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Dirty Little Secret:I'm Not Into My Girlfriend Anymore! · Billy The Kidd In The Morning

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  Speaker 1: It's Dirty Little Secret with Billy the Kid in the
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  Speaker 1: morning on Mix 102.9. Brought to you by Mint Dentistry.
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  Speaker 2: All right, let's do it.
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  Speaker 3: Time to confess. It's Billy the Kid, Candace Lopez. Producer
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  Speaker 3: Poo is here. And let's get your secrets on 833-787-1029.
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  Speaker 3: We do it at 730 and 930. No matter what
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  Speaker 3: that secret is, you bring it, and you got one.
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  Speaker 4: It's a big one.
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  Speaker 2: Okay.
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  Speaker 4: Well, my girlfriend and I, she doesn't have a clue
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  Speaker 4: about my little secret, and I don't really know how
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  Speaker 4: to get it out without hurting her pretty bad when
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  Speaker 4: she doesn't deserve it. I've been dating my girlfriend for
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  Speaker 4: about six months now, and she's great. None of this
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  Speaker 4: has anything to do with her. She's amazing. My friends
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  Speaker 4: love her. My family loves her.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah. She's awesome.
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  Speaker 4: The problem is.
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  Speaker 4: I'm gay. And she's kind of been my beard.
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  Speaker 2: You're gay?
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  Speaker 4: Yeah, I'm gay.
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  Speaker 2: But you have a girlfriend.
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  Speaker 1: Okay.
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  Speaker 4: I do.
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  Speaker 2: So you haven't come out of the closet to anybody?
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  Speaker 3: No.
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  Speaker 4: I thought I was bi for a long time, but
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  Speaker 4: recently things have really started to make sense for me.
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  Speaker 2: So you thought you were bi when you started dating her?
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  Speaker 4: Yeah.
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  Speaker 1: Did she think that?
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  Speaker 4: I also didn't tell anyone that. No, she doesn't know
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  Speaker 4: that either.
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  Speaker 2: Okay.
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  Speaker 3: So you're in a relationship with a woman and you
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  Speaker 3: don't like women. This is a problem.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah.
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  Speaker 4: So it's a pretty big problem.
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  Speaker 2: Okay.
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  Speaker 3: So, well, go ahead. So this, this started happening. You
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  Speaker 3: thought you were bi, which, yeah, I mean, whatever. So you, you,
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  Speaker 3: you weren't, you were unsure.
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  Speaker 4: I was unsure.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah.
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  Speaker 4: And you know, when I started dating her, it wasn't
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  Speaker 4: that serious. You know, we were just hanging out and
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  Speaker 4: having fun and going on cute little dates and stuff.
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  Speaker 4: I wasn't, really thinking too much about it. I didn't
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  Speaker 4: think she was going to get so invested, but now
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  Speaker 4: here we are six months later and she's really thinking
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  Speaker 4: we're building a future together. She's starting to talk about
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  Speaker 4: spending the holidays with each other's families.
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  Speaker 2: Oh, come on.
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  Speaker 4: She talks like that. I feel awful.
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  Speaker 2: I feel awful. Yeah, this is where, yeah.
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  Speaker 3: Because you gotta tell her.
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  Speaker 2: You can't keep this on.
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  Speaker 3: I mean, she's getting obviously into you and committed this
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  Speaker 3: is not just dating this point you're in a full-blown
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  Speaker 3: relationship and um you know i know i i get
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  Speaker 3: how you would feel bad about i get it because
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  Speaker 3: you don't sound like a bad.
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  Speaker 4: Guy yeah i'm not i'm it might sound like it
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  Speaker 4: right now but i'm not a bad guy and i
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  Speaker 4: do really care about her she's my best friend in
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  Speaker 4: the world but that's really all it's ever going to
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  Speaker 4: be is she's my best friend She needs to know
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  Speaker 4: how to. Yeah, I got to tell her. But how
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  Speaker 4: do I tell her this whole thing has just been,
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  Speaker 4: you know, me trying to figure things out or. Well,
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  Speaker 4: I worry, too, about how do you tell someone.
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  Speaker 3: Like I'm sure that will mess with someone's head, no
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  Speaker 3: matter if it's a man or a woman, like when
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  Speaker 3: the person you're dating tells you they're not interested. I mean,
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  Speaker 3: obviously it has nothing to do with them. It's not
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  Speaker 3: like she had an effect on your preference.
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  Speaker 4: Right.
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  Speaker 2: But it's still... But it's.
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  Speaker 1: Like, do you tell her the reason or do you
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  Speaker 1: just break it off?
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  Speaker 2: I think you have to.
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  Speaker 3: I don't know. I mean, you got to do whatever
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  Speaker 3: you're comfortable with, but I feel like I would want
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  Speaker 3: to know the truth. Yeah.
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  Speaker 2: Wouldn't you want to know the truth if you're dealing
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  Speaker 2: with this?
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  Speaker 1: I mean, it probably would make her feel better to
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  Speaker 1: know that's the reason and not, you know, something's wrong
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  Speaker 1: with her or she did something wrong.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, but right. If he tells her the truth, she might...
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  Speaker 2: Some people might think, oh, maybe I caused this or
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  Speaker 2: something like that. I don't know.
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  Speaker 3: Well, that's what I'm saying she would worry about. I mean,
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  Speaker 3: because that girl I used to date a long, long
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  Speaker 3: time ago.
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  Speaker 2: Oh, that's right. You were in a situation like this. Yeah,
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  Speaker 2: she sent me a postcard, a picture of her and
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  Speaker 2: her wife. I was like, wait. Wait, but that's not
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  Speaker 2: how you found out.
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  Speaker 3: No.
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  Speaker 1: Y'all were already broken up.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, we were already broken up.
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  Speaker 3: Realized.
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  Speaker 2: You didn't think you turned her into... No, but I
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  Speaker 2: was just like, she probably liked girls the whole time. Like,
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  Speaker 2: what were you doing with me?
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  Speaker 4: Well, maybe.
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  Speaker 3: Maybe she did. Maybe you were the one who... Maybe
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  Speaker 3: you did it.
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  Speaker 2: Oh. Maybe you did it.
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  Speaker 4: Yeah. Well.
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  Speaker 2: I feel like sooner than later is better to tell her.
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  Speaker 2: What do I know? But there's no way.
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  Speaker 1: She's talking about the holidays. I mean, she's serious and
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  Speaker 1: you got to be honest.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah.
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  Speaker 3: Well, it's just not fair to her to keep going
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  Speaker 3: on in a relationship that's going nowhere.
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  Speaker 4: Yes.
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  Speaker 3: But also it's not saying you're a bad guy. If
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  Speaker 3: you genuinely started dating her and you didn't know this
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  Speaker 3: and then you discovered this, I feel like, but I
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  Speaker 3: don't know what it's like to, I'm a straight man,
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  Speaker 3: so I don't know what it's like to be unsure
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  Speaker 3: of Yeah. Maybe I'm not saying it's a bad thing.
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  Speaker 2: I don't know. I've never been there.
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  Speaker 3: Who?
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  Speaker 1: No, I'm not.
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  Speaker 2: OK, I'm just asking. What are you talking about?
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  Speaker 3: Well, good luck with everything. And can you tell us
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  Speaker 3: when you tell her?
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  Speaker 2: I don't know.
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  Speaker 3: I mean.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah.
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  Speaker 4: I mean, I can call back, yeah. Perfect.
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  Speaker 2: That's what we'll do. We'll get an update. Stay there.
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  Speaker 3: Like, Poo, when you were dating the girl who ended
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  Speaker 3: up liking women, she wasn't into men, did she ever
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  Speaker 3: tell you afterwards, like, I wasn't into you then?
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  Speaker 2: Or I was. I was just... Or I didn't know? No,
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  Speaker 2: she didn't. She didn't. No, at all. Now that I
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  Speaker 2: know who that is, we should have known a little bit.
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  Speaker 2: You think? Yeah. I mean, now that I look back.
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  Speaker 1: I never met her.
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  Speaker 2: Like, she looked... She always just kind of... Wasn't into you.
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  Speaker 4: Oh, no.
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  Speaker 3: I mean, like, you know, she wasn't really affectionate towards Pooh.
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  Speaker 1: Maybe she didn't know.
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  Speaker 2: She fit a lot of the stereotypes, too. Like, she
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  Speaker 2: was a softball coach. Oh, no.
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  Speaker 4: No.
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  Speaker 2: What kind of car did she drive? She did have
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  Speaker 2: a Subaru. I'm not kidding.
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  Speaker 1: No.
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  Speaker 2: She did. She had a Subaru. How did we not know?
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  Speaker 2: How did we not know?