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DLHS Hour 2 | Dad brings clothes not money now mom mad · The D.L. Hughley Show

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  Speaker 1: If you were here for the last debacle, never listen.
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  Speaker 1: A woman asked her baby daddy for school money for
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  Speaker 1: school clothes. He gets the school clothes, she gets upset.
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  Speaker 1: We get down despite the way we were waylaid that
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  Speaker 1: last segment. I don't know where that came from. But
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  Speaker 1: what do you think is the proper uh response? Do
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  Speaker 1: you think that she should be mad or do you
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  Speaker 1: think she like what? Because her getting mad.
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  Speaker 2: At leave me to believe.
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  Speaker 3: You don't have to lead to believe, because even if
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  Speaker 3: you when you listen to them them arguing and she
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  Speaker 3: let a slip, she wanted to get her nails done
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  Speaker 3: to and do something else that I should be able to.
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  Speaker 3: But it was a whole lock on on. He was like, Yo,
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  Speaker 3: you asked for clothes. I got you closed with you,
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  Speaker 3: you know, and they.
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  Speaker 2: Could take that to the JIB to say this is
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  Speaker 2: counts is money.
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  Speaker 3: I guess she was like, you got the receipt? Noine,
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  Speaker 3: you ain't taking the receipt like she just wanted money.
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  Speaker 3: And on this particular case, sting when you come from jazz,
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  Speaker 3: I don't, I don't.
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  Speaker 2: I don't know what the lion green tampon has to
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  Speaker 2: do it any of that, but not that part.
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  Speaker 1: But stupidity sometimes think so more, but you have your
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  Speaker 1: I was your oldest now, yes, so close are pretty expensive?
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  Speaker 2: Right close?
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  Speaker 4: Yes?
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  Speaker 2: Yes?
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  Speaker 1: So do you think I thought he did a solid
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  Speaker 1: thing by like? First off, I think that you should
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  Speaker 1: give them the money child's boy. You shouldn't have to
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  Speaker 1: itemize it. They should just here's the money you owe.
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  Speaker 1: They shouldn't have to get. But when you specifically ask
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  Speaker 1: the money for a thing, and it should be for
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  Speaker 1: that thing, and you're to do said, I'm totally if
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  Speaker 1: you get child supporting, nobody should be able to tell
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  Speaker 1: you what to do.
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  Speaker 2: But if you ask for a thing for a thing,
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  Speaker 2: it should be for that thing. Correct.
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  Speaker 1: So I feel like he not like them ass conjecture
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  Speaker 1: she just did.
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  Speaker 2: I feel like he's winning, he's up. He actually should
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  Speaker 2: get a cake. Yeah yeah, the last time you said
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  Speaker 2: your daughter money that part no no, no, no, hold on,
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  Speaker 2: hold on, man, don't even want to go into the mall.
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  Speaker 2: We don't don't.
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  Speaker 1: We don't need you to attack this brother because he's
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  Speaker 1: attacking him.
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  Speaker 2: What are you talking about your blowgun?
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  Speaker 5: Dude?
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  Speaker 2: Like he's fresh outs. You ain't got a little.
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  Speaker 6: Do it?
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  Speaker 2: Like you were do a hedgehog like you would. I
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  Speaker 2: feel like he's I feel like.
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  Speaker 1: I feel like he's up in my in my inestimation. Yes,
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  Speaker 1: because he just he took. He took, he took initiative
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  Speaker 1: to me and one ahead and got the call because,
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  Speaker 1: like you said, most of us don't want to go
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  Speaker 1: and do that. So the fact that he said, let
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  Speaker 1: me go and do this, and we don't know the
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  Speaker 1: sizes and all that. All we know is that the
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  Speaker 1: man had the money and.
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  Speaker 2: We just watered her plan.
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  Speaker 7: I don't know.
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  Speaker 2: She said, she wanted to get you some other stuff
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  Speaker 2: beside shopping. He said, Now that part I didn't hear
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  Speaker 2: the heart.
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  Speaker 8: I'm listen, if we go back to my initial statement. Okay,
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  Speaker 8: what I said was, I'm going to push back just
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  Speaker 8: a little bit here because.
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  Speaker 9: I understand up.
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  Speaker 2: The ploy I was making was if he.
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  Speaker 8: Went and brought the clothes, perhaps they didn't fit, maybe
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  Speaker 8: the shoes.
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  Speaker 2: Case, you need the receipt to return those. If in
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  Speaker 2: fact she was going to use it, I'm not I wanted.
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  Speaker 2: You don't know that. We do know what she said.
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  Speaker 2: She said, Well, now we're talking about I was hoping
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  Speaker 2: to do some other stuff. She got mad.
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  Speaker 1: Because she was going to use that money to do
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  Speaker 1: something other than.
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  Speaker 8: She I said, I'm going to push back a little bit.
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  Speaker 8: I didn't say I totally disagree with you. You always
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  Speaker 8: What I said was, I'm going to push back to Well,
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  Speaker 8: first of all, I'm going to take chicks side or
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  Speaker 8: a dude's side, if I believe in what they're saying.
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  Speaker 1: Okay, the great thing about what you've just done for
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  Speaker 1: us is now we have a sponsor of colored tampon sponsor.
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  Speaker 2: Yes, because they don't they're not and they don't come.
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  Speaker 2: I don't care what they are. I don't care. I
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  Speaker 2: don't care what they are. All I know is you
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  Speaker 2: can't wear them with what sinners. I know that.
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  Speaker 10: Now.
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  Speaker 2: Who do you think is wrong? We'll go to the phones.
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  Speaker 11: That woman ought to be a shame of herself. You
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  Speaker 11: ask some money to get the child some clothes. He
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  Speaker 11: bought the town some clothes. You want to say the
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  Speaker 11: side she wants.
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  Speaker 4: To do something else with their money.
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  Speaker 11: It's too many kids out hear their daddy tried to
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  Speaker 11: do for them and the mama stopped them from doing
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  Speaker 11: for them. That's ridiculous, that's ridiculous.
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  Speaker 9: The brother did the right thing.
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  Speaker 12: And the reason why I said it because I've experienced
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  Speaker 12: it myself and I've gotten to the point now, you know,
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  Speaker 12: after you know, after so many years, Hey, I'm gonna
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  Speaker 12: make sure my kids have something. But at the same time,
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  Speaker 12: I know their size is because I find in with
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  Speaker 12: me on every every summer. I get them. But at
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  Speaker 12: the same time they always come in.
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  Speaker 2: I got to get the.
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  Speaker 12: Hair done because they're both girls. I got to get
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  Speaker 12: the hair done.
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  Speaker 2: I got to do this.
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  Speaker 12: But they mom knowing that they coming to spend.
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  Speaker 2: The summer with me.
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  Speaker 12: This so what I did the last time I saw
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  Speaker 12: him was last year. Hey, I set them down and
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  Speaker 12: I showed.
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  Speaker 2: Them both of them.
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  Speaker 12: Hey, this is what I send your mother, and this
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  Speaker 12: is what I send your mother. There's no reason why
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  Speaker 12: when you come here for the summer with me, I
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  Speaker 12: got to pay for this and buy this and buy this.
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  Speaker 12: But at the same time I'm showing you so that
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  Speaker 12: I don't have no control of what your.
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  Speaker 2: Mother do with the money.
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  Speaker 12: But from here on out, this is what I'm showing you.
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  Speaker 12: So you have the question that you have to ask
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  Speaker 12: is to your mother, not to me. The brother did
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  Speaker 12: the right thing, and I commend him for doing that.
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  Speaker 13: I also have a slight pushback, and it ain't no
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  Speaker 13: gun asking to second. I agree, like, yes, okay, we
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  Speaker 13: don't mind y'all buying clothes. However, maybe just maybe he
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  Speaker 13: could be cheap or the corny, and I have style,
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  Speaker 13: like maybe she wanted to buy something in particular in
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  Speaker 13: regards to the clothes. And I have a chief scape
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  Speaker 13: children's father. That's why I'm saying it, Like, you know,
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  Speaker 13: sometimes we want our kids to look a certain way.
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  Speaker 13: He don't care, and he'll shot at timu or.
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  Speaker 2: You know, wherever bargain.
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  Speaker 13: He'll bargain hunt and and it'll it'll be looking like
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  Speaker 13: you know, back in the seventies or like, yeah, they
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  Speaker 13: won't be looking right, Like no, yes, it's not. It's
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  Speaker 13: nothing wrong with giving her the money. I don't know
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  Speaker 13: how you asking for a receipt, But everybody don't necessarily
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  Speaker 13: want you to particularly buy their kids to clue. So
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  Speaker 13: it's like a catch twenty chipping, see, y'all.
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  Speaker 14: A young man find find the clothes was a good idea.
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  Speaker 14: Maybe maybe in the past he's giving her money and
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  Speaker 14: the clothes never ride to the kid, and so this
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  Speaker 14: particular time he decided to buy it on on his own,
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  Speaker 14: and uh, I'm in support of that. I bought my
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  Speaker 14: children clothes even though I did give my h the
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  Speaker 14: amount of money to man.
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  Speaker 15: Listen this, This woman is tipping because she wanted money
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  Speaker 15: to get clothes for her kids. The man got his
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  Speaker 15: kids some clothes, and you have a problem with that.
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  Speaker 6: Are you serious?
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  Speaker 5: Really?
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  Speaker 15: Because men can shop for these kids. If you don't
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  Speaker 15: know what size your kids wear, then that's the problem,
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  Speaker 15: because what if the mama can't shop, you might have
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  Speaker 15: to do that. You know, the mama can't always buy things.
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  Speaker 15: But there's nothing wrong. It's something wrong if he's not
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  Speaker 15: providing at all. But see the way that you get
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  Speaker 15: around that is that why you have child support. But
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  Speaker 15: child support doesn't mean that he still can't give you
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  Speaker 15: money for clothes or he can't buy the clothes. That
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  Speaker 15: doesn't mean that because if you can't tell why you're
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  Speaker 15: upset about that, then you know, maybe you are a
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  Speaker 15: little bit careless with the truth.
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  Speaker 1: So the question we asked a woman to ask her
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  Speaker 1: baby daddy for money for clothes, he gets the clothes.
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  Speaker 1: They say gets the clothes instead of giving her the
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  Speaker 1: money she gets to listen to.
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  Speaker 2: This, what money.
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  Speaker 7: Ain't Chris, what money that the clothes you said my
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  Speaker 7: son needed. I say give me the money and igo
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  Speaker 7: ge what you mean?
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  Speaker 2: No, that's not how it works.
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  Speaker 7: You said my slendity clothes, So I bought my slant clothes.
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  Speaker 7: I'm not getting, you know, cash to spend on whatever
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  Speaker 7: you're gonna spend on. How bought my slant clothes? You
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  Speaker 7: are right now, I'm being seriously. I went to got
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  Speaker 7: my son and stuff that he needed for school, and
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  Speaker 7: you go to clothes ring.
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  Speaker 2: He's gonna take it tonight. Just give me to receive.
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  Speaker 2: I take you back myself, give you receive.
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  Speaker 7: You take my son stuff back and spend stuff on what.
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  Speaker 2: You want to spend it. Now, who do you think
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  Speaker 2: is wrong with going to the phones?
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  Speaker 4: I think these young guins need to read thinks their
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  Speaker 4: decisions with these babies. Because if a baby father is
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  Speaker 4: going to buy the gifts the children, the child the clothes,
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  Speaker 4: then buy the child the clothes. She should be appreciative
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  Speaker 4: that they're doing it, because some men just won't do
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  Speaker 4: none of it, give her money for anything. I'm just
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  Speaker 4: blessed I had a baby daddy that did everything. These
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  Speaker 4: young females are just I don't know. I just don't
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  Speaker 4: know who raised them.
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  Speaker 5: That's how I feel.
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  Speaker 6: Hey, she's trying to run a scam. He did the
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  Speaker 6: right thing.
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  Speaker 14: Those women with games want to use the money other
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  Speaker 14: thing else ought to be ashamed of themselves and make
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  Speaker 14: the rest of them look trifling.
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  Speaker 16: Well, I just feel like that the that the mother
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  Speaker 16: in the situation is correct. I don't think men know
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  Speaker 16: how to shop for kids. I'm sorry he should die
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  Speaker 16: to be shopping for these kids at all, even though
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  Speaker 16: that's what she was saying she was gonna do with
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  Speaker 16: the money. And maybe he don't trust her to do
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  Speaker 16: what she says she gonna do with the money. I
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  Speaker 16: think that's besides the point. I think it's just the
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  Speaker 16: fact that a man just really goes. I mean, I
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  Speaker 16: have a safe issue with my husband.
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  Speaker 2: We don't have issues about.
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  Speaker 16: Money, but he really don't know what he's doing when
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  Speaker 16: it comes to shopping for these kids, Like and I
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  Speaker 16: have girls too, so maybe he don't know what he's doing.
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  Speaker 16: I'm sorry he might not trust her with the money,
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  Speaker 16: but I think it's better for her to do the
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  Speaker 16: shopping for the kids, Like if the kids need clothes
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  Speaker 16: that need to be mommy job. Mommy is probably better
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  Speaker 16: at that than daddy is, because I mean, how many
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  Speaker 16: times have I let my husband shop with my daughters
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  Speaker 16: and they come back with something that is not right?
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  Speaker 16: I don't know that. I don't understand why this is
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  Speaker 16: an issue for that are co paring for relationship, but
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  Speaker 16: mommy needs to do the shopping for kids.
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  Speaker 6: Oh man, was is she wrong? Let's unpack it real quick.
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  Speaker 6: He gives her everything she has for she has a
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  Speaker 6: problem with it. It's obvious that she's on the tape
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  Speaker 6: and I think eighty percent. You know, I'm just paraphrasing
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  Speaker 6: on the percentage. A lot of these women do the
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  Speaker 6: same thing because for a long time, men didn't have
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  Speaker 6: a voice on what happened with the child. It just
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  Speaker 6: was her word and that's how it went.
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  Speaker 9: I just wanted to say kudos to the father who
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  Speaker 9: stepped up and did exactly what he needed to do
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  Speaker 9: for his child. He purchased the clothes that she requested,
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  Speaker 9: and she's still not satisfied. I don't understand some of
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  Speaker 9: these women. They could get a no good man that
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  Speaker 9: does absolutely nothing for them or the children and did,
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  Speaker 9: they'll be happy with that. But when you get someone
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  Speaker 9: who's trying to do the right thing and he honestly
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  Speaker 9: and Q's doing exactly what she wanted him to do,
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  Speaker 9: and he's still not satisfied. So what more does she
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  Speaker 9: want him to do? I don't understand some of these women.
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  Speaker 9: I really don't.
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  Speaker 5: I most definitely happened. I agree with d L. There's
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  Speaker 5: no way you're asking for clothes. I'm giving you clothes
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  Speaker 5: and you say no, Come on, what we got going
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  Speaker 5: on here? Why do you what else you're gonna do
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  Speaker 5: with that money? Because clearly it's not closed because you
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  Speaker 5: have those I agree with you.
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  Speaker 2: That boy Trays he had let us know what life
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  Speaker 2: is like in an a DC. You graduated with My
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  Speaker 2: Life after the Yard, My love, my.
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  Speaker 14: I love.
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  Speaker 2: What's good, y'all?
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  Speaker 10: This is that boy Tray back again with another episode
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  Speaker 10: of My Life on the Yard Inside.
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  Speaker 2: Look at HBC, like, so I've been.
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  Speaker 10: Making progress like a mug on all this stuff I've
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  Speaker 10: had to get done. I'm really getting in my grown
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  Speaker 10: man stuff, stuff on my own. I've only had to
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  Speaker 10: call Mama for one thing on assistance through this whole
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  Speaker 10: process of me getting back into morehouse. I guess, yeah,
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  Speaker 10: So it's just been me in steady contact with all
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  Speaker 10: the admissions people, registration people, advisement people, now the health
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  Speaker 10: people making sure all these holds on my account are
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  Speaker 10: off you so I can move on to these next
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  Speaker 10: steps and actually register it for classes. So then after
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  Speaker 10: registering I can pay for you know, tuition and all
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  Speaker 10: that good stuff.
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  Speaker 2: The bands on bands They're about to drain.
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  Speaker 14: Out of me.
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  Speaker 2: But like I said, I'm handling.
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  Speaker 10: It for real, even looking at all the student loans
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  Speaker 10: stuff that I'm gonna have to also handle.
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  Speaker 2: Damn, bro, being grown is not fun.
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  Speaker 10: I don't know why I was thinking that when I
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  Speaker 10: was a little kid. When I was a little I
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  Speaker 10: was like, man, I can't wait to just handle everything
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  Speaker 10: on my own and just just have full control of
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  Speaker 10: everything and be like, nah, if you mom, I don't
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  Speaker 10: want to do that, and then like just having.
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  Speaker 2: The liberty to do that. No, this sucks.
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  Speaker 10: Hate handling stuff by myself right, so overrated? If you
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  Speaker 10: know what, this is stepping stones, stepping stones to be
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  Speaker 10: in a grown ass man, because.
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  Speaker 2: That's what I ultimately want to be.
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  Speaker 10: I want to be super super self sufficient and independent.
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  Speaker 2: And this whole process and me having to.
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  Speaker 10: Fill out forms and call people and take on debt.
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  Speaker 2: This is all This is all very adult to me,
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  Speaker 2: so you know what, I'm kind of proud of myself.
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  Speaker 10: Anyways, that's all I got for you all to day.
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  Speaker 2: So next time.
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  Speaker 10: This has been that boy tray and this has been
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  Speaker 10: my life on the yard inside.
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  Speaker 2: Look at HBCU like