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Two Wrongs Don't Make a Right...They Make a Left · Podcast - Big 98.7

• 0:06
  Speaker 1: It's time for am I the Problem, where you send
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  Speaker 1: us your side of the story and we help you
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  Speaker 1: figure out if you're in the right or if maybe,
• 0:14
  Speaker 1: just maybe you're the problem. Today we have an email
• 0:19
  Speaker 1: from Ryan who needs our help. Hey, guys, I have
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  Speaker 1: a question for am I the Problem. Love hearing your
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  Speaker 1: advice and advice from others when you read these emails.
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  Speaker 2: Well, he wrote in to us.
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  Speaker 1: By the way, if you ever have something you need
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  Speaker 1: to write in, you can head to Big nine eight
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  Speaker 1: seven dot com, hit the on air tab and you
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  Speaker 1: could submit your am I the Problem?
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  Speaker 3: All right, here goes.
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  Speaker 1: My name is Ryan, and my twin brother and I
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  Speaker 1: were once very close, but after I moved from Arizona
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  Speaker 1: to Fargo for college and ended up staying here, things changed.
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  Speaker 1: Last year, I found out I was deliberately excluded from
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  Speaker 1: my brother's engagement. Despite being told it was a small dinner,
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  Speaker 1: it turned out to be a large event with eighty guests,
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  Speaker 1: and family members were told quote I couldn't make it.
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  Speaker 1: When I pressed for answers, my family gave shifting excuses
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  Speaker 1: and avoided the topic. Holidays since have been tense. For
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  Speaker 1: the wedding, I received an invite, but no plus one
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  Speaker 1: for my long term girlfriend. I wasn't included in the
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  Speaker 1: wedding party and felt I was only invited for appearances.
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  Speaker 1: To me, the choice was simple, but maybe I was wrong. Okay,
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  Speaker 1: let's see. I chose not to attend the wedding without
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  Speaker 1: formally declining show, no call, no show, And on the
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  Speaker 1: wedding day, when asked why I wasn't there, I told
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  Speaker 1: my mother I was in Fargo, where you all prefer
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  Speaker 1: me to be. Now, my family says I was petty
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  Speaker 1: and ruin the day, but I feel I was just
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  Speaker 1: made the energy I've been given over the past year.
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  Speaker 3: Am I the problem? Ooh? That is a doozy.
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  Speaker 1: But I will go right now on record and say no,
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  Speaker 1: You're not the problem.
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  Speaker 3: Ryan.
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  Speaker 1: Your twin brother is the problem, because how dare you
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  Speaker 1: You're gonna exclude him from all these wedding events. I
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  Speaker 1: feel like it's fine for Ryan to clap back and
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  Speaker 1: just not show up. I'm team Ryan all the way.
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  Speaker 1: What are your thoughts, Gabe?
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  Speaker 4: There is a certain level of petty that I respect.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, and I sort of kind of love that that
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  Speaker 2: this is the path Ryan shows a right.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah.
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  Speaker 2: The sad part is you really do only have one
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  Speaker 2: brother and you, especially unless your triplet's of course, but
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  Speaker 2: you really.
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  Speaker 4: Only have one twin hmm.
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  Speaker 2: And while you might be upset with each other now
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  Speaker 2: or things are a little weird, now down the road,
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  Speaker 2: if things are mended and you're fifty five and sixty
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  Speaker 2: and seventy, I hope that you could look back on
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  Speaker 2: this and laugh instead of look back on it with regret.
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  Speaker 2: While I love that level of petty because frankly it's hilarious.
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  Speaker 2: I I I could never do that. I would have
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  Speaker 2: gone and swallowed my pride for the event or whatever,
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  Speaker 2: and played the good boy family card and then went
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  Speaker 2: home and just kind of ate it, because you know,
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  Speaker 2: when you're fifty five and you know you look back,
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  Speaker 2: are you gonna regret that you didn't go?
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  Speaker 4: I think I wo no regrets.
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  Speaker 1: No, I don't care. Ryan, You're not the problem. I
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  Speaker 1: love what you did. You did match their energy. That's
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  Speaker 1: all you can really do in a situation like this.
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  Speaker 3: What are your thoughts?
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  Speaker 1: Seven oh one two, eight oho one nine eighty seven
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  Speaker 1: Do you think Ryan is the problem for doing a
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  Speaker 1: no call, no show to his twin brother's wedding, even
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  Speaker 1: though the brother had been excluding him from festivities leading
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  Speaker 1: up to it. We also posed this on the Big
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  Speaker 1: ninety eight point seven Facebook page, so you can drop
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  Speaker 1: a comment there too.
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  Speaker 2: This dude did what high schoolers do when they don't
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  Speaker 2: want to go to work to his old brother's wedding. Wow,
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  Speaker 2: Today's Variety Big ninety eight point seven.
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  Speaker 4: Who's this Tody?
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  Speaker 5: Ryan?
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  Speaker 1: If he's not good enough for the engagement party even
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  Speaker 1: though he's family, then why shouldn't he be good enough
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  Speaker 1: for the wedding?
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  Speaker 4: Exactly?
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  Speaker 2: Jody is team Ryan, team Petty to her core. Absolutely, Jody,
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  Speaker 2: where are you calling from today? Well, we will make
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  Speaker 2: sure to pass the news on to Ryan from Jody
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  Speaker 2: this morning.
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  Speaker 4: Thank you so.
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  Speaker 1: Much, Thank you having a great day.
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  Speaker 4: Well, Ryan, if you're tuning in this morning, Jody is
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  Speaker 4: team you?
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  Speaker 1: Yes, and let you know it's also team you. We
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  Speaker 1: did have some comments. Allie said, not the problem, it's
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  Speaker 1: really on the bro for being a groom zilla. Jennifer agreed,
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  Speaker 1: you are not obligated to entertain toxic family period.
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  Speaker 3: I'm with him on this one.
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  Speaker 1: But you know what, it wouldn't be fair if I
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  Speaker 1: didn't share the comments that people said on the opposite
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  Speaker 1: side of what I think is right. Gloria said, sorry,
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  Speaker 1: but Ryan is the problem. He can't complain about his
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  Speaker 1: brother's behavior and then do something similar. He should have
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  Speaker 1: taken the high road. Now he's no difference.
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  Speaker 4: Yeah, that's right. You know what.
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  Speaker 2: Two wrongs don't make a right, they make a left.
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  Speaker 2: The wise works a game. My whole point is I
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  Speaker 2: think at some point he will regret this. So if
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  Speaker 2: it's something you're going to regret regardless of how someone
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  Speaker 2: else is treating you, I think then that would make
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  Speaker 2: you the problem. Here's also the other thing about these
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  Speaker 2: am I the problems that I need to point out. Okay,
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  Speaker 2: we never ever, ever, Maybe one day we will, but
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  Speaker 2: right now we never hear the full story. You know
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  Speaker 2: that old saying, there's the sorry story. Yeah, someone has
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  Speaker 2: their version, someone has another version, and then somewhere in
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  Speaker 2: the middle is the truth. Ryan, What did you do
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  Speaker 2: to make your twin brother hate you so much? Okay,
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  Speaker 2: they couldn't have been that you just moved. Maybe it
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  Speaker 2: was heartbroken and sad, but something happened, and Sherlock Glitnon
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  Speaker 2: is gonna get to the.
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  Speaker 4: Bottom of his mind.
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  Speaker 2: God, I'm gonna start sliding in some dms here on
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  Speaker 2: Instagram and find out.
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  Speaker 3: Well, that's the thing, so am I the problem.
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  Speaker 1: It's literally you share your side of the story and
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  Speaker 1: then we find out if you're the problem.
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  Speaker 3: So if you are ever listening to one of these and.
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  Speaker 1: You're thinking, wait a minute, I know that about me,
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  Speaker 1: all right, you jump on Big nine eight seven dot com,
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  Speaker 1: hit the on air tab and submit your side of
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  Speaker 1: the story.
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  Speaker 3: We're fair over here.
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  Speaker 1: I'm so excited because my older brother, the favored child
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  Speaker 1: in my family, is coming to visit this weekend. In fact,
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  Speaker 1: he and his wife and my two nephews are on
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  Speaker 1: the road as we speak from Saint Louis and they're
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  Speaker 1: coming to visit us here in Fargo. There's a full
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  Speaker 1: packed itinerary, which includes going to have some lunch at
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  Speaker 1: Rhombus Guys. And I'm really excited because I've been wanting
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  Speaker 1: to go there, and I know our friends at the
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  Speaker 1: Fox they are always doing lunch at Rhombus Guys, so
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  Speaker 1: I wanted to join the party.
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  Speaker 3: I'm really excited. I love Fargo.
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  Speaker 1: I've been here for almost six months now and I'm
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  Speaker 1: just really excited to show my brother and his family around.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, it was kind of cool when you moved to
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  Speaker 2: you moved at the perfect time. When did you start
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  Speaker 2: March or April or March March? So yeah, as the
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  Speaker 2: weather started to warm up, you got this whole thing
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  Speaker 2: to explore for the summer, which I'm yeah, because when
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  Speaker 2: I started it was November.
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  Speaker 4: Oh wow, you know what.
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  Speaker 1: Honestly or something like that, they were gonna come visit
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  Speaker 1: for Christmas, and they were like, listen, only feel like
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  Speaker 1: the weather might be a little unpredictable and we don't
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  Speaker 1: have that many vacation days, so we're gonna visit in
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  Speaker 1: the summer. And I was like, actually, that is perfect,
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  Speaker 1: and it's a perfect way. I mean, it's basically the
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  Speaker 1: end of summer because school starts for my kids on
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  Speaker 1: the twenty seven yep. So it's like, let's get one
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  Speaker 1: last like big hurrah yep, and then Geurope for school.
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  Speaker 4: That's right.
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  Speaker 2: Well, I'm in kind of the same boat. There are
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  Speaker 2: like these three sometimes four, it kind of depends, but
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  Speaker 2: three or four golf tournaments I play in every single year,
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  Speaker 2: and now this is kind of like a new one.
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  Speaker 2: I'm playing in a golf tournament on Sunday in Minneapolis.
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  Speaker 2: I've never played in a golf tournament in Minneapolis. I've
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  Speaker 2: always gone to like southeastern Minnesota, so quite literally the
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  Speaker 2: exact opposite corner of the of the you know, the
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  Speaker 2: state or from Fargo, I guess. And it's gonna be
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  Speaker 2: a lot of fun. I'm playing with one of my
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  Speaker 2: best friends. His name is Jake. You've actually met Jake.
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  Speaker 3: I love Jake.
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  Speaker 4: He's a great dude.
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  Speaker 3: Jake is the best. Also, have him come visit again.
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  Speaker 4: Oh yeah, he'll be up. Yeah, he'll be up.
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  Speaker 2: So I'm playing in a golf tournament with him, his
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  Speaker 2: younger brother who I'm really good friends with, and then
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  Speaker 2: their cousin Andy, who I've known all these guys since
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  Speaker 2: I was like seven.
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  Speaker 3: Oh this is cute.
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  Speaker 4: Yeah, and this is.
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  Speaker 2: Kind of you know, I guess our last hurrah for
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  Speaker 2: the for the summer because him and I are going
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  Speaker 2: to I don't even know who it is, but I'm
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  Speaker 2: along for the ride. He has some backstage passes to
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  Speaker 2: some festival at some country festival, oh nice, like around
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  Speaker 2: the Minneapolis area, and he was like, Hey, do you
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  Speaker 2: want to go?
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  Speaker 4: I was like, well, yeah, I guess. I mean, who
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  Speaker 4: else is going to you know?
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  Speaker 3: Yeah?
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  Speaker 4: You got I'm with you all Yeah, that's right.
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  Speaker 2: So I am excited for a big, big weekend and
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  Speaker 2: returning back to you on Tuesday. I want to be
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  Speaker 2: here Monday. Yeah, so I'm looking forward to that. Should
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  Speaker 2: be a good time, and we plan on winning the thing.
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  Speaker 2: You know, we're all pretty solid golfers, and Andy was
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  Speaker 2: a college golfer. Yeah, and then three of us who
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  Speaker 2: are very solid, So we're gonna we're gonna try to
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  Speaker 2: actually win it. A lot of times in golf tournaments,
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  Speaker 2: you know, you're just out there kind of having fun. Yeah,
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  Speaker 2: I think we're trying to win it. Okay, I like that.
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  Speaker 3: You better come back of victory.
• 10:23
  Speaker 2: Well, happy Friday, and there is no better excuse than
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  Speaker 2: today to do nothing but relax. Today is National Relaxation Day.
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  Speaker 2: And do you know what is very sad? What we
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  Speaker 2: need to do some more relaxing.
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  Speaker 1: I'll tell you that I'm upset that it's a relaxation
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  Speaker 1: day because I literally have so.
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  Speaker 3: Much I have to do before my brother gets here.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, well you're gonna have to end. You're probably not
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  Speaker 2: relaxing it all this weekend.
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  Speaker 3: No, I'm not.
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  Speaker 2: The good news is, though, is you know how when
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  Speaker 2: you have vacation days at work, they don't. Sometimes some
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  Speaker 2: places do, but someplace don't. Carry over. It's like you
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  Speaker 2: use them or you lose them. Yeah, well, relaxation you
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  Speaker 2: can make up for it.
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  Speaker 3: Oh you can.
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  Speaker 4: Yes, it's like the opposite of sleep.
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  Speaker 2: You know they say you shouldn't use the weekend to
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  Speaker 2: catch up on Say, well you can catch up on relaxation.
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  Speaker 3: Oh excellent.
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  Speaker 4: Yeah.
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  Speaker 2: The study found that forty two percent of your total
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  Speaker 2: day should go towards rest and relaxation.
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  Speaker 4: So okay too, basically the second you get home.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, I feel like things ramp up for me when
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  Speaker 1: I get home because I've kids.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, you're supposed to relax over ten hours per day,
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  Speaker 2: And I know there are some parents who heard that
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  Speaker 2: right and just went.
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  Speaker 4: Yeah hardly nowhere.
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  Speaker 2: You know, if you sleep eight hours, that leaves two
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  Speaker 2: hours for other forms of relaxation.
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  Speaker 3: Now, also, the relaxation includes the.
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  Speaker 4: Sleep, Well it can exactly.
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  Speaker 2: Yes, So some things you might not think are relaxing,
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  Speaker 2: but maybe they are.
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  Speaker 4: You just don't think of it.
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  Speaker 2: That way, right, Hey, talking with your friends or your partner,
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  Speaker 2: just shooting the breeze can be relaxed.
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  Speaker 3: That is true.
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  Speaker 4: Exercising what's amazing.
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  Speaker 3: That opposite lie.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, right, and then eating can be a form of relaxing.
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  Speaker 1: Wait a minute, then I relax twenty four hours.
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  Speaker 2: Relaxing doesn't need to be consistent. Life gets crazy. But
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  Speaker 2: if you have a busy week, if you can try
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  Speaker 2: to fit in more downtime the next week, you will
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  Speaker 2: receive those benefits.
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  Speaker 4: It's kind of the opposite of sleep. As we had mentioned.
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  Speaker 2: If you think you're in a deficit this weekend, try
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  Speaker 2: to spend a few hours Monday or Tuesday, eating, sleeping,
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  Speaker 2: or talking with your friends and or partner.
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  Speaker 3: Oh my gosh, I get to talk with you every morning.
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  Speaker 4: We have the most.
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  Speaker 2: We probably relax more than anybody about it.
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  Speaker 4: Clean clean everybody. I know, a lot of parents maybe
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  Speaker 4: just god enrage.
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  Speaker 1: They started, they flinched, they're cringing, they're twitching.
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  Speaker 4: There is a.
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  Speaker 2: Cleaner, like a professional cleaner has come out and said, hey,
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  Speaker 2: if you want to achieve the highest cleanly house you
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  Speaker 2: can Huh, where should you start? Because I think everyone
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  Speaker 2: has that one shore or those couple of chores. Are like, yeah,
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  Speaker 2: I hate the dishes, you know what, I hate the whatever,
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  Speaker 2: And so we want to know what yours is.
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  Speaker 4: At seven oh one two eight zero one eight seven.
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  Speaker 3: I feel like the chore I hate.
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  Speaker 1: The most is not the number one answer ever, dishes
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  Speaker 1: I kind of love to do.
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  Speaker 4: I don't mind doing the dishes either.
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  Speaker 1: It's because I also am very specific about my dishes,
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  Speaker 1: like I wash my dishes all the way by hand
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  Speaker 1: and then put them in the dishwasher and run it
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  Speaker 1: again to super sanitize them.
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  Speaker 3: I know I have a problem.
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  Speaker 1: And I also really like cleaning the bathroom. I love
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  Speaker 1: cleaning a toilet and I know that's gross, but I
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  Speaker 1: don't know. It is my chore growing up, and it
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  Speaker 1: was when I would get my alone time.
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  Speaker 2: Was your chore growing up? Yeah, you draw the short
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  Speaker 2: stream every week?
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  Speaker 3: No, I don't know how that ended up assigning to me.
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  Speaker 4: It's just dubbed the toilet.
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  Speaker 1: Clean Well, Angie Moralesy, I'm just too good at it.
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  Speaker 1: I was really good, and as being one of four kids,
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  Speaker 1: that was like my alone time where I just got
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  Speaker 1: to it was me and the chemical fumes.
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  Speaker 2: Though, now we got it, and you just like being
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  Speaker 2: stoned in the bathroom cleaning it that explains I like,
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  Speaker 2: I'm cool with that.
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  Speaker 3: I'm cool with bathroom cleaning, and I love vacuuming.
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  Speaker 1: The one that I cannot is dusting. Oh my gosh,
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  Speaker 1: do I hate to dust. It's so annoying. I also
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  Speaker 1: can't reach like ceiling fan blades. Yep, so that's stressful
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  Speaker 1: to me. I do not like dusting, and I feel
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  Speaker 1: like that's like a major thing you should be dealing.
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  Speaker 2: It's very interesting you say that, because if you want
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  Speaker 2: the cleanest home possible, that's where you se art is
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  Speaker 2: with dusting.
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  Speaker 4: Yeah, that's right.
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  Speaker 2: Professional cleaner says the most important cleaning when you start
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  Speaker 2: is to dust and sanitize. Now it's not necessarily your
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  Speaker 2: coffee table, but the high touch points. Right, So doorknobs,
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  Speaker 2: your fridge, door handle, your the railing you use when
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  Speaker 2: you walk up or down your steps or whatever. Those
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  Speaker 2: are the most important things to do first, and then
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  Speaker 2: all of the other chores.
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  Speaker 3: I do that.
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  Speaker 1: I'd use the cleaning wipes, the sanitary cleaning wipes to
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  Speaker 1: do doorknobs, railings, and light switches.
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  Speaker 4: Yep.
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  Speaker 3: So okay, So I'm okay.
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  Speaker 1: But all the other dusting, Thank god, I have a
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  Speaker 1: wonderful boyfriend named Mikey who is.
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  Speaker 3: Obsessed with dusting.
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  Speaker 2: Hannah, keep that cirtain, Hannah, what's your least favorite thing to.
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  Speaker 5: Clean For me, it's definitely the kitchen back splash behind
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  Speaker 5: the stove. Grease and splatters just get into every tiny
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  Speaker 5: crevice and no matter how many times you wipe it
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  Speaker 5: is all seems to come back.
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  Speaker 4: That is so true.
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  Speaker 2: And it's grease so I feel you can like see
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  Speaker 2: it slow sometimes.
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  Speaker 5: Yeah.
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  Speaker 3: Have I ever even looked at that Max don't come
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  Speaker 3: to my.
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  Speaker 4: House and she didn't know she had a X jack?
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  Speaker 4: What about you? Man? My kitchen is the hardist to clean.
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  Speaker 5: I think it's because it's the most active when it
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  Speaker 5: comes to food.
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  Speaker 2: Between the dishes, the appliances and the cabinets, there's just
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  Speaker 2: a lot of spaces that need thorough cleaning. You know,
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  Speaker 2: my least favorite thing to clean. So we have this
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  Speaker 2: stainless steel spray we have to use for the fridge.
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  Speaker 3: Oh yeah, same.
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  Speaker 2: I hate like cleaning off the fridge and it sounds
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  Speaker 2: like such a mundane, like stupid easy shore like, Oh,
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  Speaker 2: just spray it and wipe it down, and that is
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  Speaker 2: what you do. The problem is is we are one
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  Speaker 2: of those well, we are one of those psychotic households
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  Speaker 2: that we save everything we get in the mail and
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  Speaker 2: put it on the fridge, so I take stupid things off,
• 17:00
  Speaker 2: spray that bad boy down, and then joke with my
• 17:04
  Speaker 2: wife that I threw the invite. We got to this
• 17:07
  Speaker 2: wedding in twenty twenty one away.
• 17:10
  Speaker 4: Why would we do that? Well, you know, dear, it
• 17:12
  Speaker 4: was four years ago. I think.
• 17:19
  Speaker 1: There are two things that we grew up with that
• 17:23
  Speaker 1: are going away and we surely will miss them.
• 17:30
  Speaker 3: Dial up Internet.
• 17:32
  Speaker 1: AOL will end it's dial up Internet service on September thirtieth,
• 17:38
  Speaker 1: marking the end of an era after thirty four years.
• 17:43
  Speaker 1: Now you might be thinking, bro, we still have dial
• 17:46
  Speaker 1: up Internet available.
• 17:48
  Speaker 4: I thought that was a pretty obsolete. I didn't know.
• 17:51
  Speaker 2: Not one time when I have moved somewhere to get
• 17:53
  Speaker 2: Internet options have they asked, Hey, do you want the
• 17:56
  Speaker 2: one where you can't use your land phone that you
• 17:59
  Speaker 2: also don't to have.
• 18:01
  Speaker 3: But I'm just I'm still gonna miss it anyway.
• 18:03
  Speaker 1: When I was a teenager, my mom gifted us the
• 18:07
  Speaker 1: greatest gift, and it was the teen line, so that
• 18:12
  Speaker 1: we would have separate phone lines in the house, the
• 18:15
  Speaker 1: mainland line and then the teen line.
• 18:17
  Speaker 3: And once internet became like huge.
• 18:20
  Speaker 1: Then it was like, we're gonna use the teen line
• 18:23
  Speaker 1: as the dial up internet one. So back to talking
• 18:27
  Speaker 1: on the phone on the main one, but you get
• 18:30
  Speaker 1: to use your dial up internet and hear.
• 18:32
  Speaker 5: That can.
• 18:35
  Speaker 2: The man, you know, Angie's great impressions. I'd put that
• 18:44
  Speaker 2: one in the kind of bottom tier.
• 18:45
  Speaker 1: Okay, well, I'm not a machine, I'm a woman.
• 18:49
  Speaker 4: Well for me, Cyana, I'm not going to miss it
• 18:51
  Speaker 4: a bit.
• 18:54
  Speaker 1: Not working hard, you might not be able to picture
• 18:59
  Speaker 1: anything with a Kodak because that might be shutting down
• 19:03
  Speaker 1: after one hundred thirty three years. Kodak says, if it
• 19:07
  Speaker 1: doesn't get any investors, they're not going to be able
• 19:10
  Speaker 1: to keep up and they're gonna have to cease operations.
• 19:13
  Speaker 1: The thing is, Kodak is film baby, and with the
• 19:17
  Speaker 1: advent of digital cameras all the digital media, film is
• 19:21
  Speaker 1: not what it was once before.
• 19:24
  Speaker 3: Even movies are filming.
• 19:26
  Speaker 1: On digital instead of film, right, and so Kodak just
• 19:31
  Speaker 1: can't keep up. Even though they were the ones that
• 19:34
  Speaker 1: first came out with a digital camera.
• 19:36
  Speaker 3: Did you know that?
• 19:37
  Speaker 4: Wow, they created their own deba.
• 19:39
  Speaker 1: They had the first digital camera. But even so they
• 19:43
  Speaker 1: might have to shut down. I will say Kodak had
• 19:46
  Speaker 1: the disposable cameras and that was like major in high school,
• 19:51
  Speaker 1: taking all the pictures, not knowing what you look like,
• 19:53
  Speaker 1: and then developing them and realizing, wow, what a waste
• 19:57
  Speaker 1: of film.
• 20:04
  Speaker 2: Twice a year, there are these things that I like
• 20:07
  Speaker 2: to call radio report cards. Okay, and Angie and I
• 20:11
  Speaker 2: just want to thank you for hanging out and being
• 20:16
  Speaker 2: part of Big ninety eight point seven with us. When
• 20:18
  Speaker 2: we and I first started and Angie first started, I
• 20:22
  Speaker 2: am sure that that was almost a shock to your
• 20:25
  Speaker 2: daily routine, to your normal operating day, and we just
• 20:30
  Speaker 2: want to thank you so much for sticking with us
• 20:33
  Speaker 2: and making us a part of your mornings and your
• 20:35
  Speaker 2: drives or your bus rides or whatever it is. Maybe
• 20:38
  Speaker 2: at work you just have us on his background noise. Yeah,
• 20:40
  Speaker 2: we just thank you for that, and we're really really appreciative.
• 20:43
  Speaker 1: I couldn't have said it any better than Gabe, honestly.
• 20:45
  Speaker 1: You know, being new somewhere is scary and you never
• 20:48
  Speaker 1: know what that's going to be like, and we have
• 20:50
  Speaker 1: felt very embraced during this time.
• 20:54
  Speaker 3: And yeah, we just thank you so much.
• 20:56
  Speaker 1: We love being part of your morning and we couldn't
• 20:58
  Speaker 1: do what we do without you, So thank you.
• 21:01
  Speaker 2: Yes, and all of the people who chime in when
• 21:04
  Speaker 2: they text us or call us. We love getting the
• 21:06
  Speaker 2: calls in the text and the Facebook stuff.
• 21:09
  Speaker 4: We're just very very grateful for that.
• 21:11
  Speaker 2: And I don't know if we've told you that since
• 21:12
  Speaker 2: we have kind of started and I am approaching like
• 21:15
  Speaker 2: one year very shortly, which is kind of like the
• 21:18
  Speaker 2: cartoon where the eyes pop out of the pad, you know, and.
• 21:22
  Speaker 3: I'm hitting the six month mark pretty.
• 21:24
  Speaker 2: Soon, and it's kind of in the blink of an eye.
• 21:26
  Speaker 2: You might be listening and going, oh my god, Gabe's
• 21:28
  Speaker 2: been here almost a year back, you know, and he's
• 21:31
  Speaker 2: been here half a year.
• 21:32
  Speaker 4: And so we just wanted to thank you this morning
• 21:35
  Speaker 4: on this Friday for that.
• 21:37
  Speaker 2: And we're just very very grateful that you hang out
• 21:40
  Speaker 2: with us in the mornings here on Big ninety eight
• 21:42
  Speaker 2: point seven. The world is full of nice people. If
• 21:44
  Speaker 2: you can't find one, you gotta be one.