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Hear Me Out...Joe Pesci · Podcast - Big 98.7

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  Speaker 1: This weekend.
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  Speaker 2: I had made my very first turkey and I had
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  Speaker 2: already talked to my mom about it, so I couldn't
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  Speaker 2: really participate in this part of the challenge because she
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  Speaker 2: had already given me the instructions. All right, but Angie
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  Speaker 2: did participate, and this is wonderful. If you could do
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  Speaker 2: this for us this morning, Will you text your mother
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  Speaker 2: and ask her how long does the turkey go in
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  Speaker 2: the microwave? For and just share with us her response.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah, we have this up on the big ninety eight
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  Speaker 3: point seven page of the Facebook page, so drop the
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  Speaker 3: screenshots in the comments.
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  Speaker 4: What your mom responds when you ask how long.
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  Speaker 3: Do you put the turkey in the microwave? I did
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  Speaker 3: this to my mom and I said, Mommy, how long
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  Speaker 3: does the turkey go in the microwave? And her response
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  Speaker 3: it was in Spanish, but then I'll translate it for you. Okay,
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  Speaker 3: she went, I'm mehu your known goco seen it BA
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  Speaker 3: one and microwave, which translates to oh, honey, I never
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  Speaker 3: made turkey in the microway.
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  Speaker 2: She was so disappointment, disappointed, confused, right well, immediately followed
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  Speaker 2: by a phone call right like, this didn't carry on
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  Speaker 2: in text she called me and.
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  Speaker 4: Was very confused.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, she probably wanted to make sure you didn't ask.
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  Speaker 1: You to do this.
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  Speaker 3: She said, I know your VEGANBA, that is not how
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  Speaker 3: you cook a turkey.
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  Speaker 2: Let us know it's seven oh one two eight zero
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  Speaker 2: one nine eight seven what your mom says if you
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  Speaker 2: send that text here this morning, I made my first
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  Speaker 2: ever turkey this year. I've just been very lucky and
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  Speaker 2: had my parents who my dad likes doing it, he
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  Speaker 2: does it every year. And yea, I basically help like
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  Speaker 2: peel potatoes. That's kind of my job at the Glitten Thanksgiving.
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  Speaker 1: But I think we did alright, Angie. And for those
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  Speaker 1: of you who might.
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  Speaker 2: Be wondering speaking of turkey making and the friends giving
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  Speaker 2: this weekend, Angie gave a passion thirty second pitch on
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  Speaker 2: why she should be invited to the Glitten Friends Giving.
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  Speaker 2: And part of that friends, part of that pitch, excuse me,
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  Speaker 2: included fifteen dollars.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, that she would give me and she would do
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  Speaker 1: the dishes.
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  Speaker 4: Now did I.
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  Speaker 1: Do what don't you do on either of those angels?
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  Speaker 4: Okay, why you gotta bring it up like that? Did
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  Speaker 4: I give you fifteen dollars?
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  Speaker 5: No?
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  Speaker 4: I had a couple bucks. All right, I don't carry
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  Speaker 4: cash like that. Now. Did I wash the dishes?
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  Speaker 3: Absolutely not, And I know that I said that I would,
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  Speaker 3: But to be fair, one of your guests at Friends,
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  Speaker 3: giving Chelsea a delight, she was washing the dishes.
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  Speaker 4: What was I gonna barrel in there and be like, no,
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  Speaker 4: I want.
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  Speaker 3: To wash the dishes. She seemed very content to be
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  Speaker 3: washing them. And you guys had been washing dishes along
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  Speaker 3: the way, Yeah, all day long.
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  Speaker 4: So there weren't even that many.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah.
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  Speaker 2: As we started making the food, I just asked, Hey,
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  Speaker 2: is there any way we can all try to just
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  Speaker 2: like wash a couple of dishes as we go to
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  Speaker 2: make this not a nightmare at seven eight o'clock area. Yeah,
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  Speaker 2: And so there was like four things to wash by
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  Speaker 2: that point, exactly.
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  Speaker 3: And the argument there might be exactly there were only
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  Speaker 3: a few dishes, how come you didn't wash them? To
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  Speaker 3: which I say, Gabe had been serving me high noons, no,
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  Speaker 3: a couple of hours. Those dishes would have been dirty
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  Speaker 3: because I wouldn't have even been able to see.
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  Speaker 4: What I was washing.
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  Speaker 3: And so I feel like the best choice was for
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  Speaker 3: not me to wash them.
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  Speaker 2: It's incredible how this got turned around on me. All
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  Speaker 2: I did was buy them. Okay, I didn't shove Angie
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  Speaker 2: into the garage, throw her arm in the box of
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  Speaker 2: or what would be carton, I don't know.
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  Speaker 1: And I didn't make you grab them on.
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  Speaker 3: Just one thing I will do, gave you it's gaslight
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  Speaker 3: You all right?
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  Speaker 5: Celebrating life's little victories every morning we practice gratitude on
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  Speaker 5: Big ninety eight point stef.
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  Speaker 1: If I could, I would keep this feeling in a
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  Speaker 1: basket job busted out when it was someone's acting hard.
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  Speaker 5: Sure your little victories with us at seven oh one
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  Speaker 5: two and oho one ninety eight.
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  Speaker 1: Kids, I also needed to win that day.
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  Speaker 3: The obvious little victory for me, Gabe is that I
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  Speaker 3: was invited while I invited myself to your friends giving,
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  Speaker 3: and I had the best time.
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  Speaker 4: Specifically, I'm gonna.
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  Speaker 3: Head with the food is that I'm vegan, and I
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  Speaker 3: know that that is annoying to have to cater to
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  Speaker 3: a lot of dietary restrictions.
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  Speaker 1: Let me tell you, no, I'm just kidding.
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  Speaker 3: I'm just kidding, But I had so many options at
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  Speaker 3: your house for friends Giving that I really stuffed myself
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  Speaker 3: silly and it was fantastic. It works out that you've
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  Speaker 3: got a buddy, Saysar, who is completely dairy free, which
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  Speaker 3: lines up a lot of times with what vegans eat.
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  Speaker 3: So there was this delicious Brussels sprouts dish that was
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  Speaker 3: super good, creamed corn, mashed potatoes. I brought a macaroni
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  Speaker 3: salad and I ate to my little heart's contend that's awesome, Thank.
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  Speaker 4: You, I appreciate it. And then the vibes were just great.
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  Speaker 3: You taught me two new card games, which I don't
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  Speaker 3: believe in learning new games because my brain can't handle
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  Speaker 3: it right. But it was Judgyfish and Wizard, and I
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  Speaker 3: was turesh at Wizard. Mikey was holding down the floor
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  Speaker 3: for us on that one. But I won our game
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  Speaker 3: of Judgyfish, which was really exciting to me because I
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  Speaker 3: had never played that game before all. And I'll just
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  Speaker 3: the best time at friends giving at Gabe's house.
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  Speaker 4: So thank you my friend.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, no problem, it did. That does work out really well.
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  Speaker 2: I have a great friend. His name is Ian, we
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  Speaker 2: call him, Saysar. Oh yeah, ah, he yeah. He's not
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  Speaker 2: like dairy free by choice. He has like just reasons
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  Speaker 2: he can't consume dairy. So it really worked out to
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  Speaker 2: just like oh, okay, Well, if he can't have dairy, like,
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  Speaker 2: let's just not put real butter in anything basically, So
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  Speaker 2: it did work out. It was a good time. Yeah,
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  Speaker 2: that's my Uh. I don't know if you can just
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  Speaker 2: call it a little victory. I mean, that was a
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  Speaker 2: lot of fun we had. I had a great time
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  Speaker 2: hanging out with my friends. I made my first ever turkey,
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  Speaker 2: and as far as I know, it was great. It
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  Speaker 2: was solid. I did a good job. I mean, there's
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  Speaker 2: maybe one thing I would redo, but otherwise it was.
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  Speaker 3: Uh.
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  Speaker 2: There was like two parts of some leg I didn't
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  Speaker 2: get seasoned. I couldn't like get it to stick on there,
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  Speaker 2: so I probably would have used.
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  Speaker 1: A little more oil.
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  Speaker 2: But even though that was the case, I'm the one
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  Speaker 2: who ate him, so definitely thats obviously.
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  Speaker 3: I didn't eat the turkey, but my boyfriend Mikey did,
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  Speaker 3: and he had had a traumatic experience with turkey last
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  Speaker 3: year at Thanksgiving where he said he would never eat
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  Speaker 3: turkey again.
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  Speaker 4: Yeah, he was obsessed with your turkey.
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  Speaker 1: Hey, there we go.
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  Speaker 3: He loved it so much and everybody around the table
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  Speaker 3: was high praises for the turkey.
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  Speaker 4: So you crushed it was your first Turkey.
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  Speaker 1: First one I've ever done.
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  Speaker 2: It was really nice because my I saw once again
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  Speaker 2: Ian he's he's a pretty solid cook or he just
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  Speaker 2: he worked.
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  Speaker 1: He does it a lot.
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  Speaker 2: He enjoys that that aspect of Thanksgiving, and so I did.
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  Speaker 1: It's a guy.
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  Speaker 2: I had some training wheels. Okay, if anything was gonna
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  Speaker 2: go wildly wrong, my buddy Ian was there to have
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  Speaker 2: my back.
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  Speaker 1: But it was.
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  Speaker 2: It was really cool, and it was just nice having
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  Speaker 2: my friends up and obviously you a Mikey over, so
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  Speaker 2: it was a great time.
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  Speaker 1: And not to be outdone.
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  Speaker 2: This would be the exact opposite is We got a
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  Speaker 2: text from Melissa and if you ever have a little victory,
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  Speaker 2: let us know about it. At seven oh one two
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  Speaker 2: eight zero one nine eight seven, Melissa said, I'm glad
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  Speaker 2: friends Giving was awesome at your house, Gabe. My house
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  Speaker 2: could not have been more opposite, and I loved it.
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  Speaker 2: So it sounds like Melissa had a very lazy weekend.
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  Speaker 2: And there's nothing we better, we love better than a
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  Speaker 2: lazy weekend. Here a big ninety eight point seven.
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  Speaker 3: We live for a lazy weekend looking forward in the future.
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  Speaker 2: In one of the wildest stories I have ever read
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  Speaker 2: on the internet. There was a man who got divorce
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  Speaker 2: from his wife after eighteen days because he's days days
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  Speaker 2: eighteen days, yep, because he stumbled upon some topless photos
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  Speaker 2: that she had sent her ex husband before their wedding.
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  Speaker 1: Now, there is a little more to it.
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  Speaker 2: He was going through the phone because they had to
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  Speaker 2: get some stuff ready for custody battle of these kids.
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  Speaker 1: There's a lot to it.
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  Speaker 2: Long story short, turns out this guy's not a fan
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  Speaker 2: of this lady sim sending topless photos to her ex wife.
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  Speaker 4: All right again, Maybe she sent them in hopes that
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  Speaker 4: he would give up costudy. I'm sorry.
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  Speaker 2: Long story short, this went down a rabbit hole of
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  Speaker 2: divorce in eighteen days. Now we are not divorce shamise
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  Speaker 2: here on Big ninety eight point seven.
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  Speaker 1: No hate, no, but I.
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  Speaker 4: Love a divorce. I have one under my belt.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, there you go.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, So what if you're willing to share? Yeah seven
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  Speaker 2: oh one two eight zero one nine eight seven. You
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  Speaker 2: can either share like how quickly you got divorced and
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  Speaker 2: see if we can beat this eighteen daymark?
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  Speaker 1: Or why uh if you would like to. If not,
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  Speaker 1: that's solely fine.
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  Speaker 2: You could also remain anonymous, but you can call us
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  Speaker 2: or just text us, if you're more comfortable doing that.
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  Speaker 1: How quickly did you get divorced?
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  Speaker 6: At?
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  Speaker 1: Seven oh one two eight zero one nine eight seven?
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  Speaker 2: Well, Angie, it looks like I have outlasted this guy.
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  Speaker 4: Yeah. How long have you been married?
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  Speaker 5: Now?
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  Speaker 2: A little over two years, so two and a couple months,
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  Speaker 2: So not like it, not like crazy long, But I
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  Speaker 2: did outlast this guy.
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  Speaker 1: Britney Spears. Oh that's right.
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  Speaker 3: Britney Spears had been married for fifty five hours to
• 9:44
  Speaker 3: her childhood friend Jason Alexander.
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  Speaker 4: I'll never forget it. Sorry. Kim Kardashian, she was married to.
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  Speaker 3: Chris Humphries for seventy two days. Yeah, and so yeah,
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  Speaker 3: you're bat in the thousand.
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  Speaker 4: You're doing great, Charlie.
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  Speaker 1: What's your divorce story? How quickly did you get divorce? Man?
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  Speaker 1: If you're comfortable sharing.
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  Speaker 6: I got married about seven years ago, and one year
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  Speaker 6: later I caught her cheating on me with my neighbor
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  Speaker 6: and that was the end of that immediate divorce.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, that's fair. Yeah, and it's your neighbor. You gotta
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  Speaker 2: see that guy.
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  Speaker 4: Oh yeah, no, I would move out. That's the thing.
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  Speaker 3: When it's infidelity, I feel like that makes sense for
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  Speaker 3: there to be an immediate divorce.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, and if you don't have especially if there's like
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  Speaker 2: no kids involved, you can make that a clean easy
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  Speaker 2: like yeah, get away, breakaway. Now, Angie, you have been
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  Speaker 2: married before and now are not with that person.
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  Speaker 1: What happened?
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  Speaker 4: Oh? You know, we got together.
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  Speaker 1: We got together when we.
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  Speaker 4: Were really young.
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  Speaker 3: I was twenty one and he was about to turn
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  Speaker 3: twenty one. Yeah, and we got two great kids out
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  Speaker 3: of it. But you know, you just grow up. I'm
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  Speaker 3: not at all the person I was in my twenties
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  Speaker 3: now that I'm inching towards forties.
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  Speaker 4: So yeah, we just kind of grew apart. Thankfully.
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  Speaker 3: It's all very amicable, and we just felt on the kids. Yeah,
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  Speaker 3: but I made it what I was married for fourteen
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  Speaker 3: years a long time.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, Yeah, I mean that's pretty good. Amber. What about you?
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  Speaker 6: We realized on our honeymoon that we just don't travel
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  Speaker 6: the same. I wanted beach naps and he wanted six
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  Speaker 6: am museum tours. By day three, we were eating breakfast
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  Speaker 6: at separate tables. So we got home and we just
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  Speaker 6: called it.
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  Speaker 2: Well right after the honeymoon, Wow, wow, something smells a
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  Speaker 2: foot here. Okay, how do we not know how we
• 11:32
  Speaker 2: traveled together and we're getting married.
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  Speaker 3: Maybe the travel I bet you the honeymoon, was that
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  Speaker 3: like a way farther away destiny?
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  Speaker 4: Yeah?
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  Speaker 2: Okay, because yeah, I was gonna say you never did
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  Speaker 2: like a weekend trip somewhere.
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  Speaker 3: I will say with Mikey, we've had several discussions about
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  Speaker 3: what vacation in a tropical place looks like, and we
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  Speaker 3: very much aligned with We're on the beach drinking right.
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  Speaker 3: Do not try to take me like this one. Do
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  Speaker 3: not try to take me on a museum tour, sir.
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  Speaker 3: I don't like learning in my own country.
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  Speaker 5: No.
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  Speaker 1: Seven oh one two eight zero one nine eight seven.
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  Speaker 2: If you are willing to share or text us why
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  Speaker 2: you got divorced so quickly this morning on Big ninety
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  Speaker 2: eight point seven.
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  Speaker 1: This is am I the problem.
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  Speaker 4: It's me, Hi the problem.
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  Speaker 3: It's me.
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  Speaker 5: We'll hear one side of the story and with your
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  Speaker 5: help decide if it's right or if maybe you're the problem.
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  Speaker 5: That's right, I am the problem on Big ninety eight
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  Speaker 5: point seven.
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  Speaker 1: I love the self awareness seven.
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  Speaker 4: Oh one two eight a one nine eight seven.
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  Speaker 3: If you want to chime in with your thoughts on
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  Speaker 3: am I the problem. We've also got this posted to
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  Speaker 3: the Big ninety eight point seven facebook page. Derek wrote
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  Speaker 3: into us Gabe, Angie, I need your help on this.
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  Speaker 3: My girlfriend's family is very close and they host a
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  Speaker 3: lot of gatherings, especially during the holidays. Birthday dinners, weekend hangouts,
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  Speaker 3: hanging with extended relatives, last minute get togethers.
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  Speaker 4: All the things. It feels like there's something every weekend.
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  Speaker 3: I've always got along with it since we started dating,
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  Speaker 3: because I thought it was what a good partner does.
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  Speaker 3: But this is year four and I'm exhausted. I'm an introvert.
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  Speaker 3: I need downtime on the weekends, and I hate having
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  Speaker 3: my schedule filled with her family stuff all the time.
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  Speaker 3: I finally told my girlfriend that I don't want to
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  Speaker 3: attend every family event anymore. The important ones I'll go to,
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  Speaker 3: but I need more me and us time on the weekends.
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  Speaker 3: She said she feels sad when I don't come, and
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  Speaker 3: that it means a lot to her that I'm there.
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  Speaker 4: Now.
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  Speaker 3: I feel guilty every time a new event comes up
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  Speaker 3: and I say I don't want to go, But at
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  Speaker 3: the same time, the amount of family time is really
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  Speaker 3: draining me, and honestly stressing me out?
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  Speaker 4: Am I being a problem here?
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  Speaker 3: I hate to say this, Derek, because you took the
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  Speaker 3: time to reach out to us, But I think you
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  Speaker 3: are the problem.
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  Speaker 6: Wow?
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  Speaker 1: Really?
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  Speaker 3: Yes? The thing is he set the precedent, he went
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  Speaker 3: along with it since they started dating and never said anything.
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  Speaker 3: And now it's year four and he's finally saying something.
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  Speaker 3: And cool, I guess for sticking up for yourself. But
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  Speaker 3: I bet on her end she must be thinking that
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  Speaker 3: there's something wrong, that it's deeper than what he's saying,
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  Speaker 3: because why all of a sudden are you changing it?
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  Speaker 3: And if it's four years in then I would be
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  Speaker 3: the Is the spark leaving? Is he not trying to
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  Speaker 3: spend more time with Why doesn't he? And I would
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  Speaker 3: feel really awful if I were her. I think, if
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  Speaker 3: this is for real, the real reason is just that
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  Speaker 3: you're an introvert and it's draining real. You should have
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  Speaker 3: said that years ago. It is crazy to me to
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  Speaker 3: wait this long.
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  Speaker 1: You think it's a little late in the game.
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  Speaker 4: Yeah, too little, too late, sir.
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  Speaker 3: Like you set the precedent, so now if you change it,
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  Speaker 3: it definitely seems like you're losing interest. That's what I
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  Speaker 3: would think if I were her, because why all of
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  Speaker 3: a sudden right is what I'm sure it's happening in
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  Speaker 3: her head. So, Derek, I think you're the problem for
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  Speaker 3: waiting this long. Do I understand where you're coming from?
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  Speaker 4: No, I'm an extrovert.
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  Speaker 2: Seven oh one two eight zero one nine eight seven.
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  Speaker 2: Is Derek in the right or wrong? Let us know?
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  Speaker 2: You can text us calls this on Facebook. I'm going
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  Speaker 2: to very quickly just go ahead and say, Derek, you're
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  Speaker 2: not the problem, bro. I understand you know you don't
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  Speaker 2: want to go to Wicked Night with the family on Saturday.
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  Speaker 2: You want to sit at home naked in a bean
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  Speaker 2: bag eating cheetos. Okay, I understand now wanting to go
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  Speaker 2: to all of these things. So let us know what
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  Speaker 2: you think this morning and see if we can help
• 15:54
  Speaker 2: out Derek. Here on Big ninety eight point seven, we.
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  Speaker 3: Had Derek right in wondering if he's the problem for
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  Speaker 3: not wanting to go to all of his girlfriend's family
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  Speaker 3: gatherings now that it's the holidays. The one caveat is
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  Speaker 3: he always went to all of them without complaining for
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  Speaker 3: the last three years, but now on year four, he's
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  Speaker 3: finally saying Okay, I'm an introvert. This is too much,
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  Speaker 3: so he doesn't want to miss the major ones, but
• 16:28
  Speaker 3: he's trying to opt out of all the less significant ones.
• 16:32
  Speaker 3: Is he the problem here or is his girlfriend? I
• 16:35
  Speaker 3: think he's the problem because he waited too long to
• 16:38
  Speaker 3: say so. Yeah, you made your bed, lie in it.
• 16:41
  Speaker 2: I think there's kind of a middle ground here, Kim said,
• 16:45
  Speaker 2: if it's that much, I don't think it's unreasonable to
• 16:47
  Speaker 2: just go to the important ones holidays, birthdays, But it's
• 16:51
  Speaker 2: just if it's just because, then no, that's a lot.
• 16:55
  Speaker 2: Just because it's what she's used to doesn't mean you
• 16:58
  Speaker 2: are and that you have to go along with everything.
• 17:01
  Speaker 2: She should also notice and be more aware of your feelings,
• 17:04
  Speaker 2: not just hers and her family.
• 17:07
  Speaker 4: Well, there, Kim goes with logic.
• 17:11
  Speaker 2: Ashley does say that Derek's the problem. You're the problem.
• 17:15
  Speaker 2: This will be an issue every year. It's only around
• 17:17
  Speaker 2: the holidays. Family is important. Suck it up and keep going.
• 17:20
  Speaker 4: Me and Ashley weird twinsies.
• 17:22
  Speaker 2: Well, I think Ashley kind of missed a little part
• 17:24
  Speaker 2: of the story with how often they have to do this.
• 17:28
  Speaker 2: I mean this is almost every weekend throughout a year. Yeah,
• 17:31
  Speaker 2: who wants their weekend taken up by their in laws
• 17:34
  Speaker 2: every song.
• 17:35
  Speaker 3: Maybe maybe you shouldn't have been down for that for
• 17:40
  Speaker 3: the last three years. I think there is a middle
• 17:44
  Speaker 3: ground to be found, for sure. I just I don't
• 17:48
  Speaker 3: know where it is. I don't believe in middle grounds.
• 17:52
  Speaker 2: Finally we have Gabrielle. As she said, I don't think
• 17:55
  Speaker 2: he's the problem. My family's the same way, and my
• 17:57
  Speaker 2: husband is also very introverted. He goes to the gatherings
• 18:01
  Speaker 2: once in a while, but always the important ones.
• 18:03
  Speaker 1: That's right, Derek, You suck it up. You go to
• 18:05
  Speaker 1: Christmas and you suck it up.
• 18:06
  Speaker 2: You go to Thanksgiving and you know what, if they
• 18:09
  Speaker 2: are the most Irish family on earth, you better be
• 18:11
  Speaker 2: at that Saint Patrick's Day. But I think you could
• 18:14
  Speaker 2: miss out on Halloween, President's Day. July fourth, Okay, July four,
• 18:21
  Speaker 2: that's a data party with your friends, not go visit
• 18:24
  Speaker 2: your mother in law. Okay, fuck celebrating the birthday of
• 18:29
  Speaker 2: this country.
• 18:29
  Speaker 1: Gosh ding.
• 18:37
  Speaker 3: I revealed my hear me out celebrity crush to Gabe
• 18:42
  Speaker 3: and he's been disappointed in me ever since.
• 18:45
  Speaker 2: I don't know if it's like, no, yeah, that's exactly
• 18:48
  Speaker 2: the term yeah, wildly disappointed.
• 18:51
  Speaker 4: Well, we've been watching in my house.
• 18:53
  Speaker 3: It started being Christmas time November first, so obviously we've
• 18:56
  Speaker 3: been watching Home Alone a lot. And I gotta say
• 19:02
  Speaker 3: I have a big old crush on Joe PESHI hear
• 19:06
  Speaker 3: me out.
• 19:08
  Speaker 2: He's just doesn't even sound like the name of a
• 19:11
  Speaker 2: person hear me crush out.
• 19:13
  Speaker 3: No, he I get it. He's a short and bald
• 19:16
  Speaker 3: and angry looking. But I like that he's a man
• 19:20
  Speaker 3: who knows what he wants. He's assertive, he goes after it,
• 19:24
  Speaker 3: and his anger is not very threatening because he's very
• 19:27
  Speaker 3: short king, So I like it.
• 19:30
  Speaker 4: I like the vibe.
• 19:31
  Speaker 3: And then even if we just think about his other
• 19:34
  Speaker 3: roles in like Casino and Good Fellas, And there's just
• 19:38
  Speaker 3: something about Joe pesci And he dated Naomi Campbell once
• 19:44
  Speaker 3: upon a time in the nineties, so and she's supermodel obviously,
• 19:48
  Speaker 3: And if someone's super hot can be into him, then
• 19:51
  Speaker 3: so can a regular old broad like me.
• 19:54
  Speaker 1: I like the justification there.
• 19:55
  Speaker 4: Hey, well yeah that was my hear me out.
• 19:58
  Speaker 1: Yeah, full circle ball. But you're right.
• 20:00
  Speaker 2: You know what, I'll hear you out. You can have
• 20:02
  Speaker 2: a crush on whoever you want. I guess a celebrity
• 20:04
  Speaker 2: crush on whoever you want. But Joe, I mean that
• 20:07
  Speaker 2: that is a crazy answer to me.
• 20:10
  Speaker 3: Well, we put this on the big nineteen point seven
• 20:12
  Speaker 3: Facebook page, and I'm happy that I'm not the only
• 20:15
  Speaker 3: one with some questionable taste. This one really got me.
• 20:21
  Speaker 3: Miko Blue said by Steve Buscemi looks like a Scars.
• 20:27
  Speaker 4: Guard that just didn't take really good care of himself.
• 20:30
  Speaker 4: I can fix him, though.
• 20:32
  Speaker 1: Let's go, Meko.
• 20:32
  Speaker 2: Thank you so much for being uh, for being honest
• 20:35
  Speaker 2: with us.
• 20:36
  Speaker 3: That made me laugh so hard. She's like, but do
• 20:38
  Speaker 3: you see it? And I do see it, Alexander Scar's guard.
• 20:41
  Speaker 6: You do not.
• 20:42
  Speaker 1: You do not see that.
• 20:43
  Speaker 3: But Steve Buscemi does look like the neglected Scars guard
• 20:48
  Speaker 3: and I like that.
• 20:49
  Speaker 4: She said she.
• 20:49
  Speaker 2: Could fix him. He's like the fifth or the fourth
• 20:52
  Speaker 2: Jonas brother. He's like the fifth Scars guard. Yes, exactly,
• 20:56
  Speaker 2: fair enough, Stephanie said, mister Sam Elliott.
• 21:00
  Speaker 1: He does got a great mustache and.
• 21:02
  Speaker 4: A great voice. I don't have to hear you out
• 21:05
  Speaker 4: that hard on that one. Yeah.
• 21:06
  Speaker 2: Now, there were some people, I think who misunderstood the
• 21:09
  Speaker 2: assignment a little bit. Okay, we had Jane who said,
• 21:13
  Speaker 2: how do you say his last name?
• 21:14
  Speaker 1: Josh Josh Dummel. Yeah, he's like hot, right, he's like
• 21:18
  Speaker 1: super hot. Yeah, I don't know if that really You
• 21:20
  Speaker 1: don't need to hear anyone out there.
• 21:21
  Speaker 4: No, you just look at him and you know.
• 21:23
  Speaker 2: And we also had this is a great answer from Donna, Billy,
• 21:28
  Speaker 2: Bob Thornton, love him and Nick Cage.
• 21:31
  Speaker 1: Now those Okay, you need to explain to me a lot. Yeah,
• 21:34
  Speaker 1: I we will hear you out.
• 21:35
  Speaker 3: We need an essay double space, because why do you.
• 21:39
  Speaker 1: Want to know who I hear me out? Celebrity crush.
• 21:42
  Speaker 3: Okay, yes, that's what I was gonna ask you, because
• 21:44
  Speaker 3: I can't.
• 21:44
  Speaker 4: Be the only one. We can't be the only one
• 21:46
  Speaker 4: with a questionable who's yours?
• 21:48
  Speaker 2: I don't even know how to say this lady's last name,
• 21:50
  Speaker 2: but you know the mom in step brothers, Mary Steenberger,
• 21:54
  Speaker 2: Jery Stein Virgin.
• 21:55
  Speaker 1: Okay, I think it'd be her.
• 21:57
  Speaker 2: She's like seventy two, you were seventy three or something,
• 22:02
  Speaker 2: so realistically quite up there in my range, right range.
• 22:07
  Speaker 2: But she's a gorgeous lady. She's very pretty. She seems
• 22:11
  Speaker 2: so funny. She's been married to this one dude in
• 22:14
  Speaker 2: Hollywood for a billion years dancing.
• 22:17
  Speaker 6: Yeah.
• 22:17
  Speaker 2: Either A she's great at communication or loyal or something.
• 22:21
  Speaker 2: Maybe they have an open relate. I don't know, but
• 22:23
  Speaker 2: they have been married for so long. It's just so cute.
• 22:25
  Speaker 2: She seems like a doll.
• 22:27
  Speaker 3: I have heard you out, Gabe, and I approve.
• 22:33
  Speaker 5: I starting off the day with something good.
• 22:38
  Speaker 1: This is Gabe's good news.
• 22:40
  Speaker 5: On Big ninety eight point seven, This baby.
• 22:45
  Speaker 2: Named Leah recently left the hospital to go home for
• 22:49
  Speaker 2: the very first time in her life, just in time
• 22:52
  Speaker 2: for Thanksgiving. Born last May, Oh wow, Leah only weighed
• 22:58
  Speaker 2: one point three pounds and she's been under constant medical
• 23:01
  Speaker 2: care for the last eighteen months. Her mom, Stephanie, says
• 23:04
  Speaker 2: their family has been holding onto this moment for a
• 23:07
  Speaker 2: very long time and describes Leah as incredibly strong. Because
• 23:12
  Speaker 2: she was born so early, Leah faced a ton of
• 23:15
  Speaker 2: serious health challenges, including a heart condition, a brain bleed,
• 23:19
  Speaker 2: high blood pressure in the lungs, chronic breathing issues. Over time,
• 23:23
  Speaker 2: with therapy and care, she's grown and is now thriving
• 23:29
  Speaker 2: and showing off her sparkling personality. Stephanie says her husband
• 23:33
  Speaker 2: Andy said they're eager to settle into everyday life with
• 23:36
  Speaker 2: their daughter after what they described as an eighteen month
• 23:39
  Speaker 2: roller coaster ride. Leah will continue to receive oxygen at
• 23:43
  Speaker 2: home and have follow up appointments about her medical team,
• 23:46
  Speaker 2: says her future looks incredibly bright. Way to go, Leah,
• 23:51
  Speaker 2: and way to go Mom and Dad, just in time
• 23:53
  Speaker 2: for Thanksgiving.
• 23:54
  Speaker 4: My hot heart, my whole heart. This is so I
• 23:58
  Speaker 4: hate everything.
• 23:59
  Speaker 2: We got today, all right on the Big ninety eight
• 24:02
  Speaker 2: point seven Morning Show. I think that's wonderful. Good for them,
• 24:04
  Speaker 2: and I'm sure a big sigh of relief for Mom.
• 24:07
  Speaker 4: And day something to really be grateful for.
• 24:10
  Speaker 1: That's right.
• 24:10
  Speaker 2: The world is full of nice people. If you can't
• 24:12
  Speaker 2: find one, you gotta be one.