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The Quilt of Life-Changing our Energy to Match our Hopes · Lavender Mind

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  Hey. Welcome to Lavender Mine podcast,
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  a podcast to help anyone remember.
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  How to live only in this moment because,
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  you know what? It's the only 1 we
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  have. Hey. Welcome to Lavender Mind. I'm your
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  host. Katie Bo blanc. If this is the
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  first time you're here, welcome to the show.
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  If you've been here before, welcome back. As
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  a.
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  If it were up to me, I would
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  start with dessert first for every meal. Of
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  course, I'm a wellness teacher or so
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  I'm gonna pretend that dessert is just like
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  fresh berries. Right?
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  Today, I wanna talk about how
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  starting from the end
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  and then going backwards
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  is really a great way to draw beautiful
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  things in your life. A lot of times,
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  we think that we need to obtain the
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  thing before we can feel happiness, like, like,
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  we think we need to make the million
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  dollars and then feel the success or
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  we need to find the partner and then
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  feel the love. But actually, it is just
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  the opposite. It's important to feel the love
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  and then find the partner and feel the
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  success and then
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  make that
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  amount that provides for your family.
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  When we feel the feelings first, we draw
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  beautiful things our way, and life is never
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  dull, and we're
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  in alignment with what starts to head in
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  our direction.
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  And when you start at the end result
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  and go backwards.
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  You embody the thing that you want. Whatever
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  that feeling is that you want if you
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  feel that first,
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  it helps to draw those beautiful things into
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  your life. Your energy changes things,
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  and the way that you show up really
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  changes what comes your way
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  things don't bother you as much, you
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  show up with more to bring to the
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  table.
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  You start to shift your life. In a
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  different way. And a lot of times people
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  say, well, you know, it's selfish to focus
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  on the things that I want. But I
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  disagree with that because I think that when
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  we
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  bring joy to our lives. It lifts others
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  around us,
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  and it doesn't take away from others that
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  actually add to their life too because we're
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  all like made of this beautiful quilt,
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  with, a lot of threads, my mom used
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  to make quilt. She had a quilt store,
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  it was a country store back in the
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  eighties, and she made beautiful quilt. Beautiful ham
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  handmade quilt.
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  She said when I was a little girl,
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  I tried to sell everything for 2 dollars,
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  2 dollar, 2 dollar.
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  And she made ollie these really beautiful quilt,
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  and they all had
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  amazing
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  thread to create the beautiful colors that
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  would make her quilt that she sold and
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  just like Quilt, we affect each other with
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  the threads that we bring to this life.
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  And so why not have a really pretty
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  shade of
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  bright vibrant color because maybe the thread next
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  to you was thread and by being a
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  more vibrant thread. It adds value
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  to their life, and they wanna show up
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  a little more vibrant too. I think we
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  really are all inter inter woven in each
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  other's lives. So don't dim your threat or
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  your light because it's not selfish to
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  try to show up your best in this
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  life, and I don't think it's selfish to
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  focus on the things that you want and
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  to lift your energy in that way. I
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  think sometimes another thing that comes up when
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  we're trying to focus on the things that
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  we wanna draw our way is fear of
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  the unknown, and that can keep us stock
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  to you know, fear hangs in our minds.
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  So
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  just as we can think of a scary
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  thought,
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  we can think of the endless possibilities
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  to, When the fear rises up, I think
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  it's great to say, hey fear. Thanks for
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  protecting me and then move on to trust
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  and love.
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  This is the empowering reality that we have
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  to make things possible.
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  This is what requires our brain to have
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  success.
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  So how do we start to embody the
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  things that we
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  would like from the life?
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  It doesn't take a lot of time. You
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  can just take 5 minutes a day to
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  visualize what you would like
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  and think about
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  some shifts that you'd like to make in
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  your life,
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  and you can start to feel that way
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  during the 5 minutes
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  and try to carry that into your day.
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  And these energy changes
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  can really start to bring
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  things into your life.
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  It'll slowly shift your life.
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  And again, it's not selfish. It's a great
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  way to show up in this world
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  so that we can add so much to
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  this world.
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  If you are looking to make those kind
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  of changes, just take some time,
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  I recommend in the morning to really visualize
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  some changes that you would like to make.
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  Even if it's,
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  you would like a more organized home
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  you can just
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  visualize what that looks like
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  or if you wanna make a big change,
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  like, you wanna switch your career or
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  maybe you would like some changes in your
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  relationship. You can really just start to feel
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  what that feels like, maybe that shift in
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  the relationship feels calmer and more peaceful
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  and start to really embody that. And then
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  over time, once you
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  start to think about this and feel those
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  feelings. It starts to
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  become who you are. It's not an overnight
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  thing, but it definitely
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  makes a big difference because once we have
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  those emotions and those feelings then it changes,
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  like I said, what starts to come your
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  way. So maybe you can start this. And
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  if you feel like your thread needs a
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  little bit of vi, this will
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  add to your quilt.
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  I hope this helps. I hope together we
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  can plant some seeds of resilience,
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  enjoy, have an amazing day.