Latest / Dwelling Place: The Bible for Moms / #16. Genesis 24-27 | When We Think We're Helping Accomplish God's Purposes
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- 0:00This
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- 0:01Place
- 0:01from
- 0:01Entrusted
- 0:02Ministries,
- 0:02and
- 0:02I'm
- 0:03Stephanie
- 0:03Cock.
- 0:03Today
- 0:04we're
- 0:04looking
- 0:04at
- 0:04Genesis
- 0:05chapter
- 0:0524
- 0:06through
- 0:0627.
- 0:07Already
- 0:07we'll
- 0:08see
- 0:08the
- 0:08end
- 0:08of
- 0:08the
- 0:08life
- 0:09of
- 0:09Abraham,
- 0:09and
- 0:09we'll
- 0:10learn
- 0:10more
- 0:10about
- 0:10his
- 0:10son,
- 0:10Isaac,
- 0:11and
- 0:11his
- 0:11grandsons,
- 0:12Jacob
- 0:12and
- 0:13Esau.
- 0:13While
- 0:13I
- 0:13believe
- 0:14there
- 0:14is
- 0:14so
- 0:14much
- 0:14purpose
- 0:15and
- 0:15power
- 0:15in
- 0:16going
- 0:16through
- 0:16scripture
- 0:16slowly,
- 0:17there's
- 0:17also
- 0:18something
- 0:18really
- 0:18beautiful
- 0:19about
- 0:19going
- 0:19through
- 0:19it
- 0:19quickly
- 0:20because
- 0:20you
- 0:20can
- 0:21see
- 0:21the
- 0:21overarching
- 0:22redemptive
- 0:22story
- 0:23of
- 0:23how
- 0:23God
- 0:23was
- 0:23at
- 0:24work,
- 0:24in
- 0:24chapter
- 0:2524,
- 0:25Abraham
- 0:26says
- 0:26he's
- 0:26getting
- 0:27older
- 0:27and
- 0:27he
- 0:27commissioned
- 0:28his
- 0:28servant
- 0:28to
- 0:29make
- 0:29a
- 0:29450
- 0:30mile
- 0:30journey
- 0:31back
- 0:31to
- 0:31where
- 0:31he
- 0:31was
- 0:31from
- 0:32to
- 0:32get
- 0:32a
- 0:32wife
- 0:33for
- 0:33his
- 0:33son,
- 0:33Isaac.
- 0:34This
- 0:34is
- 0:34an
- 0:34honorable
- 0:35task
- 0:36and
- 0:36it's
- 0:36assumed
- 0:36that
- 0:36the
- 0:36servant
- 0:37he's
- 0:37asking
- 0:37to
- 0:37help
- 0:38him
- 0:38is
- 0:38Azar,
- 0:39and
- 0:39I'm
- 0:39gonna
- 0:40give
- 0:40mad
- 0:40props
- 0:40to
- 0:40Azar
- 0:41because
- 0:41he
- 0:42is
- 0:42the
- 0:42servant
- 0:42that
- 0:42would've
- 0:43received
- 0:43all
- 0:44of
- 0:44Abraham's
- 0:44fortune
- 0:45if
- 0:45Isaac
- 0:45had
- 0:46not
- 0:46been
- 0:46born
- 0:46yet.
- 0:47He
- 0:47can
- 0:47continues
- 0:47to
- 0:48faithfully
- 0:48serve.
- 0:49Though
- 0:49he's
- 0:49been
- 0:49displaced
- 0:50his
- 0:50humility
- 0:51and
- 0:51his
- 0:51diligence
- 0:51in
- 0:51the
- 0:51search
- 0:52is
- 0:52truly
- 0:52impressive,
- 0:53and
- 0:53Abraham
- 0:54tells
- 0:54him,
- 0:54the
- 0:54Lord
- 0:55will
- 0:55send
- 0:55his
- 0:55angel
- 0:55before
- 0:56you
- 0:56I'll
- 0:56begin
- 0:57in
- 0:57chapter
- 0:5724,
- 0:57verse
- 0:5810.
- 0:58Then
- 0:59the
- 0:59servant
- 0:59took
- 0:5910
- 1:00of
- 1:00his
- 1:00master's,
- 1:00camels,
- 1:01and
- 1:01departed
- 1:01taking
- 1:02all
- 1:02sorts
- 1:02of
- 1:03choice
- 1:03gifts
- 1:03from
- 1:03his
- 1:03master.
- 1:04Ani
- 1:05arose
- 1:05and
- 1:05went
- 1:06to
- 1:06Mesopotamia
- 1:07to
- 1:07the
- 1:07city
- 1:07of
- 1:07Naor,
- 1:08and
- 1:08he
- 1:08made
- 1:08the
- 1:08camels
- 1:09kneel
- 1:09down
- 1:09outside
- 1:10the
- 1:10city
- 1:10by
- 1:10the
- 1:11well
- 1:11of
- 1:11water
- 1:11at
- 1:11the
- 1:11time
- 1:12of
- 1:12evening,
- 1:13the
- 1:13time
- 1:13when
- 1:13women
- 1:13go
- 1:13out
- 1:14to
- 1:14draw
- 1:14water.
- 1:15And
- 1:15he
- 1:15said,
- 1:15oh
- 1:16Lord
- 1:16God
- 1:16of
- 1:16my
- 1:16master
- 1:17Abraham,
- 1:17please
- 1:18grant
- 1:18me
- 1:18success
- 1:19today
- 1:19and
- 1:20show
- 1:20steadfast
- 1:20love
- 1:21to
- 1:21my
- 1:21master
- 1:21Abraham.
- 1:22Behold,
- 1:22I
- 1:23am
- 1:23standing
- 1:23by
- 1:23the
- 1:23spring
- 1:24of
- 1:24water
- 1:24and
- 1:24the
- 1:25daughters
- 1:25of
- 1:25the
- 1:25men
- 1:25of
- 1:25the
- 1:26city
- 1:26are
- 1:26coming
- 1:26out
- 1:27to
- 1:27draw
- 1:27water.
- 1:27Let
- 1:28the
- 1:28young
- 1:28woman,
- 1:28to
- 1:28whom
- 1:29I
- 1:29shall
- 1:29say.
- 1:29Please
- 1:30let
- 1:30down
- 1:30your
- 1:30jar
- 1:30that
- 1:31I
- 1:31may
- 1:31drink
- 1:31and
- 1:32who
- 1:32shall
- 1:32say
- 1:33drink
- 1:33and
- 1:33I
- 1:33will
- 1:34water
- 1:34your
- 1:34camels.
- 1:35Let
- 1:35her
- 1:35be
- 1:35the
- 1:36one
- 1:36whom
- 1:36you
- 1:36have
- 1:36appointed
- 1:37for
- 1:37your
- 1:37servant,
- 1:37Isaac.
- 1:38By
- 1:38this,
- 1:39I
- 1:39shall
- 1:39know
- 1:40that
- 1:40you
- 1:40have
- 1:40shown
- 1:40steadfast
- 1:41love
- 1:41to
- 1:41my
- 1:41master
- 1:42to
- 1:42before
- 1:43he
- 1:43had
- 1:43finished
- 1:43speaking.
- 1:44Behold
- 1:45Rebecca,
- 1:45who
- 1:45was
- 1:46born
- 1:46to
- 1:46BeWell,
- 1:47the
- 1:47son
- 1:47of
- 1:47Milah,
- 1:48the
- 1:48wife
- 1:48of
- 1:48Nho,
- 1:49Abraham's
- 1:49brother.
- 1:50Came
- 1:50out
- 1:50with
- 1:51her
- 1:51water
- 1:51jar
- 1:51on
- 1:51her
- 1:52shoulder.
- 1:52The
- 1:52young
- 1:53woman
- 1:53was
- 1:53very
- 1:53attractive
- 1:54in
- 1:54appearance.
- 1:55A
- 1:55maiden
- 1:55whom
- 1:55no
- 1:56man
- 1:56had
- 1:56known.
- 1:57She
- 1:57went
- 1:57down
- 1:57to
- 1:57the
- 1:57spring
- 1:58and
- 1:58filled
- 1:58her
- 1:58jar
- 1:59and
- 1:59came
- 1:59up.
- 2:00Then
- 2:00the
- 2:00servant
- 2:00ran
- 2:01to
- 2:01meet
- 2:01her
- 2:01and
- 2:01said,
- 2:02please
- 2:02give
- 2:02me
- 2:02a
- 2:02little
- 2:03water
- 2:03to
- 2:03drink
- 2:03from
- 2:03your
- 2:03jar.
- 2:04She
- 2:04said,
- 2:05drink
- 2:05my
- 2:05Lord.
- 2:06When
- 2:06she
- 2:06had
- 2:06finished
- 2:07giving
- 2:07him
- 2:07a
- 2:07drink,
- 2:07she
- 2:08said,
- 2:08I
- 2:08will
- 2:08draw
- 2:09water
- 2:09for
- 2:09your
- 2:09camels
- 2:09also
- 2:10until
- 2:10they
- 2:10have
- 2:10finished
- 2:11drinking.
- 2:12So
- 2:12she
- 2:12quickly
- 2:12emptied
- 2:13her
- 2:13jar
- 2:13into
- 2:13the
- 2:13trough
- 2:14and
- 2:14ran
- 2:15again
- 2:15to
- 2:15the
- 2:15well
- 2:15to
- 2:15draw
- 2:16water,
- 2:16and
- 2:16she
- 2:16drew
- 2:17for
- 2:17all
- 2:17his
- 2:18camels.
- 2:18The
- 2:18man
- 2:19gazed
- 2:19at
- 2:19her
- 2:19in
- 2:19silence
- 2:20to
- 2:20learn
- 2:20whether
- 2:20the
- 2:21Lord
- 2:21had
- 2:21prospered
- 2:22his
- 2:22journey
- 2:22or
- 2:22not.
- 2:23Continuing.
- 2:24In
- 2:24verse
- 2:2426,
- 2:25the
- 2:25man
- 2:25bowed
- 2:26his
- 2:26head
- 2:26and
- 2:26worshiped
- 2:27the
- 2:27Lord
- 2:27and
- 2:27said,
- 2:28blessed
- 2:28be
- 2:28the
- 2:28Lord,
- 2:29the
- 2:29God
- 2:30of
- 2:30my
- 2:30master
- 2:30Abraham,
- 2:31who
- 2:31has
- 2:31not
- 2:32forsaken
- 2:32his
- 2:32steadfast
- 2:33love
- 2:33and
- 2:33his
- 2:34faithfulness
- 2:34toward
- 2:34my
- 2:35master.
- 2:35As
- 2:36for
- 2:36me,
- 2:36the
- 2:36Lord
- 2:37has
- 2:37led
- 2:37me
- 2:37in
- 2:37the
- 2:37way
- 2:38to
- 2:38the
- 2:38house
- 2:38of
- 2:38my
- 2:38master's
- 2:39kinsman.
- 2:40Then
- 2:40the
- 2:40young
- 2:40woman
- 2:40ran
- 2:41and
- 2:41told
- 2:41her
- 2:41mother's
- 2:41household
- 2:42about
- 2:42these
- 2:42things.
- 2:43It
- 2:43is
- 2:43so
- 2:43endearing
- 2:44to
- 2:44me
- 2:44that
- 2:44he
- 2:44tells
- 2:45the
- 2:45Lord,
- 2:45behold,
- 2:46I
- 2:46am
- 2:46standing
- 2:47by
- 2:47the
- 2:47spring
- 2:47of
- 2:47water.
- 2:48You
- 2:48can
- 2:48tell
- 2:48his
- 2:48theology
- 2:49is
- 2:49still
- 2:49being
- 2:49formed
- 2:50by
- 2:50the
- 2:50way
- 2:50he
- 2:50prays,
- 2:51and
- 2:51the
- 2:51fact
- 2:51that
- 2:51he
- 2:51doesn't
- 2:52understand
- 2:52it's
- 2:52the
- 2:53God
- 2:53who
- 2:53sees,
- 2:53he
- 2:54believes
- 2:54in
- 2:54the
- 2:54Lord,
- 2:55but
- 2:55is
- 2:55it
- 2:55his
- 2:56God
- 2:56or
- 2:56is
- 2:56it
- 2:56just
- 2:57his
- 2:57master's?
- 2:57God?
- 2:58In
- 2:58any
- 2:58case,
- 2:59he
- 2:59praised
- 2:59a
- 2:59specific
- 3:00prayer
- 3:00of
- 3:00faith,
- 3:01and
- 3:01before
- 3:01he
- 3:02had
- 3:02finished
- 3:02speaking,
- 3:03Rebecca
- 3:03shows
- 3:03up.
- 3:04The
- 3:04cultural
- 3:04standard
- 3:05of
- 3:05that
- 3:05time
- 3:05would've
- 3:06been
- 3:06for
- 3:06Rebecca
- 3:06to
- 3:06offer
- 3:07a
- 3:07stranger
- 3:07something
- 3:08to
- 3:08drink,
- 3:08but
- 3:08to
- 3:09offer
- 3:09something
- 3:09to
- 3:09the
- 3:09animals
- 3:10was
- 3:10going
- 3:10above
- 3:11and
- 3:11beyond.
- 3:11But
- 3:11do
- 3:12you
- 3:12know
- 3:12how
- 3:12above
- 3:13and
- 3:13beyond
- 3:13she
- 3:13was
- 3:13going,
- 3:14this
- 3:14might
- 3:15have
- 3:15been
- 3:15250
- 3:17gallons
- 3:17worth
- 3:17of
- 3:18water.
- 3:18So
- 3:18if
- 3:18you're
- 3:19thinking
- 3:19just
- 3:20because
- 3:20a
- 3:20girl
- 3:20offers
- 3:20you
- 3:21some
- 3:21water,
- 3:21how
- 3:22do
- 3:22you
- 3:22know
- 3:22she's
- 3:22marriage
- 3:23material?
- 3:23But
- 3:23if
- 3:23she's
- 3:24willing
- 3:24to
- 3:24draw
- 3:24250
- 3:25gallons
- 3:25of
- 3:25water
- 3:26for
- 3:26some
- 3:26candles
- 3:26and
- 3:26a
- 3:26stranger
- 3:27she's
- 3:27never
- 3:27met,
- 3:28I'm
- 3:28pretty
- 3:28impressed
- 3:29with
- 3:29her
- 3:29too.
- 3:29They
- 3:29go
- 3:30home
- 3:30and
- 3:30explain
- 3:30the
- 3:30story
- 3:31to
- 3:31her
- 3:31family,
- 3:31and
- 3:31she's
- 3:32willing
- 3:32to
- 3:32make
- 3:32the
- 3:32journey
- 3:33back
- 3:33to
- 3:33Abraham
- 3:33and
- 3:34Isaac.
- 3:34Her
- 3:34family
- 3:35blesses
- 3:35her.
- 3:36We
- 3:36read
- 3:36that
- 3:36she
- 3:36notices
- 3:37Isaac
- 3:37meditating
- 3:38in
- 3:38the
- 3:38field.
- 3:38And
- 3:39it's
- 3:39probably
- 3:39because
- 3:40he
- 3:40was
- 3:40mourning
- 3:40and
- 3:40grieving
- 3:41his
- 3:41mom's
- 3:41death.
- 3:41As
- 3:42the
- 3:42last
- 3:42verse
- 3:42in
- 3:42the
- 3:42chapter
- 3:43will
- 3:43tell
- 3:43us,
- 3:44the
- 3:44servant
- 3:44fills
- 3:44Isaac
- 3:45in
- 3:45on
- 3:45all
- 3:45that's
- 3:45happened,
- 3:46and
- 3:46God's
- 3:46word
- 3:47tells
- 3:47us.
- 3:47Then
- 3:48Isaac
- 3:48brought
- 3:48her
- 3:49into
- 3:49the
- 3:49tent
- 3:49of
- 3:49Sarah,
- 3:50his
- 3:50mother,
- 3:50and
- 3:51took
- 3:51Rebecca
- 3:51and
- 3:51she
- 3:52became
- 3:52his
- 3:52wife
- 3:52and
- 3:52he
- 3:53loved
- 3:53her.
- 3:53There's
- 3:54a
- 3:54lot
- 3:54to
- 3:54admire
- 3:54about
- 3:55Rebecca
- 3:55and
- 3:55Isaac's
- 3:55Union.
- 3:56Well,
- 3:57until
- 3:57you
- 3:57get
- 3:57to
- 3:57the
- 3:57way
- 3:57they
- 3:58parent
- 3:58together,
- 3:59That
- 3:59song
- 3:59Father
- 4:00Abraham
- 4:00had
- 4:00many
- 4:01sons.
- 4:01In
- 4:01chapter
- 4:0125,
- 4:02we
- 4:02realized,
- 4:03oh,
- 4:03he
- 4:03had
- 4:04another
- 4:04wife
- 4:04and
- 4:04he
- 4:04did
- 4:05have
- 4:05some
- 4:05more
- 4:05sons.
- 4:06And
- 4:06at
- 4:06175
- 4:07years,
- 4:08Abraham
- 4:08breathes
- 4:09his
- 4:09last.
- 4:10He's
- 4:10buried
- 4:10with
- 4:10Sarah,
- 4:11and
- 4:11God
- 4:12now
- 4:12passes
- 4:12the
- 4:12blessing
- 4:13onto
- 4:13Isaac,
- 4:13his
- 4:13son.
- 4:14Then
- 4:14we
- 4:14read
- 4:15that
- 4:15Isaac
- 4:15prayed
- 4:15to
- 4:15the
- 4:16Lord
- 4:16because
- 4:16Rebecca,
- 4:17his
- 4:17wife,
- 4:17was
- 4:17barren.
- 4:18They've
- 4:18been
- 4:18married
- 4:18for
- 4:1820
- 4:19years
- 4:19at
- 4:19this
- 4:19point
- 4:20and
- 4:20still
- 4:20don't
- 4:20have
- 4:20a
- 4:20child.
- 4:21Here
- 4:21are
- 4:21more
- 4:22people
- 4:22who
- 4:22love
- 4:22the
- 4:22Lord
- 4:23struggling
- 4:24with
- 4:24infertility
- 4:24and
- 4:25incredibly
- 4:25painful
- 4:25circumstance.
- 4:26But
- 4:27God
- 4:27hears
- 4:27Isaac's
- 4:28prayer
- 4:28and
- 4:28he
- 4:28opens
- 4:29Rebecca's
- 4:29womb
- 4:29and
- 4:30blesses
- 4:30her
- 4:30with
- 4:30not
- 4:31one
- 4:31but
- 4:31two
- 4:31babies.
- 4:32And
- 4:32this
- 4:32prophecy
- 4:33is
- 4:33not
- 4:33to
- 4:34be
- 4:34missed.
- 4:34When
- 4:34Rebecca
- 4:35inquires
- 4:35of
- 4:35the
- 4:36Lord
- 4:36about
- 4:36why
- 4:36her
- 4:36pregnancy
- 4:37is
- 4:37so
- 4:37difficult,
- 4:38the
- 4:38Lord
- 4:38said
- 4:39to
- 4:39her,
- 4:39two
- 4:39nations
- 4:40are
- 4:40in
- 4:40your
- 4:40womb
- 4:41and
- 4:41two
- 4:41peoples
- 4:42from
- 4:42within
- 4:42you
- 4:42shall
- 4:43be
- 4:43divided.
- 4:43The
- 4:44one
- 4:44shall
- 4:44be
- 4:44stronger
- 4:45than
- 4:45the
- 4:45other.
- 4:45The
- 4:45older
- 4:46shall
- 4:46serve
- 4:46the
- 4:47younger.
- 4:47They
- 4:48have
- 4:48a
- 4:48fascinating
- 4:48birth
- 4:49story
- 4:49and
- 4:49then
- 4:50we're
- 4:50told
- 4:50something
- 4:51disappointing
- 4:51that
- 4:52Isaac
- 4:52loved
- 4:52Esau
- 4:53because
- 4:53he
- 4:53ate
- 4:54of
- 4:54his
- 4:54game.
- 4:54But
- 4:54Rebecca
- 4:55loved
- 4:55Jacob.
- 4:56Surely
- 4:56they
- 4:57loved
- 4:57both
- 4:57of
- 4:57their
- 4:57children,
- 4:58but
- 4:58there's
- 4:58clearly
- 4:58favoritism
- 4:59and
- 4:59this
- 4:59is
- 5:00certainly
- 5:00a
- 5:00warning
- 5:00sign.
- 5:01Next
- 5:01in
- 5:02the
- 5:02infamous
- 5:02story,
- 5:03Jacob
- 5:03tricks
- 5:04Esau
- 5:04out
- 5:04of
- 5:04his
- 5:04birthright.
- 5:05But
- 5:05Issa
- 5:06also
- 5:06is
- 5:06frequently
- 5:07willing
- 5:07to
- 5:07forego
- 5:08long-term
- 5:08blessing
- 5:09for
- 5:09instant
- 5:09gratification,
- 5:10and
- 5:10that
- 5:11is
- 5:11not
- 5:11a
- 5:11trait
- 5:11that
- 5:12the
- 5:12Lord
- 5:12will
- 5:12honor
- 5:13or
- 5:13elevate.
- 5:14And
- 5:14chapter
- 5:1426,
- 5:15we'll
- 5:15read
- 5:15about
- 5:15another
- 5:16famine
- 5:16in
- 5:16the
- 5:16land
- 5:17and
- 5:17you're
- 5:17gonna
- 5:17think,
- 5:18oh
- 5:18my
- 5:18goodness,
- 5:18is
- 5:19this
- 5:19happening
- 5:19again?
- 5:20Isaac
- 5:20lies
- 5:21and
- 5:21says
- 5:21that
- 5:21Rebecca
- 5:21is
- 5:21his
- 5:22sister
- 5:22because
- 5:22she's
- 5:22so
- 5:23beautiful
- 5:23and
- 5:23he's
- 5:23trying
- 5:23to
- 5:24protect
- 5:24himself.
- 5:25And
- 5:25I've
- 5:25decided
- 5:26that
- 5:26when
- 5:26I
- 5:26look
- 5:26haggard
- 5:27and
- 5:27tired
- 5:28and
- 5:28I
- 5:28look
- 5:28at
- 5:28myself
- 5:29in
- 5:29the
- 5:29mirror,
- 5:29I'm
- 5:29gonna
- 5:30start
- 5:30thinking,
- 5:31well,
- 5:31at
- 5:31least
- 5:31I'm
- 5:31not
- 5:32making
- 5:32anyone
- 5:32fear
- 5:32for
- 5:33their
- 5:33life
- 5:33today.
- 5:33Because
- 5:34man,
- 5:34are
- 5:34these
- 5:35beautiful
- 5:35women
- 5:35causing
- 5:36their
- 5:36husband
- 5:36problems
- 5:37how
- 5:37fabulous
- 5:37they
- 5:37are.
- 5:38I
- 5:38can't
- 5:38help
- 5:38but
- 5:39wonder,
- 5:39did
- 5:39Abraham
- 5:40tell
- 5:40his
- 5:40son,
- 5:40Isaac,
- 5:41whoa,
- 5:41buddy,
- 5:42when
- 5:42you
- 5:42get
- 5:42married,
- 5:43whatever
- 5:43you
- 5:44do
- 5:44never
- 5:44lie
- 5:45to
- 5:45a
- 5:45ruler
- 5:45and
- 5:46say
- 5:46Rebecca
- 5:47is
- 5:47your
- 5:47sister,
- 5:48or
- 5:48did
- 5:48Abraham
- 5:48fail
- 5:48to
- 5:49teach
- 5:49him?
- 5:49If
- 5:50you've
- 5:50been
- 5:50parenting
- 5:50very
- 5:51long,
- 5:51you've
- 5:51probably
- 5:52realized
- 5:52there
- 5:52are
- 5:52mistakes
- 5:53that
- 5:53you've
- 5:54already
- 5:54made
- 5:54and
- 5:54you
- 5:54don't
- 5:54want
- 5:55your
- 5:55children
- 5:55repeating.
- 5:56You
- 5:56think
- 5:56i've
- 5:57already
- 5:57made
- 5:57those
- 5:57mistakes.
- 5:58You
- 5:58don't
- 5:58need
- 5:58to.
- 5:59But
- 5:59sometimes
- 6:00kids
- 6:00have
- 6:00to
- 6:00learn
- 6:00for
- 6:01themselves
- 6:01and
- 6:02it's
- 6:02painful,
- 6:02but
- 6:02we've
- 6:03gotta
- 6:03say
- 6:04whatever
- 6:04it
- 6:04takes,
- 6:05Lord,
- 6:05to
- 6:05bring
- 6:05them
- 6:05to
- 6:06their
- 6:06niece
- 6:06and
- 6:06surrender
- 6:07their
- 6:07lives
- 6:07to
- 6:07you.
- 6:08And
- 6:08once
- 6:08again,
- 6:09I
- 6:09can't
- 6:09help
- 6:09but
- 6:09be
- 6:10impressed
- 6:10that
- 6:10these
- 6:11outsiders
- 6:11that
- 6:11are
- 6:11not
- 6:12followers
- 6:12of
- 6:12the
- 6:12God
- 6:13of
- 6:13the
- 6:13Bible
- 6:13really
- 6:14have
- 6:14a
- 6:14high
- 6:14view
- 6:14of
- 6:14marriage.
- 6:15They
- 6:15understood
- 6:16marriage
- 6:16boundaries.
- 6:17At
- 6:17the
- 6:17beginning
- 6:17of
- 6:18chapter
- 6:1826,
- 6:18God
- 6:19appeared
- 6:19to
- 6:19Isaac
- 6:19for
- 6:20the
- 6:20first
- 6:20time
- 6:20recorded
- 6:21in
- 6:21scripture,
- 6:21and
- 6:21he
- 6:22repeats
- 6:22the
- 6:22covenant
- 6:22to
- 6:23him.
- 6:23Isaac
- 6:24settles
- 6:24in
- 6:24the
- 6:24land
- 6:25and
- 6:25it
- 6:25tells
- 6:25us
- 6:25that
- 6:25the
- 6:25Lord
- 6:26blessed
- 6:26him
- 6:26and
- 6:26he
- 6:26became
- 6:27very
- 6:27wealthy,
- 6:27which
- 6:28instead
- 6:28of
- 6:28kaching
- 6:29means
- 6:30ba,
- 6:30ba
- 6:31as
- 6:31their
- 6:31wealth
- 6:31was
- 6:32often
- 6:32measured
- 6:32in
- 6:32flocks
- 6:33and
- 6:33herds.
- 6:34The
- 6:34Lord
- 6:34appears
- 6:34to
- 6:34him
- 6:35again
- 6:35at
- 6:35Be
- 6:35Sheba,
- 6:36and
- 6:36there
- 6:36are
- 6:36some
- 6:36issues
- 6:37with
- 6:37the
- 6:37wells
- 6:37that
- 6:37are
- 6:37being
- 6:37dug,
- 6:38and
- 6:38I
- 6:38would
- 6:38hope
- 6:39that
- 6:39Isaac
- 6:39and
- 6:39Rebecca
- 6:40taught
- 6:40their
- 6:40children
- 6:40about
- 6:41how
- 6:41beautifully
- 6:41the
- 6:41Lord
- 6:42arranged
- 6:42their
- 6:42love
- 6:42story.
- 6:43But
- 6:43at
- 6:43the
- 6:43end
- 6:43of
- 6:43chapter
- 6:4426,
- 6:44it
- 6:44seems
- 6:45the
- 6:45message
- 6:45just
- 6:46didn't
- 6:46sink
- 6:46in
- 6:46with
- 6:47Esau
- 6:47because
- 6:47at
- 6:4840
- 6:48years
- 6:48old,
- 6:48he
- 6:48took
- 6:49two
- 6:49hit
- 6:49tight
- 6:49wives
- 6:50and
- 6:50they
- 6:50made
- 6:50life
- 6:51bitter
- 6:51for
- 6:51Isaac
- 6:51and
- 6:52Rebecca.
- 6:52Rebecca
- 6:53will
- 6:53even
- 6:53later
- 6:53say
- 6:54that
- 6:54she
- 6:54loathes
- 6:54her
- 6:55life
- 6:55because
- 6:55of
- 6:55these
- 6:56daughter-in-laws.
- 6:57And
- 6:57chapter
- 6:5727
- 6:58is
- 6:58taught
- 6:58in
- 6:58every
- 6:59Sunday
- 6:59school
- 6:59classroom
- 7:00across
- 7:00the
- 7:00globe.
- 7:01I'm
- 7:01sure
- 7:01you
- 7:01know
- 7:01the
- 7:01story
- 7:02of
- 7:02Jacob
- 7:02and
- 7:02Esau
- 7:02well
- 7:03and
- 7:03that
- 7:03Jacob
- 7:03deceived
- 7:04his
- 7:04brother.
- 7:04So
- 7:05I'll
- 7:05just
- 7:05quickly
- 7:05mention
- 7:05a
- 7:06couple
- 7:06things
- 7:06that
- 7:07I
- 7:07think
- 7:07can
- 7:07convict
- 7:08and
- 7:08guide
- 7:08us
- 7:08as
- 7:08parents.
- 7:09Interestingly,
- 7:10Isaac
- 7:10lives
- 7:10another
- 7:1143
- 7:11years
- 7:12after
- 7:12this,
- 7:12and
- 7:13Jacob
- 7:13and
- 7:13Esau
- 7:13would've
- 7:14been
- 7:1477
- 7:15at
- 7:15this
- 7:15point.
- 7:15These
- 7:16are
- 7:16not
- 7:16teens
- 7:16battling
- 7:17for
- 7:17blessing.
- 7:18Isaac.
- 7:18Tells
- 7:18Esau
- 7:19to
- 7:19hunt
- 7:19and
- 7:19prepare
- 7:20some
- 7:20food
- 7:20that
- 7:20he
- 7:20can
- 7:21eat
- 7:21it,
- 7:21and
- 7:21that
- 7:21he
- 7:21can
- 7:21bless
- 7:22him
- 7:22before
- 7:22he
- 7:22dies.
- 7:23Rebecca
- 7:23overhears
- 7:24and
- 7:24says,
- 7:24Jacob,
- 7:25go
- 7:25grab
- 7:25me
- 7:25some
- 7:25food
- 7:26from
- 7:26the
- 7:26yard
- 7:26and
- 7:26I'm
- 7:27gonna
- 7:27cook
- 7:27it
- 7:27in
- 7:27a
- 7:27way
- 7:27I
- 7:27know
- 7:27your
- 7:28dad
- 7:28will
- 7:28love,
- 7:28and
- 7:29then
- 7:29you
- 7:29can
- 7:29sneak
- 7:29in
- 7:30and
- 7:30get
- 7:30the
- 7:30blessing.
- 7:30Jacob
- 7:31goes
- 7:31into
- 7:31his
- 7:31father
- 7:32having
- 7:32several
- 7:33chances
- 7:33to
- 7:33come
- 7:33clean
- 7:34as
- 7:34his
- 7:34dad
- 7:35was
- 7:35like,
- 7:35really?
- 7:36You
- 7:36sound
- 7:36like
- 7:36Jacob.
- 7:37But
- 7:37he
- 7:37still
- 7:37deceives
- 7:38his
- 7:38father
- 7:38and
- 7:38Isaac
- 7:39blesses
- 7:39him.
- 7:39Then
- 7:40Esau
- 7:40comes
- 7:40in
- 7:40and
- 7:41is
- 7:41irate,
- 7:41and
- 7:41Isaac
- 7:41says,
- 7:43I
- 7:43really
- 7:43have
- 7:43no
- 7:43blessing
- 7:44left
- 7:44to
- 7:44give
- 7:44you,
- 7:45birth
- 7:45order
- 7:45mattered
- 7:46so
- 7:46much
- 7:46in
- 7:46this
- 7:46culture,
- 7:47but
- 7:47still,
- 7:48it's
- 7:48hard
- 7:48to
- 7:48understand
- 7:48why
- 7:48he
- 7:49wouldn't
- 7:49save
- 7:49part
- 7:49of
- 7:49the
- 7:49blessing.
- 7:50The
- 7:50last
- 7:51time
- 7:51I
- 7:51studied
- 7:51it,
- 7:52another
- 7:52thing
- 7:52really
- 7:52stood
- 7:53out
- 7:53to
- 7:53me.
- 7:53I
- 7:53shared
- 7:54with
- 7:54you
- 7:54the
- 7:54prophecy
- 7:55that
- 7:55God
- 7:55said
- 7:55about
- 7:56the
- 7:56younger
- 7:56serving,
- 7:57the
- 7:57older,
- 7:57and
- 7:57he
- 7:58gave
- 7:58that
- 7:58to
- 7:58Rebecca.
- 7:59It
- 7:59made
- 7:59me
- 7:59wonder,
- 8:00did
- 8:00Rebecca
- 8:01think
- 8:01she
- 8:01was
- 8:01helping
- 8:02the
- 8:02Lord
- 8:02by
- 8:02making
- 8:03sure
- 8:03that
- 8:03Jacob
- 8:03got
- 8:04the
- 8:04blessing
- 8:04instead?
- 8:05And
- 8:05I
- 8:05wonder,
- 8:06do
- 8:06I
- 8:06ever
- 8:06do
- 8:06that?
- 8:07There
- 8:07are
- 8:07so
- 8:07many
- 8:07ways
- 8:08as
- 8:08moms
- 8:08that
- 8:08we
- 8:08might
- 8:08be
- 8:09thinking,
- 8:09we're
- 8:09helping
- 8:09the
- 8:09Lord
- 8:10accomplish
- 8:10his
- 8:10purposes
- 8:11in
- 8:11our
- 8:11kids,
- 8:11but
- 8:12we
- 8:12need
- 8:12to
- 8:12step
- 8:12back
- 8:13and
- 8:13evaluate
- 8:13our
- 8:13motives.
- 8:14Whether
- 8:14it's
- 8:14signing
- 8:15them
- 8:15up
- 8:15for
- 8:15a
- 8:15sport
- 8:16to
- 8:16develop
- 8:16their
- 8:16talents,
- 8:17even
- 8:17though
- 8:17it
- 8:17conflicts
- 8:18with
- 8:18church
- 8:18activities
- 8:19or
- 8:19family
- 8:19priorities.
- 8:20Maybe
- 8:21it's.
- 8:21Buying
- 8:21an
- 8:21activity
- 8:22or
- 8:22item
- 8:22for
- 8:22them
- 8:23that
- 8:23we
- 8:23can't
- 8:23afford
- 8:23because
- 8:24we
- 8:24just
- 8:24think
- 8:24they
- 8:24have
- 8:25to
- 8:25have
- 8:25an
- 8:25opportunity.
- 8:26We're
- 8:26often
- 8:26tempted
- 8:27to
- 8:27control
- 8:27things.
- 8:28So
- 8:28we
- 8:28have
- 8:28to
- 8:28be
- 8:28careful.
- 8:29I
- 8:29can
- 8:29almost
- 8:30hear
- 8:30years
- 8:30of
- 8:30Rebecca
- 8:31telling
- 8:31Isaac,
- 8:31Isaac,
- 8:32that's
- 8:32not
- 8:32what
- 8:33God
- 8:33told
- 8:33me.
- 8:33The
- 8:34Lord
- 8:34told
- 8:34me
- 8:35that
- 8:35Esau
- 8:35would
- 8:35serve
- 8:36Jacob.
- 8:36You
- 8:36have
- 8:36to
- 8:37stop
- 8:37favoring
- 8:37Esau
- 8:38and
- 8:38Isaac
- 8:38not
- 8:39listening
- 8:39and
- 8:39she
- 8:39just
- 8:39thinks,
- 8:40you
- 8:40know
- 8:40what?
- 8:40I'll
- 8:41take
- 8:41it
- 8:41into
- 8:41my
- 8:41own
- 8:41hands.
- 8:42As
- 8:42soon
- 8:42as
- 8:43Esau
- 8:43heard
- 8:43the
- 8:43words
- 8:43of
- 8:43his
- 8:44father,
- 8:44he
- 8:44cried
- 8:45out
- 8:45with
- 8:45an
- 8:45exceedingly
- 8:46great
- 8:46and
- 8:46bitter
- 8:46cry
- 8:47and
- 8:47said
- 8:47to
- 8:48his
- 8:48father,
- 8:48bless
- 8:48me,
- 8:49even
- 8:49me
- 8:50also,
- 8:50oh
- 8:50my
- 8:50father.
- 8:51And
- 8:51then
- 8:52have
- 8:52you
- 8:52not
- 8:52reserved
- 8:53a
- 8:53blessing
- 8:53for
- 8:53me?
- 8:54And
- 8:54then
- 8:54again.
- 8:55Have
- 8:55you
- 8:55but
- 8:55one
- 8:56blessing,
- 8:56my
- 8:56father
- 8:57bless
- 8:57me,
- 8:58and
- 8:58it
- 8:58makes
- 8:58me
- 8:58think
- 8:59of
- 8:59the
- 8:59power
- 8:59of
- 8:59a
- 9:00father's
- 9:00affirmation
- 9:01over
- 9:01his
- 9:01son.
- 9:02Certainly
- 9:02the
- 9:02Lord's
- 9:02intention
- 9:03is
- 9:03that
- 9:03this
- 9:03does
- 9:04not
- 9:04just
- 9:04happen
- 9:04on
- 9:05a
- 9:05deathbed.
- 9:05Let
- 9:06me
- 9:06pray
- 9:06to
- 9:06that
- 9:06end.
- 9:07Heavenly
- 9:07Father,
- 9:08we
- 9:08see
- 9:08much
- 9:08to
- 9:09emulate
- 9:09and
- 9:09also
- 9:10much
- 9:10to
- 9:10caution
- 9:11us
- 9:11here
- 9:11as
- 9:11we
- 9:12consider
- 9:12Isaac
- 9:12and
- 9:12Rebecca's
- 9:13story
- 9:14we
- 9:14ask
- 9:14you
- 9:14would
- 9:15help
- 9:15our
- 9:15children
- 9:15to
- 9:16have
- 9:16patience
- 9:16as
- 9:16they
- 9:17date
- 9:17that
- 9:17they
- 9:17would
- 9:18elevate
- 9:18character
- 9:19over
- 9:19appearance
- 9:20and
- 9:20trust
- 9:20you
- 9:21in
- 9:21the
- 9:21process.
- 9:22When
- 9:22we
- 9:22think
- 9:22about
- 9:22Rebecca
- 9:23possibly
- 9:24thinking
- 9:24she's
- 9:24helping
- 9:25your
- 9:25purposes,
- 9:25growing
- 9:26us
- 9:26conviction
- 9:27when
- 9:27we're
- 9:27trying
- 9:27to
- 9:28pave
- 9:28a
- 9:28way
- 9:28for
- 9:28what
- 9:29you
- 9:29might
- 9:29be
- 9:29doing
- 9:29in
- 9:29our
- 9:30children's
- 9:30lives.
- 9:31Help
- 9:31us
- 9:31to
- 9:31be
- 9:31surrendered
- 9:32to
- 9:32your
- 9:32will
- 9:33for
- 9:33them,
- 9:33even
- 9:34when
- 9:34it
- 9:34looks
- 9:34counter-cultural
- 9:35or
- 9:35different
- 9:36than
- 9:36we
- 9:36had
- 9:36expected.
- 9:37We
- 9:37pray
- 9:38our
- 9:38children
- 9:38would
- 9:38not
- 9:39be
- 9:39like
- 9:39Esau,
- 9:40giving
- 9:40themselves
- 9:41over
- 9:41to
- 9:41instant
- 9:41gratification
- 9:43instead
- 9:43of
- 9:43long-term
- 9:44character
- 9:44growth
- 9:45And
- 9:45I
- 9:45pray
- 9:45for
- 9:46the
- 9:46husbands
- 9:46of
- 9:46the
- 9:46wives
- 9:47that
- 9:47are
- 9:47listening.
- 9:48Give
- 9:48these
- 9:48men
- 9:49encouraging
- 9:49words
- 9:49to
- 9:50speak
- 9:50over
- 9:50their
- 9:50children,
- 9:51that
- 9:51their
- 9:51correction
- 9:52would
- 9:52be
- 9:52consistent
- 9:53with
- 9:53your
- 9:53word,
- 9:54and
- 9:54that
- 9:54they
- 9:54would
- 9:54rightly
- 9:55display
- 9:55you
- 9:56as
- 9:56their
- 9:56heavenly
- 9:56father.
- 9:57In
- 9:57your
- 9:57name
- 9:58we
- 9:58pray
- 9:58Jesus.
- 9:58Amen.