Latest / We Talk Back / Ep. 44 "Love and Football" with Charles Johnson of the Carolina Panthers
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- 0:05Speaker 1: We're just too unapologetically black women with an opinion. Who
- 0:09Speaker 1: talked back? What's up, y'alls your girl A j Welcome
- 0:15Speaker 1: to a new episode that we talked back. A Hey,
- 0:18Speaker 1: everybody is tim Bam. I love y'all, bitch. I know
- 0:24Speaker 1: you see this ship with the baby. Oh goodness, it's awful.
- 0:29Speaker 1: It's so awful. Charlotte had a good weekend. The Panthers
- 0:33Speaker 1: won the Hornets one and then now this bullshit. This
- 0:39Speaker 1: is why I like low Baby like he just seems
- 0:42Speaker 1: so much of a real niggative meat. See what little
- 0:46Speaker 1: baby got to do with that baby? Everybody keep putting
- 0:50Speaker 1: them against baby said. If somebody asked me if we
- 0:54Speaker 1: fucking I'm blocking you, that's a real niggat. If somebody
- 0:59Speaker 1: simply asked the nigga off, y'all fucking he's gonna block
- 1:01Speaker 1: your ass. So that's to me. He keeps people in line.
- 1:05Speaker 1: He's discreet, Yes, and that's what I like. The baby.
- 1:10Speaker 1: You went live and embarrassed, the embarrassed the mother of
- 1:15Speaker 1: your child. He started it all right, hold on, let's alright,
- 1:19Speaker 1: let's insert a clip real quick. So everybody, if you
- 1:22Speaker 1: were under a rock on Monday, this is what happened.
- 1:27Speaker 1: This is some trapl This some trapl black nigga ship
- 1:30Speaker 1: playing going wrong. That's what this is is. Yeah, this
- 1:34Speaker 1: is trying to trap a nigger going wrong. I'm not
- 1:36Speaker 1: going just came in last night, idiot. You'll be begging.
- 1:44Speaker 1: Somebody tell more to call begging man. Let me run
- 1:46Speaker 1: up a quick ten, let me run up, let me
- 1:49Speaker 1: run up a quick tending. Somebody tell more to common man.
- 1:52Speaker 1: Let's put this ship. Oh March, Charlie is mark more material?
- 1:56Speaker 1: Get about my career. Come on, get off my table.
- 2:00Speaker 1: I didn't I didn't skut it in the wrong thing.
- 2:02Speaker 1: I got to deal with what comes with it. But
- 2:04Speaker 1: my last name, kurtis what I do. So I take
- 2:07Speaker 1: whatever coe with it full responsibility. But shouted, it's cuckoo
- 2:11Speaker 1: for cocoa pod. Shout it is cuckoo for cocoa pulp
- 2:17Speaker 1: and shout is not my girl. I ain't never been
- 2:19Speaker 1: My girl is my side bitch. Sig Shot is a
- 2:26Speaker 1: certified side bitch, embarrassing like Shty is a certified side
- 2:33Speaker 1: bit just trying to Now, let's take it down. Her
- 2:37Speaker 1: parents know she's my side this. Everybody knows. She's a
- 2:40Speaker 1: sivage she don't want y'all want a side bitch. She
- 2:45Speaker 1: got to save her face. She got to crash all
- 2:46Speaker 1: the way out some bullshit. You know. I feel real
- 2:49Speaker 1: bad for this young girl. They're all young, maybe about
- 2:54Speaker 1: to be thirty. Yeah, he's about to be thirty years old, Like,
- 2:57Speaker 1: come on, man, what's up. It's a toxic situation that
- 3:01Speaker 1: we got to witness. Like, honestly, what they got going
- 3:04Speaker 1: on is what anybody. A lot of people have going on,
- 3:08Speaker 1: some toxic ship with a baby mama and the new
- 3:10Speaker 1: girl after the baby mama. But we just get to
- 3:13Speaker 1: witness it because their celebrity status. But he's fucked up.
- 3:18Speaker 1: He's a fund up individual. But I also feel like
- 3:21Speaker 1: she gotta take some accountability to because do you know
- 3:25Speaker 1: who this nig it was before you got pregnant. But
- 3:28Speaker 1: I'm pretty sure because I feel like they don't broke
- 3:30Speaker 1: up before. I haven't seen the long, sad message messages
- 3:33Speaker 1: she put on Instagram before, Like he was playing with
- 3:36Speaker 1: you before you got pregnant. Right then he didn't he
- 3:40Speaker 1: have another baby while he was working with her. That's
- 3:43Speaker 1: what I understand. So I believe Mimi because I was
- 3:47Speaker 1: a child's mom. I believe she's pregnant too, because she
- 3:50Speaker 1: posted a video on her story on Instagram with the
- 3:54Speaker 1: little girl their their child together, like kissing her, pregnant
- 3:58Speaker 1: her something. Yeah, he started it with the social media ship.
- 4:02Speaker 1: He went live while Danny's holding Nerd holding a child.
- 4:06Speaker 1: The world's never seen this child yet, right, and this
- 4:10Speaker 1: toxic gas situation is how you want to introduce the
- 4:13Speaker 1: child to the world. Basically, you know, she just still
- 4:16Speaker 1: trying to cover the baby. She did the child. This
- 4:20Speaker 1: is the first time they admitted that it was his baby,
- 4:22Speaker 1: right publicly. I thought it was. I mean, I thought
- 4:26Speaker 1: that people knew that since child. I don't think she
- 4:29Speaker 1: was hiding it. Who else did she associated with it?
- 4:34Speaker 1: That's what I'm saying. I don't think she ever publicly
- 4:37Speaker 1: said me and John's baby. But that's that also shows
- 4:40Speaker 1: you how messy she isn't either, you see what I'm saying.
- 4:42Speaker 1: She just wasn't speaking on anything. He took it upon
- 4:45Speaker 1: himself and took this ship to the internet. So you're
- 4:48Speaker 1: already in hot water with the LGBTQ community. And give
- 4:51Speaker 1: you a life back and you can go and do
- 4:53Speaker 1: some shows, now you know what I'm saying, Like you
- 4:54Speaker 1: have to get your life back from them. And now
- 4:56Speaker 1: you're on some boatsh you look real filthy right now. Yes,
- 5:01Speaker 1: this girl just had a baby three months ago, and
- 5:05Speaker 1: maybe she has housing issues. Who knows what's going on?
- 5:07Speaker 1: That was she working recently? Like does she have money? Like?
- 5:10Speaker 1: Who knows? Like you would, uh one of the biggest
- 5:13Speaker 1: rappers right now? Right She's depending on you. She's depending
- 5:19Speaker 1: on you, and that's how you do. And it's not
- 5:21Speaker 1: like he was like, you get the funk, I'll leave
- 5:23Speaker 1: my child. He was like, y'all gotta go. And I
- 5:27Speaker 1: would have left in no way. I would have still
- 5:29Speaker 1: been there this morning. He would only have to tell
- 5:31Speaker 1: me that one time. But you know, we don't have children.
- 5:34Speaker 1: And if you have a child, it's cold outside. You
- 5:37Speaker 1: know what I'm saying, like where are you going to go? At?
- 5:38Speaker 1: And and and maybe she doesn't have the means. I
- 5:41Speaker 1: don't know, but I could not imagine a nigger playing
- 5:46Speaker 1: with me like this man. And then you're trying to
- 5:47Speaker 1: convince the world as she was a side chick. You
- 5:50Speaker 1: let her disrespect your first baby mama. Uh with the
- 5:54Speaker 1: yellow he wanna he wanna? What was the song she
- 5:57Speaker 1: had out you wanna me like like that's a certain
- 6:01Speaker 1: race of people or something like that. Dumb shit. He
- 6:06Speaker 1: was co signing that song. They post pictures and videos
- 6:10Speaker 1: together in the same home you're trying to put her
- 6:12Speaker 1: out of and you're trying to convince us that she
- 6:15Speaker 1: was deciditch nigga No, and she you're you're she said
- 6:21Speaker 1: she she said that he's mad because she had a
- 6:24Speaker 1: plan B ship to the house and she should. This
- 6:29Speaker 1: is why I say use condoms. People use condoms a
- 6:35Speaker 1: j quiet. I do not support that message. I definitely
- 6:41Speaker 1: if you're just having fabulous sex, I hate Yeah, use
- 6:44Speaker 1: a condom, Use a condom. Yeah, you know what I'm saying.
- 6:48Speaker 1: But but we don't talk about using condoms the last
- 6:51Speaker 1: three episodes because it's very important. Yeah, I'm I'm definitely
- 6:56Speaker 1: not opposed to condoms. I don't want nobody think I'm
- 6:58Speaker 1: out here in some dirty bitch now because I'm not.
- 7:01Speaker 1: But I'm picky. No for come do come we want
- 7:12Speaker 1: raw dick. You're stupid? You see what that raw right?
- 7:21Speaker 1: Drive you nuts? Drive you nuts. I just don't understand,
- 7:26Speaker 1: like why it's no way she has the means to
- 7:29Speaker 1: get the funk because there's no way, I'm gonna stay
- 7:32Speaker 1: there with the child and let a man called a
- 7:34Speaker 1: police on me to leave and put me on live
- 7:37Speaker 1: and call me aside bitch for the world. Did y'all
- 7:41Speaker 1: sleep yet? And then she said, you just came at
- 7:44Speaker 1: me last night, So did y'all funk after the police left? Like,
- 7:47Speaker 1: come on, man, you got she has to have She
- 7:49Speaker 1: has to find dig real deep. She's gonna have to
- 7:51Speaker 1: dig real deep and find some fucking self worth at
- 7:58Speaker 1: this point, she's gonna have to find it and she's
- 8:01Speaker 1: gonna have to move on. Like's there's no reason you
- 8:03Speaker 1: should still being there till this morning for him to
- 8:05Speaker 1: still be posting fucking lives and ship like that. You
- 8:08Speaker 1: should have been getting the funk out that man's face
- 8:10Speaker 1: when he asked you to and then call the police
- 8:12Speaker 1: on you last night at one o'clock in the morning
- 8:15Speaker 1: or whatever it was. They's just a sad situation, man,
- 8:17Speaker 1: I don't know. It's embarrassing. I was. I suffered from
- 8:20Speaker 1: second hand embarrassment, and not just for her, for him too.
- 8:24Speaker 1: This is embarrassing for both of them. And like his brand,
- 8:27Speaker 1: like damn, your brand is just not he He ain't
- 8:30Speaker 1: got no real niggas around him. That's all I'm saying.
- 8:32Speaker 1: He ain't got no real niggas around him. He probably
- 8:34Speaker 1: got a bunch of people that he could tell what
- 8:37Speaker 1: to do. You know, you're not surrounded by a growing
- 8:40Speaker 1: because you make it Like the girls girl, I mean,
- 8:42Speaker 1: I guess we like, uh what's her name? Mimi said,
- 8:45Speaker 1: we really don't know what's going on. Um, we just
- 8:48Speaker 1: all we take the little bits and pieces that we
- 8:50Speaker 1: got and we just form our own story. Right. But
- 8:53Speaker 1: his assistant that was there, she was like advocating for
- 8:56Speaker 1: him and saying that he's a good five there and
- 9:00Speaker 1: he's this, and he's in, and basically co signing that
- 9:03Speaker 1: the girl was crazy or whatever. But then also she
- 9:06Speaker 1: is paid help. If she's a good Okay, if she's crazy,
- 9:10Speaker 1: then you should be getting her to leave and keeping
- 9:13Speaker 1: your child in. Why are you gonna let a crazy
- 9:15Speaker 1: bitch raise your child? If she's really that crazy, where
- 9:21Speaker 1: are you gonna whos gonna take her? He should have
- 9:24Speaker 1: to be getting nanny, get your assistant to watch watch
- 9:29Speaker 1: the kids. Like men, dudes be killing me, like they'd
- 9:32Speaker 1: be having all a dumb ship to say about the
- 9:34Speaker 1: women that have the that they have kids with. But
- 9:37Speaker 1: y'all ain't trying to get your kids. If this person
- 9:40Speaker 1: is this bad, that means you don't give a funk
- 9:41Speaker 1: about your kid either, because that's your kid. First. That
- 9:43Speaker 1: baby came out of you, bitch. That baby came out
- 9:46Speaker 1: of your grown ass. Excuse me the man, That baby
- 9:49Speaker 1: came out of your nutsack. Okay, I just baby sat.
- 9:56Speaker 1: I just babysat it for a little while. But I
- 10:00Speaker 1: don't know. So could a man do that to you? Man,
- 10:03Speaker 1: pull up on you that do what? Put your ass off?
- 10:08Speaker 1: Put your ass on live one o'clock in the morning.
- 10:12Speaker 1: My ship would have looked like an episode of Cops
- 10:14Speaker 1: for real, because like, oh, you want to give him
- 10:17Speaker 1: a show, Let's give him a show. God damn, everybody's
- 10:19Speaker 1: gonna see this. As soon as you call me a
- 10:21Speaker 1: side beach, I'm gonna knock the whole side of your
- 10:23Speaker 1: face off. And I'm not lying what I told you.
- 10:30Speaker 1: I would have lost, like the whole world only would
- 10:37Speaker 1: have heard. Was that's only person I told you she
- 10:44Speaker 1: was crazy? Yeah, that is not crazy. That girl ain't crazy.
- 10:48Speaker 1: He crazy. Nickers would drive you crazy. Didn't call you crazy.
- 10:51Speaker 1: He's definitely crazy. He didn't dropped her ass off. That
- 10:53Speaker 1: crazy he's crazy, but I don't know. Look, uh, obviously
- 11:00Speaker 1: it should be pre recorded, so we'll see what happens
- 11:02Speaker 1: in the next couple of days with they crazy asses,
- 11:05Speaker 1: because right there might be right back together. I don't know.
- 11:09Speaker 1: I think I feel like maybe men he was putting
- 11:12Speaker 1: the pressure on his ass and he had to get
- 11:13Speaker 1: that bitch to funk up out of there. That's probably
- 11:17Speaker 1: what's going on. Like this is enough. Now, she didn't
- 11:22Speaker 1: had the baby. The baby three months old. Y'all over there,
- 11:24Speaker 1: so playing house, okay, but they come over there all
- 11:29Speaker 1: right to switch gear as you guys, we got something
- 11:33Speaker 1: amazing coming up about marriage, relationships, sex, a lot of money, drugs, set,
- 11:41Speaker 1: you name it. Come back. We're gonna pay some bills
- 11:43Speaker 1: real quick. Let me ask you all the question. What's
- 11:51Speaker 1: your favorite black movie? A j what's your favorite black movie? Uh? God,
- 12:00Speaker 1: coming to America. That's a good one. I'm gonna go
- 12:04Speaker 1: with love and basketball. But today this is not loving basketball.
- 12:09Speaker 1: Our episode is loving football, y'all. Hey, we gotta guess
- 12:15Speaker 1: on our show. The amazing Charles Johnson of the Carolina Panthers,
- 12:26Speaker 1: thank you for coming on the show. Y'all. Let me
- 12:27Speaker 1: tell y'all this getting this man to come on this show,
- 12:31Speaker 1: I had to go through Helen Howard. I asked you
- 12:35Speaker 1: how many times you said you try some shots, and
- 12:37Speaker 1: then by the end of the night then I'm agreed
- 12:39Speaker 1: to Yeah. I filled them up with liquor and I
- 12:42Speaker 1: was like, what's come on this show? Man like trumping
- 12:45Speaker 1: and he agreed. So that's how we got him here.
- 12:47Speaker 1: Why did you be getting niggers drunk? She tried. She
- 12:52Speaker 1: probably puts out me your drake too. Now don't do that.
- 12:56Speaker 1: That's that's CARDI b ship and tell me why we want.
- 13:00Speaker 1: We want niggas to willfully give our ship right, but
- 13:06Speaker 1: I will have made the nineteen forty two did help
- 13:09Speaker 1: out shout out to two. So let's get into it. Yeah,
- 13:15Speaker 1: do yourself do your introduction in loan? Yeah, yeah, Well
- 13:19Speaker 1: name is Charles l in the middle Johnson have two
- 13:24Speaker 1: middle names were not disclosed, but you know I got
- 13:28Speaker 1: two middle names, not just playing. One is Locarlos. The
- 13:32Speaker 1: second one is Andre Carlos Andrea Charles Macarlos, Andre Johnson.
- 13:39Speaker 1: Who is those people? Because those are people like Carlos
- 13:45Speaker 1: Locrlos is the whole So go ahead, let's tell us
- 13:47Speaker 1: about him international person. You know what I'm saying when
- 13:51Speaker 1: I'm out, you know what I mean a water so well,
- 13:53Speaker 1: you know what I'm saying. Okay, So that's the self
- 13:55Speaker 1: giving name. Also, it's like that's an alter ego. Cao
- 14:00Speaker 1: a real actual middle name. But my mom was giving
- 14:04Speaker 1: it the and Andre I don't know why she gave
- 14:06Speaker 1: me that middle name name. He never gave an extra
- 14:09Speaker 1: nation behind does Locrlos had an accent in there, like
- 14:13Speaker 1: l at it like let Carlos Carlo in the world,
- 14:22Speaker 1: Carlos Carlos. What you want to know about your tell us?
- 14:35Speaker 1: You're been in the league eleven years. I went to
- 14:40Speaker 1: the University of Georgia UM, a major dam child family belment.
- 14:45Speaker 1: While is it Georgia UM. I came into the league
- 14:48Speaker 1: with the Carolina Panthers, oh seven, I was in there
- 14:53Speaker 1: for eleven years. I was with the same team. UM.
- 14:57Speaker 1: I'm an entrepreneurial author field UM do retail for the housing, cleaning,
- 15:06Speaker 1: real estate, UM and I just try to dibbling daving
- 15:10Speaker 1: multiple investments, you know, just make my own way. That's
- 15:14Speaker 1: who I am. Let's do you do? You aren't doing
- 15:17Speaker 1: those stock investments. I got a little something something. You know,
- 15:20Speaker 1: everybody got a little something. I got a little etheran aeric,
- 15:23Speaker 1: got a little bit coin. You know everybody got a
- 15:24Speaker 1: little something something, right, I feel like you gotta get
- 15:27Speaker 1: into you don't want to be left out now. I
- 15:30Speaker 1: do feel left out with bitcoin because I can't afford
- 15:32Speaker 1: one the fun like one bitcoin right now is like
- 15:35Speaker 1: six or seven grand I feel you. But I got
- 15:38Speaker 1: half a bitcoin. I don't have a full bitcoint half.
- 15:44Speaker 1: And I got some Sheba and I got some george Coin.
- 15:47Speaker 1: That's about it. Might as well jump into all that.
- 15:50Speaker 1: I don't want to be living, yeah, because could you
- 15:52Speaker 1: imagine waking up what you're doing. Yeah, but you're going
- 15:55Speaker 1: to wake up and the US dolling ship now everything digital? Yeah, right,
- 16:00Speaker 1: facts when you thought she was doing something everybody else training.
- 16:07Speaker 1: I need to get into these n f T s
- 16:08Speaker 1: and stuff like that that's next to me, Like I'm
- 16:11Speaker 1: gonna do for X and then n f T. I
- 16:13Speaker 1: do stock options right now, so I do. I do
- 16:18Speaker 1: pretty good, but uh, I definitely want to get into
- 16:21Speaker 1: that n f T bowshop. But I don't understand it
- 16:23Speaker 1: the same way I don't understand like the cryptocurrency, like,
- 16:26Speaker 1: I just don't understand and even when trying to read
- 16:30Speaker 1: and understand, what the fuck? Yeah, because what is it
- 16:34Speaker 1: is it? It's not tangible money, So it's an idea, right,
- 16:38Speaker 1: It's just an idea that people are selling. But so
- 16:40Speaker 1: as the US dollar, we gave it value. So if
- 16:42Speaker 1: tomorrow we said, you know what, that should ain't work ship,
- 16:44Speaker 1: we can wipe our ass with it. So it's the
- 16:46Speaker 1: same thing with cryptocurrency, like people get with the American
- 16:50Speaker 1: dollar is something you can physically hold, you can make
- 16:53Speaker 1: you can't make. No dodge coin phone for Instagram on
- 16:56Speaker 1: the side of your head, you can't do that. Like,
- 17:00Speaker 1: its just makes it hard for me to put wrap
- 17:03Speaker 1: my mind around what it exactly is. The dollar ain't
- 17:06Speaker 1: gonna be worth nothing. Yeah, yeah, you better jump on right. Actually,
- 17:13Speaker 1: I mean a j You're gonna have to teach me
- 17:15Speaker 1: because I just been getting online throwing money and stuff.
- 17:17Speaker 1: I don't know what I'm doing. They'd be like, oh,
- 17:19Speaker 1: you better put some money on this, and I just
- 17:20Speaker 1: throw a couple of dollars in it and small and
- 17:24Speaker 1: just see what. Yeah. I started trading with with seventy
- 17:28Speaker 1: hunter and fifty dollars just options trading like, so I
- 17:31Speaker 1: learned how to turn a hundred and fifty dollars into
- 17:33Speaker 1: a thousand dollars. The only issue with that is you
- 17:36Speaker 1: gotta sit and watch that ship. You gotta watch it.
- 17:39Speaker 1: I don't work nowhere the fuck this is I do
- 17:42Speaker 1: no time. I'm gonna throw some money after you. You
- 17:45Speaker 1: want to do that ship or you want to do
- 17:47Speaker 1: this for half of the day and then do the
- 17:49Speaker 1: rest of your life for the rest of the day,
- 17:50Speaker 1: because that's what I don't want to work hard. I
- 17:53Speaker 1: have to I have understanding now that I don't want
- 17:57Speaker 1: to work hard. I don't. I don't fired to a
- 18:00Speaker 1: life of labor fun that ship. Yeah, that's how. That's
- 18:04Speaker 1: how white people vacation for a living. That's what we're
- 18:06Speaker 1: trying to do. That sounds good, alright, So question, let's
- 18:13Speaker 1: get into the thick of it, all right, what are
- 18:17Speaker 1: your thoughts, uh, surrounding the politics on Mr Colin Kaepernick.
- 18:22Speaker 1: Oh uh, I really don't get into it, like politics
- 18:26Speaker 1: and all that stuff, because the government is what it is,
- 18:30Speaker 1: and everybody's surrounding all this stuff. You don't know who
- 18:33Speaker 1: faking real. But I feel like you stand on a movement.
- 18:37Speaker 1: You just gotta know that if you're with that movement,
- 18:40Speaker 1: that moon ain't going nowhere. So like, you gotta think
- 18:43Speaker 1: about the future. I'm always thinking about down the road
- 18:46Speaker 1: ten years, twenty years from now. If you're not keeping
- 18:48Speaker 1: that same energy, if you're not still fighting for that,
- 18:51Speaker 1: you know, yeah, they're gonna look at you a same
- 18:55Speaker 1: type of way. So you gotta you gotta know, like
- 18:57Speaker 1: if you're in it, you better be in it, because
- 18:59Speaker 1: you can't just with that. You can't just be like,
- 19:01Speaker 1: all right, I'm done. You know what I'm saying, You're
- 19:09Speaker 1: still gonna be fighting that fight when you forty fifty sixty.
- 19:13Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying, You're gonna go down fighting
- 19:14Speaker 1: that fight. But I don't want to have to be
- 19:16Speaker 1: involved in the life like that. We have people criticizing
- 19:19Speaker 1: me about a certain situation on how I feel for
- 19:22Speaker 1: you know, longevity wise, I don't have it for a
- 19:26Speaker 1: short minute, and guys be like, oh, I'm gonna rep
- 19:28Speaker 1: this for a short minute and then next thing I'm
- 19:30Speaker 1: onto the next you hit it. You gotta be in
- 19:32Speaker 1: it so right, and you also got to have a
- 19:34Speaker 1: whole strategy, like you can't just start some ship and
- 19:37Speaker 1: not have like an actual plan like what's next, because
- 19:40Speaker 1: that was jay z whole ship was all right, what's next?
- 19:44Speaker 1: Yeah you kneel now what right? So that's that's what
- 19:49Speaker 1: I'm saying. Like with Colin Kerman there, like like I said,
- 19:53Speaker 1: he's doing what it what he's saying, he's doing, you
- 19:54Speaker 1: know what I'm saying. But to me, it's like you're
- 19:58Speaker 1: gonna you're gonna want to do that when you ford
- 19:59Speaker 1: the a you know what I'm saying, when you have kids,
- 20:01Speaker 1: that how you're gonna bring your kids up and you
- 20:04Speaker 1: know are they're gonna be fighting the same fight for
- 20:06Speaker 1: for you that you was fighting that never ended, a
- 20:09Speaker 1: fight that never ended, or you're gonna still be fighting
- 20:12Speaker 1: that that battle. You know. I want to miss out
- 20:14Speaker 1: on my life like it's part of my life and
- 20:16Speaker 1: enjoying my life. And yeah, because I think activists and
- 20:19Speaker 1: stuff like that, those people are born that way, so
- 20:22Speaker 1: that's their lives, right. I don't know feel for him.
- 20:25Speaker 1: I don't feel like that's his life. Like I feel like, nah, nah,
- 20:30Speaker 1: did y'all watching Did y'all watch the special on Netflix?
- 20:33Speaker 1: I haven't seen it? I did, I did, And I
- 20:36Speaker 1: felt sorry for him. You know, I think it might
- 20:38Speaker 1: have been somewhat embellished to make a good story. But
- 20:41Speaker 1: maybe I'm wrong, you know, because I was like, damn,
- 20:44Speaker 1: they are really giving it to this little mixed boy
- 20:48Speaker 1: the whole movie. They're just dog in his ass the
- 20:50Speaker 1: whole movie and and a mini series. I don't know
- 20:55Speaker 1: how to talk about that respectfully, so I'll leave it
- 20:57Speaker 1: a little something, because you know, you don't want to
- 21:01Speaker 1: disrespect nobody. Seem like you hate no nobody or nothing
- 21:05Speaker 1: like that. Right, all right, So I guess we're moving
- 21:09Speaker 1: on from that ship, all right. So I have another question.
- 21:17Speaker 1: Here in North Carolina, there was a former NFL player who,
- 21:22Speaker 1: um some say was suffering from ct perhaps you know, allegedly,
- 21:27Speaker 1: and he went to kill um his doctor, his doctor's wife,
- 21:33Speaker 1: and the children and then himself ultimately. And uh, some
- 21:39Speaker 1: people say that ct E might have something to do
- 21:42Speaker 1: with why he behaved that way. And I wanted to know, like,
- 21:45Speaker 1: what are your thoughts on CT with the NFL and
- 21:48Speaker 1: that particular situation. Um, I believe in all that, you
- 21:51Speaker 1: know what I mean? I think in certain parts, uh,
- 21:54Speaker 1: if you like them, got hit over there to couple
- 21:55Speaker 1: too many times then definitely can involve your lifestyle, how
- 21:58Speaker 1: you think, how you function and all that. But it's
- 22:01Speaker 1: just like, um, what does women get every year? Managram?
- 22:04Speaker 1: That's what's good. Yeah, that's what women supposed to be. Okay,
- 22:12Speaker 1: what mammogram one of the other. Right. I feel like
- 22:16Speaker 1: men who played football, they gotta do that every year too.
- 22:18Speaker 1: You gotta go get your cat skame. You gotta get
- 22:21Speaker 1: all that stuff because you know it comes with the
- 22:23Speaker 1: territorial the game that you play, especially the longest you play,
- 22:26Speaker 1: or if you've been involved in some type of concussions
- 22:28Speaker 1: out through your years a small time career, then you
- 22:31Speaker 1: gotta go through that process of having that every year.
- 22:34Speaker 1: Because man, certain stuff in driving crazy and you don't
- 22:38Speaker 1: even know it, but you know it might be something mental,
- 22:41Speaker 1: It might be something in your brain is just just
- 22:43Speaker 1: ain't clicking right. So forttion to having having for him,
- 22:47Speaker 1: But I wish you would have reached out to got help,
- 22:49Speaker 1: you know what I mean. Like that's why with all
- 22:51Speaker 1: you know, that's a lack of things we're doing our
- 22:54Speaker 1: black community or to each other. We don't reach out
- 22:58Speaker 1: and talk to each other so well, you know what
- 23:00Speaker 1: mental health and mental health awareness is just now becoming
- 23:04Speaker 1: something that we talked about in the black community at all.
- 23:07Speaker 1: You know, if someone was having mental issues when I
- 23:10Speaker 1: was growing up, we just called them crazy. They'll go
- 23:12Speaker 1: crazy as Lisa, you know, and then just be you know,
- 23:15Speaker 1: done with it. They come to maturity. Though, Like to me,
- 23:18Speaker 1: I could say that, He said, I wasn't like that,
- 23:20Speaker 1: you know, when I was twenty one twenty two, you know,
- 23:22Speaker 1: and I wasn't thinking about all right, I gotta reach
- 23:23Speaker 1: out to this guy to speak about a certain situation.
- 23:26Speaker 1: But the older you getting, the more you see, like,
- 23:28Speaker 1: all right, it affects you. And then you might have
- 23:30Speaker 1: a homeboy that died, like one of my homeboys he
- 23:33Speaker 1: killed himself. It was Paul Oliver. And then it was
- 23:37Speaker 1: one of my homeboys that he went and saved when
- 23:40Speaker 1: he tried to go in to save his nation's and
- 23:42Speaker 1: nephews from fire burning building and he died. So it
- 23:46Speaker 1: was the times like I mean, reach out to those
- 23:48Speaker 1: guys that you know, talk to him or you ain't
- 23:50Speaker 1: see it, and and saying, you know, something that happened
- 23:53Speaker 1: to this person, And the whole time he was like, man,
- 23:54Speaker 1: I shouldn't restot you know what I'm saying, so all
- 23:58Speaker 1: my homeboys, I talked to you faithfully. Oh my homeboys,
- 24:01Speaker 1: I make sure they reach out to me. Uh. And
- 24:03Speaker 1: even if I'm thinking about like one of my homeboys,
- 24:05Speaker 1: I'll make you text someone like call them like I
- 24:07Speaker 1: would just let you know, man, bro, you just you
- 24:08Speaker 1: know I still love you, you know what I'm saying,
- 24:10Speaker 1: like my little brother or something like that. And it
- 24:12Speaker 1: took maturity. It took maturity and growing for me to
- 24:15Speaker 1: even be like that. I wasn't like that at first.
- 24:17Speaker 1: But yeah, because in the black community, like you're gay,
- 24:21Speaker 1: if you still show emotion like men like they like
- 24:24Speaker 1: it's whack to show emotion. Like at what point is
- 24:27Speaker 1: that whack? You know what I'm saying. If you're feeling
- 24:29Speaker 1: some type of way, you could be uh, you could
- 24:31Speaker 1: be vulnerable with your homeboy at least if you don't
- 24:35Speaker 1: have like a woman or therapists, if somebody could be
- 24:37Speaker 1: vulnerable with you should have friends that you could talk to.
- 24:41Speaker 1: I would think, yeah, you gotta have a friend that
- 24:44Speaker 1: you can be vulnerable with, because if you can't be grownable.
- 24:47Speaker 1: I mean, it's just like when people married, they be
- 24:49Speaker 1: vulnerable with their husband or their wife, you know, what
- 24:51Speaker 1: I'm saying to a certain understand, but that's what you
- 24:54Speaker 1: want from them, where a certain Now you can't act
- 24:57Speaker 1: like your wife is your therapist, right because that I
- 25:01Speaker 1: feel like we're gonna get into that why I feel
- 25:11Speaker 1: like men be wanted to be vulnerable, But then they
- 25:13Speaker 1: put this big ass burden on the wife and they
- 25:17Speaker 1: expect the wife to respond to even this girlfriend. You
- 25:20Speaker 1: expect them to respond in a certain way, and if
- 25:23Speaker 1: they don't, it's like, you know, you're shipping on him
- 25:26Speaker 1: or something like that, Like you can't tell me, I
- 25:28Speaker 1: don't know your fucking babysitter was smashing your ass at
- 25:34Speaker 1: fifteen or thirteen years old or something like that. And now,
- 25:37Speaker 1: and this is why you don't be respectful to women.
- 25:41Speaker 1: Who knows what it could be. So now I'm supposed
- 25:43Speaker 1: to use that little tip for the information and try
- 25:46Speaker 1: and justify why you retarded today. I don't. I can't,
- 25:52Speaker 1: but it might be part of the reason why he retarded.
- 25:54Speaker 1: And that's why you need to go to therapy. You
- 25:56Speaker 1: can't put that on me, like I got my own ship.
- 26:00Speaker 1: But sometimes women don't listen, y'all, don't listen. Listen, what
- 26:03Speaker 1: are you talking about? You hear it, and you might
- 26:07Speaker 1: listen to a certain extent, but do you really listen?
- 26:11Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying, Do you really hear what
- 26:12Speaker 1: he's saying, listen to the content of But I feel
- 26:17Speaker 1: like sometimes men have half the conversation in their head
- 26:20Speaker 1: and then the other half they say out their mouth. Right,
- 26:23Speaker 1: So now I'm supposed to put these contexts, like these
- 26:26Speaker 1: context clues together and figure out what you really mean.
- 26:29Speaker 1: Y'all don't say ship with your chests. Yes they do,
- 26:33Speaker 1: but they don't piece. I look at it. The more
- 26:39Speaker 1: you grow and the more you go through experience and
- 26:41Speaker 1: stuff like that, communication is how grown you are, how
- 26:46Speaker 1: mature you don't be. You know what I'm saying. Certain
- 26:48Speaker 1: guys ain't gonna have that communication like that because they're
- 26:50Speaker 1: scared of They're scared of being vulnerable. They're scared of
- 26:53Speaker 1: what somebody's gonna say, scared of how me and judge
- 26:55Speaker 1: and all that. So I don't know. I know women
- 26:59Speaker 1: don't listen, thought don't listen to. That's fair because I
- 27:05Speaker 1: typically will listen to respond and not listen to to
- 27:08Speaker 1: understand your head. Your story is already made up in
- 27:13Speaker 1: your head, you know, Like, But I'm working on that. Like,
- 27:18Speaker 1: so I'm trying to listen more to understand what you say,
- 27:23Speaker 1: and not just listen so I can have my rebuttal together.
- 27:27Speaker 1: I don't even like talking that much, so I really
- 27:30Speaker 1: be trying to listen to what they be saying. But
- 27:32Speaker 1: then if it sounds like some bullshit, I feel like
- 27:35Speaker 1: you're insulting my intelligence. At this point. It's not the
- 27:39Speaker 1: fact that you're lying in telling me some bullshit, it's
- 27:41Speaker 1: the fact that you think I fucking believe you. That
- 27:44Speaker 1: bothers me. So then I tap out, like I can't
- 27:47Speaker 1: listen no more because you want, like what he said,
- 27:50Speaker 1: you already got your story made up in your head.
- 27:58Speaker 1: Maybe maybe so you know, I'm already had my story
- 28:02Speaker 1: made up. So whatever the fund you saying out your
- 28:04Speaker 1: mouth be to match the story in my mind. How
- 28:06Speaker 1: about that we ain't gonna be vulnerable to you at all.
- 28:17Speaker 1: All right, So you did say that you're unmarried. Have
- 28:21Speaker 1: you ever been married? Married? So talk to us about
- 28:25Speaker 1: being a professional athlete and the difficulties in dating and
- 28:30Speaker 1: finding the perfect match. It's difficult, and you're a good dude.
- 28:34Speaker 1: If you only got one kid, congratulations, I appreciate it. Um,
- 28:39Speaker 1: I was with my mother. I mean I was with
- 28:42Speaker 1: the mother my son, and we have the same last name.
- 28:46Speaker 1: So when we broke up, I've been single for maybe
- 28:48Speaker 1: like two years and two years right now, and when
- 28:52Speaker 1: we broke up, I just found out. Man, I found out.
- 28:55Speaker 1: But everybody thought I was always married because he had
- 28:57Speaker 1: the same last name. So people think even I was
- 29:00Speaker 1: out when I'm dating people gonna cheating my wife or
- 29:03Speaker 1: people because we got the same last thing, they'd be like, oh,
- 29:06Speaker 1: Charles doing this, Charles doing that. He was never married.
- 29:09Speaker 1: It was just together, you know what I'm saying. So
- 29:11Speaker 1: that had to deal with all that. Still today people
- 29:13Speaker 1: think I'm still married. But it's all good, um. I
- 29:18Speaker 1: mean for me, it's the not knowing, not knowing who
- 29:25Speaker 1: to trust, if not knowing that good intentions, not knowing
- 29:31Speaker 1: what they are all about. You know what I'm saying.
- 29:33Speaker 1: You can go through years and years with a person
- 29:36Speaker 1: and you'll never see their true intentions to some hit
- 29:39Speaker 1: the fan until something in the wall. And since I've
- 29:42Speaker 1: seen that in experience, I'm just like scald from that
- 29:45Speaker 1: some like particular and kind of like nonchalant about you know,
- 29:50Speaker 1: really even yeah, trying to get to you know, because
- 29:54Speaker 1: you don't never know people a good intention, you know
- 29:55Speaker 1: what I'm saying. You don't never know until they get
- 29:58Speaker 1: put to the test, until you get to go court
- 30:00Speaker 1: or somebody that. That's when it happened to the whole time,
- 30:08Speaker 1: the truth come out, the lies come out to make
- 30:11Speaker 1: you look bad. Now that that come out, well, I'm
- 30:14Speaker 1: telling you never know until the press is put on.
- 30:16Speaker 1: So how long were you all together? Uh, let's get
- 30:20Speaker 1: about five six years? Okay? Yeah, my son, Um, I
- 30:28Speaker 1: had my son. I was twenty five, Prince of team. Now. Yeah,
- 30:31Speaker 1: so I had my son. I was twenty five and
- 30:34Speaker 1: I was running Charlotte hard. You know what I'm saying,
- 30:36Speaker 1: twenty five, I'm st Scharlotte. You know what I ain't.
- 30:40Speaker 1: I'm running. But once I have my son, Now you
- 30:47Speaker 1: need a daughter to settle you down. Now, you ain't
- 30:49Speaker 1: gonna set it down with the son, but the daughter
- 30:51Speaker 1: humble your ass, right, Dotar will humble years. I feel
- 30:54Speaker 1: paying for those guys that got like four or five
- 30:56Speaker 1: dollars and stuff like that, you know, but that ain't
- 30:58Speaker 1: for the week though, That ain't for the week. So
- 31:00Speaker 1: I don't know if I'm strong enough to even have that.
- 31:02Speaker 1: Don't I'm strong enough to have a son and raise
- 31:04Speaker 1: a king, But I don't know if I'm having strong
- 31:06Speaker 1: enough to raise a queen. You might not be enough
- 31:08Speaker 1: of it. Well, you may not. I feel like men
- 31:11Speaker 1: who have a bunch of girls usually they were womanizers
- 31:15Speaker 1: in their former a lot of times, you know what,
- 31:20Speaker 1: So they get those girls because your daughter gonna run
- 31:23Speaker 1: into the nigger like you, boy, and you're gonna cry.
- 31:26Speaker 1: You're gonna cry if no woman ever made you cry,
- 31:29Speaker 1: but that love girl gonna make you cry. Yeah, I
- 31:31Speaker 1: faith though, Man't they get older and you gotta you
- 31:34Speaker 1: gotta protect to I feel like with a son, you're
- 31:38Speaker 1: teaching him to lead a porch. With a daughter, they're
- 31:42Speaker 1: always gonna be around for you. You know what I'm saying.
- 31:45Speaker 1: That you're always gonna try to protect your daughter. You're
- 31:47Speaker 1: always gonna try to be there for your daughter. But
- 31:50Speaker 1: with a son, you're preparing him to be another protector,
- 31:55Speaker 1: you see what I'm saying. So he's gonna grow up
- 31:57Speaker 1: to be protecting another woman. He's gonna have to do
- 32:00Speaker 1: his own thing with a woman. You still got his
- 32:03Speaker 1: dad and try to help out with But that so
- 32:07Speaker 1: so here's where the focus should be. Then the focus
- 32:09Speaker 1: should be on boys, because you're only concerned about your
- 32:12Speaker 1: daughter in that way because there's not enough men out
- 32:15Speaker 1: here to make sure she's good, you see. So you
- 32:17Speaker 1: you're raising the sun making sure he's straight, so he
- 32:20Speaker 1: could take care of somebody's daughter. But it's a lot
- 32:24Speaker 1: of people who only focus on the girls, like, oh,
- 32:26Speaker 1: you know, put you put so much pressure on little girls.
- 32:28Speaker 1: But then your son just out here running the fucking muck,
- 32:31Speaker 1: you know what I'm saying. Yeah, so that's kind of
- 32:39Speaker 1: back was like, we gotta we gotta make sure we
- 32:41Speaker 1: take we're looking out for young black men man for real,
- 32:44Speaker 1: for him. My son hasn't gotten into all that yet, um,
- 32:48Speaker 1: like crushes and stuff like that. You know. I'm kind
- 32:51Speaker 1: of good with that, you know what I mean. But
- 32:53Speaker 1: you know, so each his own. But he ain't got
- 32:56Speaker 1: into like all that. I'm glad, kind of glad of that,
- 33:00Speaker 1: but I know it's coming, coming, coming for your ass.
- 33:05Speaker 1: I could deal with it, though. I could deal with
- 33:07Speaker 1: it with him instead of a girl, because you know,
- 33:10Speaker 1: y'all y'all get hot in the pants. Y'all men't get
- 33:13Speaker 1: hot in the pass. What you mean, everybody get hot
- 33:18Speaker 1: in the pansions the only because it nefferences we can
- 33:22Speaker 1: get pregnant. That's the problem. We can get pregnant, that's it.
- 33:26Speaker 1: If women get If women it choose like, hey, I'm
- 33:28Speaker 1: gonna get pregnant for him, like and that's how we
- 33:30Speaker 1: were to get pregnant. We choose the person for real,
- 33:33Speaker 1: then I feel like it wouldn't be that much up.
- 33:37Speaker 1: That's what I'm saying. That's what I'm saying. We wouldn't
- 33:39Speaker 1: be looked at like we would be equal to a man.
- 33:43Speaker 1: It's because we have to have children and we're supposed
- 33:45Speaker 1: to be the nurturers and all that ship why they
- 33:48Speaker 1: put us on this pedestal. We're just humans. Do you
- 33:52Speaker 1: got kids? I don't, well, ain't got no kids. You
- 33:56Speaker 1: are not supposed to ask. Let me tell us for
- 34:00Speaker 1: all our listeners. Listen, Thanksgiving coming to funk up? All right?
- 34:04Speaker 1: Your bum ask aunt at the house who got five
- 34:07Speaker 1: kids and no daddy asking you why you don't have
- 34:11Speaker 1: no kids yet? Where you're nigger, tell her to admire
- 34:13Speaker 1: her funky ask business. Listen, I'm about that. I'm about
- 34:20Speaker 1: to kill us right now. And this is what I
- 34:21Speaker 1: this is This is exactly how I do people when
- 34:24Speaker 1: they ask me about my personal ship. I am thirty seven. No,
- 34:28Speaker 1: I don't have any kids, and I have had to
- 34:30Speaker 1: tubal pregnancies. That's why I don't have any kids right now.
- 34:34Speaker 1: So you see why you shouldn't ask women of a
- 34:37Speaker 1: certain age why they don't have children. It's not because
- 34:41Speaker 1: I don't want children. But that's not Yeah, it's not
- 34:45Speaker 1: because I don't want children. Why I don't have children?
- 34:47Speaker 1: What I'm saying so if God is willing for the
- 34:50Speaker 1: reason to like, you know, the downgrade your situation. But
- 34:55Speaker 1: it's so sensitive. So just going forward, just why you
- 35:01Speaker 1: ain't got no keys? Why because I shot off? Maybe
- 35:12Speaker 1: I'm gonna say I'm working on it. That's what I'm
- 35:14Speaker 1: gonna say going forward, I'm working on it. If you
- 35:17Speaker 1: had a man, I do not say you don't know.
- 35:21Speaker 1: That's what you said, bitch. If on the question if
- 35:28Speaker 1: you had a man, yes, because I'm fresh out of relationship,
- 35:33Speaker 1: so yes, i'd so feel the same way. Yeah, then
- 35:37Speaker 1: I need a nigger right now to give me some
- 35:39Speaker 1: sperm to go get a vitro. That's what I need
- 35:42Speaker 1: right so I got I get to really pick my
- 35:45Speaker 1: baby daddy and he has to really be committed because
- 35:48Speaker 1: but look we see people like look at Mainglely Mingley
- 35:51Speaker 1: had her husband, her boyfriend or whatever, and they went
- 35:54Speaker 1: through in vitro together and now they're not together. Like
- 35:56Speaker 1: I can't imagine going through or for teaser where you
- 36:00Speaker 1: really signed up to be my kid's dad and then
- 36:03Speaker 1: we still end up not together. That's some bullshit. Yeah,
- 36:06Speaker 1: mainly that's the homie I know because I was running
- 36:09Speaker 1: back in the streets and the landing back of the day. Um,
- 36:12Speaker 1: nice woman, but I don't I don't know mama home.
- 36:16Speaker 1: Girls don't asked me, you know before, like she asked
- 36:18Speaker 1: me what i'd be her father her child. She was
- 36:20Speaker 1: like I signed paperwork all that, blah blah blah. Said.
- 36:23Speaker 1: She was just like, I know you're gonna take care
- 36:24Speaker 1: of your kids, and that's why I would love for
- 36:27Speaker 1: you to be the father. Why And I thought about
- 36:33Speaker 1: I mean, I just came to her and you already
- 36:36Speaker 1: had your son at the time, you already got my son.
- 36:39Speaker 1: This is this is recent, yeah, so I mean I
- 36:42Speaker 1: would have told her, like, you know, maybe the next
- 36:44Speaker 1: person I have a kid with, I want to actually
- 36:46Speaker 1: be with him. So It wasn't even that because I
- 36:49Speaker 1: could see myself having because I know she she'll be
- 36:51Speaker 1: a good mother, and she got her own stuff. She
- 36:53Speaker 1: got everything taken care of. You know what I'm saying,
- 36:55Speaker 1: she's got her own things. Um, But I just know,
- 36:58Speaker 1: I think at a certain name for women liked, right,
- 37:07Speaker 1: they look at specific things like that, right right, Younger women, Damn,
- 37:13Speaker 1: they're just having babies with anybody, you know what I'm saying,
- 37:16Speaker 1: anybody that's attractive to him? Man, what a woman? Was
- 37:19Speaker 1: he taking his kids? He's in his kids like seven,
- 37:22Speaker 1: none of them this You don't see that a lot.
- 37:25Speaker 1: So you know, m I don't know. I just couldn't
- 37:28Speaker 1: do it. But I mean, I couldn't do it, but
- 37:30Speaker 1: I just I don't think I'm ready for it. That's
- 37:33Speaker 1: a huge responsibility to decide together. But we're not gonna
- 37:39Speaker 1: be together, right yeah, right, even though you ain't like
- 37:43Speaker 1: she's gonna put your on child's spots. She won't do nothing.
- 37:45Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying. I don't know until you
- 37:47Speaker 1: get the thing. I'm scared. What do you think I'm scared?
- 37:52Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying, I don't never know. So
- 37:54Speaker 1: he just jumped off the phone though. Yeah, that's weird
- 37:57Speaker 1: m hm. So if you could give a lesson about
- 38:01Speaker 1: being in a relationship while in the NFL to like
- 38:05Speaker 1: the rookies, what would you say, asked gus as every teammate,
- 38:14Speaker 1: ask them about if you mean to check, ask do
- 38:17Speaker 1: your research, do your background. Go ask a dude. I'm
- 38:20Speaker 1: telling you, I'm being honest with you, Like, go ask
- 38:24Speaker 1: your o G on the team, Ask your guy old
- 38:26Speaker 1: head who's been in the streets on the team. That's
- 38:28Speaker 1: something like, do you know this chick? Do you know this?
- 38:31Speaker 1: Go through an instagram, go to see what she followed,
- 38:33Speaker 1: Go through all that. That's gonna save you time. Telling
- 38:36Speaker 1: you gonna save your time because she followed one of
- 38:38Speaker 1: your teammates. Unless she followed I guarantee you she ain't
- 38:43Speaker 1: following for no reason. I don't just think we like sports.
- 38:49Speaker 1: I ain't saying she likes what It could be chance,
- 38:54Speaker 1: you know what I mean? So just ask. They can
- 38:56Speaker 1: do that with regular women, y'all always trying to fucking
- 39:00Speaker 1: get a fan. Why y'all likely a woman? Seriously, why
- 39:06Speaker 1: not you gotta do all that, man, because you don't
- 39:08Speaker 1: want to just have yourself looking stupid I am. You see,
- 39:11Speaker 1: all these guys are just getting messed up. I mean
- 39:14Speaker 1: NBA players, look at it. They they for them to
- 39:17Speaker 1: be so get all this money and all this. I
- 39:19Speaker 1: feel like yall like that. But I feel just like,
- 39:23Speaker 1: just like in the in the music industry, like I
- 39:25Speaker 1: feel like people be targeting the same women. They passing
- 39:28Speaker 1: around the same women. Don't get all that that's the hot.
- 39:32Speaker 1: I don't know what's up with that. Like me, if
- 39:34Speaker 1: I break up with somebody, it's gonna take me like
- 39:37Speaker 1: four five months, six months. Get old people they get
- 39:40Speaker 1: married in four five six months. You know what I'm
- 39:41Speaker 1: saying to another person. I can't do all that. It's
- 39:45Speaker 1: too much and two less of a time. Like I
- 39:48Speaker 1: don't know, I can't do I can't do multiple a
- 39:53Speaker 1: woman that's been with guys who know they've been around
- 39:57Speaker 1: and I might have done a song with him or
- 40:00Speaker 1: on the hung around this dude multiple times, and you're
- 40:02Speaker 1: telling about the wife this is the same this woman.
- 40:07Speaker 1: You're gonna wipe this woman. Go ahead him right, I've
- 40:10Speaker 1: been saying a bitch all day now telling him this. Right.
- 40:15Speaker 1: It's kind of like nigga, you know, like I could
- 40:18Speaker 1: say no, I feel that, so all right? Should a
- 40:27Speaker 1: woman feel the same way about the guy she's dating, Like, yeah,
- 40:32Speaker 1: I don't like a nigga who I know he doesn't
- 40:33Speaker 1: smash a few bitches that I know personally, I don't
- 40:36Speaker 1: like that, Like I probably feel like how men men Field,
- 40:40Speaker 1: It's like you got your community dick, and now I'm
- 40:42Speaker 1: around here like in love with community dick. See, but
- 40:47Speaker 1: that don't matter to me honestly, as long as you're
- 40:49Speaker 1: not community dick, no more with me. You could have
- 40:53Speaker 1: sucked every girl in here because you're my nigga. Now,
- 40:56Speaker 1: so you wanna marry that community dick. If he's you
- 41:00Speaker 1: have a baby for community? Why was it? Yeah? Why
- 41:05Speaker 1: can you worry about what something else going on? If
- 41:06Speaker 1: it's good for you? Like if we're happy, he ain't
- 41:09Speaker 1: worry about what everybody else has got? Worrybody else? Do
- 41:12Speaker 1: you know? Just love to tell us and my old girl.
- 41:14Speaker 1: He had tried to talk to me, oh guy used
- 41:16Speaker 1: to fun with him? Well you don't now, Like I
- 41:18Speaker 1: don't feel like dealing with all that ship, like that
- 41:20Speaker 1: ship getting back around to me. Like I like that though,
- 41:24Speaker 1: I like that from a woman like if if if
- 41:26Speaker 1: you're aggressive tours like a woman saying, well, I used
- 41:30Speaker 1: to talk to him when you don't know he mind.
- 41:33Speaker 1: Now I like that, but I don't feel like having
- 41:36Speaker 1: to tell that tell hunted bitches though, Okay, I wanted
- 41:39Speaker 1: to to y'all that's me. You may sit down. A
- 41:47Speaker 1: lot of you get like I gotta tell all these
- 41:52Speaker 1: bitches you mind now, Like come on, man, you community dick,
- 41:56Speaker 1: let me stop playing, because I like hose you communic.
- 42:05Speaker 1: Of course, I like I like men who can get
- 42:08Speaker 1: women right, and the men who can get women usually
- 42:12Speaker 1: have had quite ye therefore. But I distinctively remember being
- 42:16Speaker 1: out one night in a place and a friend of
- 42:19Speaker 1: ours birthday party and I just standing next to the
- 42:22Speaker 1: dude I used to talk to. But now he's like
- 42:24Speaker 1: pointing out to the different bitches and ill crew that
- 42:28Speaker 1: he doesn't fun. And I'm like, I'm laughing. Yes, I'm
- 42:33Speaker 1: laughing because I already know I'm never working with you again.
- 42:36Speaker 1: But you know how to happen to it, right, because
- 42:40Speaker 1: it'll be your crew and say if she fuking with
- 42:43Speaker 1: me right and she don't win and told your home
- 42:46Speaker 1: girl just on the logo, like man, damn, he got
- 42:49Speaker 1: some good dig or down. He did this. He did
- 42:51Speaker 1: this even though she might have just just bullshit telling
- 42:56Speaker 1: that you don't put some ship in back of her head,
- 42:58Speaker 1: like well if it was drunk night one night and
- 43:01Speaker 1: I see him out some ship, girl, girl hold, black
- 43:12Speaker 1: women are innocent, all right. But the thing is, I
- 43:16Speaker 1: like super sneaky links, So like, I'm not gonna be
- 43:19Speaker 1: the one that communicate to these other women that I
- 43:22Speaker 1: didn't funk with this guy, So I'm not gonna know
- 43:23Speaker 1: sh about him, you know, So I'm up gonna know
- 43:25Speaker 1: he didn't sunk with all this. He had to literally
- 43:27Speaker 1: put bitches out, And I'm like, God, damn, I would
- 43:31Speaker 1: have never funcked with you if I knew that. But
- 43:33Speaker 1: I don't have girls that knew I was messing with
- 43:36Speaker 1: hung girl, and she still trying to give me the
- 43:38Speaker 1: box like she knew, did you still take it? But
- 43:42Speaker 1: she was throwing it at me. You're a good man, Chucky.
- 43:46Speaker 1: I'm not allowing spens for best friends like same time
- 43:49Speaker 1: I one afterno, but they knew about each other. They
- 43:53Speaker 1: did that to themself so that after they know about
- 43:57Speaker 1: each other, they take best friend pictures and stuff. To
- 43:59Speaker 1: this day, it's still besties there was like, they the
- 44:02Speaker 1: best bitchy. That'll be us everybody mus black women. You
- 44:13Speaker 1: you passed around, chucky, I was going hard to paint.
- 44:20Speaker 1: Now they passed you around, right, Like girl, try a girl.
- 44:23Speaker 1: He like he might be for uber meats. We're gonna
- 44:30Speaker 1: drop that like that. Younger days, you're trying to get on,
- 44:36Speaker 1: trying to get off, you know what I'm saying, trying
- 44:37Speaker 1: to get off. Before we move into the next segment,
- 44:40Speaker 1: here's a word from our sponsory. So we have this
- 44:48Speaker 1: segment on our show. It's called SIMP Series, SIMP Serious
- 44:54Speaker 1: and let me tell you about it all right. Basically,
- 44:58Speaker 1: we have the guys tell a story where they got
- 45:00Speaker 1: plagued before, like where a girl did them dirty, Like damn,
- 45:05Speaker 1: I thought you funk with me for real. Nah. It
- 45:08Speaker 1: was just one time where minute she was talking and
- 45:13Speaker 1: I think either we were leaving the club together and
- 45:18Speaker 1: she was like, all right, you go get the room
- 45:20Speaker 1: or at the room and I'm gonna come through, go
- 45:24Speaker 1: get the room. I'm sitting there waiting on the ship.
- 45:28Speaker 1: Win on the ship. She never showed. Just have a
- 45:31Speaker 1: look on social media, Shawty and Onyx with some basketball
- 45:35Speaker 1: niggers that came in some basketball niggas that came in
- 45:40Speaker 1: through the thing with So she I'm being petty. I
- 45:43Speaker 1: go to HONYX, you know what homeboys to go to honest,
- 45:46Speaker 1: maybe like two thirty in the morning, get a table.
- 45:49Speaker 1: I'm just being petty and ship, I'm throwing ones all
- 45:52Speaker 1: over on this side and said because they don't even
- 45:53Speaker 1: see me and stuff like that. Whatever, but she's finally
- 45:56Speaker 1: seen me, try to come talk blah blah blah. I
- 46:00Speaker 1: just left after that. I just left. I really wanted
- 46:02Speaker 1: her to just see me, and then I just left.
- 46:04Speaker 1: So I damn, I thought you was gonna say I
- 46:06Speaker 1: took a hunt at once, and I just like, I'm
- 46:12Speaker 1: kind of like the low key, sneaky petty like I'm
- 46:17Speaker 1: I'm I'm gonna be real low key about it. But
- 46:20Speaker 1: if you do some petty ship, I'll definitely hit your
- 46:22Speaker 1: ass back with some PA. Did she apologize? I ain't.
- 46:25Speaker 1: I ain't talked to you, never spoke to her. I'm
- 46:27Speaker 1: quick to be like, what's your son, my counsel. Oh,
- 46:34Speaker 1: I'm quickly to be like, I'll never talked. I ain't
- 46:36Speaker 1: gonna talk to you over again. Of life, right, So
- 46:38Speaker 1: you cut people off real easy, easy, hite work. Oh
- 46:41Speaker 1: that's not good though, not because everybody's flawed. You know,
- 46:44Speaker 1: nobody's gonna be perfect. That was a whole he was
- 46:47Speaker 1: telling her to get the room. That's why you could
- 46:53Speaker 1: just discard her. But what about somebody love I'll come
- 46:58Speaker 1: off anybody I cut off you just because you're associated
- 47:02Speaker 1: with a person I don't like. Really interesting, because if
- 47:05Speaker 1: you can associate with a person that I don't like,
- 47:07Speaker 1: don't mean you really a friend of mine if you
- 47:12Speaker 1: like them, because friend of mine, you don't like him,
- 47:15Speaker 1: don't like I wouldn't deal with him, But I wouldn't say, oh,
- 47:19Speaker 1: I don't like them, But I just wouldn't if I
- 47:23Speaker 1: know that you're you're my best friend. I know that
- 47:25Speaker 1: you don't like this person. I don't like him either.
- 47:28Speaker 1: At this I went, I don't like them, but I friends.
- 47:32Speaker 1: If we and then y'all just just um if we're
- 47:35Speaker 1: all friends. If we're all friends, then and y'all fall out.
- 47:40Speaker 1: I don't know, I cause ain't no FA with my friend.
- 47:41Speaker 1: I'm saying. Two guys I've been running with for decades.
- 47:44Speaker 1: I'm saying guys I've been running with. I've been blessing
- 47:47Speaker 1: enough to have some tight knit apartments. Listen, you can't
- 47:51Speaker 1: be friends, no new bitch that I don't like, but
- 47:53Speaker 1: you can, like if we all cool and then I
- 47:56Speaker 1: stopped talking to them, I don't expect you to stop
- 47:58Speaker 1: talking to them. And if it's a bit you don't
- 48:01Speaker 1: funk with and she comes around and you're talking about
- 48:03Speaker 1: you I like her, No, bit we hate her? What
- 48:06Speaker 1: is your problem? She's still kicking it with the person
- 48:10Speaker 1: you don't like and kicking it. Yeah, if we were
- 48:13Speaker 1: all cool and now we fell out, I don't expect
- 48:15Speaker 1: you to stop talking with them because I don't look
- 48:17Speaker 1: like them. But if you if we met, if you're
- 48:20Speaker 1: just meeting this person, no, we hate her? What are
- 48:23Speaker 1: you doing? I agree? Mm hmm, I don't be like
- 48:30Speaker 1: I hate you, but I just went with them. I ope.
- 48:34Speaker 1: So yeah, I'm using the word hate loosely. I don't
- 48:37Speaker 1: hate nobody. Now I'm just cut you off, like you're
- 48:40Speaker 1: gonna deal with Are you trying to get married to?
- 48:42Speaker 1: What what you got going on? You? Um? I don't know.
- 48:47Speaker 1: I ain't being on that label though, Like I want
- 48:50Speaker 1: to live my life like I feel like they're like
- 48:52Speaker 1: when my son get like eighteen, something like that, I
- 48:54Speaker 1: want to like traveling and be six months somewhere and
- 48:57Speaker 1: six months back here. Somebody so so you feel like
- 49:01Speaker 1: getting married is not living your life. It's like dying.
- 49:09Speaker 1: I put it like this. I'm so comfortable when I'm
- 49:11Speaker 1: by myself. I can move how I want to move, move.
- 49:15Speaker 1: I can move quicker and go to this place and
- 49:17Speaker 1: have to worry about this place, and I'll go this
- 49:18Speaker 1: splot and I have to worry about waiting on another
- 49:21Speaker 1: person or seeing this person can go if they can
- 49:24Speaker 1: afford it, or if they gotta book they flag, none
- 49:27Speaker 1: of that. I ain't got time for that. I know
- 49:30Speaker 1: I go. I know I can go. Whenever I want
- 49:32Speaker 1: to go. I go to I go. You know you
- 49:36Speaker 1: can get you a woman that can go. If I
- 49:38Speaker 1: find me a woman like that, yeah, for sure. Like ship,
- 49:41Speaker 1: Hey baby, you can you can leave Friday, let's go.
- 49:44Speaker 1: We can leave tomorrow of the day. If I wake
- 49:47Speaker 1: up in the morning, I'm like, man, let's go catch
- 49:48Speaker 1: the fight at Twilve. Let's do it. You want a
- 49:51Speaker 1: bit with zero pointed But everybody everybody got careers, everybody
- 50:05Speaker 1: trying to you know, hustle, you know, do they thing
- 50:08Speaker 1: like that? You know, and I like mailbox checks. Well,
- 50:11Speaker 1: you could just what kind of chick mailbox? Okay, explain that.
- 50:16Speaker 1: Let me just wake up in the morning, you go
- 50:18Speaker 1: to the mailbox and there's a check in the meal.
- 50:23Speaker 1: Mailbox checks. A mailbox checks or check check. But what
- 50:30Speaker 1: I got to do? So when, like I said, mailbox checks,
- 50:34Speaker 1: like I could just wake up and I got a
- 50:37Speaker 1: check in the mail, I can go wherever I want
- 50:39Speaker 1: to go. I can go to one right, That's all
- 50:41Speaker 1: I'm saying. I ain't say anything going to do it
- 50:43Speaker 1: because I thought you was like so you woant have
- 50:45Speaker 1: beensually worked with the posters. I'm not working try trying
- 50:53Speaker 1: to ship a triple wammy pack man. I'm trying to
- 51:03Speaker 1: How about y'all asking me the question? What y'all say
- 51:06Speaker 1: I'm gonna commitment, folks? So okay, I don't girls, stop
- 51:11Speaker 1: claiming would be like that for the rest of you.
- 51:14Speaker 1: To anything similar to you, like something serious does feel
- 51:20Speaker 1: like like it's just closing in on me and it
- 51:23Speaker 1: makes me feel claustrophobic. M hm. So you ain't committing.
- 51:30Speaker 1: I'm not saying I'm never committing, but I mean, why
- 51:34Speaker 1: do I need to do that when I'm having fun,
- 51:36Speaker 1: not what's right now. I have Charles Johnson onf we
- 51:41Speaker 1: talked that this is a lot of point look and
- 51:50Speaker 1: that might be that might be might be intimidating for
- 51:53Speaker 1: a boyfriend or husband. It could be a problem. I
- 51:57Speaker 1: distinctively remember just watching football is saying that and neked
- 52:00Speaker 1: cute and was in trouble. You hear me like, I
- 52:03Speaker 1: can't even say they're going t VQ. Yeah, that's definitely. Yeah.
- 52:11Speaker 1: But so my problem is I just want I have
- 52:13Speaker 1: to have a certain level of independence in a relationship.
- 52:16Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying. I understand as a union
- 52:18Speaker 1: and you're supposed to do ship together and that's I
- 52:21Speaker 1: understand all of that, but I want to be doing
- 52:24Speaker 1: my thing. You could do your thing. You don't feel
- 52:27Speaker 1: slighted by my thing. I don't feel no type of
- 52:29Speaker 1: way about your thing. It's just, you know, just I'm
- 52:33Speaker 1: a Gemini, like I need to be free. I need
- 52:35Speaker 1: to be free, and if I feel like I'm in
- 52:37Speaker 1: a fucking cage, it's gonna be a problem. Yeah, that's
- 52:40Speaker 1: what I mean. That's similar to what I'm saying. I
- 52:43Speaker 1: don't want to be caged up, but I feel like
- 52:46Speaker 1: there's like I wouldn't say I'm a commitment for because
- 52:49Speaker 1: I can commit. I've had, I have committed uh to
- 52:53Speaker 1: a relationship. But my next relationship, the person just has
- 52:57Speaker 1: to be like me. That's just it. Like we have
- 53:00Speaker 1: to have the same definition of love. You know what
- 53:02Speaker 1: I'm saying, you're never gonna find Well, ain't no more.
- 53:07Speaker 1: I need a motherfucking twin. That's what the funk I
- 53:10Speaker 1: needed Like that nigger gotta be a Gemini, like I
- 53:14Speaker 1: need a twin. But uh, what you asked me? You're
- 53:20Speaker 1: sorry he asked me if I want a relationship, Oh,
- 53:27Speaker 1: because I'm not. It just didn't have I was engaged though,
- 53:31Speaker 1: but yeah, I was engaged for a while. So we
- 53:35Speaker 1: never planned a date and nothing like that. It was
- 53:39Speaker 1: filling off before that. But you know what motherfucker's think,
- 53:42Speaker 1: like you had a baby or you get married, it's
- 53:44Speaker 1: gonna change, Like, nah, that should be the same ship.
- 53:47Speaker 1: Now you just got a bigger commitment. So I don't
- 53:50Speaker 1: personally have a problem with commitment. I can commit to somebody,
- 53:53Speaker 1: but it just got to be right all the way around.
- 53:56Speaker 1: And you know, every relationship you get in, like you
- 53:58Speaker 1: see what you want and what you're doing you know
- 54:00Speaker 1: what I'm saying to the next one, to be better.
- 54:02Speaker 1: So it's just lessons. I don't regret anything, just like
- 54:06Speaker 1: I feel like people forcing, like trying to force relationships
- 54:09Speaker 1: so quick, like like how quick do you think you
- 54:12Speaker 1: should be in a relationship with a person? Let me
- 54:15Speaker 1: tell you right fucking now, I'm supposed to be in
- 54:18Speaker 1: a relationship. If I need somebody, you better like me
- 54:20Speaker 1: at the same capacity, nigga. I don't have no time
- 54:23Speaker 1: to play. Hey. Look, that's why i'm hey you better
- 54:32Speaker 1: you better like me today, nigger, because I don't want to.
- 54:37Speaker 1: Maybe I do, maybe I don't. I have no time
- 54:39Speaker 1: for me because if you, if you, if you funk
- 54:42Speaker 1: with somebody, you you be wanting to be on them,
- 54:44Speaker 1: you know what I'm saying. So if you ain't on me,
- 54:45Speaker 1: you're gonna sunk with me. That's how I feel. But
- 54:48Speaker 1: you could They could be on you for that day. Yeah,
- 54:50Speaker 1: for that day. Oh yeah, I like you that day,
- 54:52Speaker 1: and then tomorrow you might do some ship and they
- 54:55Speaker 1: don't like you. So what do you see? Any better
- 54:58Speaker 1: like you? Now? If I like you, you better fucking
- 55:02Speaker 1: like me. I don't have no time to wait for
- 55:04Speaker 1: a nigga to like me no more, I've done that,
- 55:07Speaker 1: like you wait around you like a guard. Uh. I
- 55:17Speaker 1: mean it takes me a while sometimes if I've known
- 55:19Speaker 1: you a while and then we maybe start talking to
- 55:21Speaker 1: something like that, like you already know me, nigga, what
- 55:23Speaker 1: then are we talking about? But I'm not just saying
- 55:26Speaker 1: like somebody I just met yesterday and I'm like, oh,
- 55:29Speaker 1: you might niggat a day. No, that's not what I'm saying.
- 55:32Speaker 1: That's not But if it's somebody I've built a rapport with,
- 55:35Speaker 1: I would say six months, you know, if you funk
- 55:38Speaker 1: with somebody or not. Yeah, like you know, that's if
- 55:43Speaker 1: it's a new person that you never knew, you see,
- 55:48Speaker 1: But if we've built a rapport, we kind of know
- 55:51Speaker 1: each other. Why why why you need three years because
- 55:55Speaker 1: I don't know you like it in them six months?
- 55:59Speaker 1: Y'all don't at sex, right, Yeah? Yeah, mostly you gotta
- 56:04Speaker 1: see you know with that dick, like yes, of course,
- 56:14Speaker 1: and nigga's women ain't starting the condom dick. So yeah,
- 56:18Speaker 1: it depends on how we fucking my nigga. We appreciate
- 56:32Speaker 1: you man, appreciate this was a fun episode. So all
- 56:37Speaker 1: tell people where they can find and if you want
- 56:40Speaker 1: them to find you, right, you can't find me. I'm
- 56:43Speaker 1: unnoticeable and I don't care if you find me or not.
- 56:46Speaker 1: Twitter is Randy Watson. That's my name. My Instagram name
- 56:54Speaker 1: is c J George nine nine, So my Twitter name
- 56:58Speaker 1: is Randy Watson. Just to be honestly, can you sing well?
- 57:06Speaker 1: Thank you so much for joining us today, and we
- 57:09Speaker 1: talked bad. You gotta come back and talk with us again. Yeah,
- 57:13Speaker 1: when you when you get an old lady, we want
- 57:15Speaker 1: to her. Yo, you come. I gave you everything you
- 57:19Speaker 1: got him, so you can't say what you said. I
- 57:24Speaker 1: told you to get one and done. There you go podcast.
- 57:28Speaker 1: So this first and last, this might be the last
- 57:31Speaker 1: one you ever hear from me. So, yeah, you ain't
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