Latest / Pink Shade: Reality TV with Mary Payne / 2099 - 90 Day Fiance (s12e13) "Do I Stay or Do I Go?" with Kimberly
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- 0:15Speaker 1: Hey, everybody, welcome to Pink Shade. It is DLC. Tuesday,
- 0:19Speaker 1: Kimberly was blowing her nose. I think she hadn't muted.
- 0:21Speaker 1: I'm not sure.
- 0:22Speaker 2: No, I just didn't do it.
- 0:24Speaker 1: I was.
- 0:25Speaker 2: I held the tissue up and then was like, nope,
- 0:27Speaker 2: she's pressing her cord.
- 0:28Speaker 1: I'd already hit the button. I'm sorry. Down, I'm sorry,
- 0:32Speaker 1: I'm sorry. Go ahead and blow your nose. Hit mute.
- 0:35Speaker 1: I'll you know. I'm a professional. I can wing it,
- 0:38Speaker 1: can riff, okay, I can ruff. I can roff everybody.
- 0:42Speaker 1: We have a brand new spanking episode of which I
- 0:45Speaker 1: did not write the name down, but maybe Kimberly did.
- 0:48Speaker 1: It's season twelve, episode thirteen.
- 0:51Speaker 2: You, Paul, Do I stay or do I go?
- 0:56Speaker 1: Did I say? Should?
- 0:58Speaker 2: Is that? Should I stay?
- 1:01Speaker 1: Yes? But we're not doing song titles. We're not doing
- 1:03Speaker 1: anything interesting this season.
- 1:05Speaker 2: Okay, so they're just paraphrasing.
- 1:07Speaker 1: Yes, they're just paraphrasing. Now I'm at the beach. I
- 1:11Speaker 1: have a whole new, really cute desk and chair, and
- 1:14Speaker 1: I'm very happy about it because it looks aesthetically pleasing
- 1:17Speaker 1: in my room.
- 1:18Speaker 2: Yeah, and the chair is I can't see it so.
- 1:21Speaker 1: I know you can't. I know, I know. I'm just
- 1:23Speaker 1: saying it looks cute. It's way more clean and matches
- 1:28Speaker 1: the house and everything better than the last one. But
- 1:33Speaker 1: I can't cross my legs under the desk. Oh, and
- 1:37Speaker 1: that's a real problem for me. It's a real problem.
- 1:40Speaker 2: I'd be a real problem for me too. I sit
- 1:42Speaker 2: criss cross apple sauce all the time when I'm recording.
- 1:46Speaker 1: Yeah, I can't do that for long though I could
- 1:48Speaker 1: do it.
- 1:48Speaker 2: Oh yeah, that's that's the only comfortable position for me.
- 1:52Speaker 2: That's how I sit all the time, like.
- 1:55Speaker 1: A like a like a four year old.
- 1:57Speaker 2: Yeah, cute, like on my couch. That's how I sit.
- 2:01Speaker 2: That's I don't know why. Maybe because I'm short, my
- 2:04Speaker 2: legs are short.
- 2:05Speaker 1: Maybe maybe I am short too.
- 2:08Speaker 2: You can't just dangle.
- 2:10Speaker 1: I wonder who's shorter you are, Amy Archer. We'll find
- 2:13Speaker 1: out about the same. We'll find out at leave profess. Yeah,
- 2:18Speaker 1: to get sold out, guys, I'm sorry. I did create
- 2:21Speaker 1: a group and tagged Amy's group, so both groups little
- 2:26Speaker 1: Miss Recaps Facebook group and my Facebook group are tagged
- 2:29Speaker 1: in it. So if people have a ticket they want
- 2:31Speaker 1: to give it away, somebody also told me that producer
- 2:34Speaker 1: James bought a ticket, so he needs to give up
- 2:38Speaker 1: his ticket to somebody.
- 2:39Speaker 2: Yeah, I thought he was being security.
- 2:41Speaker 1: He's security. And then also I think social media Kristen
- 2:45Speaker 1: also bought a ticket, and she's going to be working.
- 2:49Speaker 1: Does she know that? Unclear? But she's going to be
- 2:52Speaker 1: working and taking pictures and helping us do funny videos.
- 2:55Speaker 2: So that's what kind of enterprise you're running here where
- 2:59Speaker 2: your employees have to buy their own ticket.
- 3:01Speaker 1: I didn't want a ticket. No, no. I when she
- 3:05Speaker 1: said she want a ticket, I was like, what, No,
- 3:07Speaker 1: And why did James buy a ticket?
- 3:08Speaker 2: No?
- 3:09Speaker 1: So anyway, guys, tickets are sold out, but there's still
- 3:12Speaker 1: a chance if you're in the New York area. It
- 3:14Speaker 1: is like to pretenth it is at the hard Rock
- 3:17Speaker 1: Cafe in Times Square. I'm very excited about it. I
- 3:21Speaker 1: got to start thinking about what black, slimming outfit I'm
- 3:24Speaker 1: going to wear, because I know.
- 3:26Speaker 2: I told my dad. I was like, now I'm in
- 3:27Speaker 2: shopping mode, and he's like, you have two months.
- 3:30Speaker 1: It doesn't matter.
- 3:31Speaker 2: I have a complicated woman's body. I need two months.
- 3:37Speaker 1: Yes, I understand.
- 3:38Speaker 2: I understand that, and I'm bad eat so saying I'm
- 3:42Speaker 2: going to be a whole shoe situation.
- 3:45Speaker 1: I can point you in the direction of a comfortable booty.
- 3:49Speaker 1: Oh it's made by like gentle souls or comfortable something.
- 3:53Speaker 1: And I just saw it recently, and I have worn
- 3:55Speaker 1: out the other pair and I want a second one.
- 3:59Speaker 1: I wear a lot.
- 4:01Speaker 2: Yeah, I'm very interested.
- 4:02Speaker 1: Okay, if anybody has a comfortable cute shoe for Kimberly
- 4:07Speaker 1: and to myself, please let me know, because I do
- 4:09Speaker 1: have planner fascy itis, and I also have no fat
- 4:14Speaker 1: pad on the ball of my foot, so anything that's
- 4:17Speaker 1: put the pressure on the ball on my foot is
- 4:19Speaker 1: like digging a knife into my foot. Oh god, you know,
- 4:23Speaker 1: being old.
- 4:24Speaker 2: It's so tiny, fun fat pad.
- 4:28Speaker 1: Even even my feet are so slim, Even my feet,
- 4:35Speaker 1: I just don't know what to do with themselves. They're
- 4:37Speaker 1: so tiny. Oh. I just thought of another thing I'm
- 4:42Speaker 1: going to tell you about. I've got so many things
- 4:43Speaker 1: to tell you about when we record for the Last
- 4:47Speaker 1: Resort that those episodes come out on the five dollars
- 4:50Speaker 1: level Pink Shape Prime on Friday. And I've got subjects
- 4:53Speaker 1: that we need to discuss.
- 4:55Speaker 2: Oh, I'm so excited for subjects subjects in school.
- 4:59Speaker 1: Yes, her things that I need to tell you that
- 5:02Speaker 1: this episode is so long that we don't need to
- 5:04Speaker 1: add anything to it, so let's get into it. It's
- 5:08Speaker 1: called will I Stay or Will I Go?
- 5:11Speaker 2: Do I Stay or Do I Go?
- 5:13Speaker 1: Stupid? Okay, well that's what it's called. So I'm gonna
- 5:17Speaker 1: go ahead and write that down. So we're gonna start
- 5:19Speaker 1: with Marissa and Edward. And last night they were on
- 5:24Speaker 1: Do I Stay or Do I Go? They were on
- 5:28Speaker 1: the TV and I asked, Dave, how old do you
- 5:30Speaker 1: think that woman is? Because it was on while we
- 5:33Speaker 1: were eating dinner, and I was like, I we can
- 5:35Speaker 1: turn this off. You know, I'm gonna go upstairs and
- 5:37Speaker 1: watch it. But those two, what do you think he is? Well,
- 5:40Speaker 1: she's definitely older than him. I was like, correct, He says,
- 5:43Speaker 1: I don't know. She's wearing a lot of makeup. I
- 5:45Speaker 1: said correct. He said so fifty ish. I said, oh,
- 5:52Speaker 1: close to forty five. He's like, oh yeah. He said
- 5:56Speaker 1: she's very thin. I said, yes, she is very thin.
- 5:59Speaker 2: That's part of it.
- 6:00Speaker 1: Yeah, we do find out later that she teaches these
- 6:03Speaker 1: her mother. Yeah, but but we didn't have her weather
- 6:06Speaker 1: on screen.
- 6:07Speaker 2: But maybe he could just sense that she has a
- 6:09Speaker 2: gorgeous mother who looks way younger than he.
- 6:12Speaker 1: Did you see somebody? Lots of people send it to me.
- 6:14Speaker 1: Did you see the person that put up You can't
- 6:18Speaker 1: convince me that this is the Marissa is not Barry
- 6:20Speaker 1: Plath in a wig.
- 6:22Speaker 2: Oh my god, that's not nice. That is not nice.
- 6:26Speaker 2: He is a very thin faced man. Yeah.
- 6:31Speaker 1: And then when arms are jacked, No, no, no, he's
- 6:34Speaker 1: plas Daddy Plath, Daddy Plath. Well, when they put the
- 6:38Speaker 1: face aside to side, and Keisha hates when I do this,
- 6:41Speaker 1: but this is Barry plaid face. I don't like, buddy,
- 6:45Speaker 1: I know, Keisha hates it.
- 6:47Speaker 2: But that if you're watching a little weird sick crush
- 6:50Speaker 2: on Barry.
- 6:50Speaker 1: Go away, I know. And her face is a little
- 6:53Speaker 1: bit like that as well. Oh god, So that whoever
- 6:57Speaker 1: posted that wasn't completely wrong. So let's get into Marissa
- 7:01Speaker 1: and Edward, please and thank you Kimberly.
- 7:05Speaker 2: Oh god. Okay, So she's questioning if they should get married.
- 7:08Speaker 2: They're at the you know, water front in New York.
- 7:13Speaker 2: Picturesque and yeah, picturesque relationship falling apart, that's what this
- 7:17Speaker 2: show is. So he starts to laugh and says, I
- 7:20Speaker 2: can't believe it, And she says, I can't believe you
- 7:23Speaker 2: can't understand how I feel. And people say I shouldn't
- 7:26Speaker 2: get married until I'm one hundred percent mostly Dorothy at
- 7:29Speaker 2: the if you want to pick a have a bone
- 7:32Speaker 2: to pick with Kleinfeld, Dorothy.
- 7:34Speaker 1: I didn't like how she brought up people are saying.
- 7:36Speaker 1: People are saying because now he's like, oh, so you're
- 7:38Speaker 1: talking about me.
- 7:39Speaker 2: Everybody planning about me to everybody.
- 7:41Speaker 1: Yeah, I hate that.
- 7:41Speaker 2: I hate that, he little says. You know, She's said
- 7:45Speaker 2: multiple times, it's not that I think he's an idiot,
- 7:48Speaker 2: it's not that I think he's stupid.
- 7:50Speaker 1: But they're on social media backtracking all of it. So hardcore,
- 7:57Speaker 1: so hard, she's so rough. She's helped him start a
- 8:01Speaker 1: career in baseball, and I guess he's helping her run
- 8:05Speaker 1: that bar studio because she got fired from Clinfeld allegedly
- 8:08Speaker 1: what we heard, yeah.
- 8:09Speaker 2: Right, because and then someone said she got fired because
- 8:13Speaker 2: she was showing his penis pics and that he was
- 8:16Speaker 2: the one who rented her out, but an employee that
- 8:19Speaker 2: rented her out.
- 8:21Speaker 1: Yeah, it probably was, Like I was uncomfortable She showed
- 8:24Speaker 1: me a picture of her housband's penis before and after,
- 8:27Speaker 1: and I didn't ask, and I didn't. I don't want
- 8:30Speaker 1: to see. I don't know. We don't know if that's true.
- 8:33Speaker 1: But right another ninety day person did tell me they
- 8:36Speaker 1: heard that as well, but did not know if it
- 8:37Speaker 1: was true.
- 8:39Speaker 2: So she can't believe that he hasn't realized that she
- 8:42Speaker 2: has doubts. Doubts. I have doubts.
- 8:44Speaker 1: I was waiting for you to do your famous line.
- 8:47Speaker 2: Yeah, it's Meryl Streep's famously. She's like, how does he
- 8:53Speaker 2: not see that I've had doubts. I've basically told him
- 8:56Speaker 2: a million times and it's so obvious. But his toxic
- 9:00Speaker 2: positivity essentially is like blinding him to the truth.
- 9:04Speaker 1: Yeah, fuck that guy in his positivity.
- 9:07Speaker 2: I know how care he be positive? She's even with
- 9:10Speaker 2: the mom. The mom was like, he's positive, but eventually
- 9:14Speaker 2: he's going to explode. So we all do, Darkling could
- 9:18Speaker 2: be nice? Yeah, right, So he we all do, Darling.
- 9:23Speaker 2: He says, I'm here because for forty five this, for
- 9:27Speaker 2: the last forty five days, I've listened to how you feel.
- 9:30Speaker 2: I came to meet you here today to talk about
- 9:32Speaker 2: how I feel, but we're still talking about how you feel.
- 9:36Speaker 2: That's weird.
- 9:37Speaker 1: Good for him, good for him?
- 9:38Speaker 2: Yeah, And she finally says, I'm not proud of my
- 9:41Speaker 2: behavior towards you, but you drove me to it in
- 9:46Speaker 2: your stupidity. Essentially, she doesn't say that, but that was implied.
- 9:49Speaker 2: So he says we need to decide right now. I
- 9:52Speaker 2: need an answer if we're going to go forward, and
- 9:54Speaker 2: she says, I understand, but I just can't give you
- 9:57Speaker 2: one hundred percent an answer, and he can't believe it,
- 10:00Speaker 2: and she's like, would you rather I lie? And they're
- 10:02Speaker 2: raising their voices. I need time, and he says we've
- 10:05Speaker 2: had two years and we promised we would always fight
- 10:08Speaker 2: to be together. And he says if I don't get
- 10:11Speaker 2: an answer now, I can't continue on and she wants
- 10:14Speaker 2: more time and he says no, and he walks away.
- 10:16Speaker 2: And then the next day she tells us that when
- 10:19Speaker 2: she went back to her apartment, he was there. They
- 10:21Speaker 2: were fighting, He slept on the couch, but then they
- 10:25Speaker 2: continued to get into it. After the camera's left, I.
- 10:28Speaker 1: Love And after the camera's left.
- 10:30Speaker 2: Yes, After the camera's left, he brought up her ex boyfriend,
- 10:34Speaker 2: so Apparently she had this casual fling with this guy
- 10:38Speaker 2: that she is still friends with before she met Edward,
- 10:42Speaker 2: and Edward always thinks this is her fallback person if
- 10:45Speaker 2: they break up. And they got into a horrible fight
- 10:48Speaker 2: about it because she didn't like him bringing up this guy,
- 10:51Speaker 2: and he said, well, I went through your phone and
- 10:54Speaker 2: saw that you talked to that guy, and she got
- 10:56Speaker 2: really mad, and then he said, okay, I didn't go
- 10:59Speaker 2: through your phone. I just wanted you to admit that
- 11:02Speaker 2: you were talking to this guy. And then she said, well,
- 11:06Speaker 2: I can't be with someone who is so sneaky it
- 11:08Speaker 2: would play a trick like that. So now it's the
- 11:12Speaker 2: next day and she asks, why did you do that?
- 11:15Speaker 2: Why did you behave like that? And they're at a
- 11:17Speaker 2: restaurant and so they're trying to act really polite every
- 11:19Speaker 2: time the waitress comes over, but then it goes back
- 11:22Speaker 2: to like a whispered fight, and he says, I was
- 11:26Speaker 2: upset about our conversation, so that's why I acted that way.
- 11:29Speaker 2: And she said, do you think the reason I'm not
- 11:31Speaker 2: sure about us is because I'm friends with this guy.
- 11:34Speaker 2: It has nothing to do with that guy. It has
- 11:37Speaker 2: to do with your stupidity and the way you fix
- 11:39Speaker 2: the fence.
- 11:40Speaker 1: Obviously, is this guy gonna be at the hotel all
- 11:43Speaker 1: you think, Yes.
- 11:44Speaker 2: I want to meet him and see what does he
- 11:48Speaker 2: look like? Yeah, so he says, I'm not a jealous person.
- 11:54Speaker 2: Kind of seems like it seems like a yeah. But
- 11:58Speaker 2: I couldn't think of another reason why she wasn't sure
- 12:02Speaker 2: about us unless there was someone else. Well, really, you're stupid.
- 12:07Speaker 1: Remember that you're stupid.
- 12:10Speaker 2: That's the issue. It has nothing to do with someone else.
- 12:14Speaker 2: And maybe you are stupid because you're not realizing like
- 12:18Speaker 2: maybe she's right, because you seem to think this has
- 12:22Speaker 2: to do with someone else. So Marisa said, I was
- 12:25Speaker 2: really thinking, Wow, Edward might leave me if I don't
- 12:28Speaker 2: figure this out, and I need to shape up. Essentially,
- 12:31Speaker 2: you had the upper hand for about five seconds last night,
- 12:35Speaker 2: and then you pulled this stunt and I was like, fine,
- 12:39Speaker 2: leave me, I don't care. And then I got my
- 12:41Speaker 2: upper hand back and because of your dumb stunt, and
- 12:46Speaker 2: you have to realize I'm not trying to hurt you,
- 12:48Speaker 2: and in fact, everything I do is to help you.
- 12:51Speaker 2: When I tell you that you're stupid and you're doing
- 12:54Speaker 2: everything wrong. It's so that you will improve your behavior
- 12:58Speaker 2: and not be so stupid, right, And she says, I'm
- 13:02Speaker 2: worried you're going to do something like this again, and
- 13:04Speaker 2: that now I see you as a manipulative person that
- 13:08Speaker 2: could do something like this.
- 13:09Speaker 1: To do something like this is to say I looked
- 13:12Speaker 1: at your phone when I really didn't do it something. Yes, okay. Also,
- 13:19Speaker 1: she's still friends with this guy. Is it like he's
- 13:21Speaker 1: in the neighborhood, he's come to the barbecues, or like
- 13:24Speaker 1: he lives in the city and ever it's like, so,
- 13:26Speaker 1: why are you going to the city? That's kind of right,
- 13:28Speaker 1: that's kind of my thought.
- 13:29Speaker 2: Yeah, yes, totally. Why do you need this apartment in
- 13:32Speaker 2: the city?
- 13:32Speaker 1: Right?
- 13:33Speaker 2: He's been in your apartment in the city, so, which
- 13:36Speaker 2: is not a euphemism, it just meant literally the apartment
- 13:39Speaker 2: in the city. And she says this needs to stop
- 13:43Speaker 2: this behavior, and he says, don't give me attitude. And
- 13:46Speaker 2: he says, I'm apologizing for my mistake last night, but
- 13:49Speaker 2: it doesn't change the fact that I still need an
- 13:51Speaker 2: answer about if we're getting married, how much longer do
- 13:54Speaker 2: you need She says, I don't know. Let's revisit this
- 13:57Speaker 2: in two weeks and maybe we can each make a
- 13:59Speaker 2: life and my list is going to be telling you
- 14:03Speaker 2: all the things that you are doing wrong, which is
- 14:05Speaker 2: essentially what I've been doing every day since you've gotten here,
- 14:08Speaker 2: but it's going to be on paper this time, and
- 14:11Speaker 2: you can make a list of things that I've done wrong,
- 14:13Speaker 2: even though I haven't really done anything wrong, And so
- 14:17Speaker 2: we can She's like, maybe we can make this list
- 14:20Speaker 2: of what we're expecting from the other person so that
- 14:23Speaker 2: I can have more confidence going into this marriage, because again,
- 14:27Speaker 2: it's about her. It's still all about her. And so
- 14:30Speaker 2: the waitress comes by and it's like, could I get
- 14:32Speaker 2: a pen and paper? Oh my god, and he's like
- 14:34Speaker 2: this he does the fake that. I'm like, thank you.
- 14:38Speaker 1: We're just trying to make a grocery list. Thank you.
- 14:40Speaker 2: Yeah, so much. We're a happy couple, happy hepple. So
- 14:44Speaker 2: they get the piece of paper and she's like, what
- 14:47Speaker 2: do you need for me to feel secure? And he says, well,
- 14:49Speaker 2: I want affection without asking for it, like begging for kisses,
- 14:54Speaker 2: and she's like okay, and he says, sometimes you get
- 14:58Speaker 2: aggravated and it would be helpful if you told me
- 15:01Speaker 2: that you're stressed and it has nothing to do with
- 15:04Speaker 2: me because I tend to spiral and think that you're
- 15:07Speaker 2: mad at me.
- 15:08Speaker 1: She is.
- 15:09Speaker 2: And where is number three? You're a bitch? You act
- 15:13Speaker 2: like a bitch.
- 15:14Speaker 1: Please don't be such a bitch. That would help me.
- 15:17Speaker 1: That would help me not spiral.
- 15:18Speaker 2: That's the top of the list. Yeah, that would That's
- 15:21Speaker 2: what I would put. So it should be Marissa's list
- 15:24Speaker 2: of how not to be a bitch, and then the
- 15:26Speaker 2: detail how she could not be a bitch.
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- 18:42Speaker 2: So she says, Okay, for you, I need to work
- 18:45Speaker 2: on you, to work on your jealousy, and I need
- 18:48Speaker 2: to feel like you're developing your own life here without me,
- 18:51Speaker 2: so that you can be independent in.
- 18:53Speaker 1: Forty five days, he's he lives in the middle of nowhere.
- 18:56Speaker 1: In not the middle of nowhere, but he lives out
- 18:59Speaker 1: in Pennsylvania. If he lived right in New York City,
- 19:01Speaker 1: he would have made some friends. He would have somebody
- 19:04Speaker 1: at the bodega, he would have met somebody in the r.
- 19:08Speaker 2: Yeah, he could totally find This is a lot to
- 19:11Speaker 2: expect in forty five days that he needs to build
- 19:13Speaker 2: an entire community and career.
- 19:16Speaker 1: How's he gonna do that? I mean, Okay, from these
- 19:19Speaker 1: guys from the neighborhood that are in finance, you know, right, right.
- 19:22Speaker 2: So they liked baseball, maybe they could go to a
- 19:24Speaker 2: baseball game together, But then that's her friends. That's still
- 19:28Speaker 2: not independent of her.
- 19:30Speaker 1: So I also like this.
- 19:32Speaker 2: He doesn't have a car, and right, he can't work,
- 19:35Speaker 2: so it's gonna be difficult.
- 19:36Speaker 1: He has to be baby's sister in the back. He's
- 19:38Speaker 1: got to sit in the back. He's not allowed to
- 19:40Speaker 1: sit in the front booster seat. Geez.
- 19:43Speaker 2: So she says after the two weeks. He says, you can't.
- 19:48Speaker 2: I can't move forward after the two weeks if you're
- 19:51Speaker 2: not at one hundred percent. And she says, this is
- 19:53Speaker 2: very scary to have an ultimatum. But I'm not forcing
- 19:56Speaker 2: myself to be with someone just because I feel guilty.
- 20:00Speaker 2: This is a pow and rust situation totally. So two
- 20:05Speaker 2: weeks is fourteen.
- 20:06Speaker 1: Days, so that is not a lot of time. They'll
- 20:09Speaker 1: be at fifty nine days, so they need one month
- 20:13Speaker 1: out from the wedding. Okay, yeah, okay, we'll see.
- 20:17Speaker 2: Go go forth and find a community. You have two weeks.
- 20:22Speaker 1: You have two weeks to find some friends. Good luck. Yeah, okay,
- 20:27Speaker 1: let's move on to Asia and Maxwell So they're on
- 20:31Speaker 1: a boat. Now they they're doing this aerial shot of
- 20:35Speaker 1: the boat and they're all a boat, they're all in
- 20:38Speaker 1: life vest. And Maxwell says, Oh, this would look familiar
- 20:42Speaker 1: to you, Rod, because you live in Mississippi. I was like, say,
- 20:44Speaker 1: what now, Rod, where do you live? Rod? So I
- 20:48Speaker 1: looked up.
- 20:49Speaker 2: Hanging out with Rod?
- 20:50Speaker 1: No, I mean I don't look just your relationship. No,
- 20:53Speaker 1: but I wasn't interested to know where he lived in Mississippi.
- 20:56Speaker 1: And then I looked it up and Alabaster, Alabama is
- 20:59Speaker 1: like two hours from the Mississippi border, going in near Meridian,
- 21:03Speaker 1: if anybody understands. So anyway, he says he does live
- 21:08Speaker 1: on the Mississippi River, which would put him.
- 21:11Speaker 2: He's never fallen in.
- 21:13Speaker 1: Like me not he No, it would put him.
- 21:16Speaker 2: Might have been what happened with my liver just years later.
- 21:21Speaker 1: No, I don't think it would last that long. So
- 21:24Speaker 1: we get this overhead shot, and did you see one
- 21:27Speaker 1: of the sisters is like, I mean, like when I
- 21:29Speaker 1: tell you she is in a life vest, in a
- 21:31Speaker 1: full slumped over dead sleep position.
- 21:34Speaker 2: I love it.
- 21:36Speaker 1: And I would like to remind you guys that we
- 21:37Speaker 1: did expose last week that it does take ten days
- 21:41Speaker 1: to fourteen days. You have to have your vaccinations before
- 21:44Speaker 1: you can enter Nigeria. So these people did not find
- 21:47Speaker 1: out last minute that they were going to Nigeria. Okay,
- 21:50Speaker 1: and you can't get it at CBS.
- 21:51Speaker 2: Somebody tell me.
- 21:52Speaker 1: Okay, so they're going to the beach. We're a family
- 21:56Speaker 1: day and the talking head Rod says, this is a
- 22:01Speaker 1: used car salesman, literally, and I was like, Rod's right
- 22:06Speaker 1: about that, he is a used car salesman. I didn't
- 22:08Speaker 1: put that together. Rod says, there is nothing sketchier than that.
- 22:13Speaker 1: They just tell you whatever you want to hear on
- 22:15Speaker 1: that day. So I think he's done a good job.
- 22:18Speaker 1: Connin Asia.
- 22:19Speaker 2: Rod's not giving me just to play devil's advocate.
- 22:23Speaker 1: Okay.
- 22:24Speaker 2: I might say, don't get mad at me. Okay, that's
- 22:28Speaker 2: someone who's very religious and claims to be getting personal
- 22:34Speaker 2: messages from God. Uh huh, and then tells people what
- 22:38Speaker 2: God wants them and others to do with their lives.
- 22:42Speaker 1: Okay.
- 22:43Speaker 2: Might be the con artist.
- 22:47Speaker 1: Okay, you're talking very low, but what you're saying is
- 22:52Speaker 1: at all.
- 22:53Speaker 2: I don't want people to get mad at me in
- 22:54Speaker 2: case they really think she's able to speak in tongues
- 22:57Speaker 2: and it's getting personal messages from God.
- 22:59Speaker 1: I think she thinks she is and that's all that matters. Okay, Okay.
- 23:04Speaker 1: So they all sit and talk about the wedding and
- 23:07Speaker 1: she says, I really want to blend the cultures for
- 23:10Speaker 1: the weddings. But Dad Clement says, no, no, this is
- 23:13Speaker 1: what we call. It will be a white wedding. And
- 23:16Speaker 1: he goes, what does that mean? A white wedding? And
- 23:19Speaker 1: he looks at Rod and says like, we inherited it
- 23:21Speaker 1: from you white people. And Rod says, Rod goes, last
- 23:28Speaker 1: time I checked, I am fully black, and she goes, no,
- 23:33Speaker 1: he just means like the way white people do things
- 23:36Speaker 1: in the States, or the way people do things. I
- 23:38Speaker 1: didn't get it, but I guess he's saying more like
- 23:41Speaker 1: a Western.
- 23:42Speaker 2: Yes, you are a product of the white system.
- 23:47Speaker 1: Yeah, yes, I guess that's what he was saying. It
- 23:49Speaker 1: was pretty funny because Rod's like, uh, last time I looked,
- 23:52Speaker 1: I was all the way black. It was hilarious.
- 23:54Speaker 2: Ye.
- 23:55Speaker 1: And she didn't even blink. She's like, no, that's just
- 23:59Speaker 1: this is what he means. And then they find out
- 24:02Speaker 1: they cannot have a traditional Ebo wedding because it's inter
- 24:07Speaker 1: tribal and she is not Ebo. But they can dress
- 24:11Speaker 1: her in their traditional attire and she can dance around
- 24:14Speaker 1: while people throw money on her.
- 24:16Speaker 2: And Maxwell too bad, Dan Daniel and Lisa didn't get there.
- 24:23Speaker 2: He was Ebu and he was fully like, she's the
- 24:27Speaker 2: Ebu as well. He was making her Yeah, yeah, she
- 24:31Speaker 2: couldn't pronounce it. She's probably if she was.
- 24:33Speaker 1: Like ebo Ebo. So Asha's like, listen, I'm not taking
- 24:42Speaker 1: my clothes off, but if I have to dance around
- 24:43Speaker 1: to get some money, that is fine. Sounds like a stripper.
- 24:46Speaker 2: God told me it was okay to be a stripper
- 24:48Speaker 2: on your wedding day.
- 24:49Speaker 1: Just your wedding day. Then the mom says, we will
- 24:53Speaker 1: have no alcohol at the wedding because we are Christians
- 24:56Speaker 1: and Christians avoid alcohol. And they're all like, huh, Like
- 25:00Speaker 1: we just saw you like two nights ago, all having
- 25:02Speaker 1: wine together. Remember when mom was drunk in the corner,
- 25:05Speaker 1: so Juliette, so Rod goes it sounds like I'll just
- 25:11Speaker 1: have to bring it in my own and the talking
- 25:13Speaker 1: head he says, if Asha goes through this wedding, I'm
- 25:16Speaker 1: going to have to be drunk as shit.
- 25:19Speaker 2: That's this is gonna be like callback Charlie's behavior at
- 25:26Speaker 2: There's wedding.
- 25:27Speaker 1: Yes, well he's a dirty, dirty alcoholic that Charlie. Yeah,
- 25:32Speaker 1: allegedly so and there talking head Rod goes, I might
- 25:35Speaker 1: have to be drunk a shit, so I'm gonna be
- 25:37Speaker 1: brown bagging it or bringing a flask or something. It
- 25:39Speaker 1: won't be a dry wedding for me. Oh my god,
- 25:43Speaker 1: I thought now. I was like, that's funny. So I
- 25:45Speaker 1: was talking head Maxwell says, my impression of Rod is
- 25:49Speaker 1: that he is a bully, and I want to talk
- 25:51Speaker 1: to him. The wedding is in three days and I
- 25:53Speaker 1: don't care if he's there or not. It is going
- 25:55Speaker 1: to happen. So Maxwell and Rod go off to talk.
- 25:59Speaker 1: They go to surf bar and Rod's like, this is
- 26:01Speaker 1: great a bar. I need cocktails. I think poor Rod
- 26:04Speaker 1: is just really trying to be drunk the whole trip.
- 26:07Speaker 1: So Rod says, so remember when we talked about what
- 26:11Speaker 1: Americans think about Africans and the scamming and all that.
- 26:15Speaker 1: And Maxwell says, yes, you know, and I understand what
- 26:18Speaker 1: you're saying. You know. Unfortunately, I'm in an environment and
- 26:22Speaker 1: I don't know if he means with this job or
- 26:24Speaker 1: just Nigeria in general, or guy's his age or what.
- 26:28Speaker 1: But he says, yeah, he says, where four out of
- 26:31Speaker 1: ten guys are engaged in scam activities. And I've been
- 26:35Speaker 1: around I thought that. I mean, he's admitting it. He's
- 26:37Speaker 1: not trying to get what are you talking about? You know?
- 26:40Speaker 1: He says, I've been around people like that. I know
- 26:43Speaker 1: people like that. But my relationship with Asia has no
- 26:46Speaker 1: money trade involved. I do for myself and I live
- 26:50Speaker 1: the modest life that I can afford. She's given me
- 26:54Speaker 1: everything I need as a woman in that she supports
- 26:56Speaker 1: me in every space of my life.
- 26:58Speaker 2: Yeah. I didn't ask for the massages and the peels
- 27:03Speaker 2: and the I creams and the nailugs.
- 27:06Speaker 1: No, I was fine with the way I looked before
- 27:08Speaker 1: she came along. Yeah, and so was my mommy.
- 27:12Speaker 2: Although she is not going to be happy with He's
- 27:15Speaker 2: majorly breaking out on his forehead during his talking heads.
- 27:18Speaker 1: Yeah, you wonder why like that? The stress?
- 27:21Speaker 2: The stress from Rod?
- 27:22Speaker 1: Yeah, so Rod says, well.
- 27:25Speaker 2: This little pimple is Rod, this one is Juliette, this
- 27:29Speaker 2: one's the sister, this one's the other sister.
- 27:32Speaker 1: Oh, he needs some acutane. Or something. So Rod says, well,
- 27:38Speaker 1: you're a salesman and you're pitching yourself to me now,
- 27:42Speaker 1: and he goes, no, I'm not. I'm just trying to
- 27:44Speaker 1: make you understand me. And if you don't trust me,
- 27:48Speaker 1: then you should trust Asia because she's a really smart person.
- 27:51Speaker 1: And Rod says she was smart before this, and he says, Maxwell,
- 27:56Speaker 1: this isn't possible. You are not established. I look, she
- 28:00Speaker 1: moved to the United States as a newborn baby. So
- 28:04Speaker 1: he just looks at him, like dude, And so the
- 28:06Speaker 1: talking to he had, Maxwell says Rod is being disrespectful
- 28:09Speaker 1: and just stereotyping me. I don't think he's a smart guy. Like,
- 28:14Speaker 1: who the hell is this guy? And who does he
- 28:15Speaker 1: think he is? Yeah? Yeah, I like it.
- 28:19Speaker 2: I love it. I mean he is. It is like
- 28:22Speaker 2: a newborn baby coming to you. Right, we've seen no
- 28:25Speaker 2: money of your own. You have no way of transporting
- 28:28Speaker 2: yourself and no way of making and living for a
- 28:31Speaker 2: while all that. Yep, you're all dependent on somebody else.
- 28:35Speaker 2: But I feel like I really like Edward. I think
- 28:38Speaker 2: he's a go getter.
- 28:39Speaker 1: And his name is Maxwell.
- 28:41Speaker 2: Sorry, Maxwell, why do I have Edward written down? Who's
- 28:45Speaker 2: Edward Marissa. Yeah, there we go.
- 28:50Speaker 1: Maxwell says, women have senses and they can discern a
- 28:54Speaker 1: man with potential. And I just need an opportunity. Now,
- 28:58Speaker 1: opportunity doesn't great word. Rod says at Ash.
- 29:04Speaker 2: He meant her and going to America.
- 29:06Speaker 1: Yeah, that's that's the opportunity, right. Rod says at Asha's age,
- 29:11Speaker 1: she should not be marrying potential, and Max susils, you
- 29:16Speaker 1: don't need to worry about your sister. I'm going to
- 29:18Speaker 1: take care of her. I'm very confident. I'm going to
- 29:20Speaker 1: give you my word. And then Rod goes and that's
- 29:22Speaker 1: all you have. I was like, isn't that like a
- 29:25Speaker 1: thing like a man of your word? As long as
- 29:27Speaker 1: we have your word, isn't that like a thing that
- 29:29Speaker 1: people think is important? Yeah?
- 29:31Speaker 2: All I have is my handshakes my word.
- 29:34Speaker 1: Bro, it's all I got.
- 29:35Speaker 2: All I know is you don't sit on the tailgate
- 29:36Speaker 2: of another man's truck.
- 29:38Speaker 1: And you've learned nothing. If we've learned nothing, you do
- 29:41Speaker 1: not sit on another man's tailgate. So that's the end
- 29:45Speaker 1: of them. And uh, now we move on to Katy
- 29:51Speaker 1: and Josh who are still you guys, Katie and Josh Prize,
- 29:55Speaker 1: put on your phones. Put down your phones.
- 29:58Speaker 2: I'm literally surpris we haven't just stopped, we haven't just
- 30:02Speaker 2: been like this is big ed. We have decided we
- 30:04Speaker 2: are no longer recapping them.
- 30:07Speaker 1: This girl, God, I mean, I just hope that when
- 30:11Speaker 1: we see you're at the tall all, she's going to
- 30:13Speaker 1: be like I have been in you know, there's twelve
- 30:16Speaker 1: types of therapies, you know.
- 30:18Speaker 2: Yes, intensive programming, and because she's gonna need it just
- 30:23Speaker 2: from the social media bully, I know that.
- 30:25Speaker 1: And she's they got to get off social media, the
- 30:27Speaker 1: two of them. Every day there's a new posting every day.
- 30:30Speaker 2: Yeah.
- 30:31Speaker 1: I did notice they had a couch in their apartment
- 30:33Speaker 1: this last post. Shit, So that was good.
- 30:35Speaker 2: Great, that's better for his back. So she's putting on
- 30:39Speaker 2: her lipstick and.
- 30:41Speaker 1: She's like, did you guys see my kim plaf tutorial
- 30:45Speaker 1: that was on like this it's just all over the face,
- 30:49Speaker 1: just oh no, can't released.
- 30:55Speaker 2: My lipstick is crazy. She's looking in the mirror and
- 30:58Speaker 2: I was like, it's always crazy.
- 31:00Speaker 1: It's always like that, girl. It is kim plath esque
- 31:04Speaker 1: with that just all the way around the really in
- 31:08Speaker 1: the corners.
- 31:08Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, that was a mistake. So now I'm gonna
- 31:12Speaker 2: have to live with this stickiness. So she's going to
- 31:15Speaker 2: a bachelorette party at a funeral themed bar because it's
- 31:19Speaker 2: death to the ho Fas.
- 31:21Speaker 1: Funny.
- 31:22Speaker 2: It's funny, except that he Fas is going to be
- 31:25Speaker 2: resurrected day two.
- 31:26Speaker 1: It's not death to her, ha fays. It's just symbolically
- 31:30Speaker 1: death to the Hofas, but not just hers, not her.
- 31:32Speaker 2: Yeah no no, but it's never gonna die. So he's
- 31:36Speaker 2: wearing a shirt that says just chillin', which is hilarious
- 31:40Speaker 2: because he's like, I'm fine, I'm fine. I don't care
- 31:43Speaker 2: that my fiance is a face eating alcoholic It's fine.
- 31:46Speaker 2: I'm chill whatever, I'm chill, bro, whatever.
- 31:50Speaker 1: Cool.
- 31:52Speaker 2: He's so just jumpy in his own skin that it
- 31:55Speaker 2: is just so ironic this shirt.
- 31:58Speaker 1: He's just always waiting for bad news from her. He is.
- 32:00Speaker 2: It's a constant like what did you do?
- 32:03Speaker 1: What did you do?
- 32:04Speaker 2: It's like a trauma relationship. It's really sad. It is
- 32:08Speaker 2: like agree, like abuse. It's I'm very uncomfortable watching it.
- 32:13Speaker 1: I agree.
- 32:13Speaker 2: So not that he's an innocent in this. He could
- 32:16Speaker 2: leave it anytime, and he is staying for some reason.
- 32:19Speaker 2: So yeah, she yes.
- 32:22Speaker 1: She says.
- 32:23Speaker 2: Since they got back from her parents, they've been working
- 32:27Speaker 2: on their relationship. She's been trying not to drink as much,
- 32:30Speaker 2: and they've been talking about the religion thing. And she says,
- 32:36Speaker 2: I'm I was thinking of being on my best behavior
- 32:39Speaker 2: tonight to show you that I can have fun and
- 32:42Speaker 2: not drink too much. And I was like the fact
- 32:45Speaker 2: that you said I was thinking about doing that, Like
- 32:48Speaker 2: that wasn't your automatic how you were gonna I was
- 32:53Speaker 2: thinking about trying this thing, like not embarrassing myself and
- 32:57Speaker 2: sexually assaulting others. What about that experiment, It's just an experiment.
- 33:04Speaker 2: I was thinking of trying it. So she says, what
- 33:08Speaker 2: if you were to give me a grade tomorrow, what
- 33:11Speaker 2: would your criteria be in my performance tonight? And because
- 33:15Speaker 2: she doesn't know, like what an appropriate behavior would be,
- 33:20Speaker 2: and he says, well, number one, don't get intimate with
- 33:23Speaker 2: someone and don't black out. And she's like, okay, so
- 33:30Speaker 2: no making out and no blacking out. That's great. They rhyme,
- 33:34Speaker 2: that'll be rememberable.
- 33:37Speaker 1: Yeah, she did say that and that was concerning.
- 33:41Speaker 2: Yeah, and then he goes, also, maybe no throwing up
- 33:44Speaker 2: in the road. And then and he's like yeah, vomit
- 33:48Speaker 2: control would be good as well.
- 33:50Speaker 1: So no making out, no blacking out, vomit control, got it.
- 33:57Speaker 2: I gotta do that I can to try it. So
- 34:01Speaker 2: her friends. Her friends have a limo and a sash
- 34:04Speaker 2: that says bride or Die, and the limo's all decorated
- 34:08Speaker 2: for like a ghost tour or a funeral, but it
- 34:10Speaker 2: was much more a ghost tour.
- 34:12Speaker 1: It was like.
- 34:13Speaker 2: Skeletons, things that you don't actually have at a funeral,
- 34:16Speaker 2: you know, that.
- 34:18Speaker 1: Would be awkward if you did.
- 34:19Speaker 2: Skeleton head. Yes, yes, And they're already doubting if she
- 34:23Speaker 2: can settle down. So there's lots of talking heads of
- 34:26Speaker 2: them just being like, yeah, this is gonna be interesting
- 34:28Speaker 2: because I don't know if she can do it. And
- 34:30Speaker 2: then Katie starts out in the limo by saying, everyone
- 34:34Speaker 2: tell me their favorite Katie making out story, you know,
- 34:37Speaker 2: because I won't be doing them anymore because I'm trying
- 34:41Speaker 2: this new thing. And so one of them says she
- 34:44Speaker 2: visited Katie visited her in Belgium and made out with
- 34:48Speaker 2: a bunch of her friends, including this guy that looked
- 34:50Speaker 2: like a D and D dungeon master, and one of
- 34:53Speaker 2: the guys ended up getting so concerned by her behavior
- 34:56Speaker 2: because she was making out with so many people that
- 34:59Speaker 2: he decided to follow her to make sure she was okay.
- 35:03Speaker 2: And Katie so she he's texting the friend saying, I'm
- 35:07Speaker 2: following her because I don't I'm worried about her. And
- 35:11Speaker 2: Katie texted the friend saying, this creepy man is following me.
- 35:14Speaker 2: I'm gonna run away.
- 35:17Speaker 1: I mean, that's really how she met Josh because he
- 35:19Speaker 1: walked herund yes, because he was concerned about her behavior exactly.
- 35:23Speaker 1: She's a danger to herself.
- 35:25Speaker 2: Yes she is, and others. So they they're like, we're
- 35:29Speaker 2: gonna miss her stories. I think she might be less.
- 35:32Speaker 1: Fun there, so they're not helping her.
- 35:37Speaker 2: She might get a mouth, a bunch of mouth STDs
- 35:40Speaker 2: and a sexual assault charge, but we're having fun from
- 35:44Speaker 2: her behavior, so that's all that matters.
- 35:46Speaker 1: It's fun for us to talk about the next day.
- 35:48Speaker 2: Yeah. Yeah, So it's not fun when she's actively trying
- 35:51Speaker 2: to shove her tongue in my mouth, but it is
- 35:54Speaker 2: fun to talk about the next day, So they play.
- 35:56Speaker 2: Never have I ever at the bar and one friend
- 35:59Speaker 2: has never given a blowjob. I think that's what she
- 36:01Speaker 2: was saying. It was bleeped, and Katie says, but cock
- 36:06Speaker 2: is so fun But fun fact, Josh has never licked
- 36:12Speaker 2: my pee and she's super wasted already. And one time
- 36:18Speaker 2: he said we were he was going to, but then
- 36:21Speaker 2: like we just.
- 36:22Speaker 1: Forgot because I was drunk and passed out. Yeah, maybe
- 36:27Speaker 1: he does it every time she does, she exactly.
- 36:31Speaker 2: So he's going, uh ruder to couter.
- 36:35Speaker 1: Ruder to couter is what they said, O love after
- 36:38Speaker 1: lock up and I've never been more horrified. Yeah, he
- 36:42Speaker 1: got me ruder to cooders.
- 36:44Speaker 2: Like that's going in the pantheon of phrases, much like
- 36:48Speaker 2: Mac and cheese noises, things that we will never forget
- 36:51Speaker 2: and we're scarred for life. Yeah, and so she's they're
- 36:57Speaker 2: like gonna drink to that, like never have I ever
- 37:00Speaker 2: And she's like, but other people have licked my pee.
- 37:03Speaker 1: Mark has, so I'm s she didn't do it. I
- 37:07Speaker 1: surprised she didn't look at one of those girls and goes,
- 37:08Speaker 1: your husband did it. I mean, you know, that's just
- 37:12Speaker 1: how she is. She's like, remember when I did that
- 37:14Speaker 1: with your husband? Fine, Yeah, she.
- 37:17Speaker 2: Says, sex with Josh is okay, it's not as exciting
- 37:24Speaker 2: as i'd like it to be. The thought of having
- 37:27Speaker 2: sex with Josh for the rest of my life sounds
- 37:30Speaker 2: very boring, and I'm sad that I'm only going to
- 37:33Speaker 2: have him to kiss for the rest of my life.
- 37:36Speaker 2: But right now, I just want to focus on our relationship.
- 37:39Speaker 2: But maybe in the future I have an idea. I
- 37:42Speaker 2: have a great idea, but I haven't told Josh yet.
- 37:46Speaker 2: I just have to talk to him. And then she
- 37:49Speaker 2: tells the friends she's like, so what i't really want
- 37:51Speaker 2: to talk to him about is like an open thing,
- 37:55Speaker 2: and the friends say sex are just kissing, and she says,
- 37:58Speaker 2: I don't know. She says, I'm not good at monogamy,
- 38:02Speaker 2: and instead of me being bad and then messing up
- 38:06Speaker 2: and apologizing, maybe we could just be open and have
- 38:09Speaker 2: fun with it and then I don't have to change
- 38:11Speaker 2: or grow as a person.
- 38:15Speaker 1: So I'm not sure if she's aware that means it'd
- 38:17Speaker 1: be open on both sides. I think she thinks just
- 38:20Speaker 1: she can get drunk and make out with people at bars,
- 38:23Speaker 1: because that's all she wants to do is get drunk
- 38:25Speaker 1: and make out with people at bars. I don't think
- 38:27Speaker 1: it's about sex at all. I know it's a makeout fetish.
- 38:31Speaker 1: It's a makeout fetish. So they asked what the rules
- 38:34Speaker 1: would be and she's like, well, I like the chase.
- 38:37Speaker 1: I like to like to chase, you know, but I
- 38:41Speaker 1: like when a man puts his hand right on my
- 38:42Speaker 1: face and says, Katie, stop.
- 38:45Speaker 2: And it's about who's stronger, my face or his hand.
- 38:50Speaker 1: Right.
- 38:50Speaker 2: If my tongue can get in there and put it
- 38:53Speaker 2: while he's pushing his with his hand away, that means
- 38:58Speaker 2: I've won the chase, girl, and you got to go
- 39:04Speaker 2: to therapy. So also, again a man, if a man
- 39:08Speaker 2: was saying this, I'll just think yeah. So she wants
- 39:13Speaker 2: to see where his head is at and if he's
- 39:16Speaker 2: just like, this is us. It's the two of us,
- 39:18Speaker 2: only forever and ever and ever and ever. But or
- 39:23Speaker 2: maybe he'll be like, yeah, we could maybe think about
- 39:26Speaker 2: that in the future. That would be good and his friends.
- 39:29Speaker 2: The friends are worried that this could be bad and
- 39:31Speaker 2: they're like, so could he be open to could he
- 39:35Speaker 2: do other things? And she's like, I might be jealous,
- 39:38Speaker 2: but yeah, I guess i'd be open to it, but
- 39:40Speaker 2: I don't think he'd want to do it because he's
- 39:43Speaker 2: loyal to me and he's just he wouldn't be interested.
- 39:47Speaker 2: He's only has eyes for me. Okay, just you wait,
- 39:53Speaker 2: because that won't last forever.
- 39:56Speaker 1: No, at some point he's gonna get real sick of
- 39:58Speaker 1: your shit, you know.
- 39:59Speaker 2: Find a girl who respects him. Yeah. Yeah, so, but
- 40:03Speaker 2: they won't until he respects himself. So wisdom bomb. Yeah,
- 40:10Speaker 2: I just dropped. So they say what if feelings get
- 40:14Speaker 2: involved with the behavior, and she's like, well, everybody has
- 40:18Speaker 2: wants and needs and they stuff them down, but then
- 40:22Speaker 2: eventually they act on them. So I'd just rather be
- 40:25Speaker 2: open and talk about it.
- 40:28Speaker 1: Okay, you just need to get married. I mean that's it.
- 40:31Speaker 2: Yeah, you just don't need to get married. Maybe monogamy
- 40:33Speaker 2: is not for you. Yeah, and so she says, I
- 40:36Speaker 2: want to talk to Josh about this sensitively without hurting
- 40:40Speaker 2: his feelings.
- 40:42Speaker 1: Pretty sure you're gonna hurt his.
- 40:43Speaker 2: Feelings Historically, you are not great at that talking about
- 40:48Speaker 2: things sensitively without hurting his feelings. I believe you've said
- 40:52Speaker 2: that's stupid what you want?
- 40:56Speaker 1: Uh huh.
- 40:58Speaker 2: So you're a drama queen. You're overreacting about all of
- 41:04Speaker 2: your possessions getting lost at customs, She.
- 41:07Speaker 1: Wrote yesterday on social media. I did tell him about
- 41:09Speaker 1: all his belongings. I did, so we'll see by it.
- 41:15Speaker 2: So she thinks if he shuts it down, she isn't
- 41:19Speaker 2: sure if she could deal with that for the rest
- 41:21Speaker 2: of her life. So we'll see what happens.
- 41:26Speaker 1: We're gonna move on to Shae and annabel and I
- 41:29Speaker 1: have a little scoopy scoop here. So ooh, Shay's ex
- 41:35Speaker 1: Nicole posted on Facebook and one of these like ninety
- 41:39Speaker 1: day fiance group uncensored just so, one of these like
- 41:42Speaker 1: I don't know what GROUPA was. There's just some big
- 41:44Speaker 1: ninety day fiance group.
- 41:45Speaker 2: The one that had the baby with him.
- 41:47Speaker 1: Yes, we saw it. We saw her before Annabelle arrived.
- 41:50Speaker 1: And she's the one that, like Shay, would always say
- 41:52Speaker 1: we wasn't around when she was and stuff like that.
- 41:58Speaker 1: So Shay's ex Nicole posted on Facebook about their daughter
- 42:03Speaker 1: and he did not even try to reach out to
- 42:06Speaker 1: her for her birthday. It was her twentieth birthday, Okay,
- 42:11Speaker 1: So I sent a.
- 42:14Speaker 2: He has another one that's young. I thought there was
- 42:16Speaker 2: a child me too, me too, So it was like
- 42:19Speaker 2: a four year older me too.
- 42:21Speaker 1: Me too. Now I may have started that rumor because
- 42:23Speaker 1: I that's the way. That's the way it was explained
- 42:27Speaker 1: that we were married five years ago when we had
- 42:29Speaker 1: a kid.
- 42:30Speaker 2: Yeah, okay, I can understand where Anna Bell fit into
- 42:33Speaker 2: that timeline.
- 42:34Speaker 1: Right. So on this Facebook post, I wrote under it
- 42:39Speaker 1: because she was answering questions, I wrote under it, can
- 42:42Speaker 1: you explain this timeline? We thought on the show that
- 42:46Speaker 1: you guys were recently married and had a young child.
- 42:49Speaker 1: This was her answer. I met Shay when I was
- 42:52Speaker 1: twenty one. Our daughter turned twenty yesterday. He led me
- 42:59Speaker 1: on for fifteen teen years, off and on, and we
- 43:03Speaker 1: were married when our daughter was about to turn fifteen.
- 43:07Speaker 1: So I was correct, and they were only married like
- 43:10Speaker 1: five years years ago. Yes, but their child was fifteen
- 43:15Speaker 1: when they got married.
- 43:17Speaker 2: Okay, okay, So I still am confused where Annabel fits
- 43:21Speaker 2: in because I thought he had been talking to her
- 43:24Speaker 2: for like.
- 43:26Speaker 1: Seven years or something something. So we were married when
- 43:31Speaker 1: a daughter was about to turn fifteen. We were married
- 43:35Speaker 1: for four months. All capital letters I left. He did
- 43:42Speaker 1: something that was absolutely unforgivable, and capital letters I left twice.
- 43:49Speaker 1: She wants what she wants you to know.
- 43:51Speaker 2: Yeah, he cheated.
- 43:54Speaker 1: He put this, she put this in air quotes. He
- 43:56Speaker 1: cheated with Annabelle when we were married, Okay, three am
- 44:03Speaker 1: phone calls and such, so we divorced. The only time
- 44:09Speaker 1: Shay was good to my daughter was when I was
- 44:11Speaker 1: with him. And all capital letters, so.
- 44:15Speaker 2: She's a random capitalizer.
- 44:17Speaker 1: A random capitalizer and also air quote air quote disoriented.
- 44:24Speaker 1: But if they were married and he was on the
- 44:26Speaker 1: phone with annabel at three am, that is cheating, yes,
- 44:30Speaker 1: So I don't know why it's air quote. Anyway, we
- 44:32Speaker 1: know that Nicholl's got some problems here. I don't know.
- 44:34Speaker 1: But the point is the only time Shay was good
- 44:37Speaker 1: to my daughter was when I was with him, So
- 44:39Speaker 1: that means in those four months that they were married,
- 44:41Speaker 1: I guess.
- 44:44Speaker 2: So I wonder how Alison feels about this younger, Like
- 44:48Speaker 2: I always thought it was a child that she kind
- 44:50Speaker 2: of accepted as a sibling, but now it's a child
- 44:53Speaker 2: that's twenty who's like she might be very jealous of
- 44:57Speaker 2: that child. That child's in danger.
- 44:59Speaker 1: That could be the reason he doesn't give the child
- 45:02Speaker 1: too much attention. But because Alison is in the is
- 45:07Speaker 1: in the mix. But it's very very interesting because she's
- 45:11Speaker 1: she posted all these screenshots between her and Shay where
- 45:15Speaker 1: he's like, I called her and told her to come
- 45:17Speaker 1: down to the lake. Said, hey, it's your birthday, you
- 45:21Speaker 1: will come to the lake. And Nicole's like, she just
- 45:24Speaker 1: want to come to the lake and hang out with
- 45:25Speaker 1: your friend. She's twenty you know, Oh well doesn't.
- 45:28Speaker 2: As hanging out there. She's twenty seven.
- 45:31Speaker 1: So I mean all those girls seem to be like
- 45:33Speaker 1: twenty one.
- 45:34Speaker 2: So anyway, that by you an island.
- 45:37Speaker 1: That's the inside scoop I got. Okay, wow, okay. So
- 45:43Speaker 1: thirty five days to what re opened with Shay and
- 45:47Speaker 1: Annabel doing zumba and she is telling him I like
- 45:51Speaker 1: a healthy man, I like a sexy man. He's like,
- 45:53Speaker 1: I know, and she stretch, kick up down, hands up,
- 45:58Speaker 1: side to side. Stretch is pretty funny. But he's doing
- 46:00Speaker 1: it without complaining. It does look like he's lost a
- 46:04Speaker 1: lot of weight. People posted a recent picture of him
- 46:06Speaker 1: and he looks Yeah.
- 46:07Speaker 2: People said, he looks good. I mean not good. I
- 46:09Speaker 2: should clarify he's healthier dinner. Yeah, yeah, maybe I don't
- 46:14Speaker 2: know his teeth situation.
- 46:16Speaker 1: It's like a.
- 46:16Speaker 2: Horse that I need to like lift up the gums
- 46:19Speaker 2: and no, no, no, just to see what his health
- 46:22Speaker 2: is doing.
- 46:22Speaker 1: Yeah, let's dont so it was talking Todd. He goes,
- 46:25Speaker 1: we're a month away from the wedding. She's trying to
- 46:27Speaker 1: make sure my suit fits. She tried to teach me
- 46:30Speaker 1: zoom book. That's been a disaster. It looks like he
- 46:33Speaker 1: was doing all right. So their exercise, he goes, I
- 46:37Speaker 1: pull something on the damn leg. You didn't let me
- 46:40Speaker 1: warm up, stretch my handy, and she goes, okay, let's
- 46:46Speaker 1: go take a shower. You did a good job. So
- 46:48Speaker 1: they go in it down if we have to go
- 46:50Speaker 1: and see them kissing some sexy music and we get
- 46:52Speaker 1: the back story of her making him shower the first
- 46:54Speaker 1: time she met him. What a so post shower, post coital,
- 46:59Speaker 1: there having some smoothies and he says, babe, I don't
- 47:03Speaker 1: like how things ended with Alison, and Annabelle says, well,
- 47:07Speaker 1: I think she's bossy and she wants to control you,
- 47:09Speaker 1: and also she acts like a spoiled bread Again he goes, well, yeah,
- 47:14Speaker 1: but let's remember Annabelle and Abby lost their mother and
- 47:18Speaker 1: that too catoll on them. And I don't think Annabelle
- 47:21Speaker 1: deals with loss and conflict very well. And I think
- 47:23Speaker 1: that's because she always had to deal with her mom's issues.
- 47:28Speaker 1: So the talking Head, Shay tells. In the talking Head,
- 47:32Speaker 1: he says, Annabelle and Allison are both wrong on the
- 47:35Speaker 1: way that they handle things after church. You know, my
- 47:38Speaker 1: first wife had mental problems and addictions. It wasn't good
- 47:43Speaker 1: with the kids. Annabelle was only eighteen when it happened. Obviously,
- 47:48Speaker 1: this is some tragical death and it was very hard
- 47:51Speaker 1: on the girls. And I sympathize with Alison, and I
- 47:55Speaker 1: try to be easy with her because of that. And
- 47:59Speaker 1: this could be why she's dealing with things like this
- 48:01Speaker 1: with Annabelle's why she's lashing out, and so I try
- 48:03Speaker 1: to give her some lenience. Okay, a backstory. We like
- 48:06Speaker 1: a backstory, We like love amation.
- 48:09Speaker 2: I think you've given her too much lenience.
- 48:11Speaker 1: But I think she tends to pick crazy women, and
- 48:14Speaker 1: Annabel's the first nine crazy woman he's ever picked.
- 48:18Speaker 2: Yeah, you know, so I could see her going crazy, But.
- 48:22Speaker 1: It won't take much.
- 48:23Speaker 2: Might make her that way, Yeah, it won't take much. Yeah,
- 48:26Speaker 2: she's at the precipice.
- 48:28Speaker 1: She's just like, oh, it's this dude. Ye, So she goes.
- 48:32Speaker 1: You know, babe, if you could be like a mother
- 48:34Speaker 1: figure to her, it might make her attitude better, Like
- 48:36Speaker 1: that's what she's missing. She lost her mom and maybe
- 48:39Speaker 1: she thinks she's losing me. You know, she needs to
- 48:41Speaker 1: steal she she still got me and she's gaining an Annabelle,
- 48:47Speaker 1: So you should just let her get to know you
- 48:49Speaker 1: and tell her about your life in the Philippines. So
- 48:53Speaker 1: she goes, all right, So talking to her, she.
- 48:56Speaker 2: Says, partially on him too, I mean right, She says,
- 48:58Speaker 2: he hasn't called her, he hasn't visited the kids. He
- 49:03Speaker 2: has since Anna Bell got there. Right, he went from
- 49:06Speaker 2: like hanging out with her every single day to not
- 49:09Speaker 2: at all. She feels like she's yes, exactly, So.
- 49:14Speaker 1: We're talking head, she says. Annabel says, I understand why
- 49:17Speaker 1: Alison acts that way, and it's important for me to
- 49:21Speaker 1: have a good relationship with shae family. And uh, I
- 49:25Speaker 1: want to fix this the family of Shay. So so
- 49:29Speaker 1: he says, we know what, baby, you're going to do
- 49:32Speaker 1: that think at the bridle shop with the veil. Won't
- 49:34Speaker 1: you go? Why don't you see if she wants to
- 49:36Speaker 1: go with you, go go ahead, babe, se if she
- 49:38Speaker 1: wants to go. So it appears to be nighttime when
- 49:42Speaker 1: they are headed to the Bridle shop and they pook
- 49:47Speaker 1: up Allison, who says, so is this wedding still happening,
- 49:53Speaker 1: and she goes, of course, it is still happening. You
- 49:55Speaker 1: got a problem with Annabelle or something, I'm I would
- 49:58Speaker 1: like to point out. Annabelle's in the car.
- 50:00Speaker 2: They just keeping she's not sitting there. It's like, can
- 50:03Speaker 2: you see me?
- 50:06Speaker 1: She's just like like looking out the window with her
- 50:09Speaker 1: resting bitch face, and Alisa goes, that's obvious, and the
- 50:14Speaker 1: talking head Alison goes, my dad texted me to go
- 50:16Speaker 1: with annabel to this Veil thing, and I'm like, why
- 50:19Speaker 1: am I coming? Like? We won't ever one hundred percent
- 50:22Speaker 1: agree on things and that's fine, but that church thing
- 50:25Speaker 1: really hurt me. She didn't want to do things my
- 50:28Speaker 1: way and it was offensive.
- 50:30Speaker 2: That's it.
- 50:31Speaker 1: That's it.
- 50:31Speaker 2: I like things done my way and it's not offensive.
- 50:36Speaker 1: So she goes to Alison, well, we just need to
- 50:38Speaker 1: nip this in the butt, and you need to make
- 50:40Speaker 1: amends and you need to get to know her, and
- 50:42Speaker 1: she don't deserve you giving her any grief. She's adjusting
- 50:45Speaker 1: to life over here. You just need to give her
- 50:47Speaker 1: some grace.
- 50:48Speaker 2: And also said that he was standing up for her. Yes,
- 50:51Speaker 2: And Alison says, she disrespected me in my church. She
- 50:55Speaker 2: fell asleep in church while the pastor was talking. Yeah,
- 51:00Speaker 2: that was bad, very bad.
- 51:02Speaker 1: Shae goes, well, my dad used to fall asleep at church.
- 51:04Speaker 1: And then she says the bottom line is she's gonna
- 51:08Speaker 1: be your stepmother and she's gonna be my wife. And
- 51:11Speaker 1: Alison says, well, I have expectations and that doesn't make
- 51:14Speaker 1: me a spoiled brat. She thinks it's her way and
- 51:17Speaker 1: that's how it's gonna be. And she goes, I mean,
- 51:20Speaker 1: why are you getting old to me? I mean she's
- 51:22Speaker 1: sitting right here in the car when you like, she's
- 51:27Speaker 1: not there in the car. And Alicea says, you're the
- 51:31Speaker 1: middle man. You stand up for her and defend her.
- 51:34Speaker 1: She doesn't talk, and when she does, she's a bitch.
- 51:36Speaker 1: She just gives me dirty looks and mean mugs me.
- 51:40Speaker 2: She's a bit.
- 51:41Speaker 1: At one time, did she say mean mugs mean mugs?
- 51:45Speaker 1: Because mean she mean mugs me. You know that you
- 51:49Speaker 1: don't know that term. You never heard mean mugging. This
- 51:55Speaker 1: is the southern thing you've never heard of. Mem No,
- 52:01Speaker 1: no me mugging? Why you mean mugging me.
- 52:04Speaker 2: No, but I can't understand what it means.
- 52:07Speaker 1: Your your mug is your face and your mean mugging. Yeah, okay,
- 52:11Speaker 1: it is what it sounds like. Yeah, And so she goes, now,
- 52:15Speaker 1: come on, now, don't call her a bitch, Annabelle, can
- 52:19Speaker 1: you say anything here? You're gonna say an You're gonna
- 52:21Speaker 1: say nothing, And Annabelle literally gives them a dirty looking
- 52:24Speaker 1: me mugs. I'm like.
- 52:27Speaker 2: Her stairs death stars. She could kill someone, yes, with
- 52:33Speaker 2: those looks.
- 52:34Speaker 1: So I'm talking to her. Annabel goes, fuck her. I
- 52:37Speaker 1: can't believe she bitch. So Allison goes like, why did
- 52:43Speaker 1: I even say that we would? I would go to this?
- 52:45Speaker 1: Why did I even say in? Sha goes, I'm gonna
- 52:47Speaker 1: tell you something. Even if the president said no, and
- 52:51Speaker 1: that's my president, President Donald J's my president said it,
- 52:58Speaker 1: We're still going to get married. I would go against
- 53:01Speaker 1: God himself, President Trump. We are going to get married.
- 53:05Speaker 2: Okay, God Jesus appointed.
- 53:08Speaker 1: Yes, right, just like Asia. So in the talking Head,
- 53:12Speaker 1: Annabelle says, she just she just hates me, and if
- 53:17Speaker 1: I say anything, it's gonna blow up. So I say nothing.
- 53:21Speaker 1: It's worse though, I think, just to sit there. Yeah.
- 53:24Speaker 2: Yeah, it's a power move to say nothing.
- 53:27Speaker 1: I like it. So they go to the place for
- 53:30Speaker 1: the veil. Now we find out that Annabel bought a dress.
- 53:33Speaker 1: She says, we've both been married before, so it's crazy
- 53:36Speaker 1: to spend a lot of money on a dress. I
- 53:38Speaker 1: found one online for two hundred dollars. I like this.
- 53:40Speaker 1: That she's not because when she got there, he gave
- 53:43Speaker 1: her all these presidents. So you think, like, oh, well,
- 53:45Speaker 1: maybe she's like, buy me this, buy me that. But
- 53:47Speaker 1: she goes I said, dumb to spent a lot of
- 53:48Speaker 1: money on a dress. I found one I liked online
- 53:50Speaker 1: for two hundred dollars. Mm. Yeah, a used wedding dress. Yes,
- 53:54Speaker 1: do it. You're gonna wear it for two hours? Go ahead, totally.
- 53:58Speaker 1: You have to be with all those Lake people anyway,
- 53:59Speaker 1: who cares what you wear.
- 54:01Speaker 2: You're already gonna go on debt over liquor bills wedding.
- 54:05Speaker 1: So let's be real.
- 54:06Speaker 2: If they're doing an open bar, these people.
- 54:08Speaker 1: Can get it forget it. So she just wants to
- 54:12Speaker 1: find a veil to go with it. So she looks good.
- 54:14Speaker 1: The dress fits her perfectly, She likes it. It has
- 54:16Speaker 1: a lot of lace. She says, so she needs a haircut.
- 54:20Speaker 1: She's got all those dead ends that bothered me. But
- 54:24Speaker 1: she's given the eye to Alison the whole time. She
- 54:28Speaker 1: first sees a veil, it's way too sparkly. I don't
- 54:31Speaker 1: know why the lady thought that would go with that dress.
- 54:34Speaker 1: The next one is great, she loves it all right.
- 54:38Speaker 2: But they're just glaring at each other, and the first
- 54:40Speaker 2: sales lady is like.
- 54:43Speaker 1: The lady's like, this looks nice. She was like, I do.
- 54:45Speaker 1: I really like it. It's really good. And Alison's like, this
- 54:49Speaker 1: is a.
- 54:49Speaker 2: Great episode of say us to the dress. I love
- 54:53Speaker 2: pension on the group and like the sister is being
- 54:57Speaker 2: really bitchy for no reason and like, yeah, cry, those are.
- 55:01Speaker 1: She's just like, say as to the dress. Yeah. So
- 55:04Speaker 1: she says Alison, I don't want to fight, and I
- 55:07Speaker 1: know it hurts your feelings the other day, but I
- 55:09Speaker 1: want to be a family, and Alison goes, well, I
- 55:12Speaker 1: will shock you acted that way and I don't want
- 55:15Speaker 1: to be against you. And Annabel says I'm sorry, and
- 55:18Speaker 1: Allison says, thank you for saying that. You need sometimes, guy,
- 55:22Speaker 1: that's all you need. So Allison says no, sorry, annabel says,
- 55:28Speaker 1: you know, Allison, this is my second marriage. When I
- 55:31Speaker 1: was working abroad, my husband cheated on me and had
- 55:35Speaker 1: a child with another woman.
- 55:37Speaker 2: Okay, so I thought she was talking about Shay here
- 55:42Speaker 2: because I was like, didn't Shae also get someone else pregnant?
- 55:47Speaker 1: That's what we thought, but we didn't have all we
- 55:50Speaker 1: didn't have the correct information. But now we do. Thank
- 55:52Speaker 1: you to call. So she says, you know, but when
- 55:56Speaker 1: I met your dad, he's just been so wonderful and
- 55:59Speaker 1: so support And I know you don't have a mother,
- 56:02Speaker 1: and I hope you can accept me as a stepmother.
- 56:05Speaker 1: And Alison says, you know, I lost my mom and
- 56:08Speaker 1: I miss out on a lot, and then I felt
- 56:10Speaker 1: my dad was being ripped away from me, and he's
- 56:12Speaker 1: all I have. And I used to call my mom
- 56:15Speaker 1: all the time and she was my emotional support. And
- 56:18Speaker 1: I just, you know, like kiss act so bad and
- 56:21Speaker 1: each want to have somebody to call to be like
- 56:22Speaker 1: why my kids acting so bad? Like being a mother
- 56:25Speaker 1: is so hard. Her children hates her children.
- 56:28Speaker 2: I don't blame her. They seem rampunctious and her talking head,
- 56:32Speaker 2: Annabelle says, I got a job abroad in elderly care.
- 56:36Speaker 1: She says she was in Dubai working in elderly care.
- 56:38Speaker 1: She did it for seven years and made good money.
- 56:42Speaker 1: And this is this is a cultural thing. A lot
- 56:44Speaker 1: of Filipino women do leave their family, their children, everything,
- 56:48Speaker 1: go work abroad and make a lot of money to
- 56:50Speaker 1: send back and the grandparents will raise the kids. And
- 56:54Speaker 1: she says, I made good money to send it back
- 56:57Speaker 1: for a good life together. But I found to him.
- 57:00Speaker 1: But I found out he was cheating and got another
- 57:02Speaker 1: woman pregnant. And I never thought I would find a
- 57:05Speaker 1: man that loves me. But then I found Shay, So
- 57:07Speaker 1: I guess she has no kids. She had no kids
- 57:09Speaker 1: with this guy.
- 57:10Speaker 2: Yeah, we always wondered where.
- 57:12Speaker 1: There's We've always wondered secret. Yeah.
- 57:16Speaker 2: Also the bar is so low that for her now
- 57:19Speaker 2: because of what her first husband did. She's like, Shade
- 57:23Speaker 2: treats me like a queen. He loves me so much.
- 57:26Speaker 2: He lets me scrub his buttole twenty one year olds
- 57:29Speaker 2: that that he'll buy them an island right in front
- 57:31Speaker 2: of me and says, if you weren't here and I
- 57:34Speaker 2: was twenty years younger, I mean with this young piece
- 57:37Speaker 2: of ass instead of.
- 57:37Speaker 1: You, right, So sweet, and Annabel says to Allison, well,
- 57:42Speaker 1: maybe we can move on, and Allison says, well, nobody
- 57:44Speaker 1: can replace my mom, but I want you to be
- 57:47Speaker 1: there to fill in the gaps, and my mom would
- 57:50Speaker 1: want that. She would be happy for that. In animals,
- 57:52Speaker 1: I need a babysitter. And also, you're really great with
- 57:55Speaker 1: my kids, Annabel says, I could be there for you,
- 57:58Speaker 1: and they hug you're talking it.
- 58:02Speaker 2: Oh well, adding that there's it's just.
- 58:05Speaker 1: Like, yeah, it's awkward, chuckinghead. Alison says, it's hard to
- 58:11Speaker 1: miss out on motherly stuff and my mom did have
- 58:14Speaker 1: demons and that's hard for me to face. But today
- 58:17Speaker 1: Annabel was more open minded and we were able to
- 58:19Speaker 1: share our lives and not be in attack mode. And
- 58:22Speaker 1: maybe I can go from spoiled brat to just spoiled.
- 58:28Speaker 1: They compliment the veil as that it goes with the dress.
- 58:30Speaker 1: She's nice about the dress and that's that.
- 58:32Speaker 2: Yeah, genuine smiles. I yet at the end, yeah.
- 58:34Speaker 1: He's like, you look really pretty, all right, Thomas and Paula,
- 58:41Speaker 1: Oh god, yeah, I've I've got thoughts on this. So
- 58:47Speaker 1: I've got thoughts on this.
- 58:48Speaker 2: Continue So he's they're going to a cake tasting. He
- 58:52Speaker 2: says he hasn't eaten cake in years because there's almost
- 58:55Speaker 2: nothing he can eat something that's good and something that
- 59:00Speaker 2: I can eat without severe repercussions, like my throat closing up.
- 59:06Speaker 2: And she says, you should be a writer. You describe
- 59:09Speaker 2: it so deep, but it's just cake. But it's okay,
- 59:11Speaker 2: You're just I admire it. I'm second, I'm just I
- 59:14Speaker 2: know I was teasing you, but I love I admire
- 59:16Speaker 2: that about you, the way you describe things. She has
- 59:19Speaker 2: to walk on eggshells around him, so she'll make a
- 59:21Speaker 2: sarcastic joke and then she has to walk it back. Yeah, like,
- 59:24Speaker 2: because that's one reason I love you.
- 59:27Speaker 1: Because you're so fucking hard to live with. Yeah, it's amazing. Yeah.
- 59:31Speaker 2: And then she says, I'm sorry, I sprayed deodorant this morning,
- 59:34Speaker 2: but we're gonna be outside all day and I needed
- 59:37Speaker 2: spray deodorant in my armpit so I don't smell.
- 59:40Speaker 1: Could she go out in the hall and spray it
- 59:42Speaker 1: because she got the balcony andray it. I know that
- 59:44Speaker 1: she used a roll on. I mean they're just no
- 59:47Speaker 1: roll on.
- 59:48Speaker 2: So scent free. Yeah, but she likes a scent, so
- 59:51Speaker 2: do you accept my apology? And he says no, because
- 59:55Speaker 2: you're joking about this, and newsflash, I'm not laughing. Maybe
- 59:59Speaker 2: you should get a better audience.
- 1:00:03Speaker 1: News flash. Oh my god, he's like.
- 1:00:06Speaker 2: A five year old. So and she says, we're going
- 1:00:09Speaker 2: to pick out a wedding cake. I just want to
- 1:00:11Speaker 2: have fun right now. Can we not fight about this?
- 1:00:13Speaker 2: And he says it was the most pungent and obscene
- 1:00:18Speaker 2: deodorant I have ever smelled in a while. It was
- 1:00:22Speaker 2: not subtle. Wow, and you know I'm allergic to this.
- 1:00:26Speaker 2: This is a boundary that I need for us to
- 1:00:29Speaker 2: continue to be together. So they go to this he's exhausting.
- 1:00:35Speaker 2: They go to this vegan gluten free cake tasting. Okay, yup,
- 1:00:40Speaker 2: me just kidding. I'm sure it's delicious. It looked beautiful,
- 1:00:43Speaker 2: it looks good. I eat vegan products all the time.
- 1:00:48Speaker 2: I don't know about gluten free. I'm sure they're tasty.
- 1:00:51Speaker 2: So he's allergic to milk and gluten and she's vegan. So,
- 1:00:57Speaker 2: but they're having fun.
- 1:00:58Speaker 1: A lactos and collant celiac disease exactly. Wow, he's fun
- 1:01:03Speaker 1: at apartment Okay, yeah?
- 1:01:05Speaker 2: Oh and crones.
- 1:01:06Speaker 1: Right and crones and severe allergies, the world.
- 1:01:11Speaker 2: It just smells. He doesn't like she's so.
- 1:01:14Speaker 1: Lucky he found her. I know, he really should be
- 1:01:17Speaker 1: more appreciateive, I know.
- 1:01:19Speaker 2: So they're having fun at the cake taste and she
- 1:01:21Speaker 2: calls frosting juice and they're laughing about it and they're
- 1:01:24Speaker 2: feeding each other, and then she says, I miss my family.
- 1:01:27Speaker 2: I'm so excited to see them. They're all coming, eight
- 1:01:31Speaker 2: of them are coming from Brazil. And he says, where
- 1:01:34Speaker 2: are your parents going to stay? And she says, in
- 1:01:37Speaker 2: our apartment, but not just my parents, all of them.
- 1:01:41Speaker 2: And he says that's ten people in eight hundred square
- 1:01:45Speaker 2: feet and they need a hotel room. And she says, no,
- 1:01:49Speaker 2: I want to spend time with them. And I was like,
- 1:01:52Speaker 2: you could stay in the hotel with them, that would be.
- 1:01:55Speaker 1: They need to rent Airbnb and four betroom Airbnb for
- 1:01:58Speaker 1: everybody stay there.
- 1:02:01Speaker 2: And she says, I don't want to ask for permission.
- 1:02:03Speaker 2: It's happening. They're staying with us, and she says they
- 1:02:07Speaker 2: can have our room and he's like, no, that's just wait, No,
- 1:02:12Speaker 2: that's way too much for me. He doesn't even have
- 1:02:14Speaker 2: a couch for them to sit on.
- 1:02:15Speaker 1: By the way. Good thing he's got that bed in
- 1:02:18Speaker 1: the living room. Yeah, I mean that's four of the
- 1:02:22Speaker 1: ten people now have a place to sleep. Yeah. Yeah.
- 1:02:25Speaker 2: So she says, what if my mom puts on deodorant
- 1:02:28Speaker 2: and you smell it, what are you going to do?
- 1:02:30Speaker 2: And he says, I'll just throw it away in the
- 1:02:32Speaker 2: trash and she goes, no, no, you're joking. You cannot
- 1:02:36Speaker 2: behave like that, and he says, well, they're staying with
- 1:02:39Speaker 2: us for free, so yes, my rules. And afterwards she's
- 1:02:44Speaker 2: in a sugar coma and she's like, I'm just so happy.
- 1:02:46Speaker 1: You're lucky.
- 1:02:47Speaker 2: I'm in a good mood today. I'm so happy my
- 1:02:49Speaker 2: family is coming. But don't freak out with them. If
- 1:02:52Speaker 2: you put on a big show and it'll turn into
- 1:02:55Speaker 2: a disaster, I will flip out. And he says, well,
- 1:02:59Speaker 2: my apartment should be a safe space for me, which
- 1:03:03Speaker 2: I agree.
- 1:03:03Speaker 1: I kind of agree with that because I guess like
- 1:03:05Speaker 1: my safe space two.
- 1:03:06Speaker 2: And she says, well, it's our apartment, not just your apartment.
- 1:03:10Speaker 2: He says, but I shouldn't be worried about invasive smells
- 1:03:14Speaker 2: that give me an allergic reaction. It's a very awful experience,
- 1:03:19Speaker 2: and she says, it's been very hard for me to
- 1:03:21Speaker 2: live without perfumer yodorant. And he says, you pick the
- 1:03:24Speaker 2: worst artificial smells of all time. They are the bottom
- 1:03:28Speaker 2: of the barrel, worst things I have ever smelled in
- 1:03:31Speaker 2: my entire life. Wow, So are you allergic or do
- 1:03:36Speaker 2: you just not like the smell? Because that's a preference issue.
- 1:03:40Speaker 2: That is not an allergic issue.
- 1:03:43Speaker 1: He's just they need to get a two bedroom, two
- 1:03:46Speaker 1: bath and let her have her own bathroom. Huh, spray
- 1:03:49Speaker 1: everything she wants in there. Yep.
- 1:03:51Speaker 2: So he'sai, seal it at the bottom.
- 1:03:53Speaker 1: Sel it at the bottom, and she can all spray
- 1:03:56Speaker 1: that suit.
- 1:03:57Speaker 2: Yes.
- 1:03:57Speaker 1: Yes.
- 1:03:59Speaker 2: So he says, I have boundaries, and she has a
- 1:04:02Speaker 2: boundary that her parent, that her family and herself like
- 1:04:05Speaker 2: to wear perfumes, and by me asking her to not
- 1:04:10Speaker 2: wear those perfumes, I've crussed her boundary with my boundary.
- 1:04:15Speaker 2: Because we are millennials, so we talk about boundaries a lot.
- 1:04:19Speaker 2: But when our boundaries cross each other, it's chaos.
- 1:04:23Speaker 1: How about get an airbnb for the family and she
- 1:04:27Speaker 1: can stay there with them, and then you don't see
- 1:04:28Speaker 1: each other before the wedding. You stay in your apartment
- 1:04:30Speaker 1: alone in your safe space. Everybody wins.
- 1:04:33Speaker 2: How about you just not get married?
- 1:04:34Speaker 1: Just no money at this problem. That's what I say.
- 1:04:37Speaker 2: I say, just don't get married. I know you should
- 1:04:40Speaker 2: be with each other. So she says, women, we deal
- 1:04:44Speaker 2: with things, and like, now I have period pain in
- 1:04:48Speaker 2: my belly and he says, well, I support you with that.
- 1:04:51Speaker 2: She and he says, but I didn't cause your pain,
- 1:04:53Speaker 2: but you are causing my pain with the smells. And
- 1:04:56Speaker 2: I didn't cause you to have your period, and she
- 1:05:00Speaker 2: he's like, why didn't you consult your fiance before you
- 1:05:04Speaker 2: sprayed this morning?
- 1:05:06Speaker 1: He's not getting upset now about the eight people in
- 1:05:08Speaker 1: the apartment. He's still talking about the deodorant.
- 1:05:10Speaker 2: Yes, he I think there's something going on with him.
- 1:05:15Speaker 2: And he says, it's you're thinking, how can I hide
- 1:05:19Speaker 2: this from him because I know he won't like it,
- 1:05:22Speaker 2: instead of considering me or consulting with me before you
- 1:05:25Speaker 2: do it, and these things are harmful for me, And
- 1:05:29Speaker 2: she just goes na mustay and then she's like, you're
- 1:05:34Speaker 2: so ridiculous. It is like asking a cockroach, are you okay?
- 1:05:37Speaker 2: If I spray poison on you? You're my cockroach? And she says,
- 1:05:43Speaker 2: I wanted to have a nice day being like a
- 1:05:45Speaker 2: bride and doing a wedding a cake tasting, and he
- 1:05:49Speaker 2: never lets things go. He's harping on something that happened
- 1:05:52Speaker 2: hours ago, and he's trying to control and micromanage me
- 1:05:55Speaker 2: like I'm a kid. And then and you cut to
- 1:05:58Speaker 2: him in the car and he goes, it's reckless.
- 1:06:04Speaker 1: Ah.
- 1:06:05Speaker 2: She goes, this is so sad that you were born
- 1:06:09Speaker 2: like this. It is so sad that you have to
- 1:06:11Speaker 2: be like this, and he says, see, you're being sarcastic.
- 1:06:15Speaker 2: It just shows that you don't care and you're not
- 1:06:17Speaker 2: taking this seriously. And then in Portuguese, she says, you
- 1:06:20Speaker 2: are the most annoying person on the whole fucking planet.
- 1:06:24Speaker 2: And he says, well, this is who I am. Can
- 1:06:26Speaker 2: you handle me? This is a deal break for me,
- 1:06:30Speaker 2: this perfume, This is a line I cannot cross or
- 1:06:33Speaker 2: I will die. He doesn't say that, but that's the intonation.
- 1:06:37Speaker 2: And she says, oh, we have a lot of things
- 1:06:40Speaker 2: to figure out before we get married. I just wanted
- 1:06:43Speaker 2: to have a nice day, and I feel like I'm
- 1:06:45Speaker 2: in a trap and I don't know if I can
- 1:06:47Speaker 2: live with this. The rest of my life. And he says, well,
- 1:06:50Speaker 2: you have the option to not get married.
- 1:06:55Speaker 1: And then I feel like on the next episode he's
- 1:06:56Speaker 1: gonna be like, sorry, I just yes, had so much shit.
- 1:07:00Speaker 2: I just yes. I told I wasn't regulated. There was
- 1:07:03Speaker 2: gluten in that.
- 1:07:04Speaker 1: There was gluten mod yes. Oh my god. Well we're
- 1:07:09Speaker 1: gonna end with Mallory and rush Sheet. Also, I've seen
- 1:07:14Speaker 1: the video that Rashie did, so I'm good. Don't don't
- 1:07:19Speaker 1: anybody can send it to me again, I got it.
- 1:07:21Speaker 2: I don't know what you're talking about.
- 1:07:23Speaker 1: Okay, well, somebody send it to Kimberly, how about that?
- 1:07:25Speaker 1: But not twelve of you. There's a video that he
- 1:07:29Speaker 1: did where he was like on the microphone. He got
- 1:07:32Speaker 1: up really close to it was like making like sex noises.
- 1:07:35Speaker 1: Oh yeah, I mean whatever. People like it's so gars.
- 1:07:39Speaker 1: I was like, I don't know. He was being funny.
- 1:07:40Speaker 1: I don't know why, because it was like a TikTok
- 1:07:42Speaker 1: thing where people are like sending him stuff and you know, happy.
- 1:07:45Speaker 2: I don't know, Okay, I was worried it was going
- 1:07:47Speaker 2: to be something like about I don't know, something offensive.
- 1:07:51Speaker 1: No, he's he's just goofy on the on the social media,
- 1:07:56Speaker 1: the social media, if you will, okay, thirty five days
- 1:07:59Speaker 1: to Wag, we see.
- 1:08:01Speaker 2: That it's going to be like a Hitler was right.
- 1:08:03Speaker 1: No no, no, no, no no no, not a Kanye no.
- 1:08:07Speaker 2: Odd add non Tiger Lily and yeah.
- 1:08:12Speaker 1: Baby sorry. So thirty five days to wed, we see Mallory.
- 1:08:18Speaker 1: She's brushing a beautiful horse. She's talking to Lynn, her
- 1:08:21Speaker 1: riding instructor. She says she's been riding horses since she
- 1:08:24Speaker 1: was young, and it's a release because you really have
- 1:08:27Speaker 1: to be focused when you're doing it. You can't think
- 1:08:30Speaker 1: about anything else. It gives your mind a break, Canmerlie?
- 1:08:34Speaker 1: Have you ever ridden a horse? Yeah? Would you like it?
- 1:08:40Speaker 2: It's okay?
- 1:08:42Speaker 1: Not for me. My favorite thing.
- 1:08:44Speaker 2: I prefer hanging out with dogs. Same freak me out
- 1:08:49Speaker 2: a little.
- 1:08:50Speaker 1: You two they're real big, yeah, real big. So I
- 1:08:54Speaker 1: did it camp when You're in I cried and cried
- 1:08:56Speaker 1: and cried and cried so much that the next year
- 1:08:58Speaker 1: my mom wrote a note and said I was allergic.
- 1:09:01Speaker 1: I was like, I'm not going.
- 1:09:04Speaker 2: Yes, like Thomas is reckless. I could die.
- 1:09:08Speaker 1: I could die if you made me. Rather, they're like
- 1:09:10Speaker 1: she went into allergic last year. She just cried, cried
- 1:09:12Speaker 1: a lot. So Rashi says he is stressed. His insides
- 1:09:20Speaker 1: are feeling mixed. He left his family for this. Mallory
- 1:09:24Speaker 1: doesn't care, and it's really bullshit, he says. So he
- 1:09:27Speaker 1: has a call with his brother, who initially I'm like,
- 1:09:30Speaker 1: cute brother.
- 1:09:31Speaker 2: I like it, Rushi like the faux hawk.
- 1:09:35Speaker 1: I just thought he was cute, attractive family.
- 1:09:39Speaker 2: So I'm gonna be honest. They are an attractive family.
- 1:09:43Speaker 2: But I have doubts and concerns about Rash's hair. I
- 1:09:51Speaker 2: think it's thinning.
- 1:09:53Speaker 1: It's sinning.
- 1:09:54Speaker 2: He's covering it with this sweaty mop situation that's happening,
- 1:10:00Speaker 2: and it's only drawing more attention to it.
- 1:10:03Speaker 1: I agree, And I think he's from Turkey and he
- 1:10:07Speaker 1: can go get a hair transplant.
- 1:10:10Speaker 2: Oh good call, Yeah.
- 1:10:11Speaker 1: He could go back. So he has a call with
- 1:10:14Speaker 1: his brother, who initially I think is hot, and rush
- 1:10:17Speaker 1: Sheet says, she has told me she does not want
- 1:10:21Speaker 1: a baby, but she knows I want to be a dad.
- 1:10:25Speaker 1: She does not want to be a mom because of
- 1:10:27Speaker 1: her bad experiences as a kid. And can you believe this?
- 1:10:31Speaker 1: Like she's telling me this. She brought it up right
- 1:10:33Speaker 1: before the wedding, and the brother says, if she doesn't
- 1:10:37Speaker 1: want to have kids, why are you there? Tell her
- 1:10:40Speaker 1: you will leave her. And I was like, oh, hot, brother,
- 1:10:43Speaker 1: now you lost me. Yeah yeah, And Rushie says, my
- 1:10:47Speaker 1: brother is right. In my culture my family, family means
- 1:10:51Speaker 1: having a child. And when she told me this, she
- 1:10:54Speaker 1: hurt my heart because I want to be a dad.
- 1:10:57Speaker 1: It is my dream. And if she does not want kids,
- 1:11:00Speaker 1: I don't want to be married. Now. They are both
- 1:11:02Speaker 1: right in this situation. If she really really doesn't want kids,
- 1:11:06Speaker 1: that is her choice. If he really really does, it's
- 1:11:09Speaker 1: his choice not to marry somebody who doesn't. So they're
- 1:11:11Speaker 1: both right.
- 1:11:13Speaker 2: It's just it should have been discussed earlier. And she
- 1:11:16Speaker 2: admits that that was a huge problem. But that's probably
- 1:11:19Speaker 2: how they got cast on the show.
- 1:11:21Speaker 1: You need a secret, you have to have something. Yeah.
- 1:11:26Speaker 1: And I didn't hear her say I never want kids.
- 1:11:29Speaker 1: I heard her say I could change my mind in
- 1:11:31Speaker 1: five years, but I'm really scarred from my childhood. I
- 1:11:34Speaker 1: really have to feel how the marriage is going to
- 1:11:36Speaker 1: work first. Yes, unlike Asia situation. Unlike Asia, who's like,
- 1:11:43Speaker 1: I do not care if the marriage works or not.
- 1:11:45Speaker 1: I will be having a baby. One to four children.
- 1:11:48Speaker 2: Yeah, God needs a child from me right now.
- 1:11:52Speaker 1: We're at thirty three days to wed They're in the
- 1:11:54Speaker 1: car and he says, why are we even going to
- 1:11:58Speaker 1: look at wedding place? And she says, okay, I understand
- 1:12:01Speaker 1: we're having issues, but we got to pick a venue.
- 1:12:03Speaker 1: It's coming up fast. We got to just keep moving forward.
- 1:12:07Speaker 1: Talking to head, Mallory says, it's been a while since
- 1:12:09Speaker 1: we had the conversation. Things are not going better. I
- 1:12:13Speaker 1: love him a lot, and I would be happy if
- 1:12:15Speaker 1: it was just us forever. But he wants a family
- 1:12:19Speaker 1: and this is not something he's willing to budge on.
- 1:12:23Speaker 1: So they drive to this venue called Creekside. I looked
- 1:12:26Speaker 1: it up. It looks really nice. It's a beautiful wedding venue.
- 1:12:30Speaker 2: How are they not booked? I am normal in other
- 1:12:35Speaker 2: parts of the country that you can book this late.
- 1:12:38Speaker 1: I am one hundred percent sure that this place planned
- 1:12:42Speaker 1: and already booked. They had to get these people to
- 1:12:45Speaker 1: agree to appear on screen. I am sure that she
- 1:12:48Speaker 1: saw it before. That's just you know, behind the scenes production.
- 1:12:51Speaker 1: I'm sure that they had to pretend like they were
- 1:12:53Speaker 1: looking because for her to suddenly be like, what if
- 1:12:55Speaker 1: we did it by the fountain when the ladies you know, yeah,
- 1:12:59Speaker 1: and I did go to their website and scour the
- 1:13:02Speaker 1: pictures to see if I could see any wedding by
- 1:13:05Speaker 1: a fountain pictures. No, but the fountain does look very
- 1:13:07Speaker 1: pretty at night. So they look at the gardens, they
- 1:13:12Speaker 1: look at the fountain. Mallory likes it by the fountain
- 1:13:14Speaker 1: because it's cooler over there and it's very shady, and
- 1:13:18Speaker 1: he says, look. They sit to talk, and that's when
- 1:13:21Speaker 1: these people are like, okay, and we'll be over here, the.
- 1:13:25Speaker 2: Same that the veil lady did. Yeah, I will let
- 1:13:28Speaker 2: you discuss.
- 1:13:30Speaker 1: Or the archery guy on last resort, he was like, oh,
- 1:13:33Speaker 1: oh I will. I didn't know you're gonna have a
- 1:13:36Speaker 1: fight over a necklace. Let me go over here. So
- 1:13:39Speaker 1: he says, look, I don't know. My mind is mixed up.
- 1:13:42Speaker 1: And she's like, oh my god, can we sit down.
- 1:13:44Speaker 1: I'm sweating, So in her talking head, she says, he's
- 1:13:47Speaker 1: being such a Debbie downer. Just play along, like we're
- 1:13:50Speaker 1: looking at venue.
- 1:13:50Speaker 2: It's just like, oh, he's being an ear.
- 1:13:54Speaker 1: So they sit and he says, you know, my body
- 1:13:56Speaker 1: is here, but my mind and my heart is not here.
- 1:13:59Speaker 1: You know. I talked to my brother, and my brother asks,
- 1:14:01Speaker 1: why didn't you tell me this before I came to
- 1:14:03Speaker 1: America And she says, I know I should have, but
- 1:14:07Speaker 1: I wanted to talk to you about this in person,
- 1:14:09Speaker 1: face to face. And he says, I love you so much.
- 1:14:12Speaker 1: She says, I love you too. He says, you do,
- 1:14:16Speaker 1: but you know first, you have the document, the prenup,
- 1:14:19Speaker 1: and you don't believe me, you don't trust me, you
- 1:14:21Speaker 1: don't love me. How baby how? And she says, I
- 1:14:26Speaker 1: did the whole visa process for you, and he says,
- 1:14:28Speaker 1: and I did it for you and so and so
- 1:14:32Speaker 1: and they just sit there and he kind of tears up,
- 1:14:35Speaker 1: and he says, I feel very sad and very bad
- 1:14:38Speaker 1: and very shit and if you don't want a baby,
- 1:14:42Speaker 1: I will cut this relationship really and I'm sorry for that.
- 1:14:47Speaker 1: And she says, okay, I just need more time because
- 1:14:49Speaker 1: right now I'm not ready. And he says we're out
- 1:14:53Speaker 1: of time. We don't have any more time. And he
- 1:14:56Speaker 1: says it's serious now, like no more jokes, like it's time,
- 1:15:00Speaker 1: and he says, you're playing with me, and this is
- 1:15:02Speaker 1: not a game. This is very bullshit. So we're talking,
- 1:15:05Speaker 1: she said. She says, you know, having a baby is
- 1:15:09Speaker 1: a huge commitment, and I'm not gonna have a baby
- 1:15:11Speaker 1: just to shut somebody up. You know. Seeing him have
- 1:15:14Speaker 1: no empathy towards my past makes me question maybe I
- 1:15:18Speaker 1: should be the one to be like, we can stop
- 1:15:19Speaker 1: right here, buddy, I'm done. What they need is to
- 1:15:22Speaker 1: have a couple therapy to work through it so that
- 1:15:24Speaker 1: they can each understand each other with a translator that
- 1:15:28Speaker 1: could also help him understand it in his language. Yeah,
- 1:15:32Speaker 1: that's the end of the episode, but we get next
- 1:15:34Speaker 1: time on Paula and Tamala. Tamala's Paula. That's the that's
- 1:15:40Speaker 1: their couple named Tamala. Paula and Thomas greet her family
- 1:15:44Speaker 1: because they're all coming for the wedding. It's just like
- 1:15:46Speaker 1: a clown card. They're just pouring out and they walk
- 1:15:50Speaker 1: into the apartment. He tells the families no perfume in
- 1:15:53Speaker 1: the apartment, and she's like, oh my god. She's so embarrassed.
- 1:15:57Speaker 1: And he's like, They're all like, is he crazy? He's
- 1:16:00Speaker 1: crazy or are we sitting on the floor at a
- 1:16:02Speaker 1: camping table. This is crazy.
- 1:16:04Speaker 2: I why don't he could go stay at a hotel.
- 1:16:08Speaker 1: But when he comes back, think of all the smells
- 1:16:10Speaker 1: that will be there.
- 1:16:10Speaker 2: Yeah, you're right, it'll be permeated into the FASTI.
- 1:16:13Speaker 1: It should have written a big airbnb that she could
- 1:16:15Speaker 1: say without her family. I agree with her family. So
- 1:16:18Speaker 1: we see Debbie show her ring look at this to
- 1:16:21Speaker 1: her friends, and she says, we're getting married Tomara, and
- 1:16:25Speaker 1: they're like, what they said, why are you doing this?
- 1:16:28Speaker 1: You feel rushed, Debbie? Does he treat you right? Debbie goes, well,
- 1:16:33Speaker 1: it's not all sunshine and roses. He did tell me
- 1:16:35Speaker 1: he was going back to his country and made me
- 1:16:37Speaker 1: cry and then propose. But that was a hilarious meadow joke.
- 1:16:41Speaker 1: And they're change your minds.
- 1:16:43Speaker 2: Keeps staircase in my apartment, and he doesn't make a
- 1:16:46Speaker 2: lot of jokes about pushing me down then, But it's fine.
- 1:16:49Speaker 1: It's he doesn't. You guys have to just know his
- 1:16:51Speaker 1: sense of humor is sense.
- 1:16:53Speaker 2: He's an actor.
- 1:16:55Speaker 1: Edward goes to take an exercise class from Marissa and
- 1:16:58Speaker 1: one and two and three and for and punch and back,
- 1:17:02Speaker 1: and she says, it's been two weeks. They're just enjoying
- 1:17:06Speaker 1: each other. But of course the two weeks is when
- 1:17:09Speaker 1: they had to make this decision. They have a fight
- 1:17:11Speaker 1: in a restaurant and you know what's new?
- 1:17:13Speaker 2: Okay, did you see her face terrifying when she told
- 1:17:17Speaker 2: him to lower her.
- 1:17:18Speaker 1: Oh, when she was like lower your voice? Yes, scary
- 1:17:23Speaker 1: like one of her kids, right, Yeah.
- 1:17:26Speaker 2: I hope she doesn't talk to her kids like that.
- 1:17:30Speaker 1: Katie is scared about talking to Josh about the open
- 1:17:33Speaker 1: relationship and like, if you want to make out with somebody,
- 1:17:39Speaker 1: what will you do? And that's what she says to him,
- 1:17:42Speaker 1: and the talking said. He says he, I'm tired of this.
- 1:17:44Speaker 1: She's going to have to decide, you know, she want
- 1:17:46Speaker 1: to make out with me forever or not? Right?
- 1:17:49Speaker 2: How many times is she going to say that it
- 1:17:51Speaker 2: means nothing at this point?
- 1:17:52Speaker 1: No, he's such a dormat so a. She says there's
- 1:17:58Speaker 1: going to be a wedding tomorrow and Nigeria and Ry says,
- 1:18:02Speaker 1: you deserve better, and she says, rod ever month, I'm
- 1:18:05Speaker 1: losing an egg and he says.
- 1:18:08Speaker 2: He in love with her? Do you have me vibes
- 1:18:11Speaker 2: like he's in love with her? I know they're god siblings,
- 1:18:14Speaker 2: but I feel like there's some weird dynamic here.
- 1:18:19Speaker 1: He says, that's what it is. You just want to
- 1:18:21Speaker 1: get knocked up. And he slams his hand on the
- 1:18:24Speaker 1: table and she goes, oh no, no, no, no, no, no,
- 1:18:26Speaker 1: a baby, I don't do violence.
- 1:18:28Speaker 2: She says. She's like Chakaina. She's like I could be
- 1:18:32Speaker 2: permanently disfigured.
- 1:18:34Speaker 1: There was so much glass there. I was gonna go blind.
- 1:18:37Speaker 2: And then God would not recognize me with the scar
- 1:18:41Speaker 2: on my face.
- 1:18:43Speaker 1: Okay, we can walk over just Kimberly's corner. Let's go
- 1:18:47Speaker 1: ahead and play the music for our walking music for
- 1:18:51Speaker 1: Kimberly's corner. It's really great when I'm prepared, You're already
- 1:18:54Speaker 1: dancing and I'm just don't have it pulled up. Okay,
- 1:18:56Speaker 1: here we go, walk into Ghibli's corner, walking walking, saying, Hi, Hi,
- 1:19:08Speaker 1: there's the mailman, there's the milkman. Yeah, all right, there
- 1:19:12Speaker 1: we go.
- 1:19:14Speaker 2: So we have two episodes. I'm gonna breeze through him.
- 1:19:19Speaker 2: So Evelyn and Corey. He booked her a two week
- 1:19:23Speaker 2: trip to Hawaii to boost the spirit because she hates
- 1:19:26Speaker 2: living in Washington with his mom. And they're on the
- 1:19:30Speaker 2: beach and he talks to her about respecting his mom's
- 1:19:34Speaker 2: Mormon rules. No coffee in the house, no caffeine in
- 1:19:37Speaker 2: the house, no R rated movies. She said, it's not
- 1:19:40Speaker 2: like I wanted to watch a freaking porn movie. I
- 1:19:43Speaker 2: wanted to watch like an adult comedy, and apparently the
- 1:19:47Speaker 2: mom flipped out.
- 1:19:48Speaker 1: I wanted to watch four year old version. Come on,
- 1:19:51Speaker 1: come on.
- 1:19:52Speaker 2: So his mom feels like she's being very disrespectful, and
- 1:19:56Speaker 2: then she then he says, like when you say, oh
- 1:19:59Speaker 2: my god, that's a swear to my mom.
- 1:20:01Speaker 1: Oh, she no wonder she doesn't want to live there.
- 1:20:05Speaker 1: Of course not, so he was, my language is terrible.
- 1:20:08Speaker 1: I'm sorry, guys, I'm sorry.
- 1:20:09Speaker 2: I know, but this is she didn't even want to
- 1:20:11Speaker 2: live here, and now you're making her abide by all
- 1:20:14Speaker 2: these rules that are so different from where she's now.
- 1:20:16Speaker 1: Awful.
- 1:20:17Speaker 2: So he has decided he wants to bring religion back
- 1:20:20Speaker 2: into his life and is secretly hoping that Evelyn will
- 1:20:23Speaker 2: convert to Mormonism. This woman who lives on the beach
- 1:20:30Speaker 2: in a bikini and is sexual and all of that,
- 1:20:35Speaker 2: you think she's going to be Mormon.
- 1:20:36Speaker 1: They both had only fans. They both had only fans,
- 1:20:39Speaker 1: he and her.
- 1:20:41Speaker 2: So she's not interested she's like, we've been together for
- 1:20:44Speaker 2: ten years. I've never shown any interest in this. I'm
- 1:20:47Speaker 2: not going to start now. You should have married a
- 1:20:49Speaker 2: Mormon girl. So then we see them him running down
- 1:20:54Speaker 2: the streets of Hawaii in a panic, holding the camera
- 1:20:57Speaker 2: in front of his face. He has read to an
- 1:21:00Speaker 2: apartment for them for the week. He forgot to stay
- 1:21:03Speaker 2: for pay for the second week, and they booked the
- 1:21:07Speaker 2: second week, and so because he didn't pay for it,
- 1:21:10Speaker 2: he had casually mentioned they wanted to stay an extra week,
- 1:21:14Speaker 2: but he didn't pay for it. So they have to
- 1:21:16Speaker 2: move out right now, and they have nowhere to go,
- 1:21:18Speaker 2: so he runs to the apartment. He tells Evelyn, we
- 1:21:21Speaker 2: have to go now. I don't have time to explain,
- 1:21:23Speaker 2: and she's like, what you're sweating, What is happening? Please
- 1:21:27Speaker 2: explain what And he's like, we have to go. We
- 1:21:30Speaker 2: have to go right now. It's like there's a bomb
- 1:21:33Speaker 2: about the lamb. Yeah yeah, and she goes, this is
- 1:21:37Speaker 2: a pattern. You aren't being a fucking man. You just
- 1:21:40Speaker 2: I can't deal with this anymore. So then they're walking
- 1:21:43Speaker 2: along the beach on the sidewalk next to the beach,
- 1:21:50Speaker 2: like Mohammad on.
- 1:21:51Speaker 1: During the streets of la with his suitcase.
- 1:21:54Speaker 2: He has not been able to find a place for them,
- 1:21:56Speaker 2: mocking mood, sorry, mock mood, and they are He's like,
- 1:22:02Speaker 2: I haven't been able to find a place to stay,
- 1:22:04Speaker 2: so we're just like wandering the streets and I'm calling places.
- 1:22:07Speaker 2: She says, I can't live like this. I never feel
- 1:22:09Speaker 2: safe with you. And it's always a bunch of excuses
- 1:22:12Speaker 2: and promises. So luckily he finds a hotel. The next day,
- 1:22:17Speaker 2: he finds a little jewelry shop that is literally out
- 1:22:20Speaker 2: of the back of someone's van in a parking lot.
- 1:22:23Speaker 2: But she has the trays and stuff, and like you know,
- 1:22:27Speaker 2: she has a lot of rings. And he says, Evelyn
- 1:22:30Speaker 2: lost both her wedding ring and engagement ring because she hates.
- 1:22:34Speaker 1: You, because she loves money. She was trying to pay.
- 1:22:39Speaker 2: Yeah, exactly, this was not an accident. So he's hoping
- 1:22:42Speaker 2: to make her forgive him by buying a ring out
- 1:22:45Speaker 2: of a van, and so he picks out a ring.
- 1:22:51Speaker 2: Then they go to the beach and she is not
- 1:22:53Speaker 2: even taking off her giant headphones and he's trying to
- 1:22:56Speaker 2: talk to her and she just says she's like a
- 1:22:58Speaker 2: teenager likes zone out and she doesn't want to hear
- 1:23:01Speaker 2: his voice. She tells him, I want to stay here.
- 1:23:05Speaker 2: I'm meant to be in near the beach. I've told
- 1:23:07Speaker 2: you this. I love Hawaii and he says it's too expensive.
- 1:23:10Speaker 2: She says, what about my happiness? And he says, are
- 1:23:13Speaker 2: we even happy here? We don't seem to be even
- 1:23:16Speaker 2: happy here. And she says, I'm happy here as myself,
- 1:23:19Speaker 2: as one person, like without.
- 1:23:22Speaker 1: You, and I am here now, I'm legally in the
- 1:23:25Speaker 1: United States. Just leave me here, yes exactly.
- 1:23:29Speaker 2: So he, for some insane reason when she says I'm
- 1:23:33Speaker 2: happy here as one person, decides to pull out the
- 1:23:36Speaker 2: ring at this moment on the beach and says, I
- 1:23:41Speaker 2: got you this ring. It means compromise and living in
- 1:23:45Speaker 2: Washington with my mom and saving.
- 1:23:47Speaker 1: Money and not and becoming Mormon.
- 1:23:50Speaker 2: Yes, right, how that's not compromise.
- 1:23:52Speaker 1: No coffee either, She.
- 1:23:54Speaker 2: Says, No, you always do this. You think a grand gesture, which,
- 1:23:59Speaker 2: by the way, this is not a gesture. That you're
- 1:24:03Speaker 2: sitting on the sand and you brought her a ring
- 1:24:06Speaker 2: out of a van and you think a grand gesture
- 1:24:09Speaker 2: will save everything. And I will not accept that ring.
- 1:24:12Speaker 2: And she starts crying and he tries to hug her
- 1:24:15Speaker 2: and she's like, don't touch me. And he keeps trying
- 1:24:17Speaker 2: to put his hand on her leg and she's like
- 1:24:19Speaker 2: stop it. And he's just so clueless. He's like a
- 1:24:24Speaker 2: boy that never learned how to deal with women. And
- 1:24:27Speaker 2: he's he's like homeschooled energy.
- 1:24:31Speaker 1: And I mean that in it in the way that
- 1:24:34Speaker 1: you mean it.
- 1:24:34Speaker 2: Yeah, in the way that I mean it. And I
- 1:24:36Speaker 2: don't mean everyone that's like that, but some people.
- 1:24:39Speaker 1: Look at Billie Eilish.
- 1:24:41Speaker 2: Yeah. So she says, I have no more energy in me,
- 1:24:44Speaker 2: and if we continue in this relationship, I'm going to
- 1:24:46Speaker 2: become one of those grumpy wives who's sad and mad
- 1:24:49Speaker 2: all the time. And I don't want that. And she says,
- 1:24:52Speaker 2: I might stay here, or I might go home to Ecuador,
- 1:24:54Speaker 2: but I'm not going back to Washington to become a
- 1:24:56Speaker 2: Mormon wife. And so the next day he's at the
- 1:25:02Speaker 2: airport and he is boarding the flight to Washington without her,
- 1:25:06Speaker 2: and he's like, I don't know should I be staying.
- 1:25:09Speaker 2: I feel like I'm leaving my marriage in Hawaii?
- 1:25:11Speaker 1: You are?
- 1:25:12Speaker 2: Should I be fighting for it? So cut to her
- 1:25:15Speaker 2: on the beach and she wishes that he didn't leave
- 1:25:18Speaker 2: and he fought for them, but she wants to have
- 1:25:22Speaker 2: a man that takes care of her and treats her
- 1:25:24Speaker 2: like a queen, and she doesn't think he's capable of that.
- 1:25:27Speaker 2: So he's flying off alone.
- 1:25:30Speaker 1: We wish divorce for them.
- 1:25:32Speaker 2: Yes, absolutely, So he is a dud and she should
- 1:25:36Speaker 2: not be dragged down. So Emma, oh my god, Emma, yeah, babe, babe.
- 1:25:44Speaker 2: So she invites her friends over to tan in this
- 1:25:47Speaker 2: gorgeous house in La that I cannot believe is hers.
- 1:25:49Speaker 2: That has to be a rental for the show or something.
- 1:25:52Speaker 1: It's not a townhouse.
- 1:25:54Speaker 2: Yeah, And they're talking about like I can't believe I'm
- 1:25:58Speaker 2: still single, and say, because you keep dating fuck boys.
- 1:26:02Speaker 2: So she talks about Ed. Apparently the timeline got clarified here.
- 1:26:07Speaker 2: She was with z Ed. She had an affair with
- 1:26:11Speaker 2: Rob before that, so I thought it was after z Ed,
- 1:26:15Speaker 2: but it was before she was She was started sleeping
- 1:26:19Speaker 2: with Rob friends with benefits.
- 1:26:21Speaker 1: Before she was even on the show.
- 1:26:23Speaker 2: Yes, how would they have met exactly? It's very weird.
- 1:26:27Speaker 2: They met on social media, she says on like, well.
- 1:26:31Speaker 1: Maybe she was like I'm going to be on the
- 1:26:32Speaker 1: show next season.
- 1:26:33Speaker 2: Oh no, she says on a dating app. They met
- 1:26:36Speaker 2: on a dating app before she went to Morocco to
- 1:26:38Speaker 2: meet Zeed, so maybe she had been cast on the show,
- 1:26:41Speaker 2: but she hadn't gone yet, and they started hooking up
- 1:26:45Speaker 2: like friends with benefits. And so when her sister on
- 1:26:49Speaker 2: the tell all was like exposing her and saying she
- 1:26:52Speaker 2: was sleeping with someone right before she got on the
- 1:26:54Speaker 2: plane to go see Zed, it was Rob Wow that
- 1:26:58Speaker 2: she was talking about, and she's like, and then Alice
- 1:27:02Speaker 2: tried to expose me on the tell all. And after
- 1:27:06Speaker 2: I broke up with the Ed, I reconnected with Rob.
- 1:27:09Speaker 2: So she got back with Rob, and then she grew
- 1:27:12Speaker 2: feelings for him, but he said I don't want to
- 1:27:15Speaker 2: be with you and I want you to focus on
- 1:27:16Speaker 2: other people. And she got in a funk and now
- 1:27:19Speaker 2: she's over it. She's boy shopping on the apps and
- 1:27:23Speaker 2: she's been manifesting that she can find love and get
- 1:27:26Speaker 2: married and she even is wearing a ring on her
- 1:27:29Speaker 2: finger so she can manifest a husband.
- 1:27:32Speaker 1: That's not crazy at all.
- 1:27:35Speaker 2: Okay, and her friend says, made the Delulu become true Lulu.
- 1:27:40Speaker 2: And then she goes with her sister her twin sister
- 1:27:43Speaker 2: Izzy to get Brazilian waxes because the next man to
- 1:27:46Speaker 2: see me naked will be my husband, and I don't
- 1:27:49Speaker 2: want him to see me all harry and gross. And
- 1:27:53Speaker 2: then she says, there's nothing on Izzy that I haven't
- 1:27:56Speaker 2: seen on myself, because identical twins means I called Vagina's right.
- 1:28:03Speaker 2: And then Izzy gets her buttthold on because she likes
- 1:28:07Speaker 2: doggy style and it's a lot, and Emma says, the
- 1:28:11Speaker 2: one difference between us is I don't have a hairy butt,
- 1:28:15Speaker 2: is he has a hairy butt, and she's the bitchy twin.
- 1:28:18Speaker 2: And then is he tells her that she's in love
- 1:28:21Speaker 2: with the idea of love and she sleeps with men
- 1:28:23Speaker 2: before she even knows them. So then Veya and Sonny
- 1:28:29Speaker 2: with the eyebrows, yeah he's gone, and David the dog walker.
- 1:28:33Speaker 2: So she got really sick with this benign brain tumor
- 1:28:37Speaker 2: and she was bedridden. She almost died. She they got
- 1:28:43Speaker 2: married in a courthouse because he realized like she was
- 1:28:46Speaker 2: very sick and he didn't want to lose her. So
- 1:28:49Speaker 2: but now he's she's getting better and he's going to
- 1:28:52Speaker 2: propose for real, and do they want to do a
- 1:28:54Speaker 2: real wedding. So they're also looking at houses to buy.
- 1:28:58Speaker 2: So they go to look at a house. She wants
- 1:29:00Speaker 2: to start a family and pop out babies and get chickens.
- 1:29:03Speaker 2: Everyone wants chickens on this show.
- 1:29:06Speaker 1: And she kept saying to Sonny, we could have such
- 1:29:08Speaker 1: a cute little life. We can have a cute little life,
- 1:29:10Speaker 1: and we can have cute chickens.
- 1:29:12Speaker 2: Want picket fence, Yes, yeah, cute. She grew up in
- 1:29:15Speaker 2: a weird cult, so.
- 1:29:17Speaker 1: Yeah, and pretty sure she's back in it if you
- 1:29:20Speaker 1: follow her on Instagram.
- 1:29:22Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, Well she almost died. That does it for people?
- 1:29:25Speaker 1: Know you and I both recently almost died and we
- 1:29:27Speaker 1: didn't join a call.
- 1:29:29Speaker 2: Well so we didn't start at one.
- 1:29:32Speaker 1: Well that's true, that's true.
- 1:29:33Speaker 2: We're not we have no cult to return to.
- 1:29:36Speaker 1: Okay, you're right, you're right. Good point.
- 1:29:38Speaker 2: So she they go to look at this house where
- 1:29:41Speaker 2: he is going to do this proposal for some reason,
- 1:29:43Speaker 2: even though it's just a house they're looking at, it's
- 1:29:45Speaker 2: not a house they're buying, and she's complaining about everything,
- 1:29:48Speaker 2: like hates everything about it, and they go outside and
- 1:29:51Speaker 2: she's like, you're gonna have to check me for ticks
- 1:29:53Speaker 2: and I don't want to get bit by miss Pito.
- 1:29:56Speaker 2: And just like, I hope she stops complaining because I
- 1:29:59Speaker 2: still need to do this proposal at this house for
- 1:30:02Speaker 2: some reason that we don't understand. Okay, So in the
- 1:30:07Speaker 2: backyard and she's still bitching about everything. He gets down
- 1:30:10Speaker 2: on one knee and she says yes, even though they're
- 1:30:12Speaker 2: already married, and then she feels really bad for complaining.
- 1:30:16Speaker 1: Get off the ground. You're gonna get another tick tick.
- 1:30:20Speaker 2: But it's cute. I'm happy for them, so okay, Jasmine,
- 1:30:25Speaker 2: she is trying on hats to go to her lawyer's office.
- 1:30:28Speaker 2: Her hair is completely different. Sometimes it's long like two inches,
- 1:30:33Speaker 2: sometimes it's no inches. Yeah, basically, Gino's lawyer is being
- 1:30:38Speaker 2: secretive and not revealing Gino's finances, and Jasmine says to
- 1:30:43Speaker 2: the lawyer, I wouldn't have wanted any of his money
- 1:30:45Speaker 2: if he hadn't treated me so badly and tried to
- 1:30:47Speaker 2: get me deported three times. And now I want to
- 1:30:50Speaker 2: fuck him over. And I get it. It's like, yeah,
- 1:30:54Speaker 2: get yours, that's fine, But also, do we really believe
- 1:30:56Speaker 2: she wouldn't have wanted any of his money.
- 1:30:58Speaker 1: I would believe that because she's got Matt, now you
- 1:31:03Speaker 1: know that's true. Yeah.
- 1:31:04Speaker 2: So then she goes to her first divorce hearing and
- 1:31:07Speaker 2: she has to tell Matt what's going on. She's like,
- 1:31:09Speaker 2: I'm gonna fight for fifty percent of whatever he made
- 1:31:13Speaker 2: when we were together. And he says, I don't understand
- 1:31:17Speaker 2: why you don't just sign the papers and get this
- 1:31:19Speaker 2: over with. You're gonna spend a fortune to get almost nothing,
- 1:31:22Speaker 2: Like it's not worth it. We should get married now
- 1:31:25Speaker 2: because my mom will not get off my ass about
- 1:31:27Speaker 2: living in sin So you do you still have feelings
- 1:31:31Speaker 2: for him? Or do you just like the drama of
- 1:31:33Speaker 2: fighting with him and like why are you doing this?
- 1:31:36Speaker 2: So he's mad. So she does this meeting on video
- 1:31:41Speaker 2: with a judge and she's gonna tell him what she
- 1:31:44Speaker 2: wants and she wants to tea I want to teach
- 1:31:47Speaker 2: him a lesson that you cannot bring happy people from
- 1:31:49Speaker 2: their country and treat them like garbage and then try
- 1:31:52Speaker 2: to send them back. Wow, Like, okay, true, but were
- 1:31:56Speaker 2: you happy?
- 1:31:57Speaker 1: I don't know.
- 1:31:58Speaker 2: So, And she's wearing this big bird style like floor length,
- 1:32:02Speaker 2: long sleeve yellow dress with poofy feathers on the.
- 1:32:06Speaker 1: Sleeves for her for her lawyer meeting.
- 1:32:10Speaker 2: Yeah, and her boobs it's very tight fitting boobs are
- 1:32:13Speaker 2: boobin' but whatever. So she that we don't get to
- 1:32:17Speaker 2: see the video, but she says it went well. The
- 1:32:19Speaker 2: judge told Gino he has to reveal his finances to
- 1:32:22Speaker 2: her lawyer, and she says it was better than having
- 1:32:26Speaker 2: an orgasm. It was the best feeling ever. And also
- 1:32:29Speaker 2: Gino looked terrible. He had bags under his eyes, like
- 1:32:32Speaker 2: he's not eating. Well, it was great. He looked like shit.
- 1:32:37Speaker 2: So then she goes to tell Matt and he's like,
- 1:32:40Speaker 2: sometimes in order to win, you have to let go.
- 1:32:43Speaker 2: And while you're trying to poke his eyes out, you're
- 1:32:45Speaker 2: gonna poke your own eyes out, et cetera, like metaphors.
- 1:32:50Speaker 2: And you're gonna get two cents from him, and it's
- 1:32:52Speaker 2: gonna cost you thirty thousand dollars. And she says, I'm
- 1:32:55Speaker 2: teaching him a lesson, and also I'm gonna keep his
- 1:32:58Speaker 2: last name just despite him. And you slept with the
- 1:33:03Speaker 2: married woman, so you have to deal with this. You
- 1:33:05Speaker 2: shouldn't have slept with me then, and you got involved
- 1:33:08Speaker 2: in this chaos. So he says, eventually, I'm gonna get sick.
- 1:33:12Speaker 2: Of this and leave.
- 1:33:15Speaker 1: No, you're not.
- 1:33:15Speaker 2: You're happened so far. You said the same thing at
- 1:33:17Speaker 2: the Happily Ever After mansion that you were going to.
- 1:33:20Speaker 1: Leave, and you said the same thing at that baby's door.
- 1:33:22Speaker 2: Yeah. So Greg and Joan and Lucille yay. So they're
- 1:33:29Speaker 2: driving to the guy no and he is now just
- 1:33:32Speaker 2: realizing that how weird it is to have a random
- 1:33:35Speaker 2: person all up in your cooter and that women have
- 1:33:38Speaker 2: to deal with that. And he's like, that's so bizarre,
- 1:33:41Speaker 2: and he's like, I never really thought about it. She's
- 1:33:43Speaker 2: like yeah. He says, did you have men? Guyos? And
- 1:33:46Speaker 2: she's like yeah, and Uganda they're all men. And he's like,
- 1:33:48Speaker 2: I need to talk to those guys. So they're being funny.
- 1:33:53Speaker 2: So there's still I do too. They're still living with
- 1:33:55Speaker 2: Lucille and Joan is not happy with it, and the
- 1:33:59Speaker 2: big new she's pregnant. Yeah, and they go to a
- 1:34:03Speaker 2: sonogram appointment. The big thing is Lucille had made them
- 1:34:08Speaker 2: promise that they would not get pregnant while they were
- 1:34:10Speaker 2: still under her roof, because she does not want babies
- 1:34:14Speaker 2: and diapers and all of that in her home. She
- 1:34:16Speaker 2: just wants little dogs that pee everywhere.
- 1:34:19Speaker 1: She just wants her little greggy and that's it.
- 1:34:21Speaker 2: Yeah. Yeah, and the chickens. So Greg is collecting chickens,
- 1:34:27Speaker 2: eggs from the chickens, and he does this whole bit
- 1:34:30Speaker 2: about how this is you have to push this out
- 1:34:34Speaker 2: of your sphincter and imagine this is going to be
- 1:34:36Speaker 2: Joan in a few months. She's gonna have God God
- 1:34:39Speaker 2: bless her. I'm glad it's not me, but I'm gonna
- 1:34:41Speaker 2: be there to support her. Except it's an egg. It's
- 1:34:44Speaker 2: a baby, not an egg. I know that eggs don't
- 1:34:46Speaker 2: come out of women. Don't roast me. Okay, Wow, he's
- 1:34:50Speaker 2: doing a comedy routine. He's funny. So they basically trap
- 1:34:55Speaker 2: Lucille in the chicken coop. They're like, come in here,
- 1:34:57Speaker 2: we want to show you something, and then they close
- 1:34:59Speaker 2: the door behind her and they're like, Joan is pregnant.
- 1:35:02Speaker 2: And she says, right now, you're kidding me, and he says, yeah,
- 1:35:05Speaker 2: it just kind of happened, and she says, yeah, if
- 1:35:07Speaker 2: you have unprotected sex, it's gonna happen. She says, you
- 1:35:10Speaker 2: know what, You're gonna need your own space. You need
- 1:35:13Speaker 2: to be out. And they're like when and she says
- 1:35:15Speaker 2: by the time the baby comes, also congratulations, No, congratulations, No,
- 1:35:22Speaker 2: I'm happy to be a grandma. Nothing okay, So then
- 1:35:26Speaker 2: they he's upset. He's like, I kind of was hoping
- 1:35:29Speaker 2: she would soften and she would be like, actually happy.
- 1:35:32Speaker 2: And you know, I know, Mom, you said you didn't
- 1:35:34Speaker 2: want to help if we had a baby, so I understand.
- 1:35:37Speaker 2: And she's like, I didn't say I didn't want to help.
- 1:35:39Speaker 2: I'm letting you live here or and I for a year,
- 1:35:41Speaker 2: like that's helping. And they're and they're like, no, you
- 1:35:44Speaker 2: said you didn't want to help, and she says, I
- 1:35:46Speaker 2: just didn't want cribs and laundry in my house. Remember
- 1:35:49Speaker 2: that sock basket.
- 1:35:51Speaker 1: That you'll never you'll never, you'll never get over it.
- 1:35:54Speaker 1: You talk about it. It was like every other one.
- 1:35:56Speaker 2: You know sock basket, which Katie reveal that her sister
- 1:36:01Speaker 2: tried to do once.
- 1:36:02Speaker 1: And I've told you there was somebody on Love's Blind
- 1:36:04Speaker 1: that had a family slock basket. Yes, it's weird, insane,
- 1:36:09Speaker 1: very weird.
- 1:36:09Speaker 2: So he says, okay, so we're gonna move, but we
- 1:36:12Speaker 2: can't afford to live on Long Island, so we're gonna
- 1:36:15Speaker 2: have to move upstate somewhere, So now you're not going
- 1:36:17Speaker 2: to see your grandchild, especially bye. But then get ready
- 1:36:22Speaker 2: trigger warning baby stuff. They do an update. They're at
- 1:36:27Speaker 2: a friend's house they have they're not living with Lucille,
- 1:36:30Speaker 2: and Joan suffered a miscarriage in eighteen weeks and they
- 1:36:34Speaker 2: give a lot of details and it was graphic and
- 1:36:40Speaker 2: it's horrible. It sounds like she almost died.
- 1:36:43Speaker 1: I'm so sorry for Joan.
- 1:36:45Speaker 2: I know. It makes me want to cry because he's
- 1:36:47Speaker 2: like trying not to cry and she's trying not to cry,
- 1:36:49Speaker 2: and he's like, we can stop talking about it, that
- 1:36:51Speaker 2: we can, you know. And so they don't know where
- 1:36:55Speaker 2: they're gonna live. They just said, we're so blessed that
- 1:36:57Speaker 2: we have these friends that are letting us stay with them.
- 1:36:59Speaker 2: I don't know why they can't go back to Lucille
- 1:37:02Speaker 2: or he's working. Is he doing the bread baking? No idea.
- 1:37:06Speaker 2: But they write a message for the baby on a
- 1:37:08Speaker 2: paper lantern and they go outside and they release it
- 1:37:11Speaker 2: and he says, she's the strongest person I know and
- 1:37:14Speaker 2: I love you so much and it's sad.
- 1:37:17Speaker 1: Yeah, sorry, really really bad.
- 1:37:21Speaker 2: So then our last person is Arianna, who no one remembers.
- 1:37:26Speaker 2: But it was actually the most interesting of all the stories,
- 1:37:28Speaker 2: I thought. So she was on Love in Paradise.
- 1:37:33Speaker 1: She was.
- 1:37:35Speaker 2: She went to the to Jamaica and she started banging
- 1:37:41Speaker 2: the sky shirlone and she got pregnant.
- 1:37:43Speaker 1: Yes, and I saw it. I didn't see the whole thing.
- 1:37:46Speaker 1: I just saw her and it took me. I was like,
- 1:37:50Speaker 1: who is that?
- 1:37:52Speaker 2: It took also lost over one hundred pounds. Yes, so
- 1:37:56Speaker 2: she looks really different too. So she has son named Odin,
- 1:38:01Speaker 2: and he's freaking adorable. And he's wearing a shirt that
- 1:38:04Speaker 2: says gifted and black and he is looking at the
- 1:38:07Speaker 2: camera and he says, I'm young and I'm cute, and
- 1:38:10Speaker 2: I'm smart and nice and I have pants on and
- 1:38:14Speaker 2: it was like, so freaking cute. So she went to
- 1:38:19Speaker 2: Jamaica on vacation. She met Sherlan, she thought was really hot.
- 1:38:22Speaker 2: They started having sex. She got pregnant before she even
- 1:38:25Speaker 2: applied for the K one visa for him to come.
- 1:38:28Speaker 2: Odin was born very early, had to spend a lot
- 1:38:31Speaker 2: of time in the hospital, but he was healthy after that.
- 1:38:35Speaker 2: When he was a year old, she brought him back
- 1:38:37Speaker 2: to Jamaica to meet his dad. Yeah, that's when she
- 1:38:40Speaker 2: found out Sherlin had been sleeping with a bunch of
- 1:38:43Speaker 2: other women and had no feelings for her and didn't
- 1:38:46Speaker 2: really want to be with her.
- 1:38:48Speaker 1: So that's they just they met because he like worked
- 1:38:51Speaker 1: at the resort. Like it's the tail as old as time. Yeah, yep.
- 1:38:55Speaker 2: They stopped talking essentially and stopped hearing from him, and
- 1:38:59Speaker 2: then he married someone else, and she says, we never
- 1:39:03Speaker 2: hear from him anymore. He has no relationship i'msure, okay,
- 1:39:08Speaker 2: but he has no relationship with the child. The child
- 1:39:11Speaker 2: does not know who he is.
- 1:39:13Speaker 1: Wow.
- 1:39:14Speaker 2: Yeah, horrible. So she's lost a ton of weight. She
- 1:39:17Speaker 2: feels really confident. They're just it's just the two of them,
- 1:39:20Speaker 2: but she has her mom's help. Odin is four, and
- 1:39:23Speaker 2: she promised him a puppy. She thinks he seems lonely
- 1:39:26Speaker 2: with just the two of them sometimes, and so they
- 1:39:29Speaker 2: go get a puppy. They name her Clear Patra, and
- 1:39:31Speaker 2: it just seems like they're going to be best friends.
- 1:39:33Speaker 2: A boy and a dog. It's just adorable.
- 1:39:35Speaker 1: A dog, Nao, Cleo.
- 1:39:37Speaker 2: And then I got a little mushy over the dog.
- 1:39:40Speaker 2: I was like, oh, they're best friends. So then she
- 1:39:43Speaker 2: goes to meet with her friend and she says, you know,
- 1:39:45Speaker 2: Odin started preschool and he's he realized that the other
- 1:39:48Speaker 2: kids have dads and he doesn't have one, and I
- 1:39:51Speaker 2: think he's confused. He doesn't know anything about Sherlan. And
- 1:39:55Speaker 2: I'm also worried because we live in a tiny, small
- 1:39:59Speaker 2: white town and he doesn't really have any black role
- 1:40:02Speaker 2: models and he doesn't have a dad. So she sets
- 1:40:05Speaker 2: up the friend says, well, it doesn't have to be
- 1:40:07Speaker 2: his dad. You could find somebody else to be like
- 1:40:10Speaker 2: a role model. So she was a teacher is a teacher.
- 1:40:13Speaker 2: So she has these former students of hers who are
- 1:40:16Speaker 2: athletes and who are black, and they volunteer to teach
- 1:40:21Speaker 2: him basketball and hang out with him and like be
- 1:40:23Speaker 2: a good role model. So they she sets up a
- 1:40:25Speaker 2: date for them at the park and it's like these big,
- 1:40:28Speaker 2: tall guys teaching this little four year old how to
- 1:40:30Speaker 2: bounce the ball, and She's like just seeing him get
- 1:40:33Speaker 2: to be around people who look like him and our
- 1:40:36Speaker 2: role models, and it makes me feel like things are
- 1:40:39Speaker 2: going to be okay even if he doesn't have his
- 1:40:41Speaker 2: dad in his life.
- 1:40:43Speaker 1: Oh. I like that story.
- 1:40:45Speaker 2: It was a really good story, and I was like,
- 1:40:47Speaker 2: I'm sorry, I said, I barely remembered you. Because yeah, well,
- 1:40:51Speaker 2: so she sounds like a really good mom.
- 1:40:53Speaker 1: And because we saw them on Love and Paradise. But
- 1:40:57Speaker 1: was it two seasons, because I feel like we saw
- 1:41:00Speaker 1: her and then we saw that, or maybe it was
- 1:41:02Speaker 1: just all one season when she was going back with
- 1:41:04Speaker 1: my baby.
- 1:41:05Speaker 2: In all one season, we see her definitely traveling with
- 1:41:08Speaker 2: the baby, and he meets the baby and then he says,
- 1:41:12Speaker 2: like she finds out he's been talking to other people.
- 1:41:13Speaker 2: She's like, do you want to be with me? He's like,
- 1:41:15Speaker 2: not really, and then she's like she's like talking and spitting,
- 1:41:19Speaker 2: like with a lot of saliva in her mouth, screaming
- 1:41:21Speaker 2: at him that she's the father, the mother of her
- 1:41:24Speaker 2: like his child. They're connected for the rest of their
- 1:41:26Speaker 2: lives because of this child. So like, get your act together,
- 1:41:31Speaker 2: but he doesn't.
- 1:41:32Speaker 1: He didn't care.
- 1:41:32Speaker 2: What an asshole? Oh?
- 1:41:35Speaker 1: Or yeah. I always remember thinking Sherlin, he was like thirty,
- 1:41:39Speaker 1: but he looked like it was fifty. I don't know
- 1:41:42Speaker 1: why I was thinking, like, God, he looks so much
- 1:41:43Speaker 1: older than he is.
- 1:41:45Speaker 2: Well kind of, I could say, maybe looks like Emily
- 1:41:49Speaker 2: of Emily and Kobe.
- 1:41:50Speaker 1: A little bit, Yeah, a little bit. She's very cute. Yeah,
- 1:41:55Speaker 1: she's very cute. Uh, everybody, that is it. Thank you
- 1:41:59Speaker 1: so much for listening, and thank you Kimberly for taking
- 1:42:02Speaker 1: us over to a trip to Kimberly's Corner where all
- 1:42:07Speaker 1: the information lives. Kimberly will be giving us Kimberly's Corner
- 1:42:11Speaker 1: in town. Kimberly will be giving us Kimberly's Corner when
- 1:42:15Speaker 1: we cover Last Resort, which comes out on Fridays. And uh, yeah, guys,
- 1:42:20Speaker 1: I put out my kim Plath makeup tutorial on on
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- 1:42:36Speaker 1: the need to do Kim's makeup, and uh, it went
- 1:42:40Speaker 1: about as well as you can expect. A lot of
- 1:42:42Speaker 1: people said I didn't do it bad enough. Yeah, I've
- 1:42:45Speaker 1: followed it.
- 1:42:47Speaker 2: Your liner was too close to your eyes, I would say,
- 1:42:50Speaker 2: and you're just too too nice looking, like I think.
- 1:42:53Speaker 1: That my eyes evil. Yeah, my eyes aren't big enough.
- 1:42:58Speaker 1: The dogs are barking because and John just arrived to
- 1:43:01Speaker 1: the beach. So they made their fairy. That was my
- 1:43:04Speaker 1: the whole thing. I was sitting here going, They're never
- 1:43:06Speaker 1: going to make that fairy, and they did. I can't
- 1:43:08Speaker 1: imagine what they had to do to make that happen. Everybody,
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- 1:43:26Speaker 1: It was a good one this week. I watched it
- 1:43:28Speaker 1: on Friday again. They've just zipping through these one hour episodes.
- 1:43:32Speaker 1: I know you love it for recap purposes, but for me,
- 1:43:35Speaker 1: I'm always like, I feel like we're missing a lot here.
- 1:43:38Speaker 2: Yeah, we are missing a lot, a lot.
- 1:43:40Speaker 1: I just listened to I just listened to a very
- 1:43:44Speaker 1: good podcast called I'm Gonna Have to Find It. It
- 1:43:49Speaker 1: was about a murder in Austin, Texas, this woman named
- 1:43:52Speaker 1: Celeste who kills her husband named Steve. And look at
- 1:44:00Speaker 1: my library, I'm gonna look up the word shotgun because
- 1:44:03Speaker 1: it was like love and lies, love and in a
- 1:44:07Speaker 1: shotgun shell Love Lies in a Shotgun Shell and it's
- 1:44:10Speaker 1: about a murder in Austin and I had not heard it.
- 1:44:12Speaker 1: You may watch it and be like, oh, they covered
- 1:44:15Speaker 1: this on dateline. So if anybody knows anything more about
- 1:44:18Speaker 1: that trial, let me know. Because it was it wasn't
- 1:44:21Speaker 1: like a super well done podcast, I'll say that, but
- 1:44:23Speaker 1: because it's so old, there's no commercials, so you just
- 1:44:26Speaker 1: zip right through the whole story. And there's a surprise
- 1:44:29Speaker 1: appearance by Matthew McConaughey. So hey, really all right, all right,
- 1:44:33Speaker 1: all right, all right, be one of the suspects. No,
- 1:44:38Speaker 1: it's just the guy that does it, is like a
- 1:44:40Speaker 1: local reporter, and he tells about reporting on when Matthew
- 1:44:43Speaker 1: McConaughey got arrested for playing the bongoske. Yes, so I
- 1:44:48Speaker 1: was like, you got to like drop that has nothing
- 1:44:50Speaker 1: to do with his murder. But okay, that's it, everybody,
- 1:44:54Speaker 1: We will see you. I'll be here this week with
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