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- 0:00Speaker 1: Chucks Windall has devoted his life to the accurate, practical
- 0:04Speaker 1: teaching and application of God's word and his grace. A
- 0:08Speaker 1: pastor at heart, by the way, you don't have to
- 0:11Speaker 1: go very far to notice that. When you're in line
- 0:14Speaker 1: to speak to him and he's dealing with one person,
- 0:17Speaker 1: you'll be amazed at his focus. It's as if you're
- 0:20Speaker 1: the only person in the world. And I've experienced that.
- 0:23Speaker 1: It's a tremendous thing. It's a gift. But he works
- 0:28Speaker 1: at it as well. He has a pastor's heart, You'll
- 0:32Speaker 1: see it. Chuck has served a senior pastor to congregations
- 0:35Speaker 1: in Texas, Massachusetts, and California, and since nineteen ninety eight
- 0:39Speaker 1: he has served as the founder and senior pastor teacher
- 0:42Speaker 1: of Stonebrier Community Church in Frisco, Texas. His leadership at
- 0:47Speaker 1: Dallas Theological Seminary as fourth President and now as Chancellor
- 0:52Speaker 1: and soon to be Chancellor Emeritus is that it so
- 1:06Speaker 1: that's gotta be it if he doesn't know it, and
- 1:09Speaker 1: has helped prepare and equip a new generation for ministry.
- 1:12Speaker 1: He does love the Seminary, and I love that about him.
- 1:16Speaker 1: Chuck and Cynthia, his partner in life and ministry, have
- 1:19Speaker 1: four grown children, ten grandchildren, seven great grandchildren. Amen, would
- 1:26Speaker 1: you please help me in welcoming doctor Chuck swind Off?
- 1:37Speaker 2: All right, I wasn't trying to be smart when I
- 1:41Speaker 2: said I didn't know it. Just h I can't keep
- 1:45Speaker 2: up with all the stuff. My favorite line is when
- 1:49Speaker 2: I told my grandson that I was chancellor here. I
- 1:53Speaker 2: thought that sounded great. He said to me with a frown,
- 1:56Speaker 2: wasn't Hitler or Chancellor. So I'm kind of careful what
- 2:05Speaker 2: I tell people nowadays. You know, we recognize you who
- 2:09Speaker 2: are visiting today, and we're so pleased to have you. Really,
- 2:13Speaker 2: a seminary is a faculty, a great library, a philosophy,
- 2:22Speaker 2: or a statement of its faith, and then from then
- 2:26Speaker 2: on it's the blessing of God that is at work
- 2:31Speaker 2: in and through the lives of those who teach and
- 2:35Speaker 2: those who learn. I kind of want to talk to
- 2:39Speaker 2: you today rather than preach. I've got a little different
- 2:43Speaker 2: style of message I want to bring, so I will
- 2:47Speaker 2: begin with a different approach than I normally begin with.
- 2:53Speaker 2: Back in nineteen ninety nine, I bought a nineteen twenty
- 2:59Speaker 2: eight model A. Okay, I'd always looked at those little
- 3:07Speaker 2: classic cars that different friends of mine had, and I
- 3:13Speaker 2: sort of wondered what it would be like to have one.
- 3:18Speaker 2: And as I recall, I didn't say much to Cynthia
- 3:22Speaker 2: about getting it. That that was the first mistake that
- 3:26Speaker 2: I had, but she was fine with it. But it
- 3:30Speaker 2: was a cute little thing. It was not it was black.
- 3:36Speaker 2: Four used to say, you didn't have any color you want,
- 3:38Speaker 2: just so it's black. So that was a nice shiny
- 3:42Speaker 2: black with bright yellow wheels and wide white walls on
- 3:47Speaker 2: these little thin tires. Had a massive engine in it
- 3:51Speaker 2: of twenty four horse power. You who don't know much
- 3:56Speaker 2: about cars wouldn't know what the significance of that is,
- 3:59Speaker 2: but that that's a little over what's on a nice
- 4:03Speaker 2: size Lungmore so, it's a it's tiny little engine and
- 4:09Speaker 2: it just rough as a cob on the back roads
- 4:12Speaker 2: of the Dallas area. But it was a little convertible.
- 4:18Speaker 2: Had a rumble seat, which is a pop open seat
- 4:22Speaker 2: in the back behind the two seats on the front,
- 4:25Speaker 2: and it was really a dandy of a car, and
- 4:29Speaker 2: just it was a real eye catcher, and it was
- 4:35Speaker 2: totally inefficient, it really was. It didn't have a place
- 4:41Speaker 2: to plug in a cell phone. It it ran hot
- 4:46Speaker 2: all the time. Even though I tried my best to
- 4:51Speaker 2: wash out that radiator over and over, it just decided
- 4:55Speaker 2: it would always run hot. Had poor gas mileage. Uh.
- 5:01Speaker 2: It had no power steering, no power brakes, no power windows. Uh.
- 5:07Speaker 2: And it was uh no navigation system of course, no GPS,
- 5:13Speaker 2: and no automatic transmission. It just was a cute little
- 5:20Speaker 2: jeloppy you would call it. And uh. I drove it
- 5:24Speaker 2: to the school on a few occasions, but mainly I
- 5:28Speaker 2: got it for the grandkids. We we together named it Gramps.
- 5:33Speaker 2: In fact of all things was I was surprised but
- 5:36Speaker 2: that that personalized license plate had not been taken. So
- 5:42Speaker 2: I got Gramps for the license plate. It was terrific. Uh.
- 5:49Speaker 2: In a day of efficiency and and all that goes
- 5:54Speaker 2: with it, and I made a list of what's going
- 5:56Speaker 2: on now, uh O world of commercial jets and space
- 6:06Speaker 2: age stuff where people are even talking about traveling to Mars,
- 6:13Speaker 2: which I could never quite figure out why that would
- 6:16Speaker 2: be fun. And a day of teleconferencing and voice activated
- 6:23Speaker 2: computers and word processing and podcasting and Skype and all
- 6:29Speaker 2: of that. Here is this old model. It's just it's
- 6:39Speaker 2: sort of a touch of nostalgia in a world that's trying,
- 6:44Speaker 2: almost tripping over itself, to stay ahead of our times.
- 6:50Speaker 2: And here is this little car scooting around on the road,
- 6:56Speaker 2: attracting attention from various people as I would pass them,
- 7:01Speaker 2: or more often than not, as they would pass me.
- 7:06Speaker 2: Had no heater in it. In the winter, you'd freed
- 7:09Speaker 2: your buns off and the thing as a cold winner
- 7:13Speaker 2: of Dallas would come. And it occurred to me that
- 7:18Speaker 2: it would have made a fabulous graduation gift for our
- 7:23Speaker 2: first graduating class. Now, seminary began in nineteen twenty four,
- 7:30Speaker 2: so that model Model A would have been about four
- 7:37Speaker 2: hundred something dollars maybe if you got a few extras,
- 7:40Speaker 2: five hundred bucks to buy it new right off the
- 7:44Speaker 2: assembly line, and that would have been a big deal.
- 7:48Speaker 2: Back then. We celebrate our ninety fifth anniversary as a
- 7:57Speaker 2: school this year, if my math is correct. And it
- 8:05Speaker 2: occurred to me while I was thinking about my little car,
- 8:11Speaker 2: that it is easy for a school to cling to
- 8:17Speaker 2: its past. There's nothing in the world wrong with honoring
- 8:23Speaker 2: our heritage. There's everything right about that Bible is filled
- 8:27Speaker 2: with places and even stones of remembrance, and the value
- 8:33Speaker 2: of giving honor to whom honor is due. If you
- 8:39Speaker 2: happen to choose to come to this school, you won't
- 8:43Speaker 2: be long before you'll hear the stories related to former
- 8:51Speaker 2: presidents and former faculty members and historical events that took
- 9:00Speaker 2: place as we got underway. It was always a thrill
- 9:04Speaker 2: for me when I came beginning in my first year
- 9:09Speaker 2: was nineteen fifty nine, and so doctor Chaeffer had been
- 9:13Speaker 2: dead seven years. I never knew the founding and first
- 9:19Speaker 2: president of the school. My era was under doctor John Wolverard,
- 9:26Speaker 2: whose time here was a very significant period of time.
- 9:31Speaker 2: But it occurred to me that we can be so
- 9:34Speaker 2: preoccupied as we cling to our past that we like
- 9:40Speaker 2: that old model. A can become quaint a study in nostalgia.
- 9:50Speaker 2: But when schools do that, they become without meaning to
- 9:56Speaker 2: a dusty monuments and sort of like quaint museums, inefficient reflections.
- 10:10Speaker 2: I think maybe the worst title would be institutional relics.
- 10:18Speaker 2: I've never felt that Dallas Seminary, as much as we
- 10:23Speaker 2: respect our past, ever wanted to be that. So you
- 10:30Speaker 2: have no fear if you're thinking about our school thinking
- 10:34Speaker 2: that it's going to always be looking back, we will
- 10:40Speaker 2: look back and we should look back. In fact, the
- 10:46Speaker 2: book we revere, we certainly don't worship it, but we
- 10:52Speaker 2: study it seriously, pore over it. In virtually every class,
- 10:59Speaker 2: we will it or we will spend time during the
- 11:03Speaker 2: entire class digging into it. Ancient book. In fact, it's
- 11:08Speaker 2: criticized by the cynics of our day for being ancient,
- 11:15Speaker 2: as if ancient means out of touch. But you and
- 11:21Speaker 2: I know that God's word is alive and active and
- 11:24Speaker 2: sharper than a double edged sword, and it's changed your life.
- 11:32Speaker 2: It has certainly changed mind, still changing it. I can
- 11:39Speaker 2: go to certain scriptures and I can say, because of
- 11:42Speaker 2: what is written there, my life took another direction from
- 11:49Speaker 2: this ancient book called the Bible, whether Old or New Testament.
- 11:57Speaker 2: So we love God's word here and we never apologize
- 12:01Speaker 2: for that. However, we desire to have a balance. I
- 12:10Speaker 2: came across a quote from John R. W. Staut that's
- 12:14Speaker 2: worth reading. It's very easy to be faithful if you
- 12:18Speaker 2: do not care about being contemporary, and it's also easy
- 12:25Speaker 2: to be contemporary if you don't bother to be faithful.
- 12:31Speaker 2: The challenge, obviously, is to be both. The late doctor
- 12:38Speaker 2: Howard Hendrix when his shadow crossed our paths as students
- 12:47Speaker 2: years ago and marked our lives. Sort of reshape that
- 12:53Speaker 2: statement by Stott and put it in these words. I
- 12:56Speaker 2: like his words even better. It is no challenge to
- 13:00Speaker 2: be biblical if you don't care about being relevant, And
- 13:06Speaker 2: it's no challenge being relevant if you don't care about
- 13:10Speaker 2: being biblical. But to be both biblical and relevant addressing
- 13:20Speaker 2: the issues of today's world and culture, that's our challenge.
- 13:27Speaker 2: Is a theological institution, very well stated to quote the
- 13:35Speaker 2: words of Jesus out of Matthew nine. I've got my
- 13:40Speaker 2: Bible open to verses sixteen and seventeen, that familiar word picture.
- 13:46Speaker 2: You'll recall. No one puts a patch of unshrunk cloth
- 13:54Speaker 2: on an old garment, for the patch pulls away from
- 14:00Speaker 2: the garment, and a worse tear results than the next
- 14:08Speaker 2: verse reads. Nor do we put new wine in old
- 14:16Speaker 2: wine skins, which was in those days the wine bottle,
- 14:22Speaker 2: but it was in the skins. Otherwise the wine skins
- 14:27Speaker 2: burst and the wine pours out, and the wine skins
- 14:33Speaker 2: are ruined. But they put new wine into fresh wine skins,
- 14:43Speaker 2: and both are preserved. Hopefully we are engaged in doing that.
- 14:52Speaker 2: And you know. I mean that in the broader sense.
- 14:54Speaker 2: Every year, every year, hopefully this faculty, we'll take a
- 15:01Speaker 2: fresh look at your notes, your course that you're teaching,
- 15:10Speaker 2: realizing that another year is past, and perhaps there is
- 15:15Speaker 2: the need to adjust or adapt the way you're going
- 15:20Speaker 2: to say that or teach that so that this generation
- 15:24Speaker 2: can get it for our times. That's constantly the challenge
- 15:31Speaker 2: of every pastor on the planet. I am not ministering
- 15:37Speaker 2: to nineteen fifty nine people, though some of the people
- 15:41Speaker 2: I minister to are that old. I am ministering to millennials,
- 15:49Speaker 2: to teenagers, to people who are just now learning who
- 15:55Speaker 2: Jesus is, to those who are just discovering what church
- 16:02Speaker 2: is about, who have no clue what the songs are
- 16:07Speaker 2: that we've sung for centuries, or even the new ones
- 16:12Speaker 2: that are being composed to them. The life of faith
- 16:18Speaker 2: is a little weird, and it is the task of
- 16:26Speaker 2: the one who delivers the message to make sure it
- 16:32Speaker 2: is solidly biblical and at the same time ever relevant,
- 16:38Speaker 2: so you don't have to decode what's being said. I
- 16:46Speaker 2: love the honest statement that one of my profs said,
- 16:51Speaker 2: if people are bored when you preach, it's not their fault.
- 16:57Speaker 2: I think that's a very good way to put it.
- 17:02Speaker 2: It is your problem, especially if they're regularly bored. Everybody's
- 17:08Speaker 2: a little bored sometime because you're preoccupied, or you're sleepy
- 17:13Speaker 2: or whatever. But if you are regularly bored and thinking
- 17:17Speaker 2: about why in the world do we still coming to
- 17:20Speaker 2: this church, there's something wrong with the one at the
- 17:24Speaker 2: pulpit or the one at the microphone. It is the
- 17:29Speaker 2: task of the one communicating to make sure that what
- 17:36Speaker 2: is being said is right on the sharp edge of
- 17:40Speaker 2: where the listener is living. And I'm going to tell
- 17:46Speaker 2: you something that is a challenge. You cannot stay up
- 17:53Speaker 2: in today's world and keep driving them onde l A.
- 18:00Speaker 2: You got to see that that's sort of a fun
- 18:02Speaker 2: little hobby that you do for a while and you
- 18:05Speaker 2: sell it and you have the memory of it. But
- 18:08Speaker 2: that's not You can't keep up. And so in light
- 18:15Speaker 2: of all of that, I have a very different Like
- 18:19Speaker 2: I said earlier, I have a very different message I
- 18:22Speaker 2: want to leave with you, and I rarely ask you
- 18:25Speaker 2: to do this, but today I'm going to do it.
- 18:30Speaker 2: If you've got a place where you can write something down,
- 18:33Speaker 2: I want you to be ready to write down seven statements.
- 18:38Speaker 2: I'm going to call my talk seven Habits of very
- 18:44Speaker 2: Effective Seminaries, with all new apologies to Stephen Covey, who
- 18:52Speaker 2: has written about seven habits of highly effective people and
- 18:56Speaker 2: highly effective families. I want to talk about seven habits
- 19:01Speaker 2: of highly effective seminaries, and I want to give them
- 19:06Speaker 2: to you in no particular order of importance. Remember I
- 19:12Speaker 2: said that, and I could give you seventeen, but I can't.
- 19:17Speaker 2: And I could give you three or four, but there
- 19:21Speaker 2: needs to be more. So I'm going to go with
- 19:23Speaker 2: seven to stay with the idea of the way Covey's
- 19:26Speaker 2: written his book. So here they are one, two, three, four, five,
- 19:30Speaker 2: sixty seven. I'd like you to write them down, and
- 19:33Speaker 2: i'd like you if you come to the school to
- 19:36Speaker 2: check it out to see if we are on target
- 19:40Speaker 2: in these areas as best you can tell, and you
- 19:45Speaker 2: could tell some of them a lot easier than others
- 19:48Speaker 2: unless you're involved in the warp and woof of the
- 19:51Speaker 2: administration and all but much of it you'll be able
- 19:53Speaker 2: to tell as a student. Okay, here we go. Number one,
- 19:58Speaker 2: Highly effective seminaries are focused on what is essential. Highly
- 20:06Speaker 2: effective seminaries, let's even use the word stay, stay focused
- 20:13Speaker 2: on what is essential effective seminary. Under that, I'm just
- 20:20Speaker 2: going to ramble a little and just kind of fill
- 20:23Speaker 2: in the blanks here. We don't try to be all
- 20:26Speaker 2: things to everyone. We can't be. We don't try to
- 20:32Speaker 2: compete with some other school and outdo that school so
- 20:36Speaker 2: people will come here to this school. That's not an essential.
- 20:41Speaker 2: Competition is not an essential part of our commitment. I
- 20:47Speaker 2: find that when you do that, you become five miles
- 20:50Speaker 2: wide and about six inches deep, and you miss it.
- 20:56Speaker 2: We should be able to state our mission in one sense.
- 21:00Speaker 2: By the way, I got a copy of the catalog
- 21:03Speaker 2: and I turned to the mission statement. There it is okay.
- 21:09Speaker 2: Here it is. The mission of Dallas Theological Seminary as
- 21:16Speaker 2: a professional graduate level school, is to glorify God by
- 21:21Speaker 2: equipping godly servant leaders for the proclamation of His word
- 21:28Speaker 2: and the building up of the body of Christ worldwide.
- 21:34Speaker 2: Ought to be able to state that, ought to be
- 21:36Speaker 2: able to prove that, ought to be able to model that.
- 21:38Speaker 2: That's essential. That's what we're about. Ought to be doing
- 21:42Speaker 2: that every day we're in existence, every course. Ought to
- 21:47Speaker 2: keep that in mind. That's it essential. I could even
- 21:52Speaker 2: reduce it to the motto that is on our emblem,
- 21:59Speaker 2: preach the world word. Our goal isn't to study the word,
- 22:04Speaker 2: is to preach the word. It takes study to preach
- 22:08Speaker 2: it well. But the goal is to deliver the goods,
- 22:13Speaker 2: not to sit around in groups for the rest of
- 22:15Speaker 2: our lives and study deeper, deeper and deeper. You certainly
- 22:19Speaker 2: will want to study, and you want your study to
- 22:21Speaker 2: be deep enough so that you do dig into the treasures.
- 22:25Speaker 2: And I'm going to tell you from years of experienced
- 22:28Speaker 2: congregations will love you for your hard work and the study,
- 22:34Speaker 2: but they'll appreciate the fact that you give attention to
- 22:37Speaker 2: the delivery of the message and delivering it well, saying
- 22:43Speaker 2: it carefully, articulating it with right words. Preaching the word
- 22:50Speaker 2: was drilled into us as a student. We should be
- 22:54Speaker 2: clear about what we believe and stand there regardless of
- 23:00Speaker 2: whether it's politically correct or culturally acceptable. Often when I
- 23:06Speaker 2: see something as politically incorrect, I like it even more.
- 23:10Speaker 2: And I find that much of the message is politically incorrect,
- 23:15Speaker 2: and I do not care, and I'm cultivating the life
- 23:20Speaker 2: of a church that doesn't care either. We have an
- 23:24Speaker 2: essential set of responsibilities and pleasing our culture is not
- 23:29Speaker 2: one of them. Ignoring the culture is not the answer either.
- 23:35Speaker 2: So here again is the need for a balance. So
- 23:38Speaker 2: you got the first one. Highly effective seminaries stay focused
- 23:41Speaker 2: on what is essential. Number two. Highly effective seminaries exist
- 23:48Speaker 2: for the students, not the other way around. I'll say
- 23:53Speaker 2: it again, highly effective seminaries exist for the students, not
- 23:59Speaker 2: the other way. Today's seminary must continue to look for
- 24:05Speaker 2: ways to remain student friendly. That has not always been
- 24:10Speaker 2: true at Dallas Seminary. We have not always had faculty
- 24:14Speaker 2: who saw that as valuable. Thankfully, we have more now
- 24:19Speaker 2: than ever, to my knowledge, and I love that. I
- 24:24Speaker 2: don't care how brilliant any of you folks are, and
- 24:27Speaker 2: I know all of you are that, or you wouldn't
- 24:29Speaker 2: have the job you got. Are the calling you, I'm
- 24:31Speaker 2: gonna quit calling it jobs. It's a calling. Your kindness
- 24:38Speaker 2: is equally important as your scholarship. If you cannot be
- 24:44Speaker 2: kind to us who are students, we're not going to
- 24:48Speaker 2: get it. You exist for the sake of the students.
- 24:53Speaker 2: You wouldn't have a place here if it weren't for students,
- 24:57Speaker 2: and we have to keep that in mind. Highly effective seminaries,
- 25:02Speaker 2: as they think about this modeled grace and mercy and
- 25:07Speaker 2: patience and understanding and tolerance towards the students, and I
- 25:15Speaker 2: don't believe I can overemphasize that we need not a
- 25:19Speaker 2: thicker policy handbook or more rules and regulations. We need
- 25:26Speaker 2: greater modeling of grace and mercy from those who are
- 25:32Speaker 2: in administration and those who are our teachers. Seminaries that
- 25:40Speaker 2: get the job done and are highly efficient exist for
- 25:45Speaker 2: the students, not the other way around. Number three, highly
- 25:50Speaker 2: effective seminaries have great hearted board members. Here's why you
- 25:57Speaker 2: wouldn't know, because you're not with board members that much,
- 26:00Speaker 2: and maybe you couldn't even name one of them. But
- 26:03Speaker 2: when you get involved in the ministry of the seminary,
- 26:07Speaker 2: you get to know some of the board members, and
- 26:09Speaker 2: when you are closer to the president's office, you really
- 26:13Speaker 2: get to know a number of them, and so you
- 26:18Speaker 2: realize the importance of this. Great hearted board members keep
- 26:24Speaker 2: the big picture in mind. They are selected because they
- 26:28Speaker 2: are visionary, they are in touch and unafraid of change.
- 26:35Speaker 2: They make hard decisions, and they are people of prayer.
- 26:41Speaker 2: These great hearted board members hold the leadership accountable in
- 26:47Speaker 2: important areas, and they have great latitude and non essential areas.
- 26:55Speaker 2: They don't panic when hard times come. They just pray
- 26:59Speaker 2: harder and they often give in greater measure. Great hearted
- 27:06Speaker 2: board members one of the secrets, by the way, they
- 27:11Speaker 2: are great hearted because they have a great God and
- 27:16Speaker 2: they serve the Lord God. All board members of Dollars
- 27:19Speaker 2: Seminary are voluntary. They are not paid to be in
- 27:23Speaker 2: that position, and it is a pleasure to know them
- 27:30Speaker 2: and to have worked alongside them. Number four, highly effective
- 27:34Speaker 2: seminaries prefer quality to quantity. I'll spell that out. Highly
- 27:41Speaker 2: effective seminaries prefer quality to quantity. Being the largest is
- 27:48Speaker 2: never our goal. You will never hear me refer to
- 27:52Speaker 2: Dallas Seminary as to its size. As I said earlier,
- 27:57Speaker 2: we're not in competition with some of the school. However,
- 28:01Speaker 2: being the best we can be is all important. The
- 28:07Speaker 2: financial resources we have given, the faculty members, we have
- 28:12Speaker 2: given our facilities, and what we're able to provide. Our
- 28:19Speaker 2: goal is to be the best we can be. Having
- 28:22Speaker 2: the most number of extensions is not a goal. Is
- 28:26Speaker 2: not something we brag about. Having extensions in the best
- 28:30Speaker 2: location is important. Offering the most degrees is not a goal.
- 28:36Speaker 2: Offering degrees that are the most helpful for the students.
- 28:39Speaker 2: That is a goal. Offering courses that best equip you
- 28:44Speaker 2: for ministry. That is a goal. Highly effective seminaries prefer
- 28:50Speaker 2: quality to quantity. Number five, highly effective seminaries select and
- 28:58Speaker 2: retain and outstanding enviable faculty. We select and we retain
- 29:10Speaker 2: those important words. An outstanding inviable faculty men and women
- 29:17Speaker 2: of great personal character, true scholarship, moral purity, ethical credibility,
- 29:31Speaker 2: yet at the same time compassionate, true scholars who are
- 29:38Speaker 2: both competent, skilled in their disciplines, yet still learning, still reading,
- 29:48Speaker 2: still listening, still teachable. I love it when teachers say
- 29:55Speaker 2: I learned the most this year from our students whom
- 29:58Speaker 2: I taught. It's a great characteristic of humility when I
- 30:03Speaker 2: hear that. By the way, schools in the twenty first
- 30:09Speaker 2: century must have faculty who were willing to be also mentors.
- 30:15Speaker 2: It's a good time for me to mention a book.
- 30:20Speaker 2: Some of you've heard of it, others of you have not.
- 30:22Speaker 2: Many of you have read it, I would imagine, but whatever.
- 30:28Speaker 2: It's titled Tuesdays with Maury by Mitch Album. Mitch is
- 30:35Speaker 2: a sports editor at the time he wrote the book
- 30:39Speaker 2: in Detroit I don't know what he's doing now. But
- 30:42Speaker 2: he was a graduate of Brandeis University. And while he
- 30:45Speaker 2: went to Brandeis in Waltham, Massachusetts, he and Maury Schwartz,
- 30:51Speaker 2: doctor Maury Schwartz, became fast friends, and Maury, not surprisedly,
- 31:00Speaker 2: became Mitch's not only his prof but his mentor. Maury
- 31:09Speaker 2: got lou Garrig's disease, and when Mitch found that out,
- 31:15Speaker 2: read about it. Actually he decided he would spend every
- 31:19Speaker 2: Tuesday with his beloved proth and would be there till
- 31:27Speaker 2: he died, every Tuesday, and he wrote the book Tuesdays
- 31:32Speaker 2: with Maury. Just a few words from the book, and
- 31:36Speaker 2: I'll return to it as I close today. But listen
- 31:39Speaker 2: to this, Mitch writes, I'll look back some time at
- 31:44Speaker 2: the person I was before I rediscovered my old professor.
- 31:52Speaker 2: So he's looking back on hisself. I want to talk
- 31:57Speaker 2: to that person. I want to tell him what to
- 32:03Speaker 2: look out for, what mistakes to avoid. I want to
- 32:09Speaker 2: tell him to be more open, to ignore the lure
- 32:13Speaker 2: of advertised values, like those words to pay attention when
- 32:19Speaker 2: your loved ones are speaking as if it were the
- 32:23Speaker 2: last time you might hear them. By the way if
- 32:26Speaker 2: I may add to something, and I added only because
- 32:29Speaker 2: it's been a new thing for me. I've learned to
- 32:31Speaker 2: listen to my wife like that. I used to not
- 32:34Speaker 2: do that for ten years. I didn't know that we'd
- 32:38Speaker 2: make it. I was so careful with my words here.
- 32:42Speaker 2: I was so blamed selfish and self serving. Thank the Lord,
- 32:48Speaker 2: I pull out of that nosedive. But he said, I
- 32:51Speaker 2: want to pay more attention to the loved ones when
- 32:54Speaker 2: they're speaking, as if it were the last time you
- 32:56Speaker 2: might be hearing them. A few more comments. Mostly, I
- 32:59Speaker 2: want to tell that person still talking to himself to
- 33:03Speaker 2: get on an airplane and visit a gentle old man
- 33:06Speaker 2: in West Newton, Massachusetts, sooner rather than later, before that
- 33:13Speaker 2: old man gets sick and loses his ability to dance.
- 33:18Speaker 2: I know I cannot do this. None of us can
- 33:21Speaker 2: undo what we've done or relive a life already recorded.
- 33:27Speaker 2: But if Professor Morris Schwartz taught me anything at all,
- 33:33Speaker 2: it was this, there's no such thing as too late.
- 33:38Speaker 2: By the way, that's not in a course these people teach.
- 33:42Speaker 2: That's in their life. That gets rubbed off from a
- 33:46Speaker 2: mentor something wrong. If you leave the school and can
- 33:50Speaker 2: only refer to profts and not name one mentor One
- 33:55Speaker 2: of your goals in being here is to ask the
- 34:00Speaker 2: God to link you with one of those lives, because
- 34:03Speaker 2: I'm telling you, those are lives worth linking to, or
- 34:08Speaker 2: they wouldn't be there. He taught me. If he taught
- 34:12Speaker 2: me anything at all, it was that there's no such
- 34:14Speaker 2: thing as too late in life. He was changing until
- 34:18Speaker 2: the day he said goodbye. Love those words. Now let
- 34:25Speaker 2: me finish my list. Number six. Highly effective seminaries attract
- 34:33Speaker 2: and cultivate students who remain enthusiastic about and devoted to
- 34:41Speaker 2: God's truth. I'll say it again. Highly effective seminaries attract
- 34:46Speaker 2: and cultivate students who remain enthusiastic about and devoted to
- 34:52Speaker 2: God's truth. When all at the school, I was three
- 34:57Speaker 2: feet off the ground and motivated beyond words, and I
- 35:04Speaker 2: still am. Every morning I get up, I cannot wait
- 35:10Speaker 2: to do what's involved in ministry. I cannot wait to
- 35:13Speaker 2: go up nineteen steps to get into my study, or
- 35:17Speaker 2: to get into my car and to scoot over to
- 35:20Speaker 2: that place I love, or to go to a spot
- 35:23Speaker 2: called insight for living and be involved. As that was
- 35:27Speaker 2: yesterday and recording audio and video stuff in the lives
- 35:32Speaker 2: of people. Knowing I have a chance to touch the world.
- 35:36Speaker 2: What a privilege that is. It's just a privilege to
- 35:41Speaker 2: do it. It's the matter with me starting to believe my
- 35:47Speaker 2: own stuff. Here. You will discover here the joy of learning.
- 35:53Speaker 2: Don't ever lose it. Don't ever lose it. You will
- 35:58Speaker 2: have just a beginning of a world open up to you.
- 36:02Speaker 2: And you've got your lifetime to keep opening it. Let's
- 36:06Speaker 2: keep opening. And education is going from an unconscious to
- 36:12Speaker 2: conscious awareness of your ignorance. So when you're here, you'll
- 36:17Speaker 2: realize the bad amount of ignorance that's been going on,
- 36:22Speaker 2: and it will it will humble you, and it should
- 36:26Speaker 2: keep you humble so that you don't minister an arrogance.
- 36:30Speaker 2: Youe minister on your knees, grateful to God that he
- 36:35Speaker 2: gives you a voice and gives you a place to minister.
- 36:39Speaker 2: And people that were patient enough to listen to you
- 36:43Speaker 2: and love you and forgive you and respect you and
- 36:46Speaker 2: all that goes with it. We want students like that.
- 36:51Speaker 2: You won't get it all here, You'll just get the
- 36:54Speaker 2: seed plot. You just get the little root rootlets starting,
- 37:00Speaker 2: and you'll be you'll become aware of the books to read,
- 37:03Speaker 2: and you will become discerning and how to spend your time,
- 37:08Speaker 2: and you'll make bad mistakes and you'll learn I can't
- 37:10Speaker 2: keep doing that. You've got to stop that. And you'll
- 37:14Speaker 2: learn how to stop the leaks and your time dyke,
- 37:17Speaker 2: and you'll learn how to how to make the most
- 37:19Speaker 2: of the time you have, and you'll learn to stop complaining.
- 37:25Speaker 2: Nobody wants to be around somebody complaining all the time,
- 37:28Speaker 2: and ministry will give you stuff to be thrilled about
- 37:32Speaker 2: or complain about. And congregations don't deserve that. Your counselate
- 37:38Speaker 2: doesn't deserve that, your fellow elder doesn't deserve that. They
- 37:42Speaker 2: need to know how thrilled you are with Jesus. And
- 37:47Speaker 2: you got it all started while you were right here.
- 37:50Speaker 2: And if anyone ever stops to ask you, where do
- 37:52Speaker 2: you pick up that kind of excitement, come right back here.
- 37:56Speaker 2: Hopefully I got it to start with right here. I
- 38:02Speaker 2: saw it in a prof or I was around it
- 38:04Speaker 2: in chapel, or a witnessed it and a fellow student,
- 38:08Speaker 2: or we had a cluster of people in our group
- 38:11Speaker 2: and it was just the fabulous, just fabulous. We got
- 38:17Speaker 2: friends that we went to school with here that are
- 38:20Speaker 2: still friends. They'll be friends for ever. I'm just about
- 38:25Speaker 2: live forever, so they'll be friends of the rest of
- 38:28Speaker 2: our time, and I'm grateful for each one. Highly effective
- 38:33Speaker 2: seminaries attract and cultivate these kind of students become that.
- 38:38Speaker 2: Don't just get a degree. You do that anywhere, that's
- 38:42Speaker 2: your plan. Don't come here now. You want to come
- 38:45Speaker 2: here to get your life changed and deepened and on
- 38:49Speaker 2: a course toward a lifetime of ministry that you can
- 38:52Speaker 2: be grateful for. And I mean this in the right sense,
- 38:55Speaker 2: proud of you know what I mean by that. This
- 39:00Speaker 2: is the spot, this is the place to do it.
- 39:03Speaker 2: Our track record's pretty good about that, and you could
- 39:06Speaker 2: be a part of that, and love to have you
- 39:08Speaker 2: do that with us. Number seven. Highly effective seminaries have
- 39:12Speaker 2: dreams that are greater than their memories. They aren't stuck
- 39:17Speaker 2: in some particular era. The school isn't great because it
- 39:21Speaker 2: was great in nineteen sixty to sixty three. It was
- 39:25Speaker 2: great then, but it's not great now because of that.
- 39:28Speaker 2: It's great because it's great now. Schools like this have
- 39:32Speaker 2: not stopped risking and reaching. Our dreams are greater than
- 39:37Speaker 2: our memories. They pray that their vision will never be
- 39:42Speaker 2: hindered by the hurdles and the obstacles. We respect what was,
- 39:49Speaker 2: but we do not let that blind us to what
- 39:52Speaker 2: might be and a new way of doing it. I
- 39:55Speaker 2: would challenge our faculty to think of creative ways to
- 39:59Speaker 2: teach that same course, and just do it in such
- 40:03Speaker 2: a way that it surprises you. And it's a creative approach.
- 40:10Speaker 2: Final words back from Tuesdays with Maury. These are touching words.
- 40:17Speaker 2: This book was largely Maury's idea. He called it our
- 40:23Speaker 2: final thesis. Like the best of work projects, it brought
- 40:28Speaker 2: us closer together, and Maury was delighted when several publishers
- 40:32Speaker 2: expressed interest, even though he died before meeting any of them.
- 40:40Speaker 2: The advanced money helped pay Maury's enormous medical bills, and
- 40:46Speaker 2: for that we were both grateful. The title, by the way,
- 40:50Speaker 2: we came up with one day in Maury's office. He
- 40:54Speaker 2: liked naming things. He had several ideas, but when I
- 40:59Speaker 2: said yeah, but Tuesdays with Maury, he smiled in an
- 41:04Speaker 2: almost blushing way, and I knew that was it. After
- 41:09Speaker 2: Maury died, I went through boxes of old college material,
- 41:14Speaker 2: and I discovered a final paper I had written for
- 41:18Speaker 2: one of his classes. He was twenty years old now,
- 41:22Speaker 2: and on the front page were my penciled comments scribbled
- 41:27Speaker 2: to Maury, and beneath them were his comments scribbled back.
- 41:32Speaker 2: Mine began dear coach, his began dear player. For some reason,
- 41:41Speaker 2: each time I read that, I miss it more. Have
- 41:47Speaker 2: you ever really had a teacher one who saw you
- 41:52Speaker 2: as a raw but precious thing, a jewel that, with
- 41:59Speaker 2: wisdom could be polished to a proud shine. If you're
- 42:06Speaker 2: lucky enough to find your way to such teachers, you
- 42:08Speaker 2: will always find your way back. Sometime it's only in
- 42:13Speaker 2: your head. Sometime it's right alongside their beds. The last
- 42:22Speaker 2: class of my old Proph's life took place once a
- 42:26Speaker 2: week in his home by a window in his study
- 42:32Speaker 2: where he could watch a small hibiscus plant shed its
- 42:36Speaker 2: pink flowers. Class met on Tuesdays. No books were required.
- 42:45Speaker 2: The subject was the meaning of life. It was taught
- 42:50Speaker 2: from experience. The teaching goes on. It's the greatest honor
- 42:58Speaker 2: of my life to be linked to Dallas Seminary, and
- 43:06Speaker 2: the fact that I would keep being invited back and
- 43:11Speaker 2: to meet friends that I've known for years, to stand
- 43:16Speaker 2: and look at his skyline I looked at when I
- 43:20Speaker 2: was in my twenties, and to remember the years that
- 43:27Speaker 2: had passed and the heartaches and the heart throbbing ecstasies
- 43:35Speaker 2: of ministry. Tell you it's great. I want that for you.
- 43:45Speaker 2: I want you to come to the place where you
- 43:47Speaker 2: are in the words of Charles Wesley, lost and wonder
- 43:51Speaker 2: and love and praise. It was here I learned the
- 43:56Speaker 2: great hymns thanks to Urchepen, Richard Souni and others. It
- 44:05Speaker 2: was here I learned how to pronounce big words that
- 44:08Speaker 2: were good theological words that I would teach our congregation.
- 44:14Speaker 2: Was here I learned the languages that treasure. I'm in
- 44:20Speaker 2: the languages every week, and I love it. I'm not
- 44:26Speaker 2: nearly as competent as these faculty members are, but they've
- 44:30Speaker 2: taught me just enough that I can use them to
- 44:33Speaker 2: add color to what I'm presenting. And when I come
- 44:39Speaker 2: back on campus, say great to be greeted. They'll say
- 44:44Speaker 2: great to see you, good to have you, And I'll
- 44:48Speaker 2: usually say it's great to be anywhere, especially here. It
- 44:58Speaker 2: God leads you to come on bord to stay don't
- 45:02Speaker 2: come for a year and bail out. Finish what you start.
- 45:09Speaker 2: Get her done with your whole heart. Get it done.
- 45:17Speaker 2: You'll look back and never regret the price it took.
- 45:23Speaker 2: But you had to pay to make it happen, because
- 45:26Speaker 2: I'll tell you there is a price connected to it.
- 45:30Speaker 2: It's hard because ministry is hard, but it's wondrous because
- 45:35Speaker 2: ministry is wonderful. It's wonderful. Lord. Our heart's pant for you,
- 45:44Speaker 2: like a deer in the forest pants for water. We
- 45:49Speaker 2: love you dearly, and we want you to know that
- 45:54Speaker 2: some are just learning how to do that. Others know
- 45:57Speaker 2: exactly what that means. For some it's a foreign thought,
- 46:03Speaker 2: but it won't be for long. I pray that you
- 46:07Speaker 2: will use these words as memory catch points when our
- 46:15Speaker 2: heads sink into the pillow tonight in the days ahead,
- 46:20Speaker 2: and we work through the decision of what we should do.
- 46:24Speaker 2: Have your way in each person's life who is seeking
- 46:29Speaker 2: your mind for his or her future, and then be
- 46:33Speaker 2: glorified Father with that decision, whatever it may be. In
- 46:38Speaker 2: the name of Jesus, we pray Amen.
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