Latest / Reclaiming Consciousness / Healing Ancestral Trauma with Colleen Suchecki

Transcript

Healing Ancestral Trauma with Colleen Suchecki · Reclaiming Consciousness

• 0:02
  SPEAKER_00: Welcome to Reclaiming Consciousness.
• 0:05
  SPEAKER_00: My name is Elise Bassine, spiritual mentor, breathwork practitioner, and owner and CEO of Elise Breeds.
• 0:12
  SPEAKER_00: For many years, our consciousness has been hijacked by societal and cultural programming, religion, the media, and familial and ancestral trauma.
• 0:21
  SPEAKER_00: Right now, during this epic time in history, people are waking up, realizing who they really are, and reclaiming the pieces of their consciousness that they unknowingly gave away.
• 0:33
  SPEAKER_00: This podcast is an exploration of how so many spectacular humans are leading the way in exiting the matrix and reclaiming who they really are and what they're capable of.
• 0:44
  SPEAKER_00: In this show, you'll meet exceptional people who are paving the way in raising consciousness and creating a new way of living on this earth.
• 0:52
  SPEAKER_00: Get ready to go deep.
• 0:54
  SPEAKER_00: Now let's dive in.
• 1:00
  SPEAKER_00: Hey guys, welcome back to Reclaiming Consciousness.
• 1:03
  SPEAKER_00: I am so excited to share this episode with you today.
• 1:07
  SPEAKER_00: So this is a conversation I had with one of my clients, Colleen Susheki.
• 1:12
  SPEAKER_00: It was probably about a month or two ago that we had this conversation, but it was all about her journey.
• 1:19
  SPEAKER_00: And what's so profound about Colleen's journey with me and just, you know, in her life in this last year is she has really healed some major ancestral trauma.
• 1:32
  SPEAKER_00: And in real time, we watched her end this ancestral trauma so that she did not pass it on to her kids.
• 1:41
  SPEAKER_00: And it was so profound the way that she dismantled these patterns and stopped them from going down through her kids' generation.
• 1:52
  SPEAKER_00: It was so palpable that I really wanted to share this episode so that you could have a real understanding of what healing ancestral trauma really is.
• 2:03
  SPEAKER_00: Because I know we kind of know what it is and we're hearing about it a lot.
• 2:07
  SPEAKER_00: And, you know, that's what I talk about in my program, The Metamorphosis is we're healing familial and ancestral trauma.
• 2:14
  SPEAKER_00: But Colleen's story really illustrates, you know, exactly what that means.
• 2:19
  SPEAKER_00: And then she also just shares how she really shifted her life in the work that we did together, in the metamorphosis and our one-on-one work.
• 2:28
  SPEAKER_00: And she's just such a perfect example of the miracles that can happen for people when um you really start to show up for yourself, get support, and do the work.
• 2:38
  SPEAKER_00: So I'm really excited to share this episode with you.
• 2:41
  SPEAKER_00: And I'd love to hear what you think.
• 2:43
  SPEAKER_00: Don't forget to rate and review the show.
• 2:45
  SPEAKER_00: And I will send you my miracle frequency activation.
• 2:49
  SPEAKER_00: Also, running until December 24th, I have a sale on the Metamorphosis, which is my groundbreaking program to help you rapidly move through trauma and create the life that you are meant to live.
• 3:02
  SPEAKER_00: Right now, I'm offering$1,000 off of the program.
• 3:05
  SPEAKER_00: Plus, you get two one-on-one sessions with me.
• 3:08
  SPEAKER_00: I'm also offering an extended payment plan.
• 3:10
  SPEAKER_00: And you also get my birth story breakthrough digital course as a bonus.
• 3:16
  SPEAKER_00: So if you are inspired by Colleen's story and you know that it's your time to really move through some of that deeper core wounding that you know has been keeping you stuck, reach out to me and we will chat about metamorphosis.
• 3:31
  SPEAKER_00: So here is the show, and I know you're gonna love it.
• 3:38
  SPEAKER_00: Welcome everyone.
• 3:39
  SPEAKER_00: I'm so excited for this.
• 3:41
  SPEAKER_00: So I am here with Kaleen, and we're just gonna be talking about her journey today.
• 3:47
  SPEAKER_00: And I'm super excited to share this with you because she's just so powerful and made so many changes so quickly.
• 3:55
  SPEAKER_00: Like, I'm gonna get like emotional.
• 3:59
  SPEAKER_00: Um, so yeah, I just really wanted to share this with everyone just to activate you and just to be a model of what's really possible.
• 4:07
  SPEAKER_00: So um, Colleen, do you want to introduce yourself and tell everyone a little bit about who you are and what you do?
• 4:14
  SPEAKER_01: Yes, thank you so much.
• 4:16
  SPEAKER_01: I am so honored to be here.
• 4:18
  SPEAKER_01: And I've watched all these other lives of you, of the testimonials and you sharing other people's journeys, and I'm like so excited that I get to share my journey because it's been just crazy powerful.
• 4:31
  SPEAKER_01: So I'm Colleen Suchecki.
• 4:33
  SPEAKER_01: My business is believegrow shine.com, and I'm an intuitive healer and speaker.
• 4:39
  SPEAKER_01: And uh my specialty is helping women work through trauma that is triggered by the relationship between the parent and the child.
• 4:48
  SPEAKER_01: So the mother and the child, whether it's a daughter or a son, my specialty is really helping you be able to move through your own trauma through this relationship or whatever comes up from the relationship or whatever your child's going through, so that you can deepen your relationship with your child, no matter how old they are, and have a really authentic, loving, compassionate relationship.
• 5:10
  SPEAKER_00: So powerful.
• 5:11
  SPEAKER_00: I mean, I always say this, but I feel like it's so hard as parents, but like our kids really reflect back to us everything that we need to know.
• 5:20
  SPEAKER_00: It's kind of so freakishly right that like sometimes you don't want to look at it because you're just like, oh shit, I'd rather just like blame my kid than like look at this thing that my kid is reflecting back to me, you know?
• 5:35
  SPEAKER_00: Like, but it's all the information is right there.
• 5:38
  SPEAKER_00: So that's like such powerful work.
• 5:41
  SPEAKER_00: And it's so awesome.
• 5:42
  SPEAKER_00: I just have to say before we get into anything, and I I've told you this, you as a mom in general are just so like inspiring to me that I've always been like, I hope when my kids are her kids' age, that we have that kind of a relationship, just because like that middle school age or like that 13, 14, that age is such a hard age.
• 6:03
  SPEAKER_00: And I struggled so much at that time.
• 6:05
  SPEAKER_00: And I never wanted to tell my mom anything at that time.
• 6:09
  SPEAKER_00: So, like, just the fact, like seeing how your kids talk to you and everything, it was just like, oh my God, I pray that my kids have that same kind of a relationship because it's just so beautiful.
• 6:21
  SPEAKER_00: So, um, anyway, maybe we can start.
• 6:24
  SPEAKER_00: Do you want to talk a little bit about like where you were at when we first started working together and kind of like what prompted you to start working with me and where you were at in the beginning, and if you had any like trepidation about taking that leap?
• 6:40
  SPEAKER_00: Yeah, just talking a little bit about that.
• 6:42
  SPEAKER_01: Yes.
• 6:42
  SPEAKER_01: First of all, thank you so much for what you shared.
• 6:45
  SPEAKER_01: Um, my kids are 14 and 11, and I didn't always have the relationship I have with them now.
• 6:51
  SPEAKER_01: So when I think it was June, it was like mid to late June when I signed up to work with you.
• 6:57
  SPEAKER_01: But before that, so this past year has been probably the most difficult year I've ever experienced personally in my own life.
• 7:06
  SPEAKER_01: I started getting just really intense, powerful panic attacks the end of last August.
• 7:14
  SPEAKER_01: And I had not been a stranger to panic attacks, I've gotten them before, but this was a whole new level.
• 7:19
  SPEAKER_01: Like I was having panic attacks where I was like, I couldn't leave the house.
• 7:22
  SPEAKER_01: I was physically feeling so much trauma that my body was trying to process that there were days I couldn't get out of bed, I couldn't take my kids to school.
• 7:31
  SPEAKER_01: So I had gone through really in a very, very intense 10 months of going in the underworld.
• 7:38
  SPEAKER_01: I'm just saying, like, you I'm like deep in the underworld, going to the depths I've never gone to before, of experiencing my own emotions that had been repressed from childhood trauma, and really kind of looking at all the things in my life.
• 7:54
  SPEAKER_01: So I took a step back from my business.
• 7:56
  SPEAKER_01: So I completely stopped working with anyone because I literally, my it was like the universe was like, you have no choice, really.
• 8:04
  SPEAKER_01: Really, you have no choice.
• 8:05
  SPEAKER_01: I mean, I did, but I didn't.
• 8:07
  SPEAKER_01: It was that like abrupt.
• 8:09
  SPEAKER_01: So I took 10 months and I really did a very deep dive within letting trauma move through me, allowing emotions to come through me and all of this.
• 8:18
  SPEAKER_01: And so I'm kind of coming out in June, and I'm starting to like build some strength and like resilience.
• 8:26
  SPEAKER_01: And I had been watching your stuff for a good few months, maybe even since the beginning of the year.
• 8:34
  SPEAKER_01: So maybe it was like six months I had been maybe in your group watching your stuff, and I was like, oh my gosh, because again, I would see these kind of videos and and like, oh my God, the changes are happening so fast and all of this stuff.
• 8:45
  SPEAKER_01: And I would be like, wow, that's great for them, but it probably wouldn't happen for me, you know.
• 8:50
  SPEAKER_01: So I had like kind of that story going in my mind.
• 8:54
  SPEAKER_01: And I had also signed up to work with someone in the beginning of the year that was in my own responsibility.
• 9:01
  SPEAKER_01: I was thinking I was getting something different than what I was actually getting.
• 9:05
  SPEAKER_01: So I didn't do enough of my own due diligence.
• 9:09
  SPEAKER_01: Um, this person was not trauma informed, and I thought they were.
• 9:12
  SPEAKER_01: So, long story short, I ended up investing a lot of money into something I thought I was getting, and it was not at all what I thought I was getting.
• 9:20
  SPEAKER_01: So I also had that of like, oh my gosh, you know, I had this experience, and what if this happens again?
• 9:28
  SPEAKER_01: And also, so I had like all these stories going on in my mind, and we had I reached out to you a few times about doing a few different things, but I never really jumped on it because I just let my fears get in the way.
• 9:39
  SPEAKER_01: And then finally, it was like, no, I this is the time I'm doing this, and um, we signed up, I think it was that near the end of June, and so I was in the metamorphosis, I had the metamorphosis course, um, and then some one-on-one sessions with you, and I just I'm blown away.
• 10:00
  SPEAKER_01: I would say probably one of the biggest things that shifted for me.
• 10:04
  SPEAKER_01: So coming out of, you know, having like a 10-month hibernation period where literally I was like hibernated in a little cocoon from the world, but I was coming out and I was saying, okay, now what do I want to offer?
• 10:18
  SPEAKER_01: Because I knew that before I recognized that the way I was doing business before was not really aligned.
• 10:25
  SPEAKER_01: I was doing a lot of pushing, a lot of hustling.
• 10:28
  SPEAKER_01: I was saying yes to things I didn't really want to do, like kind of like all that.
• 10:31
  SPEAKER_01: And I'm like, I'm not doing things the same way I used to.
• 10:34
  SPEAKER_01: I'm gonna really learn and listen.
• 10:37
  SPEAKER_01: And so the breath work, just kind of like coming into it, like going, I don't really know what I want to offer in the world.
• 10:43
  SPEAKER_01: I really don't know where I fit in in a way that's really authentic to me and who I am now.
• 10:49
  SPEAKER_01: And I started doing the breath work, and it was just like stuff just started going like this.
• 10:54
  SPEAKER_01: And one of the things that it helped me realize was in that 10 months of hibernation, my relationship with my children, like I always had a really good relationship with my son.
• 11:04
  SPEAKER_01: My daughter is very strong-willed, very confident, very opinionated, and we would just butt heads, just constantly butt heads.
• 11:13
  SPEAKER_01: And in that 10 months, all of the work I'd done on myself had completely changed and transformed the relationship I had with her.
• 11:20
  SPEAKER_01: And we grew very, very close, and it just the dynamic completely switched.
• 11:25
  SPEAKER_01: And so through the breathwork, I was like, oh my God.
• 11:31
  SPEAKER_01: I meant to help moms in their relationship with their kids and really help transform that.
• 11:38
  SPEAKER_01: And then the parent-child karma cleanse was birthed, and I had realized that I had already done that in the past.
• 11:44
  SPEAKER_01: I just didn't realize that I had been helping people in that way.
• 11:48
  SPEAKER_00: Yeah.
• 11:48
  SPEAKER_00: And it's so funny because I feel like that happens to a lot of people.
• 11:52
  SPEAKER_00: Cause what you end up doing essentially is like once you clear all this trauma, especially through the breath work, you kind of come back home to yourself and you like re-realize things that you already knew, but that you couldn't quite like embody before because there was too much other stuff blocking you and too much gunk, you know, in the way for you to really embody this thing that you knew you were meant to do.
• 12:18
  SPEAKER_00: So, like that's what it felt like to me, too, that it was like as you started clearing more and more, it was like, oh, duh, this is what I'm supposed to be doing, you know?
• 12:28
  SPEAKER_00: And I feel like that happens for a lot of people.
• 12:31
  SPEAKER_00: So that's really, really amazing.
• 12:33
  SPEAKER_00: And I think the breath work just works so quickly in moving energy, especially once we can start pinpointing, like, okay, this is exactly what it is, and really like acknowledge it and say, let's go into it, let's feel it.
• 12:48
  SPEAKER_00: And then you use the breath work, things just shift so quickly.
• 12:52
  SPEAKER_00: It sounds like that's what your experience was with the breath work too.
• 12:55
  SPEAKER_01: Yes.
• 12:56
  SPEAKER_01: And and one thing I also want to say, and I shared this with you, is that it was so empowering the way that the course was set up because I didn't have to wait until my next session with you to move through something.
• 13:09
  SPEAKER_01: Cause I like to, you know, like if something's coming up now, like I want to move through it and I want to feel it and process it.
• 13:16
  SPEAKER_01: I don't want to wait until next Wednesday when we have a session together.
• 13:20
  SPEAKER_01: So I would just say, you know, we would chat or whatever, and then you would either I just knew which breath work to do, or you would say, Oh, go do this breath work, and I would do it.
• 13:30
  SPEAKER_01: And it would be like I would be moving through it, and then also allowed me to continue to take action and not be like, oh, I have to wait until all of these things are healed and all of this stuff before I can take action in my business.
• 13:44
  SPEAKER_00: Yeah, exactly.
• 13:45
  SPEAKER_00: Because you have this like whole toolkit of things to do that you can just choose from at any time.
• 13:52
  SPEAKER_00: And it really like puts you in the driver's seat.
• 13:55
  SPEAKER_00: And this is, I mean, mainly I only attract women who really do like to lead themselves anyway, but you know, it really gives you that ability to really lead yourself and be in the driver's seat, and then you have like this whole entire toolkit, you know.
• 14:12
  SPEAKER_00: The other thing I wanted to ask you about too is I know you said your intuition really like skyrocket during all of this.
• 14:19
  SPEAKER_00: Can you talk about that a little bit?
• 14:20
  SPEAKER_01: Oh my gosh.
• 14:21
  SPEAKER_01: So before I started doing the course with you in the breathwork, I would pull cards regularly.
• 14:27
  SPEAKER_01: You know, I'd have like five decks, right?
• 14:29
  SPEAKER_01: Like probably most of us have at least five decks of Oracle cards or angel cards or you know, whatever.
• 14:34
  SPEAKER_01: Yeah.
• 14:35
  SPEAKER_01: So I was like used to like regularly pulling those in, almost like giving my power away a bit to those outside of me.
• 14:43
  SPEAKER_01: Well, when I started doing the breath work, I was just getting information.
• 14:46
  SPEAKER_01: Like information was just coming.
• 14:48
  SPEAKER_01: I was getting downloads.
• 14:50
  SPEAKER_01: It was just, no, go here, do this, reach out to this person.
• 14:55
  SPEAKER_01: And it was like I had rarely used my cards.
• 14:59
  SPEAKER_01: So I was just so connected.
• 15:01
  SPEAKER_01: I it went to a whole new level.
• 15:03
  SPEAKER_01: Like I've always been connected to my intuition to some degree, but this went to like a like the whole new level of being connected and being guided and feeling like that I'm I'm so supported and I have so much support in like the physical and the non-physical.
• 15:19
  SPEAKER_01: Uh, it was just really, I don't know if I've ever like felt regularly that level of support.
• 15:27
  SPEAKER_00: Yeah.
• 15:28
  SPEAKER_00: And I know for me too, when I do breath work, I just get so much information, so many downloads, so many creative ideas.
• 15:35
  SPEAKER_00: Sometimes I'll like have to like get up and write something down or have something next to me because I just get so many ideas that I know I'm gonna forget them as I go through the session.
• 15:45
  SPEAKER_00: So it's just such a powerful tool in that way.
• 15:49
  SPEAKER_00: So, are there any like things that you felt were like roadblocks that you got over or things that were really difficult for you as part of the process and like just feeling like really excited about getting through that or over that, if that makes sense?
• 16:05
  SPEAKER_01: Oh, yeah.
• 16:05
  SPEAKER_01: So, interestingly enough, my daughter has had a lot of drama with her friend group.
• 16:13
  SPEAKER_01: And that was also really a huge catalyst for me and my own and bringing up stuff for me to work through.
• 16:22
  SPEAKER_01: And also realizing that, you know, just from my own experience as a child of feeling so out of control, my defense and my coping was to try to control everything, to try to micromanage everything, to try to be the one to go and fix.
• 16:36
  SPEAKER_01: I need to go fix everything for everyone, and I need to solve everyone's problems in one day.
• 16:42
  SPEAKER_01: And so there's just a sense of like exhaustion and depletion.
• 16:45
  SPEAKER_01: And I just use the breath work to really like let go of that need.
• 16:52
  SPEAKER_01: It was like a visceral need.
• 16:54
  SPEAKER_01: It was like, if I don't control this or fix this or micromanage this, like someone's gonna die.
• 16:59
  SPEAKER_01: It was like that strong.
• 17:01
  SPEAKER_00: Yeah.
• 17:02
  SPEAKER_01: And I can say in so many different ways I've been able to like let go and surrender.
• 17:08
  SPEAKER_01: And the synchronicities and the serendipitous moments are blowing my mind.
• 17:13
  SPEAKER_01: It's like the more I let go, the better life gets, which I would have never like actually believed that.
• 17:20
  SPEAKER_00: No, I know.
• 17:21
  SPEAKER_00: That's and I think this is such a common thing that I really want to touch on is like a lot of times because of the trauma that happened to us as kids, and like even as like babies, or even just like being in this energy of the trauma, we figure out what we need to do to survive, right?
• 17:39
  SPEAKER_00: For instance, like you felt like if you didn't control the situation to make sure nothing bad happened, then there's a chance you wouldn't survive, right?
• 17:47
  SPEAKER_00: And as kids, like I know for me, my big thing was I had to make sure my mom was emotionally stable in order to survive.
• 17:54
  SPEAKER_00: So that's what I was doing in my relationship with my husband, right?
• 17:57
  SPEAKER_00: Because I thought that's what a relationship was.
• 18:00
  SPEAKER_00: And I literally would feel in my body that if I didn't make sure that he was emotionally stable and I didn't try to hold him emotionally, that I wouldn't survive.
• 18:13
  SPEAKER_00: And this is a lot of what we're working through, because this is also ancestral, right?
• 18:18
  SPEAKER_00: And this is what a lot of people are working through right now is these things that we actually associate with survival.
• 18:25
  SPEAKER_00: It feels scary to let it go when you're first doing it because you literally feel like you might die.
• 18:31
  SPEAKER_00: Like you were saying, like if I don't do this right now, like something really bad is gonna happen.
• 18:36
  SPEAKER_00: And that is actually like physiological feeling that we take on as young children because of the circumstances we're in.
• 18:43
  SPEAKER_00: And it looks a little different for everyone, right?
• 18:46
  SPEAKER_00: But um, like for you, it was coming out more with like your kids' situations and feeling like you had to like save them or prevent something bad from happening to them and all of those things, when really what you were doing is you were just acting on this trauma response from childhood and then also probably intervening in their lives that they most likely didn't want you to intervene in, right?
• 19:10
  SPEAKER_00: So yeah.
• 19:12
  SPEAKER_00: And like the other thing too is what we end up doing is actually never in service to the other person.
• 19:19
  SPEAKER_00: We think it's gonna be in service to the other person, but really it's actually preventing the other person from living their own life from a state of feeling like they're in their power, right?
• 19:30
  SPEAKER_00: It's literally like telling the other person that we don't trust that they can be okay on their own.
• 19:36
  SPEAKER_00: It's such a powerful thing to shift.
• 19:39
  SPEAKER_00: And that's when the magic happens.
• 19:41
  SPEAKER_00: That's why you're having all of these synchronistic events happen where you're like experiencing miracles all the time, because like you've literally let go of feeling like if you don't do this thing or be in this pattern, then you won't survive because that keeps us in a certain energetic frequency.
• 19:59
  SPEAKER_00: It keeps us in this like survival mode, essentially, where we're out of the flow of the natural miraculousness of the universe.
• 20:08
  SPEAKER_00: So when you really release that, and you really did, I mean, sometimes it takes people a long time.
• 20:15
  SPEAKER_00: But I also felt like when you came to me, you were literally like, I am ready, let's do this.
• 20:21
  SPEAKER_00: And you really put everything into it and you are a hundred percent dedicated.
• 20:26
  SPEAKER_00: And when you do that and you are like, do the work, do the breath work, listen to what comes through for me and apply it, things shift so quickly.
• 20:36
  SPEAKER_00: I mean, literally in six weeks, you like transmuted a lifetime of trauma.
• 20:43
  SPEAKER_01: Totally.
• 20:44
  SPEAKER_01: And I'm still using the breath work, like I still regularly do the breath work three to four times a week.
• 20:50
  SPEAKER_01: And I just want to touch on one of the most impactful things that you shared with me when my daughter was going through a bunch of stuff was that my role is not the lead actress, my role is the supporting actress, and that was so impactful and just was it was just like you said it in the perfect way that I really got it.
• 21:11
  SPEAKER_01: So now she's come out the other side of this, knowing she's gonna be okay because she has a very strong support system at home for when she needs it, but I didn't have to go fix everything, and so she's come through stronger than ever, knowing more of who she is and what she wants and friends, and more confident and trusting in herself that she can handle when life gets really rocky, which, like what you said, I had none of that.
• 21:39
  SPEAKER_01: I told my mom nothing, and it just blows my mind of the level of support that I'm able to offer her now and how that's gonna change the course of her life.
• 21:50
  SPEAKER_00: Yeah, and what that really is is it's a healing of ancestral trauma.
• 21:56
  SPEAKER_00: Like you are not that pattern onto her, and she's Not going to be carrying that anymore.
• 22:01
  SPEAKER_00: And you, so you literally shifted it for all of the generations to come.
• 22:06
  SPEAKER_00: And that's why this work is so powerful because it's not just about you, it's not just about me.
• 22:12
  SPEAKER_00: It's not just about your daughter.
• 22:14
  SPEAKER_00: It's about everybody who's coming after her.
• 22:17
  SPEAKER_00: Like you stopped it, you know, and it's like it's profound because this has been going on for like generations upon generations of this trauma.
• 22:28
  SPEAKER_00: And you literally stopped it.
• 22:29
  SPEAKER_00: And now she is like free to go be the greatest version of herself.
• 22:35
  SPEAKER_00: And when I see people do this, I mean, because I see people do it all the time, like every day almost.
• 22:42
  SPEAKER_00: And I'm like, this is really, really, really profound.
• 22:46
  SPEAKER_00: And it still brings tears to my eyes because it's so important.
• 22:49
  SPEAKER_00: Because the other thing, too, is like so many of us, almost everybody that I work with, I can see in their Akashic records that they have soul contracts to clear this ancestral patterning in this lifetime.
• 23:02
  SPEAKER_00: So you came here to do this, and it really, really shifted.
• 23:07
  SPEAKER_00: And it just, it was really close to my heart too.
• 23:09
  SPEAKER_00: Cause like I've mentioned, and a lot of people have heard me mention, I was a school counselor for over 10 years and I worked with middle school kids.
• 23:16
  SPEAKER_00: There's something so special about that age and the way that it impacts like the rest of our lives.
• 23:23
  SPEAKER_00: So for you to really be able to shift that for her at this time in her life is huge.
• 23:29
  SPEAKER_00: And it's really just gonna have such a ripple effect.
• 23:31
  SPEAKER_00: So this work has such a ripple effect.
• 23:34
  SPEAKER_00: Like, yes, it's about you stepping into your power and sharing your work and clearing your trauma, but it's really about so much more than that.
• 23:43
  SPEAKER_01: 100%.
• 23:44
  SPEAKER_01: And it was incredibly healing for my inner 15, you know, 14, whatever, for me to show up as the mom that I always wanted.
• 23:53
  SPEAKER_01: It was very, very healing for me in that way as well.
• 23:58
  SPEAKER_00: Oh my God, totally.
• 23:59
  SPEAKER_00: Because like I always say to people, you can't give what you don't have, right?
• 24:04
  SPEAKER_00: Like, so our parents couldn't give us what we needed because they didn't get what they needed and they didn't have it to give.
• 24:12
  SPEAKER_00: But when you're when you heal your trauma and you really move through your stuff in a big way, then you're actually able to show up for your kids.
• 24:21
  SPEAKER_00: And even if you don't have kids, right, you're able to show up for yourself, for your clients, for your partner, whatever it is, in the way that not only they need, but you need as well.
• 24:33
  SPEAKER_00: Because, like you said, as you showed up for your daughter in that way, you actually showed up for your inner 15-year-old in that way, and you got the healing that you needed so badly at that time.
• 24:46
  SPEAKER_01: Exactly.
• 24:47
  SPEAKER_00: Yeah.
• 24:47
  SPEAKER_00: So it's like really freaking powerful stuff here.
• 24:52
  SPEAKER_01: Mind blowingly powerful.
• 24:57
  SPEAKER_00: Yeah, yeah.
• 24:58
  SPEAKER_00: It really is mind-blowing.
• 24:59
  SPEAKER_00: One of the things I love about, well, all of my courses is one for all the tools that you get, you always have them, right?
• 25:07
  SPEAKER_00: Like you have lifetime access to them.
• 25:09
  SPEAKER_00: So now you have all of those breath work sessions and the meditations and the journaling and all of that, and you can still use that at any time.
• 25:17
  SPEAKER_00: And I love to hear that you use them all the time.
• 25:20
  SPEAKER_01: All the time.
• 25:21
  SPEAKER_01: Like the past two weeks, like I can't even tell you the past two weeks, has just the level of emotion and drama and opportunities to stand in my truth and stand up for myself and to stand up for others when other people are literally like challenging me before I would have crumbled.
• 25:43
  SPEAKER_01: And I have done those breathwork sessions so many times.
• 25:47
  SPEAKER_01: And I honestly don't feel like I would have been able to come out the last two weeks as well as I have if I hadn't had that.
• 25:55
  SPEAKER_00: Yeah.
• 25:56
  SPEAKER_00: Yeah, they are really helpful.
• 25:57
  SPEAKER_00: And I know you have like a personalized one too, which are super helpful.
• 26:02
  SPEAKER_00: And then are there any other like differences or results that you're seeing in your life that we like didn't hit on yet?
• 26:10
  SPEAKER_00: I just feel like I'm showing up in a totally different way.
• 26:13
  SPEAKER_01: I'm saying yes to the things that I want to say yes to.
• 26:16
  SPEAKER_01: I'm saying no to the things I want to say no to.
• 26:18
  SPEAKER_01: The other day I had a client book a session, and I took them out in the middle of the woods, and we did a session because, based on who they were, like at soul level, I would have never done that before.
• 26:32
  SPEAKER_01: I would have been like, no, we have to do it in this like organized, little, structured way.
• 26:36
  SPEAKER_01: And I just feel like there's just so much freedom and liberation of like the shackles of how you're supposed to do things as a business owner or a spiritual business owner, or this or that.
• 26:48
  SPEAKER_01: I just I feel like such a level of freedom.
• 26:51
  SPEAKER_01: And then there's a this is like kind of a weird one, but um, my cat had been peeing chronically on like our beds and our and our couch downstairs.
• 27:01
  SPEAKER_01: Anyway, long story short, I found an animal communicator that helped me.
• 27:05
  SPEAKER_01: And it was also at the same time my own tuition saying, Your cat wants to be an outdoor cat.
• 27:10
  SPEAKER_01: And I was like, Oh my god, I like this has been like two years, but I had so much anxiety of like, what if he never comes back?
• 27:17
  SPEAKER_01: And what if something bad happens and all of this?
• 27:20
  SPEAKER_01: I use the breath work to let my cat out to be free.
• 27:24
  SPEAKER_01: He hasn't paid since.
• 27:26
  SPEAKER_01: Oh my god.
• 27:28
  SPEAKER_00: So isn't it so funny how like we get these like random, not random, but like we get this information, but we dismiss it, or we're like, oh whatever.
• 27:38
  SPEAKER_00: We kind of ignore it until it gets louder and louder and louder, and you're just like, finally, you listen to it, and I'm just like, why didn't I listen to that before?
• 27:47
  SPEAKER_00: That literally makes no sense, right?
• 27:50
  SPEAKER_01: Like it had never even, and that was again like just the level of like how connected I was with my intuition.
• 27:56
  SPEAKER_01: This has been going on for like two years, and I had hired other people.
• 28:00
  SPEAKER_01: I'm like, what is going on?
• 28:02
  SPEAKER_01: And then it was just like a combination of the animal person I the communicator I hired, and at the same time, me, I was like, Oh my god, he wants to be an outbreak.
• 28:10
  SPEAKER_01: But I had to let go of control.
• 28:12
  SPEAKER_01: That was a whole nother layer of me letting go of control and trusting, and I used the breath word to do that, and so he is so happy now, and it was so beautiful too, because um, yesterday I was moving through this like really intense grief of relationships not being my expectation of how I would have wanted them to be, and I'm like crying and crying, and like he just comes running up on the bed and just jumps on me and just starts like on my chest, and he's like purring, purring, purring.
• 28:44
  SPEAKER_01: And he was just like, and that's what my cat growing up used to do.
• 28:47
  SPEAKER_01: So I had a cat, Cinderella, growing up.
• 28:49
  SPEAKER_01: She used to sleep on my chest every night and just like purr.
• 28:52
  SPEAKER_01: And so I just felt this amazing healing, and and I think it was just because also he just feels now this level of freedom that now he can be the cat.
• 29:02
  SPEAKER_01: He wants to go outside and chase mice.
• 29:05
  SPEAKER_00: So there's like all of these different wild experiences that are yeah, and it's also like a reflection just of you having the freedom to be who you need to be and who you want to be.
• 29:17
  SPEAKER_00: Because I feel like things like that always show up everywhere, right?
• 29:21
  SPEAKER_00: That was like like he was reflecting back to you that he needed freedom, and then like you are stepping into this new freedom, and as you're in allowance of that and letting go of control, it's just like it's everywhere.
• 29:33
  SPEAKER_00: And I see that for me too, even like when I am moving through something in my own life, like all my clients will be moving through the same thing too.
• 29:41
  SPEAKER_00: Like it's always everywhere, and that's how the universe is like so connected, and we can always see everything so clearly.
• 29:50
  SPEAKER_00: So it makes so much sense.
• 29:52
  SPEAKER_00: I just love your story because you really did quantum leap and you really accelerate like the process.
• 30:00
  SPEAKER_00: So, yeah, so it's really amazing, and I just can't wait to see like what you do next.
• 30:07
  SPEAKER_01: Thank you.
• 30:08
  SPEAKER_01: Oh, maybe the other thing, actually, this this is important.
• 30:11
  SPEAKER_01: I feel like before in the past, I used to go chase opportunities.
• 30:16
  SPEAKER_01: Like I would just go try to create and like make stuff happen.
• 30:20
  SPEAKER_01: And now things are just coming to me.
• 30:22
  SPEAKER_01: Like things are just popping up in whatever way they pop up, but I feel like I'm like a magnet to things and opportunities.
• 30:30
  SPEAKER_01: So that has also been a huge shift.
• 30:32
  SPEAKER_00: Yeah, that's a huge shift.
• 30:34
  SPEAKER_00: And I feel like that's definitely what happens for everyone.
• 30:37
  SPEAKER_00: Like as they clear their trauma, it's like, oh, things just like end up falling in your lap.
• 30:42
  SPEAKER_00: And then the other thing I wanted to touch on too is how you just said that you stopped kind of like following any rules of what like a business owner should do or a spiritual person should do or whatever, and just started like creating your own.
• 30:56
  SPEAKER_00: And that's like such a big thing that I'm on right now.
• 30:59
  SPEAKER_00: Like all the message I've been getting about like the quantum accelerator, this new container that I'm launching is all about disconnecting from all of the rules.
• 31:08
  SPEAKER_00: There are no rules, and we get to create the rules.
• 31:12
  SPEAKER_00: And I think that that's such a huge part of what this work is all about is realizing that we don't have to subscribe to any system, any way of thinking, any rules or programming or anything.
• 31:27
  SPEAKER_00: We get to create all of it.
• 31:29
  SPEAKER_00: And I think that that's how we're gonna be running our businesses, that's how we're gonna be running our lives, right?
• 31:35
  SPEAKER_00: Is more just like connecting to spirit, listening to that guidance that you receive and doing it your own way.
• 31:42
  SPEAKER_00: Like obviously, it's great to have people that can support you and help you, but ultimately you need to create things from the way that you are guided.
• 31:53
  SPEAKER_00: So that's like such an important piece, too, that I just wanted to touch on.
• 31:57
  SPEAKER_01: Yeah.
• 31:58
  SPEAKER_01: I mean, it's like, what's the point of having a business if you have a bunch of rules that you hate?
• 32:03
  SPEAKER_01: You know, it's like, which is what I was doing before.
• 32:06
  SPEAKER_01: It was like, and all these rules just from society and the programming, conditioning, like all the things.
• 32:11
  SPEAKER_01: And then you just wake up here one day, you know, I just woke up and I'm just like, oh my gosh, like this is not enjoyable at all.
• 32:18
  SPEAKER_01: Like I've created like a prison.
• 32:20
  SPEAKER_00: Exactly.
• 32:20
  SPEAKER_00: And it's supposed to be fun.
• 32:22
  SPEAKER_00: Like the reason why we start our own businesses is because we want freedom and we want to be ourselves.
• 32:29
  SPEAKER_00: You know, sometimes it takes a little bit of like deprogramming to really get there because I think sometimes we still want to be in this mindset of like listening to what someone else says because that feels safer, but really that never works and it always ends up pulling you out of alignment or sucking your energy or having to try too hard when really if you are just in alignment and following what you know you're meant to do, then everything just falls into place for you.
• 32:59
  SPEAKER_01: Yes.
• 32:59
  SPEAKER_01: And that reminds me too of in the past when I've worked with people, I had fallen into the trap at times of wanting them to tell me the answers.
• 33:10
  SPEAKER_01: You know, it's like, and what was really profound was that I never stepped into that dynamic with you.
• 33:16
  SPEAKER_01: I never looked to you to tell me what is my next step, Elise.
• 33:21
  SPEAKER_01: You know, I feel like it was just the dynamic was set up in a really powerful and empowering way where it was like I felt deeply supported, but I also felt deeply independent in that I'm like you said, like I'm steering the ship.
• 33:37
  SPEAKER_01: I have the absolute capability of being able to know what is my next step.
• 33:44
  SPEAKER_01: And you know, my answers are within.
• 33:46
  SPEAKER_00: Yeah.
• 33:46
  SPEAKER_00: And you always receive the answers as soon as you start doing the breath work, doing the journaling, and really starting to move through stuff, you always receive the answers.
• 33:56
  SPEAKER_00: So that's super important.
• 33:58
  SPEAKER_00: I'm glad you shared that.
• 33:59
  SPEAKER_00: Okay.
• 34:00
  SPEAKER_00: So do you want to talk a little bit about like where people can find you and what you're offering right now?
• 34:06
  SPEAKER_01: Yeah.
• 34:07
  SPEAKER_01: So my website is believegrow shine.com.
• 34:12
  SPEAKER_01: And one of the offerings that came out of doing all of this amazing work with Elise is it's called the Parent Child Karma Cleanse.
• 34:21
  SPEAKER_01: So what it is, it's part Akashic Record reading.
• 34:24
  SPEAKER_01: So it's for a parent who wants to deepen their relationship with their child.
• 34:30
  SPEAKER_01: I use the Akashic Records.
• 34:32
  SPEAKER_01: The way that I was trained in the Akashic Records is to look at a divine soul blueprint.
• 34:36
  SPEAKER_01: So I look at the blueprint of the parent and then the child and help them understand who's the parent, who the child is, what are the similarities and differences, and what are the ways in which you actually need to change what you're doing.
• 34:51
  SPEAKER_01: Because often we either end up unconsciously parenting how we were parented, or we like swing to the other spectrum because we're like, we're not gonna not gonna be like that at all.
• 35:00
  SPEAKER_01: So then we swing to the other side.
• 35:02
  SPEAKER_01: And it may not be at all what is authentic for the child.
• 35:06
  SPEAKER_01: So the parent-child karma cleanse helps the person to understand who they are, who their child is, and also identify any kind of conditioning from your way you were parented, any past traumas, anything that's really standing in the way of you deepening your relationship with your child so that you can show up authentically and also honor who your child is authentically and make whatever new choices need to happen from that place.
• 35:34
  SPEAKER_00: Oh my God, I love this so much.
• 35:35
  SPEAKER_00: I want to do it.
• 35:39
  SPEAKER_00: And especially I think for parents who have kids who are a little bit older, because I know the dynamics start to get a little more challenging at that time, but it's such a powerful service because, like I said, that all the information you need is like in your child, just watching like their behavior and what they're saying to you, it's all right there.
• 36:02
  SPEAKER_00: It just can be hard to look at on your own.
• 36:05
  SPEAKER_00: So, like it's so beneficial to have somebody that can help you see, like, okay, well, what is that reflecting back to you?
• 36:13
  SPEAKER_00: Because it might be hard to see, but literally it's such potent information.
• 36:18
  SPEAKER_00: So that's amazing.
• 36:19
  SPEAKER_00: And I will put the link for that in the comments.
• 36:23
  SPEAKER_00: So thank you so much for sharing that.
• 36:25
  SPEAKER_00: And then the only other thing I want to talk about for a moment is the quantum accelerator because I'm so excited about it.
• 36:32
  SPEAKER_00: I just had two more women join today, and it's just turning into such a powerful group.
• 36:37
  SPEAKER_00: And if you haven't heard me talk about it yet, it's a four-month journey to guide and hold space for everyone to really start to work in the quantum field.
• 36:47
  SPEAKER_00: This is really like we are learning how to work with our own energy to not only create what we're meant to create, but also with the vision of creating the new earth.
• 36:59
  SPEAKER_00: So it's really about quantum manifestation, quantum healing, quantum creation, and really mastering working with your own energy to collapse time and space, collapse timelines, and really just go from A to Z really quickly.
• 37:16
  SPEAKER_00: So it includes weekly energetic attunements, weekly energetic activations, breath work, of course.
• 37:24
  SPEAKER_00: I include breath work in all of my containers and weekly sharing and support.
• 37:30
  SPEAKER_00: So it's gonna be really, really powerful.
• 37:32
  SPEAKER_00: The energy that is already building and the women who have already joined are like super magical.
• 37:38
  SPEAKER_00: So I'm super excited about it.
• 37:40
  SPEAKER_00: If it is calling to you, then just reach out to me.
• 37:42
  SPEAKER_00: I'll put the link in the comments as well.
• 37:46
  SPEAKER_00: Okay, thank you so much, Colleen.
• 37:48
  SPEAKER_00: This was amazing.
• 37:50
  SPEAKER_00: Um excited for you.
• 37:52
  SPEAKER_00: And I definitely encourage everyone to check out Colleen's offerings.
• 37:57
  SPEAKER_00: Um, it's something that I definitely want to do at some point as well.
• 38:00
  SPEAKER_00: Thank you so much, everyone.
• 38:01
  SPEAKER_00: Have an amazing weekend, and we'll talk to you soon.
• 38:05
  SPEAKER_00: Bye.
• 38:06
  SPEAKER_00: Bye, thank you.
• 38:08
  SPEAKER_00: Thank you so much for being here.
• 38:10
  SPEAKER_00: Don't forget to subscribe to the show, leave a review, and share this show with your friends who you know are yearning for this type of content.
• 38:17
  SPEAKER_00: You can stay connected with me by following me on Instagram at elise underscore breeds, and by joining my Facebook group, Breed to Succeed, where I share my weekly energy forecast.
• 38:29
  SPEAKER_00: And subscribe to my list where you'll receive a free breath work session, meditation, and journaling prompts to deeply connect with your intuition at elisebreeds.com.
• 38:39
  SPEAKER_00: See you next time.