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Understanding Sex Avoidance in Marriage
When a woman consistently avoids sex in marriage, she is accused of rebellion, sin, manipulation, or blamed for all manner of things.
In this episode, I unpack one of the foundations of my work: Healthy women, in safe marriages, don't turn down good sex for no reason. Rather than placing blame, or spiritualizing obligation, let's frame sex avoidance as what it really is: Information. Your body is offering you data about safety, pleasure, pressure, and connection.
Let's talk about what "healthy" actually means, why safety is so much more than "he doesn't hit me," and how unwanted or not…
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