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Chemical Peels, Keyboard Feels, and PJs Illegal on Airplanes-For Real? · Rik and that Michele Chick

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  Welcome to Rick and That Michelle Chick, the weekly
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  podcast where your hosts, Rick and Michelle, confidently dive
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  into topics they know absolutely nothing about and somehow make
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  it sound legit. They're not experts.
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  They're not qualified. Honestly, they barely googled
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  it. So grab a drink, lower your
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  expectations, and let's pretend this counts as content.
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  So buckle up. Facts are optional, but the
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  bullshit? That's premium grade.
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  This is Rick and that Michelle chick.
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  For those of you that watch our podcast, I don't know if you can
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  see this, but like my face is like peeling.
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  Wow, I know, isn't that crazy? It's because I got a chemical
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  peel last week. So it's not just because I'm a
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  snake that's shedding their skin.
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  I mean, I guess, but so yeah, this is day five, I think.
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  I can't remember. Yes.
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  So usually it takes like 5 to 7 days for it to peel off.
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  It's just like you have like a face mask that won't crack.
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  I really hate it when it's like around your mouth and but then
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  when you're trying to talk, you just feel like this tightness.
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  But anyway it is supposed to help with like discoloration and
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  redness and I've had one before but it's been probably like 10
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  years and you can get laser which is faster.
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  It doesn't take you 5 to 7 days obviously, but it's also more
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  expensive. So that's why I opted for the
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  chemical peel. It just feels like feels like
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  you are your face is on fire when they put it on, but they
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  give you a little fan and and that helps.
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  It helps 2 folds for the burning and for the smell cause the
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  chemical smell is like. Oh my God, what the?
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  It's not that bad it really. So so you're saying, so you're
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  saying beauty number one hurts and is costly?
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  Yes, well, this is cheaper. The chemical peel is cheaper
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  than the laser. The laser is more expensive, but
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  it's, you know, one day basically where this is five to
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  seven days kind of the first day.
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  Usually I'm trying not to wear makeup just because your skin is
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  shedding and trying to heal. And but I didn't want to freak
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  people out on the podcast either, but.
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  So, yeah, so you know, so I guess my my question to you.
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  What's your what's your question?
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  Why? Well, because I do have like
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  some discoloration and redness and so I haven't had a chemical
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  peel in probably 10 years, I want to say, or even see like my
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  see how it gets all tight on my forehead or even laser.
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  I think lasering I had done back, gosh, it would have been
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  maybe like 2021, which my skin, my dermatologist does say like I
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  do look pretty good for my age, but that's a couple of things.
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  Like now I try to stay out of the sun compared to like when we
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  were younger and would slather ourselves with baby oil and
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  layout in the sun. I don't go to the tanning
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  booths. I still have some friends that
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  do that and are looking kind of wrinkly and they're going, well,
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  how come? Like you don't age as much as us
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  and I'm like, girl, it's because you're still going to the
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  tanning booth like that ages you so.
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  Bacon. Your bacon, Your skin.
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  Yes, and so yeah. And then the other part is
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  genetics, like some, no matter what you do, the dermatologist
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  said. Like sometimes people are just
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  going to age faster than other people.
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  I have always had like super oily skin and when I was
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  younger, sure that was horrible because you're breaking out in
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  zits all over the place basically.
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  But now that I'm older, the dermatologist is like, well
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  that's why your skin looks as good as it does and you don't
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  have as many wrinkles because dryness also contributes to
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  wrinkles. So there's your little info
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  about aging and which the only other thing I don't, I don't do
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  Botox yet. Knock on, like I don't, I don't
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  need to. I just get lip filler.
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  That's like really like the only thing I do.
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  But I've always had like super thin lips regardless.
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  And then as you age they also get thinner.
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  Good to know. And so that's the only thing
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  like which if I turn to the side, you might be able to see
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  tell a little bit. But I just see the mustache but.
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  Hey, I can't. I can't shave it because I'm a
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  chemical peel. Kidding, kidding.
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  Oh no, it's there. It's.
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  Just light. It's just light.
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  Not just I was going for the joke, I was going for the joke.
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  No, it was a good joke. But you know, like, us girls
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  will be like sitting on the couch and we'll like feel that
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  chin here and be like, Oh my God.
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  And then you have to go pluck it like that.
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  Happens to all of us. I'm sure Megan too, you just
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  don't know about. Oh, yeah, she does.
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  She's got, she's got one or two and she and then she'll just do
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  it and she'll do it right in front of me, which looks very
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  painful. I don't know why she does it in
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  front of me, but I'm like, I don't want to.
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  I don't want to see any of that. I mean.
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  Usually, like I'll sit there like Jane, I'll be on the couch
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  and I'll find it and then I'll be like.
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  Oh no, you don't. I can't.
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  Like then I can't like keep sitting there and be like and
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  then have to go. Like if he's not home then I can
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  get up and go pluck. It no problem with that.
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  Yes, but when he's there, like, and then like, that's all I
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  think about for however long until I go get ready for bed and
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  then I'm able to, like, find it and pluck it then, yeah.
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  I mean, he probably wouldn't care if I did like, sit there
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  and pluck it anyway, but yeah. I think Megan does it on
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  purpose. But you know, you do bring up an
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  interesting point because I've I've never been self.
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  OK, so I'm as you already know, I'm a non drinker, non-smoker.
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  I do try to stay out of the sun. It's not like I I've never made
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  an active I. Mean you're not putting on
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  sunscreen, no. I've never done it any of that.
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  So the crazy thing which has happened to me in recent years
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  and I and I was again, I just now became self-conscious of it,
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  whereas I had not been recently, is because Megan's mom came for
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  a visit and made a comment about my face.
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  And now and now I am a little more self-conscious than I had
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  been about it. So as you can see, right there
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  on my face and then right here under my eye.
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  So there's just dark spots that you're.
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  Getting Yeah, well, there's little, they're little bumps or
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  whatever. So I have never been
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  self-conscious about it. So a few years back and I think
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  I can do it. I don't know.
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  Oh yeah. There you go.
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  See that that mark on my shoulder?
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  Mole. That's a.
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  Well, it's not a mole. It's just a, it's just a color
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  spot. So a few years back I had one
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  like way over here. It's gone now.
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  And Megan was really worried. She goes Melanoma.
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  She was thinking Melanoma. Great.
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  Yeah, you should go get it checked, especially.
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  So I went to the So I went, Yeah.
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  So you know, me, I had not been to a doctor in 15 years, 20
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  years, but I did go to the, the skin doctor, the dermatologist.
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  I don't, I don't have a regular like you, sorry, I have no
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  regular. But he, he checked me over and
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  said that I have a skin disease. Like not, not because of the
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  sun, not because of anything. He goes, it's genetics.
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  And I said, and I said, well, I know nobody in my family, you
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  know, that has a skin disease. So I so I've got these little
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  like like you see on my hand there, right?
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  So, so it's not and it looks like, and of course it looks
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  like Melanoma, but. But it looks like the little
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  discoloration like I have one up here, which they would, it's
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  just like a brown spot, but which they did with the chemical
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  peel. And I've had them though, I'll
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  go in and they'll freeze them off.
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  You can have it, you can have them like frozen off and it's
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  and they'll die and go away. So.
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  Yeah, so I hadn't done it. I wasn't thinking about doing
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  any of that until Megan's mother had brought it up.
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  And I thought, and then I, you know, and then and now even when
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  I look at myself now, I'm self critical now.
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  Yeah, that's all you're gonna see now.
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  Right now it's all you know. And then I do look back a couple
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  years ago before this, this occurred and I'm like, yeah, I
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  mean, my, I mean, I was one of those people.
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  Like I have no wrinkles on my forehead as you can tell.
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  Yeah, you're pretty good. Yeah, I don't have any.
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  And I'm gonna be, I'm gonna be what, 56 here in a couple
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  months. And my hair, my hair is, you
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  know. Yep, you still got your hair
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  right. So I've always, I've always
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  tried to make it a point not to do any.
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  I just, I'm just not into like this is who I am.
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  This is, this is, this is aging for me.
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  This is 56 or will be 56. And, and so, but now as I start
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  seeing these like I now I'm thinking, man, you know, should
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  I go in and get this stuff scraped off or whatever?
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  Yeah, they just like freeze it off or scrape it off.
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  But I'm not that guy. I've never been.
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  Like but it's bothering you. No, only no, I was, I was fine
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  until, until they made me self-conscious about it.
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  So and, and her mom didn't say, oh, he oh, he looks ugly or
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  anything. She just says she goes, oh,
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  Rick's got spots, you should go get them checked out.
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  And Megan said, oh, he already went in and it's a skin disease.
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  Yeah. So it's, it's a genetic skin
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  disease. So anyway, I was I, you know,
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  it's one of those things where I've tried not to do like no,
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  well, you can already tell compared to look at Michelle,
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  look at Rick. But I'm also five years younger.
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  You know, Michelle looks real good, real good, Rick.
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  Rick looking like he's ready for the the home, you know?
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  Because Michelle's spending some money.
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  I mean, not as much as a lot of people, but you know.
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  Yeah, yeah. So I spend, I spend 0 on on my
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  skin or any of those kind. And then I did tell you the
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  story, I think over Christmas where the guy did put some
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  makeup on or whatever. No, you.
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  Didn't tell you, didn't tell me about that.
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  Did you do that like the plexi derm that gets rid of your under
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  eye? Yeah, so.
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  So here I am at at Christmas time.
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  At Christmas time, I'm walking to the mall.
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  I had to go to the Buckle to get Megan her gift card, right?
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  Oh God, they sucked you in. No, not the buckle, but as I'm
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  leaving the buckle, I'm at the. Skin people in the mall.
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  Like, yeah, so I'm, so I'm trying to walk out.
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  You know me, I I am into the mall, get what I need and get
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  out and I'm walking. And this guy, he just happens to
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  be at his little makeup stand or whatever it is.
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  And he goes, Sir, stop, stop, stop, stop, stop.
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  And I went all right, fine. And you stopped.
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  Oh my God. You're supposed to just be.
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  And he's like, let me help you out.
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  And then, yeah. So it took a swab of some tap.
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  Is it collagen? I don't know it depends.
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  Did it? Did it tighten like your under
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  eye of? Course.
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  And it was like kind of gone. Yeah, no, no, I mean, but I
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  could see it. It wasn't like, you know, it's
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  funny. It's like, I mean, it was so it
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  was collagen or whatever and he's like, there's this stuff
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  normal, what's that? There's this stuff, the Plexi
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  derm stuff that you, I'm sure you've seen the commercials for
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  it. You put it under your eye and it
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  like makes that go away and it tightens.
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  Yeah, it like tightens all that up and it lasts for quite a
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  while. Yeah.
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  So it's. Super popular right now, so.
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  Well, well, super, not just popular.
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  He goes, oh, normally this is 12, this is 1500, but today, but
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  today if you want to buy it, it'll be $200 out the door.
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  This stuff, the plexi derm stuff is like $20.
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  No, this was, but this was whatever he was doing and so.
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  This is the guy in the mall that's.
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  Trying to tell. You the 500 dollar 500.
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  Skin care. Yeah, I give some credit.
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  The one eye looked good. You know what I'm saying?
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  Like it looked like, but but the hilarity was I could see the
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  make. I mean, whatever, if I got close
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  enough to my face, you could see it wasn't like you're not.
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  I mean, it's almost like putting makeup on.
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  It wasn't like I was hiding the. Plexi derm stuff is clear.
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  I'll send you the plexi derm stuff.
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  Oh I'd love, I'll send it. I'll send you the link for what
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  it is and then you could see the cost of it compared to your mom.
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  Well, when I, when I told the guy, you know, I wasn't
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  interested, he goes next, you know.
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  He was, he was like, right, He needs to make a sale.
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  Yeah. So.
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  Well, at 200 bucks, I'm not the guy to make a sale, you know,
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  now, but like I said, up until last week, I was not, I was not
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  self-conscious of this aging thing that's going on.
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  But now I've become self-conscious.
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  So, but I mean, I, you know, it brings me to when, when I, it's
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  like I understand people wanting to feel comfortable or change
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  their if there's something that they don't like about
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  themselves. I get that.
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  But but when is I guess when is too far what when is too far too
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  far or going? You know, when I look at
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  recently, we saw what? We saw Sharon Osbourne and we
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  saw Kelly Osbourne. Yes.
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  And I, I mean, I would never judge anybody, but I cannot
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  believe the, the, the drastic look and is that, and that's
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  also because of Ozempic as well. Yes, she had been taking, I
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  think Ozempic. It was one of the weight loss
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  injectables. I'm not sure which one it was,
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  but I knew it was one of them prior to her dad passing away.
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  You know, she had a she had a baby and, and she's also in
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  Hollywood and in the limelight more and, you know, the
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  pressures of that to look good and to bounce back from the baby
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  weight. And so, yeah, I knew she was on
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  it and she had looked, she looked healthy prior to Ozzy
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  passing away. And I think since he's passed
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  away, she's lost a lot more weight.
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  And I think that photo and just seeing her so thin is concerning
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  as far as has she lost too much weight?
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  Like, you know, people are concerned about her now and.
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  She looks like a she looks like a Disney villain.
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  I mean, she looks like. And I know people were
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  commenting on her, on her looks, and then she commented back
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  like, hey, I've been going through a lot like you people
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  are, which that is mean for people to.
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  Say. Mean things, right, It's obvious
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  she's always had eating disorders, I'm sure, and
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  struggled with her weight and so to say mean things.
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  I mean, yes, those of us that are I the first time I saw saw
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  that picture, I was like, Oh my gosh, like she has gone too far.
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  Obviously eating disorder or whatever it is has either
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  resurfaced or she's not seeing how gaunt she looks.
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  Yes, she has gone through a lot with her dad passing.
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  But but still, like, where do you step in and say, hey, like
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  we're kind of concerned by how you look and what's going on?
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  But yeah, people on the Internet aren't like that.
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  They're just like, Oh my God, look at how she.
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  Looks. Well, yeah, because they're
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  because they're basically jerks. But you know, but I but I look,
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  but I look at, I look at you, Michelle, and you are very
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  healthy looking. But but then what?
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  Like you said, but then when you look at like Kelly Osbourne or
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  even Sharon Osbourne, the gauntness and the, the and then
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  they, and then it's not just losing the weight as I looked at
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  at Kelly and I also looked at Sharon.
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  They've got the plumpus lips. So they're getting more work.
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  So they're already thin and then they're and then they're
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  accentuating these these these other parts.
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  And that's what I think that's. Yeah, they're getting filler.
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  So yeah, like we talked about, I have the lip filler, but also I
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  try to look not over. I try to have my dermatologist
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  make it so that you can't necessarily tell I have filler.
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  It's not that like Kim Kardashian plumped out.
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  Plus for my age, I don't need to, I shouldn't look that way.
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  And you try to look a little more natural is how they call
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  it. But when you also start to get
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  thinner and also a way to decrease your wrinkles is to get
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  filler in those wrinkles. Oh my.
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  Gosh, and also to accentuate like your cheekbones so she
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  could have gotten, you know, filler to really make them stand
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  out. I know people had that done.
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  Well, just reminds me, it just reminds me of of Michael Jackson
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  or any of that, that situation where he did have a he did have
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  a rare skin or he has a rare skin disease.
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  He's got a disease and but then but then it's it's just
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  continuing taking it to that next step.
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  And I think it just it and this even goes, I think, to Jim
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  Carrey right now. Looks yes, you know, look, but
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  it but is it is it does Jim Carrey just look different
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  because we haven't seen Jim Carrey in a while?
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  I mean, sometimes. So sometimes you'll see an actor
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  like let's say Martin Sheen. Martin Sheen did The West Wing,
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  you know, as the president, haven't seen him.
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  He hasn't done any, or at least we haven't seen him recently.
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  Then when you see him, you know, it's 10 years later, 15 years
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  later, and his hair is as white as white can be.
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  He still looks, yeah, he looks 10 years older because he is 10
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  years older. So I don't think everybody, you
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  know, can look as good as Rob Lowe or Paul Rudd or Paul Rudd.
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  Where they? Where they?
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  You know those guys be getting shit done like you.
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  Think so. Yes, you.
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  You think so? You don't think it's just?
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  You know, I don't know about Paul Rudd, but Rob Lowe, yes,
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  yes, I'd I would bet money he's getting Botox.
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  He's getting something you. Think so you don't think like
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  because your dermatologist said hey, some people just have good
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  genetics. They do, yes.
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  I mean that is very much true, but I think he's getting Botox
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  or something. Well, I, I will tell you really
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  quick, my favorite, one of my favorite memes on the Internet
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  is when they show old actors from the 70s like like Carol
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  O'Connor or Gene Stapleton or right, whatever it is, the
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  three's company, whatever, and, or Alice it or Alice on the
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  Brady Bunch. And you look at me and go, oh
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  God, they look like they're 60. Then they put current hairstyles
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  on them and they look their age because they're like, well,
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  Alice was 38 or whatever. Well, then they put they put a
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  current hairstyle on her and you're like, oh, she's very
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  attractive. Right, just like The Golden
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  Girls, right, Right. Technically when like they're
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  they're in their ages, yes. Yes, yes, yes.
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  That was the Eddie White at the time, being the oldest, yeah,
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  like in 55 or something like that.
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  And she looked like she was, you know, in her late 60s or early
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  70s. Easy.
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  Yeah, I would say 80s. Well, Wilford Brimley, of
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  course, from Cocoon. He was 48 and 75.
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  That is, that's bananas. Yeah, that's bananas when you
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  think about that. He wasn't even a senior, not
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  even close. Not even close, you know.
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  Yeah, I mean, so and then and then you look at today where,
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  you know, you look at The Karate Kid and he's 60 some years old
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  and looks still looks pretty, pretty good.
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  William Zapka, all those guys, you know, So yeah, I, I, I
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  understand the need I get because I know that you and I've
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  talked a lot about when you were a kid and got made fun of and
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  oh, don't, I mean, and, and same here.
• 18:55
  But yeah, that need to try to perfect yourself as much as
• 19:00
  humanly possible. But I guess the question is when
• 19:03
  does it become an illness? Like, okay, that's enough.
• 19:05
  Like right, which it is. I mean it can spill over into an
• 19:09
  illness. I watch the on E Oh, shoot, now
• 19:13
  I'm drawing a blank with like Terry Dubrow and Dr. NASA.
• 19:17
  If you shit the, the show that they have and they usually have
• 19:21
  like 2 people who are coming in to get something fixed and it's
• 19:25
  something that they can fix. And then they have like the one
• 19:28
  person who obviously has had way too much plastic surgery and now
• 19:33
  it's it's addictive, it's an illness.
• 19:36
  And so they have to tell them like, look, if you have this
• 19:40
  procedure done, you're running like Bing, Bing, Bing, Bing,
• 19:43
  Bing for this risk. And then usually they, they'll
• 19:45
  say no, like, we're not going to do this, whatever it is that
• 19:48
  they're asking of them. But then those people just turn
• 19:51
  around and go somewhere else or go to a different country and
• 19:54
  have it done. But it is definitely an illness
• 19:59
  and can be addictive. So I, I get it.
• 20:03
  Like, I could see how it would be so easy to slip into
• 20:06
  something like that, especially I think for those in Hollywood.
• 20:12
  And especially for a woman, I know like you're a guy and I'm a
• 20:16
  girl. And so I feel like it's still a
• 20:18
  little bit different. Like I still have that where
• 20:21
  like, Oh my gosh, I have to try and stay young.
• 20:24
  And I feel like that is still there in Hollywood.
• 20:27
  It has gotten better. I do have to say, thankfully it
• 20:30
  has gotten better. But that is still like prevalent
• 20:33
  everywhere. It's not just in Hollywood.
• 20:35
  You look at all the women in their like, 50s and 60s who
• 20:38
  struggle to get a job not because of they don't have the
• 20:41
  experience, right? It's because people just don't
• 20:44
  want to employ somebody that age.
• 20:46
  So, yeah, yeah. I think, I think even even right
• 20:50
  now, it's funny, even in radio from a Top 40, because I
• 20:54
  remember when I turned 40 back in the day, Cheryl or I was
• 20:58
  probably 3838 back in the day and Cheryl was like, yeah,
• 21:01
  you're too old for Top 40 radio. You're too old for Top 40 radio.
• 21:04
  Now if anybody sounds like Top 40 radio.
• 21:07
  Right, you don't sound. Old and she goes and she goes,
• 21:10
  you shouldn't be doing Top 40 radio when I was 38 years old.
• 21:13
  Well, now I'm 56, you know, are going to be 56.
• 21:16
  And guess what? I still do.
• 21:17
  Yeah, I still do top ready. I do Top 40 radio.
• 21:20
  But but you know, but I've also aged.
• 21:23
  I get it. I age and I always think to
• 21:25
  myself that I bet my company, not that they would ever do this
• 21:29
  to me, but if I I bet if I look different they might.
• 21:33
  I might not be doing Top 40 radio.
• 21:35
  Like, like if you look like Wilfred Brimley.
• 21:38
  Well, right. Yes, yes, yeah.
• 21:40
  Because, see, because even at even at 50, even at being 56,
• 21:44
  you know, I got the spiky hit, you know what I'm saying?
• 21:47
  I mean, I mean, I kind of got, yeah, I kind of, I can still get
• 21:50
  away with being on Top 40, I guess.
• 21:52
  Right, you look hip. Well, I don't know if I like,
• 21:55
  but yes, I mean I look hipper than other people that could be
• 21:59
  doing it. Is that is that the best way to
• 22:02
  say it? Yes, you probably look hipper
• 22:04
  than people that would be in their 20s doing it.
• 22:07
  So yes, correct, because you and I have worked with a lot of Top
• 22:10
  40 DJs, sadly with big beer guts and they're sadly bald, you
• 22:14
  know, at the, at that, at those they.
• 22:17
  Have a face for radio they. Have a face for radio what they
• 22:20
  do and they you know, and they and they sound amazing on the
• 22:22
  radio and then you meet them like whoa.
• 22:23
  So yeah, I now do you think Jay would stop you if you started
• 22:28
  going, you know, a little cuckoo on on some of the the makeover
• 22:33
  and stuff? Yes, which he has always, which
• 22:37
  he's fine with. However I look, you know, he's
• 22:39
  never been like made comments about my body or I, you know
• 22:43
  nothing. Even the.
• 22:44
  Boobs. Well, I mean, he was happy.
• 22:47
  That was what you wanted, right? No, but that's what you wanted.
• 22:50
  Yes, that. Was he did not.
• 22:52
  Yes, but he did not say. He never said.
• 22:54
  Me to get the surgery, he was worried about the complications,
• 22:58
  he was worried about everything that can happen.
• 23:01
  He's a good man. You know, it's not just an easy
• 23:03
  breezy surgery that. Some people, some people.
• 23:06
  So you needed duplications, right?
• 23:08
  So you needed that for you? Yes, I had had four kids and
• 23:11
  like that destroys your body like.
• 23:14
  Some women. Are grab the genetics that they
• 23:17
  don't look like they have 4 kids and their boobs bounce.
• 23:20
  But I. Don't.
• 23:21
  Not mine, not mine. I think it depends, but you
• 23:24
  didn't have a tummy tuck, did you?
• 23:25
  No, which I didn't need that. So but now there's the mommy
• 23:29
  makeover, right, which is like boobs, tummy tuck, liposuction
• 23:35
  usually, which if you're having all that done, that's a good
• 23:39
  eight hour surgery easy. And to be under anesthesia for
• 23:43
  that long would be concerning for me.
• 23:46
  I don't think I would necessarily want to be under
• 23:48
  anesthesia for that long. I would probably break it up and
• 23:51
  do like 1 and then the other surgery but that's just me so.
• 23:55
  Yeah, I know my one of my former Co partners that I used to do
• 23:58
  morning show with had a has the breast job, has the tummy tuck
• 24:02
  right. And now she's does the weather,
• 24:04
  she does the weather and I think we're the same age and I mean,
• 24:08
  no, she looks fabulous. She looks she looks great, but
• 24:11
  she. Needs to do, but again, like
• 24:12
  she. Has herself.
• 24:14
  Right or and and now she's on TV.
• 24:17
  So now I'm sure she has that pressure even more that.
• 24:20
  Oh my gosh, could you imagine her look?
• 24:21
  Young like, yeah. Yeah, So that, yeah, because I,
• 24:25
  I now see, I, I met her like 20 years ago and I did not realize,
• 24:29
  realize that she was actually heavier sets.
• 24:32
  So, so I, I don't know if she had lap band surgery or
• 24:35
  something like that, but I think she did.
• 24:37
  And then, then she did all the other work that she got done.
• 24:41
  Not on her face, nothing. Not on her face, nothing on her.
• 24:43
  Face which if you lose weight that fast then yes you're going
• 24:47
  to need some type of skin surgeries or something I mean.
• 24:52
  Or you're just going. To have to live with the skin
• 24:54
  and. I I just can't imagine, yeah, I
• 24:57
  just can't imagine the scrutiny. And and then again, but again,
• 25:00
  we're talking about and it's sad, we're talking about a bunch
• 25:02
  of keyboard warriors because Kelly Osbourne had to sit there
• 25:05
  and respond. You know, like you said, you
• 25:07
  made-up, you made you, you made-up some good points about
• 25:09
  her dad dying, all these different things.
• 25:12
  She's in mourning. Technically, yes.
• 25:14
  And then and then to to call out what she looks like.
• 25:17
  And then let's let's be honest, the people that call out the
• 25:21
  looks are twos and ones yes. That's the truth.
• 25:25
  That's the truth. Love it when people will post
• 25:29
  the comment, you know, somebody saying something mean about
• 25:33
  their looks and then they'll go and find a picture of that
• 25:36
  person and that person looks ugly basically.
• 25:39
  And they're like, oh, like you should be taught.
• 25:41
  Like, look at you. So yeah. 99.
• 25:44
  And it's like turned around on the person making the comment.
• 25:47
  99% of the planet is not good looking.
• 25:49
  OK, just put it out there. No, it's not.
• 25:52
  Good looking is subjective. Like it is subjective.
• 25:55
  Different what we think is good looking.
• 25:58
  Yeah, Kelly Clarkson for me. I love.
• 26:01
  I love me. I love me some Kelly.
• 26:02
  I don't care. You know what I'm saying?
• 26:03
  She looks great now. She looks.
• 26:05
  She's, she's looked great. The whole you know, she, she's
• 26:08
  my type. Yeah, yeah.
• 26:10
  You know right, Don't you think? Yes, definitely.
• 26:14
  But it's her personality, too. Yeah, yeah, she.
• 26:17
  Is cute it's her it's her personality it's like even when
• 26:20
  even even as Kelly Clarkson gained weight, I didn't care
• 26:23
  like to me it's like for me her personality is attractive, right
• 26:27
  and then she. Still looks great even.
• 26:29
  Oh it by by other by other standards.
• 26:33
  Yeah, she'd be tiny. Yeah, yeah.
• 26:36
  But I look at it's interesting because Pierce Brosnan, who'd
• 26:40
  been married to his wife for 40 years and she, they got married
• 26:44
  in like 1990 and she's a supermodel.
• 26:48
  And then she had four kids and now and now she is, I guess a
• 26:53
  heavier set. But, but I and people make, I
• 26:58
  mean, I, I can't believe people make fun of her.
• 27:00
  She is absolutely still drop dead gorgeous like Pierce
• 27:04
  Brosnan. And they're like, and a lot of
• 27:05
  people are like, I can't believe.
• 27:06
  How does he stay with her? I'm.
• 27:09
  Just going to say people comment like why is he still with her?
• 27:13
  What is he thinking? And she's still like and, and,
• 27:17
  and all he does Pierce Brosnan, all he does on his on his social
• 27:21
  media is look at my gorgeous wife.
• 27:22
  She's so, I mean, she is, she's she, she's stunningly.
• 27:27
  There are, there are big, beautiful, bold people in this
• 27:30
  world and they're stunning. And you look at them and you
• 27:32
  look at them and you go, wow, they are stunning.
• 27:34
  And and then you got some online troll going really from your
• 27:38
  basement, from your mama's basement.
• 27:40
  You know, you already know we've talked about this.
• 27:42
  I have never and I'll even make a joke really quick.
• 27:45
  I do not understand why the, the, the homeliest person thinks
• 27:51
  that they deserve a 10. Sorry.
• 27:52
  It's like, or that, you know, it's like, if they're
• 27:55
  misogynistic, I'm saying if they're misogynistic.
• 27:58
  Yeah, if they're misogynistic. I want to clarify that really
• 28:00
  quick. It's like it's like in the
• 28:03
  mirror. Right.
• 28:05
  And those are usually the men that are like who when I get
• 28:08
  married, my wife better not gain weight or she better lose the
• 28:13
  weight fast. And it's like you are the
• 28:15
  dumbest like. Who would?
• 28:19
  But why would you be married to that?
• 28:20
  And then and then they, like you said, they the the guy who says
• 28:24
  it has the biggest beer gut and probably reeks and balding and
• 28:30
  just just a Neanderthal. And it's like, you know, and
• 28:33
  it's like, come on. So and then you go and then you
• 28:36
  go attack, you know, Kelly Clarkson or whatever.
• 28:38
  Really, really, trust me, you're not even in the same.
• 28:41
  If there was a universe, you're not even in that universe with
• 28:43
  that like, like, you know. I just thought it was weird,
• 28:47
  like circling back to Jim Carrey, people were questioning
• 28:50
  whether that was really him or if it was like a body double.
• 28:55
  Yeah, I think partly because he gave his acceptance speech in
• 28:58
  French and it was pretty damn good, I have to say.
• 29:01
  Like, I watched it and I was like, damn, that's some good
• 29:03
  French. I can't.
• 29:04
  I'm struggling with my Spanish on Duolingo so but I just well,
• 29:09
  I was like what? Like why do you think that isn't
• 29:12
  him Like like like I think he might have had some filler like
• 29:16
  that's what it looks like, but it's still it's still him.
• 29:20
  I'm like. I think, I think we're not
• 29:22
  taking into the account is one thing that I can't one thing.
• 29:27
  Let's see here how old is Jim Carrey?
• 29:29
  He's in his 60s, right? I want to say he's in his 60s.
• 29:32
  64641 thing I cannot stand which has happened to me as I get
• 29:38
  older my mother had a round face now my father did not my father
• 29:42
  did not and I am so bummed because I guess whose face I
• 29:46
  inherited in terms of shape right so my face continually.
• 29:51
  That's why I make the joke about being William Shatner, you know,
• 29:55
  Because. Because it's like my.
• 29:57
  Face definitely had some. He's had some work done.
• 30:00
  Well, yeah, but my face, you know, is, is going wider because
• 30:04
  as I age, it's not, it's because of it's the my face is a certain
• 30:08
  my face is a circle. You're a circle.
• 30:10
  I'm Oval, thankfully. Yes, yes.
• 30:13
  And that changes the look. Yeah.
• 30:16
  Of what? Of what you're you know, of what
• 30:17
  your face is because because I don't The funny thing is I don't
• 30:21
  weigh that much compared to no, you're a tiny.
• 30:23
  I don't I'm AI would. Yeah, well, I'm 160.
• 30:26
  So for a male, that's pretty much normal for my, for I'm 5758
• 30:31
  and for my height, I, you know, so, so, but because my face is
• 30:35
  round, you just look, you look different.
• 30:38
  And I'm like, Oh my gosh, in 10 years, 20 years, these, these
• 30:42
  flop, these floppers are going to be out there.
• 30:44
  This flopper is going to be a big old schnauzer.
• 30:46
  And I've just, I just believe in, in aging gracefully.
• 30:49
  I think, you know, you should be proud that you've been #1 on
• 30:54
  this planet as long as you have been you.
• 30:56
  You've survived everything you've survived.
• 30:59
  Great. And so Louis have been through
• 31:00
  way more than other people and not getting to you.
• 31:03
  Yes. Absolutely, your environment can
• 31:05
  aid you. There's so many things that can
• 31:07
  aid you. And I know that Kelly Mcgillis,
• 31:10
  she started with Tom Cruise in Top Gun and she's like 65 or
• 31:15
  almost 70 years old and she looks like a woman of her age
• 31:19
  and she's clap back on people because they're like, oh, you
• 31:22
  were so gorgeous and dead it in she goes, I'm aging like a
• 31:25
  normal person. Just like the who's the Who's
• 31:29
  the actress that plays Samantha on shoot on Sex in the City?
• 31:34
  I love her, Tim. Catrell Yeah, sorry.
• 31:36
  Love her. Love her, Yeah.
• 31:38
  This is same for her too, like she's aging the way that she
• 31:42
  should age and she hasn't done any of this other stuff and.
• 31:46
  I. Expect her to stay tiny and
• 31:49
  cute. I'm loving, I'm loving Pam
• 31:51
  Anderson right now. Oh, in her natural era.
• 31:54
  I have so much respect for Pam Anderson.
• 31:56
  I'm glad that after all, I mean, just but think about that poor
• 31:59
  woman, you know? And now some people, now there's
• 32:03
  the devil's advocate, some people.
• 32:05
  And I don't know if you agree with this or not.
• 32:06
  That's a good question for you is, well, they're famous.
• 32:09
  They, they, you know, they deserve what they get.
• 32:11
  Like they they If you're famous, you deserve the scrutiny you get
• 32:15
  because you're rich and famous. No, absolutely not.
• 32:18
  No, I no, I draw, no, I draw a line there.
• 32:21
  Like I don't think like, yeah, I think that they should be open
• 32:25
  to fans and that kind of thing. But I draw the line at like, oh,
• 32:29
  you're famous and you, this is what you sign up for.
• 32:32
  You don't sign up to be like, look at, look at Kelly Osbourne,
• 32:37
  like look at this stuff people were saying about her.
• 32:40
  Like, I'm sorry, you don't sign up for that.
• 32:42
  Sure, you're going to get some haters, you're going to get some
• 32:46
  of that stuff. But that was way like.
• 32:48
  People just go way. Overboard yes and it is not
• 32:52
  necessary like not necessary at all.
• 32:55
  So again, I could see like, being concerned for her and
• 32:58
  being like, girl, like I'm concerned.
• 33:00
  I'm the same like how we were concerned about Britney Spears
• 33:03
  when she was posting, you know, manic crazy videos.
• 33:06
  It's the same kind of thing. Like you're concerned from that
• 33:09
  for them, but you don't say mean horrible things to them.
• 33:12
  Like that's not going to help. Right, right, right.
• 33:15
  Yeah. I mean, well, that I just don't
• 33:16
  think it's. I mean, I I just don't think it.
• 33:18
  I think it's inexcusable to. But then again, I was raised
• 33:22
  like you got nothing nice to say.
• 33:23
  You keep your mouth you. Don't say it at all.
• 33:25
  Yes. Yeah, and I would never even on,
• 33:28
  even on an Internet thing. I have I why why?
• 33:32
  I mean, I mean, I, I don't know about you, but I already get up
• 33:34
  and look at myself in the mirror and go, well, that's fugly, you
• 33:37
  know, I already, I mean, so why? So why would I go do that to
• 33:40
  somebody else? I know, I already know, you
• 33:43
  know, we're at an age where I know my strengths, I know my
• 33:46
  weaknesses. I know, I know there's things I
• 33:48
  can, I can be better at, you know, and I also think there's
• 33:51
  things I do pretty good at. I've tried, I've tried to be
• 33:56
  better. And I think that that's the
• 33:58
  part, that's the whole part of maturing and growing up.
• 34:01
  And so, and so when you look at the stars like that, and I mean,
• 34:04
  I, my, my guys, you know, I look at my, my boys from Mr. Mr. I
• 34:07
  mean, of course they, they, they've aged.
• 34:09
  I mean, they're, they're in there.
• 34:10
  My, my boys are in their 70s and I could care, and I could care
• 34:15
  less because I love their music. I like it, you know, and they
• 34:19
  don't perform very often, so when they do, I could give a
• 34:22
  rat. I could care less about the
• 34:24
  balding and the beer guts and all that.
• 34:26
  What? You don't care what they look
• 34:28
  like as long as they're performing and.
• 34:30
  Well, no, I just like, I like, I like, I like them.
• 34:33
  I like, I like them. And so even for my even from,
• 34:36
  you know, like I said, my my favorite actors, my favorite
• 34:40
  actors and actresses. I mean, I like him.
• 34:42
  I like him for the for me, Michael J Fox is the dude.
• 34:45
  Yes, you know, have you? Watched him on shrinking.
• 34:48
  I have not because I don't have Apple TV, but I did see the
• 34:51
  scene that he did with Harrison Ford, which was so good.
• 34:53
  We watched it. I love that show so.
• 34:55
  And then I did. He was just at the Actors
• 34:57
  Awards, Yeah. And he did a little, he did a
• 34:59
  little speech. And for me, when I think about
• 35:02
  celebrities, for me, when he sadly goes like for my
• 35:07
  childhood, Michael J Fox, I want to say for me just personally is
• 35:12
  my favorite actor for my, for my, you know, for my, my
• 35:16
  childhood, He's he is my, I loved, I love his mannerisms.
• 35:20
  I loved everything about him as an actor.
• 35:22
  And and I like the fact that he's a good guy too.
• 35:26
  Like but but even growing up as a kid, anytime I see Michael J
• 35:29
  Fox in a movie I'd like, I didn't care what it was.
• 35:32
  I don't care if it was a dud. I'm like, this is going to be a
• 35:33
  good movie because I love. 3. What's that?
• 35:37
  Fact of the Future 3 or whatever.
• 35:39
  Oh yeah, well, yeah, but Doc Hollywood so but but I but
• 35:43
  again, it's like I just I just love his acting, so I always
• 35:48
  will. He's always like when we talk
• 35:49
  about, I've always been. I'm one of those people we've
• 35:52
  talked about that when I decide something's my favorite.
• 35:54
  Yeah, you're in it to win it. Like that's yours forever,
• 35:57
  right? So when you talk, when you talk
• 35:59
  about like actors, Michael J Fox, that's that's my family
• 36:03
  ties. Was I just I was at that age.
• 36:05
  That was the show. And sadly, I I probably emulated
• 36:09
  Michael J Fox by the fact that he was Republican in my youth,
• 36:12
  not realizing that might not have been the right path to go
• 36:16
  down. So, but it shows you how you're
• 36:21
  affected by that. So I was like, oh, Michael
• 36:23
  Jackson, Michael J Fox is my favorite actor.
• 36:25
  Oh, he's Republican. Which, of course he wasn't.
• 36:28
  Well, and I feel like we as when we're young like that,
• 36:31
  especially like our parents, like say like one of our our
• 36:34
  parents were Republican. We just go along with whatever
• 36:37
  we're hearing at home and have no clue really what it means or
• 36:44
  the just anything attached to it until we get a little bit older.
• 36:47
  And then we're like, oh, wait, yeah.
• 36:50
  Yeah, well, that, that was what was so funny that happened to me
• 36:53
  in my childhood was my school counselor, my junior high
• 36:57
  counselor when I was with the Wallaces.
• 36:59
  He saved him and his wife saved my life by the fact when I
• 37:03
  started high school, I got a call like I think I was a
• 37:05
  sophomore and they called me out of the blue and they, and he
• 37:09
  said, Hey, can you, do you want to come out to my ranch on
• 37:12
  Saturdays and shovel manure, help clean out the stalls and
• 37:16
  I'll pay you 5 bucks an hour and that'll give you a little bit of
• 37:19
  spending monies. And so I would go out there on
• 37:22
  Saturday mornings. It was just three hours every
• 37:24
  Saturday. So it really turned out to be
• 37:26
  about 60 bucks a month, you know, in, in high school or a
• 37:31
  month. And so, and so I went and
• 37:33
  cleaned out that manure and we would sit at lunch.
• 37:36
  So after I got done cleaning out the stalls, then we'd sit and
• 37:38
  discuss politics or just whatever the topics of the day
• 37:40
  were. And one of the things that they
• 37:42
  were hardcore Democrat. And, and I'm sitting there
• 37:45
  trying to play and I'm doing the Republican and go on that right.
• 37:49
  So, so, and now I'm now looking back, I'm totally flipped on
• 37:52
  what, what I, what I believe. But I, I, I mean, because,
• 37:55
  because in Clarkston, where I'm from, it's all, it's all, I
• 37:58
  mean, it's, it's a red, red county, red, red town and all
• 38:01
  that. So it's kind of what I only
• 38:02
  knew. And so then we get into these
• 38:04
  discussions and they they were, they were Democrats and I was
• 38:08
  the Republican. And I think today they would be,
• 38:11
  you know, well, they're they've passed away.
• 38:12
  But if they discovered that I flipped more than they would be
• 38:16
  proud. Like no, What's that?
• 38:18
  They would be proud. But I but I know it.
• 38:20
  But I know that influence was coming from Michael J Fox and
• 38:23
  Family Ties. Now on the on the TV show, he
• 38:26
  didn't do that. I mean, he was just the
• 38:28
  character, so. Right.
• 38:29
  Yeah. But you're so impressionable at
• 38:31
  that young age. Yes, yeah.
• 38:33
  And you don't know any better. Like you said, lived in
• 38:35
  Clarkston where it's blood red. The same for.
• 38:38
  Me in Yakima. Naches blood red.
• 38:40
  You, you're not exposed and especially back then, you're not
• 38:43
  exposed to people of different races very much or gay people,
• 38:48
  gay people back. Then like.
• 38:49
  That was just the start of them being accepted and being able to
• 38:53
  come out a little bit and so none of us were really exposed
• 38:57
  to that. No, the kids, it was
• 38:59
  interesting. The kids in high school, at
• 39:01
  least the kids in my class that were they never, they did not
• 39:04
  come out in high school. They, they, they came out later,
• 39:07
  you know, and then and then we'd all go.
• 39:09
  We knew it, you know, you. Oh, we knew it.
• 39:11
  I mean, but I always feel bad because you should be able to be
• 39:15
  yourself no matter what. And, and I hate, hate when I
• 39:19
  hear stories about I, I don't think are when you're that
• 39:22
  young, you know, I do you lack empathy, I guess, to some
• 39:26
  extent. I think I think it would just
• 39:29
  are kids. Better today are are kids, you
• 39:32
  think? Kids are better to say that.
• 39:34
  Yeah, yeah, I've seen it better, definitely.
• 39:37
  And I see the difference in like when Matthew was in high school
• 39:40
  compared to Jackson, which is maybe like 8 years difference
• 39:47
  and just the difference from those kids.
• 39:50
  Like those kids were accepting, but definitely Jackson's age and
• 39:55
  Shaylee's age, they are Gen. Z.
• 39:57
  They are definitely way more accepting than any of our
• 40:01
  generations so. Yeah, I I So there is hope.
• 40:04
  I guess. I know I love that because I
• 40:07
  just know that the kids that I went through the school, we
• 40:09
  suspected but and even our our valedictorian, our valedictorian
• 40:16
  was definitely gay, but he never came out and so he took a girl
• 40:19
  to prom. Great, you have to.
• 40:22
  He did, he did and then and then later and we were at the 10 year
• 40:25
  reunion and it was a little bio on his life and he goes, Oh
• 40:27
  yeah, I moved to Japan and discovered that I love young
• 40:29
  Asian men. And so, so if, you know, made
• 40:32
  us, you know, but then but then everybody's at the reunion going
• 40:35
  told you so, told you so knew it, knew it.
• 40:37
  But I, you know, if I could go back and change some of those,
• 40:40
  some of those attitudes or those impressions, you know, but but
• 40:44
  also being a person that has been accused of that my entire
• 40:47
  life, I do relate. Right.
• 40:49
  You know, because I because when I first went to work at when I
• 40:52
  went first went to work at N&B many years ago, New Northwest
• 40:56
  Broadcasters, one of the guys went up to AJ and goes, Hey,
• 40:59
  who's the new gay guy working here?
• 41:01
  Goodness. And and AJ goes, he's not gay.
• 41:03
  And he's like, well, you know, like buddy, I think he is.
• 41:06
  And this was a gay and, and the guy who said it was gay.
• 41:09
  Oh my gosh. Yeah, so he goes.
• 41:11
  That's. Surprising to me, I expect that
• 41:13
  from some like head hetero like meat head coming out, he was
• 41:17
  gay. He was gay and then and then
• 41:20
  because, because he was a bear. It's like when AJ said, Oh yeah,
• 41:24
  but he's gay. And I went what?
• 41:27
  Because he was like, he was like he did, you know, if I, if I, if
• 41:33
  I was, if I was, I would have to say that the bear is not my
• 41:37
  type. I don't think so.
• 41:39
  I don't think so. Not that I would.
• 41:40
  I, I mean, not that I, you know, not that we're ever going to go
• 41:43
  down this road, but. But I don't, I mean, I, he had
• 41:46
  to. Yeah, I don't, I don't, you
• 41:48
  know, But again, I'm not into Neanderthal men anyway, so.
• 41:51
  Right. No, I don't.
• 41:52
  Like that, I want some yes, I want some intelligence.
• 41:54
  That's what I that's what I care about more than anything.
• 41:57
  Anything else is, you know, personality, personality.
• 41:59
  So yeah, yeah. But but I, so I'm glad to hear
• 42:03
  that it's, it's better because I yeah.
• 42:06
  We, we, I don't know. I don't, I don't, I, I don't
• 42:10
  think our generation did. We did OK.
• 42:12
  I couldn't imagine the generation ahead of us was even
• 42:15
  worse. Probably.
• 42:15
  No, like we got bullied, Gen. X got bullied, we got bullied
• 42:20
  here. A lot of us got bullied at
• 42:23
  school and then at home. So like we couldn't escape being
• 42:27
  bullied. Like it was either someone that
• 42:29
  we knew, trusted and loved at home being our the bully.
• 42:34
  And then at school, we were getting in at school so we
• 42:36
  couldn't escape it. But thankfully, I think that's
• 42:39
  gotten better. Millennials, like they're, you
• 42:42
  know, it's gotten progressively better.
• 42:44
  It's still there, but you know it's not quickly gone.
• 42:49
  I will tell you a funny story. It happened to me when I was, I
• 42:51
  think 18 years old. So I have, besides my siblings,
• 42:54
  I do have half siblings that that I don't necessarily, I mean
• 42:58
  that. I mean, I do know some of them.
• 43:00
  I just discovered one out of the blue a few years back.
• 43:03
  But I've always known about my half sister Tammy, who's
• 43:06
  probably pushing 70. So she was easily 15 years older
• 43:09
  than us, us kids, us Van Zandt kids.
• 43:12
  Anyway, she's my, she is my dad's daughter.
• 43:15
  And I remember turning 18 or about 18 or so, 17 or 18.
• 43:19
  And I remember my, my real mom saying, Oh well, well, Tammy,
• 43:22
  Tammy has come out as a lesbian. And I went, wow, she's lesbian.
• 43:27
  And then my mother, my flesh and blood mother, said, well,
• 43:30
  Virgil, we always thought you were going to be the gay 1.
• 43:32
  So so I said, well, I'm not, I'm I go, I'm not gay.
• 43:37
  What are you talking about? I mean, there there are things
• 43:40
  as a mom, right that. That was my mom.
• 43:43
  That was my mom. Yeah.
• 43:45
  My real. My real mom.
• 43:46
  Not my foster parents. My real mom, yeah.
• 43:49
  You see, you watch your child and you're like, OK, you know?
• 43:55
  I get it. Maybe you know, and so it yeah,
• 44:00
  I don't know. She just not based on probably
• 44:03
  like your mannerisms how you. Oh, I'm sure everybody thinks
• 44:07
  that. I mean certain.
• 44:08
  Things. Yeah, yeah.
• 44:09
  But that doesn't mean you're going to be or you are or.
• 44:13
  No, I just, I just laugh because the energy or the kinetic energy
• 44:18
  that I do is from my mother. It's not from my dad.
• 44:22
  My dad. My dad was kind of quiet.
• 44:23
  My dad was quiet. Not much of A talker.
• 44:26
  My mother kinetic energy, my real mom was absolutely just
• 44:31
  bounced. She's just, she just the nail
• 44:34
  biting. I I inherited from her just the
• 44:37
  just the like a Chihuahua. I mean, she had that, she had
• 44:42
  that. That's just her personality.
• 44:44
  Right. And so genetically, I feel like
• 44:46
  that's I inherited a lot of a lot of the when she's talking
• 44:52
  about mannerisms, you know, gay, you're gay.
• 44:54
  What what are you talking about? I inherited this is you, is you
• 44:59
  and I see it's so and what's so funny is you're like.
• 45:01
  I'm the guy version of you like. Exactly.
• 45:04
  And then it makes me laugh is because I see so much of Logan
• 45:08
  in his mannerisms, which is so weird is in your own kids
• 45:12
  because you see your own mannerisms and do you see that
• 45:17
  in your own kids from you guys? Sometimes, yes.
• 45:19
  And it's funny now that now that Matthews friends have met me, we
• 45:24
  went to San Francisco in May of last year.
• 45:27
  And now that his friends have met me, I was like, hey, what
• 45:31
  did your friends think of me, blah, blah, blah.
• 45:33
  And they're like, well, they can definitely tell.
• 45:35
  Like where I get some of my idiocrates and maneurisms from
• 45:40
  you. And I was like, is Scooter, is
• 45:42
  that bad? Like, is this a compliment or is
• 45:44
  this not like, I don't know how to take this OK, as long as they
• 45:48
  didn't not like, as long as they, you know, liked me,
• 45:51
  whatever, whatever, like. You were, you were.
• 45:54
  You were just bummed because I'm assuming that they didn't think
• 45:56
  you were a MILF. So you're like what?
• 45:58
  Well. No, they did say that.
• 46:00
  No, no, they did say that. They said, like, your mom's
• 46:03
  gorgeous, but then like some of Matthew's friends who are gay
• 46:07
  were like, yeah, your dad's hot too, So.
• 46:09
  So I'm like, OK. That just made my day.
• 46:16
  Yeah, yeah. So yeah.
• 46:18
  Made but then. But then Matthew's like, well,
• 46:22
  those are the friends that have daddy issues.
• 46:24
  So I. OK.
• 46:25
  Yeah, of course, of course. So he's like, I don't, I don't
• 46:28
  know. Oh my gosh, that that's that
• 46:31
  that's that's that's the best. That is awesome.
• 46:34
  I mean, we've been. Talking about looks forever.
• 46:40
  Yeah. I don't know what else we can
• 46:42
  do. Yeah, yeah.
• 46:42
  Well, I did want to talk about there's so many other things I
• 46:45
  want to talk about, but since we're just talking about looks
• 46:47
  and we'll just stay on that, I do want to talk about that
• 46:51
  airport who is trying to make it illegal for people to fly in
• 46:53
  their pajamas. I can't remember which one it
• 46:55
  is, but I just saw this. It's ridiculous.
• 46:58
  Yeah, I. Just saw the little blurp about
• 46:59
  it and I was like, really like, is this what we're focusing on?
• 47:03
  Like I get that yes, back in the day, everybody dressed up to fly
• 47:09
  on an airplane. I also have pictures of my
• 47:11
  grandma in, like, a white dress and of course, and shoes up in
• 47:15
  the mountains in, like, the dirt and stuff because they dressed
• 47:18
  up for everything. And it's like, things are
• 47:21
  different now. Yeah.
• 47:23
  And who's, First off, who's going to police this?
• 47:26
  Who's going to be the Fashion Police and be like, oh, and how
• 47:29
  are you going to tell what is pajamas and what isn't pajamas?
• 47:32
  Because there's loungewear. Like, is that going to
• 47:34
  constitute as pajamas? I like my loungewear.
• 47:37
  It doesn't look like pajamas, but it's comfy.
• 47:39
  And if I'm flying on a red eye and I want to sleep, I want to
• 47:43
  be comfortable. I don't want to be in dressed up
• 47:45
  in a suit And whatever they're expecting us to wear.
• 47:49
  I don't know. I'm like, this is ridiculous.
• 47:52
  So Tampa International started it as a no, started it as a
• 47:57
  joke. And they were targeting sleepers
• 47:59
  and Crocs. And then and then that is when
• 48:02
  your favorite administration, the US Transportation Secretary
• 48:06
  Sean Duffy, oh, took it. Well, everybody should be
• 48:09
  dressed up at the airport. Yeah.
• 48:12
  Well, remember back in the day when people get dressed up to go
• 48:14
  shopping set to the grocery store?
• 48:17
  People wear Crocs because you have to take your goddamn shoes
• 48:19
  off at the airport, which I know they relax at, but so I get like
• 48:23
  wearing shoes that you could just slip on and off.
• 48:26
  And if you want to wear a sleeper, you can wear a sleeper,
• 48:29
  you can wear a onesie. Who cares?
• 48:31
  At least you're covered. It's not like you're exposing
• 48:34
  anybody parts. Yeah, so.
• 48:36
  So Tampa International has a history of doing mockery stuff.
• 48:41
  Satire, but but of course, the administration takes it as real,
• 48:46
  took it as, you know, as usual. So they were they?
• 48:50
  Tampa International was joking. Oh, OK.
• 48:53
  You know, so it's kind of like, yeah.
• 48:55
  So they, yeah, they were joking about it.
• 48:57
  And then of course, that the current administration has to
• 49:00
  take it on a run, basically. Right.
• 49:02
  Which some of those airplanes are freezing, freezing cold.
• 49:07
  You could take a blanket and you're still cold.
• 49:11
  Like it's horrible and you don't know what from flight to flight,
• 49:14
  what's going to be cold and what is it going to be cold.
• 49:15
  And they don't give you. I'm sorry.
• 49:17
  It's kind of like going to Motel 6.
• 49:18
  They don't give you a real blanket when you go to Motel 6
• 49:20
  anymore. Yeah, that might.
• 49:22
  Yeah. Like, I can, I mean, wipe my
• 49:24
  butt with it. It's because it's that thin.
• 49:26
  I mean, it's just. Yeah.
• 49:27
  That's like, I love that when you go to that, like Motel 6,
• 49:29
  you're like, oh, I'm gonna get an extra blanket out of the
• 49:31
  closet. And it's not.
• 49:33
  It's like, it's like a towel. It's like it's.
• 49:34
  Like A1 ply. One ply.
• 49:36
  It's A1 ply so it's the same thing in the on the air.
• 49:39
  I know you can't have things that are heavy.
• 49:41
  I get it can't have things that are heavy.
• 49:42
  But it makes me laugh that that we can't even get a proper
• 49:45
  blanket to keep warm if you're looking.
• 49:47
  For it, there's no I bring my own.
• 49:49
  I bring my own blankie. I try and wear like layers.
• 49:53
  Depending on the season, it's going to be freezing cold on.
• 49:56
  Even in the summer, some of those airplanes are for
• 49:58
  freezing. So I do have to ask you now, so,
• 50:02
  and this might be a great way to wrap up the podcast.
• 50:05
  Okay, so when I come home, when I come home from work, I pretty
• 50:09
  much don't want to leave. Like when I come home, I'm done
• 50:12
  to the day. So if I've got errands to do, I
• 50:14
  do the errands before I come home.
• 50:15
  And then when I get home, I am in my pajamas.
• 50:18
  Great, you put on your loungewear.
• 50:20
  Yes, my loungewear and it could be still one or two.
• 50:22
  Rocks and your slippers. Right.
• 50:24
  Yeah, and I'm in my loungewear. You have to.
• 50:26
  You also get up at like 4 AMI. Do I do so for me, I want to, I
• 50:31
  when I'm at home, I want to be comfortable.
• 50:32
  So, so when you're at home and Jay's gone for the week or
• 50:36
  whatever, are you in loungewear? Are you dressed?
• 50:38
  Dressed. It depends.
• 50:40
  Sometimes I'm in loungewear and sometimes I'm still dressed.
• 50:44
  It depends on like a, how lazy am I?
• 50:46
  Do I am I so lazy that I'm not changing out of my current
• 50:49
  clothes? Like sometimes that happens and
• 50:51
  I'm just like, I'm just going to stay.
• 50:53
  And then sometimes it's like depending on what I'm wearing.
• 50:56
  If it's something that for me as a female, you know, we don't
• 50:59
  always wear the comfiest of clothes, right?
• 51:01
  And sometimes it's like, OK, I have to get out of this and then
• 51:04
  I'll put the loungewear and sometimes I want to wear
• 51:06
  loungewear. It just really depends on what
• 51:08
  kind of mood I'm in and how lazy I am on that.
• 51:10
  Thing I was going to say so yeah, cuz to me it's like, yeah,
• 51:13
  I mean I the first thing I do, it's kind of like you take it
• 51:16
  off the bra when you get home from something.
• 51:17
  I'm like, I'm like, I got to wear I wear jeans at work and
• 51:20
  those jeans I they got to come off and put on some PJ bottoms
• 51:24
  and I might keep I might keep the top shirt on, but but it's
• 51:27
  like for me I'm, I'm, I'm built for comfort and and is that and
• 51:31
  is that a, is that a thing of age?
• 51:32
  I don't, I think. Partly, but I think also young
• 51:35
  people are like that too. They want to be comfy and just
• 51:39
  be. Yeah, just be in their little
• 51:41
  loungewear and their blankie and, you know, Netflix sing and
• 51:44
  chill. So I get it.
• 51:46
  We all want to. Oh, is that Roxy?
• 51:48
  That's Roxy. Hi, Roxy.
• 51:51
  There's Roxy. Hi.
• 51:52
  Oh, she's looking so old. She is, but she she was down
• 51:55
  there. She was down there begging for
• 51:57
  cuddles and. Wanted to get up, so she she
• 51:59
  needed to sit in your. Lungs.
• 52:00
  She wants to walk along the desk is what she wants to do.
• 52:05
  I'm not going to say my dogs are spoiled, but but she wants to
• 52:09
  walk. She wants to walk.
• 52:10
  Yeah. It's like she want.
• 52:11
  It's not that she want. She doesn't want to be in my
• 52:13
  lap. She wants to walk along this
• 52:15
  desk. And she'll even lay down.
• 52:17
  Oh. Because I did post a picture of
• 52:19
  her laying down on the desk. Yeah.
• 52:21
  On my on my Facebook. Oh, Barkley.
• 52:25
  I haven't been on Facebook in a while so I'll have to check it
• 52:27
  out so. Yeah, so there you go.
• 52:29
  So little little Roxy love for our for our viewers.
• 52:32
  There. OK, well, I think that's a great
• 52:34
  way to end little little Roxy love.
• 52:37
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