just call someone and you just say, I feel like this
- 1:10:57is about to break down and like to have like a human being on
- 1:11:01the other end of the phone that's been through that and say
- 1:11:04like understand and like maybe help, maybe not.
- 1:11:08You can talk it out. You can talk through it, right?
- 1:11:11That is such a rare. Right, it doesn't.
- 1:11:14It doesn't happen to people. People don't have that.
- 1:11:16We take that for granted. And then when people come out
- 1:11:19and they do crazy acts or they start acting like lunatics in
- 1:11:23the street or do crazy shit like shoot up a school or something
- 1:11:27like that, God forbid, a million times.
- 1:11:28And it doesn't have to even be that extreme.
- 1:11:30But like how many people are numb to life?
- 1:11:32How many people like don't have any embodied reality at all?
- 1:11:37I can't imagine how many people on Twitter have seen the video
- 1:11:41that have to post. Don't watch the video.
- 1:11:44Yeah, I'm like, people are watching this.
- 1:11:47Everyone was watching it. Everyone.
- 1:11:49And but like you like come so far to like be the voice.
- 1:11:56The voice that's drowned out is the voice that's saying yourself
- 1:12:00a favor. And don't watch the video
- 1:12:01because the default is you're going to watch the video and
- 1:12:04watch someone publicly executed on your phone in the bathroom
- 1:12:08probably. You are, yeah.
- 1:12:10And you know what? There's also, I also think that
- 1:12:12there's an actual thing too. I think that there's, there's
- 1:12:21different. It's so fascinating because I
- 1:12:23just, Dave Smith actually just said it today and I thought
- 1:12:27about it and I really think it's true.
- 1:12:30There's like there's almost a kind of satisfaction about
- 1:12:35self-destructive behavior. Like, there is a pleasure that
- 1:12:40people get out of self-destructive behavior where
- 1:12:43you know, what you're doing is like hurting yourself.
- 1:12:45And, you know, you're like getting yourself deeper in that
- 1:12:47pit, but you kind of want to put yourself there.
- 1:12:50I want to look something up for you because I think you're going
- 1:12:52to enjoy it. You know so.
- 1:12:54Yeah, or Danielle Katz is saying that there are 5 No 10
- 1:12:58principles or like 10 principles or 8 principles.
- 1:13:01And one of them was like your, your default state is, is self
- 1:13:05sabotage. And like, and it is, it is, it's
- 1:13:09like that's, that's what it means that you're you're.
- 1:13:12Because it's your heart. Is good.
- 1:13:13It's like salt, right? Like and there's something to
- 1:13:15like soak and you don't, you almost don't want to admit it.
- 1:13:17Like you don't want to say like it feels good to like do this
- 1:13:21self-destructive thing. But why do you think people
- 1:13:23can't help themselves? I think it's condition.
- 1:13:26I think it's not condition. I think it's natural.
- 1:13:28I think it's nature. Like I think it is too.
- 1:13:30It's natural to feel that way. I think it is too dude.
- 1:13:33If you're getting rained out again, it's.
- 1:13:35Going to stop so I open the what do you call it?
- 1:13:37So open the shade more. Does it go out further?
- 1:13:39Hang. On I mean, it doesn't really
- 1:13:42help. It's like Florida raining but.
- 1:13:44If it's like a light drizzle, it'll it's.
- 1:13:46Passing over. It's all right.
- 1:13:51Yeah, dude. So I think so.
- 1:13:53I think that I think that the combination of the two and like
- 1:13:56we're kind of making, it's funny.
- 1:13:59I also I'm thinking, hang on, fuck too far.
- 1:14:02Yeah, I was thinking about about vices, right.
- 1:14:06And like what's like socially popular in terms of vices,
- 1:14:10right? Because like, this generation is
- 1:14:11really less into alcohol than like we've ever seen, but like a
- 1:14:14lot more into weed. Is that true?
- 1:14:16Yeah. Yeah, Yeah, it is, especially
- 1:14:18among the. I didn't know that There's just
- 1:14:19been, I just. There there was a study on.
- 1:14:21Alcohol. Alcohol has potentially gone
- 1:14:24into permanent decline, actually drop in sales, drop in interest
- 1:14:29and drinking, drop in people drop in the amount of time that
- 1:14:32how frequently people drink and and how much has just all been
- 1:14:38going down. I'm sure human had a big part of
- 1:14:40it by the way, and Rogan too. And like, there's a lot of
- 1:14:42people that like, like university are just coming out.
- 1:14:45I mean, like, your life would be better if you didn't drink
- 1:14:47alcohol, right? But I also think that at the end
- 1:14:49of the day, we're also like POTS becoming big and you don't
- 1:14:53really like to drink most of the time when you're stoned.
- 1:14:57A lot of people don't. Right.
- 1:15:00So, but I what I thought was fascinating was like.
- 1:15:04Or maybe you could do more when you're when you're high, like
- 1:15:08you don't have to stop. Like if you're a drunk, you
- 1:15:09don't get, you can't do anything.
- 1:15:12But if you're. If you're high, you can.
- 1:15:15You can. Being high was more debilitating
- 1:15:17to me than being drunk. You can cook when you're high
- 1:15:20like you can't really cook when you're drunk.
- 1:15:23Fine, but fine. But short of that, like I would
- 1:15:29put me in like I think 9 out of 10, maybe 8 out of 10
- 1:15:34situations, I think I would probably be more functional
- 1:15:36drunk. If you're going to pray, yeah,
- 1:15:39you're talking about crazy things.
- 1:15:40I can chill or like, I mean, you know, but I think one of the few
- 1:15:45so whatever. Yeah, anyway, not important.
- 1:15:48So I So what I believe is that or what I've been like this
- 1:15:53theory or this sense that I get is that this generation is a
- 1:15:58generation so far of loneliness. And weed is like the seclusion
- 1:16:02drug. Like weed does not make you want
- 1:16:05to be social for the most part. Most people I associate smoking
- 1:16:10with watching a movie, watching TV, scrolling, cooking and
- 1:16:14eating. But generally like like if I'm
- 1:16:17about to go out with friends and I smoke AJ, like I'm not going
- 1:16:21anywhere, dude. Like like I'm much less inclined
- 1:16:23to, you know, and alcohol was much more is much more of like a
- 1:16:27social vice and much more of like a social lubricant, right.
- 1:16:30And like the culture, even 1015 years ago, like, I don't know
- 1:16:34about you, my friends were getting internships and like
- 1:16:36college and like starting work. They had like these like team,
- 1:16:39like, like dinners or happy hours like every couple of
- 1:16:43weeks. And like, it was a huge in the
- 1:16:45culture to like, drink together and like, yeah, get to spend
- 1:16:47time together and like do group activities.
- 1:16:50Well, COVID wiped that out. So.
- 1:16:51But then people stopped. Yeah.
- 1:16:53And then people realized how much money they were saving and
- 1:16:55how unhealthy it was in that time.
- 1:16:57And I think that I think that all that stuff was expensive and
- 1:17:01I think that once they started cutting it, it's hard to go back
- 1:17:04to uncutting it. Right, like if you're taking if
- 1:17:07I could save $10,000 a month on rent where I could just hire my
- 1:17:10team remotely? Yeah, yeah, yeah.
- 1:17:13Why would I go back to the $10,000 a month?
- 1:17:15Rent, yeah, yeah, totally. Or, you know, instead of
- 1:17:17spending X amount on client relationships because you know,
- 1:17:20and we where we sit down and like have a dinner together and
- 1:17:22I have some wine and dine them. Over the last three years, it
- 1:17:25became normal to do everything on zoom.
- 1:17:27And like they still feel loved because I call because I call
- 1:17:29them once a month. Like why would I spend, you
- 1:17:32know, 10 grand, 15 grand a night?
- 1:17:34You know, in these places, if you know that's tiny, you know
- 1:17:38number relative to what they spend.
- 1:17:42There was this SO. Yeah.
- 1:17:45Yeah, I don't want. To there was this.
- 1:17:48There was this AI generated voice over from Charlie Kirk.
- 1:17:55I was like, it was really insane the way of like what would
- 1:17:59Charlie Kirk say now if you would, dude?
- 1:18:02And it was like you. Play it?
- 1:18:04Are we live? Play it?
- 1:18:05Why not? It's not copyrighted I guess,
- 1:18:08right? I don't think people are coming
- 1:18:11after you yet. I do.
- 1:18:15Listen to this dude. It's 1.
- 1:18:18Second, you know first, I want you to know I'm fine, not
- 1:18:23because my body is fine, but because my soul is secure in
- 1:18:26Christ. Death is not the end, it's a
- 1:18:28promotion. Don't waste one second mourning
- 1:18:31me. I knew the risks of standing up
- 1:18:33in this cultural moment, and I do it all over again.
- 1:18:36Second, do not let this violence divide us further.
- 1:18:39The enemy wants chaos, fear, and retaliation.
- 1:18:42Don't give it to them. Instead, double down on truth,
- 1:18:46double down on courage, double down on your faith and on your
- 1:18:49families. That is how you honor me.
- 1:18:52Third, remember this. America is worth it.
- 1:18:55Free speech is worth it. Fighting for the unborn, for
- 1:18:59families, for sanity and a culture gone mad, it is all
- 1:19:02worth it. So dry your tears, pick up your
- 1:19:04clothes, and get back in the fight.
- 1:19:07Do it with joy, do it with strength.
- 1:19:09And never, ever let evil think at 1:00. 1st that's it.
- 1:19:13Is that dude? And it was like, so spot on.
- 1:19:15Like what he would say. Wow man.
- 1:19:19Does that not feel like a resurrection of the dead?
- 1:19:22Something like that, man. Holy crap, dude.
- 1:19:26Let's call it here, man. With the main and everything
- 1:19:28that was good, we call it. That's a lot of fun, dude.
- 1:19:30We doing it? Wow.