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- 0:02Speaker 1: Hello and welcome to Outspoken. It's your dose of the
- 0:06Speaker 1: hottest influencer and pop culture news twice a week. I'm
- 0:09Speaker 1: Kate Torber and coming up on today's show, TattleLive's founder
- 0:13Speaker 1: has been unmasked during a landmark defamation case and Indy
- 0:17Speaker 1: Clinton's quest to end cyberbullying. But first, Amy, you are back.
- 0:21Speaker 1: You've entered maternity leave a lot earlier than I did. Yeah,
- 0:24Speaker 1: it's been nine weeks, but it's actually felt like quite
- 0:27Speaker 1: a while and I am so up to date on
- 0:29Speaker 1: all of the influencer news and drama because all I
- 0:31Speaker 1: have been doing is watching vlog after vlog while I've
- 0:34Speaker 1: been feeding Harry.
- 0:35Speaker 2: Oh, I remember those good old days.
- 0:37Speaker 1: Enjoy it while it lasts because I'm on no screen
- 0:39Speaker 1: time with Jack at the moment and I'm wishing I
- 0:41Speaker 1: could be watching YouTube. Well, it's getting to the point
- 0:43Speaker 1: where I'm scraping the barrel because I was watching content
- 0:45Speaker 1: from Molly Mae from about four years ago and I thought, geez,
- 0:48Speaker 1: my favorite influencers need to release some more videos. Oh,
- 0:51Speaker 1: I started watching Molly Mae and Tommy Fury's Love Island
- 0:54Speaker 1: series when I was breastfeeding. I was like, I'm just
- 0:56Speaker 1: going to take it back to the start. Well, there
- 0:57Speaker 1: is a new Love Island coming out. It's playing in
- 0:59Speaker 1: the UK at the moment. So I will be.
- 1:01Speaker 2: Watching that as well.
- 1:03Speaker 1: Tattle Life has finally had its day in court, with
- 1:06Speaker 1: the founder behind the snark website finally unmasked. For over
- 1:09Speaker 1: seven years, Sebastian Bond has hidden behind a veil of anonymity,
- 1:14Speaker 1: but that was ripped away on Saturday when an Irish
- 1:17Speaker 1: couple successfully sued Tattle Life for defamation and harassment. Now
- 1:21Speaker 1: that the owner's identity has been exposed, it's opened the
- 1:24Speaker 1: floodgates to further lawsuits. Now, this is a landmark defamation
- 1:29Speaker 1: case that is set to shake things up in the
- 1:31Speaker 1: influencer world. We have spoken a lot about Tattle Life
- 1:34Speaker 1: on this podcast, but Kate, for those listeners who aren't
- 1:37Speaker 1: familiar with the site, can you bring us up to speed?
- 1:40Speaker 1: So Tattle Life is an online gossip forum that claims
- 1:43Speaker 1: to hold influencers to account. It features countless threads dedicated
- 1:47Speaker 1: to discussing individual influencers. And since its launch in 2018,
- 1:52Speaker 1: the website has reportedly attracted millions of views every month.
- 1:56Speaker 1: and generated millions of dollars in advertising revenue. It's actually
- 2:00Speaker 1: become one of Australia's most visited websites. And the website
- 2:04Speaker 1: bills itself as a place for commentary and critique of
- 2:08Speaker 1: people that choose to monetize their personal life as a
- 2:11Speaker 1: business and release it in the public domain. Tattle Life
- 2:14Speaker 1: also claims that its purpose is to protect free speech
- 2:18Speaker 1: and protect the public's mental health. Now, back in 2019,
- 2:22Speaker 1: the owner of the site wrote, it's an important part
- 2:25Speaker 1: of a healthy, free and fair society for members of
- 2:27Speaker 1: the public to have an opinion on those in a
- 2:30Speaker 1: position of power and influence. That is why Tattle exists.
- 2:34Speaker 1: We allow people to express their views on businesses away
- 2:37Speaker 1: from an influencer's feed on a site where they would
- 2:39Speaker 1: have to go out of their way to read.
- 2:41Speaker 2: This is not trolling.
- 2:43Speaker 1: When somebody has to actually point out, this is not trolling,
- 2:46Speaker 1: you always know there is going to be trolling involved.
- 2:48Speaker 1: It's like when people say, no offense, and then say
- 2:51Speaker 1: something highly offensive.
- 2:52Speaker 2: Exactly right.
- 2:53Speaker 1: And despite claiming to have a zero tolerance policy towards abusive, hateful,
- 2:58Speaker 1: and harmful content, Tattle Life has become renowned, as you said, Amy,
- 3:02Speaker 1: for just that. It's been touted as the most toxic
- 3:05Speaker 1: corner of the internet, with many influencers complaining that they've
- 3:08Speaker 1: been bullied, defamed, or doxxed on the website. And what
- 3:12Speaker 1: makes Tuttle particularly dangerous is that.
- 3:14Speaker 2: Users are completely anonymous.
- 3:16Speaker 1: There has been so much talk recently about whether people
- 3:18Speaker 1: should be able to post their anonymous thoughts on the internet.
- 3:21Speaker 1: I mean, my view is if you have to say
- 3:24Speaker 1: something under the veil of anonymity, maybe you shouldn't be
- 3:27Speaker 1: saying it because you should be able to put your
- 3:29Speaker 1: face and name to whatever you're going to say about
- 3:31Speaker 1: someone or something. And we had this discussion recently because
- 3:35Speaker 1: in our group, a lot of people started leaving anonymous
- 3:37Speaker 1: comments and we found that the tone totally changed Because
- 3:41Speaker 1: when people can post something anonymously, it often turns toxic
- 3:45Speaker 1: very quickly. Yeah, and it got to the point where
- 3:47Speaker 1: there were some threads where nearly every single comment was
- 3:50Speaker 1: anonymously posted. So we turned that anonymous posting feature off
- 3:54Speaker 1: and it has been game changing. Yeah, I'm just glad
- 3:57Speaker 1: that Facebook actually gave us the ability to turn that
- 3:59Speaker 1: feature off. Now, there have been countless influencers that have
- 4:03Speaker 1: called for Tattle to be banned and there's been a
- 4:05Speaker 1: lot of unsuccessful attempts until now. So two years ago,
- 4:10Speaker 1: an Irish couple called Neil and Donna Sands took things
- 4:13Speaker 1: into their own hands, funding a legal battle against the website.
- 4:17Speaker 1: So Donna is 34 and she has a fashion business
- 4:20Speaker 1: while Neil is a 42-year-old technology entrepreneur. Now, I wasn't
- 4:24Speaker 1: familiar with them, but I assume that they must be
- 4:26Speaker 1: pretty well-known influencers in Ireland, seeing as they had a
- 4:29Speaker 1: 45-page thread on the website. It turns out, though, they
- 4:33Speaker 1: are micro-influencers. So at the time of recording... Donna has
- 4:37Speaker 1: 30,000 Instagram followers, which is likely to have been bolstered
- 4:40Speaker 1: by the recent news. As for her husband, Neil, he's
- 4:43Speaker 1: only got 5,000 followers. And that's the thing about Tattle.
- 4:47Speaker 1: You actually don't have to be a big fish. Some
- 4:50Speaker 1: of the threads about micro-influencers are just as extensive as
- 4:54Speaker 1: the big influencers. Well, that kind of goes against their
- 4:56Speaker 1: whole motto, isn't it, on their website that, you know,
- 4:59Speaker 1: you have to be earning a huge living to be
- 5:01Speaker 1: able to be talked about on the website.
- 5:03Speaker 3: Exactly.
- 5:03Speaker 2: Exactly.
- 5:04Speaker 1: Now, in February 2021, Donna and Neil Sands asked Huddle
- 5:08Speaker 1: Life to remove a 45-page defamatory thread about them.
- 5:12Speaker 2: Now, the website just.
- 5:13Speaker 1: Ignored their request, and they allowed the comments to remain
- 5:16Speaker 1: live on their website until May 2025. Now, the Sands
- 5:20Speaker 1: launched legal action against Huddle Life in June 2023, and
- 5:24Speaker 1: after a lengthy two-year battle that they self-funded, they were
- 5:27Speaker 1: awarded £ 300, 000 as well as their legal costs. Wow. Because
- 5:32Speaker 1: you would assume, as you said, that it was a
- 5:33Speaker 1: big name influencer that would have had the money to
- 5:36Speaker 1: be able to launch a legal case against Haddle Life,
- 5:39Speaker 1: not some micro influencers. I mean, I got the vibe
- 5:42Speaker 1: from the Instagram account that they're quite wealthy. They had
- 5:45Speaker 1: their wedding in Lake Como. That says a lot. But
- 5:47Speaker 1: at the end of the day, this is more than
- 5:49Speaker 1: about money. This is about standing up for content creators,
- 5:53Speaker 1: and people that put themselves online and saying, hey, this
- 5:56Speaker 1: is not okay. Well, I think a lot of people
- 5:58Speaker 1: on Tattle would be shaking in their boots because during
- 6:01Speaker 1: the proceedings, Justice McAdlin said a day of reckoning will
- 6:05Speaker 1: come for those behind Tattle Life and for those individuals
- 6:08Speaker 1: who posted on Tattle Life. Now, the judge deemed that
- 6:11Speaker 1: the website had been set up to deliberately inflict hurt
- 6:15Speaker 1: and harm on others By allowing the anonymous trashing of
- 6:18Speaker 1: people's reputation, Justin McAdlin called the website's action a calculated
- 6:23Speaker 1: exercise of extreme cynicism. He went on to say, this
- 6:26Speaker 1: is clearly a case of peddling untruths for profit.
- 6:29Speaker 2: I mean, that is the key.
- 6:31Speaker 1: As you said, this guy has been making so much
- 6:34Speaker 1: money having other people trash the reputations of influencers and
- 6:38Speaker 1: content creators and also just micro-influencers who own businesses. Yeah,
- 6:43Speaker 1: this guy is making serious bank at the expense of
- 6:46Speaker 1: a lot of people. Now, during the two-year court case,
- 6:49Speaker 1: the identity of the owner of Tattle Life was suppressed.
- 6:53Speaker 2: In fact, it's been a.
- 6:54Speaker 1: Secret for more than seven years with the owner posting
- 6:57Speaker 1: under the pseudonym Helen McDougall. That all changed though when
- 7:01Speaker 1: Donna and Neil's application to lift the reporting restrictions was
- 7:04Speaker 1: approved and their real name was made public on Saturday.
- 7:09Speaker 1: As we revealed at the start of this segment, the
- 7:10Speaker 1: owner of Tattle Life is Sebastian Bond. If you can
- 7:14Speaker 1: believe it, he is a 43-year-old food influencer who runs
- 7:17Speaker 1: a vegan cooking Instagram called Nest and Grow. I'm assuming
- 7:21Speaker 1: there's no Tattle Life thread on him and his content.
- 7:24Speaker 2: Funny about that, there isn't actually.
- 7:26Speaker 1: Now, he is better known under the alias Bastian Dalwood.
- 7:31Speaker 1: and has attracted 135,000 Instagram followers through his wholesome online persona. Now,
- 7:37Speaker 1: according to the Nest and Glow website, Bond is a
- 7:39Speaker 1: former office worker who quit long days in London to
- 7:42Speaker 1: move to the countryside and share natural recipes and lifestyle tips.
- 7:45Speaker 1: And set up a troll website on the side.
- 7:48Speaker 2: Yeah, I mean, he's making bank off it.
- 7:50Speaker 1: The funniest thing was when I heard this, I was like,
- 7:52Speaker 1: this is the same as when Dan Humphries was unveiled
- 7:55Speaker 1: as Gossip Girl.
- 7:57Speaker 3: I know.
- 7:57Speaker 1: It's just so ironic that it's a male. And also
- 8:01Speaker 1: that he's an influencer. I mean, this is the same
- 8:03Speaker 1: man who wrote on Tattle that influencer marketing was insidious
- 8:07Speaker 1: and that influencers prey on the parasocial relationship that they
- 8:10Speaker 1: have with their audience to, quote, hoodwink their followers into
- 8:13Speaker 1: getting more money. Did you have a look at his page?
- 8:15Speaker 1: Because I, of course, went straight to there when I
- 8:18Speaker 1: saw the news. And it was pretty uninspiring. It was,
- 8:21Speaker 1: he hasn't posted since 2020. They were sort of ordinary
- 8:23Speaker 1: photos of vegan food. Yeah. He'd been posting since 2016,
- 8:27Speaker 1: but as you said, he stopped posting in 2020, which
- 8:30Speaker 1: is kind of odd because that's when everyone kind of
- 8:32Speaker 1: started posting about food. I was wondering if maybe he
- 8:36Speaker 1: bought the followers because again, the content wasn't that crash hot.
- 8:39Speaker 1: It was hard to tell though, because I went into
- 8:41Speaker 1: the comment section and it was literally every influencer and
- 8:45Speaker 1: their dog abusing him.
- 8:47Speaker 2: Which I loved.
- 8:47Speaker 1: Well, I wonder if he stopped creating content in 2020
- 8:51Speaker 1: because that's when Tattle would have exploded in popularity. We
- 8:54Speaker 1: know when everyone was locked down in their houses, that's
- 8:57Speaker 1: when a lot of people would have turned to websites
- 8:59Speaker 1: like Tattle. So perhaps he stopped because he was making
- 9:02Speaker 1: more and more money and he didn't need to be
- 9:04Speaker 1: working as an influencer on the side. Perhaps he was
- 9:07Speaker 1: scared that he might get found out. I mean, it's
- 9:09Speaker 1: pretty hypocritical to slam influencers and then be one yourself.
- 9:13Speaker 1: In terms of him pretending to be a woman... It's
- 9:16Speaker 1: so messed up to think it's this man pretending to
- 9:18Speaker 1: be a woman and encouraging other women to tear women
- 9:22Speaker 1: down while making so much money off her.
- 9:24Speaker 3: I know.
- 9:24Speaker 2: It's bullshit.
- 9:25Speaker 1: I know. And a lot of men would probably look
- 9:27Speaker 1: at Tatl and go, oh, that's just a whole load
- 9:29Speaker 1: of women having a bitch about other women. The irony
- 9:32Speaker 1: that it's a man that's all behind it.
- 9:34Speaker 3: Yeah.
- 9:34Speaker 1: I mean, as we touched on, it's reported that the
- 9:36Speaker 1: avid revenue he was earning was around a million dollars
- 9:39Speaker 1: a year. And that was in 2021. So I'm guessing
- 9:41Speaker 1: it's gone up by then. And that fact alone completely
- 9:44Speaker 1: contradicts Tattle Life's claim that it operates solely for the
- 9:47Speaker 1: sake of public discourse. What I find really fascinating is
- 9:51Speaker 1: more details are coming out about this investigation that has
- 9:54Speaker 1: unmasked Sebastian Bond. So the couple's legal team have said
- 9:58Speaker 1: that this was a global investigation. and it turns out
- 10:02Speaker 1: that Bond used his two businesses to try and conceal
- 10:05Speaker 1: his identity. So one is a UK registered company called
- 10:08Speaker 1: Yuzu Zest, while the other is registered in Hong Kong
- 10:11Speaker 1: and it's called Kumquat Tree Limited. Interestingly, Tattle Life claims
- 10:16Speaker 1: to be operated by a company called Lime Goss, which
- 10:20Speaker 1: does really fit with the whole citrus theme he's got
- 10:21Speaker 1: going on. We should have known he was a vegan blogger.
- 10:24Speaker 1: There were so many clues. I know. And the Sands
- 10:29Speaker 1: legal team have done an excellent job because they had
- 10:31Speaker 1: to use a mix of legal innovation and digital evidence
- 10:34Speaker 1: to track down Bond and his assets, including money transferred
- 10:38Speaker 1: around the world. According to the legal team, it was
- 10:41Speaker 1: a very sophisticated effort to avoid scrutiny. And it appears
- 10:46Speaker 1: the writing was on the wall for Sebastian six months ago.
- 10:49Speaker 1: So back in January, Tattle Life shocked its users by
- 10:52Speaker 1: announcing it was closing due to threats. The website went
- 10:56Speaker 1: down for several hours and returned to operating under a new.
- 10:59Speaker 2: Name, Ate Cafe. An interesting name.
- 11:02Speaker 1: A lot of people said it sounded like the hate cafe,
- 11:04Speaker 1: which would have been bang on. They could have called
- 11:06Speaker 1: it like sour pusses or something, stuck with the citrus theme. Yeah. Now,
- 11:11Speaker 1: the owner then posted a farewell message writing, Unfortunately, recent
- 11:14Speaker 1: threats directed at members of one of our families have
- 11:17Speaker 1: left us with no choice but to shut down the site.
- 11:20Speaker 1: It's simply unfair for them to be impacted by something
- 11:23Speaker 1: they have zero involvement in. Now, it's pretty ironic that
- 11:25Speaker 1: Sebastian Bond tried to take this moral high ground. When
- 11:29Speaker 1: his family was dragged into it, it was terrible. How
- 11:32Speaker 1: about when every other influencer's family who has nothing to
- 11:35Speaker 1: do with the online world has been dragged into it?
- 11:37Speaker 2: Exactly.
- 11:38Speaker 1: Very hypocritical. Now, unfortunately, that shutdown was short-lived because just
- 11:42Speaker 1: 24 hours later, Sebastian Bond changed his mind. Under his pseudonym,
- 11:46Speaker 1: Helen McDougall, he wrote, After further discussions, yet late into
- 11:50Speaker 1: the night for some and all afternoon for others, we
- 11:53Speaker 1: have decided to deal with the threats with legal action.
- 11:56Speaker 1: As you will appreciate, we won't be discussing the situation
- 11:59Speaker 1: as it concerns family members with no connection to Tattle.
- 12:03Speaker 1: All matters are with our legal team. He finished up
- 12:06Speaker 1: by writing, once again, we apologize for the stress of
- 12:08Speaker 1: the last couple of days and hope to see you
- 12:10Speaker 1: all back on your favorite threads. Please post on topic
- 12:14Speaker 1: on the threads and ignore this whole situation while it's
- 12:16Speaker 1: dealt with as not to jeopardize it. Well, when all
- 12:18Speaker 1: this news came out, I went straight to Tattle to
- 12:20Speaker 1: see if there was a discussion on Sebastian Bond. Nothing.
- 12:25Speaker 1: There was no one discussing it. Oh, so that 24-7
- 12:28Speaker 1: moderator that they claimed to have is working for him.
- 12:31Speaker 2: Yeah, exactly.
- 12:32Speaker 1: Well, in impeccable timing, on Friday night, Indy Clinton announced
- 12:36Speaker 1: on her Instagram that she knew the identities of the
- 12:39Speaker 1: anonymous trolls who had been bullying her for years. So
- 12:43Speaker 1: a few weeks ago, Indy revealed she'd hired a private
- 12:46Speaker 1: investigator to find out who was behind the constant harassment.
- 12:50Speaker 1: And so on Friday night, she appeared on camera in
- 12:53Speaker 1: a hoodie and black sunglasses with a glass of wine
- 12:56Speaker 1: and she was ready to spill the tea and it
- 12:59Speaker 1: didn't disappoint. Yeah, it turns out that her private investigator
- 13:03Speaker 1: had put together a 64-page report which unmasked the trolls. Now,
- 13:08Speaker 1: Indy was unable to name and shame the trolls due
- 13:11Speaker 1: to it being an ongoing case, but she did let
- 13:13Speaker 1: a few interesting tidbits slip. So she dropped that a
- 13:17Speaker 1: lot of her trolls are from Melbourne with many of
- 13:20Speaker 1: them mothers. Did this surprise you, Amy? It didn't surprise
- 13:23Speaker 1: me at all. I think anytime you see a troll
- 13:26Speaker 1: on TikTok or Instagram, often when you click on their profile,
- 13:29Speaker 1: you'll see it's either a motivational quote about loving everybody
- 13:32Speaker 1: and being kind. And then it says like mama of three.
- 13:35Speaker 1: So it wasn't surprising. And also because Indie is a
- 13:39Speaker 1: mummy vlogger, she would attract a lot of other mums. But,
- 13:43Speaker 1: I mean, it obviously shocks you a bit to find
- 13:45Speaker 1: out that somebody who is looking after children, there's often
- 13:48Speaker 1: a perception around what a mother is like. They're very
- 13:51Speaker 1: caring and kind. To find out that it's actually mothers
- 13:54Speaker 1: who have been trolling Indy for years, it is quite.
- 13:57Speaker 2: Sad, really.
- 13:57Speaker 1: It's sad and it does make me reflect and think, well...
- 14:02Speaker 1: is this a sign of women just having way too
- 14:04Speaker 1: much pressure on themselves? I'm not trying to make excuses
- 14:07Speaker 1: for these trolls because their behaviour is absolutely awful, but
- 14:09Speaker 1: the fact that it is this particular demographic of women
- 14:12Speaker 1: who are probably trying to look after kids, trying to
- 14:16Speaker 1: have a job, and their outlet is trolling people online,
- 14:20Speaker 1: it's just very interesting from a psychological perspective. Well, as
- 14:23Speaker 1: Indy pointed out, she's like, this is why the cycle
- 14:25Speaker 1: continues because you've got these mums who are sitting online
- 14:28Speaker 1: trolling other women and They're teaching their kids then to
- 14:31Speaker 1: be bullies in school. And that's one of the reasons
- 14:34Speaker 1: why Indy has gone to the lengths of hiring a
- 14:36Speaker 1: private investigator because she really wants this cycle to stop.
- 14:40Speaker 2: And she made it very clear.
- 14:41Speaker 1: That she's quite familiar with who her biggest trolls are,
- 14:44Speaker 1: so much so that she said she knows what hospital
- 14:48Speaker 1: one gave birth in alongside their ABN and gynecologist name.
- 14:52Speaker 1: And as for another, she said that she could relate
- 14:54Speaker 1: to them about regretting the tattoo they got when they
- 14:57Speaker 1: were 18. and that she knew they went through burnout
- 15:01Speaker 1: in 2024. She also revealed that she's been engaging with
- 15:04Speaker 1: some of her trolls platforms just to let them know
- 15:06Speaker 1: that she knows who they are. And it was also
- 15:09Speaker 1: to give them an opportunity to apologize. Yeah, because she
- 15:13Speaker 1: followed some of them and then liked others' posts on
- 15:16Speaker 1: Instagram and TikTok. Can you imagine your heart dropping? You
- 15:19Speaker 1: would be like, how the hell does she know who
- 15:22Speaker 1: I am? I went to Indy's following list because I thought, oh,
- 15:25Speaker 1: I wonder if it will pop up who she's recently followed.
- 15:28Speaker 1: Maybe it gives an insight into who the trolls are.
- 15:30Speaker 1: But I actually couldn't find anyone. I mean, I love
- 15:34Speaker 1: this tact because we did something similar. Not that we
- 15:36Speaker 1: get trolled at all on the level that Indy Clinton does,
- 15:38Speaker 1: but we unfortunately do have a thread in Tattle Life
- 15:41Speaker 1: dedicated to this podcast, strangely. And there is someone that
- 15:45Speaker 1: posts a lot in there. They seem to have a
- 15:48Speaker 1: real interest in us. And We worked out who they were.
- 15:51Speaker 1: So we just blocked them in all of our accounts.
- 15:53Speaker 1: And I think they were a little bit confused. And
- 15:55Speaker 1: the funniest thing was they had been messaging us all
- 15:57Speaker 1: of these complimentary things and saying how well we'd been
- 16:00Speaker 1: doing on the podcast. So it's just bizarre behavior. Yeah.
- 16:03Speaker 1: And that's the strange thing. Often people who troll influencers
- 16:06Speaker 1: at some point used to be really big fans of them.
- 16:09Speaker 1: They know a lot about them and something happens and
- 16:11Speaker 1: they completely switch. Now, as for Indie's biggest troll, this
- 16:15Speaker 1: is how she addressed them.
- 16:18Speaker 3: After Melbourne, I mean, Victoria, who was there? Oh, that's right, WA. Hello, WA.
- 16:23Speaker 3: My number one antagonist is from WA. How are you doing?
- 16:27Speaker 3: I probably haven't reached out to you this week because
- 16:29Speaker 3: I'm taking you to court. I'm just being honest.
- 16:33Speaker 1: Now, since the revelation, influencer watchdog account Dutch Minty has
- 16:38Speaker 1: shut down. Now, Dutch Minty was very vocal in calling
- 16:43Speaker 1: Indy out about sharing her children online. It's got a
- 16:46Speaker 1: lot of people thinking... that Dutch Minty or whoever is
- 16:49Speaker 1: behind that account is this super fan that Indy is suing. Well,
- 16:53Speaker 1: you would be in damage control, wouldn't you? I mean,
- 16:55Speaker 1: this is a troll's biggest fear, being unmasked. And as
- 16:58Speaker 1: we said, it's often people that you would never expect.
- 17:01Speaker 1: I mean, some of these women who are about to
- 17:03Speaker 1: receive legal threats, they could hold really important jobs. They
- 17:07Speaker 1: could be teachers. They could lose their job at that.
- 17:09Speaker 1: They could be in healthcare. You just don't know who
- 17:11Speaker 1: these people are.
- 17:12Speaker 3: Yeah.
- 17:12Speaker 1: Now, Indy presented this in a really jokey manner, and
- 17:15Speaker 1: that was to gain traction. But it's clear this is
- 17:18Speaker 1: not a joke to her at all. She spoke in
- 17:20Speaker 1: length about wanting to use her platform for good and
- 17:23Speaker 1: to stop cyberbullying. She's also put a lot of her
- 17:25Speaker 1: own money into this. And on Sunday, she revealed just
- 17:28Speaker 1: how much cyberbullying had affected her.
- 17:31Speaker 2: This is what she said.
- 17:33Speaker 3: This has gone further than just naming and shaming. This
- 17:35Speaker 3: is an epidemic that needs to stop because lives are
- 17:42Speaker 3: being taken and And for me, right, let me just
- 17:46Speaker 3: put this very clear. For me, a few months ago,
- 17:48Speaker 3: what I have endured, it was life or death.
- 17:52Speaker 1: This made me so sad because we had Indy Clinton
- 17:54Speaker 1: on our show back in December and she was an
- 17:56Speaker 1: absolute ray of sunshine. She was so generous with her time,
- 18:01Speaker 1: so down to earth, so easy to talk to. And
- 18:04Speaker 1: I mean, we've spoken about Indy Clinton. I feel like
- 18:07Speaker 1: we try and be very unbiased. So if we have
- 18:09Speaker 1: someone on the show, we're still going to talk about
- 18:10Speaker 1: them if they do something controversial, in quote, notification marks.
- 18:14Speaker 1: So we've been, you know, pretty open with our reporting
- 18:17Speaker 1: on her and she was so gracious to come on
- 18:19Speaker 1: our show.
- 18:19Speaker 2: We had a laugh. She was absolute beautiful person.
- 18:21Speaker 1: Well, she spoke a lot about the trolling as well
- 18:23Speaker 1: that she'd endured. If anyone wants to go back and
- 18:25Speaker 1: listen to it, it's one of our Christmas episodes and
- 18:28Speaker 1: it obviously does take a toll on people. I think
- 18:30Speaker 1: often people forget that influencers are real people and they
- 18:33Speaker 1: see their lives online. And they don't think that these
- 18:36Speaker 1: kind of comments get to them, but they obviously do. Well,
- 18:39Speaker 1: I think the worst thing about tattle life is you
- 18:41Speaker 1: often see people direct in the comment at the influencer.
- 18:45Speaker 1: So in a lot of threads, they go, oh, so-and-so,
- 18:49Speaker 1: like for instance, Indie, we know you read this.
- 18:51Speaker 2: You should do this.
- 18:53Speaker 1: It's like these people get a kick out of knowing
- 18:55Speaker 1: that the influencers are looking at it and they're even harsher.
- 18:58Speaker 1: Whereas originally, Sebastian Bond claimed that this was a place
- 19:02Speaker 1: where people could talk freely about influencers without them seeing it.
- 19:06Speaker 1: It's like, well, it's just human nature to want to
- 19:08Speaker 1: see what people are saying about you. And it's really
- 19:11Speaker 1: hard to not look at threads like that. Yeah, and
- 19:12Speaker 1: I would put it to listeners out there. If there
- 19:15Speaker 1: was a page where people were talking about you, would
- 19:18Speaker 1: you not be intrigued to read it? And I think
- 19:20Speaker 1: everyone would go and click on it. Now, Australian influencers
- 19:24Speaker 1: are excited about this revelation. There's been a lot of
- 19:27Speaker 1: talk online about it. Em Davies shared her thoughts to Instagram, writing,
- 19:31Speaker 1: the idea that we might soon have the means to
- 19:33Speaker 1: identify those who are projecting their own insecurities as online
- 19:37Speaker 1: hate is a huge and long overdue shift in this industry.
- 19:41Speaker 1: It's fucking refreshing and hopeful to witness slash see online
- 19:44Speaker 1: right now. What's even more disturbing is that so many
- 19:48Speaker 1: of these people are parents. laugh out loud, role models supposedly. Hey,
- 19:52Speaker 1: it's vile. I honestly can't comprehend how they find the
- 19:56Speaker 1: time or the desire to spread that kind of toxicity
- 19:59Speaker 1: while raising children. Karma has a way of circling back always.
- 20:03Speaker 1: Grateful for people like Indy Clinton, Neil Sands and Donna
- 20:06Speaker 1: Sands doing the work to figure it out. We shouldn't
- 20:08Speaker 1: be numb to receiving this bullshit day in and day out.
- 20:12Speaker 1: Just because we choose to share more of our lives
- 20:14Speaker 1: online doesn't mean we deserve to be relentlessly criticized and bullies.
- 20:18Speaker 1: Openness is not an invitation for abuse. Think about it. Anyway,
- 20:22Speaker 1: their time will come. I really enjoyed hearing M. Davies'
- 20:25Speaker 1: thoughts on this because there has been this blanket rule
- 20:28Speaker 1: that if you put yourself out there online, then you
- 20:31Speaker 1: have to be okay with people discussing you. And obviously
- 20:34Speaker 1: we have this podcast where we talk about influencer culture
- 20:37Speaker 1: and things that influencers do, but we really try to
- 20:40Speaker 1: talk about the action rather than the person. And we
- 20:44Speaker 1: put our face and name to it. So we're okay
- 20:46Speaker 1: with the things that we say, and we can have
- 20:49Speaker 1: open discourse if someone like an influencer isn't happy with it.
- 20:52Speaker 1: But when you're posting anonymously, there's no discourse there. You
- 20:55Speaker 1: don't know who it's coming from. You can't hold that
- 20:58Speaker 1: person to account. And you say the most disgusting things
- 21:01Speaker 1: that you would never, ever say to a person. And
- 21:04Speaker 1: I don't think that that is a fair trade-off for
- 21:06Speaker 1: being an influencer, particularly when you consider how saturated the
- 21:11Speaker 1: influencer market is at the moment. There are so many
- 21:14Speaker 1: more influencers than they were. So nowadays an influencer, some
- 21:18Speaker 1: influencers earn, you know, not even minimum wage.
- 21:21Speaker 2: Some influencers are just doing it for fun.
- 21:24Speaker 1: And they are copying so much ridicule that they don't
- 21:27Speaker 1: want to put themselves out there anymore. For example, I
- 21:29Speaker 1: know there's a TikToker who has a million followers in
- 21:32Speaker 1: Australia and you might look at her and go, oh
- 21:34Speaker 1: my God, a million followers. She must be making a packet.
- 21:37Speaker 1: But she's not because Australia doesn't have the TikTok creator fund.
- 21:40Speaker 2: So I agree.
- 21:41Speaker 1: It seems very unfair when you're not even making, like
- 21:45Speaker 1: a lot of these people are not making truckloads of
- 21:48Speaker 1: money that you think that they might be making because
- 21:50Speaker 1: you think, well, maybe that outweighs The good outweighs the bad.
- 21:53Speaker 1: This person is making a living off it. But it's
- 21:56Speaker 1: often that they're earning minimum wage and then being absolutely
- 21:59Speaker 1: torn to shreds. Yeah, because a lot of the threads
- 22:02Speaker 1: about micro-influencers are just as vicious as we were saying earlier.
- 22:06Speaker 1: And I mean, even if an influencer was earning mega bucks,
- 22:09Speaker 1: it doesn't give people the right to absolutely defame docs
- 22:12Speaker 1: and harass them and bully them until their mental health
- 22:15Speaker 1: suffers from it. But I suppose the only thing we
- 22:17Speaker 1: have to compare it to is how people treat celebrities.
- 22:20Speaker 1: And people often say, oh, we can talk about them
- 22:22Speaker 1: and say whatever we want because they're living this lifestyle.
- 22:25Speaker 2: That you could only dream of.
- 22:26Speaker 1: But influencers are, not all influencers are living the life.
- 22:30Speaker 1: We've had a discussion about Tattle a lot on this
- 22:32Speaker 1: podcast and over the past couple of years, and there's
- 22:34Speaker 1: also been lots of chat in our group. And I
- 22:36Speaker 1: do want to put it out there. There are some
- 22:38Speaker 1: people who do use Tattle in the correct way where
- 22:41Speaker 1: they will actually hold an influencer to account. I mean,
- 22:44Speaker 1: there have been cases, for example, Ruby Frankie, where a
- 22:47Speaker 1: lot of followers of her were concerned about her actions
- 22:50Speaker 1: and it turned out to be that she was doing
- 22:51Speaker 1: the wrong thing. She's been jailed.
- 22:53Speaker 2: So there are.
- 22:54Speaker 1: Instances where Tattle Life has done good. Unfortunately, there are
- 22:57Speaker 1: just more people who are using the website as a
- 23:00Speaker 1: platform for hate speech as opposed to those people who
- 23:03Speaker 1: are actually using it correctly as a call-out platform. Well,
- 23:07Speaker 1: I mean, and that might have been its initial intention,
- 23:10Speaker 1: but it's just become a cesspool of hate and an
- 23:12Speaker 1: echo chamber for everyone who doesn't like someone to get
- 23:15Speaker 1: together and literally try and destroy their life. Now, Leah
- 23:20Speaker 1: Adsenas has been vocal about her distaste towards Tattle Life before.
- 23:25Speaker 1: When Tattle Life looked like it was shutting down back
- 23:27Speaker 1: in January... She posted in our Facebook community saying that
- 23:31Speaker 1: the site gave her postnatal depression and she actually sadly
- 23:34Speaker 1: got to the point where she thought her daughter was
- 23:36Speaker 1: better off without her. Now, once the news broke, she
- 23:39Speaker 1: wrote on her Instagram story, anonymous bullies deserve to be
- 23:42Speaker 1: unmasked because of how fucking embarrassing it is to be one.
- 23:45Speaker 1: Imagine your family and friends finding out you bully people online.
- 23:48Speaker 2: Wild.
- 23:49Speaker 1: I'm so glad this is happening. The damage this site
- 23:51Speaker 1: and others did to me when I was my most
- 23:53Speaker 1: vulnerable nearly broke me.
- 23:54Speaker 2: What a fucking loser.
- 23:56Speaker 1: Lily Brown has also spoken up about Tidal Life, despite
- 23:59Speaker 1: actually saying she didn't know about the website, which I
- 24:01Speaker 1: found surprising. She wrote, surely all us creators all band
- 24:05Speaker 1: together and take down the rest of the faceless accounts,
- 24:07Speaker 1: destroying people's mental health. It's about fucking time. And she
- 24:11Speaker 1: went on to say that over the last 12 months,
- 24:14Speaker 1: she's felt herself really pull back from sharing about her
- 24:16Speaker 1: life because of these faceless super fans who she says
- 24:20Speaker 1: say the most horrific things about her. And she said
- 24:23Speaker 1: that she would like to go back to posting more regularly.
- 24:26Speaker 1: and not feeling like everything she says or does will
- 24:29Speaker 1: get picked apart by these people. I can see why
- 24:31Speaker 1: she feels that way, because as you mentioned, there was
- 24:33Speaker 1: a Tattle thread about us, and I think it was
- 24:35Speaker 1: really getting into Sophie's head. I don't go and read
- 24:38Speaker 1: that shit, but I know she was somebody that would
- 24:40Speaker 1: go and have a look and it would make her
- 24:42Speaker 1: feel shit. And it does make you second guess yourself
- 24:45Speaker 1: when you are putting out content, because you think, oh God,
- 24:47Speaker 1: am I sharing too much? Is this going to be ridiculed?
- 24:49Speaker 1: Is this just fodder for the trolls? So maybe we
- 24:53Speaker 1: are going to see if Tattle does get shut down.
- 24:56Speaker 1: a lot better content. I mean, I've heard Saffron Barker
- 24:58Speaker 1: talk about it recently. She talks about those golden years
- 25:01Speaker 1: of YouTube when everyone was so supportive. And I think
- 25:04Speaker 1: a lot of influencers don't share the way they used
- 25:07Speaker 1: to share because of this fear.
- 25:10Speaker 3: Yeah.
- 25:10Speaker 1: I think in order for that to happen though, social
- 25:13Speaker 1: media platforms need to get on board because as Indy
- 25:16Speaker 1: Clinton said, they're doing fucking nothing to help this situation.
- 25:20Speaker 1: Like I mean, it's so easy for people to make
- 25:22Speaker 1: up faceless accounts and troll people. There needs to be
- 25:24Speaker 1: some sort of verification processes involved so that you can't.
- 25:27Speaker 2: Create faceless accounts.
- 25:30Speaker 1: I mean, this case against Tattle Life really is a
- 25:32Speaker 1: landmark case. Legal experts believe that this case will set
- 25:36Speaker 1: a precedent for future action against digital defamation. And it's
- 25:40Speaker 1: only a matter of time before more victims come forward
- 25:43Speaker 1: and possibly even create a class action against Tattle Life.
- 25:46Speaker 1: And that would likely push for regulatory reforms in online
- 25:50Speaker 1: speech and anonymous platforms. And it really is set to
- 25:54Speaker 1: open the floodgates to lawsuits, I think. Well, the Sands
- 25:57Speaker 1: couple who sued Tattle Life, they recently shared an Instagram
- 26:00Speaker 1: post encouraging creators and influencers to go and save their
- 26:04Speaker 1: Tattle threads before they get deleted because they are saying, well, one,
- 26:08Speaker 1: this site is probably going to go down because, as
- 26:10Speaker 1: you said, this is set precedence. So go and save
- 26:14Speaker 1: the evidence before it gets deleted.
- 26:16Speaker 3: Right.
- 26:16Speaker 1: I actually went on there to start screenshotting ours. Kate's
- 26:20Speaker 1: ready to join the class action.
- 26:22Speaker 3: Yeah, I am.
- 26:23Speaker 1: But I froze because I, again, I haven't looked at
- 26:26Speaker 1: our thread since, I think it was March 2024. And
- 26:29Speaker 1: last time I did, I was heavily pregnant. And the
- 26:32Speaker 1: absolute lies and bullshit these people were saying about me,
- 26:36Speaker 1: I relate to everything that Leah Acenas has said, M Davies.
- 26:40Speaker 1: And I'm not putting myself on the same platform as
- 26:41Speaker 1: them because I'm fucking shocked that we even have a
- 26:44Speaker 1: Tattle thread.
- 26:44Speaker 2: We're bloody nobodies. But it hurts.
- 26:47Speaker 1: And I literally actually couldn't even screenshot it because I'm like,
- 26:50Speaker 1: I don't want to read what these people are saying.
- 26:52Speaker 1: It's horrible.
- 26:53Speaker 2: But you know what?
- 26:54Speaker 1: I will get someone to do it for us just
- 26:56Speaker 1: in case.
- 26:57Speaker 2: But yeah, I'd happily join that class actually.
- 26:59Speaker 1: Can you imagine how many people, like this is going
- 27:01Speaker 1: to run into the multi-millions. Like it is incredible how
- 27:05Speaker 1: many people have been defamed. I mean, you could go
- 27:08Speaker 1: and spend one minute on Tattle and see the 10
- 27:11Speaker 1: influencers be completely and utterly defamed.
- 27:14Speaker 3: Yeah.
- 27:14Speaker 1: Well, now that Sebastian Bond has been unmasked, surely it's
- 27:17Speaker 1: only a matter of time before the trolls actually on
- 27:20Speaker 1: the website do, because I'm assuming that as a part
- 27:24Speaker 1: of this legal action, Tattletail Life will have to hand
- 27:27Speaker 1: over their database. I know a lot of people... sign
- 27:30Speaker 1: up using a fake alias. But surely with IP addresses,
- 27:34Speaker 1: the identities of these people are going to come out. Now,
- 27:37Speaker 1: a further review of this case is scheduled for the
- 27:40Speaker 1: 26th of June, 2025, where ongoing enforcement of the damages
- 27:44Speaker 1: and injunctions will be evaluated. As for Sebastian Bond's future,
- 27:49Speaker 1: he is facing substantial legal and reputational consequences, as well
- 27:53Speaker 1: as extensive financial orders against him and international enforcement underway.
- 27:58Speaker 1: I'm very excited to see what happens here. Well, that
- 28:01Speaker 1: is where we're going to leave things for today. What
- 28:03Speaker 1: an episode to return to.
- 28:05Speaker 2: It was a massive episode.
- 28:06Speaker 1: Sophie will be absolutely crushed that she wasn't a part
- 28:09Speaker 1: of this one because I think she hates huddle life
- 28:10Speaker 1: the most out of all of us. It's a love-hate relationship,
- 28:13Speaker 1: isn't it?
- 28:14Speaker 3: Yeah.
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