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2nd DATE UPDATE: Sierra and Tyler · Johnjay & Rich On Demand

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  Speaker 1: The next segment we're going to do is called Second
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  Speaker 1: Date Update because that's what we're going to try and get,
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  Speaker 1: and that's what the bit is called.
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  Speaker 2: Second Date Update starts right now on John Jay and Rick.
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  Speaker 3: All right, we're getting ready for Second Date Update. We're
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  Speaker 3: going to find out. Whoa, Sierra, clear your throat on
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  Speaker 3: the air. Hi, you're on the air. Good morning, Sierra.
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  Speaker 2: Hi, sorry.
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  Speaker 1: It's okay.
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  Speaker 3: It's okay. You've got a lot going on. So what's happening?
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  Speaker 3: What would you tell us about your date?
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  Speaker 1: So.
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  Speaker 4: I just, like, want your guys' help because I've been
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  Speaker 4: on five first dates this month and I keep getting
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  Speaker 4: ghosted by guys. Like, I've literally gotten ghosted by all
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  Speaker 4: of them. And I don't, like, I'm starting to think
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  Speaker 4: maybe I'm the issue.
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  Speaker 5: I don't know.
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  Speaker 4: But this most recent guy, like, we were talking on
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  Speaker 4: Instagram and And we went out on a date and
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  Speaker 4: I thought it was a lot of fun. And I
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  Speaker 4: haven't heard back from him. He, like, didn't even give
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  Speaker 4: me his number until we were on the date. And I've, like,
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  Speaker 4: texted him a couple times. And then I also messaged
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  Speaker 4: him on Instagram. And I haven't heard anything back from him.
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  Speaker 4: And I'm just, like, so over it.
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  Speaker 1: Is he reading your messages on Instagram? Like, you know
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  Speaker 1: how on Instagram someone opens it, it says, like, that
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  Speaker 1: they saw it? Or is he completely ghosting you?
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  Speaker 4: No, he hasn't opened them. It's like, yeah, he's completely ghosted.
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  Speaker 4: I haven't heard anything.
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  Speaker 6: I feel like, John Jay, you would be like, maybe
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  Speaker 6: they're all deathly ill.
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  Speaker 3: All five of the ghosters. They're lined up at the
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  Speaker 3: same hospital, just in the emergency room.
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  Speaker 1: All of them.
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  Speaker 4: Yeah, maybe I'm cursing all these guys. I don't know.
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  Speaker 6: I mean, five dates for this to happen to you.
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  Speaker 6: I feel like that's so brutal. I feel so bad
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  Speaker 6: for you.
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  Speaker 1: She sounds defeated, too. I mean, I get it. I
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  Speaker 1: would be. Even if you don't get to go on
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  Speaker 1: another date with this guy, if that's even what you
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  Speaker 1: want to do. But just to know, like, what's going
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  Speaker 1: on here? Because I would definitely be looking in.
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  Speaker 2: The mirror, too.
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  Speaker 3: Well, sure.
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  Speaker 2: But, you know, it's also kind of the culture. It's
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  Speaker 2: not her culture. It's just that people don't know how
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  Speaker 2: to behave their butts.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, men can't communicate, so they just ghost.
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  Speaker 3: Is that what you're saying?
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, I don't know. I'll call her if I want
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  Speaker 2: to see her again. And she's just gotten a few
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  Speaker 2: of those in a row. Yeah.
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  Speaker 3: So, shall we call?
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  Speaker 1: Yeah.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah.
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  Speaker 6: Yeah?
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  Speaker 3: Give us some names, Sierra.
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  Speaker 4: Tyler.
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  Speaker 3: Tyler. Okay. Hold on the line, okay? We're going to
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  Speaker 3: get Tyler on the phone. We're going to find out
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  Speaker 3: why he's blowing you off, okay?
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  Speaker 1: Okay.
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  Speaker 3: John Jay and Rich. We are like a whole bunch.
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  Speaker 1: All right.
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  Speaker 3: We are in the middle of Second Aid Update. Sierra
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  Speaker 3: and Tyler? Poor Sierra.
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  Speaker 2: Five times. She's been ghosted by five guys in a
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  Speaker 2: month in her dating life. And she's starting to wonder,
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  Speaker 2: am I the problem?
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  Speaker 3: Is it me?
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  Speaker 2: But she went out with Tyler and had a great date.
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  Speaker 2: The conversation was flowing. The connection was happening. Now she's
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  Speaker 2: messaged him. She didn't even have his number until the date.
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  Speaker 2: And he's not answering. He's ghosting her too.
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  Speaker 3: What's the deal? You know what's funny, Sierra, is you
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  Speaker 3: went out with five guys in one month and they
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  Speaker 3: all ghosted you, right?
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  Speaker 1: Yeah.
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  Speaker 5: It's funny.
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  Speaker 3: If you actually went to the five guys restaurant and
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  Speaker 3: they didn't wait on you. And then I go to
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  Speaker 3: five guys and they wouldn't take my order.
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  Speaker 2: Come on.
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  Speaker 3: What is the deal? Hey, and how come out of
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  Speaker 3: the five guys, why is Tyler the one you want
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  Speaker 3: to talk to? How come you don't want to have
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  Speaker 3: us call any of the other ones?
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  Speaker 2: I mean.
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  Speaker 4: I don't know. I had a fun date with him,
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  Speaker 4: but also I think I'm just kind of at the
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  Speaker 4: end of my line of getting ghosted right now. And
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  Speaker 4: I just want to ask if there was something about
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  Speaker 4: me or why did he ghost me?
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  Speaker 3: We could get all five guys on the phone at
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  Speaker 3: one time on speaker and then be like, hold on, guys.
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  Speaker 3: You all went on a date with this girl. Why
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  Speaker 3: don't you like her? But all right. Hold on a second. Dylan,
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  Speaker 3: did you get Tyler on the phone? Not quite. I
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  Speaker 3: have Danae on the line. She'll fill you in. Danae?
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  Speaker 3: All right, Sarah, you chill for a second.
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  Speaker 2: Okay.
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  Speaker 1: Hold on.
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  Speaker 3: Hold on a second.
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  Speaker 1: Danae?
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  Speaker 3: Yes, hi.
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  Speaker 5: Hi.
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  Speaker 3: You're cool jumping on the radio with us real quick?
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  Speaker 6: Yep.
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  Speaker 3: Oh, we were looking for Tyler.
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  Speaker 5: Well, you didn't get Tyler. Tyler is my little brother.
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  Speaker 5: And this is my number that he gives out to girls.
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  Speaker 3: Okay. Why would he do that?
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  Speaker 1: Oh, God.
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  Speaker 5: I did not ever expect this to escalate this far.
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  Speaker 5: So when he goes on dates, if it's not going well,
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  Speaker 5: if it's not a situation he's really into, he gives
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  Speaker 5: them my number so that they don't have any way
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  Speaker 5: to contact him afterwards.
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  Speaker 3: How rude.
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  Speaker 5: I have had so many girls call me and text me.
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  Speaker 5: And I mean, I've gotten cussed out. And meanwhile, he
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  Speaker 5: just blocks them on Instagram and he just moves on
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  Speaker 5: with his life.
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  Speaker 2: Oh.
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  Speaker 3: Well, we have one of those girls. So we do
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  Speaker 3: a radio show and one of those girls called us.
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  Speaker 3: And she was so bummed out that Tyler's ghosted her
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  Speaker 3: that she asked us to track him down. So that's
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  Speaker 3: what we're doing. So say please say hi to Sierra.
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  Speaker 4: Hi, Sierra. So you're his sister?
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  Speaker 5: Girl, yeah.
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  Speaker 1: Hi.
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  Speaker 5: So, what?
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  Speaker 4: Okay.
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  Speaker 5: He's not worth tracking down. Yeah, he's not worth it.
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  Speaker 5: It's not, this is, he is He's tragically unable to
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  Speaker 5: communicate and he is not worth it. I promise you,
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  Speaker 5: he is not worth your time.
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  Speaker 2: Why would you let him give you or let him
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  Speaker 2: use your phone number? You don't want to go through
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  Speaker 2: deal with his mess.
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  Speaker 1: I do not.
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  Speaker 2: He is.
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  Speaker 5: But he is my little brother. And apparently I am
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  Speaker 5: running customer service for his dating life.
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  Speaker 1: I don't know.
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  Speaker 2: I have him to stop. Well, Sierra's great. Do you
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  Speaker 2: have any guys that you can hook her up with?
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  Speaker 1: Right. Maybe another brother that doesn't do.
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  Speaker 3: What your other brother did.
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  Speaker 2: She cared enough to call us to find out what happened,
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  Speaker 2: and she sounds sweet as she can be.
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  Speaker 5: Yeah. And, Sierra, I'm telling you, he is not worth it.
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  Speaker 5: This is a dead end. It's a cul-de-sac to nowhere.
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  Speaker 5: There's nothing. You don't want to get involved with him.
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  Speaker 3: He's a mess.
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  Speaker 5: I'm hoping someday.
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  Speaker 3: No problem. I think she's sold on not going out
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  Speaker 3: with him again.
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  Speaker 6: I feel like maybe that we did. For a second,
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  Speaker 6: I was thinking, oh, man, we didn't really get Sierra
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  Speaker 6: any answers. I think maybe we do. And I think
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  Speaker 6: maybe Sierra's got a bad man picker.
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  Speaker 3: Well, yeah, because today, you don't need to know all this,
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  Speaker 3: but the last four guys before Todd ghosted her, too.
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  Speaker 5: Oh, well, I can't speak for the other four.
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  Speaker 3: Right. What we can do is we'll just hang up
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  Speaker 3: with you and then, Sierra, let's go. We'll just go next.
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  Speaker 3: We'll call them all, Sierra.
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  Speaker 1: I mean, she's open to dating and putting herself out there.
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  Speaker 3: That's a good thing. I feel bad for Sierra. She
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  Speaker 3: didn't get any answers. She's getting ghosted by everybody. But, Sierra,
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  Speaker 3: we didn't ghost you.
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  Speaker 5: You didn't.
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  Speaker 4: Thank you. I mean, did he say anything about why
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  Speaker 4: he wasn't into me or... I don't know.
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  Speaker 5: This is his process, Sierra. Do not take it personal.
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  Speaker 5: Do not take it personal. He is an immature, unable
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  Speaker 5: to communicate, not worth your time. He saw your DM.
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  Speaker 5: He hit block. That is his process. Delete him. He
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  Speaker 5: dodged a bullet.
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  Speaker 3: Okay. Hey, today, thank you for taking the time to
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  Speaker 3: jump on there with us. Really appreciate it. Thank you.
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  Speaker 5: Thank you. Thank you.
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  Speaker 3: Sierra, sorry we didn't get you answers. If you want
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  Speaker 3: to try another guy, we can help.
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  Speaker 4: I'll hit you guys up.
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  Speaker 1: Okay.
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  Speaker 3: Well, whenever you're ready, use those.
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  Speaker 2: No.
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  Speaker 3: Okay. Good luck to you.
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  Speaker 4: Thank you.
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  Speaker 1: All right.
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  Speaker 3: That's sucking it up at you guys. John Jane rich.