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- 0:31Speaker 3: Hello friends, I'm your host, Chris Throw.
- 0:34Speaker 2: I'm a former Rumeries commando. I've adventured for better and
- 0:39Speaker 2: sometimes worse, across eighty countries on all seven continents. Welcome
- 0:45Speaker 2: to the Port the t Shirt Podcast, Anthony, How are you?
- 0:57Speaker 4: Thanks for having me here, Chris, I'm great and it's
- 1:00Speaker 4: a pleasure to be here.
- 1:01Speaker 2: Yes, absolutely wonderful to have you on the show. I
- 1:06Speaker 2: didn't slaughter the pronunciation too badly.
- 1:10Speaker 4: I'll reply to that offscreen. Yeah, no, no, you're all right,
- 1:14Speaker 4: You're good.
- 1:15Speaker 2: Yes, no, wonderful. Italian.
- 1:18Speaker 4: I'm assuming I'm half Italian. Yeah, yes, yes, Roger, I
- 1:24Speaker 4: sound English, but I've actually lived in Italy longer than
- 1:27Speaker 4: I ever did in England.
- 1:29Speaker 2: So which part of Italy?
- 1:31Speaker 4: I'm in Tuscany now. We live in Tuscany. We have
- 1:34Speaker 4: a retreat center and where we have a project here
- 1:37Speaker 4: to regenerate a large piece of land, and the town
- 1:40Speaker 4: above us as well, which has been an ex mining
- 1:43Speaker 4: town and it's empty. So we're generating interest in people
- 1:48Speaker 4: are interested in breathwork and the work that I do.
- 1:50Speaker 4: That I'm moving here and buying houses in the village,
- 1:53Speaker 4: and it's a fascinating project. It'll last longer than my lifetime,
- 1:56Speaker 4: that's for sure.
- 1:58Speaker 2: Brilliant, brilliant. Anthony's probably heard me say that in the introduction.
- 2:04Speaker 2: I've been getting my kind of hermetic ceiling over the years.
- 2:08Speaker 2: It's taken me a long time. I'm very much. I
- 2:13Speaker 2: think I'm I self medicate childhood trauma. I guess you've
- 2:18Speaker 2: complex complex trauma. I think it's probably more accurate. I
- 2:24Speaker 2: have worked really hard to get on top of the addictions.
- 2:28Speaker 2: I mean they would have killed me otherwise, as things
- 2:32Speaker 2: as silly as even caffeine a cup of tea, I'll
- 2:36Speaker 2: just go full on down that route, you know, or
- 2:39Speaker 2: it will be chocolate in the there's all. Anyway. My
- 2:43Speaker 2: point is I wanted to know what it would be
- 2:46Speaker 2: like to be firing, you know, to be good, to
- 2:49Speaker 2: be in spirit, you could say, to have this enlightenment,
- 2:54Speaker 2: to be full of the light that scripture talks about.
- 2:58Speaker 2: And gosh, I'm say I'm pretty much almost there. I
- 3:04Speaker 2: do the things, you know. I moderate exercise every day, sauna,
- 3:09Speaker 2: cold plunge or hot shower, cold shower. I eat a
- 3:15Speaker 2: pH neutral diet, not not. I mean it's delicious and
- 3:19Speaker 2: I love it. It's not it's not like a punishment
- 3:22Speaker 2: or anything. And YadA, YadA, yadda. I feel like I've done,
- 3:28Speaker 2: you know, a good job. No doubt they'll be slipped backs.
- 3:31Speaker 2: But the one thing, though that I haven't focused on
- 3:36Speaker 2: almost at all, is the breath work. And I want
- 3:40Speaker 2: to ask you why am I missing you know what
- 3:43Speaker 2: am I missing out on?
- 3:44Speaker 4: That's a that's a big It's a big issue. This
- 3:48Speaker 4: is a you're in a serious condition, you know, with
- 3:53Speaker 4: all the excellence that you have demonstrated in your life,
- 3:58Speaker 4: not just by the things that the things that you've
- 4:02Speaker 4: accomplished in the outer world, but also in your inner world,
- 4:06Speaker 4: to have met addiction and come through the other side,
- 4:09Speaker 4: and to stay alert and watchful and mindful about not
- 4:13Speaker 4: sliding down that slippery slope again. I almost want to
- 4:17Speaker 4: be cheek and invite you to get addicted to your
- 4:19Speaker 4: breath because we are actually we are. We can't do
- 4:26Speaker 4: without it. We are absolutely dependent on it. And I
- 4:29Speaker 4: think that to me, and you mentioned the word spirit,
- 4:32Speaker 4: that's exactly what the breath is. And that's why we
- 4:35Speaker 4: call it getting inspired, is because we're bringing in spirit.
- 4:39Speaker 4: So when we inspire consciously, we're consciously embracing you could say,
- 4:44Speaker 4: a higher power and the consequences of Obviously, if we
- 4:50Speaker 4: don't embrace a higher power, how can we expect a
- 4:52Speaker 4: higher power to help us? So I know in your
- 4:55Speaker 4: journey through addiction, you've probably done that just from the
- 4:58Speaker 4: few words you've said you've had. You've chosen to embrace
- 5:03Speaker 4: the aid and support of a higher power. And I
- 5:06Speaker 4: think that the breath is a complete paradox. It's something
- 5:10Speaker 4: we don't even have to think about. Ever, people won't
- 5:13Speaker 4: unless they lose it. Then they'll think they don't have enough. Youself,
- 5:18Speaker 4: you're about to go on a big climb, and you'll
- 5:19Speaker 4: be negotiating that for yourself. But it is the most
- 5:24Speaker 4: fundamental thing in our lives, and we step over it
- 5:28Speaker 4: all the time in our effort to reach the peak
- 5:32Speaker 4: of something, to reach the peak of our next accomplishment.
- 5:35Speaker 4: But we do forget that we're going to be breathing
- 5:37Speaker 4: along the way. And actually, you know my own experience
- 5:41Speaker 4: with breath, I first discovered it when I was eight
- 5:43Speaker 4: years old, the power of the breath, and I would
- 5:46Speaker 4: say even now, I'm seventy one as of yesterday, So
- 5:50Speaker 4: that makes it. How many years is that, you know,
- 5:53Speaker 4: sixty three years of discovery and inquiry into the breath
- 5:58Speaker 4: And I feel like I know that much about one breath.
- 6:02Speaker 4: That's how massive a subject this is. And to think
- 6:08Speaker 4: of the fact that we don't reflect on it at
- 6:10Speaker 4: all is astounding. So I'm a student. I'm not a professional.
- 6:14Speaker 4: I'm a student, and I always will be of this
- 6:17Speaker 4: extraordinary thing. I just even one breath, just one cycle
- 6:21Speaker 4: of inhaling and exhaling, is worthy of a lifetime of
- 6:25Speaker 4: reflection and study. So it gives some sense of proportion.
- 6:28Speaker 4: It's dramatic. It's a dramatic element that we keep turning
- 6:33Speaker 4: away from.
- 6:34Speaker 2: Yes, you touched on something.
- 6:36Speaker 4: Then.
- 6:37Speaker 2: I've read the book Gaia Theory many years ago now,
- 6:40Speaker 2: and it enlightened me, as this indoctrinated matrix person that
- 6:46Speaker 2: not been long out the military, that everything's connected. You know,
- 6:51Speaker 2: traditional science or traditional way of looking things is that
- 6:55Speaker 2: rock is a rock, than that tree is a tree,
- 6:57Speaker 2: and we're great because we're the humans and we dominate it.
- 7:00Speaker 2: And it's like no. And to take that further, if
- 7:04Speaker 2: we're going to buy into the concept that there's the
- 7:07Speaker 2: one that all the everything universe, God's spirit, whatever we're
- 7:11Speaker 2: going to call that, and we are a the microcosm
- 7:16Speaker 2: of the macro or holistic representation of the bigger picture,
- 7:20Speaker 2: then symbiotically we connect to everything via our breath, don't we.
- 7:26Speaker 2: That's it. I'm connected to that tree in the garden
- 7:30Speaker 2: right now as we speak, because as I breathe out,
- 7:33Speaker 2: it breathes in and then it breaths out. Now, if
- 7:36Speaker 2: I walked into a pub and told everyone, hey, guys,
- 7:39Speaker 2: I'm a tree, well half of me is that people
- 7:42Speaker 2: would look at you like you were absolutely insane. But
- 7:46Speaker 2: it's the truth. Appears to be madness to people that
- 7:51Speaker 2: haven't opened their eyes to had their eyes open. Am
- 7:54Speaker 2: I sort of hitting a little bit?
- 7:56Speaker 4: Yeah?
- 7:56Speaker 5: Absolutely, there's a there's such a ridiculousness about the obviousness
- 8:02Speaker 5: that we managed to avoid noticing. It's such a it's
- 8:07Speaker 5: such an indicator of the human condition and how easy
- 8:12Speaker 5: it is for us to miss the point.
- 8:13Speaker 4: And I think you just nailed it there. You walk
- 8:15Speaker 4: into a pub and you say you're a tree, they're
- 8:17Speaker 4: going to think you're knutballs, but it's true. And you
- 8:21Speaker 4: know another thing, for example, argon and a gas that's
- 8:24Speaker 4: in every breath we breathe that never goes away. We're
- 8:28Speaker 4: recycling argon, that the Buddha breathed, that Jesus breathed, that
- 8:33Speaker 4: Hitler breathed. We're connected to all of that. It's like
- 8:37Speaker 4: we're drinking from the same well. And I think what
- 8:41Speaker 4: that helps me understand, really where that takes me is
- 8:45Speaker 4: to the power of forgiveness that you know when we
- 8:47Speaker 4: say I am you and I am me, and those
- 8:49Speaker 4: little mentors and cliches that people use, but it begins
- 8:54Speaker 4: to become normal, this awareness that actually, yes, you are.
- 8:58Speaker 4: We are connected and so that shines such a sharp,
- 9:02Speaker 4: perhaps harsh light on the way the world works, because
- 9:06Speaker 4: we really act as if we're disconnected, and especially from
- 9:10Speaker 4: the consequences we create in other people's hearts and their
- 9:13Speaker 4: minds and their lives.
- 9:15Speaker 2: Anthony, we will come on and tell your story and
- 9:18Speaker 2: we're going to promote very much, promote your book or
- 9:21Speaker 2: it's certainly going to give it some exposure. I just
- 9:24Speaker 2: want to touch on something that's quite important, and it's
- 9:27Speaker 2: kind of what we talk about a lot on this channel,
- 9:31Speaker 2: and that is I get a lot of you know,
- 9:34Speaker 2: there's this age old argument, isn't there is there more
- 9:38Speaker 2: evil in the world now than there was, say, one
- 9:40Speaker 2: hundred years ago, than say ten thousand years ago. Yadda, YadA, YadA,
- 9:45Speaker 2: and when you look out. I did a live podcast
- 9:49Speaker 2: last night and I was trying to sum up the
- 9:52Speaker 2: absolute lunacy of letting corporate millionaire and billionaires become presidents
- 9:59Speaker 2: and and then talk about whether they're going to take
- 10:03Speaker 2: their people to bomb to death the men, women and
- 10:07Speaker 2: children in another country as though it's like a computer game.
- 10:12Speaker 2: It's insanity. And a lot of people realize this, and
- 10:17Speaker 2: off the back of what I call it the medical
- 10:20Speaker 2: nonsense that we've we've all just been been through and
- 10:23Speaker 2: then and then you've got, you know, the financial system
- 10:29Speaker 2: which is all set up against us. Education is a lie,
- 10:33Speaker 2: the food industry is a massive lie. The medicare and
- 10:37Speaker 2: the pharmacut is just just so. I don't think people
- 10:42Speaker 2: understand how the evil beyond belief. These are individuals that
- 10:48Speaker 2: do not care about you. They care about their clique club,
- 10:53Speaker 2: call it new New World order, whatever it might be.
- 10:57Speaker 2: And people say, yeah, Chris, you know what can we do?
- 11:01Speaker 2: Are you going to get your military friends together and
- 11:04Speaker 2: take them? And my answer, Anthony, is well, what have
- 11:08Speaker 2: you done today? We're all connected? What have you done
- 11:11Speaker 2: to raise the energy? Did you go out the door smiling?
- 11:15Speaker 2: Did you say hello to the people that you meet.
- 11:18Speaker 2: They might have been going home to contemplate suicide, and
- 11:21Speaker 2: a quick hey you okay might raise their spirit. They
- 11:25Speaker 2: go home, pick up the phone to an old friend
- 11:27Speaker 2: they haven't chatted for They're like, wow, my friend called
- 11:30Speaker 2: me out the blue. You know, have you done breath work?
- 11:34Speaker 2: Have you done the hot shower, cold shower? Have you meditated?
- 11:39Speaker 2: What have you done to do your part of the bargain?
- 11:44Speaker 2: And I'm sort of I've seen enough of this now,
- 11:47Speaker 2: Anthony to know that a lot of people they're just
- 11:50Speaker 2: manifesting their trauma. They don't really want to do anything.
- 11:54Speaker 2: They just want other people to acknowledge that they're in pain,
- 11:58Speaker 2: that the world's in pain, and it's everybody else's fault.
- 12:03Speaker 2: And I'm not judging people here. This would have been
- 12:07Speaker 2: me at one time in my life. And that's why
- 12:12Speaker 2: I think these chats are invaluable. Is I see, breath
- 12:17Speaker 2: work is a crucial fact if you want a better planet.
- 12:22Speaker 2: This is something that I think we need to not
- 12:25Speaker 2: only understand but put into practice. Again, am I sort
- 12:30Speaker 2: of making sense?
- 12:32Speaker 4: Yeah, you're nailing it. You know. First of all, just
- 12:36Speaker 4: to give a quick rundown on what breath work is,
- 12:40Speaker 4: fifty percent of breath work is being aware of your
- 12:43Speaker 4: breath and then and choosing to be aware of your breath,
- 12:48Speaker 4: and then the other fifty percent is discovering different breath
- 12:52Speaker 4: styles that create different effects from hacking your nervous system, longevity,
- 13:00Speaker 4: modulating your moods, developing energy, discharging energy, and you know,
- 13:07Speaker 4: all kinds. There are all kinds of knobs and switches
- 13:09Speaker 4: on this dashboard we call breath and then there's the
- 13:14Speaker 4: conscious connected breath. And the reason I wanted to come
- 13:18Speaker 4: to this because this is really the big kahuna of
- 13:21Speaker 4: breath work, which is what has become so popular now
- 13:25Speaker 4: in the world and is being has actually been commodified,
- 13:28Speaker 4: just like medicine, just like food, just like yoga. You know,
- 13:31Speaker 4: it's going down the same road. And there are some
- 13:35Speaker 4: unscrupulous offerings that are out there, But a conscious connected
- 13:41Speaker 4: breath is particularly appropriate to bring into the picture now
- 13:46Speaker 4: because you mentioned people are recreating their trauma and they're
- 13:50Speaker 4: sitting in victimhood, and we're in a world trauma. You know,
- 13:54Speaker 4: we're under trauma. We're under the stress of trauma all
- 13:57Speaker 4: the time because of the ridiculous, ridiculous illness that everybody
- 14:02Speaker 4: supposedly had, and also the is wanted to be that way.
- 14:07Speaker 4: The grand design is to keep us under that kind
- 14:11Speaker 4: of stress. So I think the beauty of the conscious
- 14:15Speaker 4: connected breath is that it actually stops us thinking the
- 14:18Speaker 4: same way. And one of the problems that I see
- 14:21Speaker 4: in the world is that there's a desperate need for
- 14:25Speaker 4: a different conversation to take place. And yet what I
- 14:31Speaker 4: do see happening is that people, when they're upset or
- 14:35Speaker 4: activated or threatened by this trauma force that exists in
- 14:41Speaker 4: the world today, we tend to fall into opposition of it.
- 14:46Speaker 4: And when we need I think what we need to
- 14:48Speaker 4: be aware of is when we give opposition to something
- 14:53Speaker 4: that's existent in the world, we need to be really
- 14:56Speaker 4: careful because if we're not super mindful about what saying
- 15:00Speaker 4: and where we're going with this if it's motivated by
- 15:03Speaker 4: any sense of adrenaline inside us. Actually, we're going to
- 15:07Speaker 4: contribute to the conversation. We're going to contribute to the polarization. Unconsciously,
- 15:14Speaker 4: we're going to fall into the argument. And yet we
- 15:18Speaker 4: actually need to create a different conversation. And that's not
- 15:21Speaker 4: to say protests doesn't work. I'm not saying it's a
- 15:24Speaker 4: yes and more than a yes, but for me, but
- 15:27Speaker 4: what I see in the world is that the powers
- 15:30Speaker 4: that are in control use their opposition as the fuel
- 15:36Speaker 4: to strengthen their point of view and to strengthen the
- 15:39Speaker 4: pitch that they make out there in the world, and
- 15:42Speaker 4: to make it things just get worse. So there have
- 15:45Speaker 4: been a few people in the world in world history
- 15:48Speaker 4: that have created new conversations, and we can probably count
- 15:51Speaker 4: them on one or two hands, you know, like Jesus
- 15:54Speaker 4: or Nulson, Mandela or Mahatma Gandhi. And when you consider
- 16:00Speaker 4: that these people did this not by reaction. They did
- 16:05Speaker 4: it not even by doing as much as by being
- 16:10Speaker 4: being someone who is so inspiring that other people gravitate
- 16:16Speaker 4: towards it. And that kind of leadership is happening all
- 16:21Speaker 4: the time. With every person that exists in the world
- 16:25Speaker 4: and in the world. And what I'm saying is, if
- 16:27Speaker 4: you're listening to this, you are a leader. You might
- 16:30Speaker 4: not think so, you know, when I talk to a
- 16:31Speaker 4: group of people and I say, hey, who feels like
- 16:33Speaker 4: they're a leader here, and like three people put up
- 16:36Speaker 4: the hand out of twenty five or six people out
- 16:38Speaker 4: of one hundred, we're leading all the time. And what
- 16:41Speaker 4: you just mentioned about those small acts of kindness, that
- 16:45Speaker 4: word that you might have not bothered to give but
- 16:49Speaker 4: might actually save someone's life. Can we are we willing
- 16:52Speaker 4: to become accustomed to that being the way we live
- 16:54Speaker 4: because everybody's watching you all the time. When you give
- 16:58Speaker 4: the change to the cashier, or when you talk to
- 17:02Speaker 4: the taxi driver, or when you see someone waiting to
- 17:06Speaker 4: cross the road who might need support. These are all
- 17:08Speaker 4: opportunities for us to redescribe what normal is. But in
- 17:13Speaker 4: this Western world, especially, we forget all of that right
- 17:17Speaker 4: because we're in a hurry to get to where we
- 17:19Speaker 4: need to go, and we forget about the kindness. We
- 17:22Speaker 4: listen to those sixty thousand thoughts a day that the
- 17:24Speaker 4: Buddhists say that we have, and they're very repetitive. You know,
- 17:28Speaker 4: really we're only thinking about ten things, just with different
- 17:31Speaker 4: little stories we're telling ourselves. So it can bring it
- 17:35Speaker 4: back to the breath. The power of that conscious connected
- 17:37Speaker 4: breath is that physiologically scientifically, what it's doing is it's
- 17:43Speaker 4: increasing oxygen flow in our bloodstream, but it's actually slowing
- 17:47Speaker 4: down the oxygen flow to our prefrontal cortex. So our
- 17:52Speaker 4: whole method of reasoning, our normal thought processes actually slow down.
- 17:59Speaker 4: And then we get to ask ourselves, well, what else
- 18:03Speaker 4: might I become aware of if I don't think so fast,
- 18:07Speaker 4: or if I don't think so much? What else? What
- 18:09Speaker 4: other kinds of awareness do I have other than thinking?
- 18:13Speaker 4: What is it that might exist in between thought and
- 18:17Speaker 4: those gaps What is it that's going on in those
- 18:19Speaker 4: gaps between? We'll never find out because we fill them
- 18:22Speaker 4: all the time. So this act of consciously choosing to breathe,
- 18:27Speaker 4: to slow down the way we rationalize and through life,
- 18:31Speaker 4: and to slow down the stories that we tell ourselves
- 18:34Speaker 4: for being the way we are and saying the things
- 18:37Speaker 4: we do, there's a possibility for something new to happen.
- 18:40Speaker 4: And that's the pivotal power of breath. And I've seen
- 18:44Speaker 4: some extraordinary shifts in twenty minutes thirty minutes, life's changed.
- 18:50Speaker 4: It actually happened in a water breathe we were doing
- 18:53Speaker 4: on Wednesday. I was sitting giving a private session to
- 18:57Speaker 4: a lady who's seventy five years old. She's a brilliant woman,
- 19:01Speaker 4: she's a filmmaker, She's done a lot of good for
- 19:05Speaker 4: the world. She's lived in a conscious community for many years.
- 19:10Speaker 4: And she said, you know the way I was held
- 19:13Speaker 4: in the water while I was breathing, I've waited for
- 19:17Speaker 4: that for over seventy years. My parents didn't give me that.
- 19:20Speaker 4: My family didn't give me that. Something has happened that's
- 19:24Speaker 4: explained my whole life to me. I'm covered in goosebumps
- 19:27Speaker 4: as I say this because it was so moving to
- 19:30Speaker 4: hear that this woman can die in peace. Now something's
- 19:34Speaker 4: been put back, that was taken away, and she's already
- 19:38Speaker 4: doing good work in the world. But now every person
- 19:41Speaker 4: she meets is going to get the benefit of the
- 19:45Speaker 4: risk that she took to take a few breaths, let
- 19:49Speaker 4: herself be held in the water and opened her mind
- 19:53Speaker 4: to something that the brain probably wouldn't have allowed her
- 19:56Speaker 4: to access otherwise. So this is the power of bread.
- 20:00Speaker 4: And this is an example of breath and water for example.
- 20:03Speaker 4: But this is the power of the breath. This is
- 20:06Speaker 4: how it can change. And you know, when you're seventy
- 20:08Speaker 4: four years old, you're pretty rigid. You know, you're pretty
- 20:11Speaker 4: in your groove, you've got your cycles, you've got your
- 20:13Speaker 4: repetitive behavior. But the breath can even even change that.
- 20:18Speaker 4: In just twenty five minutes, she was in the water.
- 20:21Speaker 2: So, Anthony, you mentioned earlier this came to at a
- 20:24Speaker 2: young age. I kind of like these profound sort of stories.
- 20:29Speaker 2: Can you tell us a bit more about how it
- 20:31Speaker 2: came to be?
- 20:32Speaker 4: Yeah, for sure, I was at boarding school. I was
- 20:36Speaker 4: a boarding school at seven years old, and my parents
- 20:39Speaker 4: were determined to offer me the things that they couldn't have.
- 20:42Speaker 4: So I was very privileged in that sense, and I
- 20:45Speaker 4: hated it. I couldn't stand being away from my family.
- 20:49Speaker 4: I was miserable. I cried myself to sleep every night.
- 20:52Speaker 4: It was just it was just the wrong place. I
- 20:54Speaker 4: wasn't meant to be there. But when I was eight
- 20:56Speaker 4: and being half Italian, you know, and this is in
- 21:00Speaker 4: like the early sixties, you didn't guarantee you popularity. I
- 21:05Speaker 4: got called all kinds of names like Greece, Watton, Spaghetti
- 21:08Speaker 4: and all those things, but not kindly. It was a
- 21:11Speaker 4: nasty environment in an upper class British boarding school, and
- 21:16Speaker 4: I was just just miserable. And then one guy came
- 21:20Speaker 4: up to me one day with a paperbag and he said,
- 21:23Speaker 4: breathe into this twenty times, twenty big breaths. So I
- 21:27Speaker 4: took twenty big breaths, and then he squeezed me from
- 21:32Speaker 4: behind and squeezed my chest and said, now do one
- 21:35Speaker 4: big exhale. So I let out an exhale, and then
- 21:38Speaker 4: he put me down to the ground. And honestly, I
- 21:41Speaker 4: took that risk with this kid because I wanted to
- 21:44Speaker 4: be liked, you know. I thought, oh God, someone's going
- 21:46Speaker 4: to be nice to me. What happened when I laid
- 21:50Speaker 4: on the ground was that I saw God. I know
- 21:54Speaker 4: it might sound ridiculous, but I think the closest way
- 21:58Speaker 4: of describing it would be how report nd and near
- 22:02Speaker 4: death experience. I was so struck by the complexity, by
- 22:07Speaker 4: the beauty, by the hugeness, by the magnificence, by God,
- 22:13Speaker 4: by Spirit, that when I look back at this miserable
- 22:18Speaker 4: life that I was living, it seemed like minuscule in
- 22:21Speaker 4: comparison to the vastness and the magnificence that I was
- 22:25Speaker 4: being blessed with in that moment, and it changed my life.
- 22:28Speaker 4: And you know, from then on, the breath to me
- 22:32Speaker 4: became a holy experience. And you know, i'd I went
- 22:35Speaker 4: through a Church of England school and then I got
- 22:38Speaker 4: married in the Catholic Church, and I took instruction in
- 22:41Speaker 4: order to be married, and so I went through all
- 22:44Speaker 4: these formal different I've explored Buddhism, I've explored Hinduism, I've
- 22:49Speaker 4: explored not as much but Islam. But it's my work
- 22:55Speaker 4: right because I think I'm called sbno spiritual but not
- 22:59Speaker 4: religious as enough. But I think there's value in all
- 23:03Speaker 4: of them. But my experience as a child was that
- 23:07Speaker 4: the dogma that was being imposed upon me is not
- 23:11Speaker 4: not dissimilar than the dogma that's being imposed upon us now,
- 23:15Speaker 4: you know, in the world. So it just seemed like
- 23:18Speaker 4: ridiculously small. This is you know, God is bigger than
- 23:21Speaker 4: one religion. And so I think that's when my spiritual
- 23:26Speaker 4: opening happened when I was that young. And there were
- 23:29Speaker 4: times that I really tried to forsake it and push
- 23:31Speaker 4: it away because I was a misfit, you know, and
- 23:34Speaker 4: it's not easy being a misfit. But now I'm really grateful.
- 23:38Speaker 4: I'm grateful for the schooling. I'm grateful it's helped me
- 23:42Speaker 4: become a good communicator. I'm grateful for the suffering, and
- 23:47Speaker 4: I'm grateful for the breath because, my gosh, it saved
- 23:49Speaker 4: my life so many times.
- 23:51Speaker 2: Yes, the I think religion, organized religion just seems to
- 23:56Speaker 2: be set up to keep people from from the truth.
- 23:59Speaker 2: Was it say it? Isn't it the opening of Genesis
- 24:02Speaker 2: it says in the beginning that there was the Word,
- 24:05Speaker 2: and the Word was God, the Word was good. And
- 24:09Speaker 2: what is the word? It's breath. Isn't it the over
- 24:12Speaker 2: the voice box? So yeah, it's it's it's frequency and vibration.
- 24:18Speaker 4: I guess, yeah, exactly.
- 24:20Speaker 2: So I'm fascinating. Obviously, we're going to come on and
- 24:23Speaker 2: talk about the different techniques and what do they achieve
- 24:29Speaker 2: or perhaps what are they cure. But a question comes
- 24:33Speaker 2: to mind. I think it's quite fascinating. What sort of
- 24:36Speaker 2: people are coming to see to see you.
- 24:41Speaker 4: I think mostly people who are really ready for change,
- 24:45Speaker 4: people who have understood the majority of people who have
- 24:49Speaker 4: understood that this isn't it. And if I keep believing
- 24:53Speaker 4: this is it, I'm going to be in regret the
- 24:55Speaker 4: older I get. And that change might be catalyzed by
- 25:00Speaker 4: some kind of crisis or a death or a loss
- 25:03Speaker 4: in the family, or it could just be a big depression,
- 25:07Speaker 4: high anxiety, things are not working in life, suicidal ideation, addiction,
- 25:15Speaker 4: all traumatic conditions. And then now, because this is kind
- 25:20Speaker 4: of fun for me as I come to this part
- 25:23Speaker 4: of my hero's journey because I was I was born
- 25:26Speaker 4: into you know, I When I left school, I went
- 25:29Speaker 4: into the corporate world, and it's not a miserable existence.
- 25:34Speaker 4: But now I'm fortunate enough to be able to be
- 25:38Speaker 4: working with a lot of CEOs and founder CEOs and
- 25:43Speaker 4: going to America next week to speak at a very
- 25:45Speaker 4: big human resources conference. And what I love about the
- 25:50Speaker 4: you know that saying toe in the door or foot
- 25:53Speaker 4: in the door. What I love about the breath is
- 25:56Speaker 4: that you could take it anywhere. You know, right now
- 25:59Speaker 4: at Alchemy, we're taking it into the police force and
- 26:01Speaker 4: the hospitals, into prisons and corporate. For me is the
- 26:07Speaker 4: kind of the big Kahuna, because if we can get
- 26:09Speaker 4: breathwork into the corporate space, the quality of leadership is
- 26:14Speaker 4: going to shift, and people won't even realize that they're
- 26:17Speaker 4: doing it. In a way, it's so valuable in any
- 26:21Speaker 4: environment where the team is going to make the dream.
- 26:25Speaker 4: It helps people communicate. It helps marriages become richer and
- 26:30Speaker 4: deeper and more sustainable, any relationship. If you breathe together,
- 26:36Speaker 4: you will accomplish a state of clarity and care and
- 26:40Speaker 4: compassion that we don't give ourselves the chance to experience
- 26:44Speaker 4: in normal life. We don't have time for it. You know,
- 26:46Speaker 4: when you're passing by that fellow who's sitting in his
- 26:49Speaker 4: own urine with a blanket on him and a little
- 26:51Speaker 4: paper cup, you know, that's a turn off in our
- 26:55Speaker 4: normal mindset, Like, I've got to stay away from that.
- 26:58Speaker 4: I might get contaminating it. That's not how the world works,
- 27:02Speaker 4: you know, it's not. Why is it that it becomes
- 27:06Speaker 4: more and more important for us to go into nature
- 27:09Speaker 4: because nature is really the only thing left that does work,
- 27:13Speaker 4: and everything else is a compromise. Everything that humans have
- 27:16Speaker 4: touched is getting ruined. We're the worst part of the
- 27:19Speaker 4: whole food chain. So this is forgivable, don't get me wrong.
- 27:23Speaker 4: And I and I and I think the most important
- 27:27Speaker 4: thing that we can do to reclaim our agency, in
- 27:31Speaker 4: other words, our empowerment in this shit show that we're in,
- 27:36Speaker 4: is to take one breath. In fact, you could say
- 27:38Speaker 4: the definition of emotional intelligence is the ability to take
- 27:42Speaker 4: one breath when you don't want to. And that's where
- 27:45Speaker 4: it all begins. That's where you were making a choice
- 27:49Speaker 4: in a very choiceless environment, and the act of making
- 27:52Speaker 4: that choice is what can change everything. So that's how
- 27:56Speaker 4: significant one breath can be. Because even you know, like
- 28:00Speaker 4: so you're in that argument, you're in that escalating situation,
- 28:04Speaker 4: and you're feeling the adrenaline come up. And let's remember
- 28:07Speaker 4: it takes just a second for adrenaline to come up,
- 28:10Speaker 4: but it takes a long while for it to come
- 28:12Speaker 4: back down again. So when you feel that escalation and
- 28:15Speaker 4: that tingling, that tension in your belly or whatever it is,
- 28:18Speaker 4: and you're no longer listening to that person, you're just
- 28:21Speaker 4: thinking about what you're going to get them back with,
- 28:24Speaker 4: and you know that it's just going to make it worse.
- 28:28Speaker 4: Ever been there, you know it's not going to help.
- 28:30Speaker 4: But by George, I'm going to be righteous and say
- 28:33Speaker 4: it anyway, because I want to be right. That's the
- 28:35Speaker 4: time to take breath and just consider. Maybe you need
- 28:38Speaker 4: another ten breaths, and just consider and be with that
- 28:42Speaker 4: physical experience that you're having. Be in your body, because
- 28:45Speaker 4: your body's sending you messages that your brain is not
- 28:48Speaker 4: listening to. So wake up, use that breath for your
- 28:51Speaker 4: own awakening, and keep waking up with each chosen breath
- 28:55Speaker 4: that you make. And as you do that as a
- 28:58Speaker 4: practice in your life, then you become equipped. You become robust,
- 29:02Speaker 4: you become become resilient, and you develop equanimity. You develop
- 29:07Speaker 4: the ability to be in the witness in any given situation.
- 29:11Speaker 4: And that means before you join in, before you join
- 29:14Speaker 4: the fray, and before you slip into becoming a part
- 29:17Speaker 4: of the problem, you can make a conscious choice about
- 29:21Speaker 4: what would a solution look like and how could I
- 29:23Speaker 4: best serve.
- 29:24Speaker 2: That incredible and So something that comes to mind there
- 29:29Speaker 2: is when you embrace practices like this, I think it
- 29:33Speaker 2: hones your ethical choices in your outlook on life. I
- 29:38Speaker 2: don't I don't envisage Donald Trump doing breath work in
- 29:42Speaker 2: the morning. I might be wrong, but I would imagine
- 29:45Speaker 2: this is a It's part of a very special journey
- 29:49Speaker 2: when you do breath work, because you realize the importance
- 29:53Speaker 2: of investing in your in yourself in a way that's
- 29:56Speaker 2: outside of the mainstream unfortunate. It's also hard then to
- 30:02Speaker 2: go and commit an environmental crime, isn't it, Or to
- 30:07Speaker 2: be horrible to someone on the internet, or to go
- 30:09Speaker 2: and steal or make a decision at work that you
- 30:13Speaker 2: know is going to destroy you know, a community or something.
- 30:18Speaker 4: Yeah, I agree, I agree. I mean, the breath is
- 30:20Speaker 4: a tool, so yeah, a knife is a tool and
- 30:22Speaker 4: a screwdrivers at all, and a breath is a to all.
- 30:25Speaker 4: It just happens to be divinely provided you know, it's
- 30:29Speaker 4: referred to forty three times in the Bible as a
- 30:32Speaker 4: supernatural force. It's mentioned in the Qur'an and in the
- 30:36Speaker 4: Kabala as well, and always as a supernatural force. That's
- 30:40Speaker 4: how Mohammed got born because of the breath upon his
- 30:43Speaker 4: mother's chest. So for those of us that were raised
- 30:45Speaker 4: in England with the Church of England or a Catholic culture,
- 30:48Speaker 4: it makes one wonder what immaculate conception really was if
- 30:53Speaker 4: the Muslims see that as the immaculate conception of Muhammad.
- 30:58Speaker 4: So yes, this is a serious subject. You know that
- 31:02Speaker 4: I'm an evangelist. I mean, I can talk for hours
- 31:04Speaker 4: about this, but that choice is available right now.
- 31:08Speaker 2: Yes, and Anthony, I just want to ask you something.
- 31:12Speaker 2: This is more of a personal thing. But I go
- 31:16Speaker 2: through very different phases in weight. Primarily I love running,
- 31:21Speaker 2: and I do. I get a sort of satisfaction really
- 31:24Speaker 2: from being fifty five years old and being a better
- 31:27Speaker 2: runner at fifty five than I was a nineteen year
- 31:30Speaker 2: old commando. I think that's something. It's not about being
- 31:34Speaker 2: pride or eagle or anything like that. I just I
- 31:37Speaker 2: like to go out and run and I listen to
- 31:40Speaker 2: music and it's great. And when I get back, I've
- 31:45Speaker 2: put the sauna on, so it's already for when I
- 31:47Speaker 2: get back, and I go and sit in the sauna
- 31:49Speaker 2: and I listen to some house music and or I
- 31:52Speaker 2: listen to some sort of script you know, some interpretation
- 31:56Speaker 2: of scripture or something that you know. It is me
- 31:59Speaker 2: time is what trying. But sometimes I'm sat there on
- 32:02Speaker 2: my sauna bench. I think Chris Breeve brief. Now here's
- 32:06Speaker 2: the thing. It physically feels so much better to breathe
- 32:14Speaker 2: when I've lost two stone in weight, which I can
- 32:18Speaker 2: do in in six weeks. I can you know. I've
- 32:22Speaker 2: been known to drink a few beers and eat a
- 32:24Speaker 2: few pizzas and really let my spiritual battle drift. I
- 32:30Speaker 2: was in a rowing boat, for example, for fifty days,
- 32:33Speaker 2: and we just ate dehydrated rubbish and washed it down
- 32:38Speaker 2: with some rum and coke when we got to Barbados there.
- 32:42Speaker 2: So what I'm getting at is I like, I mean,
- 32:45Speaker 2: I'm ten and a half stone now, so I'm not
- 32:48Speaker 2: really far off the weight I was when I was
- 32:51Speaker 2: nineteen years old, and it feels better to breathe now.
- 32:56Speaker 2: And I wondered if this is a thing that people
- 32:58Speaker 2: recognize or that just me.
- 33:01Speaker 4: Well, first of all, it's a great way to lose weight,
- 33:04Speaker 4: to breathe consciously, and it's also I think the more
- 33:11Speaker 4: in shape you are, the more you're going to appreciate it.
- 33:15Speaker 4: And it's also the most the most toxins are excreted
- 33:19Speaker 4: through from your body through your breath. So I think
- 33:23Speaker 4: those three things are the three legs of the table
- 33:27Speaker 4: physiologically that yeah, they support the platform upon which we
- 33:32Speaker 4: can then take off from to find out more things,
- 33:36Speaker 4: to inquire about more things. But I think your experience
- 33:39Speaker 4: of especially you've been for a run, you're in the sauna,
- 33:42Speaker 4: you're taking that breath, and gosh, how can it not
- 33:45Speaker 4: be a breath of gratitude after you've celebrated life that way.
- 33:48Speaker 4: You're dancing with life out there as you run. You're
- 33:52Speaker 4: fifty five years old, you've you've lost weight, you're in
- 33:56Speaker 4: your in the sauna, you're in your spiritual groove. You're
- 34:00Speaker 4: playing with the dance. You're dancing with life. Your dance
- 34:03Speaker 4: partner is life itself. And actually, you know, when you're breathing,
- 34:07Speaker 4: your dance partner is the divine? So how can it
- 34:11Speaker 4: not feel good? Yes?
- 34:13Speaker 2: Absolutely? And I can't emphasize enough to people. I used
- 34:19Speaker 2: to be chronically un healthy, unwell, and this was as
- 34:24Speaker 2: a member of the elite Armed forces. I would get
- 34:27Speaker 2: ill typically three times a year. I'd have two colds
- 34:32Speaker 2: a year, and of course, back then we blame that
- 34:35Speaker 2: on other people have made it.
- 34:38Speaker 4: And then I.
- 34:39Speaker 2: Get some form of severe flu or glandular fever or
- 34:45Speaker 2: et cetera, et cetera, And long story short, I met
- 34:51Speaker 2: a fantastic doctor called Dr Robert Young, and I also
- 34:56Speaker 2: got hooked up with one of his prodiges. He put
- 34:58Speaker 2: my blood on a electric microscope and physically showed me
- 35:04Speaker 2: on a big TV screen what was going on in
- 35:06Speaker 2: my blood. And he pointed to this big, white, fluffy
- 35:09Speaker 2: thing that drifted past like a sort of you know, alien,
- 35:15Speaker 2: and he said, ah, what did you have to eat
- 35:18Speaker 2: last night? I was a support worker at the time
- 35:20Speaker 2: in learning disabilities and I was at a client's house
- 35:23Speaker 2: and I just wolfed down a bowl of the clients shreddies,
- 35:27Speaker 2: you know, horrible refined carbohydrate, salty sugar snack with dairy
- 35:34Speaker 2: on top of it. And he said, yep, that'll do it.
- 35:38Speaker 2: He said, that's acid, Chris. That what you're just seeing?
- 35:42Speaker 2: That you and anyway, it was revolutionary to me, as
- 35:47Speaker 2: it probably is to people listening. I had never heard
- 35:49Speaker 2: of this concept that our fragile cells have a pH
- 35:54Speaker 2: balance and that if we muck around with it, we're
- 35:57Speaker 2: heading for ill health. And because I never knew that
- 36:00Speaker 2: my life, this is why I kept getting ill. My
- 36:02Speaker 2: dietary choices were abysmal. I was living on sugar. Basically
- 36:07Speaker 2: carbohydrate turned to glucose in my blood. My cells were saying, look,
- 36:13Speaker 2: I can't take any more of this, this acid, and
- 36:17Speaker 2: this is why I keep making you ill Chris to
- 36:19Speaker 2: kind of de detoxit. And so I'm fortunate I haven't
- 36:24Speaker 2: been ill for twenty three years now, which is why
- 36:27Speaker 2: I chuckle is the right word. But during the recent nonsense,
- 36:31Speaker 2: I'm like, they're not telling you the true folks. I'm sorry,
- 36:34Speaker 2: they're just not telling you. Now. Oxygenating the blood, I
- 36:39Speaker 2: believe is a good way to alcalize yourself.
- 36:44Speaker 4: It is. Yeah, yeah, you'll raise your alkaline level, and
- 36:47Speaker 4: of course it's aerobic, so you're you're discouraging the nasty
- 36:53Speaker 4: pathogens as you as you do it, as you oxygenate.
- 36:57Speaker 4: And then you know, I spoke earlier about the oxygen
- 37:02Speaker 4: increasing in the bloodstream but actually decreasing in the frontal lobe.
- 37:06Speaker 4: But there are ways then with breath tricks like breath holding,
- 37:09Speaker 4: that you take the oxygen boost in your bloodstream and
- 37:13Speaker 4: you and then you can export it into the frontal
- 37:17Speaker 4: lobe as well, so it can be used for more
- 37:19Speaker 4: processing power, not just slowing down our processing power. And you,
- 37:22Speaker 4: as a runner and an athlete, you, I'm sure are
- 37:26Speaker 4: familiar with high altitude training and the importance of underbreathing too.
- 37:31Speaker 4: It's not all about the more I do it. The
- 37:34Speaker 4: better it gets. There are times, especially when you're exerting
- 37:38Speaker 4: physical energy and to maintain stamina, that you should breathe
- 37:42Speaker 4: through the nose and learn to breathe with a little
- 37:47Speaker 4: less breadth than you need, which is also very useful
- 37:51Speaker 4: as a practice for people who have asthma to just
- 37:55Speaker 4: breathe up to thirty or forty percent of your capacity,
- 37:59Speaker 4: and for minutes to breathe in that range from zero
- 38:03Speaker 4: to forty percent. And what you're doing, essentially is learning
- 38:08Speaker 4: to make do, but you're also learning that you can
- 38:12Speaker 4: do it, and therefore it doesn't become threatening. So the
- 38:16Speaker 4: whole other part of the nervous system that gets stressed
- 38:19Speaker 4: and contracts when you feel in that smirtack coming on
- 38:23Speaker 4: doesn't kick into gear so readily because you have a
- 38:25Speaker 4: practice in place. And I think all of these things
- 38:28Speaker 4: because a lot of people say, Oko, what should I
- 38:30Speaker 4: do if I'm anxious? Or what should I do if
- 38:32Speaker 4: I'm depressed? And there is a breath for each of
- 38:34Speaker 4: these things that we can use. But the best time
- 38:38Speaker 4: to put these practices into place is when you don't
- 38:41Speaker 4: have the symptom that you want to reverse engineer. Because
- 38:45Speaker 4: I've said a lot there, but the breath is something
- 38:48Speaker 4: that we can use to reverse engineer the condition that
- 38:51Speaker 4: we're experiencing psychosmatically or in the nervous system. So that
- 38:55Speaker 4: means that if I'm anxious, I'm normally breathing a short breath.
- 39:00Speaker 4: And you've noticed also when you're anxious, that your range
- 39:03Speaker 4: of options diminishes, right, You've become more and more myopic,
- 39:07Speaker 4: until if you're in high anxiety or panic, you can't
- 39:11Speaker 4: even do anything. You just you're just in that moment
- 39:15Speaker 4: of disaster. So you might know intellectually that it's important
- 39:20Speaker 4: to breathe, but you just can't muster up. You don't
- 39:24Speaker 4: have a practice in place. If you learn how to
- 39:28Speaker 4: breathe a calming breath before you need it, it will
- 39:31Speaker 4: be your default that you go to. So I know
- 39:33Speaker 4: you you said you spent time on a boat. I'm
- 39:36Speaker 4: a yacht master, and I have lived on a sailing
- 39:39Speaker 4: boat for many years. I don't anymore. But so much
- 39:42Speaker 4: can go wrong on a boat. You know, it's moving
- 39:45Speaker 4: all the time, You've got passengers or people on with you.
- 39:48Speaker 4: You know, there are a lot of responsibilities for a
- 39:50Speaker 4: skipper on a boat. If a square comes or you
- 39:53Speaker 4: hit a rock or the sail brakes, or you know,
- 39:56Speaker 4: there are so many different things that can go wrong.
- 39:58Speaker 4: We're taught to go like a first responder or a
- 40:03Speaker 4: fireperson would. We're taught to go through a sequence of
- 40:06Speaker 4: events if a disaster happens, and we adapt the sequence
- 40:10Speaker 4: according to what the disaster is, and we practice it.
- 40:13Speaker 4: We practice it, We practice it. So when it happens
- 40:17Speaker 4: when the anchor slips and you're heading for the rocks
- 40:20Speaker 4: in a forty mile an hour wind, you know you
- 40:23Speaker 4: have a sequence of events, so you don't go into panic.
- 40:27Speaker 4: You just follow your sequence. And it's the same thing
- 40:31Speaker 4: with our breath. The more we develop our breath practices
- 40:34Speaker 4: now when we need to call upon them, they will
- 40:38Speaker 4: be there for us. So what I'm saying is make
- 40:41Speaker 4: breath your best friend, because it's the fuel you need
- 40:44Speaker 4: to do anything, but you can do it a lot
- 40:47Speaker 4: better when you use it consciously. And that's from an
- 40:52Speaker 4: being an athlete, to learning how to calm down, learning
- 40:55Speaker 4: how to get excited and empowered and more punchy to
- 41:00Speaker 4: make love. All of these things are informed by the breath.
- 41:06Speaker 4: Communication skills, public speaking, management skills, team building skills, everything,
- 41:12Speaker 4: wife husband skills. They all can be improved with conscious breathing.
- 41:18Speaker 2: Antie can we Obviously I'd encourage people to get in
- 41:22Speaker 2: contact with you to find out more about your retreat,
- 41:26Speaker 2: which sounds fascinating and great fun and enlightening, and also
- 41:32Speaker 2: to read your book. I've just been showing it on
- 41:36Speaker 2: my other screen over there. There we are folks out
- 41:39Speaker 2: of Chaos in a Calm. That's just such a great
- 41:42Speaker 2: cover and such a great title. Are you able, though,
- 41:46Speaker 2: without obviously giving everything away, just could you outline some
- 41:51Speaker 2: types of breath all the main groups of work that
- 41:56Speaker 2: you do or encourage people to employ.
- 41:58Speaker 4: Yeah, of course, to give them away. That's the breath
- 42:01Speaker 4: isn't mine. I'm just borrowing it. We're all borrowing it.
- 42:05Speaker 4: We always have to give it back, So I'm not proprietal.
- 42:09Speaker 4: I haven't named a breathwork the Anthony method. I'm not
- 42:12Speaker 4: interested in that. Yeah, here are some, I think Here's
- 42:16Speaker 4: breath one oh one. Notice how you're breathing in any
- 42:20Speaker 4: given moment. Start to keep mental notes or written notes
- 42:25Speaker 4: about a breath pattern you have when you first wake
- 42:28Speaker 4: up in the morning, or when you're making love, or
- 42:33Speaker 4: when you're in the supermarket queue. And there's an old
- 42:37Speaker 4: man in front of you who's fiddling with three penny
- 42:40Speaker 4: pieces and taking his time, and you're late for an appointment.
- 42:43Speaker 4: How are you breathing? How are you breathing when you're
- 42:46Speaker 4: driving on the motorway a little too fast? How are
- 42:48Speaker 4: you breathing when you're driving at a safe speed. How
- 42:51Speaker 4: are you breathing when you're angry? How are you breathing
- 42:53Speaker 4: when you're sad? Just start to create a catalogue of
- 42:58Speaker 4: how you're breathing in circumstances, and all of these breath
- 43:03Speaker 4: styles actually become the key that you can employ if
- 43:08Speaker 4: you want to recreate that condition. So I think one
- 43:12Speaker 4: perhaps pertinent thing that seems to be going on in
- 43:14Speaker 4: the world is a sexual thing. And I think I'm
- 43:17Speaker 4: just going to take the risk and say it for
- 43:19Speaker 4: people who have difficulty with premature ejaculation, for example, or
- 43:24Speaker 4: if you want to if you're a man or a
- 43:26Speaker 4: woman and you want to make an orgasmic experience more
- 43:30Speaker 4: of a whole body experience, indeed, more of a spiritual
- 43:33Speaker 4: experience than just you know, loin lust or friction fancy,
- 43:40Speaker 4: we'll call it. Use your breath. Breathe a slow, calm
- 43:45Speaker 4: breath as you feel any rise in the crescendo, and
- 43:49Speaker 4: you will have command over how that crescendo does develop.
- 43:54Speaker 4: If you're able to breathe, actually, even during an orgasm,
- 43:58Speaker 4: that's an static place to be. It's a challenge because
- 44:02Speaker 4: there's a natural contraction with an orgasm. But likewise, if
- 44:07Speaker 4: you cry, if you're crying, you'll notice that when we
- 44:12Speaker 4: sob we're like we do that. I encourage you to
- 44:16Speaker 4: learn to breathe a level of steady breath into that
- 44:21Speaker 4: emotion that you're feeling, because there's almost an orgasmic experience
- 44:25Speaker 4: in that as well, being with the emotion, that strength
- 44:29Speaker 4: of emotion and maintaining your breath at the same time.
- 44:33Speaker 4: And what happens. What happens is that you can feel
- 44:35Speaker 4: the emotion fully, but you can also witness it at
- 44:39Speaker 4: the same time. And that's really the central part of
- 44:44Speaker 4: our teachings at Alchemy, and really what the book is
- 44:48Speaker 4: about is about learning to transform this outer mess into
- 44:54Speaker 4: a center point, into a still point inside that then
- 44:59Speaker 4: turns things aroun so instead of being affected by the
- 45:01Speaker 4: world around you, you actually begin to affect the world
- 45:04Speaker 4: around you. And so the book is an invitation into
- 45:07Speaker 4: an inner journey. You could call it your inner workout,
- 45:11Speaker 4: if you will, which is about understanding where you've come
- 45:15Speaker 4: from and the conditions that have made you who you are,
- 45:18Speaker 4: but regaining some choices that you lost along the way
- 45:23Speaker 4: and saying, well, yeah, I want to change that, but
- 45:26Speaker 4: I've never been able to. I want to stop smoking,
- 45:28Speaker 4: I want to lose weight, I want to stop my addiction.
- 45:30Speaker 4: I want to grow into a better father or a parent,
- 45:34Speaker 4: or a husband or a wife. This journey that we
- 45:37Speaker 4: go on is about building that ability building agency. Now,
- 45:42Speaker 4: my big picture here is ten to the power of nine.
- 45:45Speaker 4: That's my motto, and what that means is if I
- 45:48Speaker 4: can get ten of you to uplift your consciousness, and
- 45:51Speaker 4: you're inspired enough to get ten other people to do
- 45:54Speaker 4: that each of you, and you can inspire them enough
- 45:57Speaker 4: to do it again. And if we do that nine times,
- 46:00Speaker 4: we've reached one billion people. When we've reached one billion people,
- 46:04Speaker 4: we can create a different conversation that I mentioned earlier on.
- 46:08Speaker 4: We can go to a big farmer and say, hey,
- 46:11Speaker 4: we've got two hundred and fifty million people that have
- 46:14Speaker 4: a chronic illness, but they don't want to pay six
- 46:16Speaker 4: grand a month for their medicine. You know, we're interested
- 46:19Speaker 4: in taking bids so we can create a new conversation
- 46:22Speaker 4: where big Farmer can move forward and say, yeah, I
- 46:25Speaker 4: want your business. I'm going to ensure you for alternative therapies,
- 46:29Speaker 4: not just medications. You know, we can actually begin to
- 46:32Speaker 4: create changes in the world because we become powerful enough
- 46:36Speaker 4: and influence that we can say what the conversation should be.
- 46:40Speaker 4: We don't have to join other peoples anymore. And that's
- 46:43Speaker 4: really what this book is about, is supporting you becoming
- 46:47Speaker 4: an agent of change in this mess that we live in.
- 46:51Speaker 4: And the way you're going to become an agent of
- 46:53Speaker 4: change is by creating your own agency, by becoming a
- 46:57Speaker 4: creative being, one that can make choices. And it all
- 47:00Speaker 4: starts with one breath. That one breath is how it begins.
- 47:04Speaker 2: So we should mention Anthony wim Half or is that
- 47:09Speaker 2: something you're fed up with hearing about?
- 47:12Speaker 4: No, not at all.
- 47:13Speaker 2: No.
- 47:14Speaker 4: I love what he does. I love what he does.
- 47:16Speaker 4: I'm friends with his daughter. I don't know him very well,
- 47:19Speaker 4: but I think he's a great man. He's helped a
- 47:22Speaker 4: lot of people. I wouldn't brand like I said, I
- 47:26Speaker 4: wouldn't brand a breath under my own name, But I
- 47:28Speaker 4: think that's part of his charm, is his brazen, brazen
- 47:32Speaker 4: approach to life that kind of really clears out the cobwebs,
- 47:36Speaker 4: and so I have great admiration for him. The wim
- 47:40Speaker 4: half method is one style of breath. Actually, it's an
- 47:43Speaker 4: ancient style of breath that he's called the wim half method.
- 47:48Speaker 4: It's an ancient Tibetan style of breath, but it's a
- 47:51Speaker 4: very empowering breath, and it's the kind of breath you
- 47:54Speaker 4: want to use if you need to meet resistance, if
- 47:57Speaker 4: you're going to if you're going to take in a
- 48:00Speaker 4: approach of beating resistance with persistence, the wim half breath
- 48:05Speaker 4: is a fantastic breath to use. You know. In my book,
- 48:09Speaker 4: I look at resistance and I don't think that resistance
- 48:12Speaker 4: is always something to be beaten. Sometimes resistance is something
- 48:16Speaker 4: to be alchemized, something that we can consider as a friend,
- 48:22Speaker 4: not just as an enemy. It helps us stopping putting
- 48:24Speaker 4: our hands into the fire, you know, if there's a fire,
- 48:27Speaker 4: So let's not throt the throwout the benefits with with
- 48:32Speaker 4: just because we're a little bit scared of the negative aspects.
- 48:36Speaker 4: But wim half is a is a He's got millions
- 48:39Speaker 4: of people breathing. So any one of my colleagues that
- 48:42Speaker 4: have done that, I'm like right there with them, do it,
- 48:45Speaker 4: go for it. Yeah.
- 48:46Speaker 2: They could call it the Instagram method.
- 48:49Speaker 6: I think, yeah, yeah, yeah, And it's you know what,
- 48:53Speaker 6: It's got a lot of people who would have thought
- 48:55Speaker 6: only sissies breathe breathing, And I train a lot of
- 48:59Speaker 6: people that have been come trainers in the Hoff method.
- 49:02Speaker 4: I'm very grateful to I. He keeps sending me people
- 49:04Speaker 4: that want to study with me because they want to
- 49:06Speaker 4: go deeper. It's because it's the work I do is
- 49:09Speaker 4: more about the inner journey. So be watchful in the
- 49:13Speaker 4: breath work world. There's a lot of junk out there.
- 49:15Speaker 4: There's a lot of cheap work that's about peak experience
- 49:18Speaker 4: and you know, get high, and we do you can
- 49:22Speaker 4: get high using your breath. But really, to me, the
- 49:25Speaker 4: question is what about uplifting your whole life, not just
- 49:29Speaker 4: the times that you sit down and breathe. So what
- 49:31Speaker 4: is it that you're doing in between your breath sessions
- 49:34Speaker 4: that you can gather data, wisdom, divine guidance from your
- 49:39Speaker 4: breath work session? How can you actually make it work
- 49:41Speaker 4: in your life, and then that's how we're really going
- 49:44Speaker 4: to make some big changes here.
- 49:46Speaker 2: Are you familiar with the air of Fit?
- 49:49Speaker 4: Is that the one, not the brand? But I'm familiar
- 49:51Speaker 4: with the concept where you can dial in your exhale
- 49:54Speaker 4: and yeah, yeah, I think it's great. Yeah.
- 49:57Speaker 2: I was actually got sponsored this along time ago for
- 50:00Speaker 2: one of my charity challenges for friends at home. You
- 50:04Speaker 2: can set the resistance on it for breathing in and
- 50:07Speaker 2: breathing out. You don't use it when you're exercising. You
- 50:10Speaker 2: do it more of a sort of I don't know,
- 50:12Speaker 2: a yogic like practice, and it's supposed to increase your
- 50:18Speaker 2: lung strength and capacity, Anthony, would that be yeah?
- 50:22Speaker 4: It does? Yeah, yeah, and you know that would also
- 50:25Speaker 4: be a very useful tool for anxiety, building resilience around
- 50:30Speaker 4: anxiety too.
- 50:31Speaker 2: Yes, how would that help with anxiety? Because I'd imagine
- 50:35Speaker 2: probably a lot of people listening would like to know
- 50:38Speaker 2: more about that.
- 50:39Speaker 7: Well, yeah, I mean there is Actually I have a
- 50:43Speaker 7: self paced course on anxiety which has just been going
- 50:47Speaker 7: for about eight years and thousands of people have used it.
- 50:51Speaker 4: The main essence of that course is that you need
- 50:55Speaker 4: to learn to extend your exhale, and again it's better
- 50:59Speaker 4: practiced outside of the context of anxiety. So if you
- 51:04Speaker 4: do it for three minutes every morning, three minutes every
- 51:07Speaker 4: evening before you go to sleep, and after about two
- 51:09Speaker 4: or three weeks, it becomes a natural and natural way
- 51:12Speaker 4: that you would greet any rise in tension at all.
- 51:14Speaker 4: But the essence is to breathe into account of four
- 51:18Speaker 4: through your nose and then start with a count of
- 51:20Speaker 4: eight on your exhale and then keep extending, so I
- 51:24Speaker 4: would now I know, exhale for about fifty or fifty
- 51:27Speaker 4: five seconds and then come to another inhale. But you
- 51:31Speaker 4: really only have to get it up to twelve or fifteen,
- 51:34Speaker 4: and already it's having a big effect on you. Actually,
- 51:38Speaker 4: the trick here is the fact that you're deciding to
- 51:41Speaker 4: do it is fifty percent of the work. So that's
- 51:43Speaker 4: really the secret. If you're going to make the choice
- 51:45Speaker 4: to do it, you're making a choice from a choiceless place,
- 51:49Speaker 4: so you're already beginning the shift yourself. Again, it starts
- 51:53Speaker 4: with that one breath. It all comes down to taking
- 51:55Speaker 4: that breath when you don't want to.
- 51:57Speaker 2: And is it your uncle Nikola, I've mentioned in your
- 52:03Speaker 2: in your documentation. Was a great philosopher.
- 52:08Speaker 4: He was, he was, he was. He was not just
- 52:12Speaker 4: a great philosophy he was a great man. He was
- 52:14Speaker 4: a great patriarch and a great a beautiful man, very
- 52:18Speaker 4: gentle soul, and he was in fact, all the universities
- 52:23Speaker 4: in Italy that teach philosophy they use his books for
- 52:27Speaker 4: their curriculum. And yeah, he's my great uncle. I never
- 52:33Speaker 4: knew how much he'd informed me, but it definitely is
- 52:36Speaker 4: a part of my work. I think to bridge between
- 52:40Speaker 4: philosophy and spirituality and psychology is my dream to see
- 52:44Speaker 4: how all of these three can help each other. And
- 52:47Speaker 4: I've seen in the past how they've all been a
- 52:49Speaker 4: bit separate and even competitive with each other. But to
- 52:52Speaker 4: join them together, I think is really where the juices.
- 52:55Speaker 2: And what's his surname, Anthony?
- 53:00Speaker 4: You'll find it on that. He's not on LinkedIn because
- 53:03Speaker 4: he died a few years ago, but you'll find him
- 53:05Speaker 4: on Wikipedia for sure.
- 53:07Speaker 2: Yes, there we go. It's coming up up straight away. Yes, late, amazing, Anthony.
- 53:15Speaker 2: Thank you so much for coming on the show. Is
- 53:16Speaker 2: there anything you'd like to add that maybe I've overlooked?
- 53:22Speaker 4: Yeah, if any of you are interested to try breath Work.
- 53:26Speaker 4: Please join us on Sundays. We do breath work on
- 53:29Speaker 4: UK time at nine point thirty and at five pm,
- 53:33Speaker 4: and it's online. I was the first person to bring
- 53:37Speaker 4: breath work online and I think it's what's really made
- 53:39Speaker 4: it available to millions of people, and our staff facilitators
- 53:43Speaker 4: come and do it, and every once in a while
- 53:45Speaker 4: I do one as well, and we theme it all
- 53:48Speaker 4: on parts of the human journey. In the journey so
- 53:51Speaker 4: you'll find it supportive. It's a half hour experience with
- 53:54Speaker 4: about another fifteen minutes fifty minutes before intro and fifteen
- 53:58Speaker 4: minutes outro. You get to breathe with other people. You'll
- 54:01Speaker 4: get to understand that maybe some of the problems you
- 54:04Speaker 4: face are not yours alone, and you'll get a whole
- 54:07Speaker 4: lot of support. So there are several hundred that breathe
- 54:10Speaker 4: every Sunday. Please join us. And I think my request
- 54:15Speaker 4: is that I don't know how many people are going
- 54:18Speaker 4: to download or listen to this podcast, but if each
- 54:21Speaker 4: one of you would commit to a random act of
- 54:25Speaker 4: kindness today or even this week, for the whole week,
- 54:29Speaker 4: every day, that's going to make a huge wave of change.
- 54:32Speaker 4: So that's what my ask would be as a result
- 54:36Speaker 4: of being with you today.
- 54:38Speaker 2: Yes, and I'll back that up, Anthony, thanks so much
- 54:42Speaker 2: for coming on the show. I hope that we can
- 54:44Speaker 2: keep in touch.
- 54:48Speaker 4: Well, actually saying that's too random acts of kindness. That's
- 54:51Speaker 4: one for me and one for you. So that's where
- 54:54Speaker 4: the balloons come.
- 54:55Speaker 2: Yes, thank you. Yes, they looked amazing by the way, Yes,
- 55:01Speaker 2: so what was I going to say? Yes, I hope
- 55:03Speaker 2: we can keep in touch, and thank you for everything
- 55:08Speaker 2: that you're doing. As I said, I was showing your book.
- 55:11Speaker 2: I think everyone will be intrigued to read it now
- 55:16Speaker 2: and find out more. We'll put your social media links
- 55:19Speaker 2: and your website and everything below this video so people
- 55:22Speaker 2: can find you. And yes, thank you very much. Again,
- 55:26Speaker 2: stay on the line, Anti, just so I can thank
- 55:28Speaker 2: you properly. And to all of our friends out there,
- 55:31Speaker 2: I hope you've got as much out of this podcast
- 55:34Speaker 2: as I have. Please look after yourself. If you can
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