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Your Strongest Self Emerges in the Light | Ep 441 · Voices for Voices®

• 0:02
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: Hi everyone, it's Justin here, Voices for Voices.
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  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: Thank you so much for joining us on this episode.
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  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: Uh, we are over 440 episodes in our uh in our vault, in our uh portfolio.
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  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: So we are so grateful to have you along with us for this ride.
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• 0:51
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: Uh, so for a slim staff, big goals, big mission, uh, we are we're doing uh just fantastic work and we're taking the things day by day.
• 1:07
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: Some days are better than others, as we all know that that happens, and and so that's what we're doing here at Voices for Voices, foundation on recovery, uh trauma, recovery, uh, or going through trauma uh uh around mental health.
• 1:27
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: That's our main pillar, our main foundation.
• 1:30
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: And we're just so grateful and thankful to have you with us, whether you're here in the United States or across the world.
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  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: I've already reached a thousand cities and over 100 countries.
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• 2:23
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: Thank you very much.
• 2:26
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: Wow, what a whirlwind.
• 2:29
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: We've had uh we've had uh uh a crazy winter, uh crazy, crazy weather, as we're we're kind of known for here where we live.
• 2:42
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: Uh we go from snow to 40s to negative five, uh, and we have a awesome day today with the the the sun uh shining brightly, uh blue skies, and we want to thank our our our creator and I know that my dad uh and everybody who's passed is watching over us and uh helping in whatever way that they could they can do.
• 3:18
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: That's that's my belief.
• 3:20
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: Uh you don't have to have those beliefs, uh, but those are those are my my beliefs.
• 3:26
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: And and so it's uh it's a good day to be alive.
• 3:30
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: Uh it's a good day to be with you, to talk with you, to share, to talk about different uh different events that uh occur in our lives, that uh some of it's uh some of it's fun, some some of it's not.
• 3:54
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: Uh I want to say first and foremost, so uh finished up, I've talked about in other shows, I've finished up my my third round of braces, and I've finished the payment uh uh of the braces for the third time.
• 4:13
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: Uh growing up, you know, I obviously being a kid growing up.
• 4:20
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: Um my parents just just heroes in my my my my book, in my opinion.
• 4:30
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: Uh so this third time, it it was uh it was a lot.
• 4:37
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: Uh you know, we talk about having a sh insurance and not, and so I did it, and I've talked about it on a previous episode, you know, going from crooked teeth to teeth that I'm they say happy with.
• 4:52
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: Um, and then obviously there's the uh the portion of uh money that it does take with or without insurance.
• 5:03
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: So uh very happy to be through with uh through with that.
• 5:10
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: Um again, it's a commitment.
• 5:15
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: And for me, it it definitely helps optically, like from the outside, like something you can see, uh, that I can see, and it and so that makes me feel uh have one less thing, you know, like no crooked teeth.
• 5:39
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: So I I don't have that any any anymore.
• 5:43
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: Um and I had had that, and it really bothered me mental health-wise, uh, because every conversation I would be in, I'd be afraid that you know somebody would notice my crooked teeth, and that might affect, you know, whether it's a job prospect or just you know, a uh a donor, a grant, and and now I feel a little bit more confident and and comfortable in in those situations.
• 6:19
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: And uh, I want to think, you know, think thank God for putting uh the resources available to me, to my family, to my loved ones, uh, to make this a reality.
• 6:36
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: Um so from moving on from that, the Olympics are still going on.
• 6:43
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: We're entering our last week.
• 6:45
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: Uh people are performing well.
• 6:48
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: There's been some uh crashes and some different events.
• 6:53
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: And uh I know Lindsay Vaughn, she just had surgery maybe a week or so prior to the Olympics kicking off, and uh she unfortunately crashed uh and had to be uh helicopter helicoptered off of the mountain.
• 7:16
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: Uh and I'm not sure exactly what the extent of her injuries were, but I I think it was an emergency surgery that she uh had to undergo.
• 7:28
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: And you know, you can't you can't really fault for somebody.
• 7:35
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: I mean, our bodies are only meant to do so much, and she tried, she gave it her all, and things could have gone better, or it could have ended up how how things did, and and I think it's just a testament to people that are going through hardship that like there's no way somebody like I even I even was thinking about that.
• 8:09
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: I'm like, there's no way she's gonna be able to uh to to compete after having a surgery uh a week or less than a week uh prior uh to the Olympics kicking off.
• 8:23
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: And um, I was surprised I was wrong.
• 8:26
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: It's okay if I'm wrong.
• 8:28
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: I don't doesn't bother me.
• 8:30
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: Uh I know I'm not perfect, so sometimes I'm gonna be wrong, sometimes I'm gonna maybe be right, just like uh all of us.
• 8:39
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: Sometimes we're wrong, sometimes we're right.
• 8:42
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: And she surprised me uh by suiting up after the surgery and uh went through some uh some qualifying round uh and did well.
• 8:56
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: Uh and then the actual event itself was where she uh unfortunately had a had a crash and again had to be taken to the hospital for an emergency surgery.
• 9:12
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: But it's that that kind of that kind of fortitude, that kind of it's hard to really cut come into words of what what that really does.
• 9:28
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: Uh obviously it is her her competing, but from a higher level it it really shows that to me, shows to me that Lindsay was and is a believer in being able to overcome you know uncertainty, uh overcome events, surgeries, things that could take somebody and they'd be like, all right, I I'm out, I I I just can't do it, uh, I don't want to risk hurting myself any further.
• 10:17
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: And we're not all like that.
• 10:21
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: I know I'm I'm I'm a little bit like that, but when it comes to certain things where we have to kind of just pack it up and go, okay, I'm gonna move on to the next thing.
• 10:35
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: Uh so for her to do what she did is just really amazing, and it should show us that, especially with the Olympics, and we've talked about this in the past, it's so hard to even make it to the Olympics, it's so hard to qualify.
• 10:54
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: There's so many different races or matches or games or events that have to uh the people have to go through and qualify to even make it to the Olympics.
• 11:09
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: Uh, and I think that might have been part of it with Lindsay of saying, you know, I had to go through all these qualification uh ski runs, and I don't know if I'll have another chance.
• 11:28
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: Maybe I will, maybe I won't, but I'm gonna give it my best and and and see.
• 11:33
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: And this time it turned out to be a crash, next time it might turn out to be a gold medal.
• 11:43
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: Uh, not I'm not really sure.
• 11:45
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: Uh, but when we talk about mentally and physically with that many people watching across the world, somewhere around 100 million, 200 million people watching.
• 12:01
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: Um, so it's not just like, okay, I'm going through this event, I'm doing it.
• 12:07
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: Uh, and there's just the people, you know, that we see at the for skiing, let's call it.
• 12:15
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: We just see, you know, a a smaller group of people, uh, friends, family, you know, waiting at the bottom of the of the mountain for uh the you know for the completion of that particular event.
• 12:34
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: That you know, there's a hundred two hundred million people like you and I that are watching, might watch highlights.
• 12:44
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: Uh, and that's a lot of people.
• 12:48
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: That's a lot of people.
• 12:51
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: We have a goal, like I said, of wanting to reach and help at least three billion people over the course of my lifetime and beyond.
• 13:03
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: I know we're well on we're well on that that uh that road.
• 13:09
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: Uh you know, I've mentioned in the past some of the ways that have really propelled us.
• 13:15
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: And and so I have a little bit of that every time that I come in front of you, whether you're you're watching and viewing one of our uh shows or whether you're listening, that I'm still in awe of how many people, how many staff members, how many dignitaries, uh, how many human beings are consuming the Voices for Voices podcast TV show.
• 13:50
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: Really just really just remarkable.
• 13:54
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: So I have a little bit of a little bit of understanding uh with uh with with these Olympic athletes.
• 14:06
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: You know, we talked about figure skating, right?
• 14:08
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: So they call them the program.
• 14:11
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: So some of the programs, which is this the amount of time skating, some of it's two, three, four, five, six minutes.
• 14:20
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: Uh and they do it to qualify, then they do it you know, for finals, to see who's gonna be on the podium for gold, silver, bronze medal, uh, which fun fact that the gold medal has more silver than has gold in it.
• 14:41
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: Uh, we've talked about that on a previous show way back uh when uh the uh the Paris Olympics were were going on a couple years ago.
• 14:52
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: So uh we we definitely dive into that topic.
• 14:56
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: A little fun fact.
• 14:57
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: Uh that if the full gold medal now, if the gold medal was all gold, it'd be worth I think 80 some thousand dollars for each gold medal.
• 15:12
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: I think it was 1812 or it was a long time ago, which was the last time that the gold medal was a hundred percent gold, and now it as I just mentioned, is mostly silver with uh with gold uh in the as well.
• 15:33
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: So that's just an interesting, fun, fun fact.
• 15:36
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: Uh but yeah, every time we come come together, we're here to unite, we're not here to divide, we're here for culture, not politics.
• 15:47
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: And we just like to share that.
• 15:51
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: It's it's it's it's interesting to share because there's so many, so many shows out there, and to find your niche of okay, who am I targeting?
• 16:06
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: Who who do I want to have my message, uh, my show, the topics.
• 16:13
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: Uh some of them are like this, where we're reviewing parts of other shows, and then we're adding tidbits, you know, of more recent events uh in in there that that we that we're sharing.
• 16:30
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: Uh but the reason why we're doing it is to really show somebody practices for months, years, for hours.
• 16:46
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: Uh they're uh they're they're giving up depending on the ages of the individuals, they're giving up time with their family, their loved ones to do to do the practicing and what's what's required.
• 17:09
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: And as someone who has had a long-term relationship long and a long uh long distance, it's very it's hard to do.
• 17:23
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: It's very hard to do.
• 17:26
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: Uh and so when you get individuals that may have a a bad event, that doesn't define them at all, uh, which is something that you know our society were like, oh, they're not that good because they didn't perform that well.
• 17:48
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: And we can't, as Scott Hamilton says, you know, we we can't judge a person, which first of all, we shouldn't be judging anyone, anyways.
• 18:00
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: That aside, we shouldn't be thinking, oh, well, that person, they're not that good because they didn't perform as well.
• 18:11
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: We all have good days, we all have not so good days.
• 18:15
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: Uh again, the you know, the pressure it is uh, I mean, I remember at many different times being at a speaking engagement, teaching, other things, different uh different media events, TV shows, uh, other podcasts, where I'm almost frozen.
• 18:45
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: And when I mean frozen, I mean like if I wanted to move my arm, like the wave hi, thanks for joining.
• 18:54
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: Like I could I I couldn't because I was literally frozen.
• 18:59
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: And until you're there at that point, it's hard to understand that.
• 19:04
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: Uh, not to say that I'm by no means, again, I'm no perfect person at all.
• 19:12
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: At all.
• 19:13
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: No way, none of us are.
• 19:15
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: So there's gonna be some times where we're gonna freeze up and go, and then we're gonna go through the motions, even no matter how many hours, no matter what preparation we did, we're we're still gonna have you know a performance or an interview, uh a book, you name it, that's just not gonna be as good as others.
• 19:43
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: And it's okay.
• 19:45
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: I think that's the big takeaway.
• 19:47
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: It's okay.
• 19:48
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: I know it's hard to not worry about it.
• 19:51
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: Like people are gonna think we're not I'm not that good, that they're not gonna buy my new book, they're not going to tune in to my show.
• 20:01
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: Um well, be that as it may, maybe they don't.
• 20:09
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: But there's gonna be those people.
• 20:12
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: And I know firsthand, there's people that watch day in and day out the Voices for Voices, TV show and podcast.
• 20:21
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: Even if it even if maybe the donations aren't coming from them, just the mere fact that they're watching and listening shows that there's some sort of some sort of reason why they're sh they're watching and listening.
• 20:39
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: Uh I don't want to guess why they're watching and listening listening.
• 20:47
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: Uh but they do.
• 20:52
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: And so when you're talking 440 episodes, we're we're getting to that point, if we're not already there, of I mean, I don't say podcast and TV show royalty in in a way, but we are.
• 21:14
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: There's so many people they'll have a show for like for the Olympics, okay?
• 21:19
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: There's many people that'll have shows for the Olympics, and the shows will go maybe 20 episodes, 25, I don't I don't know.
• 21:29
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: They'll just go to the length of the you know the particular thing that they're talking about or that's going on.
• 21:36
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: But then to go 100 episodes, there's even less people, 200 less, 300 less, 400 less, 440, even less.
• 21:45
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: And so when I sit here and you watch me, when you listen, you can hear and see the passion I have for what we do, for talking about my mental health, my mental illnesses.
• 21:59
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: What I have to go through day in and day out.
• 22:04
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: It's not fun.
• 22:05
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: I don't enjoy a lot of the things as far as regimens and medications and you name it, therapy, all these things.
• 22:22
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: And they're all wonderful.
• 22:24
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: I'm the first to tell you now, like I have been, that these are wonderful things that are available.
• 22:33
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: So if that's something that you want to do, you need to do, make it happen, do it.
• 22:39
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: I just recently started a different regimen as far as how like how recent or how uh you know how how many days uh in between uh visits uh to for therapy and that.
• 23:04
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: And I'm eight years into this, so there's gonna be ebbs and flows.
• 23:10
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: Uh and I can say for that that I feel a lot a lot stronger because I did do this, made this change, but you gotta do what you need to do.
• 23:27
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: Don't do what I'm doing.
• 23:29
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: You know, maybe let me be a part of part of the research that you do.
• 23:37
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: I can be a research point.
• 23:39
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: You say, okay, I watch and listen to this Voices for Voices show, and their host does this.
• 23:47
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: But you gotta find what you need.
• 23:51
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: Maybe the therapist that you reach out to maybe maybe doesn't work out, maybe uh just don't get along.
• 23:59
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: You know, maybe maybe they cut you off, they don't let you talk, or uh for whatever reason, it's not a bad thing.
• 24:08
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: There's there's other therapists out there, there's other providers out there, and that's okay.
• 24:15
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: That's called taking your life and your uh your specialties.
• 24:27
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: Like I take my specialties and find, and then I'm you know, right now I found, but there's gonna be down the road where I'm probably gonna have to find another, and then find another and find another.
• 24:44
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: It's just how much you want to put into you know the mental side of things.
• 24:49
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: And I know we talked about how if somebody's being interviewed at the Olympics, that it should be all about the event and the country they're representing.
• 25:08
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: Because that's what the Olympics is.
• 25:10
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: They're representing your rep the athletes are representing a country, and they're they made it to the Olympics because of an event, not because of politics, not because of other things.
• 25:29
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: And so while it's okay to talk about those things, there's a time and a place.
• 25:34
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: Um we want more people to talk about it, want more people to say it's okay, we want people to be a little bit more understanding and not try to just downplay it.
• 25:51
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: But when you're on when you're being interviewed at the Olympics for an event, after an event, after a game, after a match, talk about that.
• 26:04
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: Talk about what it took, you know, the practice, the dedication, uh being happy that you know, able to represent a particular country.
• 26:15
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: Um that's what it should all what it all should be about, because that's what it is.
• 26:21
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: You know, we turn on the turn on the Olympics, and they have the medal counts of like whatever country you know has the most gold, silver, bronze.
• 26:31
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: But there's so many other people that tried so hard, and they're gonna be interviewed too.
• 26:40
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: And it's okay.
• 26:42
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: It's okay if we we don't do our best every single day.
• 26:48
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: Because we're human beings.
• 26:49
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: We we we don't.
• 26:51
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: So to have any expectation that we are would just not be very not be very helpful.
• 27:06
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: Uh so that the reason I'm bringing this up and these topics up again, number one is because it's it's a bright sunshiny day where I'm where I live.
• 27:19
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: And so there are things and topics that are what I want to share, what I want to talk about, because the sun's out, there's blue sky.
• 27:35
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: We don't always get that with weather, we don't always get blue skies and sunny.
• 27:41
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: Uh, you know, we have the groundhog, it does their thing, you know, whether they see the shadow or not.
• 27:49
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: Uh that's mostly for theatrics.
• 27:54
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: Uh so when we see when I see a uh a day like today, it helps me, helps me ground myself in what I'm what I'm doing from the mental side of not only that it's I'm safe, I'm okay, at this very instant, that's all I can do.
• 28:23
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: At this very instant, it's a beautiful day outside.
• 28:27
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: It's still a little chilly, but it's still beautiful just to look out a window and see and go, wow, it's this time of day, and there's blue sky, and I can you know see a trail from uh uh uh an airline jet flying overhead.
• 28:48
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: Um and so talking about really what's current and relevant as we as we we we do from time to time.
• 28:59
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: Some other times we you know we back up and we look at things in the past, and and other times we look at things in the future.
• 29:08
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: Uh but I think it's it's just very important to just take stock in that.
• 29:15
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: Um we from a family standpoint we uh we babysat a pet for a couple of days, and that was so so cool, so fun to see our child uh interact uh with the with the pet.
• 29:41
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: And I I mean I'd be remiss not to say that it was it was nice, it was it was neat, neat to see, it was neat to be a part of.
• 29:54
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: Uh you know, through my ears, we didn't we didn't have uh an indoor pet.
• 30:02
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: I mean, unless you talk about like a goldfish or a beta fish and that's okay.
• 30:08
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: We don't we don't have to have every all these things.
• 30:11
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: Uh the uh what the word is the opportunity that came about, it just so happened it came about.
• 30:24
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: Sometimes those opportunities don't come come about, and so we did.
• 30:31
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: So it was it was mean.
• 30:32
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: So maybe I maybe that's where some of my positiveness we're you know talking about the topics today on this show are coming from because there's all kinds of evidence that shows you having a you know a service animal or an animal in general uh that you know gets along, so they get along with the you know the the family, uh the family gets along with the pet and all that, it helps from a uh compassion standpoint, and so I think I I enjoy that.
• 31:22
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: Uh I know with certain hospitals they have uh you know comfort and support animals that sometimes they visit, they visit patients uh just for a minute or two.
• 31:41
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: Maybe they come up the maybe dependent, you know, depends on what the patient is in in hospital for.
• 31:47
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: Uh they may not be as support, not supportive, might not be as uh mobile and able to pay pet the the dog.
• 31:58
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: So some of it is just mental, like, oh there's there's a support animal.
• 32:05
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: Uh so that was that was something that was also neat the last couple days.
• 32:09
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: So a sunny day, and actually it was two days in a row, a sunny day, uh, and then being able to you know babysit a uh a pet for a couple days.
• 32:24
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: It was kind of neat, I I have to say.
• 32:27
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: It was it was fun, it was neat uh to see my child interact with it so kind and gentle and uh just so happy and wanting to help.
• 32:39
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: And I get it.
• 32:40
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: It was two days, wasn't two years, wasn't 20 years.
• 32:46
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: But things like that are like what we call like the little things in life, and I enjoyed it.
• 32:56
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: I know my wife did, I know our child did, and and so that that gives us another perspective on on that.
• 33:08
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: Maybe we get a pet sometime, maybe we don't.
• 33:15
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: I don't know.
• 33:15
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: I don't know what that that's gonna turn out to be.
• 33:18
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: But just from a person, person, a human standpoint, the more positive vibes, as I mentioned, usually at the end of our shows, the more positive vibes we can get is the best.
• 33:34
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: We never can have too many, you know, people praying for us, people sending good vibes our way.
• 33:41
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: Uh we can never have too many.
• 33:44
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: I mean, uh it's just uh just an amazing thing to have people thinking about other other people, and you know, to have uh, you know, the babysit this this pet for a couple days, uh, you know, a living, breathing pet.
• 34:06
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: Uh it was uh it was a lot of fun.
• 34:12
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: It was it was neat, it was cool, whatever the words are, uh to do it.
• 34:19
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: Because uh I wasn't crazy at first because I didn't know what to expect.
• 34:23
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: And I think that's what we are, right?
• 34:25
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: When we don't know what to expect, it it's a little bit, you know, things are a little bit more cause a little more anxiety or stress.
• 34:35
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: At least that that's the way it is for me.
• 34:37
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: I'm like, I don't know what to expect.
• 34:39
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: I don't know, like I don't yeah, I just don't know what to expect.
• 34:43
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: Like, what am I gonna be able to do?
• 34:45
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: Am I gonna be able to work on certain things?
• 34:47
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: Am I not?
• 34:49
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: And and that doesn't really matter in the grand scheme of things, but those are things that I was thinking about uh uh you know before we actually had the pet inside of our where we live.
• 35:04
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: But then once once the pet was in, it was like, oh, okay, I can do this, I can do that.
• 35:17
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: I'm not gonna be able to do this one thing, not gonna be able to do this other thing, but it's okay, and it's changes and adaptations that makes us human too.
• 35:32
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: Being able to, and we talk about it a lot on the show, being able to adapt from you know day to day, from warm weather, sunshine, to no sunshine, uh super cold weather, snow, ice, you name it, uh, you know, being able to adapt, uh, you know, having the clothing that we can wear given the uh you know the weather and all the other variables that get thrown at us uh each and every day.
• 36:08
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: So that's why we say just living is extraordinary.
• 36:14
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: And we've talked about this on a previous show, so won't uh won't belabor the point.
• 36:22
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: So thank you for joining us on this episode of the Voices for Voices TV show and podcast.
• 36:28
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• 36:33
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• 37:06
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• 37:30
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: Thank you so much.
• 37:31
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: Been Justin Alan Hayes with you here, voices for voices, and we will see you on our next show.
• 37:39
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: So have a great day and uh be safe.
• 37:43
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: And we're thinking about you, we're praying for you, we're sending good vibes your way.
• 37:47
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: So have a great day, and we'll talk to you and and uh see you soon.
• 37:51
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: Bye bye.